Alpha Male 101
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Table of Contents
Introduction....................................................................................... 4 Chapter 1 - The Body: It’s a Machine, Use it ............................................... 9 Chapter 2 - Style: Part James Bond, Part Jimmy Dean, All King of the Jungle ..... 16 Chapter 3 - Personality: Be Cool, or Die in the Trenches ............................... 21 Chapter 4 - Women: Alpha Males Don’t Beg ............................................... 28 Chapter 5 - Etiquette: The Finer Points to Ruling the Roost ...........................36 Chapter 6 - Skills: How to Be Good at Everything ........................................ 39 Chapter 7 - Friends and Family: Building Your Empire..................................44 Chapter 8 - Cars: The Drive to Dominate ..................................................48 Chapter 9 - Getting Paid: The World is Your Oyster ..................................... 53 Chapter 10 - The Fine Art of Partying ...................................................... 60 Conclusion - Once an Alpha, Always an Alpha............................................. 69
and trusts in his judgement. a Speedo will make you look like a try-hard. In fact. third. the alpha male is the leader of the pack. but not in a good way. follows his lead.In tro du ctio n
“Are you sick of being a ninety-eight-pound weakling.com
. the alpha is the go-to guy. So. we call it becoming the ALPHA MALE. and he gets first dibs on all the drooling ladies. And it’s about a whole hell of a lot more than getting a tan and looking good in a Speedo. or a girl’s best friend. the smartest. or a meathead.
Today. Of course. and a legend in his own time. your first official tip on the journey to alpha male-dom is this:
Hot tip #1: Never wear a Speedo. Even if you have a perfect body. He’s the strongest. no matter how “good” you might look in it. listens to his ideas. the second. at the time that these ads became popular.AlphaMale101. always getting sand kicked in your face?” This was the original call-to-arms for all you guys out there that had enough of being the little guy. advertisers were promoting a healthy combination of medicine ball lifting and the consumption of gooey green weight-gain formulas in order to make you the big. Whether you’re talking wolves. buff guy on the beach that got all the chicks. What is an Alpha Male? In nature.
www. or last in line – the one that’s always ignored or overlooked. He’s a hero. or baboons. lions. Everyone looks up to him.
Unfortunately. acquaintances. You have to work your way to the top with a deadly. and charm.You can’t just style yourself as an alpha male. baby. intelligence. that means scoring with as many gorgeous chicks as is humanly possibly. Of course. relaxed attitude to all the good things that come your way. This was 800
www. which means you have to be good at everything. you will be exposed and dethroned. If you try to fake it. Women have to see you getting your ass kissed by your friends. In order to truly get women to worship the ground you walk on. and having success at everything you do while maintaining a humble. Khan was a Mongolian warlord who conquered most of Asia and the Middle East to create the Mongol Empire. You have to get others – your group of friends. you can’t achieve alpha status through brute force. co-workers. many of them point to Genghis Khan as the proto-alpha male. you have to be an alpha. – to “elect” you as their alpha. unstoppable combination of strength. and knowing about cool things. They have to see you doing brilliant things. and it can’t be scam. All of which means this can’t be a con. It’s not impossible.com
. Great Alpha Males of Yesterday When historians look back through the ages. the ultimate goal of the alpha male is to pass on his bloodline. knowing how to seduce women is only a small part of the much bigger picture. etc. The curs and bitches that worship you today can just as easily turn on you and rip you to shreds tomorrow.AlphaMale101. Plenty of guys have done it before you. Because this is pack mentality we’re dealing with. In layman’s terms. family.
But that was yesterday. Alpha to the max. babe hanging around your waist – what more does an alpha need?). With raping and pillaging off the list of acceptable alpha behavior. watch their movies: Casanova will teach you how to make a smooth move worth a thousand words. Great Alpha Males of Today Some alpha males you can learn from today are:
www. James Bond. Read their books. Frank Sinatra will teach you how to party all night with a bunch of buddies almost as cool as you. Frank Sinatra. the last couple hundred years have brought us such alpha male archetypes as Casanova. and the man is still credited with building the largest empire in the history of the world.AlphaMale101. but they added the crucial element of style to the alpha male game.
These guys are still smart and tough. and of course. Not only that. The role of the alpha male has evolved significantly since the 13th century. well. and still come out on top. he’ll teach you everything the alpha male needs to know about multi-tasking (magnum in one hand. And James Bond. but old Khan conquered so many ladies throughout the course of his warlording that scientists estimate he has as many as 30 million descendents on the planet today.years ago.com
. martini in the other.
Jay-Z: He’s the ultimate well-rounded alpha. But he was. I’m never going to be the President. and he gets Beyonce. right? But consider Albert Einstein. The guy is unstoppable. and a brilliant artist. he makes incredible. His left hand grasps your right elbow. a sports aficionado. On the one hand you’ve got the obvious Brad Pitt type. and shakes hands. Hmm. His whole life. and isn’t afraid to battle it out over political issues with the majority of his countrymen. intelligent movies. he was a giant thanks to his intelligence. he’s a big star. George Clooney: The guy’s a chick-magnet. And on top of that. He’s hot. and his charisma. So he’s a great businessman. simultaneously friendly and dominant. and why not? The guy owns Def Jam Records AND the New Jersey Nets.com
. GQ magazine just named him 2006’s Man of the Year. or a movie star. or hip hop superstar. Watch the way he walks into a room. Any questions? The Different Types of Alpha Male Before you start getting all depressed and like “man. and he climbs right out of Jennifer Aniston’s bed and into Angelina Jolie’s bed. The true alpha is never afraid to be a hero. he’s one of the best emcees in the world. in their wildest imagination. but you would be too if every chick and her mother thought you were the hottest guy on the planet. everywhere he went.
www.Bill Clinton: Study him closely to pick up tips on how to be a guy that everybody LOVES. would look at a picture of that guy and say he was an alpha. even if it means standing alone (and he usually won’t!).AlphaMale101.” remember that alpha males come in ALL shapes and sizes. No one.
we’re always searching for the meaning of life. And what was his excuse to his various wives? “The women won’t stop chasing me.com
. And that means being an alpha male. not made. right now. being different. and be anyone that you want to be. is decide that you are going to make it happen for yourself. but in a world where a nerdy little scientist gets all the chicks.” That just goes to show that being an alpha male isn’t all about being physically attractive. Some people might say that alphas are born. not for a long time. Being special.” And how can you have the best time that is humanly possible? By being the guy who gets all the girls. that you can become anything. but what if we don’t find it? We don’t want to waste our lives looking. Why become an Alpha Male? Being an alpha male is all about standing out.
www. these are pretty damn good things to be. If you haven’t figured it out yet. As human beings. and becoming a legend. right? A good backup plan is to enjoy yourself. It’s about finding something amazing inside of yourself and bringing it out so that everybody can see it. being a hero. and tells all the great stories.It recently came to light that Einstein had dozens of lovers in his lifetime. has all the adventures. In the immortal words of Trooper: “We’re here for a good time. All you have to do.AlphaMale101. you’ve got to believe that anything is possible.
because you’re just living in the moment and having a good time and the party is wherever you are at. Attitude Approaching life with the right attitude can make all the difference. Always act like the best place to be is right here. If you walk into a room like you know you are the man. Use it
Attraction: You don’t have to be hot to be hot! As we’ve already figured out. fat guys do it. Bald guys do it. No one looks dumber than the guy who acts all bored with his surroundings. then you’ve got instant sex appeal.Chapter 1 . and other people will have fun because you’re having fun. guys with missing limbs and broken teeth and wheelchairs do it. no doubt. and complains that he could be somewhere better. Your attitude will MAKE it the best place to be. it doesn’t matter. And it’s all about two major elements: attitude.AlphaMale101. and street cred. right now. like you banged a billion babes before breakfast but you’re only going to bring one home with you tonight.
www.Th e Bo d y: It’s a Machine. you don’t need to be born beautiful to be the sexiest motherfucker that ever walked the earth.
Hot tip #2: The party IS where you at.com
. and like in the end.
if your friends and others around you treat you with respect and admiration (in other words. anybody but me.
If you’re seriously lacking in the motivation department. consider this: For an alpha male.com
. Have you really tried? It is a 100% guaranteed fact of life that doing any amount of physical activity more than you do right now will increase your fitness level. that have good coordination. You might be thinking. chase down a pursesnatcher. BUT. then women who see you at the club or on the street are going to think of you as a goof. It’s true. Men that sweat.AlphaMale101. Physical Fitness Anyone can have a hot body. that can lift heavy things. if they ‘elect’ you as their alpha).” But be honest with yourself. or reputation. and that live a physically vigorous lifestyle are generally more sexually appealing than men who don’t. If people treat you like a goof.Street Cred Next all-important element: street cred. Remember: there is nothing you can’t do. It’s about being the kind of man that is active and capable. physical fitness isn’t just about having a hot body. Just the simple ability to jump down a flight of stairs. “yeah. will make you an alpha male. All you have to do is get together the motivation. or help your neighbor move her new big-screen TV. then women will see you as the alpha and be drawn to your sexy male dominance.
