Attraction Mastery Vol.

50 Amazing Tips For Guaranteed Success With Women

by Scott Patterson
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Let's be honest here… The dating scene can be quite intimidating! While there might be thousands of available women in your area, you have almost no chance of success if you don't know how to approach and or get them interested in you. Now if you're like most guys, you may have trouble talking to women or thinking of what to say in order to make them attracted to you. In fact, you're probably missing golden opportunities to meet beautiful and interesting women. From my experience with my website, I've discovered that many guys need help in a variety of areas with women. For instance, here are some of the common questions I receive from my readers: • • • • • • • Where do I find available women? How can I approach them without using some lame pick up lines? What can I say to a woman to make her attracted to me? What do I talk about during my first conversation? How can I get a woman's phone number and set up the initial date? Where should I go on my first date and what I should say? How can make things more intimate and perhaps seduce her?

As you can see, I get a lot of questions about how to meet and attract women. So for the past months, I've been busy helping hundreds of guys learn how to succeed with women. That's where this ebook comes in… I've taken my best tips created this report to give you a crash course on attracting women. So sit back, read these 50 tips, then implement them into your life! Enjoy!

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How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Then whenever you're faced with a situation where you're not feeling confident. 2) Try meditation and exercising There are certain activities (meditation. By practicing these exercises. you'll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of .chickmagnet101.How to Improve Your Self Confidence If you've ever tried to attract a woman. By mentally reviewing your strengths. try one of these activities. yoga. and tai-chi) which will make you more relaxed.Mental Game Tip #1. just recite the affirmations about your positive qualities. So if you're serious about building self confidence. the better off you'll be! So what should you do if you lack self confidence around women? Well here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem: 1) Learn to relax Before approaching women. you'll be able to put yourself into a positive state whenever you need it. including the times when you're trying to pick up women. The more confidence you have. 3) Use your strengths One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the qualities that make you a great person. then you know your success depends on your selfconfidence. 4) Positive at all times It's widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women. put yourself in a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture and body. Then concentrate on a positive outcome from the conversation you're about to have. If you can remove all expectations you'll become more relaxed around women. So remind yourself that any negative outcome won't affect your life.

So no matter what you're feeling .chickmagnet101. ALWAYS have a upbeat attitude and do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around. What's funny is even when you *fake* a confident personality. you'll eventually develop this personality trait! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.

you have to learn… How to become a MAN! The truth is a LOT of women are fed up with dating guys who act like little boys. when I came to a sudden realization. then you MUST do your best to work on all these areas of your life. By being a REAL man.chickmagnet101.What virtues should you develop? Well in my opinion. then more you’ll naturally attract women. If you can learn what is attractive to women. And these core set of traits can help you become more naturally attractive to women. The question is.Tip #2. It definitely sounds like a lot to work on. there are a number of strong character traits you should develop. Here are just a FEW of them: • • • • • • • • • • • • Honor Integrity Passion for life Goal orientation Confidence Humility Calmness under pressure Generosity to friends. you'll exude a variety of positive characteristics.How to be the MAN that women want Today I was reading a book on changing your . How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. But if you want to become more attractive to women. So why is it important to become a MAN? Well it's simple. I challenge you to take each trait and rate yourself on how well you fit this description. then you’ll stand out from these low status men. family and even strangers Leadership Courage and conviction Decisiveness Humor Now you might be overwhelmed by the number of traits I’ve described. Sometimes the best way to attract a woman is to work on YOURSELF first. I guarantee the more you work on yourself. Then discipline yourself to improve on EACH of these character traits. In other words.

there was REAL danger in approaching women. For instance. Then they build up a LOT of anxious feelings about initiating conversations with women. approach anxiety is a NORMAL feeling that we all get. then you should follow the same technique I used to move beyond approach anxiety… Talk to every woman you encounter! Many budding PUAs make the mistake of ONLY approaching women during a specific time during the week. all you have to do is initiate conversations with the women you encounter throughout the day.chickmagnet101.Tip #3. you should NEVER let it control you. you could get smacked over the head with a club. Remember that we've all been at this point in our lives. The solution to this problem is pretty easy. Instead of only approaching a girl during your trips to bar or club. If you talked to a female who was attached to another man. As you can see. But should you let it control you? The obvious answer is NO! Although approach anxiety is commonplace. The beauty of this technique is you do NOT have to worry about trying to "pick up" these women. Now if you want to overcome your own anxious . Instead you're using opportunities to PRACTICE your conversation skills and reduce nervousness.Eliminating Your Approach Anxiety Approach anxiety happens to the best of us! We’ve all had that terrifying fear of walking up to women and initiating a conversation. Back then. here are some girls you can talk to: • Checkout girls at stores How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you should initiate conversations with the women you encounter throughout the day. To get started. The best “Pick Up Artists” in the world are the guys who overcame these feelings. The truth is these anxious feelings can be traced back to early human development. The point I'm trying to make is you can quickly ELIMINATE your approach anxiety if talking to women becomes second nature.

Just start talking to them in a normal manner. If you make it a habit to talk to women EVERYWHERE you go.• • • • • Women who sit near you in class Any girl who helps you in clothing stores Females who work with you Women that you encounter on trains and subways Any girl waiting on the line with you Remember that you DON'T have to use a smooth opener or conversation starter.chickmagnet101. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Approach anxiety is something which all men have at some point in their lives. it'll become second nature. But you should NEVER let it control .

try to reprogram yourself to approach without hesitation. Every time you see an interesting woman. If you have this phobia. What's funny is when you approach lots of women you'll discover it's not as bad as you think. you approach WITHOUT hesitation. The technique is simple. All you need to do is focus on enjoying the conversation and having fun with the girl. And your overall success will increase. approach her with the SOLE intention of just striking up a conversation. Now there is a way to quickly overcome this fear. Instead of letting your fears control you. A great trick I learned about eliminating the fears of rejection is to understand it's more important to think about the present moment rather then any negative thoughts which you might have. he's able to remove all negative thoughts from his head and focus on the moment. He succeeds with a lot of women simply because he has no fear of rejection. but there is something to be learned about initiating conversations without thinking about it. When you tell yourself that you're JUST having a conversation becomes easier to eliminate your fears. All you have to do is implement a trick my friend John taught me called "Going Kamikaze". But what he does is NOT for the weak of heart. To be honest. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. While John knows he MIGHT get rejected. So if you see an interesting woman. rather then "trying to score". If you follow my advice and learn how to approach automatically you'll discover your fear of rejection can be overcome.Tip #4. After awhile your fears will slowly diminish. then you're severely decreasing your chances at meeting and attracting the kind of women you want. I don't always agree with some of John's routines. If you're uncomfortable with talking to ANY girl. The simple truth is many guys have built up a MAJOR fear of rejection. then you need to take drastic measures to get over your feelings of possible rejection.Overcome Your Fear of Rejection One major stumbling block to your success with women comes down to your ability to handle rejection. He's able to overcome HIS fear of rejection because he acts on instinct rather then dwell on what could go .

Most of them want a guy who interests them and presents a challenge. I am going to talk about "The Nice Guy". you'll get rid of the 'Nice Guy' persona. you HAVE to demonstrate that you're a challenge to any woman you're trying to attract. But because of their supplicating behavior. you'll act like a man who isn't concerned about the outcomes of an interaction with women.chickmagnet101. Without going into too much female psychology. The final way to stop being the proverbial nice guy is to learn how to be confident around women. By carrying yourself with an "I don't care what happens" . Now there are a lot of guys who try too hard with women. This will help you transform yourself into the kind of guy who all women desire. you should set up a code of conduct and transform yourself into a confident guy. While you might feel weird or think you're disrespecting women. you'll look like you're not trying too hard. This is especially true if they challenge or try to reject you.Tip #5. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you should challenge women if they're disrespecting you or not matching up to your expectations.The Real Truth About The ‘Nice Guy Myth’ In this tip. there are strict rules for attracting them. This means you should create a strict set of standards and then ONLY do things if they comply with your personal code. the nice guy presents no challenge to women. In fact. By not kissing a girl's ass and doing everything she asks. As a result. So if you want to stop being a nice guy. Typically these men are always ready to buy gifts do favors for girls "they like". Furthermore. they end up repelling women instead of attracting them. Then you'll become an interesting and exciting person.

but don’t know how to use openers. Ultimately this will help you transform into the kind of guy who can naturally attract a woman How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. there are a lot of ‘sticking points’ that hold guys back. But it’s also about identifying your problem areas and having the courage to fix what you can. I suggest a simple technique. if you want to increase your success with women. Perhaps you have a few of . then you MUST identify the specific obstacles (Often known as ‘Sticking Points’) that are holding you back. By doing it this way. then you’ll experience a dramatic growth in your game. For instance. What does this mean to you? Well. you’ll identify and laser-target the problems you’re experiencing. For instance.Tip #6. Part of being successful with women is accepting that you aren’t perfect. My advice is to analyze the things you’re doing wrong. Unfortunately being “great with women” comes down to your ability to OVERCOME your weakness rather then relying on your strengths. some guys are great at approaching women. Analyze the ways you try to meet women and break down the different obstacles into SMALL manageable steps.How to Overcome Your Sticking Points When it comes to women. but can’t create attraction. Then FIX them! If you can overcome your sticking points.chickmagnet101. And others can display a confident personality. we ALL have certain strengths and weaknesses. here are a few sticking-points that affect a LOT of guys • • • • • • • • Being controlled by approach anxiety Showing low status body language Knowing the right way to approach women How to start talking to women Understanding Indicators of Interest and when a woman is flirting How to go from an opener to having a REAL conversation Getting a woman’s number and setting up a date Knowing how to progress from a date to a *physical* encounter As you can see. Then once you’ve spotted these weaknesses. you should work on fixing them.

