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Hello! Thanks for investing in Elite Social Control. I am sure you will find it a worthwhile investment. With a minimum exertion of time and effort you will soon realize your full potential to influence others. Allow me to tell you a story. A friend of mine, who we’ll call “Bill” for now, was “stuck” a few years ago. He was very frustrated with his inability to get dates, attract women, etc. Bill started studying all the “dating gurus” out there, and within a few months he not only started getting dates, but became quite the ladies man. He was puzzled with his success because in his own words, “I hardly studied any of that stuff and I’m still successful. What about all these guys that study it for years and never really get what they want?” By accident, the changes Bill did make were ones that increased his personal magnetism. He started dressing better, being more social, and improving the image he projects to other people. He also managed to let go of many of the bitter feelings he had towards women brought on by his lack of success with them. This is what made him a success with the ladies.
You may think I am harsh on the hypnosis and seduction gurus in my sales letter for Elite Social Control and here in the book. On the contrary, I think many of these “gurus” actually have something to contribute. The problem is this: most of them don’t give you a solid foundation to start with. Knowing intricate language patterns can be a good thing – but without a solid foundation of magnetism the language patterns are similar to cheap tricks from a second-rate magician. Able to impress occasionally, but not very consistent. Look at a hypnotist do a stage show. Any stage hypnotist worth a damn will dress well; have music playing as he walks out in front of the audience, etc. The hypnotist is using his Magnetic Mind to influence the audience into believing he is someone of status. After he has done this, it is easy for him to “hypnotize” them and get them to do what he says. He used his magnetism – whether natural or learned – to get what he wanted. The above is just one example of what I believe to be the “cart before the horse” approach of many. Let’s stop worrying about fancy lawn ornaments for a bit and concern ourselves with laying down the foundation for the house. I’d like to thank you again for purchasing this book. If you’d like to communicate with me, please drop me a line at email@example.com
Bob or Amy will feel a strange. It is paramount that you follow everything in this section closely. you must eliminate. If Bob or Amy is taller or better looking than you. but don’t agonize over the fact that you have no more yourself. Desire to rule or oppress others 7. rid your mind of those comparisons. Envy no one anything he has. Even if you manage to hide them from your face they will creep into your voice and your general demeanor. All urges to impress others Of course. 3. In order to acquire the magnetic mind. unexplainable vibe in the atmosphere around you and will be repelled by it. with prejudice: 1.Basis for the Magnetic Mind The most important step in dominating others mentally is developing your magnetic mind. the rules above do not mean that you should act like some nobody that is merely being tolerated by others. 2. Doubt and fear of your ability to please others All antagonisms towards other people Your eagerness to get the best of others Feelings of superiority over anyone Thoughts of yourself as the only person that matters 6. 5. . Hostile thoughts that you secretly hold against others will show on your face no matter how hard you attempt to hide them. 4.
Another important step in the development of the Magnetic Mind is freeing you from worry. Con Artistry You can still dislike a person and fool them about your feelings towards them. Block it out of your mind the minute you sense it disturbing you. Don’t wait until you are constantly worrying about a negative influence to put an end to it. In this way. When you feel the “gnawing” feeling oppressing you following a misunderstanding with someone. the con artist prevents the victim from responding to his “hunches”. Don’t dodge the issue by thinking about something else. If you are you will be affected by the unfriendly thoughts and actions of those who dislike you… and a major portion of what you perceive to by unfriendly will be a misperception on your part. so we have to develop a way to block them immediately. None of us has the time to spend the better part of our lives dealing with these psychological issues in the standard way. He does it by maintaining a conversation with the victim that prevents the victim from listening to warnings from his subconscious. stop all introspective thoughts in your mind at once before the “mind poison” buries itself in your brain. because that can push the already existing “mind poison” deeper into your brain. . The con artist does this all the time.
The Proper Way to Ignore Fools With the Magnetic Mind. you have nothing to fear from other people. If the other person is in a bad mood and dislikes you for whatever reason. concealed his true opinion of the victim through a running commentary of words and an endless barrage of wit and clever flattery. or at least arouse too much suspicion for the con artist to overcome. natural wit. Ignore . stop wasting your time.Think of your hunches as impressions from your subconscious. the victim loses contact with him and does not smarten up even though his natural feelings are telling him to. The victim’s mind. This strategy is hardly worth the risk involved. An astounding number of people respond to the Magnetic Mind. to summarize. and no need to conceal anything from them. Any error on his part will cause the whole thing to be exposed. is left with swirling thoughts of the false visual and auditory impressions it received from the con artist and is now shut tightly against all logic concerning the matter. When the con artist leaves he takes his aura with him. Aside from the darker aspects of this “art”. even after you have tried to win them over. in addition. warning you about people and situations. The con artist. His imagination builds up the crook as a demigod. the con artist’s strategy requires an extraordinary amount of quick.
but if you associate with them only now and then. . when you see the person in the future ignore them as you would a piece of debris in the street. There are understanding people who can still like you if you are self-conscious once they know you well. you not only waste your mind power in needless worry about your ability to please others. they could misinterpret your self-consciousness and regard you as selfish and arrogant. These types of people are hopeless. and you will lose your magnetism with them. Don’t drain yourself of mental vitality as you approach him and end up regretting the encounter for the rest of the day. If you adopt a bitter attitude towards him. You are not self-conscious when you are alone with a pet that you don’t worry about pleasing. but you also can’t put your best foot forward with them. But don’t waste your energy angering them so you have to avoid them in the future. They antagonize others and receive their negative thoughts in return. it will subconsciously creep into your dealings with others. The Magnetic Mind and Self-Consciousness The Magnetic Mind destroys self-consciousness. Don’t waste your mental power regularly in situations like that. You are self-conscious when you doubt your ability to please or control others.the small amount that either can’t be or are too difficult to be influenced. If you are ever ignored after attempting to use the Magnetic Mind. When self-conscious.
It relieves you of the tension of trying to give yourself courage. and never achieve any real improvement. listen to self-help audio. and your urges to . especially if it is based upon nothing specific. Confidence is the end product of a mastered skill. your antagonism. The same is true of courage and other positive mental attitudes. But neither should you assume a “can do it” attitude about any skill unless you can do it right. Never assume hastily that you cannot do something right just because you did it wrong before. merely by assuming a confident manner. so that you can cast off your fears and doubts about pleasing others. It is no different with negative mental traits like general lack of confidence or courage. for example. Adopting any new trait builds up tension. This simple exercise will rid you of all feeling of Self. How to Develop the Basis For The Magnetic Mind Here is an exercise for you: The Thought Destroyer. and other positive traits. confidence. These evolve from the failures that abound when you try to learn a new skill. Blind confidence is of little value because sooner or later you are jolted out of it by failure in performance. This is the reason so many people read self-help books. You cannot acquire confidence in being charming.The Magnetic Mind and Nervousness The Magnetic Mind will also bring you another important blessing.
his is the ideal subject with whom to practice this exercise.” Smile at him and stare at the bridge of his nose directly between the eyes (do not star into his eyes. imagine yourself on the sidewalk. convert your mind into a mental blank by banishing every thought from it. “Zero… zero… zero”. He arouses inferiority feelings in you and destroys your natural charm. As you two draw near. You will then have the basis of the Magnetic Mind. To achieve this. now. or look down upon others. Don’t wait for his reply. or you will perceive his unfriendly glare. Stare at an insignificant spot on the wall and repeat to yourself silently. both in your imagination and in actual life. But since it is impossible to avoid him. something . by thinking again. impress. running into somebody you know – somebody you dislike. subjugate. the kindest thoughts and fil yourself with an eagerness to meet him. The moment you lay eyes on him. do the Thought Destroyer. It rids you of the opposite urge: the urge to feel inferior to others or to dread that you cannot please them.) But he believes that you are staring into his eyes. Sit alone in your room. Project to him. tell him “Glad to see you again!” Prevent all introspection from returning to you. no matter how hard you try. “Zero… zero… zero.surpass. but add something meaningless to what you said.
even when he is not present. and most important. This one exercise is all you need to master the basis of the Magnetic Mind. and march on. How This Exercise Helps You The basis of the Magnetic Mind is mastered faster when practiced in private with an obnoxious person in mind. so that it responds only to the suggestions which you yourself put into it. but by relaxing and rolling with them. but by limiting your emotional reactions to others.about the weather. Last. (You’ll learn more about how to have productive conversations later. . not by building up tensions in you with affirmations of courage and confidence. It enables you to meet and walk past the unpleasant individual without being shaken up by the encounter. With that routine you can move past him without really seeing him or being rude to him. for instance. ready to apply the laws of magnetism on him. It rids you of doubts and fears with people. you encounter fierce personality resistance. It leaves your mind unaffected by its immediate social environment. than when practiced in person with a well-mannered friend or relative who approves of you. With the obnoxious person. It teaches you how to meet the blows of rudeness.) Continue smiling at him and staring at the bridge of his nose. not with your chin. it keeps your head cool.
just before you meet the individual. and his psyche receives no unfriendly subconscious thoughts from you.When applied to the average or the better-raised person. and he feels an irresistible rapport with you before you utter a word. With your mind a blank. projecting only the best feelings for him. he receives the wave-lengths of your well-intentioned thoughts and is stirred by them. so to speak. Your very expression is altered by that frame of mind. Your mental blank purifies your thinking. . He is impressed by your staring “into his eyes”. the basis of the Magnetic Mind captivates him instantly.
If you’re the skeptical sort I believe you will be surprised by the results. He might even warn others to watch out for you. Learn the lessons. Please do not dismiss this material as “magic” or “witchcraft”. To achieve this goal you must be able to influence – or command – the thoughts of others. he grows suspicious and resists your further “telepathic” attempts to command his thinking. Unspoken words can have a stronger effect on the thoughts of others than the spoken or written word. it is undetected by the other person. you are now ready to learn about Projected Thought Commands (PTC). If it does not benefit him. yet. do the exercises. if skillfully directed to him. . and give it a chance. For everyday use you aren’t seeking a power to accomplish miracles. but a power to help you attain your goals in life. he feels is influence and interprets it as his own thought – if your projected thought benefits him. For one thing.Projected Thought Commands After mastering the first exercise of Mental Magnetism. This is one of the most effective lessons in Elite Social Control. which is why you purchased this book. You seek a power to help you influence others.
