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Table of Contents
PREFACE ..................................................................................................................................................... 3 INTRODUCTION ........................................................................................................................................ 5 FINDING YOUR PURPOSE ....................................................................................................................... 8 MAKING A DECISION............................................................................................................................. 10 START WITH A VISION .......................................................................................................................... 13 SETTING GOALS ...................................................................................................................................... 16 Prioritize Your Goals .......................................................................................................................... 18 TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE ........................................................................................ 20 Decide What You Want........................................................................................................................ 21 Develop a Plan .................................................................................................................................... 22 Take Action.......................................................................................................................................... 23 WHAT IS YOUR SELF-IMAGE? ............................................................................................................ 26 SELF-CONFIDENCE IS VITALLY IMPORTANT ............................................................................... 27 HAVE THE RIGHT ATTITUDE ............................................................................................................. 28 WHAT ARE YOUR VALUES? ................................................................................................................ 30 NOTHING TO FEAR FROM FAILURE ................................................................................................ 32 POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND BELIEVING IN YOURSELF .............................................................. 34 BE COMMITTED ...................................................................................................................................... 37 FOCUS ON THE PATH AHEAD ............................................................................................................. 39 PRACTICE VISUALIZATION ................................................................................................................ 40 MEDITATE................................................................................................................................................. 41 PRACTICE AFFIRMATIONS ................................................................................................................. 42 BE PERSISTENT ....................................................................................................................................... 43 SUMMARY ................................................................................................................................................. 45

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Preface
If you want success, you cannot sit and wait for it, you have to go out and seize it. You must take action and you must be ready to be successful. This book will help to show you how that is possible. It will show you how to be successful and how to realize success. This is the main purpose of this book.

What makes a person successful, how does one person find success while another person does not? Is there something in that person that prevents them from realizing their dreams, while in another person there is a set of principles that allow them to achieve success? In this book, I will address that and show in examples from my own life how I was able to achieve success by having a certain number of success principles that I was able to implement and succeed with.

Is there a trick to all this? Can only a few people achieve what I am talking about or can we all? Remember, there are two types of people in this world, there are those who do not try and achieve anything, hoping that something good will happen, and then there are those who do try and achieve things by having the right principles in place. These are the people who succeed and go on to great heights.

If you want to have success, you need to know how to achieve it and to do that you need to know the principles that can make it happen. I will present these principles to you so you

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The ability to change our lives is in all of us. We can change things and make things better for ourselves. We need to stop waiting for outside influences to come along and change things for us. This is not how things are done and it is not how I will teach you to find success.

So, let’s begin putting together the wheels of success.

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Introduction
Did you know that you have the power to change your life? Did you know that you can, right now, stop living in a life you don’t enjoy and change things so you can have a life you love? You can do it right now, the power is in you. The unfortunate thing is that so many people don’t even realize that they have this ability. They don’t know that they can change their lives at this very moment. You can change your life right now, and you need to tell the universe that you are going to. Whether you believe it or not, when you choose to make a change within your life, the universe stops and it takes notice of what you are asking.

What you resist persists. What you fear perseveres. This is something you need to understand because when you don’t try and make a change, and you only let what you fear rule you, it will stay around. You need to say “NO!” and you need to stop it. You need to stand up, rise up and make the change in your life.

The principles in this book will ignite a spark in you that will change everything about your life. Just a few of the things that will change are:

1. The way you live your life. 2. The way you look at your life. 3. The way you respond to challenges 4. The way you respond to problems

These principles will help you enter a new phase of your life where you begin to learn how to do things so you are successful. It will create new directions for you. You have to be the change you want to see . Everything will be new to you now. You are going out on a new journey that I have already been on. This does not happen. It will show you that you have to stand up and take notice of your life and make a change in it. The way you respond to events. I will assist you in helping your dreams come true by showing you a new way that you can look at yourself and life in general. Throughout this book. rather than how to complain about things not going your way. This book is going to create new things for you. 6. and for that I envy you. I am excited for you because you are entering a new path in your life. and it will create new habits for you. The way you respond to new circumstances in your life. so you make sure that you enjoy it as much as possible. This is the first day of the rest of your life and this moment when you begin to change is a sweet one.Page 6 5. You will notice that these life principles change the way you do things and the way you think. So many people just sit around waiting to win the lottery or hoping that change will come and slap them in the face.

