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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You‘re ―Small‖, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12

Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of ―Loser Lovers‖............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The ―NO Pump Chump‖ ....................................................................................... 14 3) The ―Robot‖ .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The ―Follower‖....................................................................................................... 15 5) The ―Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16

Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn‘t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29

Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You‘re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67

Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The ―Not Fun‖ But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You‘ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

and it‘s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I‘m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that‘s going to completely change you and your lover‘s sex life forever. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. 54 percent of married men weren‘t aware that their wives were cheating. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. let‘s talk about relationships and sex for a second. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don‘t know of their spouse‘s extramarital activity. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. The facts don‘t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. and it‘s all because you are having terrible sex. and that‘s from the National Center for Health Statistics. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn‘t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. divorce. Also. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. FOR ONCE. was begging to have sex with you??. Let‘s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. Awful! 1|Page .

I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. The first time I had sex I was 22. what car you drive. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don‘t they love you? Or are they just nasty. I‘m not an athlete. or if you take out the trash. As you keep reading you‘ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. Who Am I. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. Women won‘t tell you this. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. and not know where her lips have been. unappreciative people? A guys doesn‘t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. I‘m not even a millionaire. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn‘t satisfied and started doing something about it. Real-life. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. My lowest point though. would come crashing to a passionless halt. and blurted out that it was because I wasn‘t man enough and 2|Page . as I‘ve tried to keep my life private. She was blunt. she will be yours for life. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn‘t care! Inevitably my relationships. Luckily.The Cheat-proof. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. no matter how much I liked her. I'm not a celebrity. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed.

Now. Remember that infomercial with the guy ―Bob‖ who couldn‘t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. what happened was that through my own experimentation. EVERY TIME. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. I still have my day job as a business consultant. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. Once you "get it‖—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. When I did get back in the game. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I read hundreds of books. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!).couldn‘t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years.

When you are satisfied you don‘t crave more.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. because as a man. girlfriend. she doesn‘t even have the temptation. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. and better sexual skills than you. better looks. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. Most 4|Page . They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT.

so take a deep breath. anyone can have sex in Brazil!‖ So I scrapped together some cash. I was a complete loser. I‘m not proud of this.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. had never kissed a girl. it‘s funny.guys don‘t know what I‘m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women.. I didn‘t lose my virginity until I was 22.. turn off your email and phone. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn‘t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. You‘ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I‘m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. I haven‘t always been good in bed or good with women. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. He was like. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. Actually. and he knew this. . 5|Page . I didn‘t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. and let‘s get started! I‘m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. In fact. One woman told me that I didn‘t satisfy her like a ―real man‖ (that sucked). Please don‘t laugh. laugh all you want. ―Come to Brazil..

I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . While I‘m fumbling with the loose condom she‘s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. we couldn‘t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. I met this girl who barely spoke English. I finally made it into the promise land. It felt so good. I‘m thinking in my head ‗Please don‘t touch me yet. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. I was really only a poor college student.‖ anything to distract myself..God. Somehow she liked me. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. Algebra. So THIS was it! Haha.. Math. Once I was naked. Meanwhile.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. ―Calm. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. but what did she know.. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me..‖ I‘m thinking.. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. Please don‘t.ARGH! . the most I‘d ever gone out. I‘m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. In the hotel room. calm. her tits are great!‖ As I sat down on the bed awkwardly.

pathetic little boy. said something in Portuguese. . The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. It wasn‘t that they were so huge. I just want you to know how bad I was. I‘d watch online porn and I‘d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. and pushed me off of her.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. They had complete control of pleasing these women. 7|Page . I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. making the girls scream with pleasure. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. they were going fast and aggressively. and feeling like a small. They could do those moves and there was no fear of ―losing it‖.. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. but it was that they‘d last forever. And they weren‘t having sex slowly.. And for a long time I was in denial. even though it definitely played a part in my mind.just kept pumping away. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. but I had no idea what to do about it.

pal?!‖ It sounds comical. I had absolutely no control over when I came. I was like. cumming immediately. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. but I‘m guessing that you know what I‘m talking about because all my guy friends say. I couldn‘t get hard at all. After three years of wild experimentation. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. ―What is wrong with you. ―Yeah. but when you wait longer. The first times I‘d had sex I got really hard and couldn‘t last. That‘s what happened my first time. So either way. So to try and turn my sex life around. and I figured I‘d do trial and error until something works. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. It wasn‘t one of those things you were born with. 17 years old like a normal guy. struggling with this issue! So it‘s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. I would massage her breasts and I‘d squeeze her ass. videos. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. I remember that. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. seminars. I‘m going to take all the stuff that I‘ve learned from all these books. I‘d do 8|Page .‖ But for them. I would kiss her for a while.I didn‘t know how these guys could do it. I got to the point where even though I couldn‘t last very long. I had to learn how to do it. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. And the second time I had sex. 16. and I was at 23. their first time was at 16.

