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BY DEVON GRANT
Copyright ©2012 by Devon Grant This work is copyrighted to the extent that all information contained herein shall be attributed to the author. While I have priced it so that it is affordable across all economic strata I understand if you share it with others freely. Information and knowledge is to be shared and distributed and if you weren’t intending on paying for it, you weren’t going to pay no matter how hard I worked to protect this document. Let’s face it, if you guys want it for free you’ll get it for free. With that being said, if you’ve paid for this guide, thank you – you are allowing me to live the dream I’ve set forth for myself: to get out of the rat race and live the life I want to live and not the life others would see me live. And for that I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I put it together in the hopes that it could help hundreds maybe even thousands of men improve their lives in a small but significant way. Thank you.
As you put into practice what you learn here you will further refine your skill set allowing you to adapt to any situation that presents itself. It is my belief that this is the essence of mastery. This is meant to address a very. I know what it is to spend my money on educational materials only to be disappointed in their content and so in writing this I wanted to avoid that all together. For pick up frameworks and knowledge that address the ENTIRE process I’d energetically encourage you to seek out that information elsewhere.Foreword First off. When you purchased this guide you had no idea whether or not this information would be of use to you. I’ve worked hard to make it thorough and filled with useful information. before going any further I need to make this disclaimer: This is NOT a guide on how to pick up women. you were taking my word on faith that the information contained in this guide would help you in this very specific area. You have no idea what great accomplishments you could achieve. so don’t stop yourself short. . Furthermore. but it’s going to take practice. While it addresses a niche subject I have made it as comprehensive as possible so that you get the most for your money. Your purchase shows to me that you are a man who recognizes he can stand to improve. do not be afraid to fail. Now. If you implement the knowledge found herein you will differentiate yourself as a man who knows how to capture a woman’s mind through her imagination. thank you for purchasing this guide . Now. Because you have given me your trust in making this purchase I will be as thorough as I can possibly be in addressing the topic of “sexting”. it shows that you are willing to invest in yourself and take a risk in doing so. Please.I am sincerely grateful that you believe this was of enough value that you would spend your hard earned money for it. In fact. very niche part of the entire game. I believe congratulations are in order.
If you use your imagination effectively it can have a devastating effect on the woman you’re trying to arouse. You have to match her and at the same time push it just a little bit further. we absolutely must know how to put our words together. That’s a B.Introduction It’s cliché. Believe me now? Growing up I had a 56 kbps dial up internet connection. and allure. maybe you wouldn’t say this ever – well at least the monkey high on meth part) Now. If you don’t believe me go ahead and Google “romance novels sales statistics”. I’ll give you an example of what not to say (at least not at the beginning) “I’m going to fuck your brains out like a monkey high on meth” (ok. yes. you wouldn’t respond with gentle caresses. If she’s says she wants you to pull her hair while you ride her from the back. And it isn’t just sexual arousal either – our imaginations allow us to escape to foreign worlds filled with adventure. It allows you to imagine scenarios playing out that have a distinct emotional effect on your internal chemistry.358 BILLION. You see. At all times you’ll be gauging what to say based on what she says to you. This is why romance novels do so well – they key in to the imagination of the reader. not an M. but the mind IS the most erogenous organ of the human body. Why was that? Because of the words. I eventually found myself at Literotica. .com where I would read these amazing stories that would fire my imagination in a way that a simple picture couldn’t. our words have the power to transform the most mundane of occurrences into fantastic tales and if we are going to arouse a woman deeply and passionately. an example of what you should say “As I gently caress the silky smooth skin along your face I push you up against the wall…” Do you see the difference? There’s a time and place for each type of text and that’s governed by the circumstances. Whether we fantasize about a woman we want to sleep with or remember a woman we’ve already slept with. mystery. taking them on an emotional roller coaster they wouldn’t otherwise find in daily life. Remember those? It would take FOREVER to load a single picture so I had to find another way to get my “me time” in. The information found herein is provided with one goal in mind: To give the girl an orgasm before you actually sleep with her and in doing so have her associate a tremendous amount of pleasure to you. that’s the imagination at play. If you search for that you’ll pull up the Romance Writers of America website which shows that in 2010 alone the market for Romance Novels was at about $1.