No longer are you going to drive your life on bald tires with no direction as to where you are going. Good luck! . we are going to begin and get you learning how to have the wheels of success under you. You will have wheels of success driving you through life and you are going to use them to achieve things you never even thought possible. You spend your life living in chains and you don’t even realize that you have the key to unlock them! So.Page 7 in your life.

they will still play. You need to find your purpose of your life. What did you want to be when you were younger? 5. you would be happy to do it. ask yourself these questions: 1. Your purpose is something that even if you did it for free. If you had to do one thing your entire life. but if they were paid nothing. what would it be? 4. Your purpose is something inside of you. What is your reason for being alive? Do you have a reason? Do you simply exist without any force driving you? This does not mean making money is your purpose.Page 8 Finding Your Purpose We all need a purpose. When you are not working. It is why it is so hard for many of them to retire. Those are false purposes that blind us to the real purposes in our lives. What do you love? 2. To find your purpose. your purpose is something different. What do you day dream about doing? . what do you enjoy doing? 3. Your purpose is why you start up in the morning and it is the foundation by which you base your entire life. but many of do not even realize what our purpose is. They can’t leave their passion. No. or getting promoted. Sports athletes get paid millions of dollars to do what they do. a talent you have and a gift that you have that you can give to the world. We all need a reason to get out of bed in the morning. Why? The reason is because the sport is their passion. It is who they are.

writing. Maybe your passion is traveling. only you know the answer to that. What career would make you proud of yourself? These are very important questions to ask yourself because they will tell you what your passion is. we can continue on. what would you do that would give you the most satisfaction? 7. no one can tell you what your passion is. but they end up choosing something that is wrong. they are probably going to be wrong. Remember. We all have passions. They think they do.Page 9 6. If you were to be paid nothing for doing something. singing. but so many people don’t know what their passion is. and this is very important. sports or something like making crafts. Only you know your passion and if someone tells you what your passion is. . Now that you have begun to identify your passion and realize the importance of it.

you need to make a decision as to where to go. but only one has a good outcome. what do you do? You have to guess. You have a one in three chance of success and a two in three chance of failure. Who are you making a promise to? You are making a promise to yourself to achieve a result that you hope will be favorable.Page 10 Making a Decision Decisions are important. Right now. . Therefore. You have three choices in front of you. This is why you need to be sure about your decisions. This is what happens when you make a decision without knowing where you want to go. The decision you make puts you on a specific path and you stay on that path. When you make a decision. you cannot take the decision back. you are looking to achieve a certain result. you are making a decision. You are making a decision that will change your life. You are trying to achieve a result and you are making a promise. Once a decision is made. There is a theory that there are universes created for every decision that is made. we are choosing a course for our lives. If you are driving down the road and you come to a crossroads without a map. you are making an informed decision to have a better life and that can only lead to a good outcome. When we make a decision. but you can’t go back and not make the decision. You can fix the consequences of the decision. Rather than be one of those people who makes a blind decision and hopes for a good outcome.

Don’t have negative people around you because they will only criticize your decisions and make you second guess them. how are you going to make the right decision? A decision that comes from you and no other people? Well. They will undermine your confidence and you need your confidence if you are going to be able to make a change in your life. This is almost guaranteed to give you a better outcome because you will make a proper decision that will lead you to a proper result. You will know what to expect because you will have the map to guide you. Surround yourself with winners because winners will encourage you. here are just a few of the ways to keep you from being directionless. if you come to that same crossroads and you have a map. You will know that you won’t run out of gas halfway down the road. You want people who have big ideas and can inspire you. Stop associating yourself with mediocre people who are only a drain on you. or a pawn for others and their own decisions: 1. You will know that you will make your destination easier because you will know the road is better. 3. They are succeeding in their own lives and they want you to succeed as well. So. there is no way to know if you are going to be successful. you can choose where you want to go based on information you have at your disposal. .Page 11 Now. Without knowing where you want to go. 2. not people who keep you down by not making progress in their own lives.

Some things you can decide on are: a. Business clubs b. You need to surround yourself with people who think like you and there are many things you can join to do that including: a. Community Groups d. Mastermind Groups c. Do you want to increase your income in the next year? b. Toastmasters By choosing to make a decision now. Do you want to have a second-income doing something you love? 5. Think of a strategy for your decision-making and determine what it is you want to achieve.Page 12 4. . you set the course for your future.

