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Allergy Awareness / Mothers Day / Step Families / SLO History / Summer Break Fun!
Child Development
Common Airborne Allergens
Dust mites are one of the most
common causes of allergies. These
microscopic insects are the main
allergic component of house dust.
Dust mites are present year-round
in most of the US (although less
commonat high altitudes) and live in
bedding, upholstery, and carpets.
May is National Asthma andAllergy
Awareness Month. Its a peak
season for asthma and allergy
sufferers, and a perfect time to
educate your family, friends, coworkers, and others about allergies.
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children, as well as changes in
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physical shows of affection from activities that involve only the
their stepfather. Overall, boys children and parent.
appear to accept a stepfather
Parents shouldnt speak against
more quickly than girls.
their ex-spouses in front of the
child because it undermines
Nonresidential Parent Issues
the childs self-esteem and may
After a divorce, children usually even put the child in a position
adjust better to their new lives of defending one parent against
when the parent who has moved another.
out visits consistently and has
maintained a good relationship Under the best conditions, it
may take two to four years for a
with them.
new stepfamily to adjust to living
But once parents remarry, they together. Seeing a psychologist
often decrease or maintain or marriage and family counselor
low levels of contact with their (both together and individually)
children. Fathers appear to be the can help the process go more
worst perpetrators: On average, smoothly.
dads drop their visits to their
children by half within the first
year of remarriage.
James Bray, PhD, is a researcher and
clinician at the Department of Family
The less a parent visits, the more Medicine at Baylor College of Medicine.
a child is likely to feel abandoned.
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Jacks Jokes
If evolution really works, how come mothers only have two hands?
Knock Knock. Whos there? Figs. Figs who? Figs the doorbell!
What do you call a lazy baby kangaroo?
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the other empty cells with numbers between 1 and 9 (1 number only in each cell).
A number should appear only once in each row, column, and region.
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Local History
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w w w. s l o 1 0 0 ye a r s . co m
Also available at Barnes and Noble, Crushed Grape, Antiques of Monterey,
GUY CRABB PUBLISHING
History Center, Apple Farm, and Boo Boo Records.
around the county come to San aroma of cigar leaves that comes
Luis Obispo to buy their harnesses from downstairs, where many of
the cigars are being rolled. Kluver
from the Harrington Brothers.
and Sons Cigar Store (Novo is
The first thing on my wifes to do there today at 716 Higuera) has
list is to stop in at City Hall (where been located here for many years.
Charles Shoes is today at 867 So has the J. J. Andre Store next
Higuera) and ask about the tax door (where Ambiance is today
on a piece of property we own at 714 Higuera), which is where
out near El Moro (Morro Bay). Janet goes to do a little shopping.
Actually, I dont mind stopping by I hope she doesnt buy anything
City Hall because the fire station is too heavy, because I dont want
on the ground floor and while my to carry too many pounds of dry
wife is upstairs inquiring about goods. She comes out emptythe property taxes, I can check handed, but I notice she has a
out the new fire wagon that the paper in her hand. Janet bought
city recently purchased. The fire some things and arranged for the
wagons are red with lots of shiny Sandercock moving company to
chrome everywhere. I can see the deliver to our home. Suddenly,
horses that pull the wagons out I am getting a headache and ask
in back. Janet comes down after if we could stop by Norton Drug
about 20 minutes and pulls me Store and buy headache pills.
away from the fire wagons and
I have to stop the story here as I
we set off down the street.
am running out of space. If you
We walk by the White House want to find out what happens
Grocery store and Janet asks next as Janet and I continue to
me to remind her to stop by the walk down Higuera Street in 1916,
grocery store on the way home youll need to tune in next month.
as we continued our walk. The Be prepared, because things
Sandercock family has had a store could get crazy in San Luis Obispo
on Higuera forever (Fiore is there in 1916!
today at 856 Higuera) and they
have hauled lots of items for me
in the past. I always have them
deliver animal feed to our ranch
out in El Moro. We say howdy,
but if we say hi to everyone, I will
never get down to Kluvers to buy
some fresh cigars. Janet does not
approve of me smoking cigars,
but it is one of my few bad habits.
Ive even read in the newspaper
that smoking may be bad for your
health. Even Ty Cobb thinks that Guy Crabb teaches at Charles E. Teach
School in San Luis Obispo. He
smoking is bad for your lungs. Elementary
graduated from Cal Poly SLO and has been
George Kluver and sons have teaching for 30 years. Guy was a Teacher of
Year in 2006 and currently teaches at a
been rolling the best cigars in the
National Blue Ribbon School. Reach him at
town for years. You can smell the crabbx5@charter.net.