. This is a tremendously powerful ability to have and this guide is here to help you to develop this ability. I’ve found that if I am able to bring a woman to orgasm before we sleep together (and when I’m not there physically) that my close rate is damn near 100%.There are a few very important reasons for doing so which we’ll cover later. For now. I think we can both agree that doing so has several positive effects. Your texts should be so powerful that she begins to please herself as you send them or saves them so she can do so later.
As with all endeavors. Since an orgasm is a very strong emotional reaction. and so on are what the other person feels. In all likelihood if they’re your best friend you associate them with positive feelings. In order to do this you will be using your words to construct a reality/fantasy for her that leads to a powerful orgasm. what comes to mind? Possibly the great weekend you had last week. you’ll only need to do it once or twice to anchor the association in her mind. But let’s be honest. Now. how amazing would it be if you could give a woman an orgasm with just a few words? Humans aren’t so different. Anchoring Positive Emotions What is anchoring? Anchoring is the process by which a stimulus becomes associated with a specific response. satisfaction. respect. Associations My goal. For the purposes of this guide your outcome will be this: for a woman to associate the thought of you with having an orgasm. right now take a moment to think of your best friend. then you should reevaluate your friendship with this person. We are as susceptible to . feelings of happiness. or pleasing a woman. Before Pavlov would bring the dogs food he would ring a bell. This requires that I anchor myself to these positive emotions via repetition so that they come to associate me with these positive feelings. With time and repetition he anchored the appearance of food to the sound of the bell which resulted in the dogs salivating any time they heard the bell. When you’re able to do this without physically being present you inevitably become associated with the pleasure that you have given her. and Associations In all of my relationships I strive to ensure that the other person associates me with positive feelings. but regardless of the memories you have. Doing so ensures harmony and results in a positive perception of me in relation to them and our relationship. in any relationship is to create positive associations for myself in relation to the person I’m focused on. When you think of them. when adapted to your relationships will help you achieve the outcome you are seeking . like I said. If you’ve ever studied psychology you may have heard of Pavlov’s dogs who would salivate every time they heard a bell because they associated the bell with the food that was brought to them. Perceptions. or the first time you met. what underlies those memories are what you felt at the time. the more times you do it the better. For example.Anchors. What this means is that when they think of me. well. These 3 concepts alone.whether that’s maintaining a friendship. If not. developing your business network. it’s best to start with an outcome in mind and work your way back from there.
at least the ones you want to keep around) your goal should be to create a positive perception of yourself in the other person’s mind. Why do you want to be perceived as pleasurable? Well. but with all your relationships. Now. If you’ve known someone for a long time your perception and opinion of them is less likely to change because of what you know about them. Her perception of you is the combined experiences. Anchoring pleasurable and positive emotions/feelings 3. this was a very basic overview of these topics. which makes your perception of them easily pliable as you learn new things about them. fused with the interpretation she attaches to them. Summary From this section you should have gained a basic understanding of anchoring. I’ve tried to distill them as best I can so that the essence of these ideas is more easily digestible. or as a result of you. it becomes more difficult for you to change the perception they have of you later on.this type of conditioning as the dogs are and knowing how to employ this knowledge can be of tremendous value if used properly. How so? Well. do you know that really annoying person who just irritates the hell out of you? You probably don’t like hanging out with them and you don’t want them around period. . You must be careful to deliberately construct the emotions you want the other person to feel because if you don’t get it right the first time. that she has had with you. I’d encourage you to read up on these topics. In all your relationships (well. Strive to create a positive perception by 2. This is why the more pleasure you are able to give a woman. the more she will perceive you to be…pleasurable and the more likely she is to keep wanting you. They work together to create the foundation from which you should approach not only your text conversations with women. Her Perception of You So what does giving a woman an orgasm have to do with perception? The short answer is this: everything. when you first meet someone your perception of who they are is based on limited information. and perceptions. emotions. The overall structure is this: 1. That’s the opposite of pleasure and that’s what you should be avoiding at all times. This is why I strive to be deliberate in the way I present myself. associations. So that the woman will associate you with these emotions/feelings If you can understand this you’ll have no problem implementing the knowledge that will follow. If you are like me and you like to take in a lot of information. etc. situations.
