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Hydro and the nuclear


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I made phone calls, read all the


Be an information I could get my hands
Angel on and attended local meetings.
Our first task was to draw
 and help  attention to Ontario Hydro's plan
to transport tritiated heavy water
disadvantaged from the Pickering and Bruce
women nuclear stations along Highway
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Darlington. We lobbied local
Home-Based governments to ban the transport
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Assistant (HAA) Although our efforts were
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knowledge about how to organize,
write media releases and get
UP Training of press coverage.
single moms (2006-
2007) As a kid my mother always said
that I never had a shy bone in my
body. Later on, as a young
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woman, I had spent several years
physically
as the lead singer in a bar band.
challenged
Although the experience seemed
members (2008-
rather meaningless at the time, as
2009)
I assumed my new role as
activist/mother, I realized that my
ability to deal with bright lights
and rowdy crowds would come in
very handy.

When the first opportunity came


to do an on-camera interview, I
was ready. I was about six
months pregnant, but the camera
angle made it look like I was
about to give birth at any second.
Unaware of exactly how much of
me would be included in the
picture, I had tucked my hands
up under my heavy belly for
support. The result was quite
compelling. Here was this sweet
looking young mother, obviously
heavy with child and concern,
pleading for the safety of her
community. 

The day before our second son


was born, I attended a meeting
about emergency planning. I was
experiencing one of those burst of
energy that women get shortly
before giving birth. I'd been house
bound for about three weeks, and

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desperately needed to get out. My


belly was so big that when I tried
to parallel park the car, I got
stuck. I can still remember one
woman who was heading into the
meeting standing on the sidewalk
yelling at me. She asked me if I
was pregnant or just plain stupid.
When I finally waddled out of the
car, her angry scowl quickly
turned into a belly laugh.

When I finally got into the


meeting I met Irene Kock,
another of the founding members
of DNA. She had been busy
working in Toronto at the office of
Nuclear Awareness Project (DNA),
the parent group that had
spawned DNA. It became
apparent that Durham was where
the action was, so together with
her partner in life and concern,
Dave Martin, the NAP office was
combined with DNA and moved to
a small office in Oshawa.
I think Irene is one of the reasons
I have continued my commitment
to DNA over the years. She is
everything that I have ever
aspired to be: bright, focused,
hard working, incredibly well
organized and independent. Her
friendship has often fired my own
commitment when I felt I had
little left to give.

Little would I know back then that


my involvement with DNA would
not only change my life and how I
view the world, but it would also
have a profound affect on my
family. From nuclear waste
dumps, my concern grew to
include all aspects of
environmental protection including
waste management, recycling,
incineration and public health.
Along the way I was threatened,
ridiculed and ignored.  But
thousands of hours of unpaid
work have resulted in small,
gratifying changes that have
convinced me that one individual
can make a difference.

Two years after my second son


was born I had become
overwhelmed with the demands
on my time. Our phone rang
constantly with questions about

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everything from how we could


expand the blue box program in
our community to evacuation
plans in the event of a nuclear
accident. Late night meetings,
letter writing and organizing had
pushed me to the end of my
physical limits. I ended up with
pneumonia and a little time on
my hands to re-assess exactly
what I was trying to accomplish.

It was my husband who first


reasoned that if so many people
were desperate for information
about the environment, there had
to be a more effective way to
make it available. It was his idea
for me to approach our local
newspapers about writing an
environmental 'Dear Abby' column
where people could send in their
questions.

I had always wanted to become a


writer, so with a lot more nerve
than talent, I painstakingly
drafted two sample columns and
submitted them to my local
newspaper. When the editor called
to tell me I had a job, I was
ecstatic until reality set in. The
first shock came when I
discovered that I would be paid
the grand sum of $ 25 per
column. The second was when I
realized that I didn't have a clue
what I was going to write about
each week.

Self-doubt can be an amazing


motivator. I wrote great volumes
each week that were lovingly and
surgically edited by my husband.
There were times when my writing
was so bad he'd have no idea
what I was trying to say. I'd get
angry and start yelling that he
was stupid if he didn't get it. I
start explaining to him what
exactly it was I had written and
he'd quietly say, "Great, now
write that down!"

The idea snowballed. Within a few


short months I was writing a
weekly environment column,
appropriately titled 'Your Earth',
for a half dozen southern Ontario
papers. In addition, I was
frequently being used by my
editors as an environmental

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consultant and helped to expand


my column to a full page of
environmental coverage each
week. Papers have come and
gone over the years, thanks
mostly to the volatile nature of
the business, but I continue to
write for several newspapers. The
bad news is that columnists rarely
get paid well for their work.
Financially, my new found
profession did little more than
cover my direct costs like long
distance, printing and postage.