Finally. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. Most importantly though. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn‘t that hot (I hope she isn‘t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. that‘s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . I‘m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!‖ It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. learning where her trigger spots were.all sorts of other stuff. regardless of the girl I ended up with. but I didn‘t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. No question I was the best sex that she‘s ever had! For me though. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say ―hands-on‖ field study. So I moved on and started dating other girls.. 50 minutes — even an hour. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. ―Oh goddd. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. I‘d last so long that sometimes she‘d even moan. ―oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!‖ But now we‘re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her.

was ready to meet the challenge. I need a hug. Or they‘d be like ―Oh.‖ I‘d try and show them how special they were. They‘d literally say ―I LOVE having getting it on with you!‖ I almost couldn‘t believe my eyes and ears. something that seemed to work with every girl.. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I‘m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. These girls started to love it. It was getting out of hand. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god.‖ which would be a code-word for let‘s just go into your bedroom and have sex. I had to do 10 | P a g e . But something started to happen. or Have A Small Bank Account. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. Sure. but they didn‘t seem satisfied. I‘d hear ―I want to take a nap. I bought you a necklace. let‘s go out for a fancy dinner. . I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better.‖ which was always a code word for hugging me and then they‘d start grabbing me and rubbing me. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we‘d had sex a few times I‘d be like. I was having sex whenever I wanted. But I now had something that most other guys don‘t have.. practically tearing my clothes off. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend.Even If You‘re ―Small‖. they‘d take the necklace. Here. every time. ―Hey. They wouldn‘t be interested in dinner.

I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. you‘re going to have to last. It changed who I am. And if you can‘t give a woman good sex. You don‘t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e .‖ Well that‘s definitely true — but the same goes for women. and you will get the sex you‘ve always wanted. It‘s what we think about all day long. ―A man is only as faithful as his options. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or ―busting‖ too quick. I don‘t want guys feeling this pain. more and more.something with this power I had developed. No more not feeling like a man. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. humiliation. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. she‘s not going to treat you well. You‘re here because of sex. It‘s what I‘m thinking about at this café I‘m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. Chris Rock once joked. she‘s not going to want to have children with you. How to give women the best sex of their life. and she‘s going to be looking for other options. who have given up and faced rejection. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. If she only knew! More importantly. she will want you more and more. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women.

is that you‘re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. last as long as you want.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you‘re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don‘t want that for you. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. These problems you‘re having. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you‘re doing. problems I used to have. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. really easy for you. you‘ll know the psychology in what‘s actually going on during sex. You don‘t need to have sex with 5. You‘re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. to where she‘s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. 12 | P a g e . and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. When you‘re actually experienced and you‘ve studied my method. just make sure it stays between us.

I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. We will address that in a moment. full-body orgasms. You can‘t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. So to get started. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don‘t last the required time to give women deep. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of ―loser lovers‖ that all women secretly HATE. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. so really think carefully. 13 | P a g e . ―Is this ever me?‖ Be honest with yourself.Chapter 2 The Six Types of ―Loser Lovers‖ Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. This affects nearly EVERY guy I‘ve ever worked with. If you‘re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. so don‘t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. Women are the same way.

And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion.2) The ―NO Pump Chump‖ The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. 14 | P a g e . now touch that. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. the limper you become! But don't worry. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. 3) The ―Robot‖ The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. They are thinking of ―Touch this. in the bedroom and outside it. they can‘t get hard. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. keep a straight face‖…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel.

but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed.4) The ―Follower‖ Guys who don‘t show they are in charge look weaker. They want you to be in charge. it‘s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . Obviously. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. The sex will be less exciting and she won‘t think you‘re a real man. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don‘t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. It doesn‘t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. Show her you know what you want. not confident and slightly feminine. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. Show her how much you want her. ―Does this feel ok?‖ Once or twice is good. at some times the emotional.

crazy shit. they‘re not based on feelings. 16 | P a g e . I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn‘t feel good about doing it. 6) The ―Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way.. almost every woman said ―doggy-style. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex.interaction. he thinks he is this guru and he‘s doing all sorts of weird. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they‘re all based on the physical. They‘re always trying to do something weird because they think they‘re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don‘t really know anything.‖ They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. she‘ll be sexually pleased.. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks ―What is this guy doing?‖ He‘s trying so hard.