and write it down. (DISCLAIMER: Yes. Have you done it? Yes? Great. Stupid. What these texts are meant to do is help you get you one step closer to making that a physical reality. you being physically there is vitally important as it works to solidify your pair bond. so it plays to your favor to create a masterpiece for her. the image evokes the same types of emotions. now compare what you wrote to this: As my fingers wrap themselves around the hair at the base of your neck. Do you see the difference between the statements? When you throw in details like the ones I’ve included it’s going to drive her imagination wild.) KISS – Breaking it Down Keep It Simple. the more intense the experience she’s going to have. You see. Ok. for the mind it doesn’t matter if it happened or not. I give it a gentle tug to expose the skin of your neck to my lips. think about it. That’s what my math teacher would beat into our heads in AP Calc. I give it a gentle tug to expose the skin of your neck to my lips Sometimes we don’t necessarily want to send this whole text as one text. let’s say you wanted to tell her that you want to suck on her neck. For example. you add a layer of detail that solidifies it in her mind as real.Basics The Devil’s in the Details The more vivid the picture for her. It worked in Calc and it works everywhere else. You are going to take sentences like the one above and break it down into bite sized pieces for her Remember the above example? As my fingers wrap themselves around the hair at the base of her neck. we prefer to send the text in chunks: . like the sensation of hitting a spot of skin she missed with the moisturizer. By focusing on the smallest of details. how would you say that? Take a second.
and use this as inspiration for the pictures you are painting. What images do you see? What sensations do you feel? Can you imagine what it would feel like to feel the warmth of her leg as they intertwine with yours? See it clearly in your mind. Creating this uncertainty works to heighten the effect of the texts and the feelings they evoke. If it’s pleasurable. describe it in detail for her. By doing so. (characters:84) Text 2: When I pull it back I’ll slowly bring my lips down and gently bite your exposed neck (characters:84) Why Do This? When we cover the hot spots on her body we don’t always want to lay it all out there in one text. Identify the things you would normally do and try and gauge whether they’ve gotten a good reaction. then you have to do reconnaissance work.Text 1: I’ll wrap my fingers into the hair at the base of your neck. These storylines can serve to inspire your texts as well as provide the basis for them. pulling your head back. Paint the picture for her. zooming in on the tiniest of details. you would do it via text. right? You’re painting the picture of what it would be like to sleep with you and if you aren’t selling it in a way that appeals to the way she likes things. In fact. It might be too much. see what’s out there. check some of the stories out online.4 Billion dollars to the industry. Your imagination is an amazingly powerful tool that can help you do anything you want to do – if you use it wisely. you get to learn the stories that these women flock to. Romance Stories: If you want to understand what drives these women to buy these novels in droves. It makes her wonder where and what you’re going to do next. This means you need to know how you make love to a woman. Assignment: Find 5 different short romance/erotic stories online and read them. giving 1. Picture in your mind what it would be like to have sex with this woman. in a good way. Buy one of these novels. we’d work slowly never allowing her to anticipate the pleasure we’re going to give her next. Just as if we were there with her. you’re going be in for a rough time. Since you would do it in person. of course. What makes them good? What makes them bad? . if you haven’t used it in a while it isn’t too late to start again. How to Do It? Your imagination: Using your imagination is damned easy.
