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Johns story
John is a 42-year-old accountant whose obsessive checking behaviors are gradually taking up more and more of his time. He spends at least an hour every morning checking and rechecking that the windows are latched, the security alarm is set, and the front door is locked. At work, John goes over his clients books again and again, out of fear that hes missed something or made a mathematical error. Consequently, his productivity has plummeted. Lately, John has also started to worry about his wifes safety, calling her every three hours to see if shes okay. Hes afraid that if he misses a call, something bad will happen to her.
Just because you have obsessive thoughts or perform compulsive behaviors does NOT mean that you have obsessive-compulsive disorder. Many people have mild obsessions or compulsions that are strange or irrational, but theyre still able to lead their lives without much disruption. But with obsessive-compulsive disorder, these thoughts and behaviors cause tremendous distress, take up a lot of time, and interfere with your daily routine, job, or relationships.
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OCD; it is probably related to a biochemical imbalance in the brain. 3. REFOCUS Work around the OCD thoughts by focusing your attention on something else, at least for a few minutes. Do another behavior. 4. REVALUE Do not take the OCD thought at face value. It is not significant in itself. Source: Westwood Institute for Anxiety Disorders
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Do not participate in your relatives rituals. If you have helped with rituals in the past, it may take time and practice to change this pattern. In order for people with OCD to make progress, family and friends must resist helping with ritual behaviors. Supporting the rituals, including reassurance rituals, hinders progress. Communicate positively, directly and clearly. State what you want to happen, rather than criticizing your relative for past behaviors. Avoiding personal criticism can help your relative feel accepted while he or she is making difficult changes. Mix humor with caring. Support doesnt always have to be serious. People with OCD know how absurd their fears are. They can often see the funny side of their symptoms, as long as the humor does not feel disrespectful. Family members say that humor can often help their relative become more detached from symptoms. Source: Centre for Addiction and Mental Health
The way you react to your loved ones OCD symptoms has a big impact. Negative comments or criticism can make OCD worse, while a calm, supportive environment can help improve the outcome of treatment. Theres no point in scolding someone with OCD or telling the person to stop performing rituals. They cant comply, and the pressure to stop will only make the behaviors worse. The best way to help a loved one cope with OCD is to be as kind and patient as possible. Praise any successful attempt to resist OCD, and focus attention on positive elements in the persons life.
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Family and Friends - Information on how to take care of yourself while helping a loved one with obsessivecompulsive disorder. (OCD UK) Help for Partners and Families Advice on how to support a loved one with obsessive-compulsive disorder. (Centre for Addiction and Mental Health)
Melinda Smith, M.A., and Ellen Jaffe-Gill, M.A., created this article, with contributions from Jeanne Segal, Ph.D. Last reviewed: May 2010.
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