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Featuting: Grape, Mandrake, Reddog, SenorBubbz, Ohmega, Darkpwns, Aaron4Prez This is a compilation of the top 1-5 articles from each contributer that were posted in the school year from 2008-09. We hope you find this information useful and enjoyable. <33 HSPF http://highschoolpuas.proboards.com/ Content: Socializing with Others How To Talk To Girls: Reddog Attraction Switches: Grape Using Your Belt In The Hallway: OhMega Indicators of Interest: Reddog Direct Game, Indirectly: Reddog *Insert Here* Olympics: OhMega The Unwritten Code: Grape A Guide to Rapport: Grape A Guide to Kinaesthetics: Reddog Trust The Midas Touch: OhMega Pulling The Trigger: SenorBubbz Social Circles: Darkpwns Misconceptions of PUA: Reddog Self-Focus No More Mr. Nice Guy: OhMega How To Become A Man: Mandrake Life, Intent, Happiness: Grape Psychology of Naturals: Grape A Lesson In Confidence: OhMega Beliefs: Aaron4Prez Psych on Being in State: Mandrake Personal Experiences Mandrake Darkpwns
Socializing with Others
How To Talk To Girls: Reddog Hey guys, RedDog here. I know when I was an afc, I had no idea how to keep conversations with girls. Now, I do it subconsciously. It can seem hard to learn at first. I'm not going to tell you Inner game stuff like "Just do it" for the whole article.I'll just give you the one tip that helped me immensely. Are you ready? BEFRIEND GIRLS Yeah, it's that simple. I have about 3 or 4 really good friends that are girls. Are they 9's and 10's? No. But they are hot enough to be good training."Well wait Red, Aren't I supposed to game girls?" Yeah! But... not EVERY girl you see. You'll just come off as a creep.In fact, alot of my targets come from other schools because I friend alot of girls at my school. By the way, Guess who introduces me to these other girls? Your text game gets so great. I never go afc, I just stay cool without going sexual basically(Though I have at times, but of course we both know we'd never go out)I'm not an AFC who's saying "You're so beautiful you are awesome" and then trying to get blown... NO! Just me, running comfort. I'm the guy that girls love, The one that they'll introduce to their hotter friends and already DHV me..In person? I'm awesome. The stuff before like conversational flow, vibing, etc., the stuff I worked HOURS trying to find examples, happens naturally now.I can go from talking about a project in class to talking about potheads.I know how to joke around now. Number closes? Made simple since I got used to it. Seriously, ITS NOT THAT HARD. Just ask. (Although alot of girls ask me =D) Kino? Don't get me started. I'm so sensual... Girls that are comfortable with me Kind of touch me everywhere but the groin, and vice versa(and the chest... sorta )I can give fun little smiles... Girls go in my bubble.. Inside jokes, Nicknames.. more kino I stay In a comfort state with like a hint of sexual.Oh, by the way, The girls that I'm friends with love me, and the others are aware of it. It's a big DHV. We all know girls talk all the time. Watch: FHB7.5:Hey HB9, Do you know RedDog? He's so cool and funny and etc........ HB9:No I don't! I'll have to meet him! *Insert fashion here* See? DHV! Girls come to you. Social proof much?Another IMPORTANT tip: Bro's before Hoes... DO NOT go telling the private info your boys tell you to FHB7.5. All you get is looking like a pussy.I don't tell ANYTHING to anyone. Creating a confidence bond is key to rapport, for both genders.Trust me, FHB7.5 will not be mad if you don't tell her who OOYB(One of your boys) likes. If you do, BIG DLV and you look like a afc who tries to get girls by telling them everything.NOOOOO! What to DO: Be a great guy... Listen and shit.. Joke around, Have fun. Text her Alot, have fun, Talk seriously sometimes... Have fun. Basically game her without gaming her. Very little sexual, Just kino(This gets rid of Kino anxiety too) a bit.Yes, I've had my FHB's kino me alot, BEFORE i kino'ed them. I'm so good, that when I actually game, its so smooth, and I get nearly the same reaction.
What NOT to DO: Be a kiss up. This will win you NO friends. Girls talk, as aforementioned. they will label you as a kiss up. Do NOT try to get too attached. What I mean is, again, don't be her lapdog. Your friendship needs to be equal! This is kind of hard to explain, But don't favor your boys over your FHB's and vice versa. I Try to stay out of arguments and shit. Do EVERY activity with her/them. You still have your boys. Try to make it a 45%25%30% Ratio For Your Boys/Hb's/FHB's That's an Estimate by the way. I hope this helps you all,because It elevated my game to a whole nother level. My game is niiiiiiiiiiiice now.(Well, Attraction through Comfort, but hey)This may or may not help you, but I know I look back on me just learning pick-up... I'M MUCH BETTER! Take that in. Happy Sarging(And Comfort!) RedDog
When you have fun.. There's a music video for a song called Agape by For Today. Later on. that all the other girls have and like she's missing out on something amazing. • Leader Women like men who lead others and help others succeed. but it spoke in monotone and had no facial/body expressions. If you're not having fun. You decide. we had groups of people. It's also the basis of why women find certain attributes attractive in men.." He also sang a song later on that night. a guy is constantly bullying another guy in school. That's not to say make a big deal out of everything like an immature brat. • Willingness to Emote Imagine a robot who you could have conversations with like it was an actual person.. called Tribes. In the video.proboards. Agape means Christian Love. but simply to have feelings for others. they WILL fall for you. Check out http://highschoolpuas. • Being Merciful No one likes the person who will be so mean and immature as to HURT someone when they don't have to. Make sense? This 'theory' is very very well known by NORMAL people who aren't PUAs either. 'toy'. Hard to explain common sense.. He would be the one who was better than everyone else and was chosen to be leader. Guess who got laid that night? Yeah. If you are having fun... He would be the one who would be the BEST at protecting her and her children.com/inde. his brother. ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. Boring. • Fun Fun. his GF was soo amazed by his willingness to emote. the bully pushes the kid in the hallways. This sends out a negative vibe and people won't want to hang out with you. and that leader was a man. Every tribe had a leader. it seems like you're under some stress and you have some huge problem on your shoulders. Matador has a sweet example where he was at dinner with his girlfriend. It makes him come off like a. You don't get to choose how attractive another person is. They can't help it. not the other dozens of men. Although he had an average voice with average singing skills. it shows that everything is going your way and that everything in your life is going the way you want. and . then people will want to be a part of the fun you are having and will want to hang out with you.play&thread=283 for more info. "Bro. right? It's good to be emotional about things. and his bro's gf and he said. When you talk to girls and you show the right characteristics. Matador. First of all. All the women wanted to have HIS babies. I just love you so much and I'm very very thankful to have you as my brother. The list + why: • Pre-Selection Women will instinctively be attracted to a man who already has other women wanting him and talking about him.. Back in time when we were cavemen.Attraction Switches: GrapeAn attraction switch is something that all women find attractive in men.
Without having reason or intent. You have nothing to be worried about. everything is okay. As they're leaving. • Having a passion/Having goals in life Having goals in life is probably one of the important things a man will need. relax your face and arms. ain't it? • Making deep eye contact Girls really really like a guy with cute eyes. . Make sure you stay healthy and have lots of rest so your eyes wont be blood shot. there are two factors: eye contact + eye health. • Having things in common A huuugeee part of making a girl attracted to you is making her believe you guys pretty much share the same life. you won't get anywhere in life. The man hugs her. The man agrees. It's easy to have cute eyes though. the girl trips and falls. As they're leaving. Guess who got a kiss at the end of the music video? • Protector of Loved Ones Choose the person who you think is much cooler: Person 1: A man's brother calls him and asks if he could take care of his niece. Relax your shoulders. Being relaxed shows this. But he didn't even though he could. You need to talk about all the things you really have an interest in and you need to put emotion into it. You need to show you're trying to improve your own self and your life. The 7 year old niece comes over and they go to the store to buy some groceries. Also. and comforts her telling her that it's just a tiny scratch that'll go away. Mature men are believed to have deep and soothing voices. the more mature he is. It's attractive. it just is. and then let's him go. The man laughs his niece and doesn't even care about the fact that she has a scratch on her elbow. The girls will fall in love with you and the guys will open up as friends in no time. do it. So always try to focus on the commonalities you and your girl share. Do I even have to explain? • Having a deep voice So women like men who show a sense of maturity. the girl trips and falls. George Clooney is well known by women for his sexy voice. The man agrees. This makes her soo much more comfortable around you and she feels like someone finally understands her. Maturity is strongly correlated with age. And when you talk with people. a relaxed voice. looks him straight in the eye. It shows you have nothing to hide and that you respect them. It's attractive. talk with Dante from this forum. Nice. The entire time. Person 2: A man's brother calls him and asks if he could take care of his niece. Everyone knew he could well have easily beat the bully up. Having relaxed facial expressions.everyone is screaming FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT! The kid grabs the bully's collar. His voice will be a very alpha male kind of voice. not how different you guys are. • Being Relaxed Very much relates to having fun. and relaxed gestures are essential when coming off as attractive. The older someone is. He showed mercy. The 7 year old niece comes over and they go to the store to buy some groceries. He treats her to some ice cream for being a big brave girl. hold eye contact. relax your chest and stomach.
" Always strive for success. It shows you are smart enough to survive and that you will be able to plan things out and lead them through hardships and such. If you fail at something you tried at. you need to start fixing things up. It won't matter how smart you are if your body won't behave as your mind wishes. • Willingness to Walk Away • Social Proof • Being Older . it'll come eventually. • Being Physically Fit This ties in with the whole survival thing. how will you be able to do the hard physical labor a man does? • Being Successful Whatever your passion/goal is. Failure is something that shows "There are people who are better than him because they can do this but he can't.• Being Smart and Intelligent Being intelligent is also something that many girls find attractive. you better damn be successful. If you're fat and plump and you have a bad heart. A stupid person won't be able to do this. but a smart one will.
See a girl. it builds sexual tension. draws some attention "down there". give her your "look".. Recommend you get some. But I digress. If you build your frame as a "sexually confident" person. don't over excite yourself" or something like that as she's touching the belt buckle. the one when you undress a girl with her eyes and she knows it.Using Your Belt In The Hallway: OhMega Something I just started doing as of late: I have a few belts with some impressive buckles. give that girl some excitement! And most of all. you don't want to be the weird sketchball perv that freaks people out. Great way to pump up the buying temp and continue the interaction with a slightly altered "atmosphere" if you wish. have fun . you guys are smart.. "easy there tiger. And be comfortable when you do it. girls will like it and want it rather than freak out about it. "sway" your "nether region" out a bit. Then say something to the effect of. I'm sure you know what I mean.3 you have a pumped up interaction. and then you know. Everyone has one. but it's not creepy. tell her to touch your belt buckle. So remember the three C's of belt interaction: Confident Comfortable Cock Sway and in 1. Don't ask her to touch your belt buckle.2.
to hide the fact that she's looking *She introduces you to friends *She buys you a drink *She calls you a player or a heart breaker *On her way out. or have isolation with you *She mirrors your gestures Passive IO Is *Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing) but she stays *She moves to see you and hangs with you for extended periods *If you move. too. she follows you or waits for you *She doesn't flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close *She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token Resistance to avoid feeling like a slut) . she mentions that she likes it. she is particularly talkative (to get your attention) *She asks you for your name *She asks you your age (make her guess) *She compliments you *She is playful and tries to challenge you *She's disagreeing but laughing *She's punching your arm but laughing *She uses nicknames for you *She plays with her hair while talking to you *When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours *She repeatedly touches you in any way *She asks if you have a girlfriend *She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one *When she has to go to the bathroom. interact with you. she re approaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #) *On your way out. she holds it for a second *She smiles at you *She stands nearby (proximity) *She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said *While walking by.Indicators of Interest: Reddog This is from the pickup artist forum. she comes back *She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you *She avoids mentioning her boyfriend *If it comes up that you like something. not mine. she looks at you to see your reaction *She looks at you from the side. she turns her body toward you or brushes against you *She says something to her friend and they both giggle *She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation *While you're talking to her group. or needs someone to show her how to do it *When she says or does something. she asks you where you are going (Invite her) *She returns your calls *She invents reasons to be near you. Thought this could help *She re initiates conversations when you stop talking *She giggles *She touches you *She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you *She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so *She tosses her hair (to see if you will look) *If eye contact happens from a distance.
The most important IOIs to look for are: *She *She *She *She re initiates conversation when you stop talking giggles touches you tries to get rapport and build comfort with you .
This changed my outlook on approaches. ha. You don’t need lines or routines because the girl’s buying temperature is pumped simply by the ballsyness of your approach. Indirectly… Alright fuck it. The following examples are on-campus interactions.. We can break the “indirectly direct” approach into a few key points that are differentiated from other types of cold approach. is a massive school (65. As in within the first five seconds following your opener. although they might not necessarily agree. will know what I mean when I say this: Going direct is a million times “better” than going indirect. All this means is just very unapologetically saying things like “haha I know this is random…” or “sorry… I don’t usually do this”. This is during the day.) With the school being that large and that social. GoalDigger gave a great guide here. and I’ve had a phone consult with Soul on how to do day game approaches so my education on the matter is pretty solid. This diffuses the awkwardness created by the fact that you have just told her you’re sexually attracted to her. 4) If she continues to be unresponsive. It can be the lamest. and that you understand that she thinks you’re hitting on her. haha…. most incredibly unfunny thing you’ve ever said in your life. etc. This school is also always placed among the top ten party schools in the nation. there is a lot of benefit to be had by creating some small routines and lines to use. etc. This a good read. How to go Direct. more reliable if she’s given you IOIs. I’ll try to include a small template that shows you how you can put together your own routines to get started. more natural. that way you get sharper and faster when coming up with witty in-conversation responses as well. 3) Move the topic of conversation away from sexual (physical) interest immediately. and just fuckin easier in general. 1) Your opener is more of a joke than it is an opener. When you’re first starting to do this. and in fact many licentious and alcoholic game-junkies probably chose to attend the university for the aforementioned reasons (I know one…. The opener just has to show two things: that you think the girl is hot. 2) Jokingly apologize on your opener.000 total students) which is consistently ranked as the “number one hottest campus in America” by Playboy magazine and others. Beware of using the same line twice in smaller schools. you are good. but the war will be won if you analyze the approach and see what worked and what didn’t. one . The battle is lost. but if you have a smile on when you say it. My college. you should just constantly be creating new ones after a week or so. then you must take it upon yourself to walk away from the conversation. let’s call this “Going Indirectly Direct” By GoalDigger Those few and proud who have experimented with many different methods of pick up artistry. which you are NOT. What I mean by that is that going direct is faster.Gold Digger Wow. but are now not talking about it. not receptive. Indirectly: Reddog . Arizona State University..Direct Game.
One of them is imaginary but I’m doing my best” Girl: “hahaha!” .” Girl: (dismissive) “haha… I don’t hate people I think that’s weird…. she is extremely hot and will want to keep challenging you. We had both just finished eating alone in a Chick-Fil-A or some shit. Instead of “breakin’ the fuckin front door down”. Example #1: This is a girl I am opening outside of the student union. because then I'm still on home court: GD: “So uhh… I’m guessing you don’t have any friends either? It’s so good to finally meet another person who hates people. I was like depressed haha” Girl: (lightening up slightly) “oh haha… yea I know it’s usually not like that” There are two important things to note in that little exchange: 1) the absolute subtlety of my “direct” opener. However.” GD: (breaking my RAS for a second. I will just go in the through the back --. a hot girl will interpret that as someone who is trying to hit on her. I will never mention any interest in her again. GD: “haha we should’ve sat next to each other in there. If you say ANYTHING about “we” or “us”. then you can pretty much assume her bitch shield has been put on hold for the next couple of minutes. So I GIVE her shit she can challenge me on. I throw my tray away at the same time she does.” Girl: (disgusted “don’t hit on me” face) “what?” GD: “that place was dead as hell. and not me and her.AKA simply not acknowledge any bitchiness and act like she’s being nice. The only direct thing about my approach is the fact that I said “we should’ve sat next to each other”. After I say that. on purpose ha ha. I’m doing a lot better this semester I have two friends now…. so I can catch her outside. In order to cope with this constant stream of pussy guys. they have developed very strong and rare bitch shields. As soon as this girl made her comment about how “its usually not like this” I am pretty much in. Notice how both of these openers are situational and completely unscripted – that’s where you get away with murder baby. I think we could’ve turned that place into a party. If she gives you anything that even resembles a normal or trivial comment. and the place was very quite. and 2) the fact that I changed the subject of my opener by making it based on the situation. then big smile) “haha no I’m just kidding.can rest assured that very hot girls (9s and 10s) get hit on VERY OFTEN. instead of openly dealing with it.
2) I smiled at her negative reaction. I’m just joking around. There are very few points in the interaction where I am not smiling or chuckling to myself.Once she laughs. which I could tell by her big ass emblazoned bag. Throughout the conversation I am flaking my RAS. . And my favorite colors blue so alright fine your bikes not a complete joke (the bike is pink) Girl: “hahaha!” GD: “so what are you doin’ on campus? You’re a professor right? You must be a crabby biatch in class I can tell by your sticker” By this time I have deliberately gotten on my bike and my body is facing away from her and I am talking over the shoulder. and she also understands that I broke my RAS because of the bitchiness in that reaction. The REASON she dropped it so quickly is also a little more complicated than it looks on the surface. It’s twofold: 1) I broke my RAS. Her reaction means nothing to me because I am just joking around..” Girl: (loosening up) “haha…. I made sure she saw me glance at her ass before I make this comment.. mines cooler because of this” (points to this ridiculous sticker on the side of her bike. but no. i thought it was SO funny) Girl: ( “did you just hit on me” face) “What?” GD: “Your bike seat is tight. it was a fuckin Parakeet or something with sunglasses on. What this amounts to (for her) is me basically telling her that I’m not trying to make her smile. her bitch shield is completely gone and I am in comfort (with some jokes here and there to spice that shit up). up until the point where I get off of my bike to keep talking to her.. She understands that her reaction to my comment was bitchy. Listen. What is extremely attractive about this is the fact that I have no need or even want for a positive reaction from her. I do not give a shit about her reaction. and if she’s not going to joke with me then I’ll just leave.)” GD: “hahahah… that’s cute…. GD: “That’s a nice seat you got there” (haha get it? . I know we just met so I’m not trying to be overly harsh but… I just feel like my bike is so much cooler than yours. She is a ten and a sister in one of the sexier sororities on campus. especially if it’s not positive. it does have the skinny tires and everything. and went on to crack another joke. Example #2: This is a girl who was unlocking her bike next to me. I am obviously joking throughout the entire interaction.. so she is becoming aware of the fact that the guy who was just staring at her astonishingly nice ass is now about to desert a pretty promising conversation with her.
She believes this only because I truly believe it and my subcommunications and RAS show that. In every fucking interaction. in a few tiny actions. this is ASU I can find another ten in five minutes”. your hand and your roommates bottle of Dove moisturizing lotion. I have demonstrated. I don’t give a shit if you’re hot” I was about to leave because her initial reaction was not positive.Girl: “haha hey wait… what’s your name?” GD: (gets off bike) “I’m Jay. you need to have that kind of abundance mentality. . And you should. Not only do I not need or want (lie) sex from her. I don’t even need or really want to be in a conversation with her. especially in college! Because then your cock will finally have some company besides that highly overused love-triangle that includes yourself. Have fun with this my homies. what are you doin on campus today?” If you guys have any questions on specifics or for different situations. then I will just go to class. yet I am still nice to her and I still stare at her ass. The dynamic is: “I like you because your funny. These girls want to fuck. and so I have the moral high ground. where I will remain for a few minutes before going to class. Haha oh nothing never mind. your Rapunzel right?” (she’s blonde) This approach is over in two minutes and I am now in comfort. I honestly thought to myself “if this girl doesn’t feel the need to redeem herself for her initial reaction. Hopefully those examples helped some guys who may take it upon themselves to indirectly go direct haha. just post them on this thread and I’ll see if I can think of anything. that I have absolutely no need for this girl whatsoever. but they are not going to slut themselves around… they are probably waiting for someone to just come up and say “hey I know this is random but I think you’re fuckin hot and I’m tired of three way dates….
Have Fun! pc n' love -OhMega . easy going. but would this be a gambit?) Use this in a set as large as you want. Good activities include but are not limited to: *Rock Paper Scissors *Thumb wrestling *Staring contests *Drawing contests Being cocky and funny is the perfect partner for this. "I just like to have fun" attitude.*Insert Here* Olympics: OhMega "Welcome to the 2009 Audience Olympics!" That's how I started it off tonight anyway. It allows for some light kino opportunities which is nice because your target(s) will become more comfortable with you and your touch. *There is a winner for each round. (Not so sure on my pua-esque vocabulary. and just displays your relaxed. or something you can just do with your hands. I made a routine which I have dubbed the "*Insert Here* Olympics" or simply just. Such an example would be cheating at the thumb wrestling when you use both hands instead of one. The basis is that you pick three easy to play games that involve nothing more than a pen/ pencil and piece of paper. It helps to transition from attraction more towards comfort. Read. I like to do this if there are two girls in the set. "The Olympics". Discuss. I just like it because it's light. because once you've opened them. Dissect. I've done it on a set as small as just one. The rules of "The Olympics" are as stated (More like guidelines): *There are three rounds. you can get a better feel of who they are. and most of all. and as large as five. *The winner after three rounds is the Olympic champion. I'd say about 5 minutes into the interaction and this would be a good game to play.
not to be judged by others. Be the first one to clap.. When someone trips and falls. the big cats know he or she is not one of them. Although they might appreciate your effort to care. LOSER. have big power. It's a time of talking about everything funny. DEFINITELY something a big cat would never do." unless it's a friendly tease. don't bring it up. You clapped out of true enjoyment. and great. you gotta give a shit. the big cats know he or she is one of them. You really enjoyed that show. So there are two types of people in the world. Big cats always tell people how great they look. don't go "FUCK!! RAWR" just continue talking while dabbing with a napkin. interesting. So do this. Never bring this kind of conversation to the table. there is a secret. You can't show "Hmm. 5. festivity. Don't make a big deal out of things. When this code is broken by someone. The last thing someone wants while eating a delicious meal is to lose their appetite because someone keeps bothering them to invest $500. Ever go to a performance and after the set is finished. I'll just say I like it if others like it and I'll hate it if others hate it. The last thing they want is someone making a big deal out of it and directing attention towards their mistake. and that they feel really bad for their problems. People see two universes "Me" and "The rest of the world. how fun they are. Don't bring business to the dinner table. 2. A bad vibe is NOT what people want when they go out. you gotta show emotion. Even if you want to make conversation or just tell someone how bad you feel for their having cancer. .The Unwritten Code: Grape As you may have learned before. So if you want to get others to befriend you and see you as someone valuable." Who will they care more about? It's only nature that people care about themselves a Lot more than others. You gotta know how they're feeling. You really like the voice of the singer or the triple spin flip by the dancer. When this code is followed perfectly. don't go "HAHA YOU FELL. Just a spill on your pants. These big cats are the ones in this world that make big decisions. It's a little fish's attempt to get big. Dinner is a time of companionship. unwritten code between the 'big cats' in this world. Those who stop everything to fix a problem and those who continue what they're doing while fixing the problem. Give a shit about others. crazy. and are big leaders. and celebration. they'll know you're not a big cat. Not a big cat's attitude of being cool. 3. you hear that brief one second of silence and wait for a clap? Whoever clapped first is getting the most pussy.000 for something that may not even work out. Here are a few rules of the book: 1. It's not a big deal. 4. and show you are a true friend. They're already embarrassed enough. It's a time of enjoying each others' company. When you spill something. You were entertained and you loved it." You gotta show that you don't care about others' opinions. Don't talk about bad news.
