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Featuting: Grape, Mandrake, Reddog, SenorBubbz, Ohmega, Darkpwns, Aaron4Prez This is a compilation of the top 1-5 articles from each contributer that were posted in the school year from 2008-09. We hope you find this information useful and enjoyable. <33 HSPF http://highschoolpuas.proboards.com/ Content: Socializing with Others How To Talk To Girls: Reddog Attraction Switches: Grape Using Your Belt In The Hallway: OhMega Indicators of Interest: Reddog Direct Game, Indirectly: Reddog *Insert Here* Olympics: OhMega The Unwritten Code: Grape A Guide to Rapport: Grape A Guide to Kinaesthetics: Reddog Trust The Midas Touch: OhMega Pulling The Trigger: SenorBubbz Social Circles: Darkpwns Misconceptions of PUA: Reddog Self-Focus No More Mr. Nice Guy: OhMega How To Become A Man: Mandrake Life, Intent, Happiness: Grape Psychology of Naturals: Grape A Lesson In Confidence: OhMega Beliefs: Aaron4Prez Psych on Being in State: Mandrake Personal Experiences Mandrake Darkpwns
Socializing with Others
How To Talk To Girls: Reddog Hey guys, RedDog here. I know when I was an afc, I had no idea how to keep conversations with girls. Now, I do it subconsciously. It can seem hard to learn at first. I'm not going to tell you Inner game stuff like "Just do it" for the whole article.I'll just give you the one tip that helped me immensely. Are you ready? BEFRIEND GIRLS Yeah, it's that simple. I have about 3 or 4 really good friends that are girls. Are they 9's and 10's? No. But they are hot enough to be good training."Well wait Red, Aren't I supposed to game girls?" Yeah! But... not EVERY girl you see. You'll just come off as a creep.In fact, alot of my targets come from other schools because I friend alot of girls at my school. By the way, Guess who introduces me to these other girls? Your text game gets so great. I never go afc, I just stay cool without going sexual basically(Though I have at times, but of course we both know we'd never go out)I'm not an AFC who's saying "You're so beautiful you are awesome" and then trying to get blown... NO! Just me, running comfort. I'm the guy that girls love, The one that they'll introduce to their hotter friends and already DHV me..In person? I'm awesome. The stuff before like conversational flow, vibing, etc., the stuff I worked HOURS trying to find examples, happens naturally now.I can go from talking about a project in class to talking about potheads.I know how to joke around now. Number closes? Made simple since I got used to it. Seriously, ITS NOT THAT HARD. Just ask. (Although alot of girls ask me =D) Kino? Don't get me started. I'm so sensual... Girls that are comfortable with me Kind of touch me everywhere but the groin, and vice versa(and the chest... sorta )I can give fun little smiles... Girls go in my bubble.. Inside jokes, Nicknames.. more kino I stay In a comfort state with like a hint of sexual.Oh, by the way, The girls that I'm friends with love me, and the others are aware of it. It's a big DHV. We all know girls talk all the time. Watch: FHB7.5:Hey HB9, Do you know RedDog? He's so cool and funny and etc........ HB9:No I don't! I'll have to meet him! *Insert fashion here* See? DHV! Girls come to you. Social proof much?Another IMPORTANT tip: Bro's before Hoes... DO NOT go telling the private info your boys tell you to FHB7.5. All you get is looking like a pussy.I don't tell ANYTHING to anyone. Creating a confidence bond is key to rapport, for both genders.Trust me, FHB7.5 will not be mad if you don't tell her who OOYB(One of your boys) likes. If you do, BIG DLV and you look like a afc who tries to get girls by telling them everything.NOOOOO! What to DO: Be a great guy... Listen and shit.. Joke around, Have fun. Text her Alot, have fun, Talk seriously sometimes... Have fun. Basically game her without gaming her. Very little sexual, Just kino(This gets rid of Kino anxiety too) a bit.Yes, I've had my FHB's kino me alot, BEFORE i kino'ed them. I'm so good, that when I actually game, its so smooth, and I get nearly the same reaction.
What NOT to DO: Be a kiss up. This will win you NO friends. Girls talk, as aforementioned. they will label you as a kiss up. Do NOT try to get too attached. What I mean is, again, don't be her lapdog. Your friendship needs to be equal! This is kind of hard to explain, But don't favor your boys over your FHB's and vice versa. I Try to stay out of arguments and shit. Do EVERY activity with her/them. You still have your boys. Try to make it a 45%25%30% Ratio For Your Boys/Hb's/FHB's That's an Estimate by the way. I hope this helps you all,because It elevated my game to a whole nother level. My game is niiiiiiiiiiiice now.(Well, Attraction through Comfort, but hey)This may or may not help you, but I know I look back on me just learning pick-up... I'M MUCH BETTER! Take that in. Happy Sarging(And Comfort!) RedDog
a guy is constantly bullying another guy in school. You decide.. Although he had an average voice with average singing skills. "Bro. his brother. He would be the one who was better than everyone else and was chosen to be leader.. There's a music video for a song called Agape by For Today. I just love you so much and I'm very very thankful to have you as my brother. First of all. Later on. Check out http://highschoolpuas. • Being Merciful No one likes the person who will be so mean and immature as to HURT someone when they don't have to. Matador.. then people will want to be a part of the fun you are having and will want to hang out with you. All the women wanted to have HIS babies. not the other dozens of men. ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. • Willingness to Emote Imagine a robot who you could have conversations with like it was an actual person. Agape means Christian Love. It's also the basis of why women find certain attributes attractive in men. It makes him come off like a. the bully pushes the kid in the hallways. You don't get to choose how attractive another person is. Boring. When you have fun.play&thread=283 for more info. Matador has a sweet example where he was at dinner with his girlfriend. If you're not having fun. They can't help it. his GF was soo amazed by his willingness to emote. That's not to say make a big deal out of everything like an immature brat.. If you are having fun. it shows that everything is going your way and that everything in your life is going the way you want. The list + why: • Pre-Selection Women will instinctively be attracted to a man who already has other women wanting him and talking about him. Back in time when we were cavemen.proboards.. Make sense? This 'theory' is very very well known by NORMAL people who aren't PUAs either. This sends out a negative vibe and people won't want to hang out with you. 'toy'. but simply to have feelings for others. and his bro's gf and he said. • Leader Women like men who lead others and help others succeed. it seems like you're under some stress and you have some huge problem on your shoulders. right? It's good to be emotional about things. they WILL fall for you. we had groups of people.Attraction Switches: GrapeAn attraction switch is something that all women find attractive in men.. Every tribe had a leader.com/inde." He also sang a song later on that night.. Hard to explain common sense. When you talk to girls and you show the right characteristics. that all the other girls have and like she's missing out on something amazing. but it spoke in monotone and had no facial/body expressions. and that leader was a man. called Tribes. • Fun Fun. Guess who got laid that night? Yeah. In the video. He would be the one who would be the BEST at protecting her and her children. and .
talk with Dante from this forum. He treats her to some ice cream for being a big brave girl. Everyone knew he could well have easily beat the bully up. Maturity is strongly correlated with age. Without having reason or intent. The man laughs his niece and doesn't even care about the fact that she has a scratch on her elbow. So always try to focus on the commonalities you and your girl share. and relaxed gestures are essential when coming off as attractive. relax your face and arms. looks him straight in the eye. • Being Relaxed Very much relates to having fun. The entire time. the girl trips and falls. Having relaxed facial expressions. The 7 year old niece comes over and they go to the store to buy some groceries. ain't it? • Making deep eye contact Girls really really like a guy with cute eyes. But he didn't even though he could. and comforts her telling her that it's just a tiny scratch that'll go away. do it. The 7 year old niece comes over and they go to the store to buy some groceries. not how different you guys are. It's attractive. . Being relaxed shows this. Make sure you stay healthy and have lots of rest so your eyes wont be blood shot. Guess who got a kiss at the end of the music video? • Protector of Loved Ones Choose the person who you think is much cooler: Person 1: A man's brother calls him and asks if he could take care of his niece. there are two factors: eye contact + eye health. the girl trips and falls. The man agrees. Mature men are believed to have deep and soothing voices. and then let's him go. you won't get anywhere in life. It's attractive. This makes her soo much more comfortable around you and she feels like someone finally understands her. Do I even have to explain? • Having a deep voice So women like men who show a sense of maturity. relax your chest and stomach. It's easy to have cute eyes though. It shows you have nothing to hide and that you respect them. the more mature he is. The older someone is. George Clooney is well known by women for his sexy voice. Person 2: A man's brother calls him and asks if he could take care of his niece. The man agrees. His voice will be a very alpha male kind of voice. And when you talk with people. Also. a relaxed voice. • Having things in common A huuugeee part of making a girl attracted to you is making her believe you guys pretty much share the same life. • Having a passion/Having goals in life Having goals in life is probably one of the important things a man will need. You need to talk about all the things you really have an interest in and you need to put emotion into it. hold eye contact.everyone is screaming FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT! The kid grabs the bully's collar. everything is okay. You have nothing to be worried about. The man hugs her. As they're leaving. The girls will fall in love with you and the guys will open up as friends in no time. Nice. You need to show you're trying to improve your own self and your life. He showed mercy. Relax your shoulders. As they're leaving. it just is.
you better damn be successful. how will you be able to do the hard physical labor a man does? • Being Successful Whatever your passion/goal is. you need to start fixing things up. Failure is something that shows "There are people who are better than him because they can do this but he can't. it'll come eventually. A stupid person won't be able to do this. It won't matter how smart you are if your body won't behave as your mind wishes. • Being Physically Fit This ties in with the whole survival thing. If you're fat and plump and you have a bad heart." Always strive for success. It shows you are smart enough to survive and that you will be able to plan things out and lead them through hardships and such.• Being Smart and Intelligent Being intelligent is also something that many girls find attractive. • Willingness to Walk Away • Social Proof • Being Older . If you fail at something you tried at. but a smart one will.
Using Your Belt In The Hallway: OhMega Something I just started doing as of late: I have a few belts with some impressive buckles. "sway" your "nether region" out a bit. So remember the three C's of belt interaction: Confident Comfortable Cock Sway and in 1. tell her to touch your belt buckle. Great way to pump up the buying temp and continue the interaction with a slightly altered "atmosphere" if you wish. If you build your frame as a "sexually confident" person. "easy there tiger. Then say something to the effect of. you don't want to be the weird sketchball perv that freaks people out. Recommend you get some. don't over excite yourself" or something like that as she's touching the belt buckle. you guys are smart. and then you know.. girls will like it and want it rather than freak out about it. Don't ask her to touch your belt buckle. And be comfortable when you do it. But I digress. Everyone has one.2. it builds sexual tension. draws some attention "down there".. the one when you undress a girl with her eyes and she knows it. See a girl. give that girl some excitement! And most of all. I'm sure you know what I mean.3 you have a pumped up interaction. give her your "look". but it's not creepy. have fun .
she re approaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #) *On your way out. she asks you where you are going (Invite her) *She returns your calls *She invents reasons to be near you. interact with you. or have isolation with you *She mirrors your gestures Passive IO Is *Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing) but she stays *She moves to see you and hangs with you for extended periods *If you move. she comes back *She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you *She avoids mentioning her boyfriend *If it comes up that you like something. or needs someone to show her how to do it *When she says or does something. she is particularly talkative (to get your attention) *She asks you for your name *She asks you your age (make her guess) *She compliments you *She is playful and tries to challenge you *She's disagreeing but laughing *She's punching your arm but laughing *She uses nicknames for you *She plays with her hair while talking to you *When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours *She repeatedly touches you in any way *She asks if you have a girlfriend *She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one *When she has to go to the bathroom. not mine. to hide the fact that she's looking *She introduces you to friends *She buys you a drink *She calls you a player or a heart breaker *On her way out. Thought this could help *She re initiates conversations when you stop talking *She giggles *She touches you *She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you *She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so *She tosses her hair (to see if you will look) *If eye contact happens from a distance. she turns her body toward you or brushes against you *She says something to her friend and they both giggle *She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation *While you're talking to her group. she holds it for a second *She smiles at you *She stands nearby (proximity) *She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said *While walking by. she mentions that she likes it. she follows you or waits for you *She doesn't flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close *She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token Resistance to avoid feeling like a slut) . too.Indicators of Interest: Reddog This is from the pickup artist forum. she looks at you to see your reaction *She looks at you from the side.
The most important IOIs to look for are: *She *She *She *She re initiates conversation when you stop talking giggles touches you tries to get rapport and build comfort with you .
The opener just has to show two things: that you think the girl is hot. will know what I mean when I say this: Going direct is a million times “better” than going indirect. This changed my outlook on approaches. Beware of using the same line twice in smaller schools. not receptive. 4) If she continues to be unresponsive. Indirectly… Alright fuck it. How to go Direct. let’s call this “Going Indirectly Direct” By GoalDigger Those few and proud who have experimented with many different methods of pick up artistry. This school is also always placed among the top ten party schools in the nation. one . The battle is lost. etc. It can be the lamest. but if you have a smile on when you say it. there is a lot of benefit to be had by creating some small routines and lines to use.. GoalDigger gave a great guide here. but are now not talking about it. This diffuses the awkwardness created by the fact that you have just told her you’re sexually attracted to her.Direct Game. that way you get sharper and faster when coming up with witty in-conversation responses as well. and I’ve had a phone consult with Soul on how to do day game approaches so my education on the matter is pretty solid. Indirectly: Reddog . 3) Move the topic of conversation away from sexual (physical) interest immediately. 1) Your opener is more of a joke than it is an opener. Arizona State University.) With the school being that large and that social.. What I mean by that is that going direct is faster. This is during the day. All this means is just very unapologetically saying things like “haha I know this is random…” or “sorry… I don’t usually do this”. 2) Jokingly apologize on your opener. but the war will be won if you analyze the approach and see what worked and what didn’t. you are good. and that you understand that she thinks you’re hitting on her. My college. although they might not necessarily agree. etc. I’ll try to include a small template that shows you how you can put together your own routines to get started. and in fact many licentious and alcoholic game-junkies probably chose to attend the university for the aforementioned reasons (I know one…. is a massive school (65. which you are NOT. This a good read. more natural. We can break the “indirectly direct” approach into a few key points that are differentiated from other types of cold approach. then you must take it upon yourself to walk away from the conversation. ha. most incredibly unfunny thing you’ve ever said in your life.Gold Digger Wow. haha….000 total students) which is consistently ranked as the “number one hottest campus in America” by Playboy magazine and others. more reliable if she’s given you IOIs. you should just constantly be creating new ones after a week or so. The following examples are on-campus interactions. You don’t need lines or routines because the girl’s buying temperature is pumped simply by the ballsyness of your approach. As in within the first five seconds following your opener. When you’re first starting to do this. and just fuckin easier in general.
The only direct thing about my approach is the fact that I said “we should’ve sat next to each other”.” GD: (breaking my RAS for a second. However. If she gives you anything that even resembles a normal or trivial comment. After I say that. then big smile) “haha no I’m just kidding. I throw my tray away at the same time she does.AKA simply not acknowledge any bitchiness and act like she’s being nice. and the place was very quite. I will never mention any interest in her again. I think we could’ve turned that place into a party. In order to cope with this constant stream of pussy guys. a hot girl will interpret that as someone who is trying to hit on her. on purpose ha ha. I was like depressed haha” Girl: (lightening up slightly) “oh haha… yea I know it’s usually not like that” There are two important things to note in that little exchange: 1) the absolute subtlety of my “direct” opener. then you can pretty much assume her bitch shield has been put on hold for the next couple of minutes. I’m doing a lot better this semester I have two friends now…. instead of openly dealing with it. and not me and her. Instead of “breakin’ the fuckin front door down”. she is extremely hot and will want to keep challenging you. As soon as this girl made her comment about how “its usually not like this” I am pretty much in. GD: “haha we should’ve sat next to each other in there. I will just go in the through the back --.can rest assured that very hot girls (9s and 10s) get hit on VERY OFTEN. One of them is imaginary but I’m doing my best” Girl: “hahaha!” .” Girl: (dismissive) “haha… I don’t hate people I think that’s weird…. they have developed very strong and rare bitch shields. If you say ANYTHING about “we” or “us”. so I can catch her outside. and 2) the fact that I changed the subject of my opener by making it based on the situation. Example #1: This is a girl I am opening outside of the student union. So I GIVE her shit she can challenge me on. because then I'm still on home court: GD: “So uhh… I’m guessing you don’t have any friends either? It’s so good to finally meet another person who hates people. We had both just finished eating alone in a Chick-Fil-A or some shit.” Girl: (disgusted “don’t hit on me” face) “what?” GD: “that place was dead as hell. Notice how both of these openers are situational and completely unscripted – that’s where you get away with murder baby.
And my favorite colors blue so alright fine your bikes not a complete joke (the bike is pink) Girl: “hahaha!” GD: “so what are you doin’ on campus? You’re a professor right? You must be a crabby biatch in class I can tell by your sticker” By this time I have deliberately gotten on my bike and my body is facing away from her and I am talking over the shoulder. it does have the skinny tires and everything. The REASON she dropped it so quickly is also a little more complicated than it looks on the surface. i thought it was SO funny) Girl: ( “did you just hit on me” face) “What?” GD: “Your bike seat is tight.Once she laughs.)” GD: “hahahah… that’s cute…. What this amounts to (for her) is me basically telling her that I’m not trying to make her smile.” Girl: (loosening up) “haha…. up until the point where I get off of my bike to keep talking to her. Example #2: This is a girl who was unlocking her bike next to me. She is a ten and a sister in one of the sexier sororities on campus. which I could tell by her big ass emblazoned bag. it was a fuckin Parakeet or something with sunglasses on.. and if she’s not going to joke with me then I’ll just leave. and she also understands that I broke my RAS because of the bitchiness in that reaction. mines cooler because of this” (points to this ridiculous sticker on the side of her bike. It’s twofold: 1) I broke my RAS. I made sure she saw me glance at her ass before I make this comment. I am obviously joking throughout the entire interaction.. Throughout the conversation I am flaking my RAS. so she is becoming aware of the fact that the guy who was just staring at her astonishingly nice ass is now about to desert a pretty promising conversation with her. but no. Listen. and went on to crack another joke. There are very few points in the interaction where I am not smiling or chuckling to myself. . I know we just met so I’m not trying to be overly harsh but… I just feel like my bike is so much cooler than yours. I’m just joking around. What is extremely attractive about this is the fact that I have no need or even want for a positive reaction from her. 2) I smiled at her negative reaction. especially if it’s not positive.. GD: “That’s a nice seat you got there” (haha get it? . Her reaction means nothing to me because I am just joking around. She understands that her reaction to my comment was bitchy.. her bitch shield is completely gone and I am in comfort (with some jokes here and there to spice that shit up). I do not give a shit about her reaction.
Haha oh nothing never mind. In every fucking interaction. you need to have that kind of abundance mentality. Hopefully those examples helped some guys who may take it upon themselves to indirectly go direct haha. These girls want to fuck.Girl: “haha hey wait… what’s your name?” GD: (gets off bike) “I’m Jay. Not only do I not need or want (lie) sex from her. yet I am still nice to her and I still stare at her ass. your hand and your roommates bottle of Dove moisturizing lotion. I honestly thought to myself “if this girl doesn’t feel the need to redeem herself for her initial reaction. and so I have the moral high ground. I don’t give a shit if you’re hot” I was about to leave because her initial reaction was not positive. that I have absolutely no need for this girl whatsoever. just post them on this thread and I’ll see if I can think of anything. I don’t even need or really want to be in a conversation with her. what are you doin on campus today?” If you guys have any questions on specifics or for different situations. this is ASU I can find another ten in five minutes”. I have demonstrated. where I will remain for a few minutes before going to class. And you should. especially in college! Because then your cock will finally have some company besides that highly overused love-triangle that includes yourself. . The dynamic is: “I like you because your funny. Have fun with this my homies. then I will just go to class. in a few tiny actions. your Rapunzel right?” (she’s blonde) This approach is over in two minutes and I am now in comfort. She believes this only because I truly believe it and my subcommunications and RAS show that. but they are not going to slut themselves around… they are probably waiting for someone to just come up and say “hey I know this is random but I think you’re fuckin hot and I’m tired of three way dates….
you can get a better feel of who they are. or something you can just do with your hands. Read. Dissect. I made a routine which I have dubbed the "*Insert Here* Olympics" or simply just. It allows for some light kino opportunities which is nice because your target(s) will become more comfortable with you and your touch. and most of all. The rules of "The Olympics" are as stated (More like guidelines): *There are three rounds. Such an example would be cheating at the thumb wrestling when you use both hands instead of one. but would this be a gambit?) Use this in a set as large as you want. I've done it on a set as small as just one. and as large as five. easy going. It helps to transition from attraction more towards comfort. *The winner after three rounds is the Olympic champion. *There is a winner for each round. The basis is that you pick three easy to play games that involve nothing more than a pen/ pencil and piece of paper. I just like it because it's light. "The Olympics". I like to do this if there are two girls in the set. "I just like to have fun" attitude. Have Fun! pc n' love -OhMega .*Insert Here* Olympics: OhMega "Welcome to the 2009 Audience Olympics!" That's how I started it off tonight anyway. and just displays your relaxed. Good activities include but are not limited to: *Rock Paper Scissors *Thumb wrestling *Staring contests *Drawing contests Being cocky and funny is the perfect partner for this. Discuss. I'd say about 5 minutes into the interaction and this would be a good game to play. (Not so sure on my pua-esque vocabulary. because once you've opened them.
Just a spill on your pants. 3. don't go "FUCK!! RAWR" just continue talking while dabbing with a napkin. LOSER. there is a secret. have big power. you gotta give a shit. don't bring it up. It's not a big deal. Those who stop everything to fix a problem and those who continue what they're doing while fixing the problem. You really like the voice of the singer or the triple spin flip by the dancer. Not a big cat's attitude of being cool. When this code is broken by someone. the big cats know he or she is not one of them. and that they feel really bad for their problems.. Dinner is a time of companionship. You clapped out of true enjoyment. Don't talk about bad news. 4. Don't make a big deal out of things. Be the first one to clap." unless it's a friendly tease. they'll know you're not a big cat. The last thing someone wants while eating a delicious meal is to lose their appetite because someone keeps bothering them to invest $500. you hear that brief one second of silence and wait for a clap? Whoever clapped first is getting the most pussy. So do this. Even if you want to make conversation or just tell someone how bad you feel for their having cancer. Here are a few rules of the book: 1. crazy. The last thing they want is someone making a big deal out of it and directing attention towards their mistake. So if you want to get others to befriend you and see you as someone valuable. When this code is followed perfectly. and are big leaders. and celebration. 2. It's a little fish's attempt to get big. DEFINITELY something a big cat would never do. festivity. You really enjoyed that show. you gotta show emotion. Ever go to a performance and after the set is finished. So there are two types of people in the world." Who will they care more about? It's only nature that people care about themselves a Lot more than others.The Unwritten Code: Grape As you may have learned before. When you spill something. 5. When someone trips and falls. the big cats know he or she is one of them. interesting. Don't bring business to the dinner table. how fun they are. .000 for something that may not even work out. You were entertained and you loved it. Never bring this kind of conversation to the table. and show you are a true friend. It's a time of enjoying each others' company. You gotta know how they're feeling." You gotta show that you don't care about others' opinions. don't go "HAHA YOU FELL. unwritten code between the 'big cats' in this world. Although they might appreciate your effort to care. These big cats are the ones in this world that make big decisions. They're already embarrassed enough. Give a shit about others. Big cats always tell people how great they look. A bad vibe is NOT what people want when they go out. It's a time of talking about everything funny. I'll just say I like it if others like it and I'll hate it if others hate it. and great. You can't show "Hmm. not to be judged by others. People see two universes "Me" and "The rest of the world.
