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S No 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35

Attributes Religious Maturity, taking everyone together Hobbies Health Habits Dreams Good looking- height, weight, Life style Flexibility Loving & Caring Learning ability, Aptitude Education. Clever Street smartness Skills Expertise People connect & social Family background Clarity & communication Attitude Stability Self motivation Problem solving Reliability Ambitious, Goal oriented Family support, well to do, settled Kitchen/ Service Independent & Decision making Visionary Well organised/Planner Self desciplined/ Punctual Consistency Sincerity Value/ character Believes Trustworthy

Category Enery Enery Enery Enery Enery Enery Enery Enery Enery Enery Edge Edge Edge Edge Edge Engerising Engerising Engerising Engerising Engerising Execution Execution Execution Execution Execution Execution Execution Execution Etiquettes Etiquettes Etiquettes Etiquettes Ethics Ethics Ethics

Ideal Actual Weightage Rating Net Rating Rating Net Rating 60% 10 6 0 70% 10 7 0 40% 10 4 0 80% 10 8 0 70% 10 7 0 60% 10 6 0 60% 10 6 0 60% 10 6 0 60% 10 6 0 80% 10 8 0 80% 10 8 0 80% 10 8 0 70% 10 7 0 70% 10 7 0 70% 10 7 0 60% 10 8 0 80% 10 8 0 70% 10 7 0 70% 10 7 0 70% 10 7 0 60% 10 6 0 60% 10 7 0 70% 10 7 0 70% 10 7 0 70% 10 7 0 70% 10 7 0 80% 10 8 0 80% 10 8 0 60% 10 6 0 60% 10 6 0 60% 10 7 0 60% 10 6 0 80% 10 8 0 80% 10 8 0 80% 10 8 0 350 244 0 0 70% 0%

Attribute chart to be used while evaluating & selecting partner and defin
Color convention--> Energy Religious Flexibility Loving & Caring Health Maturity, taking everyone together Good looking- height, weight Life style Personality - Hobbies, Habits Dreamer, want to do different Internal External Energising Edge People connect & social Learning ability, Aptitude Family background & Education. Clever culture Attitude Street smartness Stability Skills Clarity & communication Expertise

& selecting partner and defining their influences


Individual Execution Family - Well to do, settled, stable Income Kitchen/ Service Visionary Self motivation Independent & Decision making Reliability Ambitious, Goal oriented Problem solving Virtual Ethics Value/ character Believes Etiquettes Well organised /Planner Self desciplined/ Punctual Trustworthy Consistency Sincerity

S No 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Want? Optimistic Intellect Realistic Respectful Happy Sensitive Patience Honest Secure Humble

Attributes to understand Avoid? S No Want? Pessimistic 11 Thoughtful Dumb 12 Self-esteem Unrealistic 13 Objective Disrespectful 14 Responsible 15 Self-aware & open V/s Depressed Insensitive 16 Sympathetic & caring Impatience 17 Organized & disciplined Manipulative 18 Communicate Insecure 19 Flexible Egoistic 20 Positive thinker

V/s

Avoid? Impulsive Low self-esteem Subjective Irresponsible Defensive Unsympathetic Unorganized Close & hidden Rigid & controlling Negative

S No Category Question 1 About Marriage What makes you eligibilible for the marriage? 2 About Marriage What do you think is the most important points to be considered for a good marriage? 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 About Marriage Personality Personality Personality Personality Personality Personality Personality Plan Plan Plan My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts My thoughts Expectations Expectations Expectations Expectations Expectations Expectations Expectations Expectations Expectations Expectations Expectations
Have you identified your needs and expectations? Describe yourself in ten lines Write down your areas of strength & weakness Make a list of feelings that are most prominent in you. Do you think you will be able to adjust to new culture? Are you comfortable when it comes to share your feelings, ideas & problems? Do you make friends easily and long lasting? What expectations do they have from you and your spouse? What plans do you have post your marital life? What is your financial goal in life? How can one prepare himself/herself for successful marital life? What are the qualities of a good husband? What are the qualities of a good wife? What are the qualities and duties of a good father? What are the qualities and duties of a good mother? Your duties and responsibilities towards your spouse? Basic approch to marriage? A team or as two independent individuals? What is your aim in life? What is your parenting philosophy? What are your need & expectations from your spouse? Are you willing to sacrifice some of your expectations? If so, which ones? Do you know the rights and duties of spouses? What values do you want to bring from your family into our marriage? What should you look for in your life partner? List of positive habits and attitude you would love to see in your life partner. List of negative habits and attitude you would hate to see in your life partner. Fundamental areas that will critically cause an impact in your marriage? What are the areas of compatibility? (criteria of selecting spouse ) Does religion play an important part in marital life? What will be the impact of education on marriage? Why it is important to marry in a decent family? Importance of intelectual and cultural interests? Importance of wealth? Importance of physical appearance?

Answer

Question RELIGIOUS AGE EDUCATION FAMILY FINANCE CULTURE

V. Religious 20-25 Medical Joint Low Eastern

Religious 26-30 Engineer Independent Middle Western

Answer Secular 31-35 Commerce Extended High Mixed

Other 36 & + Master

Rank 1 2 3 9 12 16 21 26 31 35 36 40 45 46 India Sri Lanka Japan Italy Israel Singapore Switzerland Canada Germany

Country

Percent 1.1 1.5 1.9 10 14.8 17.2 25.5 37 39.4 42.6 43.3 44.5 54.8 54.9

United Kingdom Russia Denmark United States Sweden