A lot of men are afraid to simply approach a woman and initiate a conversation.Why Your Fear of Failure Is Holding You Back "Oh my God. It's important to remember that failure is a positive not a negative. Then you can apply them when you next talk to a woman.chickmagnet101. You should learn to use it as a learning experience and use this opportunity to increase your overall "dating skill set". If you allow fear to control your actions. you can learn a lot from your mistakes. And here's the reason why… A great comparison for dating is comparing it to baseball. The fear of rejection is an incredible powerful emotion. you should learn to embrace your failures. but you should NEVER allow it to dictate what you can or can't do. charming and confident? When evaluate your *performance*. So the next you "strike out" with a woman don't get frustrated. then you'll see a dramatic increase in your dating success. When you eliminate your fear of failure and understand that it's a GOOD thing. They're showing their fear because of one thing: FAILURE. While this might happen. In this sport. One of the more common reasons for this anxiety is worrying that women will mock or ridicule you in some way. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you'll miss out on many opportunities to talk to women. I can't just walk up and talk to her. Just analyze the interaction and ask yourself: • Did I talk to fast/slow/loud? • Did I demonstrate higher status? • Was she available or does she have a boyfriend? • Did I successfully create a dynamic conversation? • Was I funny. It can prevent you from taking that first step towards attracting a woman. a guy is a "Hall of Fame Player" if he gets a hit 3 or 4 times for every 10 at bats. it's better to face this fear than run away from it. Even the guys with the BEST approach techniques will meet a woman who won't be interested in them. Now I know anxiety is a commonplace thing.Tip #7. What if I fail?" This is a TOO common statement I hear from guys. Instead of letting it control your actions. You should follow this same philosophy when you're talking to a . Just understand that failure is part of the whole process.

each woman has varied tastes in men. while others are attracted to thin. intellectual types. Instead try to focus on these things: • Being cocky/funny • Knowing how to build confidence. this type of girl is statistically found to be the most popular type of woman among men. And according to popular men's magazines all guys desire thin. But let me explain my rationale… As men we're primarily attracted to the stereotypical "Hot Girl". First off. (While you might have different tastes. some men feel their personal appearance prevents them from talking to women.chickmagnet101. guys have a LOT of fears.Tip #8. you can still be VERY successful with women. • Developing great openers • Being able to demonstrate higher value • Eliminating self limiting beliefs When you develop these core traits your looks won't matter. So the question is this: Is your appearance THAT important? Well the short answer is NO. or too fat. Things like confidence. goal orientation and humor are all traits which can attract a woman. Obviously this is good news! No matter what faults you might find in your own appearance. blonde-haired. and large-breasted models. What they find attractive really depends on their personality.Stop Worrying About Your Looks When it comes to dating. You'll be able to attract beautiful women through your own unique personality. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Some love large hulking men. In addition women are PRIMARILY attracted to traits which are not based on personal appearance. So the moral of this post is to STOP worrying about your . too short. If you know how to demonstrate an attractive personality then it becomes EASY to succeed with women.) Now what's interesting is women are attracted to different things then men. Whether they feel they're too bald.

you must learn to develop a positive outlook on EACH interaction with a woman. You head over to your local bar and approach 10 groups of women. you learn to discover the positive results from the situation. he uses “self-talk” to beat himself up. On the other . This means asking yourself what BENEFIT you just received from this “negative” situation. How you view the world has a direct impact on your success with women. Whenever a guy is turned down by a woman. The problem is all 10 groups reject you! Most guys would view this as a negative experience and feel that they’re not “goodlooking enough” to attract a woman. While you may think it sounds like a lot of “psycho-babble”.Tip #9. I’ve discovered that reframing is an excellent way to LEARN from each experience. And by doing this regularly. then you won’t make any progress with your dating life. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you’ll discover how to learn from each experience and grow as a man! Awhile back I discovered an interesting thing about men and how they view rejection. you have concrete proof that the opener does NOT work for you. Regardless of the outcome! In order to do this.chickmagnet101. If you beat yourself up every time a woman rejects you. However. By being “rejected” by 10 women. You look at this situation and examine what benefit you’ve just received. YOU understand the importance of reframing.The REFRAMING Technique The reframing technique is easy to learn. If a guy is rejected by a girl. you’ll experience dramatic success with women. it’s simple. Here’s an example of how reframing would work: Say you learned a brand new opener that you want to test out. This means that you have to go back and find a new way to approach women. Whenever you’re faced with a potentially negative outcome.How Your Failures Can Bring You Success The way you view an event determines how much you can learn from each experience! What do I mean? Well. you can try a simple technique I learned from NLP and cognitive psychology. he thinks there must be something wrong with him! So in order to experience DRAMATIC growth in your dating life. if you develop a positive attitude about life.

chickmagnet101. And by implementing the “reframing technique”. In order to MASTER your success with women. you’ve learned that approaching isn’t as hard as you once thought.Plus by approaching 10 groups of women. you should adopt a positive outlook at everything you . you’ve just acquired ten new experiences you can use to overcome your approach anxiety. you’ll discover that every negative outcome will help you grow as a person! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Simply by initiating conversations with this many groups.

but it drives me nuts when I hear some ass use a cheesy pick up line straight from the 70's.chickmagnet101. All you have to do is use an OPENER! What is an opener? Basically an opener is ANY conversation starter you use which attracts the interest and attention of the women you're approaching. but they actively telegraph your interest. Now let me tell you a little secret about pick up lines… THEY NEVER WORK! Sorry for shouting. Not only are pick up lines offensive to women. but have NO CLUE how to approach and start talking to them.Approaching Women Tip . You use it to begin a conversation which gets women talking instead of putting them in an awkward situation. Also openers don't come across as sleazy and creepy. Typically they make the mistake of reciting a corny pick up line they heard from their friends. (This is a bad thing to do) So the question is how can you initiate a conversation without using a pick up line? Well it's simple. It differs from a pick up line because it sparks conversations and solicits their opinion. Openers work because: 1) You're not telegraphing your intention 2) Women love to give their opinions 3) You can act funny AND interesting 4) Their answers can be used to seed a conversation topic How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. When used correctly you appear as a guy who is innocently asking a woman's opinion. What happens is these guys see interesting women.The Best Way to Start a Conversation "How can I initiate a conversation with an attractive woman?" This is ONE major question I receive all the time from the readers of my newsletter.

Try to fabricate an opener from your life or use something which can develop into a great topic of conversation.Give them a reason why you're asking their opinion To make spark the curiosity of the woman you're approaching you need to give a reason WHY you're asking them a question. it's time to create your own. Just think of funny or interesting things within your life and then create an opener around it. they won't care if told them that you would only take a few minutes of their time. What you should do is sit down and create 3-4 different openers which match your personality. Simply tell them that you were having a conversation with your buddy and you needed an opinion from different people.Use a time constraint If a group thinks you'll only stay for a few minutes. Step 3. Step . How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.The key to crafting the perfect opener is to make it an open-ended question which involves all the people in the group you're approaching. Now that you understand the principles behind an opener. If you attract their interest and attention. In other words. Instead the conversation starter should get the group talking and make them interested in what you have to say. they'll respond more positively to your opener. So the opener should NEVER be a question that can be answered with a quick YES or NO response. Now here are few rules you can use to craft a good opener: Step 1.Make your opener interesting and funny In order to be perceived as an interesting guy you should keep your opener fun and lighthearted. All that's required is for you to walk up to a group. you shouldn't seem like you're randomly walking around the room asking questions from random strangers. ask their opinion and get them talking.chickmagnet101.

you’ll start conversations without thinking about it! Then you’ll be a lucky guy who has very LITTLE approach anxiety. It’s called ‘The Three Second Rule’ for approaching women. Instead you focus on what you want to say THEN approach her. Once you think of an opener.The ‘3 Second Rule’ for Approaching Like I said before. If you do it enough. And you might even “psych yourself out”. today I wanted to discuss a technique which is equally important. you’ll have NO chance of letting approach anxiety affect you. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Whenever you see an attractive woman. you can eliminate your approach anxiety by talking to every woman you encounter. In other words when you hesitate on the approach. you give yourself ONLY three seconds before approaching her. you won’t have time to think about what could go wrong. you’ll diminish your chances of success. When you practice talking to women ALL the time.chickmagnet101. The idea behind this technique is to prevent approach anxiety.Tip #11. When you take a long time to approach. you approach her WITHOUT hesitation and initiate a conversation. But when you only take three seconds to initiate a conversation. The process is simple. this skill will come to you naturally. In other words. What’s interesting is ‘The Three Second Rule’ can make approach women by reflex. negative thoughts could make you nervous about talking to her. Then approaching them won’t seem as difficult. Now in addition to talking to every woman you .

When working a bar/club environment. That's why it's ALWAYS important to carry a pen or cell phone with you.Lighter While you might not be a smoker it's still important to carry a lighter. you'll be prepared for specific scenarios which come up in the dating game. 2. you'll need some way to jot down a girl's digits. 4. Now unless you have photographic memory. The items you carry can have a direct effect on your ability to attract a woman.chickmagnet101. you can use a cocky/funny routine to continue the conversation. What I mean is this.Pen or Cell Phone One of your primary goals when meeting women is to get a phone number or set up a date. Simply find an attractive girl and ask her to take a picture of your friends. then you have to remember a lesson many us learned as a Boy Scout: "Always be prepared" Yes.Gum and Breath Mints How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here . you'll probably encounter a few women who need a light. 3. If you think ahead and carry certain "critical" things. it's important to be perceived as fun and exciting. During the course of an evening. Also a camera is a great way to initiate a conversation with a woman. Then after she takes the picture. You can easily use your lighter to initiate a conversation. You can use a camera to demonstrate this quality by taking fun pictures of you and your friends. The following are 5 of the most important things you should carry every time you go out to meet women: 1. by making certain preparations each night you'll experience a dramatic increase in your success.Tip #12.5 Items You Need For Approaching If you want to succeed with women.Camera Having a camera is a great way to demonstrate higher value around women.

you should carry an assortment of breath mints and gum. Like I said at the beginning of this article. Usually mint flavor gum or Altoids can dramatically improve your breath and will prevent you from offending any girl you've met.Condoms Obviously you understand the importance of using condom. it's MANDATORY to carry protection with . you'll prepare yourself for all the different things which can occur during an evening. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. To prevent this. 5. By carrying these 5 items. The responsible guy should be concerned with protecting both himself and his partner.chickmagnet101.The quickest turn off to a woman is having bad breath. it's important to be prepared for the common things that occur when you're meeting women. If your late-night adventures end in a sexual encounter. So be smart and carry condoms with you.