Running is the single best way to get in shape. Join a team. Here are some things you can do to make physical activity a part of your everyday life: Run errands on foot. This is some of the best exercise you can get. you’ve already won half the battle. Get a dog. If you can kick ass and get your team-mates to look up to you. Men used to do hard physical labor all day. Definitely not alpha. Not only will a dog work your ass off running and playing.
www. Now they sit at desks. This is the perfect opportunity to get regular physical activity. A Saturday at the dog park messing around with Spot will get you in great shape AND score you a few phone numbers.
Self Defense As an alpha male. It makes you fast. In fact. Any sport will do. you need to be able to take care of yourself and the people you care about. as is carrying heavy parcels like groceries. and it’s a great alternative to driving after a night at the pub. Walking is great exercise.com
. Start jogging. agile. and it’s something you can easily do every day.Being Physical Every Day
First thing’s first: you need to make physical activity a part of your everyday life. Definitely not sexy. and to assert your alpha male dominance. By being physically strong. Dust off that bike and cycle to and from work. you earn instant alpha status. it’s a 100% never-fails chick magnet. and strong.AlphaMale101. cycle everywhere.
Most of the time. Then all you have to do is get your knee between their shoulder blades. If you refuse to give them an opportunity to do this.Physically fit alpha males attract people to them with the sense that they are powerful and able to be a protector. Only idiots fight when they don’t have to.AlphaMale101. In these cases. you have to have a good sense of when to fight. don’t try to be a hero. then dodge when they throw a punch. They also deter aggressors because very few people are willing to tangle with an alpha. You will be the jerk of the month if you get yourself or your date stabbed or shot. and when to be cool. a drunk at a club or a party just won’t back down. Easy Defense Techniques When it comes to drunks. if there’s any chance that you can get out of a situation without fighting. Of course. they will fall flat on their faces. guys who want to fight are just attempting to assert their own alpha male status. take it. they will more often than not back off. you can’t always avoid a fight. humiliate your opponent with humor or indifference. Basically. and tell them to settle down and you’ll let them go. Odds are. all you need to do is use their own intoxication against them. Get up it their face. If a mugger has a weapon. Sometimes. hold their heads. When aggressive situations do arise. If he doesn’t have a
www. Or you can be on a date and get faced with a mugger or attacker of some kind.com
. Instead of fighting. there are a few easy selfdefense techniques you can use to diffuse the situation without looking like an idiot.
wrestle your opponent to the ground and again get your knee in his back and pull his head up by the hair. such as a headlock. for you this isn’t about diet. Continuing to eat like a teenager is the number-one reason why men get fat. Think of it as a challenge to end the fight in as few moves as possible. not just until you loose weight or bulk up. Next. The key to slick defense techniques is to avoid panicking and flailing around. the more you want. fried food makes you fat. What you’ve got to do is slowly work these foods out of your diet. the better you look.AlphaMale101. which means that the more you eat. Again. White sugar makes you fat. what did we eat?
www. and the less chance there is of someone getting seriously hurt. it’s about lifestyle. The fewer the moves. Healthy eating Remember when you were a teenager? You could eat like a pig and you were still skinny and starving all the time. even as you are moving into the prime of your life (25-35). you can’t eat like you used to anymore. but for good. Consider this: what do heroes eat? Back in the days when men were men and women were women and we all went to Valhalla to party with the gods when we died. the first thing you want to do is get him into a “lock” position. Hopefully you enjoyed those days. Carbs make you fat. or an armlock. These foods are also addictive.com
. Basically.weapon. as an alpha male. because they are never coming back! As you age.
This doesn’t necessarily mean a lot of hard work. Not only is it good for you. fry up a steak and big pile of vegetables. If you’re always ready for a kiss. Boil some rice. All that divides these flawless bastards from the rest of the rabble is the EFFORT they put into taking care of their mouths. and vegetables. Some people. it’s time to start to think about how your mouth is looking and smelling. but so that they look good. then you’re ready for anything. People like this can drive you crazy. Whole foods are the key to healthy eating. and employers – than bad breath and teeth full of bits of food. Here are some tips on how to do this: Brush your teeth after you eat. because you think “what makes him so perfect?” But there’s no magic secret. it makes people respect you for eating right. Oral Hygiene Once you’re done eating. you have got to go about your business as though you are always seconds away from being kissed by a beautiful babe for the first time. never seem to have this problem. including alpha males. friends.AlphaMale101. From now on. fruit. the little invisible particles that get stuck are what make your breath stink!
www. whole grains. Floss! Even if you don’t have visible food in your teeth. Nothing is a bigger turn-off – for women.The answer: LOTS of protein. and they should be the only thing on an alpha male’s plate. and just like that you’ve got the ultimate meal of the alpha male. stupid! Not so that they don’t rot out of your head. add some spices for flavour and an avocado for a nutrient boost.com
Say goodbye to garlic and onions on everything.
Hot tip #3: Always carry a pack of mints. And more importantly.AlphaMale101. When a chick complains about her breath and you can produce. as does any good alpha. mints are just a slick thing to have on you.
Oral hygiene bridges that fine line between physical fitness and personal style.com
. you’ve just demonstrated the almost magical ability to provide that’s part of what makes you an alpha male. or show it off. They’re also great for saving your breath at times when you can’t get away to brush.
www. Mints are better than gum because you don’t have to chew them like a horse. You don’t have to get rid of them completely... guess what? You stink! Get your teeth clean once every six months. it’s time to start thinking about how you’re going to cover it. Once you’ve got the body under control. but if you eat them all the time.
(Unless you’re Fabio. for the true alpha male. In fact. She might smell you personally. huh? That’s because it is. things are much simpler. Skin and Hair When a girl is interested in a guy. unique personal statement that will let you roll like a baller anywhere in the world.AlphaMale101. Part Jim my Dean . Sounds easy. All King of th e Ju ng le
Alpha male style is all about style on the edge.) Wash your hair. or she might smell your jacket or your hat. However. no long hair!) Shave every 2-3 days. but they don’t spend hours preening in front of the mirror. and between classic taste and signature style. a
www. And that’s it. colognes. By balancing out these key elements. it’s big news. Looking like you put too much effort into your style can be a death sentence. one of the first things she’ll do is go in for a quick smell. (Shampoo and condition!) Get a regular haircut that’s easy to manage. Wear deodorant! (Sounds obvious. you can create a cool.Chapter 2 . Alpha males care about being clean. and hair treatments. and in order to do that.Style: Part Jam es Bo nd . right? But to some guys. the key to passing this test is to smell good. You walk the fine line between well-groomed and unconcerned. Here’s what you do: Shower every day. Some men’s magazines and self-help gurus might recommend a complex regime of lotions. Either way. you’ve got to be clean.com
www. and a day of stubble here and there. you’re not Inspector Gadget. you’ve always got to be clean underneath your casual style. and know in your heart that you are bad-assed enough to pull it off.
Hot tip #4: If you’re going bald. Once again.” Just remember. And the suit you wear to funerals doesn’t count!
At least five pairs of pants that are not jeans.
Dressing Like an Alpha There is no perfect outfit that’s an alpha male’s recipe for success. If you see suits and ties. Just keep your head shaved. is a good thing.bit of messy hair. This says “I do it my way. don’t show up in jeans and a tee-shirt. be permanently prepared for that first kiss that could pop up at any moment.AlphaMale101. After all. This is the only way for an alpha male to deal with baldness. and I’m not all hung up on looking good for you. shave your damn head! Don’t try to comb it over.
Here are a few things that every alpha should have in his wardrobe: Socks and underwear WITHOUT holes in them! One really nice suit. Any time you’re going somewhere. based on where you are.com
. try to close your eyes and visualize how others will be dressed. but that don’t require ironing. and who you’re with. The key to dressing right is to ALWAYS dress for the occasion. or anybody. Don’t try to hide it under a hat.
go to a sports store. and the best thing you can do at times like these is ask for it. and at these moments. just solid colors. baby! There IS a time and a place for ripped jeans and a faded old t-shirt. However.AlphaMale101.
Hot tip #5: Some style gurus might tell you to throw out all your trashed old clothes. go into a trendy shoe store. go up to her. Nice!
www. and ask for help.
Shoes Unless you’re one of those guys that know a bit too much about style for their own good. If you need sandals or runners. you probably have no taste when it comes to shoes. ask for help from the right person. Most men are either hopelessly scruffy. Think again. Either way. once you’re inside. One thing any good alpha male knows is that sometimes he’s going to need help. but that don’t require ironing. there is a space between your trashed Converse and this season’s Gucci slip-ons. smile. or ridiculously glammed out. And hey. an old pair of jeans will look sexy. Fact: men do not know how to pick shoes. Anything with tight sleeves that shows off your biceps is solid gold. Women love seeing a man getting his hands dirty playing sports or working on his car. your next decision will be to select the cutest clerk there. If you need dress shoes.At least five shirts with collars. No patterns. and you might come out of there with nice shoes AND a phone number.com
. Here’s how the true alpha male finds it: The first decision you have to make is what store to go into.
