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The Sexually Superior Male

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This volume is an update and expansion of the book entitled

Male Multiple Orgasms

That book is obsolete as of February 2012 and is being replaced by this one.

We have added to it an entire course about natural penis enlargement. We authors and editors in this office have used the information given, as have many customers who have written back to us. Everyone says they’re getting favorable results with all of this material.

Normally a course like this would sell for $45, and several publishers charge much more. Here at Ultimate-Romance.com we offer these products for a lower price with the expectation that you’ll refer friends to us, tell friends on Social Media to see our website, and one way or another help us help many men and their lovers to have happier sex lives.

Please accept our advanced thanks for passing the word around!

Dr. Nate

Dr. Nate and the rest of our staff do not advocate promiscuous sex. We promote great long-term relationships and happy faithful monogamous marriages. What we teach here we hope men and women will use for a happy long-term relationship, and avoid the dangers and sadness associated with promiscuity.

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How Any Man

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3 How Any Man Can Experience Multiple Orgasms, Gain Ultimate Penis Control, and The Ability To

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Here's how you can get hard, stay hard, and pleasure your partner until she's so exhausted she says "time out I need a break".

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In this report you'll learn to develop complete control over your sexual response. You'll cum when you want to rather than when stimulation forces you to. You'll never be embarrassed about cumming too soon again. Big cocks are fun to have, (though some girls find them uncomfortable.) Average cocks bring millions of girls’ pleasure every minute of every day. Cocks under control of their owners are best, without doubt. In 6 to 10 weeks you can develop so much control it will be as if you had doubled your sexual powers. You'll have that control for life.

This is a long report. It could easily be sold for $50 and a lot of hucksters on line would do that. We've reduced it to a reasonable price because we hope you'll be inclined to buy our other books and booklets at: www.Ultimate- Romance2020.com ! You’ll find most of what we publish available in our

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The growing Series “Repeat Performance” is

available in “Lessons” (PDF E-Books) booklets and prices vary between $2.45 and $4.00 for them. Any man or woman who wants to really understand how to have a fabulous long-term perfect romance should start with Lesson #1 (which we’re including at the end of this book) and follow along in sequence to get the very most out of the study, and avoid missing

important details.

Some women love quickies, some don't. Some women "take orgasms" for themselves. Some will say a good lover "gives her" an orgasm. The best lovers read body language, understand her needs, and follow the subtle signs to please her endlessly. Women may or may not experience orgasm based upon their own psychological and physical state. Recent research has moved from Clitoral to Vaginal to G-spot and G-Spot Extended Orgasms to Cul-de-sac orgasms. Each orgasm in different. Each requires her to take time to "train" herself and prepare her mind and body to experience the pleasure of each orgasm.

You’ll find another report on our BOOKS page which will discuss these

and teach you and her how to move from one to the next to the next until she is experiencing pleasure most women never imagined could be experienced. Of course we know companies sell these kinds of books and follow up with lectures and DVD’s for higher prices. We’re depending upon low price and higher volume of sales. We’re depending upon YOU to get into your social networks and pass the word around to friends about the

value of what we offer and tell them how much you’re learning at such

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reasonable prices. Please prove I’m right about this. Please prove we can offer more, and charge less, and make happier exchange everyone!

Each orgasm Clitoral (nice, fun but not the best of the list) Vaginal G-spot Cul-de-sac orgasms G-Spot Extended Orgasms . (the very best)

Each orgasm in different.

Each orgasm is better than the last. Extended Orgasms can go on, literally, for hours! It may take days or weeks to get to that point but when she does she'll lose track of who she is, who she is with, how long she has been there. All she knows, is her self existence, and pleasure. The experience is so good it changes physical condition and elevates the mood for days. Orgasms happen spontaneously even without sex while she's working or just walking around the house, or at work. Thoughts of sex can bring on spontaneous orgasms. Thinking of you can make her cum in moments. I've been there and seen it happen. I said that some women take weeks to get there, but I will be presenting information here and in the Lessons Booklets that she can do to improve her powers of concentration and speed the process from weeks to days, even hours!

Cul-De-Sac orgasms require that her Uterus will lift allowing the penis to pass the neck of it to the very furthest reach of the vagina. There you'll encounter exquisitely sensitive nerves that once trained can give her an instant orgasm any time she wants it, as often as she wants it. Almost no one knows of these things. You don't give this to a one-night-stand woman. These experiences take time and training together. The love that grows out of this is deeper and more certain than what most people ever experience. This is the sort of experience held closely by two people who maintain a trusting and faithful (monogamous) relationship. To do this YOU need to be able to pleasure a woman with your hands, your lips and tongue and your penis for any length of time from 30 minutes to 3 hours. You'll learn in this e-book to go longer if you wish. You'll learn to fuck, cum, sleep, wake, and start again several times through the night.

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Restoring Your Virility

I don’t mean to insult you, but let’s be honest here, most men past age 25 aren’t as horney as they were at age 14! But you should be! So let’s look into that problem and the solution. We must start with training muscles in your pelvis, and your response to their action and your feeling. You'll develop nervous system control as muscles change. You'll end up multi-orgasmic yourself. If your health is not good I suggest you go to a health food store and get three items. I don't have space here to explain physiology to you at length, and it takes us a bit too far afield. Taken from broad experience the average American needs (1) a digestive enzyme tablet with each meal. (2) A very good quality multiple vitamin. You won't find it in the drug store. (3) a good quality multiple mineral with trace minerals. If you need more help send an e-mail to me and request my nutritional supplement offering sheet for "male reproductive system health."

 

Some of us, after age 25, need additional supplements

to boost Testosterone and Growth Hormone production and reception. (Reception at the cellular level is vital because often we produce sufficient hormone but the cell receptor sites are “covered” by other molecules and need to be cleaned so they can respond again.) There are herbal supplements to help us regain our youth, strength, sexual desire and the ability to cum more, produce more cream, and enjoy each orgasm much more than we have been. There are also several other supplements to restore other parameters of health as we had when we were younger.

You can find these at this address. Just click this Link

 

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Let me give you some additional advice.

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Our world has become over run with pollutants. There are drugs and estrogen mimics in the air, in our shampoo, in plastic food containers, and food wrap, even in city water supplies. Estrogen is a feminizing hormone. It gives girls breasts and beautiful round hips and backsides, thicker kissable facial lips, and smooth soft skin. It turns men into women! These same pollutants are causing wild life to have deformities or be incapable of reproducing. Biologists in the Florida Everglades find Alligators with the reproductive system of baby-gators. Slowly these estrogen mimic chemicals will destroy your sexual interest, reduce penis and testicle size, make you feel lazy and unwilling to work or behave like a man. It may lead to depression and various forms of cancer too! These days our men are actually weaker than men who lived 3,000 years ago in Europe and around the Mediterranean. Our medical doctors are testing young men age 20 or younger and finding they have less normal free Testosterone in their blood than what is expected in men age 75! This is a disaster, and also a cause for boys to grow up fat, sickly and with a penis the size of a large clitoris! To counter this environmental offensive you should take about 1000 mg of vitamin C daily, a good multi-mineral and multi-vitamin supplement, and EAT REAL FOOD! I know I just confused you and I’ll explain real food in a moment. You should also get off your chair and get some daily walk-run exercise, a few floor calisthenics at least, or go on YouTube and view the different videos fitness trainers offer. Adapt those videos to what you are presently able to do and work up slowly, day by day, to being more flexible and stronger. Combining some reasonable daily exercise, and eating real food will have a major effect upon your body, your emotions, even improve your ability to work done and done well in school or career life. “REAL FOOD”: Means eating food the way God gave it to us. Avoid white sugar and flour products, alcoholic beverages, and the “energy drinks” loaded with caffeine. Cultivate within yourself an understanding about cooking and acquire a taste for oat meal and eggs in the morning, whole wheat bread, (I make it myself the way the ancients did, mixing wheat and water, rolling it out and heating it on a dry cast iron frying pan or skillet.) For men who want to revive their sexual ability it is suggested to eat

cruciferous vegetables

Broccoli Cabbage Brussels sprouts

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Cauliflower

Kale

Bok choy

Rutabaga

Collard Greens

Radish

Sources include wikipedia.org, drlam.com and marysherbs.com

You’re also advised to eat nuts, and avocado. These natural foods contain minerals and vitamins that will help you restore your health and energy for sexual pleasure. When you think about what sex really is, you realize it’s an effort to pass on life force to someone else, and ultimately reproduce. If there’s insufficient life force, you’re not going to be sexual.

What's in Cruciferous Vegetables?

Nearly all are excellent or good sources of vitamin C and some are good sources of manganese. Dark greens are high in vitamin K.

Glucosinolates are compounds found in all cruciferous vegetables; Glucosinolates form isothiocyanates andindoles. Other nutrients and phytochemicals vary:

Broccoli, Brussels sprouts, cauliflower and rapini are all excellent sources of folate, a B

vitamin.

Broccoli is a good source of potassium.

Broccoli and Brussels sprouts are good sources of dietary fiber and rich in magnesium.

Broccoli, Brussels sprouts and rapini contain carotenoids such as beta-carotene.

Red cabbage and radishes supply anthocyanins. Other cruciferous vegetables provide differentpolyphenols, such as hydroxycinnamic acids,kaempferol and quercetin.

Your big meal should be lunch and 95% of your food intake should be vegitables and grains. Americans eat FAR more protein than we need. This habit is not healthy, and it does not necessarily cause men to gain more muscle. About 5% of your food intake should be protein from Eggs and dairy, and perhaps a little soy tofu. You can, but certainly do not need to, eat meat.

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If you doubt me just look at people in South East Asia. They’re strong, long lived, maintain a youthful appearance till age 45 or 50, and have far less cancer and heart disease than we have. I’ve lived for some time in The Philippines among people who ate this way and my girlfriend would look at me, smile and say, “Fuck me, fuck me, fuck me Honey! I want you fuck me. My pussy so hungry you again.” She did this about 5 or 6 times a day every day, for as long as I was there, (about once every 3- hours) and she told me if I wanted to fuck her in her sleep in the dark of night that would be fine with her too! She always insisted that I fuck her again before she fell asleep. I don’t think she was unusual. I think she was average among these women! And by the way, her pussy had almost no scent! The fishy smell you get from women in the US comes from eating sugar! At age 33, after having become a widow, and giving birth to four kids, this “girl friend” still looked like a teenager. Her A-Cup breasts were uplifted and the skin over her abdomen had only the barest traces of stretch marks. Her face was that of a woman age 20. This is what happens when you feed people real food! These people eat some tropical fruit, mostly green vegetables, fish and brown or red rice. Foods to add to your diet: Peanuts and/or peanut butter, because it’s rich in L-Arginine (a growth hormone releaser), other nuts (peanuts aren’t nuts, they’re a bean or “legume.”) Water melon, brightly colored fruit and vegetables, Avocado contains Vitamin B-6 to help maintain normal testosterone levels. In most cases the foods are interesting but the vitamins supplements are more convenient. Likewise the herbal supplements we promote are much better balanced and easier to store and take than trying to mix up your own from raw herbs searched for through six health stores! If you can make a half hour or so each day for 7 to 10 weeks, for penis exercise combined with general body exercise and nutrition as I’ve just explained, you’ll change your sex life. Is it worth the effort? That's your decision. I say it is. Get into the habit of exercise and good health and it will pay dividends the rest of your life. We want to improve your health, give you control over ejaculation response so you can orgasm when you want without shooting cream, and then squirt her full of your cream when you're ready for an explosive final orgasm. You'll be able to last as long as you wish.

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GENITAL SIZE

Cock size is not so terribly important to orgasm. Neither is breast size

or clitoris size. Men imagine that girls with big clits and big boobs are more exciting in bed. Once you're there with her, you’ll discover that is seldom the case. Your biggest sex organ is your mind. If you insist on gals with huge boobs and perfect tummies you'll be kissing a lot of toads before you find your princess. If she insists on men with cocks that are big enough to inseminate horses she'll find one in every 300,000 lovers she tries out. Most guys are 5 to 6 inches long and about 1 and a quarter (4 inches around) to 1 and a half (4.7 inches around) inches in diameter. If you're larger than that you're in the statistically rare group. Most women begin to complain you're too big if your cock is greater than 1.5 inches thick. 5.5 inches around is the large end of average. Six inches around is likely in 1 in 10,000 men. Bigger than that is so rare it's almost impossible to find unless you’re running a porn studio and advertising for them! You can make yourself that big and bigger temporarily with vacuum pumping. It took a lot of pumping sessions done correctly to get there. It’s quite an experience to be that big but vacuum pumping can lead to bad side effects, and the size only lasts a few minutes before your body begins to restore itself to normal size again. Orgasm for men is a combination of blood flow, muscles in your crotch and tightening in a sequence (kind of like swallowing) which forces seminal fluid from the prostate gland and the seminal vesicles into the urethra (the exit tube). Then the PC muscles contract around the base of the penis forcing the fluid out of the exit tube. You can control this and hold the pleasure of almost cumming for a very long time, back away from that threshold and reach it again and again until she has cum till she can't think straight, then you can both cum together for the grand final moment.

PREMATURE EJACULATION

The Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV) defines premature ejaculation as a persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on or shortly after penetration

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and before a person wishes. Not a sexy definition. You might prefer to define it as cumming sooner than you or your partner wants, and it has happened to nearly all of us.

How often does this occur in different age groups for men? According to the 1999 NHSLS survey by Laumann et al., 30% of men ages 18-29, 32% ages 30-39, 28% ages 40-49, and 31% ages 50-59 stated climaxing too early was an issue. I know some of you were hoping age would slow things down. If men were asked if they’ve ever had at least one experience of premature ejaculation, almost every guy would get in line for their membership card.

What causes premature ejaculation? There’s not one cause; it’s a combination of factors. Some believe anxiety is the culprit, repetitive learned behaviors, excessive or insufficient arousal, or muscular tension. They’re all associated, and addressing each of them is the key to curing premature ejaculation.

premature ejaculation: anxiety reduction

Let’s start with what we can do before our penis comes into play. First, you need to learn to calm yourself down and lower your performance anxiety levels. Because premature ejaculation is associated with infrequent sex, men with low frequencies of sexual activity often get extra excited and aroused, which can manifest as performance anxiety when sex presents itself. Even men with frequent sex can get extra aroused.

Reducing anxiety is different for everyone. Meditation, hypnosis or imagery exercises may help for some. Just like an athlete works with the sports psychologist to envision their performance, you can do the same sexual imagery for the bedroom.

Imagine positive sexual scenarios, envision your interactions and what behaviors you would engage in.

Imagery can be like a positive mental plan, something you can fall back on that can help you manage your anxiety beforehand -- and in the moment.

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Communicating your anxiety is also helpful. We hear the expression, “a big relief to get that off my chest,” yet it’s rarely used for premature ejaculation. Talking with a partner, friend or therapist opens the door for anxiety relief and can help address and alleviate some of our fears. Men are notorious for keeping things inside and it’s no different for a delicate subject like this. Things like our penis size, body image, relationship difficulties, and stressors in life (work, financial, family, health) can all add to our anxiety levels in the bedroom.

Read more sex education books and see more DVDs on sex technique and sexual expression. There are thousands out there.

The more sex education you have, the more competent, confident and less anxious you’ll feel.

premature ejaculation: pelvic muscles

Ever notice the tension you feel in your body? Men are less likely to find ways to release pelvic tension. Often, men are engaged in actions and behaviors throughout their lives and during sex that reinforce muscular tension. During sex, if you’re holding your breath, flexing your abs and muscles, or supporting your weight in certain positions (missionary position is a good example.) This creates muscle tensions which increases the potential for premature ejaculation.

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Clearly, a woman on top position with a variation of this one, is better in many ways for many of us. My Lesson #5 (also soon available in Module #1) of the Repeat Performance course covers a great many sex positions with photos. Actually there’s so much there for the price I think it’s a terrific “bargain.”

The classic example of inappropriate muscle tension leading to premature ejaculation is men who tighten their muscles as they push out their erection to feel and appear larger to their partner. Since orgasm is muscular contractions that release muscular tension, it’d be wise for us to work on our muscle tension levels. Activities like yoga, stretching, anxiety reduction skills, and working out are all ways to decrease the

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tension in your pelvic and abdominal regions outside of the bedroom.

I also recommend you allow your partner (or masseuse) to give you a full body massage. Be mindful of the performance anxiety you experience and the tension release you feel as the massage therapist touches your stomach, your thighs, your buttocks, and other areas of your body.

The concern is not about genital stimulation. It is about managing the discomfort you may feel with your body being seen and touched. Men who are comfortable with their body image and with being touched often have lower ratings of sexual anxiety, and are therefore, better lovers.

Another important technique to lasting longer is doing Kegel exercises. If you haven’t tried them, what are you waiting for? There’s no better method to strengthen your pelvic region and to create strong pubococcygeus muscles.

One of the reasons Peyton Manning and Tom Brady are two of the great quarterbacks in the NFL is because they spend thousands of hours watching game films to prepare for the game. What are you doing to prepare for sex? You can’t expect greatness if you don’t put in the time.

premature ejaculation: start-stop method

The start-stop method is a tested method to learning ejaculatory control and lasting longer. A man will stimulate his penis until he is ready to have an orgasm and then cease stimulation. By doing this you training yourself to find when your ejaculatory inevitability occurs, or your point of no return. This is the moment before orgasm when you’re about to explode. Instead of ejaculating, you refrain from stimulation and allow the feeling of orgasm to subside.

When you can do this with your hands it’s easier to do it with a pussy. You’ll start, tell her to relax and allow you time to “destimulate” (“Wait, give me a moment so I won’t cum too soon. I want to make love to you a long time.”) You’ll reach a point where you can enjoy the sex and admiring her but you won’t feel like you’re going to cum.

Some men will often squeeze their PC muscles (a Kegel contraction) to help hold back orgasm and ejaculation. Essentially, you’re teaching your

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mind and body to get comfortable with being in heightened states of arousal and learning when the onset of orgasm approaches.

The goal is to stretch out the plateau phase of the sexual response cycle and put more distance between the excitement and orgasm phase.

Some men will do the start-stop method repeatedly for months and most gradually notice changes in their control, duration of maintained stimulation, and their anxiety and confidence levels.

At first, masturbate alone using the start-stop method, then use it during partnered manual stimulation (hand job), fellatio (blow job) and, finally, incorporate the start-stop method with intercourse.

As you develop control you can be in a state where you have something like “dry orgasms,” one after the other, or as we call it, “male multiple orgasms.” I’ll discuss this in depth and more carefully later in this book.

premature ejaculation: masturbation

Masturbatory patterns are a form of learned behavior that often need to be unlearned. Most guys have a fast-track orgasm approach to masturbation. Whether it’s because mom always knew the worst time to knock on your door, or your decision to rub one out fast when stressed, we often train ourselves to be quick on the orgasm trigger.

I wish to stress this again: Parents do not “own” their children. Micromanaging your son or daughter is the fast route to making that kid decide to move out as soon as possible and see you as little as possible forever there after! If the kid has his/her door closed, leave him/her alone! Have a little respect for that person’s self determination.

Domineering parents can drive a child to absolute distraction. Your feeling is that you must force this person to “Obey” you at all costs, turning that person into a mental robot, driving him/her psychologically down the emotional tone scale toward apathy. But the opposite approach works better. As the person is allowed to be self-determined and creative he/she comes up the tone scale through chronic displays of anger, pain and antagonism to conservatism and finally into

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cheerfulness. At that point you have a person who you can trust and like to have in your presence.