After doing this for a couple of days. But they seem to miss out on the subtle cues women send them. Just get off your butt and do something! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. What REALLY annoys me is there are some guys who IGNORE obvious signals from woman. Thus you might miss out on an incredible girl. reading these cues can make ALL the difference when you’re trying to attract them. What’s interesting 90% of a woman's communication is done through her body language. So all he has to do is walk up and start a conversation. It’s that easy! What’s insane is guys spend SO much time trying to "pick up chicks". then you’ll ONLY have a 10% chance of understanding what women really want. and he stands there doing nothing with a stupid expression on his face.chickmagnet101. So if you ever encounter a situation where a girl is making eye contact. Why is it important to be able to read their body language? Well there are times when a woman will subtly use her body language to indicate interest. If you don’t know how to read these signs then you won’t know to approach or engage her in a conversation.Identifying Her Attraction Signals Women constantly send you messages through their body language.) So if you DON’T know what women are telling you.Tip #13. Often I’ll see a girl purposely initiate eye contact with a guy. Then all you have to do is walk up and start a conversation. She’s already demonstrated interest. So the solution is this: Don't be like one of those guys who do nothing! Take the time to pay attention to women’s body language. then you can dramatically stand out from other guys. So if you don't detect their body language signals. you can look for specific attraction . Then once you become comfortable with their body language. you’ll COMPLETELY miss out on many golden opportunities. you’ll notice a WHOLE new world of subtle communication happening. If you learn how women flirt with their body language. Whether they’re attracted or repulsed by your presence. (The guys who are successful with women KNOW how to read these subtle cues and can act according to what they see. you know she’s probably interested in talking to you.

you'll miss out on a golden opportunity. making “forward” eye contact and even approaching YOU. When you see a girl who locks eyes with you. Obviously you're receiving an opportunity to approach this woman with very little risk of rejection. Just be natural in your approach and use a good opener. As gender roles evolve. Next time you’re out. If she smiles back or does a quick VERTICAL scan (ie: checking you out). This includes flirting. you’ll discover it’s easy to initiate conversations with girls. you should take action. then you know you’re being given an invitation to approach her. By taking the time to lock eyes with women and giving them time to check you out. try to make eye contact with the different women you find attractive. give her a warm . then you know she is demonstrating a classic sign of interest. you're creating your own opportunities. Don't hesitate! Immediately walk up to her and initiate a conversation.chickmagnet101. you’ll discover women are sending obvious attraction signals. But when you don't do anything. So you don't have to worry about what to say or do. So here's an easy technique to try. So if you pay close attention. When you receive a sign of attraction. If a girl is giving you direct eye contact.Tip #14. then you’ll have a great opportunity to talk to an interesting girl.Hidden Opportunities For Meeting Women There will be times when an attractive woman will send you flirting signals. it's become socially acceptable for women to be obvious about their attraction to guys. you know she’s interested in you. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. If you regularly do this. If you can detect these signals. Because she’s demonstrated a major sign of attraction.

you can isolate her. you can use an opener. From that point. Then from their responses. And this is especially true when she’s surrounded by her friends. For instance. you talk t her and do some qualifying. tell a few stories/negs. Now you might be a little scared about approaching GROUPS of women.chickmagnet101. The best way to do this is to say something like: “Can I borrow {her name} for a couple of minutes. Once they “like” you.Tip #15. But you have to realize that this is a natural feeling that all guys get. So the solution is . That's the reason why some guys wait till a woman is alone before approaching her. It’s a fact that attractive women are RARELY alone. And even if you DO isolate a girl. it’ll become easy to shift your focus and work on the objection of your attention. this feeling will quickly diminish! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you bring her to a different area in the venue. Then if you’re getting the enough indicators of interest. then “suddenly” notice the girl you like. Just remember that your main objective for approaching a group of women to gain acceptance from EVERY person. I promise to bring her back. you have to become comfortable with approaching groups of girls and engaging them in a conversation. This means at some point. When in a public setting.” After that. The best way to do this is to use an opener. So this makes it quite challenging to find a girl who isn’t surrounded by her friends. Not just the girl you find attractive. But there is a MAJOR problem if you only approach women who are by themselves. A woman has a natural tendency to distrust ANY guy who approaches her when she doesn’t have the protective shield of her friends.Why You Should Approach Groups of Women Approaching a woman can be scary for a lot of guys. Now the best strategy is to approach the group and talk to ALL of them. MOST women will never travel alone. and work on your rapport/attraction building skills. you can transition into a conversation and demonstrate higher value.You HAVE to learn how to approach GROUPS of women. she’ll be standoffish. If you understand the principles in this post and practice your approach.

Making Strong Eye Contact As you know by now. If you feel like you lack this characteristic when talking to women. In a way.It demonstrates you’re not afraid of women #3. confidence is the key ingredient to demonstrating a high status personality.chickmagnet101. Simply follow the advice I gave. And this starts with the eye contact you give. you know she’s probably willing to be approached. If she smiles back. you’re acting like you’re trying to figure out if you’re looking at something you like. you dramatically increase your success with women. Confidence is necessary ingredient to creating attraction. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Whenever you’re out meeting women. You can also use eye contact to approach . On the other hand. So how do you display a confident aura? Well. and you’ll find that it’s easier to display a more self-assured presence around women. Whenever you lock eyes with a woman. allow your eye contact to hold SLIGHTLY longer then what’s considered socially acceptable.It shows that you’re used to being in control #2.Tip #16. Strong eye contact means a lot of things to women: #1. based on their gender. women find these guys to be confident and sexual. When you approach with confidence. this is a more natural way to start talking to women. Men will find lengthy eye contact to be a challenge or an aggressive action. then I recommend you work on the eye contact you give. you can give her a simple smile. What's interesting about this form of communication is it sends a different message to people. Contrary to using openers. I’ve found the best is to show a dominant presence with your body language. What I recommend is simple.It provides the first example of high status body language.

you want to direct your attention to her and start building more direct attraction. By acknowledging her friends. As long as you demonstrate high status and transition to an interesting discussion. At this point. If you’re simply talking to the group the whole night. If you don't see any IOIs (Indicators of Interest). establish rapport and initiate physical contact. Or you can simply tell her that you want to walk around the venue a little bit and she should join you. By now her friends will pick up on the fact they're developing a one-on-one conversation. Today. you can do a number of things like build more attraction. Whenever you approach a group.Tip . The process of isolation is actually fairly simple. I promise to bring her back” What you want to do is create a pretense for showing her something in a quieter location.Isolating your target from her friends. I want to cover a related topic. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. then you’ll minimize your chances of attracting your target. Then once you’ve isolated your target. Now if you notice that you’re target is demonstrating a few flirt signals. Then once she’s alone you can work on building more attraction and comfort. I reviewed basic body language when approach a group of women.How to Isolate a Woman from Her Friends A couple of days ago. The goal of any approach is to attract a specific woman. But you have to remember ONE important thing. Just remember that the best way to make a woman remember you during the initial interaction is if you make a lasting impression. First you want to look for genuine signs of attraction. I want to show you something” Then turn to her friends and say: “I’m going to borrow your friend for a bit. then you know she is open to being isolated. then you should make a decision. And the best way to do that is to get her away from her friends and work on establishing that connection. When this becomes obvious. say to your target: “Hey ____ . you’re also demonstrating that you have social intuition and you’re not going to do anything creepy.chickmagnet101. (Ie: Your Target). you should focus on ISOLATING her from her friends.switch your focus to another woman or cut the conversation short and move on. then you’ll find that most groups will accept you. The goal of any approach or opener is to get you into a conversation with a group.

Instead it can depend on the tone of your body language. For instance.Work on your stance How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. If you’re not displaying the right kind of body language.chickmagnet101. then the best openers and routines won’t be able to help you! So the solution is simple.How to Demonstrate Strong Body Language Being attractive to women sometimes doesn’t depend on what you say.Eradicate Weak Body Language The first step to fixing your body language is to eliminate all body language traits that are considered weak. If you want to demonstrate high status. then you must know the secrets of giving off positive body language. you’ll be perceived as a confident and dominant guy! And here are six ways you can show incredible body language around women… #1. Women can instantly detect a man who isn’t confident. When you do this. So in order to make INSTANT improvement. some weak traits can include: • Having your hands in your pockets • Fidgeting or showing nervous energy • Talking to people with your arms folded • Slumping your head or shoulder down • Looking uncomfortable in social situations • Not taking up space • Walking fast everywhere you go • Leaning towards women during an initial conversation What’s interesting is you can make dramatic change to your body language simply by eliminating these behaviors. #2. It’s been said that almost 90% of your communication is done through non-verbal cues.Attracting Women Tip . you MUST become sensitive to the body language traits you’re displaying.

The good news is can be easily done. you demonstrate a LACK of nervous and inferior body language traits #5. #4.You move deliberately How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. And here are a few ways to do this: • Your eyes concentrate on the person in the conversation • When talking to women at a . Here are a few rules for how you should stand: • Keep your chin and head up • Position your feet and legs at shoulder length apart • Have your hands at your side or have only ONE hand holding a drink in front of you (Bar environments) • Keep your back straight #3. you must display a casual aura around women. position your body so you’re taking up the most amount of space. This is especially true in social situations. Instead of folding inwards when you’re surrounded by other people. Whenever you’re in a public environment.Take up space The confident guys in the world are NOT afraid of others. So if you want to demonstrate high status. By displaying a relaxed (yet confident) attitude.Be relaxed A confident guy is somebody who can ALWAYS show a relaxed pose in ANY situation.chickmagnet101.The way you stand can have a huge impact on how people will think of you. An easy way to eliminate your fear is subtly show your dominance and leadership by taking up space wherever your go. you lean back and show that you’re comfortable • You never let your eyes dart around a room • You spread out and look comfortable when sitting down • You breathe through your stomach instead of your chest By showing a relaxed pose. you’re showing that the little things in life don’t phase you. try to spread out a little.

invade her personal space and make your intentions obvious. the beta male will instantly come running. The best way to do this is to avoid directly facing a . By applying the six traits I discussed in this post. If you can end up side-by-side or at an angle. If somebody needs help. And this will help show that you’re not investing too much emotionally in the outcome of the conversation.chickmagnet101. One of the principles of body language is we tend to be uncomfortable by people who face us directly. Now when you’re first talking to women. you want to put her at ease. you should approach her to the side.Face away from women You can tell a LOT to women without opening your mouth. As a result. One of the core traits of a beta male is being a guy who is ALWAYS ready to do favors for women. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Instead of showing that you’re “ready to please” you want to demonstrate that you move on YOUR own terms. they end up displaying “needy” body language. you DON’T want to make your intentions obvious. If you know how to demonstrate high status with it. you'll force people to pay attention to your schedule not theirs. you’ll be able to show confident and alluring body language around women. then you can easily show an attractive aura. you'll reduce her nervousness and tension. Instead of showing this inferior personality trait. If you walk up to a woman. So instead of positioning yourself right in front of her (or a group). #6.Low status guys are jumpy and ready to please women. you should move slowly and with a measured attitude. Instead of invading her space on the initial approach. then you’re demonstrating the fact that you’re trying to “pick her up”. Your body language provides your first impression to women. By taking deliberate actions with every step.

But if you’re able to decipher her body language and know that she’s single BEFORE you approach. you’ll quickly increase your overall dating success. Many women (who already have boyfriends) display the exact same signs of attraction that single women demonstrate. it becomes easy figure out which ones are available. But there is one MAJOR problem when you ONLY rely on indicators of interest.Knowing When She’s Interested In You When you know when women are attracted to you. Making attempts to get you to look at her or be noticed by you. and having dilated pupils. Simply pay attention to the five signs of attraction I discussed in this post. This can include direct eye contact. smiling at you. Showing the inside of her palms and hands to you. it’s pretty frustrating to be in a conversation with a woman who is already taken. Isolating herself from her friends so you’ll approach . playing with their hair. So it gets frustrating when woman in a committed relationship displays these same signals. Positioning her body towards you. If you know how to identify them. it becomes easy to locate a girl who wants to meet a guy. Usually this means that you’ve wasted time that could be spent talking to an AVAILABLE woman. What's annoying is we all respond to body language signs that indicate attraction.Tip #19. try to identify these signals: • • • • • A flushed appearance or blushing when you look directly at her.chickmagnet101. Then you’ll discover that there are available women out there who WANT to meet you! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. So when you're looking for women to approach. The good news is there are specific signs of attraction that are ONLY used by available women. As you probably know.