This shows they can't be fucked with. Little fish impress others. Judge.So be the first one to do something when others are at a loss you big cat! 6." So if you do happen to strike just ONE conversation with someone." in their heads. no one was there at all!" . They know more than you will ever know. big cat or little fish. This way they can't get a fool's price for the car they want. Big cats are the judges of society. No need to use weird idioms and such. Although they don't necessarily talk about all their judgments. You need to learn to observe your surroundings and draw conclusions from them. 8. When at a party. you have to know who they are and what they do. Big cats. they know which football team is leading the season. Know what you're talking about. Know their stuff. So join in on the conversations. Big fish are the ones being impressed. Be straight-forward. They're extremely intelligent socially and they are pretty much the leaders of society. they dont say "I'm actually not being my best self tonight like normally am. When a group is talking about something that you know how to talk about. There's a big rule that says "If you dont befriend anyone you talk to. Don't be the person who constantly tells stories or asks questions about things that don't matter. You need to read this sentence. So when you wanna make something clear. Big cats always say something that MATTERS.. They know the situation in Gaza. Little fish are the ones being judged. They make their point clear and if you dont understand what they're trying to say. I was at the TDWP concert last night. it's YOUR fault. In other terms. When they're at a car dealership. When they're at a pub. they label everybody in the room as either High value or low value. they'll start asking questions about the technicalities that only true car people know about. you're officially weird. Big cats always look like they know what they're talking about. and join in on the companionships. Join. 9. and find out what it means and then decide for yourself whether it's valuable or not. When they have a headache. You need to say bye to them and hi to them where you may meet. state your intentions very clearly. then join in with a comment! If someone in the group says "Yeah. Tells stories that will be interesting to THEM. that's a little fish's move. Say something that actually matters to people.. They are well understood and can communicate very well." It's simple as that. 7. blablabla" They simply say "I have a headache. The big cats don't think they did any wrong because 90% of people usually do understand them. Not be stuck up to people they dont know.. 10. Big cats are constantly making judgments about others. Or else others will be confused and go "wtf is wrong with you. people are there to have fun. Very clearly. Big cats have a tendency to be very direct and to the point. otherwise they keep their mouth shut and are being entertained. They know Obama's plan for the economy. make it short and simple. that they will care about and actually react to. Like stated before.
Whew.You walk in with "Dude you were there too!? Man that place was EMPTY." And then starts the friendship. that took a while. Enjoy + Eat <33 Grape .
she'll get curious. Here's a new concept: HB10s have 'bitch shields' to guys they don't feel comfortable around.. Now forget them. And most of the people in the room know who you are. It's pretty much the greatest thing on the face of this Earth. However. It's the level of comfort between you and something. be sure you're someone that she won't behave like this towards. <33 Grape Rapport Guide Concept: Defining rapport and how it's built through FOCUS. Like they don't have to feel repressed about anything and that they can let their true nature take over..A Guide to Rapport: Grape The Importance of Rapport Rapport is vital when socializing with others. You no longer have those concepts in your head any longer. I really feel that rapport is going to the main focus for high schoolers. And remember. But first. the more people will talk about you to others. And then when that HB10 comes in. the better chance you have of 'scoring poon'. and having fun with you. the more you'll be able to do things naturally without having to feel like you need to fake yourself in order to be accepted. So the more a girl is comfortable around you. You need to make them WANT to build rapport with you. So. the more value you will have. I hate using that term. you can do this by building rapport with everyone around you!! The more comfortable you make them. So the more one mirrors and shows that one is very similar to one's mark. The more comfort you have with something. Think back to the PUA Gurus who say HB10s have 'bitch shields' because they want a valuable guy. What's so special about you that EVERYONE loves you? Attraction right there =] So now SHE'LL want to build rapport with you. Makes sense right? Yep. whether it's your surroundings. cracking jokes with you. That this is key in 'working the entire room' and being the talkative guy. rapport is VITAL when it comes to hooking up with chicks. and simply go out there befriending everyone cool. be a people person. the gurus were point on in saying you need 'value'. They want a guy who they feel very comfortable around and like they can be themselves. The community emphasizes that you should talk to everyone. the more rapport . your social circle. They need motivation to want to be comfortable with you. and hears everyone talking about you. They can't take the time to become comfortable with everyone they meet! They're hardwired to behave in such ways that require some sort of shields to protect themselves against aggressors and dangerous people. Think back to needing lots of social value to get girls. however. I want to introduce another concept: The more people you build rapport with. I'll show ya how soon. And the more people you do this with. To have something in common with someone is to have a feeling of "one-ness" with that person. Soon. the more comfortable they'll be in conversing with you. or a person/friend. Be someone who she wants to be comfortable with. you're always talking to somebody. Rapport is the feeling of comfort with others. Well.
Gender .Social Circle . it doesn't matter who you are talking to. facial expressions. and something that almost ANYONE has experienced! This way. You could go to a different classroom or lunch table and you would feel VERY uncomfortable because you would have no rapport with anyone!! That is until someone 'breaks the ice' and builds rapport! You could find a girl very attractive and pretty. because that person has experienced the same thing you have whether you and him like it or not! Not only this.Emotions .Personalities It is very easy to build rapport. and just everything that the person is showing directly. Examples of Concept: Have you ever felt like you knew someone you just met really really well? It's because you guys had direct rapport! There are many factors that contribute to rapport and sometimes you and the other person could have totally different lives. you can also 'mirror' the other person's body language. Talk about the feelings you got. The only difference in the levels of rapport are the amount of knowledge and focus that one has on another. but you guys may have almost nothing in common with each other as where you may find that you and a normal pretty girl to have many things in common.Kinaesthetics . but the things that were common. Since the conscious mind can only focus on one thing at a time.Body language . the way a friend made you mad. moods. This is done through: socializing! Just talk about something you did the other day. Applying the concept: So now you must know how to bring another person's focus on the commonalities that you guys share.the mark will have towards one. The point of the system is: Focus not the differences.Lifestyles .Ethnicity . voice tonalities. the sub-conscious mind figures that what ever it is focusing on is pretty damn important. This is because the focus was NOT on the things that were different. but on the commonalities that you share with another person.Events/Situation . It is achieved when people have commonalities in things like: . Which one would you date if you were to? I'd say the normal pretty girl. vibes.Beliefs . while intentionally knowing that the other person has done something very similar to it. <33 Grape ============================================= . Everyone has so many things in common with each other. breathing rates.Vocal Tonality . the way your mom yelled at you.
Romilla Ready .How To Talk To Anyone . <33 Grape Hugee creds to: .Kate Burton. You may say things like "I love YOU. Both of you know there is nothing special between you two. both are used. making a connection between the two.NLP for Dummies . The ultimate level of rapport." "They are jealous of US." for the I and You sentences." "I listen to music a lot too!" Emotional This is when you and someone else share feelings and emotions. It classifies BOTH of you into one entity." It shows you guys are comfortable in opening yourselves up to each other. Factual This is when facts are stated. You may say things like "I absolutely looveee that movie." "I really like her. Usually done between people who are in the same social circle but aren't really "friends".Rapport on 4 Levels There are 'four stages of rapport' that you can have with someone: Cliche This is when you and the person you are talking to don't really see anything in common with each other and decide to talk about cliche things like "Nice weather today." "WE should do this." "Those make me sooo scared. Enjoy." "I blablabla bout YOU. United This is when terms like "we" "us" "together" "You and me" "each other" are mentioned.Leil Lowndes . ehh?" It's cliche and boring. They'll talk about facts like "So Jamie just got arrested the other day.
So. and even sitting next to girls while allowing my arms to roam freely. Stage I:Light Touching Such as:High 5's. Brushing up against accidentally. I advanced into being comfortable rubbing legs. Handshakes. a relationship goes up a rung. This is true. I can touch girls without them being mad. If you observe naturals or pua's or perverts (lol). First. Whether it be High fives. Once you get to kissing and above. This is helpful. with some shoulder taps here and some brushing up against here. First. Now. Soon enough. especially the hand or fingers. ETC. Most guides I read said "Just do it" and etc. but it didn't click in my head. Most of us feel comfortable around a person who we touch. Shoulder taps while talking. When contact is made. Do they get yelled at? Sometimes yes. Because I was.because i thought it as well. Which led me to the conclusion. This helped me realize that touching is natural. I felt like a King. I'll try to write down how I overcame it here. look at the Naturals and Pua's again. you make a connection. to come in contact with so as to feel When you touch. but it is mostly "You asshole!"-Arm slap Laugh/smile.(for the most part ) So I started. I went from saying sorry when accidentally brushing up against a girls arm. You can touch family members with out it being awkward(Not in private places. why cant you? I know what you may be thinking. I decided that once I did Would try to write a guide to help help others. Stage II:Medium Light Touching Such as:(secret)Handshakes. it's pretty much everything is available. I'll tell you what. I started off slow. of course). with my forearm on the side of a girl's chest. What does Kino mean? Well.Feeling girls "six-packs ". Take a look around your world. Adult pua's say light touching is used to get the girl used to your touch. Longer shoulder taps and such. it means touch.You can give your parents or grandparents high fives or give them hugs and etc. But enough about that. with no problem. The physiological sense by which external objects or forces are perceived through contact with the body. up to a point. if you will. Palm Reading.A Guide to Kinaesthetics: Reddog Reddog's Guide to Kino Hey guys!Before I overcame my fear of Touching Girls. You can see that they'll touch girls regularly. If they can do it. I had beaten my Kino problems(for the most part). I overcame it. Now.Thumb wars . and what does touch mean? There are a bunch of definitions. Well. I'll include a small guide to escalation. if anyone needs the help. your family. to placing the back of my hand or forearm where it shouldn't be. but a few pop out. "But what if she gets mad at me for touching her and calls me a perv?" Well. To cause or permit a part of the body. Now.
Here is a picture for examples. haha Well.Much Longer I-IV. but a nice grin). Six-packs. Brushing on thighs Stage V:Super Medium Touching Such As:Sides of thighs. Cheek related touching. Brushing up of SIDE of tits. Hope this helps. Touch is natural.. Play-wrestling. that's my guide. sticking your hands down pockets of jeans.Hugs Stage VI:Light Super Touching Such As: Very light touch of her ass.It's hard to turn down one of those. Longer V-VII Stage IX:Mega Super Touching Such As: Everything else. when guiding her somewhere. I hope it helps you.hugs Stage VII:Medium Super Touching Such As:Holding hands briefly. Remember. Neck massages.Measuring Hands Stage IV:Medium Touching Such As:Longer instances of stages I-III. Just make sure you have a smile on your face (Not a creepy toothy smile. Much longer I-III.invading her bubble. Longer IV-VI. Thigh massages. Reddog . Midsection.Stage III:Light Medium Touching Such as:Feeling smooth shaven legs/arms. in progressive order by using the bases. Stage VIII:Super Super Touching Such As:Kissing.
Throughout the interaction. she should be comfortable with your proximity to her. GO FOR THE KIDNEYS!) Tickle fights Well-placed hugs Charlie horse fights (The purpose is to just fool around. you can just go in an lean on the girl (when I need answers for physics labs I just go lean on the girl from behind and whisper in her ear. easy. and then the index/middle finger together. . sexual beast sort of way This works so good because shitty school lockers make a good noise when things hit them with the slightest bump. I've already said to much". and how some guy in a gas station taught you how to read palms one day. not actually give the girl a charlie horse) Thumb wrestling Play with her hair If you are confident enough...that's. touch more vulnerable spots on the body such as: the inside of the arms. Trace the lines in her hand with your finger and say. familiarize them with the touch. Start caveman-ing girls against lockers. THINGS THAT ARE A MUST FOR KINO: Secret Handshakes High-fives Crab-Claws (make a claw with your thumb. eh.the dork line. the neck. "I need what you have. "I shouldn't tell you. Use kino when starting the interaction. then KINO is going to be the fuel.") MY FAVORITE THING TO DO! Take her hand in yours and turn it over.. "You have to tell me now!" and then you will say. Trust the "Midas Touch". but after it falls down and it's all over the place If quick. get real close to her face and say in all seriousness with a slight air of mystery. ANYWAY When getting more physical. as your confidence displays the idea that you do this all the time. Being physically comfortable in the beginning of the interaction will display your social "calibration" so-tospeak. game is your vehicle of choice. insides of the thighs. Make a habit of pulling the girl close to you. very light touching on the shoulders or brushing your arm." then quickly flash a girl-melt smile and pull her in close and tell her how cute she is. INVIGORATE THE SEXUAL FEELINGS! And then. start talking about the occult. not in a violent particular way. the sides of the face. "See that line right there?" as you trace the particular line with your finger. and the hips. up against theirs. Then when she replies with. "What is it?" you say. and your pre-selection..Trust The Midas Touch: OhMega Ever play Jenga? This little guide to kino of sorts is like that. "oooo. that's not good".. but a playful. when you get to the point when you really want to do something beyond getting a number. "That line right there. the girl will follow with something like. you can move your hand to places like the upper and lower back..
like if you put your hand flat on a table palm down.^ P. *This is all on the palm side of the hand.000. So going up the "side of the hand" is the further most point away from the thumb but still on the palm Then after the pinky. just say. That's like 8. just a little more pressure than it takes to crush a raspberry). then the two of you will connect. (The pressure you apply with your thumb is quite light. and that if someone else's energy/inner light/whatever is flowing on the same wavelength. As you're doing that you talk about how you're opening the flow of energy.S: I claim trademark on the phrase girl-melt. Yeah. Talk about how rare it is to find one that matches. just a sexually aroused hb. Take your thumb and use light pressure to start tracing and invisible line from the bottom of her thumb. her mind will make her feel it because she wants to feel it) and then have her open her eyes and tell her you think you might be an ok match but there's only one way to know for sure. start drawing your thumb up the ring. "The Midas Touch" routine. Have fun with that. When she asks. "Lets find out" then move in while flashing your girlmelt smile and FINISH HER with a 2000 point X3 multiplier combo K-Close. everything that touches the table. with her eyes still closed take the tips of your fingers and touch them to hers and tell her to feel the flow of the energy between you. As you finish saying that and you finish the "thumb path" have her close her eyes and feel the energy in her body flowing to the tips of her fingers. I'll let you guys use it and not pay me any royalties. is that when you use. then take that hand in yours and start talking about how since energy is neither created nor destroyed.The Midas Touch (Kino&K-Close): Ask what hand she uses to write with if you don't actually know.000 points. it flows through everything. all the time. (She'll be so into it. she'll go with it. middle. "What is it?" or something else to that effect. but because I'm such a great person. and index fingers respectively finishing with her thumb. your target doesn't become a life-less gold statue. know enough about it to sound authentic. The reason you use your thumb is because your hands have to be closer and it makes it more intimate. up the side of her hand and down her pinky finger. Whatever you talk about. . Much like the principles of tai chi or feung shway or w/e. and the plus side with this. down across the bottom of her palm in a small arc.
there are several ways you can direct this kiss. So on to actually getting the number.cgi?board=blanguage&action=display&thread=1000. Now at our age. don’t! There are lots of “can’t fail” kiss-closes out there you can use. where you take your index finger. Now I’m not going to go into specifics. or Style’s Evolution Phase Shift. if she says “No. You can find those here: http://highschoolpuas. say “I can do this. you have to engage in Vin DiCarlo’s Escalation Ramp.Pulling the trigger on Opening You see a hot girl. then one day you might be able to come hang with me. For example.Pulling the trigger on #-closing This is literally the easiest thing on the entire planet when it comes to PU (pick-up). “Yea.Pulling the trigger on Sex Now this is really one of those things that can’t be taught. many different ways to get over AA (Approach Anxiety). you game will jump to a whole new level.com/index. #-closing. You can find it right here: http://highschoolpuas. and is the same thing as guilt-tripping her into fucking her.proboards. . what I always use is “Hey. you’ve already talked with her sexually. it’s been a while since I’ve met such a smart girl. She didn’t reject you. adapt it to what you like about the girl. What you do is you say. is to wait for 3 IOI’s (Indicators of Interest). Don’t let it faze you and keep building attraction and comfort and ask again. I don’t give out my phone number. she’s comfortable being around you and having you touch her (remember to always kino). ha-ha. you need some IOI’s first. The last thing you need to know about pulling the trigger on sex is how to deal with LMR (Last Minute Resistance). whatever it may be. and you have a condom. Once you have her in your house. and what do you do? Some will go open her. I usually just hang with dumb blondes!” That last one will work especially well if she is a blonde. Another good kiss-close you can use is Chris’s Ultimate K-Close.proboards. in my eyes at least. smile to yourself. All you have to do is ask! Now obviously. It sounds easy. but you do. This takes balls. Whether you have to pull the trigger on opening. The standard golden rule to always follow though. That’s not good. Also. three would be a good. Now once you’ve done this. Who cares if you crash and burn? You’ve just gotten farther than most chumps out there. per say.” and go do it. you seem really adventurous!” or “Damn.” Now don’t use this word for word. -.” then don’t feel rejected. some will come up with millions of excuses on why you can’t go open her.” And keep talking. David Shade has a wonderful audio program on how to talk dirty here: http://highschoolpuas. Now if you don’t quite have the guts to do this yet. What some PUA’s do is freeze the girl out. to ignore her and go about your business.cgi?action=display&board=routines&thread=1748. there’s a way to get past it. but I’m sure you can do it.cgi?board=routines&action=display&thread=48. and pull her towards you and kiss her. isolate your target. The second you move your foot and decide to do it and go for it. no problem. to make sure you CAN kiss her.com/index. or having sex. How do you do that? Well I’m about to tell you. and get another IOI just to make sure you’re in the clear. You can find it here: http://highschoolpuas. you can still get her phone number. There’s Brad P’s very simple kiss close.com/ index.proboards. This works because it makes her so uncomfortable that she has sex with you to get you to stop. give yourself a pat on the back!! -. you’re a really fun girl! Why don’t you give me your phone number and maybe if you’re cool on the phone. “Wow.cgi?action=display&board=avfiles&thread=1749. She’s nervous because she doesn’t want to seem like a slut by fucking you. but the core of it is basically telling her what you want to do to her. is to talk dirty to the girl. put it under her chin.proboards.Pulling The Trigger: SenorBubbz -What is “pulling the trigger”? Pulling the trigger is going for it. You think most guys have the balls to talk to random girls? Nope. because that’s not what she did. -.Pulling the trigger on Kissing If you’re worried about kissing. Another great technique to use during DiCarlo’s Ramp. but getting over approach anxiety is a huge step in your game. -.com/ index. maybe 5 to 10 minutes later. but make sure to ALWAYS keep it light. but the best way I’ve found to get over it is to take a deep breath. safe bet. kissing. there’s only one type of LMR. you can definitely use either Mystery’s Kiss Gambit. This is a step-by-step guide to using kino to get to sex. There are many.
If your first PUA k-close isn’t that great. If she’s a slut you shouldn’t even get LMR so don’t worry about it lol xD.” And keep on going. sex is 90% emotional and 10% physical. we should stop.com/ index. go game other girls and eventually you’ll have a chance to try again.” or “Honey.” You’ll learn more from practicing in field than reading tons and tons of articles. Fuck logic. you’re so beautiful. Here’s a little summary on how to caveman correctly and how it can just destroy any LMR: http://highschoolpuas. shy girl LMR. but they say it because it’s true “The field is king. One way to blow past LMR is to caveman. Calibration is the word here boys! You have to calibrate everything I wrote about here to your own personality. Also.” agree and continue. sex is a commitment.” or “Baby I’m shy. The way to deal with this is to reassure her of any misgivings she may have.cgi?action=display&board=staffonlypage&thread=1750. Back to the nervous. If you’re here. if she’s saying things like “Baby I’m nervous. kiss her body.Now that’s if you did everything right. feel up her body. This is what cavemanning is. This is wrong. so keep on macking them girls! Many people say this.proboards. You have to practice these things. Say “You’re totally right. Remember. So go out there and get some booty!! Keep Pimpin. if you don’t think it will work on a certain girl for whatever reason. don’t worry about it. who cares? There’ll be more to come.” Now you may be thinking “Why are you validating her?!?” Well you can’t keep up this cocky funny. don’t do it because some really reserved girls will just start screaming rape! The End! P. That’s why you may find that after you sex a girl up real good. you have to be congruent. Now this is all if she’s a NORMAL girl. you’re gonna run into a different type of LMR and that’s the “I’m not sure I like this guy enough to fuck him” mindset coming from her. The moment you get her to your house and on your couch or bed. SenorBubbz .S. going completely apeshit on that bitch. she’ll be kind of clingy with you because for a woman. Kiss her. experience breeds competence and competence breeds confidence. If she says “I think we should stop. They are in it for the pleasure of knowing they have a man that’s there for them and will take care of them and provide for them. this is emotion. don’t be shy/nervous. start kissing her like a crazed animal. hard to get frame forever bro. You’re gonna have to drop it and open up to the girl emotionally eventually and for girls.” Then tell her “No babe. forget about the girl. If you didn’t and you’re rushing things. Now be careful with this stuff. tear clothes off. don’t worry about it. We’re just going to spend some time together.
One may be able to pull a random girl at a party and maybe get laid.steer clear of this status..she'd most likely be the hottest girl. Mediators/Drama whores. Guys that run social circle game end up getting laid twice the times that the random does. they talk smack when no drama is happening within the clique and once the drama fires up. Low value people reside here. --Cliques-Social Circles in high-school are comprised of different cliques. so to actually join cliques together you must first be a part of them. if you like music. this is the most desirable position if you want to build a social circle. Orbiters. these girls make sure that any guys messing with a girl within the clique isn't creepy. They are twofaced. Clique Mom. it could be a girl. ----Getting a Social Circle Started---Getting a social circle going isn't as hard as it seems. those people that always sit together in class. sure you may DHV yourself but this only IMPLIES that you are high value. The issue with this is that it doesn't work.This is the girl who decides who is cool enough to hang out with her and her friends. Randoms come into a set with no value and females are very value conscious. go to his/her parties. --Social Circles-Social Circles are those groups you see that regularly congregate in your cafeteria..yeah.These girls are loads of trouble.Social Circles: Darkpwns Yo! I'm darkpwns. but more often than not the "cold approach" will end up in you pumping the girl's attraction levels to the point where she will be ready to have sex but then she leaves. Bridges. The first thing you must do is have something going on in your life... In truth these groups are intimidating and at first it will seem like a good idea to attempt to get with a girl on her lonesome. she doesn't KNOW that you are high value. Why? Because you are a random.These are the people who allow for opportunities to meet new people and expand the social circle. 9 times out of 10 there will be an extremely social person in every single class. yet that cool guy she hangs out with. Head... he definitely has value and she knows it. drama that occurred without them would snowball into something ugly. Guys and girls can occupy these positions and they can belong to more than one clique. but a necessary evil. If they weren't around. Cliques have rankings though. If one of your friends throws parties a lot. Once you have something going on in your life you can begin building a social circle.These are people who hang around the group. hang out after school together. go to concerts.Yeah. it . but the alpha male will join cliques together and bring more people into his group. You remember that girl who shuffled away the HB you cold approached? Yeah this is that girl. but don't actually have a role. don't date within this status (at least while you are still establishing yourself within the clique). I want to share a little about what I know about social circles (its about the only thing I'm good at in this whole PU world). they resolve it. the average guy will end up as an orbiter to a girl in one of those cliques.