Worthy Thoughts The more worthy your thought. has its problems. A doctor gains by healing his patient. because the other person feels attached to you and sings your praises. The first requisite for successful thought commands is to seek to do something worthwhile with your thought for the other person whose thoughts you wish to command. Your reputation grows. too. If you wish to break him of a bad habit. the lover by adoring his beloved. but is convinced that they are weakening and not filling. have to be something which he himself will accept as being of value to him. It will. You gain too. the more the other person gains from it. but is anxious about his heart. the politician by satisfying his voters. Jesus Christ and the other mystics applied extra-sensory perception for worthy purposes. That is why religious leaders so often effect miraculous cures. He might wish to east more fruits and vegetables. of course. When someone becomes enslaved to anything. He might wish to exercise. You can sway the other person most easily when you want to do him good. He . he might enjoy the habit and hang on to it. To cure others of disease is certainly to do them good. the storekeeper and the salesman by pleasing their customers. He might also wish to adopt the new habit but resists it because of a misconception about it hat he holds. But this. he falls in love with it.
Allah. An overpowering desire to help another person is the core of success in thought-commanding. he failed to perform miracles. Those who believed in Christ loved him. Sit alone in your room and visualize before you the person whose thoughts you wish to command. List beside each thought the gains which you epect him to derive from it.might wish to stop smoking and drinking. but fears losing out in his social circle. Moses. and you will be amazed at the power you acquire! First Step: The Enslaving Frame of Mind The enslaving frame of mind is the step best calculated to do a world of good to the other person. and he performed miracles for them. loved his followers. Practice them. Take paper and pen and list the thought or thoughts which you want to accept. Nothing is more enslaving than the emotion of love. At this time we’ll break down thought-commanding into a series of easily executed steps. He. also commanded the thoughts of others. b. In his own hometown. etc. You will always run into psychic walls put up against you by the person whose thoughts you wish to command. They have to be gains . where he was less popular. Be sure that the gains are not solely your gains. in turn. Exercise to Acquire the Enslaving Frame of Mind: a. and this enslaved them to Him. Mohammed.
or he will sense the selfish motive behind them and withdraw outside you mental control. obliterate from your mind all thought related to your profit. but you may be commanding him with a thought that enrages him. Visualize him realizing these blessings and feeling grateful to you. think only of the savings and blessings which your prospect could realize from it. Should he purchase your product at your price. husband. You . for example. Replace it with the thought of the advantages which the prospective customer will enjoy from your product. you will profit from the sale. to satisfying him. To sell the merchandise. That is the enslaving frame of mind. and hope to profit from the sale. To enslave anybody to you. business man. parent. If you are a salesman. so why keep thinking about your profit? Sell your merchandise first! Your profit or commission will automatically take care of itself. visualize him convincingly in the act of gaining from your thought command. It enslaves him to you! Do likewise if you are a professional man. Second Step: The Enslaving Selection The Enslaving Selection is just as necessary. Dedicate yourself. for the moment.for the other person as well. You may sincerely desire to help as individual. or friend.
If you are a doctor. the instant you relax your thoughtcommanding. but she may be (or thinks she is) in love with him. the more successful you will be. The utmost tact and perseverance are necessary. It is likely that the more skillfully you attempt to influence a hard case over time. Even if you do succeed. Expect 100% success in nothing you attempt in life. You may be a parent and wish to prevent your daughter from keeping company with an undesirable man. . and never stop trying. These are a sample of the difficulties which you encounter every day. the other person returns to his old habits. it might be easier to transfer her to a distant school and let absence and new interests finish her attachment for the undesirable man. In the case of the love-blinded girl. You may want to sell somebody a product he needs badly but which he cannot appreciate. you might have to settle for persuading your patient to smoke less. The failure never compromises but runs headfirst into disaster. On the other hand. never resign yourself to failure. The most successful man knows when (and with whom) to compromise.may be a doctor and wish to stop your patient from smoking. To command the other person’s thoughts as you wish under such conditions is no easy task. but he might deeply resent such advice.
Thought-commanding may be more subtle. Write down beside each of your command thoughts for any person exactly what reaction you would expect from him if you were to blurt out orally those thoughts to him. If you can’t affect it enough. If his friends would laugh at him and tease him into ignoring your advice. you are ready to . Third Step: Establishing Psychic Union Having put yourself into the enslaving frame of mind and picked out the enslaving selection.Exercise for the Enslaving Selection: a. to make him like you better. you cannot command his thoughts. When your skill and confidence in thought-commanding grows you can select more difficult objectives. mark that down. Mark down anything that might hinder your efforts to command hig thoughts. Don’t shut your eyes to any difficulty you might meet. more unsuspected and more effective than oral commanding. but you still have to affect the other person’s subconscious mind to put it across. mark that down. If you feel that he might purchase your product if you don’t appear eager to sell it. to listen to you more attentively. If they might anger him. mark that down. to have more respect for you. to speak to you longer. Success will be faster when you choose an easier objective with which to enslave him such as.
Just sit there calmly. “I want to do you all the good I can”. Thought-commanding is an art of extreme subtlety. The least suggestion of force. You have to establish such an absolute telepathic rapport with the other person that he obeys you with the unsuspecting. breathing easily and staring kindly at him. You want his conscious mind to assume that the thought which has suddenly possessed him originated from within him. that you yourself just happen to be present or to have accidentally entered his thoughts just then.command the other person’s thoughts. Exercise for Establishing Psychic Union: Sit before your mirror in your room and pretend that your image is that of another person. without hesitation. even if he is astounded later at what he did. You are not trying to rule him with your thoughts but to command his thinking. Putting your thought into silent words suggests it better to both of you. He has to obey your thought-command spontaneously. or personal effort on your part thwarts it. hammering insistence. think out to him such self-sacrificing . that would call up his defenses. You don’t even want him to suspect what you are about to do. unresisting responsiveness of a subject carrying out a hypnotic suggestion. Still better. coercion. Don’t fill yourself with power to blast him off the scene. Think out to him.
sentiments as. instead.” The statement. If you are a salesman or a business man. Feeling the Psychic Wall Give After you establish psychic union with the other person. You will even assume that your PTC’s are either being received or rejected by the other person. ramming a heavy log against a wall in the dark. You want him. If he is in your presence. You won’t experience this feeling at first. and that the log suddenly shifted into a hole in the wall and plunged through it easily. That’s how it feels when “the psychic wall” gives. you will feel a sudden lessening of the resistance against the pressure you are exerting on his mind. to open the floodgates of his mind and receive your messages with the least resistance and carry them out like his own. Your best interests are my main concern. It feels as if you had been straining. “I am ready to do anything to make you happy. your own best interests have to remain your main concern. you convinced your mother or father to do something that they initially opposed for some time before finally giving in. as a child. This is similar to the feeling you got when. You will then have established psychic union with him. you will be more aware of the psychic wall giving when it does. . of course. But you can’t let your subconscious telepathize that thought into the other person’s mind. is not strictly accurate. or he will become wary of you.
at first. The stranger has not heard you talk much. but one is more effective than the other in different situations. but. . This applies as much to a new prospect as to a new patient or client. Once you develop exceptional skill at thoughtcommanding. pick out the well-selected enslaving goal which you wish to implant in his mind. and the word-form with your family and regular companions. When you feel it give. He might even presume that you possess a different voice and speech than you do. you will be ready to command another’s thoughts. The Picture-Form Projected Thought Command For the stranger. He is not used to speaking or listening to you. Many reasons exist for this. The picture-form seems to be more effective with strangers. The latter are conditioned to dealing with you in words and will absorb your word-messages easier. Fourth Step: Commanding the Thoughts of Others The actual thought-command can be delivered either in word or picture form. Both ways are effective.Master establishing psychic union until you feel the wall give. if at all. His subconscious has not built up conditioned reflexes from past associations with you. it would be more effective for you to project the picture-form to strangers and the word-form to your family and regular companions. it makes little difference which form you use.
use a different one. And keep it there before him. except when used for hypnosis. moving and alive. Next time you project a picture-form PTC to him. . A moving picture is dramatic and does not bore. still picture. Don’t project the picture long. Never repeat that same picture after that with the same person.Let your mental picture of this well-selected enslaving goal seep into his mind by your thinking it out to him. of the stranger performing exactly what you wish him to do. A living. your future efforts to command his thoughts could prove futile. Let it drift through the air and push through the open floodgates of his mind. Should he grow conditioned to resists your thought messages. moving picture projected from your mind. The human mind promptly gets bored with the same thing. enthralls his subconscious and prevents it from closing its doors against your thought messages. Boredom cuts off psychic union. or your picture-forms will soon fail to arouse him. Don’t create a dead. Withdraw it before the stranger’s subconscious mind builds up resistance against it. and quickly alter your PTC’s to the word-form. Strive to meet the stranger you don’t know quickly. Three or four seconds are long enough.
The method proved most effective. They procured articles belonging to their victims. But the witches also used thought-forms. and very frequently bringing on illness. These thought-waves were so powerful that the witches succeeded in disturbing these people very badly mentally. By concentrating long on their desires and projecting them. then projected the evil PTC’s to them. or the animals of these people. . The methods they employed were revealed in their confessions – and not the confessions that were tortured out of them. Almost all witches confessed that they: 1. Fixed their minds on other people. and 2. Another confessed method used by the witches and sorcerers was psychometry.The Secrets of Witchcraft The superstitious people of former times called the witches “in league with the devil”. held them in their hands to secure astral contact with their owners. they developed stupendous thought-form powers and enjoyed amazing success. Held a concentrated mental picture of these people or animals clearly before their minds and then sent forth thought-waves to them carrying the evil thoughts about them which they wished would happen to them. either.
The figures only provided the witch a set target which to project her thoughts. in the general shape and appearance of their intended victims. How to Project Thought Commands PTC’s are more effectively delivered when the target expects to receive them from you and approves of it. The same applies to the witches. nevertheless. It was believed that these little figures possessed supernatural powers or attributes and brought on the evil which the witch hoped for. does not imply that you yourself have no such power. that wasn’t the case. But her power was not necessarily supernatural. that you wish him well and want to help him. The fact that her clay or wax figure possessed no psychic power in itself is no indication that she herself had none. It was obviously PTC power developed to an overwhelming degree. as well as helped her visualize her intended victims more clearly and easily. for instance. either. They even stuck pins into them and cursed them daily. But obviously. The fact that the prop itself has no psychic power. he will be more receptive to your . The same results could be achieved without those props. although the props fill one with needed confidence.Still other witches molded little figures of clay or wax. They were equivalent to your own image in the mirror when you stare at it and imagine it to be another person in order to project more easily your mind-power to him. If John is convinced.
will not remain implanted firmly in his mind. Now. Project to him a mental picture so perfect that it lodges in his mind and obliterates the negative picture of himself which he already holds. Personal inspiration would help. If he suffers from inferiority feelings. If he distrusts you. If he doubts his ability to succeed in his undertaking (even to get a good job). dispatch this perfectly conceived PTC into his conscious mind. Bridge this gap by intensifying the PTC you intend to throw at him. though. Suppose now that John lacks confidence in himself and that you wish to fill him with it so that he can make better use of his talents. Stare at a picture of John or hold an article of his in your hand and visualize the scene involving him which you wish to come true. whether or not he expects it. You have to project it to him again a few minutes later. the picture starts turning vague to him. visualize him as a progressive optimist drawing success to himself from many directions. visualize him as bursting with confidence.projection. . visualize him doing well when he applies. This PTC. The moment you ease your projection. his subconscious mind will block you out when it receives the message from you. If he is a pessimist. but his gnawing doubts might come back again after you two separate. visualize him as bursting with confidence. If he is a pessimist.
or several evenings in a row if you are reasonably certain John will be home. Without a picture to stare at. The Effect of Props The picture of John you stare at. and that will enable you to send the PTC more effectively. will not increase the power of your PTC. Artists make use of models for the same reason. One evening’s of PTC’s will not be enough if John is convinced that he is a failure. or the article you hold in your hand. That is why witches stuck pins into the clay or wax images of their intended victims. But it will help you create in the PTC a sharper impression of John. Repeat it again the next evening. . but with actual models to guide their eyes they can paint or draw more closely to reality and still not limit their imaginations.Project it again and again for about 10 minutes. as he will immediately recognize himself in your PTC. you might visualize John somewhat differently than he actually looks. or if he is a confirmed pessimist. might fail to recognize himself in your PTC. and he. They overlooked nothing that might add realism to their PTC’s. Most of them can paint or draw well enough without models. as a consequence.