To Hat or Not to Hat Next. Think of Johnny Knoxville.Accessories Every alpha male has a signature style – a little something extra that he brings to the table that makes him stand out. in fact. but will get noticed by interested parties. a time and a place for them. we come to the hat issue. A vintage trucker hat can become an instant classic at poker night or at the beach.com
. Nothing too fancy – you have to be able to wear this stuff all the time – just something high quality and unique enough that people may. James Bond might never wear a hat. or running around in the cold. on occasion. he is a goof ball! The alpha male’s signature style is something subtle. Note: this is not a Hawaiian shirt! The Hawaiian shirt guy is not the alpha male. refer to you as “the guy with the really cool belt. alpha male to a group of very tough.”
If you have to go a bit fancy with the belt.
www. This is just the kind of subtle touch that isn’t over the top. unique stuff at vintage clothing stores. You can usually find really cool. try getting some nice belt buckles. just as a wool cap can come in handy for late-night cruising. was wearing aviator sunglasses. crazy guys. Suddenly everybody. He brought aviator sunglasses to the table. but different.AlphaMale101. but there is.
Belt and Wallet Begin by investing in a really nice belt and wallet. even Paris Hilton.
That way. simultaneously contributing to your signature style and your personal mythology. by the end of the night everybody should have their fly open. anything you wear will be unique and have a good story behind. As a rule of thumb. For example.com
. Alpha males don’t hide anything. They always look exactly the way they intend to look. NEVER wear a hat to hide something like a bald spot or greasy. unwashed hair. Example: if you’re walking around all night with your fly open. wear only jewellery that has been gifted to you. the fact is that you’re more likely to make a mistake than you are to score a hit. cool thing.However. because you have decreed that this is the new. remember when hemp necklaces became popular. alpha males have nothing to hide. Don’t be a beta. and again. This automatically looks like you are hiding something. like a small gold cross or your grandfather’s watch. Jewellery When it comes to jewellery. and that got picked up by every wannabe beta with ten bucks to throw away at the mall. No questions.AlphaMale101. heavy. and suddenly guys were wearing these super thick. and that means something to you. Second never: DO NOT wear a hat – even a cool signature hat – all the time.
www. because they’ve got nothing to hide. ever. mass-produced bead and hemp jobs? And the same thing happened with heavy chains? And with surfer-style shell necklaces? Those are all styles that one alpha male thought was cool.
Alpha males are always on the go. to have women chasing you instead of you chasing them.Chapter 3 . Think of your weekend like it’s a story you’re going to tell on Monday morning. you will become a legendary character – a hero in the lives of others.
www. and hilarious incidents? When you have stories like the latter to tell.com
. Whenever it comes down to a question of “to act or not to act. you should be able to get by on pure personality. they’re always ready to rise to a challenge or take a risk.
Hot tip #6: Turn yourself into a living legend. and to make all the right decisions and the right moves required to solidify your alpha status. and this. gives them a treasure house of exciting stories to tell. is being adventurous. and others to tell stories like this about you. and projecting that confidence. Part of being confident. This is a classic alpha male cred-building technique.AlphaMale101. Confidence The first golden key to the world of the alpha male is CONFIDENCE. Is that story going to be boring – full of sitting on your ass. and all the style to go along with it. then you’ve got nothing. Even if you’re a brain in a jar. the more the legend of YOU will spread. as an alpha male. o r Die in the Tren ch es
You might have the hottest body in the world. And the more exciting stories you have. Confidence is the thing that’s going to give you the attitude required to walk into a room like you own the place. in turn.Person ality: B e Co ol. but if your personality falls flat. strange encounters.” you must choose to act. eating pizza and watching TV? Or is it going to be a tale of crazy adventures.
you don’t act crazy or panic or scream or flail around.
Mind Power There’s nothing more embarrassing than a guy that’s bursting with confidence. the alpha male. are the wild man of the group. like some boneheads do when they’re talking about football. You just chill.com
. Being calm and in control means not gesturing elaborately. You have all this energy you can unleash at any moment.Be the Calm Blue Ocean Just because you have wild adventures. and you’ve just got to let it all wash over you. Whatever happens. You don’t freak out. happens. Being calm and in control does NOT mean being a control freak. but you can also absorb anything that comes at you without letting it affect you. even tone of voice. like some jerks do when they’re trying to make a point. This is a sign of your power. Think of yourself like the ocean: massive. It means not yelling your head off. Alpha males can always get their point across in a smooth.AlphaMale101. That’s why you’ve got to do everything in your power to make sure you are using every square inch of that brain!
www. but has nothing to back it up with. it doesn’t mean that you. no flailing required. The other side to supreme alpha confidence is always being calm and in control. powerful.
at any club.Odds are. they go on and on and on about this one BORING subject. Intelligence is demonstrated in three main areas of our lives: In the way we converse In our emotions In the way we treat others
Talking First. and bring it out.com
. you’re boring. However. and when you do.AlphaMale101. Guys have a tendency to get really focused on one topic. This makes it hard to meet new people. It’s full of stuff to talk about that other people can relate to. If you’re in a conversation. think about what goes into having a conversation. and you find that you’re doing all the talking. especially women. Sometimes you just can’t think of anything to talk about. you’re already a pretty smart guy. it’s time to change subjects.
www. if you’re reading this book. you’ll be able to pick up any chick. anywhere in the world! Here are a few basic principles to stick to when it comes to speaking: Always have several different conversation ideas on the go. and when they’re nervous. if you can master the skill of intelligent conversation. like cars or sports. without acting like an egghead or a know-it-all. Hint: try reading the paper regularly. You’ve just got to figure out how to take the intelligence that’s there inside of you. This is an area where even the most intelligent people have trouble.
In 90% of conversations. Know when to shut up! When the music is blasting and everybody is partying. Once you’re both laughing. “So. Enjoy the vibe with her. Here’s how: Try following up statements made by the other person in the conversation with questions relating to what they just said. This is one of the major reasons why it’s hard to carry on a conversation. “Wow. and you will just embarrass yourself with the whole awkward. funny observations about the scene around you. you’re only halfway there. The other side to intelligent conversation is learning to listen. the last thing you should do is try to have a serious conversation with a chick.” don’t follow up by asking. but you also have to know when to get serious. isn’t that really tough work?”
www. if you listen intelligently. as opposed to just giggling. what?” thing. Joking around is great. Try making light. they just wait for their chance to talk.In a first conversation – with a babe at a club. Maybe you can’t wait to argue about politics with someone. If a chick says “I work in a hospital. but try to get into some deep philosophy. what do you do for fun?” Follow up with. Listening Once you figure you how to speak intelligently.com
. you can try to steer the conversation towards topics that will actually generate some back-and-forth. “what?” “what?” “sorry. You don’t have the slightest idea what the other person expects you to say. but now is not the time. However. people don’t listen.AlphaMale101. for example – keep things nice and light. you can start asking her about herself. Once a level of comfort has been achieved. you’ll find conversations flow smoothly. make the occasional witty comment.
99% of the things that piss us off in this life are not worth our time or our energy.” If you find that you can’t come up with questions or statements to follow up what the other person has just said. when you’re acting angry. A great alpha male once said “Who gets angry? It seems to me that being angry is just being stupid. Unfortunately.” And he was right. if she says. last time they came to town. Return anger in others with humor. Face frustrating situations with the
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.. “Oh man.AlphaMale101. love them for it! Do NOT stare at a women’s chest while she is speaking.. you are probably not listening to them. nothing can hurt them. If you do get caught doing this. Alpha males know how to listen. own up.
Emotional Intelligence The next area where your intelligence shows is in your emotions and your ability to control them. “Oh. Try to really focus. For example. Denying it will only make it worse.” Say. Alpha males don’t get angry because nothing can affect them. I love the new Killers album. This is the best way to guarantee that you are not listening. “I just got new rims on my car. women in particular. and it only makes us look weak and ineffective to freak out about them.” don’t say. and that she is about to walk out of the conversation.Follow up statements made by the other person in the conversation with stories about your own life that relate to what they just said. Many men learn from a very young age that the only emotion it’s acceptable to show is anger. you look like an idiot. and people.
pick the “does the right thing but doesn’t let himself get pushed around” category. show your intelligence by treating other people properly. whether they’re your mailman. you don’t have to be that nice to your best friend). True alpha males are beyond these onedimensional categories. somewhere in between. Putting people down makes you look like a weak asshole. Generally. You might be fighting for that alpha male spot in order to hook up.
Hot tip #7: In men’s magazines. there’s always a big debate between which women like better: the jerk or the nice guy. there’s nothing like sharing when it comes to making friends. And don’t waste your energy. over anger. they’ll tell you: nice guys are looooosers. make everything work out. Women love to be treated like crap by jerks. Relating to Other People Finally. Alpha males are never stingy. It’s never a big deal to share. So treat people with courtesy. your grandma.calm certainty that you can. okay.AlphaMale101. because they have so much. your kindergarten teacher was right. A perfect way to show off what a great guy you are is by being GENEROUS. so be a jerk. If you have to be in a category. and getting women to want to fuck you. as an alpha. but no chick is going to give you a second glance if you treat other people like garbage. influencing people. or your best friend (okay.com
. The truth is that both of these are wrong. or risk losing face.
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This can be particularly useful when it comes to dealing with the fairer sex..
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. everyone else will have a good time. you’ll be able to control those around you with ease. Your own self-control allows you to control your environment. If you’re having a good time..AlphaMale101. and using your intelligence to its full advantage. If you’re calm and relaxed. everyone else will be calm and relaxed.By controlling your own emotions.