It was shortly after my column


had become established that I
was approached by the Ontario
Advisory Council on Women's
Issues to write a book for their
'Action on Issues' series. Once
again I felt like I had bitten off
more than I could chew. A weekly
column was one thing, but writing
an entire book was beyond my
capabilities. I sweated; I swore
and fought with my husband
when my writing was unclear or
unfocused.

When I finally submitted the final


draft, I became a victim of my
own success. I originally had been
asked to submit a 100-page
document. Unfortunately, a book
of this size would have to be
bound, which would push printing
costs up. If I could cut it down to
a 60-page booklet, they could
double their print run. After
pouring my soul into carefully
crafting each sentence, I was
faced with the job of slashing
40% of my work. Although I
dreaded it, the editing job was
perhaps one of the best learning
experiences that I have ever had.
I learned that no words are
sacred, and no matter how good
you think something is, it can
always be improved.

The booklet, when it was finally


published in the Fall of 1990, was
entitled 'Women & the
Environment, and was quickly sold
out. (Unfortunately, thanks to
government cutbacks, money was
never made available for a
reprint.)

Years passed. DNA emerged in

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the community as a driving force


for community health and nuclear
responsibility. When we first
began it was virtually impossible
to get a story in the local
newspapers. Shortly before The
Oshawa Times was shutdown, we
jokingly suggested that it be re-
named the Nuclear Free Press
because of the number of stories
that ran about nuclear issues.

Today the group is a well-


respected voice in the community.
Hardly a week goes by when Irene
Kock or Dave Martin are not being
interviewed by national and local
media about one issue or another.
Remarkably, the hard working
core of DNA has remained
constant at about six individuals.
In light of recent successes, our
motto has become, "Just think
what we could do with a dozen
people."

The price was high. Volunteerism


takes it toll in many ways,
particularly when you are dealing
with such a depressing issue.
What is rarely taken into
consideration is the uneven
playing field that volunteers play
on. The polluters we fight have
money for salaries, traveling,
printing and communications. For
a stay-at-home mom, the cost of
baby-sitting, long distances
charges and gas expenses were
often prohibitive.

On a personal level, my health


suffered. Over the years I have
struggled frequently with bouts of
pneumonia and depression,
sometimes simultaneously. My
husband and I have argued over
the cost the rest of our family has
paid for my involvement. Friends
and family have often encouraged
me to quit, explaining that it was
time for someone else to pick up
the slack, but there have never
been any offers.

I think that part of me is relieved.


I sometimes feel like some battled
scarred veteran who has earned
the right to march in the
Remembrance Day parade. When
I started over a dozen years ago,
I was young, inexperienced and

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naive. Along the way I had


learned skills that I didn't think
that I could ever master. More
importantly, I can now list among
my friends some of the great
spirits of this age - people that
time will remember long after I
am gone. In some ways it feels
like I've tied myself to the
immortality of their deeds.

It hasn't all been struggle. There


have been wonderful experiences
along the way. In 1992 I attended
the Earth Summit in Rio de
Janeiro and had my entire
paradigm shattered. For the most
part, the official part of the
conference was dull and
predictable. What was
revolutionary was the 30,000
souls that attended The Global
Forum, a parallel conference that
was held for non-governmental
organizations. Once again, I was
invited to play with giants. Great
souls who looked upon me as a
like-minded individual. That
experience fed my tired soul like
some magical elixir.

The spirit at that conference was


palpable. The air practically
sparkled with the energy and
commitment of the participants.
Networks were forged, ideas were
exchanged, and everyone present
got a very real sense of what
'Think globally, Act locally' could
actually mean.

Given my background as an anti-


nuclear activist, it was a bit of a
shock when I realized that Canada
is considered one of the world's
'bad guys' when it comes to
nuclear proliferation. In this
country, and indeed in most of
the free world, we are granted
certain rights and freedoms that
allow us to express our concern
about nuclear power and to
actively lobby against it. Sadly,
this is not so in most of the third
world where nuclear stations are
considered part of the military.
Protesting against nuclear power
and/or weapons can be considered
an act of treason, which is
punishable by loss of
employment, harassment,

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imprisonment or even death.

I returned from Rio with a


renewed sense of purpose and a
much broader mandate. My
activism had begun years ago
when I realized that in order to
ensure my children's safety I had
to ensure that the big backyard of
my community must also be made
safe. I now realized that in order
for one child to be safe and
secure, all children must be
granted the right to a safe
environment. The world had
become too small, and the
problems too complex to ignore
the needs of a single child.

I continued my work with


revitalized passion for another
year until I discovered, to my
surprise and delight, that I was
pregnant. Carrying a child in my
fortieth year was the hardest work
that I have ever done.  My unborn
daughter seemed to sense this,
and to my body's relief, decided
to arrive a little earlier than
anticipated. Although five weeks
premature, Sarah weighed almost
seven pounds and appeared to be
in good health. Immature lung
development can be a major
problem for preemies, but after
two days in an incubator, Sarah
seemed fine.