Social Black Magic Lisa, your neighbor, might despise you only because she envies your appearance, your position in life, your lovely hair, your smile, or something else. She habitually thinks about you and wishes you harm or great loss. These steadily streaming thoughts, while not systematically marshaled against you in themselves conspire to bring about the effects of black magic. Whenever you run into her anywhere, you feel uneasy and unwelcome, as if she wished to avoid you. You even harbor a suspicion (and probably a correct one) that she both thinks about you and discusses you at great length with her husband. The toughest soul cannot endure this steady battering of psychic poison day after day and not grow aware of it. Before long, you grow supersensitive about the situation. When a pebble bounces near you on the sidewalk, you swear it was hurled by Lisa. You feel increasingly unsafe and your very expression changes. Spiteful Lisa observes it, dislikes you all the more for it, and wishes you even more harm. The vicious circle continues until it becomes impossible for you to live near her any longer and remain your calm, peaceful self. You have lost your sense of humor, you rage against Lisa and dread her, and you glare at her warily on the street. Your appetite deserts you, and you are restless at night. Even if you don’t waste away, your
vitality will be sapped, and your career and daily life suffer accordingly. If that isn’t black magic, what is? How to Neutralize Social Black Magic It is difficult to neutralize yourself against the steady stream of psychic poison emanating from Lisa unless you move from the neighborhood. Since you like that neighborhood, you must make use of social selfdefense. Waste no time or effort trying to stop Lisa’s insidious PTC’s from corroding your mind. That would only devitalize you. Either blank out your mind to her with the Thought Destroyer, or recall something pleasant and let Lisa exhaust herself, pouring her malicious thoughts against your unreceptive mind. Exercise: Visualize yourself encountering Lisa on the sidewalk. Instantly start recalling to mind the exciting movie or football game you saw or listened to recently. Again, follow your favorite star or athlete in his thrilling acting or skillful movements. Watch tensely again when the tide turns against him and breathe easier again when he turns it back. Maintain this reverie for at least 10 minutes, when you will have long forgotten Lisa. By engrossing yourself for about 10 minutes in this way you won’t leave yourself open to being upset for hours by her “black magic” after she has departed. The more sensitive you are, and the more lonesome your life, the more such stressful situations will disturb you. So, learn to neutralize them swiftly. Mastering and applying this
exercise also keeps you from engaging, in turn, in resentful, fatiguing brooding against such a person. Practice this exercise until you can use it at will.
Few. Almost everyone. Rude. And yet. their expressions were grim. it is only natural to accept grim expressions as first-hand evidence of a rude. The Power of the Elite Gaze Almost everyone judges the expressions of others by what he remembers about the more obvious expressions of his parents and friends. When they were pleasant. therefore. These people reacted naturally to him. while considerate people do look pleasant most of the time. That encourages a meeting of minds. sympathetic nature. have dealt enough with con artists to understand that a bland expression also accompanies hypocrisy. or dealt enough with. It affects their thinking by suggesting to them that you harbor the right frame of mind towards him.Acquiring the Elite Gaze Although the Elite Gaze begins in your mind. You strike him as a long lost twin – as the one person on earth who probably thinks and feels as he does. unfriendly people do look unpleasant much of the time. unfriendly nature. their expressions were bland. deep thinkers to understand that a grim expression also accompanies deep concentration or intense application. the effect it has on the person you’re communicating with is extensive. is mixed up about . too. and bland expression as firsthand evidence of a considerate. Few people have met. When they were in a bad mood.
how to figure out others. cunning con artist. ignored. It suggests that you are years younger than you are. 2. they flock to him. People without appealing personalities live perpetually in dread of being slighted. and general play of your features. shunted aside. even insulted by others. Such intense interest leads the subject to believe . that you are no shrewd. that you will neither look down upon. In fact. you have to be careful not to let such people become clinging pests. Show intense interest in the other person in your eyes and lips. of their doubts and fears respecting their own lack of personal charm. and that you are loyal to your friends and are liked by practically everybody. When you are with people it relieves them of their tensions. When they encounter someone with the Elite Gaze. that you are both naïve and satisfyingly intelligent. This suggests that you are easy to dominate or to get along with. Con artists instinctively realize this and take advantage of it with the Elite Gaze. Two Qualities of the Elite Gaze 1. of their psychological aberrations. that you are easy to please and will insult no one. Complete lack of tension on your face suggests that you can be turned to in time of need. Complete lack of tension on your face. nor dominate anyone. that you are agreeable and not looking for a quarrel.
Nothing can make someone like you faster than the Elite Gaze. Let them flash no curiosity about his private affairs. This interest suggests a healthy mental attitude backed by the energy and willingness to do something worthwhile for him. How to Develop the Elite Gaze To reiterate. while an attentive stare implies sincere interest in the individual himself. A shifty eye brings to mind a sly detective. To acquire this ability of the Elite Gaze. and how to apply them Exercise 1: The Thought Destroyer Repeat this exercise. Complete lack of tension on your face 2. Imagine yourself suddenly encountering obnoxious Robert somewhere. Showing intense interest in the other person in your eyes. This unpleasant experience tenses your face and fills you with fear or . be his friend. and take his side. but they should be attentive and fixed upon his eyes. your eyes should not be shifty or veiled. Sit calmly in the privacy of your room. Nothing can break down the other person’s resistance faster than the Elite Gaze. It suggests an absence of a pay-me-for-everything-I-do-for-you attitude.that you want to help him. the two qualities of the Elite Gaze are: 1. a flattery which few persons receive too much of during their lives.
It is a natural beautifier. You will not relax all your muscles the first time you try it. The all-over relaxer also helps with nervousness. relax your face. but practice it until you are keenly aware of the muscles of your eyes. So. and your toes stop digging into the soles of your shoes. Actually feel the muscles of your brow. and lips ease themselves out. get up now and walk around. hands and feet. Relax the rest of your body as well. but relax and think to yourself (in order to escape the tension of stopping thinking altogether). Boxers train . so your thinking comes to a halt. so that your fingers hang naturally. but let only your walking muscles work. So – at once. “Zero… zero… zero. But don’t drop your chest and slump. Exercise 2: The All-Over Relaxer With your mind a blank now. Relax all your other muscles.” A simple spot on the wall hardly arouses your interest. cheeks. tongue and throat. stare across the room at any eyelevel spot on the wall. particularly your hands and feet. Exercise 3: Limited Activation This exercise and the next train you to maintain the Elite Gaze even when your body is in action. Good posture contributes much to ESC.anger. The all-over relaxer blesses your face with the peace and handsomeness often perceived on the face of the newly dead. Sit still.
The same applies to the swimmer. while he is taking advantage of them. to catch their prospective victims off guard. Even when they throw a punch. ready to strike a blow or to block one. Con artists try hard to pass for dupes. so he lets them believe that they are taking advantage of him. the golfer. you will find that you eyes look larger and younger and more innocent than they normally do. Keep your shrewdness within you. their bodies are relaxed until the very instant the fist lands. he will not dislike you for it. Don’t let others detect it. It is also one of the secrets for creating the Elite Gaze. A shrewd look is fatal to the Magnetic Mind. The con artists realizes that people seek bargains. If you stare at yourself in the mirror while thus relaxed. It combats wrinkles and retains the look of youth. the acrobat. especially in your eyes. Exercise 4: The Shrewdness-Concealer Keep your face relaxed as you move around the room. the experienced worker. whatever you do. Don’t cultivate a shrewd look. If the other person presumes that you can be easily fooled or victimized by him. Make that a daily habit wherever you go. the ballerina.themselves to relax even while they are gliding around the ring with their fists cocked. Grow steadily aware of the muscles of your face and relax them at once when they feel tight. The smart salesman lets his . Only during that instant do their bodies tense steel hard.
prospect suppose that he is naïve and is practically giving his merchandise away. Exercise 6: The Concentration-Concealer Pick up a serious book and read it studiously or even try to solve a problem or to understand a theory explained in it. Counteract this by again relaxing every muscle of your face. Your brow will contract as it normally does when you think. Let the muscles that do the lifting or exercising contract and work. Lift a heavy enough object or do a hard enough exercise. At the same time. cheeks. the prospect would be suspicious of him or her. The shrewdness–concealer can be worth a fortune to you. Exercise 5: Super-Limited Activation Now perform something that requires more strenuous muscular action. and tongue. People are more willing to deal with you then. eyes. strong men relax their faces and smile while supporting enormous weight overhead. . Were the salesman to let the prospect believe that he was dealing with a shrewd person. It pays to be considered simple enough by a prospect of any kind not to realize the true value of the gold nugget you hold in your hand. When posing for pictures. Repeat with different books. Ballerinas train themselves to smile pleasantly while performing difficult routines. relax the muscles of your brow. lips.
instruct the imaginary crowd. but keep your throat relaxed like an experienced speaker. but which requires deep thinking. relax the muscles of your face and go on. remain aware of your facial muscles and relax them the moment they contract. The muscles of your lips and tongue will automatically contract and relax as you talk. Every time your excitement mounts and you tense. When talking to it. Or. This removes the selfconsciousness that results from talking to other people. Talking to someone is what causes you to tense when talking. You don’t feel that it might be analyzing you and looking for inconsistencies in your . how to perform a skill you have mastered. Keep the muscles of your brow. as if talking to a flower. actually talk to a flower or to some other inanimate object at first. your eyes will stop staring fixedly at the flower and move about naturally. The stutterer would not stutter over the telephone if he thought that the line was dead. or an imaginary person in private. eyes. Your voice will improve.Exercise 7: The Trick of Talking To a Flower Stand in front of a mirror and speak spontaneously to an imaginary crowd about something you know well. perhaps. because you are not made uneasy by the intelligence of the flower. Don’t let your facial muscles contract. Talking to a flower will help you to relax easier all over. and cheeks relaxed. With your face muscles relaxed. In fact.
