Alpha Male 101

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Table of Contents
Introduction....................................................................................... 4 Chapter 1 - The Body: It’s a Machine, Use it ............................................... 9 Chapter 2 - Style: Part James Bond, Part Jimmy Dean, All King of the Jungle ..... 16 Chapter 3 - Personality: Be Cool, or Die in the Trenches ............................... 21 Chapter 4 - Women: Alpha Males Don’t Beg ............................................... 28 Chapter 5 - Etiquette: The Finer Points to Ruling the Roost ...........................36 Chapter 6 - Skills: How to Be Good at Everything ........................................ 39 Chapter 7 - Friends and Family: Building Your Empire..................................44 Chapter 8 - Cars: The Drive to Dominate ..................................................48 Chapter 9 - Getting Paid: The World is Your Oyster ..................................... 53 Chapter 10 - The Fine Art of Partying ...................................................... 60 Conclusion - Once an Alpha, Always an Alpha............................................. 69

a Speedo will make you look like a . at the time that these ads became popular. third. listens to his ideas.In tro du ctio n “Are you sick of being a ninety-eight-pound weakling. no matter how “good” you might look in it. Even if you have a perfect body. He’s the strongest. the alpha is the go-to guy. Of course. your first official tip on the journey to alpha male-dom is this: Hot tip #1: Never wear a Speedo. Whether you’re talking wolves. we call it becoming the ALPHA MALE. or a meathead. the alpha male is the leader of the pack. or last in line – the one that’s always ignored or overlooked. follows his lead. but not in a good way. and trusts in his judgement. the smartest. Everyone looks up to him. So. In fact. What is an Alpha Male? In nature. and he gets first dibs on all the drooling ladies. Today. www. and a legend in his own time. always getting sand kicked in your face?” This was the original call-to-arms for all you guys out there that had enough of being the little guy. or a girl’s best friend. advertisers were promoting a healthy combination of medicine ball lifting and the consumption of gooey green weight-gain formulas in order to make you the big. or baboons. lions. He’s a hero. the second. buff guy on the beach that got all the chicks. And it’s about a whole hell of a lot more than getting a tan and looking good in a Speedo.AlphaMale101.

AlphaMale101. If you try to fake it. Because this is pack mentality we’re dealing with. It’s not impossible. intelligence. acquaintances. and it can’t be scam. and having success at everything you do while maintaining a humble. and charm. which means you have to be good at everything. co-workers. – to “elect” you as their alpha. You have to get others – your group of friends. knowing how to seduce women is only a small part of the much bigger . and knowing about cool things. In order to truly get women to worship the ground you walk on. many of them point to Genghis Khan as the proto-alpha male. Of course. etc. Women have to see you getting your ass kissed by your friends. you will be exposed and dethroned. baby. Khan was a Mongolian warlord who conquered most of Asia and the Middle East to create the Mongol Empire. the ultimate goal of the alpha male is to pass on his bloodline. In layman’s terms. relaxed attitude to all the good things that come your way. that means scoring with as many gorgeous chicks as is humanly possibly. All of which means this can’t be a con. Unfortunately. You have to work your way to the top with a deadly. Plenty of guys have done it before you. This was 800 www.You can’t just style yourself as an alpha male. They have to see you doing brilliant things. The curs and bitches that worship you today can just as easily turn on you and rip you to shreds tomorrow. unstoppable combination of strength. family. you have to be an alpha. you can’t achieve alpha status through brute force. Great Alpha Males of Yesterday When historians look back through the ages.

Read their books. he’ll teach you everything the alpha male needs to know about multi-tasking (magnum in one hand.AlphaMale101. but old Khan conquered so many ladies throughout the course of his warlording that scientists estimate he has as many as 30 million descendents on the planet today.years ago. Great Alpha Males of Today Some alpha males you can learn from today are: www. But that was . and the man is still credited with building the largest empire in the history of the world. martini in the other. The role of the alpha male has evolved significantly since the 13th century. And James Bond. Frank Sinatra will teach you how to party all night with a bunch of buddies almost as cool as you. With raping and pillaging off the list of acceptable alpha behavior. watch their movies: Casanova will teach you how to make a smooth move worth a thousand words. and still come out on top. the last couple hundred years have brought us such alpha male archetypes as Casanova. well. babe hanging around your waist – what more does an alpha need?). and of course. Frank Sinatra. but they added the crucial element of style to the alpha male game. These guys are still smart and tough. James Bond. Not only that. Alpha to the max.

he’s a big star. No one.Bill Clinton: Study him closely to pick up tips on how to be a guy that everybody LOVES. GQ magazine just named him 2006’s Man of the Year.” remember that alpha males come in ALL shapes and sizes. Hmm. His whole life. Any questions? The Different Types of Alpha Male Before you start getting all depressed and like “man. even if it means standing alone (and he usually won’t!). he was a giant thanks to his intelligence. in their wildest imagination. George Clooney: The guy’s a chick-magnet. and a brilliant artist. I’m never going to be the President. www. and why not? The guy owns Def Jam Records AND the New Jersey Nets. On the one hand you’ve got the obvious Brad Pitt type. and isn’t afraid to battle it out over political issues with the majority of his countrymen. His left hand grasps your right elbow. right? But consider Albert Einstein. Watch the way he walks into a room. and his charisma. The guy is unstoppable. simultaneously friendly and dominant.AlphaMale101. or a movie star. and shakes hands. he’s one of the best emcees in the world. But he was. would look at a picture of that guy and say he was an alpha. He’s hot. everywhere he went. or hip hop superstar. The true alpha is never afraid to be a hero. And on top of that. but you would be too if every chick and her mother thought you were the hottest guy on the planet. he makes incredible. So he’s a great . Jay-Z: He’s the ultimate well-rounded alpha. and he gets Beyonce. intelligent movies. a sports aficionado. and he climbs right out of Jennifer Aniston’s bed and into Angelina Jolie’s bed.

not for a long .” And how can you have the best time that is humanly possible? By being the guy who gets all the girls. www. If you haven’t figured it out yet. these are pretty damn good things to be. In the immortal words of Trooper: “We’re here for a good time. Why become an Alpha Male? Being an alpha male is all about standing out. All you have to do. we’re always searching for the meaning of life. and becoming a legend. right now. and tells all the great stories.” That just goes to show that being an alpha male isn’t all about being physically attractive. And that means being an alpha male.It recently came to light that Einstein had dozens of lovers in his lifetime. is decide that you are going to make it happen for yourself. As human beings. being a hero. right? A good backup plan is to enjoy yourself. has all the adventures. not made. Being special. It’s about finding something amazing inside of yourself and bringing it out so that everybody can see it. and be anyone that you want to be. And what was his excuse to his various wives? “The women won’t stop chasing me. Some people might say that alphas are born. you’ve got to believe that anything is possible. being different.AlphaMale101. but what if we don’t find it? We don’t want to waste our lives looking. but in a world where a nerdy little scientist gets all the chicks. that you can become anything.

like you banged a billion babes before breakfast but you’re only going to bring one home with you tonight. No one looks dumber than the guy who acts all bored with his surroundings. you don’t need to be born beautiful to be the sexiest motherfucker that ever walked the earth. then you’ve got instant sex appeal. and like in the end. Use it Attraction: You don’t have to be hot to be hot! As we’ve already figured out.Chapter 1 .AlphaMale101. and complains that he could be somewhere better. www. fat guys do . no doubt. Always act like the best place to be is right here. Your attitude will MAKE it the best place to be. right now. and street cred. If you walk into a room like you know you are the man. because you’re just living in the moment and having a good time and the party is wherever you are at. guys with missing limbs and broken teeth and wheelchairs do it. and other people will have fun because you’re having fun. And it’s all about two major elements: attitude.Th e Bo d y: It’s a Machine. Bald guys do it. Hot tip #2: The party IS where you at. Attitude Approaching life with the right attitude can make all the difference. it doesn’t matter.

com . and that live a physically vigorous lifestyle are generally more sexually appealing than men who don’t. that have good coordination. It’s about being the kind of man that is active and capable. physical fitness isn’t just about having a hot body. chase down a pursesnatcher. Men that sweat. if your friends and others around you treat you with respect and admiration (in other words. BUT. If you’re seriously lacking in the motivation department.” But be honest with yourself.Street Cred Next all-important element: street cred. All you have to do is get together the motivation. consider this: For an alpha male. If people treat you like a goof. that can lift heavy things.AlphaMale101. www. or reputation. Just the simple ability to jump down a flight of stairs. Physical Fitness Anyone can have a hot body. then women who see you at the club or on the street are going to think of you as a goof. or help your neighbor move her new big-screen TV. if they ‘elect’ you as their alpha). Remember: there is nothing you can’t do. then women will see you as the alpha and be drawn to your sexy male dominance. It’s true. will make you an alpha male. Have you really tried? It is a 100% guaranteed fact of life that doing any amount of physical activity more than you do right now will increase your fitness level. anybody but me. You might be thinking. “yeah.

