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Fox Hunting

The Art of Dating and Seduction
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Fox-Hunting
Introduction Men may control the power and the money in this world, but women unquestionably control the loving. This is nothing earth-shattering, but it sets the tone for everything which follows here. To understand why, in order to be successful at seduction, men have to plan like a general and execute their plan to near-perfection, one must first understand the biases in modern American society, born of tradition and inertia, that rig the game of love so much in favor of Foxes that few realize just how biased the system has become. The man who takes the time to dissect this bias and understand what true gender equality would bring in love finds himself suddenly awakening to reality, much like the wife who didn't know her husband drank until the night he came home sober. The man who feels oppressed, outsmarted, outwitted, outgunned, and outfoxed by the opposite sex is usually a man who has been down so long he does not know which way is up. The sole objective of this book is to lend a helping hand to the man who has raised the white flag in the gender war, crying out to the entire opposite sex for what he craves: a Fox. When asked about his craving, he will not answer honestly, reeling off a half-dozen or so requirements that make him appear a gentleman: My ideal woman is sweet, honest, down-to-earth, intelligent, and being attractive is of course a plus. Compare this with Man #2, who says the following: I'm looking to get laid by the hottest chick who will have me. Man #1 will be called nice, while Man #2 will be branded a scoundrel. When a woman has external requirements, she may be lightly reprimanded for her selection criteria, but for the most part she will be viewed as prudent, choosy, picky, and as someone who has every right in the world to be. Let a man say that a woman must look a certain way and he is immediately branded as shallow; let a woman judge a man on the basis of his height, income, clothing, behavior, politics, or anything else her whim commands, and she is given a free ride, even commended for her choosiness and high standards. In our society, the burden of seduction falls clearly on the male. It is the man who must be worthy, who must behave properly, who must win the approval of the woman he desires, who must be monogamous, attentive, never give her any reason to dislike him, and who must pursue, at his expense, auditioning, laying himself on the line completely, and then, if he's fortunate, she will agree to marry him and they will live happily ever after. Men who do not follow what I call the John Gray relationship model are thought of as decadent, deviant, evil men who should be avoided at all costs. Women have defined the terms of romance so well that anything that does not cater to their collective whims is actually considered wrong. This is something I have a tremendous problem with. In a society that encourages freedom of expression, where consensual sexual conduct between adults is unregulated, the notion that one can behave totally within the law yet still be wrong is chilling, un-American even. An alien observer on sabbatical from its home planet would lose interest in the courtship part of the Battle of the Sexes after watching it for a short while, and report back home to its leaders that the men barely even put up a fight. Women simply wipe the mat with men in dating. The balance of power reverses only for the lucky men who are chosen, and this is why you hear women complaining about relationships and marriage problems and men about pursuit problems. To use a basketball analogy, think of men as half-court defenders who let women move easily up the court but then stop them cold with their defenses (like the Boston Celtics of the 1980's), and think of women as full-court-press, fast-breakers who apply pressure from the outset, a lot like the Lakers of the same era. The battle for a woman who wants to find a husband is to move past the three-month, six-month, one- year, and three-year commitment walls that men put up. For a man, the goal is to "break the press" and become part

of the woman's life, either as a friend, a dating partner, or a lover. Once a man is accepted into a woman's life, only a serious mistake or the appearance of a superior rival will remove him. Under the "John Gray" model, and in similar advice tomes, the sequence by which this is supposed to occur is as follows: Boy meets girl; Boy talks to girl; Boy asks girl for her number; Boy asks girl for a date; Boy takes girl on date(s), with boy paying; Boy kisses girl goodnight (usually within 1-2 dates); Boy and girl take the relationship further, at girl's discretion (usually within 3-5 dates); Boy and girl see each other exclusively; Boy proposes, girl accepts, they marry, and live happily ever after. Steps 1-6 all favor the female. She is the one approached, pursued, and auditioned for. The man, using gifts, expense-paid evenings on the town, smooth talk, poetry, attention, favors, and anything else at his disposal, courts the woman, wins her heart, and after he has proven himself worthy, becomes her King. Divorce laws are such that once they are married the woman has almost a permanent upper hand. Pursuit is such that the woman also has the upper hand for steps 1-6. About the only time the man is the one in charge of the relationship is during Step #8, when they have already had sex but have not yet married. It is no surprise that men are most troublesome to women at this point, the point where the woman knows she wants to marry the man, but he resists, often using the same lines that women feed to men when men are pursuing them for dates. Once a man is in a relationship, he can be reasonably certain that the woman wants to marry him or is at least strongly considering it, because if she weren't then she would most likely end the relationship and continue her search for a husband. The man, on the other hand, is in the driver's seat, getting sex on a regular basis with his freedom intact, and for him to agree to a marriage is to release a great deal of power. That each gender becomes patient and picky when it has the upper hand reveals that timetables are more about control than any need to be certain. There is no simpler proof that this is the case than the sudden reversals which happen when a woman leaves a man who won't commit to marriage, or when a man stops pursuing a woman who makes him jump through one too many hoops to win her over. A function of the gender bias in relationships is the denial game people play about how and why we select our mates. The man who lists his other requirements ahead of how a woman looks makes it sound like her body is a mere afterthought, even though you will rarely see him pursuing women he does not find physically attractive. As I recently told one Fox who was describing her relationship, her boyfriend may love her personality, but if she did not meet his looks requirement, he would not be with her any more than she would be with him if he had not met her height requirement. Moreover, if a woman meets a man's looks requirements, the other requirements tend to fly out the window. Women do this as well, claiming to put personality above everything else, while collectively marrying men who earn $12,000 more annually than unmarried men, and who are six inches taller than their wives on average, a full two inches more than could be expected if there were no screening for height. The man who expresses his true desires is punished, so he understates his desire for looks and sex, emphasizing instead the "right reasons" for wanting a woman. Women, on the other hand, are

and other factors. and personality. Ever hear anyone. Further complicating matters for men is a woman's incessant desire for honesty in her mate. older. 250-pound woman? If so.procreation of a generation with better looks and more brains than the previous one -. Not helping matters is that with women controlling the sex and the terms under which it occurs.and losing -. even the slightest factual infidelity on the man's part is deemed a character flaw and intolerable. is a power rating. insult a man by calling him a loser who can't get laid? As we define winning -. Though we don't always like to admit it. stupid. This cynicism. brains. pal? She probably was. Designed as a method of quantifying Darwinism. -. and the man who lies for other reasons is simply dishonest. while a woman can justify lying on grounds which range from sparing a man's feelings when rejecting him. The four categories are looks. Ever hear a woman say I want the best and I am not going to settle for less? Obviously. or appeal to the opposite sex. The underlying concept. The result of evolution is that the best breed to the best. male or female. which fuels the politically incorrect movement. thus producing inferior offspring. with those who have higher ratings considered superior. The value systems for men and women are different for each . and their earning power. Superiority is measured strictly on the basis of one's ability to attract the opposite sex. That the men say what women want them to say in order to win their approval is never acknowledged. is a consequence of the difference between what we say publicly and what we do privately. we would be ugly. Thousands of years of sexual selection. producing the endless stream of guests for shows like Jerry Springer. you'd lose a lot of money for the house very quickly.procreation with someone less endowed in these areas. ask yourself what your looks factor would be if you were taking bets on which of two women a man would prefer sexually. applied to many other sports. Ever hear someone say she's out of your league. The fundamental premise of CUPID is that human beings can be measured for their intrinsic quality. even if the women are aware of it. their brains. moving the consensus even further from reality.we turn seduction into a game. producing an elite class of humans. and still living in caves. Chapter One: CUPID If we didn't choose our lovers on the basis of their looks. which are weighted to reflect "society's" value system.expected to be uncompromising in their choice of a mate and are not punished for having high standards. Never is this more the case than in dating. If you think a woman's body is an afterthought. many men take their side in formal discussions. has left us in a highly uneven state of being. A much clearer picture emerges if you take what I call an oddsmaker's view of dating.Me. It does not measure intangibles like character. Anyone who follows college basketball or football closely has probably seen or heard of the Sagarin ratings that are published in USA Today. to testing him for honesty. the Couples' Ultimate Pairing Information Device (CUPID) has served me well over the years. the cynical view of life is often the correct one. the better-looking. Despite even her own assertions that she is covert and dishonest in her dealings with men. Calculating a CUPID rating is rather simple: each person is rated on a scale of 1-25 in four categories. she thinks that there are qualities which make some men romantically superior to others. and our obsession with breeding the best to the best. because few people look for these things until long after they should have. producing the masses. honesty. The sexier the woman. the sub-Elites breed to each other. and the worst breed to the worst. The man who dares to question a woman's honesty with a similar test is attacked for not trusting her. or in some cases not procreating at all -. Would you assign the same odds of success to a supermodel and an unattractive. Thank God our ancestors were shallow. The formula is easy to master. taller. status. and more successful her lover will be. CUPID works under the same principle.

and 10 to the four categories. looks are most important for each gender.e. deduct a few points if they are taller than 5'8" or shorter than 5'2".5 and a standard deviation of 4. try to assess someone's overall popularity level in platonic situations. 15. When assigning a personality rating for CUPID. and this is one reason that analysis of personality is usually highly suspect.5. Do not count formal education.5 or higher exceptional. and for men deduct 1-2 points if they are shorter than 6'2". and even Miss America contestants rarely get 25. One good barometer is SAT score. A corporate middlemanager might have more money than a third-year law or fourth-year medical student. the higher their brains rating should be. The man who is a stockbroker.category. Points for formal education should be placed into the status category. The smarter and wiser a person is. respectively: . Personality. and as expected. but in the eyes of women he may not measure up to the career military man who has respect and power that money cannot buy. do not assign them a rating of much higher than 20. Remember to make 12. Status ratings reflect income. 7-8 points if they are under 5'8". used to deflect attention away from our more shallow preferences. The societal value system used to calculate a person's CUPID rating is as follows: Category Looks Brains Money Personality Men Women 55 20 20 05 80 10 05 05 The values apply to the opposite gender's selection process: i. Brains. which is consistent with the bell curve assumption that 7 percent of people are what we would call beautiful. because that would fall under the status category.5 points. let's assign scores of 20. Psychologists have long demonstrated the Halo Effect. and also try to factor out anything that belongs in the other three categories. height counts a great deal when women judge men.5. The number that results from weighing the scores against the societal value system for each gender is called the CUPID rating. 5-6 points if they are under 5'10". Do not factor in formal education! CUPID measures raw intellect and the demonstration of its use. for example. keep in mind that the average score is supposed to be 12. Most Hollywood actresses score in the 20-23 range. a woman's looks comprise 80 percent of a man's selection process and so forth. Many people who rate others take the mean and use it as the bottom. prestige. 3-4 points if they are shorter than 6'. which is designed to make this measurement as accurately as possible. Wisdom and our ability to use our intellect count for as much or more. Status. might have tons of money. and be very sparing with the high numbers. Not all who go to college and beyond develop wisdom. Do not count only raw intellect. primarily men's for physical beauty and women's for status and money. Do not make concessions for age. and 10 points if they are 5'6" or shorter. Some further guidelines for rating people in each category: Looks. The 1-25 scale of CUPID lessens the impact of this bias. and that would mean that only five percent of the population should score higher than 21. For sake of argument.. but the latter have potential.5 your average and 21. multiply each raw score by four to base it on a scale of 1-100. Unfortunately. whereby people ascribe nicer personalities to those who are better-looking. 15. then multiply that number by the percentage assigned to each category.. As with the other categories. remember the averages and percentiles when constructing your rating. I should point out that these adjustments vary widely. For women. When assigning scores for each category. depending on the height of the other party and their personal height preference. A sham category. Unless someone is capable of using their looks to earn a comfortable living. and potential. Ever see anyone get a looks score lower than five on the 1-10 scale? It's rare. To calculate your CUPID rating. Assume an average of 12.

