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How to spice up your sex life
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Whether you’re reading this for tips. prevention of a mundane sex life or simply to spice things up a little for an anniversary. do in order to maintain some spice in your relationship before you find yourself needing to re-introduce it back into your sex life. You may find spanking a great arousal booster but your partner might not be so into it. then. in the future. every individual is different. Sex can be a pleasurable.Introduction The purpose of this publication is not only to give tips on sexual positions but also to give handy tips on all the different ways in which you can spice up your sex life. So who is this publication for? I guess we could categorize it into three sections: 1. Sometimes a little effort is needed to spice things up in the bedroom. Because really. Are you fine with your sexual partner but would like to try something different every one in a while? 3. soul shattering experience. make you try things you never even thought of and most importantly to increase pleasure for both you and your partner. The idea is to expand your horizons. I stress that every couple is different. that’s what masturbation is for! I’ve included sources from websites that have really helped me a lot and they can be found at the end of the book. Have you done it in the missionary position in exactly the same bed for who knows how many years and quite frankly you could swear you can see a dent in the bed with your body shape meshed into the fabric? Sex is no longer about the passion and more about getting to the finish line as fast as possible? 2. Your partner will thank you for taking the time to make such an effort. The point here is to find a level playing ground where both sides of the couple can experience pleasure whilst not compromising their morals or comfort levels. well. Or are you just starting out? Wondering what you could. and hence. emotional. but this is not always the case. shared pleasure and if you’re being selfish and one sided during sex. sex is all about mutual. .
5.101 Tips on How To Spice up your Sex Life 1. elevators. Novelty is an intense aphrodisiac and any unusual setting. 3. they can be wrapped around the guy’s waist. Wardrobes aren’t the kind of places you want to linger. Or alternatively he can hold onto your legs by the calves and pull them back towards your face. night after night. If missionary is your desired position try alternating the varying levels of your (the woman’s) legs. movie theatres. upping the excitement. Location. Although some find it difficult to give pleasure whilst receiving it. But if you do want to take the love making outside. woods and fields. For example. the office. Choose the right place! Common places where men and women have sex are: parks. 4. will make sex feel new. Location. (See link to free Kama Sutra book at end of book). Try getting your hands on a Kama Sutra book because whilst not all positions are extremely difficult some can take practice and once perfected can heighten your sexual arousal levels immensely. Make sure you aren’t always in the missionary position. or lifted up and high with calves to the side of the guy’s face. Try mixing things up by varying the places in which you chose to make love besides the bedroom. on the kitchen table (followed by a thorough cleaning). things are going to get a little monotonous. Location. No matter how great the sex. or lower under the buttocks. plane bathrooms. Try the wardrobe. in a closest (confined spaces are a great sexual boost and make you really work for it: see #5). with strange sensations. cars. department store . on a dishwasher (preferably whilst it in is motion). or simply up against the wall. if your stuck in the same bed. 2. and no matter how many positions you are alternating between. 6. so they’re great for a quickie. Confined spaces also add urgency. here’s a little information for your benefit. it can be highly satisfying once you get used to all the sensations. Some obvious examples include making love in the shower. Switching locations every now and then can really help liven things up. The sixty-nine position is a great way for both partners to receive pleasure at the same time. public bathrooms. smells and muffled sounds.
remember to pay attention to the balls. making penetration less comfortable. not all water adventures end up in sexual bliss for couples. fondle them frequently. Making love in the water is also a great boost. Here’s a little extra information: Sex in the water is often a way to beat the bedroom boredom and add some spice into your sex life. it is better to use some lubricant that is not water-soluble like silicone lubricant. soap and oils it may cause some irritation and make you more susceptible to thrush. choose the place that has the lowest risks. pull his erection out of your mouth just before he cums and allow him to stroke his erection until he squirts into your mouth. so you should decide for yourself if it is worth trying. whether it be in a big spa bath. your body will be dry in the most intimate zones. a swimming pool or even the beach (which you should thoroughly check that there is positively no one about or within seeing distance. be sure to make noises and moans as this really turns guy’s on. Do you really want to be all naked and sweaty where someone has just recently done a number two? I think not. 10. as children frequent the beach often). make sure to tell him to let you know when he will be ejaculating. it might affect your career. 9. However.restrooms. on the roof. 8. For example. Keep it in your pants during plane travel. Before you decide to have sex in public weigh all the risks and keep in mind that in most states sex in public is prohibited and you might get into some serious trouble. The gentle tissue of the vagina can become irritated and together with other chemicals like bubble bath. In fact. whilst giving a blow job. swimming pools. Whilst giving a blow job. So if you want to stay lubricated during water fun. Also. The tip here is that such a location as plane toilets is better left on paper and in theory. if you get caught having sex in the office. Just when he tells you he is about to ejaculate. The vision of seeing his cum squirt . Also. 7. Stay wet First of all. Sex in the bath can be tricky enough and you should be prepared to face certain discomfort. water washes away all the natural lubrication. balcony’s. If you consider yourself brave enough. in spite of the fact that you won't have lack of moisture in the bathroom. telephone booths and others. This might go without saying but deciding to ‘join the mile high club’ is most definitely a fantasy location worth the miss. Play with them.