When I say integrate interesting people into your social circle I do not mean desert your friends who are sort of AFC-ish or a little introverted. It's simple to start up a conversation a simple "Hey.I can't as my parents are always home so I can't help you on throwing parties] ---Getting Girls Within Social Circle--To get girls within your social circle is beyond simple. Bridges are social... they are bridges. even if you haven't gamed her. Simply escalate on the girl you want and she could be . Run this process on several bridges and you will become integrated in several cliques. a new friend. run the conversation as you would a normal one except give off the vibe that by them knowing you value will be added to their lives. the ones that people ask to hang out with. No way. coming out with you. [Once you have a social circle you can begin throwing your own parties. Heads of cliques and other hot girls and bridges are enough. you don't have to invite every single person you know to every single party/ concert. integrate the interesting ones into your social circle. By being the one who decides where your group goes you display leadership qualities and people will want to be around you. you would have generated LOADS of pre-selection.. DHV stories are now pointless... These are the people you want to know. and who you want to know you. what's up?" would suffice. your very name becomes high-value (<<< exaggeration. You become that "Go-to" guy.. By doing this you will also become a social bridge. Once you have a successful social circle who you regularly go out to events with you attain a whole new level of social value. chances are they will show up and even if they don't show up.maybe). Bridges have a currency and it's fun. ---Building a Social Circle--Once you have become a social bridge you can begin selecting who gets to go to events with you. or show up alone once you have shown that you can deal in their currency they will begin to invite you out with them as well. it could be an HB. thus they give off a bit of value they are useful in social circles. Introverted people can be friendly. It doesn't matter who they are. giving you hugs.. Be the next best thing. Social dead-ends are the ones you would be wise to steer clear of. giving you kisses. be the new friend. Mention a cool band you know will be playing at so-and-so. Pre-selection makes the girl WANT to be with you. Just by having a social circle which will undoubtedly be filled with hot girls and by the countless girls that come to you looking for fun. this is when you can begin actual social circle building.could be a boy. these people were probably not your friends anyway. they could come too. Bridges are always looking for social events to take his/her group to. always seeking the next best thing. it could be an ug.this is the emo guy who slits his writs that sits way in the back of the classroom with his head down and his music blasting. attempting to get a piece of your value. From there. mention a party you're going to the next Friday and invite them to come along and if they have friends. Going to a party with your group of high value buddies shows that YOU are also high value and people will gravitate towards you at the party. the one that people go to if they want to know what's happening that weekend.
ALWAYS be cocky & funny. initiate kino even while you are building your circle. ..remember if a girl is in your social circle they don't have to be LJBF so don't treat non-LJBF girls as LJBF girls.yours.and please for the love of god.. don't hypnotize her.....
Amogging and Dhv's Another big misconception is that you should try to be Alpha and always try to Dhv and always best the girl no matter what. where'd you get it? Here.Misconceptions of PUA: Reddog Hey guys.If she has to go to Yoga/Her Job/a Wedding/a Luau in 15 minutes. then just # close and go.Don't just go "I can DHV here by telling her a story about YOGA/my job/A wedding/a Luau!" It'll just be annoying. (In a mall) Pua: Excuse me. D-Deangelo) and that was me too. You also don't have act Alpha all the time. and Misconceptions one may have.(Mystery. Direct game can be useful too. Now. In fact. Let game flow Naturally. But. Alot of guys starting out in pick up only learn Indirect game. the PUA shows interest. You don't have to try to dhv every two seconds. When in comfort. such as replacing the dress with "you" and getting rid of the end. I. Indirect is used in: Clubs/Bars Dances Parties High energy locations(Raves?) Direct is used in: The Day Malls Commons.Just vibe and stuff. Direct game is the other side of the coin. RedDog here for HSPF. some Direct openers are more forward. you kill your chances. Parks etc. can you answer this? A good friend of mine just found out his girlfriend made out with another girl in a club. Direct game. Indirect game is defined as anytime an opener is not focusing on the fact you are attracted to the target.I'm here to talk to you guys about Indirect game V.E. just be chill and don't try to best anything. PUA:You're girl(s). Indirect and Direct are (usually) used in different settings. An example. I know this is weird but I saw that dress and thought that'd look good on my sister. is this considered cheating? See how no (romantic) interest is shown towards the HB(s)? Now. DO NOT OVER DHV! I can't stress that enough. If you're in comfort. you don't have to be Alpha. Now. Alot of guys worry about "Oh is this a Dhv? Is this stripe on my shirt a Dlv? Is my friend a DLV?" Huh? I game to have fun. it can sometimes kill your game. not to worry about Dh(l)v's! RedDog . no need to prolong it. NO! A big part of Direct game is more comfort oriented. If you all of the sudden kill the vibing.
He does what is right. but don't be an asshole either. and this just gets you stuck in LJBF zone at best. and often does not give value. He likes himself just as he is. The Attributes of an Integrated Male *Strong sense of self. don't be a woman's bitch. and have a problem-free life" And even when this above paradigm is ineffective (which is usually always). find a happy medium. get my needs met. and expressive of his feelings. Paradigm. nice guys see one alternative. *He knows how to set boundaries and is not afraid to work through conflict. Why being a Nice Guy is bad: Nice Guys are often terrible listeners because they are too busy trying to figure out how to defend themselves or fix the other person's problem. *He has integrity. Nice Guy: OhMega This is just for those who are recovering nice guys and how to get out of that trap. To try harder. Doing Something Different For any nice guy out there. the set of all inflected forms based on a single stem or theme. esp. A nice guy often takes value. Because of their fear of conflict. In layman's terms.Self-Focus No More Mr. not what is expedient. direct. *He is a leader. Accept yourself as being perfectly imperfect. you will need to become an "Integrated Male". you will need to do something different from what you have been doing. *He can be nurturing and giving without care taking or problem-solving.a set of forms all of which contain a particular element. The Nice Guy Paradigm: "If I can hide my flaws and become what I think others want me to be then I will be loved. *He is comfortable with his masculinity and his sexuality. nice guys are frequently dishonest and are rarely available to work all the way through a problem. . *He is clear. *He takes responsibility for getting his own needs met. Being integrated means being able to accept all aspects of one's self. He is willing to provide for and protect those he cares about.
Without further ado.. but as I returned to them every few weeks or so. NOTE: These are notes I wrote to myself. nor even any great man. Mandrake's Notes on David D's On Being A Man PART ONE 1. and we can keep coming closer and closer. Introduction Being a man (inner game) is the FOUNDATION of all the other David DeAngelo (who will now be referred to as DD) products 2. Now it's really fricking long. but I still decided that you would all really love it and find it helpful if I posted it. mature. At first. It used a lot of really equivocal and undefined terms and didn't do a great job of explaining them.. in control. I didn't expect to ever post this online when I wrote them. The Boy Must Die Make a clear picture of what results you want/how you want to be. if only we put our minds to it. to try to remember everything I had learnt from the program. Hopefully it will really help with your understanding of that elusive personality: the real Man. so parts will only make sense to me. So enjoy Some of the notes are direct transcriptions of what David D said. 3. Being A Man What is a man? Strong. it was pretty ambiguous and didn't actually teach you the steps to becoming a man. shouldn't be weak. I should probably explain that I’ve deified the “Man” in my mind. He is not just any man. NOTE: Before we go any further. but we can keep trying. but hopefully much much more worthwhile for you than my original notes. It's unedited. A Burning Desire . so if you see spelling and grammar mistakes just PM me. the notes sucked. (add more when you think of them) 4. but most of them are just little notes and freewrites that I wrote for myself. cool. I'll be honest: even though it holds a warm place in my heart because it was one of the first PUA products I ever watched. once I actually got good with women and could see the matrix and understand what he meant. But I wrote down notes for myself anyway. decisive.How To Become A Man: Mandrake These are annotations and little notes I wrote down in December when I watched David DeAngelo's "On Being A Man". I continued on from the notes and added my own thoughts and interpretations of what David D meant. but rather a combination of all great men into something even greater. There is a chance that it is impossible at this stage of human evolution for any man to become a Man.
e. which is magnified by the inability to attract women. alone. gangs. missing a critical set of elements. Neoteny & Maturity Neoteny is the "retaining of juvenile features into manhood" A man remains a boy not because he does not want to become a man.with no map or hints to find them These elements are a few of those that make a man without manhood..It seems as though there is an invisible barrier blocking the path to manhood. And women can instantly spot out men who aren't really men. being a Man. The Boy Must Die Pt II The caterpillar must die for the butterfly to live. buying things for them. Make sure you consciously attempt to internalize NLP.. Here's the elements: -we didn't have a father around so we had to be the man and raise ourselves -we were emasculated by overbearing fathers -we were spoiled by well-intentioned mothers -had no process of 'initiation' at that critical time -we went through 'pseudo-initiations' like sports. We have a very odd societal definition of manhood. Wouldn't be great if you didn't have to be fake (i. The caterpillar can become the butterfly but the butterfly cannot become the caterpillar. 7. Use them only at the beginning. etc.)? If you could be content being yourself around women? If you could be an attractive version of yourself? We're talking about the deeper meaning of the word 'man'. and fraternities -we made it into adulthood. A man in highschool is the man who fits the physical stereotypes and aggressively ridicules his opponents for the position of the alpha male by shooting them down with insults until the point when they have brought everyone else down to a level that is below them. It is because they have not been initiated into the structures of manhood. SS. I'll figure out how to better next time and work harder. . etc. Males tend to believe that anything bad comes from luck and anything good comes from something inside and from our own skill. Most mammals are less helpless at birth. Not the definition of 'man' specified by age alone. This is VERY powerful to understand because if you act COUNTER-INTUITIVELY and attribute the good to luck and to the bad. Critical Missing Elements We aren't told how to become a man by society. It is a total transformation with no return. You see on the discovery channel newborn buffalo walking around and running within minutes of birth. boot-camps. This is not a healthy social structure. C & F. say "it was my fault. 5." you will gain HUMILITY and RESPECT. complimenting them. Techniques are training wheels. This is scientifically proven. 6.
The boy who grows up but isn't initiated into manhood often winds up living a life fighting childhood demons rather than continually developing into a fulfilled. it will return to haunt you. Man Psychology 1.We seek initiation into adult rites. a manipulator. this was the slaying of a lion. and responsibilities. Misogyny is the hatred of feminine qualities in women. When you integrate you. is a cheater. how you your life change? How would you react? Is that what you would want for yourself? Carl Jung: Anima vs Animus All humans have some presence of the opposite sex within them. full-fledged man. It seems that a formal transition into manhood must be assisted by older men and the transition is perverted when no ritual is present. beneficient. but you are able to transcend it and it is unable to dominate you. spirituality. it is still a part of you. because we want one with more structure. We crave a deeper consciousness. and the self-image of "loser". Read Sir Thomas More's To Be a Man 11. a less confuse identity. Women That Piss You Off It's okay to be pissed off at those women who go around with t-shirts that say "Bitch" but not okay to be pissed off at women because they rejected you or you think they are too good for you. Homophobia is the hatred of feminine qualities in men. In some African tribes.What are you hiding from yourself and from the world? 4. sexy.Where are you not demonstrating integrity to yourself? If you don't trust yourself you'll have a hard time trusting others 3. Procreator 9. The Initiation Process Primitive cultures practiced initiation rites that boys must pass through before becoming a man. If you repress it rather than integrating it.Where am I not being authentic? 2.WHY?: What does it mean to become a man? One definition: stoic. If you woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex. it is the Bar Mitzvah. The Men's Movement is naturally feminine men telling men to be more feminine. . 8. doesn't confront it because it's too scary. Attracting Women The BOY that CAN"T attract women avoids and represses the fact. courageous. 10. depression. Provider. in Judaism. The Men's Movement Feminism is naturally masculine women telling women to be more masculine. 12. independent. Protector. The BOY that CAN attract women has spoiled behaviour. strong. He has a low self-esteem.
These are warriors and iconoclasts. the handshake interrupt) Practice doing the right thing (not necessarily ethically the 'right' thing) so that you become programmed to start doing it.) to find and list the negative little acts you do and the negative frames you allow and begin to think of ways to reframe each of these situations. don't go against the grain. 13. who can't go anywhere because they want to go away from what they don't want. In a contrived. There are people who are stuck. Then allow yourself to become a self-sufficient man. You are enjoying every moment with a high degree of intimacy. Then there are those who move with the crowds. Know Your Path (and STAY on it) Read and Highlight Dave Deida's If you follow your heart purpose. start (with a friend. Some of these descriptions can overlap. has a deep grief that he usually won't address and can be characterized by the phrase: "I am a failure at one of my basic intrinsic purposes. Galileo went towards what he wanted even though it was against the crowd. The MAN that CAN't attract women feels as though he is less than other men. Do you have the "Disease to Please"? DD says that this is a psychological problem.g. use the method that you contrived until it is internalized. They go with the flow and don't create any waves of their own. Then there are those who go against the crowd. Staying On Course (screenshot) 2. rehearsed way. Just look at Mystery or DD. MENTOR TO OTHER MEN. PART TWO 1. . Then each time you are in that situation you listed. [ I had this for a while. SOURCE OF GROUNDING ENERGY. When you do a lot for somebody and then get mad at them for not appreciating it. Then there are those who go towards what they want. Critical Counter Intuitive (screenshot) Think of all of the little things that are completely intuitive and begin looking at how you can change them to make them counter intuitive (e." The MAN that CAN attract women has STRENGTH. and a tyrant. Interacting With Other Men A man can comfortably interact with other men. you become complete and full. Now admit to yourself why and how these things are unhealthful. and LIVING HIS PURPOSE.arrogant. 15. is a PROTECTOR. still do with one of my sisters] 14. Getting Approval List the things that you do subtly to try to get attention and approval from others? The things that you think no one notices. Write it all down. a LEADER. Just admit it. Most men don't have healthy or healthful relationships with their father. These are the successful men.
Then list the number on a scale of one to ten that that thing will improve your life. and make them part of your everyday life rather than deep within you. Get in touch with that 'WHY'. Think of what you admire in men right now. that reason you got in in the first place (i. Now think about what you love about women. spending more time with his best friends). say "This is your day. 7.5 Circle of Male Development . in DD's case. Your Inner World Think about a kid from your childhood who you really liked. whenever you are in a rut. these are parts of you. then goes on suicidal rampages and drug overdoses. and what you hate. This is unrealistic and immature. it is just much less obvious than the change failure brings. as long as you learn from whatever has happened (e. Write down three things you enjoy.e. All those good things. and one you didn't like. List ten things you want. ideal life' of PU. These are the things is you.g the rich man: "Whoa. no injustices. Write the things you have forgotten. Refuse to give anyone the power to take your joy from you. to get women. Refuse to be a victim. There is a difference between joy and enjoyment. Importance Of Dad 6. This is why you need inner game. know that you will always be able to get out of where you are ––– that in fact. Success in one area of life is not compensation to the other areas of life. Each day you wake up.3. life's rough.g. Then remember how to enjoy the things you enjoy. power. those with sudden success. There are no mistakes. no problems. Take Personal Responsibility –––for yourself.g. should give a guy enough that he should never be allowed to complain about anything. Then remember WHY you chose the path you're on. Don't let anyone take it from you.) who have things like money. Write it all down. they are the things you simply do (e. your thoughts. even if you don't want to. You're projecting it onto them. Then notice that the things with the greatest returns are not the material items you choose to buy. you just need to be aware of them. And don't take it too harshly. 4. Self-Improvement A lot of people forget who they are and what makes them happy when they are on this 'new." the poor man: "How would YOU know? We think that the solution that would make us happy is the solution that would make men happy. Think of the rock star who gets as many women as he wants. and women." 5. and what you hate. to become a 'man'. analyze how you got there and learn from it). Success never solves INNER problems when alone. NOT to compete to be the best PUA and throw your life out of control for the wrong reasons). E. 7. the change success brings is very painful and dangerous. The things you said you hated are the dark side of you or holes that you are trying to fill. your situation Learn to see how the choices you have made have led you to where you are. you always will get out of where you are. Sudden Success Syndrome is the delusion that men (esp. to feel validated. Carl Jung called these projections. Think about what you liked in your dad and what you didn't like. Additionally.
13.Men are taught to act tough and not show their feeling.. authenticity. secure maturity. you will learn the same things. then they can experience all the deeper emotions and begin the process of rebuilding correctly from the bottom up. 8. begging. who has his power. and wisdom? Is your personal power rooted in scarcity or abundance? 9. insecure. 12. once a man learns how to keep his power. All that power becomes inaccessible over something as small as a key.. he does not want the same type of woman whom he wanted before. 9. Leverage points like this exist in humanity. to connect to your true feelings. and thus cannot take advantage of the power of the motor and car... 11. adult men and treat them as worthy allies and adversaries or do you secretly harbor thoughts of superiority or inferiority? (Both are bad) Is your ability to persuade based on whining. Emotional Imprints Challenges In Life Individuation More Personal As you mature.Men give away their power to women in order to seek approval even though women don't want men to give their power away. Grief is the Doorway to Feeling In other words. a starter. You . Interestingly. masculine.or is it based on credibility. If the key is broken. Most people try to work on the car when there's a problem. 14.5 Questions About Your Father What What What What What What have you not communicated to your father that you needed to let him know? have you not admitted? have you not said? has he not said to you that you've needed to hear? have you always wanted to hear from him? have you hated hearing from him? 10. but they don't look to see if the problem is at a different level. you'll probably need to allow yourself to feel grief first. or tantrums . The archetypal 'manly man' is a stoic. a motor. tyranny. They want a mentally strong man. then you cannot take advantage of the power of the starter. Levels Of Energy Think of these different levels: an ignition switch. but think of the leverage difference. A Look at Power Where is our own personal power based? Is your competition with other men based in a powerful.000 pounds of metal become useless because you can't find the 4 ounce piece of metal. The "energy" that powers the archetypal structures may be far lower than the energy that powers a muscle. When men allow themselves to feel grief.or is it based in weak. and a car. overcompensating immaturity? Do you respect mature. The men who keep their power attract women. The 4. but take different lessons from them. at least not on the inside..
More .so we'd always argue. the more universal it probably is... E. 16. you're so lucky. Clarity Be clear and lucid. Maybe not completely.." If you just say "I understand. Remember: "the more personal. then be transparent. Don't make anything up. Think you deserve it because you want it and you're willing to do the work to go get it. then be understood." If you have something you can't fix.. you're not good at arguing.it's very liberating." When Women Do Things Without You Don't get jealous. Feature Your Insecurities Til You're Over Them Practice making cocky jokes about them when you first meet a woman and are flirting. say: "Wow. About where you are in life. but be certain. Realize that each of your insecurities is common. 15. Pull a David X: Girl with push-up bra and low cut shirt/dress "What are YOU looking at?" David X "I'm lookin' at your TITS. Language Of Manhood Deserve: If you don't think you deserve to be with many women. you won't be with many women. and it WILL be the best night she's ever had. mad or sad. Get over the feeling of loss when people do things without you that are enjoyable. "This is never going to work out. E. cultivate the ability to enjoy things on your own. PART THREE 1. Certainty that she will sleep with you. Have certainty in all areas. No "umm"s "ahh"s and "like"s. This screws their whole game up." Don't go: ". Certainty No maybes.g.oh.. feature it. and I'd always win. To encourage THEM to be independent. and I overcompensate for being to short by acting arrogant. More: Acting based on what you think she'd think if she knew what you were thinking is a MISTAKE. Men tend to think that if a woman knew their thoughts that they'd get kicked in the nuts.. Have no insecurities with the faith that you are not alone. the more universal".." "Seek first to understand. Speak clearly and intelligently. About how you are going to get there. If she's going to a concert with a friend." or "Can I come?" Instead. It's mature to allow others to live their lives and enjoy experiences without you. Realize that your own individuality is a gift that you can appreciate more than anyone. The more personal something is to you." you actually break rapport because usually you don't really "understand" and they know this. Speak with conviction. The other side of the coin is knowing that you can enjoy your life without needing others to validate your enjoyment.will read a book and derive a completely different meaning. Be certain. Certainty that you're honest and authentic and transparent.g. About where you are going. 2. Avis: "We're only #2 so we try harder. Be proud of who you are.. Don't think you deserve it because of all the injustices that have befallen you.
sneaky. wishing and leaving things to luck. you can move forward with strength and confidece. a mature man has though through all the possible situations and acts accordingly. and fear of pain leading to death. and only lives for the moment and for instant gratification. there is also the part of the story where you return and share you knowledge and journey's tales.. Pretending Forethought vs. 5.) -Disagreeing with people to show your superiority -Being a "know it all" so that people will give you approval -Saying and doing things to win attention and approval. Becoming A Man Means Giving Up: -Throwing emotional tantrums to get attention -Correcting people because you need to feel important (if you correct someone. then you're on THE RIGHT TRACK. 4. These fears are strong in our bodies because thousands of years ago they helped us avoid situations that might have actually caused death.instead of guessing.. and calmly. say: "Wow. Manipulation "A sign of a mature man is forethought" ––– Aristotle Part of maturity is thinking of future events all the way through with discipline. then it becomes unhealthy because you're letting the Boy-Man use his manipulation for instant gratification rather than long term happiness.." Saying that in a funny way will gain you respect. You must give them up COMPLETELY. not more. By doing this. not for YOUR ego. If the feeling inside of you is one of strength. When you've thought scenarios through.. then you're allowing the Boy-Man inside of you to run things. Become aware of your IMMINENT DEATH. Don't let the fog get into your head. mainly from men. The immature Boy-Man thinks he's done this. even when it's all around you. naturally. knowing that you've planned for most of what could happen. authenticity. and the odds are on your side. The TEST you can APPLY at any time is simple: Ask yourself if what you're doing feels manipulative.. I was just whining like a little bitch. or dishonest in any way. If you do something you notice is whiny or bitchy. but he hasn't. 100%. Keep Death In Mind Daily Overcome your fear of death. (NOTE: For good forethought. Maturity vs. you free up your mind and can deal with the odd exceptions when they arise. not add value and genuinely help a situation -Never brag for validation from others. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't use patterns and canned kiss closes and so on to get past sticking points but if you begin to rely on them completely and you let them BECOME PART YOUR IDENTITY. If it does.which will ultimately lead to a feeling of less fulfillment. 3. do it for THEIR learning.just never brag These are all from the Boy-Man inside. and wanting to add to your woman's life experience and joy. you need good understanding) With women. think clearly.. Today. almost all those things are gone.importantly. Know that time is . This multiplies the feeling of fulfillment: returning to help your brethren. The Boy-Man uses tricks and techniques to manipulate. so we can USE the thought of death to enjoy LIFE more. From Hero's Journey: Once you go out and leave on your journey.
the meaning of anything becomes positive. it gives you the ultimate context for considering everything. Enter a relationship to improve an already great life. From Hero's Journey: To become a son one must first become a prodigal. rather than escaping into a relationship. and keep it in the forefront of your mind. destroy the attraction in a relationship Switch to: Build a happy single life --> Prefer and choose to be single --. but the truth. The code of samurai states the many benefits of keeping death in mind at all time 6. and use it as a method for happiness. and so that you can be at your best with your mate. build a personal life of your own. In order to do these. you have proven to yourself that you can overcome the biggest fear in life.. When you conquer your fear of death. In a relationship. they could have CHOSEN to enter the relationship. and every aspect of life leads to gratitude. On the other hand.your most limited resource and make the most of what little time you are given. Alienation before reconciliation. with life as your context. Every meaning and value is relative to something else. You can also fear what will happen AFTER DEATH. PREFERRING not to be with a woman. causing claustrophobia --. When you make your life the other person. it becomes an emotional blanket. The belief of heaven. not to be your life. NOT IN YOUR MIND 7. There can be no homecoming without leave taking. the belief that you and your friends and your family will all be together again after death. Live Now. When compared against death. That you are not alone in death. leave solo and enter another country. another land. Know that is a part of life. give away power. death becomes a repressed fear haunting your nights and dreams. Had they done this. When you overcome all the fears related to death. can be extremely comforting. we need a reference point to start with.you need to be a whole without them. Build a life you love. Don't Put it Off: DON'T WASTE TIME DO THINGS THAT GET YOU INTO YOUR BODY. Choose a relationship --> Choose a marriage or long-term relationship Make your single life so fantastic that you almost don't have time for a relationship. is that you will never know until then. so you can enjoy life all the time. however painful it may be. That it is inevitable. But the level PAST overcoming your fear of death is the level that embraces the reality of death. Most Men Weren't Happy Single First They did not enter a relationship from a place where they were content being single and alone. the most painful and uncomfortable situation becomes a gift. You can address your issues around it. Fill your life with so many things you enjoy that it almost becomes a difficult task fitting a woman/long-term relationship in. becoming familiar with the thought of it without any fear. . Why Death? Because humans primarily do two things with their minds: make meaning and ascribe value.. until your life is over. whether it is true or not.. Build a Happy Single Life: Most men: unhappy alone --> find a woman to cling to --> hold on too tightly.