0 92 * 0.0 .80 = 64 Brains 15 * 4 = 60 * 0.80 = 48.0 60 * 0.55 = 33.4 72. Women tend to be defined almost exclusively by their physical appearance. The partner rating is the rating assigned to each half of a romantic pairing by the other half. To calculate the partner rating.05 = 02 Total 44 + 12 + 12 + 02 = 70 64 + 06 + 03 + 02 = 75 Notice how the high looks score benefits women more than men. CUPID accounts for this as well. each partner will be scored with the universal value system and by their prospective partner's system. nor is it necessary to do this to get a rough idea of their proper CUPID rating. and to a lesser extent their personality. and substitute your partner's value system for society's when calculating your own. which Harry has. with their value systems in parentheses: Category Harry Sally Ken Barbie Looks 15 (40%) 18 (25%) 25 (80%) 25 (50%) Brains 23 (40%) 21 (50%) 05 (00%) 05 (00%) Status 17 (10%) 15 (10%) 23 (20%) 20 (50%) Personality 12 (10%) 16 (15%) 10 (00%) 10 (00%) CUPID Rating 67.4 88.0 These numbers are subjective. and men primarily by their appearance.55 = 44 20 * 4 = 80 * 0. Note how the same raw scores in each category can produce different CUPID ratings for men and women. To illustrate this concept in practice.10 = 06 Status 15 * 4 = 60 * 0.0 Brains (23) 92 * 0. It is what we value that causes us to have different opinions of the same people. Ken.4 92 * 0.00 = 00. Barbie.20 = 18. It is not practical to survey a large group of people to see what society really thinks of someone. and Ken and Barbie. With every pairing. The same applies to Barbie and Harry. It is the concepts which are important.25 = 15.Category Men Women Looks 20 * 4 = 80 * 0. which leads to a rather simple observation that you may very well likely have already made by now. wouldn't be able to impress Sally at all.50 = 46.05 = 03 Personality 10 * 4 = 40 * 0. The Harry-Sally/KenBarbie example illustrates this perfectly: Sally values brains.05 = 02 10 * 4 = 40 * 0.20 = 12 15 * 4 = 60 * 0. but also by their intelligence and their status. substitute your value system for society's when calculating your partner's rating. and Sally rate Harry: Category (Score) Society Sally Barbie Looks (15) 60 * 0. and that is that your value system may not reflect society's. let's examine four fictional characters: Harry and Sally. The purpose of this example is to show what happens when you change the value systems. on the other hand. Rating Harry Following is a breakdown of how society.0 60 * 0. CUPID is not an exact science.2 81.20 = 12 15 * 4 = 60 * 0. We'll begin by calculating their raw scores. with the partner rating.

why intelligent men wind up with minddiggers.6 X 72. the partner rating drops below the regular CUPID rating. Each person's CUPID rating is listed on the right: Rated by----> Harry Sally Ken Barbie Society Harry X* 76. whereby the opinion of a CUPID 20 is twice as important as that of a CUPID 10. but that is beyond the scope of this book.00 = 00. Many of the assumptions we make about men and women make sense only when you weigh their opinions.4 Barbie 60. Following is a chart outlining all the possible pairings and their partner ratings.4 points higher with Sally than with Barbie.15 = 07.4 48 * 0. A . In society's eyes. who would get 528 votes.4. he is a respectable 67.2 Ken X 50.0 Total 67.4 76.0 81.his mind -.4 points apart.05 = 02.20 = 13. What you would conclude about each pairing is expressed with numerical precision.6 Personality (12) 48 * 0. when each person is paired up with someone who values what they have. Harry is almost an 80. and where both of you see each other as superior to how society sees each of you. while the decisions made by small investors barely make a dent.2 48 * 0. but with a factor of two instead of ten. The theory is that Elite opinions count for more than those of their less attractive counterparts because more people respond to their whims.20 = 13. all the way up to the opinion of a CUPID 100.4 Sally 74. This minimizes the likelihood that either of you will encounter a better match down the road.scores few points with Barbie.0 X 61. where you have what they want.8 X 69. Partner ratings which are within range of each other (1.2 points for Harry and Sally and equal for Ken and Barbie). and vice versa.0 X 96. where the investment decisions of the mutual fund managers and big players control the market. You want a partner who has what you want. When matched up against someone who doesn't value what they have. It is also why rich men wind up with golddiggers. You don't have to be Einstein to figure out that Harry is more attractive to Sally than to Barbie. The formula holds up in practice.6 68 * 0. In each case.6 Three value systems produce three very different CUPID ratings for Harry. unless we are settling or a timing factor has come into play. When someone really wants what you have to offer.8 68 * 0.8 points apart). On the other hand. it will inspire them to pursue you and be on their most attractive behavior. The system I use works like the Richter Scale. but Harry's main strong point -. the compatible partner (Harry for Sally or Ken for Barbie and vice versa) has a value system that emphasizes what the other is strongest in. the CUPID definition of an Elite. and Partner ratings which are substantially higher than each partner's CUPID rating.10 = 06.0 61. which is: CUPID ratings within range of each other (Ken and Barbie are 7.6 67.0 *CUPID can be used to rate yourself by your own value system and for same-sex couples. This is why his partner rating is 14. and so forth. CUPID shows quantitatively what we know instinctively: Sally values what Harry has to offer more than Barbie does. Rarely will we wind up with those who want what we do not have and vice versa. you have the CUPID ideal for compatibility.Status (17) 68 * 0. and so forth. The result is that the opinion of a CUPID 10 is worth one vote. The CUPID Scoring System One rather interesting twist to my research involved giving more weight to the opinions of those with the highest CUPID ratings.2 X 96.0 X 88. In Sally's eyes. while Harry and Sally are 4. An example of this principle in practice would be the financial markets. why Foxes wind up with looksdiggers.

stuck-up Fox will convince the dozens of men she rejects that "all women" are stuck-up, while her inferior counterparts can be nice, but no one notices. Even though 50 percent of the two women were nice, less than one percent of the men will approach a nice woman because they are focused on the Fox who is stuck-up. Conversely, women who complain about men are training their eyes on the Elites who can afford to be stuck-up, and not properly counting the opinions of their mere mortal counterparts. CUPID strikes at a fundamental principle of romance that is overlooked by almost everyone, and that is that people are not inherently nice or kind in their behavior towards others, but rather that is a function of their CUPID and partner ratings. Those who are most attractive will be treated the best, and when someone is most attracted to another that will inspire them to treat that person like royalty. When someone is not nice to you, or is, it is more a reflection of their level of attraction to you rather than their intrinsic character. I call this The Personality Myth. Foxes often have a problem acknowledging their royal status, and are prone to insisting that the special treatment they receive from others is based on anything but the obvious. Maybe deep down they do know this and it is why they work so hard to deny it, but to hear a Fox tell me about how her boyfriend isn't primarily into her looks can be a bit maddening at times. The man who is confronted with untruths like this by a Fox is checkmated: either he says nothing and passively accepts the lie, or he challenges her and is put down for insulting her and angering her, even if he is right. Her admirers and protectors then emerge to challenge and silence the man, creating a no-win situation. The CUPID formula is simplistic, but in its simplicity lies great beauty. You could complicate CUPID by expanding it to include things like sexual skill, hair color, and the like, but the basic principle would not be altered, and that is this: to get the lover you want, you have to be what they want, not what you think they want or what you hope they want. I hear men talking about how unfair it is that Foxes go for things like height, money, status, or looks, but that doesn't change the reality. One also has to wonder why a man would want such a shallow creature, except for shallow reasons himself. A man seeking only character in a woman would have no problems with a woman of good character who was overlooked for superficial reasons, but this is not the case. Accurately calculated CUPID and partner ratings will tell you at a glance which of two people is more likely to reject or dump the other, and why. For example, if looks are 80 percent of a man's selection process, any woman who scores low in that department but high in the brains department is not going to get anywhere with him. The man who values brains, on the other hand, will appreciate what she has to offer him and he will also have less competition for the woman. When someone scores high in a category, if you don't value that category highly, you will find yourself in competition with those who do, and they will usually win the prize because they want it the most. Take the example of two Foxes and one wealthy man. Make the two equal in appearance, but let one be a lawyer who doesn't care about his money and the other a golddigging waitress. Who will get the man? The waitress, because she will knock herself out to impress him, while the lawyer is not going to care about his money. Even though the lawyer might like him for other reasons, the man's strong suit -- his money -- will produce an attraction in the waitress bordering on obsession, with a seduction effort to match. This is also why it is not wise to pursue tall men or large-chested Foxes strictly for those reasons. Both types attract shallow attention and are treated as trophies. A Short Fox with dark hair and a small chest who is in top shape will repel a lot of shallow attention that a statuesque blonde will attract, and this has many implications. Foxes attract the lion's share of shallow men. Worse yet, the men a Fox seeks to avoid are the ones who will pursue her with the greatest vigor, and who will go out of their way to convince her that they love her personality. The same holds true for rich men. Golddiggers know not to mention money as their motivation, and to combine their approach with propaganda to that effect. It is almost as if whatever is said can be considered propaganda, but to call someone a liar is not polite, and to not trust someone goes against our instincts, with the end result that we wind up trapped with what we know we should be avoiding to please "society" and its many conventions. CUPID is not the be-all and end-all of relationship analysis. Factors such as timing, environment, and temporary changes in needs and desires that alter our value system (like the drunk man in a

bar at 1:30 a.m. who will sleep with anything) can cause severe CUPID mismatches. But over time, the numbers hold up very well. The man who temporarily lowers his standards will one day raise them and have to extricate himself or herself from a less-than-ideal relationship. The man whose CUPID rating is low when he is in college and watches it soar as his career advances finds himself attracting Foxes all of a sudden and dumps his first wife for a trophy. The Former Fox who was once a trophy and loses her looks watches her rating plummet and now has to settle for men she would never have given the time of day to previously.