Therefore most want a guy who is equal or GREATER then their own status. Instead QUALIFY her and tease her. she'll place him in the "Lower Status" category.chickmagnet101. you must project a high status personality. Attractive women typically have high status. then she’ll wonder if you might be an important person. don’t give her compliments or show that you’re attracted to her. Whenever you first meet a woman.. Really attractive women are constantly being "hit on" by guys. This can include BOTH your looks and your personality. most girls have developed simple mechanisms for "weeding out" the losers.Tip #20. Basically they want guys who are equal to or better then their own social status. When a guy immediately hits on a girl. Specifically women are incredibly attracted to the guy who acts demonstrates high status (or act likes an alpha male). But what exactly does this expression mean and why is it attractive to women? There is a simple reason for cultivating a high status attitude with females. Even if she’s . So what does this mean to you? Well it’s easy. there are a lot of traits that women find attractive in men. you must immediately demonstrate a high status personality. If you show that you’re not enamored with her looks (like other guys). How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. So if you want to be attractive to women. Almost ALL women want to be with the guy who stands out from the crowd. Because it’s IMPOSSIBLE to date every man who talks to them.. Think of it this way.How to Be the Alpha Male What’s the secret to being attractive to women? Well.

When you’re smiling. The truth is the first thing a woman will notice about you is your smile.Tip #21. you must ensure that you’re doing your best to display an interesting AND unique look. she’ll probably give you one back. Now the question is. And a huge part of your appearance is displaying a confident smile when you’re talking to a woman. While good looks aren’t mandatory. you’ll increase your chances of attracting her.Why is smiling so effective? Well smiling is effective for many reasons. make sure you’re smiling when talking to them! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. By smiling at a woman you’ll get her to like you.Displaying Your Confident Smile As I emphasize in this ebook. In a way you've given her a subconscious reason to immediately like you. Here’s why… If you study human nature then you know that when people smile at us. I think it’s one of the key steps towards attracting a woman. smiling is the cornerstone of a great first impression. If you smile (and have a positive demeanor) around a woman. you're telling a woman these things: 1) You enjoy her company 2) You like what she is saying to you 3) You are an upbeat person with a positive outlook on life 4) You’re a fun guy As you can see. So when you smile at a . your personal appearance is a MAJOR factor in attracting women. In fact. So from the FIRST moment you make eye contact with a female. you MUST give your best possible smile. So if you want to increase your success with women.chickmagnet101. we usually return the gesture.

To be more like them you should do the following: • Wear something unique • Peacock a little • Be energetic and exciting around your friends • Talk to everyone • Be the life of the party • Demonstrate higher value The reason a 'rock star persona' is successful is it helps you stand out from other guys. What ‘rock stars’ have is the ability to stand out from the crowd.Show Your 'Rock Star' Attitude One thing I find interesting is how ‘rock stars’ can easily *score* with . While these guys are ONLY playing the songs from other bands. Almost all rock stars succeed with women because they know how to stand out from the crowd. you can learn a lesson from how rock stars act. some rock guys literally have women beg them for sex. “alpha male” personality. And this theory holds true for even the crappiest cover bands at your local bars. While you don’t have to play an instrument. they’re not afraid to dress differently or demonstrate an outlandish personality. However this isn’t the case. all a guy needs is a guitar or microphone and he’ll have the pick of ANY woman around him. women will know that you’re different from other guys. Unlike the average guy. they still know how to draw women to them like a magnet. In fact. musicians have it easy when it comes to attracting women. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. these dudes know how to dress AND act in a unique manner. they’re good at projecting a mysterious image which women eat up! What I find interesting is there are LOTS of musicians who really suck at their craft. Unlike the average guy. In other words. From Led Zeppelin all the way to a local cover band.Tip #22. But they still manage to attract HORDES of women! So it shows that even the worst musicians have something which girls find incredibly seductive. Furthermore. So what can you learn from this? Well it’s simple. From what I’ve seen. All they have to do is get on stage and women will become hypnotically captured by their presence. by when you display a positive. Now you probably think that rock guys attract women because of their fame or money.

then you’ll be viewed as a unique and attractive guy.The reason is simple. how to talk to women and your general attitude. ALL women want passion and excitement in their lives. the more women will notice you. you'll represent the excitement she's probably missing in her life. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here . which makes you stand out. Deep down.chickmagnet101. The more you stand out. If you can make them DIFFERENT from other guys. In order to be attractive to women you should ONLY do things which are both original AND interesting. But there is something important you should know about being different. By displaying an outlandish personality around a woman. So think of new ways to dress. An easy way to do this is to observe how other guys act and do the EXACT opposite. (That's probably why romance novels are so successful).

So if you're not having fun when you’re meeting women. But there is something you must always keep in mind… If you’re not having FUN during this whole process. You must learn to enjoy the whole experience of meeting and attracting women. it helps if you’re enjoying other things BESIDES trying to meet women. For instance. there is LOT involved with trying to learn the subtle art of the pick up artist. So it’s only human if you sometimes forget the MAIN reason that you’re on this path. then you'll project a bored looking demeanor. Also. EVEN if you fail. Since the art of attracting women requires a TON of effort. you’ll KILL your chances of success. have fun with your buddies or simply talk to women because you want to meet a new person. Then trying to meet women won’t seem so tedious. when you go out. And sometimes it just doesn’t seem worth your time. The truth is what we feel inside is always shown on the outside. you can check out a new band.chickmagnet101.Become the Fun Guy! It’s happened to ALL us! There are times when the process of meeting women can become tedious.Tip #23. Often a night out can include: • Spending money • Having to project a confident and energetic persona at ALL times • Approaching dozens of “sets” or groups of women • Going out night after night • Being rejected by women when you’re approach techniques aren’t working As you can see. What’s the answer? Well it’s simple. And when this happens. then you’ll have LITTLE chance of success. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. The more you enjoy yourself. the more you'll project an aura of positive energy and . it can be both stressful and tiresome. Have fun out there.

Now it's actually fairly easy to approach a woman and create that initial spark.The 'Catch and Release' Technique Building attraction is absolutely vital when you meet a woman for the first time. If you have a string of 4-5 conversations that ALL went well. try to implement what I like to call the 'Catch and Release' technique. you can use this technique to increase your chances of getting a number. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Now instead of taking the conversation to the next level. Later in the night. there will be a moment when the discussion is going really well and she's flirting with you. the 'Catch and Release' technique will drive her crazy. But what you do at this point can MAKE OR BREAK your chances of success. It works like this… During your conversation. setting up a date or going home with her. If done correctly. As a result. club. you'll be able to create that spark of chemistry. Then walk away. Since I know I'll probably see her again. Then as you leave. When you initially talk to a woman. Instead of doing this. you can approach her again and resume your conversation. set up a date or kiss her).chickmagnet101. and rejoin your friends. the more of a "prize" you'll become.) at the beginning of the night. casually mention that you'll talk to her later. I like to use it to "work the room". She'll wonder why you're not talking to her and will make attempts to get your attention again. you'll discover a period where you're getting to know her. then you stand LITTLE chance of getting her number or setting up a date. Typically women expect men to make the conversation more intimate (ie: get her number.Tip #24. she'll try harder to build attraction. Normally I like to implement the 'Catch and Release' technique in an enclosed environment (bar. If you're good at flirting and . etc. Normally at this point a LOT of guys will continue to talk and focus on increasing her attraction. If you can't make her physically interested. What's great about this technique is you make HER work for YOUR attention. The harder she has to work. you tell her that you have to back your friends. What you want to do is find a specific time where the conversation could stop or progress to the next level.

Also it's important to remember that woman have busy lives just like you. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. there’s an equally important trait: Being Proactive. So when I tell you to be persistent. there could be outside factors which require her attention. Like persistence. the tip is simple! When meeting (and dating) women you have to be PERSISTANT. The logic is women will be attracted because they're forced to do the pursuing. I DON'T mean you should stalk every girl you "really like". If you're waiting around for her to call. Nor do I mean you should blow her off every time she wants to hang out because you want to "seem cool". Now before you go out and start stalking every woman you meet. but you should NEVER stalk a woman who has no interest in you. Don't be afraid to follow-up with woman and set up . But always remember that there are certain times when it's important to stop pursuing a woman and move on! In addition to persistence. In other words. I know this sounds harsh. So while she might be interested in you.Persistence AND Proactive: Two Traits You Must Have Well. When I talk about this attitude. So remember that persistence is a great attitude. being proactive will increase your success with women. let explain what I mean about persistence. then you might miss out on an opportunity with a great girl. Eventually you'll encounter a girl who won't return your calls. Now there's the reverse side of being persistent. Remember that most women let guys make the first move. In other words. Instead actively call her and set up dates.chickmagnet101. If she doesn't return a number of your calls then she doesn't want to talk to you. here's a tip that I'm a little hesitant to discuss. I mean that you shouldn't be afraid to follow-up with a woman where there is some chemistry. So I urge you to read and understand it FULLY before you follow my advice. don't listen to your buddies and wait 7 days to call her. Anyway. I mean you should make an effort when it comes to pursuing women. they follow the advice of waiting 5-7 days before calling a girl.Tip #25. But what’s funny is many guys think playing games is the best way to increase attraction. A woman might still have interest EVEN if she's not making the first move. What this means is it's up to YOU to follow-up and set up a date. This is the point where your persistence must STOP.

And since you've just met her. After grabbing a woman’s . When you develop a proactive personality. your success will dramatically increase. she’ll probably have to ditch something in her life. Now once she decides that you’re expendable. If you become a proactive guy. it’ll probably be YOU. Women.chickmagnet101. By not calling her. When you pursue women and immediately make the first call (within 2 days). When she gets busy. you’ll have the skills for turning those digits into dates and fun times! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. family. As a result. and other guys. get busy with their lives. you’re in direct competition for her time against her job. all your efforts will have been wasted. You’ll date more and will have more opportunities for finding someone special So ask yourself which guy gets laid more: The guy who waits for women to call first? OR The guy who is proactive and quickly follows up with women? Just remember that getting a phone number is the FIRST step in the dating process.The problem is this technique RARELY works! Think of it this way. like men. Once this happens you only have yourself to blame. being proactive is an incredibly important trait to develop. you'll become the guy who has more women in his life. you'll stick out in her mind. you've killed your chances of making a connection to that girl As you can see.

you ask questions to the group and find out how they know each other.Never Fear Other Guys When you’re out meeting women how do you deal with other guys? This is an important question to ask yourself. So do yourself a favor and don’t DISQUALIFY yourself before even taking a chance and approaching her. Actually she probably WANTS a have a guy to approach her.Tip #26. but not too aggressive manner. If you’re like a lot of guys. This is a mistake! Just because a woman is surrounded by guys. you’ll DEFINITELY encounter situations where an attractive woman has a few guys with her.ALL girls have a few male . But they might be her friends instead of her lovers. I HIGHLY recommend should ALWAYS approach a girl if she's surrounded by guys. Usually type of conversation starter is a way to approach a group in a friendly. What I recommend is to use an opinion opener which I learned from The Art of Approaching system. The result is you'll approach LOTS of women who want to have guys talk to them. By doing this. you can quickly learn if the target woman is dating any of the guys. it doesn’t mean that she isn’t AVAILABLE. you're taking action which scares other guys. If you approach and then find out that she’s dating one of the guys. then you can transition and isolate her from the group. So you’ll often see available women with guys around her. Whenever you’re out approaching women. By approaching women surrounded by men. then you can quickly move on. Remember this. If you discover that she's single.chickmagnet101. Once you use your opener. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. In fact. Which makes it easier to get more numbers and dates. you’ll assume one of them is her boyfriend and move on. because other men haven’t had the courage to talk to her. Because you never know who is available and who isn’t.