To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e .. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face.. and everyone is one of them at times — I‘ve been all of them — you‘ve really got to examine what you‘re doing wrong and then we‘ll adjust to the right way of doing things. But fortunately. Of course. this is what comes out. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed.So if you think that you‘re any of these.

Then. 18 | P a g e . But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn‘t important enough or was acting needy. It‘s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. There is no nagging. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. had a headache. Now let‘s get into the visible signs that you‘re going to see when you‘re sexually satisfying her. I‘d be a very rich man today! In reality. just not with me. She is sitting on his lap.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. charm. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. or even social status. or was stressed and not in the mood. Think about when you‘re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. but I had to face the truth. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. looking back on it. because I couldn‘t satisfy her. It was so painful to admit that to myself. what‘s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. or always trying to hold his hand. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. I remember when I was a poor lover I‘d always want to see my girlfriend. or kissing him. looks.

The more that she initiates sex. that is the same thing. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. most women do not have sex just to ―have sex. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. Take note however. so in this case.‖ They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex.Sign #1 . the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. Unlike many men. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. When a woman is initiating sex with you.

Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can‘t ―get‖ her to have sex. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive.‖ ―I need a massage. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. the sex won‘t happen. chances are that she is initiating sex. ―Let‘s take a nap. They will say things like.‖ or ―Lets watch a movie. She doesn‘t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed.‖ ―I need a hug. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . Just stay calm. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don‘t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. and don‘t try and skip that step.she wants to have sex right now or that night.‖ If you are hearing things like this.

―I‘ m always getting nagged to do chores.‖ ―She tells me that I watch too much TV.‖ ―She says that I don‘t make enough money.‖

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple O Feeling of Attraction towards you

Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I‘m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind ―set‖ on. If you‘ve been ―set‖ on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that‘s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you‘re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I‘ve seen incredible change in myself, and I‘ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn‘t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn‘t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there‘s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don‘t see it because you don‘t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don‘t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won‘t see the change unless you believe it. If you‘re thinking ―This isn‘t going to
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work‖ then it won‘t! But if you keep doing what you‘ve always been doing, you‘re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can‘t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they‘ll be good in bed, but she won‘t orgasm. Guys — if you‘re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, ―Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.‖ I was like, ―Mike, if that‘s what‘s happening I‘m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you‘re so good with, and they really like you. I can‘t help you.‖ I felt like there must‘ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, ―Well, tell me a little bit more.‖ And he goes, ―Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.‖ So, ―Well, Michael, I don‘t really think that‘s the case. How many girls has that happened with?‖ He goes, ―It‘s happened with 37.‖ ―So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you‘re telling me that 37 girls that you‘ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?‖ I‘m like, ―That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don‘t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.‖ To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he‘d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you‘re doing isn‘t working. If you think you‘re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program‘s not for you. You‘ve got to realize that you

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and she‘s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn‘t Make Me Less of a Man It‘s ok to get help. That‘s basically ―experienced-based learning. programming a computer. but they are not. you can still get better. you‘re not where you need to be. anything. I used to think. If your girl isn‘t trying to have sex with you all the time.‖ That‘s not true. learning a language. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. And no matter how good you think you are. women need sex — then hey. Any skill that‘s worth knowing.‖ I‘d think. ―I‘m not a cool guy because I got help. you had to learn. Here‘s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). You didn‘t wake up and know how to play guitar. Any skill in life is learned. No matter how bad you are. they WILL improve. You didn‘t wake up and know how to drive a car. ―If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I‘m a loser.‖ 25 | P a g e .CAN improve your sexual skills.

take care of it. It is one of my favorites. and that you‘ll love too. and then boom. I guarantee it. you will. The guys who really ―GET‖ female ―The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good‖ sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. There is a saying that I love. you‘ve got to embrace it. When you‘ve got an issue in your life. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don‘t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. Guys that aren‘t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed.Learning the material from guys who say they‘re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. You‘ll be GREAT and blow past even the best ―naturals‖ and ―experiencebased learners. 26 | P a g e . realize you‘re going to get it handled. It is possible. Because you‘re forced to fix it.‖ So it‘s okay to get help. Really think about that. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good.