The approach of micro-management is essentially saying, “The beatings will continue until moral improves.” It won’t improve! The mental abuse will drive the two of you apart, or worse, lead to a violent and terrible end of some sort acted against you or someone else who is undeserved of this mistreatment.

I’ll get deeper into interpersonal relationship psychology in another book you’ll find on this website in due time.

You need to change this masturbation mentality of goal-oriented orgasm to one that focuses on taking your time and getting comfortable with heightened sensations. Masturbation is the best practice for sex. Instead of racing to orgasm, take at least 20 minutes of masturbation time before allowing yourself to ejaculate. During this time, you’ll focus on the start- stop method and penile stimulation of the shaft and glans (head). The glans are generally the most sensitive areas of the penis and is continuously stimulated inside the vagina. However, most men masturbate using an up- down stroking motion of the shaft and neglect glans stimulation. Consequently when the glans is stimulated so beautifully by her mouth or pussy they cum three minutes after she begins and the fun ends too soon.

Start off your 20-minute stroking without lube and just your imagination. In future masturbation sessions, work up to imagery with lube and a foam vagina – the best ones being from Fleshlight. There are links for it on my site.

Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit

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These toys are ordered online and delivered discretely. The gradual increase in stimulation that you can manage, sustain and control will eventually be transferred to sex with a partner, and you’ll be able to make love to her as long as you wish. She’ll reach the heights of pleasure

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Premature ejaculation: sex positions

Who would’ve thought the positions we have sex in can impact premature ejaculation? Oddly enough, the most popular position in the U.S. is male superior (missionary), which is also the position associated most with premature ejaculation. This is because muscular tension is increased as the male is supporting his body weight with his arms and core strength.

A man looking to cure premature ejaculation will do best with positions that limit muscular tension such as female superior (female on top), side- to-side (spooning) and rear entry (doggy style) when both partners are on their knees. Incorporate deep breathing with these sex positions to keep the blood and oxygen circulating. You might like this article about sex positions .

Premature ejaculation: other treatments

Forget crèmes and desensitizing potions. The entire direction of that thinking is flawed. Ejaculating before intercourse is an excellent way to last longer. The more times you ejaculate in a sexual experience, the longer lasting you’ll become and less semen you’ll produce. Most men don’t ejaculate more than once during intercourse and most of us know how long it takes to “recycle” and be ready for intercourse again. In that case, if you know you’re likely to make love to her after she comes from her evening shower and you want a quick fix to your immediate worry, bring yourself off while she’s in the bath. Twenty or thirty minutes later you’ll be able to get hard and please her as long as you two want.

Older men need more time to recycle. A healthy man age 60 can ejaculate and be able to have an erection again 3 or 4 hours later, and with that knowledge he can time himself.

Some men also know they can only ejaculate once every 3-days. If that’s the case a man can time his sex life accordingly and while his partner doesn’t have the sensation of him squirting crème into her, she never-the- less enjoys lots of orgasms and finds this man the best partner she could

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wish for. This works especially well if the woman is several years younger! A lot of women from S.E. Asia and Ukraine want to marry older more emotionally stable men and there are many happy marriages with 15 and 20 years difference. It’s quite common to see men age 50 married to Filipinas age 20 or 25, and some of those girls are quite beautiful!

You would see her dressed up in a restaurant and think, “She could pick up men like fallen leaves. Why him?” But she wants him because she knows he will be good to her and to her family. He will move her out of poverty into a good home, and help her family with a new roof and sending the other brothers and sisters through college. So, the exchange is not a bad one. Many such men move to and retire in S.E. Asia. I’ll have a link to a book on that subject on this website very soon.

As an example of what I was saying, Assume the woman is age 30. She’s horney more than ever as her body is winding down toward the time when she can no longer conceive. She’ll be willing to make love several times a week, even three and more times per day. I know because I’ve been there and done that. She was age 33, and I was age 46.

Her husband, if he keeps himself fit, can please her endlessly and not ejaculate. That’s actually a good experience. He enjoys the privilege of admiring his lovely wife in the throes of her passion, and he gets some very pleasant exercise. She gets the sex she wants and the stability of a man with some wisdom who wants a long-term faithful relationship and will do all he must to maintain it!

You will be wise to avoid all drugs and alcohol before sex: ALL drugs including marijuana and its derivatives and pharmaceuticals.

manage premature ejaculation

You can probably eradicate premature ejaculation in a few months if you stick to your program. There are a lot of self-help books, videos, therapists, and sex coaches that can help you through this process if you feel the need for more help and advice. One lovely side effect of lasting longer is that once you can, your woman will want more sex, more often, and for longer sessions. Quick “masterbate in her pussy” sessions

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will be over. You’ll admire her lost in greater pleasure then she ever knew she could enjoy.

LASTING LONGER SUMMARY

There are several other ways to go on for an hour. (1) One is to get used to masturbation for an hour or longer and then finally cum at the end through additional stimulation, even pounding the pubic bone with your fist or BY bumping into her pelvis. This works really well if she's on her hands and knees, or lying face down. She’ll probably have very powerful orgasms this way too, because the nervous system is design to respond to this position. Don't try bumping her hard in any face to face position. You'll hurt her clit and she'll be very upset with you. (2) Another way is to cum before you fuck. Do it yourself, or get her to milk you into her hands or her mouth, or even her pussy for a “quickie.” Wait till you "recycle" and then fuck as long as you can. I used to do this, and while I wouldn't usually cum a second time, she would cum 20 or 30 times over the next hour. For me it was exercise and an ego trip. For her it was orgasms to exhaustion and of course she thought she had discovered God’s gift to womanhood.

18 will be over. You’ll admire her lost in greater pleasure then she ever knew she

Usually no one can keep going for more than an hour before one of you gets sore and has to stop. Good lubricant will help you carry on longer. The best lubricants do not contain glycerin. Glycerin is a sugar and bacteria love to set up housekeeping in it, giving the girl a nasty infection. KY Jell is an old product that was (and probably still is) made with glycerin. I like "Slippery Stuff". It's healthier than any other on the market and stays slick longer. Every woman needs some lubricant some time. Buy some and if you can't find it I'll have it available. I think Adam and Eve carry’s it too. The silicon lubricants are reputed to taste terrible but they stay smooth and slippery much longer. The solution then is oral sex first, or please her clit with your fingertips while kissing her lips and suckling her nipples, then add some silicone lube to yourself and her vaginal lips, and then enter her and please her like this was the first and last time in the next 100 years! That will give her something to whisper about in the ears of other women. (oh, yes, some of them do!)

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The best way to fuck, of course, is to have such control you enjoy pleasure over and over through the course of an hour or longer. Perhaps switch to clit kissing and pleasuring her G-spot with your finger tips, and then periodically go back to intercourse. This is part of the G-spot extended orgasm routine and it's one of the most pleasurable experiences she'll ever have. It also allows you to go on for hours. I actually did this one afternoon. It went on and on till I was board with it. She was cumming and I just kept on going until she ran out of energy. When she finally came back to earth she said I was the best she had ever known. The entire session ran over 3 hours and her final extended orgasm ran just over 45 minutes. Wow! I’ll teach more about this in another book.

Actually when boys begin to masturbate early (age 9 - 11) they become multiply orgasmic naturally in most cases. If we wait till we're older we develop the habit of cumming once and calling it quits. This may be because we're not permitted the privacy we need. So many parents think sex for kids is evil they create sex problems that never would have existed if they had just left their kids alone. Kids are people too. They deserve privacy. In my own home I was a prisoner. I was never allowed to close my own bedroom door. If I did my mother opened it. My window was on an East wall and my bed pills faced the window. I closed the blinds so the sun wouldn’t blast my eyes. Every morning that domineering bitch came into my room and opened the blinds. I asked her a hundred times not to do it and she did it anyway. I paid her back. When I move out at age 18 I never saw her again and spoke to her as little as possible. As I said earlier, you don’t own your kids and if you think you do, you’re asking for trouble. You can see, I’m getting to be an old dog and I still resent that woman’s abuse. Don’t do this to your kids! My mother sewed the seeds of contempt early. My only time alone was after she and Dad were fast asleep. There was so much guilt created around sex it took years to overcome it. Actually, even some babies masturbate. Maybe if parents knew that they would call it “natural” and stop hassling their children. Parents should realize, the kids are a gift from God, they’re here as your guest, and you’re fortunate to be allowed to raise them. BUT, You Don’t Own Them!!! No human can ever be your personal private property, and anyone who thinks otherwise is looking for trouble. What goes around comes around and what you do to others eventually comes back to you seven fold. Maybe not this lifetime, but eventually it comes back to us. Research tells us the longer people spend in either masturbation or sex play prior to orgasm the stronger orgasm will be. Cumming in three minutes

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flat is seldom very pleasurable. Working up to it over 30 minutes or longer is generally much more pleasurable. Teasing, kissing, doing oral sex, massaging and so forth for a long time causes the final climax to be much better. I remember once going 4-hours wandering around Los Angeles with this girl, kissing and so forth, before she nearly demanded I take her to bed. I took a quick shower and came back to her. She put her mouth around my cock and drew the cream from me so fast and so hard I went dizzy and nearly fainted. She swallowed it all, kissed me some more till I got hard again and then we fucked each other till she was exhausted. You'll note, a man should do his best to be physically fit for these long marathon sessions. As you see, being able to last longer is better. Let’s talk about your most important “sexercise.”

PC Muscles

With practice you can build so much control you can fuck for an hour or more before cumming. In this next exercise program you can build stronger pubococcygeus muscles which lead to stronger and more pleasurable ejaculations.

The pubococcygeus

muscle or PC

muscle is

a hammock-like

muscle, found in both

the coccyx (tail

bone)

sexes, that stretches from the pubic bone to

forming

the floor of

the pelvic

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supporting the pelvic organs. It

is

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of

muscles.

The Pubococcygeus muscle controls urine flow and contracts during orgasm. It also aids in urinary control and childbirth as well as core stability.

A strong pubococcygeus muscle has also been linked to a reduction in urinary incontinence and proper positioning of the baby's head during childbirth.

Kegel Exercises

Kegel exercises are a series of voluntary contractions of all the perineal muscles. Such movement is done in an effort to strengthen all the striated muscles in the perineum's area. They are often referred to simply as "Kegels", named after their founder, Dr. Arnold Kegel.

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Kegel exercises are convenient for both genders because you can do them anywhere, anytime -- and nobody will know the difference.

Strong PC muscles aid in better control your orgasms and ejaculations, and better control of penile movement. Squeezing and releasing your PC muscles while you’re in a vagina feels a bit like you’re cumming and makes you thicker and harder. She’ll always like that!

The easiest way to find your PC muscles is to begin by stopping your flow of urine next time you go to the bathroom and as you do press your fingers under your crotch behind the scrotum. Squeeze to stop urine flow and you’ll feel the pelvic floor harden.

You can make a habit of interrupting urination every time you “go” and you’ll be again, strengthening your PCs.

However you decide to find them, once they are found you need to practice feeling exactly where they are located. It’s a mistake to overcompensate for weak muscles by using the abdominals, buttocks or thighs. These must all stay relaxed when doing Kegel exercises for men.

Women squeezing by tensioning their abdominal muscles may give you a pleasant sensation but don’t help themselves enjoy better sex. Both genders should exercise and become capable of very delicate control over their PC muscles.

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As you work on this carefully you will be able to isolate these muscles so that when you tension them you will not additionally cause tension of the anus, or buttock and leg muscles.

You can play with this doing soft tension, a little harder then relax and a little harder again, short fast, slow tense and squeeze harder, and continue doing this until you have developed good brain pathway connection and can isolate these muscles exclusively as you do these exercises.

Daily Kegel Exercises

Note: These exercises are done hands-free. You do not “squeeze” anything with your hands as they are all done with your PC muscles.

Kegel session 1 Exercise A

Sets: 3 Quickly clench and release repeatedly for 10 seconds.

Take a 10-second break between sets.

Exercise B

Sets: 10 Clench and release repeatedly for 5 seconds. Take a 5-second break between sets.

Exercise C

Sets: 3 Tighten and hold your PC muscle for 30 seconds.

Take a 30 second break between sets.

That’s it for today, but repeat these Kegel exercises for men daily for one week.

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Kegel session 2 Exercise A

Sets: 10 Clench and hold your PC muscle for 5 seconds.

Release and repeat.

Exercise B

Sets: 3 Quickly clench and release your PC muscle 10 times.

Exercise C

Sets: 3 Clench and release your PC muscle alternatively in long and short bursts for counts of 10.

Exercise D

Sets: 1 Tighten your PC muscle and hold for as long as you can. Aim for 2 minutes.

You can do the session 2 Kegel exercises for men for a week; however, feel free to progress if you feel you are strong enough. Remember that these are strengthening exercises, so start off slowly and build up, just like you would with any other muscle.

Kegel Session 3

Exercise A

Sets: 30 (work your way up to more than 100) Clench and release your PC muscle over and over again.

Exercise B

Sets: 5 Tighten as much as you possibly can (ensure that you are only squeezing your PC muscle).

Hold for 20 seconds.

Take a 30-second break between sets.

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Kegel Session 4

Exercise A

Sets: As many as you like. Clench and release your PC muscle repeatedly for 2 minutes every day.

Work your way up to doing 20 minutes 3 times a day -- you should eventually be able to perform 200 repetitions per session. If you take a walk clinch and release in some sort of rhythm like squeeze for 5 steps, relax for 4 steps and repeat. You can get good over all exercise with a walk and come home better all around.

Best Timing

You can do Kegel exercises anytime, anywhere; there are very few places you can’t practice this. It is not recommended, however, to do these exercises when you are trying to concentrate on something else, as you may find yourself quite distracted. A great place to do them is on the couch in front of the TV or while stuck at traffic lights.

How Will I Know When Something Is Happening?

You will know because you will be able to feel it, and so will your lover.

A harder penis, better control and longer lasting sex are all benefits of having strong PC muscles. There is no acceptable excuse for not having these important sexual muscles in excellent working order. If you have trouble with premature ejaculation, try these exercises before you head to the pharmacy or your health professional. An additional benefit: you may end up with thicker and harder erections.

Some reports are that some men gain 20% in size as they improve their penis blood circulation and include Kegel Exercise in their routine! A 5 inch long by 1.25” thick penis ends up as 6” long x 1.5” simply by improving blood flow. Men are advised to quit smoking and drinking alcohol. There is nothing that destroys your blood system and your sexual ability more efficiently than drugs, alcohol and tobacco smoking.

Women likewise will enjoy more pleasure and better vaginal lubrication if they also cease the use of drugs, alcohol and tobacco.

Avoid These

Don’t overdo it. It is often tempting to throw yourself into something

head on, especially when it means better sex. However, as with any

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other muscle you are working out, you need to give it some time to heal between sessions. This means regular rests and not overdoing it. If you follow the exercise schedule as you see fit, you should soon be much stronger and have much better control. Pay attention to what your body is telling you and don’t push yourself to do more exercise if you’re feeling muscle soreness.

Give the body 3-days to rebuild and strengthen, and then exercise again. Eventually you’ll be able to exercise a bit every 2 nd day and then every day. It can become a daily habit while you make breakfast or shower or drive to work, watch TV, iron your clothes, or wait and watch your dinner heating.

Don’t use any other muscle during the exercises. It is sometimes difficult to isolate the PC muscles, especially if they are weak. Be aware of what you are doing, and if you feel like you are contracting any other muscles (mainly abdominals and thighs), then you need to relax and start again. It is entirely possible to isolate the PC muscles and not contract the anus sphincter. You should be able to do this.

Just remember that it might take a few weeks to build up some strength.

Keep at it. As I said earlier: As you work on this carefully you will be able to isolate these muscles so that when you tension them they will not

additionally cause tension of the anus, or buttock and leg muscles. You can play with this doing soft tension, a little harder then relax and a little harder again, short fast, slow tense and squeeze harder, and continue doing this until you have developed good brain pathway connection and can isolate these muscles exclusively as you do these exercises.

Notes About Kegels For Women

Dr. Kegel originally developed these for women to help with over all vaginal health, orgasmic pleasure and urinary incontinence. All women should do these exercises from their youth. One measuring instrument I saw years ago was reputed to have recorded that some women can squeeze with the pressure of up to 20 pounds! It sounds amazing, but I’ve heard more than a few times of women being so strong they can actually hurt a man or push his penis out of the vagina with a squeeze.

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I also heard years ago about a woman entertainer in a sailor’s bar in Yokohama who could lie down on a bar top and fire a potato out of her pussy and throw it 20-feet. I’ve also heard of a woman in China doing one of these demonstrations. She could hold a pen or pencil with her pussy and then draw on paper with it, and then she would squat down to a man’s hand and take rolled up dollar bills out of his fingers even as he held the bill quite firmly. Oh, believe me, every woman who can do this has GREAT orgasms, and every man wants to be her lover.

Everyone can do these exercises, and they improve sex for everyone. If you and your partner do these exercises, you will both see and feel the difference within weeks. Women will have more intense orgasms and be able to “squeeze” and milk your penis while it’s inside her.

The normal function of orgasm is a milking action. The vagina is milking the penis and the uterus is contracting and releasing creating a partial vacuum to suck semen into itself. Women who have no vaginal strength are not sexually attractive. Women who have trouble conceiving a child will probably conceive readily when they can enjoy regular orgasms.

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this

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a

side

note,

some

women have low back

misalignments which affect the nerves to the reproductive organs. A few visits with a good Chiropractor can solve many of such problems.

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Women who take different sex positions, get on top and take over, rotating and squeezing as they milk him, breasts in his mouth and all done with a smile are the sort of women every man secretly prays for!

Testing It

You can do a little sexual experiment with her by resting your erection inside of her vagina, but not thrusting. Both of you can flex your PC muscles -- this stimulates her G-spot, and tickles you too. This is a fun way to test your progress. Try exercising this way to dance music. What a great way to dance on your bed.

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Run a search at YouTube “finding the G-Spot” and a pile of videos

come up. That will help you see what you may have difficulty

 

visualizing in your mind now.

 

I can get much more technical about multiple locations along the anterior (front) vaginal wall, different types of orgasm, vaginal tenting, and so forth. To keep this simple for the present, give a woman sexual stimulation for 15-minutes until she’s begging you to enter her and then be sure to angle the head of your cock toward the front of her vagina. (As one girl says, “Always point toward the belly button.”) As you are thrusting over a span of 4 inches you’ll stimulate several important nerve points that will launch her into orgasm.

There’s much more about bringing women to orgasm and pleasing them in the lessons I offer, which are also scheduled to be offered as “Modules” in book form at our website:

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Kegel Exercise and Better Pleasures

Your sexual virility is dependent on many factors. Most of these you can control -- eating nutritious food, exercising regularly and keeping your prostate healthy. Since your PC muscle is so important to the function of your sexuality, it pays to keep it in good working order.

A lot of guys have trouble meeting a girl, and when they do they run into difficulty thinking up “small talk.”

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As mentioned, the PC muscle contracts when you stop yourself from urinating. If you press fingertips into your crotch between your scrotum and anus you'll feel it contract when you squeeze. Once you have better strength and control of that muscle you'll be able to orgasm several times before ejaculation. The idea that men cum once and then

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it's over is incorrect and it cheats us all of much longer and greater pleasure, and emotional well being! Before you can take control of your reproductive organs you must experience them fully. They're "a tool" which you must know and understand to use best. The exercises being discussed are your introduction into greater sexual awareness. If you'll concentrate on this regularly over the next few weeks it will become a lifetime habit to maintain better health and control over your sex organs. Please drink about 12 ounces of water and read through this first, then

try it.

