Alpha Male 101

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Table of Contents
Introduction....................................................................................... 4 Chapter 1 - The Body: It’s a Machine, Use it ............................................... 9 Chapter 2 - Style: Part James Bond, Part Jimmy Dean, All King of the Jungle ..... 16 Chapter 3 - Personality: Be Cool, or Die in the Trenches ............................... 21 Chapter 4 - Women: Alpha Males Don’t Beg ............................................... 28 Chapter 5 - Etiquette: The Finer Points to Ruling the Roost ...........................36 Chapter 6 - Skills: How to Be Good at Everything ........................................ 39 Chapter 7 - Friends and Family: Building Your Empire..................................44 Chapter 8 - Cars: The Drive to Dominate ..................................................48 Chapter 9 - Getting Paid: The World is Your Oyster ..................................... 53 Chapter 10 - The Fine Art of Partying ...................................................... 60 Conclusion - Once an Alpha, Always an Alpha............................................. 69

your first official tip on the journey to alpha male-dom is this: Hot tip #1: Never wear a Speedo. at the time that these ads became popular. lions. or baboons. a Speedo will make you look like a try-hard. but not in a good way.AlphaMale101. listens to his ideas.In tro du ctio n “Are you sick of being a ninety-eight-pound weakling. or last in line – the one that’s always ignored or overlooked. And it’s about a whole hell of a lot more than getting a tan and looking good in a Speedo. or a meathead. and trusts in his judgement. and a legend in his own time. follows his lead. Today. always getting sand kicked in your face?” This was the original call-to-arms for all you guys out there that had enough of being the little guy. the alpha male is the leader of the pack. Everyone looks up to him. In fact. www. He’s the strongest. no matter how “good” you might look in it. the second. buff guy on the beach that got all the chicks. and he gets first dibs on all the drooling ladies. So. or a girl’s best friend. advertisers were promoting a healthy combination of medicine ball lifting and the consumption of gooey green weight-gain formulas in order to make you the big. the smartest. What is an Alpha Male? In nature. He’s a hero. the alpha is the go-to guy. Whether you’re talking wolves. Of course. we call it becoming the ALPHA . Even if you have a perfect body. third.

Plenty of guys have done it before you. and having success at everything you do while maintaining a humble. This was 800 www. You have to get others – your group of friends. You have to work your way to the top with a deadly. In layman’s terms. In order to truly get women to worship the ground you walk on. Of course. baby. co-workers. Khan was a Mongolian warlord who conquered most of Asia and the Middle East to create the Mongol Empire. Unfortunately. knowing how to seduce women is only a small part of the much bigger picture. If you try to fake it. you have to be an alpha. The curs and bitches that worship you today can just as easily turn on you and rip you to shreds tomorrow. the ultimate goal of the alpha male is to pass on his bloodline. Because this is pack mentality we’re dealing with. Women have to see you getting your ass kissed by your friends.You can’t just style yourself as an alpha male. and it can’t be scam. All of which means this can’t be a con. Great Alpha Males of Yesterday When historians look back through the ages. etc. you will be exposed and dethroned. you can’t achieve alpha status through brute force. It’s not impossible. They have to see you doing brilliant things. and charm. which means you have to be good at everything. and knowing about cool things. many of them point to Genghis Khan as the proto-alpha male.AlphaMale101. – to “elect” you as their alpha. unstoppable combination of . relaxed attitude to all the good things that come your way. intelligence. family. acquaintances. that means scoring with as many gorgeous chicks as is humanly possibly.

But that was yesterday. martini in the other. babe hanging around your waist – what more does an alpha need?). and of course. but old Khan conquered so many ladies throughout the course of his warlording that scientists estimate he has as many as 30 million descendents on the planet today. James Bond. With raping and pillaging off the list of acceptable alpha behavior. These guys are still smart and tough.years ago. Frank Sinatra will teach you how to party all night with a bunch of buddies almost as cool as you. Frank Sinatra. Great Alpha Males of Today Some alpha males you can learn from today are: www. but they added the crucial element of style to the alpha male game. Not only that. well. The role of the alpha male has evolved significantly since the 13th century. Alpha to the max. and still come out on . and the man is still credited with building the largest empire in the history of the world. Read their books. the last couple hundred years have brought us such alpha male archetypes as Casanova. he’ll teach you everything the alpha male needs to know about multi-tasking (magnum in one hand. And James Bond.AlphaMale101. watch their movies: Casanova will teach you how to make a smooth move worth a thousand words.

No one. Watch the way he walks into a room. he’s a big star. or hip hop . and he climbs right out of Jennifer Aniston’s bed and into Angelina Jolie’s bed. Jay-Z: He’s the ultimate well-rounded alpha. So he’s a great businessman. he’s one of the best emcees in the world. I’m never going to be the President. and he gets Beyonce. would look at a picture of that guy and say he was an alpha. And on top of that. right? But consider Albert Einstein. intelligent movies. everywhere he went.AlphaMale101. and shakes hands. a sports aficionado. and isn’t afraid to battle it out over political issues with the majority of his countrymen. GQ magazine just named him 2006’s Man of the Year. He’s hot. His whole life. Hmm. he was a giant thanks to his intelligence. On the one hand you’ve got the obvious Brad Pitt type. George Clooney: The guy’s a chick-magnet. but you would be too if every chick and her mother thought you were the hottest guy on the planet. he makes incredible. in their wildest imagination. and his charisma. The true alpha is never afraid to be a hero. But he was. and why not? The guy owns Def Jam Records AND the New Jersey Nets. even if it means standing alone (and he usually won’t!). or a movie star. His left hand grasps your right elbow. and a brilliant artist. simultaneously friendly and dominant. Any questions? The Different Types of Alpha Male Before you start getting all depressed and like “man.Bill Clinton: Study him closely to pick up tips on how to be a guy that everybody LOVES. www.” remember that alpha males come in ALL shapes and sizes. The guy is unstoppable.

and becoming a legend. Why become an Alpha Male? Being an alpha male is all about standing out. we’re always searching for the meaning of life. www. All you have to do. these are pretty damn good things to . In the immortal words of Trooper: “We’re here for a good time.It recently came to light that Einstein had dozens of lovers in his lifetime. not made. It’s about finding something amazing inside of yourself and bringing it out so that everybody can see it. and tells all the great stories. is decide that you are going to make it happen for yourself. right? A good backup plan is to enjoy yourself. As human beings. And that means being an alpha male.AlphaMale101. And what was his excuse to his various wives? “The women won’t stop chasing me. but in a world where a nerdy little scientist gets all the chicks.” And how can you have the best time that is humanly possible? By being the guy who gets all the girls. right now. you’ve got to believe that anything is possible. being different. that you can become anything. Some people might say that alphas are born. Being special. but what if we don’t find it? We don’t want to waste our lives looking.” That just goes to show that being an alpha male isn’t all about being physically attractive. has all the adventures. not for a long time. being a hero. and be anyone that you want to be. If you haven’t figured it out yet.

Bald guys do it. Your attitude will MAKE it the best place to be. and like in the end. guys with missing limbs and broken teeth and wheelchairs do it. no . www. No one looks dumber than the guy who acts all bored with his surroundings. right now. you don’t need to be born beautiful to be the sexiest motherfucker that ever walked the earth. Always act like the best place to be is right here. If you walk into a room like you know you are the man. And it’s all about two major elements: attitude. because you’re just living in the moment and having a good time and the party is wherever you are at.Th e Bo d y: It’s a Machine. it doesn’t matter. and complains that he could be somewhere better. Attitude Approaching life with the right attitude can make all the difference. then you’ve got instant sex appeal. Hot tip #2: The party IS where you at.AlphaMale101. and street cred. Use it Attraction: You don’t have to be hot to be hot! As we’ve already figured out.Chapter 1 . and other people will have fun because you’re having fun. fat guys do it. like you banged a billion babes before breakfast but you’re only going to bring one home with you tonight.

chase down a pursesnatcher.AlphaMale101. “yeah. Remember: there is nothing you can’t do. You might be thinking. will make you an alpha male. or . Have you really tried? It is a 100% guaranteed fact of life that doing any amount of physical activity more than you do right now will increase your fitness level. if your friends and others around you treat you with respect and admiration (in other words. Just the simple ability to jump down a flight of stairs. If you’re seriously lacking in the motivation department. BUT. that have good coordination. if they ‘elect’ you as their alpha). If people treat you like a goof. It’s true.Street Cred Next all-important element: street cred. then women will see you as the alpha and be drawn to your sexy male dominance. consider this: For an alpha male. physical fitness isn’t just about having a hot body. Men that sweat. It’s about being the kind of man that is active and capable. or help your neighbor move her new big-screen TV. then women who see you at the club or on the street are going to think of you as a goof. www. and that live a physically vigorous lifestyle are generally more sexually appealing than men who don’t.” But be honest with yourself. anybody but me. that can lift heavy things. All you have to do is get together the motivation. Physical Fitness Anyone can have a hot body.