8. Breeding Distrust .the deep root. you go to yourself. style. strong and sturdy foundation -TRUSTWORTHINESS/CREDIBILITY 10.e.. values. 9. THE QUALITIES OF MALE MATURITY: -A balanced perspective -An attitude of non-judgment -An understanding that everyone has a positive intention -A powerful sense of self -An air of stability. boundaries when dealing with: -Other influential persons (e. keep your values. Where do I lose composure in life? Where do I reveal a lack of clarity in my path. Masculine Self-Image -Self Concept -Self Assurance (when you need to be assured of things. controlled)/Gluttony -Humility/Pride -Patience/Anger -Justice/Greed -Faith/Lust -Fortitude/Sloth Your unique combination of these make up your CHARACTER. treat your boss with respect. but don't treat him as if he owns you) -Women they're dating (i. refinement -beautiful women -power and high-status people -paradox and uncertainty Composure in the face of: -Competition from other men -Loss or setback (they're part of life) -Conflict or drama -Tests from women Clear path. no tyranny in the house of David D) -Your own life Exercise: Ask Yourself? What makes you uncomfortable? Write down three things.g. keep your values and ethics strong) -Other men (i. not others --speak to yourself) -Self Interest -Self Comfort (can you comfort yourself when situations are intense? Where's your grace under pressure?) Signs: Comfort in the presence of: -Class. Outward Signs Of a Real Man Elements of a Healthy.. Seven Virtues + Vices Ponder these: -Love/Envy -Temperance (balanced.e. values and boundaries? Write it all down.
Don't... 11. Double Identity Many young women have double identities. They have the good girl and the bad girl, and sometimes men are trapped into only seeing one of these sides. A mark of a mature man is to be able to see that there are different sides to a woman and having the ability to make a woman feel accepted for who she is. Incidentally, this does not imply that a man must "tolerate" or "accept" second-class behaviour, low morals, or poor ethics from a woman. Men tend to see woman as angels, but don't see the bad. Some of the mPUAs know to look for specific little indicators that these HB10 "angels" were once strippers, or hookers, or acted in porn, etc. The ones that were once very 'bad' will certainly still be bad or pretend that they never were bad. Under that logic, it seems rational to state that many of the women who seem like angels are the ones with the DARKEST parts of them, in comparison to most other women. 12. Renaissance Man -Women complain that there are none left -it embodies the concept of actualizing all the different dormant potentials in every man -it implies that being a master of many different areas of life (physical, logical, emotional, artistic) ...as well as a habit of learning one thing after another, on a lifelong quest of selfactualization, improvement, and enjoyment. -Areas to develop include art, psychology, science (watch the Teaching company's "Physics in Your Life" DVDs and remember what you learned), music, philosophy, writing, performance, dancing, (keep writing more as you think of them) 13. Clues You're Dealing With A Real Man -An air of approachableness -A "never let them see you sweat" attitude -An unwillingness to accept second class thinking and behaviour from others -Mentor to younger men (start mentoring younger men) -Pillar of strength and security in self and values -Defender and protector of those less able to defend and protect themselves -Encourager and challenger of those not living up to their potential The real Maximus (from Gladiator) in history had self mastery, led men, had a steadiness of purpose, gravity with charm, did any task without making a fuss. What he said was what he thought. Nothing surprised or frightened him. He never seemed to be in a hurry but was never slow to accomplish something. He was neither intimidated and embarrassed nor aggressive and suspicious. So giving, forgiving and loyal, was he that his virtues seemed to be inborn rather than acquired. It is unimaginable that, any men felt superior or inferior to him 14. External Qualities -Mysterious Confidence (comes from within but mysterious because people can't understand how you can be that cool all the time, it makes them want to know more about you) -Humour (a tool of great power. e.g. to purposely create sexual tension and then break it with humour) -Wit (intelligent, snappy, focused version of humour) -Charm (pleasing personality and warmth, a great voice helps too) -Sophistication (reading the classics, knowing the names of movie directors, understanding
many arts such as film and theatre and philosophy.....I.E. high degree of CULTURAL LITERACY) ( <--- A sign of maturity, though not always a necessary one) -Leadership (learn leadership - there are a ton of books on leadership and many of them are fantastic) -Class (sign of maturity) (e.g. walk away from a bad business deal with a handshake) (e.g. speaking well of people in public even if you think they're a jackass who did something terrible --- there are exceptions to this, such as Hitler, and also you must be careful to not let people walk all over you just because they know you have to much class to tell someone. Also, you should be very careful that it's not out of fear that there will be bad consequences if you speak badly of someone. ) -Chivalry (the THEATRE/ unspoken roleplay of you being the KNIGHT and her, the DAMSEL) (+ little things e.g. opening the doors for her, pulling out chairs for her) -Style (real style is about developing your own style, not the common "style is taking someone else's attire to cover up parts of your personality) -Smoothness/Grace (polish off the rough edges of your mannerisms and general personality) -Comfort (in ANY situation) -Composure (in ANY situation) 15. Elements Of Cool Cool implies a temperature between warm and cold...which, when applied to personality or attitude, implies neither coming on too strong, nor being overly stand-offish. A "cool" person isn't too excited about anything, isn't too affected by anything, isn't emotionally reactive, and has control of themselves. Questions DD asks himself a lot? -What is cool? -What is square? -How can I get one to understand the concepts of cool -How can a square learn to be cool? What is the way? Remember: A cool person can interact normally with squares but squares cannot interact normally with a cool person. These are good questions to ask on a regular basis during your development. The Elements of "Cool" : -Off-beat sense of humour -Sense of style, music, food, culture -Laid back and unaffected by the opinions of others -Not a "suit", a "square", a "cone-head", or a "nerd" -Casual dress, the trendy but not TOO trendy thing -Not obsessed with proper grammar...enjoys modern, hip words and slang terms (this is a big one) -Calm confidence....can pose a little, but has that composure... -Can make fun of themselves -Doesn't act "above" others -Independent and encourages independence in others (e.g. "Cool. Go have some fun.") -Assumes a "cool" connection with others by leaning/nodding head back as a greeting, saying "hey", "what's up?", "what's goin' on?", or saying nothing at all, just a head nod, etc. 16. Sexual Confidence Sexual Confidence is the key to being a "naturally attractive" man. It means knowing that a woman will have an experience with you that she will never forget. Sexual confidence comes from understanding the psychology and physiology - the physical, logical, and
emotional aspects - knowing how to touch, how to kiss, how to create anticipation, how to pleasure, fully get pleasure, RAVISH. The key is that an inner sexual confidence that comes from knowing you can blow a woman's mind in bed affects ALL of your communication. It literally colours everything from the way you hold yourself to the way you look at a woman to the words you use while talking. When you have it, women respond differently to you, see you differently, and often become somewhat anxious and excited about you. Make it a point to LEARN HOW TO BE AN INCREDIBLE LOVER, and cultivate Sexual Confidence. People with sexual confidence realize that all banter is foreplay. Every woman deserves to have one man in her life that she never forgets. And that man...is you. PART FOUR 1. The Real Man: -Accepts things as they are fully, no judgment - THEN sets out to change them -Can show his sword without ever killing people/using it/needing to use it -Doesn't need or use threats ––– Robert Bly -Is the pillar of strength, security, and protection in every situation -Allows, encourages, enjoys when other shine, win and progress -Needs nothing external to be happy Giving every part of yourself to a woman is stupid. Always keep at least one part of yourself "off-limits". Say, "I just need to set a boundary, ____________" Be the planet, not the star. Attract women into your orbit with your immense gravitational energy. When you become so solid that no woman can affect you, you affect them. It makes you authentic and transparent, making women feel your powerful, masculine energy. But it only works with perfected inner game. In Jenna Jameson's How to Make Love Like a Pornstar, she explains how she was incredibly attracted to a biker guy and obsessed with him because she wanted to find the sensitive side she believed had to exist. It drove her crazy in love, and sent her on a wild goose chase into his soul, and transferred all of the power of the relationship dynamic into his hands. 2. Dr. Paul Initiation --> Liminality --> Full Integration ---> Secrets of the Elders/Mature Masters Suicide rate is far higher for males than female. Many believe because a poor father-son relationship is much worse than a poor mother-daughter relationship. You need men more mature than you to help you as guides in the process listed above. Psychoanalysis and Religious Texts were once the only way to list principles of life. Enter Dr. Paul: -Happiness (but sometimes a kid will be happy playing video games, but it seems like somethings missing) -Success (golden handcuffs = wall street trader with no time to be happy) -Freedom (a homeless person and divorced person are both free, but they're not happy or successful) ===================== Durable Fulfillment (the culmination of the three) To get there , we need high character...but how do we get character
-Take full responsibility for your own destiny so that you may know where you are going. 8. Empathy. not sad that it ended. esp. your life timelines. Happiness Left Brain Decisions Questions Three Questions Final Thoughts -Accepting responsibility -Understand your intrinsic self-worth -Join a team in which there are other more mature mentors -Two Questions: Where am I going? Who will go with me? Don't mix up the order -Be able to reprogram yourself. SHARE THE RETURNS OF YOUR INVESTMENT WITH OTHERS BY TEACHING THEM EVERYTHING YOU'VE LEARNT ON YOUR JOURNEY TO MANHOOD. . 6. Humility. Death: "Be happy that it happened. to become more independent -Honesty. but most of all a sense of wonderment for all that is right and good in the world -He should not be trying to be an example because this will disturb his ethos and keep him from being such. -Don't do. USE THIS KNOWLEDGE EVERYDAY. 3. Fidelity.THIS PART CONTAINS TOO MANY COMPLICATED THEORIES TO UNDERSTAND WITHOUT THE DIAGRAMS AND EXPLANATIONS. and ethical. think of Philip Marlowe) GO OUT THERE AND GET A HUGE RETURN ON THE INVESTMENT YOU MADE THE MINUTE YOU STARTED WATCHING THE PROGRAM. Compassion.. 5.Four parts of psychology: Personal Boundary (mastery of this will make you 'durable') -Emotional Energy -Positive = Self Esteem (divided into masculine and feminine) (happiness) -Ideas/Intellect (success) -Decisiveness (-->wisdom-->freedom) Don't think someone else needs to lose for you to win. but ethical to a code that is true... Be... 7. not necessarily in accordance with the moral code of others. -True.. Do some soul searching and then write down your list of goals. just. Seuss LOOK AT THE MOVIE AGAIN. and reasonable to you (protagonist should be like this." ––– Dr. honest. and how you are going to achieve these things. 4.
I hope that really changed all of you for the better. And hit me with some feedback.WOW. So helpful for my game. and demystified what a Man is and how you can rise above other men to become one. it's always nice to hear if the post can be improved in any way ~Mandrake . That felt good to re-read.
Without those intentions.. Without intent. Happiness: Grape DISCLAIMER: The logistics of this post is mostly based off of pseudoscience and Bullshit Escalation. Consequence driven and Intent driven.Life. Focus. exactly that.. So intentions are really what make the world spin. there is no intention. you would have never been introduced to the crap. Driving Forces There are two driving forces of people and their actions. Life is about happiness. “Without intent.. what are your intents right now? Why are you reading this? What do you want? Life is full of intentions.” Happiness. Without happiness.” Hold it right there. We are forced by our instincts to have intentions of being happy. they would never have had the motivation they wanted to actually mate and reproduce. <33 Grape Intention – A function of the universe. Think about it. People will either do something because they WANT to or because they HAVE to (or else!) Consequences are fears of the potential punishments that await if you don’t do what is . Probably to be safe and be a part of a tribe or society. Without their intentions. What does it mean? Well. What do you think their intentions were? Probably to reproduce and survive. Let’s travel back to the age of our beloved ancestors from millions of years ago. Without intention. we would not be where we are today. This is why the successful are happy. Great book by a great guy. why in the heck do we have intentions in the first place? Well. and it’s important that they do. Intent. Why do you want it? “So that I can buy things. Rapport. Where did your pot come from? Who gave it to you? How’d you obtain it? Serious questions. And think about this computer you’re using right now. Who built it? Why would they want to build it? Why did people invent this computer? They had INTENTIONS of making technological advancements and making money to survive.” This is something I read in The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire by Deepak Chopra. Happiness is directly related to success of goals and making intentions become history. and without them. life is nonexistent. “Who cares? I want to go back to smoking pot. we would seriously cease to exist. Those drug dealers had INTENTIONS of making money. Now let’s get into the roots of the “How To” part. ask yourself why you want what you want. This is why the unhappy are so weak. life is nonexistent. Suppose it’s a $100 that you want. Without their intentions. Happiness BUT… But.” Why do you want to buy things? “So that I’ll be happy. They’re important! Everyone has intentions too. it will make sense on a subconcious level. However. there is no life.
Problem oriented focus vs Problem solving oriented focus Some people will just think about all the problems they have. Going to happen.” Problem Solving oriented thinking is: “I am fat. If you want to be happy. But they don’t focus on how bad things are as much as they focus on making the bad things stop and not happen again. They know they have problems. however. Just like driving forces.” He WANTS to lose weight. Focus Having the right structure of focus is also very important in obtaining happiness. Wanting: A Desire. So he GOES on a diet. It is directly related to Intention. Would you rather want a $100 or get a $100? (don’t answer that) But when you have an intention. Hasn’t happened yet.” You can already feel your potential happiness filling you up with emotions of joy. but Getting. then I will lose something. Not wanting. Other people. He has the intentions of going on a diet and exercising more. Getting: A Fact.” Start thinking “I want this. In the fat example. I’ll start going on a diet and start exercising more. Intentions are happiness seeking and do this out of passion. Life sucks. Gets results. you must be an intent driven person. Nonexistent. resulting in having intentions. Which one’s better? I’d say Getting. there are two ways of thinking about something. I want to lose weight. make sure you focus on the right thing. I want to lose weight. Never ending. Wanting vs Getting Another part of happiness is just simply wanting something and actually getting it.asked of you. They’ll go on constantly making themselves stressed by building up the tension inside them because of all their problems. It helps you get rid of your problems instead of making them worse. Let’s define the two terms in relevance. He has the intention to lose weight. . the problem solving oriented thinker says “I am fat. Intention vs Focus Focusing on SOLVING your problems is the best way to think when coming across obstacles. Instead of thinking “If I don’t do this. Historical. Getting. He focuses on solving problems. I’ll start going on a diet and start exercising more. and it’s all because I like to eat. It sucks and people always make fun of me because of it. and pleasure. Problem solved. I start to smell. so I’m going to get it. desire.” Yes. so he will become a happier man. So problem oriented thinking is: “I am fat. will be smart and think about how to solve their problems.
Thoughts are just a combination of memory and imagination. It fades away with time and it is forgotten. Happiness is an exchange of a powerful emotion. This meaning the more you can make others happy. (Because it can’t just come out of nowhere) What does this mean? It means that everyone has potential to make others happy. In other words. Differentiation Rapport: Commonalities. This means that the value of ego is never really there. Life’s about happiness. This value is historical because happiness is an emotion and emotion is not an opinion. Being better at something is a simple opinion. . But only the few that make others happy will possess the kinetic energy inside their bodies (emotions). One can GET HAPPINESS by having rapport value. two kinds. In other words. His desire to be better than everyone else never stops. the rapport valuable person is passing on his energy of happiness unto others. And thoughts don’t exist in physical reality. He is the source of happiness of others. It was never really there to begin with either. And it’s only in his mind that he is better than someone else at something. He always wants things. It means that there is an infinite amount of happiness in the universe and that it merely cycles through space over time. If people validate him. Intentions can turn into reality by focusing on GETTING what one wants. One will get true happiness only when he makes others happy. It exists. Ego value is the classifying oneself as different from others. It happened. the more happiness you will find out you possessed. Ego: Separation. A rapport building person gets validated from others. which requires energy. The action that people have validated him is a fact. the more other people will be happy being around you. Happiness can only be obtained by having intentions. Bonding. The energy of happiness was possessed by him and he passed it onto others. What is value? Once again. The Big Picture Here’s a summary of everything above. It’s a thought. thinking one is better or worse than someone else. So in sense. Rapport value can be obtained by making others around one happy. It’s true. It’s potential though.Ego Value vs Rapport Value Value. Which means it’s not historical or real or existent. Oneness “How does ego and rapport value relate to happiness?” Wanting + Getting vs Ego + Rapport Value An egotistic person always strives for more value. Everyone has that potential. Competition. it’s a fact that he has energy. Us. Togetherness. The feeling of happiness from making others feel worse is nonexistent because it’s not a fact but it’s merely an opinion. It was inside him the entire time. it fades away. Classification. After one dies. Rapport value is the potential amount of happiness one can bring unto others. Comparison. The first law of thermodynamics states that Energy cannot be created nor destroyed. It didn’t just appear out of nowhere. the more valuable you are. We. An opinion is not a fact. VALidation makes him VALuable. That’s against the first law.
I really hope you guys enjoyed this post. <33 Grape .
many of you are not confident with society. and then he is fairly confident that he will do well on his math test. Well this piece will be explaining why these beliefs are wrong and it will go through what beliefs really ARE true and are in the minds of women. and much more.Psychology of Naturals: Grape (pseudo) I. They get nervous that they might get rejected and that they may creep the girl out. what their hobbies are. You can save this time and do something better with your life. You naturally have value Hey. Did every single one of them need to memorize esp routines to get laid? NO!!! This article is here to get you thinking on the correct path of becoming a normal guy who happens to be good with women. You become sexual with women A big problem with many AFCs is that they just aren't comfortable with their sexuality around women. their social circle. This piece will go through how naturals think. Psychology of Why This Works a. how does this all fit into pick up? Well. that they are innocent and young. Spending Time Memorizing If you've taken the route where you spend a ton of time memorizing little 'esp routines' and 'negs' and 'openers' and so on. For example. He's gut nervous about falling and is not confident about his bike-riding abilities at all. you probably know what I mean when I say that it's a pain in the ass having to spend time memorizing these lines. You will learn that having a solid identity will be critical when it comes to meeting people and befriending them. or people in general. and that they don't like being sexual around most guys unless they're 'special'. <33 Grape II. shouldn't it be natural that you learn to become their ideal lover? I mean this thing will be going through what they want and what they don't want. This is because OTHER PEOPLE control their life. Psychology of Why Routines Aren't Effective a. So. They just don't feel a sense of self. the more confident he gains about the topic. AFCs has beliefs that women are not sexual for the most part. III. =] . the more confident you will become and you will be able to pick up women and be a social guy in no time. He studies for several days. why exactly they know how to control their life. There are billions of people out there getting laid right now. You don't feel confusion of who you are Many AFCs are used to fitting OTHER PEOPLE'S STANDARDS. Hope you enjoy. They constantly change who they are. a person is not confident he will do well on his math test. a child has no idea what to do in order to ride a bike. It's only common sense that you become the things that they want. Hey. But once his dad assists him and gives him knowledge on what to do. Introduction Guys need the confidence to talk to girls. Where does confidence come from? The more one knows about something. They don't have the confidence or knowledge to take charge of their own life and do it successfully. he is confident and can ride his bike without a problem. I will give you the knowledge that will boost your confidence in this project. women. after you understand how the women think. c. without faking his words. Another example. without having to be a slave to material and canned routines. b. and their entire lifestyle. look at it this way. The more you learn about society and the more correct things you apply to yourself.
PUAs who rely on routines always feel fake. They also teach that Guys are more sexual than girls and that guys are the more perverted ones. They really want it just as much as guys do. As I've mentioned in the intro. eyeliner. identity. straighten. c. How does one become a natural? Mostly through trial and error. and finish up. Here are some big ones: . and be able to NATURALLY attract women. or coming up with your own while just simply HAVING FUN and enjoying yourself with other people? I rest my case. A Feeling of Fakeness Like I have just mentioned. They're still faking themselves to fit standards. Women Love Sex Okay. spray. You want proof? Look at girls. the lipstick. look at them. Psychology of Women a. Okay. They naturally want to have sex with guys. how much mascara they should wear. That means you don't have to fake yourself anymore and change yourself to meet women's standards. passionately be active in your hobbies. IT'S NOT HELPING YOU WITH STRENGTHENING YOUR IDENTITY. They waste time learning 'magical lines' that supposedly help get a women to come to bed with them. They don't feel congruent with what they're saying. Lifestyle.. dry. let's start off with clearing up the biggest misconception of all. but you learn to enjoy life. love your lifestyle. confidence. the eyeshadow. etc. use straightening cream. Identity is vital. routines aren't the best solution to pick up. Would you rather spend the rest of your life memorizing routines. They feel confused with who they are. Shocking? I mean after all. and that they only have sex with guys they feel are 'special'. I'll be giving you the knowledge you need about women AND the knowledge about how naturals view the world and how they think. How much make up are they wearing? How tight are their jeans? How nice is their hair? How fit are their bodies? Do you think it takes no effort at all for them to dress pretty into extremely tight pants and that it takes only a few seconds to get their make up perfect along with the stuff they do to their hair? I mean girls have this weird 2-hour thing they do every morning where they shampoo. They are human too. we've learned in school that women don't like to be touched. lip gloss. condition. d. THAT'S just the HAIR! Imagine how long it takes for them to choose what looks good with what. knowledge and understanding leads to natural improvement of a subject. But I'm here to give you a boost with that. Honestly. It brings out congruence and passion. Enjoy. then what is? I say natural game. Incongruency By now you should have gotten the point that routines will make you feel incongruent. You are using stories and material that are not for the type of person you are! You start getting confused. It's VITAL. IV. Girls really have to put effort into looking cute for us guys. And as I've said many times before. Not only do you save time. So now some of you may be asking. they don't like to be teased with their sexuality. WOMEN LOVE SEX. and much more. Why do girls put in all this effort to look cute? Many reasons. These will strengthen your inner game.b.They want to get laid . And ask yourself. Gaming without Routines: Understanding Women. Wrong. Natural Game.