Start with squeezing the PC muscle while you feel it with your fingertips. Squeeze as many times as you can, then rest. Work to be able to squeeze once every second or two for 100 squeezes. Over time you'll be able to squeeze hard and contract the PC and the anus, and then squeeze gently and only contract the PC muscle, slow and fast, a little and a lot (gently and hard.) Also do stair steps. Gentle, a little harder until you squeeze hard as you can and hold for 5 seconds and then work down the steps more and more gently until the squeeze is almost imperceptible. Do whatever you must to get an erection. With an erection you'll be able to lift your cock up and down even with a towel hanging from it. When urinating you'll be able to stop the stream several times for 5 seconds each.

Drink more water. You need water, (not coffee not something else, I said water) to improve your health and the extra times you urinate will also help you practice. After a while once you've cleaned some poisons out you'll go to the toilet less often and use the water more efficiently. You'll probably notice your face getting younger if you drink water as often as you should. You should be able to stop urine flow at least six times each time you go. Work at this as often as you can.

Do it while you're driving, while your sitting at work, or in class looking over those beautiful girls. Do it while at a bus stop, at a game, while writing a letter, while on hold on the phone, while waiting to cross the street. No one can see. Do it as often as you can. These exercises will lead to stronger orgasms and more powerful ejaculations. Women who do these will have more pleasurable orgasms and will develop such strength they can eventually squeeze so hard it hurts! (or just hard enough to please a man so much he'll finally admit his cock belongs to you forever.)

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Men, do a self exam. Get hard and feel how the penis actually extends all the way into the pelvis to the anus. Press the PC muscle from the outside and squeeze. In the shower, ut some lubrication onto your finger and slip into the anus and go deep into the rectum and squeeze. Feel the PC muscle work. Some men may want to reach up to the prostate (again, reach for the belly button) by pressing a finger or a slim smooth object like a hair brush handle up the rectum. Be gentle, you don't want to do damage. Milking the prostate is considered by many to be a healthy enterprise and a way to maintain better prostate health. I had a friend who came when a doctor did a prostate exam on him. Some men do that regularly. Gay men do. Men whose girls use anal beads do. I knew a guy who had a whore in Viet Nam. She pushed beads into him and then pulled them out as he began to cum. He said it was the most powerful orgasm he had ever had. The prostate can be felt through the front of the rectum about 3 inches deep. With the finger inside push as if you're trying to shit. Then squeeze as if you're trying to suck the finger in. Be gentle and wash when you're done. Go back to bed. Do more exam. If you can get hard while doing this that helps. As you get hard note the shape and placement of the base of the penis. Note the change in the testicles. They're a little thicker. The scrotum is thicker and puckers. Brush the scrotum lightly and watch as the muscles around the testicle pull the testicles up. Push a testicle gently up and see if it can sip in through a canal behind the pubic bone. This is a trigger that almost always happens before you cum. Some men use a nylon and velcro watch band or a commercially sold cock ring to stop the balls from moving up and thus prolong their fucking before they remove then band and cum. This may or may not work for you. In any case, be gentle and wash when you're done. By the way, anyone who ever wrote that butt fucking won't hurt you is an ignorant liar. That's a great way to spread diseases. If you insist on butt fucking your girlfriend, only do it if she wants it, and always use a condom. I think sex is for vaginas and pleasure in anal sex is a learned response -- kind of like learning to love chewing tobacco. Yicch! Get hard, do a penis and scrotum exam in various positions. Be able to throb in any position. When a woman feels this she'll be pleased and amazed. If she’s sitting on the bed and you bring her your hard cock and make it bounce she’ll want it inside her. If you’re dressed and kissing, when you get hard place her hand over your cock and start squeezing your PC muscles. She’ll feel your cock throbbing under her hand. It won’t be long before she wants it throbbing in

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her mouth or pussy – and you know about girls. They can be very persistent and almost always get what they want. Let yourself get soft. Re-examine and compare differences. See what touch feels good and excites you the most. It varies for each of us. After a half hour bring yourself to orgasm and note how good it feels when you've taken time to excite the system over a long period of time. After you have cum stay on your bed and focus on what you feel. Gently do another exam and note all the differences in tension, sensitivity and texture. Now that you have read all of this go back to where I asked you to drink water and do what I've said. When you've finished you'll have accomplished four goals.

(1) located your PC muscle and learned to contract it. (2) seen and felt your reproductive system anatomy like never before (3) noticed the changes it goes through as you cycle through the excitation phases and (4) begun to learn to focus your attention on the process even during orgasm.

You have begun to gain conscious control of your reproductive and pleasuring system. That's a great start. If you haven't cum yet, do so, experience what you feel physically and emotionally, then clean up and get some rest. Remember as I said, You must make knowing and understanding your sex organs a life time habit to have ultimate control and capability. Over time you'll be able to contract only the PC muscle without contracting the

anus. You'll even be able to place your fingertips on the left and right side and make one contract and then the other, then both simultaneously. When you're dressed in the car or at work or just watching TV you can continue your exercises. Women can do these too. I had a girl friend who used to contract her PC muscles while ironing clothes! That girl's pussy

was so strong it would have been lethal if it had teeth

boy, talk about

.... being eaten! Lying on her back she would squeeze me and rotate her hips in a circular and milking motion. She was the best I ever had. If she werent’ such a control freak I would have done my best to keep her with me for life. Men think about sex about once every 20 to 30 seconds whether they realize it or not. Instead of just thinking of beautiful women, think about your organs and your control frequently. Here are more exercises to do when you're dressed.

Focus your attention onto your crotch, your testicles, penis and anus. Do short light contractions now and again until you can feel the subtle

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differences of contracting the middle of the penis shaft, the entire shaft and PC muscles, the left PC, the right PC, and all of it together real hard with the anus. If you can't do this right away, why be surprised? Did you ever learn any skill instantly? If it were easy to learn skills instantly no one would pay you to do yours, right? As you sit motionless with your legs spread comfortably, become aware of the feelings in each part of your crotch. Flex the muscles in your legs, your abdomen, lower abdomen and then your PC muscles and anal sphincter. Keep working at it until you can control it well. Some men can actually raise and lower their testicles on command. The mild twitches you have now can develop into strong contractions with time and patient practice. You'll also be able to notice your PC muscle getting larger and stronger over time. As I said earlier, you finally can do this with a towel hanging over your hard cock. It is not impossible to lift 4 ounces with your cock with each contraction at least 5 or 10 times. Get really really good a this and maybe you can show off at a body building competition! Wander around a nude beach doing this and see how long you have to wait for some women to make a comment, and then invite her for a squirting exhibition.

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(This strength will lead to the ability to hold more blood in the penis. You'll be able to contract and force blood into the penis making it expand. She can see it and feel it when you get good at this. She'll feel you get hard, then hard as a rock, then expand inside her especially just before you cum. She'll be able to feel you contract hundreds of times at will inside her just as if you were squirting cream.

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31 differences of contracting the middle of the penis shaft, the entire shaft and PC muscles,

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the morning while she’s still lying there and you’re almost ready to dress and leave for work. Begin your exercise contractions and she'll wake up wild with passion. She won’t complain if you’re waking her up to her own orgasms!

Once a woman has become G-Spot orgasmic she can cum with almost no foreplay at all. I've slipped into my lover while cuddled up to her backside and in less than a minute she was cumming her brains out and sucking cream out of me like a Beckson bilge pump. After that we might fall asleep still joined together and perhaps do it again two or three hours later.) Now continue your practice several times a day for several consecutive days. You'll develop increased response and find degrees of control. With time you'll become more discriminating and your perception of movement will become better and better, and with that comes better control. Your first clinches may be the whole crotch for a couple of seconds. After a while holding a clinch as long as 30 seconds is no problem. With time you develop finer nervous system control, just as you do with other skills. This exercise does not require your erection. If you get hard, that's OK but not necessary. You'll be amazed how often you can do this while sitting, standing listening to someone talking, just lying in your bed before falling asleep, and so forth. The easiest control comes standing or sitting upright, or kneeling behind your woman. The least control is lying face down upon your lover. You'll get good control lying on your back while she's on top pleasing herself (while you're rubbing her clit with your fingertips and sucking her nipples.) This is an excellent way to keep the pleasure going for a very long time. The best control is with legs together and stretched out straight. Do these exercises in similar positions while you're alone. Do it on your hands and knees, on your back in bed or on the floor, on your knees, sitting up, and lying on your side. If you tend to fuck a lot in the missionary position, do extra practice in that position to gain better control. Generally this is the position with least control for you especially if your legs are outside of hers. The two of you can exercise joined together. Slip into her and exercise and see if she can feel you throb. Ask her to exercise her PC muscles and squeeze back. Spend at least 10-minutes just hugging, doing real long kisses and squeezing your PC’s together. Then do whatever else comes naturally. Over time you both will develop greater control. You both will also enjoy greater sensitivity, pleasure and stronger more pleasurable orgasms

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Doing this together is excellent for both of you physically and emotionally. This “Union of Goddess” position from Tantric yoga often takes place with your lover sitting in your lap, facing you, with your erection lying motionless in her vagina. Trying these position is fun. See if you can feel energy flow from you into her, or from her into you. My girlfriend has felt it many times, and she always knows when I stop the flow and start it, or flow energy from my heart or my hands. She can feel my throb inside her. The only time she didn't like it was when she was trying to sleep and I was distracting her. I have known a woman to say, “I will kill for my sleep.” Be considerate of your lover, always. Advanced Exercises: Testicle perception and motion control will (1) sharpen your perception of your testicles, (2) develop control of testicular muscles, and (3) strengthen those muscles and the testicular cord. Once you can lift them you can keep them relaxed when you want to. Generally, you can't ejaculate until they're lifted. As long as you can keep your balls hanging low you can keep moving without cumming no matter how good it feels.

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(Do your balls hang low? Do they wobble to and fro? Can you throw them o’er your shoulder?

Can you roll them in the snow? ....

Do your balls hang low?)

Gosh those high school girl’s songs were nervy!

Many men use a band around their balls to prolong their fucking without ejaculation. I think a nylon and velcro watch band for $3.00 is a best answer better because it is infinitely adjustable. You can also wrap it behind your balls and then up and around your cock to help maintain erection longer. You probably wouldn't do this while fucking, but guys use it sometimes after vacuum pumping to maintain the swollen effect for up to four hours. I used to vacuum pump in the morning during an hour when I was doing the personal hygiene routine. After an hour or 90 minutes I had enlarged to 2.25 inches thick. Then I’d wrap it all up and wear it that way until noon. Wearing baggy dark pleated slacks no one knew and I just go about my work wandering around with a cock that felt as heavy as a breast. It was a cool experience but it did not cause permanent enlargement. A little later in this book I’ll take you into the exercises and nutrition that DOES cause your cock to grow larger.

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Also, if you wanted to display a "big basket" in swim wear, bicycle spandex shorts, or tight jeans, this is a great way to draw attention. I'm not into that, but a lot of gay men are. Some men do it at a beach or hotel swimming pool if they're looking for a pick-up.) These next four exercises should be done in this order because each prepares you for the next. (1) The testicle lifting exercise is very difficult because it's difficult to determine which muscles are involved. Over time you'll find the nerve response to fine tune to just lifting the balls and nothing more. One problem is that it isn't easy to feel this. Watching in a mirror is helpful. To start, stand with feet about 18 inches apart and tighten the entire lower abdominal muscle group. Try to raise and lower the balls voluntarily working carefully and slowly until you can build endurance enough to maintain an erection. Do not over exert. If the cord begins to hurt stop and continue the next day. Work to the point where you can do this 75 to 100 times in rapid succession, and do this daily. Practice this with and without erection. Do whatever you must to gain an erection. (2) manual and mental stimulation will help you get a hard cock and stay that way. Maintaining an erection is important and you'll find with practice that certain thoughts will always trigger your erection. There are various activities during love making that may turn you on, or various body parts that when brought to mind, do.

Doing a form of self-hypnosis will help. Relax very deeply in a chair and find a mental picture that turns you on. For example, you might find that every time you begin sucking a girl’s nipples you get hard. Repeat silently to yourself something like "I get hard every time I think of sucking her nipples." Repeat this at least ten times, then drop into a yet deeper relaxation. "I'm going to count slowly from 10 to 1 and with each number I go more deeply into this state of hypnotic learning." Then count slowly, relaxing more deeply with every number. When you get to 10 acknowledge that you are more deeply relaxed now, and again repeat "I get hard every time I think of sucking her nipples." Repeat this 10 times slowly and then drop again into a deeper more relaxed state. Finally, when you decide to come back to your normal conscious state just tell yourself, "I'm going to slowly and gently float back to normal consciousness. I'll count slowly from 1 to 10. Each count brings me closer to "the surface" and when I get to 10 I'll open my eyes and be wide awake and feel better really good.”

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If you do this 20 minutes twice a day, morning and night, and a third time if you can in mid day, it will do wonderful things for your mental condition. You'll find you can use similar commands to improve your reading speed, ability to learn, ability to handle emotional responses you don't like about yourself, and more. So now you have a nice little introduction to self hypnosis and you can use it to improve your sexual response! (3) This exercise requires an erection. Place a bath towel over the shaft and head of your cock so it hangs down as if it's hanging over a peg. Now raise and lower the towel. Do whatever you can do. Do it 5 or 10 times until you can't lift any more. Do it every 2nd day just like weight lifting, increasing your number of repetitions as you get stronger. If you can't use a towel, try a smaller hand towel or a wash cloth. (4) Myotonia is a term to explain the tension most men build in the abdominal and leg muscles with rising sexual excitation. When you cum the tension releases and gives a sensation of waves of pleasure moving down the legs and up the abdomen. Stronger abdominal muscles and legs will give you more pleasure. Do abdominal crunches, or hanging from a bar do bent knee leg lifts and crunches. These will strengthen your abdominal muscles, help keep your spine in better condition and give you a flatter more attractive profile. Doing slow squats will strengthen the legs, improve the heart strength and strengthen the legs and buttocks. If you don't know what crunches are just run a google search for them. Surely you know what squats with and without weights are, but if you don't look through any body building magazine or book and you'll see several variations on that theme. Do these exercises slowly. Then for your Myotonia exercise flex and relax the legs and abdominal muscles for as long as possible without having leg cramps. This is done with your cock in a flaccid state. Keep your legs tense as long as possible up to 5 minutes per day for the first week, and additional minutes each week there after. If it makes you want to cum after doing that, good. Remember it, feel the sensations, and then bring yourself off. I want to impress something upon you. Physiologists all have a saying. "The more you use a system, the better it works." we also say "Use it or lose it!" If you don't cum at least once or twice a week your prostate and seminal vesicles will be congested. The system will shut down and you'll lose your ability to use it! On the other hand, the more you use your sexual system the better it will work. Healthy men in their teens and 20's can and often do cum between 7 and 21 times a week.

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I do not agree with any lame Taoist writings that say doing this will cause you to lose vital energy. Stimulating the system will only help you produce more testosterone and more semen. If you want to cum, do it, and be sure to take a good nutritional supplement. Your body loses about 15 mg of zinc with each ejaculation. Zinc is present in many foods but a multi mineral will assure you have enough. There are other important minerals involved in testosterone production and other sexual functions. Naturally, a good multi-mineral and multi-vitamin product will be valuable for you. As men get into age 30 to 50 they can and often still do cum 3 to 10 times per week. Using the new body building testosterone releasers and growth hormone releasers with a good diet and sufficient vitamins and minerals will help maintain virility and keep you fit and trim long after your often drunken friends have turned into fat tired old- looking men. For now I want you to know I'm 48 years old and women look at my face and think I'm 35. I have a body like that of a gymnast. This isn't "just natural". I work at it and I aid the effort with new-age nutritional supplements. I've had women peal my clothes off, gasp and attack. I've even had an occasional teenager look me over like she was wondering what it would be like to have an affair with a man. And the damnest thing is, I’m only 5’2” tall and I don’t think particularly handsome. Women admire physically fit men! Maybe your gym coach was the best friend you had. You can stay fit, trim, and maintain physiological parameters of young men way beyond your fellows if you'll learn to care for yourself correctly. I'll explain more about retaining youth and youthful sexual energy in another report. CONTINUE KAGEL EXERCISES. It is imperative that you continue to do these daily. If nothing else, make it a ritual to do 100 of these when you climb into bed at night. Place two fingertips on the PC muscle as it lies between the scrotum and anus and feel the muscle contract. Work at making it contract on the left side only, and then on the right. Work at doing it so it contracts partly, fully, with the anus contracting, and without. Keep working for more strength and control. I've been doing physical fitness exercises since age 10. Why is it so strange that I would continue to exercise my sex muscles as I get older too? It’s not strange. Maybe it’s strange that so many people don’t exercise and know so little about sex, can’t speak about it freely, giggle when you mention it, and are so freaked out about it. Where did 7-Billion people come from anyway – trees?

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Who but you knows that I exercise my PC muscles, and who cares? So what if they do? What business is it of theirs? Is it a crime? Am I immoral or mentally ill because I appreciate my sexuality and maintain its capability? Will they print me up in the New York Times about this? Are people going to point and laugh from across the street if they know? I doubt it. But I’ll tell you this much. If horney women know what I’m hiding under my loose clothing they’ll be interested even though I’m getting’ to be an old dog.

If anyone should think taking care of your sex system is a sign of mental illness, it is they who should look into their own considerations and belief systems. Taking good care of yourself includes taking good care of your reproductive system and enjoying using it. When we're young sex is about 80% of our interest. We get older we may sublimate it for other interests or concerns about making a living and raising a family. But we always wanted money and leisure time to enjoy living, learning, and romancing! So now that you're 30 are you supposed to turn into a sexless old shell? I don't choose to do that because I imagine someone else thinks I should. If you think only men are interested in sex, you haven't met the right women. I've met young women who would fuck a platoon if they had the chance. At age 70 they're still talking about saying slim and looking good. They never forget their desires. That is why they buy so much clothing, perfume, make up, hair care, and all the rest. Sex is a major driving force in everything we all do up until the day we capsize and sink to Davie Jones' locker. Any man who reads this and thinks sex is for younger men, or that he somehow should feel guilty for still being interested in being a good lover should now realize how much he as allowed other people to influence his thinking. It's your life. You're the one who works and pays the bills. You can do what you damned please, and I guarantee, you can find women everywhere who want to do it with you! (…And men everywhere who jealously wish they could!) You of course are doing Kagels when you wave your erect cock around standing still, when you raise the towel, when you make your cock throb inside your lovers love tunnel, and you do Kagels when you push the last urine out of your cock with a few squirts at the urinal. You should by now be able to do them even when you're soft sitting anywhere in class, the office, at the bus stop, while driving to work, while eating lunch and discussing how much you hate the Internal Revenue Service. You can do them any time.