You can correct any mistake you make to the flower without embarrassment. . Despite your efforts to stay relaxed. see the flower. you will tense.speech. Note: It doesn’t really matter what your eyes see before them when you deal directly with anyone. You will then be able to talk to your own image as easily and as relaxed as you talk to the flower. So turn once more to the actual flower and continue talking and again relax. again turn to your image in the mirror and talk to it. Your voice deepens. your words are more clearly enunciated. Exercise 8: The Secret Stamp of the Flower Look again in the mirror and gaze into your own eyes as you would into those of someone else. the less you “See” the other person the better – so far as applying the Magnetic Mind on them is concerned. Repeat this exercise until you can stare straight at your own image in the mirror – but only see the flower. But instead of seeing your own image. Go on talking as if still talking to the flower. Unless you are dealing with someone you’re intimate with. The flower cannot – and will not – ridicule you. a more fascinating rhythm creeps into your speech. the easier it is for you to apply the laws of ESC. Once relaxed. You feel at peace when speaking to it. The more you forget them as a person. and your word-choice improves because your mental powers concentrate fully on it.
Exercise for the Correct Expression For the Elite Gaze As effective as relaxing your face is in creating the Elite Gaze. talk to the images as if talking to a flower. and poise. do the Thought Destroyer exercise. as well as the rest of your face and body. In both instances.Exercises 9 and 10: Spreading the Secret Stamp of the Flower Exercise 9: Make exercise 8 more difficult now. Again. until you can speak to his staring-back eyes without the least tension or self-consciousness – just as if talking to a flower. and seeing them as your very own. and the correct expressions stems from the right mental attitude. You have to add the correct expression to it. by staring into your own eyes in the mirror. Repeat this exercise with a live trusted friend. Reply to them bunt keep your face relaxed as if still talking to a flower. Exercise 10: Let the trusted friend interrupt you repeatedly and bother you with questions. confidence. it is not enough by itself. Ever stare at the portrait of someone you know. Stare at a spot on the wall with your mind a blank and your face . This exercise will develop stage presence.
Here is exercise summarized: 1. You don’t have to think of ways to help it. Everybody who works has to meet people for whom he cares little or nothing. deep interest in them through sheer auto-suggestion. To interest yourself in a spot on the wall will be more difficult than to interest yourself in someone you like at sight. just feel willing to help it. Fill yourself to bursting with interest in that insignificant spot. Stare at it with a relaxed face. where it could be more easily observed. Perhaps it would rather be found nearer the light. Relax the muscles of your face – those of your brows. however. You can stir up within you. Perhaps it would rather be on a different wall. eyes. Once the person feels that you are genuinely interested in him. too. you won’t like at sight many of the people you meet. Stare at an insignificant spot on the wall 2.relaxed. On the other hand. but he has to conceal his feelings and pretend to like them. and let your . as you do with the spot on the wall. Blank out your mind with the “Zero” 3. Some of them will be nice people. Feel ready and willing to do anything possible to improve it. But don’t long to help it like a zealous reformer. cheeks. Fill yourself with a desire to help that spot on the wall in every way you can. you have onw him to you. and lips 4.
Just do exactly what you practiced with the spot on the wall. you will easily be able to assume it with people. like a sympathizing friend.thoughts show through. You cannot attain these results by merely pantomiming an interest in him. Long to help him. Your eyes will brighten. After practicing this longing to help an inanimate object. Warning: When applying this method on a person. like a spot on the wall. don’t merely stare at him and feign interest in him. . and your lips will assume an amicable curve. whether they interest you or not.
Nothing can hurt his or her feelings more than the wrong statement coming from someone whom he or she suddenly trusts. you can lose it instantly by saying the wrong thing. It takes at least two persons to make popularity possible. somebody .Magnetic Statements Once your Elite Gaze has filled the other person with faith and confidence in you. The Necessity of the Magnetic Statement No matter how strong a hold you have over someone. you are ready to take the next important step toward practical and profitable Elite Social Control. How the Magnetic Statements Affects Others Saying the right thing to people lifts their spirits and fills them with joy. At last. is potential for popularity. To enjoy its fruits. At last. they feel. Popularity is not a one-person affair. with what you have learned so far in Elite Social Control. you have to attract one or more individuals to you and engage in some sort of social or business life. All you’ve gained so far from this book. so far. somebody appreciates them just as they are. You have to proceed further and converse with the subject or even keep company with him if you want to enjoy popularity.
Even if it didn’t. The Magnetic Statement varies with each situation.understands them and values them for what they are worth. The Magnetic Statement is the shortest and quickest way to popularity. he is dumbstruck. your character. Much depends upon your sex. Practice and master these secrets. and the situation itself. When a person meets someone who knows what to say to him. . always produces the Magnetic Statement you need. After doing so you will no longer have to worry about saying the rights things to people. He will do anything in the world to keep that person around. Everybody is sick and tired of the cold-shouldered attitude that greets them from petty people everywhere. Eight Secrets of Magnetic Statements It is impossible to list everything you ought to say to people to bring them or keep them under your domination. you would only waste your time memorizing stock phrases and sentences to repeat to others are appropriate times. Applying certain secrets. and they accept you like a dearly loved relative. though. You have probed into their inner sanctums. and the phony uses stock phrases. They long to have you around all the time. Everybody is on guard against a phony.
to put yourself into intellectual debt. don’t let long silences ruin your conversation. Appear. Secret 2: The Deadly Effects of Long Silences Unless you two are relatives or old friends.Secret 1: The Magic of the Selective Statement Make positive statements to the other person which emphasize his or her good qualities and overlook the bad ones. Be alert and detect his favorable traits and readily point them out to him. or your mutual interest is romantic. Long silences disrupt the ideal rapport that is being created between you by the conversation and let your mind fill with introspection about him. Secret 3: The Shrewdness of Encouraging the Other Person to Do Most of the Talking Encourage the other person to do most of the talking. Don’t pepper . in short. Long silences also allow him to escape from your growing control. Should he argue and point out his deficiencies. some of which he might sense if it does not flatter him. and ask them as if you value highly such knowledge and conclusions. Do it in a natural tone of voice but don’t go too far and embarrass him with obvious attempts to overpraise him. To achieve this. ask him or her questions about subjects or matters that he or she knows something about. don’t agree with him.
. or dispiriting. don’t look distant or impassive. ask him what model car he would advise you to buy this year. Don’t overdo it. and his reasons why.him with probing questions about his salary or occupation. It provides him with the thrilling opportunity to inform you about something which you don’t know much about. Don’t laugh every time he cracks a poor joke. Respond with the Elite Gaze. and he will not feel bitter towards you. Tell him. that you know someone who thinks so-and-so about the subject. and nod sometimes to him to indicate agreement. That will enable him to save face. Instead of asking a mechanic how much he earns. and then describe that person’s ignorance exactly as that of the mechanic. of course. but about which he knows a great deal. rather. Let him divulge such information voluntarily. If you have to expose his ignorance of the subject under discussion in order to sway him to your way of thinking. mystifying. Let him enjoy the thrill of being listened to attentively. But act warm and drop an encouraging word or two for him whenever the opportunity presents itself. don’t look him in the eye and bombard him with sheer logic. Such a question makes him feel wise and important. Do not act peculiar. Secret 4: The Attentive Look When John or Amy addresses you or your group.
either. if possible. even if you secretly envy him. to accept you as a good sport. If he is handsome. John longs to hear talk about himself. not about you. thus drawing him to you. Praising someone detracts nothing from your own qualities. Forget about your own personal ambitions. It also leads others. pining away in morbid introspection. including John or Amy. It helps to conserve your mental energy by freeing your system of most of your envy of that person. Urge John to carry through any sensible personal ambitions he reveals. Secret 6: How to Establish Ideal Rapport Quickly Converse kindly with your associate. Don’t be simple-minded with your praise.Secret 5: The Futility of Praise Sabotage Don’t try to hide praise of John or Amy when praise is due. Blurt it right out. John will sense your secret envy if you try to conceal it. It takes you out of the prison of being just you. You are afraid it will go to his head? Guess what? He has been called good-looking from childhood! He suspects envy from those who don’t call him that now. You don’t have to praise . Although praising the obvious is better than not praising him at all. This delights him more than the usual praise from others. don’t withhold that praise from him. something more striking and unusual than readily meets the eye. try to praise.
him for the rest of the conversation, but be sure to praise him early enough in it to establish ideal rapport as soon as possible. The satisfaction with which such praise fills him neutralizes his defenses. His whole physical being will feel better for it. Secret 7: The Safety of One-at-a-time Praising Don’t undermine your efforts, though, by praising John or Amy right before the eyes of Bill, whom you have just praised. Bill will see you as a hypocrite. Praise each individual only when you are alone with him. Praising him before others, unless they are his proud parents, wounds their feelings if they lack his blessings. By praising each person separately and alone, you mentally dominate each one further and alienate none. But don’t repeat the identical praise to each and every one. Praise each individual for something unique and different about himself. Soon you will learn about the things that men and women like to hear about themselves. Secret 8: Direct and Indirect Praise Don’t wander from person to person either, purposely praising each and every one of them. Instead of always praising directly, too, such as calling Steve good-looking, praise him more frequently during the actual conversation. Say to
him, for instance, “When a good-looking guy like – like you, for example – enters business or politics, he possesses an initial advantage over his rivals.” That is subtle praise, and it does not sound designing. The more impersonal and spontaneous your praise seems the better. It should never suggest tricky premeditation. Direct praise is most effective with children and subordinates. Indirect praise fails with these. The woman you wish to date often looks for bold, outright praise – if you’ve managed to make her work for your attention. Subtle praise is most effective with individuals or your own age, sex, or position. The Kind of Praise People Like to Hear About Themselves A man likes to be told: 1. That he has broad shoulders 2. That he is tall a. If he is short, and the subject is broached, tell him that you thought he was about three inches taller than he confesses to be. b. If he is too tall and narrow, tell him that he is surprisingly broad-shouldered for so tall a man. 3. That he is very intelligent 4. That he has a fair, logical mind 5. That he is a sensible person
6. That he is remarkably well informed on a wide variety of subjects 7. That he looks imposing and/or dignified 8. That he has a commanding presence 9. That he possesses a remarkable wit 10. That he looks – and acts – like a wealthy man 11. That he looks as if he has a way with women 12. That he looks very brave and courageous All these attributes don’t need to handed out to the same man, since all of them might not apply to him. With each man use the ones that best suit him. Praise him about nothing else, and you will not fail to impress each – and every – man you meet. What All Women Like to Hear About Themselves: 1. That she is at least 3 to 20 years younger than she is, starting from age 19 to 90. 2. That you thought she was her daughter’s sister 3. That her complexion is as smooth and glowing as a teenager’s 4. That her face and body are sexy 5. That her feet are small, and her legs shapely 6. That she has beautiful insteps (the instep is the middle part of the foot between the toes and the ankle)
But you will soon lose that feeling. That her home interior shows artistic taste and encourage comfort 11. That her housekeeping is remarkable (if she’s a mother) 10. and a new life will open up for you. but if asked. That her voice is very attractive 12. Everybody is awkward when first trying something new. name a young. glamorous one 8. blame the butcher.7. In just a few days you will be astonished at how your popularity has grown. 9. that she would make a fortune if she opened a restaurant. That her cooking has no competition anywhere. That she wears her clothes like a movie actress or fashion model. It is best not to name the actress or model. You might be a little awkward at first. . If the meat isn’t tender. That her hands look like a girl’s Re-read this section and start applying it immediately.