Understanding Women First off. you don’t have to start wearing eye shadow.AlphaMale101.com
. Laugh and party and make sure that they know you’re having a great time without them. And move on. and it’s all for you.Chapter 4 . Many of these tactics will work for you when it comes to making them notice you: Ignore them. the first chick to break the mold is going to break your heart. their shoes. AND their underwear. but you do have to pick up some of the other tactics women use to make you want them. you can start to figure out a few little key things here and there that will go a long way in terms of helping you meet women. They spent a LOT of money on their clothes. Now. They put HOURS into their hair and makeup before coming to the party tonight. Notice that women are trying to hook you up WAY harder than you are trying to hook them up. Once you’ve moved on. and get them to fuck you. understand women. They look like goddesses. If you think there is. notice something important. So accept that women are difficult and changeable and adorable and tricky and vicious and soft and sweet and about a million other things.Wom en : Alph a Males Don ’t Beg
There is no one universal secret to getting what you want from woman.
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having a great time without her. As an alpha. If she smiles. And that is solid gold.Flirt with their friends. About you. The Ugly Friend Never underestimate the value of the ugly friend.
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To achieve mystery. and once again. . Soon. you’re in. All alphas have an air of mystery to them. the life of the party. Remember.a.AlphaMale101. as though there’s much more going on with him that you see on the surface. you show her that you are: nice. As a rule. you don’t want to go much farther than this when it comes to actually chasing after a chick. just when she feels like you don’t even know she exists. not viceversa. drop her a smile. you want the women chasing you. a. This will only make you look weak and desperate. Constantly. brush shoulders at the bar. she’s asking herself questions about you. Unless she is of a spectacular and unparalleled hotness. not totally superficial. because what kind of man are women attracted to? The kind of man that makes them wonder.com
.k.THE MAN OF MYSTERY. By talking to the ugly friend. you need to be the three Cs: Confident (why is he so sure of himself?) You should already have this down. girls talk to each other. you don’t want to go begging after her. Then.
and when you approach her. and the more she’ll begin to ask herself “what is he like in bed?” Complicated (there’s more to this guy than I thought. or tell him there’s a beer bong in the basement. she feels lucky that you’ve chosen her. you might be able to score big points right off the bat by saving her from the aforementioned slobbering asshole. because if you do your alpha job right.com
. you might not even have to go to the trouble. she’s the one who will approach you.Competent (where did he learn to do that?) We’ll talk about this in the next chapter. But hey. Pretend you’re her boyfriend. it’s always good to show her that there are many sides to you right away. Body Language Even when you’re not talking. Losers give themselves away with hunched shoulders. The more skills you have. I wonder what else he can do…) When you first meet a woman. downcast eyes. If you can pull this stuff off.AlphaMale101. and you’re the star point guard on your basketball team. your body language is speaking for you loud and clear. He goes running. the more your legend will grow. Example: you’re an accountant. and nervous. Your attitude and body language make it clear that you are the alpha. Other guys (read: guys that aren’t slobbering assholes) are too intimidated to approach her. Assholes give themselves away with sneering faces
www. In fact. fidgety hands. she’s ever-grateful.. but you know all about underground hip hop.. you can get the hottest chick at the party to go home with you every time.
When chilling with a group. Their expressions are open and direct. the only one who can make the next move is her. Think of it like a game where you each take a turn. or press on.com
. And if you have the character to control yourself. when to be cool is crucial to the next phase in the game: seduction. they lean forward confidentially.AlphaMale101. If she’s into you. Let’s face it.and aggressive postures like leaning forward in a chair. and wait to see what she does next. but if you’re paying attention. They relax back in their seats. otherwise you’ve suddenly become overly aggressive. and when to come on. being able to read HER body language is going to be even more important. A girl that likes you can get totally turned off if you come on too strong. then your next move should be a pull back.
www. but there are also moments when a bit of aggression can go a long way. her hips and her shoulders will tell you what move to make. they sit at an angle that includes everyone in their group. If she presses on. or displaying tension in the upper body. When in close conversation with someone. their shoulders are not tense or slouched. odds are she’ll decide you ARE the right guy for the job. Alpha males do the complete opposite with their body language. As important as it is to master your own body language. then you press on for one move. If she pulls back. then you press on. standing in the shadows. BUT if she pulls back. Seduction Knowing when to advance vs. when to back of. You have two moves: pull back. too. you might not always get the message in her eyes if you’re staring at her body.
. Either way. But alpha males know that it works like a charm. one of two things will happen. This is
www. and she’ll get really friendly. the first kiss should be casual. it’s the most beautiful women that feel the worst about themselves. Often. If at any point you realize that it’s not going to happen tonight. you can just laugh and blow her off. Maybe you met a girl at a club and you’ve been dancing all night. wrong. follow one simple rule: flattery will get you everywhere. but don’t waste your energy on a lost cause. How they come off will all depend on the mood. have a good time with her. This is so ridiculously easy that most guys don’t even believe it’s possible until they try it for themselves.In order to help move the process along. When you pull back in this way. the first kiss should be intimate. Kissing First kisses are tricky. and she will melt like butter. wrong. You’re walking by the water or dropping her off at her place. pull back right away. or she’ll be left to mope over your disinterest all night. So tell her she’s beautiful. Maybe it’s the perfect moment on a first date. Wrong. you win. you’re both sweaty and full of adrenaline – this is the perfect moment to grab herand kiss her fast and hard. Sometimes. Tell her she’s the sexiest damn thing you’ve ever seen. Either she’ll melt into you or be so surprised she won’t know what to do. Have some laughs. And if she acts weirded out. and she’ll be ready to go the next time you see her. Either the girl will realize she’s being too uptight.AlphaMale101. Guys always assume that hot chicks know they’re hot.
it’s time for the old seduction back-and-forth. sex is no big deal. Odds are. so make it a winner! At a pause in the conversation. because SHE wants YOU. she’ll move in the rest of the way. If she holds the contact. then sex is not the center of the universe. pause and give her a last chance to pull back. If you’re getting your brains fucked out every night. move in closer. because you’re going to stop again. If she doesn’t move away. make eye contact with her. because they don’t need to. If she presses. she not only won’t pull back.AlphaMale101. then stop. you can have any woman you want. Talking about it all the time is like wearing a sign on your forehead that says “hard up. If she opens her mouth. Only people that never have sex are obsessed with sex. Fast! So fast you have her thinking that maybe it’s you that backed off. If she bites. at this point. too. the less you get it. if she backs off. or she’s probably not worth the time and trouble. After all. you press. For alpha males then. you bite. Sex Hot tip#8: Alpha males don’t kiss and tell.”
www. Women look at you and they know you have sex. From here on out. Using the stop-then-pause strategy gets it all done. On the other hand. Hopefully she’ll tilt. it’s okay. you’re the alpha male. Not only is her interest confirmed. Alphas never force it. you back off. When your lips are almost touching. Once she sees this side of you. One of the inviolable laws of life is that the more you talk about it. but she has to do the work to make your lips work together.. you open your mouth.the kiss that might decide whether or not you’re going to get laid tonight. tilt your head to the side to avoid a nose bump. but if she doesn’t.com
.. she’ll either jump your bones. any time you want.
Suggest a drink. Let her undress herself AND you. make sure it’s semi-clean. she’s not going to change her mind. This might be the perfect time to make a suggestion. you might be the one who wants to play a little hard-to-get.AlphaMale101.com
www. In fact... it makes her crazy. which means that when things get going again. You don’t have to make her come. Do what you need to do to make sure that you don’t get ‘overexcited’ in bed. it’s time to sit back. You might even want to slow things down. and enjoy the trip. the idea that you are not as interested as she is can be devastating. or excuse yourself for a minute. you do have to last longer than two minutes.Once you’ve finessed your way into the bedroom. On the one hand. it allows you to not appear overeager. Bugs and dirt can turn a woman off completely in mid-make out. relax. Now that she has mentally committed to sex. she will be ready to do just about anything to make you happy. Women are best in bed when they are eager to please. but as an alpha male. On the other hand. at this point. The “let’s take a break” strategy is money in the bank. If a woman has decided to have sex with you. If you bring women back to your place. Here are a few other tips and tricks to help you on your way: Don’t undress her.
Alpha males do not sneak off. Hot tip #9: It’s a fact: Alphas don’t sneak because they have nothing to hide. you stay. These just make you look like a jerk. If you want to stay. and nothing to be sorry for. babe.” or coffee and “need a ride to work?” in the morning.com
. or stay until morning. It’s either “That was awesome. No bumbling excuses or empty promises.
www. either get out of there right after sex. you’ll call her again. Later. And that’s what she’ll tell her friends.Last but not least. If you want to call her again. Don’t doze for a couple of hours and then sneak off.AlphaMale101.
Guys who have class always know how to act. welcome to a higher plane of alpha male-dom! Guys that have class aren’t just slick and witty and cool and together. an alpha male is able to control any situation that he is in. it’s like level two of the alpha male style game.
Alpha males set the standard for everyone else. And since society is basically your stomping ground – the territory that you hunt and defend – it’s worth figuring out the finer points of controlling it. because everyone around him wants to be IN HIS CLASS.AlphaMale101. So if he is calm. Basically. “Class.com
.” by definition. If he is smooth and elegant. the world around him bends to accommodate. but if you can get past the goofy-sounding word.