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Here's the main point of all of this. Eventually you should be able to perform a strong Kagel while actively engaged in fucking. You can get so good that this you'll feel yourself begin to cum and then slow or stop your motion and squeeze and stop yourself from cumming. You can do this several times teetering on the edge of cumming for long minutes. If you go a little too far and begin to cum clamp down to prevent the seminal fluid from leaving the bulb of the penis, or just squeeze enough to lubricate her insides some more and then wait a few moments. Don't panic over it. Enjoy it! She certainly will enjoy you enjoying her, just as much as having her cum till she can't think straight pleases you. You may lose 10% of your erection, but it will come back shortly. Just resume gentle movements of your cock in her pussy. You'll probably cum again after 15 or 20 minutes. One of the main reasons fucking stops too soon is that someone thinks it can’t go on and gives up. Tie her wrists gently to the bed headboard and tell her in a deep and terrible voice. “There’s no escape for you. Prepare to be eaten!” and then start clit-kissing. She’ll love it! If you lose some erection while fucking because you came a little bit that's OK. Your woman will probably tell you it feels like a giant tongue inside her. Just smile and kiss her some more. If sucking nipples makes you hard (after those self hypnosis sessions they should), kiss her face, her neck, her chest and then start sucking. You'll be hard as a 15 year old in no time. Don't think about your cock. Think about her nipples and the rest of her body. Go lower and clit kiss her till she cums some more. Then come back up and fuck some more. All of these are pleasurable stall tactics. Most women can't have your rod ramming in and out endlessly anyway. Most men thrust at a rate of nearly 100 strokes per minute, and more when they're really pushing for the grand explosion. Logically, you can't imagine a woman's delicate mucus membranes to stand that much rubbing (especially if there's hair involved!) for more than 2000 strokes. By that time most of them are saying they're sore.

Spreading the sex act out over stroking, rolling or rotating movements, kissing, relaxing, changing positions, and oral sex techniques extends the time you both need to enjoy each other longer. About 90% of all women experience vaginal dryness some time. Slippery stuff and other better quality lubes are a big help. Hormone changes through aging make this problem inevitable. Trying to push a mature woman like you might have an 18 year old girl is unrealistic. At some point you may find your cock "desensitizes". You know you're fucking, but you feel almost nothing. That's great as long as she can

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go for it. But if you're so fit that you aren't even breathing hard you'll probably be able to go a lot longer than she can. MASTURBATION AS LEARNING THERAPY: Therapists suggest that this is all partly a learned response. Doing this while masturbating teaches you to have a new kind of response. Actually, for best results you should masturbate morning and evening bringing yourself close to the edge of cuming and backing off at least once, perhaps three or four times, making the whole session last as long as possible. Do Kagel contractions several times as you stimulate your cock and increase your ability to stay hard, expand your size slightly with the squeezing, and decrease your desire to ejaculate.

Therapists debate several points. Some say you should do your first masturbation when you wake and before you release urine. I think that's fine if you wake up flooded with testosterone and feel very horney. The pressure of a full bladder may stimulate more nerve activity. For men under age 30 that's great if you're so inclined. If on the other hand you don't feel horney when you wake up, (common to men over age 40) get up, do your bathroom thing, and then deal with the masturbation exercise when you're ready. At my age I'm still very sexual, but I prefer to enjoy sex when I'm clean, after I've had breakfast and brushed my teeth and feel good inside and out. I'm a lot hornier at 10AM than I am at 6AM. Another debate is the length of time to masturbate. One says do it for an hour. Another says you can learn all you need to learn in 15 minute sessions twice a day. Knowing what I do about learning, whether it be academic study or motor reflexes, I'm inclined to agree that the 15 minute sessions are actually more beneficial than 1 hour forced sessions, (which you may actually come to resent because you have other things to do with your day.)

There are three exercises you should learn so as to ejaculate when you want to, and to help you get hard and stay that way, or return to erection after you've gone soft. (1) Ejaculation Control: Stop-Start -- This highly recommended exercise is done in 15 minutes. Masturbate either with a machine like a Venus II (expensive but wonderful) or by hand until you are close to the edge of ejaculation, then STOP. Focus on your cock and wait for the urge to subside, then begin again. As you continue doing this you will better learn when to stop, and how long to wait. The number of times you need to stop will decrease. After a while you'll develop the ability to desensitize yourself. You'll still enjoy fucking, but you will have trained your central nervous system to

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relax and enjoy pleasure rather than shoot to the peak of response and fire off the nervous cascade effect that ends with ejaculation. (2) Bring yourself even nearer to ejaculation and squeeze your PC muscles to stop the seminal fluid flow. The Ancient Taoists used to teach this, and another trick they use is to press your fingers into the PC muscle clamping off the urethra between your scrotum and anus. This causes you to retain semen and speeds up your recovery time. You may get soft after this, but with a lover you'll get hard again sooner and be ready to make love some more. It's also good if she's sucking you and you don't want to cum in her mouth. You stop yourself from ejaculating while enjoying the pleasure of the orgasm, continue a little longer from soft to hard, then enter her pussy and bring her off several times before ejaculating in her pussy -- where it really feels best. By the way, when she learns the cul-de-sac orgasm this will be especially pleasurable for both of you. I really am a doctor. I just don't want my sexual proclivity known to the whole world, including my patients and colleagues! By the way, if you were in my office and I trained you like this it would cost you $3000. You can see these reports are a real bargain.

(3) Ejaculation Control: Subtle Adjustments: This is the same idea but instead of stopping all stimulation to avoid the cascade of nervous stimuli ending in ejaculation you change what you're doing and keep moving.

Women often say if you want to help them cum don't change anything. Don't change speed or motion. Just do what you're doing and she'll eventually bring together all the nervous system responses she needs

to have an orgasm. Likewise, many men continue to stimulate themselves while they're ejaculating. If you changed something, or stopped moving when you began to ejaculate most of the pleasure of it would be lost! We take advantage of that characteristic with this exercise. Change the speed, the stroke length, your grip, the pressure you're using, stimulate the shaft but not the head, move the shaft in circles rather than in a milking action, squeeze your cock instead of stroking it, and so forth. Try one change at a time and see what works best for you, then stay with this and master it. What you want to do is add to your stimulation repertoire, and reserve the most exciting and most stimulating techniques for when you want to ejaculate. Once you've gotten good with this you'll continue it while having sex with a partner. If you feel yourself getting too close to ejaculation just ask her to stop moving, or get out and start clit-kissing instead.

Self Hypnosis to stop ejaculating

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Let’s go back to what I wrote earlier. Relax very deeply in a chair and find a mental picture that turns you on. For example, you might find that every time you begin sucking a girl’s nipples you get hard. Repeat silently to yourself something like "Any time I want to avoid cumming I’ll just think ‘No, Not Yet,’ and I’ll pinch my backside a little bit. Immediately, the urge to cum will diminish and go away for 5 minutes. I can do this as many times as I want and the pleasure is better and deeper each time." Repeat this at least ten times, then drop into a yet deeper relaxation. "I'm going to count slowly from 10 to 1 and with each number I go more deeply into this state of hypnotic learning." Then count slowly, relaxing more deeply with every number. When you get to 10 acknowledge that you

are more deeply relaxed now, and again repeat "Any time I want to avoid cumming I’ll just think ‘No, Not Yet,’ and I’ll pinch my backside a little bit. Immediately, the urge to cum will diminish and go away for 5 minutes. I can do this as many times as I want and the pleasure is better

and deeper each time." Repeat this 10 times slowly and then drop again into a deeper more relaxed state. Finally, when you decide to come back to your normal conscious state just tell yourself, "I'm going to slowly and gently float back to normal consciousness. I'll count slowly from 1 to 10. Each count brings me closer to "the surface" and when I get to 10 I'll open my eyes and be wide awake and feel better really good.” Count slowly back to awaken yourself. If you do this 20 minutes twice a day, morning and night, and a third time if you can in mid day, it will do wonderful things for your mental condition. You'll find you can use similar commands to improve your reading speed, ability to learn, ability to handle emotional responses you don't like about yourself, and more. So now you have a nice little introduction to self hypnosis and you can use it to improve your sexual response!

Many men have reached a point where they can squeeze their PC muscles while having an orgasm, and retain their semen. They continue moving, and even if they get a little soft they harden up again and continue to have several orgasms without ejaculation until they're ready to release cream. The girl, mean time, is out of her mind with pleasure and thinks you're superman. (And she's right when comparing you to most of her past lovers ) .... Mental Training: Fantasize having sex with your partner, and make the pictures as vivid and real as you can. I once had a lover who was so constantly vocal that her excitement made me even more excited. That kind

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of stimulation, sight, sound, her words, her kisses, the feeling of her hands on your skin, the sight of her body, all should be vividly brought to mind. When you can do these exercises while reliving those experiences and still be in control, your sex with a partner will be all the more controllable. When you can get horrendously excited and still be in control, you'll be nearly ready to graduate to your Masters degree in love making. This allows you to find what moments in your with-partner sex bring on excessive excitement and trigger an unwanted ejaculation. Take yourself through the entire scene from the first kiss through to the point when you're both done. In fact, do this in deep relaxation so you can run through the scene completely. When you can relive the scene in detail, do it again stimulating your cock with "Slippery Stuff" Gel or another good lubricant. When you reach the moments when it's just too hard to resist ejaculating, you can work there on suppressing that with either the start stop, or PC squeeze techniques, or even through the use of self hypnosis. In self hypnosis take yourself through the entire scene again, reach the moment when it's nearly impossible to stop yourself from pumping cream and then insert a command right then and there. A good command would be "I'm in complete control of my orgasm, even at that moment." Then see yourself reach that moment and be able to avoid cumming just because you want to. Imagine for a moment she's crying out, digging her fingernails into your arms or back and she's bucking into your cock at a rate of about 4 beats per per second. Her pussy is squeezing you so hard it almost hurts. At that moment you decide, "I'm going to take her through this three or four times before we quit. I don't want to cum yet," and you just suppress the cum reflex.

It sounds impossible to some readers. Remember, I said no skill comes instantly. I spent 25 years honing my skills as a healer. If you spend a few days honing your skills as a super bedroom performer and one day make a beautiful woman addicted to your cock, you’ll know it was worth the effort!

Most men have trouble when first entering her and the first 3 minutes there after, and at the moment when thrusting becomes hard and fast. If what gives you trouble in fantasy will tend to do the same in reality, you want to work with the scenes that are difficult. As a final exercise jack off in as little time as possible while paying close attention to the process. Recognize what it feels like to come quickly. You should be able to develop ejaculation control so you can cum quickly if you wish, or after a long fuck or suck session.

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Erection problems are real. Some are from what you worry about and the answer is to concentrate on her instead of you. You can also do a self-

hypnosis with a command like this one: “Every time she bares her breasts and we begin kissing I get hard and stay hard as long as I want.” Please

note: There are no negative commands beginning with “I won’t” or “I can’t,” or “I don’t.” Never use negative commands. Use positives related to “I can” and “I do” type sentences. Experimental Sex play: Once you've developed this control you might want to try a couple of neat techniques. Buy a mesh hammock and hang it over your bed. Lie in it with your dick hanging down and let her milk you with her hands or mouth or pussy while you can do little more than rock gently from behind the strings. In Viet Nam some guys experience the "Basket Technique". Two girls would massage the man and then bring a third girl in. She would climb into a huge basket with a hole in the bottom. Her back was up one side. Her legs were up the other. Her buns were sticking out of the bottom of the basket. One assisting girl would lower her gently onto his cock and then slowly rotate the basket. The other girl might be kissing him and rubbing his balls. If you can suppress cumming during that exercise you will be the Swami of Sex, the Sultan of Swing, and we will all come to ask the Guru of Gratification for more advice. I think you could make a basket like this from heavy fishing net and get great results if you have a lover up for the experience. I admonish you to practice diligently. It took you a while to learn to drive your car and look how much that skill has repaid you. Taking a magic carpet ride on your girlfriend should be equally gratifying, and making travel this way a regular part of your life will be well worth the effort to learn to do it.

PLEASING YOURSELF AND HER WITH MALE MULTIPLE ORGASMS AND BETTER THURSTING TECHNIQUES

MMO or Male Multiple Orgasm

What is it?

MMO or Male Multiple Orgasm is the ability to experience all the

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ejaculate. Some men have developed or inherently have this ability it seems while most other men can learn to develop this ability.

The first prerequisite is a very strong PC muscle, so if you haven’t developed your PC muscle yet, forget about MMO until you do. Secondly you need a high degree of ability with the PC Pump Technique. You should be able to stop your self from coming at the 9.5-9.9 levels. If not keep practicing until you can. Once you can do that, you must learn to stretch the duration of the sensations that you feel when you are applying the PC Pump Technique sensations.

A Technique for experiencing MMO:

Try the following technique during self-stimulation or intercourse. Assume a pleasure level of just getting started is 1 and getting the feeling of

rising impending ejaculatory response will be about 6.

  • 1. When you get to a level of about 6.5 apply the PC Pump Technique Stop; Flex your PC muscle for several seconds, release. Take a deep breath and hold for a few seconds, slowly let the breath out and relax as your Excitement level drops a few points on the scale. Your erection may decrease a bit as well. Pay very close attention to what you are feeling as this happens. Start stimulating yourself again and repeat the above technique at levels 7.5, 8.5, 9.5, 9.6, 9.7, 9.8,

  • 2. Now Try it at 9.9 and right before your Point of No Return (P.O.N.R.) flex your PC muscle hard, for as long as you can, take a deep breath and hold it for a few seconds, Open your eyes, and keep them open. Think of bringing the feeling up and through your whole body.

  • 3. If you did all of the steps correctly and you did not pass your P.O.N.R. and your PC muscles were strong enough, you should have had a Male Multiple Orgasm without ejaculating, and you should still have an erection or partial erection and be able to resume stimulation.

  • 4. If that’s not what happened, then keep practicing and soon you will be a multi-orgasmic man.

The CAT or Clitoral Alignment technique relies on stimulating your partners clitoris with the friction and pressure from your upper pubic region (right above your pubic bone) which we will call the Friction Zone as you see in this illustration.

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The CAT

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The technique is done in the missionary position (there is a Woman on top variation that I will go over later). Make sure your partner is well lubricated, and I recommend starting with the tease & please technique, until you are almost all the way in and then start do this technique. This really is a beginners or lesser technique. The top of the top, the best of the best is the Extended Orgasm we just covered. But for some women, they need this first to help them move up from where they are (nearly no orgasm ever) to something more pleasurable. It may takes weeks of doing this before she’s ready for the Extended Orgasmic techniques.

In the missionary position, make sure your partner’s clitoris and upper vaginal area is well lubricated with her own juices, or a good sex lube.

Ask her to spread her vaginal lips with her hands, when she does this slip slowly in nearly to the base and rest the Friction Zone on her clitoris.

Put your weight on her body, reach down and grab her ass and spread the cheeks apart.

Now start sliding up and down on her (not in and out.) Your penis should remain completely inside her all the way to the base.

Hold her shoulders or the edge of the bed with both hands and push off with your toes as well. As you do all of this make sure that the greatest friction between you and her is where the Friction Zone and her clitoris meet. This might all sound really complicated but it is actually very easy, and after a few minutes you and she will be gliding back and forth on a slippery layer of sex lube and sweat.

1. Continue until she has at least one orgasm. Keep moving and try not to break the friction.

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Taoist Techniques and The Taoist 9 in 1 Technique

The Ancient Taoist had developed an extensive array of thrusting techniques for intercourse. They believed that the man should vary his thrusting speed and thrusting depth and thrusting angle in order to fully stimulate his lover and himself during a prolonged coition (Taoist also believed in prolong acts of intercourse and are famous for the term 1000 loving thrusts.)

They also gave names to the different levels of depths in the vagina.

They are as follows:

  • 1. Lute String, the depth of one inch inside.

  • 2. Water chestnut Teeth, the depth of two inches.

  • 3. Little Stream, the depth of three inches.

  • 4. Black Pearl, the depth of four inches.

  • 5. Valley’s Proper, the depth of five inches.

  • 6. Deep Chamber, the depth of six inches.

  • 7. Inner Gate, the depth of seven inches. (very rare)

  • 8. North Pole, the depth of eight inches. (extremely rare)

The Taoist 9 in 1 Technique

The 9 in 1 technique is a thrusting sequence in which you simply thrust 9 times shallow (1 to 4 inches) and 1 time deep (3 to 5 inches, but not so deep as to hit her cervix and cause pain).

Then you repeat the sequence over and over again varying the speed of the thrusts. It is said that this sequence will stimulate the woman to all nine levels

The Ancient Taoists also describe nine different types of thrusts. I have endeavored to paraphrase from the overly poetic language used.

The Nine type of thrusts:

  • 1. Thrust to the left and to the right to stimulate the vaginal walls.

  • 2. Thrust up and down rather than in and out. You have to move your whole body up and down, do this in the missionary position.

  • 3. Teasingly pull out and push back in.

  • 4. Alternate between using deep thrusts and shallow teasing strokes.

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  • 5. Make deep and shallow strokes in steady succession.

  • 6. Push in slowly.

  • 7. Thrust Swiftly.

  • 8. Poise at the opening, then strike swiftly and stay inside for a few moments.

  • 9. Rise and then plunge low.

Pleasing “Torture”

In this technique you tease your partner with your penis until she is begging you to put it in her then you slowly enter her an inch at a time until you tease an orgasm out of her.

After your partner is highly aroused from foreplay, you gently rub your partner’s clitoris with the head of your penis. Every once in a while tease the opening with the head of your penis. After a few minutes of this she will be simmering with desire, but you want her boiling so keep on teasing. Rub her clit a lot to bring her closer and closer to a clitoral orgasm

She will say, “Oh, please. Fuck me. Push into me!” DON’T SLIP IT IN YET! Keep teasing and talk to her as you continue to rub circles around her clit with your cock head or your finger tips. Tell her how beautiful her pussy is and how beautiful she is. Tell her how you could worship her beautiful breasts forever. Ask her to explain how it feels to want your cock inside her. Ask her how badly she wants it as you keep torturing her. Tell her, “I will in a little while,” and smile softly. After a few more minutes of this she will be nearly out of her mind with desire.

Before she becomes frustrated and angry and can’t stand it any longer, start rubbing the opening with the head of your penis for about a minute or so. Then slide only the head in and very slowly thrust in and out with only the head of your penis. She will be begging for you to put it in deeper.

Slide it in one more inch, then trust slowly in and out but only to this same depth. Angle the tip of your cock toward her belly button, as if you were trying to slide out of the front of her belly. This side of the vagina has the

most sensitivity and works to

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stimulate the long internal legs of

the clitoris. In this illustration you

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or curl your fingers inside there – always curling like “come here” toward the front of her body.

Keep talking to her while you do this. Ask her if she likes your cock inside her, and ask her to promise you she’ll have you again and again. Tell her how much you like fucking her and how good her pussy feels. Tell her making love just once will never be enough, and that you want her ten thousand times.

After two more minutes slide it in one more inch, still angling toward her front, and then thrust slowly in and out to this same depth, about 3.5 inches deep. Go Slow. She’s going crazy and she’s concentrating on what she feels. Then after two or three minutes slide in an inch deeper to 4.5 inches deep and continue thrusting. You should be also rotating your finger tips softly around her clitoris.

Repeat this way and then slip in as deep as you can. Continue to rotate your
Repeat this way and then slip in as deep as you can.
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occasionally do some vibration quick thrusts. All of these thrusts happen at

only an inch or so of in/out motion.

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cock will reach the despest part of her vaginal canal giving her pleasures she never has known before. If she’s this flexible she virtually becomes “all pussy” and gets lost in pleasure. If she’s uncertain about what to do with her feet, just put them on your shoulders, back or chest where you want them. She might afraid you will be insulted or won’t like that. Your reassuring gesture will make her more comfortable. If she can do as this last photo do anything to keep her!

49 cock will reach the despest part of her vaginal canal giving her pleasures she never

She’ll be having the best orgasms of her life and you’ll be the one she wants 10,000

times! Either that, or she’s gona sick all her

you

and turn

you

into the

girl friends on college male whore for the summer season!

