Contrasts of Social and Familiar Models by Angel Y.
Ortiz Torres The ideal family models that are mainly found on fiction stories are the reason of past, present y the possible future. This move us to deduce that the familiar conflicts, very common in actuality, are just faults of the colective conscience in society. Then, all the social conflicts must be part of the past if we think in a conscience with liberty to choose the common goods.
The examples start from the frontiers of obedience and will in the families. It starts since the baby explores the world through its senses and is limited by a necessary protection. By other side, the story if it isn't limited and receive an injury it will possibly develop a scar that will change its life. But also the injury will serve as a benefit, because our errors could make us strong if we surpass them. This take us to a wide net of possibilities in which only the balance in decisions would us to act correctly.
The reason of this we could saw it in our daily life. Our puertorricans families are generally happy, hospitable and with a very strong sense of family union. While traveling to another country these values collisions with ambiences where the values that are most focused could be dignity, honor, respect and many other cultural contrasts. This not means that we don't posses those values but we don't saw them as their point of view. It's just about how we saw the things.
We also see inner process in which families are contrasts with ideal models and stereotypes and they are not adopted because of a fear of change. It's like the stereotypical families in fiction that are joined by their will. In contrast, the families are generally united by norms and inner laws. This is saw in the liberty of kids to socialize with others and choose wisely the environment. In most realities its also saw a limitation to be in the protection and security of it's family. Also we
found the learning to not talk to strangers and giving in consecuence in some cases antisocial people, weak will-power and/or rebels.
The solution to this social contrasts is in the education. In Teaching criticial thinking. Exposing values and not imposing them. Obtaining plain conscience of the frontiers of liberty and duties. Permiting others to decide for the common good by their individual liberty. Respecting other's decisions. Permiting the life's flow.
by Angel Yamil Ortiz Torres 2009 ©