Know their stuff. Big fish are the ones being impressed. Big cats always say something that MATTERS. they label everybody in the room as either High value or low value. So when you wanna make something clear. So join in on the conversations. 9. they know which football team is leading the season. Big cats have a tendency to be very direct and to the point. and join in on the companionships." It's simple as that.. You need to say bye to them and hi to them where you may meet. Know what you're talking about. Or else others will be confused and go "wtf is wrong with you. that's a little fish's move. They make their point clear and if you dont understand what they're trying to say. The big cats don't think they did any wrong because 90% of people usually do understand them. Big cats are the judges of society. make it short and simple. No need to use weird idioms and such. 8.. Judge. When at a party. This way they can't get a fool's price for the car they want. Say something that actually matters to people. then join in with a comment! If someone in the group says "Yeah. There's a big rule that says "If you dont befriend anyone you talk to. they'll start asking questions about the technicalities that only true car people know about. Little fish impress others. no one was there at all!" . Little fish are the ones being judged. I was at the TDWP concert last night. blablabla" They simply say "I have a headache. 10. They know the situation in Gaza. Very clearly. They're extremely intelligent socially and they are pretty much the leaders of society.." in their heads. When they have a headache. They are well understood and can communicate very well. Although they don't necessarily talk about all their judgments. otherwise they keep their mouth shut and are being entertained.So be the first one to do something when others are at a loss you big cat! 6. it's YOUR fault." So if you do happen to strike just ONE conversation with someone. people are there to have fun. You need to read this sentence. Join. 7. You need to learn to observe your surroundings and draw conclusions from them. Big cats always look like they know what they're talking about. Be straight-forward. big cat or little fish. Not be stuck up to people they dont know. state your intentions very clearly. When a group is talking about something that you know how to talk about. Big cats are constantly making judgments about others. that they will care about and actually react to. you have to know who they are and what they do. They know more than you will ever know. They know Obama's plan for the economy. Like stated before. Tells stories that will be interesting to THEM. When they're at a car dealership. This shows they can't be fucked with. Don't be the person who constantly tells stories or asks questions about things that don't matter. In other terms. you're officially weird. When they're at a pub. and find out what it means and then decide for yourself whether it's valuable or not. Big cats. they dont say "I'm actually not being my best self tonight like normally am.
that took a while. Enjoy + Eat <33 Grape .You walk in with "Dude you were there too!? Man that place was EMPTY. Whew." And then starts the friendship.
So. And remember. or a person/friend. They can't take the time to become comfortable with everyone they meet! They're hardwired to behave in such ways that require some sort of shields to protect themselves against aggressors and dangerous people. The more comfort you have with something. the more value you will have. she'll get curious. Now forget them. be a people person. and simply go out there befriending everyone cool. What's so special about you that EVERYONE loves you? Attraction right there =] So now SHE'LL want to build rapport with you. Well. the more people will talk about you to others. the more comfortable they'll be in conversing with you. the more you'll be able to do things naturally without having to feel like you need to fake yourself in order to be accepted. however.A Guide to Rapport: Grape The Importance of Rapport Rapport is vital when socializing with others. I really feel that rapport is going to the main focus for high schoolers. whether it's your surroundings. Think back to needing lots of social value to get girls. the more rapport . And then when that HB10 comes in. Here's a new concept: HB10s have 'bitch shields' to guys they don't feel comfortable around. I'll show ya how soon. rapport is VITAL when it comes to hooking up with chicks. Soon. And most of the people in the room know who you are. The community emphasizes that you should talk to everyone. <33 Grape Rapport Guide Concept: Defining rapport and how it's built through FOCUS. It's pretty much the greatest thing on the face of this Earth. That this is key in 'working the entire room' and being the talkative guy. you can do this by building rapport with everyone around you!! The more comfortable you make them. the better chance you have of 'scoring poon'. and having fun with you. Rapport is the feeling of comfort with others. Like they don't have to feel repressed about anything and that they can let their true nature take over. They need motivation to want to be comfortable with you. So the more a girl is comfortable around you. It's the level of comfort between you and something. the gurus were point on in saying you need 'value'. To have something in common with someone is to have a feeling of "one-ness" with that person. Think back to the PUA Gurus who say HB10s have 'bitch shields' because they want a valuable guy. However.. and hears everyone talking about you. be sure you're someone that she won't behave like this towards. You need to make them WANT to build rapport with you.. you're always talking to somebody. your social circle. And the more people you do this with. They want a guy who they feel very comfortable around and like they can be themselves. I want to introduce another concept: The more people you build rapport with. You no longer have those concepts in your head any longer. I hate using that term. So the more one mirrors and shows that one is very similar to one's mark. But first. Be someone who she wants to be comfortable with. Makes sense right? Yep. cracking jokes with you.
the sub-conscious mind figures that what ever it is focusing on is pretty damn important. Which one would you date if you were to? I'd say the normal pretty girl.Social Circle . you can also 'mirror' the other person's body language. it doesn't matter who you are talking to. but you guys may have almost nothing in common with each other as where you may find that you and a normal pretty girl to have many things in common. because that person has experienced the same thing you have whether you and him like it or not! Not only this. the way a friend made you mad. This is done through: socializing! Just talk about something you did the other day.Lifestyles . moods. breathing rates. This is because the focus was NOT on the things that were different. vibes.Vocal Tonality . Since the conscious mind can only focus on one thing at a time. but the things that were common.Beliefs . <33 Grape ============================================= . but on the commonalities that you share with another person. The point of the system is: Focus not the differences. Talk about the feelings you got. It is achieved when people have commonalities in things like: .the mark will have towards one. You could go to a different classroom or lunch table and you would feel VERY uncomfortable because you would have no rapport with anyone!! That is until someone 'breaks the ice' and builds rapport! You could find a girl very attractive and pretty. Applying the concept: So now you must know how to bring another person's focus on the commonalities that you guys share. while intentionally knowing that the other person has done something very similar to it.Gender .Events/Situation . facial expressions.Emotions .Body language .Kinaesthetics . the way your mom yelled at you.Ethnicity . Examples of Concept: Have you ever felt like you knew someone you just met really really well? It's because you guys had direct rapport! There are many factors that contribute to rapport and sometimes you and the other person could have totally different lives.Personalities It is very easy to build rapport. and just everything that the person is showing directly. voice tonalities. and something that almost ANYONE has experienced! This way. The only difference in the levels of rapport are the amount of knowledge and focus that one has on another. Everyone has so many things in common with each other.
Enjoy. Factual This is when facts are stated.Leil Lowndes .Rapport on 4 Levels There are 'four stages of rapport' that you can have with someone: Cliche This is when you and the person you are talking to don't really see anything in common with each other and decide to talk about cliche things like "Nice weather today." "They are jealous of US." "I listen to music a lot too!" Emotional This is when you and someone else share feelings and emotions. both are used." for the I and You sentences. ehh?" It's cliche and boring. You may say things like "I love YOU.Kate Burton. <33 Grape Hugee creds to: . Romilla Ready . Usually done between people who are in the same social circle but aren't really "friends". United This is when terms like "we" "us" "together" "You and me" "each other" are mentioned." It shows you guys are comfortable in opening yourselves up to each other. Both of you know there is nothing special between you two." "I really like her. The ultimate level of rapport. You may say things like "I absolutely looveee that movie. making a connection between the two.How To Talk To Anyone .NLP for Dummies . They'll talk about facts like "So Jamie just got arrested the other day." "WE should do this." "Those make me sooo scared. It classifies BOTH of you into one entity." "I blablabla bout YOU.
I can touch girls without them being mad. You can see that they'll touch girls regularly.(for the most part ) So I started. If you observe naturals or pua's or perverts (lol). I'll try to write down how I overcame it here. I felt like a King. I'll tell you what. I had beaten my Kino problems(for the most part). The physiological sense by which external objects or forces are perceived through contact with the body. Stage I:Light Touching Such as:High 5's. but it is mostly "You asshole!"-Arm slap Laugh/smile. Once you get to kissing and above. Brushing up against accidentally. I'll include a small guide to escalation. Which led me to the conclusion. Now.You can give your parents or grandparents high fives or give them hugs and etc. to placing the back of my hand or forearm where it shouldn't be. up to a point. Stage II:Medium Light Touching Such as:(secret)Handshakes. Most of us feel comfortable around a person who we touch. Most guides I read said "Just do it" and etc. Soon enough. you make a connection. and what does touch mean? There are a bunch of definitions. I started off slow.Feeling girls "six-packs ". This is true. Because I was. Now. When contact is made. if anyone needs the help. to come in contact with so as to feel When you touch. but it didn't click in my head. "But what if she gets mad at me for touching her and calls me a perv?" Well. Shoulder taps while talking. Do they get yelled at? Sometimes yes. Take a look around your world. a relationship goes up a rung. if you will. your family. Now. and even sitting next to girls while allowing my arms to roam freely. Whether it be High fives. First.Thumb wars . with some shoulder taps here and some brushing up against here. especially the hand or fingers. why cant you? I know what you may be thinking. it means touch. Well. Handshakes. I decided that once I did Would try to write a guide to help help others. I advanced into being comfortable rubbing legs. with no problem. ETC. This helped me realize that touching is natural. with my forearm on the side of a girl's chest. What does Kino mean? Well. it's pretty much everything is available. Palm Reading.because i thought it as well. Longer shoulder taps and such. If they can do it. So. look at the Naturals and Pua's again. This is helpful. Adult pua's say light touching is used to get the girl used to your touch. First. But enough about that.A Guide to Kinaesthetics: Reddog Reddog's Guide to Kino Hey guys!Before I overcame my fear of Touching Girls. of course). To cause or permit a part of the body. I went from saying sorry when accidentally brushing up against a girls arm. but a few pop out. I overcame it. You can touch family members with out it being awkward(Not in private places.
Hope this helps.invading her bubble. Thigh massages.Measuring Hands Stage IV:Medium Touching Such As:Longer instances of stages I-III. Remember. Reddog . Stage VIII:Super Super Touching Such As:Kissing.Hugs Stage VI:Light Super Touching Such As: Very light touch of her ass. Longer V-VII Stage IX:Mega Super Touching Such As: Everything else. Here is a picture for examples.. I hope it helps you. Cheek related touching. Six-packs.It's hard to turn down one of those. Brushing up of SIDE of tits. Touch is natural. in progressive order by using the bases. when guiding her somewhere. Longer IV-VI. but a nice grin).hugs Stage VII:Medium Super Touching Such As:Holding hands briefly. Neck massages.Stage III:Light Medium Touching Such as:Feeling smooth shaven legs/arms. Play-wrestling. haha Well. sticking your hands down pockets of jeans. that's my guide. Midsection. Brushing on thighs Stage V:Super Medium Touching Such As:Sides of thighs. Much longer I-III.Much Longer I-IV. Just make sure you have a smile on your face (Not a creepy toothy smile.
"I need what you have. and how some guy in a gas station taught you how to read palms one day... "See that line right there?" as you trace the particular line with your finger. Make a habit of pulling the girl close to you. get real close to her face and say in all seriousness with a slight air of mystery. Use kino when starting the interaction.that's.Trust The Midas Touch: OhMega Ever play Jenga? This little guide to kino of sorts is like that. when you get to the point when you really want to do something beyond getting a number.. Trust the "Midas Touch".. you can move your hand to places like the upper and lower back. you can just go in an lean on the girl (when I need answers for physics labs I just go lean on the girl from behind and whisper in her ear. Trace the lines in her hand with your finger and say. sexual beast sort of way This works so good because shitty school lockers make a good noise when things hit them with the slightest bump. Being physically comfortable in the beginning of the interaction will display your social "calibration" so-tospeak.") MY FAVORITE THING TO DO! Take her hand in yours and turn it over. the girl will follow with something like. GO FOR THE KIDNEYS!) Tickle fights Well-placed hugs Charlie horse fights (The purpose is to just fool around. touch more vulnerable spots on the body such as: the inside of the arms. familiarize them with the touch. eh. then KINO is going to be the fuel. insides of the thighs. "I shouldn't tell you. the sides of the face. not in a violent particular way. "That line right there. not actually give the girl a charlie horse) Thumb wrestling Play with her hair If you are confident enough. Start caveman-ing girls against lockers. INVIGORATE THE SEXUAL FEELINGS! And then. that's not good". THINGS THAT ARE A MUST FOR KINO: Secret Handshakes High-fives Crab-Claws (make a claw with your thumb. and the hips. she should be comfortable with your proximity to her.the dork line. very light touching on the shoulders or brushing your arm. game is your vehicle of choice. easy. but a playful. ANYWAY When getting more physical. "oooo. I've already said to much". and then the index/middle finger together. but after it falls down and it's all over the place If quick." then quickly flash a girl-melt smile and pull her in close and tell her how cute she is.. "What is it?" you say. the neck. Then when she replies with. "You have to tell me now!" and then you will say. start talking about the occult. and your pre-selection. Throughout the interaction. as your confidence displays the idea that you do this all the time.. up against theirs. .
Take your thumb and use light pressure to start tracing and invisible line from the bottom of her thumb. *This is all on the palm side of the hand. everything that touches the table. Yeah. . As you're doing that you talk about how you're opening the flow of energy. When she asks. with her eyes still closed take the tips of your fingers and touch them to hers and tell her to feel the flow of the energy between you. and that if someone else's energy/inner light/whatever is flowing on the same wavelength. is that when you use. it flows through everything. "The Midas Touch" routine.S: I claim trademark on the phrase girl-melt. Talk about how rare it is to find one that matches. That's like 8. all the time.000. up the side of her hand and down her pinky finger. just a little more pressure than it takes to crush a raspberry). I'll let you guys use it and not pay me any royalties. Much like the principles of tai chi or feung shway or w/e. just a sexually aroused hb. she'll go with it. (The pressure you apply with your thumb is quite light. then take that hand in yours and start talking about how since energy is neither created nor destroyed. As you finish saying that and you finish the "thumb path" have her close her eyes and feel the energy in her body flowing to the tips of her fingers. like if you put your hand flat on a table palm down. Whatever you talk about. (She'll be so into it. "Lets find out" then move in while flashing your girlmelt smile and FINISH HER with a 2000 point X3 multiplier combo K-Close. "What is it?" or something else to that effect. and index fingers respectively finishing with her thumb. So going up the "side of the hand" is the further most point away from the thumb but still on the palm Then after the pinky. Have fun with that. know enough about it to sound authentic.000 points.The Midas Touch (Kino&K-Close): Ask what hand she uses to write with if you don't actually know.^ P. and the plus side with this. just say. your target doesn't become a life-less gold statue. middle. then the two of you will connect. start drawing your thumb up the ring. but because I'm such a great person. her mind will make her feel it because she wants to feel it) and then have her open her eyes and tell her you think you might be an ok match but there's only one way to know for sure. The reason you use your thumb is because your hands have to be closer and it makes it more intimate. down across the bottom of her palm in a small arc.
Pulling the trigger on Kissing If you’re worried about kissing. don’t! There are lots of “can’t fail” kiss-closes out there you can use. “Wow. because that’s not what she did. Now at our age.proboards. give yourself a pat on the back!! -. This works because it makes her so uncomfortable that she has sex with you to get you to stop. You think most guys have the balls to talk to random girls? Nope. You can find those here: http://highschoolpuas. and get another IOI just to make sure you’re in the clear. whatever it may be. Who cares if you crash and burn? You’ve just gotten farther than most chumps out there. That’s not good. How do you do that? Well I’m about to tell you. All you have to do is ask! Now obviously. Also. there are several ways you can direct this kiss. you need some IOI’s first. three would be a good. -. She’s nervous because she doesn’t want to seem like a slut by fucking you.proboards. There’s Brad P’s very simple kiss close. no problem. She didn’t reject you. Whether you have to pull the trigger on opening. You can find it here: http://highschoolpuas. -. there’s only one type of LMR. smile to yourself. you can definitely use either Mystery’s Kiss Gambit. . or Style’s Evolution Phase Shift.proboards. but the core of it is basically telling her what you want to do to her. This takes balls. but you do.cgi?board=blanguage&action=display&thread=1000. but getting over approach anxiety is a huge step in your game. but make sure to ALWAYS keep it light. put it under her chin. Now I’m not going to go into specifics.” Now don’t use this word for word. The last thing you need to know about pulling the trigger on sex is how to deal with LMR (Last Minute Resistance). you seem really adventurous!” or “Damn. safe bet. What some PUA’s do is freeze the girl out. it’s been a while since I’ve met such a smart girl. kissing. The standard golden rule to always follow though. The second you move your foot and decide to do it and go for it. For example.cgi?action=display&board=routines&thread=1748. It sounds easy. where you take your index finger. there’s a way to get past it. Now once you’ve done this.cgi?action=display&board=avfiles&thread=1749. is to wait for 3 IOI’s (Indicators of Interest). if she says “No. you’re a really fun girl! Why don’t you give me your phone number and maybe if you’re cool on the phone.com/ index.cgi?board=routines&action=display&thread=48.com/index.” then don’t feel rejected. you have to engage in Vin DiCarlo’s Escalation Ramp. isolate your target. David Shade has a wonderful audio program on how to talk dirty here: http://highschoolpuas. is to talk dirty to the girl. she’s comfortable being around you and having you touch her (remember to always kino). some will come up with millions of excuses on why you can’t go open her.Pulling the trigger on #-closing This is literally the easiest thing on the entire planet when it comes to PU (pick-up). you’ve already talked with her sexually. and you have a condom. and what do you do? Some will go open her.” and go do it. maybe 5 to 10 minutes later.” And keep talking. then one day you might be able to come hang with me.com/index. you can still get her phone number. to make sure you CAN kiss her. Now if you don’t quite have the guts to do this yet. Another great technique to use during DiCarlo’s Ramp. Another good kiss-close you can use is Chris’s Ultimate K-Close. Don’t let it faze you and keep building attraction and comfort and ask again. and pull her towards you and kiss her. So on to actually getting the number. This is a step-by-step guide to using kino to get to sex. but I’m sure you can do it. #-closing. -.Pulling the trigger on Sex Now this is really one of those things that can’t be taught.proboards. I don’t give out my phone number. There are many. in my eyes at least. or having sex. per say. ha-ha. you game will jump to a whole new level. say “I can do this. What you do is you say.Pulling the trigger on Opening You see a hot girl. but the best way I’ve found to get over it is to take a deep breath. and is the same thing as guilt-tripping her into fucking her. adapt it to what you like about the girl.com/ index. “Yea. You can find it right here: http://highschoolpuas. to ignore her and go about your business. I usually just hang with dumb blondes!” That last one will work especially well if she is a blonde. many different ways to get over AA (Approach Anxiety).Pulling The Trigger: SenorBubbz -What is “pulling the trigger”? Pulling the trigger is going for it. what I always use is “Hey. Once you have her in your house.
Back to the nervous. experience breeds competence and competence breeds confidence. You’re gonna have to drop it and open up to the girl emotionally eventually and for girls. shy girl LMR.” And keep on going. Kiss her. If you’re here.com/ index.proboards. if she’s saying things like “Baby I’m nervous. if you don’t think it will work on a certain girl for whatever reason. If your first PUA k-close isn’t that great. This is what cavemanning is. you’re so beautiful. The moment you get her to your house and on your couch or bed. So go out there and get some booty!! Keep Pimpin. We’re just going to spend some time together.S. Also. you have to be congruent. sex is 90% emotional and 10% physical. Fuck logic.cgi?action=display&board=staffonlypage&thread=1750. go game other girls and eventually you’ll have a chance to try again. going completely apeshit on that bitch.” Now you may be thinking “Why are you validating her?!?” Well you can’t keep up this cocky funny. Now be careful with this stuff.” or “Baby I’m shy. Say “You’re totally right. tear clothes off.” You’ll learn more from practicing in field than reading tons and tons of articles. That’s why you may find that after you sex a girl up real good. One way to blow past LMR is to caveman. don’t be shy/nervous. who cares? There’ll be more to come.Now that’s if you did everything right. don’t worry about it. sex is a commitment. so keep on macking them girls! Many people say this. The way to deal with this is to reassure her of any misgivings she may have. don’t do it because some really reserved girls will just start screaming rape! The End! P. hard to get frame forever bro. Calibration is the word here boys! You have to calibrate everything I wrote about here to your own personality. but they say it because it’s true “The field is king. If you didn’t and you’re rushing things. forget about the girl. Remember. you’re gonna run into a different type of LMR and that’s the “I’m not sure I like this guy enough to fuck him” mindset coming from her.” Then tell her “No babe. If she’s a slut you shouldn’t even get LMR so don’t worry about it lol xD. this is emotion. This is wrong. If she says “I think we should stop. kiss her body. start kissing her like a crazed animal.” or “Honey. Here’s a little summary on how to caveman correctly and how it can just destroy any LMR: http://highschoolpuas. You have to practice these things. feel up her body. we should stop. SenorBubbz . Now this is all if she’s a NORMAL girl. she’ll be kind of clingy with you because for a woman.” agree and continue. They are in it for the pleasure of knowing they have a man that’s there for them and will take care of them and provide for them. don’t worry about it.
Clique Mom. yet that cool guy she hangs out with. it . ----Getting a Social Circle Started---Getting a social circle going isn't as hard as it seems. Head.steer clear of this status. If they weren't around.This is the girl who decides who is cool enough to hang out with her and her friends. but don't actually have a role. if you like music. 9 times out of 10 there will be an extremely social person in every single class.. so to actually join cliques together you must first be a part of them. she doesn't KNOW that you are high value. The first thing you must do is have something going on in your life. Guys and girls can occupy these positions and they can belong to more than one clique. these girls make sure that any guys messing with a girl within the clique isn't creepy. it could be a girl. he definitely has value and she knows it. In truth these groups are intimidating and at first it will seem like a good idea to attempt to get with a girl on her lonesome. Once you have something going on in your life you can begin building a social circle. they resolve it..she'd most likely be the hottest girl. The issue with this is that it doesn't work.yeah. Randoms come into a set with no value and females are very value conscious.. but more often than not the "cold approach" will end up in you pumping the girl's attraction levels to the point where she will be ready to have sex but then she leaves. Orbiters. --Cliques-Social Circles in high-school are comprised of different cliques. go to his/her parties. don't date within this status (at least while you are still establishing yourself within the clique).Social Circles: Darkpwns Yo! I'm darkpwns. sure you may DHV yourself but this only IMPLIES that you are high value.These are the people who allow for opportunities to meet new people and expand the social circle. the average guy will end up as an orbiter to a girl in one of those cliques. Why? Because you are a random. hang out after school together. Cliques have rankings though.These are people who hang around the group. but the alpha male will join cliques together and bring more people into his group. They are twofaced. If one of your friends throws parties a lot. Bridges. You remember that girl who shuffled away the HB you cold approached? Yeah this is that girl. One may be able to pull a random girl at a party and maybe get laid. --Social Circles-Social Circles are those groups you see that regularly congregate in your cafeteria. go to concerts. they talk smack when no drama is happening within the clique and once the drama fires up. Low value people reside here.Yeah.. Mediators/Drama whores. I want to share a little about what I know about social circles (its about the only thing I'm good at in this whole PU world).. but a necessary evil. drama that occurred without them would snowball into something ugly. Guys that run social circle game end up getting laid twice the times that the random does. this is the most desirable position if you want to build a social circle..These girls are loads of trouble. those people that always sit together in class.