Dust off that bike and cycle to and from work. cycle everywhere. It makes you fast. you’ve already won half the battle. and it’s a great alternative to driving after a night at the pub. Walking is great . and strong. Get a dog.AlphaMale101. and it’s something you can easily do every day. www. you need to be able to take care of yourself and the people you care about. Running is the single best way to get in shape. Start jogging. In fact. Definitely not alpha. it’s a 100% never-fails chick magnet. Any sport will do. Definitely not sexy. A Saturday at the dog park messing around with Spot will get you in great shape AND score you a few phone numbers. Self Defense As an alpha male. This is the perfect opportunity to get regular physical activity. you earn instant alpha status. Men used to do hard physical labor all day. as is carrying heavy parcels like groceries. and to assert your alpha male dominance.Being Physical Every Day First thing’s first: you need to make physical activity a part of your everyday life. Here are some things you can do to make physical activity a part of your everyday life: Run errands on foot. Join a team. Not only will a dog work your ass off running and playing. Now they sit at desks. If you can kick ass and get your team-mates to look up to you. agile. By being physically strong. This is some of the best exercise you can get.

you have to have a good sense of when to fight. Odds are. don’t try to be a hero. If you refuse to give them an opportunity to do this. Instead of fighting.Physically fit alpha males attract people to them with the sense that they are powerful and able to be a . a drunk at a club or a party just won’t back down. Basically. Easy Defense Techniques When it comes to drunks. If he doesn’t have a www. they will fall flat on their faces. Then all you have to do is get your knee between their shoulder blades. Of course.AlphaMale101. all you need to do is use their own intoxication against them. In these cases. they will more often than not back off. and when to be cool. there are a few easy selfdefense techniques you can use to diffuse the situation without looking like an idiot. They also deter aggressors because very few people are willing to tangle with an alpha. and tell them to settle down and you’ll let them go. Sometimes. if there’s any chance that you can get out of a situation without fighting. Or you can be on a date and get faced with a mugger or attacker of some kind. then dodge when they throw a punch. hold their heads. you can’t always avoid a fight. humiliate your opponent with humor or indifference. Most of the time. When aggressive situations do arise. take it. guys who want to fight are just attempting to assert their own alpha male status. You will be the jerk of the month if you get yourself or your date stabbed or shot. If a mugger has a weapon. Get up it their face. Only idiots fight when they don’t have to.

the better you look. White sugar makes you . even as you are moving into the prime of your life (25-35). The key to slick defense techniques is to avoid panicking and flailing around. such as a headlock. These foods are also addictive. wrestle your opponent to the ground and again get your knee in his back and pull his head up by the hair. for you this isn’t about diet. the more you want. what did we eat? www. Think of it as a challenge to end the fight in as few moves as possible. The fewer the moves. Basically. Again. What you’ve got to do is slowly work these foods out of your diet. fried food makes you fat. you can’t eat like you used to anymore. the first thing you want to do is get him into a “lock” position. as an alpha male. not just until you loose weight or bulk up. and the less chance there is of someone getting seriously hurt. Next. Hopefully you enjoyed those days. Consider this: what do heroes eat? Back in the days when men were men and women were women and we all went to Valhalla to party with the gods when we died. it’s about lifestyle. Continuing to eat like a teenager is the number-one reason why men get fat. which means that the more you eat. Carbs make you fat. but for good. Healthy eating Remember when you were a teenager? You could eat like a pig and you were still skinny and starving all the time.AlphaMale101. or an armlock. because they are never coming back! As you age.

then you’re ready for anything.The answer: LOTS of protein. From now . never seem to have this problem. and they should be the only thing on an alpha male’s plate. add some spices for flavour and an avocado for a nutrient boost. If you’re always ready for a kiss. because you think “what makes him so perfect?” But there’s no magic secret. and just like that you’ve got the ultimate meal of the alpha male. and employers – than bad breath and teeth full of bits of food. stupid! Not so that they don’t rot out of your head. fruit. Some people. friends. Here are some tips on how to do this: Brush your teeth after you eat. All that divides these flawless bastards from the rest of the rabble is the EFFORT they put into taking care of their mouths. Boil some rice. the little invisible particles that get stuck are what make your breath stink! www. whole grains. People like this can drive you crazy. and vegetables.AlphaMale101. you have got to go about your business as though you are always seconds away from being kissed by a beautiful babe for the first time. it’s time to start to think about how your mouth is looking and smelling. Oral Hygiene Once you’re done eating. fry up a steak and big pile of vegetables. including alpha males. This doesn’t necessarily mean a lot of hard work. Not only is it good for you. it makes people respect you for eating right. but so that they look good. Nothing is a bigger turn-off – for women. Floss! Even if you don’t have visible food in your teeth. Whole foods are the key to healthy eating.

And more importantly.AlphaMale101.. but if you eat them all the time. you’ve just demonstrated the almost magical ability to provide that’s part of what makes you an alpha male. it’s time to start thinking about how you’re going to cover it. as does any good alpha. www. Hot tip #3: Always carry a pack of mints. guess what? You stink! Get your teeth clean once every six months. mints are just a slick thing to have on you.. They’re also great for saving your breath at times when you can’t get away to brush. Mints are better than gum because you don’t have to chew them like a . Once you’ve got the body under control.Say goodbye to garlic and onions on everything. or show it off. You don’t have to get rid of them completely. Oral hygiene bridges that fine line between physical fitness and personal style. When a chick complains about her breath and you can produce.

huh? That’s because it is. She might smell you personally.) Wash your hair. right? But to some guys. but they don’t spend hours preening in front of the mirror. All King of th e Ju ng le Alpha male style is all about style on the edge.Style: Part Jam es Bo nd . it’s big news. you can create a cool. for the true alpha male. or she might smell your jacket or your hat. Alpha males care about being clean. In fact.Chapter 2 . the key to passing this test is to smell good. Either way. Skin and Hair When a girl is interested in a guy. (Unless you’re Fabio. you’ve got to be clean. Wear deodorant! (Sounds obvious. unique personal statement that will let you roll like a baller anywhere in the . You walk the fine line between well-groomed and unconcerned. and between classic taste and signature style. However. things are much simpler. no long hair!) Shave every 2-3 days. colognes. Part Jim my Dean .AlphaMale101. Some men’s magazines and self-help gurus might recommend a complex regime of lotions. (Shampoo and condition!) Get a regular haircut that’s easy to manage. Looking like you put too much effort into your style can be a death sentence. Here’s what you do: Shower every day. one of the first things she’ll do is go in for a quick smell. and hair treatments. And that’s it. Sounds easy. By balancing out these key elements. a www. and in order to do that.

This is the only way for an alpha male to deal with baldness. but that don’t require ironing.” Just remember. don’t show up in jeans and a tee-shirt. you’ve always got to be clean underneath your casual style. and know in your heart that you are bad-assed enough to pull it off. Dressing Like an Alpha There is no perfect outfit that’s an alpha male’s recipe for success.AlphaMale101. The key to dressing right is to ALWAYS dress for the occasion. Just keep your head shaved. and I’m not all hung up on looking good for you. This says “I do it my way. If you see suits and ties. try to close your eyes and visualize how others will be dressed. And the suit you wear to funerals doesn’t count! At least five pairs of pants that are not jeans. be permanently prepared for that first kiss that could pop up at any moment. Once again. www. and who you’re .bit of messy hair. Hot tip #4: If you’re going bald. based on where you are. Here are a few things that every alpha should have in his wardrobe: Socks and underwear WITHOUT holes in them! One really nice suit. is a good thing. you’re not Inspector Gadget. After all. Don’t try to hide it under a hat. or anybody. and a day of stubble here and there. Any time you’re going somewhere. shave your damn head! Don’t try to comb it over.

and you might come out of there with nice shoes AND a phone number. your next decision will be to select the cutest clerk there. Most men are either hopelessly scruffy. and ask for help. No patterns. go to a sports store. baby! There IS a time and a place for ripped jeans and a faded old t-shirt. Hot tip #5: Some style gurus might tell you to throw out all your trashed old clothes. Anything with tight sleeves that shows off your biceps is solid gold. Fact: men do not know how to pick . you probably have no taste when it comes to shoes. However. an old pair of jeans will look sexy. and the best thing you can do at times like these is ask for it. Think again. If you need dress shoes. but that don’t require ironing. Either way. there is a space between your trashed Converse and this season’s Gucci slip-ons. smile. One thing any good alpha male knows is that sometimes he’s going to need help. once you’re inside. just solid colors. Shoes Unless you’re one of those guys that know a bit too much about style for their own good. Nice! www. or ridiculously glammed out. Here’s how the true alpha male finds it: The first decision you have to make is what store to go into. If you need sandals or runners.AlphaMale101. go up to her.At least five shirts with collars. and at these moments. go into a trendy shoe store. Women love seeing a man getting his hands dirty playing sports or working on his car. And hey. ask for help from the right person.

www. but will get noticed by interested parties. we come to the hat issue. unique stuff at vintage clothing stores. To Hat or Not to Hat Next. alpha male to a group of very tough. refer to you as “the guy with the really cool belt.” If you have to go a bit fancy with the belt. a time and a place for them. was wearing aviator sunglasses. This is just the kind of subtle touch that isn’t over the top.AlphaMale101. or running around in the cold. Nothing too fancy – you have to be able to wear this stuff all the time – just something high quality and unique enough that people may. even Paris Hilton.Accessories Every alpha male has a signature style – a little something extra that he brings to the table that makes him stand out. but there is. He brought aviator sunglasses to the table. crazy guys. Think of Johnny Knoxville. but different. try getting some nice belt buckles. he is a goof ball! The alpha male’s signature style is something subtle. Suddenly everybody. Note: this is not a Hawaiian shirt! The Hawaiian shirt guy is not the alpha male. in fact. You can usually find really cool. Belt and Wallet Begin by investing in a really nice belt and wallet. on occasion. James Bond might never wear a . A vintage trucker hat can become an instant classic at poker night or at the beach. just as a wool cap can come in handy for late-night cruising.