Chapter Two:
CUPID And You
CUPID reveals what people are reluctant to discuss about relationships. Though supposedly repulsed by the notion that we would make quantitative judgements about each other, and select those we deem superior, that is exactly what most of us do when searching for a lover. Even more insidious is the relationship between our CUPID ratings and how much we use the formula in our selection process, for the higher a person's CUPID rating, the more likely they are to be what we call shallow, forever in search of an equal, or someone superior they can convince are their equal. I liken this to poor people who win the lottery vowing to keep their current jobs, homes, and friends, and then dropping all from their lives a year later when no one is watching. Most books I have read that attempt to rate people romantically or for compatibility with numerical methods completely ignore the concept of the partner rating. People are given universal ratings which represent their desirability, and the person with the higher rating is expected to get the girl or the guy. This ignores the obvious reality that we have different selection criteria, and the calculation necessary to take this into account - - the partner rating -- is very easy to make. All you have to do is substitute your value system and your partner's for "society's." Do not count on this to help you much unless you work on exploiting your strong points, as the averages are there for a reason. Most men indeed are into looks, and most women into looks (especially height), brains, status, and personality, and in that order of importance. A CUPID rating of 80 or higher for either gender qualifies them as an Elite. Elites can write their own ticket with most of the opposite sex. The only thing that will humble an Elite is another Elite, or someone who matches up with a partner who rates them Elite. At a party, or in a social environment or any large gathering, your CUPID rating - which measures your likely appeal to any given person -- is what you will be judged upon, but once you are talking with a Fox one-on-one, how others perceive you is secondary to how she perceives you. As Spock might say, obviously. There are several ways you can use CUPID to improve your Foxhunting. Only the first two are recommended: Systematically raise your CUPID rating by improving yourself first in the looks category, then by developing your mind, and then by improving your money or status (money is to status what cubic zirconia is to diamonds; only an expert can separate the two), and finally your popularity. The only exception to this rule is to add to your strongest category in order to capitalize with Foxes who have lopsided value systems. Improve your partner ratings by pursuing only those Foxes whose value systems are so imbalanced that they make you an Elite in her eyes. Just as there are golddiggers, there are also looksdiggers and minddiggers. Approximately ten percent of Foxes will fall into each category, with value systems that emphasize one category to the extreme of 80 percent or higher. If you are strong in any one category, Foxes who value that category above all else are almost guaranteed to like you. For example, if your CUPID breakdown (looks-brains-status-personality) is 10-25-10-10, your overall rating would be very low, but to a Minddigging Fox, you would

represent perfection. During the four years I played tournament chess, I encountered a halfdozen or so minddiggers, slept with or dated two, almost lived with another, and came very close with the remaining three. All were quite attractive. Having a lot of what specific Foxes want will go along way. Think rock-star and music groupie. Change your value system (impossible). Your value system reflects what you would seek in a mate if you knew rejection were not an option. Ponder that scenario for at least a week and get back to me. If you try to change your value system to de-emphasize what you truly want, you risk dumping your partner for someone more compatible down the road. This is not recommended. Better to be alone than with someone you are not compatible with. Lower your standards. If you select this option, put this book down now. I do not want credit for what the cat dragged in. Seriously, you can lower your standards a bit to improve your results, but I recommend against this because the minute you get a woman who is an 75, a 90 will show up to take you away from her just to prove she can. Then she will dump you and you'll be out a 75 and a 90 (or a 55 and a 70 or whatever your CUPID rating and Foxhunting technique will allow you to seduce). Improving your CUPID rating takes work. There is more than enough literature out there on how to become better-looking, wealthy, and an intellectual, so I shouldn't have to point you anywhere. I can't do everything for you. Let's just say you know where the gym is, you know where the best universities are, and the labor department publishes an annual guide to how much people in each profession earn. Since some guys need everything spelled out for them, I'll do the best I can to provide some general advice on how to improve your CUPID rating the quickest. Looks. Two key words here: diet and exercise. A third would be grooming, and a fourth style. How to get that ideal body? Eat well (don't starve yourself), and work out. Lift weights if at all possible. Talk to professionals at your local health club for advice on how to work out. Talk to lots of different bodybuilders; these are the men who make Foxes swoon with their bodies the way millionaires make them swoon with their bank accounts and expensive gifts and toys. There is no better way of neutralizing rich men who are your competition than by looking better than they do. Looks are worth more than money, status, brains, and personality combined, even with Foxes. You'll also find that when you look good your status improves, people are quicker to hire you, willing to pay you more, and the strength in the looks category spills over to the other categories. In other words: looks count. If you have looks, you need not be strong in any other category, because there are a number of Foxes who will be willing to have sex with you on the basis of your body alone. To reach this lofty stature, you need a looks rating of 20 points or higher, and preferably 23 or higher. Even if you can't push your looks score this high, every point you add will count. Whatever it is a Fox wants, she will demand the very best of. Brains. The most difficult category to improve upon, but rest assured that if you develop yourself in this area, you will land the occasional minddigger, and she will probably be more attractive than you might think. They don't come along often, but they do come along regularly, and usually they will pursue you very bluntly, directly, and forcefully. Developing your mind will usually improve your status and earning power, so there are derivative effects. Avoid reducing your level of physical activity to make time for your intellectual pursuits, unless you want to take a break from seduction and return down the road with a sharper mind. Brainy men also have a much easier time acquiring Friendly Foxes because even if they have no romantic interest in you, Foxes love to surround themselves with intelligent men. With so much attention paid to their bodies, their minds often wind up starved and grateful to men who focus there instead of on what she has below the neck. Status. There are three levels of status which are relevant to seduction: what will get you laid, what will prevent you from getting laid, and everything in between. Only those at the top and the bottom of the status ladder will notice it dominating their lives. For the most part, for whatever your lot in life you will find women to whom you appeal or at least do not repel. If you are looking to improve yourself, you can do it by earning more money, even planning to earn more money

After a year or so of making a conscious effort to adjust supply-and-demand to reality. Maybe you aren't the life of the party. I can only help you avoid mistakes and improve your results. in fact. or by obtaining some position of power in a Fox-heavy environment. One motto I often use to describe . so if you raise your looks score your CUPID rating will rise the fastest. the more successful any approach or gesture will be. you'll find yourself in a pretty steady state CUPIDwise. take the long-term approach. interests in female-dominated sports like gymnastics and figure skating. either you aren't being honest with yourself. Looks points count more than every other category. or maybe you are. Seeking out Foxes who value most what you are strongest in will also help you. poetry. or even bartender at a singles bar for examples of how to obtain status (and proximity) without necessarily having a great deal of money. Take no more than the situation will give you and your results will improve dramatically while rejection becomes a thing of the past. There is no such thing as a smart strikeout. set a baseline which will determine how hard you will have to work to seduce. or you are just so hopeless that it's time to consider buying Foxes (here or abroad) if you refuse to lower your standards. aren't applying the full method. here's a simple piece of advice: don't screw up. A rating of 25 in any category translates to a perfect partner rating of 100 to any Fox who values only that category. If you are the life of the party. Some of these professions pay surprisingly well. Just be neutral. There are many gimmicks to choose from as well: music. Foxes are not as picky about friendships as they are with relationships. but as your score in any category approaches perfection (25). approach someone every now and then just to make small talk. and your partner ratings to the Foxes with whom you interact. and hopefully you will learn as you go along and improve your seduction technique. you don't need my help. and Those who value most whichever area you are strongest in. strange as it may sound. you improve your chances. other than to factor out those who are less likely to find you appealing. don't try to hit the home run immediately. Long-term posturing is the best strategy for someone who is shy or otherwise feels awkward approaching Foxes. Seduction should be attempted only when it is likely to succeed. By not pursuing them. Personality. be polite to those who approach you. add points to the looks category or the category in which you are already strongest. she can still be very useful to you as a friend. and take it slower. or other female-dominated arenas like museums and plays (most men will find it easier to get into gymnastics or figure skating). do it only for the short-term because you will wind up bailing out in the longterm. Another way around this is to have a gimmick which serves as an ice-breaker. Few are truly hopeless. If you aren't. Overall CUPID Rating. The higher your CUPID rating. Those who are strongest in the area you value most (usually looks). Foxes who are out of your league are to be handled differently. Learn to appreciate the small gains as much as the big ones. as long as you don't try to force a big gain when only a small one is possible. although there's no way to control the value systems of the Foxes you want. If your personality is not strong. For best results. If a Fox does not want a relationship with you. To apply the CUPID relationship ideal described in the next chapter to your own love life. only a batter who thought he could hit a pitch that fooled him out of his uniform.(ground-floor appeal). The overall results should be excellent. if they aren't. don't be overt. bouncer. blend in. and it is almost always wisest to let them pursue you. your partner rating with anyone who has a lopsided value system that emphasizes your strong category will soar to the point where you become unbeatable. Maybe you could be if you wanted. miracles I cannot work. you will always be most compatible with the following: Those with CUPID ratings equal to your own. and you can turn the tables on them a bit by being the one who is interested only in friendship. Your CUPID rating. and don't try to sprint when your best pace is to run long-distance. Foxes who value most what you have the most of to offer will always treat you the best. If you lower your standards. Think strip-club manager or DJ.

If you have ever felt like you are dealing with royalty when you interact with these women. non-Elites want to be like them. the more you play to the strengths of both your rating and Foxes' value systems. because not only do most men (and many Foxes) want them. When it comes to CUPID ratings. and all in generous amounts. Men who value brains really need only to restrict their searches to intelligent non-Elites. the ultimate feminine ideal in the eyes of most men. When this happens. looks and brains count equally (45 percent each). Pursuing these Foxes . so there are a number of Foxes who go largely unappreciated and find it refreshing to encounter a man who is not entirely into looks. I will examine each category. Beware: to stand out intellectually. because they will be most responsive. and the partner rating you assign her on the basis of your value system. the less advantage you will have in wanting what others do not want. Supply and demand is a much greater influence on dating than most would like to admit. and who can appreciate her mind. its CUPID range. but if you accumulate enough of it. The closer your value system mimics society. If Foxes appear to be different creatures from nonElites. Regardless of your CUPID rating. that this treatment results in a self-fulfilling prophecy. she has to have looks. how Foxes are treated their entire lives has more than a minor impact on how they think. Being a knockout is not enough to drive a woman's CUPID rating over 90. The advantages of being a super-Elite extend well beyond dating: they get better jobs. Chapter Three: CUPID And Her Maybe you have heard the phrase they all think alike to explain why you have the same chance of seducing a Fox as you would a non-Elite. and who is not a male golddigger either. to be a super-Elite. that is because you are. but also because pursuing them will create a ripple effect from which your entire love life will benefit. if only because you are noticing something about them that they wish other men would notice. This is not to say that you should avoid the gold that comes your way while you are panning for silver. and are walking status symbols. you need to develop your mind the way a bodybuilder develops his body. It also helps to score well in the brains category yourself. better treatment. you can make yourself very wealthy over time. How much money a Fox has means nothing to me. brains. the better you can expect your results to be. it is because they are. with Elites adopting the traits men ascribe to them. and how beautiful she is also means nothing if she is not of comparable intelligence (as in an SAT score of 1400 or higher as a sample barometer). and you will be for as long as our society continues to make a woman's body 80 percent her worth. Under my value system. Even the ugliest man with a brilliant mind or a lot of money will attract a minority of Foxes who just happen to value that trait in a man. Such an impact. the women you encounter are going to fall into several categories. I am blessed with a value system that is markedly different from those of most men. not only because it is indeed possible to get one. and status. with personality accounting for the other 10 percent.this is strike silver. you should start again. because they tend to appreciate the mind in men as much as they enjoy being appreciated for their minds by men. I call this mindbuilding. Every Fox you meet will have two CUPID ratings: her regular rating. Most of the Foxes I wind up getting serious with are well above-average in intellect in addition to being physically attractive. Even though their minds are the same as those in less attractive containers. in fact. If you have stopped searching for super-Elites. Silver is not as valuable as gold. you will find that your best chances rest with those who value whatever it is you have the most of to offer. and how these women are best dealt with: Super Elite (90+) These Foxes are the cream of the crop.