then repeat. speaking of Faulkner. you don’t want to jump to the “goods” right away. then fondling. then touching. they work together to create the overall experience for the woman. then foreplay. The easier it is to read. the easier it is to visualize. then sex. and the faster she begins to feel what you want her to feel. to the point where I may have seemed like a bit of an ass whenever I’d use words superfluously simply to show off. Progression As when you’re with a woman. As you progress up each level you would still want to incorporate the previous levels in the texts that you send. It teases and creates anticipation. It depends on the woman and the circumstances. Along the same vein you want to build all of that via the text. “Does he really think big emotions come from big words?” You don’t need big words. Hemingway once said. building up to the graphic description of what you would want to do. Try and stay away from anything more than 2 or 3 syllables unless it’s absolutely necessary. For most situations I would push to create the background in as few texts as possible in order to lay the foundation for what’s to come next. rather. but just in written form.Doing this one thing will point you in the right direction when it comes to developing your skill set in this area and I would highly recommend checking out as many stories as possible to truly get a feel for what you are trying to accomplish. then you can work a little more slowly. and not under any sort of time pressure. If she’s alone and able to please herself right then and there. You begin with flirting. It plays a vital role in the process of giving her a mind blowing orgasm. you want to work up to that – that’s why there’s foreplay. They do not live in isolation of each other but. The sexting should generally follow the same progression that a normal seduction would. Example: . It builds the sexual tension and the bond between the two of you. then kissing. Composition Word Selection I’ve always had a large vocabulary. It can take as little as 4-5 texts or as many as 20-30.
Sidenote: This is a good time for a quick sidenote that has positive life implications as well – a while back Bruce Lee did an interview where he said: Don't get set into one form. think of someone you love to hear speaking. You will guide her through this imagined world step by step in every text. At all times you are adapting to the person you are with. One method that works for me is the interplay between fast & slow. and lending an air of uncertainty. It can change its form depending on its vessel. it becomes the cup.Let’s say your first text was the above example of pulling on her hair. my friend Water is adaptable. It is persistent. you imbue what you’re saying with an energy that can’t help but be attractive. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. then it’s your best bet to push past what you would otherwise do with another woman in this scenario. Now water can flow or it can crash. Do you think she would get bored if you were monotone and had no energy? Probably. If she’s kinky and into some freaky deaky stuff. be formless. and let it grow. and then contrasting that with a description of how I would focus my lips on to hers as I caress her face. It can wear away mountains. It can give life. For example. shapeless — like water. You could then say later in the conversation: “As my dick thrusts deep inside your pussy I pull back on your hair bringing your head back to me as I lean in and kiss you” Pacing Setting the correct pace of the conversation is paramount to the overall effect. Empty your mind. Do you think she would continue talking to you if you didn’t arouse her emotions? Probably not. How do they talk? How does their pace fluctuate? Does it stay the same? Are they dull and monotone or are they lively and energetic? These are all things to consider when communicating with someone. describing situations which are sudden like flipping her onto her back or picking her up and throwing her against the wall. Be water. Always be like water. Now you put water in a cup. Tone This will be mostly determined by the girl you are talking to. By alternating the pace. be like water. In order to determine what a good pace is. The same thing would go for a more reserved woman. Imagine you were taking her on a trip and narrating the entire story for her. You put water into a bottle it becomes the bottle. . adapt it and build your own.
With that being said. The point is that you learn. picture in your mind exactly what you want to realize down to the tiniest detail. carefully probing to see how far you can take it. Don’t worry if you bomb a few of the texts and sabotage your chances with the girl. setting the tone is also determined by the visuals you provide. There will be others. refine. if she is really conservative. For. Before you start. example. . Always. you wouldn’t want to talk to her about throwing on some cheek-less leather chaps and having her slap you. and adapt. ALWAYS match what you’re saying to what she’s saying. Ensure that it’s matched to her level and what she likes.
