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you try writing something? But to go back. Do you want to find out
what has brought on this dullness, or do you want to remain as you
are?
"I would like to go away somewhere by myself, renounce
everything and find some happiness."
Is that what you want to do? Then why don't you do it? Are you
hesitating on account of your wife?
"I am no good to my wife as I am; I am just a wash-out."
Do you think you will find happiness by withdrawing from life,
by isolating yourself? Haven't you sufficiently isolated yourself
now? To renounce in order to find is no renunciation at all; it is
only a cunning bargain, an exchange, a calculated move to gain
something. You give up this in order to get that. Renunciation with
an end in view is only a surrender to further gain. But can you have
happiness through isolation, through dissociation? Is not life
association, contact, communion? You may withdraw from one
association to find happiness in another, but you cannot completely
withdraw from all contact. Even in complete isolation you are in
contact with your thoughts, with yourself. Suicide is the complete
form of isolation.
"Of course I don't want to commit suicide. I want to live, but I
don't want to continue as I am."
Are you sure you don't want to go on as you are? You see, it is
fairly clear that there is something which is making you dull, and
you want to run away from it into further isolation. To run away
from what is, is to isolate oneself. You want to isolate yourself,
perhaps temporarily, hoping for happiness. But you have already
isolated yourself, and pretty thoroughly; further isolation, which