This automatically looks like you are hiding something. No questions. They always look exactly the way they intend to look. mass-produced bead and hemp jobs? And the same thing happened with heavy chains? And with surfer-style shell necklaces? Those are all styles that one alpha male thought was cool. simultaneously contributing to your signature style and your personal mythology.However. remember when hemp necklaces became popular. by the end of the night everybody should have their fly open.AlphaMale101. For example. www. because they’ve got nothing to hide. Example: if you’re walking around all night with your fly open. Jewellery When it comes to jewellery. heavy. and again. That way. because you have decreed that this is the new. like a small gold cross or your grandfather’s watch. the fact is that you’re more likely to make a mistake than you are to score a hit. Second never: DO NOT wear a hat – even a cool signature hat – all the time. NEVER wear a hat to hide something like a bald spot or greasy. anything you wear will be unique and have a good story behind. cool thing. . and suddenly guys were wearing these super thick. Alpha males don’t hide anything. As a rule of thumb. Don’t be a beta. unwashed hair. and that got picked up by every wannabe beta with ten bucks to throw away at the mall. wear only jewellery that has been gifted to you. alpha males have nothing to hide. and that means something to you.

and this. eating pizza and watching TV? Or is it going to be a tale of crazy adventures. and all the style to go along with it. Confidence is the thing that’s going to give you the attitude required to walk into a room like you own the place. but if your personality falls flat. and hilarious incidents? When you have stories like the latter to tell. then you’ve got nothing. as an alpha male. Hot tip #6: Turn yourself into a living legend. gives them a treasure house of exciting stories to tell. strange encounters. Part of being confident.Person ality: B e Co ol. And the more exciting stories you have. they’re always ready to rise to a challenge or take a risk. Even if you’re a brain in a jar. you will become a legendary character – a hero in the lives of others. Is that story going to be boring – full of sitting on your ass. and projecting that . and to make all the right decisions and the right moves required to solidify your alpha status. and others to tell stories like this about you.AlphaMale101. to have women chasing you instead of you chasing them. This is a classic alpha male cred-building technique. in turn. is being adventurous.” you must choose to act. Whenever it comes down to a question of “to act or not to act. Confidence The first golden key to the world of the alpha male is CONFIDENCE. o r Die in the Tren ch es You might have the hottest body in the world. www. Alpha males are always on the go. you should be able to get by on pure personality. Think of your weekend like it’s a story you’re going to tell on Monday morning. the more the legend of YOU will spread.Chapter 3 .

like some jerks do when they’re trying to make a point. you don’t act crazy or panic or scream or flail around. You don’t freak out. Alpha males can always get their point across in a smooth. Being calm and in control does NOT mean being a control freak. the alpha male. and you’ve just got to let it all wash over . Being calm and in control means not gesturing elaborately. It means not yelling your head off. happens. even tone of voice. but you can also absorb anything that comes at you without letting it affect you. Think of yourself like the ocean: massive. powerful. are the wild man of the group. Whatever happens. That’s why you’ve got to do everything in your power to make sure you are using every square inch of that brain! www. Mind Power There’s nothing more embarrassing than a guy that’s bursting with confidence. but has nothing to back it up with. You just chill. You have all this energy you can unleash at any moment. The other side to supreme alpha confidence is always being calm and in control. like some boneheads do when they’re talking about football.AlphaMale101. it doesn’t mean that you. no flailing required.Be the Calm Blue Ocean Just because you have wild adventures. This is a sign of your power.

it’s time to change subjects. If you’re in a conversation.Odds are. Sometimes you just can’t think of anything to talk about. at any club. and you find that you’re doing all the talking. www. you’ll be able to pick up any chick. like cars or sports. However.AlphaMale101. You’ve just got to figure out how to take the intelligence that’s there inside of you. Hint: try reading the paper regularly. and when you do. Guys have a tendency to get really focused on one . without acting like an egghead or a know-it-all. It’s full of stuff to talk about that other people can relate to. if you’re reading this book. anywhere in the world! Here are a few basic principles to stick to when it comes to speaking: Always have several different conversation ideas on the go. Intelligence is demonstrated in three main areas of our lives: In the way we converse In our emotions In the way we treat others Talking First. and bring it out. and when they’re nervous. This makes it hard to meet new people. you’re already a pretty smart guy. think about what goes into having a conversation. if you can master the skill of intelligent conversation. This is an area where even the most intelligent people have trouble. especially women. they go on and on and on about this one BORING subject. you’re boring.

but try to get into some deep philosophy. Maybe you can’t wait to argue about politics with someone. and you will just embarrass yourself with the whole awkward. Joking around is great. isn’t that really tough work?” . but now is not the time. Once you’re both laughing. “So. In 90% of conversations. Here’s how: Try following up statements made by the other person in the conversation with questions relating to what they just said. as opposed to just giggling. The other side to intelligent conversation is learning to listen. they just wait for their chance to talk. for example – keep things nice and light. you’ll find conversations flow smoothly.AlphaMale101. Know when to shut up! When the music is blasting and everybody is partying. Once a level of comfort has been achieved. the last thing you should do is try to have a serious conversation with a chick. Try making light. This is one of the major reasons why it’s hard to carry on a conversation. you can start asking her about herself. people don’t listen. you can try to steer the conversation towards topics that will actually generate some back-and-forth. funny observations about the scene around you. you’re only halfway there. “what?” “what?” “sorry. make the occasional witty comment.” don’t follow up by asking. what do you do for fun?” Follow up with. You don’t have the slightest idea what the other person expects you to say. Listening Once you figure you how to speak intelligently. what?” thing. However. Enjoy the vibe with her. “Wow. If a chick says “I work in a hospital.In a first conversation – with a babe at a club. but you also have to know when to get serious. if you listen intelligently.

Unfortunately.. last time they came to town.” And he was right. I love the new Killers album. Face frustrating situations with the www. Alpha males know how to listen. For example. “Oh. Alpha males don’t get angry because nothing can affect them.” Say. This is the best way to guarantee that you are not listening. Many men learn from a very young age that the only emotion it’s acceptable to show is anger. nothing can hurt them.AlphaMale101. and it only makes us look weak and ineffective to freak out about them. and that she is about to walk out of the conversation. “I just got new rims on my car. If you do get caught doing this. if she says. A great alpha male once said “Who gets angry? It seems to me that being angry is just being stupid. Denying it will only make it worse. women in particular.. 99% of the things that piss us off in this life are not worth our time or our energy. you look like an idiot. you are probably not listening to them. Try to really focus. Emotional Intelligence The next area where your intelligence shows is in your emotions and your ability to control them. when you’re acting angry.” If you find that you can’t come up with questions or statements to follow up what the other person has just . and people. own up. most of the time. “Oh man.” don’t say.Follow up statements made by the other person in the conversation with stories about your own life that relate to what they just said. love them for it! Do NOT stare at a women’s chest while she is speaking. Return anger in others with humor.

so be a jerk. somewhere in between. A perfect way to show off what a great guy you are is by being GENEROUS. Alpha males are never stingy. and getting women to want to fuck you. you don’t have to be that nice to your best friend). your grandma. The truth is that both of these are wrong. So treat people with courtesy. there’s always a big debate between which women like better: the jerk or the nice guy. but no chick is going to give you a second glance if you treat other people like garbage. And hey. okay.AlphaMale101. as an alpha. make everything work out. It’s never a big deal to share. over anger. You might be fighting for that alpha male spot in order to hook up. If you have to be in a category. Women love to be treated like crap by jerks. Relating to Other People Finally. influencing people. show your intelligence by treating other people properly. there’s nothing like sharing when it comes to making friends. whether they’re your mailman. And don’t waste your energy. www. or your best friend (okay. because they have so much. True alpha males are beyond these onedimensional categories. Generally. Hot tip #7: In men’s magazines. pick the “does the right thing but doesn’t let himself get pushed around” category. Putting people down makes you look like a weak asshole. they’ll tell you: nice guys are looooosers. your kindergarten teacher was . or risk losing face.calm certainty that you can.

If you’re having a good time.AlphaMale101. This can be particularly useful when it comes to dealing with the fairer sex. everyone else will be calm and relaxed.. everyone else will have a good time. If you’re calm and .. www. Your own self-control allows you to control your environment.By controlling your own emotions. you’ll be able to control those around you with ease. and using your intelligence to its full advantage. you’ll not only solidify your position as alpha male.