regardless of her scores in other categories. Even if one appears to be the nicest Fox in the world. Elites have most of the major characteristics of super-Elites. Without a clear plan. Elites and super-Elites represent royalty. Sub-Elite (60-79. and that is to approach them primarily as friends unless I know they are available. The key to success is to use her own methods. If pursuit is not successful. who do not like your presence.Elite's ability to get almost any man she wants makes it so that she will not lament much over any man. the Fox who approaches you has already admitted to wanting to speak with you. you join the crowd of admirers. where an Intelligent Fox has a body which is just beneath perfection. Elites will usually be friends with any man who is respectful of their romantic barriers. seems intelligent. and that is a conservative estimate. and are thus worth pursuing for both friendship and dating. Elite (80-89. Most of the time you won't have to worry about a super-Elite being available. the odds are close to 95 percent that they are going to be off the market (all the good ones are taken). This is another reason posturing is so valuable. is an Elite. Super-Elites. because most of them have not gone more than a week or two without a boyfriend or the option of one since the age of twelve. A society that defines women primarily on the basis of how they look will cull its Elites on the same basis. so the burden shifts to you to leave an impression on her that will make her want you. The best of anything always is. and the most honest.9999999. and a man who -. after her for only her body. or looks. There is no way she can honestly call you rude or impolite if she is asking for your time rather than the other way around. this can seem impossible. If anything. there is no difference between an Elite and a super-Elite. It is when they have not won you over that things get a lot more interesting. Super-Elites are often the most polite and the most civilized.99) Welcome to the Bermuda Triangle of seduction. Once they have won you over. The CUPID system is designed so that even a woman with perfect scores in the other categories must score at least 18.God forbid -might not be seduced by them. The presence of even one true jerk in a Fox's life is enough to drive every nice guy away. Elites put her to shame. The super. and he winds up disappointed with any outcome other than becoming her lover. This creates not only the illusion but also the reality that these Foxes are having sex regularly with men other than yourself. especially if he is of practical use. Deal respectfully with these Foxes. She looks attractive.99) To most men. With Elites and super-Elites. After years of trial and many errors. avoid playing to their ego as much as possible. although it is definitely far from that. doing favors or going to great effort and/or expense for these women is not likely to change that. the percentage who would drool out a yes! if approached by a Fox for sex is more like 99. The problem is that civility alone is usually the last thing a man wants from a super-Elite. I've settled into an approach for dealing with super-Elites that works well for me. but I doubt it is anywhere close to the number of men who claim that they would reject her. and no personality to speak of were to offer to have sex with you.. she is going to attract men who are undesirable. While there's nothing obviously wrong with her. To me there is one major difference: brains. the more you are going to stand out as a man with standards. If you factor out the men who are capable of seducing other Foxes. where a Fox has a perfect body but an imperfect mind. no intelligence. Even if you find them.. they will not. odds are pursuit would not be successful. You get the . With super-Elites you will often have to wait a while after you meet them for them to become available.has a good job. a man who is reserved. are going to be difficult To Whom It May Concern: find. by definition. A woman with a perfect body. and on the surface a decent life. Sub-Elites are often mistaken for Foxes by men without standards and low CUPID ratings. Try to become friends with at least five super-Elites until you venture into pursuing them romantically. having so many options that you no longer care about any specific Fox.75 out of 25 in the looks category to qualify as Elite. the less you ask for. Ask yourself this: if a Fox with an absolutely perfect body. Foxes still offer a positive risk/reward ratio. and who will often attempt to sabotage the efforts of their rivals. As I will discuss later on. no status. and the less effort you make to win them over.. the more you hold out.can be very frustrating. timing is a very critical element of Foxhunting. would you accept? I am not sure what percentage of men would refuse this creature. but not for the reasons most men think. just not in the same quantities. but make a rather safe assumption that unless they have expressed explicit romantic interest in you. and as a result carry themselves as if they were. and while you may have a problem with that.

Having Foxy friends will add to the image you need to successfully pull off this strategy. It is one thing to seduce a sub-Elite. and you won't be happy. While it is more humanistic to treat the sub-Elite as an attractive creature with a lot to offer men. few men have to take this step if they apply themselves. The sub-Elite who is pursued by many men is going to notice the men who aren't interested. The methods contained here would represent overkill. Think of it as you would a minimum-wage job. even though the dancer is twice as sexy and ten times as willing. and your options increase dramatically. Posturing is always going to be more effective. Over time. especially since you have a built-in rejection-jealousy mechanism by virtue of your ignoring the sub. You can always have sex with a non-Elite and then go back to pursuing Elites. This allows them the opportunity to approach you first. The man who settles for a non-Elite is doing so out of the fear that he will never be able to seduce a Fox. In my experience. Later on I discuss the strong advantage of first contact to the person not making it. put it to the best possible use. Even if you want to seduce a sub-Elite. or who do not appear interested. Even in cases of love at first sight. Sub-Elites carry all of the risks associated with Foxhunting. a little distracted. simply treat her as if she were a Fox. Any time you spend with sub-Elites can be better spent Foxhunting. Failure to pursue is rejection by omission and a lot more powerful than men realize. which is almost what any man would want. Part of a Foxhunter's desirability is his high standards. but certainly one not worth pursuing. But you won't need this book to find one. and usually take what they can get. this fear may or may not be justified. this is an attractive woman. Just a little lacking in body and mind. "Beats being alone. Tolerate them.99) Not worth discussing from this book's standpoint. Few other men will. non-Elites have few options.. be prepared to forget she exists if she says no. pursuit is still not correct. you can reject anyone by letting the clock tick a bit and not paying them any mind.attitude problems without the offsetting body benefits.. Getting fired is not a threat because you know you can always get another job at the same pay. Lower your standards enough and they will be met. then the sub-Elites will be Foxes relative to you and should be treated as Foxes. Don't settle or lower your standards until all other options have been exhausted. To seduce a non-Elite. Keep this in mind when you talk to them.even you. you can have one. but not quite. Having a lover makes you .Elites in favor of the Foxes. Does it? I've found I like even nonsexual interaction with Elites and super-Elites more than I like even having sex with non-Elites. but only a small piece. Save your risk-taking behavior for Elites and up. Sub-Elites are almost what you want. If you pursue a subElite. The blow to her ego when she finds you focusing your attention on her superiors is going to be huge. appear just a little disinterested. If you have sex with a non-Elite. Go below 80 on the CUPID scale. avoid begging or even working for it. On the other hand. Refer to the standard Bell Curve and you will see a distribution that begins to favor men as a woman becomes more mortal. but bail out immediately at the first sign of trouble. I have found it amusing that it is much easier for me to get a date with a 21 year-old stripper or dancer than it is to get one with a 30 year-old attorney." a man might say. About the only benefit you will derive from settling for a sub-Elite is to your reputation. The Rest (0-59. SubElites are replaceable. But as I have already said. non-Elites Are Not Worth Pursuing. you will find yourself with many sub-Elites who are your friends and probably wish you would want more with them. but the convenience factor often causes men to lower their standards. like they have caught a piece of your fancy. do so to test your methods. Your time is limited. If you want one. and one with absolutely no power over you. it should be in a situation where you are totally in control. An accomplished Foxhunter should have absolutely no difficulty seducing a non-Elite. A true Foxhunter will have none of this and will hold out for what he wants and deserves. if Foxes are still out of your league even after you master this book. without the rewards. Depending on his appeal to Foxes and his technique. Even if you find yourself flirting with a sub-Elite. and expend as little energy as possible. it is more effective from a seduction standpoint to treat them as exactly what they are.

Absolutely nothing stops a non-Elite from copping an attitude like a successful Foxhunter. you'll be able to boost your overall chances and your reputation while gaining access to the sexual Elite. Watch just about any sitcom for more than five minutes and somewhere you will see one character taunting another. A final note on CUPID: looks are not all that determines a woman's value. making it possible for women with relatively lower looks scores to still be Elites. Chapter Four: CUPID And Relationships One of the most common forms of American humor is the sexual putdown. you should be very happy with a long-term relationship with a sub-Elite. One caution: just as you can use a non-Elite to get close to a Fox. but as long as you appeal to some FOFs. Even men who don't value brains. To them. If you are capable of seducing a Fox. With a fixed amount of time to Foxhunt. and she may even seduce you in order to prove her point. Sub-Elites get much more attention than they deserve. and whom you would want to be friends with. third choice. spend that time as productively as possible. There are minor and major adjustments you can make to every area of your life to improve your odds of success. Considering the number of men who value looks more than 80 percent. relying on their judgement and any information provided to them by their best friend. This category should be your second choice. you should have no difficulty seducing a non-Elite.Elites know instinctively that they have no bargaining power with a man who would reject them for a Fox. To hear the experts tell it. status. and you have to wonder why things are the way they are. Even if Foxes are all you consider. they demand more relative to what they offer in return. Interaction with non-Elites should be kept to a bare minimum. which also works. Of the time you spend with non-Elites. but decisions made by force of the market are not the same as decisions made by the will of the Foxhunter. she can use the Fox to get close to you. will be your most powerful seduction tool for the sub-Elites and non-Elites you ignore. inferior women who will want to prove their Foxhood by attracting you. you can take advantage of supply and demand and lower your looks requirement a bit while raising your other requirements to compensate. and the man who takes advantage of these opportunities is the man most likely to taste the fruits of victory (among other things!). At this point it is easy to become a pawn in the Fox's game to prove that she is superior to the sub-Elite. this is the most productive. Anyone who has ever seen an openly two-faced Fox in action knows how she can spend one moment dressing down a man she deems a loser and the next showing her sweet side to a man she respects. When the friend has a positive opinion of you. The minor categories still count for 20 percent. The presence of Foxes in your life. it is socially acceptable to value looks. but to focus exclusively on Foxes is just shallow and makes you a pig. or personality will do this for practical reasons. this can be very good. Even then. You have little to gain by spending time with non-Elites if your goal is to have sex with Elites or super-Elites. or anything but your first choice. If her opinion is negative. that can cost you any chance you might have with the Fox. Tell a Fox that you find a sub-Elite more attractive than her and you deliver a direct blow to her ego. but brains and money. especially if they are lovers but even if they are just friends. Never mind that Foxes want men who have not only looks. the only major exceptions being those who are not attracted to you. last resort. Friends Of Foxes Non-Elites can achieve status by being close friends with Foxes.more appealing to Foxes. which allows you to trade up more easily. non-Elites will occasionally factor into your love life. . and in no way are they any kind of a bargain. Pitting Foxes against their less-blessed counterparts is an easier seduction strategy than the reverse. Foxes often trust their girlfriends to shield them from the wolves. be careful. Non.