This happened to a guy I knew. He had blond hair to his waist and a handsome chiseled face. He had been a runner and then joined and finished with the army. Now he need a job and got one at a drug paraphernalia shop at a beach vacation town in Maine or Massachusetts where the kids went for summer breaks and weekends. Word got around and stranger girls would find him about the time he was sweeping the floors and closing the shop. Beautiful young women would take him to their hotel or go to his place, get fucked, say “thanks Joe” and disappear. Then they’d refer more girl friends! Joe was fucking 30 different girls every month for the whole summer vacation! Poor Joe. I’m still in grief for him.

She’ll begin having multiple and then continuous non-stop waves of incredible orgasm. If she doesn’t get scared about this new experience she can be lost in Extended Orgasm this way for an hour or longer!

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In this depth make your stroke ONLY 1-inch back and forth. If her pussy gets dry, slip out, put on and in some more lube and slip right back in and continue pleasing her. This way the tip of your cock is stimulating the very deepest “deep spot” or “X-spot” around and behind the os of the uterus (also called the cervix.) This is the vaginal fornix.

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Definition of Vaginal fornix

Vaginal fornix: The anterior (front) and posterior (back) recesses into which the upper vagina is divided. These vaultlike recesses are formed by protrusion of the cervix into the vagina. The fornix uteri is also known as the fornix vaginae (or the vaginal fornices) and the uterine fornices.

50 Definition of Vaginal fornix Vaginal fornix: The anterior (front) and posterior (back) recesses into which

The fornix of the vagina in medical Latin is the fornix vaginae. The fornix vaginae is also known as the fornix uteri (the uterine fornix).

In anatomy, a fornix is a vaultlike or arched structure. Fornix is the Latin word for vault or arch.

Your cock head will be right were the pointer shows Cervix. You’re rubbing the vaginal fornix there and her pleasure is overwhelmingly amazing. This stimulates nerves to cause vaginal and uterine contractions, which is the definition of an orgasm. It is a milking effect. Trying to milk the crème out of your cock and vacuum it up into the uterus.

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This area is painful when she’s cold and before there was sufficient foreplay. But once she is very hot and ready for fucking the uterus pulls up out of the way a bit, the vagina opens or “tents” and the space there brings her incredible orgasmic pleasure if you deal with it very gently.

You must be soft and gentle here, moving an inch back and forth. You can experiment in a missionary position with pressing your pubis to hers and vibrating your motion for a few moments thus stimulating the clit and the X- spot simultaneously.

Your woman should be advised, “Push all the words out of your mind and concentrate on what you feel in your clit and pussy. Forget anything else. Every time words come to mind push them away and concentrate on what you feel.”

Once she gets lost in pleasure do not play with vibration movements or slow and fast or kissing her. Don’t do anything else. Do not distract her or break her concentration. Some women work for weeks to let go of all thought and get lost in this concentration state. Don’t ruin it now!

Just become a fucking machine and continue moving 1 inch in and out with the head of your cock at the deepest part of her vagina. It’s very important for you to maintain a generally constant rhythm and let her slip into a deeply relaxed hypnotic state of pleasure.

PLEASE GET THIS! This is NOT the time for you to think of your own pleasure. SHE is the center of attention. She is giving you the biggest complement any woman can give, she is totally trusting you! Now you must prove your trustworthiness. She is The Goddess. Worship her and continue fucking. Yes, I’m completely serious. If you want to be considered the best lover she ever knew and might ever know, you must do this as I say. In the position on your knees like this you’ll discover you can balance and rock, costing you very little energy. She’ll be in “Never Ever Land.”

Later you can roll her onto her side. The bottom leg is straight down, the top leg is pulled up near her chest. You straddle the lower leg, slip in real deep and continue that gentle thrusting. She’ll move quickly again into Extended Orgasm.

You are at this point retraining her nervous system and her brain. She will become virtually addicted to sex with you. She’ll have orgasms at odd

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moments during the day and when thinking of you. She’ll have orgasms in her sleep! Doing Extended Orgasm technique like this turns the both of you into virtual fucking machines and the joining of the two of you in body and spirit is like nothing else on earth. Treat her well and with love and you’ll be well rewarded for life.

More Better Technique Advice

If you follow the techniques above, you will be a good lover but to become a

truly artful lover you must go beyond what anyone can tell you.

Many men just thrust in and out over and over again, or worse just put it in and pound. Most women do like to be pounded especially either laying face down or on hands and knees, just for a few thrusts as she moves closer to orgasm.

As explained in our course books there’s a nervous system connection with this and we’re both genders designed to do this and go into orgasm. But the pounding should be real close to the point where she’s rising and rising, (and you are too) and then you start bumping your pubis into her backside and she might do something to indicate that’s exactly what she needs. One of mine yelled, “Oh, Yes! DO THAT!!!” and a few moments later the whole building hear her yell, “I’m gona CUM!” (made me proud…)

After she gets warmed up with an orgasm or two, continuing to do the same thing over and over again can become monotonous. It is best to vary the techniques that you use and to vary the types, depth, speed, and angles of your thrusts as well as the positions that you are thrusting in. You might stop, take a break, massage her or go back to clit kissing and then come back up and continue fucking. That also is part of the Extended Orgasm technique. When you see she’s beginning to fall off her high pleasure plateau slip out, slide down the bed between her legs and return to giving her oral sex, and add to it your finger rubbing her G-spot. As she begins to rise and you hear her voice and breathing, come back up. Don’t ask for permission. Be in control. Just come back up and slip into her again and go back to fucking.

Don’t get carried away and keep changing positions every couple of minutes. If she’s really enjoying the one you are in and is getting the stimulation that she needs for an orgasm, just continue as you are. A great rule is, “don’t change anything.” If she’s into what you’re doing, just keep on doing it.

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This is the number one greatest mistake men make. They keep changing rhythm or position. She’s getting closer and closer to cumming and suddenly the man starts going faster or changes something and she loses all of her “momentum” and the rising sensation toward orgasm dissipates and is gone, and probably gone for the night! I emphasize this in the strongest terms. Don’t change anything. If she’s obviously into it and rising, getting lost in pleasure, breathing and saying, “oh, yes, do that. Oh, oh!” just keep going, make some deep mmmmMMMmmm sounds, breathe in her ear, kiss her face or whisper “huh, this is so good,” or “love fucking you so much. I love your pussy!” and continue going just as you are. Don’t change Anthing!!!!

To be a great lover you have to learn to read your lover, adapt and go with the flow and still be able to take the lead… You need to learn the way of your lover, what she desires and what she does not desire, what spots get her off and what really ruins it for her. These things come with time and practice. The two of you become like a team. That is why the sex should get better as you grow older together.

A Few General Recommendations of Engagement:

Always tease a bit and make sure that your lover is fully aroused and lubricated before penetration. Doing massage and spending a lot of time kissing , suckling her breasts, and clit kissing is recommended. I go into this much more extensively in my course lessons available at www.Ultimate- Romance2020.com . The first 10 lessons are designed to teach you to do massage, understand the needs and wants of your lover and virtually make her sexually addicted to you – only you.

Look at these two photos. The one with labels is not aroused, the others are very much aroused.

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54 The total time for “foreplay” should be at least 15-minutes. Look and feel her vaginal
54 The total time for “foreplay” should be at least 15-minutes. Look and feel her vaginal
54 The total time for “foreplay” should be at least 15-minutes. Look and feel her vaginal

The total time for “foreplay” should be at least 15-minutes. Look and feel her vaginal lips when you begin and examine them again 15 or 20 minutes later, especially if she’s asking you to enter her. Her lips will be pillowed and very red as in the photos I just showed you.

In truth, no woman can reach her ultimate orgasmic potential if you don’t foreplay with her and give her vagina time to fully tent and prepare the uterus for full deep vaginal penetration. Any girl who says she loves “quickies” is not getting the full pleasure experience of which she is capable until she has experienced Extended Sexual Orgasms. After that point she will be partially aroused all the time and then for her quickies bring on better response.

Thrust at different angles in the same position to stimulate all the walls of the vagina. Try riding high and low, left and right in the same position to stimulate all of her vaginal walls. Mostly thrust toward the front of her body. That is, if she is lying on her back, you must lower yourself so your penis is pointing toward the front of her body and your shooting for her belly button. Thrusting this way reaches the most sensitive pleasure points.

Try different positions, variety is the spice of life. In my first ten lessons you’ll find so many positions photographed it’s like getting a $25 book for

two bucks! You’d be crazy to pass on the first 10 lessons! I have the available as singular lessons and as a module. The lessons sell for a little more through Amazon Kindle. At my website they sell for a little less.

  • 1. Thrust at different speeds watching her face and listening to her voice to determine what she likes best. If you reach a point where she just lays her head back and rolls her eyes up as she closes them, you’ve reached an

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excellent place and speed for her. Remember this and continue doing exactly what you’re doing for at least 5 or 10 minutes. She’ll probably launch into orgasm, or slip into (or back into) Extended Orgasm.

  • 2. Thrust hard, soft and teasingly.

  • 3. Once in a while pull out, go down on her and clit kiss for a few minutes listening to and feeling her body as she indicates rising desire, and then come back and re-enter. Perhaps here you might change from her lying on her back to lying on her side in that leg straddle position I described earlier. I don’t know anyone else teaching this position and I have no photos of it. These next two are close but not quite right. You’ll have to do with my description.

She will be lying on her left side like she’s going to sleep. The left leg is straight down (as if standing) and the right knee is pulled up close to her chest and perhaps supported on a pillow.

You will straddle the lower leg, (left knee one side, right knee the other side) and enter her. This allows you extremely close deep entry. You really feel connected.

Holding her hip to balance you can rock back and forth about a 1 or 2 inch stroke. It takes nearly no energy from you or her. She skyrockets into ecstasy. UNDERSTAND this is a very deep relaxed orgasm. She doesn’t writhe or cry out. Her heart rate and blood pressure actually lower into a relaxed state. The only outward proof of orgasm is her pillowed pussy lips. She is like almost half asleep but lost in continuous waves of orgasmic pleasure as the uterus and vagina go into a continuous rhythmic contraction. You just have to trust she’s having the best orgasm she is capable of enjoying and continue rocking, admiring her, pleasing her and yourself, getting lost in worshipping her and thanking The Creator for this fantastic privilege to enjoy this experience.

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56 These positions are close, but not exactly as I describe. This on the left is
56 These positions are close, but not exactly as I describe. This on the left is
56 These positions are close, but not exactly as I describe. This on the left is

These positions are close, but not exactly as I describe. This on the left is the closest. You can see her right leg pulled up, and the right is straight as in standing and he’s straddling. If she can rest like she’s sleeping she’ll get launched into pleasure and they both need very little energy to go on a really long time!

  • 4. Try rotating your penis as you thrust in a winding circular motion going in and coming out.

  • 5. Put your penis all the way in and slide up and down and left and right and in circles clockwise and counter-clockwise, without moving your penis in and out. Play with new ideas and ask her to tell you what she likes.

For a cool variation, sit her on the edge of the bed, then have her lie back with her legs hanging over the edge. Enter her, and then take her hands and help her to sit her up and thrust in and out of her pussy. I did this with a gf at a hotel once and she said, “OOOoooo, wow, babe, I LIKE this!” It was a totally new idea for me and I was afraid I might hurt her but it turned out to be just great.

So….What’d ya think? Are you up for talkin’ about growin’ a bigger cock?

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Happy at last, she found what she always secretly wanted.

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PENIS ENLARGMENT METHODS THAT WORK

58 PENIS ENLARGMENT METHODS THAT WORK Here’s a problem we all should have. Before I launch

Here’s a problem we all should have.

Before I launch into what you can do to enlarge your penis I think we should find out what some of the women think. After all, unless you prefer men, it’s women whose attention we want.

As a friend once told me, “the remarkable thing about pussies is you spend 9 months trying to get out of one and the rest of your life trying to get back into them.”

But can you get one this big into a normal, average woman’s cunt?

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Does Size Really Matter?

By N.D.-McDaniel A Ladies Online Magazine: August 15, 2008

59 Does Size Really Matter? By N.D.-McDaniel A Ladies Online Magazine: August 15, 2008 With all

With all the worry women have about their bodies, it’s easy to forget that men, too, have their little areas of body obsession. Specifically that a certain body part is too little. But are their concerns justified? How much does size matter to women?

When it comes to size and aesthetics, it’s the rare guy who wants an honest assessment of his anatomy. But every so often, women hear this question: “What do you think of my penis?”

It’s a query sure to jolt you out of your post-coital reverie, and answering it can test one’s ability to lie. But it isn’t the out-of-left-fieldness that’s usually so surprising about this question, but rather, the naked vulnerability it reveals. Sort of the male equivalent of Does this make me look fat?

I once got “the question” while seeing a man who was smaller than I would have liked. But I was enormously attracted to him and the electricity we generated could have lit up Times Square. And in that unguarded moment, I think I liked him even more for giving me a peek at his own anxieties. And so I said,

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quite honestly, “Absolutely. It’s amazing.”

60 quite honestly, “Absolutely. It’s amazing.” When it comes to sexual insecurity, women definitely haven’t cornered

When it comes to sexual insecurity, women definitely haven’t cornered the market.

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61 matters, guys still wonder: Does size matter? More important: Do I measure up? So here’s

matters, guys still wonder: Does size matter? More important: Do I measure up? So here’s the answer:

Yes, size matters. But not the way men might think it does. (See related article: The Gal’s Guide to Her Guy’s Equipment

The Gal's Guide to Her Guy's Equipment

By N.D. -McDaniel November 15, 2011

When you want to know what’s up down there, you consult your ob-gyn, friends or the latest “Cosmo” issue. But what if you’re stumped over your partner’s parts? Most women don’t know as much about their guy’s anatomy as their own. What’s the average size? Can it break? Read the gal’s guide to his equipment for answers to 8 common questions ...

1. 5-6 inches is average Is my penis big enough? It’s such an age-old worry for guys that someone actually got out a tape measure and checked. In a laboratory.

The result: Studies indicate that the average guy measures 5.1-5.7 inches when erect and 3.4-3.7 inches when not.

Some penises can appear smaller than they are because fat around the lower abdomen masks their true size; guys can lose the appearance of a full inch for every additional 35 pounds they’re carrying.

It can also be caused by skin on the penis that isn’t securely anchoring

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the shaft, which means his member retracts when soft.

When it comes to size, remember this: “The vagina always adjusts to the penis," says Ciril Godec, M.D., chairman of urology at Long Island College Hospital in Brooklyn. 2. There’s no need to supersize. Email boxes are flooded every day with offers to “enlarge your penis” – even if you don’t have one.

“They’re garbage,” says Marc Greenstein, M.D., a urologist with the North Jersey Center for Urologic Care.

Same for penis expansion surgery. One such procedure involves injecting body fat into the penis to thicken it.

Another severs the suspensory penile ligament, which attaches the penis to the pubic bone.

Reputable urologists won’t perform either procedure because they’re not effective and there’s a risk of mutilation, infection and fracture.

Plus, once the ligament’s cut guys lose their ability to steer, which is not good for you.

“The penis just kind of flops; you can’t really direct it,” says Sovrin Shah, M.D., a urologist with Beth Israel Medical Center in New York City.Still, if you and your partner feel the need to upsize, pick up a penis pump or cock ring at an adult boutique.

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They can temporarily increase size by drawing more blood to the area.

3. If it’s morning, he’s erect.

Much as we’d like to think that guys wake up hard because they’re sleeping next to us, morning erections (called nocturnal penile tumescence in the urology world) are really just a holdover from the dreaming or rapid eye movement (REM) phase of sleep.

During REM, neurological activity and the release of hormones like testosterone produce erections.

Some doctors believe that the body’s natural way of keeping the penis healthy is to infuse it with fresh, nutrient-rich blood each night through erections.

Regardless of why it happens, it’s fairly routine.On average, healthy guys experience 3-5 erections during a normal night’s sleep.

We’re just awake enough to appreciate it in the morning.

4. If you bend it, it can break.

The corpora cavernosa – the chambers of the penis that fill with blood during erection – are made of connective tissue.

If the penis bends suddenly and awkwardly, the tissue can crack.

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“It breaks right in half,” Greenstein says. Fractured penises require surgery to repair and take about six weeks to heal completely.

  • 5. His testes won’t burst if he doesn’t ejaculate.

The truth about this popular ploy for talking us into sex: Arousal without release doesn’t damage his testes.

While it’s true that men’s testicles can expand by 25%-50% during arousal, there’s yet to be a report of testicles popping from lack of climax.The trapped blood can make the testicles feel achy without the big finish (they may even turn a bit blue as blood loses oxygen), but the only damage done, says Greenstein, “is to men’s pride.”

  • 6. Not hard? It’s (probably) not you.

Equipment malfunctions have a lot to do with how guys treat their own bodies.

Smoking, for example, narrows the blood vessels in the penis, which are already narrow at 0.5-1 millimeter in diameter. Since erections depend on unimpeded blood flow to the penis, any kind of impediment.

In fact, smokers are twice as likely to become impotent as nonsmokers.

Also, having a few drinks to “get you in the mood” can backfire by basically paralyzing the nerves of the penis, according to Godec.

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erection,” he says. The occasional flop isn’t cause for concern. But if your guy’s been more often deflated than elated lately, get him to a doctor pronto. Erectile woes are often the first indicator of serious health problems.

Men with erectile dysfunction (ED) typically develop coronary artery disease within three years and diabetes within eight years.

And if they have hypertension, they’re more likely to have a heart attack or stroke.

“The penis is the thermometer of men’s health,” says Dr. Ridwan Shabsigh, associate professor of urology at Columbia University in New York City.

Check out 10 Health Symptoms Your Guy Shouldn't Ignore.

7. Hair triggers can be handled.

About 30% of guys are quick to ejaculate. But that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy marathon sex with your guy, as long as you approach the situation diplomatically.

First, raise the issue. Yes, this will be awkward, but couching it as a conversation about how you can please each other takes the edge off, says sexpert Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., author of Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love and the Sensual Years (Collins).

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She suggests this opener: “Is there something we can do that can help us last a little longer? I enjoy having you so much, I don’t want it to stop that quickly.”

“This way it’s not all about him; it’s about you as a couple,” Schwartz says.

Once you’re both on board to slow down, there are many ways to apply the brakes.

SSRI antidepressants are often prescribed to help with premature ejaculation. But according to Shah, this buys guys only a couple minutes of extra time.

A better approach may be the “start-stop” method: Your partner gets aroused, backs off before the point of no return, lets things cool down and then starts again.

The idea, explains Shah, is to gradually build tolerance so that with practice he can last longer. Schwartz also recommends a throwaway round.

“Having a quick session will reduce the sense of urgency,” she explains. Then have a longer session together.

"He won’t be as quick the second time.”

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Another exercise: Fool around without intercourse.

“This way he learns how to hold an erection for a while without feeling that he has to do something with it right away,” Schwartz says.

8. Erections can last too long.

There’s admirable staying power

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and then there’s too much.

Erections that stick around for 2-3 hours after ejaculation are a sign of plumbing problems.

Erections occur when blood rushes into the penis and the veins snap shut to keep it there, making the penis stay hard. After ejaculation, those blood vessels should relax so the blood can drain out.

If blood gets trapped, erection becomes painful and, if untreated, may lead to impotence. Known as priapism, this condition mainly affects men with sickle cell anemia, diabetes or leukemia. However, it has been known to happen when guys double up on erection medications to put on a good show in bed.

If your partner's penis shows no signs of returning to normal, swallow your embarrassment and go to the emergency room. In the early stages, docs can use drugs to lower the boom. But the longer you wait, the higher the chances of surgery.