Any sport will do. This is some of the best exercise you can get. www. Dust off that bike and cycle to and from work. you need to be able to take care of yourself and the people you care about.Being Physical Every Day First thing’s first: you need to make physical activity a part of your everyday life.AlphaMale101. Get a dog. you’ve already won half the battle. Here are some things you can do to make physical activity a part of your everyday life: Run errands on foot. In fact. This is the perfect opportunity to get regular physical activity. By being physically strong. It makes you fast. and strong. Men used to do hard physical labor all day. Now they sit at desks. and it’s a great alternative to driving after a night at the pub. Definitely not alpha. cycle everywhere. Join a team. Not only will a dog work your ass off running and playing. and it’s something you can easily do every day. Self Defense As an alpha male. it’s a 100% never-fails chick magnet. Definitely not sexy. and to assert your alpha male dominance. as is carrying heavy parcels like groceries. A Saturday at the dog park messing around with Spot will get you in great shape AND score you a few phone numbers. If you can kick ass and get your team-mates to look up to you. you earn instant alpha status. Walking is great exercise. agile. Running is the single best way to get in . Start jogging.

If he doesn’t have a www. . don’t try to be a hero.Physically fit alpha males attract people to them with the sense that they are powerful and able to be a protector. You will be the jerk of the month if you get yourself or your date stabbed or shot. and when to be cool. they will more often than not back off. then dodge when they throw a punch. They also deter aggressors because very few people are willing to tangle with an alpha. humiliate your opponent with humor or indifference. If you refuse to give them an opportunity to do this. When aggressive situations do arise. there are a few easy selfdefense techniques you can use to diffuse the situation without looking like an idiot. Sometimes. Instead of fighting. Then all you have to do is get your knee between their shoulder blades. you can’t always avoid a fight. Get up it their face. take it. Of course. hold their heads. Only idiots fight when they don’t have to. you have to have a good sense of when to fight. Or you can be on a date and get faced with a mugger or attacker of some kind. guys who want to fight are just attempting to assert their own alpha male status. Odds are. Most of the time. and tell them to settle down and you’ll let them go. Easy Defense Techniques When it comes to drunks. a drunk at a club or a party just won’t back down. In these cases. If a mugger has a weapon. they will fall flat on their faces. if there’s any chance that you can get out of a situation without fighting.AlphaMale101. all you need to do is use their own intoxication against them.

wrestle your opponent to the ground and again get your knee in his back and pull his head up by the hair. fried food makes you fat. and the less chance there is of someone getting seriously hurt. Think of it as a challenge to end the fight in as few moves as possible. for you this isn’t about diet. Healthy eating Remember when you were a teenager? You could eat like a pig and you were still skinny and starving all the time. These foods are also addictive. it’s about lifestyle. the more you want. Basically. what did we eat? www. Carbs make you fat. The key to slick defense techniques is to avoid panicking and flailing around. Continuing to eat like a teenager is the number-one reason why men get fat. as an alpha male.AlphaMale101. not just until you loose weight or bulk up.weapon. Next. you can’t eat like you used to . White sugar makes you fat. but for good. such as a headlock. the first thing you want to do is get him into a “lock” position. What you’ve got to do is slowly work these foods out of your diet. Hopefully you enjoyed those days. because they are never coming back! As you age. which means that the more you eat. even as you are moving into the prime of your life (25-35). Again. the better you look. The fewer the moves. or an armlock. Consider this: what do heroes eat? Back in the days when men were men and women were women and we all went to Valhalla to party with the gods when we died.

and vegetables. it’s time to start to think about how your mouth is looking and smelling. From now on. Some people. but so that they look good. Nothing is a bigger turn-off – for women. and employers – than bad breath and teeth full of bits of food. Whole foods are the key to healthy eating. it makes people respect you for eating right. you have got to go about your business as though you are always seconds away from being kissed by a beautiful babe for the first time.The answer: LOTS of protein. If you’re always ready for a kiss. Boil some rice. fruit. because you think “what makes him so perfect?” But there’s no magic secret.AlphaMale101. All that divides these flawless bastards from the rest of the rabble is the EFFORT they put into taking care of their mouths. stupid! Not so that they don’t rot out of your head. This doesn’t necessarily mean a lot of hard work. People like this can drive you crazy. add some spices for flavour and an avocado for a nutrient boost. the little invisible particles that get stuck are what make your breath stink! www. including alpha males. then you’re ready for anything. and just like that you’ve got the ultimate meal of the alpha male. whole grains. Oral Hygiene Once you’re done eating. fry up a steak and big pile of . and they should be the only thing on an alpha male’s plate. Here are some tips on how to do this: Brush your teeth after you eat. never seem to have this problem. Floss! Even if you don’t have visible food in your teeth. friends. Not only is it good for you.

mints are just a slick thing to have on . it’s time to start thinking about how you’re going to cover it.. Mints are better than gum because you don’t have to chew them like a horse. Once you’ve got the body under control. You don’t have to get rid of them completely. as does any good alpha. They’re also great for saving your breath at times when you can’t get away to brush. When a chick complains about her breath and you can produce. Hot tip #3: Always carry a pack of mints. but if you eat them all the time.AlphaMale101. or show it off.Say goodbye to garlic and onions on everything.. you’ve just demonstrated the almost magical ability to provide that’s part of what makes you an alpha male. guess what? You stink! Get your teeth clean once every six months. Oral hygiene bridges that fine line between physical fitness and personal style. www. And more importantly.

right? But to some guys. huh? That’s because it is. and hair treatments. and between classic taste and signature style. but they don’t spend hours preening in front of the mirror. Some men’s magazines and self-help gurus might recommend a complex regime of lotions. one of the first things she’ll do is go in for a quick smell. And that’s . for the true alpha male. Here’s what you do: Shower every day.Chapter 2 . In fact. (Unless you’re Fabio.) Wash your hair. Sounds easy. no long hair!) Shave every 2-3 days. However. All King of th e Ju ng le Alpha male style is all about style on the edge. Looking like you put too much effort into your style can be a death sentence. Alpha males care about being clean. the key to passing this test is to smell good. Either way. She might smell you personally. unique personal statement that will let you roll like a baller anywhere in the world. Skin and Hair When a girl is interested in a guy. You walk the fine line between well-groomed and unconcerned.AlphaMale101. you can create a cool. (Shampoo and condition!) Get a regular haircut that’s easy to manage. a www. Wear deodorant! (Sounds obvious. or she might smell your jacket or your hat. Part Jim my Dean . By balancing out these key elements.Style: Part Jam es Bo nd . it’s big news. things are much simpler. you’ve got to be clean. colognes. and in order to do that.

and I’m not all hung up on looking good for you.” Just remember.AlphaMale101. is a good thing. Hot tip #4: If you’re going bald. Don’t try to hide it under a hat. Here are a few things that every alpha should have in his wardrobe: Socks and underwear WITHOUT holes in them! One really nice suit. The key to dressing right is to ALWAYS dress for the occasion. shave your damn head! Don’t try to comb it over. or anybody. Just keep your head shaved. Dressing Like an Alpha There is no perfect outfit that’s an alpha male’s recipe for success. And the suit you wear to funerals doesn’t count! At least five pairs of pants that are not jeans. don’t show up in jeans and a tee-shirt. After all. Once again. and a day of stubble here and there. you’re not Inspector Gadget. and who you’re with. but that don’t require ironing. and know in your heart that you are bad-assed enough to pull it off. you’ve always got to be clean underneath your casual style. If you see suits and ties.bit of messy hair. Any time you’re going somewhere. This says “I do it my way. www. based on where you are. be permanently prepared for that first kiss that could pop up at any moment. This is the only way for an alpha male to deal with . try to close your eyes and visualize how others will be dressed.

you probably have no taste when it comes to shoes. Women love seeing a man getting his hands dirty playing sports or working on his car. Most men are either hopelessly scruffy. Shoes Unless you’re one of those guys that know a bit too much about style for their own good. there is a space between your trashed Converse and this season’s Gucci . once you’re inside. Here’s how the true alpha male finds it: The first decision you have to make is what store to go into. and the best thing you can do at times like these is ask for it. and you might come out of there with nice shoes AND a phone number. your next decision will be to select the cutest clerk there. If you need dress shoes. Either way. One thing any good alpha male knows is that sometimes he’s going to need help. Hot tip #5: Some style gurus might tell you to throw out all your trashed old clothes. However. And hey. smile. go up to her. Anything with tight sleeves that shows off your biceps is solid gold. and ask for help. but that don’t require ironing. just solid colors. Think again. ask for help from the right person. or ridiculously glammed out.AlphaMale101.At least five shirts with collars. baby! There IS a time and a place for ripped jeans and a faded old t-shirt. Nice! www. Fact: men do not know how to pick shoes. and at these moments. If you need sandals or runners. go to a sports store. No patterns. go into a trendy shoe store. an old pair of jeans will look sexy.