Now. but you do have to pick up some of the other tactics women use to make you want them. understand women.AlphaMale101. They spent a LOT of money on their clothes. AND their underwear. you can start to figure out a few little key things here and there that will go a long way in terms of helping you meet women.Chapter 4 . and get them to fuck you.Wom en : Alph a Males Don ’t Beg There is no one universal secret to getting what you want from woman. Notice that women are trying to hook you up WAY harder than you are trying to hook them up. notice something important. Many of these tactics will work for you when it comes to making them notice you: Ignore them. www. the first chick to break the mold is going to break your heart. If you think there is. their shoes. Once you’ve moved on. So accept that women are difficult and changeable and adorable and tricky and vicious and soft and sweet and about a million other things. They look like goddesses. Consider it. Laugh and party and make sure that they know you’re having a great time without them. They put HOURS into their hair and makeup before coming to the party . and it’s all for you. And move on. you don’t have to start wearing eye shadow. Understanding Women First off.

drop her a smile. having a great time without her. This will only make you look weak and desperate.AlphaMale101. By talking to the ugly friend. The Ugly Friend Never underestimate the value of the ugly friend. you show her that you are: nice. Then. not totally superficial.THE MAN OF MYSTERY.Flirt with their friends. About you. you need to be the three Cs: Confident (why is he so sure of himself?) You should already have this down. she’s asking herself questions about you. because what kind of man are women attracted to? The kind of man that makes them wonder. you want the women chasing you. The Alpha Mystery To achieve mystery. All alphas have an air of mystery to them. a. you don’t want to go begging after her. brush shoulders at the bar. Remember. . you don’t want to go much farther than this when it comes to actually chasing after a chick. If she smiles. As a . you’re in. Soon. as though there’s much more going on with him that you see on the surface. Unless she is of a spectacular and unparalleled hotness. And that is solid gold. just when she feels like you don’t even know she exists. www. As an alpha. girls talk to each other. the life of the party. and once again. not viceversa.a. Constantly.k.

but you know all about underground hip hop. the more your legend will grow. she’s ever-grateful. you might be able to score big points right off the bat by saving her from the aforementioned slobbering asshole. you might not even have to go to the trouble.Competent (where did he learn to do that?) We’ll talk about this in the next chapter. or tell him there’s a beer bong in the basement. Body Language Even when you’re not talking.. you can get the hottest chick at the party to go home with you every time. The more skills you have. and you’re the star point guard on your basketball team. In fact. because if you do your alpha job right. Other guys (read: guys that aren’t slobbering assholes) are too intimidated to approach her. downcast eyes.. fidgety hands. and the more she’ll begin to ask herself “what is he like in bed?” Complicated (there’s more to this guy than I thought. Losers give themselves away with hunched shoulders. He goes running.AlphaMale101. I wonder what else he can do…) When you first meet a . Your attitude and body language make it clear that you are the alpha. Assholes give themselves away with sneering faces www. it’s always good to show her that there are many sides to you right away. If you can pull this stuff off. But hey. your body language is speaking for you loud and clear. and nervous. she feels lucky that you’ve chosen her. Pretend you’re her boyfriend. and when you approach her. she’s the one who will approach you. Example: you’re an accountant.

then you press on for one move. When chilling with a group. You have two moves: pull back. and when to come on. As important as it is to master your own body language. They relax back in their seats. If she presses on. Alpha males do the complete opposite with their body language. And if you have the character to control yourself. A girl that likes you can get totally turned off if you come on too strong. standing in the shadows. When in close conversation with someone. being able to read HER body language is going to be even more important. Seduction Knowing when to advance vs. www.and aggressive postures like leaning forward in a chair. If she pulls back. Think of it like a game where you each take a turn. and wait to see what she does next. you might not always get the message in her eyes if you’re staring at her body. otherwise you’ve suddenly become overly aggressive. when to back of. they lean forward confidentially. her hips and her shoulders will tell you what move to make. their shoulders are not tense or slouched.AlphaMale101. when to be cool is crucial to the next phase in the game: . but if you’re paying attention. or displaying tension in the upper body. then your next move should be a pull back. BUT if she pulls back. the only one who can make the next move is her. but there are also moments when a bit of aggression can go a long way. odds are she’ll decide you ARE the right guy for the job. they sit at an angle that includes everyone in their group. Let’s face it. or press on. too. Their expressions are open and direct. If she’s into you. then you press on.

Either the girl will realize she’s being too uptight. the first kiss should be intimate. Sometimes.AlphaMale101. Often. But alpha males know that it works like a charm.In order to help move the process along. wrong. So tell her she’s beautiful. Either way. Other times. Guys always assume that hot chicks know they’re hot. one of two things will happen. You’re walking by the water or dropping her off at her place. and she’ll be ready to go the next time you see her. wrong. If at any point you realize that it’s not going to happen tonight. the first kiss should be casual. Kissing First kisses are tricky. you can just laugh and blow her off. When you pull back in this way. and she will melt like butter. This is www. Have some laughs. And if she acts weirded out. pull back right away. it’s the most beautiful women that feel the worst about themselves. Tell her she’s the sexiest damn thing you’ve ever seen. have a good time with her. follow one simple rule: flattery will get you everywhere. or she’ll be left to mope over your disinterest all night. Wrong. How they come off will all depend on the mood. Maybe you met a girl at a club and you’ve been dancing all night. Maybe it’s the perfect moment on a first date. you’re both sweaty and full of adrenaline – this is the perfect moment to grab herand kiss her fast and hard. This is so ridiculously easy that most guys don’t even believe it’s possible until they try it for themselves. but don’t waste your energy on a lost . Either she’ll melt into you or be so surprised she won’t know what to do. and she’ll get really friendly. you win.

If she presses. Only people that never have sex are obsessed with sex.. Using the stop-then-pause strategy gets it all done. she’ll either jump your bones. If she opens her mouth. because you’re going to stop again. For alpha males then. Sex Hot tip#8: Alpha males don’t kiss and tell.the kiss that might decide whether or not you’re going to get laid tonight. On the other hand. From here on out. or she’s probably not worth the time and trouble. if she backs off.AlphaMale101. Talking about it all the time is like wearing a sign on your forehead that says “hard up. she’ll move in the rest of the way. pause and give her a last chance to pull back. If she doesn’t move away. then stop. Once she sees this side of you. so make it a winner! At a pause in the conversation. you can have any woman you want. because SHE wants YOU. you back off. you’re the alpha male. the less you get it. you press. sex is no big deal. too. Fast! So fast you have her thinking that maybe it’s you that backed . If you’re getting your brains fucked out every night. at this point. it’s time for the old seduction back-and-forth.. Not only is her interest confirmed. it’s okay. any time you want. she not only won’t pull back. but if she doesn’t. Alphas never force it. One of the inviolable laws of life is that the more you talk about it. Women look at you and they know you have sex. because they don’t need to. you bite. Odds are. After all. but she has to do the work to make your lips work together. Hopefully she’ll tilt. If she bites. tilt your head to the side to avoid a nose bump. If she holds the contact.” www. then sex is not the center of the universe. make eye contact with her. When your lips are almost touching. you open your mouth. move in closer.

com . This might be the perfect time to make a suggestion.AlphaMale101. Let her undress herself AND you. or excuse yourself for a minute. You might even want to slow things down.Once you’ve finessed your way into the bedroom.. www. she will be ready to do just about anything to make you happy. it’s time to sit back. Suggest a drink. In fact. On the one hand. Women are best in bed when they are eager to please. Now that she has mentally committed to sex. you might be the one who wants to play a little hard-to-get. Do what you need to do to make sure that you don’t get ‘overexcited’ in bed. You don’t have to make her come. which means that when things get going again. the idea that you are not as interested as she is can be devastating.. it makes her crazy. and enjoy the trip. If a woman has decided to have sex with you. If you bring women back to your place. The “let’s take a break” strategy is money in the bank. it allows you to not appear overeager. On the other hand. Here are a few other tips and tricks to help you on your way: Don’t undress her. relax. make sure it’s semi-clean. at this point. you do have to last longer than two minutes. Bugs and dirt can turn a woman off completely in mid-make out. but as an alpha male. she’s not going to change her mind.

com . It’s either “That was awesome. babe. you stay. These just make you look like a jerk.” or coffee and “need a ride to work?” in the morning. And that’s what she’ll tell her friends. and nothing to be sorry for.AlphaMale101. Don’t doze for a couple of hours and then sneak off. Later. If you want to stay. either get out of there right after sex. No bumbling excuses or empty promises. you’ll call her again.Last but not least. www. Alpha males do not sneak off. If you want to call her again. Hot tip #9: It’s a fact: Alphas don’t sneak because they have nothing to hide. or stay until morning.

www. So congratulations. If he is smooth and elegant. By showing some class. it’s like level two of the alpha male style game. So if he is calm. you’ll see that a lot of the time. but if you can get past the goofy-sounding word. welcome to a higher plane of alpha male-dom! Guys that have class aren’t just slick and witty and cool and together. the world around him bends to accommodate. an alpha male is able to control any situation that he is in. Basically.Etiqu ette: Th e Fin er Po ints to Ru ling th e Roo st Maybe ‘etiquette’ sounds more like something a chick in a Miss Universe pageant has to worry about than something an alpha male should concern himself with.” by definition. always know how to treat people. Class We all have some idea of what the word “class” means.AlphaMale101. they are calm. Alpha males set the standard for everyone else. “ . And since society is basically your stomping ground – the territory that you hunt and defend – it’s worth figuring out the finer points of controlling it. etiquette is the glue that keeps society together. which means you’ve levelled up to being a Bond-style alpha man of the world. refers to a group of people.Chapter 5 . Guys who have class always know how to act. because everyone around him wants to be IN HIS CLASS. and always get the right kind of attention.