try to be more direct when talking about delicate issues and encourage your partner to give direct answers. A simple “You’re so beautiful. And for guy’s – many women can become extremely aroused by dirty talk. Dirty talk doesn’t have to be the only way for partners to bond during sex through audible stimulation. so heavy.” or “You fill every inch of me. can dramatically enhance the love making experience provided of course that you do indeed love your partner.” Or for women “You’re so big. Guys: Try to avoid words such as “You’re so . moaning in pleasure is your best bet and using the words ‘Yes! Yes!’ Or even ‘Harder’ can do the trick for most. Check with your partner before proceeding.” can dramatically increase your partner’s ego. (Insert Name)” will suffice just fine. a simple “Look at me. said on a sigh of pleasure or screaming it at the top of your lungs will do great for boosting intimacy during sex. as this is primarily the exact words to sky rocket a man’s ego.” and “I love you”. Make sure to spend an entire love making session maintaining complete eye contact with your partner. For women using such talk. 12. 14. For example. Don’t shut your eyes during the process of making love or you can miss a lot of additional sensations. You’ll hardly feel such a burst of emotions on your partner’s face in other circumstances. Keep eye contact all the way from the beginning during foreplay till the hot ride at the end. If your partner has never initiated eye contact. so sweet and slick. Look into each other eyes. Talking about how the sensations are making you feel can enhance anyone’s ego. For women. Guy’s: moaning and growling deep at the back of your throat is also great at letting your partner know what she’s doing right. 13. but some not so much.into your open and waiting mouth will be sure to send him through the roof! 11. If extreme dirty talk isn’t your thing though. being more vocal in bed is as simple as incorporating moans and growls. Either whispered. It allows the opportunity to bond with your partner and allows a sense of deep intimacy to be created in the fact that you know who your lover is and this is exactly where you want to be. However. Mostly though. For example phrases such as “Your pussy is so tight”. complementing your partner’s beauty is an extremely intense way of connecting with your partner on a emotional level. say "I like when you touch my clit". “I love the way your pussy grabs my cock. try to use phrases that emphasize how “big and heavy” your partners cock feels. instead of saying "I like when you touch me there". The most simple and effective word to say though is his or her name.
There is an endless supply of lingerie in stores these days so finding them is not a problem. lots and lots of lace. And speaking of leaving things on… got a pair of six inch killer red heels? Leave them on.pretty and “You’re cute. The premise of the game is for one person to ask for something they want. and guys should be wise to use it. one can become wet just from reading the deliciously naughty phrases used in such novels. reds and pinks and of course. Then as your thrusting (preferably on top) pull the bra off exposing the until-now hidden gems. 19. maybe your partner will find it and get inspired. A new line of “Erotica” books are exactly the kind of literal material any woman should be setting out to get her hands on.” and “That’s a pretty dress. Buy one and leave it around the house. Leave the bra on during sex. Try to stick with blacks. a connecting vibe. The “I want…” game is one of my favourites. Playing games during foreplay can be a great. calling a woman ‘sexy’ is a great way to boost her confidence and have her feeling desirable and willing.” But the word ‘beautiful’ gives out a whole new vibe. in which their partner complies and then .” because those are the words people often use to describe things such as “Those puppies are so cute. Think verbal porn and its best. They are chock full of dirty talk and sexual ideas. 17. 15. Also. enter. Do not hold your emotions back. Want another use for your killer red heels? Got a big down to the knee overcoat? Don’t live with your partner? Perfect! Show up at his place wearing only your coat and those heels. strip off your coat… need I say more? 21. 16. there a plenty of benefits. Make your partner feel as good as you do by telling him what you really liked and how you want him to give you those wonderful sensations over and over again. Speaking of lingerie. And trust me. Compliment him. Lingerie is a no brainier. but everything else off! Never underestimate the power of stilettos! 20. Most erotica novels are extremely graphic in their language and from personal experience. fun way to explore new found pleasure. 18. Romance novels are far more than the 21st century Cinderella meets Prince Charming get up that they used to be. Share your excitement with your partner thus creating a special level of intimacy. Push ups bras are a great way to boost your more enhancing assets and leaving on crotch less panties during sex can be incredibly erotic for the guy.
couch. Another game worth a try is the “May I?” game. If your guy doesn’t like giving oral sex then powder down there is a great way to capture his interest and have you tasting to die for. Then “May I take off your pants?” The May I’s? are supposed to start off simple but proceed into naughtier territory as time passes. chill the champagne before your rendezvous so that when you hold the liquid in your mouth and tease her with your lips. For example a woman could ask a man “May I run my hands over your chest?” To which the man will of course say yes.and licking every drop off. Women take note: Holding champagne in your mouth then taking your man's member in your mouth could be disastrous! The . -.” Here is an example of a conversation: Guy: “I want you to grab my erection. Whipped cream is a great example as is chocolate. Although I find sherbet powder to be the greatest aphrodisiac.vice versa. Try and steer clear of sticky foods like honey and focus on quick and light foods that you enjoy eating.” this doesn’t exactly pleasure her as much as it pleasure’s the guy and therefore she must only use such a “want” if it truly is going to pleasure her in some way.g.” And so on and so forth. down your naval and all the way around your clit and in the lips of your vagina. Introducing food into the bedroom can be great fun. It entails that either the man or woman ask “May I (insert desire here)? before proceeding to do such an act. 23. 22. Most “I want’s” are for the pleasure of yourself. So if you start off with a “may I stroke your nipples?” by the time you reach the end of the game make sure your language is as explicit as can be e. Although choosing the right foods are of great importance.” In which the woman proceeds to do. Here are some more helpful hints on using food in the bedroom: Champagne The sweet bubbles are a definite crowd-pleaser.not to the point of drenching your mattress. If you are well-prepared. office chair. Then she demands something: Woman: “I want you to rub on my clit. “May I suck all the cum of your cock?” To which he will enthusiastically say yes! And the great part is that it can work both ways. Try pouring it over each other -. For example if a woman says “I want to suck your cock. A better example would be for her to say “I want you to suck on my nipples. Women: Sprinkle a trail of powder over your breasts. etc. she'll feel the cool sensation.
To change things up a bit. Have your girl follow the path. but it’s been done before.bubbles in champagne might give great sensation elsewhere on the body. Tread lightly. See #62. leading to infections. Hot and cold water Switching back and forth between temperatures can really heat things up and is a great food fantasy addition to the bedroom. Then switch it up to ice cubes. particularly the area just below it. feel free to add in some whipped cream and a couple of cherries. Licking the sweet juices is a treat for the libido and the taste buds. you can actually use the mint to roll across the clitoris (or across your nether regions if you can handle the hot/cold sensation). Add more chocolate to the areas you’d like her to focus on. Juicy fruit No. The clit however is fine. please. is extremely sensitive and exposing it directly to champagne can be quite painful. Popsicles This food fantasy is a great combination of fruit and ice: sweet. no gum! Instead. Making sure there is no sticky residue remaining is the best part -. cooling sensation that is perfect for oral sex. In keeping with tradition. mint. peach or even a watermelon (in small pieces). For extra-intense pleasure. then dive right into oral sex. Ice cubes around her nipples can also be an intense sensory experience for her. and be sure to roll it around in your mouth. have your girl drink hot water and then give you a little mouth action. grab a sweet. not the gum. neck and breasts. dip a paintbrush in chocolate sauce and draw a map on your body.it will require harder sucking. but you have to remember the head of the penis. Be aware that some mint is quite strong and can cause pain instead of pleasure. Breath mints This food fantasy. cold and delicious. Chocolate sauce Time to put a spin on an old classic: Chocolate sauce is always a food fantasy favorite. juicy orange. Take a piece of fruit and gently rub it across her lips. You’ll love the sensation. During oral sex. Suck on a strong mint. hitting each of your hot spots as she journeys along. Use them to trace over body parts or to make your tongue nice and cold for bodily exploration. strawberry. grapefruit. Not that Popsicles should not be inserted anywhere -sugar in the Popsicles can cause bacteria to build up in women. creates a tingly. .