alpha male to a group of very tough. we come to the hat issue. just as a wool cap can come in handy for late-night cruising. even Paris . To Hat or Not to Hat Next. a time and a place for them. but different. try getting some nice belt buckles. Suddenly everybody. Belt and Wallet Begin by investing in a really nice belt and wallet. You can usually find really cool.AlphaMale101. Note: this is not a Hawaiian shirt! The Hawaiian shirt guy is not the alpha male. www. He brought aviator sunglasses to the table. but there is. but will get noticed by interested parties. Think of Johnny Knoxville. in fact. refer to you as “the guy with the really cool belt. Nothing too fancy – you have to be able to wear this stuff all the time – just something high quality and unique enough that people may. crazy guys. A vintage trucker hat can become an instant classic at poker night or at the beach. James Bond might never wear a hat. he is a goof ball! The alpha male’s signature style is something subtle. or running around in the cold. was wearing aviator sunglasses.” If you have to go a bit fancy with the belt.Accessories Every alpha male has a signature style – a little something extra that he brings to the table that makes him stand out. This is just the kind of subtle touch that isn’t over the top. unique stuff at vintage clothing stores. on occasion.

and that means something to you. Jewellery When it comes to jewellery.AlphaMale101. No questions. the fact is that you’re more likely to make a mistake than you are to score a hit. anything you wear will be unique and have a good story behind.However. www. simultaneously contributing to your signature style and your personal mythology. and suddenly guys were wearing these super thick. like a small gold cross or your grandfather’s watch. mass-produced bead and hemp jobs? And the same thing happened with heavy chains? And with surfer-style shell necklaces? Those are all styles that one alpha male thought was cool. Example: if you’re walking around all night with your fly open. This automatically looks like you are hiding something. That way. For example. and again. Alpha males don’t hide anything. by the end of the night everybody should have their fly open. They always look exactly the way they intend to . because you have decreed that this is the new. cool thing. unwashed hair. heavy. because they’ve got nothing to hide. Don’t be a beta. and that got picked up by every wannabe beta with ten bucks to throw away at the mall. wear only jewellery that has been gifted to you. Second never: DO NOT wear a hat – even a cool signature hat – all the time. alpha males have nothing to hide. remember when hemp necklaces became popular. NEVER wear a hat to hide something like a bald spot or greasy. As a rule of thumb. ever.

to have women chasing you instead of you chasing them. but if your personality falls flat. This is a classic alpha male cred-building technique. gives them a treasure house of exciting stories to tell. and projecting that confidence. and all the style to go along with it.Person ality: B e Co ol. Alpha males are always on the go. Confidence is the thing that’s going to give you the attitude required to walk into a room like you own the place. then you’ve got nothing.” you must choose to act. o r Die in the Tren ch es You might have the hottest body in the world. the more the legend of YOU will spread. and others to tell stories like this about you. Think of your weekend like it’s a story you’re going to tell on Monday morning. eating pizza and watching TV? Or is it going to be a tale of crazy adventures. and this. is being adventurous. strange encounters.Chapter 3 . And the more exciting stories you have. Hot tip #6: Turn yourself into a living legend. and hilarious incidents? When you have stories like the latter to tell. Is that story going to be boring – full of sitting on your ass. www. you should be able to get by on pure personality. Confidence The first golden key to the world of the alpha male is CONFIDENCE. Whenever it comes down to a question of “to act or not to act. Part of being confident. and to make all the right decisions and the right moves required to solidify your alpha status. in turn.AlphaMale101. as an alpha male. they’re always ready to rise to a challenge or take a risk. you will become a legendary character – a hero in the lives of others. Even if you’re a brain in a .

It means not yelling your head off.Be the Calm Blue Ocean Just because you have wild adventures. Mind Power There’s nothing more embarrassing than a guy that’s bursting with confidence. Being calm and in control does NOT mean being a control freak. the alpha male. That’s why you’ve got to do everything in your power to make sure you are using every square inch of that brain! www.AlphaMale101. like some boneheads do when they’re talking about football. like some jerks do when they’re trying to make a point. but you can also absorb anything that comes at you without letting it affect you. Being calm and in control means not gesturing elaborately. You have all this energy you can unleash at any moment. The other side to supreme alpha confidence is always being calm and in control. You don’t freak out. even tone of voice. Alpha males can always get their point across in a smooth. it doesn’t mean that you. are the wild man of the . powerful. you don’t act crazy or panic or scream or flail around. and you’ve just got to let it all wash over you. happens. no flailing required. You just chill. but has nothing to back it up with. Whatever happens. This is a sign of your power. Think of yourself like the ocean: massive.

think about what goes into having a conversation. without acting like an egghead or a know-it-all. and bring it out. Sometimes you just can’t think of anything to talk about. If you’re in a conversation. This makes it hard to meet new people. Guys have a tendency to get really focused on one topic. like cars or sports.Odds are. However. anywhere in the world! Here are a few basic principles to stick to when it comes to speaking: Always have several different conversation ideas on the go. if you can master the skill of intelligent conversation. This is an area where even the most intelligent people have trouble. and when they’re nervous. you’ll be able to pick up any chick. you’re boring. and you find that you’re doing all the . Intelligence is demonstrated in three main areas of our lives: In the way we converse In our emotions In the way we treat others Talking First. www. it’s time to change subjects. especially women. It’s full of stuff to talk about that other people can relate to. and when you do. Hint: try reading the paper regularly. at any club.AlphaMale101. they go on and on and on about this one BORING subject. You’ve just got to figure out how to take the intelligence that’s there inside of you. if you’re reading this book. you’re already a pretty smart guy.

“So. you can try to steer the conversation towards topics that will actually generate some back-and-forth. This is one of the major reasons why it’s hard to carry on a conversation.AlphaMale101. The other side to intelligent conversation is learning to listen.In a first conversation – with a babe at a club. people don’t listen. Joking around is great. what?” thing. “Wow. “what?” “what?” “sorry. you can start asking her about herself. they just wait for their chance to talk. if you listen intelligently. funny observations about the scene around you. Enjoy the vibe with her. However. you’ll find conversations flow smoothly. Listening Once you figure you how to speak intelligently. but you also have to know when to get serious. make the occasional witty comment. isn’t that really tough work?” www. but try to get into some deep philosophy. You don’t have the slightest idea what the other person expects you to say. as opposed to just giggling. Maybe you can’t wait to argue about politics with someone. If a chick says “I work in a hospital. and you will just embarrass yourself with the whole awkward. Know when to shut up! When the music is blasting and everybody is partying. Here’s how: Try following up statements made by the other person in the conversation with questions relating to what they just said. Once a level of comfort has been achieved. Try making light. the last thing you should do is try to have a serious conversation with a chick. what do you do for fun?” Follow up with. In 90% of . Once you’re both laughing.” don’t follow up by asking. but now is not the time. you’re only halfway there. for example – keep things nice and light.

“I just got new rims on my car.. Return anger in others with humor. last time they came to town. Denying it will only make it worse.” And he was right. if she says. I love the new Killers album. Try to really focus.AlphaMale101. Unfortunately.” don’t say.” If you find that you can’t come up with questions or statements to follow up what the other person has just said. and people. Many men learn from a very young age that the only emotion it’s acceptable to show is anger. most of the time. 99% of the things that piss us off in this life are not worth our time or our energy. when you’re acting . you look like an idiot. Alpha males don’t get angry because nothing can affect them. own up. If you do get caught doing this. you are probably not listening to them. This is the best way to guarantee that you are not listening.Follow up statements made by the other person in the conversation with stories about your own life that relate to what they just said. “Oh man. Face frustrating situations with the www. For example. Emotional Intelligence The next area where your intelligence shows is in your emotions and your ability to control them.. and it only makes us look weak and ineffective to freak out about them. women in particular.” Say. and that she is about to walk out of the conversation. nothing can hurt them. love them for it! Do NOT stare at a women’s chest while she is speaking. “Oh. A great alpha male once said “Who gets angry? It seems to me that being angry is just being stupid. Alpha males know how to listen.

Women love to be treated like crap by jerks. you don’t have to be that nice to your best friend).calm certainty that you can. www. The truth is that both of these are wrong. Relating to Other People Finally. because they have so much. whether they’re your mailman. make everything work out. or your best friend (okay.AlphaMale101. True alpha males are beyond these onedimensional categories. influencing people. okay. there’s nothing like sharing when it comes to making friends. but no chick is going to give you a second glance if you treat other people like garbage. as an alpha. So treat people with . show your intelligence by treating other people properly. and getting women to want to fuck you. somewhere in between. Alpha males are never stingy. If you have to be in a category. they’ll tell you: nice guys are looooosers. there’s always a big debate between which women like better: the jerk or the nice guy. And hey. over anger. Putting people down makes you look like a weak asshole. Hot tip #7: In men’s magazines. so be a jerk. A perfect way to show off what a great guy you are is by being GENEROUS. your kindergarten teacher was right. or risk losing face. your grandma. Generally. It’s never a big deal to share. pick the “does the right thing but doesn’t let himself get pushed around” category. You might be fighting for that alpha male spot in order to hook up. And don’t waste your energy.

By controlling your own emotions. If you’re having a good time. This can be particularly useful when it comes to dealing with the fairer sex.AlphaMale101.. If you’re calm and relaxed.. you’ll not only solidify your position as alpha male. www. Your own self-control allows you to control your environment. you’ll be able to control those around you with ease. and using your intelligence to its full advantage. everyone else will be calm and relaxed. everyone else will have a good .

