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Infidelity-Suport

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Published by Coleta Stewart
After infidelity, support can be critical in getting rid of anger and resentment so that you can move on to rebuilding the love you once had.
After infidelity, support can be critical in getting rid of anger and resentment so that you can move on to rebuilding the love you once had.

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Published by: Coleta Stewart on Sep 23, 2010
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Surviving Infidelity – Support to Rebuild the Love in Your Relationship

written by: Coleta Stewart http://www.EmotionalAffairAdvice.com

Surviving Infidelity – Support to Rebuild the Love in Your Relationship

Surviving Infidelity – Support to Rebuild the Love in Your Relationship
To feel love and not anger and resentment for your spouse after they've cheated on you is very difficult to do. For one thing you may feel that they are not telling you the whole truth or responding to you in a meaningful way. Learning to rekindle the love feelings in your marriage can be done with a little help and the right kind of infidelity support – whether it comes from a marriage counselor or some other type of infidelity program. Not letting go of anger only fosters resentment in the long run and this can be a major stumbling block toward rebuilding the love in your marriage. To make this work, you will need to change the way you communicate with your spouse and also change the way you view him. Right now he is your enemy, the person who hurt you terribly, but continuing to view him as such only serves to undermine your efforts to rebuild the marriage. Start to look upon him as your friend (easier said than done, right?). Another thing you need to do is to open and maintain the lines of communication with your spouse. You have to get your feelings, thoughts, needs, and desires out in the open if you are serious about repairing your marriage. Productive communication means talking about your hurt feelings and resentments without blaming the other person. Affairs of the heart are very complex to sort out, so there is no way that an article like this can provide you with all the help you need. There are many infidelity support and help programs out there for you. You need a step-by-step method like the “How to Restore the Love” program to keep you focused and on the right track. Be assured that with commitment and the right skills, you can rebuild the love that you once had.

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