They want to be loved . Now the girl's reputation is completely ruined because of wanting to have sex just as much as the guy did. Joe will get jealous and angered. I just met her five minutes ago and she was really easy to bang. They need to make sure they can trust their partner won't go around saying "Yeah." Because think about it. Women don't just have sex with anyone. let's say Mary gets laid by a guy and Katy sleeps alone that night. . lonely and craving to be with a guy.) and the biggest reason: 2... word gets out. Something not right here.. b. I'm sure you've learned this already from the community. I'm still getting pussy.. They are bombarded by the 'slut' deal. That's all there is to it and nothing more.They want attention Whoo!!! Starting to make sense? When I first found this out I actually felt really bad for women and I respected them soo much for trying so hard to get a few "You look nice today" comments. Katy will call Mary a whore because Mary got some action that night as where Katy slept alone. They really want a guy to love them and they really want to get laid. Girls call each other sluts out of their own pure jealously and insecurities. (As mentioned in the above article. Women actually have it harder than us... so he'll say that Bob is a spoiled rich kid and that he's stupid. how many guys are considered AFCs when you go out? About. is bullshit. Well hey. they call the girl a slut. Girls don't usually do this. Now do you see why it's VITAL that you show her that you can be someone who she will be able to trust? Do you realize what could happen to her if she just goes around having sex with anyone she finds cute? I thought you would. Women Have It Harder Than Us Many people think that women can get laid without any effort at all and that guys need to work hard as hell to even get anything at all. They need to work hard to look good. even if this chick IS A SLUT. So now you know. I can't wait to tell my friends. 80% right? I'd say so.. This belief my dear friend. Ohh man. what'll he think? "Oh wow. Oh well. Let's say Bob gets an X-Box 360 for Christmas and Joe gets a pair of socks." Then he tells his friends.. why do they rant so much about how sex is for sluts and how girls who have sex have no class at all?!!" It's very simple actually. And here's why: 1. She has SLUT written all over her. It's EXACTLY like how kids call each other spoiled when one of them gets something more expensive for Christmas.. Well. but the term 'slut' came up from women to threaten each other because the one who had sex may have stirred in jealousy. and feelings of loneliness. if girls love sex soo much.. if the girl just goes "Okay! Let's have sex!" in the first moments of meeting an AFC. "But wait. she's a slut. insecurities. The proof is right in front of you. So that means the majority of the guys really don't understand what's going through a girl's mind because of the fact that they really don't give a shit and they just want some pussy..
The girls that were running their own form of social game. THIS is why girls try to look as hot as they can without coming off as slutty... You must understand that women are NATURALLY followers. sex. But should drunk sex really the only way for girls to get laid withOUT having to experience the slut effect? Of course not. they're happy as a duck. they might even go out to a party. Their big desire to make love is finally fulfilled after all that tension was building up inside them. This is proof that women will be active followers. getting value. Just remember. A friend of mine and I went up to random girls and asked for a kiss. They're not better than you. . THIS is why girls have such a sexual mind-frame. I'd like to announce the belief that WOMEN WANT TO BE DOMINATED OVER!! They just want to be controlled and lead on an experience of extreme passion and emotion. probably a man. and finally get laid. but they're not worse than you. And end up making excuses like "Well. They really want a guy to just fuck the shit out of them. They'll follow whatever leads them to having the biggest emotional sensation even if it's a pointless dramatic argument. Women Want To Be Dominated Over Branching off from the previous article. Women Will Kiss For The Kiss So now you understand how hard it is for women to go out and get some action.." But deep inside. It won't matter who it's with as long as the person she is kissing is someone who can amaze her just by asking for a kiss. fun. She just can't be the one asking. Great. But this is just a fantasy for them as much as it is for guys to wish they could just fuck the shit out of a cute girl. humor. due to the slut effect. That emotion will probably be something such as the one from drama.. but that activity will be decided by someone else. MOST families have a dad who works and leads the family and a mom who watches out for the children. Heck. I was drunk. right? This was proof to me that girls are plainly sexual and that they will Kiss for the Kiss. I'm trying my best not to come off as a sexist. girls are always desperate for some action as much as guys and have this overwhelming desire. However. some fantasies do come true. The girls that didn't have many friends around greatly complied. being cool gave us funny stares and gave us kisses on the cheeks. Think about it. pleasure. She really wants that kiss. Please don't be thinking "Wow. singleparents. they will be active on whatever activity they are doing. How do you think they feel about their situation? They are probably DESPERATE for sex. I'm merely trying to explain what NATURE has shown us within the past millenniums. Although there are some divorces. So ask girls to kiss! They'll say yeah! d. women are pathetic. get drunk. They want a guy who they can blame if something goes wrong or someone starts saying shit." Because they're not.c. Isn't it only nature that MEN protect their families and lead them to a bright future and that WOMEN nurture their families while letting the MEN lead them through their amazing life? Look at families today even.
Well. he will encounter this situation many many times.Survival Value) What's your goal in life? Is it to get laid? To become president of the USA? Become a rockstar? Whatever it may be. Women Respect Men More Than We Think A big problem with many guys is that they're always asking themselves. the guy you see who is always making others laugh and have fun. V. they are trying to say. So if you want a kiss. does s/he really like me? Am I making a mistake?" I've mentioned in the post above that men are leaders. However if you initiate fun conversations.. ego boosts are most efficiently gained through having fun and being fun! . She wants YOU to lead. e. Most men need some validation before doing anything. And that survival value is gained through ego boosts. she's attracted to you. it's not a sign of toying around with you. well here it is. They need to LEAD WOMEN into an emotional adventure. This is character I am going to talk about. there is one very important goal that everyone shares. Don't rely on a woman to be making decisions. or harsh but in reality. Many PUAs believe society is based off of survival value and replication value. If you want to date a girl. you've officially woo'd me. Having fun is something that will naturally boost your value and make you more successful and happier in life. When enough attraction is built. Now what are you going to do with me? Take me on a fucking adventure. that YOU are a MAN. "Why isn't she trying to kiss me or touch me or impress me!?" They think that women are being stuck up. and MEN need to be LEADERS. but he just doesn't know what the next step is. but they'll just sit there and wait for something to happen. This is because he'll be at the level where he really can attract girls.. a. they're showing a big deal of respect and validation! Once a PUA starts to recover. Enjoy your read. don't wait for her to kiss you." If you just sit there like a statue. confusing you. don't wait for her to ask you out. she'll get confused and leave. the guy you see who is surrounded by girls without even trying. You need to kiss her. Ask her out.. Not the highly moral father figure. Here's why. So when a girl does nothing but be close to you. She wants YOU to make them.. or acting all stuck up. He wants his target to do something first. and that is to Have Fun. When women do nothing and are intentionally standing very close to you or sitting right next to you. not the honest church goer. ask her on a date. a girl won't do anything! Really! Some may come sit next to you. This is horrible because both people are thinking "Umm. It's a sign that she respects you. play little tickling games. The recovering PUA is doing the same thing. The Point of Life is to Have Fun. bitchy. (Pleasure <. "Well.The point is.Ego Boost <. she'll get exactly what she asked for. and that she wants you to take her on an adventure. Psychology of Naturals My definition of a Natural: The guy you see who always has the attention on himself.
PLEASE DON'T BE STUPID. whatever. So it's self-explanatory what exactly is funny and what's not. Your subconscious mind won't be able to act congruently with itself. Fun is something that makes you smile and laugh and feel happy. This is how the natural thinks. It's annoying. People want love. and just act like an ignorant asshole to everyone? Of course not. This is really hard to explain in words. you will naturally have a healthier life and become a more attractive person. If you have the ability to text. is not funny to mainstream society. yeah! As long as it's not completely annoying and repelling. It's not something that makes you want to be accepted in society or whatever. It's something that every natural knows how to do. Focus on really having fun. b. This my friend. It may be funny to all the nerds. you will start to notice why so many people think it's weird that you find such things funny. disgusting. So if I want to be cool. Myspace. They're thinking "oh wow.. This is why having "texting" is soo important and that keeping up with others through Facebook. own a Facebook profile. but as you keep improving yourself. if he likes to blow people's heads off in video games. It's showing that you don't care what others think because you control your own life and this world is yours for the taking. and really pathetic. Lifestyle Naturals have this lifestyle where they are always socializing with others. But what is your goal in this situation?! Is it to be cool or really to not give a shit and HAVE FUN? Cool has soo many contradictions to it because some people say being overtly mature is the cool thing to do and others say maturity doesn't matter and that even acting like an immature 5th grader is fine as long as it's fun. etc. Many AFCs think that weird lawyer jokes are funny and that overtly violent video games are funny. Anyone that wants to avoid your world of fun is really stupid and much more immature than you.. you're saying that naturals can have immature fun and still get laid?" Well. what are the chances he'll be a violent person in general?" And violence isn't fun. So please don't focus on cool. They always have 5-10 people that they talk to daily as close friends. Now. Please don't think like a retarded child. I just have to have fun?" Yes that's exactly it. this kid is really screwed up. DO IT. You're shooting . Why is this? Well you really have to learn to put yourself in other people's shoes.What other way is there? Do you really want to have to 'manipulate' people and treat them like shit using canny negs just to boost your own value? Do you really want to go into a public forum that's trying to HELP YOU. "So. some of you may be thinking "Nice. like when someone's head blows off from a grenade. think like a normal child. is vital. just please don't be stupid when you apply this concept. and another 5-10 people to talk with maybe a couple of times every 2-3 weeks. Always. So what better way to boost your value (and others!) through having a good time? So just by having fun. like people they've just met. it's fine.
He knows he's cool. Natural Traits A natural doesn't make sacrifices." He will lie if he has to. They do it themselves. they'll hang out with a close friend. calling.yourself in the foot by not talking with others when you can." and continue walking. or just simply hanging out with people. The truth really doesn't matter for naturals. If he sees a waiter dropping a glass cup in a restaurant. They just care about if telling the truth will hurt them or benefit them. he'll stick with it and won't give a shit what you think about it unless you're offering him advice as a true friend. unless it comes off as intentionally funny. They're never just sitting and waiting for something to happen. He knows he's the shit. he doesn't freak out and stop talking about his important story. He doesn't get nervous about approaching people. they'll sit back and relax. So remember. they will. If they're in the mood to go on a date with a girl. he'll get what he wants and if they act stuck up to him while he's trying to have fun. He always puts himself first before anyone or anything else in the entire world. fuck you." or "I want to see you soon!" They always have something to do. he will probably not do it because it will keep him from benefiting himself because the police would be after him. They control their life. Also. he'll continue to talk just the way he was and simply dab something on the spill. He'll judge and say to himself "I better not hire HIM if I ever open a restaurant. This is why most naturals never pay you back for the $10 you loaned them. They don't rely on others to make them get what they want. even if it will hurt others. (self explanatory) He won't EVER change his beliefs for others. online. I'm still having fun! You can't change me! Nananana-booboo. naturals are always making plans with people. At all. If they're in the mood to just sit back and relax. So if they have to lie. he'll ignore it until someone else brings it up. he'll give them the face that says "Haha. If he spills some coffee on his shirt. This is because such things are not important to him. he'll pretend like nothing happened. If he smells something bad. However if it involves something like killing someone. He doesn't care if they like him or not. But he knows that showing off will make him lose his value. They know what they want and they don't waste any time doing it. he doesn't go "Oh gosh I'm sorry!" He'll say "Hey. It's just not a big deal. He doesn't freak out. a natural is always socializing whether it's through texting. He simply doesn't give a shit." But he won't make a big deal out of it like "Oh my gosh! That guy just broke a cup! Ohh man he's fucked now!" If he bumps into someone. Once he makes a decision. they'll go on a date with a girl. They don't talk about how much friends they have or how much pussy they get. If they're in the mood to hang out with a close friend. They're always saying things like "Let's hang out soon. . So start doing it! c. He'll do what will benefit him the most. He knows that cool people don't talk about how cool they are.
" This is just the mindset he grew into. But he's not thinking "I'm a big asshole. it's the fact that they are very very egotistic. EVERY NATURAL I've met is an asshole in many ways. Modeling The Successful Naturals do what works best. He really is a bit of an asshole isn't he? I mean. But these guys are seen as 'suckers' when it comes down to the point where YOU yourself need some money for lunch. Some you may be thinking "Wow. Think about every natural you have met that gets laid a LOT. They grew into this natural life of success in socializing since they were a child. He knows what to say. They were naturally generally successful in socializing within a matter of time.. and when to say it. A natural won't be the one you can truly rely on to do the favors that only true friends do for each other. They stayed away from what made them look bad and always kept to what made them look good.. honest. .. but he's the type of person who won't care if you forgot your lunch and need some money to borrow. WISE. NATURALS AREN'T PERFECTLY MATURE. hard-working people. So here's what it really comes down to: Do you want to be an egotistic natural who happens to be a LOT of fun to hang around with and get lots of pussy or Be a generally fun person who has a lot more morality than a natural and still be able to pick up women but just not as easily as a natural himself? It's your choice. Personality If you have not gotten the 'big idea' about naturals yet. There is a big line of difference between them actually. There are the few that do pay each other back and are respected for that. So many people have gotten naturals and alpha males confused with nice. this is an asshole. He won't commit to you. every natural I've met. He's egotistical and if there's no gain for him. He knows people a little too well and the fact that the MAJORITY of people won't pay others back. He knows he's hot. He knows how others feel. He is a really fun guy to be with and he's always giving off good vibes. Being a nice and honest guy is really cool and many people will respect you for who you are. I am merely explaining the natural's psychology. But a natural isn't him. how to say it. and that he's fun. It just NATURALLY happened. Ever since they were little. he can't help it. he won't do it. d. this isn't natural. A natural won't be the one who helps you up when you fall unless he's trying to show off 'how sweet he is'. he's awesome.He knows how to put himself in other people's shoes. e. where to say it. CARING PEOPLE. A natural isn't someone you can rely on. SMART. they have been surrounded by opportunities that they took and figured out what kind of person to become. He knows that he will come off as creepy in some situations and he'll know exactly how to make it seem like he's actually the coolest guy in the earth." You are wrong my friend.
he says "I've actually had sex 7 different times. they break up. Boom. My natural friend got a girlfriend and told her in the start of their relationship that he was a virgin.And even today they are constantly experimenting to see whether doing something will make them more attractive or less attractive. etc and eventually my friend also became naturally very attractive. but he convinced her and he hoped that this would make him a much more attractive person. especially after saying that he's a virgin. My natural friend grew up on Fresh Prince of Bel Air during middle school.. This is probably the most important trait of the natural because it will NATURALLY make you become more successful in life. share your thoughts. used his lines. I hope you guys liked this read. blablabla" and then he nevers says the "i've had sex 7 different times" line ever again. My other natural friend grew up with an older brother who was a PIMP. He acted just like him. etc." This was a lie. My friend was now a natural in real life. They always do what works and always avoid what doesn't work. He goes "aww this sucks. The older brother was his biggest influence. i've been wanting to date this other chick lately. After 3 weeks. <33 Grape . oh well. He would always use lines from Will Smith and always act just like Will. The point is that NATURALS ARE STILL LEARNING. Will was a natural on the show. All naturals model what works. They always do what's successful. please comment on it.
When we can cut the strings that attach us to our most deep-seated worries. . to be confident. The reason I appreciate this lesson so much is because when I was in eighth grade I did not have much confidence socially. A viewpoint that is possibly as wrong as it could be. my sense of self was not congruent with the image I was displaying to everyone else. you need to be who you are. “you”. which is directly related to confidence will increase. It is just a matter of finding your confidence. Essentially. I didn’t have much. quite different from the athletic shorts and tee shirts wearing kids you see walking around most of the time. become comfortable with who you are and who you want to be. but I spent most of my time being the person I thought other people wanted me to be. and just let go. our strongest fears. It was a new beginning and I changed. and I’m confident. and be happy with who you are. Sure I had plenty of friends. Your confidence comes from your sense of self. Be who you wish to be in every aspect. A fear of not succeeding is when confidence would factor in to the equation. Confidence is not something you can attain. but your self-esteem. Everyone has confidence. but beyond school. is the viewpoint many have on the possession of confidence. Rather than talking about how I learned how to treat others nice and all that elementary school crap. which can be the most difficult part of your journey. I wrote about confidence. Not only will this give you confidence. finding your true sense of self.A Lesson In Confidence: OhMega We read Tuesdays with Morrie in my "Contemporary Literature" class and for our final project for that unit. Become that person. “A valuable asset that many do not possess. and I wasn’t happy. and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I’m different. we had to write a personal reflection on a lesson we leaned. Then ninth grade came along. what makes you. and the fact that you are living your life how you wish to live it. and be confident. or just plain ignored. disregarded. Our confidence kicks in and for a moment we are free. Find your confidence. a fuel of sorts that can propel us to do the things we must wish to do even when we fear the action will be discarded. I was confident in myself in respect to academics because I had good grades. Deep down. will only help you in accomplishing your goals. I have my own style. it is something that you must find. such as the ability to lift a heavy weight. This is what I wrote: Confidence is something that lies deep within ourselves. and wish they did”. no problems. You can probably tell by my outright cockiness and gregarious nature that I don’t really care what people think of me anymore. and you can do what you were originally afraid to do.
Those thoughts own you in that moment. As soon as you try to show her all the things you can do. Do NOT try to impress women. If they find out later. find you’re self irresistible. If you do things to impress yourself instead of others and no one else cares about what you’ve done. The pot never gets sweetened and the guy with the pocket jacks gets very little to nothing because the pot never got sweetened. you will unconsciously push them away. Our beliefs make or break us and people don’t realize how important beliefs truly are. You could be having an amazing time with this girl. Just for one day. “Wow. no one should put you down. that thought will materialize and happen. you’re pushing yourself too hard on her and basically make her fold. When you try too hard to impress women. Build a cool life and be adventurous and fascinating. they will assume something is up. Only what you think should matter. Even though you can’t hear people’s thoughts you can feel these thoughts. In poker. and inner game is derived from our core beliefs. weaknesses. So he goes all in. you’re all right with that. If you believe girls aren’t sexually attracted to you. You want her to go all in. because guess what. seriously who wouldn’t love me? . but it shows that you have a great personality and don’t need a bunch of accomplishments to make others like you. For example. Everyone likes the guy who’s cool and humble and then goes to the gym and everyone sees him bench 300. she sees you as a needy wuss and will run for the hills. and not needy.Beliefs: Aaron4Prez Beliefs are thoughts we make real. They think you are overcompensating for something that she won’t like about you. Nothing’s real until we make them real ourselves. this is going amazing. People have instinctual intelligence. However. Not only does it say that you are extremely humble. No one else around you has the ability to judge you or the things you’ve accomplished because if you feel proud of it. even if you don’t want to. Face it. that’s real”. Every essence of our personality. there’s always one guy who gets those pocket jacks and he knows he’s got this in the bag. it’s only a matter of time before I screw something up or make the conversation awkward”. confident. Notice that if that voice inside your head says. The ability to love yourself and others no matter what happens is an ability that will take you tremendously far in life. but as soon as you get the thought of. that thought takes like a liquid form and starts flowing down your body and that thought becomes you. think of a negative thought you have on a recurring basis. Just think. No one likes the guy going around bragging he can bench 300. it’s better than you telling them. If you tell her about all this stuff you have and can do and try to show her you’re good for her. “yup that’s true. She’ll think that this isn’t the real you and this is just a façade to try to win or buy her romance. Beliefs are a tremendous driving force for everything we do. women want someone strong. Think of it this way. Do not tell others about your accomplishments to try and impress them. Everyone sees this and folds. strengths.
but guess what? You can’t do anything to change it. you’re talking to yourself about not talking to yourself . and powerful with the women you desire. What people don’t realize is that sometimes your mind is telling you terrible things that not even your worst enemy would tell you. You’ve got it pretty sweet so don’t sweat the small stuff. You need to stay out of the viscous cycle of pity and wallowing.. Even when faced with the worst thing. Your beliefs are so real and you are the only one that can make them into reality. but you never will if you don’t believe that you can get over it and that it truly has no effect on your life and the way you live it. . Even when you don’t believe you’re talking to yourself. always speak positively to yourself. But. I know personally that they work. your mind will change for the better and you will always have a positive outlook and never doubt yourself.well. find the silver lining. Your mind is focused on what you desire. Let these go. Soon. You go for what you want congruently and powerfully. What do they believe? They believe they see a fat girl when they look in the mirror when in reality they are rail thin. They come true. However. you are always talking to yourself. It tricks the mind. Look at anorexic chicks. Every day I tell myself these affirmations: Being with me is the best possible choice any woman could make. When you believe what you’re saying to yourself you could say you’re the Queen of fucking England and still act like it because you believe it. Beliefs become real. It’s because they believe something to be true so they see it. Always. LET IT GO. You see what you believe. When you believe you are the biggest stud on the earth you will find examples of this all over as long as that is what you believe. I could get on my hands and knees and beg for you to get over it. Life keeps on turning and it will keep turning with or without you. they should get the hell out of the way because there is an even better looking woman behind her who does want to spend time with me. Believe it or not. Seeing is NOT believing. STOP THIS.. People have it much much worse than you everywhere you go. Believing Is Seeing. Let it go right now. Affirmations work. There are tons of ways to change your ways of thinking for the better. only you can let these issues go. You radiate a confidence.Let your insecurities go. And guess what. That is the biggest lie. direct. It’s in the past or going to be in the past and the only people who will remember it is you. Whatever sucks about your life. always. If someone doesn’t like that. You are aggressive. Look around your life and see all the amazing things about it. you need to believe your affirmations. I don’t care what anyone else says. A few of these are positive self talk and affirmations. Always. Women need me and I’m just giving them a chance to get to know me and enter my reality. Whatever you believe about yourself you will see. self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive. yeah it sucks.
so why not reach for the stars and become something you’ve always wanted to be.Whatever you believe you will see. Your life is whatever you want it to be. Anything is possible as long as you BELIEVE it. . Always treat yourself with love and respect and you will get these back in return.
and being talkative. The longer I kept myself “in state” (if I noticed I was out of it I’d do something to go back in) the more I realized the truth of all this. This eliminates all self doubt and lets you act completely natural in the moment. This is the first real step to understanding this. how do you always have this energy to you. it forces us to be in the moment and act according to our gut and not our head. perform the role long enough and you start realizing that you’re no longer playing a role but that it’s now you. “There is no state”. It’s where we can truly be ourselves and act exactly how we want. We actually do this all the time in field and it’s when we see our greatest success. This is something we all desire and seem to achieve for brief moments in field after warming up or getting success. That feeling of pure confidence and uncaring. We use tactics for this such as acting upon our true desires and being congruent to it…such as opening direct or self amusement. A good example of this is the scene from 40yr old virgin where all he does is ask questions to the girl. How do I always stay “in state”? AFC Adam: Mate…there is no state. those words would ring in my head. “in state”. The only answer I have for this is it’s one of those zen things in pick up. You’re completely yourself while taking on this new role. or when I was just feeling down when out doing anything. Eventually I just “stopped caring” eliminating self doubt and living . being in state is simply being your true natural self. By eliminating self doubt you will always be “in state”. where we can do no wrong and all anxiety leaves us. When we talk about getting in state we mean getting into the zone. We really don’t go “in state” we only leave it. Finally I felt I understood and the rest of this article’s purpose is to explain my understanding. By starting many conversations. Whether it’s what he meant I have no idea though. While in that role. However there is no state.Psych Psych: I don’t get it man. This seems to go against the idea of when you’re in state you are your complete natural self though. is our natural place. Easier said then done though I know! The way to do this though is by taking on a high value “role” and staying in that role.Psych on Being in State: Mandrake . This was a part of one of our many conversations but unfortunately I never got to follow up with the logical reply. though without knowing exactly what to say other then a loose structure of ask questions. The thing is though that this way of being. The thing that brings us out of it though is self doubt. Never try to get in state again…simply go back to your natural way of being. “What the hell does that mean?!” After every mediocre night. You seem to always just be ON. without self doubt. Examples of roles I’m sure most of you have done are… -social experimenter -”alpha male” -self amuser -role playing with the girl as anything Along with any other role you’d like to try out! I did a challenge for myself to “be in state” for an entire week. he is all of a sudden a badass. or being “in state”. always “in state”.