Once you’ve moved on. but you do have to pick up some of the other tactics women use to make you want them. They spent a LOT of money on their clothes. So accept that women are difficult and changeable and adorable and tricky and vicious and soft and sweet and about a million other things. you can start to figure out a few little key things here and there that will go a long way in terms of helping you meet women. They look like goddesses. www. And move on. Now. Understanding Women First off. notice something important.AlphaMale101. Laugh and party and make sure that they know you’re having a great time without them. They put HOURS into their hair and makeup before coming to the party tonight.Wom en : Alph a Males Don ’t Beg There is no one universal secret to getting what you want from woman. If you think there is. and it’s all for you. AND their underwear. Consider it.Chapter 4 . Many of these tactics will work for you when it comes to making them notice you: Ignore them. Notice that women are trying to hook you up WAY harder than you are trying to hook them up. and get them to fuck you. their shoes. understand women. the first chick to break the mold is going to break your heart. you don’t have to start wearing eye .

a. By talking to the ugly friend. you don’t want to go much farther than this when it comes to actually chasing after a chick. just when she feels like you don’t even know she exists. you need to be the three Cs: Confident (why is he so sure of himself?) You should already have this down. you show her that you are: nice. not viceversa.AlphaMale101. not totally superficial. she’s asking herself questions about you. you don’t want to go begging after her. This will only make you look weak and desperate. Constantly. a. As an alpha. About you. and once again. you want the women chasing you. Soon. The Ugly Friend Never underestimate the value of the ugly friend.THE MAN OF MYSTERY. If she smiles. the life of the party. Remember. www. you’re in. All alphas have an air of mystery to them. girls talk to each other. Unless she is of a spectacular and unparalleled hotness.Flirt with their friends. drop her a smile.k. The Alpha Mystery To achieve mystery. as though there’s much more going on with him that you see on the surface. And that is solid gold. . Then. having a great time without her. As a . brush shoulders at the bar. because what kind of man are women attracted to? The kind of man that makes them wonder.

But hey. He goes running. downcast eyes. you can get the hottest chick at the party to go home with you every time.Competent (where did he learn to do that?) We’ll talk about this in the next chapter. your body language is speaking for you loud and clear. because if you do your alpha job right. but you know all about underground hip hop.. or tell him there’s a beer bong in the basement. Assholes give themselves away with sneering faces www. and nervous. you might not even have to go to the trouble. fidgety . Body Language Even when you’re not talking. it’s always good to show her that there are many sides to you right away. Your attitude and body language make it clear that you are the alpha. she’s ever-grateful. Losers give themselves away with hunched shoulders. the more your legend will grow. and you’re the star point guard on your basketball team. you might be able to score big points right off the bat by saving her from the aforementioned slobbering asshole. Other guys (read: guys that aren’t slobbering assholes) are too intimidated to approach her.. Example: you’re an accountant. If you can pull this stuff off. I wonder what else he can do…) When you first meet a woman. Pretend you’re her boyfriend. she feels lucky that you’ve chosen her. she’s the one who will approach you. In fact. The more skills you have. and the more she’ll begin to ask herself “what is he like in bed?” Complicated (there’s more to this guy than I thought. and when you approach her.

www. the only one who can make the next move is her. or displaying tension in the upper body. A girl that likes you can get totally turned off if you come on too strong. Their expressions are open and direct. Alpha males do the complete opposite with their body language. If she pulls back. you might not always get the message in her eyes if you’re staring at her body. They relax back in their seats.AlphaMale101.and aggressive postures like leaning forward in a chair. and wait to see what she does next. And if you have the character to control yourself. Think of it like a game where you each take a turn. her hips and her shoulders will tell you what move to make. Let’s face it. when to back of. If she’s into you. but there are also moments when a bit of aggression can go a long way. their shoulders are not tense or slouched. then your next move should be a pull back. As important as it is to master your own body language. and when to come on. standing in the shadows. being able to read HER body language is going to be even more important. You have two moves: pull back. When chilling with a group. otherwise you’ve suddenly become overly . they sit at an angle that includes everyone in their group. but if you’re paying attention. BUT if she pulls back. When in close conversation with someone. they lean forward confidentially. Seduction Knowing when to advance vs. too. then you press on. or press on. then you press on for one move. when to be cool is crucial to the next phase in the game: seduction. odds are she’ll decide you ARE the right guy for the job. If she presses on.

you can just laugh and blow her off. This is so ridiculously easy that most guys don’t even believe it’s possible until they try it for themselves. Either the girl will realize she’s being too uptight. or she’ll be left to mope over your disinterest all night. Maybe it’s the perfect moment on a first date. wrong. When you pull back in this way. Either she’ll melt into you or be so surprised she won’t know what to do. If at any point you realize that it’s not going to happen tonight. and she’ll be ready to go the next time you see her. you win. But alpha males know that it works like a charm. This is www. you’re both sweaty and full of adrenaline – this is the perfect moment to grab herand kiss her fast and hard. Kissing First kisses are tricky. have a good time with her. Wrong. follow one simple rule: flattery will get you everywhere. Guys always assume that hot chicks know they’re hot. Either way. Have some laughs. Maybe you met a girl at a club and you’ve been dancing all night. the first kiss should be intimate. wrong. Tell her she’s the sexiest damn thing you’ve ever seen. one of two things will happen. it’s the most beautiful women that feel the worst about themselves. Often.AlphaMale101. Sometimes. but don’t waste your energy on a lost cause. and she’ll get really friendly. You’re walking by the water or dropping her off at her place.In order to help move the process along. and she will melt like butter. And if she acts weirded out. Other times. the first kiss should be casual. How they come off will all depend on the . pull back right away. So tell her she’s beautiful.

Alphas never force it. Only people that never have sex are obsessed with sex. because SHE wants YOU. Sex Hot tip#8: Alpha males don’t kiss and tell. Women look at you and they know you have sex. pause and give her a last chance to pull back. she’ll either jump your bones. If she doesn’t move away. Fast! So fast you have her thinking that maybe it’s you that backed off. If she opens her . After all.. Talking about it all the time is like wearing a sign on your forehead that says “hard up. move in closer. If she holds the contact. If you’re getting your brains fucked out every night. you’re the alpha male. you can have any woman you want. If she presses. When your lips are almost touching. because they don’t need to. you press. For alpha males then. too. so make it a winner! At a pause in the conversation. but she has to do the work to make your lips work together. tilt your head to the side to avoid a nose bump. it’s time for the old seduction back-and-forth. she’ll move in the rest of the way. you open your mouth. make eye contact with her. Hopefully she’ll tilt. she not only won’t pull back.the kiss that might decide whether or not you’re going to get laid tonight. you back off. because you’re going to stop again. Using the stop-then-pause strategy gets it all done. One of the inviolable laws of life is that the more you talk about it. If she bites. Once she sees this side of you.AlphaMale101. Not only is her interest confirmed. then stop. On the other hand. the less you get it. any time you want. From here on out. it’s okay. or she’s probably not worth the time and trouble.” www. if she backs off. then sex is not the center of the universe. but if she doesn’t.. Odds are. at this point. you bite. sex is no big deal.

On the other hand. The “let’s take a break” strategy is money in the bank. make sure it’s semi-clean. relax. you might be the one who wants to play a little hard-to-get. Let her undress herself AND you. On the one hand. and enjoy the trip. www.. You might even want to slow things down.AlphaMale101. the idea that you are not as interested as she is can be devastating. You don’t have to make her come. If you bring women back to your place.. Do what you need to do to make sure that you don’t get ‘overexcited’ in bed. she will be ready to do just about anything to make you happy. she’s not going to change her mind. it makes her crazy. This might be the perfect time to make a suggestion. In fact.Once you’ve finessed your way into the bedroom. Bugs and dirt can turn a woman off completely in mid-make out. it’s time to sit back. at this point. If a woman has decided to have sex with you. you do have to last longer than two minutes. Now that she has mentally committed to sex. Suggest a . but as an alpha male. Women are best in bed when they are eager to please. Here are a few other tips and tricks to help you on your way: Don’t undress her. it allows you to not appear overeager. or excuse yourself for a minute. which means that when things get going again.