Once you’ve created that attraction you need to lead the conversation so that you begin establishing a mutual connection with her. in her mind she will think it was meant to be. A great tactic that I like to use is “me too”. will depend on your skill level and the type of woman you are dealing with. Since the aim of this guide is to give the woman pleasure. once you’ve established the connection. It’s generally helpful if you actually do share similar interests. of course. This pre-approval is absolutely necessary. Sooner or later she’ll find out if you’re lying to her. The next step is establishing a connection that allows you to segue to a sexual conversation. In my experience I’ve found that I always require a decent amount of conversation time before we get to the sexting. Just stop here. Use this tactic for a wide range of different topics and you’ll be well along your way to creating the necessary connection. With some women I’ve gotten to sexting within minutes and others within a couple of days. you need to establish a level of comfort between the two of you. if you’re already texting her then there is a high probability that she likes you. and then matching those to yours. so knowing how to be funny is a valuable skill to learn and I can think of no better place to start than that particular book. her dislikes. there needs to be attraction there. Creating the necessary attraction will come down to how well versed you are in flipping a woman’s attraction switches. If you share a lot of interests in common. or that there’s something genuinely there between the two of you. If you don’t excite her mentally. physically. Creating that connection is not the aim of this guide so I will give you a brief overview of what’s generally necessary. It creates a level of comfort between the two of you that allows her subconscious mind to pre-approve a sexual conversation with you. Creating that connection is what I call Priming the Pump. For me. Now. This will require you to discover her interests. By disclosing a personal fact about you that you don’t share with everyone – just . The act of laughing is pleasurable. First off. This. in every case it was absolutely essential to create that connection first and establish a certain level of comfort before she was ready to engage in that type of back and forth with me. this is a great place to start. emotionally. If the woman you’re talking to is really interested in poetry I’d say something like “GET OUT!! Me too!” and then I would start talking about my favorite poets like Robert Frost or Pablo Neruda. humor has always worked wonders and a great book that has helped me is Comedy Writing Secrets by Melvin Helitzer. her likes. The best way I know how to do this is to allow yourself be somewhat vulnerable.Priming the Pump Before you even get to sexting you have to make sure she’s willing to engage in that kind of talk with you. Otherwise she wouldn’t have given you her number right? That’s the first step. However. Now. and as such you must lay the foundation. I encourage you to work on creating that connection first. or spiritually then there’s no need to even be reading this.
but leaving it alone until appropriate. depending on how she reacts to the texts you send. For example if I am working to create attraction with the woman I’ll playfully tease and say if she does something wrong I’ll spank her. you must pay careful attention to the words she uses as these will be your guide posts. spank me?” I take that as an invitation to begin the foresexting and tell her what I intend on doing when I’m there with her. Doing this communicates that you trust this person with your innermost emotions and establishes in their mind an ability to communicate things to you that she wouldn’t be able to tell her friends or family. If she’s . are the treasure that she keeps guarded from the world. constantly gauging her reactions to what you say so that you can adjust and change course if necessary. on the other hand. If. she shies away from the seeding. When you begin doing so. especially if she then follows suit and reveals something about herself that allows her to be vulnerable. If she’s more receptive then I drop more seeds more often. A tactic that I’ve used successfully in the past is seeding. then every once in a while I’ll start “adding spanks” to her “spank count” every time she does something “bad”. while creating comfort. etc. If she can trust you with her feelings she can therefore trust you with anything else because her feelings. weaknesses. Always match her and then push it a little bit further. Her reaction to this will determine how I proceed with all further seeding. if she says “is that all you’re gonna do.special people like her – you appear vulnerable and willing to expose yourself and your feelings. I move away and start talking about something else that interests her. This is why listening is THE most important conversational skill to develop. Eventually she’ll either instigate the sexting or you will. so do you. and trust you can then begin to probe her sexuality. Without it how do you expect to sleep with her? Once you’ve created the necessary attraction. As you guide the conversation towards sex you are establishing the framework you will be using for the next part – the Foresext. This is the process of establishing a sexual seed earlier on. The way she talks about sex will tell you everything you need to know about how to introduce the first sext and how to proceed from there. As you notice the words she uses when it comes to sex you will then be matching her words with similar words that evoke similar connotations. For example. After a little bit I’ll bring it up again to see where she’s at. so do you. In the game of attraction. trust is everything. If she talks about it positively. They will help determine how you proceed and as such are vitally important. comfort. If done correctly it will work to establish a more personal bond between the two of you. emotions. It becomes the perfect segue. This creates a level of trust between the two of you. If she says she likes it. Doing this every so often will prime the pump for future sex talk. Get it? Good. If she speaks about sex negatively. which is paramount to any relationship you have.