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Education
CS Perryess
writes
about words
of the term and it simply means
cheap, nonsensical or pretentious
English is rife with colorful terms language.
referring to irrelevant, useless, or
empty words. As we ramp up to There are so many great synonyms
for bunk, blatherskite, bosh and
elections, lets celebrate a few.
claptrap. Followers, what emptyBunk appeared in American word words would you add to the
English about 1900 as a shortened list?
form of bunkum, meaning
the elusive scraperfish
nonsense. By most accounts the
term was born in the US House
of Representatives when North Word-lovers go to great lengths
Carolina Representative Felix to help others make sense of
Walker threw in his two cents this nutty language we love so
regarding Missouris statehood well. The Elusive Scraperfish is
in relation to the Mason-Dixon one such tale. Its not elusive
Line. He needed to say something because of its astounding
that would appear in the papers camouflage or because it buries
back home in Buncombe, so itself in the muck. Its elusive
he unabashedly made a long, because so many people dont
dull, irrelevant speech. In time, even know its there. Such is the
Buncombe shifted to bunkum, nature of bottomdwellers that
concern themselves with English
which got shortened to bunk.
pronunciation rules.
Blatherskite, was born during the
American Revolution, and refers
to both the words spoken by a
talkative, nonsensical person and
the person him/herself. It comes
of blather, meaning to babble.
Blather is a Scottish term derived Meet the scraperfish. It scrapes
from an Old Norse word meaning along on the bottom of the sea,
to wag the tongue, added to skite, looking for its tunnel-dwelling
meaning a contemptible individual. prey. As its rough belly scrapes
We see a related ending in the along the ocean floor, it makes the
word cheapskate, and a related sound kkkkkk, kkkkkkk, kkkkkk,
beginning in the term blithering signifying to those in the know
idiot. Skite also originated in Old that the letter C (masquerading
Norse, from a word meaning to as a gill), generally makes the
shoot, which apparently is what K sound. However, when the
the Old Norse thought should be scraperfish spots its tunneldwelling prey, it sucks it up, savors
done with blatherers.
it, and says sssss, sssss, sssss.
Bosh came to English in the 1830s
from Turkish. Its literal Turkish
meaning of empty, applies in
English only to meaningless
speech or writing.
bunk & its buddies
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hazard
This words etymology is quite
pleasingly contentious.
Hazard came into English about
1300 from the Old French word,
hasard or hasart, a game of
chance played with dice. Most
etymologists agree that the
French word stems from the
Spanish word, azar, an unfortunate
card or throw at dice.
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national
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national armed
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Family Events
APR 21-MAY 1 (days & times
vary): SHAKESPEARE IN THE
RAW at Cuesta College CPAC
Experimental Theater, CA-1, San
Luis Obispo. 16 actors perform the
best Shakespeare monologues.
In this site-specific/immersive
performance,
the
audience
follows the bards treasure
map to discover scenes. Bring
your phone to receive special
texts along your journey and be
prepared to move about campus.
Cost: $10. Contact: 546-3198 or
cpactickets.cuesta.edu.
THU APR 28-SUN JUN 12 (days &
times vary): ACROSS THE RIVER:
ADVENTURES OF HUCKLEBERRY
FINN at The Great American
Melodrama, 1863 Front St,
Oceano. Cheer for this musical
folk tale as Huck finds his own
moral compass and learns the
difference between right and
wrong. Vaudeville Revue follows
each show with song, dance, and
comedy. Cost: $19-25, discounts
for groups, seniors, students,
military, and children. In-house
snack bar serves food and drinks.
Contact:
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features childrens art, seedlings
for sale, beverages and snacks,
and raffles. Cost: $10. Contact:
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Featuring works by Bach, Durufle,
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Family Events
free. Contact: 528-1862.
SAT MAY 14 1:00-2:00 pm: GETTING
TO KNOW YOUR PALMS at San
Luis Obispo Botanical Garden,
3450 Dairy Creek Rd, SLO. Join Dr.
Jenn Yost, professor of botany at
Cal Poly, for this engaging lecture
on the diversity of palms. Learn
about palm biology, conservation,
and much more! Free docent
led tour at 2:00 pm. Cost: $5-10.
Contact: slobg.org/palm.
drowningpreventionfoundation.com
Garden Oak Glen Pavilion, 3450
Dairy Creek Rd, SLO. Join Mary
Ann Rutshaw for a cooking class
to spruce up your brunch menu.
Cost: $15-20. Contact: slobg.org/
cooking or 541-1400 x 305.