Your vision is the result of what you want and it is a way for you to get the new and better results that you have been hoping for. Your vision is what you want your life to be like in a certain amount of time. whether it is financial. • Finally. • The more you think about your vision. Like a baby in the womb. When a child is created through conception. or it could take a few years. it is born. • Like the child. . and this and this. your vision comes to fruition. How is a vision created? Well. you need to know where you want to go and to have that. Your vision starts as an idea and you begin to think. the more it grows and the more it takes shape. Your vision is where you want to be and what you want to be. some would say that a vision is like the creation of a child. just like a baby is. You have an idea. there is a seed that begins the process of growth. it starts as nothing more than a seed and it grows into something more. your vision may only take a few weeks. “To be a writer I need to do this. you need to have a vision. over time it grows from being nothing more than a cell to a human being.Page 13 Start With a Vision Remember what I said about having to have a map for your decisions? Well. Your vision begins the same way. spiritual or personal. Your vision is the better life that you have been hoping for. “I want to be a writer” and from that you begin to grow the vision until it is born. While a baby takes nine months to go from nothing to something.” Now you have a growing vision because you are looking at how you are going to make it happen. it really depends completely on you.

it will spread like bad weeds in your brains’ fertile soil. . then it is like having poison in the soil. 2. You need to ignore those people who tell you that you are wrong. if your brain is full of confidence and thoughts of achieving your dreams. Visions are very important if you want to be successful. 4. and that is wrong. Now. Do not think it won’t happen because once doubt comes in. Have a vision of what you want and then all you have to do is figure out going from Point A (now) to Point B (the vision). changing your life and changing you as well. Think about your vision positively all the time. Who knows you better than you know yourself? Why should they tell you what to do? 3. You need to be confident in yourself and your decision.Page 14 Your brain needs to be fertile soil for your vision. How can you realize your vision then? 1. Now your brain is fertile soil and the vision you create can grow quickly and flower. then it is completely different. You have to know where you are going and you have to have a vision to do that. They are what will allow you to realize your dreams. Your vision will die before it has a chance to flower. If your brain is full of doubts and worries.

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4. 2. and in many ways it is. it can be much easier to achieve goals than if you do not have much support around you. 3. The school we attend – If you attend a good school. A positive environment can mean the difference between failed goals and achieving goals. The better the attitude you have about your . you may have higher goals than someone who lives in a poor area. However. and to reach that vision you need goals. Well. Our friends and family – If you have a lot of support around you. Where we live – If you live in an area that has a good economy.Page 16 Setting Goals In the last part. and our work environment. a vision is also more than a goal. Throughout all of these factors. It is a way of life. Our environment – This can be the environment we are in at home. including: 1. you will probably have a better life than if you attend a poor school. the biggest thing that dictates success in your life and the achievement of goals is the attitude you have. I prefer to think of goals as stepping stones towards a vision and that is why setting goals are so important. There are several factors that influence our lives. I talked to you about having a vision. many people will say that a vision is a goal.

So. you are not thinking. The important thing is to not think about what you are writing down. good or bad. you can then set goals. This brainstorming will not only help you create goals. . All are connected together to form the roadmap for your success and your ideal life. When you do this. So. like I mentioned in the previous chapter. you can create a vision for yourself. When you brainstorm. when you brainstorm you write down every idea you have. but it will help you lay the seeds that will become your vision. or choosing a vision. how do you go about setting your goals? Well. you will be shocked at the amazing ideas that come about because of your brainstorming. by knowing why you exist. I want to tell you to remember that there are no limits in your life except the limits that you put on yourself.Page 17 life and yourself. It is not a matter of finding your purpose and doing it. It is only after you are done this stream-of-consciousness idea generation that you go through and eliminate the good goals and ideas from the bad. By having a vision. Don’t understand? Well. the better the chance that you are going to see success. well you are but you are thinking in a different way. Remember when I talked about purpose? Well. Before I show you how to go about creating your goals. when you brainstorm you are thinking without thinking. Everything I talk about here is connected. the first thing you need to do is brainstorm. Too few people actually sit down and brainstorm and this is very unfortunate.