Or better yet. like his nipples.e. or vice versa or the boss and his naughty secretary. Dressing the part (i. when available. can cause bacteria build-up. letting your lips graze the skin. He could be the doctor. things could go terribly wrong. pilot and co-pilot. You should also be aware that while very pleasurable if used appropriately. Searching for "leftovers" can be awkward. easy and extremely varied. Certain foods. A simple note saying “I’ll meet you in our bedroom at exactly 7 pm. or wearing glasses if you’re a “naughty secretary”) is fun. Do not use foods you are normally allergic to. Try and be . and inner thighs. Be sure to clean up properly. leading to yeast infections and other irritations. wearing uniforms. she the student. to say the least. The veggies should be washed thoroughly to get rid of pesticides (which can cause severe irritation). There is an endless amount of roles both you and your partner can master. It is just common sense. You could be in for a world of hurt. but be careful. Ice. Pieces of veggies can break off after they have been inserted into the body. and very helpful nurse. Got an early meeting in the morning and have to rush off to work before your partner awakes? Why not leave them a naughty request for later on that day when you return home.Veggies Cucumbers and carrots can double as sex toys. Take an ice cube and run it over sensitive spots. Do not double dip. Role play is a great and fun way to spice things up. 24. Do not allow substances to get too close to the tip of your penis or inside your gal’s vaginal opening. her the naughty. Food fantasy don'ts • • • • • Do not use spicy foods like chilli peppers or cayenne. The last thing you need is a trip to the ER to have said food fantasy items extracted. Use squeeze bottles. especially those containing sugar. Follow each stroke with your hot breath on the area. she the naughty nurse. 25. Dipping your fingers in and out of chocolate sauce containers can be a tad unsanitary. 26. lower stomach. he the sick patient. Or he can be the teacher. Ice. Be there and be naked!” will be sure to have him excited all day long at the possibilities and it gives you both something to look forward to. Do not fall asleep with food on or inside you. Baby.
No one denies that pleasure and sexual assault don't make a pair. What a woman needs in safe rape is to feel the real . pain and humiliation. the more so he never doubts his abilities or so called success of the most passionate night you both are going to have. I would name it an intercourse spiced up with elements of brute force.inventive with your role playing for example he could be the mechanic and you the poor girl who doesn’t have enough money to pay for it to get fixed… but wait! You know about a lot of others way in which you could pay him… 27. with a rare exception. takes her without any condition or objections becomes so appealing to many women. the end of "safe rape fantasy" is always satisfaction and bliss. and you can’t go wrong with leather of any kind. A woman will certainly resists his charms at first but soon gives in to his vigor to experience divine pleasure of capitulation. anger. A lot of women claim to desire for a "safe rape" as one of the most arousing experience. In you come to the same bar. He is the sexiest guy in the bar and you have to have him! Waltz on up and meet him. So what is "safe rape"? To tell it more precisely. Then role play your way through a ‘one-night stand’. spotting your partner ‘for the first time’. wearing the hottest outfit you could conjure. Nurse uniforms are universally mainstream. Or how about a bunny costume? You could be the new playboy bunny in town. Have your partner go to a certain bar. I can say that no woman will want to go through actual rape. where man enforces woman to have sex. The usual scenery takes place between well-known partners or an attractive stranger who is "tough but somewhat patronizing" and who is absolutely confident of his actions. Also.. 28. As unlike the feelings sexual assault evokes: fear. Safe Rape One of the most negative things sex can associate with is rape. 30. sit at the counter and pay for a drink. Due to all this a session. 29.. Even a bright blonde deep red. Want to take role playing just that step further? Dressing up in uniforms can be a really easy way to get into the role playing spirit. or sultry brunette wig can liven up the role play and transform you into your alter ego (and making up a name for your alter ego is an easy way to transform in the moment). try and expand the role playing out of the bedroom. introducing yourself and flirting as if it’s the first time you’re meeting each other. Anticipating the possible disapproval.
go for it. Sit down. vaginal piercings etc. spikes (to an extent). Learning to communicate is vital in a topic that includes as many facets as sex does. In this regard safe rape is the return to the core of our deepest urges. A little spank on the buttocks here and there can really arouse some women. spanking can be great fun. Double hole pleasure can be indescribable but overwhelming at first so make sure you are more than ready and wet beforehand. 33.masculine power and submissiveness. raunchiest fantasies. our instincts have old history and haven't changed so much with the time: masculinity compliments feminity and sexual power strives for weakness. 36. Not afraid of needles and pain? Why not get a very naughty piercing. Communicate. whilst he fills the other one. spanking (see #32) and many others actions emphasizing power and submission. Women: Want to experience the ‘two at a time’ pleasure but don’t like the idea of another man getting his hands on you? No problem! Using Vibrators and Dildos can be great substitutes for the real thing.obedient. The sadist inflicts pain and asserts control over the masochist. a woman . And if we actually think it over. All this actually takes its roots from the days where gender roles were pretty clear: a man was powerful. penis head piercings. It could be as mainstream as your tongue or belly button. Without a doubt. It is a term used to describe the sex and its many bits and pieces of pain associated with this type of sex. and whilst some feel ashamed at feeling such arousal from something as fierce as spanking. as long as it is done in a playful manner. with both parties enjoying their role of definition. weak and sensitive. whips. Up for some extreme pleasure/pain? S & M is an abbreviation for Sadist / Masochist sex. 32. 34. No barriers. Get your partner to ease a dildo into one hole. handcuffs. So if you are willing to fulfill the ultimate sex fantasy of most women and give her a treat that will make her feel a bit vulnerable. 35. and spill out your naughtiest. 31. crossed leg on the bed. protective and confident. just talk and work out ways in which you could achieve these fantasies. or delve even further and get the following sexually arousing piercings such as nipple rings. spanking can be a great combination of pleasure and pain. Such results can be achieved through bondage. Or if a threesome with another man is your idea of having fun by all means introduce another into your bedroom for the . sexiest.