Their main goal in life is to have children. and they move on and pretend it doesn‘t matter. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. Look at YM. like. This is everywhere. If they can‘t have sex and good sex at that. ―Hey. instinctual level. That‘s something that‘s really got to be addressed. cheating and then there‘s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren‘t man enough to satisfy her.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say ―My girlfriend‘s not that sexual. And they‘re telling you exactly how much they need sex. but she doesn‘t like sex. The sooner you realize this. I‘m a guy. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. you do. with their picture. I need sex. women need sex more than men. Women give up if they can‘t be sexually satisfied. I‘m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. So. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal.‖ Or. and you‘re. to be child-bearers. the better off you‘ll be. ―She likes to cuddle and she‘s very romantic. again.‖ Yeah. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. but think of women. the stuff that you look at. If you think that you need sex. real women. These are normal. Look at all these women magazines. 27 | P a g e .‖ That‘s because you‘re not satisfying her sexually." She doesn‘t get horny.

―Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. And You Don‘t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. do I look fat in this?‖ It‘s because they‘re sexual creatures. You ever look at a man‘s underwear. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. ―There it is. these pants. They have all this sexual desire.and other products to look good. make-up. buying underwear. and hopefully you‘ve internalized this. 28 | P a g e . It‘s my underwear. They want to look desirable. but society represses it.―That‘s trash. compared to women‘s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. and the examples of this are everywhere. let‘s move on to the next mindset.‖ Women spend hours. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes.‖ What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them).

Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don‘t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren‘t up to par. with proper education. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. it‘s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . It‘s not your fault. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . The reason that you‘re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW.

and she staring at you or looking around the room like. Often. Women are feelers. I'll run through all four. If her eyes are open. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. "Oh. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. 30 | P a g e .V. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is….E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed.. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. To start. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. and she's not thinking about anything. It's not just you being in the moment. because you want her not thinking anything. it's HER being in the moment. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1.A. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. but feeling. Don't Think. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. This is a bad thing. and she's not in the moment at all.Chapter 5 The P. then at the end of this chapter.

that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. you won't have to worry about that any longer. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder.And more specifically. and you're no longer good at all. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. ―Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong.. Of course you want her to have a good time. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. or about different aspects of your sexuality. or having sex with a woman for the first time. and you lose your presence and your authority. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. or you get soft. Nothing about. because all of a sudden.. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft.. It's game over.. 31 | P a g e . is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. It's a big problem. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum.

when you learn a language. while you're learning this stuff. You're just primal. Always instinct." Think of just pure instinct. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. There'll be a learning curve. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. That is PRESENCE. anything. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. in the beginning.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don‘t want to be thinking. and what's going on. So. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. It does it out of a primal instinct. Just like anything else. But. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. you're thinking about it at the start. Just going right after it. and the wind is this variable. He's not thinking. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. You want to just be going by instinct. and I will grab him here. 32 | P a g e .

to be led by the male.2. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. you've gotta show that you're in charge. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. That's how it's been since the caveman days." You wanna show that you're in charge. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. You need to show that you're in charge. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. they would be with one! No. You should always treat women with respect. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . "I'm in charge. By having that mindset of leader. So. I'm gonna do what I like. Don‘t ask to do doggy style. more dominant. you'll begin to naturally think. a woman wants a man. If they did. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you‘re the boss of the interaction. It's much more attractive for women. I'm the boss here. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. whether it's during sex or during a date. and the woman is. Here‘s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. but you need to be authoritative. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. going to follow the lead of the man.

Now. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. but as you see how well she responds to it. Try saying things like...-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. That's authoritative. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. pin her arms behind her head. and then ramp it up from there. That's very authoritative. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. Get it? 34 | P a g e . like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?‖ Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. "You look so fucking hot right now‖ or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard‖ And just saying things that are dirty. And by all means. slowly take it to the next level. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). Push her down into the bed. If you're in missionary position.

. 35 | P a g e .. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. ―Your ass is mine right now‖ etc. If this excites her. which is something all women want to hear. powerful man. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. ―These are my lips to kiss‖. ―You are ALL MINE right now‖.. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic.. Start with things like.. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU... the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience..

The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. Something like out of a romance novel. because different positions give her different emotions. I love you so much. like in public.3." That's one kind of a lover. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. If you do different positions. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. You're doing her doggie-style.E. And while physical variety is nice. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard.A. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. or sneaking off somewhere. Different positions definitely help. You're slapping her ass. It's not solely about different positions. saying "Baby. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn‘t be. Then.V. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole‘ ―bedroom sex‖… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . that Casanova. and you say different things. and you have different interactions in these different positions. I love being inside you. system is VARIETY.

Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. You can talk dirty.variety. So. on Friday night. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. it's not gonna have that variety. Why? It‘s because you can have massive variety within one position. It's gonna seem monotonous. So. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. And I just touched upon it. If it's planned. 37 | P a g e . but positions aren't as important. In the missionary position you can make love to her. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. repeatedly. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. You can talk emotionally. But. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. positions themselves aren't really that different. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. It's not gonna have emotion. You want to be having sex at different times. Y eah. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. that's not very spontaneous. Try to have various times where you have sex. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. You can fuck her. Being Spontaneous So. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. if you can.

So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. when you're 38 | P a g e . when you make her feel a variety of emotions. Keep things fresh. and in the morning when you wake up. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. Do it in the shower. she's not going to feel emotion. (In a moment. and it‘s a very enjoyable thing. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. Here‘s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. There are lots of different fantasies. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn‘t get boring. And again. You want as much spontaneity as possible. and she's going to be madly in love with you. If you can't be emotional yourself. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. Change the feelings that she has. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. be a different kind of lover. So in summary. 4. be spontaneous. you‘re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. So.

Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. even sexually or in any manner. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. and in the beginning the sex is really good. there's so much emotion for both of you. or outside. if you're not with a girl that you like. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions." If you're saying ―I love you. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way.‖ you want to say it with passion. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. 39 | P a g e . Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. The Stronger the Emotions. or they'll get a girlfriend. If it's your wife. And then the sex peters out.telling her things. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. You're madly in love. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. make sure that you really mean it. So. you need to be emotional. The stronger the emotions. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. So. you should be pretty emotional. So now. because you married her. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. They‘ll get married. Your bodies are new. you need to be. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. Then that emotion dips over a time. It's because in the beginning. either inside the bedroom. after the initial emotions have dipped.

until finally she can't take it anymore. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. Different emotions. Feelings of being loved. What you don‘t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Once you learn what to say you‘ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. Just keep going with the foreplay. all that teasing creates anticipation. I just keep kissing. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. and 40 | P a g e . Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. Emotions are best shown through words. and she really wants you inside of you. teasing. Feelings of just being fucked. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Play hard to get. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. If you're not talking in bed. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. And the way that you can do that. anticipation. and then kind of push her away. excitement. Anticipation creates excitement So. If you're teasing a girl.And you want to do that in bed. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up.

"I love you so much. Kind of ease it in there. "Oh." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. you need to start now. baby. But romantic talk is. I miss you so much.‖ ―How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. otherwise it sounds a little weird. 41 | P a g e . Romantic talk means things are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion.

So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.E system its unbelievable.A. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. Look for all the elements of P. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.A. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. This stuff is so close to the P. Pay close attention when you are reading these.VE. system really is! Of course I couldn‘t ask women I know because they wouldn‘t tell the truth… as they wouldn‘t want me to think differently of them.E. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. anonymous. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .V. As usual. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.A.V.

I can feel the desire pool between my legs. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. sucking on your bottom lip. ―Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?‖ I murmur. You pull my suit coat off. Wrapping my arms around your neck. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. I set my briefcase on the counter. still in my 4 inch heels. I straddle your lap. I step back. and appraise your amazing body. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. ―Baby. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. revealing a tight. I lean into your strength and warmth. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. You help me remove them.‖ is all that you can utter.‖ I whisper in your ear. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. pulling me against you. darling. kissing you softly. Got it?‖ 43 | P a g e . as I grind my hips against you.‖ My hands trail down your abdomen. satin camisole.physically big. ―I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. and before I can stop you. ―Here are the rules: I touch you. ―Not yet. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. you fill the room with your sexual presence.

It‘s driving you wild that you cannot see me. just say yellow. then with a bit more strength. ―I‘ve got something that will help‖. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. You hear it hit the floor. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. I grab your left hand. and kiss me breathless. ―You‘re a naughty boy. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. 44 | P a g e .‖ I manage to get out between pants. Just try to relax. You grab me around my waist. baby. If at any point it gets to be too much. where are you?‖ ―I‘m here. nor do you know what I‘m going to do next. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. I pull the camisole off too. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I can‘t get enough of your different textures. gently at first. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. I‘ve never taken control like this. ―Baby. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. I‘m trying to drink you all in. and plant a kiss in your palm.You swallow hard and nod your head. My touch is light and tentative. I can see the skepticism on your face. it looks like it might explode. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. so I continue with my lesson. ―Don‘t worry. and is driving you wild.‖ I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes.‖ Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. but tonight is about control.