3. Okay. • • What date do you want to achieve this goal by? Is this a goal that will continue on for a long-time.Page 18 Prioritize Your Goals Okay. Remember. this is what you need to do in order to create clear and concise goals for yourself. Brainstorm a list of as many goals as you can possibly think of. or is your goal to buy a new car? . or is it a one-time goal? For example. now that you have your list done. select 10 goals from the list and write out the reasons why you want to achieve those particular goals. the better able you will be to visualize it. is your goal to create a business that thrives for 20 years. with your goals you need to: • Include all the information you need about the goal. no matter how small. 1. 2. select three goals that are the most important in your life and put those goals into point form based on the objectives you need to meet the goals. The better you understand your goal. When you are done brainstorming.

you need to find a way to remind yourself of the goals.Page 19 Okay. Therefore. and you are going to put them on index cards. If you forget about your goals. you are not going to achieve your goals. there should be about three of them by now. If you work in an office. Why are you putting your goals on index cards? Well. there is a very good reason for this. let’s make it a bit more official. So. 2. 1. When you wake up in the morning. What you are going to do now is take the goals that you created. now that you have your goals done up and ready to go in your head and on a piece of paper. you will put the index cards up on the wall in front of you. it can be much easier to achieve your goals. When you go to bed that night. you will read the goals aloud to yourself. 3. When you have a quantifiable and visual representation of your goals. you will read the goals aloud to yourself and think about how close you have come so far to achieving them. you will put the goals on the index cards and you will do the following. Another great thing to do is to have a chart that you put on the wall that lets you track your goals. . You can also have your goals put in your wallet so you always have them with you and can refer to them when you wonder why you are on a certain path.

1. You have to take responsibility for your life. . They think that the reason they hate their life is because of things out of their control. oh no. of course you don’t. Develop a plan for what you want. 2. You fail because you believe you will fail and you have to think positively and know that you will succeed. Do not sit and complain about other people and be envious of what others have achieved. Thankfully. Nothing is out of your control and the sooner you stop blaming others for your life.Page 20 Take Responsibility for Your Life One of the biggest problem people have is that they do not take responsibility for their lives. oddly enough many people ask how they are supposed to take charge of their life. This does not mean you take responsibility for part of your life. They think that the problems that exist in their life are not their fault. You need to take responsibility for 100 percent of your life and for who you are. Do you want other people criticizing you for your choices? Well. so you should not criticize other people for the choices that they make. Stop blaming people because you feel you fail and stop making excuses for why you fail. You need to take charge of your life and you need to do it now. Decide what it is that you want. the sooner you will be able to start changing your life. Now. I have an easy way for you to do it. Be proud of who you are and choose to make the change you want in your life.

Failure is only something to be afraid of if you do not have confidence in yourself. rather than making change happen. let’s look at these in more detail. The reason for this is that they are afraid to take risks. Most people. It is a horrible way to live and so many people all around us live this exact way and it is most unfortunate. What this is called is entitlement mentality. along with a purpose and goals. never decide what it is that they want out of life. Take action on what you want. nor what they even want out of life. They wish for something to change their lives but of course that wish never comes true. This is when people have no clear idea in their head of what they want to achieve in life. What do you want? What do you want to take responsibility for? . The people who are afraid to fail will sit around and hope that change comes to them. You have to decide what you want in life and that comes from having a clear and concise vision. They do not want to fail and there are so many people who are afraid to fail.Page 21 3. This is why deciding what you want is the first step in taking responsibility for your life. Decide What You Want You have the power to choose what you want in your life and that means you have to decide what you want in your life. oddly enough. Now.

2. The steps you will need to take for each goal. To achieve your goals and take responsibility for your life. 4. Remember the goals you wrote down? Well. There is planning involved and if you do not plan. With your action plan. The deadlines you will be setting for yourself. you have to have a desire to achieve those goals and that is why those goals are tied to your vision and why your vision is tied to your passion. One thing you will find in my writing is that I do not expect you to simply make a decision to change your life and just go with it. The information you will need to gather. you will determine the following: 1. The people who you are going to need to talk to. you will be doomed to failure and that is something that you do not want. You used brain storming to create your goals and you can use brain storming for your action plan to create a to-do list that helps you achieve your goals and take responsibility for your life. 3.Page 22 Develop a Plan Once you have decided what you want. . you need to plan for how you are going make that change. something you need to create is an action plan. Failure is not an option at any point.