this type of thing is a very touchy subject in today’s society. The point of the mirror is so that either you both watch your movements over her vagina. Strategically placing mirrors around the bedroom so that you may watch yourself while your partner makes love to you can be incredibly arousing. You could be on the bathroom sink. Having said that though. to the sides or even use the mirrors in the bathroom. 37. Two girls and a guy works like a treat too. watching yourself over your partners shoulder and you thrust into her.night. Hold onto the thought of that full length mirror! Men: Stand behind your woman with her back to your chest. video taping yourself and watching the play back with your partner can be incredibly arousing. Or you could strategically place portable mirrors around the room allowing complete angle access. you could even learn what you may be doing wrong. watch how wet his cock gets with your juices. Or take it a step further and video tape yourselves having sex. If you’re truly willing to make a sex tape with your partner. lay your foreheads together and look down. 38. Both watch as he enters you and then pulls out. On the topic of watching yourself… have your man lean up off the bed as he is thrusting into you. don’t let such talk stop you from receiving such pleasures. Reach one hand around her body to play with her clit while the other hand plays with her breasts. or right! 41. or you lock eyes in the mirror. Or more positively. 40. you can both watch the action which can prove to be exceptionally erotic. while you are straddling his lap. or at least understand the repercussions if the relationship goes sour and it ends up online. Both of you should be completely naked. either take steps towards securing the tape so that it may never be leaked online. so that every bit can be seen . Or even a simple full length mirror (preferably the ones incorporated as closet mirror sliding doors) where if she is on all fours and the man is penetrating from behind. Ménage à trois are still regarded as great taboos within society but if your willing. As mirrors are extremely difficult to place on the roof. Viewing yourself whilst having sex can be incredibly erotic and you might just be in for a surprise as to how naughty you may feel at watching such a thing. 39. Life isn’t perfect and relationships do turn ugly more often than not. try buying portable standing mirrors to place behind the bed. However. Here are some more options as far as mirrors are concerned. Thrust slowly.
or for your wedding night – a love heart is quite a romantic gesture. Your sense of everything around you is heightened to compensate for your lack of sight. entering etc. Bondage allows the other person to be in complete control over there partner to do as they please. such roles can be played out without the use of bondage. 44. Men rely on visual stimuli for . in a tent. what they will do or how they will pleasure you. Make sure bonds aren’t too tight. 46. Simply decide who is in control and who must submit to the others every desire. Taking control and demanding can be truly arousing and is worth a try at least once. It increases the intimacy to heightened levels and can really give a sense of connection and bonding. Bondage is also a great way to spice things up. retreating. For many this submission on one side and complete control on the other side can be unbelievably thrilling. 48. When one is without sight. A great way to make your guy go wild is to have the first letter of his name waxed into your public region. 45. 43. how they please. And speaking of romance – as far as women are concerned – there can never be enough romance in the world. and of course – always have a safe word (‘stop’ seems like the most preferable and relevant of the lot). 42. But a new trend that came about in the 21st century is specialised waxing. every touch. to look up and see your partner’s face surrounded by thousands of stars whilst making love can be incredibly emotional.entering. For the one being blindfolded. 47. symbols. You can simply tie both hands above their head. (This is a milder version of S & M). An arrow pointing towards your clit is also a great idea. Camping trip? Just you and your partner. words of hair to be waxed so that the hair reveals such images. It can be highly erotic to watch something like that. Try blindfolding your partner (make sure they aren’t peaking) and have your way with them. Many women prefer a fully waxed pubic area. It is a specific type of waxing that allows certain letters. Speaking of control and submission. or you can do all fours (both hands and feet). every sensation is heightened. And such romantic gestures are sure to create a heightened sense of connection whilst making love. And what could be better than making love under the stars? A great idea is to take that sleeping bag out under the stars. alone. in the middle of nowhere? Try making love within the confines of the sleeping bag. it can be incredibly arousing not knowing what’s coming next.
rose petals and light a few candles here and there. Having a sexual partner typically means that masturbation is no longer a requirement. If you think she isn’t as ready as she could be. 51. first ease one finger inside and let her adjust to the feel and width of it. A great (if somewhat challenging) way to spice up ones sex life is to abstain from having sex for a certain amount of time. thus leading to more frenzied and ultimately satisfying and poignant sex. Try to make her come first through clitoral stimulation so that she is nice and wet and willing. then a third. Feeling really dirty? Porn isn’t as much a taboo as it used to be. Romance may be old fashioned but it is a sure fire way to get any women in the mood. Taking a women’s virginity is always going to be a tricky situation. Guaranteed to sexually arouse any man. try giving her a g-spot . 50. if you want to send your guy wild – masturbate in front of him. He can look all he wants (pant all he wants) but he must refrain from touching you as you pleasure yourself. or even three – hell maybe even a month – the end result could be a soul shattering climax of pent up sexual frustration. Watch some with your partner. Whether you abstain for a week. two. the higher your sexual tension rises. where as women rely on the emotional connection. Then ease a second finger. give her a neck massage or fill a bath with scented soaps. or even have it playing in the background and let the dirty porn stars words beam through the speakers as you have sex. work out some moves or roles to play. Buy your woman flowers or chocolates. as she may be quite nervous for her first time and is unable to relax – buy some lubrication). make sure she is plenty wet (or for good measure. your breasts. As a rule of thumb. touch yourself everywhere. The saying ‘Absence makes the heart grow fonder’ couldn’t be more true in this case. In this day and age of the internet – porn is half the reason for internet alone. However. Or better yet – imitate them. 49. breath heavy and bring yourself to a climax within minutes. the more time you abstain from sex. Combine the touching with loud moans and groans. your clit – but follow one very important rule – he mustn’t under any circumstances touch. as well. Tend to her clit first.arousal. And what better way to show romance than by good old fashion gestures. A great way to achieve such connections is through romance. 52.com has a great variety of free minute to hour long videos that are a great source of inspiration for sexually frustrated couples. Before entering her with your erection though. Try easing her into it by beginning with a heavy round of foreplay. Pornhub.
