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Hey guys, A few nights ago, I went barhopping with a friend of mine. We both talked to truck loads of women and used practically the same material on them. But by the end of the night my friend's results were so bad he felt that he was blessed with an unlikable self. My experience, however, was the total opposite. I felt like Satan with pitchfork in hand, inciting one girl after the next to engage in some naughty mirth. Was it because of my looks? Was it because I have some impalpable quality about me called “charisma,” which is not teachable? Was it because I am Satan? No - it was none of these things. Instead, it was due to a set of learned skills. I know this because, similar to my friend, I spent years feeling like a boring sloth before transforming myself into a flittering butterfly charming one group of women to the next. But before I reveal to you the skills that distinguish a charismatic Casanova from a floundering Waldo, I am going to give you a quick overview of my method, Naturalized Attraction. Naturalized Attraction is not about trying to apply therapeutic techniques used in psychology to dating, attracting, and seducing women. Nor is it based upon the unfounded claims propounded by the “let's play pseudo-psychologist to the helpless, needy and pathetic” gurus of the world - think Dr. Phil! The starting point of “Naturalized Attraction” is always the REAL WORLD. The method strives to observe, model, and improve upon both the natural social behaviors that generate attraction in women, and the glue that holds these behaviors together. Our culture has mystified this glue under the rubric “charisma” as an innate, intangible, non-teachable quality possessed only by blessed individuals. “Charisma,” however, is actually the combination of a few learnable and repeatable skills. So this begs the question: What skills
however. I have never met a single socially adept person who used completely new material in every social interaction. I have witnessed men rambling on for a good hour. Attraction or as I call it “Prizing” is getting a woman so emotionally charged. and having a strong intent. This allows him to “in real time” make adjustments to his material that will further engage and attract the woman to him. Let's start with the first one. a particular jest or story. If so. Oftentimes. however. you risk coming across as fake. you will have extra brain power to analyze what you need to do to further engage and attract her. using a rehearsed story. He may develop a guilty conscience about using his story. she is compelled to chase you). Men with strong social skills are able to simultaneously engage a woman . I am bit fastidious. Purge your self of these worries. having at least some rehearsed material is part of having strong social skills. honing them to perfection. He can flow from one story to the next while simultaneously gauging a woman's level of attraction for him. These insecurities are ludicrous. Why did this happen? I think women . I have a friend who is a master at this. You might be one of these men. Instead. If you are using someone else's material. the women they were engaging almost always walked away.with. talking about their friend's adventures and experiences as if they were their own. quips and stories . think about this: Most socially adept people will unconsciously tell the same jokes and stories over and over again. for example. When you have well rehearsed material your brain power will not be expended on remembering. Remember: Whether you are conscious of it or not. owning your material.constitute charisma and how does a person go about acquiring these skills? Two skills that play a mainstay in being charismatic are: owning your material. once a person is made conscious of. thinking to himself that using rehearsed material is akin to wiling a woman into the sack. but as what you do to her mind and body. Once they ran out of material.while also analyzing what they need to do to further engage and attract her (Note: I define “attraction” not as how a woman judges you. for example. about people using others material. for example. he begins to worry that he will come across to women as rehearsed. There are a lot of men who cringe at the idea of having well rehearsed jokes and stories prepared for social interactions.
This is. what you are about. even if it is rehearsed.will get you further with women than a man who goes on for hours with inauthentic material borrowed from other people. The reason was that they were picking up on my weak intent. it will be authentic because you are displaying who you are. Having a strong intent also plays an important role in acting charismatic. My problem: I needed to develop a strong intent. A few minutes of authentic material about your self . I will rehearse in my mind her being intrigued by my story. So. This used to be me. If a person has the desire and the will to do what needs to be done to achieve a particular outcome but does not have the belief that he can achieve it. for example. I intend to have a woman lean in and try to kiss me after I have kissed her and pulled back. If. When you are in an attraction flow .intuitively know when men are incongruent and inauthentic. One thing that has helped me tremendously is rehearsing the outcome of everything I intend to get an effect from. you use your own material. Although I had the desire and the will to do what needs to be done to achieve a particular outcome. I will rehearse this over and over again in my mind. women would often times lose interest while talking to me or think that I was B. on the contrary. Even the girls lumbered with IQs barley into the double digits picked up on this weakness. he will come across as needy.who you are. Having a strong intent is most commonly misunderstood as meaning: A congruency between a person's external behaviors and his internal beliefs. your experiences and adventures…and so on . for example. 2) Having the unwavering belief that you will achieve the intended outcome. Neuro-Linguistic Programming . not the meaning but the symptom of having a strong intent. Having a strong intent is congruently: 1) Having the desire and the will to do what needs to be done to achieve a particular outcome. This is due to the follies of some of the branches within the field of psychology .S. A few years back. When. I did not believe or think that I deserved the outcome. But what does it mean to have a strong intent? This is one of the most misunderstood terms out there. however. if I intend to tell a story to intrigue a woman.-ing them.such as.that fails to be precise when defining terminology.achieving one .
Likewise.and so on .the material qua tools for achieving these outcomes become transparent. such as: stumbling over your words because you don't know your material well.. she will often speak about that quality she can't quite put her finger on that draws her to him. for example.are only tools to achieve the META-INTENT: Getting her to sleep with you. or not having the belief that you are capable of getting your intended outcome. In this culture we oftentimes classify this behavior as “charisma. getting her to kiss you. All you are concerned with is getting to the desired place.or whatever. you get a flat tire that you become conscious again of the car as a tool used to get you to your intended destination. it only becomes obvious to you and the woman that you are trying to do something to get a particular outcome when something interrupts the attraction flow.. When a person has mastered the attraction flow. .getting her intrigued..” In the REAL WORLD it comes down to controlling the META-FRAME. for example. But all of the intended outcomes we have been discussing . When a woman encounters a man of this caliber. everything becomes transparent except the fact that he and the woman are going to sleep together . When driving somewhere. you barely notice the car. It is only when. and having both a stronger reality and META-INTENT than the woman you are attracting.they both know it is going to happen.intended outcome to the next ..
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