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BEFORE

WORK ON ME FIRST

Stay Focused and Flexible


Place a Bookmark

Choose What and If Master My Stories

CONFRONT WITH SAFETY


DURING

Describe the Gap


Make It Motivating Make It Easy
POP

New Problem? Safety?

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2 4 6

Step Out and Rebuild Safety

MOVE TO ACTION
AFTER

Agree on a Plan Follow Up

Choose What and If


How to Know What Crucial Confrontation to Hold and If You Should Hold It

Make It Motivating
How to Help Others Want to Take Action How to Make Keeping Commitments (Almost) Painless

Master My Stories
How to Prepare Yourself to Step Up to a Crucial Confrontation

Make It Easy

Describe the Gap How to Start a Crucial Confrontation

Stay Focused and Flexible


What to Do When Others Get Sidetracked, Scream, or Sulk

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