It’s that powerful! Here’s an example of how it works: Over a year and a half ago. she would start singing “You’re Beautiful” in a high voice whenever somebody started acting a little gay. Many “seduction gurus” have long understood the importance of using basic psychological principles to make women more attracted. You take a neutral item that has NO emotional connection to a woman. it’s likely that some popular music will be playing in the background. this technique can be a funny way she can remember you. it’s so powerful. In fact. The way I anchored that song created a frame of reference that was really powerful. she’ll always think of YOU when she looks at this object. While this might seem a bit weird. she’ll think of you WEEKS later when she hears this song. While I’m normally against doing anything that projects a low status attitude. To be honest. It’s called “Anchoring”. I bet she still cracks up every time she hears that song. Through a shared experience. I hung out with her a number of times after that night. But there’s one NLP I regularly use that can help you increase your overall success with women. so let’s talk about an example of how anchoring can be used in your dating life. To anchor this memory. she’ll laugh and probably join in. To this day. With anchoring you basically create a fun memory that floods her with positive emotions. it really connected to this girl.How to Anchor an NLP Memory One of the earliest techniques used within the “seduction community” was implementing Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) to meet women. Ultimately this will get her to think about you when you’re not around. and you use it to trigger a positive emotion within a woman.Tip #27.chickmagnet101. start singing along with the song…OFF KEY! As long as you’ve already demonstrated high status. Whenever you meet a woman. NLP is a hard concept for many guys to learn. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here . when the song came on. Often it seems hokey or too mechanical to work in the real world. I started singing the song in this high falsetto voice. Now this concept may seem a little abstract. The idea of anchoring is simple. Finally. And every time I saw her. there was that dreadful song “You’re Beautiful” by James Blunt. One day I was at a bar talking to a girl. I start this whole bit about how I thought James Blunt was gay and they should play this song every time somebody acts a little “fruity”.

When you meet a . And a great way to do this is to anchor some popular song that she’ll often hear when you’re not around.The point is simple. you want to stand out in a positive and funny manner.chickmagnet101. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.

Tip #28- Why Teasing Can Build Instant Attraction
As you learned in a past tip, being a nice guy gets you nowhere with women. This reasoning is simple. Women are NOT attracted to guys who behave in a submissive manner. In essence, being a nice guy will end up boring a woman to tears! But there’s something to remember about this philosophy. While it’s crucial to not be too nice, it’s equally important to not come across as an arrogant jerk. So this presents a unique challenge. Around women, you must find that sweet spot between being a challenge while not acting TOO arrogant. What’s surprising is the solution is fairly simple. Whenever you talk to a woman, you MUST display a humorous but slightly teasing attitude. In other words, you say funny things while generally treating a woman like your “bratty little sister”. Now a lot of guys get confused about how humor should be used around women. Basically they're not sure why they should use it or why it's important. Being funny is directly correlated to being perceived as a fun guy. As a result, if you can project a humorous attitude, women will have fun around you. This is true even if you’re teasing her. If you create nicknames for her and not act afraid to make a few jokes at her expense, you’ll increase your chances of attracting her. While making fun of girl might seem counterproductive, there are concrete reasons why it works: 1) You’re demonstrating a high status personality by not acting like the “nice guy” who is concerned with pleasing her 2) You’re showing a sense of humor and a playful attitude 3) You're reversing traditional gender roles by putting HER in the position of the pursuer Teasing a woman can include a lot of things. For instance, you can give do negs, give her a nickname or use your body language in a humorous manner. The key is to use your humor in a manner which makes it seem like you don’t care TOO much about what she thinks of you. By teasing a woman, you're creating a situation where she’s NOT sure if you’re attracted to her. As a result, she'll think of you as a challenge and will start to subconsciously prove herself.

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In the end, teasing a woman can be one of the best ways to build attraction and take an ordinary conversation to the next level.

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Tip #29- Keep Talking Even When Nervous
Being nervous around women can be one of your biggest obstacles in your dating life. If you’re tongue tied and shaky when talking, you will NOT be attractive to girls. Now there is something I find interesting. In a recent radio show, I heard that many TOUGH guys would rather be in combat then approach a woman. Yes it’s true. Some men would prefer being shot at then approach a pretty-looking girl. Sounds crazy, right? Well, if the toughest guys in the world feel nervous around women then this emotion MUST be pretty powerful. But what do you do if you’re like these guys and get REALLY nervous about approaching women? The solution is pretty simple. In order to overcome your nervousness, you must learn to TALK TO WOMEN. What do I mean? In order to overcome your nervous feelings about talking to women, you must learn to initiate conversations as a reflex action. In other words, you should strike up a conversation with every woman you encounter. (In a recent tip, I discussed how to do this) So during each day, you should look for opportunities to talk to women. If you think of it as practice and NOT because you’re trying to “pick up” a woman, then you’ll quickly squash any feelings of nervousness. In addition, if you learn to talk to every woman you encounter, this behavior will become second nature! In the long run, you'll find it's pretty easy to approach attractive women. And then you’ll become a master at initiating conversations with women! Always remember that practice always makes perfect. If you’re nervous about talking to women, then solution is to keep doing it till it becomes comfortable.

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The best part is you can use a woman’s body language to measure your success. HER body language can tell you a lot about her levels of attraction. Then you use this information to determine your next step. then act accordingly you’ll increase your chance of picking her up! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you can calibrate and try something else. you can learn a lot about their levels of attraction. she’ll subconsciously move closer and find a reason to touch you. By being able to pick up one these “attraction signals” you know that whatever you’re doing is working! So to study a woman’s body language. If things aren’t going well. For instance. it becomes easier to emotionally and physically escalate a conversation. For instance when a woman finds you attractive. women can show MANY indicators of interest.chickmagnet101. By understanding when a woman is “into” you.How to Read Her Body Language As I discussed in a recent tip. you should identify when you’re getting both a POSITIVE and NEGATIVE reaction. Simply through studying their body language. If you make it a habit to study her signals. And if can successfully interpret these cues.Tip #30. here are a few different cues you can receive from women: Positive • She moves closer to you when you say something interesting • She touches you throughout the conversation • She teases and jokes with you • She maintains eye contact and isn’t distracted by people around her Negative • She has “closed off” body language during the conversation • Her eyes wander throughout the room • She answers your questions with one word answers • She engages other people in conversation and ignores your questions As I mentioned . you can use this information to know what kind of “move” to make.

Then clearly think of a mental map of how you can achieve this outcome. For instance if you’re looking for a “one night stand”. Now there is one important thing to remember about setting goals. In other words.chickmagnet101. In other words. then you should focus on approaching an easy target and going heavy on the flirting/sexual innuendos. you have to set a goal EACH time before you approach a woman. you must specifically DEFINE it! And this could also be said about meeting women! If you want to be successful with women. By doing this. Just remember that establishing outcomes for EACH conversation can help you achieve it. If you set goals for EACH approach. before each conversation you should ask yourself: • Do I want her number? • Am I looking for a girlfriend • Do I want to sleep with her tonight? • Should I go for the date? • Am I just approaching simply to have a conversation By establishing a goal for each conversation. On the other hand.Tip #31. when you’re meeting a woman for the first time. if you want a girlfriend. you should decide what goal you’re shooting for. For instance. you should define the outcomes that you want. then you should demonstrate higher status.Know Your Outcome Before Talking One of the reasons I succeed in a lot of things in my life is because I know the power of setting goals. you want to show the basic character traits of an interesting guy that woman would want to date. Create a mental picture of what you want. In order to achieve an outcome. you can adjust the way you talk and who you approach. I’m able to easily achieve it. you can steer the conversation towards obtaining it. You’ll discover that mentally creating a clear picture of your approach techniques can do wonders for getting what you want! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you’ll increase your chances of getting it! So to make this work. By establishing a CLEAR cut understanding of what I .

then you have to start TALKING like one. then you’ll only end up displaying an anxious persona. attractive women are usually drawn to guys with powerful jobs. If you’re nervous around women. What makes these men stand out from the crowd? Well.chickmagnet101. There are a few simple ways you can do this. then you NEED to work on them. By showing that they’re the “leader of the pack”. So if you want to be perceived as a LEADER when you’re around women. it’s simple.Tip #32. For instance you can demonstrate high levels of authority in the stories you tell.Speak to Women with Authority Women are naturally drawn to leaders! You can see evidence of this in almost every social situation. these men are able exude extreme levels of authority. As long as you believe in yourself. And in the “real world”. the most *desired* girls in your high school probably dated the popular athletes. Just remember that leaders are guys who believe in themselves. But if you identify your problem areas and constantly WORK on them. For instance. women will believe in you! The truth is being an authority means having complete confidence in yourself! This means if you’re having “inner-game” issues. you can easily transform yourself into a guy who naturally displays an authoritative attitude. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. I discovered the value of authority when I was recently reading a book on human . What I discovered was how people tend to believe ALMOST any statement if you say it with complete confidence. The guys who are most successful at attracting women are usually able to demonstrate high levels of authority. the openers you use and the body language you display.

Storytelling to Build Attraction and Rapport If you're like other guys. And you can do the same! By telling her entertaining stories. learn to tell it to every new woman you meet. you can say goodbye to any chance you have to attract this woman. It's human nature to LOVE STORIES. then your mind suddenly goes blank and you can't have anything to talk about. This is especially true when you know the story cold. with you as the central character. The good news is there is a way to completely CAPTIVATE her attention during a conversation. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Although you might know the story by heart. But that's not what you should do… If you have a good enough story. For instance one story I often use when I meet a woman is about the time I was running and almost got hit by Bruce Springsteen when he was driving his car. you'll completely captivate her attention. The important thing is to get to the point where you can tell this story as a reflex. it'll be entertaining to any new woman you've just met. In order to tell a good story you have to first think of different incidents and scenarios which a woman will find both interesting and entertaining. Think about it… There have been times when you've been completely captivated by a person because he or she was able to tell a really interesting story. Then practice telling these stories around people.chickmagnet101. All you have to do is utilize the power of . What sucks is you could be talking to a great woman. there will be moments in a conversation where you can't think of anything to say.Tip #33. Now you might think is you should use a different story every time you talk to a new woman. Once this happens.

