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SHE WASNT GOING TO SEE ANYBODY. No small talk, no averting her eyes, no flinching at the hot
limestone edge of the well. It was the quiet hour. She always came during the quiet hour. She breathed it in
the simple beauty of drawing water. A simple thing in a tight, rough braid of a life. Until him.
Yes, she had tried to change the subject, and held her
back straight as the rabbi searched her eyes. But the
New Thing that started in her heart from the first
sound of his voice began unfurling and wouldnt be
done until she had unfurled her very self with news
for the whole town to hear: He told me everything I
ever did! Could this be the Messiah?
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Christ has different doors for entering into different peoples souls. Into some, he enters by the
understanding; into many, by the affections. To
some, he comes by the way of fear; to another, by
that of hope; and to this woman he came by way
of her conscience. (Spurgeon)
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Next Steps:
ing Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, once wrote that there
is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the
heavens (Ecc 3:1). Well, we are entering a new season in the Pierce
household. For the last 25 years, we have been raising three boys.
Changing diapers, teaching them to ride a bike, attending soccer games, baseball, basketball, football, class plays, summer camps, father/son
retreats and family vacations. Loving them, instructing them and disciplining
them. It hasnt all been easy. But all in all, it has been quite an exciting ride. I cant
even describe how proud I am of each of them and how full my heart is with love
for those three boys.
But that season has come to a close. Last month, we drove our youngest son to
Abilene, Texas where he will begin his freshman year at ACU the place where
Cathy and I met and fell in love. We moved him in to his dorm, took him on a quick
tour of all the places we used to frequent in the 80s, and then got in the car to make
that 3-hour drive home. And even though weve made that drive countless times,
this time was different. This time we would be coming back to an empty house. We
are in a new season. People call it the empty nest season. And I have to be honest:
Ive been looking forward to it. Just thinking about the possibilities has me a little
giddy. Date nights any night we want. Going to bed at 8:30 if we want. Wearing as
much or as little as I want around the house. And its very tempting to start thinking
that its all about us and maybe its time to start slowing down and coasting just a bit.
But then one day, as I was talking with my oldest son who happens to be great
at asking questions he asked me this: What are yours and moms plans for this
next season? And I thought to myself, Hopefully, not much! After all, dont we
deserve that? And then he tells me about a quote from one of his favorite pastors,
which went something like this: When your memories become brighter than your
dreams, you are dying. I sat there quiet for just a few minutes. Inside my head, I
was arguing, No! Dont say that. I like my memories. Leave me alone. Let me be.
But in my heart, I knew what he was saying was right.
And so I began to wonder. What if God is just getting started with me? I hadnt really thought about it quite like that. And then a friend challenged me with this idea:
He said, Look, the average life span is close to 80 years now. You became an adult
around 21 years old, and so when you think about it, you are only about halfway
through your adult life. Surely God isnt dialing things down for you at the halfway
point. This made me think of one of my favorite heroes in the bible, Caleb. We
named our middle son after him. He was a man who had a different spirit and followed God with his whole heart. A man who in his early years was one of only two
spies (out of 12) who trusted God enough to say to Moses, Absolutely! We can go
take the land God promised us! when all of his other compadres retreated in fear.
And then he gets to the back half of his life, a time when he could have just retired
knowing that his great faith will be remembered and even recorded for all of history. And yet at 85 years old, he doesnt slow down. Listen to his words: Now then,
the LORD has kept his promise And here I am, 85 years old. I am still as strong
today as the day Moses sent me out; Im just as vigorous to go out to battle now as
I was then. So give me the mountain country that the LORD promised me that day
long ago. Wow! I want some of that!
Were talking a lot about next steps around here at IBC these days. And honestly, I
dont know what my next steps will be yet. But I do know this. God isnt done with
me yet and this is not the time to slow my pace down to a leisurely walk. He intends
my steps to be just as vigorous and determined, if not more so, over these next 30
years as they have been with the last. So my prayer has become, God, thanks for
the grace and patience and goodness youve shown me as weve climbed this mountain called parenthood together. I wouldnt trade one moment away. But now its
time for the next mountain. Lets get going!
When he was growing up, Craig Pierce dreamed of becoming a bus driver someday.