Even if he answered your questions. Do not force him to give you a sharp answer and to hold you at arm’s length afterwards. religion. but you cannot enslave anyone mentally unless they trust you and drop their mental guard. Everybody is bursting with curiosity about the other person. Here are the 13 things to avoid: Number One: Don’t Be Nosy Never bombard anyone – a stranger. in particular – with intimate. what is his income. They are aware only that the “diplomat” is successful with people while they themselves are not. Remain impersonal along personal lines. his true . All day long. is he married or single. how does he earn his living. People who are not very sensitive to the reactions of others towards them do not “sense” when their statements offend others. or the wrong answer can nullify the mental domination you have built up so far. The wrong word. what is his nationality. you would not know his true personality.Repelling Statements Just as important as what to say to people is what not to say to them. race. or wrong statement. personal questions such as. almost everybody wrecks one good opportunity after another or fails to impress on person after another. Never ask a foreigner (even a naturalized one) why he came to your country. Everybody is entitled to privacy. only because he says the wrong thing at the wrong time or in the wrong way. or draft status.
and that is his business. . Besides. Should he keep it to himself. Number Two: Ask Nobody “What is Your Accent?” Never ask an individual what is his accent. the immigrant may have lived in your country as long as you and even have raised a family in it. Number Three: Don’t Shake Anybody’s Face Seriously Your Finger In Never act like a prosecuting attorney. socially. during the course of the conversation. Then you come along and remind him that he is a “foreigner” and ask him infuriating questions that make him feel like a man without a country. Practically every immigrant expects to become a naturalized citizen of the new country. He resents being singled out as a “foreigner”. he may have his own reasons for doing so. If someone is stubborn and argumentative.intelligence. too. All this. expects to be accepted as a citizen. whether he wants to be your friend or do business with you. It matter little. Your country is his country. Most of that knowledge would come from him naturally. could be lost to you in exchange from some superficial knowledge about him. and more. anyway. A migrant from one part of the same country to another. or what unique knowledge he possesses which could be useful to you. subtly change the subject by asking him something that draws his attention away from the controversial issue.
shrug your shoulders. in social life. Use one of the things that all men or women like to hear about themselves. and pretend to agree with him generally whenever he starts shouting again – and then again change the subject. Talk about something else. and drift away. When being tried in court before an impartial jury. In fact. or debating before an impartial audience. so why try to? Don’t tease him along either. all you want to gain is his admiration for you. you have something to gain by exposing your adversary’s inconsistencies. But. and this requires mental domination. draw them away from the main issue and subtly praise something about him. smile. Deaden yourself to veiled insults and don’t throw them back. If they persist in insulting you. To expose him only converts him into a bitter enemy. Number Four: Don’t Give Vent to Your Emotions If anyone turns abusive during a discussion. Since he is no friend of yours. why waste time talking to an enemy? . Don’t just end the argument abruptly and walk off.whether or not you convince anyone that he is wrong about anything. Do not alter your voice. remain (or pretend to remain) unaffected by them and reply as though you had not heard them. and give vent to no emotion. unless you know him well and you two are accustomed to poking fun at each other.
but it also embarrasses the person flattered. Instead of making a friend of one person.Such an attitude aborts a fight and thrills those present with your calm and dignity. not destructive. but the argumentative person will be absent. Your host or hostess (if you are at a party) will bless you. Don’t commend Bob for his excellent speech just so you can humiliate Don (who is also present). because neither will trust your tongue afterwards. Number Five: Don’t Be Guilty of Vicious Flattery Don’t praise Mike in front of Eric just to belittle Eric. Getting in the last word does not win an argument. Flattery should be constructive. you make an enemy of two. The group that likes you sticks to you. It is amazing how many people engage in this habit and wonder why they can’t influence others Number Six: Don’t Cultivate a Sharp Tongue You will exert no mental domination over anyone if you have a sharp tongue. but it antagonizes most of the people most of the time. At the next party. who has poor speech. The social winner is the one who retains the respect and admiration of the onlookers. It divides your associates into groups who like you and groups who dislike you. you will be present. Not only does it wound deeply when used as a whip. A sharp tongue creates universal uneasiness because it scares people. It amuses some of the people some of the time. but .
Under no circumstances poke sarcasm at any religion. Your duty is to help make the party a success. it becomes another kind of party. because her more timid guests would be left out in the cold. Number Seven: Don’t Lasso People to You at Social Gatherings Unless you have an excusable reason for doing so. Every hostess tries to guard against this. nationality. Don’t stand back and wait to be dragged into the fun. they are providing the refreshments. You don’t have to be mealy mouthed. the hosts only loaded themselves with responsibility for nothing. When people gather together socially. or you will never acquire mental domination over anybody. Don’t leave the burden of entertainment to the hosts. . don’t single people out in a social gathering and isolate him (or her) with you. listen pleasantly. If the guests fail to make it a success. That spells your doom. When the group breaks up into pairs. either. but don’t be cruel. Join any minor group you like. or political party. they prepared their premises for it.to continue amusing it you have to turn your tongue on one of its own members. and gradually join in. they invited the guests. They will certainly screen out wallflowers the next time. race. they expect to mingle. They planned the party.
Number Nine: Don’t Wear Out a Subject Don’t discourse on a subject until it is dead. Change it when it is at its peak of interest. enjoys discussing the moral changes happening in society. They like to chat about people but not about the personal as it pertains to them. for example. the conversation should flutter from subject to subject. or he will avoid you. In order for everyone to have a good time with the subject. criticize the enemy without venom. talking about themselves. Even if they agree with your criticism of some common enemy. Make the contacts you want but cling to nobody excessively or you will help wreck the party. People enjoy hearing about themselves. Any up-todate group. the more superficial it is kept the better. Keep out of controversial arguments. Don’t even sit in one place too long or remain with one group too long.Number Eight: Express Hatred of No One Show hatred of no one present or absent. discussing things they buy or use or places they travel to. unless the group is political. . It should not dig deeply into any one subject for too long. Let no one consider you capable of hatred. but not one person in the group wants to talk about which parts of the changes apply to them. To sustain interest with most people. Move on from group to group.
instead of talking about him. Above all. unemotional keel. don’t confide your secret ambitions to strangers or to other guests at a party. Number Twelve: Don’t Order People Around (Except in Jest) Don’t talk commandingly to people. or man. so long as you don’t sneer or use sarcasm. it is more effective to talk on an even. you are with wants to hear only about himself. unless you know them well and they take it as a joke. Mental domination requires you to cast off all feeling of Self and concentrate completely on the other person.Number Ten: When In the Company of the Opposite Sex. as if giving them orders. He has groomed himself for you and is tensely hoping to fascinate you. you talk about his rivals. If. Blowing your own horn never brings you mental domination. You might arouse only envy or derision from your listeners. For mental domination. Don’t Brag About Your Other Conquests The woman. talk neither like a pessimist nor like too great an optimist. Laugh readily at good . can you blame him for being incensed? Number Eleven: Sophisticated Lean a Little Toward the When with company or with strangers. You will establish ideal rapport by leaning a little towards the sophisticated.
you must work out. They want to be considered brilliantly funny. nevertheless. only he is bigger than you. Always try to spare him embarrassment. Everybody longs to be unique and prefers to be admired for being unusual. unless that other person is a celebrity or is decidedly handsome – and youngerthan the individual. not an imbecile. Put no one to shame. Even then. don’t laugh at them as if they were a fool. or expose faults – particularly in public. help out the joker by smiling and changing the subject. You remind me of somebody with your same build. You may compare certain unusual features. The worst thing you can say to a man that works out is: “You’re big. Everybody likes to retain his dignity. If the joke is poor. If someone is a good comedian. . don’t tell the man you are praising that. Number Thirteen: Never Engage in Comparison Praising Never praise anybody by comparing him to someone else who “looks just like” him. as he might not agree that the other person is handsome or attractive. he might not enjoy the comparison.jokes. It is one sure way to lose all mental domination over him. Don’t show up inconsistencies in knowledge. with those of glamorous or highly respected public figures.” Even if you do know such a somebody.
That he lacks backbone 6. That he is getting old 3. That he looks weak 8. instead of increases. That he is incompetent with women 4. That he is probably impotent 10. whose hair is no soft enough. your mental domination over him. The same applies to a woman who is not tall enough. will insult John more than if you ignored him completely. except that Paul is broader-shouldered than he.Don’t tell a dark-haired woman that she is very pretty. To tell John. That he looks feminine 7. All comparisons between people are risky at best. for instance. That his shoulders are narrow 9. that he is better built in every way than Paul. That he is short . The slightest favoring of the other person. even if insignificant. The Kinds of Things People Don’t Like to Hear About Themselves No man likes to hear: 1. That he can’t hang on to his money 5. that she strongly resembles another beauty you know. except that the other beauty is taller and blonde. That his language is poor 2. or whose breasts are not big/firm enough. estranges the person being praised and diminishes.
14. Don’t refer to moles or any other imperfections 9. Never ask her if she works 8. That he can’t take a joke That he is not intelligent That he has a bad memory That his education isn’t good enough What no woman likes to hear about herself: 1. Never ask her shoe size . 12. Never tell her that she is putting on weight 4. Never tell her that she is turning gray 3. Never ask if she has children 10. Never ask her age 6. 13.11. Never tell her that she looks “just like” another woman you know 5. Never ask her if she has been married before 7. Never tell her that she is well-preserved for her age 2.