” End the date with an “enjoy the moment” experience. does she want to go pet the best dog in the world? Or maybe you have a friend that’s emcee-ing somewhere. He asks her what she wants to do after dinner.AlphaMale101. She probably won’t have any ideas. He has reservations. for a good table. right in the middle of things.The Perfect Date A classy guy knows when to hold the door. www. He takes her to a restaurant: somewhere unusual and out of the way. on a date: The alpha picks his date up knowing exactly where he is going to take her. but now that he’s asked. you volunteer at an animal . Classy alphas generally shoot a bit higher than “a movie. Go for a walk or a drive or go stargazing or chill out on the deck and have a drink. This way she gets a peek into your life and becomes even more convinced that you are a complex. She will. He tells her and asks if she agrees. For example. he can make his own suggestion. he knows how to pick up a tab. and usually will for a guy that shows some class. This is how you create that “magical moment” that can go anywhere. For example. interesting guy. Hot tip #10: The classy thing to do on a first date is to generously share something about yourself with your date. and he knows how to show someone a good time. or someone super trendy.

and women who expect it are hookers. it’s just wannabe classy. When the bill comes.The Tab Here’s the deal with picking up the tab. BUT the fact is that truly classy guys almost always insist on picking up the tab. Especially with people they don’t know very well (first dates!). like everything else in this book. the hors d’oeuvres. But this doesn’t apply only to dates. Classy guys buy rounds.” Alpha males who know their stuff never bring a date to a plain old “fancy restaurant. and a dessert for the two of you to split. It’s not alpha suicide. Okay. you get to say things like. but you do need to understand that complaining about a bill. and when they don’t insist. Make it your business to know about one great restaurant in every ethnic category in your city. guys shouldn’t have to do it all the time. you don’t have to do this. This way. In most circles. Another wannabe classy move is to order for your date. Instead. People with class don’t fuss about money. they do offer.” This isn’t classy. this will be seen as overly pushy. this. and deal with it quietly. but it’s definitely not the way to go if you’re trying to do everything right. www. is not classy.AlphaMale101. pick it up. and take groups of friends out. trying to weasel out of it. glance at it. That’s class. It just depends on how far you want to take your transformation into an alpha male. take charge of ordering the . You can roll your eyes and demand that she split the bill with you. Of course. Eating Out Classy guys know how to pick a restaurant. or worse. is completely optional. Again. “I know this great little place that does the best jerk chicken.

shooters. like Spanish or French. it’s time to broaden your horizons. and perfect for impressing girls that don’t belong to the Junior UN. or cherry stems will immediately pique a woman’s interest AND make for a great ice-breaker.Skills: How to Be Good at Everything Men.Chapter 6 . Languages Now that you’ve graduated to alpha man of the world. Pick something easy and useful to start. the more your legend grows. You are a hero. Just picking up one slim book of card or coin tricks can make you a master of the party . the more people think that there’s nothing you can’t do. It makes you seem learned and mysterious. Knowing more than one language is hot. www. unless it’s on purpose. The more skills you have. The only thing that you have to watch out for with languages is pretending to know more than you do. coins. and alpha males never look silly.AlphaMale101. The more skills you have. Any neat little thing that you can do with cards. You are invincible. These are simple. both of which are very close to English. it is all about skills. At the other end of the spectrum from bilingualism are party tricks. easy to learn. You’ll only end up looking silly. Party Tricks Not all alpha male skills are as difficult as learning new languages. You are unstoppable.

They can install your DVD drive. Do it slowly and it will burn you. Practice at home before you try this at the bar. and happiness (one for each bean). wealth. Just figuring out how to jiggle a wire or tighten a screw can do wonders for your rep as the man with the magic touch. and drink it right FAST. and boost a dead car battery. Doing something as simple as reading a couple of DIY books or taking a handyman class can get this all happening for . Light it. This is a simple shooter trick that doesn’t require you to drink anything pink or involving the word “Schnapps. toast to health. You’ll get a shot with three coffee beans in it. Basically. Once you develop a basic understanding of how wheels.AlphaMale101. toast.” The trick is to not be a pussy about it. They know how to use all the power tools. you can fix almost anything. they know how to work all the latest technology. Light it on fire. and wiring works. And the truth is that most things have the same small problems all the time. alpha males must have all that general knowledge the lack of which embarrasses the average idiot. unclog your sink. and take it. Alpha males seem to possess an uncanny knowledge of how things work. www. gears.Hot Tip #11: The Flaming Sambuca: Order a shot of Sambuca with Flies. And what’s simple to you is downright godlike to the clued-out masses. Be Able to Fix Anything How do they do it? We don’t know. and that’s why we love ‘em. Do it quick and it will go down smooth.

any at all. There’s nothing sadder then being one of those old dudes that still listens to the music that was cool when they were 16. It means you have to know what’s on the radio. like the guitar. and have a diverse music collection. discovering new music is easy to do online thanks to music-sharing networks like Last.. If you have nothing in your collection but country.Music Appreciation Don’t panic. or the saxophone. It’s the 21st century.. Luckily. learn to play an instrument! Preferably something masculine. Make a point of discovering at least one new band every week. or reggae. Last but not least. Or www. if you have any aptitude for . or punk. then you’re not ready for every possible situation. Music appreciation doesn’t mean that you have to know your classical composers. Also.AlphaMale101. and have a few ideas about cool new stuff that’s not on the radio or at the club. know what’s playing at the club. know your genres.) At least three albums on your regular rotation that came out in the last and Pandora. Branch out and make sure that you have: Party music Make-out music Mellow background music Music that will get people asking “what is this?” (and so your legend grows.

Finally. Art Appreciation Thinking about and understanding art isn’t about knowing your history lessons. Go a step further and do a bit of research. Try some of this: Be willing to take in cultural experiences like museums and art galleries.AlphaMale101. and interested in the world around you. there’s something artsy that you are remotely good at. Don’t just go to the mall and pick up some posters. you can use art appreciation to increase your alpha male . open-minded. www. or sculpt. and it can help you learn to express yourself clearly. if you can sing – so much the better. maybe if you can’t carry a tune. There’s nothing sexier to women than a guy that can draw. if you do it right. Be able to recommend a great gallery or art house theatre on a date. Guys with nothing on their walls but pictures of sports heroes are creepy. Art gives insight into life. Besides actually using art to make yourself a better person. or paint.hey. It’s about being thoughtful. baby! Have some cool art on your walls. Being able to do this is WAY more important than being able to name a bunch of famous painters and sculptors. take it up with some enthusiasm. Have you ever noticed how many frontmen in bands are alpha males? Practically all of them. That’s money in the bank. Having a talent and/or being in a band is a classic alpha male trait. Go to an art store and get prints. If so. Even graffiti can be a babe-magnet.

com . then learn to cook at least ONE great meal. Hot tip #12: Pasta. oregano. If you’re the type that tends to burn water. Here’s a recipe for can’t-fail bean pasta that’s perfect for friends.  Add basil. When it comes to dazzling the ladies. toss it with the pasta. pasta. That’s right. that’s usually all you need. and green peppers. and curry (three very basic spices you must have in your kitchen!).  Serve it will red wine and salad. carrots. masculine qualities.AlphaMale101.  Mix in a cup of ricotta cheese. and serve it smothered in fresh parmesan.  When the sauce is creamy.Developing an artistic side is particularly valuable to the alpha male because you have so many powerful. Showing a more thoughtful layer is what rounds you out and makes you a deep.  Get a jar of plain tomato sauce. garlic. family. Pasta is the best combination of easy and fancy that you can hope for in the kitchen. www. complex person. tomato.  Strain and add a can of mixed beans. Cooking All the greatest chefs in the world are men. Simmer it on the stove with finely chopped onion. and getting the ladies to love you:  Boil pasta (rotini) following the directions on the package. and knowing what to eat and how to cook is an alpha male essential.

One of the keys to building social capital is your ability to network.). all of which boosts your alpha status.Chapter 7 . You’re a sort of MVP. www. hero currency (the kind you earn when you do something great. waitresses. there is all kinds of currency: sexual currency. These are the people that can hook you up with free meals. always have a smile and a hello for everybody.AlphaMale101.. great tables. and spend when you screw up).. This is one of the alpha male’s most valuable resources. Here are some general tips on how best to network yourself: Remember names. Social Capital Social capital is. emotional currency. Everyone looks up to you and needs you in order to make their lives a success. and fast service. Again it comes back to the challenge of building up your personal legend. etc. But the most valuable form of currency may very well come in the form of the people that love and admire you. as the more that people need you and like you. This is otherwise known as.Fr ien ds and Fam il y: Build ing You r Em pir e In the world of the alpha male. Get to know people in the service industry (cooks. as an alpha male. cab drivers. “the advantage created by a person's location in a structure of relationships.” Obviously. There’s nothing that solidifies your position as alpha more strongly than walking in to a club or restaurant or party and having a bunch of people eager to say hello to you. your goal is to be at the top of any relationship structure you’re a part of. in the words of the Wikipedia. club owners. the more they are willing to do for .