The trouble began when she


developed a cold a few months
later. The virus left Sarah with a
persistent cough that would not
go away. After weeks of shuttling
her back and forth to our family
doctor, she finally saw a specialist
who immediately admitted her
into the intensive care ward at our
local hospital.

The diagnosis was asthma and for


the next two months our world
became a nightmare struggle to
save Sarah's life. Continuing to
breast feed her seemed like the
one thing that I could do to help
my baby. I slept in hospital
corridors and wrote my column on
the back of the nurses' clipboards.
In the face of her illness,
continuing to write each week was
the one thing that helped keep
my life sane and predictable. It

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forced me to think rationally and


in doing so, gave order to the
world that seemed to be falling
apart around me.

Her illness was so bad that for


the first week she was only
allowed to leave the oxygen tent
that had become her home to be
nursed. As we watched her
struggle to breathe, we became
parental experts on the disease
that was threatening her life.
Childhood asthma is on a
dramatic increase in this country,
particularly in the Montreal to
Windsor corridor. It is not
surprising that this area also hosts
the most badly polluted air in
Canada. I was angry. After all the
sacrifices, after all the hard work,
it was my baby that was stricken
with an illness that could be
directly related to air pollution. It
just didn't seem fair.

I stayed by Sarah's side night and


day while my husband cared for
our sons and labored to create a
safe haven for her for when she
was able to return home. The
first things to go were our old
furnace and wood stove, followed
sadly by our two beloved cats.

By the time her asthma was


under control a month later,
Sarah was on a hefty dose of
prednisone. When we tried to
take her off the drug, her body
rebounded, and her tiny brain
almost exploded. One moment
she was lying peacefully in my
arms, and the next we were
rushing to emergency to save her
life. A series of spinal taps and
two weeks at the Hospital for Sick
Children in Toronto, and we were
finally able to bring our daughter
home.

Two months had passed and we


were physical, emotionally and
financially exhausted. My husband
I were already at the end of our
ropes when the contractors we
had hired to replace our oil
furnace neglected to empty the oil
tank before they tried to remove
it. As they moved it off its base,
the weight of the five hundred
litres of fuel oil it still contained

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spilt the tank. Despite their best


efforts to clean the mess up, the
residual smell was so
overpowering that our home was
deemed unfit to live in. While
Sarah and I resided at Sick Kids,
my husband and sons moved into
the local Holiday Inn while clean-
up crews had to renovate our
home to make it livable again.

When I look back, it's hard to


believe that we survived it all in
one piece. There were times that
my husband and I could barely
talk to each other and our two
sons understandably became
unsettled and unhappy. But in the
end, we came through it all.

The circle was complete. I had


stepped outside my own garden
to ensure the safety of my
children. Now my daughter's
biggest enemy was our own
home environment. After two
years of living with a compressor
four times a day, Sarah was
transferred to inhalers shortly
before her second birthday.
Today, with careful monitoring
and constant vigilance, she is a
healthy, thriving little girl.

It was Margaret Mead who once


said, "Never doubt that a small
group of concerned citizens can
change the world. Indeed, it is
the only thing that ever has." The
greatest gift of my involvement
has been having the opportunity
to count among my friends some
of this era's great spirits.
Unknown to most, history will
record their valiant efforts and
remember them as the ones who
made the difference. What is so
remarkable about these
individuals is they are, as one
activist said, "Simply ordinary
people, doing extraordinary
things."

I never had a chance to ask the


owners of the farm in Tyrone why
they selected my husband and I
to visit their farm that day. We
were simply a hard working
couple, wanting to raise our
young family in peace. But
perhaps this is the greatest
example of how one tiny action

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can change things. Their simple


invitation was the catalyst that led
to over a decade of involvement
for me.

It wasn't always easy. When I


began, my life was like a babbling
brook, skipping along the riverbed
of life, sparkling and bubbling with
joy. In a dozen years, that brook
has deepened and widened into a
river - slow and purposeful. The
spontaneous joy is gone, but it
has been replaced by something
much stronger.

When I've had an opportunity


over the years to talk to groups
about the work I've done, I
always conclude by saying, "If you
see something that needs to be
done, and find yourself saying,
'somebody should do something
about that', then chances are,
that someone is you." It has been
exciting, frustrating and
inspirational work that is never
ending. No matter what happens,
there is always a reason to get
out of bed in the morning.

It is truly within every one of us


to make a difference - to protect
this world for future generations.
The motive, ultimately, is selfish.
For we don't secure the world for
our children and our children's
children. Indeed it is they who
secure ours. For without children
there can be no future. And
without a future it is all simply
dust in the wind.

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