With the Moves you appear as if you harbor no evil in you. but they need the support of the Magnetic Moves. These sweep everybody off their feet. The Magnetic Moves give it the final touch. The Magnetic Moves are easy to learn. Even people with below average intelligence can study them. With these. he favors you because he can’t help himself. and queens. How the Magnetic Moves Affect Others The Magnetic Moves disarm the other person. but not your failure to perform the Magnetic Moves. lower his defenses. That alone usually stifles resistance . women with ordinary minds and looks have won choice husbands. kings.Disarm and Conquer With Magnetic Moves PTC’s and Magnetic Statements are essential for mental domination. and gain phenomenally from them. If he is your superior. Nothing will make you more welcome anywhere. Men of inferior birth have become the associates of presidents. the words choke in his throat. con artists have pulled off amazing frauds. Others may overlook many drawbacks you have. and throw him into rapport with you. With these moves. apply them with little trouble. and men have been elevated to positions of affluence over men with far more ability. It is obvious how tremendous they must be for mental domination. If he has to reprimand you.
It is an antisocial look and arouses resentment. Show respect and admiration for the person. Nobody enjoys the psychoanalytical look when it is directed at him. poor dental work. If he believes you are not aware of his imperfections. but in everyday life people prefer to hide their deficiencies. instead. The Moves may be called The Great Disarmer. Completely ignore Bob’s lesser height. show no shyness or unwillingness. and you need that for mental domination. There are 10 Secrets of the Magnetic Moves Secret 1: The Non-Analytical Look When about to be introduced to anyone. That banishes the rest of him from view and stops you from studying him. Stare only at Bob’s eyes to suggest to him that he has captured your full attention.against you. by envisioning him nobly and respectfully. Overlook everything detracting about him. prominent mole. missing limb. uneven teeth. . But he will relax with you. the great neutralizer of hostile feelings against you. Stay neutral and establish instant rapport with him. unsymmetrical figure. anything and everything about him which does not add to his appearance. he might conclude that you are not observant. It may be pardonable in a doctor because he has to diagnose. irregular features. poor clothes. ugly scar – in fact.
don’t embarrass the other person with intimate questions. Good meeting you. You can’t do this for long because it grows boring. But do it long enough to establish complete rapport between you and him. “Will you excuse me? I’m late already. At once. Induce him to do most of the talking. If you praise him for possessing broad shoulders. Say to Bob. he might scoff and “admit” that he acquired them from playing sports in college. flatter him with a Magnetic Statement. first. See you again. You would soon discover what he studied. unless he is tongue-tied or the silent type. and give him your undivided attention. But don’t usurp the conversation after that. Secret 3: Subtle Probing As state in a previous section. exhibit interest in his education and ask him what college he attended.Secret 2: Drawing the Other Person Out of His Shell After expressing your pleasure in meeting Bob.” . Secret 4: How to Take Graceful Departures From People Don’t abruptly march off from a person you are conversing with. Praise something about him and let him elaborate on it if he is so inclined. From that you can guess his occupation – even his probable income. particularly about himself.
Some day. which you suffered at their hands. either actual or imagined. changes your general demeanor to the unfriendly. An antisocial attitude. If you are a woman. . as if your co-workers were paupers. look down on no one in a subordinate position. Don’t be a social sadist. even if he is unpleasant. Don’t hit back by embarrassing others for slights. once you are known for bad manners. besides. besides. withdraw inconspicuously. he might be able to do you a big favor and save you a lot of hassle. Secret 5: Retain Your Equanimity Never give vent to rage or anger in social company. Secret 7: Don’t Brag Don’t brag about your income. Slight or humiliate no one. people expect the worst of you and act aloof towards you. gets talked about.If another group has already gathered around him and has eclipsed you. forget it – there are others who will. don’t brag about your beauty. Revenge thinking. Secret 6: Show a Democratic Attitude Towards Others At work especially. and. Don’t wound people’s feelings. If others don’t notice how attractive you are. even if he belongs to another department.
Appear always ready to listen. Don’t pass for a simple-minded idiot who believes anything he is told. You compel him to take sides. If he is long-winded. Confine yourself to the subject being discussed and raise no controversial issue that could . Never start a quarrel with a person who is monopolizing the conversation. or ability to reason. Don’t turn your head when the other person presents his side of the question. interrupt him with something he likes to hear about and then abruptly change the subject.Secret 8: Be – Or Pretend to Be – a Good Listener Don’t adopt a know-it-all attitude. Refrain from all personal discussion. It puts your listener in an embarrassing position. nor as if impossible to influence either. People want you to listen to what they have to say. even if he secretly agrees with you. Mention nothing to your companion about his own private life. to someone beside you and mutter sarcastically about the person who is monopolizing the conversation. turn pleasantly to someone else and ask for his or her opinion of the matter. and that is not sociable. don’t insult him by being rude. If that is not easy to do at the time. but don’t act stubborn. Secret 9: Retain an Impartial Attitude Don’t turn. character. Even if he is misinformed. tongue in your cheek.
. Secret 10: Reply to People with Words. even with “yes” or “no”. Secret 11: Don’t Push Your Way In and Take Over the Stage Don’t swagger up to people who are conversing and. than to reply to their statements with nods or shakes of the head.lead to a heated argument. take over the stage. don’t insult others by replying to them with gestures instead of words. but many a master might reply to his slave like that. with a booming voice. nor labels you with a supercilious attitude sooner. No slave would answer his master with nods or shakes of the head. To those of sensitivity and refinement. such behavior is enraging. Arguments incite people and curtail your power to influence them. and you wish to drive them away from you. So. Reply in words. unless they are insufferable. or you will lose your mental domination over others fast. Not Gestures No mannerism antagonizes people more. They wonder if you view them as animals or slaves.
Step 3: If they are hard to sway. . subconsciously. they will dread ending the delightful companionship. And you keep them bent that way even when they are away from you. although you let them believe that they have bent you. He will promptly conclude that your whole personality is attractive. Influence them only on issues which are accepted without question. or on which their attitude is lukewarm. Step 2: Don’t try to reform the other person but only bend his logic enough to create mental harmony between you. the ability to get someone in step with you mentally and keep them in step.Leading Others with Chain Rapport Chain rapport is also known as prolonged mental harmony. You bend the other person to your way of thinking. The Four Steps to Chain Rapport Step 1: Avoid trying to influence anyone on controversial issues. your creating a few moments of rapport with them may be all you need to overcome their mental resistance. because.
You might be seeking the truth. You need no more mental domination over him than that. Don’t be determined to prove that you are right or betterinformed. you only have to maintain it with Chain Rapport. After that he will be your booster and praise you at every opportunity. the bitterer it can become. so that he assumes that you agree with him for the most part. it will seldom cling to the logical. he is practically your slave. If the verbal exchange is not taking place in a law court or debated under strict rules.Step 4: Never step out of a meeting. . Don’t wait to establish it just at the end. Spare his feelings all through the conversation. The same rules apply to the general public. conversation. Never become emotional during a discussion. Your least show of disagreement with someone can stir up an argument. Advertisements usually bypass controversial subjects. and the better you hold your own in it. but your opponent might be seeking more to show off his “brilliant mind”. or heated feelings will arise when you take your leave. Once you establish rapport with him. Let no discussion or conversation of yours degenerate into an argument. If you expose his poor logic. he will become furious and that will end your mental domination over him. or discussion with someone without establishing mental harmony repeatedly during the association.
You don’t want to take too long about it. He could even put in a good word for you. because such a person can also. become a dangerous enemy. put yourself in your customer’s place. but which create rapport between the public and product. But you suspect that he is accustomed to evading people who try to “use” him for his connections. The Technique of Chain Rapport First Move: Don’t push yourself on anyone – that includes business as well as social relationships Second Move: Show interests in all the other person’s wishes Third Move: Treat the person as if you consider them brilliant Example: How to Get People to Do Things for You Harold can help you considerably socially or in business.They limit themselves to topics which irritate no group. He knows just the person you want to meet. . if nothing else. due to his influence. In your business or profession. You will have to pursue a less obvious route. Don’t fawn over them but don’t arouse displeasure or resistance. though. Note: Make sure that he himself is worth knowing for his own qualities.
Voice nothing to him. Talk with him naturally. The goal is to establish mental harmony with Harold. If he invites you to share a drink with him.Sometime during the social gathering you are attending. But do not add. which could arouse suspicions or hostility. If Harold’s replies at any time are controversial. But don’t overemphasize it. etc. Don’t even add “I’ve heard a great deal about you” as that too may arouse his suspicions. Then throw him the Elite Gaze. as if you are self-sufficient and never need a favor from anyone. Impress him as a person of the utmost tact. and considerate sensitivity. even if you don’t drink or smoke. and send a PTC of you two developing into the best of friends. Pretend that you have approached him because he seems friendly and interesting. avoid trying to influence him on them and watch your tongue with the things to avoid saying. accept it without hesitation. Don’t overdo it. or offers you a smoke. or puff lightly once or twice on the cigarette but don’t inhale it. charming him with Magnetic Statements that apply to him. good breeding. in other words. But take only a sip. and act stiffly. . on the other hand. “I’m eager to meet you. casually. just let it sound like a natural remark. After you know him better you may subtly exclude yourself from these offers.” “I am dying to meet you”. stroll up to Harold and introduce yourself.
another PTC of friendship. you will discover that you usually get less than nothing.With the Elite Gaze you should have little trouble convincing him that you are worthwhile enough for future companionship. later in the conversation. and see how Harold reacts. instead. His subconscious mind will do the rest. Offer. still don’t breathe the name of the wanted connection to him. To wait longer is to abort your effort. again offer to do something for him. Whenever you try to get something for nothing. after you depart. don’t even breathe the name of his wanted connection to him but be sure to exchange contact information with him. Before parting. drop him another Magnetic Statement and send a PTC picturing a lasting friendship between you. Project to Harold. The third time you meet with him. That evening. But this time. mention the name of the wanted connection. after . because by then familiarity will be breeding contempt. If he is willing to accept favors from you. he will be eager to resume the association. This time. That will intensify the rapport already existing between you. When you meet again. and he will feel that some day he should do something for you in return. to do something for him himself. or the subject of the connection. and Harold will no longer be seeing you as being so unusual. That is the best relationship to have with him anyway.
sarcasm. You achieve that by pretending to agree with his argument. join him in it. Don’t expect to alter his thinking for him. letting them struggle to exhaustion. Dealing with Argumentative People If someone is argumentative and makes it difficult for you to influence them with Chain Rapport. feint him or her into “attacking” you verbally. . and agreeable. If he shows willingness to continue discussing that person or subject. pleasant. Ignore any taunts or oaths until he starts to enjoy your company and establishes rapport with you. when you let him know a little later what you would like “somebody” to do for you. Then. Then. Display no anger. you will have him under your mental domination with Chain Rapport. Just remain calm. But don’t slug back with the other person. though. he should be willing to do you a reasonable favor in return. By now. attentive. Let him alter it himself by believing that he himself came to the conclusions that you put into his head. turn the right counter-response on him to win him to your way of thinking. anyway. just roll with their fighting words and clinch. or opposition in your tone. but follow it up with the kind of counterresponse revealed above. he either has to risk losing your fascinating company or do you the favor.all.