so just do it! .Page 23 Once you have brain stormed these ideas. The most important thing here is to not delay starting your new action plan. The longer you delay. you will have your items organized based on when you want to achieve them by. When you first start out on your plan. this action list is important because it helps change your dream into a plan. you will need to put your to-do list into what I call a daily action list. Jumping in gets you in the lake faster and gets you used to the change in temperature faster. when you want to start them by and their priority in your life. With your action list. the more it is going to fade in your memory. you may want to concentrate on all the things that can go wrong and this is the absolute wrong thing to do. now we are in the meat and potatoes of this! You have planned everything to the smallest detail. while the plan helps you accomplish it. Remember. Take Action All right. The difference between a dream and a plan is that your dream opens up the desire in you to do something. It’s like getting into a cold lake. You have to do it right away. so let’s get you ready to put it all into action. You can tip-toe around it. and slowly get in while thinking of how cold it is. or you can just jump in.

People will have similar goals as you and they will find you so they can work with you. It’s true the defining moment of taking action always gets the miracles going . You begin to attract others who will support and encourage you. All good things begin to flow in your direction once you begin to take action. you are creating things that will help you move towards success. Things that once appeared difficult begin to be easier.it’s magical. From them you begin to learn things from your experience that cannot be learned from listening to others or from reading books.Page 24 When you take action in your life. . more efficiently and more quickly. Try it. You begin to get feedback about how to do it better. Things that once seemed confusing begin to become clear. Open a special file marked ‘goals accomplished’ and file all the information you will gather on a specific goal including: • • • • • Your research notes Minutes you took with companies Notes you made with people you talked to Dates of appointments Dates of telephone calls you made.

Page 25 Once after a quarter. this will inspire you to persevere when the going gets rough. half yearly and year end. go through the list of your achievements no matter how small they may look in your eyes. .

Your self image is how you see yourself and it is the image that has been formed based on the past experiences of your youth.Page 26 What is Your Self-Image? How do you see yourself? When you look at yourself in the mirror do you see a confident person. then you will not have the confidence to make the change in your life to be successful. or do you see a timid person? Do you know who you are? These are very important questions because they deal with your self image. your self-image has a great deal to do with your success because if you have a poor self image. When you are able to take your self-image and change it to something that is more positive. or that you will be able to be a success. then you accept this as the truth of who you are. . and the image has been formed. The truth is that someone who feels that they do not deserve success will not find success in life. There is a direct correlation between success and confidence and confidence comes from having a good self-image. Once you have created an idea in your head of what you are. then you will begin to find success in your life. Now. You will not believe that you have unique talents. what happens if your self-image does not lend itself to you being successful? Simply put. A healthy self-image is very important for creating the type of success we are talking about in this book.

. then you need to have selfconfidence. Self-confidence is important and the fact that you are reading this report shows that you are looking for self-confidence. or you already have the self-confidence to find success.Page 27 Self-Confidence Is Vitally Important If you are going to have any sort of success in your life. Thankfully. You need self-confidence for success. The first thing you need to do is look at yourself and do the following: • • • Identify the blocks to your confidence. Self-confidence is tied directly with how you see yourself. Defeat the blocks to your confidence. If you don’t think you are successful before you start. You can get rid of low selfconfidence by destroying procrastination through action. then you will not be able to make the decisions. then you cannot be confident for success. there are ways to get through low self-confidence. it is good for you. If you are not confident in yourself and your decisions. If you are not confident in your decisions. Unlock the blocks to your confidence and find success. Either way. If you procrastinate your decisions. One of the biggest tell-tale signs of a low self-confidence is procrastination. then this is the perfect scenario. You will doubt that success is going to come your way and you will think that success is something better left to successful people. then you won’t be successful and that is all there is too it.

What you are. Your actions. and when you talk to yourself. Your decisions. . Your attitude influences: • • • • • Who you are. If you have a good attitude. This is very powerful because this right attitude will then get your subconscious mind working over time to make those beliefs into reality. then your thoughts will turn into true beliefs for you. However. and have a good attitude about it all the time. you need to have a good attitude because you need to be optimistic about the success that you will have in your future.Page 28 Have the Right Attitude Attitude is everything in life. you see the glass as half-full. Attitude determines if you are an optimist or pessimist. Your attitude influences everything you do. you see the glass as half-empty. if you have a bad attitude. To succeed. Your attitude dictates how you see the world. what you say to yourself is having a strong influence on which you are. When you think about something in a good way. Your behavior.