Since this happened MANY years ago.chickmagnet101. I promise you'll like the reactions you get from women.I craft the story in a humorous way with him giving me the finger and my . Then practice telling them every time you meet a woman. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Just sit down and craft a bunch of interesting stories. YOU can also entertain women with your stories. I've had a lot of experience telling it and making it really entertaining.

com . Instead they create a conversation that is similar to a boring job interview. The good news is you can EASILY tap into a woman’s inclination to discuss sex if YOU have the courage to bring it up! By discussing the topic in a “non-creepy” manner.chickmagnet101. you’ll be perceived as a sexually confident guy. The problem is these topics do NOTHING to build rapport or attraction. so they generally avoid this topic. then you MUST bring up this topic EARLY in a conversation. then get her feedback about similar incidences in her own life. What I find interesting is women think about sex as much as us. The key here is to bring up the topic in a way that is not lewd. And this will help increase your chances of “getting physical” with the women you meet. This means that when you first meet a woman. while maintaining her levels of comfort. What I found to work best is to tell a story related to “one of your friends”. A major mistake that men make when they first meet a woman is to discuss “safe topics”. Just remember that you WANT a woman to think of you as a potential dating partner. or what she does during her free time. most guys will only discuss things like her work. Simply discuss a humorous incident. this isn’t what they usually get from guys. women WANT some excitement. they’re terrified to talk about SEX! Now I understand that you might be one of those guys who is worried about offending a woman. Unfortunately. But if you want to build sexual tension. If you do this correctly. you shouldn’t shy away from joking about sex or using a few sexual innuendos. you can steer a conversation towards the topic of sex. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.Tip #34. you can joke about the topic while NOT making her uncomfortable. Perhaps even more! However most don’t want to be regarded as promiscuous or “easy”.Using Sexual Innuendos During Your Conversation When it comes to dating. In essence. In an effort to not “offend” a girl. background. By introducing the topic into a conversation early on.

How to Build Rapport with Women As I’ve discussed throughout this .chickmagnet101.Tip #35. So obviously rapport is something that MUST be built during the comfort stage of a conversation. Then once she becomes comfortable. Rapport can be created by doing a few different things. you can quickly build her levels of trust. attraction isn’t about a smooth opener and five minutes of conversation. building comfort then moving to a private location. set up a date or even go home with her. For instance. here are some ways YOU can build rapport with women: • Discuss common interests and hobbies • Establish physical contact • Tease and neg in a playful manner • Discuss interesting stories which demonstrate higher value • Do future “future adventures” and talk about the fun things you COULD do together • Look for her “Indicators of Interest” and escalate the conversation from this information So after you’ve been talking to woman for awhile. When it occurs. When you establish rapport with a woman. then you’ll increase her levels of attraction. you’ll discover it’s easier to escalate her levels of physical attraction. rapport is being “in sync” with her and sharing heightened levels of attraction. If she trusts you and feels a CONNECTION. you must move into the rapport building stage. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. And this can often lead to an intimate experience. it becomes easy to get her number. It’s about creating that spark of chemistry. All of this is called "rapport" What is rapport? When it comes to women.

So a great way to ask a girl out would to talk about your exciting life and the things you enjoy. you mentioned you like live music. Then make sure you do this every time you meet a woman. you’re casually inviting her into an exciting part of YOUR world.chickmagnet101. For instance. You should tag along! Here let me get your number!” How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. women want a guy who is confident and takes initiative. The Wrong Way to Ask a Out a Girl The worst way to ask a woman on a date is to be unclear about your plans. As you probably know. Instead of presenting her with a formal date request. the date request should be an extension of your lifestyle. This is where you conclude the conversation with a weak statement that doesn’t build interest OR excitement. That’s why it’s important to know HOW to ask a girl out. you can ask a girl out like this: “Hey. place and the activity. you can easily land a date. a wrong way to request a date would sound like this: “I enjoyed talking to you. But before we get to that. In addition.Tip #36. you’ll demonstrate low self esteem. Furthermore. If you want to her to go out with you. when you give an ambiguous date request you do nothing to indicate your high status. let’s review the WRONG way to phrase your date request. then the date itself should sound intriguing. Would you like to go out sometime?” The reason this doesn't work is it does nothing to make her interested about going on a date. you’ll seem weak and low status. you see if she wants to join with an activity that you enjoy. Then as the initial conversation comes to a conclusion. This can include the day/ . But if you phrase it badly. Done correctly. A group of us are checking out that ____ band at ____ on ____. It should be an awesome time. For instance. Now let’s move on to a correct way to ask for a date… The Right Way to Ask a Out a Girl When you ask a woman out there should indicator of exactly what’s going to happen.How to Ask a Girl Out On a Date There is a right and wrong way to ask a girl out on date. When you’re unclear about your date request.

Also. if you state this with a high level of energy and status. rapport and comfort. you should EASILY conclude the conversation with a phone number and date plan.This is an excellent way to ask a girl on a date because it gives ALL the necessary information without seeming too needy. If you follow my advice after building attraction. she’ll naturally feel excited about joining . How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.

Most women want guys who are high . That’s why it’s important to use a neutral opener that doesn’t indicate your interest. Frankly. Because this is a topic covered by MANY sites.Approaching Women Approaching women isn’t about using some cheesy pick up line. What’s the end result? Well.Mental Game The most “seductive” men are the guys who overcome the problems with their confidence and self limiting beliefs.Make Her Attracted How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. he’ll fail to understand the PHILOSOPHY behind each technique. with the large amount of “seduction material” the average guy can learn a lot about various “pick up tricks”. I think that most men fail to realize the importance of their mind when it comes to meeting women. then you’ll do better then 99% of the other guys who only look for “quick-fix” solutions. If you understand the point behind each step. So here is MY five-step formula for how seduction works: #1. #2. you must practice displaying an attractive personality. yet mysterious persona. you’ll attract her attention without triggering her natural inclination to be wary of new guys talking to her. there is almost TOO much information out there.chickmagnet101. In order to be seductive to women. By NOT displaying signs of interest on your approach. But in all likelihood. And this helps to reinforce a confident. What these guys understand is the importance of having the right mindset before approaching women. I think the ENTIRE process of seduction can be boiled down to a few easy steps. #3.Seduction Tip #37-The 5 Step Process For Seducing Women Seduction can be a confusing concept for many guys. It’s about displaying a high status personality while attracting her interest.

In addition. seduction is something that should be happening from the moment you meet a woman. #5. This is what flirting is all about. #4. For now. Once you detect these flirting signals. And if she gives you the responses that YOU look for. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. And this attraction is established within the first few minutes of meeting a guy. In fact. she must know that you like her for who SHE is rather then her appearance. As a woman becomes attracted to you. And during the later stages of interaction. As I stated before. Basically the idea of giving (then taking way) your attraction is to create sexual tension. When you first start talking to a woman. So there you have it! The ENTIRE process of seduction summarized into a few steps. Once you approach a woman.chickmagnet101. Basically these are routines where you subtly get a woman to sell herself. One minute you’re showing signs of interest. you can demonstrate your own signs of attraction.The Seduction While this is the last step listed. you need to focus on creating attraction. you must be communicating a sexually confident aura. (That’s why I’ve devoted a whole site to this topic). There are many routines and techniques you can use to make this happen. all you need to know is the importance of creating attraction. MOST of the content you’ll find on “seduction websites” focuses on creating that spark of . Seduction is about recognizing her attraction signals and responding with the appropriate response. seduction is about knowing how to physically escalate.You CAN’T have seduction unless she’s attracted to you. you should “push and pull” the interaction. a big mistake you could make with a woman is to demonstrate YOUR attraction before she displays her. the next you’re pushing her away and teasing her in a funny manner.Show your attraction In order for a woman to become emotionally invested in a guy. kiss her and THEN progress towards “closing the deal”. it’s also about being the guy who is confident enough the control each level of progression. she’ll demonstrate specific Indicators of Interest. Obviously there is a lot more to learn about this process.

chickmagnet101. it becomes that much easier to improve your success with women.However. it’s important to understand the idea behind this system. When you understand WHY you should learn a specific . How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.

So if she is attracted to somebody who is “tall. At some point. ugly. you can still create a spark of attraction if you understand the principle of SEXUAL TENSION. Now there is an important reason for creating this tension. Every girl has her own particular taste in a guy. As a result. you want to help a woman understand that the ONLY way to eliminate this tension is to take things to a physical level. During her formative years. Attractive women are used to guys acting like nice guys and kissing their asses. If you’re able to create sexual chemistry. you’ve probably heard this term. One minute you’re touching her and providing a pleasurable experience. you should understand that deep down inside women want a guy who presents a challenge. a woman develops her tastes for what she specifically likes in a guy. You can’t control it and you won’t know what she likes until you approach her. A woman’s desire for you starts WAY before you’ve even met her. it’s important to fix what you can and display a top-notch personal appearance.Creating Great Sexual Chemistry Sexual Chemistry At some point in your life. And that’s what you’re doing when you create sexual tension. By giving her mixed signals about YOUR attraction. The important thing to remember is that a conversation NEEDS tension. But how do you create it? Well. albino dude. While looks are initially important to a woman. then you won’t initially create sexual tension if you’re a short. there’s a simple truth about sexual chemistry. then you have a virtual lock on getting her into the . In order to trigger her “attraction switches”. Then once you know you’re “looking your best”.chickmagnet101. this phrase represents the holy grail of all interactions with a woman. you’re NOT providing a way to resolve the tension that you’ve built. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Then you’re pushing her away and teasing the hell out of her. dark and handsome”. For a lot of guys. A conversation should involve subtle techniques for pushing a woman away THEN pulling her in. you can work on a REAL way to create sexual chemistry.Tip #38.

you should focus on creating enough tension that’ll increase her levels of attraction. a woman feels excited and has conflicting feelings. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. She thinks you might be attracted to her. but isn’t quite sure. will she resolve the tension that’s been built. Only by taking things to a physical level. Remember that sexual chemistry is an important ingredient to a conversation. Whenever you meet a woman.In other words. with sexual . Then sit back and watch as she works hard for your attention.chickmagnet101.

the slap game or drawing on her arm. One of things that women want in a guy is a great sense of humor. Do a personality test Personality tests are great for building attraction and demonstrating higher value. So “playing games” with a woman can help you demonstrate humor while breaking the touch barrier. The problem is you have to do it without being perceived as “the creepy guy”. Don’t call attention to it or allow your touch to linger. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Then after demonstrating this skill. you should give her hands back. When you’re first talking to a woman.chickmagnet101. a palm reading test requires hand-to-hand contact. You can touch the sensitive parts of a woman’s hands while demonstrating a skill. What’s important about physical contact is it should be established in the first few minutes of a conversation. For instance. An easy way to initiate contact is to do it in a natural manner. For instance. Just make it seem like a normal extension of your demeanor.5 Ways to Initiate Physical Contact If you want an interaction with a woman to lead to sex. Play games with her Playfulness is an important part of ALL conversations. non-aggressive manner. it’ll become easy to transition into kissing her and leading things towards sex. the touch barrier can be broken by emphasizing a point. you want to do specific things that'll require touching her. you MUST establish physical contact! The simple truth is a girl won’t want to be intimate unless you first make her comfortable with your touch. All you need to do is lightly touch her arm or shoulder in a normal.Tip #39. And here are five ways to do it: Touch her to emphasize a point During the first few minutes of a conversation. The technique is pretty . they’re also incredibly useful for touching a woman. And once she’s grown used to your contact. you could initiate games like thumb/arm wrestling. The important thing is act casual about this action. This will show that you’re not trying to grope her. However.