Once we’re at this point I would then proceed with the Foresexting. This process repeats itself until she’s ready and willing to start getting sexual. I take a step back and proceed along a different line for a bit. which is the topic of the next section.still hesitant. .
otherwise you probably wouldn’t be talking to each other. at which point you would tone it down a bit and then work your way back up. but don’t be fooled.Foresext Before the sexting even begins I’ve primed the pump that allows me to introduce the more graphic things later on. If she initiates the sex talk. so this is a good thing. If the sexual conversation is present. Just not at the outset. All they ever want is sex” or “I’m not going to have sex with you” Positive sex talk looks like this: “I love missionary position. you want to match her frame of reference. but that there is sex talk at all. It’s the classic one step forward. With negative sex talk. This is vital. So. match that and don’t bring it up. two steps back. let’s say we’ve gotten to the part about sex. then push past it and get to where you want to go. you’re showcasing your competency in the sexual arena and if you jump the gun via text what is she going to think you’re going to do when the real thing happens? Remember. it just feels so good” or “What’s your favorite position?” In the negative situation she’s framing it in such a way to discourage you. What is she saying? Is she talking about sex negatively? Is she talking about it positively? How do you know the difference? Negative sex talk looks like this: “I hate it when guys just want to jump into bed. Remember. whether positive or negative. . that’s a good thing. again. match that as well and keep pushing it a step further until you feel resistance. if you introduce anything sexual and she avoids it. Doing it in this way allows you to calibrate what you’re going to say while putting her at ease. You’re both interested in doing it. Laying the foundation allows you to avoid the “shock” that might arise if you opened her up with something like this: “I’m going to shove my cock so far into your pussy you’ll feel me in your stomach” Is there a time and place for a text like this? Yes. What’s important isn’t that it’s negative. You work your way up to that – the same way you would work up to it in real life.
some guys just don’t get it. you know?” Here she would be intimating that there are other things she finds attractive and that turn her on. What you’re looking for is agreement. However. It’s like romance never existed” She will then respond any number of ways. Doing so would indicate that you aren’t just interested in the sex but who she is as a person as well. At this point you can then push in the romance direction. but it’s the little things. which is usually the best direction to go with most women. for your sake. By discovering what she likes it shows that not only are you interested in sex. be interested in . Again.Example: “Ugh. continue the conversation and get as far as you can. When she agrees with that statement above. The more you know about your lover the easier it is to please them. and in the long run this is very good information to have. you have a few options. even if she is receptive. Your job is to then probe and find out what these little things are. If she’s receptive. Alternatively. it indicates to you what she’s looking for is a little romance. Now. because you’re the one giving her the idea she’ll subconsciously place you in that position. So. you could drop it.” What you are doing here is matching her initial frame of reference while at the same time introducing what you really want to get her thinking about. some are different and aren’t afraid to get graphic off the bat. but specifically what turns HER on. Then you could then proceed with the following: “What happened? It was like all of a sudden the only thing that mattered was sex. I mean sex is great. Let’s say she responds with something along the lines of: “I know. Does she avoid the sex or move towards it? Match her at all times. The text above would actually allow her to recall some of her memories when she just made out. Please. what’s a romantic text? ”I miss the days when you could just make out for hours and that’s all you needed” This brings it back to high school days and allows her to regress to those moments in her life when making out really was all she needed. evoking those emotions she felt at the time. and thus associate you with those early emotions. Depending on her response here you would adjust accordingly. You can continue the thread or you can drop it all together.