Every time a famous couple divorced (usually with the Fox breaking it off). because neither partner is likely to do better. any Fox you would want to date is better than you and will not only reject you but laugh in your face. and not recommended. Here's an example: Christie Brinkley filed for divorce from Billy Joel this week. . as the weaker partner will find it almost impossible to replace the stronger one. you have a pairing that is not likely to break up. the superior partner will find a replacement more quickly. Saturday Night Live led this cynical charge a while back. Even if two partners have resolved their CUPID issues and treat each other as equals. the person with the higher rating will have control. If the Fox in question does go out with you. At any point in the relationship. with everyone cheering her on for dumping the jerk. Ha-ha-ha. It is a dark reality about the nature of human thought that we even spend time considering who is getting the better deal in a relationship. If in fact the formula is accurate. among others. people do not wait for anything resembling this ideal to enter their lives. You want someone with an equal CUPID rating. As mentioned earlier. and that she was married to Billy Joel. and 2. Saying that one person is somehow better than their lover is quite arrogant. which are: 1. is that no one is willing to step up and be the first person to consciously seek out someone who is lacking in what they want. the following will almost always be true: The person with the superior CUPID rating will be the one who decides if a relationship occurs. It ranks two people for intrinsic worth. or a Fox who cannot find that dream relationship. To understand how CUPID applies to relationships. Dare I say it was also why they divorced. Charity in the game of love is rare. right? Underneath those laughs lie some rather crude and negative assumptions. and Once the relationship is over. the superior partner is more likely to cheat or dump. and causes a great deal of pain. The end result -. The CUPID formula underscores our common assumptions about relationships. and instead accept a CUPID mismatch rather than be alone. More often than not. She said she knew the marriage was in trouble when she realized that she was Christie Brinkley. If you are male. The problem with changing the behavior patterns documented by Darwin and CUPID. It converts the dating game into just another competitive sport. the ideal CUPID relationship consists of the following: Equal CUPID ratings. and that replacement will have a higher CUPID rating than the replacement found by the inferior partner. and on a deeper level explains what two people see in each other.the superior half of the mismatch dumps the inferior half -. and may the best men and women win and have sex with each other. When all three conditions are met. a theoretical measure of a person's desirability to the opposite sex. and who wants what you have. We are bred to be opportunistic. others will often treat them as if they were not equal if their CUPID numbers do not match up properly. and why their divorce was met with knowing cynicism. Equal partner ratings. and "everyone" knows it. Sometimes it can even lead to obsession. and Partner ratings which are substantially higher than each partner's CUPID rating. in its Weekend Update skit of all places.and usually the taunted person is a man who cannot get a date. The fundamental premise of the humor is that we are just losers who don't know what we are doing. it is only a matter of time before she leaves you. points out mismatches in relationships. who has what you want. If a relationship occurs. they had a running gag. not altruistic.is predictable. This is why a marriage like Liz Taylor and Larry Fortensky's attracts so much attention. think of the CUPID rating as a romantic power rating.

the odds of two Elites being lovers would equal the odds of one person being an Elite. CUPID does not easily lend itself to use as an empirical matchmaking tool. knowing who is out of their league and who is not. it is also true that the beginning of one relationship often causes the end of another. Chapter Five: The Goal Of Foxhunting We are so biased towards the female perspective that Foxhunting is socially unacceptable. if you cannot be with the one you love. or presenting his status in a different light. Every man seems to consider himself superior to his true equal. love the one you are with. CUPID ratings are not constant. Any aspiring Foxhunter would do very well to work CUPID into his consciousness with the same level of depth. Though empirical in nature. and I do. Each person we relate to is going to score us differently. The same dynamic exists in the workforce. While it is true that CUPID considerations diminish as a relationship is built. inertia sets in and a relationship develops. Arpad Elo explained this concept perfectly: Chessplayers often make unrealistic appraisals of their own ability. Because they are with someone they find tolerable. Many who declare themselves in love with their partner would be a lot closer to the truth if they simply said "I got tired of looking and s/he was the best one I could find that would have me.because it is very shallow -. An Elite couple is a force of nature. A rudimentary understanding of statistics is all it takes to see the impact of CUPID on relationships and even friendships. there are also Elite couples. A couple's CUPID rating determines its social standing. placing a different value on those scores in calculating your partner rating. Many successful sitcoms have been built around the machinations men go through to get . Past And Present. and the rating distribution of those who are lovers of Elites would match the overall distribution as well.but don't think it ends with the two of you. where people are loathe to pair off with each other and tend to hold out for someone who is more attractive than they are. Even couples have to deal with: CUPID Couple Ratings Couples can be every bit as shallow as singles. and the staff wishing they could make more money. Elites are going to pair off with other Elites or strong sub-Elites." This might sound very shallow -. Since it is a factor I must acknowledge it. CUPID's strength lies in its value as a conceptual tool for understanding how we think and what we value. but with both parties continuing the arrangement because for each of them it is the best they could do at the moment. unless he is given to making drastic changes in his appearance and behaving differently. and gravitating towards their peers. so a factor which is important at the beginning of Relationship #2 is by definition important at the end of Relationship #1. at least not to the extent that the ratings are accurate to the tenth of a point. Each man has a rating level which he will approximate most of the time. and who seems to tolerate them. honey. Every couple has a CUPID rating and even partner ratings just as with singles. It is blatantly obvious that this is not the case. To fail to understand its impact is to leave oneself open to being blindsided at any time. The effects are magnified because the scoring range for couples is 0-200 instead of 0-100. with employers wishing they could get more work for the money they pay their staff. thinking that they are "in form" only when they are actually playing well above their normal form. If CUPID were not a factor. I'm not here to debate the fairness of the role CUPID plays in relationships.Over time. and so on down the scale until you get to the bottom. Like the song says. An overwhelming majority of the time. In The Rating Of Chessplayers. people become rather adept at making CUPID assessments. This is the case with CUPID as well: two true equals will usually assume that they would be settling if they chose the other. I keep CUPID in the back of my mind at all times. Men need to work past what others might think of them and learn instead to pursue what it is they truly want. Just as there are Elite people. A low-rated CUPID pairing will often be excluded by Elite couples just as they were when they were single. with massive amounts of sex appeal emanating from both sides.

When you talk about men who have known nothing but rejection their entire lives. rich men?). and all I could think of was how if you switched the bodies of the two women in question. Let me say now that if you are a man who is over 6'. Foxes will fall all over you. This is easy because all a man has to do in that case is stop pursuing them. In our female-biased society. and in her place was a Blonde Fox from his own town whose mother had seen him on television and prompted her to contact him (don't you love the way mothers try to push their daughters onto good-looking. has a high IQ. Foxes rarely have this problem. earns $100.000 as follows: $500 for the pictures. These alpha-males have done their foxhunting in the most efficient way possible. and more. Who hasn't seen an episode of some show where a husband forgets his anniversary or commits some similar capital offense. she tells men the same lies you see in centerfold profiles. he would have stayed with the first. This is analogous to how men approach their careers. knowing before they commit to a man if they can do better. to both his ego and his image. and how if they don't play the game on the Foxes' terms. the doctor reported to Oprah that his relationship with the sub-Elite had ended. imagine for a moment that one year from now you will be moving to a new town. because they seem to be born with CUPID calculators in their brains. I say a year because if you are overweight or . that represents a marked improvement already. and they will usually be willing to let you sample the goodies in the hope that you will choose them over the hordes of other Foxes. the more monogamous he becomes. by being what Foxes want.000 to say that any loser reading the magazine has a shot with them. $9. The man gave the perfunctory excuse about how things just didn't work out with the sub-Elite. The man who is having sex with a Fox on a regular basis is far less likely to look elsewhere. there is the potential to stop the bleeding and reach the point where Foxes are unable to reject or humiliate them. I can tell you that the type of man these Foxes want is exactly the type of player you have always thought they wanted. and the wife is justified in punishing him for it. Under the pretext of sparing feelings (her own. Quarterbacks and cheerleaders do not hook up by accident. because they are important to women. and who tells you that a man will have to win her over. and is in top physical shape. not yours). aren't a Jon BonJovi-lookalike. men do not have this privilege. and to a man who gets rejected. To understand what it takes to be a successful Foxhunter. none is as sickening as watching a mother present her daughter's sexuality to a wealthy man. it will stop a lot of pain for men who get rejected regularly. and he began dating one.sex: how they have to cater to the Fox's every whim. and even if they meet someone better down the road.500 to say that having them taken was the most spiritually fulfilling experience of their lives. Every man has Foxhunting potential. the one who tells you she is looking for a nice guy. but why is it considered amusing when a wife tells her husband she has a headache and he has to go without sex? One of the more provocative studies on love and sex that I came across revealed something very simple yet telling: the more attractive a man's lover. Immediately an alarm bell went off in my head. is sending R-Rated videos of herself to men she sees on Oprah. Many had contacted him. unless he is capable of attracting other Foxes. Sure enough. how they have to want what they are supposed to want. it doesn't mean that you cannot become a successful Foxhunter. Even in that case. wanting to marry you. I'm not advocating forgetting these things. The Fox thinks she is doing men a favor by not enlightening them. I used to joke that Playboy Playmates were paid $30. What happens if you are lacking in any of the above categories is that you will find the Fox you want. they can usually bail out without anyone looking down on them. once again he is less likely to stray because he has everything he wants. Of all the sites I have seen in my travels on this planet. maybe even having her mother do it for her. being far less likely to change jobs if they are happy and well-paid. As a man whose cousin managed to live with two Playmates in succession (one while she was the current month's centerfold). rock-star wannabe with limited talent like my cousin. you do not need to Foxhunt. I remember watching an episode of Oprah where on it she had a doctor who had met a sub-Elite through one of her single-rich-handsome-man-without-a-woman shows. Even if you aren't the cool type.000 a year or more. they will be denied sex. on a followup show. Not pursuing Foxes will not get you laid by itself. if he tops out with a Super Elite. and $20.

looking for a job should become a full-time job. sexist pig. but real life is another story. If you want a piece of this action. Why It's Okay To Be A Foxhunter One of the reasons men refuse to admit to their Foxhunting tendencies is that they think women will condemn them for it. I am proud to say I have accomplished both. If you are not currently with the Fox Of Your Dreams. Something which has annoyed me about most every seduction guide on the market is that they minimize rejection. Most Foxes a level above what you would find in a brothel. and you can become complacent with less than you deserve from the marketplace. Payment it is. When I became a Foxhunter. Once you understand this concept. ask them out. and if they said no you would either keep pursuing them or move onto the next. If you want a Fox. Like jobhunting. making it your top priority is logical. Even the most banal of decisions can have farreaching impacts on your love life. how would you go about your Foxhunting? If you are like most men. but this only begins to tell the story. without any long-term strategy. Changing the human scenery of your life from The Drew Carey Show to Melrose Place is a massive improvement. They have the advantage at every point: meeting Foxes. do what Mariah Carey sings and make it happen. A Foxhunter is to a typical male what Michael Jordan is to typical a playground basketball player. detach from the mindset that being yourself and randomly living your life will cause the Fox of Your Dreams will drop into your lap. and without doing everything you possibly could to get laid. Foxhunters are professional seducers. The economic rewards of success motivate them to devote their entire lives to becoming as skilled as they possibly can. There is a saying that when you do not have a job. will have higher CUPID ratings than the ones currently in your life. In this position. and seducing them. While it may be tempting to take a Mc-Job just to pay your bills while you are holding out for your dream job. Foxhunting demands that you retain your standards even when you haven't found what you wanted. Once she is done calling you a selfish. The payment for a job well done is the incredible sex they have. with a new job. and even if you are rejected it will be much easier for you to save face. That may work in fiction. the odds you will be rejected when you do are much lower. but I am reasonably sure that the women you find yourself dealing with on all levels. because Foxes can charge thousands of dollars a night for their sexual services. to a new city. Foxhunters are no different. taking proactive steps to ensure that they will come into extensive contact with Foxes and make the most of the windows of opportunity created by that contact. and often has difficulty focusing on . at least you'll be striking out with a higher class of Fox. even working it to my advantage. taking risks only when the reward justifies it. every second of your life can be applied to seduction. practicing constantly and developing their technique to the point where it is almost flawless. I wish I could say that there are shortcuts. As someone once observed very humorously. While sooner or later you have to make a move. and a new life. your own apartment or house. almost dismissing it. you would probably try to find a Fox or two to talk to. If you are already goodlooking you can imagine that you are relocating tomorrow. pursuing and dating them. several interesting things happen. even beyond sex and romance. but also to avoid the indignities that come with rejection. you can often wind up trapped in a lesser lifestyle because you find yourself with less time to search. This scores an automatic point for you because it makes her curious. and go beyond just pursuing the random non-Elites who enter their lives. but when you play in the big leagues that will never be the case. you are well on the way to successful Foxhunting. A Curious Fox is like a horny male. Foxhunting eliminates or reduces rejection risk. This leads to my next question: how bad do you want it? Professional athletes are paid millions of dollars a year because they excel at their form of competition. including: She wants to know if you consider her a Fox. To an extent they are right. and how to exploit it. because a true Fox usually will not have to lower herself to working in that profession.otherwise unattractive this gives you ample time to correct the problem. every minute. and can stomach rejection rather easily. I cannot even say you will wind up with a Fox. Every hour. Imagine for a minute that a woman has gotten wind that you are a Foxhunter. my goal was not only to seduce Foxes.