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Class We all have some idea of what the word “class” means. etiquette is the glue that keeps society together.Etiqu ette: Th e Fin er Po ints to Ru ling th e Roo st
Maybe ‘etiquette’ sounds more like something a chick in a Miss Universe pageant has to worry about than something an alpha male should concern himself with.Chapter 5 . you’ll see that a lot of the time. refers to a group of people. and always get the right kind of attention. By showing some class. always know how to treat people. which means you’ve levelled up to being a Bond-style alpha man of the world.
Go for a walk or a drive or go stargazing or chill out on the deck and have a drink. for a good table.com
. Classy alphas generally shoot a bit higher than “a movie. does she want to go pet the best dog in the world? Or maybe you have a friend that’s emcee-ing somewhere.AlphaMale101. he knows how to pick up a tab. This is how you create that “magical moment” that can go anywhere. He has reservations. She probably won’t have any ideas. but now that he’s asked.” End the date with an “enjoy the moment” experience. and he knows how to show someone a good time. She will. He takes her to a restaurant: somewhere unusual and out of the way.
Hot tip #10: The classy thing to do on a first date is to generously share something about yourself with your date. and usually will for a guy that shows some class. He asks her what she wants to do after dinner. For example. right in the middle of things. he can make his own suggestion.The Perfect Date A classy guy knows when to hold the door. you volunteer at an animal shelter. For example. or someone super trendy.
www. on a date: The alpha picks his date up knowing exactly where he is going to take her. interesting guy. This way she gets a peek into your life and becomes even more convinced that you are a complex. He tells her and asks if she agrees.
but you do need to understand that complaining about a bill. Classy guys buy rounds. Again. they do offer. it’s just wannabe classy. is not classy. Instead. but it’s definitely not the way to go if you’re trying to do everything right. That’s class.AlphaMale101. Okay. pick it up.
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. this will be seen as overly pushy. Make it your business to know about one great restaurant in every ethnic category in your city. When the bill comes. Especially with people they don’t know very well (first dates!). guys shouldn’t have to do it all the time. you get to say things like. is completely optional. BUT the fact is that truly classy guys almost always insist on picking up the tab.” This isn’t classy. like everything else in this book. People with class don’t fuss about money. In most circles. It just depends on how far you want to take your transformation into an alpha male. and when they don’t insist. Eating Out Classy guys know how to pick a restaurant. this. and women who expect it are hookers. take charge of ordering the wine. glance at it. trying to weasel out of it. you don’t have to do this. But this doesn’t apply only to dates. or worse. and deal with it quietly. It’s not alpha suicide. You can roll your eyes and demand that she split the bill with you. and take groups of friends out.The Tab Here’s the deal with picking up the tab. Of course. Another wannabe classy move is to order for your date.” Alpha males who know their stuff never bring a date to a plain old “fancy restaurant. This way. and a dessert for the two of you to split.
The more skills you have. The more skills you have. Just picking up one slim book of card or coin tricks can make you a master of the party trick. it is all about skills.
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. You are unstoppable. You are invincible. it’s time to broaden your horizons. shooters. Any neat little thing that you can do with cards. Party Tricks Not all alpha male skills are as difficult as learning new languages. It makes you seem learned and mysterious. like Spanish or French.Skills: How to Be Good at Everything
Men.Chapter 6 . You’ll only end up looking silly.AlphaMale101. or cherry stems will immediately pique a woman’s interest AND make for a great ice-breaker. and alpha males never look silly. These are simple. Pick something easy and useful to start. coins. Knowing more than one language is hot. easy to learn. the more people think that there’s nothing you can’t do. Languages Now that you’ve graduated to alpha man of the world.
Hot Tip #11: The Flaming Sambuca: Order a shot of Sambuca with Flies.AlphaMale101. Light it on fire. gears. unclog your sink. and boost a dead car battery. This is a simple shooter trick that doesn’t require you to drink anything pink or involving the word “Schnapps. and take it. And what’s simple to you is downright godlike to the clued-out masses. and wiring works. Do it slowly and it will burn you. toast to health. Doing something as simple as reading a couple of DIY books or taking a handyman class can get this all happening for you. They know how to use all the power tools.” The trick is to not be a pussy about it. Alpha males seem to possess an uncanny knowledge of how things work.
Be Able to Fix Anything How do they do it? We don’t know. Light it. They can install your DVD drive. they know how to work all the latest technology. You’ll get a shot with three coffee beans in it. alpha males must have all that general knowledge the lack of which embarrasses the average idiot. Basically. and happiness (one for each bean). Practice at home before you try this at the bar.com
www. Once you develop a basic understanding of how wheels. you can fix almost anything. and that’s why we love ‘em. And the truth is that most things have the same small problems all the time. wealth. Just figuring out how to jiggle a wire or tighten a screw can do wonders for your rep as the man with the magic touch. toast. and drink it right FAST. Do it quick and it will go down smooth.
. or the saxophone. Make a point of discovering at least one new band every week. Music appreciation doesn’t mean that you have to know your classical composers. Luckily. know your genres. like the guitar.) At least three albums on your regular rotation that came out in the last year. If you have nothing in your collection but country.AlphaMale101.. It’s the 21st century. or reggae.. There’s nothing sadder then being one of those old dudes that still listens to the music that was cool when they were 16. Branch out and make sure that you have: Party music Make-out music Mellow background music Music that will get people asking “what is this?” (and so your legend grows. Or
www. learn to play an instrument! Preferably something masculine. or punk. discovering new music is easy to do online thanks to music-sharing networks like Last. any at all. Last but not least. and have a few ideas about cool new stuff that’s not on the radio or at the club. if you have any aptitude for it.
Also.fm and Pandora. then you’re not ready for every possible situation. know what’s playing at the club.Music Appreciation Don’t panic. and have a diverse music collection. It means you have to know what’s on the radio.
you can use art appreciation to increase your alpha male cred. take it up with some enthusiasm. That’s money in the bank. Even graffiti can be a babe-magnet. Guys with nothing on their walls but pictures of sports heroes are creepy. there’s something artsy that you are remotely good at.
www. or paint.AlphaMale101. Art gives insight into life.com
. It’s about being thoughtful. Be able to recommend a great gallery or art house theatre on a date. or sculpt.
Finally. open-minded. and it can help you learn to express yourself clearly. if you do it right. if you can sing – so much the better. Having a talent and/or being in a band is a classic alpha male trait. Try some of this: Be willing to take in cultural experiences like museums and art galleries. There’s nothing sexier to women than a guy that can draw. and interested in the world around you. maybe if you can’t carry a tune. Go a step further and do a bit of research. Have you ever noticed how many frontmen in bands are alpha males? Practically all of them.hey. Art Appreciation Thinking about and understanding art isn’t about knowing your history lessons. If so. Being able to do this is WAY more important than being able to name a bunch of famous painters and sculptors. Besides actually using art to make yourself a better person. baby! Have some cool art on your walls. Go to an art store and get prints. Don’t just go to the mall and pick up some posters.
pasta. then learn to cook at least ONE great meal. Serve it will red wine and salad. garlic.com
. When the sauce is creamy. Strain and add a can of mixed beans. Mix in a cup of ricotta cheese. complex person.
www. and getting the ladies to love you: Boil pasta (rotini) following the directions on the package. and serve it smothered in fresh parmesan. and curry (three very basic spices you must have in your kitchen!). and knowing what to eat and how to cook is an alpha male essential.
Hot tip #12: Pasta. Get a jar of plain tomato sauce. Simmer it on the stove with finely chopped onion. toss it with the pasta. That’s right. tomato.AlphaMale101. Here’s a recipe for can’t-fail bean pasta that’s perfect for friends. Add basil. When it comes to dazzling the ladies. Showing a more thoughtful layer is what rounds you out and makes you a deep. carrots. oregano. If you’re the type that tends to burn water. Pasta is the best combination of easy and fancy that you can hope for in the kitchen. family. Cooking All the greatest chefs in the world are men. and green peppers.Developing an artistic side is particularly valuable to the alpha male because you have so many powerful. that’s usually all you need. masculine qualities.
club owners. all of which boosts your alpha status. Everyone looks up to you and needs you in order to make their lives a success. Again it comes back to the challenge of building up your personal legend. emotional currency. This is otherwise known as. as the more that people need you and like you.AlphaMale101. This is one of the alpha male’s most valuable resources..
Social Capital Social capital is. and fast service.Fr ien ds and Fam il y: Build ing You r Em pir e
In the world of the alpha male. your goal is to be at the top of any relationship structure you’re a part of. Here are some general tips on how best to network yourself: Remember names. always have a smile and a hello for everybody. in the words of the Wikipedia. etc.com
www. the more they are willing to do for you. and spend when you screw up). there is all kinds of currency: sexual currency.. cab drivers.Chapter 7 . great tables. But the most valuable form of currency may very well come in the form of the people that love and admire you. as an alpha male. “the advantage created by a person's location in a structure of relationships. One of the keys to building social capital is your ability to network. There’s nothing that solidifies your position as alpha more strongly than walking in to a club or restaurant or party and having a bunch of people eager to say hello to you. You’re a sort of MVP. These are the people that can hook you up with free meals. waitresses. Get to know people in the service industry (cooks. hero currency (the kind you earn when you do something great.