and then you can adjust the role. If you have a hard time with this then imagine the coolest guy you know. or any other role in your mind then “state” is really no longer an issue. You realize there is no state…only your role. By being open to social feedback you’ll eventually see this. feel that emotion in that role. or PUA guru. You see a set and ask yourself “OK what would a guy in my role say here…damn I got nothing!”. Finally understand there’s a huge difference from being in a role. actor. This is because you’re not BEING the role. picture how he acts in different situations. the ideal self. or have someone point it out to you. Once you do this immediately just take on that role and keep it. you immediately put yourself in a self doubting situation. instead of just going off of what feels right while being in the role. changing and growing it eliminates self doubt since you will always act according to your role. Instead simply take on the role of the “attractive man” and live up to it. even if it’s a canned routine. When you are being the role you will experience the feelings of it and act according to what feels natural or what you wish to do. the attractive man. By thinking of what the role requires you to do. This way whether you’re feeling down or low energy you’ll still act according to your ideal role and will still be free from self doubt…being “in state”. once again leaving state. So how do you get started with this? First imagine your ideal self and all the characteristics that make him up. however the role itself does not change. Only thing is that the role you act according to now is not working for you and you don’t like it. While the role can. ----. If you’re the “attractive man” role for example then opening a set is a nonissue since it’s part of that role. the badass.according to my new mental role.Psych . When you think of the role you try to break it down. whether it’s a friend. The only other thing after this is to be open to social feedback and adjust the role accordingly. Experience how he sees the world. and always will be. If you’re always the 10. you’re acting according to a role you place upon yourself. You say you want to be natural and not live according to some role? The thing is that no matter what. If you experience negative responses then this just goes back to being open to social feedback and adjusting the role. No matter what emotion you’re feeling also. and thinking of the role. For example you might take on that “attractive man” role but then become overbearing and never letting anyone else talk.
now that I’ve already got enough girls laughing that I can pretty much say whatever I want and recover from it without too much trouble. not silver (I’ll try to post pictures later) I show up with a bunch of my friends.e. Everybody thinks that..(I hope). with a bright smile. Wearing -new dog tags (I have a story about how my sister who lives in Israel gave them to me.. because I’ve been laughing and adventuring around town for an hour with some of my boys doing funny shit. This was probably not as cool as I thought it was. Fuck.. That’s why when you only hook up with 8. Guys/afcs. looking back now.. I was wrong. This post is long. so I switch to natural. you end up actually getting more even though . just to get initial preselection and turn them into pivots/pawns. don’t remember which one. When you are already seen as attracted to a girl in a social circle. I didn’t even expect there to be many women there. [Pawning is approaching a set to covertly open the (hotter) set beside it] They fail the test (first time this has ever happened to me). It’s worth reading. but I tried to make it a helpful FR. the ten that I’ve been eying with peripherals from the beginning opens me. she catches me off guard with. After a while of talking. I warm approach a six and a seven.).. and the test works. Soon enough.5’s and up.. then they say the best friends test is BS.” Emma is an HB6 who I practiced some Style recommended technique on two weeks before.Personal Experiences Mandrake 05/04/09 Two Weeks Ago: A little caveat. the best friends test.I hate using that word for some reason.. “I thought you liked Emma... She goes to the same school as most of these girls and has been telling them that I like her. “Remember me?” ) and I see her from closer up and recognize her as a girl one of my friends was talking to a couple weeks before. solid cyan retro fit t-shirt -slightly tight black jeans -black leather belt with cool buckle -white jacket type thing -three dollar silver cog shaped ring. the girls who are of higher value in that social circle will subconsciously label you as an undateable loser. I continue talking to the other girls for about thirty seconds as though I don’t notice her. not a brag report. triple coil bracelet -bright. I didn’t pull solid game on her and messed up with her that night even though she was my initial target (. Not a good start from a mainstream PU perspective. got them from her friend in the Israeli army) -brown leather. but it was fine for me because I was only really there in the first place to spend some time with my friends. I turn to the other two set that’s joined the circle of girls around me (preselection). (i. I’m already in state. She is deff one of the few tens I know.. and I start kicking the night off with a canned DHV from MM.made of zinc.
I find another ten at the same frickin party..”” The vocal tonality made it moderately funny. let’s find somewhere to talk. she was hitting on me last night. and I make some dumb comment that gives the frame: “No. and in the confusion I lose her.I was feeling the canned one-line pebbles that night Her: “I’m Natalya. well I already know a Natalya. comes up to me. There’s still tons of people around. Whatever.. I swear!” Really rapport seeking.. I immediately interlock fingers with her in both hands then twirl her around as I lead her to another room. Trespassers will be shot. Lesson: Keep composed in the face of huge shit tests. Always give value. Stopped ignoring her. Used a Swinggcat line I like. I should have said. lezz roll. And destroying all probability. but still. “Yeah. and afterwards I’d be willing to bet that her reply would be “So (ioi). So that’s what I do. What did you say your name was? [I didn’t] Me: “Oh. It just slipped out.you have less to choose from. asked mine (IOI) 4.. that’s why we all left that party. what is your type exactly?” From which point I could easily start qualifying her. used a lot of Swinggcat ideas tonight but not that much pushpull. Turns out it’s cuz it’s the other ten’s older sister.” and lead her by the hand. one of my dumbass friends who I got into the party thinks it’ll be funny to play with a fire extinguisher. She’s already giving me DDB and I haven’t said anything yet. “This room’s too loud. no. She’s deff ready to be kissed. it was a really pointless and lame exaggeration that Emma will definitely get asked about.. The noxious fumes clear out the room.. I give up on for now. This catches me off guard. I leave her and do this for a couple minutes.. made all the other girls in the set like me 2. she’s really nice and cool. it’s key).I go natural but use push-pull in pretty much everything I do I’ve been with her too long without closing. Score! Process for gaming the hot older sister: 1. Don’t make up details that make other people sound bad. I’m not attracted to Emma. Told a funny story that had happened to me that day 3. So I turned to [my friend] Gabe and said. guys. she told me her name. then she comes and puts her arms around me as if to say to the other girls “My property.. That NEVER happens. I know that without massive preselection it will be hard to recover. Natalya. . just feedback. “Yo. this HB9 who’s been giving me huge EC the whole night (Peripherals. FML. No such thing as failure. Ignored her.” Which is true. But then. I felt bad. Continued gaming. She was trying put her hands down my pants and everything.. The window of opportunity is closed unless I create a jealousy plotline by gaming another hot girl in front of her. As I’m with her. I’ve already calibrated this part of my game. I think the direct quote was “Eww. She grabs my hand and holds on while I lead the way (IOI).usually I do the opposite. but not exactly my type.” I whisper in her ear.You can be number two =D” 5. This HB10.
I’m having too much fun being a social butterfly. Literally. in my most hypnotic vocal tone: “Look.... that’s so cute. I look deep into her eyes. This post is in no way . Finally. Her or the hot older sister.tingling. she pulls the BF card.” [Connection and DHV --> “I’m a protector/I can protect her”] Her: “Sistersss?” Me: “Hell yea girl. The thought doesn’t even occur to me..” Me: “Wow.. And I don’t add them.. Can’t have my sister hooking up with you. people don’t catch little shit like this.Lame. sees me too. K-close. But’s it’s okay cuz I was wrong too.thinking how good it’ll be.... end up in a dim hallway.. Mutual Destruction..while you’re in class.what an ambiguous phrase.. cause Sydney’s the capital of Australia. They’re in the crossheirs.My head’s not on right tonight.. I like the protector personality thing you have going on. Some kind of funny Seinfeldesque interactions with girls while I'm walked in on in the hallway with Sydney. the one who's my age and who I messed up with. Three times.” [DHV.I want you to be. so I guess it doesn’t matter] Her: “Yeah. I just act indifferent towards them. [Not literally. born ‘n raised in a family of five children. WTF. Her: “You’re a bit of a flirt.I love it].. the little sis comes up to me.. but tonight I’m kinda trying to look after her..tingling.. I let her go and continue gaming other girls. Not asks nicely. Hard.. “Can you come with me for a sec?” Pulls. I try to find a place without people..why would she be a bear? Anyway.. not the best game I’ve ever played but it’s not the worst either.I prefer it to freeze-outs. parts of what I say don’t fit.Pulls. Melbourne is.thinking about me.” Me: “Aww. usually I’m the one looking for guys.... Rapport] I game her a little longer.. It’s forreal.. The first ten. as if I know that it’s only a matter of time and I don’t mind playing her little games)... I’m the same way with my sisters.for days after. It DESTROYS LMR. and before I can isolate and close..” Me: “No worries. ANYWAYS. giving me kino... I looked it up the next day] Keep gaming her... For some frickin reason I don’t even #-close. explains without me asking. and it doesn’t even cross my mind to #-close the girls I game. But these two tens don’t.... yeah. her little sister pulls her away. Though they can be used together.....” [The capital is Canberra. After a minute. She’s clearly well calibrated from dealing with a lot of guys. she puts up a ridiculous amount of shit-tests (lots of pull aways as I go for the k-close too.. so it’s not a big deal. babe.. you are soooo wrong. I assume it's just because she doesn't want her bf to find out..for weeks.” Me: “I’ll remember that. You’re like a momma bear [WTF does that even mean? Sometimes when I’ve gone natural.while you’re in bed.” READ RIKER’s THREE RULES. I say. Google it. And a lot of the girls add me on facebook.. A lot of girls are pissed/ jealous/attracted cuz' they've seen me making out with her.Her: “I’m Sydney. Next party I see them..” Her: “Haha Sydney’s not the capital.. three older sisters.. When she still doesn't want to (ostensibly).. When we do it ["do it"... Natalya comes up to me. I don’t want to do anything with you that you’ll regret later.
The pose is lame. So I thought I’d try to jam-pack this with techniques and PU rather than bragging.advocating the literal sniping and shooting down of women.] Hopefully. The FR’s will get better with time. . I was strongly against FR’s but then I read some of Grape’s and found them useful. For a while. Just the metaphorical. this post has been helpful. ~Mandrake I took a pic the morning after for that purpose. Hit me with some feedback. and I found it in my mess of files on my computer... I know.
and has been for a couple years. The crew kept snowballing. ] “I AM a different man now. And more importantly.. I called up a few guy friends. during those weekends when nobody is willing to trash their house to host a party for their friends. people who were already there before say that when they saw them. I’m dead serious..an essential read for the aspiring novelist]” The feelings are reframed.. My FB texts me. She comes to my house every once in a while but she’s just a friend. The man’s wrinkled yet young face scares me. It’s like a reference book for non-seduction based NLP..ead=1532&page=1 . Then I allow it to surface all at once. I repress every negative feeling and memory. I see one of my close friends. And when we get to the party.....com/inde.. I’m not an AFC.” She’s actually an intelligent and deep person. I’ve been here many times during grade nine parties... if that’s what you’re thinking ). they did not rape me. ^^^^NOTE: When you walk into any venue. [Part of Joseph Campbell’s Hero with A Thousand Faces. This guy is creepy. but I never try to game her. the first image people have of you there will greatly impact how they think of you. It has great bits and pretty off-topic bits. This is the proving grounds. I was a pussy. Kinda like what you’d read in school. I give her one of the hugs I outlined in the second half of this post: http://highschoolpuas. I’ve been mugged and beaten up by crackheads in this park.her last name is about thirty letters]. Each time we saw a group of people that I knew. Told them to come over and went to the subway station. I have no fucking clue why everyone loves having parties at this park. At the top of the stairs. This FR is less game based and more .. I was an AFC then. That’s powerful.. I lead the way by about ten meters. “Coome tooo __________ paark tonitee. .. Not the same man I am now. a crackhead in black leather is getting a blowjob from a crackwhore in black leather..more than once.. But this one is worth reading. The girls are beside me..... . and very exotic [she’s the one person I know from Tonga. they joined up with us.” They’re seeing me lead a massive tribe. [The reframe process I use is from “Introducing NLP” by Joseph O’Connor and John Seymour. though this text message doesn’t really show that. I roll up to the party with 22 guys and two girls. Twenty-two. You’ll understand why I’m talking about him so much later. and reframe it. The park is really far below street level and has a long staircase going down.17/04/09 Party in a Park This post is massive. I didn’t tell anyone (No. This is a subconscious DHV. Bad feelings are anchored to this park. I’ve been rejected in this park.for now. The conquering hero returns home to fight his evil demons. This is the definition of my #1 rule for DHVing: “SHOW. She’s hot shit.proboards. with both of the only two girls in the tribe on both sides of me. DON’T TELL. about a nine. than my last one. and even worse.life-based. he was giving her anal.
He’s not just a natural. so tonight was all about calibration).. or in the spirit of balls. she gives one of those loud whispers. Yes. back up the stairs. And most of them carry knives..this is the RocknRolla friend I was telling you about. family bar with him one time and picked up a guitar from one of the guy’s there and got a standing ovation after his first song. with actual scientific references.] NOTE: I don’t smoke weed even though I go to 4/20 and Marijuana Marches. But that’s another post I’ll write later.She has to go to the top for some reason... I’ve seen the effects it has on people over long periods of time (my best friend is who I have in mind. you high-five. all natural.I want to learn how to talk sexually in natural game.. I’m the only one out of over a hundred people in this park.. Talk sexually (the main goal here. Calibrate what’s “going too far”. Through her teeth. And when someone says something you like.. Back to the crackhead.. Process for most sets: 1.Jesse.. I end up befriending him..Jesse! Steer away from them. He just turned 15 a couple months ago but he works at a bar using a fake ID. To befriend the guy that I’m deeply afraid of... He curls fifty pound dumbbells. The look on their faces is priceless. I usually end up doing it..” She laughs. Crackheads are fucking nuts. I was in a quiet. Push the bar... even friends give shit tests) Me: “Oh please. Jesse!” I move towards them and my hand is on her sacrum so she comes too. Enter with one or multiple wingwoman/friend/pivot Make them laugh (use something canned if you want) Talk with balls.. A lot of my not-so-close friends are drug dealers unfortunately.. I choose love of women (the most dangerous and by far most addictive) over love of escapist drugs. He had sex for the first time when he was twelve. He’s lost count of the times he’s had sex and he frickin just turned fifteen. I return back to the party. game like crazy. A lot of people walk by and greet me and see me chilling right beside the sketchy crackhead.but I DO have to go up there anyway to find Kate [a mutual friend]. I know that you can get the same neurochemicals from romance and love that you can from cigarettes or cocaine. And my friends were the first ones to get into drugs. I know pretty much all of them. he’s a supernatural.... Her: “Can you come with me?” (Yes.I hate you so much. On the way up. He’s also gone from getting eighties in a hard private school (my school) to barely passing one of the worst public schools in Toronto.. [I know the Toronto crime scene pretty well.he’s the one who made me want to get good.. Just in higher doses.... We have an ongoing joke about how usually when she asks me do something with her.He’s frickin fifteen.. but I make it clear that it’s not for her. That’s why the crash from one-itis is so much harder than a hangover or even from the crash from cocaine.. nothing canned.” THIS MAN was my initial target for the night.) Grape.with the girl I had a secret crush on. not really giving a shit about what I say. ^^^^SUMMARY: Smoking will fuck you up. “Jesse. . Anyways. . “Jesse. she sees the crackheads. as long as I keep my subcomm right. so I’ve had to deal with second-hand smoke since I was 12 but I’ve stayed strong.
I’ve been trying to get with her for a while but I know . She opened me. all girls I knew before they got hot. “I can’t believe you just gave me that creepy stare.caveman and pull them in close to you. I’m in it for the emotions during sex. Her circle of friends is fucking sexy. She is the definition of playette. a girl gives me a weird look or talks back (and I don’t have a good/funny/cocky comeback). smile. but still smiling. I thought you were cool. As gay as it sounds. I either do a five second back turn and talk to someone else (often about the girl who I just shunned. [Then physically do something along the lines of what I said before]” <---Breaking rapport and creating tension is weird at first. Leah. there was only one girl who ever fell in love with me. A six who’s now an eight and a half now according to my friends who’ve seen her recently (tanned. And I make sure that they know they’ve done something to deserve it. grew boobs. they should either be laughing. braces off.And a road route. I don’t really know her too well even though I want to get to know her better. From now on. they shouldn’t be deeply offended. and can only see my back. Alexandra. “I’m punishing you for talking back. But off-limits..it would have been gross to do more. with pornstar features (Bubble boobs and bubble butt. It’s the key to natural attraction. saying to someone else in the set. She has a really happy and effervescent personality. “I can’t believe he just did/ said that” THIS IS THE PUSH I would take one or two of them with me and enter a new set. My FB who told me to come was there.g. I don’t know how she does it. but I’ve kind of lost interest in her even though she’s really hot. When I was an AFC. There were a lot of people at this party and I wouldn’t have time to game everyone if I didn’t hop around from set to set like crazy. Repeat the Process I actually didn’t get any pussy. not that I really care about pussy. so she’s cut out of the conversation. thinking. but it’s something you really have to learn.. but loudly enough that she can hear what I’m saying about her) or I put my hands on both her shoulders and turn HER around. In HS. Rinse. easily. She must have a schedule or something. She’s got a lot of emotional problems (I wrote a two senctence description of her family life. David D recommends not smiling when pulling shit like this but I disagree. ^^^^Moral of Story = Don’t keep seeing girls just because they’re really hot.” Very blunt. new hair style and hair colour). Or I move in front of her. “I can’t believe he just did/said that”. If you do any of these things right.. or. You’re allowed to be picky. We made out for a bit.. Wash. really. thinking. You can wait for the ones who don’t flake and who aren’t slutty. Except one. A nine. Three girls. when in doubt. so she doesn’t have to double back if she misses a neighbourhood with one of her FBs. if they give you that WTF stare (happens often). E.” THIS IS THE PULL Whenever.. She’s a butterface without the butter face. You lose five points. then went back and deleted it cuz it was too depressing to post) and she compensates by being really uncontrollable and fucking multiple guys per week. We were in a park. not the feeling on my dick. tight torso). Here’s what fucking annoyed me. you smile and say. “This girl is AWESOME. I’m only talking to her when she opens me.. or they should have their jaw dropped. all really hot.. It’s fucked up.
This is cat string theory also. not when I’m sober. she’s a really incredible girl. I talk to Keith the Coke Dealer for a bit. opens me. “GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE!!!” Seemed to be the unanimous agreement. That’s what scares me the most. my nose is touching her nose while we talk. moving with consciously good posture. THERE’s A DRUNKEN HOMELESS MAN IN THE PARTY!!!” Kids started throwing empty beer bottles at him.” I assume it’s a one minute call. She whispers in my ear. “Don’t mind her. he’s a crazy crack dealer.that Leah has “PROHIBITED” me. Ten minutes later. she’s a bitch. in a way. in those words. Savage. Then my lips.If you tell her that directly. I’m not so sure if my phone is ever coming back to me.e. She knows me. almost exactly a year ago. But he ends up not stealing it and as I walk away. Then one of the other girls. He won’t mug you if you’ve befriended him. I pull back when she kisses me. he says “just partying it up with my boy Jesse here. FML. When I go back downstairs. I smell the booze on her breath from three meters away. I know that after this weekend. He calls a bunch of clients. you mind. (i. Part of me feels really sad about it. The first girl I ever fucked. Tall and thin. She’s a six. He pulls out a quarter. You can stay here if you want. out of the blue. “Leah’s out of town this weekend. She’s in Thunder Bay with her family. Befriend potential AMOGs. because as I get to know her.” which makes me feel slightly safer. deleting those last five uhh numbers?” He went to the school my best friend is barely passing in right now. I haven’t said a word yet. I know. Jesse uhh man. I feel sad for hurting her feelings. There has to be a better way to let a girl know you’re not interested though you like her as a friend. She knows it’s her. It was barbaric. Seriously. I go upstairs again with a friend to see her to a cab. Worst of all. Befriend potential muggers. and I can’t kiss back. and not when I know that I can close her when SHE’S sober. I’m not gonna kiss a drunk girl. knowing that a lot of people were watching. I spend a lot of time with a girl who has an obvious crush on me. “What’s a phone call among friends. a blonde who started doing coke and lost about forty pounds last year. One of Robert Cialdini’s Six Laws of Influence revolves around friendship. Then the other cheek. Each time. He asks if he can use my phone. and she knows that it’s not because I don’t have the balls to close her. How do you guys deal with that? I ended up just spending twenty minutes with her talking and not making a move. And it’s sexy. With a kiss on the cheek. I say. I think guilt for having already ruined a bunch of Leah’s friendships. I went up to the homeless man. I’m not sure why I don’t k-close her. but I’m just not attracted to her physically. As I’m on my way up. Alex opens me. The girl I crave k-closes me without me having to say a word. but weird bone structure in her cheeks and a bit of acne. she’ll just want you more Also. Pretty soon. NOTE: This makes me the forbidden fruit. I .” Women aren’t always logical. and the FB who texted me about the party) This girl is Leah’s best friend. I’m harsh and picky. Just because Leah’s out of town doesn’t mean she’s not gonna hear about this when she gets back. “Yo. But everybody seemed to be into it other me. I continue gaming. she’s not a girl I can continue seeing. Lesson: Befriend those you fear most. Women want what they can’t have even though it’s right in front of them. Making out with her won’t do any good in the long run. Yeah. I’m blacklisted again. he goes. <--. She’s got to go home or something. uhh. give or take a month. And those who you fear least. this girl at one point screamed out “OH MY GOD! EVERYBODY. He’ll pay me.
approaching and talking to Mark the Hobo.. NOTE: This is also is a segment in David D’s On Being A Man.... then head to bed around 3.. But that’s calibration.. and live your own beliefs.so I have a lot of catchup work to do . I was the only one giving a standing ovation. I’ll already be used to it. I sat back down.proboards. I saw other people.” = Mini cold read “You’re a good person.Umm. I really wish I could find that quote. “You won’t hurt anyone. Later. popular people. It’s a very communist idea in a way. No failure. The whole next day.. I go home.very fun.. PS. I’ll be completely confident being the only one standing and clapping. Everyone is equal. LEARN NON-SEDUCTION NLP! NOTE: This is what you have to do to be a leader.. can I take a message?” Still a fun day though. David D quotes a passage describing the real life character that the movie Gladiator was based on. When can I see you?” “.Pickup Podcast.. one of the first PU programs I ever watched.” = This is an embedded command. ~Mandrake EDIT: Posted the Saturday LR.. And I cared that I was the only one. I won't be posting for a while. most of their other podcasts are crappy interviews <----. How to achieve this? CALIBRATION.” NOTE: “I can see it in your eyes. very awkwardly.. It feels good to lead the way.. And you have be more. but you have to be congruent and comfortable about this. A sly grin perked up. Go out and try it.distracted.. After several seconds.lay&thread=1589 Also... so school's really important to me. You can’t contribute to the bystander effect (Google Kitty Genovese). throughout the rest of the party.hopefully.. it holds a warm place in my heart. a really intriguing speaker on biomimicry came to my school. I think it's my best FR yet http://highschoolpuas. are the highest value themselves.. I pinky swear. For that reason. This segment talks about how a real man looks down on no one. the ones who give everyone equal/high value. You have to be a real Man and think for yourself. because not only this. I wrote extensive annotations on it which I’ll put in another post. “gives everyone value” as the Art of Charm crew would say I guess.” = I’m making him proud of himself..can see it in your eyes. I used a different vocal tone and turned my head. On Monday. and watch a couple Planet Earths. Now he’ll want to live up to my expectations of him. But the truth is. You won’t hurt anyone. [ Listen to their podcasts on value.. In On Being A Man..I'm a nerd at heart. and lately I've been. because next time. alone tonight (meh. I got calls from people who needed drugs “and I need it bad man. just feedback. You have to be willing to be the one person who stands up against a group mentality. I’ll stay on focus.com/inde. Keith’s not here right now. The FR for Saturday will be much more game-related. no biggie). it’s on iTunes for free] Even hobos.. It talks about how he treated the Emperor the same as the slaves. you’re a good person. Everyone deserves equal value.