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8 Factoids You Should Know About Your Cock

What’s long and hard and carries seamen? A submarine! Grade school kids love that joke. But here’s a fact that’s not so funny: Most grown men and women have little more than a grade-school understanding of The Grand Dong. Several prominent urologists – people who have penis knowledge well beyond the standard owner’s manual – give us the lowdown on what a woman needs to know about her guy’s favorite submersible, and what we men should know too.

1. Five to six inches is average

Is my penis big enough? It’s such an age-old worry for guys that someone actually got out a tape measure

68 8 Factoids You Should Know About Your Cock What’s long and hard and carries seamen?

and checked. In a laboratory.

And the news is that, despite the massive members showcased in X-rated flicks, studies published in medical journals indicate that the average guy measures 5.1-

  • 5.7 inches when erect and 3.4-

  • 3.7 inches when not.

Too Big

“We’ve put such inflated importance on size, and as a result, women’s eyes are bigger than their vaginas,” says Anne Semans, marketing director for the sex toy boutique chain Babeland (Babeland.com).

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Semans knows a bit about women’s size preferences, at least when it comes to dildos. Babeland’s most popular model measures six inches long and 1¼ inches across, though women have gone to the store seeking longer and fatter

“The cultural perception is that bigger is going to feel better,” Semans says. But, she adds, that’s not always the case. In fact, women who overreach often end up returning dildos (unopened, of course) that are just too huge. “Too big and you’re going to need a lot of lube, there’s going to be a lot more friction and it might chafe,” Semans says. “Even your orgasmic contractions may be less powerful.”

Logically, the same holds true for penises of the non-silicone variety. It doesn’t matter how many Long Dong Silvers show up in porn flicks. While many women may initially enjoy the sight of a big guy, their next reaction is often Ouch! That poor girl!

My friend Shari, 38, agrees. She’s dated guys who were both too long and too thick and says it’s a problem. “If it’s too big, it can be overwhelming and painful,” she says. “You have to really be ready to deal with something that large.”

And here’s something else guys don’t always take into account when wishing for more inches: A big penis can result in a woman’s reluctance to vault that pole again.

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“The stretching and friction is too much. You can be sore the next day and not so eager to have intercourse,” Shari says of the overly-endowed guys she has dated. “There were definitely times I said, ‘Don’t poke me with that thing.’” My friend Alice, 31, understands that all too well. She confesses she was so saddle-sore after a romp with a bigger than usual guy that the next day she made an emergency appointment with her gynecologist. And though they wound up dating for three months, she refused to get back on that bronco again.

70 “The stretching and friction is too much. You can be sore the next day and

“He wanted to, but I diverted him with oral sex or made excuses to avoid having sex with him,” she says.

Anecdotes aside, accommodating an extra- large penis can result in vaginal injury. Extra-long members can bump against a woman’s cervix during intercourse, causing discomfort or pain. With larger girth, tearing could occur and cause bleeding. Making sex pleasurable with a well-hung honey comes down to three things: lubricant, patience and position experimentation.

(See Bonus article: 14 Embarrassing Sex Questions Answered after the end of this book.)

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So is Smaller Better?

While too big can certainly be a big problem, nobody wants a pinkie-sized fellow either. Take my friend Claudia, who dated a guy with an outsized sense of himself. He stretched the truth

71 So is Smaller Better? While too big can certainly be a big problem, nobody wants

about what he did, where he lived, what he owned. In short, he was a showboat. When Claudia finally got into bed with him, she understood what he was compensating for. “I never realized that they came in petite!” she says. “I slept with him again just to get another look at it.”

I got a similar surprise one night when I was out with a guy I’d had a huge crush on one summer. He was big and burly

and when we kissed, he literally swept me off my feet. After too many drinks, we ended up back at his place. But lo and behold, where I expected a giant redwood was… a

sapling. Passion carried the moment, but I learned a valuable lesson about drawing any conclusions based on a man’s hands, feet or stature.

Yet although small penises are fodder for endless jokes, it’s a bit unfair to claim that a “good fit” is up the man. Have a couple of children the old-fashioned way, and you may not be as tight down there as you once were, which can make a slender penis feel too small.

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Fortunately, there are toys that can come to the rescue. Cock rings and penis pumps can (temporarily) add girth for guys with more modest holdings. And women can do their part by using Kegel exercises to tighten the vaginal walls, leading to a snugger fit. “That gives you more control over your vaginal muscles so that during intercourse you’re contracting more and harder, so that feels good for both of you,” Semans says.

Also, before writing a guy off for not measuring up, consider his ability to compensate for his shortcomings. Can he please you in other ways? Being attentive to your needs is the most important quality in a good lover, regardless of his penis size.

When it comes down to it, it’s not about actual inches, how big he is or how tight you are, but what you both do with the equipment you’ve got and how it all feels when you’re together. Says Shari: “My husband isn’t the biggest I’ve ever been with or the smallest. But we fit together very well. It’s just right.”

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About These Photos

These photos are from pornographic movie studios. They survey and offer advertising looking through the millions of us to find the extreme few with very large cocks. We know that about 80% of all men have viewed porn. So, we’re pulling men interested in fucking lots of girls from a population of 500,000,000 including USA and Europe. There might be 10 men with extremely large cocks in the business. The others seem larger thanks to camera angles and other studio make up and tricks. So the nearer correct statistic is 0.002 or 2 men in 1,000 would be men who are really, unusually big. Factor in, some won’t be promiscuous, some are older, or married and faithful, or they’re still immature kids. That means a woman has to kiss a lot of normal men to find one in the crowd really as big as the ones I’ve been showing here.

Using this enlargement course and herbal supplements could bring you an increase of 25%, which is quite a lot! If a boy age 14 got hold of this material and the herbs he could grow to gigantic proportions, but I would suggest he shouldn’t become bigger than 8 to 10 inches long and no thicker than 2.25 inches thick, which translates to 7 inches in circumference (measured around with a cloth tape or a string then laid against a ruler.)

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No man can stuff more than about 7 inches into most women. A few broad and tall women could take at most 9 inches long. The man with a cock longer than 7 inches is often frustrated wishing he could get the entire thing wrapped in pussy, especially with smaller girls. If he’s not very disciplined he’ll end up hurting the girl quite severely! The only big advantage to a cock 10 inches or longer is that he can sleep stuffed in her pussy all night, and that would be a very pleasant experience for both partners, but certainly not necessary to a happy sex-life.

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Women & Penis Size

"It's not how big it is, it's what you do with it

...

"

"It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean

...

"

We've all heard those comments about male endowment but what do

women really have to say about penis size? Read on and see how a bunch

of feisty females responded to the perennial question:

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"What's the perfect penis size?"

W said:

  • I don't know where you got those responses that penis size isn't

important but the reality of it is size does matter to both the man and

woman. A man with a large penis has the confidence that he can satisfy

any woman and after all, making love for the man is all about

confidence.

More and more research is showing that a larger penis does give more

pleasure to a woman especially the girth of the penis. I have never seen a

six inch or less dildo. Dildos are all designed large. Women brag about

their men’s size and I think that just making love with a man with a large

penis makes them feel like more of a woman. Women seem to think

something terrible will happen if they suddenly come clean that larger is

better. I was just on a website from a university study showing that

young college girls like larger penises. Maybe the next generation will be

more honest.

Sweet Sarah said:

Each woman is different physically, so there's not really a "universal"

perfect size. Me? I'm little, so my perfect size is probably 4-5 inches. But

one of my friends is a little larger and she likes 5-7 inches. That being

said ...

in my experience, size hasn't been the factor that ultimately made

sex good or bad.

A Player said:

  • I like 'em the size of a nice big juicy cucumber.

A Good Time Girl said:

To me, size absolutely does NOT matter. I'm 4'11" and very petite, so I

don't need a whole lot of penis to fill me up. There was one guy who was

so small that I wasn't sure if we'd had sex after we were done. (He was

probably a couple of inches long and skinny as a pencil.) But anything

bigger than that is generally ok. It's true that there's some "size queens"

out there (women who just love really big penises), but that seems to be

more of a mental thing than a physical need.

A Sporty Girl said:

Girth is probably more important to me than length. Having said that,

the perfect length size for me is about 6 inches.

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A Thinker said:

I've had more problems with too large than too small. Perfect? 4-6

inches, with medium girth. Here's the pros and cons on small. The cons?

There's trouble keeping it inside me during intercourse - and constantly

having to "re-set" the table breaks the rhythm of things. The pros?

Having a smaller penis means fuller insertion, and thus, more friction on

the clitoris. Plus, smaller penises are easier to give head to. So my

preference is on the smaller size. Here's the cons of too big (girth

especially). It can be physically uncomfortable, and it makes me feel

inadequate - like I can't take on more of him. Plus, having to build up

slowly to full insertion breaks the rhythm of a sexual encounter. I

haven’t had a ton of experience with too big, but in general I found more

problems with them than pleasure or fulfillment. Could have been my

partner, though, not his organ ...

A Good Time Girl said:

8" long, 6" around is good for me

...

but if you know how to use what

you've got, it goes a LOOOOOOOOOONG way!

6 / 3.14 = 1.91 inches thick. The average is 1.5” thick. 1 ¾ thick is

the large edge of average, so Good Time Girl is really talking

about a big guy, or she’s bullshitting us.

A Player said:

You really want to rock our world? Follow this simple advice: start us off

with oral sex. And if you make a few groans of pleasure while you're

down there so we think you're enjoying it, this will dramatically enhance

our excitement and pleasure. When your woman is ready for sex, ask her

which sexual position she prefers. Trust me, all women have their

favorite position. Mine is being on top and having my boyfriend use his

hands to stimulate me; this is one of the best ways for women to climax

during actual intercourse. It gives us control and feels great -- and with

this position, it doesn't really matter what size he is. Also, if you're

handy with a vibrator, try that out. Talk about fun!

A Thinker said:

The guy I've been seeing is 35 and he's great in bed - but since he didn't

know the particular fact I'm about to share with you, I'd assume that

most other guys don't know it, either. Here goes:

There are verrrrry few nerves up inside the vagina. The best way I

can describe it is it’s like a novacained lip - we can feel pressure (from

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your cock moving around inside us, or just from the way it expands that

space) but there's not much surface feeling.

The sensitive nerves you want to pay attention to are around the

vast pink area between the lips. (a depth of about 2”) That whole entire

area is just crazy with feeling. You might wonder, then: how do women

have orgasms thru sex? Well, I asked a friend who's a sex therapist and

she confirmed that very few women can have orgasms directly thru

intercourse. Many are faking it - they think they're the only women who

can't, and they want to please their guy. Want to be amazing in bed?

Trust me: learn how to make a woman come with your hand or your

mouth - and be eager to do it often. She'll be putty in your hands forever.

If you're eager to make a woman come, your value in her mind

goes up like 20 billion points. Seriously. It's because most guys don't

bother, or they're just clueless. This isn't to say that sex doesn't feel great.

It does. We love it. But a guy who knows to make us come orally

FIRST, and then has sex with us - that's a guy who really knows what

he's doing. Just by knowing that, you'll beat out 75% of the guys out

there. And then the women will follow you around.

GK said:

As a woman, I am going to be honest with any and every male. The

answer to if size counts: NO!!! It's all about how you work it that counts.

You can be hung as a horse and still can't satisfy a woman. You can be

as small as an inch worm, but if you know the right spots to hit it, then it

shouldn't be a problem. When having sex with a woman, there should be

communication. Once you both can understand each other's likes and

dislikes, then the sexual experience can be truly rewarding with each

other. Size does not count, however I would prefer a well endowed male

who can take care of business.

Author: HA! (LOL) Size doesn’t matter but she’d prefer a bigger one.

The biggest sex organ women has is their MIND and if you’re bigger

and hard and throbbing, even dripping a little pre-cum it’s like offering

her a bright new red sports car. Of course she wants it!

CC give the most important advice in the book:

Okay, guys. Here's some general information. 1. Four to eight inches is

considered the normal range of penis size for adult males. 2. Five and a

half inches is the average length of the adult penis. 3. There is no

correlation between penis size and height; size of the foot, hand, nose or

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any other body part because there is no 'bone' in the penis, contrary to

the popular euphemism. 4. There is very little correlation between penis

size and ethnicity. Black guys are slightly larger than white guys, and

Asian guys are very slightly smaller than white guys - there's not a big

difference. 5. Width IS more important that length as far as making

women happy, BUT copulation isn't what most women care about

anyway. We like touching and caressing and being treated like we matter

and not like a body on a slab. 6. Most importantly, penis size has

nothing to do with who you are as a person and what you can

accomplish with your life. You are important, not because of your penis

size, but because of what you do with the gifts God gave you. Be a man.

Be unselfish. Do good and make people's lives better. 7. Treat people

with respect. Stop dehumanizing each other and stop thinking of people

as objects for your pleasure.

JG said:

Each and everyone of you is a product of natural selection. Guys, that

means that your daddies, and their daddies, and their daddies

...

were

PICKED (ie selected) by the women of their time. If they didn't like

what they saw or felt in dick size, presumably they would have left and

found someone else. Another way of putting it is, you are the product of

past desirables, which would include your dick. So if the "average" range

of dick sizes is between say 5 and 7 inches, then that indicates that

females have been selecting that size on average for thousands of years.

If the ONLY thing that mattered was a big dick, then all males would

currently be very large (10 inches or more?) since past females would

have selected only the biggest size. Strangely, but as a matter of fact, you

have (past) females to thank for whatever size you are now. I know that

most of this will be waisted on most of you. Statistically for every "large"

male there is a similarly sized female. Big penis genes can also produce

big vaginal canals.

LL said:

All this talk about "am I big enough? Am I too big? Am I normal." I've

got news for you, everone is different. Take it from me there are women

out there who like small dicks. Just like there are women who like big

ones. If you take the time to get to know the woman a little instead of

trying to jump in her panties from the moment you meet her, maybe

your size won't matter so much. As long as you're willing to put the time

in to please her in other ways. There are women who will say "I need it

to be really big" but that's only her preference. There are some who think

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5 to 6 inches is just right. Women are just as different as men and if one

makes you feel bad because you don't have what she wants then she

probably wasn't worth the time anyway. What matters is, "does your size

please you?" "Does it make you feel good about yourself?" If what you

have doesn't please you, then it won't please anyone else because you'll

be so worried about your size that your technique will suffer. And

technique is a BIG part of what goes into pleasing a woman. So please

get over it and move on. Learn how to use what you've got and you'll be

successful with the women.

Author: We agree. However, what you’ve got should be healthy, hard,

throbbing and capable of pleasing long term. What we teach and the

herbs we recommend will allow you to make the best of what you have

and even get a bit more of it if that’s what you desire.

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Penis Size Survey

Penis size, or more specifically, average penis size, is of interest to most men at some point in their lives. Whilst many experts insist that penis size is of little importance, there is little doubt that penis size can have a significant impact upon levels of self-esteem and confidence. So, how does your penis measure up? What is the average penis size? We asked a pile of guys to get out the ruler or measure your penis (erect penis size please!) with a tape measure along the top of the penis, and enter your penis size below. Click the submit button and you'll see how your penis size compares with others in the web's biggest ongoing penis size comparison survey! (Mind you, figure the top end is at least 10% more than the truth ‘cuz guys brag and practical joke too much to expect this to be 100% truth.) So, the guys that said they’re 8.5” long or longer, probably more like 1.5 or 2% at very most based upon other laboratory surveys done on college campuses in the doctor’s offices with the doctor or nurse doing the measuring. Figuring a bell curve for statistical study if 1.6% of men admit they are 3.5” to 4” long then it’s statistically probable there are less than 1.6% of men longer than 8” (that equals 16 in 1,000) and less than 8 men are longer than 8” in 1,000)

79 5 to 6 inches is just right. Women are just as different as men and

Even this number seems too big. If this number is right, Assume you could find 5 men in 1,000 with a 10” x 2” dong. That would amount to 5,000 men in 1,000,000.

That would give us an estimate of 55,000 men in all of New York City that big, and I still think we’re way, way over estimating.

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Anyway, can you imagine your girl fucking 1,000 men to find ONE with a huge cock? It’s highly unlikely. If you think she would, she’s too weird and dangerous for you to love anyway! If your girl is that promiscuous, get her out of your lift as soon as possible because her emotional tone level is so low she’s capable of any crime imaginable.

Yeah, and if YOU would honestly want to fuck 1,000 women your mind isn’t in very good condition either!

I’d say the purpose of growing a larger cock is to enjoy sex with a few and finally settle with one and enjoy sex with her as much as you possibly can as far into your elder years as you can. If you’re big enough so both of you are pleased with it; She complements you or remarks “boy, that’s a big cock!” sometimes and she obviously is not faking cumming, then you should be quite happy to maintain that situation and build a good life together.

That’s been my situation with my little Chinese-Filipina and I’m quite happy with it.

Erect Penis Size Survey

Erect Penis Size Survey 21.3% 5.5 - 6.0 inches 19.4% 6.0 - 6.5 inches 13.4% 6.5
 

21.3%

5.5

- 6.0 inches

19.4%

19.4%

6.0

- 6.5 inches

13.4%

13.4%

6.5

- 7.0 inches

12%

12%

5.0

- 5.5 inches

9.2%

9.2%

7.0

- 7.5 inches

6.1%

6.1%

4.5

- 5.0 inches

4.7%

4.7%

7.5

- 8.0 inches

4%

4%

8.5

and above

3.2%

3.2%

4.0

- 4.5 inches

2.3%

2.3%

8.0

- 8.5 inches

2.1%

2.1%

3.0

- 3.5 inches

1.6%

1.6%

3.5

- 4.0 inches

Total Votes: 925618

 
 

Poll It v2.0 by

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The above survey was is a radio button that each man clicks. He can lie and say anything he wants. This suggests that perhaps 1 or 2% of men are bigger than 8”. And perhaps 5% are bigger than 7” and perhaps 25% are longer than 6”. That’s probably over estimating on the over 5.5” side of the chart.

Jelqing & Penis Enlargement

Penis enlargement exercises, over time, have

come to be called jelqing. Some observers say

that jelqing originated in the Middle East

where fathers would prepare their sons for

sexual relationships by teaching them a penile

massage technique (jelqing) which increased

the size of the penis. Others say the word jelq

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is a corruption of the term "jerk-off" and was

initiated by college students. Whatever the source of the word, "jelqing"

has come to be the most common term for a number of natural penis

enlargement exercises.

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(If you’re already this big it works better to have some help.)

The jelq exercises - used to increase penis

length and penis girth - can be time-

consuming. Despite this, jelqing is the most

popular natural penis enlargement

technique in America.

The most comprehensive research into the

effectiveness of jelqing was carried out in

the late 1970's by Dr Brian Richards in the United Kingdom. His

research was accepted for publication by the British Journal of Sexual

Medicine and showed positive results for 87 percent of the test group.

The results from his study showed an increase in penis length of up to

1.4 inches and an increase in penis girth of up to 1 inch. (28% increase in

some cases!)

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Jelqing workouts are based around a daily jelq session of around 20

minutes, including the hot soak time. The exercises usually start with a

penis warm-up. The warm-up involves a warm bath or a towel soaked in

warm water applied to the penis.

You can kneel in the bath tub with a container full of hot tap water and

continue to soak your cock and balls in the container or soak the towel,

wrap it around your genitals, and when you feel it’s cooling, soak and

heat it again. After about 5 to 8 minutes you’ll have relaxed the muscles

in the arterial walls and corpus cavernosa and will be ready for the

jelqing massage movements.

The warm-up is to increase blood flow to the penis and prepare it for the

jelq exercises. Once the warm-up is completed, the jelq techniques

should begin immediately. You can stand up, towel off, throw on a

warm sweat shirt

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gorilla!

