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50735476-46909205-the-chase

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Published by: Lucy Peña on Jul 10, 2011
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DICTIONARY ALERT:

JTTS: Sex with a man that involves ‘everything
but’ going the full monty. Newsflash: it’s just
the same to him . . . if you made him come.

Ever heard the expression ‘just the tip’? Or ‘we did
everything but’? This is terminology used to explain
the fact that although you were desperate to have sex
with a man, you decided that you’d do ‘everything but’
the penetration. You rationalised that if you keep the
actual sex out of the equation, it might prevent all the
chemical reactions described above from taking place.
But if you think you’re safe from the usual casual
sex repercussions by doing ‘everything but’ on the first
date, or soon thereafter, you’re highly mistaken. Any
time bodily fluids are swapped, secreted or leaked, the
same consequences will occur.
Take Kendell’s story.
‘I met a guy that I felt fairly comfortable with.
I went back to his place after we had a few drinks at a
bar, and we ripped off all our clothes. I told him I wasn’t
going to sleep with him and he told me that was okay.

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THE CASUAL SEX CON

I really liked him so we did “everything but” anyway. It
was fantastic, but I can’t help feeling that even though
we didn’t have sex, I still ruined the mystery.’
True to Kendell’s misgivings, the guy didn’t make
nearly the same effort he had been making before the
mistaken JTTS. The Chase was over.
Everyone has their own standards of how far they’re
willing to go and when, but just to let you know: men
don’t really see you giving them a blow job as any
different to you having sex with them. If they have an
orgasm, they have an orgasm, regardless of how they
got there.

As my friend Patrick explained, ‘When a woman
gave me a blow job the other night in the bathroom at
a club, it was no different to if she’d slept with me. I still
see her in the same light.’

#22. WARNING:

BLOW JOBS AREN’T PARTY FAVOURS—
giving them out isn’t going to make a man fall
in love with you any sooner . . . so don’t!

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