No way. it could be an ug.maybe). mention a party you're going to the next Friday and invite them to come along and if they have friends. this is when you can begin actual social circle building. Mention a cool band you know will be playing at so-and-so. Just by having a social circle which will undoubtedly be filled with hot girls and by the countless girls that come to you looking for fun. integrate the interesting ones into your social circle. By being the one who decides where your group goes you display leadership qualities and people will want to be around you. these people were probably not your friends anyway. they could come too. From there. Bridges are social... Once you have a successful social circle who you regularly go out to events with you attain a whole new level of social value. You become that "Go-to" guy. Social dead-ends are the ones you would be wise to steer clear of. Going to a party with your group of high value buddies shows that YOU are also high value and people will gravitate towards you at the party. It's simple to start up a conversation a simple "Hey. Introverted people can be friendly.could be a boy. It doesn't matter who they are. Bridges are always looking for social events to take his/her group to. always seeking the next best thing. your very name becomes high-value (<<< exaggeration. Simply escalate on the girl you want and she could be . By doing this you will also become a social bridge. Bridges have a currency and it's fun. you don't have to invite every single person you know to every single party/ concert. and who you want to know you. or show up alone once you have shown that you can deal in their currency they will begin to invite you out with them as well. run the conversation as you would a normal one except give off the vibe that by them knowing you value will be added to their lives. the ones that people ask to hang out with. Pre-selection makes the girl WANT to be with you. When I say integrate interesting people into your social circle I do not mean desert your friends who are sort of AFC-ish or a little introverted. ---Building a Social Circle--Once you have become a social bridge you can begin selecting who gets to go to events with you.. attempting to get a piece of your value. Run this process on several bridges and you will become integrated in several cliques. giving you hugs. thus they give off a bit of value they are useful in social circles.. coming out with you.this is the emo guy who slits his writs that sits way in the back of the classroom with his head down and his music blasting. they are bridges. it could be an HB..I can't as my parents are always home so I can't help you on throwing parties] ---Getting Girls Within Social Circle--To get girls within your social circle is beyond simple. be the new friend. chances are they will show up and even if they don't show up.. Heads of cliques and other hot girls and bridges are enough. you would have generated LOADS of pre-selection. what's up?" would suffice. Be the next best thing. DHV stories are now pointless. These are the people you want to know. giving you kisses. [Once you have a social circle you can begin throwing your own parties. the one that people go to if they want to know what's happening that weekend.. even if you haven't gamed her. a new friend.
yours.. initiate kino even while you are building your circle..remember if a girl is in your social circle they don't have to be LJBF so don't treat non-LJBF girls as LJBF girls. .ALWAYS be cocky & funny.... don't hypnotize her.and please for the love of god..
Let game flow Naturally. Alot of guys worry about "Oh is this a Dhv? Is this stripe on my shirt a Dlv? Is my friend a DLV?" Huh? I game to have fun. Indirect and Direct are (usually) used in different settings.Misconceptions of PUA: Reddog Hey guys. you kill your chances. you don't have to be Alpha. Amogging and Dhv's Another big misconception is that you should try to be Alpha and always try to Dhv and always best the girl no matter what. Direct game can be useful too. You also don't have act Alpha all the time. it can sometimes kill your game. Indirect game is defined as anytime an opener is not focusing on the fact you are attracted to the target. some Direct openers are more forward. PUA:You're girl(s). You don't have to try to dhv every two seconds. Direct game is the other side of the coin. Parks etc. Now. An example.I'm here to talk to you guys about Indirect game V.(Mystery. RedDog here for HSPF. Indirect is used in: Clubs/Bars Dances Parties High energy locations(Raves?) Direct is used in: The Day Malls Commons. If you're in comfort.If she has to go to Yoga/Her Job/a Wedding/a Luau in 15 minutes. Direct game. then just # close and go. When in comfort. just be chill and don't try to best anything. Now. not to worry about Dh(l)v's! RedDog . But. If you all of the sudden kill the vibing. no need to prolong it. and Misconceptions one may have. NO! A big part of Direct game is more comfort oriented. (In a mall) Pua: Excuse me.Don't just go "I can DHV here by telling her a story about YOGA/my job/A wedding/a Luau!" It'll just be annoying. I know this is weird but I saw that dress and thought that'd look good on my sister. DO NOT OVER DHV! I can't stress that enough. I. In fact.E. such as replacing the dress with "you" and getting rid of the end.Just vibe and stuff. the PUA shows interest. where'd you get it? Here. Alot of guys starting out in pick up only learn Indirect game. can you answer this? A good friend of mine just found out his girlfriend made out with another girl in a club. is this considered cheating? See how no (romantic) interest is shown towards the HB(s)? Now. D-Deangelo) and that was me too.
Self-Focus No More Mr. *He has integrity. Paradigm. the set of all inflected forms based on a single stem or theme. Because of their fear of conflict. Accept yourself as being perfectly imperfect. Nice Guy: OhMega This is just for those who are recovering nice guys and how to get out of that trap. He likes himself just as he is. get my needs met. find a happy medium. and expressive of his feelings. *He can be nurturing and giving without care taking or problem-solving. He does what is right. and often does not give value. nice guys are frequently dishonest and are rarely available to work all the way through a problem. *He is a leader. and have a problem-free life" And even when this above paradigm is ineffective (which is usually always). *He takes responsibility for getting his own needs met. Being integrated means being able to accept all aspects of one's self. esp.a set of forms all of which contain a particular element. you will need to become an "Integrated Male". nice guys see one alternative. don't be a woman's bitch. *He is clear. He is willing to provide for and protect those he cares about. . In layman's terms. you will need to do something different from what you have been doing. Doing Something Different For any nice guy out there. not what is expedient. The Attributes of an Integrated Male *Strong sense of self. The Nice Guy Paradigm: "If I can hide my flaws and become what I think others want me to be then I will be loved. *He knows how to set boundaries and is not afraid to work through conflict. *He is comfortable with his masculinity and his sexuality. To try harder. and this just gets you stuck in LJBF zone at best. but don't be an asshole either. Why being a Nice Guy is bad: Nice Guys are often terrible listeners because they are too busy trying to figure out how to defend themselves or fix the other person's problem. A nice guy often takes value. direct.
Hopefully it will really help with your understanding of that elusive personality: the real Man. so parts will only make sense to me. so if you see spelling and grammar mistakes just PM me. I should probably explain that I’ve deified the “Man” in my mind. At first. I'll be honest: even though it holds a warm place in my heart because it was one of the first PUA products I ever watched. but most of them are just little notes and freewrites that I wrote for myself. Being A Man What is a man? Strong.. NOTE: These are notes I wrote to myself. There is a chance that it is impossible at this stage of human evolution for any man to become a Man. but hopefully much much more worthwhile for you than my original notes. He is not just any man. (add more when you think of them) 4. but as I returned to them every few weeks or so. to try to remember everything I had learnt from the program. I continued on from the notes and added my own thoughts and interpretations of what David D meant. once I actually got good with women and could see the matrix and understand what he meant. but I still decided that you would all really love it and find it helpful if I posted it. NOTE: Before we go any further. It's unedited. Without further ado. shouldn't be weak. The Boy Must Die Make a clear picture of what results you want/how you want to be. but rather a combination of all great men into something even greater. Introduction Being a man (inner game) is the FOUNDATION of all the other David DeAngelo (who will now be referred to as DD) products 2. mature. and we can keep coming closer and closer. but we can keep trying.How To Become A Man: Mandrake These are annotations and little notes I wrote down in December when I watched David DeAngelo's "On Being A Man". I didn't expect to ever post this online when I wrote them. 3. But I wrote down notes for myself anyway.. if only we put our minds to it. A Burning Desire . in control. So enjoy Some of the notes are direct transcriptions of what David D said. it was pretty ambiguous and didn't actually teach you the steps to becoming a man. cool. decisive. nor even any great man. Mandrake's Notes on David D's On Being A Man PART ONE 1. the notes sucked. It used a lot of really equivocal and undefined terms and didn't do a great job of explaining them. Now it's really fricking long.
complimenting them. 5. Not the definition of 'man' specified by age alone. gangs. Use them only at the beginning. We have a very odd societal definition of manhood. which is magnified by the inability to attract women. You see on the discovery channel newborn buffalo walking around and running within minutes of birth.e. SS. The caterpillar can become the butterfly but the butterfly cannot become the caterpillar. being a Man. etc. . This is not a healthy social structure... 6.It seems as though there is an invisible barrier blocking the path to manhood. buying things for them. etc. and fraternities -we made it into adulthood. 7. boot-camps. Techniques are training wheels.)? If you could be content being yourself around women? If you could be an attractive version of yourself? We're talking about the deeper meaning of the word 'man'. And women can instantly spot out men who aren't really men. missing a critical set of elements. This is VERY powerful to understand because if you act COUNTER-INTUITIVELY and attribute the good to luck and to the bad. Most mammals are less helpless at birth. Wouldn't be great if you didn't have to be fake (i. I'll figure out how to better next time and work harder. say "it was my fault. Neoteny & Maturity Neoteny is the "retaining of juvenile features into manhood" A man remains a boy not because he does not want to become a man. This is scientifically proven. A man in highschool is the man who fits the physical stereotypes and aggressively ridicules his opponents for the position of the alpha male by shooting them down with insults until the point when they have brought everyone else down to a level that is below them. Males tend to believe that anything bad comes from luck and anything good comes from something inside and from our own skill. Here's the elements: -we didn't have a father around so we had to be the man and raise ourselves -we were emasculated by overbearing fathers -we were spoiled by well-intentioned mothers -had no process of 'initiation' at that critical time -we went through 'pseudo-initiations' like sports. The Boy Must Die Pt II The caterpillar must die for the butterfly to live. It is because they have not been initiated into the structures of manhood. Critical Missing Elements We aren't told how to become a man by society. It is a total transformation with no return.with no map or hints to find them These elements are a few of those that make a man without manhood." you will gain HUMILITY and RESPECT. Make sure you consciously attempt to internalize NLP. alone. C & F.
independent. but you are able to transcend it and it is unable to dominate you. The Men's Movement Feminism is naturally masculine women telling women to be more masculine. Protector.What are you hiding from yourself and from the world? 4. We crave a deeper consciousness. 8. He has a low self-esteem. how you your life change? How would you react? Is that what you would want for yourself? Carl Jung: Anima vs Animus All humans have some presence of the opposite sex within them. The Initiation Process Primitive cultures practiced initiation rites that boys must pass through before becoming a man. depression. The BOY that CAN attract women has spoiled behaviour. Attracting Women The BOY that CAN"T attract women avoids and represses the fact. Homophobia is the hatred of feminine qualities in men. Procreator 9. it will return to haunt you. 10. If you woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex. courageous.Where are you not demonstrating integrity to yourself? If you don't trust yourself you'll have a hard time trusting others 3. a less confuse identity. in Judaism. spirituality. Women That Piss You Off It's okay to be pissed off at those women who go around with t-shirts that say "Bitch" but not okay to be pissed off at women because they rejected you or you think they are too good for you. it is the Bar Mitzvah. it is still a part of you. Read Sir Thomas More's To Be a Man 11. and responsibilities. The boy who grows up but isn't initiated into manhood often winds up living a life fighting childhood demons rather than continually developing into a fulfilled. Misogyny is the hatred of feminine qualities in women. 12. When you integrate you. beneficient. The Men's Movement is naturally feminine men telling men to be more feminine. because we want one with more structure.WHY?: What does it mean to become a man? One definition: stoic. strong. a manipulator. It seems that a formal transition into manhood must be assisted by older men and the transition is perverted when no ritual is present. is a cheater. this was the slaying of a lion. If you repress it rather than integrating it. Man Psychology 1. sexy. and the self-image of "loser". Provider. .We seek initiation into adult rites. full-fledged man.Where am I not being authentic? 2. In some African tribes. doesn't confront it because it's too scary.
Then there are those who move with the crowds. SOURCE OF GROUNDING ENERGY. Just admit it. You are enjoying every moment with a high degree of intimacy. use the method that you contrived until it is internalized. These are warriors and iconoclasts.arrogant. 15. rehearsed way. Then allow yourself to become a self-sufficient man. start (with a friend. Know Your Path (and STAY on it) Read and Highlight Dave Deida's If you follow your heart purpose. Interacting With Other Men A man can comfortably interact with other men. still do with one of my sisters] 14. Then there are those who go against the crowd. Staying On Course (screenshot) 2. Most men don't have healthy or healthful relationships with their father. Now admit to yourself why and how these things are unhealthful. . These are the successful men. the handshake interrupt) Practice doing the right thing (not necessarily ethically the 'right' thing) so that you become programmed to start doing it. [ I had this for a while. Critical Counter Intuitive (screenshot) Think of all of the little things that are completely intuitive and begin looking at how you can change them to make them counter intuitive (e. They go with the flow and don't create any waves of their own.g.) to find and list the negative little acts you do and the negative frames you allow and begin to think of ways to reframe each of these situations. Write it all down. When you do a lot for somebody and then get mad at them for not appreciating it. Some of these descriptions can overlap. has a deep grief that he usually won't address and can be characterized by the phrase: "I am a failure at one of my basic intrinsic purposes. who can't go anywhere because they want to go away from what they don't want. MENTOR TO OTHER MEN. and LIVING HIS PURPOSE. Then each time you are in that situation you listed. is a PROTECTOR. Do you have the "Disease to Please"? DD says that this is a psychological problem. Then there are those who go towards what they want. Galileo went towards what he wanted even though it was against the crowd. a LEADER. don't go against the grain. The MAN that CAN't attract women feels as though he is less than other men. Just look at Mystery or DD." The MAN that CAN attract women has STRENGTH. and a tyrant. In a contrived. you become complete and full. Getting Approval List the things that you do subtly to try to get attention and approval from others? The things that you think no one notices. There are people who are stuck. 13. PART TWO 1.
in DD's case. There is a difference between joy and enjoyment. no injustices. NOT to compete to be the best PUA and throw your life out of control for the wrong reasons). These are the things is you. it is just much less obvious than the change failure brings. Don't let anyone take it from you. and what you hate.5 Circle of Male Development . This is why you need inner game. Write it all down. Then remember WHY you chose the path you're on. 7. Each day you wake up. Now think about what you love about women. to become a 'man'. to feel validated. to get women. All those good things. 7. Think of the rock star who gets as many women as he wants. whenever you are in a rut. 4. these are parts of you. Get in touch with that 'WHY'. Sudden Success Syndrome is the delusion that men (esp. Then list the number on a scale of one to ten that that thing will improve your life. you always will get out of where you are. those with sudden success. Then remember how to enjoy the things you enjoy. as long as you learn from whatever has happened (e. E. and make them part of your everyday life rather than deep within you.g. your thoughts. Carl Jung called these projections.g. Your Inner World Think about a kid from your childhood who you really liked. Refuse to be a victim.e. life's rough. power. You're projecting it onto them. Think about what you liked in your dad and what you didn't like. Success never solves INNER problems when alone." the poor man: "How would YOU know? We think that the solution that would make us happy is the solution that would make men happy. they are the things you simply do (e. Self-Improvement A lot of people forget who they are and what makes them happy when they are on this 'new. There are no mistakes. Refuse to give anyone the power to take your joy from you.3. ideal life' of PU. that reason you got in in the first place (i. Additionally. then goes on suicidal rampages and drug overdoses. the change success brings is very painful and dangerous. your situation Learn to see how the choices you have made have led you to where you are. List ten things you want. Write the things you have forgotten. Write down three things you enjoy. Then notice that the things with the greatest returns are not the material items you choose to buy. should give a guy enough that he should never be allowed to complain about anything. Take Personal Responsibility –––for yourself." 5.g the rich man: "Whoa. and one you didn't like. and women. and what you hate. The things you said you hated are the dark side of you or holes that you are trying to fill. even if you don't want to. analyze how you got there and learn from it). no problems. know that you will always be able to get out of where you are ––– that in fact. say "This is your day. This is unrealistic and immature. Success in one area of life is not compensation to the other areas of life. Importance Of Dad 6.) who have things like money. spending more time with his best friends). Think of what you admire in men right now. And don't take it too harshly. you just need to be aware of them.
or tantrums . When men allow themselves to feel grief. You . once a man learns how to keep his power. 14. tyranny. a starter. Levels Of Energy Think of these different levels: an ignition switch. secure maturity.000 pounds of metal become useless because you can't find the 4 ounce piece of metal. A Look at Power Where is our own personal power based? Is your competition with other men based in a powerful. Most people try to work on the car when there's a problem.or is it based in weak.5 Questions About Your Father What What What What What What have you not communicated to your father that you needed to let him know? have you not admitted? have you not said? has he not said to you that you've needed to hear? have you always wanted to hear from him? have you hated hearing from him? 10. insecure..or is it based on credibility.. but take different lessons from them.Men are taught to act tough and not show their feeling. Leverage points like this exist in humanity. he does not want the same type of woman whom he wanted before. but think of the leverage difference.Men give away their power to women in order to seek approval even though women don't want men to give their power away. but they don't look to see if the problem is at a different level. The archetypal 'manly man' is a stoic. then you cannot take advantage of the power of the starter.. Emotional Imprints Challenges In Life Individuation More Personal As you mature. adult men and treat them as worthy allies and adversaries or do you secretly harbor thoughts of superiority or inferiority? (Both are bad) Is your ability to persuade based on whining. a motor. you will learn the same things.. overcompensating immaturity? Do you respect mature. and wisdom? Is your personal power rooted in scarcity or abundance? 9. 13. begging. All that power becomes inaccessible over something as small as a key. to connect to your true feelings. 12. Interestingly. then they can experience all the deeper emotions and begin the process of rebuilding correctly from the bottom up. and a car. They want a mentally strong man. you'll probably need to allow yourself to feel grief first. The men who keep their power attract women. The "energy" that powers the archetypal structures may be far lower than the energy that powers a muscle. 8. 9. who has his power. If the key is broken. masculine. authenticity. 11.. Grief is the Doorway to Feeling In other words. at least not on the inside. The 4. and thus cannot take advantage of the power of the motor and car.
15. the more universal". 16. Be proud of who you are. and I overcompensate for being to short by acting arrogant.." If you have something you can't fix.oh. Certainty that you're honest and authentic and transparent. About how you are going to get there. Language Of Manhood Deserve: If you don't think you deserve to be with many women. Have no insecurities with the faith that you are not alone. then be transparent. Don't think you deserve it because of all the injustices that have befallen you. Maybe not completely.it's very liberating. Avis: "We're only #2 so we try harder." "Seek first to understand. To encourage THEM to be independent." Don't go: ". Pull a David X: Girl with push-up bra and low cut shirt/dress "What are YOU looking at?" David X "I'm lookin' at your TITS. Certainty that she will sleep with you. "This is never going to work out. say: "Wow. and I'd always win. Speak clearly and intelligently. It's mature to allow others to live their lives and enjoy experiences without you. More: Acting based on what you think she'd think if she knew what you were thinking is a MISTAKE.. E. Feature Your Insecurities Til You're Over Them Practice making cocky jokes about them when you first meet a woman and are flirting. This screws their whole game up.. No "umm"s "ahh"s and "like"s. About where you are in life.g. Men tend to think that if a woman knew their thoughts that they'd get kicked in the nuts. but be certain. E. The more personal something is to you." If you just say "I understand. PART THREE 1. then be understood.. Don't make anything up. the more universal it probably is." you actually break rapport because usually you don't really "understand" and they know this.. Get over the feeling of loss when people do things without you that are enjoyable.. Remember: "the more personal. and it WILL be the best night she's ever had. mad or sad. Have certainty in all areas.g. The other side of the coin is knowing that you can enjoy your life without needing others to validate your enjoyment. If she's going to a concert with a friend." When Women Do Things Without You Don't get jealous. Speak with conviction. you're so lucky. Certainty No maybes. Be certain... More . you're not good at arguing. Clarity Be clear and lucid." or "Can I come?" Instead. Realize that your own individuality is a gift that you can appreciate more than anyone. Realize that each of your insecurities is common. About where you are going. feature it. you won't be with many women. cultivate the ability to enjoy things on your own. Think you deserve it because you want it and you're willing to do the work to go get it.so we'd always argue. 2.will read a book and derive a completely different meaning.
mainly from men. not more. even when it's all around you. (NOTE: For good forethought. not for YOUR ego. These fears are strong in our bodies because thousands of years ago they helped us avoid situations that might have actually caused death. You must give them up COMPLETELY. a mature man has though through all the possible situations and acts accordingly.. 4.. If the feeling inside of you is one of strength.." Saying that in a funny way will gain you respect. Keep Death In Mind Daily Overcome your fear of death. you free up your mind and can deal with the odd exceptions when they arise. there is also the part of the story where you return and share you knowledge and journey's tales. say: "Wow. Manipulation "A sign of a mature man is forethought" ––– Aristotle Part of maturity is thinking of future events all the way through with discipline. then you're on THE RIGHT TRACK. do it for THEIR learning. The Boy-Man uses tricks and techniques to manipulate. When you've thought scenarios through. and calmly. and wanting to add to your woman's life experience and joy.importantly. The TEST you can APPLY at any time is simple: Ask yourself if what you're doing feels manipulative. sneaky. wishing and leaving things to luck. and only lives for the moment and for instant gratification. This multiplies the feeling of fulfillment: returning to help your brethren. If it does. think clearly. I was just whining like a little bitch. Today.which will ultimately lead to a feeling of less fulfillment. almost all those things are gone. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't use patterns and canned kiss closes and so on to get past sticking points but if you begin to rely on them completely and you let them BECOME PART YOUR IDENTITY. and fear of pain leading to death. By doing this. you can move forward with strength and confidece. authenticity.instead of guessing. From Hero's Journey: Once you go out and leave on your journey. If you do something you notice is whiny or bitchy. naturally.) -Disagreeing with people to show your superiority -Being a "know it all" so that people will give you approval -Saying and doing things to win attention and approval. Becoming A Man Means Giving Up: -Throwing emotional tantrums to get attention -Correcting people because you need to feel important (if you correct someone. Don't let the fog get into your head. but he hasn't. you need good understanding) With women. so we can USE the thought of death to enjoy LIFE more.. Maturity vs. not add value and genuinely help a situation -Never brag for validation from others. 5. 3. 100%. then you're allowing the Boy-Man inside of you to run things. Pretending Forethought vs. then it becomes unhealthy because you're letting the Boy-Man use his manipulation for instant gratification rather than long term happiness. The immature Boy-Man thinks he's done this. knowing that you've planned for most of what could happen.. and the odds are on your side. Become aware of your IMMINENT DEATH. Know that time is .. or dishonest in any way.just never brag These are all from the Boy-Man inside.