People tire of you if you are perpetually serious or can’t take a joke. Jest is appreciated according to the reputation of the wit. To be humorous. those same jokes. once the comedians are known. In different situations you have to have the right words on the tip of your tongue in a split second. and it is not as risky. No everybody possesses the gift of humor.Magnetic Conversation To be a master of Magnetic Conversation you have to have a sense of humor. as a wit. When being funny. you always run the risk of giving offense. for they can’t enjoy your company for long. Magnetic Conversation achieves as much for you as clever wit. they had to deal out their best jokes for several minutes before the audiences even smiled. since you cannot always predict correctly another person’s exact reactions to everything you do or say. is no simple accomplishment. The best wit. Audiences burst out laughing the minute well-known comedians walk out on stage. Yet. When those same comedians were unknown. throw their followers into hysterics even before they open their mouth. too. It calms people down at once because it sounds intimate and is simple to . besides. frequently is misunderstood.
answer. Doubts of his ability to please you vanish because you have convinced him that Magnetic Conversation does not annoy you. Magnetic Conversation avoids controversial and profound subjects. He no longer dreads that his education or his knowledge of everyday affairs is insufficient for respectable talking with you. Magnetic Conversation tranquilizes and draws people to you. because they suppose that you are less acquainted with their drawbacks than they are. When you depart. in fact. They forget that they just met you and feel as if they have always known you. The appropriate subject matter takes care of itself. Only their own trusted associates have left them as serene. they miss you. You have left them even more serene. you also appear genuine and human. With it. The Right Frame of Mind for Magnetic Conversation You probably can’t describe it in words. It does not compel him to think to understand your joke or to feel inadequate if he fails to. and they rapidly fall under your influence. The important thing is to know how to engage in it. He is satisfied that he can answer you. although it could introduce these farther along in the conversation after you know someone better. and his tension eases. but you already have a general idea of what Magnetic Conversation is. The solid foundation for Magnetic . The other person assumes that you and he are very much alike.
in other words. But respond with “yes”. You are not out to argue with anyone. self-forgetting self. You plan to leave them satisfied with you for the rest of the day. They will hunger for more of your company after you depart. abrupt treatment which others deal out to them. most informed self to a naïve. Instead of magnifying yourself to someone. but mentally) from your shrewdest.Conversation is built in your mind. Every statement they utter to you that requires an answer. Take on. or seem to agree. Maintain rapport with them all the time they are talking. “mm hmm”. Make them feel more appreciate than they have ever felt before. with them. laugh at everything they say. and other congenial expressions between their statements. but to agree. The right frame of mind for Magnetic Conversation may not be what you think it is. Discard the overbearing spirit in you and replace it with a democratic. . the stable mental attitude of a pleasant nature. it flows from you automatically. you shrink (not physically. even if by doing so you unintentionally tend to weaken their defenses against the more usual. should receive an interested answer. get-alongwith-others disposition. Once you adopt the right frame of mind for it. everybodycreated-equal spirit. or incessantly nod your head in agreement with them. Dull all personal sensitivity to your environment and adopt an eager-to-please. You don’t have to fawn over them.
Don’t shut up with them. remember the following: Probably nobody else this person knows takes more pains to make them feel at home than you do with your Magnetic Conversation. they would argue with you and cross swords. Few study him deeper than that. a romance seeker.Don’t be displeased during Magnetic Conversation if the other person fails to keep it going. They let them take care of themselves. A long silence usually brings up bad feelings. anyway. He who happens to be obviously supersensitive is pitied and accepted as being weak. if you discussed serious topics with them. Yet. as a rule. don’t strain themselves that much for other people. Hardly anybody else will try to be as agreeable to him as you – nobody. a worrisome parent or child. Many also lack the energy or the humility to figure out how to placate those whom they offend. The mass of humanity is too self-absorbed in its own interests to bother scrutinizing the complex reactions of its associates too closely. except a clever salesman. People. are not sensitive enough to the feelings of others and seldom realize it when they offend them. They are either too busy. Blunt individuals may presuppose that Magnetic Conversation is nonsense and will act aloof or superior to you when you try to engage them in it. or an exploiting child. Even these people apply their wily charms to others only intermittently. Magnetic Conversation is the only savior. Even if it does not always arouse happiness. or the courage to apologize to them. Most people. either. or lack the .
patience. too apply them on others for long. Did you listen – or pretend to listen – intently all along? d. in effect. list the name of everybody you practiced it on and answer the following questions: a. finds little competition. Exercises for Developing Magnetic Conversation Exercise 1: When you go out tomorrow. Did you pretend to agree. When you return home. even when you disagreed? e. practice Magnetic Conversation on everybody you meet and know. Your Magnetic Conversation. Did your voice and your general attitude remain always strictly pleasant? g. Did you assume – and retain – the right frame of mind for Magnetic Conversation all the time with each one? b. Did you refrain from the strictly personal and confine yourself to the uncontroversial subjects in the news? f. Did you avoid long silences by asking more questions? . Did you argue at any time? c.
yourself. etc. when you tired of John’s bragging. were the important person? Check the questions that you failed. the same day if possible. Speak it out once more. or into space. Recall when you tried to correct the stark ignorance of Wes. Recall exactly when you started quarreling with Mike. You don’t have to recall every sentence spoken or every word uttered. By yourself. Then perfect Exercise 2: Look in the mirror. when you scoffed at Sam’s logic. not you. where you stopped giving Bob pleasant responses.h. resume these conversations at those very points and speak them out as they would have – and should have – proceeded. How to Correct All Your Social Errors The above exercise is the way to correct all your social errors. Did you act as if they. where you began interrupting Michelle and silencing her. where in the conversations you failed to use Magnetic Conversation and bungled everything. mainly. Change them this time to proceed as they should have. and recreate in your mind the scene you botched. Bring back to mind . and dramatize the above conversations all over again. Recall. Get away along somewhere. had you used the power of Magnetic Conversation.
who was to blame. rid yourself of it. but they still refused to credit you with accuracy? What the reason. you put your finger on the personality flaw that is holding you back from achieving popularity. Were they insulting? Were they rude? Were they infuriatingly stubborn? Did they usurp the discourse and bar you from getting a word in edgewise? Were their facts mixed up. and what the other person said or did that caused you to fail.the very words you said and how you said them. By discovering it. Pinpoint where the wrangling started and the cordiality departed. Analyze. . find it! Find out why or where your Magnetic Conversation ran into disaster. analyze how you failed to save the day. objectively. Then. After that.
so that your Winning Voice is like a second spirit. Beyond that. men in trouble . it has a positive effect on the listener. and smoothness. It even carries much of your personality with it. Winning Posture and Carriage. your voice seems to travel just so far and no farther. The Winning Voice Your voice does not merely convey your thoughts to others in a readily grasped form. musical quality. modulation.Create an Elite Physical Image An Elite Physical Image (EPI) consists of 1. The air from your lungs is saturated with your physiological and psychical being. Through its timbre. sincerity. clarity. either because they are hurled into the atmosphere by the vocal muscles. or because your thoughts are more specific to the receiver when converted into words. Giving voice to your thoughts intensifies their propelled force. since it if forcibly projected from the inner caverns of your body. you are not expected to be heard. Yet. The Winning Voice and 2. To this in your vicinity when you speak.
If your voice is not the right one. Your voice can alter. therefore. cannot be detected by the physical ear at great distances. calling for help many miles away. for better of worse. it distorts the impression of you which you hope to create. the impression which people acquire of you. but the example proves the effect of the voice on the projected Visual You. in other words. Your listener can. Many a puny. It can serve as a tool with which to influence and mentally dominate others in a flash. but it can be detected any distance by the psychic ear. insignificantlooking man with a booming voice is responded to as if he were big and powerful. The very sound of your voice. can alter the effect and the meaning of your words to others. The voice. you will be accepted as a different type of person than you wished. but if your voice does not blend with the picture of yourself (The Visual You) which you seek to project. talking to you. Even if . too. You are not being encouraged to assume a booming voice.have been heard by others. His voice startles people and brings them the attention which a weak voice would not. by close to you. Your words might be suitably chosen. The Visual You Your voice suggests to others (accurately or inaccurately) that you are a certain type of person. and overhear (even if unsuspectingly) your thoughts.
you utter nothing important. rich. you could improve your entire social and business life. but talk as if you had a rubber ball in the back of the bottom of your mouth. Too much space would be needed to explain all the reasons why this simple alteration in the mechanics of voice production is conducive to such fantastic gains. With a difficult subject he even repeats his words as monotonously as possible. The hypnotist actually relies more upon the droning of his words than upon their significance to lull his subject into a trance. which depressed your tongue. Say whatever comes into your mind. But. to bore him into trance. or sit. to be brief. it lets your breath flow more rhythmically from your lungs. Stand. Pursue the steps below exactly as described: 1. Doing this will automatically relax the throat. with your back and neck straight . Relaxing your throat allows your exhaled air to rush up against the roof of your mouth. to an imaginary person. How to Acquire the Winning Voice Exercise: Speak. carrying tone. If you did nothing else but combine the right voice with the right words and the right ideas. but do it in a fascinating tone. in your room. The roof of your mouth is the floor of your resonant nasal cavity. the mere sound can hypnotize your listener. thereby helping pronunciation. The result is a deep.
You want them to feel like a friend. poor posture and carriage can wipe out many of the advantages you gained. Bring up all your power with it and envelope your listener Never assault your companion with your eyes as you use the Winning Voice. you can stun your interviewer the moment he lays eyes on you. winning first impressions for you. and . Neither speak nor read too quickly or too slowly. they can present such a poor picture of you that you might be powerless to erase it. Imagine that you have a rubber ball wedged in the back of the bottom of your mouth 5.2. not like possible prey. Drop your jaw 4. however. too. Think of your voice as issuing from the deep cavities of your body. Hold your neck straight but drop your head slightly 3. It can begin and end your mental domination over anyone. Don’t chop off the accepted syllables of the emphatic words 7. When you leave at the end of a visit or interview. At the beginning of the meeting. With Winning Posture and Carriage. Speak or read anything you want to – but always keep that rubber-ball wedged in the back of the bottom of your mouth 6. Winning Posture and Carriage This will create instant.
touch it. Whichever of these fails to touch it. walk naturally once around the room. That is the correct posture. shoulders.as well as your heels – still touch it. Test. back of your head .therefore simplify your efforts to sway him to your way of thinking. Take one step away from the wall and retain this position for about ten seconds. Exercise 2: Instead of only stepping away from the wall. is the part of your body which has wandered away from the correct posture. shoulders. let your heels. the Winning Posture and Carriage tighten your grip on them. hips. To achieve it. as it flashes back into their memory. draw back your shoulders slightly. That part of the body needs to be trained into the Winning Posture. and back of your head. If you display no sag after 10 seconds. Without correcting any sag which you might have noticed during those ten seconds. you have to raise your chest. draw in your diaphragm. How to Acquire Winning Posture Exercise 1: Stand against the wall. step right back against the wall. stand away from the wall for twenty seconds to a minute. and hold your head straight enough to see at eye-level. now. whether your hips. After you are gone. Step back .