then you will see bad luck. your good attitude and your subconscious mind will begin to attract: • • • • Events Circumstances Situations People All four of these will help you reach the desired result that you want and it all comes through having a good attitude. If you think with a bad attitude. your thoughts become things and those things become reality. Remember. However. then you will see good luck. if you think with a good attitude. bad days and bad spirits.Page 29 Without even knowing it. thinking about how the worst can happen. However. Your attitude is a driver for your destiny and the question is what destiny do you want for yourself? A good one or a bad one? . good days and good spirits. if you are sitting around thinking about how things can go wrong with your decisions. then you will reach that success much easier. then you will create that worst case scenario. If you are only thinking about success and what you will do when you are successful.

you must know what is important to you. hence the word.Page 30 What Are Your Values? Everyone has values. One of the most important things you can do is prioritize your values. but they are also what we value the most. This may mean more time with them. Values can take a variety of forms including our ethics. What will lead you to a better life? Will it be time with your family? Will it be a bigger house? Will it be traveling around the world? . and below the value of time with your children. For example: If you find that your values for monetary wealth ranks below that of your value of entertainment. and like habits. What values do you have? You will notice that the goals you set for yourself are based off your values. if your value for entertainment is the highest. even if you do not even realize it. then you will know what is most important to you. To know what you want to prioritize. then you will focus more on investing in entertainment and showing your friends and family that you are a good entertainer. If your top value is your children. then your children are your wealth and you will therefore work to ensure that your career focuses on your children. These values are created in our lives and they help to dictate what we do and who we are. Values are essentially habits. There have been many people who have valued money over everything but have eventually discovered that they value spirituality more. or a career that helps them in their lives. Hence. your values can change. However. their value structure changes from one focused on monetary wealth to one focused on spiritual wealth.

Look at your values know and rank them to see where you stand. .Page 31 The choice is yours to determine what values are your most important and how you are going to change your values to get what you truly want out of life.

Fear will only try and hold you back. Listen to audio CDs from others who have experienced fear and beaten it. To beat fear. and you cannot get rid of fear or doubt forever. self-doubt. If you allow fear to block you. This is why you have to stop it.Page 32 Nothing to Fear from Failure Franklin Roosevelt once said that there was nothing to fear but fear itself. you must learn to take risks that you have calculated and to take that leap of faith with the trust that you will be okay in the end. it will hold you back. Trust in yourself. there are ways for you to deal with fear and its evil twin. Read books about conquering fear. and this is very true. . There is no way to never be afraid again. then you will never get anywhere. Attend seminars about fear. You need to be able to beat it. The important thing to understand is that you will experience fear when you are going into the unknown. which you may have as you go through the various stages of changing your life. This is natural. However. If you have fear. Fear and doubts will arise on a successful journey. push it aside and work through it. Some ways to do this include: • • • • • Building up your confidence so that fear does not take such a hold on you.

You must control the fear and make it work for you. it is very hard to win that way. Instead. you are using the fear as a motivator to better yourself and to find success in your life. You need to look at fear the same way.Page 33 Never let fear control you. you are redirecting the energy of the fear to work for you to your desired result. you are redirecting their energy to defend yourself. you are not fighting the person in front of you. In Kung Fu. In a way. . You are not battling fear head-to-head.

Before we can change. we must be able to accept full responsibility for everything we do. When your mind says you can’t do something. Many people procrastinate because they have made up their minds that they are going to fail. All this comes down to believing in you. the most important thing you can do today is to stop believing what the procrastination demon has been telling you. If you are one of these people. As human beings we are unique because of our ability to change to become more than what we are. Just like how I talked about positive attitudes. then you will only become second-best. You have to believe that you are worth something and that you can achieve anything that you want. how will you be able to achieve the goals that you want? A belief in you is a burning desire to be successful and to realize your hopes. If you do not believe in yourself. That way.Page 34 Positive Thoughts and Believing In Yourself You have to believe in yourself and you have to think positive. This is why you need to change away from having a negative self image about yourself and why you need to trust your own instincts. It is about realizing that vision for yourself that you created and putting . refuse to listen to it. Learn how to control your negative thoughts. well thinking positively is just like that. If you only think with a secondbest attitude. you will actually be able to achieve what you want out of life because you believe that you can. tell your mind and say it loud that you are going to do what it takes to get the job done. You have to believe that you will be able to achieve what you want. dreams and goals. Don’t express your negative thoughts in words.