Craig serves on IBCs Teaching Team and is a member of the Elder Board.
Craig and Cathy Pierce with sons Jacob, Corbin, daughter-in-law Maddie and Caleb.
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When Heather walked into My Refuge House for the first time, Sarah*
instantly caught her attention.
I think for
Sarah her
baptism was
her way of
accepting her
belovedness.
It was the joy that caught me totally off guard, Heather said, especially after
all they have been through.
As the group went into the waters of the ocean, Sarah stayed back. She waited
and was the last one to be baptized.
Heather explains, For Sarah her baptism was the final step in her healing process. I remember the pastor saying, We are all beloved children of God. I think
for Sarah her baptism was her way of accepting her belovedness.
No one can erase the grief and hardships Sarah and the other girls have experienced, but what we can do is focus on the hope and the joy these girls now have
thanks to My Refuge House.
After serving in adult ministries at IBC, Peggy Norton is now trying her hand
with kindergarteners. Pray for her.
Peggy is a communications professional at a global security company.
I remember when a new girl came to My Refuge House, the girl was literally
shaking, she was so afraid, Heather recalls. But in a matter of moments Sarah
and the other girls had swooped in to give her love and reassurance. They had
her settled down in no time. Two days later, you could visibly see the transformation of the new girl; she knew she was in a safe place.
That sense of community and belonging is due in no small part to girls
like Sarah.
Sarah is symbolic of the growth and potential of these girls. In just three years,
she was able to complete her schooling and earn a four-year college scholarship. Sarah is one of the first girls from My Refuge House to go to college. Her
goal is to become a police officer so she can help put an end to trafficking.
The angry little girl who walked through the doors of My Refuge House is now
a young woman who has grown in so many ways, including spiritually.
I remember the day clearly, Heather says. The girls and I all boarded a bus to
make the hour-long trip up the coast.
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This Is Life.
As
Ginger Smith found a way to turn past pain into real help for
those struggling at IBC.
I went to my car, the sound of running water in the garage was my first clue that something was
amiss. Then I saw it, a steady stream coming from the hot water heater. Dang it, I thought. I dont
have time for this. Im already running latefor my chemo appointment. This was not shaping up to be a
very good day. For that matter, this wasnt shaping up to be a very good YEAR!
But this is life, isnt it? Some days are harder than others. Some whole seasons are hard. Cancer wasnt
my favorite season, but it was a walk in the park compared to the divorce Id experienced years earlier. The
trajectory of my life was NOT what I had planned or pictured, but it was somehow part of Gods plan. During
those seasons, God comforted me and drew me close in ways I had never experienced before. He also gave
me support from friends and family that met real needs for me, from bringing meals during cancer to just
listening as I cried my way through divorce. I didnt understand why God put these experiences in my path,
but trusted He would bring good out of them. He has, in so many ways.
Here was a
place where
God could take
the pains of
my past and
use them for
good.
When my daughter left for college, I found myself with new discretionary time and energy. I had poured myself into raising her, training her in godliness, doing her laundry, fussing at her to do her homework, chaperoning her choir trips, etc., and that time and energy was now available for something new.
A friend suggested I would be a good fit for Stephen Ministry so I checked it out. Here was a place where
God could take the pains of my past and use them for good. Everyone goes through hard seasons and needs
someone just to listen and care. Many get that from friends and family, but some dont, and in some cases,
your friends and family are part of the problem or are just too close to it, and you need to lean on someone
OUTSIDE of that circle.
If you are in a hard season and need a listening ear, reach out to the Stephen Ministry to be paired up with
someone who has lived through some tough stuff and wants to be an encouragement. If youre on the other
side of your hard times and would like to spend a couple hours a week to come alongside someone else and
walk through a hard season with them, then Stephen Ministry might be the right place for you. New Stephen
Ministers will be designated this fall and training begins in January.
The apostle Paul refers to our God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles so that we may be able
to comfort those experiencing any trouble with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God
(2 Cor 1:4). What a beautiful thing! God can use my pain and the comfort I received to comfort others during
their difficulties.
To get involved in Stephen Ministry either as a care giver or care receiver, call the Stephen Ministry hotline at (972) 560-4636 or contact us via email at: stephenministry@irvingbible.org.
