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It was couple of weeks ago when I met a Pakistani family who had a kid and they were talking to me and I randomly asked the kid that what do you want to be when you grow up he replied me back saying that I want to be a film actor when I grow up , more than his reply the thing what really shocked me was the reaction of the kids mother on the reply of her kid , the mother of the kid was very happy hearing her son wants to be a film actor when he grows up… this was just a glimpse of where the generation is planning to go,,, aauzubillah.
We live in a time in a period where the youth especially of our times is in a state of die llama; we see that the youth are in a state of confusion , they get impressed of what they see on around them , how people around them act like ,who do they represent and so on and so forth. It’s all a mind control game which is been played very well and the parents are big time unaware of this destruction and infact are contributing there big share in this process. Allah hu mustaan. We see that when any nation is attacked and one nation which tries to overpower the other nation it first attacks the cultures of the nation , it destroys the culture of that nation and makes it westernized by getting them a television set , giving them beautiful women and on and on. They take their identity from them first and they see to it that they have proper control over their minds; in short if they are not in the western society then they make the same society westernized where they are living. And when it happens the television becomes the teacher of the youth and when television becomes teacher of the youth then they have proper control over their minds now, the bat man and the spider man inspires them now, they start like the base ball hat on their head than the kufi ,the change begins , the way of walking changes walks with a limp as if he has polio, the way of talking changes yo yo attitude. We see many youth today wearing this low waist jeans ,tight and short cloths aazubillah ,the prophet pbuh said a time will come when people they wear cloths but still they will be naked…. they don’t even know how did it started and they just adapted seeing some joker wearing it on TV. The hair styles they have are strange aauzubillah , big big beats head phones round there neck aauzubillah , long 50 cents lockets and chains around there necks , drugs and thugs and what not….they change their names for example bilal becomes billi , Mohammad becomes mo , asiyah becomes asia , and they develop two personalities now and they call it they have now becomes”westernized”
if we just see as to who is responsible for this change and I sincerely blame the parents coz for they not looking at the children , not giving attention to their upbringing , parents running after money how to make this hundred thousand dollars to two hundred thousand dollars , need to buy a new car , need to buy this new bungalow and all on mortgages , and when they get all these things the husband and wife both go out to earn coz now they have to clear their debts for the life time , leaving there children’s in a public school , public school ???? I was talking to an elderly person whose son goes to public school in Toronto , I told him if you really care for your child then just take a leave for an hour from your work and see what your child is learning in these public schools , they teach them everything while the kid is still in grade one or two , they teach them lessons on homosexuality , sex and so on and so forth ,,,, I know a brother whose small kid goes to this public school , he got a phone call from his class teacher complaining that there is something wrong with your son as he doesn’t talk to his girl class mates …. Is this what schools meant for and do we really want our children to learn these things in schools???? parents are responsible for this I have seen many families going to restaurants for eating and going to
restaurants for eating is not strange but counting there cents and nickels and each paying for their own food is strange , husband and wife …. What does Allah says in Surah Al Baqarah ch: 2, V: 187 , that “they are your garments and you are there garments” , they are izzah of one another and they are now loving there cents and nickels more than there Izzah. Dying for money and not looking after the kids and when they grow up they don’t look at you and you shouldn’t expect that either , a father asked his son to get a glass of water and son replies back saying , dad are you paralyzed go get water for yourself ….
Manhood is not just in begetting children’s , if this is manhood than even animals can begets ,but looking after the children’s , giving them proper Islamic education is necessary. Our youth are into drugs, casinos and discos in the name of fun. Deen is jus till the masjid and outside the masjid the bilal is again billi , the youths are playing this dual personality games , they can list you all the names of the heroes with their ranking , but they won’t be able to tell the name of a single sahabi …. There heros are now what they see on tv and no nothing about the heroes of Islam , they made Islam to mislam and deen is now the low priority Allah hu mustaan. They know and its now installed into their minds that if something goes wrong superman will come and save them or batman will come and save them or some other man will come and save them , but wallahi they have no concept of Allah in their minds and they do not know that Allah is the savior alone.
The greatest of destruction that has fallen on the Muslims today is not the bullets and not the bombs but it is entertainment and this is how they attack us and this is how they get us. They want to be more like the ones they see on tv , act like them , walk like them , think like them and everything like them. If we like and want to be like the one who we see on TV the people of the hell , then remember this hadith , The prophet pbuh said, “you will be with those whom you love (Bukhari)”.
And of these things these destruction and crisis will just not stop with a NO , but we need to provide them with an alternative , there needs to be more and more Islamic schools , there needs to be recreational centers , gathering in the masajids where youth should speak , let them speak up there problems they are going through,,,, we need to take care of our culture no matter where we live and more over the parents should look at themselves too which is fore most important , if they are not correct themselves then how do they expect their children to be good and obedient ?
I have seen a Muslim man with a beard mashaAllah and his kid holding a apple nano in his hand and ear phones in his ears and nodding is head hard , I asked this kid what are you listening to akhi , the kid was not able to answer because of the ear phones in his ears , but the father shamlessly answers , he is listening to music… it is the parents who are responsible for the destruction of the children’s , they got them these apples and blackberries and opened for them these gates of destruction .
In my college/university here in Canada I usually gives jummah kutbah and leads the jummah salah , and one jummah I aksed a man who was around 45-50 yrs of age to give the adhan (the call for prayer) , he made blunders in his adhan and after he was done with his adhaan I shouted in the public and asked somebody else to come forward and give the adhaan again , that man he understood that he made
messed up with the adhaan , this is the condition of our elders and if this is how elders are then what will be teach our kids at home ?
I met a group of black girls , the reason for me stressing the word black is not because I am a racist please do not get me wrong , but because black people here in north America are the most freaked out people and all kinds of bad you get to see are mostly in the blacks, and that group there was this girl with her head half shaved and rest half of her was left with few hairs austagfirullah , I spoke to her and asked her who inspired you for this hair style ? She said nobody, it suites me. I said did somebody told you that it suites you? She said no, I usually like to keep this kind of hairs and she was confused as she never ever must of thought of why does she keeps this kind of hair …. And she left suddenly, I saw her other friend and gave her a copy of the Qur’an and asked her to give it to her from my side inshaAllah.
Our pious son and daughters are the means of ajar for us in the hearafter , so we need to be very careful and look after them seriosuly in there up bringing as our own akhira is also associated with them and theres with us inshaAllah... And Allah says in the Qur’an in Surah Rad Ch: 13, V: 11 that “Indeed Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves” I just want to write many many more things on this subject but its taking a lot of space khayr, Allah says in the Qur’an in surah al ahzaab ch: 33, V: 21 that: “There has certainly been for you in the Messenger of Allah an excellent pattern for anyone whose hope is in Allah and the Last Day and *who+ remembers Allah often.” by , Syed Asif Ali Shah (SERVANT OF ALLAH (SWT), IN THE SERVICE OF ISLAM)