Don’t restrict yourself to one group of people. which requires taking a certain amount of pride in your heritage. This means that it’s strategically advantageous to be a good friend. Family Alpha males may be tough and mysterious. but in the end. Throw some chicks their way on occasion. dominant and aggressive. it’s well worth the effort. and don’t be afraid to talk them up. it’s super important to always keep your core group of friends close. to do your dirty work for you. the cooler they are. This is quite a bit of work. These are the people that you need to ‘elect’ you as an alpha male. they’re also generally stand-up guys that look after their own shit. The last thing you want to do is rule over a crew of wimpy betas. After . to help spread your legend and occasionally. There are a ton of alphas out there. Try to meet new friends on a regular basis. Remember.AlphaMale101. and always keep in touch with old friends. the more status you gain by having them worship you. www. This is a question of dominance. Your Core Group No matter how popular you become. but when it comes to building social capital. but all you need to do is rule your crew in order to be an alpha anywhere you go. being an alpha is all about preserving the bloodline. in nature. which means taking care of family. so the stronger the guys in your group are. the cooler you are. Help your buddies out and make them feel good about themselves.

It’s a simple equation: the more effort you put in = the bigger the payoff. use them to your advantage. In fact. And you’re absolutely right. run errands for your mom and go to games with your dad. Hot tip #13: If you have a little brother or sister. The Pleasure-Effort Payoff Trade-off But isn’t being an alpha all about pleasure? you might ask. if you’re working on a babe that is proving particularly tough to crack. Women love men who love kids.AlphaMale101. but being good to them always makes you look like a champion. On the other hand. it will be seen as a sign of www. if you take care of your . and it never hurts to add more names to the list of people that think you’re a hero. On the one hand. On the other hand. and try to sit down for a nice meal on special occasions. let the little siblings tag along with you every once in a while. guys who don’t do it enough will respect you.So visit your grandparents. Family won’t always be fun. a lot of the time they might be really boring or really embarrassing. sometimes you have to do some work. Taking them out for a day at the beach or the park is a great way to meet chicks doing the same thing with their little sibs. try hauling the little sib along on part (only part!) of your next date. It is. and chicks will guaranteed admire you. But in order to max out your pleasure quotient. if you’re not willing or able to get along with your family. . you work with social capital. you’ll be as untouchable as any billionaire hotshot. www. Every alpha male is an investment banker. and when you’re rich in friends and admirers. triple your profits overnight. but instead of working with stocks and bonds.weakness by women and by beta males who can smugly tell themselves that you’re not so great after all. take risks. Cultivate it.

outdoorsy-type alpha. you’ll just look like you’re trying to make up for having a small dick.Car s: T he Dr ive to Do min ate Now that you’re done thinking about the people around you. In fact. Any car will be better than no car at all. don’t get a sports car. If your car is ten years old. or having a car that you don’t know how to fix. urban . you’re going to look like a fool when it breaks down on a date and you don’t have a clue what to do about it. www. you can get back to looking out for number one.AlphaMale101. there are two classic car mistakes that are WAY worse than driving an old trans-am. even an old beater can work for you. If you’re a rugged. you need to have a car. just insist that it’s a “classic car. As long as it’s not breaking down at embarrassing moments. Not being able to fix a car. making these kind of determinations is your prerogative. These are: Having a really nice car that in no way fits your lifestyle. Fixing Cars Having an old car is not the worst thing that can happen to an alpha. If you get a vehicle that makes an inaccurate statement about who you are. and you drive with style and confidence. don’t get a hummer.” As an alpha male. If you break the bank on some fancy European model that reads like Morse code under the hood. As an alpha male. If you’re the slick.Chapter 8 .

Hot tip#14: Using the beater to your advantage. This tactic is best used on a second or third date. Before the two of you head out, sabotage the car in some small way. Just loosen the battery or something like that – something easy to fix. Then, when the car dies on the way to dinner, you just hop out and fix the problem in two seconds. This takes the babe on an emotional journey from concern and disappointment to relief and admiration. In other words – putty in your hands.

Buying a Car When you walk into a car dealership, the first thing you have to be aware of is that every car salesman has to believe that he is the alpha male in order to survive. That means that any time you buy a car, it’s a battle for dominance between you and the salesman. The trick to beating this guy is not to use the aggressive, domineering side of your alpha personality. Instead, you’ll have to rely on the intelligent, calm aspects of your personality. Begin by going in there knowing exactly what you need. Do all your research online and figure out 1: what you want, and 2: what it’s going to cost. Next, go into the dealership knowing that the salesman is going to be using the intelligent, calm side of his personality, as well. He’s not going to be aggressive, he’s not going to try to push you around. Instead, he (or she!) is going to try to appeal to your alpha ego in order to get you to spend the most money possible. That’s the trick. The salesperson is going to kiss your ass. They’re going to tell you how great you are, and insist that you deserve the best. They don’t mind if you

don’t think of them as an alpha, because in the end, the commission they earn off you will decide the battle. So just be calm, and rely on the information you gathered before coming in. Don’t succumb to flattery or the promise of features that will make the ladies drool. Remember that the salesperson’s job is to act really happy and make you feel great. If you can make them uncomfortable and unenthusiastic about your purchase, then you’re on the right track.

New Cars vs. Used Cars As a rule, new cars are a ridiculous expense. The only people who buy new cars are the horrendously wealthy. As an alpha male with a good knowledge of cars, you will do just as well buying a car that’s a few years old, but that’s nicer than any of the new cars you could afford. If you’re driven to own the road, but your finances fall short of matching your ambition, you might even consider picking up an old Jag or a Mustang for a few grand and putting some man hours into restoring it. The benefits of this are threefold: you get to learn all about cars, have a cool hobby, and eventually drive something that you put together with your own two hands. It doesn’t get much more alpha than that. If, like most alphas, you’ve gotta have that new BMW, or that new Ford Explorer, you might want to try leasing it for a while. A good lease will generally get you a vehicle with all special features included for little extra cost, and it gives you some time to consider whether driving this car is really worth the expense.

Losing Your License The alpha male lifestyle can involve a lot of partying, but lose your license, and you are taking a step down the road to the sad, sad world of the washed-up alpha. The only way that you’ll guaranteed lose your license is by getting caught drunk driving. This is easy to avoid as long as you plan ahead. As an alpha, it should be no problem for you to delegate the job of driving home to one of your beta buddies. Even better is to rely on a female friend who is less likely to blow off her role as designated driver and get drunk.

Hot tip #15: Get a designated driver pool going with your friends. As the alpha, your “turn” to stay sober doesn’t have to come up very often, but when it does, consider hiring a limo. The cost of renting a limo for an hour is only about $50.00, probably close to the price you would pay to get everyone home in a cab. This is an incredibly slick, classy thing to do. If you only have to do it about once a month, your entire budget for getting home safe after partying comes down to $50.00 bucks a month. And so your legend grows...

Buying the Car of Your Dreams As you gradually grow into your new role as alpha male, everything will start to go your way, including earning more money. As you get richer, you will work your way towards affording that dream car.

Doing this stuff will ensure that when the time comes for you to buy your dream . you’re supposed to be generous. you’re supposed to have everything you’ve always wanted and more. it is CRUCIAL that you don’t get in over your head financially. www. it’s time to think about what you’re going to do the earn money. Whatever you decide on in the end... This is exactly the kind of thing that many alpha males do to sabotage themselves. Don’t fall into this deadly alpha male trap! Before you start to focus on spending money. that you know how to handle. it means starting to spend money you don’t have. Get a subscription to a car magazine and take a class in car repair. maxing out every credit card that credit card companies are so eager to throw at alpha males. why not find out a thing or two about cars? Lease a few of your favourites for six months at a time. Often. and it gets repo’d. and that makes a killer statement about exactly who you are. You’re supposed to be rich. it will do serious damage to your reputation. If you buy a car you can’t afford. which means that you start spending money. you won’t just settle for the first penis-mobile that the car salesman offers you.In the meantime. You’ll actually get a car that you feel strongly about.AlphaMale101.

If you act like all the wealth of the world is at your fingertips.Chapter 9 . personal choice is the only true constraint! Working for Yourself As you evolve into the ultimate alpha male. If you’re on a date. you will find it easier and easier to earn the kind of money you’ve always wanted to earn.Getting P aid: Th e Wo rld is Yo ur Oyster One of the main reasons alphas risk falling into that pit of debt is because it’s not in their nature to worry about money – at least not in a public way. Remember. The trick here is to make things that are matters of financial constraint APPEAR to be matters of personal . others will believe that you’ve got it made. it doesn’t matter how rich you are. you don’t need the box seats. if you’re going to a big game. Simply avoid places and events that you can’t afford – but by personal choice. of course. for the alpha male.AlphaMale101. www. taking this “no worries” attitude to money doesn’t mean that you have to go into debt. just insist that you prefer to be in the stands with everyone else. However. For example. Employers are a lot like women – the same things turn them on and make them want you. not out of necessity – and only involve yourself in situations where you can be generous. Alphas know that wealth is all about attitude. take her to that inexpensive little Ethiopian restaurant rather than for fancy haute cuisine.

you’re the boss. After all. Alpha males get noticed. or try something completely different. If you don’t call the shots. Maybe you’re already doing this – but at the benefit of someone else’s business. www. Ever noticed how alpha males always seem to have personal projects going that bring in some extra cash? You have two options here: go with what you .AlphaMale101. As you develop your own clientele. the alpha always prefers to be on top. Odds are. If you’re in construction or landscaping. To get started. start your own subcontracting business. you can turn whatever job you’re doing right now into your own business. and they get those promotions. you can start to pick up some freelance work. you can get something going on the side. you can move away from your regular job and start working entirely for yourself. you leave your fate in the hands of some potentially incompetent bozo. If you do anything that involves pushing papers or crunching numbers. Of course. The same goes for jobs involving physical or manual labor.Whatever job you’re in right now. that’s why starting your own business should be your ultimate goal. like smart women. for example. want alpha males working right under them. You’ve probably been working long enough that you have a pretty good idea of how to run your own crew. because smart bosses. you’ll soon find yourself moving up in the ranks.