The last thing you want to do is rule over a crew of wimpy betas. the more status you gain by having them worship you. and don’t be afraid to talk them up. but all you need to do is rule your crew in order to be an alpha anywhere you go. Help your buddies out and make them feel good about themselves. in nature. it’s super important to always keep your core group of friends close. it’s well worth the effort. This is quite a bit of work. the cooler you are.
This means that it’s strategically advantageous to be a good friend.com
. dominant and aggressive. There are a ton of alphas out there. Remember.
Your Core Group No matter how popular you become. to help spread your legend and occasionally.
Family Alpha males may be tough and mysterious. Try to meet new friends on a regular basis. This is a question of dominance. they’re also generally stand-up guys that look after their own shit. which means taking care of family.AlphaMale101. and always keep in touch with old friends. After all. so the stronger the guys in your group are.
www. but when it comes to building social capital. to do your dirty work for you. Throw some chicks their way on occasion. but in the end. the cooler they are. which requires taking a certain amount of pride in your heritage. These are the people that you need to ‘elect’ you as an alpha male. being an alpha is all about preserving the bloodline.Don’t restrict yourself to one group of people.
if you’re not willing or able to get along with your family. let the little siblings tag along with you every once in a while. and try to sit down for a nice meal on special occasions. It is.com
Hot tip #13: If you have a little brother or sister. try hauling the little sib along on part (only part!) of your next date. and it never hurts to add more names to the list of people that think you’re a hero. a lot of the time they might be really boring or really embarrassing. The Pleasure-Effort Payoff Trade-off But isn’t being an alpha all about pleasure? you might ask. On the other hand. it will be seen as a sign of
www. but being good to them always makes you look like a champion. use them to your advantage. In fact.So visit your grandparents. But in order to max out your pleasure quotient.
Family won’t always be fun. run errands for your mom and go to games with your dad. guys who don’t do it enough will respect you. if you’re working on a babe that is proving particularly tough to crack. Taking them out for a day at the beach or the park is a great way to meet chicks doing the same thing with their little sibs. And you’re absolutely right. Women love men who love kids. if you take care of your family. It’s a simple equation: the more effort you put in = the bigger the payoff. and chicks will guaranteed admire you. On the one hand. sometimes you have to do some work.AlphaMale101. On the other hand.
triple your profits overnight. Every alpha male is an investment banker.com
. you’ll be as untouchable as any billionaire hotshot.AlphaMale101. and when you’re rich in friends and admirers. take risks.weakness by women and by beta males who can smugly tell themselves that you’re not so great after all. Cultivate it.
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AlphaMale101. As long as it’s not breaking down at embarrassing moments. urban type. making these kind of determinations is your prerogative. Not being able to fix a car.” As an alpha male.Chapter 8 . you’ll just look like you’re trying to make up for having a small dick.Car s: T he Dr ive to Do min ate
Now that you’re done thinking about the people around you.
www. even an old beater can work for you. you’re going to look like a fool when it breaks down on a date and you don’t have a clue what to do about it. If you’re the slick. you can get back to looking out for number one. In fact. and you drive with style and confidence. or having a car that you don’t know how to fix. These are:
Having a really nice car that in no way fits your lifestyle. Fixing Cars Having an old car is not the worst thing that can happen to an alpha. there are two classic car mistakes that are WAY worse than driving an old trans-am. Any car will be better than no car at all.com
. you need to have a car. If your car is ten years old. just insist that it’s a “classic car. As an alpha male. If you get a vehicle that makes an inaccurate statement about who you are. don’t get a hummer. outdoorsy-type alpha. don’t get a sports car. If you break the bank on some fancy European model that reads like Morse code under the hood. If you’re a rugged.
Hot tip#14: Using the beater to your advantage. This tactic is best used on a second or third date. Before the two of you head out, sabotage the car in some small way. Just loosen the battery or something like that – something easy to fix. Then, when the car dies on the way to dinner, you just hop out and fix the problem in two seconds. This takes the babe on an emotional journey from concern and disappointment to relief and admiration. In other words – putty in your hands.
Buying a Car When you walk into a car dealership, the first thing you have to be aware of is that every car salesman has to believe that he is the alpha male in order to survive. That means that any time you buy a car, it’s a battle for dominance between you and the salesman. The trick to beating this guy is not to use the aggressive, domineering side of your alpha personality. Instead, you’ll have to rely on the intelligent, calm aspects of your personality. Begin by going in there knowing exactly what you need. Do all your research online and figure out 1: what you want, and 2: what it’s going to cost. Next, go into the dealership knowing that the salesman is going to be using the intelligent, calm side of his personality, as well. He’s not going to be aggressive, he’s not going to try to push you around. Instead, he (or she!) is going to try to appeal to your alpha ego in order to get you to spend the most money possible. That’s the trick. The salesperson is going to kiss your ass. They’re going to tell you how great you are, and insist that you deserve the best. They don’t mind if you
don’t think of them as an alpha, because in the end, the commission they earn off you will decide the battle. So just be calm, and rely on the information you gathered before coming in. Don’t succumb to flattery or the promise of features that will make the ladies drool. Remember that the salesperson’s job is to act really happy and make you feel great. If you can make them uncomfortable and unenthusiastic about your purchase, then you’re on the right track.
New Cars vs. Used Cars As a rule, new cars are a ridiculous expense. The only people who buy new cars are the horrendously wealthy. As an alpha male with a good knowledge of cars, you will do just as well buying a car that’s a few years old, but that’s nicer than any of the new cars you could afford. If you’re driven to own the road, but your finances fall short of matching your ambition, you might even consider picking up an old Jag or a Mustang for a few grand and putting some man hours into restoring it. The benefits of this are threefold: you get to learn all about cars, have a cool hobby, and eventually drive something that you put together with your own two hands. It doesn’t get much more alpha than that. If, like most alphas, you’ve gotta have that new BMW, or that new Ford Explorer, you might want to try leasing it for a while. A good lease will generally get you a vehicle with all special features included for little extra cost, and it gives you some time to consider whether driving this car is really worth the expense.
Losing Your License The alpha male lifestyle can involve a lot of partying, but lose your license, and you are taking a step down the road to the sad, sad world of the washed-up alpha. The only way that you’ll guaranteed lose your license is by getting caught drunk driving. This is easy to avoid as long as you plan ahead. As an alpha, it should be no problem for you to delegate the job of driving home to one of your beta buddies. Even better is to rely on a female friend who is less likely to blow off her role as designated driver and get drunk.
Hot tip #15: Get a designated driver pool going with your friends. As the alpha, your “turn” to stay sober doesn’t have to come up very often, but when it does, consider hiring a limo. The cost of renting a limo for an hour is only about $50.00, probably close to the price you would pay to get everyone home in a cab. This is an incredibly slick, classy thing to do. If you only have to do it about once a month, your entire budget for getting home safe after partying comes down to $50.00 bucks a month. And so your legend grows...
Buying the Car of Your Dreams As you gradually grow into your new role as alpha male, everything will start to go your way, including earning more money. As you get richer, you will work your way towards affording that dream car.
you’re supposed to be generous. Get a subscription to a car magazine and take a class in car repair. that you know how to handle. You’ll actually get a car that you feel strongly about.In the meantime. and it gets repo’d. Doing this stuff will ensure that when the time comes for you to buy your dream car. and that makes a killer statement about exactly who you are.. Don’t fall into this deadly alpha male trap! Before you start to focus on spending money. you’re supposed to have everything you’ve always wanted and more. This is exactly the kind of thing that many alpha males do to sabotage themselves. it means starting to spend money you don’t have. it’s time to think about what you’re going to do the earn money. which means that you start spending money.
. it is CRUCIAL that you don’t get in over your head financially. you won’t just settle for the first penis-mobile that the car salesman offers you. maxing out every credit card that credit card companies are so eager to throw at alpha males. why not find out a thing or two about cars? Lease a few of your favourites for six months at a time. it will do serious damage to your reputation.AlphaMale101. You’re supposed to be rich. Whatever you decide on in the end. Often. If you buy a car you can’t afford..
If you’re on a date. you will find it easier and easier to earn the kind of money you’ve always wanted to earn.
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One of the main reasons alphas risk falling into that pit of debt is because it’s not in their nature to worry about money – at least not in a public way. just insist that you prefer to be in the stands with everyone else. The trick here is to make things that are matters of financial constraint APPEAR to be matters of personal choice. Employers are a lot like women – the same things turn them on and make them want you. taking this “no worries” attitude to money doesn’t mean that you have to go into debt. However.Chapter 9 . if you’re going to a big game. you don’t need the box seats. Alphas know that wealth is all about attitude. it doesn’t matter how rich you are. Remember.com
. not out of necessity – and only involve yourself in situations where you can be generous.AlphaMale101. of course. for the alpha male. take her to that inexpensive little Ethiopian restaurant rather than for fancy haute cuisine. others will believe that you’ve got it made. personal choice is the only true constraint!
Working for Yourself As you evolve into the ultimate alpha male. If you act like all the wealth of the world is at your fingertips. Simply avoid places and events that you can’t afford – but by personal choice. For example.