These just make you look like a jerk. Don’t doze for a couple of hours and then sneak off. babe. Hot tip #9: It’s a fact: Alphas don’t sneak because they have nothing to hide. you’ll call her again.AlphaMale101.Last but not least. Alpha males do not sneak . No bumbling excuses or empty promises. or stay until morning. www. And that’s what she’ll tell her friends. Later. If you want to call her again. and nothing to be sorry for. If you want to stay. either get out of there right after sex. you stay.” or coffee and “need a ride to work?” in the morning. It’s either “That was awesome.

refers to a group of people. because everyone around him wants to be IN HIS CLASS. the world around him bends to accommodate. Alpha males set the standard for everyone else. but if you can get past the goofy-sounding word. “Class. By showing some . it’s like level two of the alpha male style game. welcome to a higher plane of alpha male-dom! Guys that have class aren’t just slick and witty and cool and together.Etiqu ette: Th e Fin er Po ints to Ru ling th e Roo st Maybe ‘etiquette’ sounds more like something a chick in a Miss Universe pageant has to worry about than something an alpha male should concern himself with. So if he is calm.” by definition. If he is smooth and elegant. Basically. which means you’ve levelled up to being a Bond-style alpha man of the world. etiquette is the glue that keeps society together.Chapter 5 . they are calm. www. and always get the right kind of attention. always know how to treat people. you’ll see that a lot of the time. Class We all have some idea of what the word “class” means. an alpha male is able to control any situation that he is in. Guys who have class always know how to act. So congratulations. And since society is basically your stomping ground – the territory that you hunt and defend – it’s worth figuring out the finer points of controlling it.

and he knows how to show someone a good time. This way she gets a peek into your life and becomes even more convinced that you are a complex. He tells her and asks if she agrees. He asks her what she wants to do after dinner. and usually will for a guy that shows some . He takes her to a restaurant: somewhere unusual and out of the way. Hot tip #10: The classy thing to do on a first date is to generously share something about yourself with your date. Go for a walk or a drive or go stargazing or chill out on the deck and have a drink. She probably won’t have any ideas. but now that he’s asked. www. For example.” End the date with an “enjoy the moment” experience. He has reservations. on a date: The alpha picks his date up knowing exactly where he is going to take her.The Perfect Date A classy guy knows when to hold the door. does she want to go pet the best dog in the world? Or maybe you have a friend that’s emcee-ing somewhere. you volunteer at an animal shelter. This is how you create that “magical moment” that can go anywhere. he can make his own suggestion.AlphaMale101. for a good table. She will. interesting guy. he knows how to pick up a tab. right in the middle of things. For example. or someone super trendy. Classy alphas generally shoot a bit higher than “a movie.

this. Eating Out Classy guys know how to pick a restaurant. You can roll your eyes and demand that she split the bill with you. In most circles. When the bill comes. but it’s definitely not the way to go if you’re trying to do everything right. trying to weasel out of it. Of course. glance at it. but you do need to understand that complaining about a bill. take charge of ordering the wine. the hors d’oeuvres. they do offer. Instead. www. you get to say things like. This way. like everything else in this book.” This isn’t classy. is not classy.” Alpha males who know their stuff never bring a date to a plain old “fancy restaurant. you don’t have to do this. BUT the fact is that truly classy guys almost always insist on picking up the tab. and women who expect it are hookers. and deal with it quietly. is completely optional. this will be seen as overly pushy. Again. and a dessert for the two of you to split. But this doesn’t apply only to dates. or worse. and take groups of friends out. Classy guys buy rounds. “I know this great little place that does the best jerk chicken. People with class don’t fuss about money. it’s just wannabe classy. That’s class. It’s not alpha suicide. and when they don’t insist. It just depends on how far you want to take your transformation into an alpha male. Okay. guys shouldn’t have to do it all the time.AlphaMale101. Another wannabe classy move is to order for your date. Make it your business to know about one great restaurant in every ethnic category in your city.The Tab Here’s the deal with picking up the tab. Especially with people they don’t know very well (first dates!).com . pick it up.

Languages Now that you’ve graduated to alpha man of the world. These are simple. You are invincible.Skills: How to Be Good at Everything Men. You’ll only end up looking silly. The only thing that you have to watch out for with languages is pretending to know more than you do. Any neat little thing that you can do with cards.Chapter 6 . The more skills you have. both of which are very close to English. it’s time to broaden your horizons. unless it’s on purpose. At the other end of the spectrum from bilingualism are party tricks. like Spanish or French. shooters. and alpha males never look silly. It makes you seem learned and mysterious. the more your legend grows. Just picking up one slim book of card or coin tricks can make you a master of the party trick. the more people think that there’s nothing you can’t do. and perfect for impressing girls that don’t belong to the Junior UN. or cherry stems will immediately pique a woman’s interest AND make for a great ice-breaker. it is all about skills. Pick something easy and useful to start. You are . easy to learn. Knowing more than one language is hot.AlphaMale101. www. The more skills you have. Party Tricks Not all alpha male skills are as difficult as learning new languages. You are a hero. coins.

And the truth is that most things have the same small problems all the time. alpha males must have all that general knowledge the lack of which embarrasses the average idiot. Practice at home before you try this at the bar. Do it quick and it will go down smooth. toast to health. Be Able to Fix Anything How do they do it? We don’t know. Do it slowly and it will burn you. You’ll get a shot with three coffee beans in it. They know how to use all the power tools. Just figuring out how to jiggle a wire or tighten a screw can do wonders for your rep as the man with the magic touch. They can install your DVD drive. unclog your sink.AlphaMale101. Light it. and that’s why we love ‘em. Doing something as simple as reading a couple of DIY books or taking a handyman class can get this all happening for you. and wiring works.Hot Tip #11: The Flaming Sambuca: Order a shot of Sambuca with Flies. gears. Light it on fire. Alpha males seem to possess an uncanny knowledge of how things work. And what’s simple to you is downright godlike to the clued-out masses. Basically. and boost a dead car . This is a simple shooter trick that doesn’t require you to drink anything pink or involving the word “Schnapps. they know how to work all the latest technology.” The trick is to not be a pussy about it. and happiness (one for each bean). toast. you can fix almost anything. and take it. wealth. and drink it right FAST. Once you develop a basic understanding of how wheels. www.

discovering new music is easy to do online thanks to music-sharing networks like . It’s the 21st century. Also. or punk. It means you have to know what’s on the radio. Luckily. know what’s playing at the club. learn to play an instrument! Preferably something masculine. or the saxophone. Music appreciation doesn’t mean that you have to know your classical composers. Make a point of discovering at least one new band every week. like the guitar... know your genres.AlphaMale101. and have a few ideas about cool new stuff that’s not on the radio or at the club. and have a diverse music collection.) At least three albums on your regular rotation that came out in the last year. There’s nothing sadder then being one of those old dudes that still listens to the music that was cool when they were 16. If you have nothing in your collection but and Pandora. Or www. if you have any aptitude for it. or reggae. Last but not least. Branch out and make sure that you have: Party music Make-out music Mellow background music Music that will get people asking “what is this?” (and so your legend grows.Music Appreciation Don’t panic. any at all. then you’re not ready for every possible situation.

Go to an art store and get prints.hey. Even graffiti can be a babe-magnet. and it can help you learn to express yourself clearly. Art Appreciation Thinking about and understanding art isn’t about knowing your history lessons. Guys with nothing on their walls but pictures of sports heroes are creepy. There’s nothing sexier to women than a guy that can draw. maybe if you can’t carry a tune. there’s something artsy that you are remotely good at. Art gives insight into life. That’s money in the bank. take it up with some enthusiasm. Go a step further and do a bit of research.AlphaMale101. Finally. or sculpt. It’s about being thoughtful. Be able to recommend a great gallery or art house theatre on a date. Have you ever noticed how many frontmen in bands are alpha males? Practically all of them. Try some of this: Be willing to take in cultural experiences like museums and art galleries. Being able to do this is WAY more important than being able to name a bunch of famous painters and sculptors. you can use art appreciation to increase your alpha male cred. baby! Have some cool art on your walls. Don’t just go to the mall and pick up some . Besides actually using art to make yourself a better person. if you do it right. open-minded. If so. if you can sing – so much the better. or paint. Having a talent and/or being in a band is a classic alpha male trait. www. and interested in the world around you. . That’s right. Simmer it on the stove with finely chopped onion. and getting the ladies to love you:  Boil pasta (rotini) following the directions on the package.  Strain and add a can of mixed beans. and serve it smothered in fresh parmesan. then learn to cook at least ONE great meal. Showing a more thoughtful layer is what rounds you out and makes you a deep. complex person. masculine qualities. family. Cooking All the greatest chefs in the world are men.AlphaMale101. toss it with the pasta.  When the sauce is creamy. and green peppers. oregano. and curry (three very basic spices you must have in your kitchen!). When it comes to dazzling the ladies. that’s usually all you need.  Add basil. pasta. and knowing what to eat and how to cook is an alpha male essential. Pasta is the best combination of easy and fancy that you can hope for in the kitchen.  Mix in a cup of ricotta cheese. garlic. Here’s a recipe for can’t-fail bean pasta that’s perfect for friends. Hot tip #12: Pasta. tomato.Developing an artistic side is particularly valuable to the alpha male because you have so many powerful. If you’re the type that tends to burn water. www.  Get a jar of plain tomato sauce.  Serve it will red wine and salad.