Maybe you lost weight and got in shape and you can tell other people how to do it. and that other people can’t wait to get a piece of. and your charm be benefiting a greedy boss? Your other option in terms of self employment is to try your hand at something . Maybe you restore classic cars. There are almost as many different ways to get rich online as there are women who can’t wait to boink internet millionaires. or to take that thing that’s always been just a hobby. The small. you can SELL these stories to people. your personality. www. If you’re miserable where you work.To hell with that! What’s the point of being an alpha male if you still have to kowtow to someone higher up on the chain than you? Why should your skills. Either way. Or maybe you just have a great story you want to share. easiest ways to screw the system and go into business for yourself is to start making money online. and turn it into a money maker! Earning Money Online Maybe you hate your current job so much that you have to get out right this second.AlphaMale101. Or maybe you know how to beat every game that’s come out for Xbox. A good starting point might be to take that hobby or personal interest of yours. or maybe your grandpa taught you how to make flies for fly fishing. it’s time to discover your true passion. and start an ebusiness selling this product or service. The point is that there is probably something about you that is extremely marketable. One of the fastest. This is ideal for those who hate their current job.

restore. they want everything customized. One-of-a-kind. This might include: Anything you can buy locally and distribute to a greedy worldwide audience. And they’ll pay almost anything to get it. It gives you access to a worldwide consumer base of billions of people. And so even if you can’t produce something customized. Example: old electronics or media that are worth a ton of money in Asia. you can figure out the Ebay marketplace pretty quick. you can probably act as a customization consultant. This goes for . www. consider getting involved in affiliate programs. If you can put a bit of time and effort into research. Break into this industry now and make a million bucks! Another area of the internet that’s still ripe for the plucking is Ebay. houses. Of course. furniture. We live in a world that’s full of choices. they want it customized. These people don’t just want to choose between the green and the blue. Anything that you can buy online in poor condition. clothes – you name it. Hot tip #16: Customization.AlphaMale101. vacations. and it’s full of people with money to burn.successful business has been reborn on the internet. toys. Totally original. Figure out what you can buy cheaply and sell for a huge profit. this kind of stuff requires some time and money. so take advantage of this. being the busy alpha male that you are. which you may not have a lot of right now. If you’re looking for a cheap way to make money with virtually no overhead. and then resell at a profit.

This is the definition of a business venture that is worth a try. Day trading is the perfect high risk. Day trading is another stream of revenue that you can easily start small with. and make your money through earning commissions by helping others to sell their products. high reward gamble for the alpha male. you need some serious coin to do this. in fact. and become increasingly liquid.AlphaMale101. day trading involves working the stock market on a day-to-day basis. Day trading is also the perfect compliment to the alpha male lifestyle. high stakes environment. buying stocks that are poised to perform dramatically over the course of the day.You can. almost as a hobby. Day Trading If you’re not the type of alpha that plans on spending his days in the workshop or in front of the computer. and reselling them on that same day. It’s exactly the sort of work that pays off big-time if you are a natural-born shark in a sea of guppies. For those not in the know. and when you www. and the risk is non-existent. learn to play the market. Pick it up on the side. You work your ass off all day in a high-pressure. Then. as you gradually make connections. start a website that sells nothing at all. and every time you send some business their way. The set-up fee here is basically nil. you get paid. you advertise for them. you can work your way up to doing huge trades. but there are many low or no-interest loan options available to day-traders. . as well as investors eager to get in on the next big cash cow. the fast-paced world of the day trader might be just the place for you. Of course.

if you had any real chance of winning. They are smart. But. This is one job that guarantees you opportunities to go interesting places. casinos and lotteries wouldn’t be able to stay in . The tables manned by cheering onlookers and classy babes are being played by alphas.AlphaMale101.they’re not alphas. they’re walking zombies. Aren’t we exactly the kind of people that DO take home the big bucks? No. when you gamble. Understand this: alpha males are not lucky. it’s time to party! Blow off some steam and show off your earning power at all the best clubs and restaurants in the city. Are you really ready to lose that at the tables? www. but only by those who can afford to lose. you are gambling with your status as an alpha male. The first thing you’ll notice is that gambling can be great if you have a lot of money to blow. go check out a casino. See all the losers in their wrinkled suits with their red-rimmed eyes and greasy comb-overs . gambling is fun but it can become an addiction and ruin your life. Just for fun. After all. you might protest. They’ve got charisma and they’re good decision-makers. Walk around and take a few notes about the people at the table.close the day that much richer. Basically. Now look beyond those glittering tableaus. and meet interesting people. They are observant. if you can grab that bull by the horns! Gambling Like spending money that you don’t have on credit. alpha males are all about getting lucky. None of these things make them ‘lucky’ by any stretch of the imagination.

and behaviours affect the other people in the room. you can develop enough skill at poker to be a winner. Thanks to your amazing self-control. See how your emotions. Assess the other people in the room for strengths and weaknesses – figure out what makes them tick. www. We already talked about controlling your environment in chapter 3. Just remember to start out small. because it can actually help you earn some serious cash.AlphaMale101. poker can be a great game for alphas to win big at. and use these observations to determine how you can control the way others behave. not just with you. This is because poker is not so much about luck as it is about understanding and controlling human nature. begin to test yourself. Hot tip #17: Life as a game of poker. command of body language. A good way to train yourself to be a killer poker player is to approach social situations with a poker player’s eye. Once you can control a room full of people at a party. Winning at poker is just as much about knowing when to back off and not get in over your head as it is about knowing when to press your advantage with a table full of lightweights. and ability to read others. but with each other.Poker All doom-saying aside. Hopefully you’re getting good at it. . reactions. you will have no trouble controlling a table of poker players. Play casually with your friends. and work your way up to those high-stakes tables.

you can also use lighters to easily open beer bottles. And of course. this is where you meet all the women.Chapter 10 . Hot tip #18: Always carry a lighter. Drinking Like gambling. Just bear in mind that you are at risk. there will be opportunities to party every night. Once you achieve true alpha status. a bit of cheap plastic will go a long way. Even if you’re a non-smoker. you risk burning out and getting really sick. and make all the connections. In fact. Others won’t judge you for it. Like business men who have to drink with clients all day to make a sale. Don’t worry about having a fancy lighter. But as the alpha male.T h e F ine Ar t o f Partyin g One of the best things about being an alpha male is the partying. Not only does lighting a woman’s cigarette make for an instant sex connection. which means you’ll miss out on a bunch of partying as you’re forced to allow your body to recover. www. just remember that you have the right to say no. Just remember: the key to effective partying is to pace . opportunities to have a drink or get drunk will constantly be thrown at the alpha male. drinking can get out of control if you let it.AlphaMale101. If you don’t pace yourself. Out of control drinking can ruin everything from your health to your reputation. a lighter is a must-have in every alpha male on-the-go toolkit. they might just follow your lead.

and CHUG WATER. www. or suggest a place for after-club snacking.For all those time when you do say yes. in order to achieve maximum merriment. In other words. Every time you get drunk. on hand to go along with that bottle of vodka. You can drink more without getting destroyed if you drink slowly and regularly. so order a couple of pizzas to a party. You’ll find yourself drinking with the big boys in no time. you’ll have to learn to drink like a . and be merry. pickles). stop drinking at least a couple of hours before you pass out. Hangovers The 100% guaranteed best way to solve the hangover problem is to avoid getting them altogether. drink just a little bit more than you did last time. Instead of pounding them back. Hot tip #19: Eat. If you really want to max out your stamina. Both will help to dilute the alcohol in your bloodstream and make you the hero of a bunch of hungry drunks. An old Russian trick is to always have a plate of pickled foods (like. Being able to drink a lot without necessarily becoming fall-on-your-face drunk can be done. you have to work your way up to mass consumption slowly. you’ve got to eat AND drink.AlphaMale101. if you follow these simple rules: If you’re not much of a drinker. To do this. and salty. pace yourself throughout the night. Eat something rich in carbs and protein. high-protein foods (like caviar). um. Mix drinking with snacking. drink. make every second drink a glass of water.

so the more nonalcoholic fluid you can get in your body before you crash. Bad hangover: Water.Hangovers are caused by dehydration. Also. you don’t avoid that . here’s what you can do to minimize the damage: Mild hangover: Gatorade and a jog. So on occasion. Medium hangover: Coffee and a big. although medical health experts will advise against it. the better. go ahead and take some Tylenol. you wouldn’t have gotten so wrecked in the first place. Hint: this is also the perfect hangover level for the “hair of the dog. pills. mixing pills and booze is poison for your body. but if you were worried about that. greasy breakfast. Yes. despite your best efforts. If. take a couple of Tylenol while you’re chugging that water. Feel better. It won’t kill you. www. stay in bed. pure and simple.” Drink a Bloody Mary. swear that you will never drink again. in the dark.AlphaMale101. to avoid that savage morning-after misery.