Here’s a little light reading about “First Time’s”: Having sex for the first time is really an experience that influences our further sex life to a greater or lesser extent. then this is all your gonna give. However many numerous affairs and experiences you go through your life. stretching her in one (painful) thrust. in all force. but if your first time happened with the wrong partner. on a wrong time and as often with a hot temper and head. Women: hate going down on your partner? And don’t like the idea of spraying whipped cream down there every time he wants some head? If you don’t like the idea of using food ‘down there’ then flavored condoms are a great idea. You can either enter her slowly. inch by inch. And yes. It makes giving head that whole lot more fun and won’t leave you gagging for some toothpaste. And you need quite a time before you overcome that first time blunder and learn to see sex as a way to give and achieve ultimate pleasure. Or you can enter to full hilt. At most 17-18 years old your know-how is rather narrow in terms of real relationships. And considering that developing sex into a kind of great thing does require some skills. And I think that the start really has its after effects on your future experience. your first time sex becomes somehow a clumsy trial. Tell your partner that if he wants fellatio. There are two approaches to taking a girls virginity. They come in all different flavours these days and it is almost as if you really are sucking on a lollipop… . especially if it was an "unsuccessful" one. the disappointment becomes a usual thing. this first awkward and somewhat intimidating one is like a bright spot in a book that makes all the other encounters connected with your first intercourse. which are not only techniques and the stuff but your ability to find understanding with your partner on a mutual level. There are two methods of approach here – in which you should discuss with her beforehand on what she would prefer. it is always bound to hurt the first time. And that is not considering a lot of other reasons like curiosity and a desire to feel mature.orgasm (see tip # 88) so that she will be more than wet by the time you finally decide to enter. But the thing is that most often our first time sex takes place in the age where libido urges are pretty insistent and go ahead of our "brain" and our emotional maturity. As I said. Of course with time you learn a lot and you become so to say an expert in some things. stretching her as you go and letting her adjust to the pain. you are more physical than emotional at this age. It is truly up to the female and the first method does seem a lot more preferable. 53.
alcohol and nicotine 55. While you’re down there next. Men: make sure you drink lots of water! A man’s diet has a great deal of influence over the taste of the sperm. Or a very simple and easy way. 58. There is salt in sperm so for some it can be quite pleasurable. 57. pull his pants down to mid thigh. Love bites (or alternatively known as ‘hickeys’) are a great way to pay attention to your lover. Try and contain the love bites to places not visible to others (as much as at the time of giving someone one on the neck seems pleasurable – by morning its more of an embarrassing inconvenience). For guys just below the belly button and just above the penis. For better tasting sperm try: Grapes. melons. For women a great place to give them a hickey is just above the breast – it’s in an erotic spot and isn’t visible to others. apples. Offering to rub sunscreen all over your partner is a great way to stay sun smart as well as cop a feel on a crowded beach. onions. parsley.54. But make sure your hands stay within all safe boundaries when in public. It has been said that if a man consumes pineapple juice on a regular basis. unless the beach is deserted that is… 59. broccoli. others not so much. garlic. add some taste to oral sex by rubbing his penis with a mint-flavored lube. Going to dinner/a wedding/social function and wearing a killer dress? Don’t wear any panties underneath and then just before you leave for the night out tell your guy that you’re not wearing . asparagus. On the opposite end of the spectrum. Love Bites can be somewhat reminiscent of your teenage years (as it is typically prominent among teenagers) and can bring back some pleasant memories. one of the main reasons women hate going down is because of the ‘nasty’ taste of semen/pre-cum. sodas. well then the sperm may end up tasting like gasoline! Make sure you watch your diet. if he smokes a pack of cigarettes every day and drinks a pink of whiskey with dinner. celery. Also. just above the knees. cinnamon. mangos. It limits the movement of his legs and makes him feel like a captive at your mercy. peppermint and lemon For horrible tasting sperm: Cauliflower. sucking or biting the skin forcefully enough to burst blood vessels beneath the skin. his sperm will have a sweeter taste. 56. It goes without saying that one should be sun smart when frolicking on the beach or anywhere out in the sunshine. They are temporary bruises or marks caused by kissing.
And it goes both ways: man to woman. You can stroke his body with your hair. do your thing. you may ticklishly run your eyelashes along his body. woman to man. For guys. Lap Dances are an effective and simple way to arouse your partner. Lap dancing can be quite easy to do as most of the focus is to do solely with the lap area creating friction on the man’s penis and giving him a great shot of your breasts as you move up and down on his lap. A strip tease is a great way to spice up your sex life. straddle him. Massaging your partner can be a great way to increase intimacy in the relationship and give you a chance to make your partner feel good simply with your touch. Take time with the massage. and use it as a form of foreplay. there is no need to master the art of erotic massage in order to please your partner. What you really need is some imagination and a playful mood. For women a great song is “Slave for you”. the best way to do so is to take him aback with a lap dance. 60. The observer should keep to the rule of not touching you during a lap dance (which makes it extremely arousing) and you are trying to virtually seduce your lover with your performance.any panties. Explore every inch of his body until you see him urging for your sweet touch down there. Music is optional. Sit him on a chair. by Britney Spears and “Baby Boy” and “Naughty Girl” by Beyonce. or your breasts. 62. Lap dances are an erotic dance that is usually performed when your partner is seated. 61. Don't rush to his penis or testes (once you turn him over) this you may leave as a dessert. And bear in mind. Massaging with oils are a great idea and the best places to massage are on the neck and the entire back. . For the best access to a full back massage is to place your partner facing down on their stomach with you straddling their buttocks giving you complete access. some basic techniques are easy to learn. any of that corny strip music will be great for a laugh and can be quite effective if you know what you’re doing. It’s bound to have him hot all night knowing that you’re completely bare underneath and only he knows. Here’s a more in depth look at Lap Dances: If you want to give a real surprise to your lover. And for an extra added amount of zing – blind fold him and make sure he stays put in the chair. Though you might not be a professional.