That you are not alone in death. destroy the attraction in a relationship Switch to: Build a happy single life --> Prefer and choose to be single --. it gives you the ultimate context for considering everything. In a relationship. When you overcome all the fears related to death. On the other hand. When compared against death. Most Men Weren't Happy Single First They did not enter a relationship from a place where they were content being single and alone. The code of samurai states the many benefits of keeping death in mind at all time 6. with life as your context. becoming familiar with the thought of it without any fear. You can address your issues around it. leave solo and enter another country. build a personal life of your own. From Hero's Journey: To become a son one must first become a prodigal. death becomes a repressed fear haunting your nights and dreams. whether it is true or not. Live Now. Choose a relationship --> Choose a marriage or long-term relationship Make your single life so fantastic that you almost don't have time for a relationship. and use it as a method for happiness.your most limited resource and make the most of what little time you are given. until your life is over. and so that you can be at your best with your mate. But the level PAST overcoming your fear of death is the level that embraces the reality of death. PREFERRING not to be with a woman. give away power.. Had they done this. however painful it may be. Build a Happy Single Life: Most men: unhappy alone --> find a woman to cling to --> hold on too tightly. is that you will never know until then. so you can enjoy life all the time.the meaning of anything becomes positive. rather than escaping into a relationship.you need to be a whole without them. Know that is a part of life. Build a life you love. There can be no homecoming without leave taking. we need a reference point to start with. another land. When you conquer your fear of death. you have proven to yourself that you can overcome the biggest fear in life. the belief that you and your friends and your family will all be together again after death. the most painful and uncomfortable situation becomes a gift. Fill your life with so many things you enjoy that it almost becomes a difficult task fitting a woman/long-term relationship in. Alienation before reconciliation. but the truth. You can also fear what will happen AFTER DEATH. it becomes an emotional blanket. Why Death? Because humans primarily do two things with their minds: make meaning and ascribe value. . not to be your life. In order to do these. NOT IN YOUR MIND 7. Every meaning and value is relative to something else. Don't Put it Off: DON'T WASTE TIME DO THINGS THAT GET YOU INTO YOUR BODY.. and every aspect of life leads to gratitude. When you make your life the other person.. Enter a relationship to improve an already great life. causing claustrophobia --. That it is inevitable. and keep it in the forefront of your mind. can be extremely comforting. they could have CHOSEN to enter the relationship. The belief of heaven.
not others --speak to yourself) -Self Interest -Self Comfort (can you comfort yourself when situations are intense? Where's your grace under pressure?) Signs: Comfort in the presence of: -Class. 9.e. Seven Virtues + Vices Ponder these: -Love/Envy -Temperance (balanced. values. keep your values and ethics strong) -Other men (i. Breeding Distrust . no tyranny in the house of David D) -Your own life Exercise: Ask Yourself? What makes you uncomfortable? Write down three things.g. but don't treat him as if he owns you) -Women they're dating (i.the deep root.8. Outward Signs Of a Real Man Elements of a Healthy. THE QUALITIES OF MALE MATURITY: -A balanced perspective -An attitude of non-judgment -An understanding that everyone has a positive intention -A powerful sense of self -An air of stability. controlled)/Gluttony -Humility/Pride -Patience/Anger -Justice/Greed -Faith/Lust -Fortitude/Sloth Your unique combination of these make up your CHARACTER. strong and sturdy foundation -TRUSTWORTHINESS/CREDIBILITY 10. values and boundaries? Write it all down. style. keep your values. Masculine Self-Image -Self Concept -Self Assurance (when you need to be assured of things. refinement -beautiful women -power and high-status people -paradox and uncertainty Composure in the face of: -Competition from other men -Loss or setback (they're part of life) -Conflict or drama -Tests from women Clear path.e. boundaries when dealing with: -Other influential persons (e.. treat your boss with respect. you go to yourself. Where do I lose composure in life? Where do I reveal a lack of clarity in my path..
Don't... 11. Double Identity Many young women have double identities. They have the good girl and the bad girl, and sometimes men are trapped into only seeing one of these sides. A mark of a mature man is to be able to see that there are different sides to a woman and having the ability to make a woman feel accepted for who she is. Incidentally, this does not imply that a man must "tolerate" or "accept" second-class behaviour, low morals, or poor ethics from a woman. Men tend to see woman as angels, but don't see the bad. Some of the mPUAs know to look for specific little indicators that these HB10 "angels" were once strippers, or hookers, or acted in porn, etc. The ones that were once very 'bad' will certainly still be bad or pretend that they never were bad. Under that logic, it seems rational to state that many of the women who seem like angels are the ones with the DARKEST parts of them, in comparison to most other women. 12. Renaissance Man -Women complain that there are none left -it embodies the concept of actualizing all the different dormant potentials in every man -it implies that being a master of many different areas of life (physical, logical, emotional, artistic) ...as well as a habit of learning one thing after another, on a lifelong quest of selfactualization, improvement, and enjoyment. -Areas to develop include art, psychology, science (watch the Teaching company's "Physics in Your Life" DVDs and remember what you learned), music, philosophy, writing, performance, dancing, (keep writing more as you think of them) 13. Clues You're Dealing With A Real Man -An air of approachableness -A "never let them see you sweat" attitude -An unwillingness to accept second class thinking and behaviour from others -Mentor to younger men (start mentoring younger men) -Pillar of strength and security in self and values -Defender and protector of those less able to defend and protect themselves -Encourager and challenger of those not living up to their potential The real Maximus (from Gladiator) in history had self mastery, led men, had a steadiness of purpose, gravity with charm, did any task without making a fuss. What he said was what he thought. Nothing surprised or frightened him. He never seemed to be in a hurry but was never slow to accomplish something. He was neither intimidated and embarrassed nor aggressive and suspicious. So giving, forgiving and loyal, was he that his virtues seemed to be inborn rather than acquired. It is unimaginable that, any men felt superior or inferior to him 14. External Qualities -Mysterious Confidence (comes from within but mysterious because people can't understand how you can be that cool all the time, it makes them want to know more about you) -Humour (a tool of great power. e.g. to purposely create sexual tension and then break it with humour) -Wit (intelligent, snappy, focused version of humour) -Charm (pleasing personality and warmth, a great voice helps too) -Sophistication (reading the classics, knowing the names of movie directors, understanding
many arts such as film and theatre and philosophy.....I.E. high degree of CULTURAL LITERACY) ( <--- A sign of maturity, though not always a necessary one) -Leadership (learn leadership - there are a ton of books on leadership and many of them are fantastic) -Class (sign of maturity) (e.g. walk away from a bad business deal with a handshake) (e.g. speaking well of people in public even if you think they're a jackass who did something terrible --- there are exceptions to this, such as Hitler, and also you must be careful to not let people walk all over you just because they know you have to much class to tell someone. Also, you should be very careful that it's not out of fear that there will be bad consequences if you speak badly of someone. ) -Chivalry (the THEATRE/ unspoken roleplay of you being the KNIGHT and her, the DAMSEL) (+ little things e.g. opening the doors for her, pulling out chairs for her) -Style (real style is about developing your own style, not the common "style is taking someone else's attire to cover up parts of your personality) -Smoothness/Grace (polish off the rough edges of your mannerisms and general personality) -Comfort (in ANY situation) -Composure (in ANY situation) 15. Elements Of Cool Cool implies a temperature between warm and cold...which, when applied to personality or attitude, implies neither coming on too strong, nor being overly stand-offish. A "cool" person isn't too excited about anything, isn't too affected by anything, isn't emotionally reactive, and has control of themselves. Questions DD asks himself a lot? -What is cool? -What is square? -How can I get one to understand the concepts of cool -How can a square learn to be cool? What is the way? Remember: A cool person can interact normally with squares but squares cannot interact normally with a cool person. These are good questions to ask on a regular basis during your development. The Elements of "Cool" : -Off-beat sense of humour -Sense of style, music, food, culture -Laid back and unaffected by the opinions of others -Not a "suit", a "square", a "cone-head", or a "nerd" -Casual dress, the trendy but not TOO trendy thing -Not obsessed with proper grammar...enjoys modern, hip words and slang terms (this is a big one) -Calm confidence....can pose a little, but has that composure... -Can make fun of themselves -Doesn't act "above" others -Independent and encourages independence in others (e.g. "Cool. Go have some fun.") -Assumes a "cool" connection with others by leaning/nodding head back as a greeting, saying "hey", "what's up?", "what's goin' on?", or saying nothing at all, just a head nod, etc. 16. Sexual Confidence Sexual Confidence is the key to being a "naturally attractive" man. It means knowing that a woman will have an experience with you that she will never forget. Sexual confidence comes from understanding the psychology and physiology - the physical, logical, and
emotional aspects - knowing how to touch, how to kiss, how to create anticipation, how to pleasure, fully get pleasure, RAVISH. The key is that an inner sexual confidence that comes from knowing you can blow a woman's mind in bed affects ALL of your communication. It literally colours everything from the way you hold yourself to the way you look at a woman to the words you use while talking. When you have it, women respond differently to you, see you differently, and often become somewhat anxious and excited about you. Make it a point to LEARN HOW TO BE AN INCREDIBLE LOVER, and cultivate Sexual Confidence. People with sexual confidence realize that all banter is foreplay. Every woman deserves to have one man in her life that she never forgets. And that man...is you. PART FOUR 1. The Real Man: -Accepts things as they are fully, no judgment - THEN sets out to change them -Can show his sword without ever killing people/using it/needing to use it -Doesn't need or use threats ––– Robert Bly -Is the pillar of strength, security, and protection in every situation -Allows, encourages, enjoys when other shine, win and progress -Needs nothing external to be happy Giving every part of yourself to a woman is stupid. Always keep at least one part of yourself "off-limits". Say, "I just need to set a boundary, ____________" Be the planet, not the star. Attract women into your orbit with your immense gravitational energy. When you become so solid that no woman can affect you, you affect them. It makes you authentic and transparent, making women feel your powerful, masculine energy. But it only works with perfected inner game. In Jenna Jameson's How to Make Love Like a Pornstar, she explains how she was incredibly attracted to a biker guy and obsessed with him because she wanted to find the sensitive side she believed had to exist. It drove her crazy in love, and sent her on a wild goose chase into his soul, and transferred all of the power of the relationship dynamic into his hands. 2. Dr. Paul Initiation --> Liminality --> Full Integration ---> Secrets of the Elders/Mature Masters Suicide rate is far higher for males than female. Many believe because a poor father-son relationship is much worse than a poor mother-daughter relationship. You need men more mature than you to help you as guides in the process listed above. Psychoanalysis and Religious Texts were once the only way to list principles of life. Enter Dr. Paul: -Happiness (but sometimes a kid will be happy playing video games, but it seems like somethings missing) -Success (golden handcuffs = wall street trader with no time to be happy) -Freedom (a homeless person and divorced person are both free, but they're not happy or successful) ===================== Durable Fulfillment (the culmination of the three) To get there , we need high character...but how do we get character
to become more independent -Honesty. Seuss LOOK AT THE MOVIE AGAIN. not sad that it ended. but most of all a sense of wonderment for all that is right and good in the world -He should not be trying to be an example because this will disturb his ethos and keep him from being such. 8. SHARE THE RETURNS OF YOUR INVESTMENT WITH OTHERS BY TEACHING THEM EVERYTHING YOU'VE LEARNT ON YOUR JOURNEY TO MANHOOD.. 7. Fidelity. Do some soul searching and then write down your list of goals. Compassion. think of Philip Marlowe) GO OUT THERE AND GET A HUGE RETURN ON THE INVESTMENT YOU MADE THE MINUTE YOU STARTED WATCHING THE PROGRAM. Happiness Left Brain Decisions Questions Three Questions Final Thoughts -Accepting responsibility -Understand your intrinsic self-worth -Join a team in which there are other more mature mentors -Two Questions: Where am I going? Who will go with me? Don't mix up the order -Be able to reprogram yourself...Four parts of psychology: Personal Boundary (mastery of this will make you 'durable') -Emotional Energy -Positive = Self Esteem (divided into masculine and feminine) (happiness) -Ideas/Intellect (success) -Decisiveness (-->wisdom-->freedom) Don't think someone else needs to lose for you to win. and reasonable to you (protagonist should be like this." ––– Dr. -Don't do. -True. honest.. but ethical to a code that is true. not necessarily in accordance with the moral code of others. and ethical. Humility. 5. 4. Empathy. esp.THIS PART CONTAINS TOO MANY COMPLICATED THEORIES TO UNDERSTAND WITHOUT THE DIAGRAMS AND EXPLANATIONS. 3. .. Be. Death: "Be happy that it happened. USE THIS KNOWLEDGE EVERYDAY. 6. and how you are going to achieve these things. your life timelines. -Take full responsibility for your own destiny so that you may know where you are going.. just.
I hope that really changed all of you for the better. and demystified what a Man is and how you can rise above other men to become one. And hit me with some feedback. it's always nice to hear if the post can be improved in any way ~Mandrake . So helpful for my game. That felt good to re-read.WOW.
exactly that. And think about this computer you’re using right now. Life is about happiness. This is why the unhappy are so weak. “Who cares? I want to go back to smoking pot. Without those intentions. Without intention.. Focus. “Without intent. ask yourself why you want what you want. Let’s travel back to the age of our beloved ancestors from millions of years ago. <33 Grape Intention – A function of the universe. Rapport. Probably to be safe and be a part of a tribe or society.. People will either do something because they WANT to or because they HAVE to (or else!) Consequences are fears of the potential punishments that await if you don’t do what is . it will make sense on a subconcious level. Those drug dealers had INTENTIONS of making money. Without their intentions. They’re important! Everyone has intentions too. What do you think their intentions were? Probably to reproduce and survive. you would have never been introduced to the crap. So intentions are really what make the world spin. we would not be where we are today. life is nonexistent.” Hold it right there. Happiness is directly related to success of goals and making intentions become history. there is no intention. there is no life. Consequence driven and Intent driven.” This is something I read in The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire by Deepak Chopra. Without their intentions.” Why do you want to buy things? “So that I’ll be happy.Life. and it’s important that they do. Why do you want it? “So that I can buy things. However. Suppose it’s a $100 that you want. they would never have had the motivation they wanted to actually mate and reproduce. Where did your pot come from? Who gave it to you? How’d you obtain it? Serious questions. This is why the successful are happy. Now let’s get into the roots of the “How To” part. why in the heck do we have intentions in the first place? Well.” Happiness. life is nonexistent. Without intent. Without happiness. Driving Forces There are two driving forces of people and their actions. Think about it. Happiness: Grape DISCLAIMER: The logistics of this post is mostly based off of pseudoscience and Bullshit Escalation. What does it mean? Well.. Intent. We are forced by our instincts to have intentions of being happy. what are your intents right now? Why are you reading this? What do you want? Life is full of intentions. Who built it? Why would they want to build it? Why did people invent this computer? They had INTENTIONS of making technological advancements and making money to survive. and without them. Happiness BUT… But. we would seriously cease to exist. Great book by a great guy.
Problem solved. Wanting vs Getting Another part of happiness is just simply wanting something and actually getting it. Life sucks.” Yes. So he GOES on a diet. Just like driving forces. will be smart and think about how to solve their problems. Would you rather want a $100 or get a $100? (don’t answer that) But when you have an intention. They’ll go on constantly making themselves stressed by building up the tension inside them because of all their problems. It is directly related to Intention. But they don’t focus on how bad things are as much as they focus on making the bad things stop and not happen again. Going to happen. and it’s all because I like to eat. Intention vs Focus Focusing on SOLVING your problems is the best way to think when coming across obstacles. Instead of thinking “If I don’t do this. then I will lose something. It helps you get rid of your problems instead of making them worse. the problem solving oriented thinker says “I am fat. . Focus Having the right structure of focus is also very important in obtaining happiness. Getting. Let’s define the two terms in relevance.” Start thinking “I want this.” He WANTS to lose weight. Never ending. Historical. and pleasure. I want to lose weight. there are two ways of thinking about something. Hasn’t happened yet. If you want to be happy.” You can already feel your potential happiness filling you up with emotions of joy. He has the intention to lose weight. I’ll start going on a diet and start exercising more. resulting in having intentions. however. make sure you focus on the right thing. but Getting. So problem oriented thinking is: “I am fat. They know they have problems.” Problem Solving oriented thinking is: “I am fat. I start to smell. Which one’s better? I’d say Getting. Intentions are happiness seeking and do this out of passion. Not wanting. Other people.asked of you. Nonexistent. He focuses on solving problems. I want to lose weight. I’ll start going on a diet and start exercising more. Gets results. It sucks and people always make fun of me because of it. In the fat example. Wanting: A Desire. so he will become a happier man. so I’m going to get it. Problem oriented focus vs Problem solving oriented focus Some people will just think about all the problems they have. Getting: A Fact. He has the intentions of going on a diet and exercising more. desire. you must be an intent driven person.
He always wants things. (Because it can’t just come out of nowhere) What does this mean? It means that everyone has potential to make others happy. In other words. It happened.Ego Value vs Rapport Value Value. What is value? Once again. Which means it’s not historical or real or existent. it fades away. the more other people will be happy being around you. It’s true. it’s a fact that he has energy. It’s potential though. thinking one is better or worse than someone else. Bonding. the more happiness you will find out you possessed. the more valuable you are. This means that the value of ego is never really there. A rapport building person gets validated from others. One will get true happiness only when he makes others happy. That’s against the first law. In other words. It exists. Thoughts are just a combination of memory and imagination. He is the source of happiness of others. Happiness is an exchange of a powerful emotion. It was inside him the entire time. The first law of thermodynamics states that Energy cannot be created nor destroyed. Classification. Intentions can turn into reality by focusing on GETTING what one wants. It fades away with time and it is forgotten. It’s a thought. It was never really there to begin with either. Being better at something is a simple opinion. It didn’t just appear out of nowhere. This value is historical because happiness is an emotion and emotion is not an opinion. the rapport valuable person is passing on his energy of happiness unto others. The feeling of happiness from making others feel worse is nonexistent because it’s not a fact but it’s merely an opinion. Life’s about happiness. The action that people have validated him is a fact. Ego value is the classifying oneself as different from others. And it’s only in his mind that he is better than someone else at something. Everyone has that potential. Comparison. VALidation makes him VALuable. We. This meaning the more you can make others happy. two kinds. The energy of happiness was possessed by him and he passed it onto others. The Big Picture Here’s a summary of everything above. Us. Togetherness. But only the few that make others happy will possess the kinetic energy inside their bodies (emotions). So in sense. After one dies. Differentiation Rapport: Commonalities. Rapport value is the potential amount of happiness one can bring unto others. His desire to be better than everyone else never stops. Oneness “How does ego and rapport value relate to happiness?” Wanting + Getting vs Ego + Rapport Value An egotistic person always strives for more value. Rapport value can be obtained by making others around one happy. It means that there is an infinite amount of happiness in the universe and that it merely cycles through space over time. which requires energy. Competition. One can GET HAPPINESS by having rapport value. . Ego: Separation. Happiness can only be obtained by having intentions. An opinion is not a fact. If people validate him. And thoughts don’t exist in physical reality.
<33 Grape .I really hope you guys enjoyed this post.
For example. But once his dad assists him and gives him knowledge on what to do. You can save this time and do something better with your life. Well this piece will be explaining why these beliefs are wrong and it will go through what beliefs really ARE true and are in the minds of women. women. and their entire lifestyle. how does this all fit into pick up? Well. what their hobbies are. Spending Time Memorizing If you've taken the route where you spend a ton of time memorizing little 'esp routines' and 'negs' and 'openers' and so on. It's only common sense that you become the things that they want. Where does confidence come from? The more one knows about something. They just don't feel a sense of self. You naturally have value Hey. c. and then he is fairly confident that he will do well on his math test.Psychology of Naturals: Grape (pseudo) I. AFCs has beliefs that women are not sexual for the most part. he is confident and can ride his bike without a problem. He studies for several days. you probably know what I mean when I say that it's a pain in the ass having to spend time memorizing these lines. the more confident you will become and you will be able to pick up women and be a social guy in no time. You don't feel confusion of who you are Many AFCs are used to fitting OTHER PEOPLE'S STANDARDS. and that they don't like being sexual around most guys unless they're 'special'. You become sexual with women A big problem with many AFCs is that they just aren't comfortable with their sexuality around women. look at it this way. So. =] . their social circle. He's gut nervous about falling and is not confident about his bike-riding abilities at all. <33 Grape II. why exactly they know how to control their life. The more you learn about society and the more correct things you apply to yourself. Did every single one of them need to memorize esp routines to get laid? NO!!! This article is here to get you thinking on the correct path of becoming a normal guy who happens to be good with women. shouldn't it be natural that you learn to become their ideal lover? I mean this thing will be going through what they want and what they don't want. the more confident he gains about the topic. Hope you enjoy. They get nervous that they might get rejected and that they may creep the girl out. They constantly change who they are. a person is not confident he will do well on his math test. This is because OTHER PEOPLE control their life. I will give you the knowledge that will boost your confidence in this project. There are billions of people out there getting laid right now. They don't have the confidence or knowledge to take charge of their own life and do it successfully. III. b. You will learn that having a solid identity will be critical when it comes to meeting people and befriending them. without having to be a slave to material and canned routines. a child has no idea what to do in order to ride a bike. or people in general. many of you are not confident with society. after you understand how the women think. and much more. Psychology of Why This Works a. Psychology of Why Routines Aren't Effective a. Introduction Guys need the confidence to talk to girls. that they are innocent and young. Hey. Another example. without faking his words. This piece will go through how naturals think.
eyeliner. they don't like to be teased with their sexuality. They feel confused with who they are. condition. c. They waste time learning 'magical lines' that supposedly help get a women to come to bed with them. look at them.. They are human too. and finish up. Gaming without Routines: Understanding Women.b. Shocking? I mean after all. Psychology of Women a. d. or coming up with your own while just simply HAVING FUN and enjoying yourself with other people? I rest my case. Enjoy. Honestly. etc. Natural Game. Incongruency By now you should have gotten the point that routines will make you feel incongruent. use straightening cream. the eyeshadow. love your lifestyle. Wrong. I'll be giving you the knowledge you need about women AND the knowledge about how naturals view the world and how they think. dry. Why do girls put in all this effort to look cute? Many reasons. They naturally want to have sex with guys. let's start off with clearing up the biggest misconception of all. You are using stories and material that are not for the type of person you are! You start getting confused. passionately be active in your hobbies. knowledge and understanding leads to natural improvement of a subject. You want proof? Look at girls. confidence. So now some of you may be asking. how much mascara they should wear. identity. How does one become a natural? Mostly through trial and error. It's VITAL. Lifestyle. Not only do you save time. Girls really have to put effort into looking cute for us guys. Identity is vital. spray. And as I've said many times before. PUAs who rely on routines always feel fake. Here are some big ones: . THAT'S just the HAIR! Imagine how long it takes for them to choose what looks good with what. How much make up are they wearing? How tight are their jeans? How nice is their hair? How fit are their bodies? Do you think it takes no effort at all for them to dress pretty into extremely tight pants and that it takes only a few seconds to get their make up perfect along with the stuff they do to their hair? I mean girls have this weird 2-hour thing they do every morning where they shampoo. and much more. then what is? I say natural game. A Feeling of Fakeness Like I have just mentioned. the lipstick. but you learn to enjoy life. They don't feel congruent with what they're saying. These will strengthen your inner game. They also teach that Guys are more sexual than girls and that guys are the more perverted ones. Okay. and that they only have sex with guys they feel are 'special'. IV. routines aren't the best solution to pick up. That means you don't have to fake yourself anymore and change yourself to meet women's standards. straighten.They want to get laid . and be able to NATURALLY attract women. WOMEN LOVE SEX. Women Love Sex Okay. Would you rather spend the rest of your life memorizing routines. It brings out congruence and passion. They really want it just as much as guys do. IT'S NOT HELPING YOU WITH STRENGTHENING YOUR IDENTITY. lip gloss. But I'm here to give you a boost with that. As I've mentioned in the intro. we've learned in school that women don't like to be touched. They're still faking themselves to fit standards. And ask yourself.