You want to keep pushing it until she stops responding. pulling you in closer to place my lips on yours. Which direction do you want to take it in? I would suggest starting with questions. I’d slide my hand across your face and to the back of your neck. brushing your hair from your eye. Don’t stop. Stops responding? Why the hell would I want that? Because when that happens she’s probably begun to play with herself and it’s kind of tough to respond with one hand. Given these 4 points I would set up a series of texts that say the following: Text 1: “I would just love to hold you in my arms as I gaze in to your eyes…” Text 2: “Pressing your body into mine so I can feel your heart beat against my chest and your breath against my neck. if done properly of course.who she is. I put experience in quotations because at this point you haven’t had the actual shared sexual experience.” Text 3: “As I lean down.. what little things do you miss most?” It’s always a good thing to be curious about what she likes because you can pepper those things in with the things you like and create a shared vision based on mutual likes or dislikes. By creating this shared vision you create a shared “experience” that links the two of you together. Let’s say you continue to talk about sex. She’s just beginning to imagine all of these things and might even tell you to stop because it’s getting her horny and you’re not there to do anything about it. let’s say that she tells you she misses the following: Being kissed gently Having the side of her face caressed When a man runs his hands through her hair Simply holding her in your arms These 4 simple things allow you to create a series of texts that will excite her. don’t you . what you would love to do. kissing you slowly and passionately” It describes. If there’s no genuine interest she will sense this and blow you off. When she tells you what she likes you can then spin those little threads into a tapestry that captivates her mind. in detail. There has to be a solid balance here. “So. At this point in the conversation she will be very likely to respond back to your texts.. It’s simple and in actuality the whole thing would last 5 seconds but taking the time to detail each movement makes it more vivid and makes it more “real” for her. She’ll begin to imagine all of these things in her mind and it will inevitably flip her arousal switch. For example.
which is always a good thing. which is why you want to continue sending the texts. undress her slowly. When I say dominance I’m not talking about the “I’m going to rape you way” but in the I’m a man and I’m going to lead kind of way. describing in detail how you’re going to pay attention to her body. the better. You are always leading the interaction. This is the essence of the Foresext. If I get a “just fuck me now” text in response to what I’ve written I’ll say something like: “Not yet. and as such you have to know which way you’re going to go with it. slowly increasing the level of intensity. but it’s imperative that you understand what it means to be dominant in this context. It allows HER imagination to inch her closer to that point of no return where she can do nothing but please herself. You start slowly. You shouldn’t care about what she’s telling you because your goal is to make HER feel good. always. She isn’t fully aroused yet and her responding actually helps her get to that point because she becomes a creator alongside you in this fantasy world you’re creating. Now. I want to play with you a little more” From here I would discuss how I’m going to run my hands across her body. I’ve had women respond with “just fuck me now” and with “slide your hand down to the small of my back and press me in closer” or “mmm. The more “mmm”’s I get. By progressing smoothly you are leading her imagination through a series of images meant to increase her arousal step by step until the point that you have her dripping wet with anticipation for the graphic texts that are about to come. I hate to be so extreme. Remember. that sounds good. early in the conversation she will respond back to you. By going in a different direction you are exerting your frame over hers and doing so displays dominance.think? BUT. If you do everything right then you won’t have to worry about your pleasure because when the time comes she’ll be more than happy to help you However. what else would you do?” Whatever she responds with you can either match it or go in a different direction. If you make it at all creepy or uncomfortable she will suddenly have to “go to sleep” or “take a call”. there’s a huge difference between the two and you always want to be in the latter group. savoring every inch of her body until no part went untouched or unkissed. Remember. baby. Sometimes she’ll be very into it and will want to participate – play back at her texts but always lead the conversation by pushing it in the direction YOU want to take it. it is real easy to read the texts with just one hand. it’s all about her pleasure at this point. . It increases the anticipation and heightens her level of arousal to the point where she’ll really really want you to tell her what you’re going to do with her.