As long as you act playful while doing these games. Created by David DeAngelo.chickmagnet101. you can easily establish physical contact while showing chivalrous side of you. For instance you can give her a quick high five. As long as she recognizes that you’re playing around. physical contact must be established within the first few minutes of meeting a woman. this routine generally involves being a sarcastic in a playful manner. it’ll be easy to touch her. be the first to go through it and offer your hand to guide her through As I stated at the beginning of this post. Do chivalrous things If you're walking together somewhere. Cocky/funny routines Cocky/funny is a great way to show a humorous AND slightly arrogant women. If you implement the five tips I discussed in this article. One way to use cocky/funny is to establish physical contact. you’ll be able to break this barrier in a simple yet effective manner. you playfully walk her into objects. she’ll love your cocky/funny routines. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. For instance you could do these things: • Open a door and lead her in with your hand on her lower back • Offer your arm as you're walking into a place • When you're walking through a crowd of people. shove her lightly on her shoulder when you're joking . or give her “bump hip check” when you walk by her. Also if you're walking together.

I receive a LOT of email from guys needing help in their dating lives. MOST ‘seduction gurus’ recommend that you ALWAYS go for a kiss on the first date. After you meet a woman. according to Google. let’s move on to the kissing… From what I’ve seen. So when’s the right moment? Well traditionally. And one of the MOST common questions I receive is “Should I go for a kiss on the first date?” Well instead of answering every email. this will only create an awkward situation. What I recommend is to look for Indicators of Interest that provide signals of her levels of attraction. I personally think guys place WAY too much emphasis on the ‘first date’. I generally mean the FIRST time you hang out with a girl after getting her number/email.Tip #40. guys commonly request help in this area. Part of dating or “hanging out” with a woman is to see if there is GENUINE attraction between the two of you. I believe that you should try to initiate kissing ONLY if there is mutual interest.Going For a Kiss on Your First Date Every . So when I talk about the first date.chickmagnet101. If you try to force a kiss. WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. it’s recommended that you wait till the END of the date. I decided to create a blog post to specifically answer this question. you know she wants to be kissed. When you receive at least 3 or 4 of these signs. First off. Now that I’ve clarified what I mean by the first date. In fact. Actually I ENCOURAGE you to keep things lighthearted when you’re meeting a woman for the first time. A “first date” can simply involve hanging out in a casual environment. But I want to clear the air about the first date. you do NOT have to bring her to some fancy restaurant or follow “traditional” dating rules. Unfortunately I disagree.

Honestly I believe there’s no such thing as the perfect . there are small opportunities which you must seize upon! So if you know she’s attracted. go for the kiss! If you read her signs correctly. then I guarantee you won’t be rejected! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101. It shouldn’t be done at the end of a date or during “the perfect moment”. Instead.You should initiate kissing ANYTIME you think she’s ready.

As your relationship developed. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101. The key is to do these things without coming across as a complete asshole. In order change her opinion. we’re going to cover my three-step plan for turning that friend into a lover… Step 1. this is one of those situations where that’s EXTREMELY difficult to change! And the only way to do it is to take drastic measures. they can’t figure out how to get her.Tip #41. So. here are a few things you need to STOP doing immediately: • • • • • Calling her all the time Listening to her talk about her guy problems Taking her on ‘pseudo’ dates Putting her needs in front of yours Being the shoulder she can always cry on You might think this is a bit drastic. Well if this sounds familiar. In this tip. NOT as a sexual being. you made her look at you like a buddy. you need to “shake things up” a bit! This means ELIMINATING the specific actions that initially pushed you into the ‘friends zone’. Don’t completely blow her off. but let her know that you need to take care of some things for awhile. What I suggest is to simply become “really busy” in your life. but remember we’re trying to completely shift the nature of your relationship. But. it’s necessary to have her completely change the way she thinks of you. You can’t stop thinking of her and she’s everything you want from a woman. then you’re not alone! Probably the most common problem I hear about from men is how they secretly want a SPECIFIC . What’s the solution? To be honest. The problem is she ONLY considers you to be a friend. For instance.Change Your Actions There’s something you probably never realized… The reason that you’re friends (and not intimate) with this girl is DIRECTLY related to the things that you did when you first met her.How to Turn Your Friend into Your Girlfriend Do this sound like you… There is a female friend in your life who you secretly desire.

you want to reconnect with your female friend. This leads us to the next (and final) phase… Step 3. you should start hanging out with more women. this will make her feel just a *little* jealous. I’ve found that an infatuation with a particular woman often stems from not having a lot going on with your life.Sealing the Deal The key to a successful meeting (or date) is to do something that’ll connect to the emotional (not logical) side of her brain. So forget all thoughts of a boring activity like a dinner or movie! Instead you want to bring her somewhere that’ll elevate her mood and make her feel excited! Remember FUN is directly connected to AROUSAL. Now once you’re on the phone. Trust me. By engaging in activities that are fun. you want to vaguely mention a few of the women that are in your life. just casually mention a few new “friends” that you now . there might be someone who is MUCH better than this girl.Transform Yourself Now that we’ve removed yourself from her immediate radar. Whereas you were once her “emotional tampon”. This means creating an attractive lifestyle where she can’t help but be drawn to you! First. you’re going to work on becoming the kind of person she would find sexually enticing. even months.Which brings us to the next phase of this plan… Step 2. make a suggestion to “hang out” sometime. Call her up and talk about some of the things that you’ve done with yourself. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101. Don’t brag. This is another action that’ll give an idea of what else is out there. you’ll now become someone who she WANTS to date. For all you know. Furthermore. you’ll start to gain a broader perspective on this particular woman. Finally after a few weeks. (Hopefully you’ll have a lot of stories that’ll pique her interest). Perhaps she might even be as great as you once thought! Next. start doing stuff that makes YOU happy. You want to bring her somewhere where you she’ll connect the positive feelings to being around you.

Now. Rather than forcing her to make a decision. or going to a fun concert. you want to focus on creating SEXUAL TENSION. This three-step plan is incredibly effective because it avoids the awkward conversation that some guys feel is the “only” way to change the nature of a relationship. I do recommend you take a look at the Friends Into Lovers site which has a much more advanced strategy for ‘getting’ the women in your life. playfully touching her and having fun. teasing her. And since she is already having fun. you’re subtly altering her opinion of you in a way that’s connecting to her emotional states instead of her logic. engaging in a sport. doing something risky/dangerous. this is just a very basic plan. And at this point. exercising. Rather than being the predictable. This means flirting. You’ll be the exciting guy who can elevate her positive . she’s not going to be in a position where she worries about “ruining your friendship”.chickmagnet101. sexless man she once knew. dancing. working out. things will naturally evolve into a more “intimate” relationship. She’ll no longer see you as a friend. watching an exciting athletic game. These actions are critical because you want her to see you in a completely new light. you’re acting like a potential lover.For instance. All of these ideas are great for getting her to move around and arousing the emotional side of her brain. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. Now when you’re with her. you can bring to places like an amusement park.

In fact by working at different bars. I'm able to stand out from other guys and have them APPROACH ME. whenever a good-looking woman requests a certain song. Here's what I mean… There are a number of occupations where you can work part-time and meet women in a social situation. Since a lot of these positions require a certain level of sarcasm and humor. From my personal experience as a DJ.Lifestyle Tips Tip #42. you'll be regarded as an authority figure. But there are a few part-time jobs. you can flirt in a confident manner without women being aware that you're trying to pick them up.Finding a Job That Attracts Women We all know that women are attracted to "power people" like lawyers.chickmagnet101. So if you're having trouble with meeting women. When you work at one of these jobs. or a waiter. The plain truth is women are attracted to guys with confidence and leaders. you'll display the same characteristics which will attract women. DJ. I think working a few hours each week in a social industry is an incredible way you can meet attractive women. Since they often look at my job as an "authority figure". Furthermore. then you might want to look into working part time at a social job. doctors or architects. which can increase your chances of meeting and attracting a woman. you're encountering women when they're relaxed and want to have fun. For instance. I've found that it's really easy to attract and engage women in conversations. Now even if you already have a full-time job. In addition to attracting women. Typically these jobs include being a bartender. you can use a social job to freely flirt with women. I use this opportunity to tease her and engage her in a conversation. women will be engaging YOU in conversations. You'll probably discover that you're chances of meeting and attracting women will dramatically increase. when you work at a "social job". Due to the social nature of this environment. that anyone can do. bouncer. In fact. it's really simple to build rapport and attraction. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you should still think about working a few hours in one of these . When you 're working at these jobs.

And the best way to do this is to act like a busy guy. mention all the activities that you do. Between the period between meeting a woman and contacting her.Become the Busy Guy There are many characteristics of what women find attractive in a man. Emphasize that you want to see her again. For instance. cut the conversation short and tell her you have a lot of things to get done. she'll work hard *make an impression* the next time you meet. As I mentioned before. you have to find a way to stand out in her mind. let her know that you have a lot happening during the week. What he said was girls are naturally attracted to men who have interesting things going on. Then you tell her that you want to make definite plans on a specific day. Finally once you go on the date. Generally what happens is the attraction they built during the initial meeting falls flat and they can't set up a date. So she'll be more attracted to you if you can demonstrate that you have a lot going on in your life. In a way you're displaying higher value by letting her know that you're not a guy who sits around the house nervously waiting for her call. Now the truth is MANY guys are terrible at following up with women after getting a phone number or email address. but you're willing to let her be part of it. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. So it's important to reestablish that connect and make her interested in you. I was recently rereading one of my favorite books where the author discussed how being a "busy guy" can help you build attraction with women you know. So it's important to demonstrate specific qualities which women want from men.Tip #43. let her know that you have a busy life. Also. women are extremely attracted to men who have exciting and interesting lives. a lot of things can draw her attention away from you.chickmagnet101. Be vague about what you're doing. you'll show women that you're a fun and interesting guy. Now to act like a busy guy. After you make plans (ie: set up a date). but make it sound interesting. by acting like a busy guy. In other works. but "things have been crazy" in your life. she'll subconsciously think you might be dating other women. Since she probably has a lot of things happening in her life. you need to do the following… When you initially call . If you display "Alpha Male" traits. If this woman thinks she has a bit of competition.

com .chickmagnet101.If you can demonstrate that you have an active life you'll discover that women will find more attractive. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.