you are missing out on opportunities. deep down she knows it does and is always concerned about what men think of it. They also know it is not the only reason I am attracted. The man who will date any Fox is a lot different from one who rejects non-Elites but also requires that Foxes be compatible mentally and spiritually. This gives them confidence. If you are not spending your time directly or indirectly Foxhunting. Any time you spend doing something other than Foxhunting or something related is a lost opportunity. Go to a singles bar every night for a year and you might get lucky a few times. . The ones who don't I do not deal with. keep the following in mind: Make it your top priority. The Foxes I talk to know that their bodies are the primary reason I am attracted to them. Learn to evaluate what is happening.demand is a basic reality of the romantic marketplace. I make sure that this happens because I use looks only as a rejection criteria and not a selection criteria. Know the score. If that time is spent at work earning money. putting all of their eggs in basket after basket. the easier it will be for him to find what he wants. at least until you are confident in your abilities and satisfied with your results. or at the gym improving your looks. is highly recommended. Long-term thinking is the order of the day here. even you. those activities increase your CUPID rating and can be considered relevant. or developing your mind. She assumes you are capable of seducing her. She knows she has no sexual power over you. and you can toss in criticism of your looks preferences to the propaganda mix. Would you mention in a job interview that you were unemployable? Suppose your boxing opponent told you before a fight that he had a glass jaw and couldn't throw a knockout punch. By not revealing what she wants to know. Turn to a non-Elite for advice. Supply-and. Successful Foxhunters have their moves down so well they Foxhunt unconsciously. Don't delude yourself. spend that year improving yourself and you'll wind up with more Foxes in one week thereafter than you would have in the entire year. How would you react? Keep these metaphors in mind the next time you are contemplating letting a Fox advise you. It's bad news all around. and she can just relax and enjoy being conquered (once she gets past your being a selfish. Foxes are very covert. or not knowing what to do in any situation. for confidence is merely one's refusal to second-guess oneself. you have other options. To prepare yourself for becoming a successful Foxhunter. One of the biggest mistakes made by amateur Foxhunters is that they think only in the short-term. what your chances are. sexist pig). This is the main appeal of the player: he knows what he is doing. and will treat you with more respect. and you will act more confidently and succeed more. This ties into #1. Avoid chess clubs. and that even if you find them attractive. and when one basket breaks they repeat their mistakes. They move from Fox to Fox. If something isn't working. Men who ask Foxes for seduction advice fail to realize the death-blow they are dealing to themselves. She knows that beneath your polite exterior exists a man who can probably turn her on sexually.anything else until her curiosity has been satisfied. she is left wondering whether or not her body turns you on. Never mind that her body isn't supposed to matter. The Fox who values your friendship or whatever it is that is attracting her to you knows she cannot walk all over you. because they fail to grasp one simple concept: Foxes do not want a man who does not know how to seduce them. change it! Do so only with a good reason. If you behave like a Foxhunter. Foxes become convinced they cannot impress you with anything less than sex. The less a man values looks. Intense Foxhunting. Your end of the bargain is to never give the Fox a reason to doubt this ability. It is much easier to seduce a Fox if she believes your interest in her goes beyond the physical. comic-book or Star-Trek conventions. I see nothing wrong with Foxhunting if a man is honest about what he wants. or by not pursuing her and giving her the impression that she is not a Fox. and other places where men outnumber Foxes. Give it time. This will work only if you hold your ground when things are not going your way. Most find this acceptable. She doesn't have to worry about the Foxhunter losing his cool.

These sweeping-but-accurate generalizations fail to tell the whole story. How many men out there who are over 6' will reject Foxes who have height requirements? Those who are over 6' are getting by on their height the way Foxes get by on their bodies. and in my daily life I go out of my way to respect a Fox's personal space. you use it. How often do you see a Fox protest the favors she gets in return for her beauty? Most will attribute their success to resourcefulness while ignoring the bias altogether. If you are blessed with brains. It is almost a no-win situation because there is no polite way to reject someone. but they never quite clear the hurdle. Knowing that they fear being alone with . This is how hustlers of any kind take advantage of people in games of skill: they let them come close enough to winning to play for money over and over again. To many Foxes. Take a good. If she is so polite. getting agitated when it is pointed out to them that their helpers and protectors have ulterior motivates for being so nice. the first thing you need to do is understand how they think and act. you'll use that. People tend to take advantage of whatever life deals them. you have to step in and figure out how they think by examining how they act. I assign most of the blame to the Foxes. Unwanted advances can rear their ugly head in a place like that very easily. If you are going to be seducing Foxes. Foxhunting is no different. Every man is going to pretend to be a nice guy because this is what he thinks the Fox wants. To combat this. you are either going to assume that things work the same way for other people. the following holds true about Foxes: They are stuck-up. and what they respond to sexually. Since Foxes generally do not reveal their true motives to men. It's no different with looks. As life's sexual celebrities. Some men who otherwise have no opportunity will attempt to capitalize on any which presents itself. watch what we do This is a more eloquent way of saying that actions speak louder than words. can be very traumatic for a Fox. Predators of every species understand this rule instinctively. she must like him somewhat and need a little more convincing. long look at the men Foxes date and see how many of them are truly nice. I speak out against this behavior in my writing. And sometimes the Fox who rejects a man politely is doing more damage than if she is stuck-up to him because he will incorrectly think he blew his chance with her. In this case. or that you are special and deserving of this treatment. To wit: The Fox who is not stuck-up is accused of being a prick-tease. They get by in life on their looks. They date bad-boy types while ignoring the nice guys.Chapter Six: Understanding Foxes Know thy prey. life is a drama in which they have been cast as the female lead. You would think that several thousand years of poor female selection would wise them up. Much has been written about Fox behavior. or that he can reverse the rejection. summed it up perfectly: Don't listen to what we say. most of it unflattering. John Mitchell. When people are working constantly to assist you with whatever problems you have. this is how they are going to see the world. If you are blessed with popularity. Nixon's disgraced attorney general. In the eyes of the cynical. Experiences men do not even think twice about. if all they know is royal treatment. like getting into an elevator alone. but you could say the same thing about men.

What will be the case more often than not is that you are dealing with someone who has two faces. not how she looks. and one with a bad temper at that. there will be men in her life who will do anything for her. To different degrees. Whenever you are dealing with a Fox. why not just vote for one in the first place? I've actually heard Foxes justify dating jerks on the same grounds. Almost without exception. Not all Foxes are like this.reliance. The societal conditioning for Foxes is that their thoughts are more important. Some even have difficulty with men who challenge their ideas. and will even work to make them happen for you. It is wise to assume the worst about any Fox you deal with until she proves otherwise. reaping the advantages of physical beauty. and Foxes have to learn to be polite about rejecting. Avoiding these risks makes you more likely to succeed. a major network newsmagazine devoted an entire hour to looks biases in America. Acting on any attraction you may have for a Fox is like navigating an obstacle course. admitting that I am one of those men regains points for honesty that I lose for being a pig. even criminal trials). Each time the better-looking person was treated like royalty while their plain counterparts were given only basic civility. The Fox who gets a job because of how she looks denies that this is the reason. and if she can do it. so can you. where men claim righteous anger over the treatment they receive (or don't receive). Foxes who realize just how much power they have often begin acting powerful. but they are truly different. This is especially true when a Fox carries the default opinion that men are unworthy scum who will hit on her. or in any forced environment. one for men she wants and respects. The upside is that if you display the positive attitude Foxes have. putting people of unequal attractiveness in similar situations (job interviews. Leave yourself open to the idea that she is honest and kind. What I can do is refuse to add to the problem. they will expect good things to happen to you. A few years back. but only one bad apple can cause food poisoning. and then concludes that anyone else who makes the same effort she made will succeed. or they will develop their minds and become super-Elites. The cycle can only be broken with two steps: men have to learn to accept rejection. Foxhunting requires you to become aware of the Fox belief system. I do not hit on Foxes where they work. It is wise for a man not to make himself vulnerable. It was this line of reasoning that got me to reassess Foxes and my approach to dealing with them. it will be provided. emergencies. and many also have difficulty with not getting what they want immediately. A Fox's a natural desire is to think that she has succeeded in life because of skill. their time more valuable. or are something to be feared and avoided. Treat a Fox as you would a celebrity. how they view you. because Foxes cannot tolerate proof that they got ahead unfairly. but this will rarely be the case. because she has relied on herself to get where she is. . and if they want something. The Fox who denies the reality of just how much her looks have helped her in life is going to preach self. The less you to do win over a Fox. Foxes are people. and I cannot disagree with them. the better. I am reminded of a running gag in the Motley's Crew comic strip where a wino named "Bummy" runs for office on the grounds that instead of being disappointed to find out that you elected a bum.men in elevators. Foxes will either cruise through life blissfully selfish. at least until they have been checked out. and Foxes complain that they are going to be called stuck-up regardless of how they behave. In a Fox you are dealing with a celebrity. I get a very positive reaction from Foxes when I bond with them by empathizing with what it must be like to have every man want to get them into bed. If all a man cares about is her body. The bad apples have spoiled the rest of the male bunch in the eyes of the Foxes. I won't even get into one alone with a Fox if I can avoid it. and how they are likely to react in any given situation. why should a she feel compassion? Should a rich man be compassionate to golddiggers? The stuck-up attitude creates a tit-for-tat. crossing her in any way can have disastrous consequences. and because they will like you. and for some odd reason. and another for those she deems inferior. and because she is popular. This is not likely to happen because what causes us to want someone also causes us pain if we don't get it. Anything that runs counter to this programming is a rude awakening. Some super-Elites actually become very stuck-up as a way of striking back against men who try to take advantage of them.