Jelqing should only be attempted

with a semi-tumescent (semi-erect)

penis, never on an erect penis.

Some lubricant should be applied

beforehand and the hand-grip

should completely encircle the base

of the penis thus ensuring that no

blood escapes from the penis. The

penis is then milked, moving

towards the head and forcing the

blood toward the end of the penis.

100-200 jelq movements is the

average workout.

Do this with a moderate grip

strength. Remember you’re dealing

with hydraulic pressure here and

liquids cannot be compressed, so

don’t get too rough on yourself,

The jelqing exercises should be stopped immediately if any pain becomes

apparent or the penis becomes erect. Ejaculation should not be allowed

to occur and if the urge becomes apparent then a pause from exercising

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is worthwhile. Likewise, jelqing should be ceased should any pain or

discomfort become apparent.

After several months, penis size increases, both in girth or length should

become apparent. After a year, gains of 1 to 1.5 inches in length and ½

to ¾ of an inch in thickness are a reasonable expectation.

While that doesn’t sound like a huge change, when you’re actually

holding it, seeing it or fucking someone with it and she says, “It’s going

to take me some time to get used to your size!” you’ll know it’s a lot. I’ve

been there, I know, and I can tell you it’s a damned nice feeling to hear a

pretty girl say that. It’s also really nice when she STAYS all night and in

the morning it’s obvious she doesn’t want to leave, she wants you to fuck

her some more!

Beginning The Routine

Assume this is going to become a regular habit for years, as a part of

your life’s daily routine, so don’t rush it.

Hot compress.

The hot compress is nothing more than a wash cloth, soaked with very

warm bath water, wrapped around the shaft until it starts to cool. It is

the replaced with another. This process can be performed on a flaccid or

erect penis. The goal here is to draw blood to this area, increasing blood

flow and making the skin slightly elastic. Be careful not to use water to

hot or you could burn some very delicate tissue.

If convenient rather than a wash cloth, use a big plastic container from

yogurt bought at the grocer. While kneeling in the bath tub before the

tap, fill the container with very warm water, lower your entire genitals

into it, press it to your body and agitate to keep hot water circulating and

your cock and balls swaying. I do this after a few times of hot wraps with

the wash cloth, then dry off, pour a bit of warmed oil into my hands and

begin milking.

(I get warm vegetable oil by pouring a tablespoon full into a coffee cup

and heating it for 30-seconds in the microwave oven.)

By the way, always when you massage a partner, use warm oil, put it

into your hands, warm it between your palms and then begin massage.

NEVER pour oil on someone’s body. Only idiots in porno movies do

stupid stuff like that. AND never use mineral oil or baby oil. Use healthy

vegetable oils. See the first 10-lessons of our course for a complete study

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in teaching yourself massage. Learn this and your lover will think you’re

heaven sent.

Penis Enlargement Jelquing Recommended Technique

Read these first, try a little, keep reading, gain a little practice, pick one

or two techniques and do them for a week, then switch to another one or

two, and keep alternating through the year.

Milking for penis enlargement

Believe it or not, squeezing and pulling your penis on a regular basis can

produce size gains, just as exercising muscles will make them larger

(your penis is not muscle, of course). You can combine milking (jelq)

and pulling exercises.

Words to know: “Proximal” more approximate to: closer to your chest

or trunk. “Distal” more distant. Further away from your trunk. Stroking

in the distal direction means you are pulling away from your body

toward the head.

A good PULLING exercise is to grab just proximal of (behind the) glans

(head) for a holding point with your oiled hands, or with a wash cloth

for better grip. Pull distal (away from your body) and then make circles

with your pulling hand thus stretching in a circular motion. Move both

clockwise and counter-clockwise. I do this 10 or 15 times after perhaps

30 milkings.

MILKING

With thumb and forefinger, squeeze base of penis shaft. Pull straight

out and sometimes slightly downward. Stop at the rim behind the glans

(head.) Repeat, alternating hands. Make each stroke last about three

seconds. Sometimes loosen your grip a bit, slip off the head over the tip

returning hand over hand.

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Wet or dry?

Some men don’t use lubrication to milk and do it in the morning before

getting out of bed -- when testosterone levels are highest. One writes:

“When I milk before going to sleep, throbbing erections sometimes wake

me up several times during the night.”

I think that’s entertaining, like jerking off but it’s not serious. I

recommend always using oil. If you want to do this in bed just have a

few sacrificial hand towels or paper towels around to clean up so you

don’t stain the sheets with oil.

With oiled milking, you slide your fingers over the skin, using

lubrication, best is common cooking oil. I presently use Canola oil. The

Crisco OMEGA-3 DHA oil may be a bit better as it might transmit some

DHA into the skin and improve penile health. It seems to be doing that

for me. Do not do this in the shower with soap. You’ll be sorry if you

do.

Oiled hand milking is the best method after warming the genitals in hot

water while kneeling in the bath tub. You can fit this in with other things

you’re doing in the bathroom, end up cumming if you like, shower,

shave and you’re done for the day. One session like this per day is

sufficient.

A common mixed cooking oil seems best. Olive is costly but considered

excellent by some men. Corn is heavy and tends to be sticky unless you

use a lot of it. Expensive oils for massage are unnecessary.

Advanced technique - use only after you have milked your penis over a

period of several weeks: when your penis becomes semi-erect, wrap

thumb and forefinger completely around shaft, making the American 'A-

OK' sign (which is quite obscene in some other countries). Tighten your

PC muscles (optional), then pull with a slight downward angle. Don't

squeeze too hard. Be mindful of what you’re doing, observe the skin on

the head and if it looks like you’re stretching or bulging veins relax your

grip somewhat.

Using the PC muscles you can force more blood into the penis, relax the

muscle as you milk toward the head. Next hand comes around to do it

again.

A good idea is to pull out and rotate a few circles, milk 20 or 30 strokes,

pull out and rotate again a few. Continue this way for 50 or 100 strokes.

Then point the penis up toward the ceiling and milk down draining the

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blood out. Rest for a minute allowing a new blood supply to replenish

the area. Begin again after a minute.

This sounds like a long process but if you combine it with toileting,

maybe shaving or wandering around the house checking on what your

computer is doing, multi-tasking that way it doesn’t take up any

additional time.

Notes:

If you begin to get an erection, discourage it by pointing it to the ceiling,

and milking down forcing blood out and back into the body, or simply

wait until it subsides.

You can encourage circulation afterward by holding from behind the

glands and wiggling the penis, and perhaps slapping your penis side to

side against your inner thighs, or up and down between your abdomen

and your other hand closed flat fingers or palm.

If circumcised, you may experience swelling at your circumcision scar

after several hundred strokes. This 'doughnut effect' goes away after a

few hours.

Oiled milking over the head should be done with an easier grip. If you

get sore you’ve been squeezing too hard. A good milking session may

leave you comfortably sore from the stretching, but should not be

painful.

Timing and Actions:

You’ll find you will do about 4 strokes in 5 seconds or 48 strokes a minute. 250 strokes will take 5 minutes.

My suggestions:

200-300 strokes/day with a firm but not painful grip for the first week

done in one session. Always remember, hydraulic pressure is very

powerful, so be easy with the grip and vary it as you go along. If it feels

like a few strokes and slipping off the head would be good, do that, and

even milk blood down toward the body, then begin again. End up with

approximately 300 strokes done from root toward tip.

300-500 strokes/day at medium-full strength for the next week and there

after. Break this into two sessions of 250 strokes (5-minutes). Rest, milk

down toward your body to drain the blood, pull and move it in circles,

then hold behind the glands and wiggle it a bit to relax it some more.

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Then begin stroking and using your PC muscles to fill it with blood

again, and when it’s about ¾ hard begin counting off another 250

strokes. The whole routine takes about 12 minutes. You can do this in a

warm bathroom with the hot water soak in a container first. This way

the entire routine takes between 15 and 25 minutes. You can actually fit

this in while toileting, and other stuff in the bath and it all works out that

it really doesn’t take up much more time than you were previously.

If you prefer to avoid the bathroom time or must share with others,

you’ll get good results as from your bed. Cover your lower body with

extra blankets to be really warm before you wake, put a big towel under

you to avoid staining the bed with oil, begin milking when you wake.

Get in 50 strokes, rest a little, do another 50. Keep going with rest and

wiggle breaks to 500 strokes.

NOTES:

Another suggestion about Milking: Occasionally reach your finger tips under your crotch to the front corner of the anus and press in there at the root of the penis and while pressing move your hand forward pushing blood along the veins there toward and into the penis. You have another good 3 to 4 inches of flesh there holding blood, so pull the blood forward, as much as you can manage till you get into the scrotum, then grip the penis with the ring of fire (thumb and fore finger) and continue milking from the base of the penis to the head sometimes straight out, sometimes angled down a little. You can do this either sitting or standing. It works either way.

There are writers who say you can’t do this if you get erect.

Well….within reason. You can be 85 or 90% erect and use a lighter grip,

think of something non-sexual like shoveling snow, and your erection

will diminish and you can keep on milking.

Do not do this in the middle of the day or right after coming home from

work. It should be done in the early morning, or before you sleep at

night.

In your mind’s eye, see your cock the size you want it to be. For

example, lying on your bed your milking and comparing how thick and

tall it is against your thigh. Close your eyes and get an image of it being

the size you want. Continue playing with this image until it’s very solidly

in mind and remains in mind every time you do this routine, and

can/should be instantly brought to mind occasionally through the day.

The mind controls the body. YOU WILL influence growth doing this!

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When you’re done, if you have even the slightest inclination, make

yourself ejaculate. I really suggest you keep on milking and stroking

after you cum to train yourself to continue to fuck even after you release

crème in a woman’s pussy. Being able to stay hard and fuck some more

after cumming is a great ability and will please women very much. If you

can’t and you still want to please her you could use a sex toy of some

kind and your mouth over her clit and she’d also think you were one of

“the gods.” The objective, always, is to express your love for her and

them make her cum until her eyes cross! Until she says you’re the best

she ever had.

I once launched a woman into extended orgasm – something she had never experienced. She had tremendous powers of concentration. She speed read the book ESO: How You and Your Lover Can Give Each Other Hours of Extended Sexual Orgasm (available through my website) http://www.ultimate- romance2020.com/Repeat-Performance/books_we_suggest.htm click this link for the SEXI BOOKS page.

So, in a morning she read through this, said she understood it, and said, “Come on Baby. Take me where I’ve never been before.” And so we began. Within 15 or 20 minutes Pam was lost in pleasure. She continued cumming, and lost in pleasure for an hour as I pleased her alternately with my hands, my lips and my cock. She said, “When it first began I thought, “It’ll stop after this one. And then another wave of contractions came and then another and finally I was lost in space. I didn’t know where I was or who was with me. I didn’t know anything but self existence and pleasure.’”

She also said, You leave me completely satisfied. No one has ever done this. You’re really awesome.

I’m telling you this because I want your woman to say this to you too. Learn what we teach you here and buy the books I recommend if you wish, and keep learning. Some day the one you want to keep for life will say similar words and she won’t be the least bit interested in straying off with other lovers, because she knows most of them are good looking and nasty, and often terrible, but TERRIBLE in bed.

Don’t do this routine in Mid Day

I think it’s best to do this in the morning out of a warm bed when the para- sympathetic nervous system division is mostly dominant causing you’re arterial muscles to be a bit more relaxed. Coming in from the cold to do this after a day’s work and a long drive is not such a good idea. If you have to rush off to work set your alarm to wake a half hour earlier. If you’re under employed at present, time is probably not a problem.

Some people suggest days off - one day a week or every other day. Use your own judgment. Some people say 200 strokes per day is sufficient. You’ll actually end up doing (hand over hand) about 25 strokes per minute = 100 strokes in 4 minutes. Then point up and drain it, take a minute or two break, do it all again. The whole 200 strokes and pulls took all of 12 minutes. The warming before took 5 minutes. So,

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about 15-20 minutes for the whole job. It’s your choice to go more than 200 strokes. I’d suggest if you want to try to be a sexual over achiever do the 200 stroke routine morning and evening. Try it and see how it goes. Some say once a day is enough, but all of us vary a bit in our body’s adaptation ability. Cum when you’re done if you want to, eat some peanut butter to give yourself more L-Arginine for a growth hormone releaser, and get a good sleep. Avoid tobacco, drugs and alcohol!

Now you have the basics. The rest of the book will illuminate more from other articles and courses. I do not recommend any sort of vacuum pump or stretching device. The people who sell the herbal supplements in pill or patch form will sell one, but I’m not a believer in those types of equipment. Vacuum pumps give you temporary (1 hour) engorgement and maybe varicose veins and “black dick disease” from the bruising. It’s not a good option.

As for herbal supplements,

I like both pills and patch, but I

think the patch is better because it provides a constant “drip” of herbal

chemistry and it’s so convenient. Generally patches can be located on

soft skin of underarm, or abdomen. Change locations each time you

place one then don’t even think about it.

You might also experiment with ¼ of a patch on a woman who

has lost her sexual interest and is experiencing mild depression and

generally nasty moods. She might be low in testosterone and a ¼ or an

1/8 of a patch would be right for her. Women do produce some

testosterone but a whole lot less than we men do.

More about Herbal supplements at this link:

http://www.ultimate-romance2020.com/Free-Sex-Articles.htm

There are people who recommend much longer daily milking routines and I am including their advice later for you to see, but my experience is that such long sessions are unnecessary. I, and other men with whom I have had writing contact, have gotten satisfactory results with the routine I’ve just described and herbal supplements. I’ve been offering a course like this for years. This is an expanded version.

Years ago, Five guys started this course and using herbs at age 15. Two in Thailand, two in Europe, one in the US. They got (or made) herbal supplements as we suggested, made this program a morning habit, and kept in contact with us over the years.

All of them are longer than 10 inches and thicker than 2 inches. The Thai guy does a show, fucking three nude dancers in a night-club on stage, all to their always loud music. He says he wears foam ear plugs to retain his hearing.

Every morning he does his milking. Every night he’s on stage (wearing a condom) in a late performance fucking in profile view with mostly silhouette lighting while the

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girls stand and bend over or get on their hands and knees. One of the girls off stage has a bright battery powered spot light and she’s waiting for his signal. When he’s about to cum, he’ll look up and nod to her just before pulls out of his partner, slips the condom off and squirts crème over her ass so the crowd can see. (They cheer and throw money for cum shots). She flips on the spot light just for those few seconds when he’s squirting crème. Then the lights go off, and the two fuckers disappear to their dressing room (and maybe to fuck some more.) What a job, hey?

The girl he fucks is the same one every time and she lives with him where they fuck more on their days off. She refuses to work as a prostitute and they are paid enough from the club and tips that they don’t have to work as whores, so apparently they’re avoiding STD’s and having a good time fucking for money.

90 girls stand and bend over or get on their hands and knees. One of the

Signaler.

More Penis Enlargement Advice

Watch out for beautiful blonde girls like

this. You might be eaten!

Blonde girl “eats penis.” Man hospitalized after cumming 100 gallons.

For centuries men have employed various inventions and stretching methods in their hopes of enlarging their penises. The penis

is a man's obvious Sexual

In days before clothes men signals with an erection and women signaled with erect nipples. Now the girls can show it off in bras but the men’s desires are hidden.

Remember, the mind is your “biggest sex organ.” Girls may not be able

to easily fit a huge cock inside, and they may not need a huge cock to

have orgasm, but they still have eyes and a mind and they’re attracted to

big cocks just as you are to round backsides, slim waists and beautiful

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breasts. Seeing a bigger bulge under your slax or swimsuit definitely get’s

a woman’s attention.

I was once in a high-school Shakespear play and the lower portion of the costume was something like ballet tights, and I was kind of naturally bigger then, plus I’m a short slim guy so it looks even bigger. Boy, did I ever hear a lot of comments and get some invitations that summer. Girls notice big bulges just like you notice big breasts under a shirt.

Of course every man wants to be most sexually attractive and acceptable

when he finally reveals his penis, and when his woman finally sees and

touches his cock.

The middle-aged or older male may achieve results as swiftly and

permanently as the younger male.

The average man's penis is capable of making enlargement gains within

an unknown limit. The penis is an organ, not a muscle and contains no

bone.

91 breasts. Seeing a bigger bulge under your slax or swimsuit definitely get’s a woman’s attention.

Please note the Fibrous envelope which surrounds the other structures in

this cross section drawing. The fibrous envelope is white fibrous tissue

which generally won’t stretch and will grow when given sufficient long

term remodeling exercise as we’re teaching here. It grows slowly and is

encouraged to grow more with the right nutrients present. Those

nutrients would include

Vitamin C,

Calcium and Magnesium

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a good multiple vitamin and mineral supplement would be wise,

The herbs present in the products I recommend

Sufficient water, (drink 2 quarts of filtered water daily)

Sufficient testosterone.

Today’s bottled water in plastic containers is full of estrogen mimics.

These mimics tend to decrease testosterone production and cause you to

gain fat, brow breasts, lose interest in sex, lose aggressive interest in sex,

girls, and work, even lead to depression and other illnesses. You’d be

wise to buy a water filter and drink 2-quarts of water that you poured

through it from your drinking water tap.

More about Herbal supplements at this link:

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An increase in penis size cannot be accomplished overnight; but from

within three months some men will gain up to 20% as they improve their

blood circulation.

Over a year additional gain of another 5 or 6% is probably.

Realistically then, a 5” x 1.25” thick cock can end up 6” long and 1.5”

thick after 3 or 4 months. It might end up 6.75” long and 1.7” thick after

a year. Some men say they’ve done better, and considering how much

anecdotal evidence there is (bragging not measured in a lab) there’s no

real telling exactly how much the average man can expect to change.

I realize what I’ve just written here disagrees with many advertisements

are articles. Most of those ads and Internet articles are little better than

bricks of carefully sun baked horse manure written by thieves and liars

who obviously know nothing of physiology and always but Always

92 a good multiple vitamin and mineral supplement would be wise, The herbs present in the

neglect to mention the white fibrous

envelope surrounding the corpora

cavernosa.

Is enlargement impossible? No. It’s

quite possible. Is it unlimited? I think

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it has its limits. We know most men who don’t get a full hard erection

are lacking circulation and stretch ability by up to 20% on average. That

means with a bit of these exercises and nutrition, PLUS cessation of

smoking and alcohol you could improve your over all health and gain

20% maybe even 30% to your cock size over a span of 6 months to a

year.

93 it has its limits. We know most men who don’t get a full hard erection

Let me tell you, my man, if you end up

nearly a third bigger, showing it off under a

stretchy swim suit at any hotel beach is likely

to get some girl’s attention. She’s on

vacation looking for sexy excitement! When

you prove to her it’s real and not padding,

and ask her if she wants some entertainment

and the best massage of the week, she’s

likely to say “yes!”

More about Herbal supplements at this link:

http://www.ultimate-romance2020.com/Free-Sex-Articles.htm

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If you find her dressed like this, she’s probably out there looking for more than a
If you find her dressed like
this, she’s probably out there
looking for more than a sun
tan. I never have yet met a
mother of two dressed like this!

If you keep at this exercise and nutrition plan for a year you’ll likely

increase both the length and the circumference of your penis extensively.

These simple exercises, if practiced sex days a week, will enable you to

make

pleasing

gains.

Little

or

no

growth

will

be

apparent for

approximately one month; during the second or third month a

measurable increase is likely. Keep careful notes with dates for your

comparison.

 

Results are permanent. The penis will become enlarged in both the

flaccid and erect states. but especially in its erect state. The exercise is

beneficial, not harmful; it will actually improve the health and strength

of the penis as well as increase its size.