Take off the clothes and look at yourself in the mirror . Blow Bubbles. Nerve endings react to the bubbles. like his shirt or something just as sexy as your lingerie. Sit him down to the chair and position yourself in front of him. Start swaying your hips slowly in tune with music. Take a swig of champagne before you go down. Dress to be undressed It is more essential what's underneath your clothes. Take time to perfect the perfect suck and tweak rhythm making sure to switch between breasts. surprisingly enough. If you start criticizing yourself. Keep in mind that he loves you in spite of all the minor imperfections. On the outside it can be something very simple. Wear something special like sexy stockings. It is verifiably possible for a woman to come through breast stimulation alone so don’t be one of those men who squeeze the area and move on satisfied! There is a whole playing field right there on her chest that will send her wild! 64. imagine yourself as a kitten to make your movements smoother. You can also do some rehearsal: close your eyes. . keep it in your mouth by creating a seal with your lips. This should go without saying but the woman’s body is a place to be explored and one of the most commonly overlooked places on the female body by men. lacey lingerie. but make sure you feel comfortable in your outfit. getting closer to him. Take time to tweak the nipple of one breast between your fingers while you suck on the other one. heightening sensation.How to start Set the mood The most important thing for performing lap dance is to feel sexy and attractive for your beloved one. sway your hips in tune with music. is the breasts.you should admire your own body. Set the scene Turn on the soft relaxing music. then use the tongue to swirl the bubbles around her clitoris. you simply cannot deliver the erotic message to your lover. And did you know a guy’s nipples are just as sensitive as the woman’s? Get to it ladies! 65. And away you go… 63.
69. It helps if preparing for anal with a man of very big proportions. gently touch her labia to make her anticipate pleasure. Do not start right with clitoral stimulation. that plug your anal hole whilst the other hole is being filled by your partner. So you basically just stick it in. play with her pubic hair. give her some time to build up the arousal. They are what they are described to be – plugs. her labia and the opening of vagina. Probably the most common mistake men do when stimulating women's clitoris with their fingers is when they imitate their penis stimulation. First of all. Even if your partner never gets to see you pole dance. But try to (unless the climate does not permit) sleep naked every night. explore her genitals. Slide it up and down the outside lips of your vagina. Take the penis in your hand and rub the end against your clitoris as if it were a finger. Have your man lean against the headboard of your bed. They are designed to be inserted in the anus for sexual pleasure. Keep doing this until either you come. The unclothed body to body contact will increase intimacy levels greatly. Tease her until she will hint you by spreading her legs wider or pushing her thighs forward. Pole dancing is a great way to not only get in shape but sex up your confidence. increasing the hole of your anus. a great addition is a ‘Butt Plug’. Treat her clitoris gently. get your hands on an inflatable butt plug. And hey if you’re lucky and find yourself and your partner on a deserted street with a lamp post… . finding her clitoris.66. and it slowly inflates to a maximum size. Straddle him and place your vagina lightly over his penis. 68. When it comes to her clitoris. teasing your clitoris and all the way up to your belly button. Be mindful though that you are heavily lubricated before inserting one of these. any harsh stimulation can spoil her pleasure. The difference between this and a dildo is that it plugs right where it should be and there is no room for any fall out while your rocking around in pleasure. 67. Or alternatively. for many guys. rubbing her in the wrong place can be quite annoying and ineffective. or he comes on your belly. Toys are a great addition to spice up anyone’s sex life. These are exactly the same as butt plugs except they inflate over time. just knowing that their partner is pole dancing sheds them in a whole new sensual light. Besides. Sleeping naked after sex is often a given for most couples. Besides dildos and vibrators. Run the tips of your fingers over her inner thighs. It’s a simple act with great results and by the morning… well you’re pretty much ready to get at it! 71. 70.
silk panties. Such words that should be used to reach a climax over the phone loosely include: “cock. Text your man racy one-word messages that. hint at what you want him to do to you that night. and a piece of leather to stroke his skin. The rules are simple. what you are going to do to him! 77.” and every other explicit word imaginable. wet. Hint: Make sure she doesn’t move until you instruct her to… she will climax as soon as she does start to thrust against your fingers. Be prepared to be as nasty as possible with your words. does rely solely on words. or rather. Or watch your partner work out. dig your nails into his butt and pull him closer. or the up down jig of the breasts and the sweaty musk smell you only get from hard work can be a great aphrodisiac for some. pussy. This however. clit. make sure to go on a run with your partner. Create a buffet of sensual pleasure by blindfolding your man. your erection placed between her buttocks cheeks. Next. The flexing of the muscles. Every once in a while. and what better way to cool down than some heated shower sex. it’s your turn! .72. her back to your chest. Then alternate using a cashmere glove. Lots of moans are required and of course – the touching is ever so important. 76. Bring your hand around and play with her clit. Men: Have your partner sit down on your naked lap. so dirty talk is a must. thrust. And the results can be off the charts if the right words are used! 74. The friction of her buttocks writing against your erection and her complete submission to let you have your way is sure to have her climaxing in no time. 78. 73. You lose… you lose a piece of clothing along with it… until you’re left with… well… nothing on. 75. but is widely known to release endorphins that make you happy and give you some much needed energy for your sex life. Working out is not only a great way to loose weight. In the middle of intercourse. when strung together. He/She’s half way across the world and your sexual frustration is flaring out of control? Phone sex can be a great way to connect with a partner while they are away. by the time you get home you’ll be undeniably all sweaty. Strip poker can bring a lot of fun into the bedroom. Have her spread her legs out and instruct her not to move a muscle.