Obviously. The man who marries a CUPID 75 will dump her in seconds for a 95. If you see an open space. and the more correctly you identify them.better than men. the average ratings for men and women would have to be equal. so why should you expect anything different from her? The Personality Myth persists. aside from containing pictures which at times would cause even Hugh Hefner to blush. the other cooperative. Because there is no way to summarize all behavior specific to Foxes in one chapter. This happens in part because women take care of their bodies . That's just the way we are. . For the most part. There is one major problem with this formula: men and women are not equal! For CUPID to work out perfectly. Fox magazines. The problem we have with finding what we want from each other is supply and demand. Pursuit and romance are opposites: one is competitive. Under the laws of supply and demand. I will conclude this one with the simple advice to monitor your own interaction with Foxes.. Few take joy in failure. or what type of man she decides you are. women outrank men. and learn which behavior is specific to them as opposed to non-Elites. but remember that if you are pursuing her only because of her body that you were being shallow in the first place. Once we start using qualitative terms like better to describe one person relative to another. the more you reduce the uncertainty that befalls men who never quite learn how to predict Fox behavior. There is a point at which a Fox's CUPID rating is high enough to keep any man loyal. like New York City parking spaces: in short supply and grabbed up very quickly when available. Many men who complain about Foxes being stuck-up do not realize that they are not this way with every man they meet. and few would deny it unless they are infected with PC disorder. whom society says we are supposed to match up well with. rejection and loneliness condition us to seek out those who are in our league. romance what keeps them. Your CUPID rating and your seduction technique are going to affect how any Fox treats you. This is why they claim superiority. Foxes who report relationship problems tend to omit how much they enjoyed being pursued by the men they later despise. she's not nice in that she doesn't treat everyone equally. Chapter Seven: Understanding Your Competition Everyone wants the top prizes in life. Read Cosmopolitan every month for seven years like I did if you want more insight into how Foxes think. Foxes are in demand. even if they know they are going to be dumped a week later for a superior. The disparity demolishes any chance that we will collectively find our true equals. seducing her becomes much easier. incredible demand. Pursuit is what attracts Foxes. You can also be certain that a truly open space isn't going to remain that way if drive around the block looking for a better space. and few of the tall men will ever take exception to this.How you are treated by a Fox is going to depend on how she categorizes you. Some people do not care if they can keep a partner and reach for the moon. you can be certain that parking there is taboo. are like the opposing coach's playbook.the primary judgement criteria -. On average. The Fox who coldly ignores men under 6' will kiss up to men who meet her height requirement. Many good men get destroyed because they lack seduction and pursuit skills. although identifying both types of behavior will help you a great deal in preparing for your Foxhunts. The more patterns you can identify. where we appear equally desirable and where our interests appear compatible. we are going to seek partners who have the most appealing combinations of CUPID and partner ratings we believe we can keep. the laws of economics kick in with more force then Bruce Lee. I have found that when I am able to predict how a Fox is going to react to me. The short men will call her a bitch and the tall men will call her nice. but that doesn't tell the whole story.

including you -. because Foxes will always be into looks. and men have an advantage in the finance department (though deteriorating) that should offset women's in the looks department. you would be right almost every time.0 100.is doing the same thing.7 6. A Fox who wants a rich man has slim pickings. and men.1 99. Foxes will often wait for their theoretical equal.7 5. 96. Throw height into the mix and it gets even worse. a woman who has a perfect body automatically qualifies as an Elite. and good-looking. Men have complained for eons about Foxes with unrealistic expectations.3 The term equal can be applied to rank or rating. 94. The rankings would look something like this: Rank Men Women 1. 100. but tall. and they were ranked accordingly by CUPID. let's make them Elites and assume societal value systems for each person.5 9. 98. one who wants a man who is not only rich. A humorous line I have used with success is Would you like some company while you are waiting for Prince Charming to show up? . The source of the imbalance lies in our value systems.5 99.0 99. and loser. and they will have hundreds of Foxes to choose from. while she could point to his inferior CUPID rating and say they are not equal. Imagine for a moment that the world consisted of 10 men 10 women. dividing men into three categories: worthy. money. 92. More than one man has convinced a Fox to date him by suggesting that she relax her requirements a bit and give him a chance.0 99. You will find yourself competing against mortal men and an unrealistic ideal. so bad. while a man must be strong in three areas. suitable for friends. so is every other man on the planet. and wealthy. equally intelligent. intelligent. pigs that they are. Never having a man around who meets her standards is very frustrating to a Fox and something she will take as a sign of her failure to be sufficiently attractive. In the real world we pair off by both rank and rating. Even at 80 percent. smart.8 99.4 10. will just be into looks. a man with a perfect body needs another 25 points to get to Elite. By contrast. 84.2 99. provides four hoops for a man to jump through as opposed to only one for her. A woman needs strength in only one area to become a Fox. one who wants a genius has equally slim pickings. There are men who value looks at 90-100 percent of the selection process.For the most part. the genders are equally good-looking. You can't even say that the two-faced behavior is bad. 86. It is not likely that the scales are going to balance anytime soon. not realizing how difficult it is to find this if there are ten times the number of Foxes as Elite men. in fact. that if you told every Fox you met that she would never find the man of her dreams. 87. On one level they do.8 4.000 will qualify. because just about every other man on the planet -.0 3. either. It is much easier to just be good-looking than it is to be good-looking. and those points must come from at least two other categories. 90. and that is why the same Fox who is a stuck-up bitch to you will roll out the redcarpet for an Elite. For simplicity.7 99.1 99. and intelligence. All is not lost because while you are competing against an unrealistic ideal. The Fox who finally gives into practical pressure and pairs off with her rank equal complains that she has settled for a rating unequal. 85.5 8.8 100. The man who is ranked at #5 can look at the woman ranked #5 and claim equality.0 2. Foxes take go to the extreme.6 7. Foxes have such unrealistic requirements of men that sometimes only one in 10. Foxes who expect to marry an Elite male do not understand romantic supply and demand.

for you will not be proven wrong until he marries her. It is the male corollary to the Fox who gives sex to men with no strings. Good-catch types are men with high CUPID ratings (or partner ratings) who pursue one Fox vigorously at a time. Their major strength comes in their willingness to give a Fox what she truly wants. a romantic slut for lack of a better term. and Speed Seducers who can break down in 90 minutes the defenses a Fox keeps other men at bay with for weeks. Soulmate types are the worst competition to have. If you feel like a prince one day and a Frog the next.sub-Elites and a few unattainable Elites -. In other words. she will become more appealing if she is right about Foxes being out of your reach. Once or twice is more than enough to get your point across.Men have problems competing against perfection because they do not know how to handle it. over time you begin to look good in her eyes. it behooves a man to understand the importance of timing. he will mess up and you can capitalize. although personally I find the Foxhunters to be the most difficult in that they can strike out of the blue. Be prepared to let the clock tick and Foxhunt in the meantime. With such volatility.will take many forms. You can always warn a Fox that your rival is just telling her what she wants to hear to get her into bed. No Fox in her right mind would expect you to name your sexual conquests. You may keep a poker face and laugh it off. This can be used to your advantage. Another . It is always possible to use this technique yourself. Which type of competition is worse will depend on what you are seeking from Foxes. there is really nowhere to hide for the Fox who hasn't found Prince Charming because there would be a Royal Wedding if she had. It never ceases to amaze me how a Fox can one day be talking about spending the rest of her life with a man and the next day be crying over how everything fell apart. A dishonest rival is obviously better for you. although in a way they are doing you a favor. even if the man is not spectacular at first glance. marriage-minded looksdiggers who use the surprisingly successful technique of telling every Fox they meet that they feel a soulmate connection until someone believes them (an annoying number of Foxes are removed from the market by this technique). usually sooner. it is probably due to someone else and not you. Your stock will rise by attrition when the man you were competing against suddenly crashes and burns. even when you are in a relationship. The best way to catch a fast-moving insect in a closed environment is to stand still and wait for it to come to a complete stop rather than waste your time and energy chasing it. The good-catch type divides between men who are sincere and men who are not. This puts the ball in his court. Your flesh-and-blood competition -. but if you are doing poorly her words are going to sting. of course. There is no way you are ever going to convince a Fox that you meet this ideal. says that you will never find what you seek. and who are relationship-oriented and marriage-minded. or even years. Sex from Foxes for romance from men is the fundamental romantic transaction. this is a man who puts out romantically the way a Promiscuous Fox puts out sexually. you can still point out that perhaps she is marrying the wrong man out of fear she won't find a good husband. and the only chance you have is after the breakup. Consequently. If your rival blunders. A Fox's opinion of you changes constantly relative to other men in her life. The Fox who gets sucked in by this type of man is a goner. because sooner or later. or if she decides he is wrong for her. If she pointed out your failure as a covert way of getting you to consider her. and you don't want to appear as if you are forcing the issue. This is why you will often see men who do not fare well in the dating game one day show up with a Fox on their arm and a ring on her finger. don't overplay your hand. There will be good-catch types who string them along for a until they get bored or find someone better. The promise of a happy lifetime pairing is something Foxes always consider. That is why I became one. If you are going to use this tactic. If that happens. Since Foxes parade their romantic conquests (as opposed to men hiding their sexual conquests). Imagine for a moment that you are talking to a sub-Elite who knows you are a Foxhunter and despite your claims to the contrary. if there is one. months. it is much easier for a man to hide his failures than for a Fox to hide hers.

When two Foxhunters pursue a Fox. Ross Jeffries is a man who is trained in the mind arts. Speed Seduction strikes at the heart of what Foxes and Foxhunters alike are up against in the dating game. Not fifteen minutes after I arrived there. a true contest of romantic wills. I don't mind losing a Fox to this type of man because she would have been a lot of trouble (Foxes are very demanding about their soulmates). Fortunately. Speed Seducers There is one type of rival that I haven't mentioned yet. What we used to call smooth talk has been updated with 90's precision. For more information on those art forms. Fans of Politically Incorrect may recall the Friday July 31. Since the method that these men use has become more and more popular as of late. It takes only a brief period of receptivity and focus for a Speed Seducer to worm his way into a Fox's mind. avoiding protracted contests whenever possible.com. and even if they are not pursuing her directly.com). I later decided not to use SS because it requires a man to .hypnosis. If the Fox Of Your Dreams has a Foxhunter in her life. the creator of Speed Seduction (www. and the results are explosive. you will be crushed. and if you win they bail out. Few Foxes will. A truly skilled Foxhunter is like a professional poker player who has learned to fold his cards any time he is dealt anything less than three queens. Instead. Each Foxhunter will demand the same level of commitment. The other panelists on the show were Leeza Gibbons. and get slaughtered by this type of snake. and one who is willing to go all the way to the altar. because the method is not at all the joke they made it out to be. but it only takes one to produce a lifetime of sex. and god help the Fox who encounters a Speed Seducer without realizing it. but you can position yourself for the rebound. and the rebound potential is strong. I used Speed Seduction patterns on her and within an hour she was on the dance floor with me. If you pursue many Foxes simultaneously. Ross has chosen to apply his knowledge of these techniques to the art of seduction. I was a bit distressed to see Bill Maher and his panel bash Speed Seduction. they fight a very intense. Every time you make a mistake she will wonder if maybe she made a mistake. but only if the Fox accepts him as her soulmate. and we definitely had a typical connection. What makes Foxhunters such dangerous rivals is the reason I became one. brief battle. I probably could have had sex with her that night (her hands were already in the right places on the dance floor). and this also represents dangerous competition. the Fox knows of their interest and you will be competing against it. Foxhunters are your deadliest competition (of course!). Foxhunters detest rivalry.seduction. It is the most straightforward rivalry. while the other Foxhunters have already moved on. and if she is receptive to the technique. try www. There really is no good way to combat a Foxhunter other than to be more appealing to the Fox than he is. and the Fox will either have to pick one of the two men or tell each about the other. specifically hypnosis and neurolinguistic programming (NLP). Gilbert Godfried. and an actress whose name I can't remember. The Fox will be none too pleased that she cannot control your rival. and will imagine them getting what they want from other Foxes (and hearing about it if they stay friends). you will not only be able to absorb the loss. A few years ago I attended a singles function and thought it would be a perfect place to try Speed Seduction. a sub-Elite approached me. this man is nearly impossible to compete against. neither will allow her to pit him against the other.form of romantic slut. Ross's method takes advantage of a their tendency to be polite when approached. Ross really can talk a Fox into bed in an hour or less. we had just met. heed the alarm. it is only because he has already calculated the odds of a successful seduction and determined they are worth the risk. as Ross and his disciples call it. and I was caught off-guard by how well the method was working. Had I continued. holding me rather closely for someone I just met. she will swoon at a rapid pace to the Speed Seducer's silver tongue. If a Foxhunter is in the life of a Fox you have designs on. 1998 evening show which featured a man named Ross Jeffries. Foxes cannot stand this because their power is greatly diminished. it is worth more than a passive mention. It is also the reason that I wrote a book advocating Foxhunting to other men. but she was not quite a Fox. This is why it is crucial to play the numbers: if you focus on only one Fox at a time. waiting for you to leave the picture. and what is worse is that he can make her think it was her idea! Foxes who are seduced by SS are often unaware of what has happened to them.