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Fun &
Freedom
Fall Festival
For families with special needs
Saturday, October 31, 11 a.m.4 p.m.
Irving Bible Church
Imagine you have a family.
And in that family, you have a precious one with special needs.
A cherished one, dearly loved one, beautiful one. And maybe
you dont get out much because its just too difficult.
And sometimes its hard to find friends who understand. And
sometimes it feels like youre in the only family in the world
with this set of challenges. And sometimes you just wish you
could have fun. Together. With people who get it.
Irving Bible Church and Victory Flows are excited to announce our Fun and Freedom Fall Festival. This event will
provide individuals living with disabilities and their families a unique, fun-filled event, custom-designed to meet the
needs of this special community.
Bounce house
We invite you and your family to dress up in costume (optional) and join us! Trained volunteers will team up with
our special friends for planned activities including fall arts
and crafts, Bible/worship time, food and more. Siblings are
invited to attend and have their own separate activities
with leaders.
Parents and caregivers can relax, enjoy art therapy, participate in adult activities, hear speakers who are from the disability community, enjoy an adults-only uninterrupted meal,
OR do nothing at all and chill out in our parent escape room!
The event is ONLY $1 per person (donations welcome). This
includes all the activities for the day as well as a pizza party
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UPC O M I N G
October
November
OCTOBER 4
OCTOBER 24
NOVEMBER 1
irvingbible.org.
OCTOBER 30NOVEMBER 1
NOVEMBER 5
Baptism orientation
12:302 p.m. West D
Register at irvingbible.org/baptism.
OCTOBER 10
Outing for single moms and
their daughters
OCTOBER 31
APRIL 2016
Holy Land Trip with Pastor Andy
bett@irvingbible.org.
OCTOBER 11
Shop Talk featuring Craig Detweiler
10:45 a.m. West A
Join us for a conversation with Craig Detweiler. This will
be a great conversation for parents of kids in all ages
and stages. More info at irvingbible.org/parenting.
OCTOBER 16-18
Father/Daughter Campout
Enjoy time away, meaningful conversations, and bonding with your daughter. Register at irvingbible.org/men.
Smiles Needed
OCTOBER 23-24
Tapestry Conference
See ad, pg. 16.
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ON G OI N G
MEALS
BIBLE COMMUNITIES
MARRIAGE
STUDENTS
SUNDAY
COMMUNITY MEALS
Synergy
9 a.m. The Alcove
All Welcome
Marriage at IBC
Contact bmassey@irvingbible.org.
10/4
Groups on Sunday
The Tree
9 a.m. West D
20s & 30s, married & young families
Crossroads
10:45 a.m. West C
Couples & Families late 20s to 40s
Journey
10:45 a.m. The Alcove
All Welcome
On Track
10:45 a.m. Conference Room
Single Parents
Thrive
10:45 a.m. West D
Singles in their 30s & 40s
Renew
10:45 a.m. Training Center
All Welcome
Legacy Builders
6:45 p.m. West A All Welcome
CHILDREN
Growing Together
Pre-Marriage Mentoring
Visit irvingbible.org/marriage.
MEN
First Watch
Fridays, 6:22 a.m. The Commons
New series, FIT
Contact Nat at npugh@irvingbible.org.
Visit irvingbible.org/men.
WOMEN
MISSION
Prayer Meeting
2nd and 4th Wednesdays
6:45-8 p.m. The Chapel
Visit irvingbible.org/women.
Laundry Love
First Saturday of the month
9 a.m.12 p.m.
Contact laundrylove@irvingbible.org.
2435 KINWEST
SINGLE PARENT
SPECIAL NEEDS
WEDNESDAY
MIDWEEK MEALS
56:20 P.M.
Contact specialneeds@irvingbible.org.
10/7
Visit 2435kinwest.org.
CUPPA HOURS
MonFri
9 a.m.8 p.m.
Saturday
11 a.m.5 p.m.
Sunday
7 a.m.7 p.m.
Why is it
taboo
to talk
about
Sex can be beautiful.
Holy, even.
sex at And
it was Gods idea.
church?
details
Journey to the
Land of the Bible
April 920, 2016
TA P E S T R Y
CONFERENCE
OCTOBER 23-24
The 2015 Tapestry Adoption & Foster Care Conference will be held October 23 & 24
at Irving Bible Church. This years theme: Back to Basics. We are excited once again to
welcome Dr. Karyn Purvis as keynote speaker.