She has SLUT written all over her.. she's a slut. Ohh man. I'm still getting pussy. Something not right here. I can't wait to tell my friends... They really want a guy to love them and they really want to get laid. It's EXACTLY like how kids call each other spoiled when one of them gets something more expensive for Christmas. but the term 'slut' came up from women to threaten each other because the one who had sex may have stirred in jealousy. So now you know. And here's why: 1. Oh well. Girls call each other sluts out of their own pure jealously and insecurities. word gets out. I'm sure you've learned this already from the community. That's all there is to it and nothing more.) and the biggest reason: 2. how many guys are considered AFCs when you go out? About. so he'll say that Bob is a spoiled rich kid and that he's stupid. even if this chick IS A SLUT. b. lonely and craving to be with a guy. I just met her five minutes ago and she was really easy to bang.. insecurities. Women don't just have sex with anyone. Women Have It Harder Than Us Many people think that women can get laid without any effort at all and that guys need to work hard as hell to even get anything at all. is bullshit. They need to work hard to look good.." Then he tells his friends. Well hey. let's say Mary gets laid by a guy and Katy sleeps alone that night. Girls don't usually do this. Now the girl's reputation is completely ruined because of wanting to have sex just as much as the guy did. This belief my dear friend. So that means the majority of the guys really don't understand what's going through a girl's mind because of the fact that they really don't give a shit and they just want some pussy. if the girl just goes "Okay! Let's have sex!" in the first moments of meeting an AFC. Joe will get jealous and angered. Let's say Bob gets an X-Box 360 for Christmas and Joe gets a pair of socks. . why do they rant so much about how sex is for sluts and how girls who have sex have no class at all?!!" It's very simple actually. 80% right? I'd say so.. They are bombarded by the 'slut' deal. Katy will call Mary a whore because Mary got some action that night as where Katy slept alone." Because think about it. what'll he think? "Oh wow. The proof is right in front of you.They want attention Whoo!!! Starting to make sense? When I first found this out I actually felt really bad for women and I respected them soo much for trying so hard to get a few "You look nice today" comments.They want to be loved . They need to make sure they can trust their partner won't go around saying "Yeah. "But wait.. Now do you see why it's VITAL that you show her that you can be someone who she will be able to trust? Do you realize what could happen to her if she just goes around having sex with anyone she finds cute? I thought you would... if girls love sex soo much... Well. Women actually have it harder than us. (As mentioned in the above article. they call the girl a slut. and feelings of loneliness.
THIS is why girls try to look as hot as they can without coming off as slutty. But this is just a fantasy for them as much as it is for guys to wish they could just fuck the shit out of a cute girl. Their big desire to make love is finally fulfilled after all that tension was building up inside them. That emotion will probably be something such as the one from drama. singleparents.c. pleasure. being cool gave us funny stares and gave us kisses on the cheeks. A friend of mine and I went up to random girls and asked for a kiss.. probably a man. They really want a guy to just fuck the shit out of them. They're not better than you. How do you think they feel about their situation? They are probably DESPERATE for sex.. Just remember. You must understand that women are NATURALLY followers. I was drunk. However. I'd like to announce the belief that WOMEN WANT TO BE DOMINATED OVER!! They just want to be controlled and lead on an experience of extreme passion and emotion." But deep inside. Please don't be thinking "Wow. I'm trying my best not to come off as a sexist. but that activity will be decided by someone else. I'm merely trying to explain what NATURE has shown us within the past millenniums. The girls that were running their own form of social game. The girls that didn't have many friends around greatly complied. Great. they will be active on whatever activity they are doing. some fantasies do come true. getting value. sex. Think about it." Because they're not. MOST families have a dad who works and leads the family and a mom who watches out for the children. THIS is why girls have such a sexual mind-frame.. girls are always desperate for some action as much as guys and have this overwhelming desire. She really wants that kiss. This is proof that women will be active followers. Heck. but they're not worse than you. right? This was proof to me that girls are plainly sexual and that they will Kiss for the Kiss. women are pathetic. Isn't it only nature that MEN protect their families and lead them to a bright future and that WOMEN nurture their families while letting the MEN lead them through their amazing life? Look at families today even. they might even go out to a party. She just can't be the one asking. So ask girls to kiss! They'll say yeah! d. due to the slut effect. But should drunk sex really the only way for girls to get laid withOUT having to experience the slut effect? Of course not. It won't matter who it's with as long as the person she is kissing is someone who can amaze her just by asking for a kiss. Women Want To Be Dominated Over Branching off from the previous article. And end up making excuses like "Well. they're happy as a duck. Although there are some divorces. humor. . get drunk. and finally get laid. fun. Women Will Kiss For The Kiss So now you understand how hard it is for women to go out and get some action.. They want a guy who they can blame if something goes wrong or someone starts saying shit. They'll follow whatever leads them to having the biggest emotional sensation even if it's a pointless dramatic argument.
. confusing you. he will encounter this situation many many times.. And that survival value is gained through ego boosts. and that she wants you to take her on an adventure. or acting all stuck up. It's a sign that she respects you. So if you want a kiss. you've officially woo'd me. she's attracted to you. don't wait for her to ask you out. She wants YOU to make them. bitchy. a girl won't do anything! Really! Some may come sit next to you. not the honest church goer. don't wait for her to kiss you. She wants YOU to lead. play little tickling games. Enjoy your read. ask her on a date. does s/he really like me? Am I making a mistake?" I've mentioned in the post above that men are leaders. When women do nothing and are intentionally standing very close to you or sitting right next to you. Many PUAs believe society is based off of survival value and replication value. the guy you see who is always making others laugh and have fun. He wants his target to do something first.. So when a girl does nothing but be close to you. When enough attraction is built. Having fun is something that will naturally boost your value and make you more successful and happier in life. "Well. a.The point is. "Why isn't she trying to kiss me or touch me or impress me!?" They think that women are being stuck up. Well.Survival Value) What's your goal in life? Is it to get laid? To become president of the USA? Become a rockstar? Whatever it may be. Now what are you going to do with me? Take me on a fucking adventure. or harsh but in reality. (Pleasure <. but they'll just sit there and wait for something to happen. Psychology of Naturals My definition of a Natural: The guy you see who always has the attention on himself. Women Respect Men More Than We Think A big problem with many guys is that they're always asking themselves. This is because he'll be at the level where he really can attract girls. that YOU are a MAN. The recovering PUA is doing the same thing. The Point of Life is to Have Fun. well here it is. Most men need some validation before doing anything. ego boosts are most efficiently gained through having fun and being fun! . If you want to date a girl. it's not a sign of toying around with you. e. there is one very important goal that everyone shares. Here's why. the guy you see who is surrounded by girls without even trying. V. They need to LEAD WOMEN into an emotional adventure. she'll get confused and leave.. they're showing a big deal of respect and validation! Once a PUA starts to recover. she'll get exactly what she asked for." If you just sit there like a statue. Don't rely on a woman to be making decisions. they are trying to say. and that is to Have Fun. Ask her out. and MEN need to be LEADERS. However if you initiate fun conversations.Ego Boost <. but he just doesn't know what the next step is. This is horrible because both people are thinking "Umm. This is character I am going to talk about. You need to kiss her. Not the highly moral father figure.
If you have the ability to text. it's fine. It's something that every natural knows how to do. They always have 5-10 people that they talk to daily as close friends. own a Facebook profile. It may be funny to all the nerds. You're shooting . PLEASE DON'T BE STUPID. Fun is something that makes you smile and laugh and feel happy. and really pathetic. and another 5-10 people to talk with maybe a couple of times every 2-3 weeks. Now. this kid is really screwed up. Many AFCs think that weird lawyer jokes are funny and that overtly violent video games are funny. Anyone that wants to avoid your world of fun is really stupid and much more immature than you. disgusting. Myspace. Focus on really having fun.. you will naturally have a healthier life and become a more attractive person. think like a normal child. Always. It's annoying. like when someone's head blows off from a grenade. b. This is why having "texting" is soo important and that keeping up with others through Facebook. if he likes to blow people's heads off in video games. Please don't think like a retarded child. I just have to have fun?" Yes that's exactly it. yeah! As long as it's not completely annoying and repelling. People want love. It's not something that makes you want to be accepted in society or whatever. but as you keep improving yourself. Lifestyle Naturals have this lifestyle where they are always socializing with others. etc. It's showing that you don't care what others think because you control your own life and this world is yours for the taking. some of you may be thinking "Nice. is vital. So please don't focus on cool. Why is this? Well you really have to learn to put yourself in other people's shoes. like people they've just met. They're thinking "oh wow. This is really hard to explain in words. whatever. and just act like an ignorant asshole to everyone? Of course not. Your subconscious mind won't be able to act congruently with itself. is not funny to mainstream society. DO IT. you will start to notice why so many people think it's weird that you find such things funny. So it's self-explanatory what exactly is funny and what's not. what are the chances he'll be a violent person in general?" And violence isn't fun. So if I want to be cool. just please don't be stupid when you apply this concept.What other way is there? Do you really want to have to 'manipulate' people and treat them like shit using canny negs just to boost your own value? Do you really want to go into a public forum that's trying to HELP YOU. So what better way to boost your value (and others!) through having a good time? So just by having fun. you're saying that naturals can have immature fun and still get laid?" Well. "So.. This is how the natural thinks. But what is your goal in this situation?! Is it to be cool or really to not give a shit and HAVE FUN? Cool has soo many contradictions to it because some people say being overtly mature is the cool thing to do and others say maturity doesn't matter and that even acting like an immature 5th grader is fine as long as it's fun. This my friend.
They do it themselves. They don't talk about how much friends they have or how much pussy they get. he'll give them the face that says "Haha. They're never just sitting and waiting for something to happen. I'm still having fun! You can't change me! Nananana-booboo. If they're in the mood to hang out with a close friend. However if it involves something like killing someone. unless it comes off as intentionally funny. So if they have to lie. he'll continue to talk just the way he was and simply dab something on the spill. He doesn't get nervous about approaching people. they'll sit back and relax. a natural is always socializing whether it's through texting. he doesn't go "Oh gosh I'm sorry!" He'll say "Hey. He knows that cool people don't talk about how cool they are. he'll pretend like nothing happened.yourself in the foot by not talking with others when you can. online. fuck you. he will probably not do it because it will keep him from benefiting himself because the police would be after him. This is because such things are not important to him. he'll ignore it until someone else brings it up. He'll judge and say to himself "I better not hire HIM if I ever open a restaurant. Natural Traits A natural doesn't make sacrifices. He knows he's cool." But he won't make a big deal out of it like "Oh my gosh! That guy just broke a cup! Ohh man he's fucked now!" If he bumps into someone. If they're in the mood to go on a date with a girl. He doesn't care if they like him or not. naturals are always making plans with people. At all. he'll stick with it and won't give a shit what you think about it unless you're offering him advice as a true friend. they'll hang out with a close friend. They just care about if telling the truth will hurt them or benefit them. He doesn't freak out. (self explanatory) He won't EVER change his beliefs for others. he doesn't freak out and stop talking about his important story. They don't rely on others to make them get what they want. Also. They're always saying things like "Let's hang out soon. calling. or just simply hanging out with people. They know what they want and they don't waste any time doing it. But he knows that showing off will make him lose his value." He will lie if he has to. they'll go on a date with a girl. If he spills some coffee on his shirt. He simply doesn't give a shit. It's just not a big deal. The truth really doesn't matter for naturals. He knows he's the shit. ." and continue walking. So remember. They control their life. even if it will hurt others. If they're in the mood to just sit back and relax. If he smells something bad. So start doing it! c." or "I want to see you soon!" They always have something to do. He'll do what will benefit him the most. This is why most naturals never pay you back for the $10 you loaned them. He always puts himself first before anyone or anything else in the entire world. he'll get what he wants and if they act stuck up to him while he's trying to have fun. If he sees a waiter dropping a glass cup in a restaurant. Once he makes a decision. they will.
He won't commit to you. d. he's awesome. hard-working people. He knows he's hot.He knows how to put himself in other people's shoes. every natural I've met. I am merely explaining the natural's psychology. Being a nice and honest guy is really cool and many people will respect you for who you are. A natural isn't someone you can rely on. There are the few that do pay each other back and are respected for that. Some you may be thinking "Wow." This is just the mindset he grew into. . this is an asshole. SMART." You are wrong my friend. So many people have gotten naturals and alpha males confused with nice.. NATURALS AREN'T PERFECTLY MATURE.. It just NATURALLY happened. how to say it. and when to say it. it's the fact that they are very very egotistic. They stayed away from what made them look bad and always kept to what made them look good. honest. They were naturally generally successful in socializing within a matter of time. Think about every natural you have met that gets laid a LOT. There is a big line of difference between them actually. They grew into this natural life of success in socializing since they were a child. He's egotistical and if there's no gain for him. where to say it. Ever since they were little. He really is a bit of an asshole isn't he? I mean. But he's not thinking "I'm a big asshole.. He knows how others feel. A natural won't be the one who helps you up when you fall unless he's trying to show off 'how sweet he is'. He knows that he will come off as creepy in some situations and he'll know exactly how to make it seem like he's actually the coolest guy in the earth. He is a really fun guy to be with and he's always giving off good vibes. e. they have been surrounded by opportunities that they took and figured out what kind of person to become. this isn't natural. So here's what it really comes down to: Do you want to be an egotistic natural who happens to be a LOT of fun to hang around with and get lots of pussy or Be a generally fun person who has a lot more morality than a natural and still be able to pick up women but just not as easily as a natural himself? It's your choice. He knows what to say. EVERY NATURAL I've met is an asshole in many ways. and that he's fun. but he's the type of person who won't care if you forgot your lunch and need some money to borrow. A natural won't be the one you can truly rely on to do the favors that only true friends do for each other. WISE. Personality If you have not gotten the 'big idea' about naturals yet. He knows people a little too well and the fact that the MAJORITY of people won't pay others back. he won't do it. But a natural isn't him. Modeling The Successful Naturals do what works best. But these guys are seen as 'suckers' when it comes down to the point where YOU yourself need some money for lunch. he can't help it. CARING PEOPLE.
They always do what works and always avoid what doesn't work. This is probably the most important trait of the natural because it will NATURALLY make you become more successful in life. My natural friend got a girlfriend and told her in the start of their relationship that he was a virgin.. He goes "aww this sucks. Will was a natural on the show. My other natural friend grew up with an older brother who was a PIMP. The point is that NATURALS ARE STILL LEARNING. My friend was now a natural in real life.And even today they are constantly experimenting to see whether doing something will make them more attractive or less attractive." This was a lie. but he convinced her and he hoped that this would make him a much more attractive person. i've been wanting to date this other chick lately. share your thoughts. He acted just like him. etc and eventually my friend also became naturally very attractive. They always do what's successful. He would always use lines from Will Smith and always act just like Will. blablabla" and then he nevers says the "i've had sex 7 different times" line ever again. All naturals model what works. I hope you guys liked this read. After 3 weeks. The older brother was his biggest influence. he says "I've actually had sex 7 different times. please comment on it. <33 Grape . etc. My natural friend grew up on Fresh Prince of Bel Air during middle school. they break up. oh well. used his lines. especially after saying that he's a virgin. Boom.
but I spent most of my time being the person I thought other people wanted me to be. and just let go. The reason I appreciate this lesson so much is because when I was in eighth grade I did not have much confidence socially. This is what I wrote: Confidence is something that lies deep within ourselves. Deep down. Everyone has confidence. Sure I had plenty of friends. and you can do what you were originally afraid to do. what makes you. become comfortable with who you are and who you want to be. our strongest fears. I’m different. You can probably tell by my outright cockiness and gregarious nature that I don’t really care what people think of me anymore. and be happy with who you are. but beyond school. It was a new beginning and I changed. and I wouldn’t have it any other way. and wish they did”. I wrote about confidence. is the viewpoint many have on the possession of confidence. Your confidence comes from your sense of self. I have my own style. it is something that you must find. . Not only will this give you confidence. Find your confidence. A viewpoint that is possibly as wrong as it could be. “you”. Our confidence kicks in and for a moment we are free. will only help you in accomplishing your goals. to be confident. Then ninth grade came along. you need to be who you are. which is directly related to confidence will increase. Confidence is not something you can attain. such as the ability to lift a heavy weight. Become that person. disregarded. Rather than talking about how I learned how to treat others nice and all that elementary school crap. Be who you wish to be in every aspect. we had to write a personal reflection on a lesson we leaned. and the fact that you are living your life how you wish to live it. and I’m confident. Essentially. which can be the most difficult part of your journey. no problems. a fuel of sorts that can propel us to do the things we must wish to do even when we fear the action will be discarded. A fear of not succeeding is when confidence would factor in to the equation.A Lesson In Confidence: OhMega We read Tuesdays with Morrie in my "Contemporary Literature" class and for our final project for that unit. I didn’t have much. When we can cut the strings that attach us to our most deep-seated worries. “A valuable asset that many do not possess. It is just a matter of finding your confidence. or just plain ignored. I was confident in myself in respect to academics because I had good grades. quite different from the athletic shorts and tee shirts wearing kids you see walking around most of the time. finding your true sense of self. and I wasn’t happy. my sense of self was not congruent with the image I was displaying to everyone else. and be confident. but your self-esteem.
because guess what. that thought takes like a liquid form and starts flowing down your body and that thought becomes you.Beliefs: Aaron4Prez Beliefs are thoughts we make real. and not needy. women want someone strong. You could be having an amazing time with this girl. you’re pushing yourself too hard on her and basically make her fold. think of a negative thought you have on a recurring basis. When you try too hard to impress women. Think of it this way. Just for one day. “Wow. However. Beliefs are a tremendous driving force for everything we do. Just think. As soon as you try to show her all the things you can do. it’s only a matter of time before I screw something up or make the conversation awkward”. Everyone likes the guy who’s cool and humble and then goes to the gym and everyone sees him bench 300. they will assume something is up. but it shows that you have a great personality and don’t need a bunch of accomplishments to make others like you. Notice that if that voice inside your head says. Face it. The pot never gets sweetened and the guy with the pocket jacks gets very little to nothing because the pot never got sweetened. “yup that’s true. you will unconsciously push them away. you’re all right with that. Only what you think should matter. confident. she sees you as a needy wuss and will run for the hills. Every essence of our personality. that thought will materialize and happen. They think you are overcompensating for something that she won’t like about you. If you believe girls aren’t sexually attracted to you. She’ll think that this isn’t the real you and this is just a façade to try to win or buy her romance. So he goes all in. People have instinctual intelligence. If you tell her about all this stuff you have and can do and try to show her you’re good for her. it’s better than you telling them. there’s always one guy who gets those pocket jacks and he knows he’s got this in the bag. that’s real”. seriously who wouldn’t love me? . this is going amazing. Everyone sees this and folds. Do NOT try to impress women. For example. Even though you can’t hear people’s thoughts you can feel these thoughts. Not only does it say that you are extremely humble. even if you don’t want to. If you do things to impress yourself instead of others and no one else cares about what you’ve done. and inner game is derived from our core beliefs. Do not tell others about your accomplishments to try and impress them. The ability to love yourself and others no matter what happens is an ability that will take you tremendously far in life. No one likes the guy going around bragging he can bench 300. In poker. strengths. No one else around you has the ability to judge you or the things you’ve accomplished because if you feel proud of it. Those thoughts own you in that moment. but as soon as you get the thought of. no one should put you down. Build a cool life and be adventurous and fascinating. Our beliefs make or break us and people don’t realize how important beliefs truly are. Nothing’s real until we make them real ourselves. You want her to go all in. find you’re self irresistible. weaknesses. If they find out later.
. and powerful with the women you desire. I could get on my hands and knees and beg for you to get over it. you are always talking to yourself. Life keeps on turning and it will keep turning with or without you. Let it go right now. Seeing is NOT believing. You’ve got it pretty sweet so don’t sweat the small stuff. Look around your life and see all the amazing things about it. If someone doesn’t like that. You are aggressive. But. Even when faced with the worst thing. Soon.well. I don’t care what anyone else says. Believe it or not. Every day I tell myself these affirmations: Being with me is the best possible choice any woman could make. That is the biggest lie. yeah it sucks. Affirmations work. When you believe what you’re saying to yourself you could say you’re the Queen of fucking England and still act like it because you believe it. It’s because they believe something to be true so they see it. Women need me and I’m just giving them a chance to get to know me and enter my reality. they should get the hell out of the way because there is an even better looking woman behind her who does want to spend time with me. Always. Your mind is focused on what you desire. There are tons of ways to change your ways of thinking for the better. always.Let your insecurities go. find the silver lining. What people don’t realize is that sometimes your mind is telling you terrible things that not even your worst enemy would tell you. you’re talking to yourself about not talking to yourself . A few of these are positive self talk and affirmations. you need to believe your affirmations. only you can let these issues go. What do they believe? They believe they see a fat girl when they look in the mirror when in reality they are rail thin. Believing Is Seeing.. LET IT GO. And guess what. Always. Let these go. always speak positively to yourself. but guess what? You can’t do anything to change it. your mind will change for the better and you will always have a positive outlook and never doubt yourself. Whatever you believe about yourself you will see. You radiate a confidence. direct. They come true. Whatever sucks about your life. Beliefs become real. . Even when you don’t believe you’re talking to yourself. You go for what you want congruently and powerfully. People have it much much worse than you everywhere you go. You need to stay out of the viscous cycle of pity and wallowing. Look at anorexic chicks. However. I know personally that they work. self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive. STOP THIS. but you never will if you don’t believe that you can get over it and that it truly has no effect on your life and the way you live it. Your beliefs are so real and you are the only one that can make them into reality. It’s in the past or going to be in the past and the only people who will remember it is you. When you believe you are the biggest stud on the earth you will find examples of this all over as long as that is what you believe. You see what you believe. It tricks the mind.
Anything is possible as long as you BELIEVE it.Whatever you believe you will see. . Your life is whatever you want it to be. so why not reach for the stars and become something you’ve always wanted to be. Always treat yourself with love and respect and you will get these back in return.