leave your jeans on and have her suck your cock through the zipper. This tip might be a little silly to some. just make sure that the time is spent with each other. and then repeating the process. so edging can take any length of time. 84. but the results are always worth it. no radio. 85. 81. Light the fireplace. as you are sliding up his penis. and being so close together and yet not touching the way you want can be a great aphrodisiac as it increases your sexual tension immensely. . finger her under her panties. make some hot chocolate and sprawl out in front of the fire. or someone else’s sexual response. And for guys. or if you’re not married. The clenching of the muscles will help you reach orgasm and give him a tight fit. The glow of the embers can cast both you and your partner in a more appealing light (literally). Edging can be lots of fun and it’s also a great way to deepen your connection to your own. For example. Vacation sex is a great way to spice things up. In girl-on-top. To help you orgasm during missionary. slip a small vibrator over your clitoris while he’s on top. and some may say irrelevant. learning things about each other and exploring each other sexually. The whole point of edging is to prolong and postpone orgasm. The barrier of clothes can make the act seem all that more exclusive and naughty. Vacation is a perfect time to relax and it gives you hours on end to make time to make love. The intimacy of a dance. Panties on a woman during oral can increase the sexual frustration to heightened erotic levels. 80. Treat it as your second honeymoon. For more information on PC muscles see # 90). He’ll also reap the benefits from that extra bit of buzzing on his nerve endings. No TV. Then release and slide back down his penis. If you want to do romance and increase intimacy during sex (hopefully sex on the rug after the hot chocolate) then this will be a great start. contract your vaginal muscles. And choosing a romantic spot such as the Bahamas or the Greek Islands can most certainly do wonders. Pull up a rug. 82. In sexual context ‘edging’ refers to the process of bringing yourself or a partner right up to the point of orgasm and then pulling back before release. 83.79. just the two of you talking and watching the fire. squeezing your way up his member. being so close and yet so far. This is because it basically entails that you must touch without touching. but dancing is a great way to spice things up.
If you choose the right positions. Here’s a technique called ‘The Slide’. You can try it doggy style or in the spooning position (both of you lying on your sides. The right rotation . she should arch her back slightly and not put her head down on the bed. While the scientific community may still be divided on the G-spot’s existence. but it’s also highly effective in triggering mindblowing female orgasms. you should be somewhere close to the G-spot. If you put your finger insider her vagina with your palm up while she’s on her back and then bring your fingers up in a “come hither” motion. the penis should rub against the front wall of the vagina. but you can also incorporate it into intercourse. It can be remarkably easy to find in some women. Locating the G-spot can be an epic quest. like cowgirl and its variations. G Spot and G spot positions: The G-spot: some think it’s a myth. This probably has a lot to do with the fact that when she’s on top. She’s on top Many women prefer positions in which they are on top. She can try leaning forward or back while adjusting the speed and pressure applied to the G-spot. and she’ll tell you that it’s definitely there. 87. You can try lifting her hips a little and thrusting in a downward motion to perfect this G-spot position. allowing her to find the arrangement that feels best to her. others are convinced that it’s not only real. facing the same way as you enter her from behind) for a more relaxed option. you get a fantastic view and she’ll enjoy having her nipples gently stimulated by rubbing on the mattress. ask any woman who has had a G-spot orgasm.86. are great for hitting the G-spot because the woman can angle her hips just right. you’ll have a greater chance of hitting her G-spot. Get her to kneel on the end of the bed with her upper chest touching the mattress. while in others it’s almost impossible. In order to have the greatest chance of success with a rear-entry position. Manual stimulation of the G-spot may be the easiest way to explore its possibilities. and she wants you to stimulate it. It makes her feel tighter. This creates a steep angle for her back and elongates the vaginal barrel. while you stand behind her. From behind Rear-entry positions are some of the most reliable when it comes to stimulating the G-spot during intercourse. Everyone’s a winner. she’s in control. Woman-on-top positions. When she’s on all fours.
She then can rock back and forth. Your partner should straddle you in the cowgirl position and then lean back. it may sooner no longer bring her that pleasure she once experienced. Start off like you would if you were using the missionary position. this position is referred to as The Flower Press. During arousal and intercourse. At some point she may want your fingers inside her vagina and then again on her clitoris. then once you have penetrated her. and excessive food will not contribute to a better erection. Avoid monotony. so she can have the best of both worlds. putting her weight on her arms behind her body. she should lift her legs up and back until they are pressed against your chest or over your shoulders. like celery and tomatoes. It is better to use your fingers playfully. 89. especially if you plan a hot evening. You can lean against her thighs for support while she grabs your hips and brings you closer for maximum penetration. Heels over head Positions in which her feet are on your chest or shoulders are also great G-spot positions. Once in position. Do not overeat. the blood flows to your penis. This G-spot position is difficult to maintain for a long time since it will tire her arms quite quickly. This G-spot position works because of the angle of the penis as it enters and the depth it can reach. your fingers may become useless. If your technique becomes predictable. 88. The angle makes her vagina tighten up. touching her outside and inside and keep up with her needs. If she is not fully aroused. nuts. Fusion To get into the fusion position. Then she should carefully lean down until she can grab your ankles and is lying on top of you. facing away. olive oil and other healthy foods in your diet. sit up with your legs stretched out in front of you and your arms behind you for support. Start by lying flat on your back with her straddling you. It's better to include vegetables. seafood. she can move up and down or circle her hips in a figure-8 pattern. but trying it out is worth it since the angle and motion are great for hitting the Gspot. so the rubbing of the penis provides intense G-spot pleasure.Rotated Woman is a tantric sex position that is excellent for stimulating the G-spot. She may also get some clitoral stimulation in this position. . In tantra. There is no need to focus all your attention on her clitoris.be receptive to small clues she gives you. Fast-food and alcohol will make you sluggish in bed that won't look sexy for your partner. Also sticking your fingers inside her vagina right from the start is not a good idea.