I pinch your nipples. and you moan. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. first one cheek. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. but not touching them. down to your pelvic bone. I continue my assault. loudly. I cry out. as you fuck me. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. lapping up a drop of precum. I inhale deeply near your navel. running my tongue along your side. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I begin to nibble at your thighs. You squirm a little and cry out my name. My aching pussy has to have you now.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. riding you. The sting of your broken skin excites you. You roll me underneath you. causing your abdomen to quiver. A flush has 45 | P a g e .hard. You slap my ass . I run my fingernails down your back. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. and slam into me. I am yours now. breathing on your balls and shaft. I cry out your name. nearing the verge of my climax. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. they‘re so different from mine. then the other. as our movements become frantic. I cannot take another second. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. You grab my wrist and suck harder. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible.

I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. I get on all fours for you. The orgasm is different this time. bruising my tender skin. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. You wrap your arms around me. I can feel my juices running down my legs. never changing pace or pressure. I touch my clit as you slam into me. I whimper again. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. almost scream your name. but you refuse to let me go. 46 | P a g e . pulling me against you. causing me to moan. ―Fuck me…now. You pull back and look in my eyes. You lap at me slowly. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. ―Roll over.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I‘m whimpering now.‖ I feel so wanton.‖ you say roughly. You are so strong. I have never felt so safe. my pussy throbbing with excitement. begging you to make me cum. Your five o‘clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. yet I‘m excited.‖ I take a sharp breath in. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. You start to orgasm. ―Tell me that you want me. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. It builds and I beg you to finish. I shudder my completion. You grab my hips and pound harder. but you keep that same pace. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. trying to catch my breath.

but not before hearing you say softly.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. 47 | P a g e .―What brought that on?‖ you whisper lazily into my ear. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. probably western North Carolina.‖ I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. Mind numbing. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. I thought. I close my eyes and drift off too. ―I love you‖. This would be a lot of fun if I didn‘t have to pee. You can never seem to get enough.‖ This is what I fantasize about . Really badly. what the hell. I smile – that‘s the first time you‘ve said that.. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn‘t something I thought I could ever do. You cater to my whims. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast.. can‘t think. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you‘re getting sleepy. I have to pee. ―I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. You make me feel safe and loved and protected.‖ ―What is that?‖ ―You worship my body in your own way. It is a winding highway someplace rural.

I manage ―I‘m in here. He is coming after me. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. come out with your hands in the air. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. Such relief. I must keep driving.‖ As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. Oh my word.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. Thank god. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. there are the lights. And he is pointing a gun at me.‖ Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. ―Oh shit!‖ I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can‘t slow down. At least I hope it is. This is so weird. 48 | P a g e . I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. Then I hear the door slam open and ―Police. number 15. My room. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. And oh shit. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners.

He exhales again. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. Don‘t shoot me. 49 | P a g e . It is awkward in heated kind of way. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don‘t come every day. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. He is totally hot.‖ I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best ―I am so innocent‖ look. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. The cop can‘t help but look at me. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. Since he has seen me. looking at him. he hasn‘t said anything to me. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. look at my privates. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip.‖ I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. Higher still. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. ―How about you put that weapon away.―I had to pee. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest.

I have to touch him. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. probably? I was going really fast‖ Then I add ―Am I under arrest?‖ looking up with big wide eyes. Brushing his cheek against my chest.I try speaking. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. grunts and moves in quickly. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other‘s mouths. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. His 50 | P a g e . A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. This next transition is a blur. I arch my back and press my chest against him. ―Too fast. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. He spreads my legs with his knee.

I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don‘t say stop. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. He is so strong and I know he is hard. The thought of ―what the fuck am I doing‖ comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I know I am beautiful. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. He looks up with need and reverence. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. My thighs are at his eye level. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. I love it. The cop doesn‘t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points.

He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face.tongue over his lips. This gets me so excited for more. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. more. I am so wet and hot. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. It is so perfect. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. My orgasm comes fast and hard. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. ―More. 52 | P a g e . I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. I still want to be fucked. Don‘t stop. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real.‖ I moan and then release. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm.