Open a drawer. To correct these things. Suddenly. Again. stand with your back against the wall without making an effort to assume correct posture. Put something up high on a shelf. you are letting them round or droop. but this time. Practice this at least once a day. perform different acts around the room. your hips are jutting back too far. Check up on yourself every time you walk around the room. Bend over and pick up something. and your upper body is leaning forward too much. If your shoulders do not touch it. This is one of the things in Elite Social Control that you will master last. you are not holding it straight. If your head does not touch the wall. repeat this exercise again and again. imagining that your spine is not a bending twig but a rigid axis upon which . If your hips touch. because you will likely have to break some deeply-set. but your upper back does not. bad habits. as well as develop many groups of neglected muscles. Exercise 3: Again. How to Acquire Winning Carriage Exercise 1: Walk around the room. If your hips do not touch it. you are letting your upper back hump and protrude farther than the rest of your body. Comb your hair. step away from the wall.now against the wall – just as you are – and test yourself for a sag. for example. check your posture carefully.
not as if trying to walk with your spine straight. It protects the arch from being flattened. Let the rest of your body (the sail) remain flexible and move easily. Mentally. but turn your head here and there as if staring at different objects. straying neither outward nor inward. or it will fail to create the desired effect. That cups the foot. Your Winning Carriage has to look natural. . Repeat. but keep your spine straight. Exercise 3: Now for the legs. Even walk outdoors like this to get the right feeling. deepening the arch and shortening the foot. they hold you off at arm’s length. The slightest oddness creates a wall between you and your target and blocks the forming of mutual rapport between you. back and forth across the room.the rest of your body hangs. Walk on the outsides of your feet. Feel natural. but allows your shoulders to swing slightly forward and backward alternately with your arms. while the inside of the foot is little stronger than cartilage. as above. but hold it straight. and that prevents you from getting what you want. like the mast of a ship holding up the sail. Step forward with your toes pointed directly ahead. Exercise 2: Stroll around the room again. not on the whole foot or on the inside of it. That braces your head and chest in position. Don’t tense your spine to keep it straight. for the outside of the foot is nearly as strong as solid bone.
never on the insides. . It throws your weight upon the hard outlines of your feet. It not only saves your strength and maintains your Winning Carriage but also adorns you with graceful foot posture. That position spares your feet and lessens the danger of your getting varicose veins in your legs. always start your steps from your toes and balls of your feet. Remember this when standing for a long time while conversing or lecturing. but on the outsides of your feet. Exercise 5: When you walk. Practice walking like this all the time. your feet and ankles smaller. and your insteps higher. In a bathing suit with such posture your calves look bigger and shapelier. not on the soft tissues of your inner calves and of your soft insteps.Exercise 4: Stand for a few seconds in one spot. Don’t come down on your heels. retaining your weight on the outsides of your feet.
the slightest hesitancy in your voice. for instance. and covet what they have. You can’t easily stop envying John. All your life you have been . Envy. He is therefore unusually keen at sensing your reactions towards his possessions. John always expects you to envy him for what he has. hatred. In his own suspicious mind. just as he himself most likely envies Bob for what he has. of course. through Biblical teachings or otherwise. if nothing else. You will envy him. You can still sweep someone off their feet with mental domination. He might even enjoy observing it. covetousness. alert them to your deep. hate them. you have the battle of your life being charming to them. the slightest change of color on your face towards him. not to covet thy neighbor. Flaunting this teaching brings more grief and shortens more lives than anything aside from war.Protect Yourself with False Fronts Early on in life most of us were advised. The slightest pained look in your eyes. inner feelings about them. The best way to conquer this ruinous attitude is with mental domination. but the job is harder because your emanations. is obvious to him. When you envy people. and other suicidal frames of mind deplete your mind power.
and exclaim instantly with admiration. To show surprise alone. To get the best grades in class. You will look surprised and thrilled. To excel in sports you have to outrun or out-jump others. It would be easier to forget a toothache. If you instead put yourself at once in John’s shoes. And then you can attain the goals in life you seek and will no longer need to envy anybody How to Put on the Necessary False Front Step 1: When you hear anything about someone that makes you jealous. or more desirably than you did. particularly if the other person expects you to look surprised. no matter how you actually feel about it. though. and to do so. you had to out-study or outsmart others. Step 2: Don’t grin widely. When John or whoever else achieves these ideals before you do. you had to compete against others and surpass them. You have to show both surprise and joy. is not enough. you will realize that expects you to be overwhelmed so completely by his enchanting news about himself that . To get the man or woman you want. either. that is not convincing. next. you had to outshine other suitors. But you can nullify them to the degree where they will not lessen your power. open your eyes wide and spread your lips slightly.encouraged to get somewhere. To appear not surprised fools nobody. All your life you have desired a nice home. or you will be suspected of being jealous. you can’t easily just shrug and forget it.
You have to feel as if you – not he – were the one to whom such enchanting news occurred. (Make sure your eyes don’t water). . at least.” Exercise for Perfecting the False Front Exercise 1: Stand before your mirror and pretend that Joe or Michelle has just revealed to you that he has acquired or attained something which you yourself are striving unsuccessfully to acquire or attain. Practice this easy exercise a few times. It was a matter of how soon. open your eyes wide and spread your lips slightly. John. Instantly. Then. You never dreamed that he would do it – or do it so fast.you will practically lose your voice – for a moment. at least. “I always knew you could do it. Socially and in business. Step 3: Your next step is to take a deep breath – as if to regain your stunned faculties – and sigh proudly. you will react to him with a perfect false front. you have to use the necessary false front every day.
the clench from your fist. help out your mind by “giving it the idea what to do. the tightening of your leg and foot muscles. be dominating it if someone else is doing so already. and unable to control yourself against the influence of another person. in common language. and will not.” When your mind cannot tense the muscles of fight or flight. As a reflex. Relax the frown from your brow. As you anger rises against them. in a quandary. or a salesman tried to rip you off. relax all the muscles of your face and body. the tension from your lips. You cannot. your muscles will relax your mind. Your muscles. it becomes . the hunching of your shoulders. you have to prevent others from dominating it first. apply the Immediate Block. “Rubberizing yourself” is a vivid description of exactly what to do. The most effective way to prevent someone else from dominating you mentally is by using the Immediate Block. Perhaps a practical joker injured you.Prevent Others from Dominating You In order to dominate your own mind. Here are the exercises to develop the Immediate Block: Exercise 1: Call to mind a situation in which someone annoyed you to the point of losing your temper. The moment you feel uneasy.
Even though you have not laid eyes on the offender for years. as soon as your wrath wells up. apply the Immediate Block. the unforgettable insult has smoldered within you ever since. especially before other people. This is the Immediate Block. and obviously did so because he envied or disliked you. but. you get used to applying this defensive power at will. any upsetting situation from your mind. Maintain this until you feel no anger at all. Exercise 2: Call to mind an incident in your life when someone called you an insulting name. Exercise 3: Recall the scene all over again. because it compels you to face it outright again and again. Repeat that about a dozen times. By at once applying the Immediate Block to it every time. Bring back that enraging scene to your mind. It won’t take long.like a gun without ammunition. . emasculates it of its upsetting effect on you quickly. with it. Purposely dragging back the unsavory experience into your mind despite your instinctive revulsion against it. until you can obliterate. keeping you bitter and suspicious of other people. and again apply the Immediate Block.
and secretly or openly he yearns for sympathy for his sufferings. To master others with your mind. To everybody. You waste no time on trials and tribulations that are no longer within your scope of action. If you were in business and lost money. Once you learn how to dominate others mentally you don’t have to waste time seeking sympathy. afraid of losing again.How to Make Past Bad Experiences Pay Almost everyone has suffered his share of bad experiences. They blame the wrongs reasons for their failures and return to the arena of life no better prepared to succeed than they were before. or to those which mystify them most. instead. they stay out of the real arena altogether. figure out unemotionally why you lost it and be ready not to lose it that way again. You analyze and dissect your bad experiences. They shut their minds to the facts that pain them. The business failure will be afraid to start another business . Most people keep repeating the same mistake all their lives because they don’t apply mental domination on themselves to analyze their past failures enough. Or. his own are the worst. you must view the past as having already occurred but still analyze it as if it had just occurred. and capitalize on them.
It may be more difficult to do so when you are older. Many of these are more instrumental than your later experiences in forming your ultimate character and in weakening your power of mental domination. the more you keep remembering. Start from as far back as you remember. You will note that. that’s all. until experiences which you have totally “forgotten” bolt out of your subconscious mind. . meaning that the experiences you live through previous to that age contribute importantly to make you who you are. Here’s how to make the best of your past bad experiences: Take pen and paper and list some of your bad experiences. Jot down a few words about each bad experience. so that you can identify them easily later. and come down through the years. Psychoanalysis claims that your basic character is determined by the age of 7. ideal opportunities slip through his fingers.and will let new. Don’t overlook or underrate your childhood experiences. Elite Social Control is meant to help you remold your character at any age. the more such experiences you remember.
stop.Spend most of an evening recalling and listing your bad experiences. By reviewing these incidents with the eyes of the more mature person which you now are. dictate those thoughts into it. With it. no matter what they are. you may be astonished now at how sadly you misunderstood them at the time. you automatically see different sides of them. When you remember no more of them with reasonable ease. This exercise activates your memory amazingly. . you soon recall apparently forgotten incidents in your life which have exerted powerful influences on you and which have molded your character differently from what it otherwise may have become. especially the sides you missed when you were younger. If other people were also involved in them. Write your thoughts down. If you have a digital recorder. you will remember more of them with ease. Next evening. Select the first bad experience you listed and think about it. But if you prefer not to. that’s OK.
Don’t try to memorize everything. Best of luck. now you can convert that same job or profession into something thrilling.Congratulations! Now that you have read and studied Elite Social Control. On the contrary. The world looks different to you now. You no longer have to stare at the staggering successes of others and feel confused. but keep this book readily available. You probably feel like someone that’s been in a coma for 20 years. No longer do you see yourself marooned in your little life’s sphere. turn to the section that deals with it. and can do it yourself. Hamilton Miller . business. don’t let the book collect dust on your hard drive. You now know “how they did it”. and with only a few more interesting friends than you have at present. read it again. or profession. Whenever you need something from it. with little more ahead for you than a drudging life at the same job. and use it.
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