The exercise will greatly enhance one's vasocongestion; the penis, in it

erect state, will become as hard as a muscle under tension. It will become

somewhat more firm in even its flaccid state and its head (glans) may

actually double in size and gain the full ¾ rounded shape they should

have.

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Remember, the woman gets great sensation at the vaginal entry. Thicker

is more important than longer.

I also suggest, especially if you’re under age 35, that you do some light

body building exercise daily. Be sure to include some squats and bending

over at the hips and back up. You don’t need to use weights. Just do

maybe 2 sets of 20 reps morning and evening. This will cause you to

demand more testosterone which is good for over all muscle

development, more penis development, and fat burn-off.

“You’re gona like the way you look. I guarantee it.” Get a bit more fit

and trim and the girls will like it too.

Don’t do stretching alone. Perform some sort of stretching exercise while

the penis is in a partially erect state. Alternate the stretching and jelq

milking as I described earlier.

And remember, There’s a girl like this out there somewhere who wants YOU to feed her
And remember, There’s a girl like
this out there somewhere who wants
YOU to feed her hungry pussy!

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This will develop the entire penis; its length, thickness, weight, density

and glans will all become proportionately enlarged. This is an easy and

pleasant, fun, exercise to perform. It feels good and often ends with you

cumming. If you have an every horney lover, by means it should always

end with fucking! The warmer you are the better. Try doing it before the

bathroom mirror.

Another course writer (a fan of passive sentences) writes:

Oil it up, then, using only the thumb and forefinger, the penis is gently

but firmly stretched downward and slightly outward, using first one hand

and then the other in an alternating "milking" action. This squeezing

stretching action is performed gently until a certain amount of

tumescence (swelling) develops; then the milkings are performed a bit

more firmly and forcibly. One must take it easy for about ten days. The

milking should be performed approximately one hundred times. But

gradually, within a month, one should be performing about two hundred

repetitions.

The exercises are the same for both circumcised and uncircumcised men.

It will be noticed that the head (or glans) becomes extremely red and that

it will swell considerably. This is normal and good, and is due to the

forcing of blood to that area.

NOTE: Care must be taken that the exercise is not performed during

hard erection. Vascular (vein) damage could result if the penis is forcibly

milked in its fully erect state. A condition of from one half to three

quarters of full erection is desirable, results cannot be obtained until a

partial erection is present.

It will be noticed that the penis (even in its flaccid state) appears both

longer and thicker after the exercise has been performed. This is a fact.

And from within one to several months the penis, after exercise, will

appear rather enormous; this is due to the impaction of blood in the

penile tissues which the milking engenders.

After approximately one month the milkings can be performed quite

vigorously, using a firmer grip on the shaft of the penis and stretching it

strongly, (The connective muscles become quite strong and will not be

harmed.)

It may be found for a short time that one's erections, after exercising, are

not quite as firm; this is only a temporary condition (it should last no

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more than an hour) caused by fatigue in the erectile tissues. The man's

sex life will in no way be adversely affected; on the contrary, he will

discover an increase in his ability to get harder, last longer and eventually,

retain his erection even after ejaculation.

Care must be taken that sufficient oil is used to keep the penis shaft well

lubricated while performing the exercise, otherwise the rather excessive

friction may burn or bruise the flesh. A slight pelvic tenderness or

soreness may be felt the first few days, but this will soon pass, and even

the most vigorous milking will not cause it to return.

When, after several months (or perhaps a year), the penis has reached

the size the individual desires, the exercise may be performed only

occasionally (perhaps once a week). By so doing the penis will remain

permanently enlarged and the occasional massage will keep it well toned

and in a state of super condition and health.

The milkings should be performed rather swiftly, using first one hand

and then the other in a sort of rhythmic motion; after the exercise is

performed the individual may grasp the penis at its base with the thumb

and the first two fingers and, cupping the testicles in the other hand to

protect them, slap the penis swiftly up and down from twenty five to fifty

repetitions; this limbers it up after the milkings and helps to relax the

connective muscles.

The growth results from this milking exercise are not unusual or

mysterious ...

not even a miracle. It is the partial vasocongestion, along

with the vigorous milking, that engenders increased penis size. Results

will be obtained regardless of the individual's age, as long as partial

tumescence is present when the really vigorous milkings are performed.

The exercise should be performed only once a day, five days a week. An

excellent time to perform it is before taking a shower; the warm water

further relaxes the connective muscles and the lubricant can then be

washed from the penis.

I know of no other exercise or stretching method which will both

lengthen and thicken the penis. The exercise does require persistence and

patience, but the individual who truly desires to possess a larger penis

will find no better way to achieve definite results.

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Milking (Jelq) - the Taoist Version

Adapted from "The Multi-Orgasmic Man"

Inhale through your nose, and "swallow" the breath into your stomach.

Visualize the breath as a ball of energy, and push the energy down into

into your penis.

Press up firmly between your anus and scrotum with the three middle

fingers of your left hand, to lock this energy in your penis. Maintaining

pressure with your fingers, breathe normally and repeat each individual

pull nine times:

1) Compass pull: hold penis with your right hand and rhythmically pull

it straight out (9x). Then nine times:

to the right (9x)

to the left (9x)

down (9x)

2) Hot pull: rub the head of your penis with your thumb until you have

an erection (pull while you rub if necessary). Circle the penis at its base

with your thumb and forefinger. Pull forward about an inch, to force

energy into the head (9x).

4) Hot rotation: pull the erect penis to the right and rotate in small

circles while pulling outward: (9x each direction). Repeat to the left.

5) Hot slap: gently slap erect penis against inner thigh while pulling out:

on each side (9x).

Soak: after completing these stretches, soak your penis in warm water

for a minute. You'll feel a lot of energy in your penis: this is what you

want

1. Exercises.

First exercise. As you urinate, repeatedly squeeze the muscles that stop

the flow of urine. At first you may only be able to stop the flow for a

second or two, but, keep at it until you can stop the flow as long as you

want. Then allow the flow to start again, after it has started, stop it

again. Each time try to stop it as forcefully as you can. You will want to

repeat this procedure as many times as possible throughout the day. This

will help to strengthen the muscles involved in ejaculating, making your

ejaculations much more forceful. You will also find that when erect

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performing this squeezing will cause your penis to jerk upwards (this can

be pleasing to your partner). Finally this will help maintain a hard

erection by limiting the out flow of blood from the penis during arousal.

99 performing this squeezing will cause your penis to jerk upwards (this can be pleasing to

Stay motivated, play with this, take your herbal supplements, keep a chart of measurements with dates to see your progress, and HAVE FUN!

More about Herbal supplements at this link:

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Second Exercise. This can be done any time anywhere, though I would

start in front of a mirror to monitor my success. You can be erect or

flaccid while doing this exercise. It may be easier to see what's

happening in the beginning if you are hot, allowing your testicles to hang

low.

You will want to try to raise your testicles, using your groin muscles, to

the base of your penis, then let the fall to the normal position. Do this

quickly and about 100 repetitions 3-5 times a day. Once you are

accomplished at this exercise you could even do it sitting on the edge of

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your chair at work. This again is strengthening the muscles involved in

erection, causing more blood to flow to your groin to supply the larger,

more powerful muscles.

Hot compress.

The hot compress is nothing more than a wash cloth, soaked with very warm bath water, wrapped around the shaft until it starts to cool. It is the replaced with another. This process can be performed on a flaccid or erect penis. The goal here is to draw blood to this area, increasing blood flow and making the skin slightly elastic. Be careful not to use water to hot or you could burn some very delicate tissue.

Editor: I like to use a big plastic container from yogurt bought at the grocer. While kneeling in the bath tub before the tap, fill the container with hot water, lower your entire genitals into it, press it to your body and agitate to keep hot water circulating and your cock and balls swaying. I do this after a few times of hot wraps with the wash cloth, then dry off, pour a bit of warmed oil into my hands and begin milking.

(I get warm vegetable oil by pouring a tablespoon full into a coffee cup

and heating it for 30-seconds in the microwave oven.) By the way,

always when you massage a partner, use warm oil, put it into your

hands, warm it between your palms and then begin massage. NEVER

pour oil on someone’s body. Only idiots in porno movies do stupid stuff

like that. AND never use mineral oil or baby oil. Use healthy vegetable

oils. See the first 10-lessons of our course for a complete study in

teaching yourself massage. Learn this and your lover will think you’re

heaven sent.

The stretch (I don’t recommend much of this. Ed)

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The stretch, as its name implies involves

physically pulling on the penis. This can be

accomplished by a number of means. you

can loop a string over the end of your penis,

tie a weight to the other end and let it pull

your penis. You can use a string tied to a

balloon. You can cut the end of the balloon

off, stretch the balloon over the head of

your penis then tie a weight to it. This is a

much more comfortable method. You can

use a hose clamp, though I found that this

can be painful if the skin gets pinched in the

mechanism. Velcro is another option. Or

you can buy a device to stretch your penis.

You don't need a lot of weight, just enough

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to put gentle tension on your penis.

< Can’t Get Enough?

OKAY! Now that you know the techniques it is time to discuss how to

use them collectively. You don't have to use all of the above techniques

to achieve growth. For instance you can do none of the exercises and

still achieve some increases, however, your erection may not be as hard,

your ejaculations may be weaker, etc. For best results you should use all

of the listed techniques.

You can break this program up and do part of it in the morning and part

in the evening. If this is what you intend to do you should always start

and end each session with the hot compress. To make it of any value you

must be prepared to spend at least 30 minutes during each session, and

an hour is much better. (Ed: So he says. Most of us get good results in

20-minutes once per day.)

Example 1: You are just starting the program.

Start with the following for about a week, and if you experience no

discomfort gradually add more time.

  • 1. Hot compress - 10 min

  • 2. Milking - 10 min

  • 3. Hot compress and Stretch - 15 min. Example 2: For advanced users.

  • 1. Hot compress - 15 min.

  • 2. Milking - 30 min.

  • 3. Hot compress and Stretch - 15 min.

  • 4. Stretch - 30 min.

  • 5. 6. Milking - 30 min.

  • 6. 7. Hot compress and Stretch - 30 min. Example 3: The split routine. AM routine

  • 1. Hot compress -15 min

  • 2. Milking - 30 min

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  • 3. Hot compress and Stretch - 15 min

PM routine

  • 1. Hot compress- 15 min.

  • 2. Hot compress and Stretch - 15 min.

  • 3. Milking - 15 min

  • 4. Hot compress and Stretch - 15 min.

Please note that in all of the above examples I left out the exercises. This

was not an error, the exercises may be done totally separate from the rest

of the program.

All of the preceding examples will produce results, some more or faster

than others. So now you know the techniques which have worked for me

as well as many others. It does take time, as you can see much of your

'free' time will have.

Jason’s story

Up until a couple of years ago I had a penis size "problem." No one else

knew about it, but any discussion of penis size stirred anxiety deep

within - I cringed at penis size jokes. I secretly wondered if I was

abnormally small. I had never heard of penis enlargement. I assumed it

was impossible.

Despite my concern about my penis size, I didn't know how big my

penis was. Beyond the "what's six inches long and has nuts?" joke in

elementary school (a Hershey bar), I didn't know how big I was

"supposed" to be. I stumbled across a magazine article about penis size,

and learned that average for a grown man was 6" long erect, and 5"

around at mid-shaft. So I measured, and was surprised to find myself

exactly average. Well, 1/8" skinnier. 1/8" longer - maybe. I stretched my

penis out of curiosity - it didn't get any longer. I was stuck with what I

had. 6", more or less.

And I was normal. And average.

But looking in the mirror, I couldn't believe I was average - it looked

tiny. I'd seen big swinging dicks

in

the

locker

room.

Not

even

abnormally big dicks, just ones a lot different from mine. They hung.

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They curved and pointed down. They looked good. Mine pointed out. It

looked like a boy's, compared to theirs.

How big were they erect? Was it true that all erect penises were about the

same size? I had no idea. That wasn't the point. I looked so tiny in the

locker room!

I stumbled across a book for teenage boys. One kid asked my question:

what's normal size for a penis when it's not erect? 3" to 4.5" long, 1" to

1.5" in diameter, said a doctor. (1"=2.54 cm)

I measured again: 3" x 1". Normal. Small normal.

The rest of my body is big. Over six feet tall (one foot=30.48 cm), almost

two hundred pounds (one pound=.454 kg). What was I doing with the

smallest "normal" penis? What would I look like with the biggest

"normal" penis?

Changing toilet paper one day, I found out. I measured the tube: 4.5"

long, a bit over 1.5" wide. This is about what my penis size might be if it

was large normal, like the rest of me. I dropped my trousers and held it

at my crotch.

How depressing. It looked good, but it would not - could not - ever be

me. Right after that I got started on the program I’ve described after a

couple of guys on the Internet taught it to me. I did the exercises, the

milking and stretching, played with weight hanging, and took the

testosterone herbal supplements religiously ....

Eight months later, it seemed like I must have had an penis transplant. It

was hanging instead of pointing. It swung when I walked naked. I could

feel the weight of it going up stairways in my building. It felt like a breast

hanging there. It was visible in my jeans, and bicycle shorts and warm

against my leg (which it didn't even reach before). I had a girl friend by

then and she was always commenting about it when we got naked

together.

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104 A rare couple indeed! A foot long cock is extremely rare! But start age 13

A rare couple indeed! A foot long cock is extremely rare! But start age 13 or 14, use herbs, stay with the daily habit and you probably will grow one. I knew from age 8 that I wanted mine to be BIG.

It was bulging in my sweatpants so much I was almost embarrassed! In

the night I could feel it hot and throbbing dying for another sperm

release. It was hot and hard and so much longer and soooo much

thicker! My girlfriend would say, “I can’t even get my hand around it!”

It was wonderful. It was strange. It was a little scary (veins in my penis!).

And now I couldn’t stuff it into a toilet paper tube, cuz’ I was too big

Three years later, I’m still growing bigger, still doing the program, still

taking the herbs. I'm still excited by the process. It's been a magical,

empowering "personal growth" experience and my girl still wants me to

fuck her every day often two and three times every day. Sometimes

when we’re watching TV she just opens my bathrobe and starts sucking

me. She just can’t get enough.

One guy wrote me and said. "Forgive my skepticism, but

...

". He missed

the point. Forgiving means letting go. I'm not the one who has to let go

of his skepticism - he is. I can't promise you a larger penis, but I can

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promise that you won't get a larger penis if you don't try. Be careful, be

sensible. And have fun!

Measuring your penis

Measure yourself before you start your enlargement regimen. You'd be

amazed how many guys measure carelessly, then can't believe their

original measurements once their penis starts getting larger. Just do it.

BEFORE you start! At least maintain enough science to make a chart

with the date on the left

the erect length along the top,

measure the length of the penis head

Lay the ruler across from side to side at the widest point and again

across the widest part of the penis head and make notes of the

measurements.

Using a cloth measuring tape, determine the circumference at the base

(against your pubis) in the middle, and at the rim of the head.

Write all of these measurements down. If you have a digital camera take

photos facing forward with it hanging down. Take another with your

erection to the side fully to the side so anyone can see. Hold a ruler or

tale up to it so a viewer can see the erect length and do it again resting on

a table, maybe with a piece of graph paper under it and the measuring

tape meeting at the top so the camera can plainly photograph it’s

maximum circumference.

Do this again after 60-days, and again at the start of each month. Keep

this information ON PAPER in a note book and save your photos to

your hard drive.

When you get good results (1) You can prove it works and (2) We’d like

to see the photos. We’ll pay $50 for the ones we want to use in

advertising.

It is NOT against any law for a boy (under age 18) to do this. It has in

past years been “simply not done” because some people thought it would

ruin the morals of a child. I always wondered how that could be. I wanted to fuck my first grade teacher and every other good looking young woman there after. At what point would learning about sex ruin my morals? If you’re age 12 or 14 and you want to do this and grow to be as big as the photo on the next page – man it’s your body and it’s your private business what you do. Your “mommy” isn’t going to be there to tell you what’s good or bad when you’re fucking your girl friends. So, if

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you want a big one, get started early and keep going. When you get great results show and tell us and we’ll show the world and keep your name private, of course.

More about Measuring

Erect length

Standing, hold your erection horizontal. Hold the ruler to the base but

DO NOT press the ruler into the fat pad which is against your pubic

bone. Get an honest measurement on top of the penis to the tip of the

head/glans.

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Erect Girth

With a piece of string or

cloth measuring tape,

measure the circumference

of your erect penis at the

thickest part of the shaft. If

you want to do better take

three measurements at the

base, middle and just on or

just behind the head rim.

Flaccid maximum, minimum, average

Measure yourself many times to get a good idea where you're starting

from. Try lying on your back to measure the minimum.

Visual comparisons

Compare yourself in the mirror with some object that will be around a

few months from now - a toilet paper tube or deodorant container. These

visual comparisons are much more powerful than simply using numbers.

Measuring the penis

To get the most accurate measurements for an individual's penis size, it has been recommended that several measurements be taken at different times, preferably with different erections on different days. The measurements are then to be averaged together. This is to account for what may be natural variability in size due to factors such as arousal level, time of day, room temperature, frequency of sexual activity, and unreliability of the measurement methods.

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Length

The length can be measured with the subject standing and the penis held parallel to the floor. The penis is measured along the top, from the base to the tip. Results are inaccurate if the measurement is taken along the underside of the penis, or if the subject is seated or prone.

Circumference

Penis girth is the measurement of the circumference of the completely erect penis. It is variously quoted as an average of three measurements: just below the glans penis, in the middle of the shaft, and at the base.

Problems

A penis must be completely erect in order to obtain an accurate measurement. This may be difficult to achieve in a clinical setting. At least one Brazilian doctor resorted to injecting penises with drugs to induce erection, which gave more consistent results. Some clinicians measure the penis by stretching the flaccid penis as far as comfortably possible.

Studies on penis size

While results vary across studies, the consensus is that the mean human penis is approximately 12.9–15 cm (5.1–5.9 in) in length with a 95% confidence interval of (10.7 cm, 19.1 cm) (or, equivalently, 4.23 in, 7.53 in).

The typical girth or circumference is approximately 12.3 cm (4.85 in) when fully erect. The mean penis size is slightly greater than the median size. Contrary to popular belief, there is no scientific relation between penis size and race.

Human penis size

107 Length The length can be measured with the subject standing and the penis held parallel

Comparison of two circumcised human penises, erect (on left) and flaccid (on right). Human penis size refers to the length and width of human male genitalia.

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109 Penis size changes with aging Age is not believed to negatively correlate with penis size.

Penis size changes with aging

Age is not believed to negatively correlate with penis size. “Individual research studies have… suggested that penis size is smaller in studies focusing on older men, but Wylie and Eardley found no overall differences when they collated the results of various studies [over a 60 year period].”

Erect length

Several scientific studies have been performed on the erect length of the adult penis. Studies which have relied on self-measurement, including those from Internet surveys,

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consistently reported a higher average length than those which used medical or scientific methods to obtain measurements.

The following staff-measured studies are each composed of different subgroups of the human population (i.e. specific age range and/or race; selection of those with sexual medical concerns or self-selection) which could cause a sample bias.

A study published in the September 1996 Journal of Urology concluded that average erect length was 12.9 cm (5.08 in) (measured by staff). The purpose of the study was to “provide guidelines of penile length and circumference to assist in counseling patients considering penile augmentation.” Erection was pharmacologically induced in 80 physically normal American men (varying ethnicity, average age 54). It was concluded:

“Neither patient age nor size of the flaccid penis accurately predicted erectile length.”

A study published in the December 2000