We will offer three workshops on Friday, October 23. Saturday, October 24, will consist
of nine breakout sessions and two general sessions.
More Info: tapestryconference.org.
Film is
one of our
cultures
most
powerful
media.
Drawing Near
to God Through
Prayer
Welcome to
the Table!
Welcome to the Table! The Table exists to engage people in
a conversation about faith and the hard questions of life.
At IBC we seek to foster an open, relaxed and safe environment. The Table is a place where your questions are invited
and welcomed, and where you can voice your doubts. It
is a place for you to explore Christianity with others on a
similar journey.
Each of the ve sessions in this class focuses on an objection to the Christian faith.
HOW DO I GIVE?
My Time, Talents & Skills
HOW DO I GET
CONNECTED AT IBC?
Were glad you asked. Here are the steps to take for
having your questions answered, guring out the
IBC story, and, if youre feeling ready, plugging in.
Start
JOIN IN WORSHIP
So you found the address, a place to park, and a breath
mint on the way in. Good work! If youre reading this,
youve probably already taken the first step attending a
worship service. This is the first and most important place
to start, so keep coming. Become a regular. Make sure to
fill out a Newcomer Card. Tell us a little about yourself and
let us know how we can engage with you. Somebody will
reach out to you this week. Visit irvingbible.org/connect.
Laptops Needed
2435 Kinwest has a new Microsoft Computer Skills
class. In order to best serve the community, they
need 5-10 laptops. Donated laptops must have Microsoft Office installed. Contact Shannon at2435kinwest@irvingbible.org.
Main Place Volunteers
If you have skills with electrical, plumbing,
construction. HVAC, etc the Main Place in Irving
could use some maintenance help. Contact Pam
at themainplace@irvingbible.org.
My Resources
Online Giving Option
If you would find it more convenient to donate to
the ministries of Irving Bible Church online, visit
irvingbible.org/give.
JOIN A COMMUNITY
Youre firing on all cylinders but something is missing. And
that something is a someone, or a group of someones.
Enter sermon-based Small Groups, Womens Bible Study,
First Watch, and more. We encourage you to find a group
and connect authentically with others.
Visit irvingbible.org/adults.
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THE GRAVEN
A POE PARODY
Once upon a Thursday evening, with spirit spent and eyeballs bleary,
Post the bedtime stories reading of wimpy kids and Hobbit lore
I plopped down on the divan, with universal remote in hand,
Turned on the TV (not the 4K version Id been begging for)
To a program, weird and wanton, not the one I had hoped for.
Something vacuous and nothing more.
Away with thee! I duly screamed; prayed for salvation in my Twitter stream
To banish the ghastly, airbrushed mien back to from whence it had leapt forth.
But there betwixt Grumpy Cat memes, a most vile, promoted tweet
Pushing bronzer on the masses whose pastiness upsets the bore
Get the #glow youve craved if you cant vacay at the shore!
I flushed my cache haunt me no more!
Of some outfit she was whining, it made her T-zone look too shiny
As her selfie flash was lighting Botoxed lips and chem-peeled pores.
She couldnt get the background right. Her puckered duck face off a slight,
She fired the assistant to her third assistant whom shed hired days before.
This is, like, a farce or something, so get your booty, like, out the door.
But were still BFFs, right, forevermore?
Back at home with children dreaming, the better half fitfully sleeping
I chanced again my timelines streaming, daring fate to find true north.
But with each scrolling of the page, ten more examples of this fetid age:
The rich, the famous, the loud, the shameless clamoring for one like more.
Idols carved from prides own ore
Quothe the graven, Love us more!
Now upon this midnight dreary, I sit racked with doleful queries
Much aggrieved with modern theories for the existence of such ardor.
These mannequins of celebrity trade for tarnish an eternal gleam
Flaunt the proscription handed down to those who had, by grace, some worth
Thou shalt not! thus saith the LORD.
Be gone, foul graven, forevermore!
Jason Fox digs casks, pendulums and tell-tale donuts.
Jason writes from Omaha, Nebraska, where hes often told to stop being creepy.
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