Dear Annie: I read the let- I see you watching TV and ter from Your Husband, wonder how

you dont notice who wrote an open letter to the dirty dishes, screaming his wife explaining how her kids and toys on the floor. I unwillingness to have sex resent you for choosing your justified his affair. He was ob- friends and other interests viously pouring his heart out. over me. I notice how you I am a 54-year-old woman on look at other women but cant hormone replacement. My find the same gleam in your husband and I enjoy a won- eye for me. You pay no attenderful sex life, but as I get tion to me until we get into older, I am less and less in- the bedroom, and then you terested. I love him expect me to fuland want to make fill your desires. I him happy, so once cant have sex with a week I force mysomeone who treats self to have sex. If me so poorly. you love someone, Florida: I dont you try to underhave libido isstand their needs. sues. I am simply But I respect turned off. You hard honesty. If have gained 80 he had told his pounds, perspire wife how he felt profusely and have before his affair, bad breath. If you they might have Annies Mailbox would spend less reached a mutual time playing with agreement. Now, its a be- your girlfriend and work on trayal of the marriage. He your appeal, this would be made a decision for both of different. I do love you, so them without consulting her. figure out which woman will How would he feel if she did be around to feed you and that? Emotional in Cali- change your Depends when fornia you have a stroke. Dear Emotional: We were Boston: Love does not drowning in mail from read- sneak around, betray or hurt ers responding to this mans others. Thats why marriage message, nearly all of it from can be hard. Others with the women. Read on: same issue choose to honor From Illinois: This hus- their vows of fidelity, talk band is an immature, self- openly with their spouse and ish, spineless jerk. How can seek help from professionals. he claim he loves his wife Arizona: Sex creates a and then commit adultery? bond. I think this man has a As long as she fulfills his big surprise coming if he ever need for sex, she is perfect, tries to break it off with the but when the sex stops, all other woman. those other things dont California: I was this wife. count. He should have the At age 38, I began ignordecency to tell her that his ing his advances. Looking need for sex outweighs his back, I think I was unhappy love for her. with myself. I finally found New York: I am the Other my libido, and our sex life Woman. If his wife has no li- has been amazing since. But bido, why should he have to when I first approached him live that way, too? The kicker again, he turned me down. is that I am also married, and Now I know how much reI love my husband. I wonder jection hurts, especially from whether Your Husband re- someone you love. ally has no emotional attachment to the other woman, because I know I am attached to mine. Worse, I am not so turned on by my husband because I have such a strong physical connection with my boyfriend. Pennsylvania: Ill bet his wife cooks, cleans and takes care of those children, so hed be an idiot to walk away. Not once does he indicate that they have tried counseling or a doctors help. Instead, he took the selfish way out and slept with another woman. And just to be clear, a basic need would be food, water, shelter, clothing. No one has ever died for lack of sex. Chicago: This letter shocked me, and then I became enraged. Dear Husband: Ill tell you why we dont have sex anymore. I am exhausted after working a full day and then coming home and taking care of the kids.

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Tomorrows Horoscope
WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 9, 2013 In the year ahead, you could get involved in an enterprise that youll need to be quite secretive about. Your project could be coveted by the opposition and easily copied if they got wind of it. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- None among your group of friends will have a knack for organizing like yours. Appoint yourself director and start putting some plans together that everyone will enjoy. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- That burning feeling in your ears is likely to be due to so many friends saying nice things about you. You have far more boosters than you realize. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -- When socializing, dont merely mingle with people looking for polite chitchat -- circulate with persons whom you can learn from. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- A coveted goal can be achieved if youre willing to work for it. Put aside any trivial endeavors and go for that special something that youve wanted for a long time. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- Generally, its wise to avoid discussions on religion and/or politics, but if a friend should offer a friendly, fresh perspective, you might find it interesting. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- This might be the day to put an idea to the test regarding a financial arrangement. The least you could do is try it out; the payoff could be substantial if things work out. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- Conditions that influence you both physically and mentally can be exceptionally harmonious if you handle things in a warm, friendly manner. Play life light and easy. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- When you expend your energies on labors of love, youll be amazed at how much you can accomplish, and the enjoyment youll derive from the process. You deserve such a day. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- After being subjected to a couple of hectic days, youre entitled to let yourself go and relax a little. You dont need any social fanfare -- just time alone with your special someone. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- You should take prospective clients to your favorite haunt rather than to a fancy place. Youll achieve more in a convivial, homey atmosphere. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- Having too structured a schedule might find you much too restless and champing at the bit. Leave yourself some space in which to move about and be able to do as your impulses direct. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23Dec. 21) -- Friends or relatives who truly believe in you could serve as a springboard to success. Their suggestions on how to handle your troubles should take the strain off.
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