The reason is that if you do not believe in yourself. All this comes from believing in you. You can have all the desire in the world but if you do not get up off the couch and believe in yourself to get the job done. then nothing is going to happen. why would anyone else? That all being said. if you have lots of belief in yourself.Page 35 yourself on the path to success. then you pretty much waiting for nothing to happen. Do a business plan. Make phone calls. Interview people who can help you on your path. Research what you want. Talk to the people who will believe in you to help raise your own confidence. then you will literally get nowhere. This is called laziness by some but a better term is low self-belief. This is why you need to get out there and get your nose to the ground to make your dreams come true through a belief in yourself by doing the following: • • • • • • • Take action! Make preparations for your success. but don’t have the will to act on it. it is as simple as that. . even if you want success. If you don’t believe in yourself. If you do not take action. then you won’t have the desire to get out and do what you have to.

so when you believe in success. you will start being successful.Page 36 Many of us have the following in us: • • • • Hate (for someone who has achieved more than you) Jealousy (because someone else has more success) Anger (at yourself for not doing anything) Judgemental (of other people and their success) You need to replace these with: • • • Forgiveness (for yourself and those you hated for being successful) Acceptance (of others who will achieve success) Love (for yourself and what you can achieve) Your belief creates life and your faith is believing in something that has not happened yet. but which you know will eventually happen. Your faith is an active belief and it is mixed in with expectation and action. . Belief turns into being.

If you surround yourself with people who just suck energy away from you. you have a goal and you have a vision for something you are passionate about.Page 37 Be Committed You have belief. This is why you have to be committed. no. you have self-confidence. You are ready aren’t you? Well. You have to be committed to changing your life by getting the right people around you. but you should remember that some of the most successful people in the world started with nothing but ideas and goals. If you simply think you won’t make it because you don’t have enough help. get people who are successful around you because their confidence will spread to you and you will feel better about yourself and your chances of being successful. then you will never achieve your goals. not quite. Now we are not talking about putting you in a mental institution here. You have to be committed. It can be hard to be committed to your goals when you feel you have nothing to help you. There is another word for this and it is procrastination. you will get nowhere. but rather that you have a commitment to getting on the path of success and following through on all of your goals. Quit procrastinating! Get out of your comfort zone! Do things you have never done before! Remember. .

Just keep trying new things! Work to do things you have never done and you will find that this commitment helps raise your confidence and makes you happier and more successful. .Page 38 Be committed to learning and growing and trying new things. Don’t sit around hoping that something big will come to your mind to make you millions. action and a never-give-up spirit if you are ever going to succeed in life. You need determination. Commit to this.

Improve your skills every day. reading new books and trying new things to expand your horizons. If you want to be a pilot. It is incredibly hot and powerful because it is light. become a student for life. then focus all your energies on this and don’t stop until you have reached your goal. Well. when you focus your energy onto something you are essentially creating a laser beam to success. Focus everything you have so you can learn everything you want. If you want to speak five languages before you travel to Europe. even of just your own small person plane. This means starting new hobbies. You do this through focus. focus your energy on it.Page 39 Focus On the Path Ahead It is important that you keep your eye on the prize so to speak. Dedicate yourself to life-long learning. There are several ways to focus your energies including: • • • Develop and focus your skills. Whenever you find something that intrigues you. Think of a laser. concentrated into a small space. you are putting all your energies into a concentrated matter where you will get the most success out of the shortest period of time. just look at how a magnifying glass focuses sunlight into a powerful beam. . then focus all your energy on that until you reach your desired goal. Focus is a powerful thing. When you focus.

The reason they do this is because they want to visualize the positive outcome. Remember this equation as you visualize: I X V = R. when they go for the positive outcome. Then. For a successful visualization. make it real in your mind. Many batters in baseball will visualize hitting the ball before they go up to the plate.Page 40 Practice Visualization Visualization is the key to success. always visualize your goal as if it is happening now. and make it detailed. it usually happens. Visualize for three minutes at least twice a day in the evening just before you sleep and in the morning after waking up. • • • • • I = Imagination X = Combined with V = Vividness = is create R = reality . Visualization is using your imagination to see yourself in a situation that has not happened and seeing yourself achieving that which you want.