Never try to get in state again…simply go back to your natural way of being. he is all of a sudden a badass. “What the hell does that mean?!” After every mediocre night. The only answer I have for this is it’s one of those zen things in pick up.Psych Psych: I don’t get it man. However there is no state. and being talkative. how do you always have this energy to you. Easier said then done though I know! The way to do this though is by taking on a high value “role” and staying in that role. This is something we all desire and seem to achieve for brief moments in field after warming up or getting success. “in state”. While in that role. By starting many conversations. being in state is simply being your true natural self. though without knowing exactly what to say other then a loose structure of ask questions. Eventually I just “stopped caring” eliminating self doubt and living . You seem to always just be ON. Finally I felt I understood and the rest of this article’s purpose is to explain my understanding. We really don’t go “in state” we only leave it. without self doubt. The longer I kept myself “in state” (if I noticed I was out of it I’d do something to go back in) the more I realized the truth of all this. How do I always stay “in state”? AFC Adam: Mate…there is no state. It’s where we can truly be ourselves and act exactly how we want. You’re completely yourself while taking on this new role. This eliminates all self doubt and lets you act completely natural in the moment. We use tactics for this such as acting upon our true desires and being congruent to it…such as opening direct or self amusement. A good example of this is the scene from 40yr old virgin where all he does is ask questions to the girl. always “in state”. is our natural place. By eliminating self doubt you will always be “in state”.Psych on Being in State: Mandrake . perform the role long enough and you start realizing that you’re no longer playing a role but that it’s now you. The thing is though that this way of being. those words would ring in my head. The thing that brings us out of it though is self doubt. it forces us to be in the moment and act according to our gut and not our head. Examples of roles I’m sure most of you have done are… -social experimenter -”alpha male” -self amuser -role playing with the girl as anything Along with any other role you’d like to try out! I did a challenge for myself to “be in state” for an entire week. or when I was just feeling down when out doing anything. This seems to go against the idea of when you’re in state you are your complete natural self though. That feeling of pure confidence and uncaring. where we can do no wrong and all anxiety leaves us. This was a part of one of our many conversations but unfortunately I never got to follow up with the logical reply. or being “in state”. “There is no state”. This is the first real step to understanding this. When we talk about getting in state we mean getting into the zone. We actually do this all the time in field and it’s when we see our greatest success. Whether it’s what he meant I have no idea though.
or have someone point it out to you. and then you can adjust the role. If you experience negative responses then this just goes back to being open to social feedback and adjusting the role. actor. however the role itself does not change. This is because you’re not BEING the role. the ideal self. By being open to social feedback you’ll eventually see this. You realize there is no state…only your role.Psych . No matter what emotion you’re feeling also. once again leaving state. If you have a hard time with this then imagine the coolest guy you know. or any other role in your mind then “state” is really no longer an issue. instead of just going off of what feels right while being in the role. While the role can. Finally understand there’s a huge difference from being in a role. This way whether you’re feeling down or low energy you’ll still act according to your ideal role and will still be free from self doubt…being “in state”. and thinking of the role. Experience how he sees the world.according to my new mental role. For example you might take on that “attractive man” role but then become overbearing and never letting anyone else talk. feel that emotion in that role. you’re acting according to a role you place upon yourself. or PUA guru. Only thing is that the role you act according to now is not working for you and you don’t like it. The only other thing after this is to be open to social feedback and adjust the role accordingly. Once you do this immediately just take on that role and keep it. Instead simply take on the role of the “attractive man” and live up to it. If you’re the “attractive man” role for example then opening a set is a nonissue since it’s part of that role. If you’re always the 10. When you are being the role you will experience the feelings of it and act according to what feels natural or what you wish to do. You say you want to be natural and not live according to some role? The thing is that no matter what. you immediately put yourself in a self doubting situation. whether it’s a friend. even if it’s a canned routine. By thinking of what the role requires you to do. the attractive man. When you think of the role you try to break it down. ----. the badass. and always will be. picture how he acts in different situations. You see a set and ask yourself “OK what would a guy in my role say here…damn I got nothing!”. changing and growing it eliminates self doubt since you will always act according to your role. So how do you get started with this? First imagine your ideal self and all the characteristics that make him up.
She is deff one of the few tens I know. I warm approach a six and a seven. the girls who are of higher value in that social circle will subconsciously label you as an undateable loser. It’s worth reading. the best friends test.. because I’ve been laughing and adventuring around town for an hour with some of my boys doing funny shit..I hate using that word for some reason.e. and the test works..5’s and up. looking back now.). Guys/afcs. After a while of talking... “Remember me?” ) and I see her from closer up and recognize her as a girl one of my friends was talking to a couple weeks before.(I hope). don’t remember which one. you end up actually getting more even though . I didn’t even expect there to be many women there. the ten that I’ve been eying with peripherals from the beginning opens me. got them from her friend in the Israeli army) -brown leather. then they say the best friends test is BS. This post is long. Not a good start from a mainstream PU perspective. This was probably not as cool as I thought it was. That’s why when you only hook up with 8. triple coil bracelet -bright. so I switch to natural. but it was fine for me because I was only really there in the first place to spend some time with my friends. and I start kicking the night off with a canned DHV from MM. she catches me off guard with. I was wrong.. not a brag report.Personal Experiences Mandrake 05/04/09 Two Weeks Ago: A little caveat.. When you are already seen as attracted to a girl in a social circle. now that I’ve already got enough girls laughing that I can pretty much say whatever I want and recover from it without too much trouble. [Pawning is approaching a set to covertly open the (hotter) set beside it] They fail the test (first time this has ever happened to me).made of zinc.. (i. Everybody thinks that. not silver (I’ll try to post pictures later) I show up with a bunch of my friends. “I thought you liked Emma. with a bright smile. solid cyan retro fit t-shirt -slightly tight black jeans -black leather belt with cool buckle -white jacket type thing -three dollar silver cog shaped ring. I didn’t pull solid game on her and messed up with her that night even though she was my initial target (. Wearing -new dog tags (I have a story about how my sister who lives in Israel gave them to me. Fuck.. but I tried to make it a helpful FR. I turn to the other two set that’s joined the circle of girls around me (preselection). She goes to the same school as most of these girls and has been telling them that I like her. just to get initial preselection and turn them into pivots/pawns.” Emma is an HB6 who I practiced some Style recommended technique on two weeks before. I continue talking to the other girls for about thirty seconds as though I don’t notice her.. I’m already in state. Soon enough.
Turns out it’s cuz it’s the other ten’s older sister. Ignored her. I immediately interlock fingers with her in both hands then twirl her around as I lead her to another room. comes up to me. I think the direct quote was “Eww... well I already know a Natalya. and afterwards I’d be willing to bet that her reply would be “So (ioi). She’s deff ready to be kissed. It just slipped out. This catches me off guard. it was a really pointless and lame exaggeration that Emma will definitely get asked about. I leave her and do this for a couple minutes. I should have said. Told a funny story that had happened to me that day 3. I’ve already calibrated this part of my game. FML. this HB9 who’s been giving me huge EC the whole night (Peripherals. So I turned to [my friend] Gabe and said. . but still.” Which is true. she’s really nice and cool. Don’t make up details that make other people sound bad. one of my dumbass friends who I got into the party thinks it’ll be funny to play with a fire extinguisher. let’s find somewhere to talk.” I whisper in her ear. Always give value. She’s already giving me DDB and I haven’t said anything yet. but not exactly my type. I know that without massive preselection it will be hard to recover. then she comes and puts her arms around me as if to say to the other girls “My property. Natalya. “This room’s too loud. Trespassers will be shot. This HB10.. But then. The window of opportunity is closed unless I create a jealousy plotline by gaming another hot girl in front of her.. she told me her name. There’s still tons of people around. no. And destroying all probability. just feedback.” and lead her by the hand. As I’m with her. lezz roll. used a lot of Swinggcat ideas tonight but not that much pushpull. made all the other girls in the set like me 2. Used a Swinggcat line I like. She grabs my hand and holds on while I lead the way (IOI). Lesson: Keep composed in the face of huge shit tests. I felt bad. what is your type exactly?” From which point I could easily start qualifying her. What did you say your name was? [I didn’t] Me: “Oh. I’m not attracted to Emma. she was hitting on me last night. Whatever.”” The vocal tonality made it moderately funny.I go natural but use push-pull in pretty much everything I do I’ve been with her too long without closing. She was trying put her hands down my pants and everything. No such thing as failure.. that’s why we all left that party.. Stopped ignoring her..You can be number two =D” 5. Score! Process for gaming the hot older sister: 1. So that’s what I do. I swear!” Really rapport seeking. asked mine (IOI) 4. and I make some dumb comment that gives the frame: “No.I was feeling the canned one-line pebbles that night Her: “I’m Natalya.. it’s key). guys. That NEVER happens. I find another ten at the same frickin party.. Continued gaming.usually I do the opposite. I give up on for now. and in the confusion I lose her. “Yeah. “Yo. The noxious fumes clear out the room.you have less to choose from.
. Google it... The first ten. I just act indifferent towards them.. people don’t catch little shit like this. Hard.” Me: “I’ll remember that. Melbourne is. cause Sydney’s the capital of Australia.. When we do it ["do it"... “Can you come with me for a sec?” Pulls.. For some frickin reason I don’t even #-close.My head’s not on right tonight.” Me: “Wow..tingling. This post is in no way .. Rapport] I game her a little longer. And I don’t add them. Natalya comes up to me.. Mutual Destruction. Next party I see them... She’s clearly well calibrated from dealing with a lot of guys. Not asks nicely. and it doesn’t even cross my mind to #-close the girls I game.while you’re in class.....” Me: “No worries. Finally.. I assume it's just because she doesn't want her bf to find out. K-close.tingling. she pulls the BF card. I let her go and continue gaming other girls... And a lot of the girls add me on facebook. It DESTROYS LMR. Her or the hot older sister.thinking how good it’ll be. Though they can be used together...... But these two tens don’t.” [Connection and DHV --> “I’m a protector/I can protect her”] Her: “Sistersss?” Me: “Hell yea girl. that’s so cute. explains without me asking. WTF. I look deep into her eyes.” [The capital is Canberra.. Literally. When she still doesn't want to (ostensibly).thinking about me. [Not literally. I try to find a place without people... the one who's my age and who I messed up with. so I guess it doesn’t matter] Her: “Yeah.Lame...what an ambiguous phrase.Her: “I’m Sydney..” READ RIKER’s THREE RULES.... Some kind of funny Seinfeldesque interactions with girls while I'm walked in on in the hallway with Sydney.. three older sisters.. she puts up a ridiculous amount of shit-tests (lots of pull aways as I go for the k-close too.. But’s it’s okay cuz I was wrong too. parts of what I say don’t fit. babe.. yeah. sees me too. Three times. as if I know that it’s only a matter of time and I don’t mind playing her little games).” Me: “Aww. not the best game I’ve ever played but it’s not the worst either. end up in a dim hallway. Her: “You’re a bit of a flirt. and before I can isolate and close. It’s forreal.. I’m the same way with my sisters. the little sis comes up to me. but tonight I’m kinda trying to look after her.I love it]. in my most hypnotic vocal tone: “Look.. I like the protector personality thing you have going on. I don’t want to do anything with you that you’ll regret later. Can’t have my sister hooking up with you.... so it’s not a big deal.” Her: “Haha Sydney’s not the capital.I want you to be.. A lot of girls are pissed/ jealous/attracted cuz' they've seen me making out with her..for days after.for weeks. They’re in the crossheirs. ANYWAYS. her little sister pulls her away. The thought doesn’t even occur to me. I say....” [DHV. I’m having too much fun being a social butterfly. You’re like a momma bear [WTF does that even mean? Sometimes when I’ve gone natural. born ‘n raised in a family of five children..I prefer it to freeze-outs. usually I’m the one looking for guys.while you’re in bed. I looked it up the next day] Keep gaming her. you are soooo wrong. giving me kino.why would she be a bear? Anyway.Pulls. After a minute.
Hit me with some feedback... and I found it in my mess of files on my computer. I know. ~Mandrake I took a pic the morning after for that purpose.advocating the literal sniping and shooting down of women. The pose is lame. For a while. So I thought I’d try to jam-pack this with techniques and PU rather than bragging.] Hopefully. . The FR’s will get better with time. this post has been helpful. Just the metaphorical. I was strongly against FR’s but then I read some of Grape’s and found them useful.
. And more importantly.. a crackhead in black leather is getting a blowjob from a crackwhore in black leather. I’m not an AFC. She’s hot shit. The girls are beside me.proboards. “Coome tooo __________ paark tonitee.” She’s actually an intelligent and deep person. ] “I AM a different man now. Kinda like what you’d read in school. and has been for a couple years. I see one of my close friends.more than once. [Part of Joseph Campbell’s Hero with A Thousand Faces. And when we get to the party.. I have no fucking clue why everyone loves having parties at this park. Told them to come over and went to the subway station.17/04/09 Party in a Park This post is massive. The park is really far below street level and has a long staircase going down. they did not rape me.. I was an AFC then.. than my last one. and reframe it. if that’s what you’re thinking ). I give her one of the hugs I outlined in the second half of this post: http://highschoolpuas.. . That’s powerful.an essential read for the aspiring novelist]” The feelings are reframed. they joined up with us. the first image people have of you there will greatly impact how they think of you. I called up a few guy friends. with both of the only two girls in the tribe on both sides of me. Each time we saw a group of people that I knew.. This FR is less game based and more . and even worse.life-based. She comes to my house every once in a while but she’s just a friend. ^^^^NOTE: When you walk into any venue. It’s like a reference book for non-seduction based NLP. Not the same man I am now.” They’re seeing me lead a massive tribe. Bad feelings are anchored to this park. and very exotic [she’s the one person I know from Tonga.. but I never try to game her. [The reframe process I use is from “Introducing NLP” by Joseph O’Connor and John Seymour. My FB texts me.ead=1532&page=1 . he was giving her anal. This is a subconscious DHV.com/inde... It has great bits and pretty off-topic bits. This guy is creepy. though this text message doesn’t really show that. At the top of the stairs. This is the proving grounds. The conquering hero returns home to fight his evil demons. people who were already there before say that when they saw them.for now. I didn’t tell anyone (No. I was a pussy. I’ve been here many times during grade nine parties. about a nine... I roll up to the party with 22 guys and two girls.. You’ll understand why I’m talking about him so much later. DON’T TELL.. Then I allow it to surface all at once. Twenty-two. The man’s wrinkled yet young face scares me. during those weekends when nobody is willing to trash their house to host a party for their friends. I repress every negative feeling and memory.her last name is about thirty letters].. But this one is worth reading. This is the definition of my #1 rule for DHVing: “SHOW.. I’ve been mugged and beaten up by crackheads in this park... I lead the way by about ten meters. . I’ve been rejected in this park.. I’m dead serious. The crew kept snowballing..
He curls fifty pound dumbbells... ^^^^SUMMARY: Smoking will fuck you up. That’s why the crash from one-itis is so much harder than a hangover or even from the crash from cocaine. she gives one of those loud whispers..this is the RocknRolla friend I was telling you about. A lot of people walk by and greet me and see me chilling right beside the sketchy crackhead. Just in higher doses. He’s lost count of the times he’s had sex and he frickin just turned fifteen.with the girl I had a secret crush on..He’s frickin fifteen. He had sex for the first time when he was twelve. I end up befriending him. you high-five. she sees the crackheads. back up the stairs. I’m the only one out of over a hundred people in this park.She has to go to the top for some reason.but I DO have to go up there anyway to find Kate [a mutual friend].. “Jesse. He just turned 15 a couple months ago but he works at a bar using a fake ID..I hate you so much. He’s also gone from getting eighties in a hard private school (my school) to barely passing one of the worst public schools in Toronto.. I usually end up doing it. or in the spirit of balls. but I make it clear that it’s not for her. Push the bar. I know pretty much all of them. family bar with him one time and picked up a guitar from one of the guy’s there and got a standing ovation after his first song..) Grape. as long as I keep my subcomm right. A lot of my not-so-close friends are drug dealers unfortunately. Jesse!” I move towards them and my hand is on her sacrum so she comes too.. To befriend the guy that I’m deeply afraid of..] NOTE: I don’t smoke weed even though I go to 4/20 and Marijuana Marches.Jesse. I’ve seen the effects it has on people over long periods of time (my best friend is who I have in mind. even friends give shit tests) Me: “Oh please.. Calibrate what’s “going too far”.. He’s not just a natural. he’s a supernatural.. [I know the Toronto crime scene pretty well. Enter with one or multiple wingwoman/friend/pivot Make them laugh (use something canned if you want) Talk with balls. all natural. And when someone says something you like. Talk sexually (the main goal here. Yes. . nothing canned... Her: “Can you come with me?” (Yes.. On the way up. The look on their faces is priceless. I return back to the party. so I’ve had to deal with second-hand smoke since I was 12 but I’ve stayed strong. Anyways.” THIS MAN was my initial target for the night. so tonight was all about calibration).. Back to the crackhead. We have an ongoing joke about how usually when she asks me do something with her.. I choose love of women (the most dangerous and by far most addictive) over love of escapist drugs. “Jesse. I know that you can get the same neurochemicals from romance and love that you can from cigarettes or cocaine.. And most of them carry knives. Crackheads are fucking nuts.” She laughs..he’s the one who made me want to get good. with actual scientific references.. And my friends were the first ones to get into drugs..Jesse! Steer away from them.. game like crazy. Process for most sets: 1. Through her teeth. .I want to learn how to talk sexually in natural game. But that’s another post I’ll write later..... I was in a quiet. not really giving a shit about what I say.
” Very blunt..” THIS IS THE PULL Whenever.. She has a really happy and effervescent personality. a girl gives me a weird look or talks back (and I don’t have a good/funny/cocky comeback). Repeat the Process I actually didn’t get any pussy. She opened me. She’s a butterface without the butter face. thinking.. We were in a park. new hair style and hair colour). they should either be laughing. She must have a schedule or something. I either do a five second back turn and talk to someone else (often about the girl who I just shunned. “I can’t believe he just did/said that”. There were a lot of people at this party and I wouldn’t have time to game everyone if I didn’t hop around from set to set like crazy.. Or I move in front of her. if they give you that WTF stare (happens often). so she doesn’t have to double back if she misses a neighbourhood with one of her FBs. easily. but it’s something you really have to learn. or. If you do any of these things right. ^^^^Moral of Story = Don’t keep seeing girls just because they’re really hot. but still smiling. From now on. really. Except one. I don’t know how she does it. You can wait for the ones who don’t flake and who aren’t slutty. saying to someone else in the set. and can only see my back. “I can’t believe you just gave me that creepy stare. Rinse. I don’t really know her too well even though I want to get to know her better. You’re allowed to be picky.it would have been gross to do more. but loudly enough that she can hear what I’m saying about her) or I put my hands on both her shoulders and turn HER around. I thought you were cool. Three girls. In HS. We made out for a bit. E. As gay as it sounds. then went back and deleted it cuz it was too depressing to post) and she compensates by being really uncontrollable and fucking multiple guys per week. they shouldn’t be deeply offended. with pornstar features (Bubble boobs and bubble butt.caveman and pull them in close to you. Here’s what fucking annoyed me. Alexandra. tight torso). so she’s cut out of the conversation. It’s fucked up. She’s got a lot of emotional problems (I wrote a two senctence description of her family life. But off-limits. not the feeling on my dick. [Then physically do something along the lines of what I said before]” <---Breaking rapport and creating tension is weird at first.. “I’m punishing you for talking back.. when in doubt. grew boobs.And a road route.. not that I really care about pussy. My FB who told me to come was there.g. David D recommends not smiling when pulling shit like this but I disagree. When I was an AFC. but I’ve kind of lost interest in her even though she’s really hot. And I make sure that they know they’ve done something to deserve it. Her circle of friends is fucking sexy. all really hot. all girls I knew before they got hot. A six who’s now an eight and a half now according to my friends who’ve seen her recently (tanned. “This girl is AWESOME. there was only one girl who ever fell in love with me. smile. She is the definition of playette. “I can’t believe he just did/ said that” THIS IS THE PUSH I would take one or two of them with me and enter a new set. I’m in it for the emotions during sex. you smile and say. I’m only talking to her when she opens me. Leah. You lose five points. I’ve been trying to get with her for a while but I know . A nine. braces off. Wash. It’s the key to natural attraction. thinking. or they should have their jaw dropped.
Seriously. I think guilt for having already ruined a bunch of Leah’s friendships. But he ends up not stealing it and as I walk away. I feel sad for hurting her feelings. Savage. THERE’s A DRUNKEN HOMELESS MAN IN THE PARTY!!!” Kids started throwing empty beer bottles at him. not when I’m sober. This is cat string theory also. She whispers in my ear.If you tell her that directly. She’s got to go home or something. knowing that a lot of people were watching.e. I haven’t said a word yet. Lesson: Befriend those you fear most. “GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE!!!” Seemed to be the unanimous agreement. she’s not a girl I can continue seeing. And it’s sexy.” Women aren’t always logical. I say. NOTE: This makes me the forbidden fruit. There has to be a better way to let a girl know you’re not interested though you like her as a friend. out of the blue. Pretty soon. in a way. The first girl I ever fucked. almost exactly a year ago. Alex opens me. She’s a six. she’s a really incredible girl. I smell the booze on her breath from three meters away. Yeah. The girl I crave k-closes me without me having to say a word. this girl at one point screamed out “OH MY GOD! EVERYBODY. “Don’t mind her. opens me. (i. Befriend potential muggers. I’m not gonna kiss a drunk girl. he says “just partying it up with my boy Jesse here. and I can’t kiss back. moving with consciously good posture. I go upstairs again with a friend to see her to a cab. Befriend potential AMOGs. How do you guys deal with that? I ended up just spending twenty minutes with her talking and not making a move. I’m not sure why I don’t k-close her. That’s what scares me the most. she’s a bitch. deleting those last five uhh numbers?” He went to the school my best friend is barely passing in right now. Then the other cheek. It was barbaric. FML. She knows me. He won’t mug you if you’ve befriended him. But everybody seemed to be into it other me.that Leah has “PROHIBITED” me. and she knows that it’s not because I don’t have the balls to close her. Just because Leah’s out of town doesn’t mean she’s not gonna hear about this when she gets back. he goes. One of Robert Cialdini’s Six Laws of Influence revolves around friendship. “What’s a phone call among friends. “Yo. but weird bone structure in her cheeks and a bit of acne. When I go back downstairs. he’s a crazy crack dealer. I pull back when she kisses me. Worst of all. With a kiss on the cheek. <--. She knows it’s her. I . Then my lips. uhh. He’ll pay me. Part of me feels really sad about it. my nose is touching her nose while we talk. a blonde who started doing coke and lost about forty pounds last year. I know that after this weekend. He asks if he can use my phone. I’m harsh and picky. I went up to the homeless man. I’m blacklisted again. I’m not so sure if my phone is ever coming back to me. I spend a lot of time with a girl who has an obvious crush on me. You can stay here if you want. because as I get to know her. He calls a bunch of clients. and not when I know that I can close her when SHE’S sober. give or take a month. And those who you fear least. “Leah’s out of town this weekend. she’ll just want you more Also. Each time. Tall and thin.” I assume it’s a one minute call. Making out with her won’t do any good in the long run. I continue gaming. As I’m on my way up. I talk to Keith the Coke Dealer for a bit. but I’m just not attracted to her physically. She’s in Thunder Bay with her family. Women want what they can’t have even though it’s right in front of them. and the FB who texted me about the party) This girl is Leah’s best friend. in those words. Then one of the other girls. He pulls out a quarter. Ten minutes later. I know. Jesse uhh man.” which makes me feel slightly safer. you mind.