In the meantime. party on.Mandrake . and I hope these FRs have been a help .
“I’m outside. She tells me everything.lay&thread=1544 This was Friday :----> (http://highschoolpuas. she always starts the talking. give moral support to the rugby team. we talk everyday. I filled this with powerful stuff. I act as if nothing’s weird about me being there after so long and just keep crackin’ jokes to remind him why he always liked hanging with me. His family’s surprised to see me. don’t load up on any more attraction gambits or else she’ll flake. but we haven’t talked much in a couple months. This is the most solid game I’ve played in a long time.com/inde. Jack.” ––– Sinn I talk with him for a while. [Lack of popularity does not determine a bad personality. she’s a niner. I was going to give him the Game.” He used to be one of my best friends last year and I’d go over to his house during lunch breaks everyday.” Me: “She doesn’t tell you about when she masturbates. Him: “We’re really close. I call my friend who lives on my route home. Raise the curtains! The show is about to begin! Wake-up early.com/inde.” Him: (Gives me a WTF look) Me: “Think about this. wealth of popularity does not determine a good personality. I deepen my connection with some guys from my school who are also watching the game. even though I can’t play today because of an injured leg.. The comfort side. tell him “you’ll take to it like a duck to water”.proboards. Sex is all he thinks about. she masturbates. His problem is not having a healthy sexual energy. she’s been attracted to you. Open up bud.. It gets to be good. I just try to make her laugh.. And trust me.] While I’m walking home from school after the game. catch-up..proboards. They’re really good guys. He still hasn’t got a peck on the cheek from his girl. I’m on a mission to annihilate her bitch shield. help him with his relationship woes. You’re the older man that she thinks about when the girls at school are having boytalks. I feel great. I’m not sure why.. Moral of Story: “FUN IS THE ULTIMATE ATTRACTION SWITCH.18/04/09 One on One Deep Rapport This post continues from http://highschoolpuas. So she can’t flake. try to make her comfortable.. and I’ve dissected what made it work out so well. For months. I’m 100% sure.” “Alright man. This is proof. a real meaty post. which I can only do easily once I’ve met up with her for a day two and can show another side of me. I call Sydney. You’re in Grade 10. so he projects a creepy sexual energy. I’m totally in state. but then he stopped inviting me over.ead=1588&page=1) [teeheehee ^^^ that arrow looks like a penis] This is Saturday.” . based on what you’ve told me of her.
A lot of gurus talk against calling twice the same day but that’s stupid..with her though.” ^^^^ This is a technique from David Wygant. AND MORE IMPORTANTLY. because she knows I won’t... this is where it started.. They come with me and I rent Swingers from a nearby Blockbuster.” Not worth watching.. and each time.. She’s screaming your name. though I found it pretty fucking cool when I saw Vince Vaughan giving the first ever Triangle Gaze. she knows the “friend” couldn’t have been referring to yourself. buddy.Uggh. And more convenient xD. I plan on her not coming over until ten minutes before the sunset..com/watch?v=jvcgyhAy9Ok&feature=channel_page As I’m finishing the walk home (after I leave his house). You see that image in your mind.. Each time I call. One’s a really great guy. I’ll call her when calling her is convenient for me... right? That movie. Once you say it’s a “her”.com) had already done all the same figuring out. I have a bedroom above my garage which I lead her to.” Or during the second call “. She’s fucking screaming for you. playing..Oh shit. And each time.He’s awesome) ^^^^^Girls do this to guys all the time. Hear her screaming for you.. you know who she’s thinking of. http://www. it builds a jealousy plotline without having to even game another girl.. easy. I'm just keeping logistics in mind. It’s one of the HW assignments in Real World Seduction that I never got around to doing: “Watch Swingers and make note of the body language of the main character. and I caveman kino in the meantime. as if she were my girlfriend already.. seeing as how my entire family is home... Right then and there.not so much. Jealousy plotlines are the keys to nailing nines and tens...” This is False Hope at it’s finest. a woman’s mind will translate “a friend” as you. the other’s a girl I used to be friends with a couple years ago. that she’s socially calibrated. A specific form of push-pull. Also. it’s cause she just doesn’t want to tell me the names of all the other guys she’s with. I don’t talk about when I’ll see her next (like every other guy)..but I already made dinner plans with a friend.. But you know she won’t be. I’ll need to spank her next time I see her. She does it all the time. I see a couple friends. so you usually go “my friend ______” if you’re doing an opinion opener. Yes.. Generally. I call Sydney on my walk home (She borrowed her friend’s phone for the day and texted me a couple hours before). This is different. fucking every guy in town. a good friend. I game her.being trashy.... It can be sexy. we’ll hang out right now. notice how I said “her”... And that’s when she comes. the images getting brighter and sharper in your mind. I learned this trick from my FB who was at the park party in the other post. It took me a while to figure it out. I can’t just quit out on her last minute. but it’s that simple (later. flaky. not even on purpose. she asks if she can see me. but I promised my friend I’d chill with him..“And when she’s masturbating.. then you pull it away. But MAINLY. but just cause I’m so deep into state. I figured out that AFC Adam (attractionexplained. where you bait her into thinking she has a chance to be the victor of the interaction.youtube. You let her think she’s winning what she wants. That frame feels more alpha to me. [I can see him getting a hard on] I want you to picture that next time you’re talking to her.being promiscuous shows she has the experience to do it right. I have the same reply: “Sure. .
.. do I love ripping off lines from romance films.I didn't even do it on purpose to be honest] who I hide in there. she gives the smile back). my destination.. You’re not gonna rape me. so she asks] “Towels???” Me: “You’ll see. The actual smiles I described were the actual three smiles that she makes. I’m showing her I don’t want to have sex with her. which destroys half of her shit tests. this will only point out in her mind that she does not like you. Me: “You have three smiles.pulling when I have our fingers interlocking is very hard to explain. Especially the classics. and there’s the one . CAVEAT: If you don’t have attraction.leaving mystery.” [Meh. I stole the initial question from a chick flick I actually really enjoyed called “Win a Date with Tad Hamilton!”. Hopefully. I hope you’re not trying to seduce me..] Me: “This is my dungeon. The physical push ..” [ <---. you know that?” Her: “No.. and clearly expects me to come over and start making out with her.. being dominant] Then I rush her out of there. leans back. the one you’re making right now.. it doesn't take much] Her: “Oh reeaallly? (Sarcastically)” [Her shit tests are getting easier] I take her up to the room.fast.. just goes to show.. where you’re thinking. like Casablanca (one of my favourite movies in the first place). some of you already know what I’m talking about though.. I just came up here to get towels for our adventure.how..” [I expected her to say “Tell me them. She sits on the end of the bed. are you?” [Shit test. I can't explain it. and thus her body. I’ll introduce you to all the other little girls [subtle neg.don’t push her over) because holding hands is really lame unless you’re actually doing something cool now that you have control of her hand..you’re falling in love with me. Me: “Hahah.. this will amplify it and transition into rapport. ...” but she's stopped shit testing me for the most part] Me: “There’s the one when you’re happy. Plus.she’s trying to frame me as a creep. I physically push and pull her (smoothly.. DYD and MM covers this pretty well. the one.. I continued implanting it in her mind that she was in love with me the whole rest of the night (<---NLP IS NOTHING WHEN NOT STACKED) and this was how I introduced it. Makes it much easier to bring her back there later. there’s the naughty smile.” [<----. This is why I wanted it to be ten minutes before sunset. so it’s not that sexual and she can feel completely comfortable in my room. “other little girls” holds the presupposition that she’s a little girl.... to show her a deep rapport side of me and pause the banter. I call them the lost children. and laughing at my jokes (I show her the smile. If you do have attraction. It’s still a bit light outside.. as it’s natural.Her: “So you’re taking me into a dark and sketchy garage. always changing and always complex.... And credit to Gay for the Love Method. and it will come off creepy. I come up with a good cold read. Now she’s used to being in the bedroom with me. and my fucking g*d..about . she gives the smile back). Halfway to the park. when you’re thinking about how much you want me (I show her the smile. It’s a romance movie.PWNED! LOL ----My favourite role reversal] Her: [She doesn’t have a good comeback.. what I said wasn't too clever.” ^^^^ Hopefully you all understand how incredibly powerful that is.
foreplay --> play --> afterplay). interesting.. I thought of this stuff all by myself. lightning and all” “right above the cube” let me look into her mind. to see the woman behind the mask. It doesn’t mean a thing.. not just a number.” My vocal tonality is as though I’m really annoyed. I have never used the cube before but interpreting random crap is my forté so it runs smoothly. she’s having trouble thinking of shit tests. These are powerful pre-anchors that I consciously try to make use of. When we get to the park.. she asks? “So [ioi]. smiling in disbelief as I take up the whole towel and she just stands there. really turned on. “.this is a nested loop.. half shocked) “You’re such an aaaassshoooolllleeee!” Me: “Easy tiger. [I call anchors that are in place before I create them pre-anchors. I run the cube on her. I look up at her.When she calms down from her futile. she has no f’ing clue what’s happening. Next time I use a similar kind of cold read I’ll add in.. we’re spooning. I assume this is another lame ass cold reading game.... but I remember it was nothing special. just playing with you. Foreplay is when she’s making out with a guy. I’m very proud.” as she answers questions from the cube.. Her small cube. Then I cold read mercilessly.. There’s a couple terms in cold reading (I’ll do a definitive cold reading post later. giggly attempts at denying her love for me. I’ve shock and awed her. This is feedback to help me calibrate. We watch the end of the sunset. I am proven wrong. To understand her. once I’ve finished reading Tradecraft: The Art and Science of Cold Reading) called Subjective Validation and Selective Memory.elongated) I’ll move over. I purposely only took one. even though I know how famous it is.” so that she can’t ask which one after. for fun. keeping eye contact) “.. For example. It allows me to look deep into her personality. Me: (I stare at her and wait. but I’m smiling. I just made that stuff up. I build a lot of tension by saying only “interesting.Oh. a smile is pre-anchored to happiness. and there’s no room for her. This position is anchored to foreplay and afterplay (the stage after sex.. and I go. . I’m lying on my towel. which smile’s your favourite?” I don’t remember my reply...] ^^^^^^ Yes. I’m fractionating the tension because once I start reading her cube. Jaw dropped.. “Fiiiiiine. like in every romance novel ever created.” Her: (Half laughing.and this one’s my favourite. ^^^^^^ I’ve manipulated the events so that as I go into rapport building. and she’s standing above me with a face that comes after a big PUSH (the cold read was my PULL). a tension builder) Her: “SO? What did it all mean!?” Me: (Pause five seconds. I lay the towel out on the grass. With the mixed messages in the air. big storm “thunder.. Afterplay is when she’s just had sex with a guy and extremely receptive to creating emotional connections and DnMing.. C & F. So she just lies down on the small towel beside me. not just a nine.. A deep human being.” (Then I explain the cube) By breaking the tension with laughter. as I hold her in my arms firmly yet loosely from behind. Also. I build the tension right back up. I GUESS ( <--. Beyond the surface. Yes.
in a playful way. especially if you’re using it to your advantage. pulling back: Her: “What about my boyfriend?” Me: [I’m really tempted to say. When you dissect the principles behind his words.. When you want to be right. Hypnotica and Steve P are by far my favourite NLP using PUAs. This program is an hour of Hypnotica having phone sex.you don’t have to keep making up stories of this invisible boyfriend of yours. blah blah blah. Also. So talk about how lonely she is (I pulled this off no problems even though this girl has a BF and a bunch of guys always trying to get with her). This is completely subconscious. how she needs a dominant man.. Most of the girls have common problems [See Chrispb7’s List of HS Girls Generalizations. do you?” Me: (I pull her right into me. Either way. close and tight) [This is the BIG pull. P ?” She keeps holding her lips at my lips. I believe you. The PUA is the exception to the rule. then she will subjectively validate your FUTURE cold reads. talk about how she’s falling in love (<--.. Trust me. you can generate ‘patterns’ and hypnotic. and now it’s fucking intense. I think I somehow learned it from UNG. even if they’re really. “What about your boyfriend? but I decide on] “Look. even though I don’t have UNG.. the first twenty reads can be wrong and she’ll only remember the right one. This is why the vague language of the Milton Model works. SELECTIVE MEMORY is the ability to remember certain events while having amnesia for other events.” [This is the BIG push. Remind me later to write a post on it..SUBJECTIVE VALIDATION is the process of validating statements as accurate because one finds/is able to find personal meaning and significance in them. This is also the time to start getting highly sexual in your language. I can see inside your mind. I pull back. I think it’s on his journal]. When I go in for the kiss.. Once you really peg her on one (or multiple if you really are gonna go intense) cold reads. That’s what they’ll remember. This is where we come in. (i.e. Not that you should ever get twenty reads wrong. I tweaked it. Choosing which memories remain. and you’re the one who’s there with her at the current moment. ^^^^ Now here’s the real beauty of it. I also did some brutally powerful fractionated elicitation of values. pulling back and never really making out.] Her: (After calming down) “You don’t actually think that I made up my boyfriend. And other guys don’t cold read. you’ve been thinking too much and not listening enough.literally] “No. REALLY vague because she feels that you must know what you’re talking about to get the first ones right on and everything you say must be true.Gay’s Love Method. seeing as you’re the one she’s attracted to. you shouldn’t get ANY cold reads wrong. You’ll be the one she’s thinking of. Naturally.I already like you. remember . Unless they know about cold reading. Watch Deep Phone Seduction. Then whenever she moves forward. If you do. who can protect her. I love it). they will forget the first few reads that you get wrong and their brain will actively SELECT the read you got right. she holds my lips at her lips. right then and there. Everything you say becomes powerful. cold reading is easier in HS. Everything you say will be automatically anchored to you because you’re the one saying it to her. We continue playing our little . sexual visualizations whenever you want. If you’re listening to the little details in how she talks and you’re reading her subcomm.. Much much better than canned SS BS.
Eventually.... Now she’s the one pressed up against the wall. you heard that. forreal this time. There’s no point hiding them... Me : (something along the lines of) “. two.our warmth..... She didn’t shit test me or pull away again... Him: “Yo....your mind.one entity. tons of playful teasing and pull aways whenever she moves in for a makeout..... and she was doing it on purpose as a joke or odd shit test or something.. three hours? ” (She’s giving me her naughty smile) As tempted as I am to break down my sex game/technique. On AIM....] This is logistics...two bodies.... (whenever I talk about two as one in my hypnotic rants..they can be used in foreplay and afterplay too].going inside you...Maybe......I’m kinda busy right now...You feel that warmth.No.. A warm bed. I feel like it would get kind of. An intermediate thinks about how to say it..... she actually began accidentally speaking some of her thoughts. Her adrenaline goes through the roof...games..... A playa thinks about where to do her." Johnny Wolf As we walk back home..I’ve been inside you..... even though we both know that that’s where we’re headed.our mouths....my lips.... I take her hand and interlock fingers. I pull out my phone and ...... So instead I put my palm on the back of her neck. I replied to a bunch of her shit tests after the first cold read but before this ^^^^^ up above. Knowing that you’ll have a place nearby. I leave her at the closest intersection to her house...deep....” After a while. you wanna come hang? I’m at BShack (Burger Shack)" Me: “... At first I thought it was conscious. and I could sense in her subcomm that it was the real deal.together.. After I walk her home a few hours later.my warm breath.. though I can see with my peripherals that she was watching me walk off... but then it kept happening..pressed against yours..one.......deep inside. pull back.in your breath.. by saying.. You’ve felt me.. . Then: Me: “It’s gonna rain soon [No it’s not..” Her: “I WISH.. She starts to press me up against walls and fences. Jack calls... Let’s get out of here. so I have no where to pull back. I can hear your true thoughts.. Continue fractionating my EV method. It’s a symbolic and powerful anchor) ” -------> More crap ------> “I’ve been inside .....innappropriate. so that when the time comes...my breath. I’m just waiting for a little while to bring her back to my place because I don’t want it to seem like I’m really excited and jumping onto the opportunity now that she’s said “I WISH”. “"A noob thinks about what to say.. “I can see into your eyes...” Her: “Oooooo...... I already checked the forecast when I was planning logistics].... and I don’t look back. I’ll call you back in three hours. your mind. I decide to telegraph to her that it’s on.deep.. then keep leading her home.. didn’t you?” ^^^ That’s how powerful this stuff is. I make out intensely....... Planning ahead.” [Notice how I left out the “so we can go to my bed and fuck like rabbits”...deeper inside you. I don’t go up to the house door with her and wait and watch like a chump while she goes inside. like you would in rough sex [See the movie Basic Instinct for inspiration on rough sex moves...... you can go where you need to go... give her my most sexual stare. and spin her around fast and hard....together.....
even though she posts the grossest frickin pics of herself on facebook.. lives two blocks from my house.. This girl listens to jazz. Great guy. really ‘alternative’ personality. I see a circle of girls smoking.. The key is being congruent.) *Later* Haha unless you're Ross Jeffries or one of his followers. These are even some of the hotter ones. She’s still watching. (I’ll post pictures later. On my way to see Jack and the guys he’s with. and is easily a 9 on my standards. then NLP isn't meant to be creepy.. just chill out and enjoy the music (Hippies and stoners generally share my taste in music.... don’t tell” policy.). Yeah. very different. knows all the cool places. I tried to really break it down and make it one of the better FRs out there.not crack addicts for some reason. But meh. one of my guy friends (The supernatural I talked about in the other FR). I'm not an amoral ass who pulls this intense shit on every girl . . another Jack. ~Mandrake PPS. likes old old movies. Hopefully this post helped A LOT with your one on one rapport game. I say I was with Cole.. The girls are REEEAAALLLY high. so I won't make false promises to be online too often. they always like dance and techno music the most.I don’t get it. sitting on the empty road. And for sure bud. that I’ve been able to rekindle my close friendship with him and that I’ve followed through on my “kiss. This was a HUGE sticking point for me for a long time. though I'm trying to re-focus my energies on school till exams are done at about the middle of June. And only doing it when it's one on one. I go over to the first Jack’s house and stay there till 2: 30. He’s a ten on the value scale. I only do it to the girls I know I'm gonna like. she posts pretty gross pics on facebook. When he asks what I was doing.. It’s 1.call Jack.. all the cool new and old albums and songs. The one guy with them is a good friend of mine. Another night of going to bed smiling since I found the community. We'll deff talk sometime though and here's a couple pics. so I don’t game them. to make every word hold more meaning and more sexual undercurrent. It's really just a change in vocal tonality and a few other little tools. I’m proud. I don't get it. I remember Grape saying he uses NLP and chances are he lives in the states. but very.. The girls are two years older. more just to put a face to the name for you guys.
6b-82542e200dac and whenever you pass by a fragrance shop look for it. all my other jeans are too tight for it).. and she told me which team she was standing by so I wandered around seemingly aimless.couldn't really game anyone outside of the set I originally came with though. because I didn't have time to sit and chat.. wondering if it reeked why I wore it (yeah I sorta DLVed myself... try it out) She replied "Huh? OMG YEAH!" I stuck my hand out for a high-five to get some kino going pretty early on. She came into my space and took a whiff and said "Ooooh you smell GOOD" and then took another giant whiff. Overall the walk was extremely fun.com/mainstreet/forms/. "Yeah.HB6)...) The girl seemed a bit confused at the joke. enthusiasm was present in spades and everybody was handing out free high fives. once there I got a text from this girl (who I will call A).. I totally am.. Where'd you get your shirt anyway? I stole mine from this weird guy that was stripping down to his boxers a few blocks back" *sniff shirt and pull back like I smelled something dead* "yeah. Didn't actually do much gaming.I went with two girls and a third girl joined us about thirty minutes later since she lost her group and one of the girls was extremely outgoing (new girl was ungameable.. I think I'm gonna give it back it sorta reeks" (I actually had used this Versace Cologne that smells AMAZING check the bottle out here: http://www. looking for the girl. its definitely worth a try and it isn't very expensive either.....Darkpwns 5/17/09 Got out the AIDS walk a few hrs ago.tuccini.if you see anyone wearing anything the same as you are. "What was that? I KNOW you can do better than that I mean c'mon. On the way there I saw a pretty cute girl (HB7-8) with an I love NY t-shirt on so I opened her with: "OMG We're TWINS!" (I think this opener is pretty decent.I don't like American Eagle jeans anymore but I needed jeans to walk in that still looked decent..I know that's not the point of the walk but there were so many girls I couldn't help myself from at least attempting it..it was a weak five. I'll recount what happened I'm wearing: A Black I love NY T-shirt This cool bracelet I got from H&M A cross necklace from American Eagle Dark Blue Bootcut Jeans from American Eagle (yeah.. myself included.. joking kind of guy).first I need to know your name" she told me . She slapped the hand. "OMG you're so MEAN!" she pushed me lightly (this was an IOI but that's obvious). Black DCs So basically my father drove me to the walk at around 9 'o clock AM. this time i moved my hand away and said "Gotcha!"(this was a light push and it also presented me as a fun.. "Whoa there! I don't just let anyone sniff me." She went for the five again. I realized that a bit later but there was a method to my madness)...