Hence. by having the vision for a better future. When you do this.Page 41 So. When you balance. you keep a balanced life and a positive outlook. You need to give yourself quality time and you need to give yourself attention because by taking personal time for yourself on a regular basis. When something is not balanced. This is why you need to both meditate and pray on a daily basis. What is a balanced life? A balanced life is a life that is both happy and stable. then it will not function properly. Meditate One of the best things you can do for yourself is to meditate. . This will keep you balanced and it will keep your life from falling apart around you. you create that future for yourself. You will find that there are problems with your life but you may not even know why. you are creating a new reality for yourself. you are creating a mind that is formed for success. When your life lacks any sort of balance. It is like spring cleaning your mind when you meditate because you are going through your mind and taking away the clutter. with this equation you are saying that when you combine imagination with vividness. it falls one way or the other. everything is equal and calm. Meditation is something that helps you clear your head and helps you focus on what matters in your life.

You can repeat them silently in your head. affirmations are simple statements that you repeat to yourself throughout the day. it is important to note that there are two types of affirmations. I will…. Don’t be an armchair affirmation talker. Practice Affirmations What is affirmation? Well. Those are the affirmations that you want. The former achieves zero results while the latter achieves great results. or you can repeat them out loud. Often. affirmations are used in prayer. There are the armchair affirmations which are people who say “I’m going to be a somebody” but then don’t do anything to make it happen. Now. . These affirmations are helping you reach a certain goal and they are helping you find your vision. Then there are those who say they will be a somebody and they get up and do it. Your affirmations are based on your goals. Your affirmations should begin with the following words: • • • I can… I am…. the written list and plan you created and your vision. Pray and meditate to keep the balance and to keep your life from falling off the tracks before you ever get successful.Page 42 If your life is not balanced. you will begin to neglect important areas of your life. and these days there are many who use them in their lives for a variety of reasons.

but it is important that you work hard to find success in your life. Well. This includes: • • • • • • • Read books about being successful and to learn new things. you need to be persistent and persistence comes from doing everything I have said here. Ask yourself daily where you want to go and what you want to achieve. I am successful.Page 43 Remember to keep all your affirmations positive. I will achieve my dreams! Be Persistent Remember how we said that you needed to be consistent and committed to your goal of finding success. all the time. as in I can do this. . and there will be times that it challenges everything in you. This may not always be easy. Listen to educational and inspirational CDs Watch educational and inspirations DVDs Pray Meditate Spend time around strong people.

you may even start to see opportunities that were right in front of you all along.Page 44 There will be times where you feel like you are getting no where. but you have to ensure that you stay on the path and keep positive.change is always followed by results in an outward expression. Soon you will begin to see a chain reaction of outward benefits because the process of inner. Promise your self you will never give up. You will meet the right people and discover the right opportunities. Success will come and the more you think about it. Begin your path to success now! . the sooner it will come for you.

Congratulations.Page 45 Summary You have a purpose. you are ready to begin being successful! The wheels of success are in motion for you! . Now you have to go out and make all this happen. You have to go and bring success to you by believing you will be successful. You will have a hard road ahead in some parts. You have a vision. Visualize your passion and see your vision achieved through set goals. You have goals. be persistent and be committed to your goals. but in the end you will find success. You have to think positive. Always affirm that you will be successful and you will find that success and everything comes quickly for you. You have a plan. You just have to believe that you will.

or you can sit on an acorn and wait for it to grow. what will you do? “People with goals succeed because they know where they are going.” It’s your decision.” Do you know where you are going? “First you jump off the cliff and then you build wings on your way down. It’s as simple as that. You can climb it.” Have you failed more than ten times in achieving your goals? .Page 46 Famous Quotes “There are two ways to climb an oak tree. Persistence is the most common quality of high achievers.” Are you waiting for the day you land a job before you start your life? The bible says “Faith without action is dead” Are you waiting for your wishes and luck to materialize? “Achievers simply refuse to give up.

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Page 50 Disclaimer This report was written as a guide only. and does not claim to be the final definitive word on any of the subjects covered. As such. or alleged to have been caused. There may be errors or omissions in this guide. the author or publisher does not accept any liability or responsibility for any loss or damage that may have been caused. . Errors or omissions will be corrected in future editions. through use of the information contained in this manual. provided the publisher receives written notification of such. The statements made and opinions expressed are the personal observations and assessments of the author based on his own experiences and were not intended to prejudice any party.

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