). Get to know people in the service industry (cooks. as an alpha male. and fast service. These are the people that can hook you up with free meals. in the words of the Wikipedia. the more they are willing to do for you. your goal is to be at the top of any relationship structure you’re a part of. Again it comes back to the challenge of building up your personal legend. hero currency (the kind you earn when you do something great. and spend when you screw up).” Obviously. www.AlphaMale101. One of the keys to building social capital is your ability to network. as the more that people need you and like you. always have a smile and a hello for everybody. There’s nothing that solidifies your position as alpha more strongly than walking in to a club or restaurant or party and having a bunch of people eager to say hello to you. Social Capital Social capital is. great tables. cab drivers. there is all kinds of currency: sexual . club owners. But the most valuable form of currency may very well come in the form of the people that love and admire you.. all of which boosts your alpha status. This is otherwise known as. etc.Chapter 7 . Everyone looks up to you and needs you in order to make their lives a success.Fr ien ds and Fam il y: Build ing You r Em pir e In the world of the alpha male.. “the advantage created by a person's location in a structure of relationships. You’re a sort of MVP. emotional currency. This is one of the alpha male’s most valuable resources. Here are some general tips on how best to network yourself: Remember names. waitresses.

and don’t be afraid to talk them up. it’s well worth the effort. Throw some chicks their way on occasion. This is quite a bit of work. After all. but in the end. which requires taking a certain amount of pride in your heritage. This means that it’s strategically advantageous to be a good friend. in nature. The last thing you want to do is rule over a crew of wimpy betas. Try to meet new friends on a regular basis. dominant and aggressive. These are the people that you need to ‘elect’ you as an alpha male. which means taking care of family. to do your dirty work for you. This is a question of dominance.AlphaMale101. the cooler they are. Your Core Group No matter how popular you become. so the stronger the guys in your group are. www. they’re also generally stand-up guys that look after their own shit. Remember. and always keep in touch with old friends. Family Alpha males may be tough and mysterious. to help spread your legend and occasionally. the cooler you .Don’t restrict yourself to one group of people. but when it comes to building social capital. Help your buddies out and make them feel good about themselves. being an alpha is all about preserving the bloodline. the more status you gain by having them worship you. There are a ton of alphas out there. it’s super important to always keep your core group of friends close. but all you need to do is rule your crew in order to be an alpha anywhere you go.

On the other hand. Taking them out for a day at the beach or the park is a great way to meet chicks doing the same thing with their little sibs. and chicks will guaranteed admire you. On the other hand. run errands for your mom and go to games with your dad. a lot of the time they might be really boring or really embarrassing. It is. and try to sit down for a nice meal on special occasions. if you’re working on a babe that is proving particularly tough to crack. But in order to max out your pleasure quotient. let the little siblings tag along with you every once in a while.AlphaMale101. but being good to them always makes you look like a champion. Family won’t always be fun. if you’re not willing or able to get along with your family. On the one hand. guys who don’t do it enough will respect you. and it never hurts to add more names to the list of people that think you’re a hero. The Pleasure-Effort Payoff Trade-off But isn’t being an alpha all about pleasure? you might ask. And you’re absolutely right. it will be seen as a sign of www. sometimes you have to do some work. It’s a simple equation: the more effort you put in = the bigger the payoff.So visit your grandparents. In fact. try hauling the little sib along on part (only part!) of your next date. if you take care of your family. Hot tip #13: If you have a little brother or sister. use them to your . Women love men who love kids.

weakness by women and by beta males who can smugly tell themselves that you’re not so great after all. Cultivate it. you work with social capital. but instead of working with stocks and bonds. and when you’re rich in friends and admirers. triple your profits .AlphaMale101. take risks. you’ll be as untouchable as any billionaire hotshot. www. Every alpha male is an investment banker.

If you’re the slick. Not being able to fix a car. urban type. If you break the bank on some fancy European model that reads like Morse code under the hood. don’t get a sports car. you need to have a car. Fixing Cars Having an old car is not the worst thing that can happen to an alpha. just insist that it’s a “classic car. In fact.” As an alpha male. Any car will be better than no car at all. you’ll just look like you’re trying to make up for having a small .AlphaMale101. don’t get a hummer. and you drive with style and confidence. outdoorsy-type alpha. www.Car s: T he Dr ive to Do min ate Now that you’re done thinking about the people around you.Chapter 8 . even an old beater can work for you. As an alpha male. If your car is ten years old. or having a car that you don’t know how to fix. you can get back to looking out for number one. If you’re a rugged. If you get a vehicle that makes an inaccurate statement about who you are. you’re going to look like a fool when it breaks down on a date and you don’t have a clue what to do about it. there are two classic car mistakes that are WAY worse than driving an old trans-am. These are: Having a really nice car that in no way fits your lifestyle. making these kind of determinations is your prerogative. As long as it’s not breaking down at embarrassing moments.

Hot tip#14: Using the beater to your advantage. This tactic is best used on a second or third date. Before the two of you head out, sabotage the car in some small way. Just loosen the battery or something like that – something easy to fix. Then, when the car dies on the way to dinner, you just hop out and fix the problem in two seconds. This takes the babe on an emotional journey from concern and disappointment to relief and admiration. In other words – putty in your hands.

Buying a Car When you walk into a car dealership, the first thing you have to be aware of is that every car salesman has to believe that he is the alpha male in order to survive. That means that any time you buy a car, it’s a battle for dominance between you and the salesman. The trick to beating this guy is not to use the aggressive, domineering side of your alpha personality. Instead, you’ll have to rely on the intelligent, calm aspects of your personality. Begin by going in there knowing exactly what you need. Do all your research online and figure out 1: what you want, and 2: what it’s going to cost. Next, go into the dealership knowing that the salesman is going to be using the intelligent, calm side of his personality, as well. He’s not going to be aggressive, he’s not going to try to push you around. Instead, he (or she!) is going to try to appeal to your alpha ego in order to get you to spend the most money possible. That’s the trick. The salesperson is going to kiss your ass. They’re going to tell you how great you are, and insist that you deserve the best. They don’t mind if you

don’t think of them as an alpha, because in the end, the commission they earn off you will decide the battle. So just be calm, and rely on the information you gathered before coming in. Don’t succumb to flattery or the promise of features that will make the ladies drool. Remember that the salesperson’s job is to act really happy and make you feel great. If you can make them uncomfortable and unenthusiastic about your purchase, then you’re on the right track.

New Cars vs. Used Cars As a rule, new cars are a ridiculous expense. The only people who buy new cars are the horrendously wealthy. As an alpha male with a good knowledge of cars, you will do just as well buying a car that’s a few years old, but that’s nicer than any of the new cars you could afford. If you’re driven to own the road, but your finances fall short of matching your ambition, you might even consider picking up an old Jag or a Mustang for a few grand and putting some man hours into restoring it. The benefits of this are threefold: you get to learn all about cars, have a cool hobby, and eventually drive something that you put together with your own two hands. It doesn’t get much more alpha than that. If, like most alphas, you’ve gotta have that new BMW, or that new Ford Explorer, you might want to try leasing it for a while. A good lease will generally get you a vehicle with all special features included for little extra cost, and it gives you some time to consider whether driving this car is really worth the expense.

Losing Your License The alpha male lifestyle can involve a lot of partying, but lose your license, and you are taking a step down the road to the sad, sad world of the washed-up alpha. The only way that you’ll guaranteed lose your license is by getting caught drunk driving. This is easy to avoid as long as you plan ahead. As an alpha, it should be no problem for you to delegate the job of driving home to one of your beta buddies. Even better is to rely on a female friend who is less likely to blow off her role as designated driver and get drunk.

Hot tip #15: Get a designated driver pool going with your friends. As the alpha, your “turn” to stay sober doesn’t have to come up very often, but when it does, consider hiring a limo. The cost of renting a limo for an hour is only about $50.00, probably close to the price you would pay to get everyone home in a cab. This is an incredibly slick, classy thing to do. If you only have to do it about once a month, your entire budget for getting home safe after partying comes down to $50.00 bucks a month. And so your legend grows...

Buying the Car of Your Dreams As you gradually grow into your new role as alpha male, everything will start to go your way, including earning more money. As you get richer, you will work your way towards affording that dream car.

why not find out a thing or two about cars? Lease a few of your favourites for six months at a time.. you won’t just settle for the first penis-mobile that the car salesman offers you. Don’t fall into this deadly alpha male trap! Before you start to focus on spending money. that you know how to handle. This is exactly the kind of thing that many alpha males do to sabotage themselves. and it gets repo’d. and that makes a killer statement about exactly who you are..AlphaMale101. www. You’re supposed to be rich. maxing out every credit card that credit card companies are so eager to throw at alpha males. it will do serious damage to your reputation. You’ll actually get a car that you feel strongly about. which means that you start spending . it means starting to spend money you don’t have. Whatever you decide on in the end. Often. it’s time to think about what you’re going to do the earn money. If you buy a car you can’t afford. you’re supposed to be generous.In the meantime. it is CRUCIAL that you don’t get in over your head financially. Doing this stuff will ensure that when the time comes for you to buy your dream car. you’re supposed to have everything you’ve always wanted and more. Get a subscription to a car magazine and take a class in car repair.

for the alpha male. of course. If you act like all the wealth of the world is at your fingertips. you will find it easier and easier to earn the kind of money you’ve always wanted to earn. just insist that you prefer to be in the stands with everyone else. However. Simply avoid places and events that you can’t afford – but by personal choice. www. Remember. taking this “no worries” attitude to money doesn’t mean that you have to go into debt. Employers are a lot like women – the same things turn them on and make them want you. it doesn’t matter how rich you are.AlphaMale101. if you’re going to a big game. not out of necessity – and only involve yourself in situations where you can be generous. take her to that inexpensive little Ethiopian restaurant rather than for fancy haute cuisine.Getting P aid: Th e Wo rld is Yo ur Oyster One of the main reasons alphas risk falling into that pit of debt is because it’s not in their nature to worry about money – at least not in a public way. For example.Chapter 9 . personal choice is the only true constraint! Working for Yourself As you evolve into the ultimate alpha male. Alphas know that wealth is all about attitude. you don’t need the box . others will believe that you’ve got it made. If you’re on a date. The trick here is to make things that are matters of financial constraint APPEAR to be matters of personal choice.