I’ll be completely confident being the only one standing and clapping. I think it's my best FR yet http://highschoolpuas. Now he’ll want to live up to my expectations of him. After several seconds...proboards.Pickup Podcast. are the highest value themselves. it holds a warm place in my heart..” = Mini cold read “You’re a good person. I saw other people. LEARN NON-SEDUCTION NLP! NOTE: This is what you have to do to be a leader. It feels good to lead the way. PS.. David D quotes a passage describing the real life character that the movie Gladiator was based on. And I cared that I was the only one. This segment talks about how a real man looks down on no one. I pinky swear.. Everyone deserves equal value.. But the truth is. How to achieve this? CALIBRATION. I’ll already be used to it. In On Being A Man. popular people. You can’t contribute to the bystander effect (Google Kitty Genovese). The FR for Saturday will be much more game-related.” = This is an embedded command. On Monday. You won’t hurt anyone. For that reason.com/inde. so school's really important to me. I was the only one giving a standing ovation.” NOTE: “I can see it in your eyes. I used a different vocal tone and turned my head.. No failure.distracted... ~Mandrake EDIT: Posted the Saturday LR.. then head to bed around 3.. I’ll stay on focus. and watch a couple Planet Earths. A sly grin perked up.can see it in your eyes.so I have a lot of catchup work to do . because next time. but you have to be congruent and comfortable about this.. You have to be willing to be the one person who stands up against a group mentality... I go home. because not only this. When can I see you?” “.Umm. Everyone is equal. Keith’s not here right now. alone tonight (meh. a really intriguing speaker on biomimicry came to my school. “gives everyone value” as the Art of Charm crew would say I guess.I'm a nerd at heart. The whole next day. It’s a very communist idea in a way. very awkwardly. You have to be a real Man and think for yourself. NOTE: This is also is a segment in David D’s On Being A Man. and live your own beliefs.very fun... I really wish I could find that quote. I won't be posting for a while. can I take a message?” Still a fun day though. I wrote extensive annotations on it which I’ll put in another post. throughout the rest of the party. approaching and talking to Mark the Hobo. just feedback..” = I’m making him proud of himself. you’re a good person.. and lately I've been. one of the first PU programs I ever watched.hopefully. the ones who give everyone equal/high value.. And you have be more.. [ Listen to their podcasts on value. it’s on iTunes for free] Even hobos. most of their other podcasts are crappy interviews <----. no biggie). Later.. I sat back down.. Go out and try it. But that’s calibration. I got calls from people who needed drugs “and I need it bad man. “You won’t hurt anyone.lay&thread=1589 Also. It talks about how he treated the Emperor the same as the slaves.
party on.In the meantime.Mandrake . and I hope these FRs have been a help .
Jack.” .com/inde.. Sex is all he thinks about..” ––– Sinn I talk with him for a while. catch-up. [Lack of popularity does not determine a bad personality. This is proof. which I can only do easily once I’ve met up with her for a day two and can show another side of me. I’m on a mission to annihilate her bitch shield.] While I’m walking home from school after the game.. Moral of Story: “FUN IS THE ULTIMATE ATTRACTION SWITCH.proboards. she’s a niner. I feel great. I deepen my connection with some guys from my school who are also watching the game. I call Sydney. don’t load up on any more attraction gambits or else she’ll flake. I was going to give him the Game. The comfort side. help him with his relationship woes. even though I can’t play today because of an injured leg. So she can’t flake. His problem is not having a healthy sexual energy. She tells me everything.proboards. For months. I’m not sure why. I call my friend who lives on my route home. “I’m outside. They’re really good guys. I filled this with powerful stuff. Raise the curtains! The show is about to begin! Wake-up early. give moral support to the rugby team. I just try to make her laugh.” “Alright man.ead=1588&page=1) [teeheehee ^^^ that arrow looks like a penis] This is Saturday. we talk everyday. tell him “you’ll take to it like a duck to water”.lay&thread=1544 This was Friday :----> (http://highschoolpuas. but then he stopped inviting me over. He still hasn’t got a peck on the cheek from his girl. but we haven’t talked much in a couple months. This is the most solid game I’ve played in a long time. And trust me. based on what you’ve told me of her.18/04/09 One on One Deep Rapport This post continues from http://highschoolpuas. she masturbates. she always starts the talking.. and I’ve dissected what made it work out so well. I’m totally in state. Open up bud. a real meaty post. she’s been attracted to you... His family’s surprised to see me. You’re in Grade 10. I’m 100% sure.com/inde. It gets to be good. You’re the older man that she thinks about when the girls at school are having boytalks. I act as if nothing’s weird about me being there after so long and just keep crackin’ jokes to remind him why he always liked hanging with me.” He used to be one of my best friends last year and I’d go over to his house during lunch breaks everyday.” Him: (Gives me a WTF look) Me: “Think about this. Him: “We’re really close. wealth of popularity does not determine a good personality. so he projects a creepy sexual energy. try to make her comfortable.” Me: “She doesn’t tell you about when she masturbates.
You see that image in your mind. I game her. so you usually go “my friend ______” if you’re doing an opinion opener. you know who she’s thinking of. then you pull it away. it builds a jealousy plotline without having to even game another girl. I call Sydney on my walk home (She borrowed her friend’s phone for the day and texted me a couple hours before). she asks if she can see me.. where you bait her into thinking she has a chance to be the victor of the interaction. but I promised my friend I’d chill with him. Generally.. It’s one of the HW assignments in Real World Seduction that I never got around to doing: “Watch Swingers and make note of the body language of the main character. I don’t talk about when I’ll see her next (like every other guy). because she knows I won’t.. a good friend. She’s fucking screaming for you. AND MORE IMPORTANTLY. .. a woman’s mind will translate “a friend” as you. And each time.” Or during the second call “. It took me a while to figure it out.. A lot of gurus talk against calling twice the same day but that’s stupid..Uggh. She’s screaming your name. http://www.. Yes. easy. and each time.. I see a couple friends.. Also. this is where it started. but just cause I’m so deep into state.but I already made dinner plans with a friend. I plan on her not coming over until ten minutes before the sunset. I learned this trick from my FB who was at the park party in the other post..not so much. notice how I said “her”.. I can’t just quit out on her last minute. we’ll hang out right now.with her though. That frame feels more alpha to me. Each time I call.... They come with me and I rent Swingers from a nearby Blockbuster. seeing as how my entire family is home.. A specific form of push-pull. the other’s a girl I used to be friends with a couple years ago. This is different. buddy. Right then and there. I’ll need to spank her next time I see her. the images getting brighter and sharper in your mind. [I can see him getting a hard on] I want you to picture that next time you’re talking to her.. But you know she won’t be..being trashy. flaky. You let her think she’s winning what she wants. Jealousy plotlines are the keys to nailing nines and tens...youtube...He’s awesome) ^^^^^Girls do this to guys all the time.” Not worth watching. I’ll call her when calling her is convenient for me. I figured out that AFC Adam (attractionexplained. as if she were my girlfriend already. she knows the “friend” couldn’t have been referring to yourself.Oh shit. fucking every guy in town. and I caveman kino in the meantime. I have a bedroom above my garage which I lead her to. One’s a really great guy. And more convenient xD..“And when she’s masturbating. But MAINLY.being promiscuous shows she has the experience to do it right.” ^^^^ This is a technique from David Wygant.. not even on purpose. Once you say it’s a “her”. playing... I'm just keeping logistics in mind. right? That movie. She does it all the time. though I found it pretty fucking cool when I saw Vince Vaughan giving the first ever Triangle Gaze.com/watch?v=jvcgyhAy9Ok&feature=channel_page As I’m finishing the walk home (after I leave his house). that she’s socially calibrated..” This is False Hope at it’s finest.. it’s cause she just doesn’t want to tell me the names of all the other guys she’s with. Hear her screaming for you. And that’s when she comes. It can be sexy..com) had already done all the same figuring out. but it’s that simple (later. I have the same reply: “Sure.
and clearly expects me to come over and start making out with her.about .leaving mystery. I’m showing her I don’t want to have sex with her. do I love ripping off lines from romance films. DYD and MM covers this pretty well... and thus her body. It’s a romance movie.. when you’re thinking about how much you want me (I show her the smile.Her: “So you’re taking me into a dark and sketchy garage. Especially the classics... You’re not gonna rape me.” [<----.] Me: “This is my dungeon. this will amplify it and transition into rapport.I didn't even do it on purpose to be honest] who I hide in there. Hopefully. CAVEAT: If you don’t have attraction. And credit to Gay for the Love Method. It’s still a bit light outside. just goes to show.you’re falling in love with me. I hope you’re not trying to seduce me. the one. .she’s trying to frame me as a creep.. you know that?” Her: “No. the one you’re making right now... I come up with a good cold read. The actual smiles I described were the actual three smiles that she makes. being dominant] Then I rush her out of there. she gives the smile back). I call them the lost children. to show her a deep rapport side of me and pause the banter. Makes it much easier to bring her back there later. my destination. I just came up here to get towels for our adventure. This is why I wanted it to be ten minutes before sunset. this will only point out in her mind that she does not like you.. and it will come off creepy... I’ll introduce you to all the other little girls [subtle neg..” [Meh. some of you already know what I’m talking about though. which destroys half of her shit tests. and laughing at my jokes (I show her the smile. always changing and always complex.. I physically push and pull her (smoothly.. as it’s natural. Me: “Hahah. I can't explain it.” [ <---.. and there’s the one ... and my fucking g*d. it doesn't take much] Her: “Oh reeaallly? (Sarcastically)” [Her shit tests are getting easier] I take her up to the room. Now she’s used to being in the bedroom with me. where you’re thinking. I continued implanting it in her mind that she was in love with me the whole rest of the night (<---NLP IS NOTHING WHEN NOT STACKED) and this was how I introduced it.” but she's stopped shit testing me for the most part] Me: “There’s the one when you’re happy... leans back.fast.PWNED! LOL ----My favourite role reversal] Her: [She doesn’t have a good comeback.” [I expected her to say “Tell me them. so it’s not that sexual and she can feel completely comfortable in my room.. The physical push . Me: “You have three smiles. like Casablanca (one of my favourite movies in the first place). what I said wasn't too clever.don’t push her over) because holding hands is really lame unless you’re actually doing something cool now that you have control of her hand.. I stole the initial question from a chick flick I actually really enjoyed called “Win a Date with Tad Hamilton!”.. Halfway to the park. are you?” [Shit test. Plus. there’s the naughty smile..” ^^^^ Hopefully you all understand how incredibly powerful that is.how. so she asks] “Towels???” Me: “You’ll see. She sits on the end of the bed. “other little girls” holds the presupposition that she’s a little girl..pulling when I have our fingers interlocking is very hard to explain. If you do have attraction. she gives the smile back)....
We watch the end of the sunset.. These are powerful pre-anchors that I consciously try to make use of.. . as I hold her in my arms firmly yet loosely from behind. even though I know how famous it is. With the mixed messages in the air.. foreplay --> play --> afterplay). she asks? “So [ioi]. and she’s standing above me with a face that comes after a big PUSH (the cold read was my PULL). for fun.. To understand her. “.and this one’s my favourite.] ^^^^^^ Yes.. I run the cube on her. she has no f’ing clue what’s happening. It allows me to look deep into her personality. not just a number.elongated) I’ll move over.. “Fiiiiiine. I am proven wrong. So she just lies down on the small towel beside me.this is a nested loop.. which smile’s your favourite?” I don’t remember my reply. I’m very proud.. I thought of this stuff all by myself. This position is anchored to foreplay and afterplay (the stage after sex.. Her small cube. really turned on. There’s a couple terms in cold reading (I’ll do a definitive cold reading post later.. Next time I use a similar kind of cold read I’ll add in. I look up at her. but I’m smiling. Foreplay is when she’s making out with a guy. lightning and all” “right above the cube” let me look into her mind. I GUESS ( <--.Oh.. interesting. big storm “thunder. smiling in disbelief as I take up the whole towel and she just stands there. keeping eye contact) “. I’ve shock and awed her. C & F.. Then I cold read mercilessly. and I go.” Her: (Half laughing. a tension builder) Her: “SO? What did it all mean!?” Me: (Pause five seconds. once I’ve finished reading Tradecraft: The Art and Science of Cold Reading) called Subjective Validation and Selective Memory. I lay the towel out on the grass.” My vocal tonality is as though I’m really annoyed. I’m fractionating the tension because once I start reading her cube. I purposely only took one. [I call anchors that are in place before I create them pre-anchors..” as she answers questions from the cube. I have never used the cube before but interpreting random crap is my forté so it runs smoothly.. a smile is pre-anchored to happiness. Beyond the surface.. This is feedback to help me calibrate. to see the woman behind the mask. ^^^^^^ I’ve manipulated the events so that as I go into rapport building. I’m lying on my towel. Jaw dropped. Afterplay is when she’s just had sex with a guy and extremely receptive to creating emotional connections and DnMing. For example. Yes.. When we get to the park.” (Then I explain the cube) By breaking the tension with laughter. A deep human being. like in every romance novel ever created. Also..When she calms down from her futile. giggly attempts at denying her love for me. and there’s no room for her. I build a lot of tension by saying only “interesting. I build the tension right back up.” so that she can’t ask which one after.. but I remember it was nothing special. not just a nine. Me: (I stare at her and wait. I just made that stuff up. we’re spooning. It doesn’t mean a thing. just playing with you. she’s having trouble thinking of shit tests. half shocked) “You’re such an aaaassshoooolllleeee!” Me: “Easy tiger. I assume this is another lame ass cold reading game.
I also did some brutally powerful fractionated elicitation of values. Also. Everything you say becomes powerful. I think it’s on his journal]. (i. sexual visualizations whenever you want. We continue playing our little . I love it).. Then whenever she moves forward. When you dissect the principles behind his words. This is also the time to start getting highly sexual in your language. Either way. This program is an hour of Hypnotica having phone sex. close and tight) [This is the BIG pull. P ?” She keeps holding her lips at my lips. If you do. cold reading is easier in HS.. Watch Deep Phone Seduction.I already like you. REALLY vague because she feels that you must know what you’re talking about to get the first ones right on and everything you say must be true. then she will subjectively validate your FUTURE cold reads. and you’re the one who’s there with her at the current moment. You’ll be the one she’s thinking of.. When I go in for the kiss. Remind me later to write a post on it.literally] “No. even though I don’t have UNG. Choosing which memories remain. When you want to be right. I can see inside your mind. This is completely subconscious. Not that you should ever get twenty reads wrong. pulling back and never really making out. pulling back: Her: “What about my boyfriend?” Me: [I’m really tempted to say. how she needs a dominant man. in a playful way. SELECTIVE MEMORY is the ability to remember certain events while having amnesia for other events. The PUA is the exception to the rule. blah blah blah. Once you really peg her on one (or multiple if you really are gonna go intense) cold reads. If you’re listening to the little details in how she talks and you’re reading her subcomm. you can generate ‘patterns’ and hypnotic.. This is why the vague language of the Milton Model works. “What about your boyfriend? but I decide on] “Look. So talk about how lonely she is (I pulled this off no problems even though this girl has a BF and a bunch of guys always trying to get with her). they will forget the first few reads that you get wrong and their brain will actively SELECT the read you got right. Much much better than canned SS BS.. you’ve been thinking too much and not listening enough. Hypnotica and Steve P are by far my favourite NLP using PUAs.” [This is the BIG push.] Her: (After calming down) “You don’t actually think that I made up my boyfriend. And other guys don’t cold read. seeing as you’re the one she’s attracted to.you don’t have to keep making up stories of this invisible boyfriend of yours.Gay’s Love Method.. talk about how she’s falling in love (<--. I tweaked it.. even if they’re really. the first twenty reads can be wrong and she’ll only remember the right one. Trust me. she holds my lips at her lips. and now it’s fucking intense. ^^^^ Now here’s the real beauty of it. do you?” Me: (I pull her right into me. I believe you. remember .e. Most of the girls have common problems [See Chrispb7’s List of HS Girls Generalizations. Unless they know about cold reading. This is where we come in. you shouldn’t get ANY cold reads wrong.SUBJECTIVE VALIDATION is the process of validating statements as accurate because one finds/is able to find personal meaning and significance in them. I think I somehow learned it from UNG. Everything you say will be automatically anchored to you because you’re the one saying it to her. I pull back. right then and there. That’s what they’ll remember. who can protect her. especially if you’re using it to your advantage. Naturally.
" Johnny Wolf As we walk back home..Maybe..our warmth. Now she’s the one pressed up against the wall.. I take her hand and interlock fingers... and spin her around fast and hard.... After I walk her home a few hours later. two. Continue fractionating my EV method. Planning ahead.. so that when the time comes. didn’t you?” ^^^ That’s how powerful this stuff is..games....... so I have no where to pull back. You’ve felt me. So instead I put my palm on the back of her neck. I decide to telegraph to her that it’s on. I replied to a bunch of her shit tests after the first cold read but before this ^^^^^ up above......... Eventually. Him: “Yo. At first I thought it was conscious. It’s a symbolic and powerful anchor) ” -------> More crap ------> “I’ve been inside . your mind....your mind. you heard that.. .... though I can see with my peripherals that she was watching me walk off..... Knowing that you’ll have a place nearby.... I make out intensely.. “"A noob thinks about what to say. On AIM..... Jack calls.....pressed against yours. I don’t go up to the house door with her and wait and watch like a chump while she goes inside. A playa thinks about where to do her. she actually began accidentally speaking some of her thoughts...... There’s no point hiding them......going inside you. and I don’t look back..... I’m just waiting for a little while to bring her back to my place because I don’t want it to seem like I’m really excited and jumping onto the opportunity now that she’s said “I WISH”.. and I could sense in her subcomm that it was the real deal..I’ve been inside you. “I can see into your eyes..... I feel like it would get kind of.one. but then it kept happening.” After a while... She starts to press me up against walls and fences. Me : (something along the lines of) “..You feel that warmth.. She didn’t shit test me or pull away again..deep...my warm breath.deep......” Her: “I WISH.. and she was doing it on purpose as a joke or odd shit test or something.my breath...they can be used in foreplay and afterplay too]...... pull back. you can go where you need to go.. A warm bed...my lips.I’m kinda busy right now. I pull out my phone and .our mouths...] This is logistics.. even though we both know that that’s where we’re headed. three hours? ” (She’s giving me her naughty smile) As tempted as I am to break down my sex game/technique... you wanna come hang? I’m at BShack (Burger Shack)" Me: “.deeper inside you. (whenever I talk about two as one in my hypnotic rants. I can hear your true thoughts.. by saying. Her adrenaline goes through the roof......together. I leave her at the closest intersection to her house. like you would in rough sex [See the movie Basic Instinct for inspiration on rough sex moves.. An intermediate thinks about how to say it....together..... Let’s get out of here.two bodies.one entity. Then: Me: “It’s gonna rain soon [No it’s not.. forreal this time.... tons of playful teasing and pull aways whenever she moves in for a makeout...... I’ll call you back in three hours.” [Notice how I left out the “so we can go to my bed and fuck like rabbits”..deep inside. I already checked the forecast when I was planning logistics].innappropriate....” Her: “Oooooo.No....... give her my most sexual stare.. then keep leading her home..in your breath...
I say I was with Cole. to make every word hold more meaning and more sexual undercurrent. I go over to the first Jack’s house and stay there till 2: 30. And only doing it when it's one on one. then NLP isn't meant to be creepy. And for sure bud.). she posts pretty gross pics on facebook.call Jack.. really ‘alternative’ personality. don’t tell” policy. I only do it to the girls I know I'm gonna like.. Yeah.. lives two blocks from my house. The key is being congruent. The one guy with them is a good friend of mine. I’m proud. It’s 1. and is easily a 9 on my standards. I'm not an amoral ass who pulls this intense shit on every girl . .. On my way to see Jack and the guys he’s with. knows all the cool places. We'll deff talk sometime though and here's a couple pics.. This was a HUGE sticking point for me for a long time. more just to put a face to the name for you guys. another Jack.. But meh. though I'm trying to re-focus my energies on school till exams are done at about the middle of June. just chill out and enjoy the music (Hippies and stoners generally share my taste in music. The girls are two years older. This girl listens to jazz. These are even some of the hotter ones. (I’ll post pictures later.. ~Mandrake PPS.. Great guy. I don't get it.I don’t get it. I tried to really break it down and make it one of the better FRs out there. I remember Grape saying he uses NLP and chances are he lives in the states. I see a circle of girls smoking. one of my guy friends (The supernatural I talked about in the other FR). so I won't make false promises to be online too often. When he asks what I was doing..not crack addicts for some reason. all the cool new and old albums and songs.. so I don’t game them. but very. likes old old movies. even though she posts the grossest frickin pics of herself on facebook. The girls are REEEAAALLLY high. that I’ve been able to rekindle my close friendship with him and that I’ve followed through on my “kiss. very different.) *Later* Haha unless you're Ross Jeffries or one of his followers. It's really just a change in vocal tonality and a few other little tools. they always like dance and techno music the most.. Another night of going to bed smiling since I found the community. He’s a ten on the value scale. Hopefully this post helped A LOT with your one on one rapport game. She’s still watching. sitting on the empty road.
. Where'd you get your shirt anyway? I stole mine from this weird guy that was stripping down to his boxers a few blocks back" *sniff shirt and pull back like I smelled something dead* "yeah.. enthusiasm was present in spades and everybody was handing out free high fives. I'll recount what happened I'm wearing: A Black I love NY T-shirt This cool bracelet I got from H&M A cross necklace from American Eagle Dark Blue Bootcut Jeans from American Eagle (yeah. once there I got a text from this girl (who I will call A). myself included. wondering if it reeked why I wore it (yeah I sorta DLVed myself. joking kind of guy)...I went with two girls and a third girl joined us about thirty minutes later since she lost her group and one of the girls was extremely outgoing (new girl was ungameable.. because I didn't have time to sit and chat... this time i moved my hand away and said "Gotcha!"(this was a light push and it also presented me as a fun.. On the way there I saw a pretty cute girl (HB7-8) with an I love NY t-shirt on so I opened her with: "OMG We're TWINS!" (I think this opener is pretty decent.I don't like American Eagle jeans anymore but I needed jeans to walk in that still looked decent. try it out) She replied "Huh? OMG YEAH!" I stuck my hand out for a high-five to get some kino going pretty early on." She went for the five again. all my other jeans are too tight for it).Darkpwns 5/17/09 Got out the AIDS walk a few hrs ago. She came into my space and took a whiff and said "Ooooh you smell GOOD" and then took another giant whiff. "What was that? I KNOW you can do better than that I mean c'mon. "Whoa there! I don't just let anyone sniff me.... I totally am.HB6).com/mainstreet/forms/. I realized that a bit later but there was a method to my madness)....... Overall the walk was extremely fun.. and she told me which team she was standing by so I wandered around seemingly aimless. She slapped the hand.first I need to know your name" she told me ..tuccini. Black DCs So basically my father drove me to the walk at around 9 'o clock AM.. its definitely worth a try and it isn't very expensive either.if you see anyone wearing anything the same as you are. "Yeah. "OMG you're so MEAN!" she pushed me lightly (this was an IOI but that's obvious).I know that's not the point of the walk but there were so many girls I couldn't help myself from at least attempting it.it was a weak five.couldn't really game anyone outside of the set I originally came with though.) The girl seemed a bit confused at the joke. I think I'm gonna give it back it sorta reeks" (I actually had used this Versace Cologne that smells AMAZING check the bottle out here: http://www.6b-82542e200dac and whenever you pass by a fragrance shop look for it. Didn't actually do much gaming. looking for the girl.
nice to meet ya" she looked at me like I had something stuck on my face.what her name was.I didn't think it was that funny. then stalk me on twitter.: brushing her arms against mine. The girl wrote: "Hey.she laughed so hard she ended up on the grass. which was seeking rapport from when i told her she was a turtle when we started walking). because of this you can go with riskier openers so long as they are congruent with everything else you do." *wink* "keep it up and we could be friends" (in hindsight this was WAY too strong for a first sentence but she laughed at the comment. "Hey.....e. but in truth the majority of them are LJBF." she said... are you going to come to the show on monday or not?" (She has a performance on the 18th and she got a ticket for me to go see it). Seuss hat and a plan formulated in my head. but I like role playing.you know what? You can talk to me on facebook.and as pre-selection goes she thinks I screw all of them.nor Asian.... "What's your REAL name?" she asked.. it was AWESOME talking to you but I need to find my friend. I went back to her and said "Yeah...wtf?) so i said: "Um. you know if you can't pronounce my real name and all" once again she laughed.." *puts on hat. I'm an awesome player. S proved to be a nosy girl and looked at the message: "Ooooh a girl? I heard you were a player. we just met and you're already hitting on me? I think I like you..awkward). She got up and i put the AE necklace around her neck.. "Honey.my real identity... "Oh come aun New Yahk.. I went up to the dude and asked if I could see his hat really quickly. I can't game A (childhood friend thing.lice or w/e the dude could've had aren't attractive* "FLAVA FLAAAAV!" i put a big cheese grin on my face and S stepped to the side of the path and bust out laughing.. she had a friend with her (who I'll call S). when I'm in front of her she puts her hands on my shoulder pushing me and saying "move faster".well its actually..not firmly.but you can call me James.) =======What I like about warm approaches is that the person who you are approaching has a general idea of how you are because of what the person who introduces you says. "My name? I'm Ho Chi Minh.. which he agreed to... S and I got to talking fluff about school to pass time while A texted her boyfriend on her phone and I got a text from a girl who I neglected to respond to on friday (went to sleep and forgot I was talking to her)..she probably told S all about it. what happened you never replied back. but I was out of time. I saw this guy in front of me with a gay flag Dr. I had A introduce us and S reached for my hand (girl giving a handshake....I'm black so lol).. then asked for mine.here" *i stuck out my arm and a pen and she wrote down her facebook on it while saying that I make her laugh too much* After that I walked around till I met with A... because girls are very . but S was extremely gameable (HB9). then bust out laughing (I'm not Korean.. Fuck.. =======Role-playing is extremely useful in dealing with girls. why you on da flo' fo'? Come get dis chain" I said imitating Flava Flav's stupid manner of speech.====================== We start walking around 10:25 AM and S is touching me while she's walking (i. that IS my real name. A is aware of the amount of girls I talk to.