I feel triumphant. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. My ass is barely on the counter.‖ he moans. This is when we both come together. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . I feel like a conqueror. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. He fills me completely. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. And when he lifts his head I smile and say ―Does this mean I won‘t get a ticket?‖ Wild stuff. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don‘t want to stop. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. panting and trying to catch his breathe.―Oh Jesus in heaven. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn‘t stop him. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. I relish him being worn out.

So now that we‘ve covered how to arouse a woman‘s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. let‘s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. 54 | P a g e . and what to do about them.

Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. not a physical problem. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. (If you can‘t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. the limper you will get. here‘s how to get hard when you‘re with a woman: 1. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e .) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. which basically means the harder you try. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I‘ve seen that guys usually don‘t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. your problem is entirely psychological. but not during sex. Let‘s address some of the major ones quickly.

Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. Clear your mind other than the numbers. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. This exhale is 2.. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes..2. This breath is 1. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. 10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. (5 cycles of 2). Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. ―10-Count Breathing‖. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. and trust me when I say. 56 | P a g e . Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10... nothing about life or any topic. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in.

More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. To start you can do ANY exercise… it‘s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. then it will help your erections. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It‘s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. 3. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. And trust me. You‘ll be glad you did. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . Sounds crazy. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. which allows you to relax more and get hard. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence.

Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. you learn to control your breathing as well. dumbbell press. yoga is what I recommend . Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can‘t please a woman. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. For further details. You don‘t have to ever fight or get injured. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. and pull-ups. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. These include the dead lift.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. squat. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let‘s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. I‘ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training.

thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. Don‘t fight your arousal. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can‘t last. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. your relationship won‘t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. It‘s just going to take a little bit of work. couldn‘t stop cumming if I wanted to. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come. Instead. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. no erection. When you don‘t have presence. put it at a number. your mowing the lawn Could get aroused. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Here‘s how: Step 1.

Most guys ―go over the edge‖ and are about to come with faster thrusting.5. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. Step 2. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it‘s done right doesn‘t make you come. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6..5 to number 9. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . We‘re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.5 and when it turns into number 9. Again. harder stroking. It‘s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. give us a call if you need help with this.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want.

Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Step 4. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. its excess of arousal you don‘t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Step 3. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. 61 | P a g e . You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. or kiss her body. See demonstration in the DVD. Instead eat her out. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Because lack of arousal isn‘t your problem.

Let‘s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. They have many more ―pleasure centers‖ and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. She will.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training.E. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. Also. women are capable of many different types. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won‘t come. Physical Stimulation Orgasms.A. full body orgasms. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. 62 | P a g e . meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%.This is the ―go-to‖ orgasm when you‘re improving your sexual skills. exercise.V. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a ―physical‖ orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. model. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms.

Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . Kiss her neck. While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. inner thighs. side of back.Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. Don‘t do anything else just leave it there. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don‘t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. mouth.

I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an ―overwhelming orgasm‖ they don‘t know how many times they came. a really sexy.‖ I have seen others use words like ―full body orgasm‖. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women ―Overwhelming Orgasms. smart 64 | P a g e . These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. authority. It‘s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. continuous orgasmic state. I was dating this girl Renee. repeated cumming etc. variety. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. she was from Austria. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. I know this sounds ridiculous. However the term ―overwhelming orgasm‖ most accurately describes what is going. When you start giving women ―overwhelming orgasms‖ you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. I didn‘t believe it until I saw it in my own life. and emotion.

gifts.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e .a. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. with no physiological hang-ups. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with ―overwhelming orgasms‖ After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. and panties with my name on them. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don‘t‘ push the sex. Over time with her though. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough.

. Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You‘re Inexperienced First off. kisses.. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. It‘s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all.

plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm.Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren‘t having enough sex. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. and don‘t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. but mix up your ―selflove‖ sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. the girls are beautiful. Online porn these days is cheap. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . so get in as much as you can. Watch too much porn and you‘ll find you cum too fast or can‘t get hard when you actually have sex. and the sites have TONS of videos.. In short.. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. it‘s ok to watch a little bit of porn.

a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. You don‘t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. it will raise your testosterone. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. 68 | P a g e . and maker her come. or exercises don‘t waste your time. Don‘t discuss what you look like and don‘t make any attempt to hide it. stamina." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Just get naked. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. Unless your penis is under 2.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. It‘s not hiding as much as you think.5 inches hard it does not matter. Women don‘t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. pumps. and you‘ll be able to move better in bed. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. Even if it does work at all. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted.

(Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Most guys don‘t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it‘s a mental thing. From my own experience and guys that I‘ve talked to Cialis doesn‘t 69 | P a g e .turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. But if you feel that you really need it. Viagra: I‘ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. But in order to give proper guidance I‘ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Remember. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Let‘s do a quick run through. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. Cialis: I‘ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Remember though.

give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. she‘s starting to have some orgasms and you don‘t want to ruin it. If you‘re thinking of getting one. If a guy can‘t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you‘re starting to get better in bed. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you‘ve just had sex. It hurt. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don‘t need these drugs anymore. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Relax and Enjoy . don‘t. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I‘m never using it again. Dick size is NOT the problem. It‘s a waste of your time and money.

if you want to last 2 minutes. what position you are in. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex.. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. That is why at the end I‘ve created the ―implementation‖ mini course. that‘s fine.50% of the time. Don‘t think about ANYTHING.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN‘T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. the evidence is overwhelming. If you want to say something say it. whether she is coming. Shy. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Something that you have to work on. Classy. Sassy. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. The other half of the times don‘t worry about how long you‘re lasting. 71 | P a g e .. if you want to do something to do it. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. Just FUCK her. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. Conservative. These are psychological principles. not just think about theoretically.

You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.

. boring stuff. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don‘t know how to initiate sex For me. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. It‘s like I always wanted it and she didn‘t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). Sex will occur! The ―Not Fun‖ But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e .if you are doing more things together it won‘t see incongruent. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn‘t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend.

Pre-cum contains sperm.There are numerous types of birth control. Let‘s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. if you‘re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. Sometime women will ―skip‖ a dose if they really want a child or in today‘s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. Sperm lead to children. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. It‘s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and ―pull out‖ your penis before you ejaculate. If you are using the ―Pull-Out‖ Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn‘t break then you will prevent pregnancy. It works really well — as long as she takes it. 74 | P a g e .) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD‘s and are great birth control. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before.

I would not recommend it. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. I‘d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it‘s like having sex with a plastic tarp. the Shot. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. You can experiment with it. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. The Patch. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. However.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. they‘re better for the absent-minded than the pill. Guys take responsibility. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. It‘s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. 75 | P a g e . However it hasn‘t done as well as many thought it would. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. The Ring. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. Again. There chance of pregnancy is too high. know this exists but wear a condom yourself.

If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . it‘s a very effective. Let‘s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. Let‘s dive into what‘s important to know and then move on. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. I‘ve never had one. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. If you‘re worried she‘ll forget or it‘s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn‘t been tested for STD‘s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. changing your mind later on doesn‘t mean it will go well and it‘s expensive. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn‘t too bad.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. If you‘re going to do this be sure. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. My friend Mike. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. Some STDs are very serious. but I know people who have had. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. Don‘t get it. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low.

You can also get what‘s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. or condoms ruin sex. Despite it being a serious subject. It‘s all 77 | P a g e . doesn‘t grip you too tight. bring it up casually but firmly. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there.‖ If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures.a woman that for some reason you didn‘t ask about her sexual past. not guess. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. This is important! It‘s your life we‘re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. and still always you to enjoy sex. I‘m not going to list every STD here. Often guys will say something like. ―I can‘t get hard with a condom on. you should be fine. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (―raw‖) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. Just get tested to be sure.

Let‘s review how to put on a condom. They aren‘t as durable and more likely to break. I highly do recommend that Durex Love.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a If you‘re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. For overall experience. You can use Astroglide. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at your head. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. 78 | P a g e . While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable.condomdepot. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love.

This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. Implement What You‘ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don‘t be worried about implementing everything at once." To avoid this." so again stick to the basics. "baby that feels so good.Don't Wait. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. Have a few‖ go-to‖ moves. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. You‘ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. 1. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. and focus on your breathing. Let‘s go through and talk about where to start." and "you want some more of this??‖ should cover you in most situations. in 2 or 3 basic positions. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). Sticking with the classics like. If you are having relatively tame sex. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. you 79 | P a g e . If you can‘t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do.

don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it‘s a ―quickie‖. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . 5. Focus on foreplay. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. You don‘t have to go crazy. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. 4. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. Be able to give her an orgasm. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. If you can‘t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal.


LLC 82 | P a g e . You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. ISN Education. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Bobby Bradshaw 2011.After-thoughts: I‘m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. This isn‘t just about giving a woman orgasms. It‘s being a real man. it‘s so much more than that. living life on your own terms.

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