Garnish with lemon and mint if you’re feeling fancy. Gold tequila 3 tablespoons of lime juice www. The “Original” Margarita: Traditionally. Here are a few simple ones for the road: The Jelly Belly: 1 oz. sugar. Light rum 3 tablespoons of lime juice A few sprigs of fresh mint 2 teaspoons of sugar Club soda and ice Coat the inside of a tall glass with crushed mint. Raspberry Sourpuss Equal parts pineapple juice and Seven Up Ice and a cherry The Mojito: 2 oz. Add lime juice. unblended. They were also served without sugar to sweeten the lime and tequila. rum. Here’s how to throw together the classic margarita style with the sweetness that makes it a panty-remover: 2 oz.Cocktails All alpha males should know how to mix some fun drinks. or at least how to order a fun drink for a babe at the club. and ice. and stir it well before topping it off with club .AlphaMale101. margaritas were served on the rocks. Vodka 1 oz.

Pinot Noir. Soon.Immerse the top rim of the glass in a shallow dish of water. are actually the names of the grapes used to make them. Other need-to-knows: The difference between dry and sweet wines. subconsciously. After all. Merlot. get to know your fine scotches. Generally www. and order all hard alcohol “on the rocks. alpha males don’t play bartender for just anybody. a five. and Zinfandel. and very sweet. Chardonnay. Pinot Gris. All you have to do now is start to pay attention to what you’re drinking. you probably already know the difference between these wines. The scale from dry to sweet goes from one to five. with very dry being a zero. Instead. then in a shallow dish of salt to create the classic salty rim. Only whip out your drink-making skills on special occasions.” Wine/Champagne Appreciation Getting to know wine is all a matter of practice. you should not be caught dead sipping anything pink with a little umbrella in it. like Cabernet Sauvignon.AlphaMale101. which is determined by what type of grape is used to make the wine. Fill the glass completely with a mixture of 2/3 ice cubes and 1/3 sugar cubes. And remember. you’ll be able to name the differences that you’ve always tasted. the names of wines. The major distinguishing factor amongst wines is flavour. even if you know how to make them. If you’ve ever drank any wine at all. In .

These are more for after-dinner sipping than fine dining or styling women. saki or plum wines make a nice addition to a meal of Chinese food. many of which are very good and very expensive. afraid to take risks. Other sparkling wines are imitations of this style of wine. It’s a good idea to have a favourite French. However. All champagne comes from the area of France known as Champagne.AlphaMale101. Languages. especially about their travels. The country a wine comes from is important.when buying a bottle. adventurous. avoid the sweet wines. Travelling Alpha males are fearless. Italian. While others sit on their asses. climates. and customs www. If you’re eating ethnic food. Part of the excitement of travel is that it involves putting yourself in situations where you alpha power is constantly . Chilean. but should not accidentally be referred to as champagne. you conquer the world like the Vikings and Conquistadors of old. What kind of wine goes with what food? As a rule. and they’ve got a million great stories. Being well-travelled is just one of those things that make you a better alpha male. Dry wines go down much smoother. try picking a wine that goes with your food. The difference between sparkling white wine and champagne. only a bottle that actually says “Champagne” on it contains champagne. Champagne itself is a sparkling white wine. and a white wine for chicken and fish. For example. and Australian wine that you can pick up at a moment’s notice. choose a red wine for red meat and pasta dishes.

There are two. for sports betting. And don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it. And being able to meet up with them on their own turf is the best way to experience a foreign place and of course. Just participating on a message board for your favourite band. just go with it. Rather than being embarrassing. or for any other hobby you’re already into can get you connected with all kinds of people. meet hot foreign women with the benefit of an official introduction.AlphaMale101. slightly contradictory ways to avoid getting in trouble while on the road: Be prepared! Do your research so that you have some idea what you’re getting into. www. don’t panic. Even if you’re not going to be hitting the road for a while. Hot tip #20: Friends all over the world.that are completely outside of your comfort zone mean that you run the risk of being seriously dethroned. which is key to enjoying yourself while travelling. Try to be at least halfway familiar with the language. Be relaxed! If something goes wrong or if you get lost. your willingness to admit you need help will help you make friends with the . and avoid expressing confusion or fear that could make you a target for those who prey on tourists. it’s time to get online and start meeting people from all over the world.

and get a taste of real high living. pissed-off New York babes you can . Australia and New Zealand offers a great combination of rugged outdoor adventure and hardcore urban partying. But where should you begin? Alpha males that have come before you have chosen from these different paths: Travel in the steps of the greats: Throughout history.AlphaMale101. Italy. www. you can survive anywhere. Here you can eat at all the best restaurants. The Far East. Thailand and Vietnam are hot right now because they’re cheap and they don’t hate tourists. The party never stops in Las Vegas. and everybody is there to have a good time and meet guys just like you.Hot Destinations You’re about to conquer the world. party at all the coolest clubs. Engage in some serious partying on short trips to global party centrals. New York City: If you can survive here. Las Vegas: You’ll never believe it until you experience it for yourself. NYC is the gritty urban centre of the world. It can also be a very cheap destination if you get a vacation package through a big casino. Morocco: Follow in the footsteps of Ernest Hemingway and tangle with bulls. Nepal. Spain. alphas with a desire to explore the great unknown have taken long trips (6 months – 1 year) to destinations that promise mystery and adventure. scale mountains. and bang all the pouty.

and don’t want to spend it sitting on the beach. White-water rafting is a killer rush for alphas looking to enjoy some gorgeous scenery and life-or-death situations. There are plenty of party boats and party palaces that are saying NO KIDS ALLOWED and they offer sweet vacation packages in tropical paradises that are designed specifically to help you hook up and party your ass off. Amsterdam: This is where the whole world comes to play. and meet some seriously world-class women. Long-distance hiking will test your mettle and clean out your body. these adventures are the perfect option for alphas who need a vacation from babes and partying. it seems.Caribbean: Cruises and resorts aren’t just for families and retirees anymore. Party all night in a . This is the ultimate option for the alpha that has seen all and done all and just wants to hack at some brush with a machete.AlphaMale101. A great choice for the alpha super-athlete. Designed. relatively safe environment. Alphas with serious hero-complexes like to get themselves in over their heads volunteering for aid organizations in South America and Africa. The newest thing to hit the travel scene is adventure travel. www. specifically for the alpha male.

you’ve done it all. it will get easier and easier to fit into a routine where you are www. and they’ll expect all kinds of amazing answers and solutions from you because that’s just what you do. all the people that look up to you. they will look to you for help. On the plus side. or they’re in trouble. There is just so much power and control and so many rewards that come along with being the alpha that it’s easy to get stuck in the cycle of power and gratification. Always an Alph a It won’t be long before you reach the point when you feel untouchable. Once you get to this stage of Zen-alpha status.Con clu sion . Negative Alpha Qualities to Guard Against You can go back to your old life. no-pressure lifestyle. most alpha males get addicted to their alpha status. you must know it all. you can always just stop coming through and go back to your old. They’ll depend on you to come through for them.. and your legend will .in theory. By now. you might start to notice that it’s not all fun and games. as alpha male. however.. and you get used to everyone looking up to you and relying on you. In reality.AlphaMale101. The Burden of the Alpha Male As alpha. every time you do come through. your hero status will go up a notch. and become fairly set in their ways. and that have ‘elected’ you as their alpha are going to expect a lot from you. You’ve seen it all. When something goes wrong. And if you ever get sick of it all. Especially as you get older.On ce an Alph a.

and can’t-fail techniques that have been building alpha males ever since the first caveman clubbed a cavewoman on the head and dragged her back to his cave. By signing up for Alpha Male 101’s exclusive Private Membership Library. the lifestyle. the challenges. you can gain in-depth access to all the tips. and you’ll never fall into the traps that can devour alpha males as they age. Luckily. Never stop evolving in these same ways. and you can become incapable of being open to new ideas. even if that meant risking your personal comfort.. Your self-assurance can become tunnel vision. and where you always have to be in charge. At this point. www.AlphaMale101. Your coolness and your ability to rise above it all can become indifference. not that you’ll need it. Good luck. So remember this one last thing: you got here by being open to learning new things. You’ve probably already got a million questions about things you you’re not sure about. and lead to the inability to have deep relationships. by learning to relax and meeting the challenges of life . guys. and lead to mistakes. and the glory of the alpha male. the powerful qualities that have done so much for you can turn against you: Your confidence can become arrogance. Your risk-taking nature can become dangerous and escalate until a disaster occurs.always right. This has only been a brief introduction to the world.. this is only the tip of the iceberg. tricks. .AlphaMale101.