I told her I'd give her a piggyback if she gave me one first.===== At the hot dog stand she asked for me to buy a hot dog for her.. S goes up to the girl and they talk for a bit and S integrates the new girl (C from now on) into the group because she lost her's.she really did... get separated and you'll never see the person again)... where you give the girl something to hold onto so that way if you wander away she'd try to find you and give it back. She wasn't willing to give up 5 points and asked if I could bring it down to one point if she gave me her number. I ignored her and pointed out a hot dog stand. Somewhere near the half-way mark S asked for a piggy-back ride.. Lock-in props are generally used in club game (thus why I didn't intentionally use it). I think your friend is cute. in my opinion. The point system isn't exactly something physical. but offered to get her a water instead. I told her that she failed the test. I catch her throwing glances at me every time she thinks that I'm looking away and A spots this girl on the side of the path looking lost." "But you're flirting!" "Look.she seems to be enjoying my company and if she wants . is role-playing.. so I'd only give her a piggy back for one block and it'd cost her 5 points.==================================== So now I'm walking with A and S with S standing right next to me....the piggy-back would be jumping through a hoop that I wasn't ready to jump through without some physical exertion on her part. ======I haven't jumped through any of her hoops for the whole two hours and change that we were on the AIDS walk at that point.that's not where I want to be. which I declined..================================== We walked down the block and there was this group doing Capoeira. Guy humor which involves making fun of people don't hold the same weight with girls. so I figured I'd twist one of her hoops in order to make her feel like she was progressing with me and not lose that "hard-to-get" status at the same time. I'm going to be Flava Flav and you're going to be New York. well placed. which got pretty annoying.." the joke won't be funny if you do. S jumped into the group to act like a fool before I could and A held me back from going in with her. =====She wanted to give me her number but in order for me to do that I would've had to do something for her. though I didn't exactly intend for it to be that.. the AIDS Walk is PACKED. "I'm just having fun.. In this case the lock-in prop made S stick to me like glue (she had to. the best way to do female humor. she accepted my offer. The thing about role-playing is that you don't tell the person "So yeah... A pulled me off to the side.and for once I analyzed what was going on. C wasn't really much of an obstacle though she kept interrupting me while I was in the middle of a thread..I was just going with the flow of the role-play. "What do you think you're DOING?!" she seemed to be upset with the fact that I was gaming her friend.dramatic creatures. but if I'm willing to change something just to get a number that I'd undoubtedly get anyway she'd think "What else can I get him to do" and she'd lump me in with any orbiters she has.or stick to you like glue. Also the necklace became a lock-in prop..but I know that A thinks of me as a player so her concern was in her mind. she tried.
me to lay off its w/e I'll do it, but you need to trust me a little more...isn't that what best friends are for?" I felt bad about using that line, but I wasn't really thinking much and I took the low road...guilting her into letting me continue gaming S. After S got done thinking Capoeira was an African Dance C started blabbing on about how awesome S was, to be able to just go in and dance with people she didn't know. I took that time to DHV myself and went to chat up other people in front of us. Bad Idea. When I went to demonstrate I was a really social guy most people blew me off and only a few actually let me chat. I couldn't integrate people into our group as they had their own. On top of that I had to keep track of my group, so I ended up waiting on curbs looking for them to pass by. So by trying to DHV myself I ended up DLVing myself. I gave up DHVing myself and just stayed with my group. We passed by this radio station that set itself up at the half-way mark and it was playing a song called "Boyfriend #2", I generally don't like R&B that is all about sex but I saw S bobbing her head and said "OH MY GOD THIS IS MY SONG!!!!" *just like the guy in the Dance Flick...i like references to movies* then i grabbed S and said "we're dancing...now." There was a wall bordering central park since we were street side at that point. I led her to it and turned around and stood up against the wall while I put her right in front of me and put my hands on her hips...like I expected she started grinding on me...I never got a dub right in the middle of tons of people before...the experience was pretty cool. ==============Doing something like that without extreme attraction, good rapport and steady kino escalation isn't possible. In this case I knew she was invested in me and also I knew that she had an outgoing personality, I rationalized my idea that way. All in all it was a risky move and I'd probably have felt like shit if it didn't work out because her attraction levels would have plummeted and all my hard work would've been for naught. I took more risks today than I ever did in the time I've been learning the game. Its something I hope I don't repeat...calculated, tight game is better than risky, whimsical game.============== A realized that we weren't with them and came back for us...when she saw what was going on she smacked me on the head and called me an idiot. Yeah. Whatever. I didn't want to piss my friend off anymore, so I calmed down on the escalation for a bit and decided to walk with S with my arm around her shoulder. I talked to S about sexual topics now, asking her if she was a virgin, what she likes, things like that. After I was sure she was in the sexual mood I had her do some word association to figure out her fantasies. =============Now at this point I was working with 3 and a half hours of gaming this one girl....attraction through the roof, if I could've had it my way I would've closed her and moved on...but I couldn't...this was a negative side to the AIDS walk============ I realized that I had been messing up the whole time, which was why I was losing threads to talk about...in fact I was shocked I managed to keep them refreshing for as long as I did...I was sticking to my target....I wasn't giving anybody else in the set enough attention, I fixed this at once and started a fluff conversation with C, she actually turned out to be a cool person, I AIM closed her. Another LJBF, I love LJBF girls. I then went on to talk fluff with A about her school life, then asked how her and her boyfriend were doing (my friend wants a shot at A, so I'm always looking out for him...and her boyfriend's a chode). S was getting annoyed with the sudden abandonment and when A and C went to get Doritos
at this rest point she asked me if I liked her. I went up to her and put my index finger under her chin (I learned this from reading The Adventures of Brad P), and using my index finger I brought her face closer to mine and kissed her. "Yeah, you're a cool chick. I like ya *wink*" is what I said after I released. =============This was actually the first time I pulled the trigger in day game.....EVER! Even when I was good at day game I never had the guts to do it...but then again I never had hours to work on one girl. Even so, this is a huge breakthrough in the confidence department for me. Once again, this is all about calculating her attraction levels and following the escalation ladder, kissing was the only step I didn't get to besides for sex.============================================= "OMG OMG OMG! You just KISSED ME!" she was like....freaking out...it wasn't really a bad freak out, like she didn't hit me or anything and besides....she kissed back. "Yeah....I did." I was struggling to make my voice sound nonchalant, my heart was actually pounding so hard I couldn't take it and my stomach was coiling up into knots...for the first time that day it occurred to me that I may have messed up. "That was the LAST thing I expected to happen today," I was actually thinking that I had thrown it all away and then I remembered a post on this forum. It was Chris' no fail K-close. I brought my face really close to hers and she closed her eyes and poked out her face for another kiss. This time I didn't kiss her, instead I plucked off an imaginary eyelash off of her face. "You had an eyelash on your face...the expectant type aren't we?" I was now 100% sure that I didn't mess up the attraction. ========Chris' K-close is designed to actually get the kiss without failing...it works too, but it can also be used backwards like this. If you aren't too sure if you went to far by pulling the trigger too early, you can always try it this way...if they pull away from you....well then its back to building up attraction, though it would be hard at that point since they will perceive everything you do as hitting on them.============================================ After A and C got back to the group I pulled S off to the side to have a some more discussion with her before I went back to ignoring her. This time it was her hammering away with the sexual questions. She asked if I was a virgin. "I'm a born again virgin..." is my standard reply to that question. "What? Why?" was the response I expected, and she delivered. "I got raped by a chocolate donut when I was twelve....*shudder* it was horrible" this is one of the few canned things I use...I canned it myself, I think its pretty funny and everybody has laughed at it so far. "No but really...are you?" I told her I wasn't and brought her back into the group before she took away all of my mysteriousness. The rest of the walk was pretty uneventful, except for grins passed between me and S we
didn't speak much till we reached the finish line 45 minutes later. At the finish line I asked for her number over an Ice Cream cone, while A was busy wading through the line to get her free cone. While I was saving her number in my phone my father called me. My mom couldn't find her car keys...that was annoying as I had put her keys on the counter and they were right where I left them when she looked. I checked at my contact list and S' number wasn't there as I hadn't finished saving it. FUCK. I didn't really know if asking for a number again seemed needy or anything so I just said "tattoo me" and handed her a pen and my arm...she put down S & J "AIDS Walk Homies!" and then her number ad AIM down on my forearm. Smart girl. I walked S and C to the 57th street train station, then waited for my dad to pick up A and I. At that point I remembered I was signed up for the confidence webinar. I rushed home took a shower and went to the mall to purchase a mic...and I didn't save S' number or AIM....yeah silly me. A few minutes into the webinar I got an IM from a random girl and I didn't know who it was at first...when I asked she said it was S, she had gotten my AIM from A because she wasn't sure if I would msg or IM her...how right she was (though not because I didn't want to). All's well that ends well. Overall, this was my riskiest game ever, but outside of school game it was also my most succesful. I hope I didn't brag too much as I tried to make this as informative as possible, hence the length. ~Darkpwns
.I couldn't beat this guy in an AMOG battle.. I never game on the train. brushed my teeth. I knew that Eric being the funny guy would twist every message I sent to him and I was counting on it.. saw a movie and had fun with a girl. went out with my friends. tamed my curls. missed first period. Drama sucks folks. for some quick laughs to get me in a better mood.good job. Eric had managed to turn a "ew why do you have that stank face on" into "I love you so much Jasmine. so I send texts to two girls [Jairy (who was girl in vocal class). just two days ago he came up to me and asked "Hey James... and put on my uniform. Amanda (who is LJBF zone)] and use one of my friends (Eric) as the messenger for the fourth girl (A few days ago this friend wasn't a friend at all.. With non-verbal game you can do things that would otherwise be offensive or just can't be put into words. I figured the clique mediator would smooth the drama out. talking opportunities don't exist... Jairy and this girl Lourdes). So I hopped in the shower. ==================================================== Third period I have economics and my teacher moved me to a desolate corner a few weeks back for talking. it was great).. FML. I ran non-verbal game with the girl singing next to me.. after all you can't say anything really deep without saying anything (body language is a big portion of non-verbal but that's not what I'm talking about right now).I'd fucking kill myself before I would. Day Starts Out ---------------------I woke up later than usual. its mostly to get laughs. I like to keep up with what's going on in my social circle. but she's really loud and she's the clique mother of one of the cliques in my social circle. the ride takes 45 minutes on average. now let's fuck like animals" (i used this line later on today too.... Jairy informed me of drama going on within the clique that she and I were a part of. I can't speak in this class either. I go to school in Manhattan and live in Queens.. I knew I wasn't going to make it to school in time for first period. Jasmine shouted out loud "JAMES YOU LOVE ME?! AWWW" I replied to Eric "yeah its great we're friends" he changed it to "yeah..yeah. ..I should but its just so tempting to sleep. he was a huge AMOG and I had had an intense battle going on with him for a few weeks. More on this later. she's like HB7 (only two hot girls in my economic class. I got to school at like 9:10. it was like.I go to a theatre arts high school].. Naturals can game a girl from across the room if they have to and naturals are who we seek to emulate when we interact.5/21/09 Today I had a pretty nice day. befriending him was the only solution)..the other days its dance. we're friends right?" and I told him we were.. wednesdays and alternating fridays... Second period is my vocal class [on mondays.yeah I'm totally bad ass..7:30 when I woke up and school starts at 8:15. I want you to have my babies". Jasmine isn't really hot.pretty interesting. teasing the cute face she made when she hit a high note. I don't know how people can immerse themselves in it. =================================================== Non-verbal game is AMAZING.
her random yelling is freaking hilarious. Fifth period is my math class but we had a substitute teacher so I hung out at the freshman/sophomore lunch period instead." After this I attempted to isolate her to back staircase where I could kino escalate fairly quickly without her friends interfering. I didn't game anyone during this class as running text game in this class has more negatives than benefits and I was too busy debating whether dropping the atomic bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki was something that needed to be done and whether a 24 hr warning detailing the destructive force of the atomic bombs could have forced Japan to surrender without actually having to bomb them. she replied that I always confuse her.. ==================================================== Running text game in class is risky. I love doing that. HB7. I test everything out on the freshmen and sophomores its amazing how receptive they are to the stuff. the other girls at the table echo "Suuuuure you didn't" [Haha I own these people]. suuuure you didn't". you've got a twisted mind " ==================================================== Mishearing things is very powerful (and its freaking funny).that class is without a doubt the most boring class ever. The HB8 had been looking for something to tell me since Monday since I had cold read her. "You're going to be walking across the street. I finally got myself into a euphoric state.violent much? "I'm going to be having sex in the middle of the street and get hit by a car? What? Why would I have sex in the middle of the street? Girl. and the next time you say something which could have a double meaning they'd call you out on it. Miss Cleo told me that you're coming with me.. If you turn what they say into something dirty they begin to think dirty as well. I sat down at the table of an HB8. "Yeah. ==================================================== She says that's not what she said. I look out for my boys. but its debate heavy." wow. accuse them of having a dirty mind and that they shouldn't be thinking about you in such a way..P". The messages were sent to Eric unaltered because he's funnier than me and he wants to mess around with Jasmine (He's already messing with other girls).5 set that I've been talking to for the past few weeks."WHAT THE FUCK?" this time everybody started laughing. When they call you out on it. OMG I'M GETTING SOMETHING! *act like I'm receiving a prophetic message*. HB8.. ==================================================== Fourth period is US History. then you're going to see a fine girl and go 'DAAAAAAAMN' and stare at her ass then you're going to get hit by a car. if you act like you misheard something you can turn anything anybody says into something dirty. and you miss snippets of the lesson that might be important but it gives the girl the feeling that they're being rebellious (I only ran text game on Jairy). . This is my playground. and he could transition into other threads. I love debates... so once she found out that it was him just altering stuff they could transition into an easy flowing conversation about it. "Ok now I'm going to tell you your future *put my hands out and she lays hers on top of mine*. Nothing else happened in third period. She decided to tell me my future.. This time I texted her directly: "Thanks for the laughs Jazzy but you're still friend-zoned .
oh wait. I held her close and gave her a grin.' part] We fluffed talk for a while. giving me buckets of pre-selection.. I make the rules here missy. More often than not I push the envelope and I still get a good reaction. I shrugged." ==================================================== I'm always testing the limits of my dirty jokes. that was.tsk tsk" [cold read on the 'your eyes look so innocent. I didn't actually expect her to do that so I was sort of taken aback but I masked it well.like I said. she was sitting on the stairs while I sat a few stairs below her with my head in between her legs and she was massaging my shoulders. ==================================================== Her: "Oh. Me: "Ok. "You're getting turned on by my presence.it was better. Whenever I can I say something I generally wouldn't say...... GOLDEN! This was the first thing I managed to internalize when I began learning the game and I did it whenever the opportunity arose. and she kissed me.. your eyes look so innocent but you're actually a freak! I actually make peanut butter and banana sandwiches... my playground... come on! I should get points for that not lose them!" Me: "Hey.On the way to the back staircase all these girls stopped me and gave me hugs. its getting warmer down here.average. its all about calibration and monitoring attraction levels..don't tell me.. why do you have to think like that?" [A lot of girls always think I'm talking about my penis when I say peanut butter and banana sandwiches. Naturals say things that are WAY out there.. five points off" ==================================================== The point system is GOLDEN i tell ya... "Wow. yet it works.. After the fluff I looked up at her with a puzzled look "Hey. We got up and hugged goodbye. I gave her my sly smile.I mean who would put peanut butter on their penis?] I put my hands on her shoulders "Aaaaaaw....I'm sick at social circle game?)..tsk tsk Jessica. When I got her to the staircase she asked why so many girls liked me (I have no idea really. ==================================================== She blushed.. "SHUT UP!" she said with a huge smile on her face. Then the bell rang.. but I used it to test where her mind was at] "OMG that's soooo nasty. I'm trying to find that balance....NO!" "What?" she asked. give me a better kiss next time" this time she kissed me again. "I give them peanut butter and banana sandwiches" [<<<< This is my favorite sandwich... that plus four" Her: "But you took off five the first time" Me: "I know right?" Her: "How am I supposed to get the last point back?" . Just knowing this one thing made it easier to work up my prizeability.
. I texted my friend and .doing nothing..if there's no drama she's going to create it) The girl who is this in our group is called Tameka -Orbiters (these people are usually friends of people lower on the hierarchy or just want to be in with the group but don't have a place in it. I usually spend this period listening to music and sleeping. Jasmine is this. her job is to get rid of drama so as I found out today..I don't want to die having sex in the street you know " and I walk away.its true but once again I say nothing... all she does is make sure the girls don't fuck up and go with the wrong boys and things). -Bridges (these girls and boys bring other people into the group and organizes outings expanding the scope of the group) Eric..Group Mother (she may or may not be attractive.I wasn't at my best and I could've diffused the situation much better..I never game during this period although its the only time freshmen. Tameka. juniors and seniors are all together. seriously. ==================================================== Tameka was basically calling Jairy a dumb bitch who tries too hard to fit in. Everyone shut up. Later that day we had a group outing to see Star Trek (which I've already seen) so I texted my friend who got us free tickets and told him about the drama.. I sit with my social circle and the clique mediator of one of the cliques within my circle starts up drama with Jairy (this is what she was talking about earlier but I had no idea that the mediator was the drama whore.the way I see it Tameka is the one who tries to fit in but it's not my drama so I say nothing.Group Leader (this is generally the hottest girl in the group. don't you ever wonder how much BETTER it would be if you didn't have to make up things to be upset about everyday?" I was coming off of 45 minutes of sleeping. Lourdes didn't know what to do with Tameka and Jasmine didn't either but they still wanted to go to the movies and Tameka was invited. where do you get off telling people how they're living their life? I don't see you having a perfect life. Jairy and I are the bridges. Jasmine.Me: "Ask Miss Cleo to give me a better future. Dating in orbiter deems you undateable within the group) We've got about 15 orbiters (the junior class is only 52 people so this is actually a really large group). Sixth period is Junior/Senior lunch. One of our orbiters who is Tameka's friend comes to Tameka's defense and everybody in the group calls her a fake retarded loser who talks shit too much. It fell on Eric and I to make a decision so we decided that the negative feelings she would bring were not what we needed.this isn't what we need to be doing. Jasmine is about to go off on the girl so I decide to step in.. Lourdes then gets pissed off at Tameka for yelling at Jairy and calls Tameka a fat ass hypocritical bitch..she's generally not attractive.) ==================================================== Cliques all generally have the same hierarchy: .. sophomores. she receives the most validation thus holds the most value).... At my school we have an in-between period called Mid-Day live. enough with the fucking drama. she also doubles as a bridge. Lourdes is the leader in the clique with the drama ... . "Yeah.Group Mediator (she mediates all drama in the group....
but I needed time to think about how to mediate the situation. Me: "BOO!" Her: "Ahhh!" Earlier today (yesterday now) she had an event at her school where she transitioned into a senior. Five points off. I don't know how girls do it. Her: OMG you are soooo not coming over! I'm not that easy! [This is the worst ASD like...you know to watch a movie with.. Don't get any ideas. =================================================== After I got out of school later I texted S from the AIDS walk. well I got this movie in my hand and I'm dressed. I swear] Me: Yeah you're totally that easy.. her name is Stephanie (I put her name since she is now in more than one FR).... Flava Flav? (this is a joke that has to do with something in the first FR.. i'm going to a movie with my friends anyway. After the movie I went home and was about to watch Scary Movie when I decided to text Stephanie.... I'm just bored hanging around the house... I'll see you later.told him to hold her ticket....I mean we were watching an epic ass movie anyway. you can read it in my Journal on this forum) Her: FLAVA FLAAAAAAAAV! lmfao.and you're bored. I hate drama. Me: So now that you're a senior let's party and fuck like animals Her: noooooo i'm busyyy Me: lol.because that's what we're going to do. Oh! and that's five points off. =================================================== In high-school regardless of how much you try to remove yourself from it drama will chase you.it was a hard decision. Me: Wuts going ooooooon? Her: Nothing.. no I'm already a better player than you Flav Me: Riiiiiiiight. Her: for wat? Me: You used too many Os At the movie. tension from the day was released but nothing much happened.ever. you used too many Os [HAHA this girl used my line] Me: What? Ur using my lines now? What are you trying to be a better player than me.yeah I'm coming over pop me some popcorn. .
She leaned back onto my chest and I bit her lightly on the ear (she had told me that this turned her on before).are evil...gosh its long. no ideas. "That's all you get... that way if anything happened it would be her idea and she wouldn't have buyer's remorse. all I have is leftover lasagna" Me: "What kind of movie food is that?" I went into the house and asked if her folks were around even though I knew they weren't.I think I'll sit over here" I scooted a few inches down on the couch. When she released she looked at me with her best seductive look. She opened the door.. -Darkpwns .........Yeah I'm not going to get into how I get sex.I thought rape was supposed to feel.bad.this way I wouldn't have any LMR. Head off the cock honey" =================================================== Aside from the fact that I like scary movie.I got there like 30 minutes later.. but just making sure. Like an hour into the movie she put her head in my lap and looked up at me expectantly. =================================================== She obeyed my demand for a short time until she got aggravated that I really wasn't going to try anything.. Me: "Oh great. Me: "Popped my popcorn?" Her: "I didn't have any popcorn... She started rubbing her ass on my lap to try and get me hard [Girls." I was trying to get her desire to peak.boy I was hooked..] At this point my hard to get plan would just make me self-destruct so I flipped her over onto the couch.then that means you can rape me and I'd have no witnesses....." I kissed her again and put her on my lap. I didn't think I'd get it. so this is the end of this FR.. I wanted her to make the first move. Me: "Don't tell me this is rape. Me: "Hey I told you.. Then she pushed me back and started making out with me...