Whatever job you’re in right now.AlphaMale101. Odds are. you can start to pick up some freelance work. start your own subcontracting business. If you don’t call the shots. Of course. that’s why starting your own business should be your ultimate goal. because smart bosses. you can get something going on the side. for example. You’ve probably been working long enough that you have a pretty good idea of how to run your own crew. If you’re in construction or landscaping. want alpha males working right under them. Maybe you’re already doing this – but at the benefit of someone else’s business. and they get those promotions. you’ll soon find yourself moving up in the ranks. If you do anything that involves pushing papers or crunching numbers. Ever noticed how alpha males always seem to have personal projects going that bring in some extra cash? You have two options here: go with what you know. After all. . you can turn whatever job you’re doing right now into your own business. like smart women. As you develop your own clientele. you’re the boss. or try something completely different. you leave your fate in the hands of some potentially incompetent bozo. you can move away from your regular job and start working entirely for yourself. To get started. the alpha always prefers to be on top. Alpha males get noticed. The same goes for jobs involving physical or manual labor.

AlphaMale101. A good starting point might be to take that hobby or personal interest of yours. The point is that there is probably something about you that is extremely marketable. This is ideal for those who hate their current job. If you’re miserable where you work. and turn it into a money maker! Earning Money Online Maybe you hate your current job so much that you have to get out right this second. Maybe you restore classic cars. Or maybe you know how to beat every game that’s come out for Xbox. The small. There are almost as many different ways to get rich online as there are women who can’t wait to boink internet millionaires. you can SELL these stories to people. and your charm be benefiting a greedy boss? Your other option in terms of self employment is to try your hand at something new. or to take that thing that’s always been just a hobby. it’s time to discover your true passion. Maybe you lost weight and got in shape and you can tell other people how to do it. easiest ways to screw the system and go into business for yourself is to start making money online. and start an ebusiness selling this product or service. One of the fastest. or maybe your grandpa taught you how to make flies for fly fishing. and that other people can’t wait to get a piece of. www. Or maybe you just have a great story you want to share. your personality. Either way.To hell with that! What’s the point of being an alpha male if you still have to kowtow to someone higher up on the chain than you? Why should your .

This goes for cars. These people don’t just want to choose between the green and the blue. If you can put a bit of time and effort into research. being the busy alpha male that you are. If you’re looking for a cheap way to make money with virtually no overhead. Of course. And so even if you can’t produce something customized. so take advantage of this.successful business has been reborn on the internet. consider getting involved in affiliate programs.AlphaMale101. Figure out what you can buy cheaply and sell for a huge profit. We live in a world that’s full of choices. they want everything customized. Example: old electronics or media that are worth a ton of money in Asia. www. Hot tip #16: Customization. vacations. One-of-a-kind. this kind of stuff requires some time and . houses. clothes – you name it. Break into this industry now and make a million bucks! Another area of the internet that’s still ripe for the plucking is Ebay. you can figure out the Ebay marketplace pretty quick. Totally original. furniture. which you may not have a lot of right now. you can probably act as a customization consultant. It gives you access to a worldwide consumer base of billions of people. This might include: Anything you can buy locally and distribute to a greedy worldwide audience. and then resell at a profit. toys. restore. they want it customized. Anything that you can buy online in poor condition. and it’s full of people with money to burn. And they’ll pay almost anything to get it.

you get paid. It’s exactly the sort of work that pays off big-time if you are a natural-born shark in a sea of guppies. Day Trading If you’re not the type of alpha that plans on spending his days in the workshop or in front of the computer. in fact. You work your ass off all day in a high-pressure. and every time you send some business their way. the fast-paced world of the day trader might be just the place for you. you advertise for them. start a website that sells nothing at all. and when you www. Basically. and the risk is non-existent. as you gradually make connections. Day trading is the perfect high risk. Pick it up on the side. . you can work your way up to doing huge trades. and reselling them on that same day.AlphaMale101. Day trading is another stream of revenue that you can easily start small with. high stakes environment. but there are many low or no-interest loan options available to day-traders. and become increasingly liquid. high reward gamble for the alpha male. buying stocks that are poised to perform dramatically over the course of the day. This is the definition of a business venture that is worth a try. The set-up fee here is basically nil. as well as investors eager to get in on the next big cash cow. learn to play the market. you need some serious coin to do this. day trading involves working the stock market on a day-to-day basis. For those not in the know. almost as a hobby. Of course.You can. Day trading is also the perfect compliment to the alpha male lifestyle. and make your money through earning commissions by helping others to sell their products.

Just for fun. but only by those who can afford to lose.AlphaMale101. After all. Now look beyond those glittering tableaus. They’ve got charisma and they’re good decision-makers. This is one job that guarantees you opportunities to go interesting places. and meet interesting people. The tables manned by cheering onlookers and classy babes are being played by alphas. But. go check out a casino.they’re not alphas.close the day that much richer. if you had any real chance of winning. when you gamble. Are you really ready to lose that at the tables? www. See all the losers in their wrinkled suits with their red-rimmed eyes and greasy comb-overs . they’re walking zombies. Understand this: alpha males are not lucky. Aren’t we exactly the kind of people that DO take home the big bucks? No. They are smart. alpha males are all about getting lucky. Basically. gambling is fun but it can become an addiction and ruin your life. casinos and lotteries wouldn’t be able to stay in business. The first thing you’ll notice is that gambling can be great if you have a lot of money to blow. you might protest. you are gambling with your status as an alpha male. Walk around and take a few notes about the people at the table. None of these things make them ‘lucky’ by any stretch of the imagination. it’s time to party! Blow off some steam and show off your earning power at all the best clubs and restaurants in the . They are observant. if you can grab that bull by the horns! Gambling Like spending money that you don’t have on credit.

Assess the other people in the room for strengths and weaknesses – figure out what makes them tick. and use these observations to determine how you can control the way others behave. Play casually with your friends. command of body language. you can develop enough skill at poker to be a winner. begin to test yourself. Thanks to your amazing self-control. Hot tip #17: Life as a game of poker. because it can actually help you earn some serious cash. and work your way up to those high-stakes tables. A good way to train yourself to be a killer poker player is to approach social situations with a poker player’s eye. Winning at poker is just as much about knowing when to back off and not get in over your head as it is about knowing when to press your advantage with a table full of lightweights. We already talked about controlling your environment in chapter 3. Next.AlphaMale101. www.Poker All doom-saying aside. but with each other. See how your emotions. and behaviours affect the other people in the room. poker can be a great game for alphas to win big . Hopefully you’re getting good at it. reactions. This is because poker is not so much about luck as it is about understanding and controlling human nature. Just remember to start out small. you will have no trouble controlling a table of poker players. not just with you. and ability to read others. Once you can control a room full of people at a party.

T h e F ine Ar t o f Partyin g One of the best things about being an alpha male is the . Don’t worry about having a fancy lighter. you risk burning out and getting really sick. this is where you meet all the women. Out of control drinking can ruin everything from your health to your reputation. opportunities to have a drink or get drunk will constantly be thrown at the alpha male. they might just follow your lead. Like business men who have to drink with clients all day to make a sale. there will be opportunities to party every night. Hot tip #18: Always carry a lighter. And of course. Once you achieve true alpha status. But as the alpha male. a bit of cheap plastic will go a long way. a lighter is a must-have in every alpha male on-the-go toolkit. you can also use lighters to easily open beer bottles.Chapter 10 . www. Not only does lighting a woman’s cigarette make for an instant sex connection.AlphaMale101. In fact. If you don’t pace yourself. Drinking Like gambling. and make all the connections. Even if you’re a non-smoker. just remember that you have the right to say no. Just remember: the key to effective partying is to pace yourself. drinking can get out of control if you let it. Others won’t judge you for it. Just bear in mind that you are at risk. which means you’ll miss out on a bunch of partying as you’re forced to allow your body to recover.

you have to work your way up to mass consumption slowly. Instead of pounding them back. and be merry. or suggest a place for after-club snacking. um. In other words. drink. Every time you get drunk. you’ll have to learn to drink like a . An old Russian trick is to always have a plate of pickled foods (like. You’ll find yourself drinking with the big boys in no time. Hot tip #19: Eat. if you follow these simple rules: If you’re not much of a drinker. high-protein foods (like caviar). To do this. stop drinking at least a couple of hours before you pass out. you’ve got to eat AND drink. and CHUG WATER. Eat something rich in carbs and protein.AlphaMale101. in order to achieve maximum merriment. If you really want to max out your stamina. make every second drink a glass of water. pickles). You can drink more without getting destroyed if you drink slowly and regularly. Both will help to dilute the alcohol in your bloodstream and make you the hero of a bunch of hungry drunks. Mix drinking with snacking. so order a couple of pizzas to a party. Hangovers The 100% guaranteed best way to solve the hangover problem is to avoid getting them altogether. Being able to drink a lot without necessarily becoming fall-on-your-face drunk can be done. drink just a little bit more than you did last time.For all those time when you do say yes. www. on hand to go along with that bottle of vodka. pace yourself throughout the night. and salty.

despite your best . you wouldn’t have gotten so wrecked in the first place. Also. So on occasion. greasy breakfast. Feel better.AlphaMale101. in the dark. swear that you will never drink again. Hint: this is also the perfect hangover level for the “hair of the dog. Medium hangover: Coffee and a big. pure and simple. If. to avoid that savage morning-after misery. so the more nonalcoholic fluid you can get in your body before you crash. Yes. stay in bed. go ahead and take some Tylenol. you don’t avoid that hangover. mixing pills and booze is poison for your body. www. take a couple of Tylenol while you’re chugging that water. It won’t kill you. here’s what you can do to minimize the damage: Mild hangover: Gatorade and a jog. pills. Bad hangover: Water.Hangovers are caused by dehydration. although medical health experts will advise against it.” Drink a Bloody Mary. but if you were worried about that. the better.