.. but I like role playing.nor Asian. A is aware of the amount of girls I talk to.. "Honey.well its actually.e. which he agreed to.: brushing her arms against mine.I didn't think it was that funny.. I saw this guy in front of me with a gay flag Dr.she probably told S all about it.what her name was... She got up and i put the AE necklace around her neck. S and I got to talking fluff about school to pass time while A texted her boyfriend on her phone and I got a text from a girl who I neglected to respond to on friday (went to sleep and forgot I was talking to her).) =======What I like about warm approaches is that the person who you are approaching has a general idea of how you are because of what the person who introduces you says. then asked for mine. "My name? I'm Ho Chi Minh... Seuss hat and a plan formulated in my head. when I'm in front of her she puts her hands on my shoulder pushing me and saying "move faster".I'm black so lol).wtf?) so i said: "Um. "What's your REAL name?" she asked.but you can call me James.. why you on da flo' fo'? Come get dis chain" I said imitating Flava Flav's stupid manner of speech. it was AWESOME talking to you but I need to find my friend. but I was out of time. "Oh come aun New Yahk.. you know if you can't pronounce my real name and all" once again she laughed. =======Role-playing is extremely useful in dealing with girls.and as pre-selection goes she thinks I screw all of them. we just met and you're already hitting on me? I think I like you.. I can't game A (childhood friend thing. because girls are very .. I had A introduce us and S reached for my hand (girl giving a handshake. but in truth the majority of them are LJBF.... "Hey.here" *i stuck out my arm and a pen and she wrote down her facebook on it while saying that I make her laugh too much* After that I walked around till I met with A. I'm an awesome player.you know what? You can talk to me on facebook. The girl wrote: "Hey." *puts on hat... what happened you never replied back.lice or w/e the dude could've had aren't attractive* "FLAVA FLAAAAV!" i put a big cheese grin on my face and S stepped to the side of the path and bust out laughing...my real identity.====================== We start walking around 10:25 AM and S is touching me while she's walking (i. then stalk me on twitter. but S was extremely gameable (HB9)...she laughed so hard she ended up on the grass." she said. Fuck..... are you going to come to the show on monday or not?" (She has a performance on the 18th and she got a ticket for me to go see it).. I went back to her and said "Yeah.. she had a friend with her (who I'll call S). nice to meet ya" she looked at me like I had something stuck on my face. because of this you can go with riskier openers so long as they are congruent with everything else you do. that IS my real name.. I went up to the dude and asked if I could see his hat really quickly. S proved to be a nosy girl and looked at the message: "Ooooh a girl? I heard you were a player.. then bust out laughing (I'm not Korean.. which was seeking rapport from when i told her she was a turtle when we started walking).not firmly.." *wink* "keep it up and we could be friends" (in hindsight this was WAY too strong for a first sentence but she laughed at the comment.awkward)..
she tried.. the AIDS Walk is PACKED.or stick to you like glue. Guy humor which involves making fun of people don't hold the same weight with girls. ======I haven't jumped through any of her hoops for the whole two hours and change that we were on the AIDS walk at that point.and for once I analyzed what was going on. S goes up to the girl and they talk for a bit and S integrates the new girl (C from now on) into the group because she lost her's.but I know that A thinks of me as a player so her concern was in her mind.. the best way to do female humor.dramatic creatures." the joke won't be funny if you do. S jumped into the group to act like a fool before I could and A held me back from going in with her. =====She wanted to give me her number but in order for me to do that I would've had to do something for her.================================== We walked down the block and there was this group doing Capoeira. The thing about role-playing is that you don't tell the person "So yeah.she seems to be enjoying my company and if she wants .. though I didn't exactly intend for it to be that. Somewhere near the half-way mark S asked for a piggy-back ride. The point system isn't exactly something physical. which I declined.. C wasn't really much of an obstacle though she kept interrupting me while I was in the middle of a thread. get separated and you'll never see the person again). I catch her throwing glances at me every time she thinks that I'm looking away and A spots this girl on the side of the path looking lost. so I figured I'd twist one of her hoops in order to make her feel like she was progressing with me and not lose that "hard-to-get" status at the same time. where you give the girl something to hold onto so that way if you wander away she'd try to find you and give it back. I told her I'd give her a piggyback if she gave me one first. but if I'm willing to change something just to get a number that I'd undoubtedly get anyway she'd think "What else can I get him to do" and she'd lump me in with any orbiters she has.... She wasn't willing to give up 5 points and asked if I could bring it down to one point if she gave me her number. Lock-in props are generally used in club game (thus why I didn't intentionally use it). "What do you think you're DOING?!" she seemed to be upset with the fact that I was gaming her friend. I think your friend is cute." "But you're flirting!" "Look. well placed.. is role-playing. I ignored her and pointed out a hot dog stand... Also the necklace became a lock-in prop.. A pulled me off to the side.she really did.===== At the hot dog stand she asked for me to buy a hot dog for her. but offered to get her a water instead.==================================== So now I'm walking with A and S with S standing right next to me.... in my opinion. so I'd only give her a piggy back for one block and it'd cost her 5 points.....I was just going with the flow of the role-play. I told her that she failed the test. In this case the lock-in prop made S stick to me like glue (she had to. "I'm just having fun.that's not where I want to be.the piggy-back would be jumping through a hoop that I wasn't ready to jump through without some physical exertion on her part. she accepted my offer. which got pretty annoying. I'm going to be Flava Flav and you're going to be New York.
me to lay off its w/e I'll do it, but you need to trust me a little more...isn't that what best friends are for?" I felt bad about using that line, but I wasn't really thinking much and I took the low road...guilting her into letting me continue gaming S. After S got done thinking Capoeira was an African Dance C started blabbing on about how awesome S was, to be able to just go in and dance with people she didn't know. I took that time to DHV myself and went to chat up other people in front of us. Bad Idea. When I went to demonstrate I was a really social guy most people blew me off and only a few actually let me chat. I couldn't integrate people into our group as they had their own. On top of that I had to keep track of my group, so I ended up waiting on curbs looking for them to pass by. So by trying to DHV myself I ended up DLVing myself. I gave up DHVing myself and just stayed with my group. We passed by this radio station that set itself up at the half-way mark and it was playing a song called "Boyfriend #2", I generally don't like R&B that is all about sex but I saw S bobbing her head and said "OH MY GOD THIS IS MY SONG!!!!" *just like the guy in the Dance Flick...i like references to movies* then i grabbed S and said "we're dancing...now." There was a wall bordering central park since we were street side at that point. I led her to it and turned around and stood up against the wall while I put her right in front of me and put my hands on her hips...like I expected she started grinding on me...I never got a dub right in the middle of tons of people before...the experience was pretty cool. ==============Doing something like that without extreme attraction, good rapport and steady kino escalation isn't possible. In this case I knew she was invested in me and also I knew that she had an outgoing personality, I rationalized my idea that way. All in all it was a risky move and I'd probably have felt like shit if it didn't work out because her attraction levels would have plummeted and all my hard work would've been for naught. I took more risks today than I ever did in the time I've been learning the game. Its something I hope I don't repeat...calculated, tight game is better than risky, whimsical game.============== A realized that we weren't with them and came back for us...when she saw what was going on she smacked me on the head and called me an idiot. Yeah. Whatever. I didn't want to piss my friend off anymore, so I calmed down on the escalation for a bit and decided to walk with S with my arm around her shoulder. I talked to S about sexual topics now, asking her if she was a virgin, what she likes, things like that. After I was sure she was in the sexual mood I had her do some word association to figure out her fantasies. =============Now at this point I was working with 3 and a half hours of gaming this one girl....attraction through the roof, if I could've had it my way I would've closed her and moved on...but I couldn't...this was a negative side to the AIDS walk============ I realized that I had been messing up the whole time, which was why I was losing threads to talk about...in fact I was shocked I managed to keep them refreshing for as long as I did...I was sticking to my target....I wasn't giving anybody else in the set enough attention, I fixed this at once and started a fluff conversation with C, she actually turned out to be a cool person, I AIM closed her. Another LJBF, I love LJBF girls. I then went on to talk fluff with A about her school life, then asked how her and her boyfriend were doing (my friend wants a shot at A, so I'm always looking out for him...and her boyfriend's a chode). S was getting annoyed with the sudden abandonment and when A and C went to get Doritos
at this rest point she asked me if I liked her. I went up to her and put my index finger under her chin (I learned this from reading The Adventures of Brad P), and using my index finger I brought her face closer to mine and kissed her. "Yeah, you're a cool chick. I like ya *wink*" is what I said after I released. =============This was actually the first time I pulled the trigger in day game.....EVER! Even when I was good at day game I never had the guts to do it...but then again I never had hours to work on one girl. Even so, this is a huge breakthrough in the confidence department for me. Once again, this is all about calculating her attraction levels and following the escalation ladder, kissing was the only step I didn't get to besides for sex.============================================= "OMG OMG OMG! You just KISSED ME!" she was like....freaking out...it wasn't really a bad freak out, like she didn't hit me or anything and besides....she kissed back. "Yeah....I did." I was struggling to make my voice sound nonchalant, my heart was actually pounding so hard I couldn't take it and my stomach was coiling up into knots...for the first time that day it occurred to me that I may have messed up. "That was the LAST thing I expected to happen today," I was actually thinking that I had thrown it all away and then I remembered a post on this forum. It was Chris' no fail K-close. I brought my face really close to hers and she closed her eyes and poked out her face for another kiss. This time I didn't kiss her, instead I plucked off an imaginary eyelash off of her face. "You had an eyelash on your face...the expectant type aren't we?" I was now 100% sure that I didn't mess up the attraction. ========Chris' K-close is designed to actually get the kiss without failing...it works too, but it can also be used backwards like this. If you aren't too sure if you went to far by pulling the trigger too early, you can always try it this way...if they pull away from you....well then its back to building up attraction, though it would be hard at that point since they will perceive everything you do as hitting on them.============================================ After A and C got back to the group I pulled S off to the side to have a some more discussion with her before I went back to ignoring her. This time it was her hammering away with the sexual questions. She asked if I was a virgin. "I'm a born again virgin..." is my standard reply to that question. "What? Why?" was the response I expected, and she delivered. "I got raped by a chocolate donut when I was twelve....*shudder* it was horrible" this is one of the few canned things I use...I canned it myself, I think its pretty funny and everybody has laughed at it so far. "No but really...are you?" I told her I wasn't and brought her back into the group before she took away all of my mysteriousness. The rest of the walk was pretty uneventful, except for grins passed between me and S we
didn't speak much till we reached the finish line 45 minutes later. At the finish line I asked for her number over an Ice Cream cone, while A was busy wading through the line to get her free cone. While I was saving her number in my phone my father called me. My mom couldn't find her car keys...that was annoying as I had put her keys on the counter and they were right where I left them when she looked. I checked at my contact list and S' number wasn't there as I hadn't finished saving it. FUCK. I didn't really know if asking for a number again seemed needy or anything so I just said "tattoo me" and handed her a pen and my arm...she put down S & J "AIDS Walk Homies!" and then her number ad AIM down on my forearm. Smart girl. I walked S and C to the 57th street train station, then waited for my dad to pick up A and I. At that point I remembered I was signed up for the confidence webinar. I rushed home took a shower and went to the mall to purchase a mic...and I didn't save S' number or AIM....yeah silly me. A few minutes into the webinar I got an IM from a random girl and I didn't know who it was at first...when I asked she said it was S, she had gotten my AIM from A because she wasn't sure if I would msg or IM her...how right she was (though not because I didn't want to). All's well that ends well. Overall, this was my riskiest game ever, but outside of school game it was also my most succesful. I hope I didn't brag too much as I tried to make this as informative as possible, hence the length. ~Darkpwns
Amanda (who is LJBF zone)] and use one of my friends (Eric) as the messenger for the fourth girl (A few days ago this friend wasn't a friend at all. Drama sucks folks. talking opportunities don't exist.. Jasmine shouted out loud "JAMES YOU LOVE ME?! AWWW" I replied to Eric "yeah its great we're friends" he changed it to "yeah. FML. Jairy informed me of drama going on within the clique that she and I were a part of. she's like HB7 (only two hot girls in my economic class.yeah I'm totally bad ass. Second period is my vocal class [on mondays.. Jairy and this girl Lourdes).. now let's fuck like animals" (i used this line later on today too... for some quick laughs to get me in a better mood. With non-verbal game you can do things that would otherwise be offensive or just can't be put into words. =================================================== Non-verbal game is AMAZING. I knew that Eric being the funny guy would twist every message I sent to him and I was counting on it. Eric had managed to turn a "ew why do you have that stank face on" into "I love you so much Jasmine... I don't know how people can immerse themselves in it. went out with my friends.. I can't speak in this class either.pretty interesting. I never game on the train.good job.I should but its just so tempting to sleep. I got to school at like 9:10. it was great). wednesdays and alternating fridays. just two days ago he came up to me and asked "Hey James. Day Starts Out ---------------------I woke up later than usual. More on this later.I couldn't beat this guy in an AMOG battle.yeah. and put on my uniform. brushed my teeth... after all you can't say anything really deep without saying anything (body language is a big portion of non-verbal but that's not what I'm talking about right now).. tamed my curls.the other days its dance. I figured the clique mediator would smooth the drama out. Naturals can game a girl from across the room if they have to and naturals are who we seek to emulate when we interact.. I ran non-verbal game with the girl singing next to me. I knew I wasn't going to make it to school in time for first period. So I hopped in the shower..7:30 when I woke up and school starts at 8:15. we're friends right?" and I told him we were.... he was a huge AMOG and I had had an intense battle going on with him for a few weeks.. Jasmine isn't really hot. saw a movie and had fun with a girl. .I'd fucking kill myself before I would.I go to a theatre arts high school]. missed first period..5/21/09 Today I had a pretty nice day. its mostly to get laughs. I go to school in Manhattan and live in Queens. but she's really loud and she's the clique mother of one of the cliques in my social circle. I want you to have my babies". ==================================================== Third period I have economics and my teacher moved me to a desolate corner a few weeks back for talking. it was like.. the ride takes 45 minutes on average. I like to keep up with what's going on in my social circle. befriending him was the only solution). so I send texts to two girls [Jairy (who was girl in vocal class)... teasing the cute face she made when she hit a high note..
and he could transition into other threads. Fifth period is my math class but we had a substitute teacher so I hung out at the freshman/sophomore lunch period instead.5 set that I've been talking to for the past few weeks. the other girls at the table echo "Suuuuure you didn't" [Haha I own these people]. and the next time you say something which could have a double meaning they'd call you out on it..violent much? "I'm going to be having sex in the middle of the street and get hit by a car? What? Why would I have sex in the middle of the street? Girl. OMG I'M GETTING SOMETHING! *act like I'm receiving a prophetic message*..her random yelling is freaking hilarious. This is my playground.. I test everything out on the freshmen and sophomores its amazing how receptive they are to the stuff. . if you act like you misheard something you can turn anything anybody says into something dirty. but its debate heavy. The HB8 had been looking for something to tell me since Monday since I had cold read her. I love debates. She decided to tell me my future.that class is without a doubt the most boring class ever. then you're going to see a fine girl and go 'DAAAAAAAMN' and stare at her ass then you're going to get hit by a car. This time I texted her directly: "Thanks for the laughs Jazzy but you're still friend-zoned . and you miss snippets of the lesson that might be important but it gives the girl the feeling that they're being rebellious (I only ran text game on Jairy). so once she found out that it was him just altering stuff they could transition into an easy flowing conversation about it.P". If you turn what they say into something dirty they begin to think dirty as well. I didn't game anyone during this class as running text game in this class has more negatives than benefits and I was too busy debating whether dropping the atomic bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki was something that needed to be done and whether a 24 hr warning detailing the destructive force of the atomic bombs could have forced Japan to surrender without actually having to bomb them." After this I attempted to isolate her to back staircase where I could kino escalate fairly quickly without her friends interfering.. accuse them of having a dirty mind and that they shouldn't be thinking about you in such a way. I sat down at the table of an HB8. I look out for my boys.. When they call you out on it.. I love doing that.. Nothing else happened in third period."WHAT THE FUCK?" this time everybody started laughing." wow. HB8. ==================================================== Running text game in class is risky. "Yeah. HB7. you've got a twisted mind " ==================================================== Mishearing things is very powerful (and its freaking funny). I finally got myself into a euphoric state. ==================================================== Fourth period is US History. suuuure you didn't". she replied that I always confuse her. "Ok now I'm going to tell you your future *put my hands out and she lays hers on top of mine*. "You're going to be walking across the street. Miss Cleo told me that you're coming with me. ==================================================== She says that's not what she said. The messages were sent to Eric unaltered because he's funnier than me and he wants to mess around with Jasmine (He's already messing with other girls).
its all about calibration and monitoring attraction levels. giving me buckets of pre-selection.. I'm trying to find that balance..average.. give me a better kiss next time" this time she kissed me again.. Just knowing this one thing made it easier to work up my prizeability.oh wait.. she was sitting on the stairs while I sat a few stairs below her with my head in between her legs and she was massaging my shoulders.. "Wow.I'm sick at social circle game?).. ==================================================== She blushed. We got up and hugged goodbye.tsk tsk Jessica.... that plus four" Her: "But you took off five the first time" Me: "I know right?" Her: "How am I supposed to get the last point back?" ..tsk tsk" [cold read on the 'your eyes look so innocent.On the way to the back staircase all these girls stopped me and gave me hugs. yet it works... why do you have to think like that?" [A lot of girls always think I'm talking about my penis when I say peanut butter and banana sandwiches.' part] We fluffed talk for a while. When I got her to the staircase she asked why so many girls liked me (I have no idea really. "SHUT UP!" she said with a huge smile on her face.. ==================================================== Her: "Oh. Whenever I can I say something I generally wouldn't say.. come on! I should get points for that not lose them!" Me: "Hey.. Me: "Ok. your eyes look so innocent but you're actually a freak! I actually make peanut butter and banana sandwiches.. "I give them peanut butter and banana sandwiches" [<<<< This is my favorite sandwich....like I said.don't tell me. my playground. but I used it to test where her mind was at] "OMG that's soooo nasty.. After the fluff I looked up at her with a puzzled look "Hey.. Naturals say things that are WAY out there. and she kissed me.I mean who would put peanut butter on their penis?] I put my hands on her shoulders "Aaaaaaw.it was better. that was. I shrugged.. its getting warmer down here." ==================================================== I'm always testing the limits of my dirty jokes.. "You're getting turned on by my presence. I didn't actually expect her to do that so I was sort of taken aback but I masked it well. I make the rules here missy.. I held her close and gave her a grin.NO!" "What?" she asked. More often than not I push the envelope and I still get a good reaction.. GOLDEN! This was the first thing I managed to internalize when I began learning the game and I did it whenever the opportunity arose... I gave her my sly smile. Then the bell rang. five points off" ==================================================== The point system is GOLDEN i tell ya.
Lourdes didn't know what to do with Tameka and Jasmine didn't either but they still wanted to go to the movies and Tameka was invited.. Everyone shut up.if there's no drama she's going to create it) The girl who is this in our group is called Tameka -Orbiters (these people are usually friends of people lower on the hierarchy or just want to be in with the group but don't have a place in it. .Group Leader (this is generally the hottest girl in the group.she's generally not attractive. I usually spend this period listening to music and sleeping.Group Mother (she may or may not be attractive. Sixth period is Junior/Senior lunch.. all she does is make sure the girls don't fuck up and go with the wrong boys and things).I wasn't at my best and I could've diffused the situation much better. she also doubles as a bridge..its true but once again I say nothing. Jasmine is about to go off on the girl so I decide to step in.this isn't what we need to be doing. Dating in orbiter deems you undateable within the group) We've got about 15 orbiters (the junior class is only 52 people so this is actually a really large group). Lourdes is the leader in the clique with the drama . At my school we have an in-between period called Mid-Day live.I don't want to die having sex in the street you know " and I walk away. "Yeah.doing nothing.) ==================================================== Cliques all generally have the same hierarchy: ... her job is to get rid of drama so as I found out today. Jairy and I are the bridges... One of our orbiters who is Tameka's friend comes to Tameka's defense and everybody in the group calls her a fake retarded loser who talks shit too much.... she receives the most validation thus holds the most value). Lourdes then gets pissed off at Tameka for yelling at Jairy and calls Tameka a fat ass hypocritical bitch. I texted my friend and . don't you ever wonder how much BETTER it would be if you didn't have to make up things to be upset about everyday?" I was coming off of 45 minutes of sleeping. ==================================================== Tameka was basically calling Jairy a dumb bitch who tries too hard to fit in.I never game during this period although its the only time freshmen. sophomores. -Bridges (these girls and boys bring other people into the group and organizes outings expanding the scope of the group) Eric.... Jasmine.Group Mediator (she mediates all drama in the group. Jasmine is this. Tameka. It fell on Eric and I to make a decision so we decided that the negative feelings she would bring were not what we needed.Me: "Ask Miss Cleo to give me a better future.the way I see it Tameka is the one who tries to fit in but it's not my drama so I say nothing. Later that day we had a group outing to see Star Trek (which I've already seen) so I texted my friend who got us free tickets and told him about the drama..... seriously. juniors and seniors are all together.. where do you get off telling people how they're living their life? I don't see you having a perfect life. I sit with my social circle and the clique mediator of one of the cliques within my circle starts up drama with Jairy (this is what she was talking about earlier but I had no idea that the mediator was the drama whore.. enough with the fucking drama.
you used too many Os [HAHA this girl used my line] Me: What? Ur using my lines now? What are you trying to be a better player than me.. I'll see you later.. i'm going to a movie with my friends anyway.. her name is Stephanie (I put her name since she is now in more than one FR)..I mean we were watching an epic ass movie anyway.ever. but I needed time to think about how to mediate the situation.. Five points off... Flava Flav? (this is a joke that has to do with something in the first FR..yeah I'm coming over pop me some popcorn.and you're bored.because that's what we're going to do. Her: for wat? Me: You used too many Os At the movie.. . =================================================== After I got out of school later I texted S from the AIDS walk. Me: So now that you're a senior let's party and fuck like animals Her: noooooo i'm busyyy Me: lol. I don't know how girls do it.told him to hold her ticket. Her: OMG you are soooo not coming over! I'm not that easy! [This is the worst ASD like.it was a hard decision. tension from the day was released but nothing much happened. Oh! and that's five points off. I swear] Me: Yeah you're totally that easy. Don't get any ideas.you know to watch a movie with. you can read it in my Journal on this forum) Her: FLAVA FLAAAAAAAAV! lmfao. I'm just bored hanging around the house.. After the movie I went home and was about to watch Scary Movie when I decided to text Stephanie.... well I got this movie in my hand and I'm dressed. Me: "BOO!" Her: "Ahhh!" Earlier today (yesterday now) she had an event at her school where she transitioned into a senior.. Me: Wuts going ooooooon? Her: Nothing. I hate drama. no I'm already a better player than you Flav Me: Riiiiiiiight. =================================================== In high-school regardless of how much you try to remove yourself from it drama will chase you....
. so this is the end of this FR... but just making sure. no ideas....I thought rape was supposed to feel.then that means you can rape me and I'd have no witnesses.." I was trying to get her desire to peak.. all I have is leftover lasagna" Me: "What kind of movie food is that?" I went into the house and asked if her folks were around even though I knew they weren't. Like an hour into the movie she put her head in my lap and looked up at me expectantly.this way I wouldn't have any LMR." I kissed her again and put her on my lap. I wanted her to make the first move. She leaned back onto my chest and I bit her lightly on the ear (she had told me that this turned her on before).gosh its long. Me: "Popped my popcorn?" Her: "I didn't have any popcorn.. Head off the cock honey" =================================================== Aside from the fact that I like scary movie. "That's all you get... -Darkpwns . Then she pushed me back and started making out with me.I got there like 30 minutes later. that way if anything happened it would be her idea and she wouldn't have buyer's remorse.. I didn't think I'd get it..Yeah I'm not going to get into how I get sex... When she released she looked at me with her best seductive look... She opened the door. Me: "Don't tell me this is rape....I think I'll sit over here" I scooted a few inches down on the couch..bad... She started rubbing her ass on my lap to try and get me hard [Girls. Me: "Hey I told you. Me: "Oh great. =================================================== She obeyed my demand for a short time until she got aggravated that I really wasn't going to try anything..are evil.] At this point my hard to get plan would just make me self-destruct so I flipped her over onto the couch..boy I was hooked..
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