Whatever job you’re in right now. you can get something going on the side. want alpha males working right under them.
www. the alpha always prefers to be on top. If you’re in construction or landscaping. Ever noticed how alpha males always seem to have personal projects going that bring in some extra cash? You have two options here: go with what you know. Alpha males get noticed. The same goes for jobs involving physical or manual labor. start your own subcontracting business. Maybe you’re already doing this – but at the benefit of someone else’s business.AlphaMale101. you can move away from your regular job and start working entirely for yourself. because smart bosses. and they get those promotions. you can start to pick up some freelance work. If you do anything that involves pushing papers or crunching numbers. Of course. for example. As you develop your own clientele. you can turn whatever job you’re doing right now into your own business. After all. you’re the boss. you leave your fate in the hands of some potentially incompetent bozo. To get started. If you don’t call the shots.com
. or try something completely different. Odds are. You’ve probably been working long enough that you have a pretty good idea of how to run your own crew. that’s why starting your own business should be your ultimate goal. you’ll soon find yourself moving up in the ranks. like smart women.
AlphaMale101. Either way. If you’re miserable where you work. This is ideal for those who hate their current job. and your charm be benefiting a greedy boss? Your other option in terms of self employment is to try your hand at something new.To hell with that! What’s the point of being an alpha male if you still have to kowtow to someone higher up on the chain than you? Why should your skills. Or maybe you know how to beat every game that’s come out for Xbox.
www. Or maybe you just have a great story you want to share. you can SELL these stories to people. A good starting point might be to take that hobby or personal interest of yours.com
. Maybe you restore classic cars. easiest ways to screw the system and go into business for yourself is to start making money online. it’s time to discover your true passion. and turn it into a money maker!
Earning Money Online Maybe you hate your current job so much that you have to get out right this second. or maybe your grandpa taught you how to make flies for fly fishing. The small. The point is that there is probably something about you that is extremely marketable. and start an ebusiness selling this product or service. or to take that thing that’s always been just a hobby. your personality. One of the fastest. and that other people can’t wait to get a piece of. There are almost as many different ways to get rich online as there are women who can’t wait to boink internet millionaires. Maybe you lost weight and got in shape and you can tell other people how to do it.
restore. being the busy alpha male that you are. If you’re looking for a cheap way to make money with virtually no overhead. clothes – you name it.
Hot tip #16: Customization.successful business has been reborn on the internet.com
. so take advantage of this. Totally original. Of course. Anything that you can buy online in poor condition. And they’ll pay almost anything to get it. toys. We live in a world that’s full of choices. you can figure out the Ebay marketplace pretty quick. and then resell at a profit.AlphaMale101. which you may not have a lot of right now. they want it customized. vacations. you can probably act as a customization consultant. Example: old electronics or media that are worth a ton of money in Asia. These people don’t just want to choose between the green and the blue. houses. One-of-a-kind. furniture. this kind of stuff requires some time and money. And so even if you can’t produce something customized. It gives you access to a worldwide consumer base of billions of people.
www. If you can put a bit of time and effort into research. and it’s full of people with money to burn. Figure out what you can buy cheaply and sell for a huge profit. Break into this industry now and make a million bucks!
Another area of the internet that’s still ripe for the plucking is Ebay. consider getting involved in affiliate programs. This might include: Anything you can buy locally and distribute to a greedy worldwide audience. they want everything customized. This goes for cars.
It’s exactly the sort of work that pays off big-time if you are a natural-born shark in a sea of guppies. learn to play the market. Day trading is also the perfect compliment to the alpha male lifestyle. Of course. and every time you send some business their way. This is the definition of a business venture that is worth a try. The set-up fee here is basically nil. day trading involves working the stock market on a day-to-day basis. Then.com
. Day trading is the perfect high risk. buying stocks that are poised to perform dramatically over the course of the day. as well as investors eager to get in on the next big cash cow. Pick it up on the side. For those not in the know. almost as a hobby. You work your ass off all day in a high-pressure. you need some serious coin to do this.AlphaMale101. and make your money through earning commissions by helping others to sell their products. and reselling them on that same day. high stakes environment. high reward gamble for the alpha male. Day trading is another stream of revenue that you can easily start small with. Basically. start a website that sells nothing at all. and the risk is non-existent. and when you
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Day Trading If you’re not the type of alpha that plans on spending his days in the workshop or in front of the computer. the fast-paced world of the day trader might be just the place for you. but there are many low or no-interest loan options available to day-traders. you can work your way up to doing huge trades.You can. and become increasingly liquid. as you gradually make connections. you advertise for them. in fact.
The first thing you’ll notice is that gambling can be great if you have a lot of money to blow. After all.close the day that much richer. Understand this: alpha males are not lucky. None of these things make them ‘lucky’ by any stretch of the imagination. go check out a casino. The tables manned by cheering onlookers and classy babes are being played by alphas. Now look beyond those glittering tableaus. when you gamble. alpha males are all about getting lucky. and meet interesting people. you might protest. Basically. Aren’t we exactly the kind of people that DO take home the big bucks? No. it’s time to party! Blow off some steam and show off your earning power at all the best clubs and restaurants in the city. gambling is fun but it can become an addiction and ruin your life. if you had any real chance of winning. they’re walking zombies. But. They are smart.they’re not alphas. Walk around and take a few notes about the people at the table. See all the losers in their wrinkled suits with their red-rimmed eyes and greasy comb-overs . casinos and lotteries wouldn’t be able to stay in business. Just for fun. They are observant. They’ve got charisma and they’re good decision-makers. if you can grab that bull by the horns!
Gambling Like spending money that you don’t have on credit.AlphaMale101. Are you really ready to lose that at the tables?
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. This is one job that guarantees you opportunities to go interesting places. you are gambling with your status as an alpha male.
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. you will have no trouble controlling a table of poker players. Hopefully you’re getting good at it. but with each other. Play casually with your friends. and behaviours affect the other people in the room. Just remember to start out small. reactions. and use these observations to determine how you can control the way others behave. and ability to read others. you can develop enough skill at poker to be a winner.Poker All doom-saying aside.AlphaMale101. poker can be a great game for alphas to win big at. Next. command of body language.
www. We already talked about controlling your environment in chapter 3. Thanks to your amazing self-control. A good way to train yourself to be a killer poker player is to approach social situations with a poker player’s eye. and work your way up to those high-stakes tables. Once you can control a room full of people at a party. not just with you. Winning at poker is just as much about knowing when to back off and not get in over your head as it is about knowing when to press your advantage with a table full of lightweights. begin to test yourself. This is because poker is not so much about luck as it is about understanding and controlling human nature.
Hot tip #17: Life as a game of poker. Assess the other people in the room for strengths and weaknesses – figure out what makes them tick. because it can actually help you earn some serious cash.
opportunities to have a drink or get drunk will constantly be thrown at the alpha male.AlphaMale101. Once you achieve true alpha status. Even if you’re a non-smoker. Don’t worry about having a fancy lighter. Out of control drinking can ruin everything from your health to your reputation.T h e F ine Ar t o f Partyin g
One of the best things about being an alpha male is the partying. this is where you meet all the women. and make all the connections.Chapter 10 .com
. a bit of cheap plastic will go a long way. they might just follow your lead. drinking can get out of control if you let it. which means you’ll miss out on a bunch of partying as you’re forced to allow your body to recover. a lighter is a must-have in every alpha male on-the-go toolkit. Just bear in mind that you are at risk. If you don’t pace yourself.
www. In fact. there will be opportunities to party every night. Just remember: the key to effective partying is to pace yourself. Not only does lighting a woman’s cigarette make for an instant sex connection. Like business men who have to drink with clients all day to make a sale. And of course.
Drinking Like gambling. you can also use lighters to easily open beer bottles. you risk burning out and getting really sick. Others won’t judge you for it.
Hot tip #18: Always carry a lighter. just remember that you have the right to say no. But as the alpha male.
stop drinking at least a couple of hours before you pass out. um.For all those time when you do say yes. Eat something rich in carbs and protein. you have to work your way up to mass consumption slowly. drink just a little bit more than you did last time. An old Russian trick is to always have a plate of pickled foods (like. Mix drinking with snacking. You’ll find yourself drinking with the big boys in no time. make every second drink a glass of water. Every time you get drunk. and salty.
www. To do this. Instead of pounding them back. high-protein foods (like caviar). Being able to drink a lot without necessarily becoming fall-on-your-face drunk can be done. pace yourself throughout the night.
Hangovers The 100% guaranteed best way to solve the hangover problem is to avoid getting them altogether. on hand to go along with that bottle of vodka. if you follow these simple rules: If you’re not much of a drinker.
Hot tip #19: Eat. If you really want to max out your stamina. and be merry. and CHUG WATER. in order to achieve maximum merriment. Both will help to dilute the alcohol in your bloodstream and make you the hero of a bunch of hungry drunks. you’ve got to eat AND drink. In other words. or suggest a place for after-club snacking.AlphaMale101. pickles). so order a couple of pizzas to a party. drink.com
. You can drink more without getting destroyed if you drink slowly and regularly. you’ll have to learn to drink like a pro.