Only time and experience can calibrate you as to the progression. So if she tells you to press your hand against the small of her back play back and step it up. As our tongues discover each other I reach down and slide my hands onto your tight little ass and lift you up and press you against the wall” You’ve included what she has said but stepped it up and increased the intensity level. Let her imagination do the work. It has to feel real for her and that means that what you say has to be congruent with who you are and what you would actually do and say. Quick Disclaimer: Listen. “I pull you in closer and slide both hands to the small of your back as I press my lips against yours. Allow her mind to let the image branch out however she wants. while detail is very important. You could include. If at any point you feel uncomfortable she’s going to pick up on that. but always push it one step further with your images. It’s a give and take and if you try and detail every little thing it’s going to get tediously long and eventually boring. for example. Yes. . Besides. What you’re doing here is planting a seed. but ultimately these are my words and not yours. it’s also just as important to get to the graphic visualizations as well. but I’m not Cyrano de Bergerac.If she plays back at you by trying to lead you through the sext you can play along with her. If you linger too long on one area it will get boring and she’ll eventually drop it. Remember. Progressing smoothly and quickly is key in this situation. I could tell you explicitly at what points you would need to move forward. the sound of the drywall creaking as you crash your bodies into it. just because I’m a huge advocate of detail doesn’t mean you have to detail everything. So. using her imagery. I’m providing you with examples and things to say. It would be good at this point to go into extra detail. it’s the little things that make the moment real for her. this is meant to be a guide that helps you develop your own style.
When the time comes you’re going to want to get graphic. Now. How? “Rub your clit for me baby.. Tell her to slap her pussy. you are now placing yourself in two of her realities. but the same rules apply – detail and smooth progression are required all the way up until her orgasm. Slide your fingers around it imagining it’s my hand on it” In addressing what she’s doing in the moment. I would ask “what are you doing right now?” Always allude to the fact that she’s touching herself. Address the Reality If you know for a fact that she’s playing with herself you want to direct what she does with her hands. Be aware of these points so you can act accordingly..” Again. The graphic texts will begin to focus on her more erogenous zones and by this point you should have her imagining herself naked with you.Transitioning to Graphic Images There comes a point in the conversation where there is either a lull or a forward movement on her part indicating that she wants you to step up the intensity level.. I would say something like this: Text 1: “I’ll throw you onto the floor and fall on top of you. Now. you want to use that and build up her orgasm. while you’re in this phase you want to address what she’s doing with herself every so often. she . feeling the heat of your pussy against my crotch. So. feeling it throb against me. Let’s say you’ve told her that you’ve just ripped her clothes off and thrown her onto the floor. Tell her to slide her fingers inside and pump them in and out. but now you’re there with her telling her what you want her to do. These texts should also follow a steady progression moving towards the “final act” so to speak. The nature of your graphic texts can be whatever you want it to be. You’re teasing her just a little bit here while allowing her to imagine what it would feel like. It is vitally important that you direct her here as well. Before. you were just creating the fantasy for her. we’re building the tension so that when you do “put it in” she’s ridiculously wet. If she confirms that she is. for example. and getting out of the fantasy world. Rub it long and hard.. Direct it the entire way while weaving yourself in and out of the fantasy world.” Text 2: “I slowly slide the tip of my dick up and down your clit.
. and so on until she inevitably can’t help but link her orgasms to the thought of you and before you know it you’ll be the only one she wants giving her orgasms. third. tell her she was naughty. Once you’ve been able to give her the first orgasm it will be easier to give her the second. If that happens.may orgasm before you finish creating the fantasy for her. fourth. just drop it. and thank her for letting you make her feel so good. give her a smiley face. Whatever happens you’ve accomplished your goal.
and progression to get you to your goal. Thank you. Not only because you are allowing me to live the life that I’ve dreamed of for so long. What you do from here is completely on you. but because you are allowing me in to yours to help make it better – even if it is in a small way. adaptation. You can choose to put this knowledge to use or you can let it fall by the wayside – the choice is yours. I’ve always wanted to change the world and I thought one day that I would do something BIG that would affect the lives of millions. I’ve done my part to make this life a better place for someone else. It means a lot to me that you’ve trusted my words to help you along your path and for that I will be forever grateful. Devon Grant . And that was my hope for putting this together – to help you in this very specific area of your life.Wrapping Up It’s really that simple guys – all you have to do is use your imagination and the right combination of attention. Again. Even if it is just one person. if you purchased this guide I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. After a lot of thought I realized that if I truly want to change the world then all I have to do is help people.