Vodka 1 oz. Raspberry Sourpuss Equal parts pineapple juice and Seven Up Ice and a cherry The Mojito: 2 oz. They were also served without sugar to sweeten the lime and tequila. Light rum 3 tablespoons of lime juice A few sprigs of fresh mint 2 teaspoons of sugar Club soda and ice Coat the inside of a tall glass with crushed mint. Gold tequila 3 tablespoons of lime juice www. sugar.AlphaMale101. or at least how to order a fun drink for a babe at the club. Add lime juice.Cocktails All alpha males should know how to mix some fun drinks. rum. Here’s how to throw together the classic margarita style with the sweetness that makes it a panty-remover: 2 oz. Here are a few simple ones for the road: The Jelly Belly: 1 oz. Garnish with lemon and mint if you’re feeling fancy. margaritas were served on the rocks. and stir it well before topping it off with club soda. unblended. and . The “Original” Margarita: Traditionally.

The major distinguishing factor amongst wines is flavour.Immerse the top rim of the glass in a shallow dish of water. All you have to do now is start to pay attention to what you’re drinking. like Cabernet Sauvignon. and Zinfandel. Chardonnay. Instead.AlphaMale101. even if you know how to make . After all. you’ll be able to name the differences that you’ve always tasted. subconsciously. then in a shallow dish of salt to create the classic salty rim. And remember. Soon. In fact. Other need-to-knows: The difference between dry and sweet wines.” Wine/Champagne Appreciation Getting to know wine is all a matter of practice. which is determined by what type of grape is used to make the wine. with very dry being a zero. and order all hard alcohol “on the rocks. you should not be caught dead sipping anything pink with a little umbrella in it. Pinot Noir. If you’ve ever drank any wine at all. you probably already know the difference between these wines. the names of wines. Fill the glass completely with a mixture of 2/3 ice cubes and 1/3 sugar cubes. Generally www. Pinot Gris. are actually the names of the grapes used to make them. a five. Only whip out your drink-making skills on special occasions. get to know your fine scotches. Merlot. and very sweet. alpha males don’t play bartender for just anybody. The scale from dry to sweet goes from one to five.

and a white wine for chicken and fish. Champagne itself is a sparkling white wine. For example. It’s a good idea to have a favourite French. and they’ve got a million great stories. adventurous.AlphaMale101. Chilean. Being well-travelled is just one of those things that make you a better alpha male. Languages. climates. These are more for after-dinner sipping than fine dining or styling women. All champagne comes from the area of France known as Champagne. but should not accidentally be referred to as champagne. The country a wine comes from is important. Other sparkling wines are imitations of this style of wine. only a bottle that actually says “Champagne” on it contains champagne. try picking a wine that goes with your . many of which are very good and very expensive. afraid to take risks. and customs www.when buying a bottle. Dry wines go down much smoother. and Australian wine that you can pick up at a moment’s notice. Travelling Alpha males are fearless. The difference between sparkling white wine and champagne. However. especially about their travels. Part of the excitement of travel is that it involves putting yourself in situations where you alpha power is constantly tested. saki or plum wines make a nice addition to a meal of Chinese food. you conquer the world like the Vikings and Conquistadors of old. Italian. If you’re eating ethnic food. What kind of wine goes with what food? As a rule. While others sit on their asses. choose a red wine for red meat and pasta dishes. avoid the sweet wines.

and avoid expressing confusion or fear that could make you a target for those who prey on tourists. or for any other hobby you’re already into can get you connected with all kinds of people. which is key to enjoying yourself while travelling. Rather than being embarrassing. Try to be at least halfway familiar with the language. www.that are completely outside of your comfort zone mean that you run the risk of being seriously dethroned. There are two. slightly contradictory ways to avoid getting in trouble while on the road: Be prepared! Do your research so that you have some idea what you’re getting into. Hot tip #20: Friends all over the world. Even if you’re not going to be hitting the road for a . just go with it. it’s time to get online and start meeting people from all over the world. meet hot foreign women with the benefit of an official introduction. Be relaxed! If something goes wrong or if you get lost. And don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it. don’t panic. for sports betting. And being able to meet up with them on their own turf is the best way to experience a foreign place and of course.AlphaMale101. Just participating on a message board for your favourite band. your willingness to admit you need help will help you make friends with the locals.

It can also be a very cheap destination if you get a vacation package through a big casino.Hot Destinations You’re about to conquer the world. and everybody is there to have a good time and meet guys just like you. Las Vegas: You’ll never believe it until you experience it for yourself. Nepal. and bang all the pouty. Spain. Here you can eat at all the best restaurants. Australia and New Zealand offers a great combination of rugged outdoor adventure and hardcore urban partying. alphas with a desire to explore the great unknown have taken long trips (6 months – 1 year) to destinations that promise mystery and . and get a taste of real high living. NYC is the gritty urban centre of the world.AlphaMale101. Italy. you can survive anywhere. Morocco: Follow in the footsteps of Ernest Hemingway and tangle with bulls. www. The party never stops in Las Vegas. scale mountains. party at all the coolest clubs. pissed-off New York babes you can handle. But where should you begin? Alpha males that have come before you have chosen from these different paths: Travel in the steps of the greats: Throughout history. New York City: If you can survive here. Engage in some serious partying on short trips to global party centrals. Thailand and Vietnam are hot right now because they’re cheap and they don’t hate tourists. The Far East.

com . Party all night in a laidback. The newest thing to hit the travel scene is adventure travel. Amsterdam: This is where the whole world comes to play. and don’t want to spend it sitting on the beach. There are plenty of party boats and party palaces that are saying NO KIDS ALLOWED and they offer sweet vacation packages in tropical paradises that are designed specifically to help you hook up and party your ass off. specifically for the alpha male. it seems. White-water rafting is a killer rush for alphas looking to enjoy some gorgeous scenery and life-or-death situations. these adventures are the perfect option for alphas who need a vacation from babes and partying. relatively safe environment. www. This is the ultimate option for the alpha that has seen all and done all and just wants to hack at some brush with a machete. Designed. A great choice for the alpha super-athlete.Caribbean: Cruises and resorts aren’t just for families and retirees anymore. Long-distance hiking will test your mettle and clean out your body.AlphaMale101. and meet some seriously world-class women. Alphas with serious hero-complexes like to get themselves in over their heads volunteering for aid organizations in South America and Africa.

your hero status will go up a notch. they will look to you for . all the people that look up to you. however. There is just so much power and control and so many rewards that come along with being the alpha that it’s easy to get stuck in the cycle of power and gratification. and you get used to everyone looking up to you and relying on you. you’ve done it all.. Always an Alph a It won’t be long before you reach the point when you feel untouchable. as alpha male. and your legend will grow.On ce an Alph a. Once you get to this stage of Zen-alpha status. Negative Alpha Qualities to Guard Against You can go back to your old life. And if you ever get sick of it all. When something goes wrong. By now.AlphaMale101. you might start to notice that it’s not all fun and theory. On the plus side. you must know it all. and that have ‘elected’ you as their alpha are going to expect a lot from you. no-pressure lifestyle. every time you do come through. and become fairly set in their ways. and they’ll expect all kinds of amazing answers and solutions from you because that’s just what you do. The Burden of the Alpha Male As alpha. They’ll depend on you to come through for them. you can always just stop coming through and go back to your old. most alpha males get addicted to their alpha status. it will get easier and easier to fit into a routine where you are www.. In reality. Especially as you get older.Con clu sion . You’ve seen it all. or they’re in trouble. . Your coolness and your ability to rise above it all can become indifference. the powerful qualities that have done so much for you can turn against you: Your confidence can become arrogance. This has only been a brief introduction to the world. by learning to relax and meeting the challenges of life head-on. and you’ll never fall into the traps that can devour alpha males as they age. You’ve probably already got a million questions about things you you’re not sure about. By signing up for Alpha Male 101’s exclusive Private Membership Library.AlphaMale101. not that you’ll need it. this is only the tip of the iceberg. and where you always have to be in charge. the lifestyle. Never stop evolving in these same ways. www. and you can become incapable of being open to new ideas. Your self-assurance can become tunnel vision.. At this point. Good luck. even if that meant risking your personal comfort. and the glory of the alpha male. tricks. and lead to the inability to have deep relationships. you can gain in-depth access to all the tips. and lead to mistakes.. the challenges. and can’t-fail techniques that have been building alpha males ever since the first caveman clubbed a cavewoman on the head and dragged her back to his cave. So remember this one last thing: you got here by being open to learning new things.always right. Your risk-taking nature can become dangerous and escalate until a disaster occurs. guys. .

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