It won’t kill you. Medium hangover: Coffee and a big. Also. pills. although medical health experts will advise against it. so the more nonalcoholic fluid you can get in your body before you crash.Hangovers are caused by dehydration.AlphaMale101.” Drink a Bloody Mary. to avoid that savage morning-after misery. Feel better. the better.com
www. you wouldn’t have gotten so wrecked in the first place. greasy breakfast. swear that you will never drink again. but if you were worried about that. in the dark. pure and simple. So on occasion. here’s what you can do to minimize the damage:
Mild hangover: Gatorade and a jog. Hint: this is also the perfect hangover level for the “hair of the dog. mixing pills and booze is poison for your body. Yes. despite your best efforts. go ahead and take some Tylenol. take a couple of Tylenol while you’re chugging that water. If. stay in bed. you don’t avoid that hangover. Bad hangover: Water.
Cocktails All alpha males should know how to mix some fun drinks. sugar. Here’s how to throw together the classic margarita style with the sweetness that makes it a panty-remover: 2 oz. unblended. or at least how to order a fun drink for a babe at the club. They were also served without sugar to sweeten the lime and tequila.com
. rum. and ice. Raspberry Sourpuss Equal parts pineapple juice and Seven Up Ice and a cherry The Mojito: 2 oz.AlphaMale101. Add lime juice. and stir it well before topping it off with club soda. Garnish with lemon and mint if you’re feeling fancy. Gold tequila 3 tablespoons of lime juice
www. margaritas were served on the rocks. The “Original” Margarita: Traditionally. Light rum 3 tablespoons of lime juice A few sprigs of fresh mint 2 teaspoons of sugar Club soda and ice Coat the inside of a tall glass with crushed mint. Vodka 1 oz. Here are a few simple ones for the road: The Jelly Belly: 1 oz.
Only whip out your drink-making skills on special occasions. Instead. Soon. a five. you probably already know the difference between these wines. and Zinfandel. Merlot. And remember. which is determined by what type of grape is used to make the wine. The scale from dry to sweet goes from one to five.com
. Other need-to-knows: The difference between dry and sweet wines. In fact. are actually the names of the grapes used to make them. you’ll be able to name the differences that you’ve always tasted. then in a shallow dish of salt to create the classic salty rim. If you’ve ever drank any wine at all. After all. with very dry being a zero. The major distinguishing factor amongst wines is flavour. like Cabernet Sauvignon. subconsciously. Chardonnay. All you have to do now is start to pay attention to what you’re drinking. Pinot Gris.AlphaMale101. and very sweet. Fill the glass completely with a mixture of 2/3 ice cubes and 1/3 sugar cubes. Pinot Noir. the names of wines. get to know your fine scotches. even if you know how to make them. alpha males don’t play bartender for just anybody. and order all hard alcohol “on the rocks.”
Wine/Champagne Appreciation Getting to know wine is all a matter of practice. you should not be caught dead sipping anything pink with a little umbrella in it.Immerse the top rim of the glass in a shallow dish of water. Generally
climates. especially about their travels. Other sparkling wines are imitations of this style of wine. Part of the excitement of travel is that it involves putting yourself in situations where you alpha power is constantly tested.AlphaMale101.
Travelling Alpha males are fearless. choose a red wine for red meat and pasta dishes. avoid the sweet wines.when buying a bottle. adventurous. These are more for after-dinner sipping than fine dining or styling women. The difference between sparkling white wine and champagne. For example. Dry wines go down much smoother. only a bottle that actually says “Champagne” on it contains champagne. Chilean. you conquer the world like the Vikings and Conquistadors of old. Champagne itself is a sparkling white wine. What kind of wine goes with what food? As a rule. afraid to take risks. The country a wine comes from is important. try picking a wine that goes with your food. but should not accidentally be referred to as champagne. many of which are very good and very expensive. While others sit on their asses. Languages.com
. and they’ve got a million great stories. All champagne comes from the area of France known as Champagne. saki or plum wines make a nice addition to a meal of Chinese food. and a white wine for chicken and fish. and Australian wine that you can pick up at a moment’s notice. Being well-travelled is just one of those things that make you a better alpha male. Italian. If you’re eating ethnic food. It’s a good idea to have a favourite French. However. and customs
Try to be at least halfway familiar with the language.AlphaMale101. Be relaxed! If something goes wrong or if you get lost. and avoid expressing confusion or fear that could make you a target for those who prey on tourists.
Hot tip #20: Friends all over the world. for sports betting. There are two. meet hot foreign women with the benefit of an official introduction. Rather than being embarrassing.com
. don’t panic. Even if you’re not going to be hitting the road for a while. And being able to meet up with them on their own turf is the best way to experience a foreign place and of course.that are completely outside of your comfort zone mean that you run the risk of being seriously dethroned. Just participating on a message board for your favourite band. And don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it. which is key to enjoying yourself while travelling. your willingness to admit you need help will help you make friends with the locals. it’s time to get online and start meeting people from all over the world.
www. or for any other hobby you’re already into can get you connected with all kinds of people. just go with it. slightly contradictory ways to avoid getting in trouble while on the road: Be prepared! Do your research so that you have some idea what you’re getting into.
Australia and New Zealand offers a great combination of rugged outdoor adventure and hardcore urban partying. and bang all the pouty. and get a taste of real high living. party at all the coolest clubs. alphas with a desire to explore the great unknown have taken long trips (6 months – 1 year) to destinations that promise mystery and adventure. Engage in some serious partying on short trips to global party centrals.com
. New York City: If you can survive here. you can survive anywhere. Thailand and Vietnam are hot right now because they’re cheap and they don’t hate tourists. pissed-off New York babes you can handle. scale mountains. Morocco: Follow in the footsteps of Ernest Hemingway and tangle with bulls. Las Vegas: You’ll never believe it until you experience it for yourself. It can also be a very cheap destination if you get a vacation package through a big casino.
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Italy.AlphaMale101.Hot Destinations You’re about to conquer the world. But where should you begin? Alpha males that have come before you have chosen from these different paths: Travel in the steps of the greats: Throughout history. Here you can eat at all the best restaurants. The party never stops in Las Vegas. NYC is the gritty urban centre of the world. and everybody is there to have a good time and meet guys just like you. Spain.
. specifically for the alpha male. This is the ultimate option for the alpha that has seen all and done all and just wants to hack at some brush with a machete. and don’t want to spend it sitting on the beach. and meet some seriously world-class women. relatively safe environment. Party all night in a laidback. The newest thing to hit the travel scene is adventure travel. Designed. Amsterdam: This is where the whole world comes to play. it seems. There are plenty of party boats and party palaces that are saying NO KIDS ALLOWED and they offer sweet vacation packages in tropical paradises that are designed specifically to help you hook up and party your ass off. Long-distance hiking will test your mettle and clean out your body. Alphas with serious hero-complexes like to get themselves in over their heads volunteering for aid organizations in South America and Africa.Caribbean: Cruises and resorts aren’t just for families and retirees anymore. A great choice for the alpha super-athlete.
www. these adventures are the perfect option for alphas who need a vacation from babes and partying. White-water rafting is a killer rush for alphas looking to enjoy some gorgeous scenery and life-or-death situations.
and your legend will grow. and become fairly set in their ways. On the plus side. and that have ‘elected’ you as their alpha are going to expect a lot from you. Negative Alpha Qualities to Guard Against You can go back to your old life. you’ve done it all. you might start to notice that it’s not all fun and games. and you get used to everyone looking up to you and relying on you. you must know it all.AlphaMale101. every time you do come through. you can always just stop coming through and go back to your old. they will look to you for help. You’ve seen it all. There is just so much power and control and so many rewards that come along with being the alpha that it’s easy to get stuck in the cycle of power and gratification..com
. or they’re in trouble. By now. and they’ll expect all kinds of amazing answers and solutions from you because that’s just what you do. The Burden of the Alpha Male As alpha. as alpha male. They’ll depend on you to come through for them. no-pressure lifestyle. most alpha males get addicted to their alpha status. your hero status will go up a notch.. all the people that look up to you. it will get easier and easier to fit into a routine where you are
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It won’t be long before you reach the point when you feel untouchable.
guys. and you can become incapable of being open to new ideas. the challenges. Luckily. tricks.AlphaMale101.com
. the powerful qualities that have done so much for you can turn against you: Your confidence can become arrogance. Your risk-taking nature can become dangerous and escalate until a disaster occurs.. At this point. not that you’ll need it. you can gain in-depth access to all the tips. By signing up for Alpha Male 101’s exclusive Private Membership Library. and lead to mistakes.
www.. the lifestyle. by learning to relax and meeting the challenges of life head-on. and can’t-fail techniques that have been building alpha males ever since the first caveman clubbed a cavewoman on the head and dragged her back to his cave. and where you always have to be in charge. and you’ll never fall into the traps that can devour alpha males as they age. and lead to the inability to have deep relationships. Your coolness and your ability to rise above it all can become indifference. So remember this one last thing: you got here by being open to learning new things. Your self-assurance can become tunnel vision. Never stop evolving in these same ways.always right. Good luck. even if that meant risking your personal comfort. and the glory of the alpha male. You’ve probably already got a million questions about things you you’re not sure about. This has only been a brief introduction to the world. this is only the tip of the iceberg.