continuing your way up her back and buttocks. You can squeeze your PC muscles around your own fingers. Voila! 91. Touching Her skin is very receptive to touch so use your hands to awaken her body. Place your hand on her knee or on her thighs when she is not expecting it. It is very simple to do. Licking Your tongue is a best tool when you explore her body. right? Well. She will feel a nice tingle that will attune her for something more spicy. Do not pinch too hard as it can actually be a turn-off.90.this is effective technique that is both relaxing and arousing. Pinching Use your fingers to softly pinch her moan zones . PC muscle (the muscles of your vagina) exercising not only strengthens her vaginal muscles but also intensifies her sensations. you held it in by clenching the muscles of your vagina together. Massage her erogenous zones using gliding strokes of your hands . that’s all you need to do. Here are 10 foreplay tricks she will love: Kissing Give her gentle kisses all over her body to find her sensitive spots. Use your lips only while kissing.many women like sensations that are slightly painful. Just clench in and out. Well. You may be surprised to discover new hidden zones on the back of her neck or inner thighs. Be gentle not to leave marks on her skin or she might not enjoy your initiative. right now in fact. sex toys or around your man’s penis. For women. This can make her purr with pleasure. Scratching Lightly scratch her back and buttocks or draw lines with your fingers. For warming up you can start from her neck and ears working down to her navel and belly. Skillful lovers know that the tongue can be even more artful in bringing women to orgasm. She might like if you pinch her nipples or . The most important thing here is to keep to a happy medium. Remember back to a time when you needed to pee so badly but weren’t within reach of a bathroom. slowly gliding them along her skin waking her body with every touch of your lips. And you can do it sitting down at your desk. Spontaneous moves are highly appreciated by ladies so do not ignore small signs of attention outside the bedroom. Keep it wet and your tongue flat and relaxed while fluttering along her body.
Taste your partner’s sperm. Keep to a happy medium while performing spanking . Nothing is better than waking up to oral strokes from your lover. 93.buttocks .go on to set your wild passion free. You can add more sensual treat to your play stroking her erogenous zones with a silk scarf or a feather while blowing. 92. breasts or butt.if she moans and wriggles . The key to pleasant biting is her feedback. her ears and her clitoris for delicate stimulation. This can make her wriggle with pleasure but don't expose her to cold touch too long. These are most receptive zones for sensual biting. once she climaxes and comes all over your fingers pull them out and suck all the juices off your fingers. If you’re a guy fingering a girl. Though be careful as she might reach orgasm faster than intercourse starts. Blowing Blow on her neck.it stimulates her nerve centers and make her feel an amazing mix of sensations. Give oral sex while your partner is asleep. Biting Give her quick light bites on her ears. sensual dream and then they’ll wake up and realise it’s you who is physically pleasuring them. Spanking is a source of sexual pleasure for many women who enjoy feeling like a "bad girl" while you "punish her". Breathing warm air on her sensitive zones is a good non-touch technique for teasing. stroking her butt with your palms and then spank her. Vibrating A nice buzz of vibrator on her hot spots can become an unforgettable experience for her. Cooling Take an ice cube in your mouth and run it between her shoulder blades or her belly. Your partner will think he/she is just having a wonderfully erotic. Be careful not to bite too intense or you can cross her pain threshold. stroking her butt from time to time. inner thighs. It’s so carnal it’s bound to . Using a vibrator for massaging her erogenous zones can bring unforgettable sensations to her especially when performed by you. neck.do it light and soft so as not to hurt her. Her buttocks are full of nerve endings and that gives intense sensations. Make sure to warm her sensitive zones rubbing her skin with your hands after cooling. Spanking Warm her up. Vibrations are more than welcome if you use them on her most intimate zones.
Your naked breasts will be clearly visible underneath and your nipples will be hardened peaks through the fabric from the cold of the water.make her all hot with erotic thoughts. As he is waiting for you to come into the bedroom. with each time in the photo revealing more and more of your clothes being shed. 97. Place it just outside the front door. Girls: Remove the condom for him. When he gets home. 98. Continue to place the photos in a trail leading towards the bedroom. It is the simplest way of showing that you care about him. 95. Put that photo a few feet away from the first. Women: Right before he is about to climax. Teenage fantasy. go for some soulful RnB music like Usher. but with one item of clothing taken off your body. It allows him to plunge really deep as he explodes with pleasure. Ever seen those scenes in the movies where the actors are going at it like rabbits with heavy rock music blaring in the background? Well. he can follow the photos all the way to the bedroom where you will be waiting. 99. Probably the most simple of all tips is this one. spread your legs really wide (as wide as you possibly can). Listening to music during sex can be a great booster and can take care of any awkward silences you may have during sex. send your guy wild by pulling his penis out of your vagina during sex and licking your juices off his penis. Before he gets home from work take a photo of yourself fully clothed in your most desirable outfit. stark naked. put on a white t-shirt and completely drench it with water. Abandoned road. Three lines. Or if you’re in the mood for some serious. almost like a thank you for the great orgasm he may have just given you. Stick to whatever gets you in the mood though. and be mindful that every genre of music can be used for different types of sex. Enough said… his tongue will be wagging. Walk out and watch as his jaw drops! 96. 94. The next photo should reveal you again. slow love making. . Back Seat. Or better yet. Get him to take the final photo. when opting for some pounding hardcore sex go for some straight out Heavy Metal like Metallica.
It might be hard work for some but it will be most definitely be worth it in the end. Man is sitting with his legs wide open. control your orgasm and work together so that you can both orgasm at the same time. The reason is simple: being the receiver in the process of lovemaking.Woman on top: How to ride a man. For a woman. resting on her elbows and her legs around man's waist. 6. woman lies on her back . In order to derive most pleasure from this on top sex position. There are a lot of variations to woman on top sex position. Woman on top sex positions can be not only very gratifying for a woman but also one of the most favorite guy's position. he can simply enjoy the ride while watching the beautiful curves of the female body. 101. at least every once in a while. woman is sitting on him facing away. woman faces away from man.Try to. woman leans forward towards man's face. it is most important that you both feel comfortable. Man is sitting. 5.100. woman is lying on him with her legs along his body. Man lies on his back. Throughout all these variations though. 3. Man lies on his back. 2. However. Man lies on his back.facing the man. woman embraces him sitting on top and facing him. resting on her hands. That way no one is left behind and the combined feeling of both of your releases is a spectacular must try. women and men need to find the best comfortable and enjoyable angle to move. finding the right angle can be crucial to increasing her pleasure as well as his. 4. Man is sitting with his legs wide open. being on top doesn't only mean you sit there and move. You can choose some of these: 1. .
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