Increasing Your Social Circle Many guys have the erroneous belief that meeting women ALWAYS involves going to a specific location and approaching strangers. The solution is simple. So remember this… In order to increase your chances of meeting more women. In addition. you'll see a dramatic increase in invitations to these events. All you have to do is make a concerted effort to improve your social life. By having a better social life. you'll develop platonic relationships with lots of women. The truth is there is another way you can meet women without feeling the need to frequent crowded bars. When you try to make friends with more people. you'll increase your opportunities for meeting interesting women. you could have an opportunity to meet and date their friends. Furthermore by having more female buddies. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. make it a point to befriend her.Tip #44. And by creating a good social . an increase in the quantity of friends will provide an excellent opportunity to do new and exciting things. it'll be a lot easier to break the ice with their friends. Now the truth is a lot of women are attracted to guys who have an active social life. these women won't be so wary about you talking to them. Then over time.chickmagnet101. If you've familiar with the psychology of women. it's important to get a healthy social life. your options for dating women will dramatically increase. She probably has a few cute friends that you can meet later on. you'll have an opportunity to be set up with their attractive friends. Since you have "personal recommendation" from your women friends. especially females. But even if your female friends won't set you up with women they know. By making new friends and contacts. then you know that they love to play the role of matchmaker with their single friends. Unlike approaching a woman at a bar. Even if you know you're not attracted to a woman. you can still meet their friends at social activities like a party or happy hour.

Now what I've discovered is that it's important to display a top-notch appearance. Try asking them which colognes they like best on their boyfriends. But the question is: Should you buy ANY cologne that you see? The answer is no! Because some fragrances "disagree" with many females. it is this: women will make an instant judgment on you from the moment you approach them. then you'll increase your overall success with women. By spraying on a fragrance. Try different fragrances and get her opinion on which ones smell the best. The two of you should go your local mall and do some research. it's important to do research and find out what cologne women like best.Wearing the Right Cologne If there is one lesson I've learned well as a guy. As a result. it's important to find out what cologne do women prefer! One solution is to grab a female friend and have her help you out. then you'll kill your chances of attracting them. And as part of your overall looks. So if you make a bad first impression. If you're not careful with what you buy you run the risk of turning off the same woman you're trying to attract. Then buy the one which has the highest recommendation. It's well known that women prefer guys who wear a nice cologne. it's important to wear cologne that women love. Since women are more in tune with their sense of smell. But if you don't have time to go fragrance shopping. you should always remember to apply a quality fragrance before you go . Another trick is to get the opinions from the women who work at the cologne counter. then take a look at some of the colognes that I know women prefer: • • • • • • Le Male by Jean Paul Gaultier Hugo Boss Phoenix Body Spray from Axe Curve for Men Versace Blue Jeans by Gianni Versace Contradiction by Calvin Klein How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you'll discover that it'll help your ability to attract women. If you look and feel good.Tip #45.

But if you take the time to wear a nice cologne.Being able to attract women often comes down to many elements. you'll improve your overall chances of success.chickmagnet101. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here .

My response to this question is ALWAYS a resounding NO! But there is one MAJOR catch to this statement. your smile can be your SECRET WEAPON for attracting women. you should spend a little extra on a few items which look REALLY good. putting on deodorant. you'll end up attracting slobbish women. So you might have to make a few financial sacrifices if you want clothes which will impress girls.Why Your Appearance DOES Matter Perhaps the question I get asked the most about women is if you need looks or money to attract women. While I think you have the ability to attract women. So remember to brush and floss twice a day. Furthermore liberally use breath mints and gum. Wear fashionable clothes If you want to meet attractive women.Tip #46. Now the trick is to learn how to smile as a reflex every time you approach a woman. you still need to present an appearance which is . In addition to smiling it's equally important to have display a mouth which is free from stains or bad breath.chickmagnet101. Have great hygiene Like your smile. Here are a few ways to dramatically improve your personal appearance: 1. you have to be willing to wear fashionable clothes. I mean you should do everything to look your BEST. If you look like a slob. The key to improving your wardrobe is to purchase some clothes which match today's latest fashion. And when I talk about appearance. If you don't have a natural smile. it's extremely critical to have proper hygiene. 3. 2. getting a haircut and showering regularly. In other words. let me explain. Simple take the time to find which items look best on YOU and you'll make a dramatic improvement. This means shaving. Confused by this statement? If so. While you don't have to be good looking to be desired by women. you still need to have a top-notch personal appearance. the clothes you wear and how you display your body language will have a direct impact on your success rate. Smile every time you meet a woman If done properly. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. take the time to practice it. While you don't have to go out and buy a whole new wardrobe.

you must look your best. Just remember that your personal appearance is the first thing a woman will see. In order to be like them. So make sure you present yourself in the best possible .The guys who are really successful know that attractive women go for confident and sharp looking men. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.

you must be proactive and go to the places where she goes. then you should put on your "Sunday's Best" and head over to a church. Then all you have to do start frequenting the same spots where you'll likely encounter her.chickmagnet101. it becomes that much easier to envision the places where she goes. Typically these guys think there is some magical place they can go to meet the woman of their dreams. In other words. [Also. But the first place they look is their local bar. But statistically speaking. Then decide on the best places where she would hang out. being able to meet a woman involves improving your dating skills.Tip #47. homebody type of woman. Usually settling down is the farthest from their minds. you'll probably encounter girls who like to party and have a good time. For instance. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. some men want a sweet. Here's what I mean… Let's just say you decided one day that you want to hunt for dear. Would you grab a boat and go into the middle of a river? Probably not! If you were smart. In essence. here are a few types of women: • Party girls • Bookish. Typically they make the poor choice of looking for a SPECIFIC type of woman in places where she won't be. The truth is the best way to find the right kind of woman is to go where she hangs out. you would grab some camouflage and go into the woods. intellectual women • Business and professional women • Athletic girls • Spiritual women • Alternative and extreme lifestyle girls If you're able to define your ideal woman. To get started. they're hunting for a deer in the middle of a river! If you're serious about trying to find a specific type of girl. Now I'm not saying nice girls don't hang out at bars and clubs. You can take this analogy and apply this to a lot of guys. sit down and form an image of your PERFECT .Where to Meet the Right Woman That's a common question I get from a lot of guys. For instance. if you want a "spiritual church girl".

it's dangerous to develop an obsession. In fact the expression "Oneitis" comes from an inability to stop thinking about a specific girl in your life. So if you're struggling with obsessive feelings over one particular girl.How to Overcome Your Desire For “The One” When it comes to dating.STOP obsessing over her! If you're hung up on one particular woman. you should shift focus. The reason is when your thoughts are consumed by thoughts of a single girl. I guarantee you'll quickly forget about this girl. In fact. By filling your life with women you’ll receive FIVE major benefits: 1) You'll stop obsessing over that one woman you can't have 2) You'll have more opportunities to attend fun social events 3) You'll discover your “object of affection” is NOT that special 4) You'll become more HIGH STATUS because people will see that you're surrounded by interesting women 5) You'll demonstrate to this one woman that she's EASILY replaceable Oneitis is something which can plague the best of us. Unfortunately. you'll be incredibly disappointed when she repeatedly spurns your attention. a BAD case of oneitis has a devastating effect on your ability to meet women. make it a point to include LOTS of women in your life. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101. a guy tends to have strong feelings for a woman who does NOT return these feelings. With oneitis. When you increase your “female social circle”. you'll dramatically improve your . Instead of being obsessed over her. it becomes to TOO easy to avoid other women. then it might be time to take massive action. start dating OTHER women and try to make new female friends. Simply try to date other women and make new female friends. my advice is simple.Tip #48. To overcome oneitis. But you can easily overcome it if you include more women in your life. In other words.

But it's a real possibility if you're not taking care of your grooming habits. What's frustrating is having good personal hygiene is the one area in which you have COMPLETE control. I've noticed there is that ONE guy who tries hard to attract women.chickmagnet101. So if you want to ensure a top-notch appearance you should do the following EACH time before you go out to meet women: • Shower (Using an ample amount of soap. eyebrow or ear hair you have • Dress in a neat manner While these grooming tips may seem like common sense. a lot of guys seem to forget the importance of taking care of their appearance. social awkwardness or a lack of confidence. he's eliminating his chances of success. Yet I see a number of guys who don't make an effort in this area of their lives. It's my hope that I provide enough free information to help you overcome bad looks. but doesn't take the time to work on his grooming habits. What he doesn't realize is poor hygiene turns off women instead of attracting them. I work hard to provide great information for being attractive to women. Here's what I mean… In almost every social situation. As I always say: "If you look like a slob. Just remember that NO tip or technique will work if you have a lousy appearance or poor hygiene.Tip . However there is NOTHING I can do to help you if you don't take the time to work on your hygiene. and conditioner) • Clean your ears out with Q-Tips • Shave or trim your facial hair • Apply deodorant • Brush your teeth and use dental floss • Apply a popular cologne • Trim any nose. simply spend a little time each day and remember to groom yourself! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. you'll attract slobbish women!" Ultimately if you want to maximize your ability to attract women. By NOT taking a half hour each day for grooming. shampoo. Now on this website.Always Groom Yourself Do you like when women scream and run away from you? Well if you're like most guys this is the last thing you want.

For . Style was a self-proclaimed short. you can increase your success with women by creating a unique look. you’ll still increase your success if you demonstrate an interesting appearance. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www. But there’s one REALLY important exception to this statement. In a previous tip. By creating an interesting look. he transformed himself into a stylish person with a shaved head and unique facial hair. While women don't need to be with guys with great looks. balding. you can dramatically improve your appearance and create an interesting look that’ll drive women crazy! Whether it's the way you dress or how you wear your haircut. the renowned [PUA] who wrote ‘The Game’. Style went from average looking to a guy with a unique look. I discussed how your personal appearance is VERY important. As long as you have an interesting personality and know how to develop physical chemistry. there is probably something about your appearance that can be improved. What do I mean by this? Well. skinny guy with a large nose. then you won’t have to look like a male model. you’ll stand out from other guys and become more attractive. But with the help of Mystery. And you can do the same! No matter what you look like. created an interesting appearance that attracts women. This helped improve his confidence and increase his success with women. Neil Strauss (or Style). you don’t NEED good looks to be attractive to women.Creating a Unique Look As you probably know.Tip #50. A few years ago. In essence.chickmagnet101. no matter what you look like.

chickmagnet101. I recommend you take a look at the Friends Into Lovers system. BUT.Conclusion Well I hope you enjoyed the 50 tips included in this ebook! Just remember that dating women comes down the simple process of knowing how to approach and attraction. Now most of these techniques are used for women you’ve never met before. you'll learn from a top dating expert about the secrets for getting that one special girl! It's like receiving personal coaching advice on how to make a dramatic change to your dating life! So if you're interested in learning how to increase your success with the women you already know. So it's up to you to apply the tips you've learned throughout this . I’ve found that you can apply some of them to attract that one girl who has never shown you interest before! Furthermore. I've recently found a great program which will teach you how to go from being a “friend” with a girl to her lover! In the Friends Into Lovers program. Well thanks again for taking the time to read this report! Now all you have to do is apply what you've learned and you'll become an instant master at attracting women! To your success with women. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.

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