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Hadith of Husbands Calling Their Wives to Bed, Does It Apply to Men & Women

Hadith of Husbands Calling Their Wives to Bed, Does It Apply to Men & Women

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the arabic text of the hadith is as follows: ?? ??? ????? ??? ???? ??? ??? ??? ???? ???? ??? ???? ???? ???? ?? ??? ??? ????? ?????? ??? ????? ???? ???? ????? ????? ?????? ???????? ??? ???? -bukhari number 3065 i think the arabic words used in the hadith (????? and ?????? ) are very clear and need no interpretation. the hadith refers very clearly to a "wife" that refuses to go to bed with her "husband". if the hadith really meant to apply to both spouses then instead of such clear expression, other expressions like ??? could be used. i therefore cannot agree with the opinion expressed in your question. however, it should be noted that the above interpretation of this hadith (if assumed authentic) does not violate islamic justice (as implied in the question). the hadith does not say that only the wife should submit to her husband's wishes. the qur'an (al-baqarah 2:187) makes it clear that husband and wife are like garments for each other, in particular when it comes to sexual desires. this simply implies that both husband and wife are to fulfil the sexual desires of each other in order to protect each other from evil instigations, just as a garment protects one from being exposed. the reason this particular situation is mentioned in the hadith is only because it was an issue at the time of the prophet. looking at the above mentioned verse of the qur'an, i can say with confidence that if the opposite situation were an issue at the time of the prophet (pbuh), the hadith too, would have referred to the reverse situation. it should also be noted that the hadith does not imply that a wife is to fulfil the sexual desires of her husband under all conditions. the hadith only applies to situations where the wife rejects her husband with no sound reasons. islam is not after fulfilling one's rights by violating another one's rights. when looking at these types of ahadith, the general spirit of islam should always be taken into consideration. abdullah rahim september 9, 2007 members login password understanding islam introduction brief history the team contributing writers top muslim sites comments/feedback report errors sponsorship sought copyright (c) 1999-2007 understanding islam, all rights reserved.

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