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Local Resources
Every THU at 10:15 am: Tiny Tunes
Music & Movement at Music Motive,
3440 S Higuera St #130, SLO. This
parent participation program for ages
1-5 includes activities based on music
psychology and child development.
Cost: $80 per mo. Contact: 543-0377.
Every TUE & SAT (by appt only): Partners
in Equestrian Therapy in Atascadero
offers riding lessons for special
needs children, adults, and veterans.
Volunteers needed. Contact: petslo.com
or 235-2787.
2nd FRI every month at 1:00 pm: Book
Group at Cayucos Library, 310 B St. Join
other readers to discuss whatever youre
reading and to discover, ponder, and
share insights about what others are
reading. Cost: free. Contact: 995-3846.
Every WED 3:00-4:00 pm: Paws to Read
at Los Osos Library, 2075 Palisades Ave.
Read to Berkeley, the dog who loves
to listen to children read. Cost: free.
Contact: 528-1862.
Every THU 6:30-9:30 pm: SLO Chess Club
meets at Carls Jr on Santa Rosa St, 1
block W of Foothill, across from Cal-Poly.
All ages. Cost: free. Contact: 441-7210 or
slochess.com.
Every SAT 10:00 am-2:00 pm: SLO Chess
Club meets at the big board on Morro
Bay Embarcadero at west end of Morro
Bay Blvd (down the stairs). Cost: free.
Contact: 441-7210 or slochess.com.
Mankind Project mens support group
meetings: all issues welcome. Find
purpose, mastery, healthy autonomy,
and your lifes mission and purpose. Gain
skills to change your life or to become
a better husband or dad. Call ahead to
confirm. 1st & 3rd TUE 6:00-9:00 pm in
San Luis Obispo. Contact: 459-7808.
1st & 3rd THU 6:30-9:30 pm in Cayucos.
Contact: 471-9342. 2nd & 4th THU 6:30-
Storytime
10:30 am Mondays
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Reading to Rover
Wednesdays at 3:00 pm
Suicide Prevention
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24 hours of every day
A program of Transitions Mental Health Association
Every TUE 3:00-6:00 pm & FRI 3:005:30 pm: Teen Wellness Program at
Arroyo Grande EOC Health Services
Clinic, 1152 E Grand Ave. Health services,
including reproductive health, in a safe
environment to screen, assess, and
Womens Shelter
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Contact: 544-9313.
RISE offers: weekly drop-In support
groups for sexual assault survivors;
24 hour crisis line; advocacy and
accompaniment;
peer
counseling;
counseling; prevention and education,
and empowerment and self defense
workshops. Contact: 545-8888 or www.
sarpcenter.org.
Every SAT 11:00 am-3:00 pm: ADOPT A
PET at Petco, 2051 Theater Dr, in Paso
Robles. Cats from NCHS and dogs from
Short n Sweet Dog Rescue. Contact:
466-5403.
Every MON 2:00-4:00 pm & WED 3:005:00 pm: Jacks Adaptive Toy Lending
Library-Jacks Helping Hand at Central
Coast Gymnastics, 21 Zaca Lane, #100,
San Luis Obispo. Traditional and adaptive
toys for children with all types of
disabilities to check out. In-home appts
available. Cost: free! Contact: 547-1914 or
www.jackshelpinghand.org.
Every TUE 2:00-5:00 pm & FRI 4:007:00 pm: Jacks Adaptive Toy Lending
Library - Jacks Helping Hand at Pats
Place in Nipomo Recreation Community
Rm, 671 W Tefft St, Ste 2, Nipomo. Toys
for children with all types of disabilities
to check out. In-home appts available.
Cost-free! Contact: 547-1914 or www.
jackshelpinghand.org.
Every FRI at 7:00 pm: Senior Ballroom
Dancing at Madonna Inn. If you are
a senior (single or attached) and like
ballroom dancing, this is the place! Look
left of the bandstand for sign: Senior
Dancers. Dance, chat and listen to
good music. No fees; no dues; just fun!
Contact: 489-5481 or dg17@juno.com.
Literacy Council for San Luis Obispo
County has an ongoing and urgent need
for volunteer tutors and offers free
training in SLO. Contact: 541-4219 or
www.sloliteracy.org.
1st THU every month at 6:15 pm:
Commission on the Status of Women
meets at Coast National Bank, 500 Marsh
St, SLO. This official advisory group
to SLO County Board of Supervisors
identifies issues of concern to women
that are not the focus of other advocacy
or advisory organizations. Contact: 7883406.
Every WED 11:00 am-12:00 pm: Growing
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