and to lie about his intentions and what he is doing. Unless you want to become a Speed Seducer yourself. Foxes are very imaginative and tap right into the sexual and romantic imagery men toss at them rapid-fire. and to avoid a nasty war. the best alternative is to make Foxes aware of the method so that if another man tries to use it on her she is prepared. Ross has a fine understanding of how Foxes think. Chapter Eight: Mistakes To Avoid I could easily write a book. you have to keep coming up with cash to keep the Golddigging Fox happy. Laura even followed up her book on mistakes Foxes make with men with The Ten Stupid Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Lives. You can also help them become more resistant to the technique. No one on the right side of the barrier ever complains about its existence. Men are collectively clueless when it comes to seduction. devoted to the mistakes men make with Foxes. but especially if it is just a jerk they allow to hang around them. We must be careful because everyone's definition of a mistake is different. Instead of showing anger over any time that this may have happened to you. The competition is brutal. What makes her so difficult to approach when she has a man in her life is what makes her loyal to you if you are that man. it's all relative. Foxhunting mistakes come in many forms. a mistake is anything that impedes your Foxhunting. many such battles have these nasty overtones. To Dr.practically impose himself on a Fox to get her attention. Laura (or was it David Letterman?). Foxes will insist that they are not vulnerable to speed seduction. and that is a part of Ross's system that every man can learn from. I will list what I consider to be the ten worst mistakes a Foxhunter can make: I. It can be very powerful and seductive. Inspired by Dr. Better to spend your time Foxhunting than fighting Bluto. Foxes are caught off-guard by a man who has the nerve to approach them and try to get them into bed. For this reason. The method is losing its surprise value very rapidly as it becomes known. Even when spending works. Men spend mindboggling amounts of money trying to get Foxes into bed. or even a five-volume set.000 or more each year many men spend on Foxes and non-Elites. I have learned to cautiously approach Foxes who have other men in their lives on any romantic level.000-50. Foxes thrive on men who compete for them. Under my system. Save yours for the Fox you marry. The $5. the less effective it becomes. simply communicate that you had to take steps to prevent it. It is a sign of their desirability to have men vying for their affection. Dr. You can compete for the Fox. would make them millionaires and help the United States economy in the process. Laura or John Gray. Speed Seduction relies on the power of suggestion. As Einstein said. she becomes yours to lose. You can even express indignation over other men who use the method and point Foxes to Ross's website as an example of why you have chosen to be very reserved. It's stupid. All complaints about the system will be ignored as sour grapes from the losers. men who do not share the female perspective on love and sex are making a mistake. like any wise man would. The better-known Speed Seduction becomes. and has marshalled his knowledge into a seduction technique that works like a well-oiled machine for him. if invested in the stock market. imagery that basically just spits their fantasies back to them while they are the nearest guy they can act upon them with. Spending Money To Get Laid Money is not an efficient seducer. but you can point to Ross's success and that of his followers as evidence that they are either lying or kidding themselves. not to feed her ego. but you also have the option not to play. If you can afford this . but don't despair: once you have made progress with a Fox. if they weren't there wouldn't be such a market for this or similar material. A man who spends a month or more courting a Fox only to have a Speed Seducer conquer her in an hour has a right to be cautious. and despite their claims to not reward violence.

it retains its power. and cooking dinner. There is something about taking a man home with her or going to his place that a Fox is going to become hesitant about. and you'll have a lot more of it to use. A setting like this is much more intimate than an expensive restaurant.000 stashed away can be used to attract Foxes with the mere hope that you will spend it on them. Seduction is difficult enough without adding extra roadblocks. It is the most fatal of all seduction flaws. Spending money on a Golddigging Fox is going to deplete your resources. In every coffeehouse I have ever been to. and even in some cases retaliation. Downtime should be filled with one of the activities listed in the time management chapter. Overstepping can occur at any time: when you approach a Fox you thought was receptive. seven days in a week. You will also waste time that could have been better spent working and where your money could have been multiplying instead of disappearing. or break them down just as easily if that is what she wants. Most men make the mistake of reading too much into a Fox's kindness or civility. do it with money and you will reap similar benefits. understepping is the easiest to fix because the Fox is already interested in you. and in fact you actually can gain points by being distant and not making a move. of course) worked in an auction house and made less than $400. dating does not require much money. When you do not spend your money. It is also wiser to save your money for a Fox you know is going to be with you than to spend money on those who have not even shown a meaningful interest in you and may just be using you. Money is a lifeblood which should not be parted with easily. If you are already there. you will be much better off financially. Contrary to popular belief.00 a week. that money is gone as soon as the vacation is over. plus his general outgoing nature and awareness of what Foxes like to do and discuss. This means spending as much of your time as possible Foxhunting. and maybe twenty years of prime attractiveness. This is not random distribution at work. I have found that golddiggers are not worth the expense. but there are also men who do the opposite and fail to exploit genuine windows of opportunity. III. a Foxhunter has many opportunities to Foxhunt. It is the overstepping that should be avoided at all costs. Dating creates an extra hurdle a man must clear before he can get a Fox into bed. One of the most successful players I ever met (in a coffeehouse. fifty-two weeks in a year. either improving your chances with her or your overall reputation. The same $1. Many excellent dates cost little or no money. This is what Foxes do with sex. Time spent with non-Elites is time that could have been spent with a Fox. made him more a more powerful Foxhunter than even most millionaires. there are starving-artist types who have Foxes all over them. mistaking it for romantic interest. and his knowledge of antiques and other collectibles. Walk into any metropolitan coffeehouse if you think money is the only way to seduce a Fox. Hanging Out With Non-Elites Foxhunting is not possible without Foxes.expense. but I avoid expensive dates. The man who oversteps is risking rejection. You get an evening alone. For example. With twenty-four hours in a day. although you usually will have to be more creative. It is an unfortunate reality that a man's reputation depends in large part on who he is seen with. humiliation. you could get a wonderful evening with a Fox for less than $35.000 and usee it to take a Fox on a weekend getaway. Foxes tend to hang out in large concentrations. Of the two problems. go for it. this barrier does not exist. A date like the one mentioned above is good because even though it is intimate. but for most men there are better ways. when you ask for a second date after a first . II. Overstepping (And Understepping) A function of not knowing the score: he who rushes is a fool and he who hesitates is lost. If you have a spare $1. only to get blown off or ignored. a place better suited to taking a Fox after you have slept with her. I don't mind paying for a dinner here and there. and the bedroom isn't exactly a long trip.00 just by purchasing some groceries and a bottle of wine. when you ask her on a date or for her number after a pleasant conversation and she says you had the wrong idea. or whether or not he is seen with a Fox at all. the Fox can still put up walls if she wants. If you could find out on or even before a first date if sex is going to occur. His job gave him access (lots of Foxes go to auctions). because I'm just as quick to treat my friends occasionally as I would a Fox.

The Fox who sees that you are not rattled by her treatment of you will often reverse her treatment of you. If your sexual technique really sucks. Foxes value the emotional closeness of a lover as much or more as his technique. About a zillion books and other manuals have been written which do this. Call this Fox Immunity. Completing your seduction of a Fox -.e. IV. Change your attitude when things aren't going your way and Foxes will know you are faking it. Appear the true Foxhunter at all times. Pass the test and they gain respect for you. having sex with her þ requires two basic skills: The ability to arouse her sexually. Not Knowing How To Close The Deal Many men who cannot get Foxes to even talk to them might be surprised to find out that even if they had one naked on their bed they would still mess up. and if she doesn't she has defeated her argument. Exacerbating the problem is that many Foxes enjoy teasing. you know you never had a chance. buy some books and manuals. letting a man think he has a chance until he oversteps and the Fox laughs at him. even the bad ones. V. or even when you are in a relationship where you think she'll be receptive to a sexual advance and she slams the door in your face. Usually she will defend her gender and tell you that not all Foxes are like that. you can take advantage of what appears to be an inferior position. In each case. preferably at a respectable and difficult school (New York has the best). even though she was. The ability to turn off their hormones and walk away from an unfavorable . A Fox might mistreat you just to see if you can tolerate it. This will solve most or all of your problems in this department. Unless you know how to seduce a Fox from start to finish you will wind up like a sports team that takes a lead into the fourth quarter but fails to close out the victory..i. offering a challenge. Not Holding Your Ground Setups are something you will have to watch out for. because the first thing a Fox will do when she sees a man who has self-control is try to get him to lose his cool. Examples of holding your ground include not repeatedly calling a Fox who has not called you. Consistency is most important. but didn't. If she accepts the move you have made progress.date you thought went well. See the next section for an explanation of the advantage of first contact. Mention to a Fox how you have been burned in the past and how difficult it is to trust anyone. or do whatever you think is appropriate.at the first sign of trouble. or just dive right in. even though she'll try to save face by explaining that she wasn't doing the same thing. especially with so many other men so eager to please her. It is essential that you not lose your cool under any circumstances. For this to happen. even if you are in the middle of sex when trouble hits.cold turkey -. This is not the Letters To Penthouse. a certain percentage of Foxes you talk to who show no interest initially will change their tune down the road. As long as you don't make certain fatal errors. and The ability to stop -. When you get blown out. learn the Kama Sutra. Avoiding overstepping is very simple. not speaking to one who has rejected you or ignored a move. so I will not be covering #1 with the depth it deserves. you have to be consistent. and rejecting friendship or terminating an existing friendship once it becomes clear you cannot become lovers. Almost seducing a Fox is a lot more painful than not coming close at all. knowing full well she can plausibly deny having led him on. Beyond that. use non-Elites for practice. but it doesn't fly here. It is still not wise to ignore this vital skill. Failing to close out an apparent victory is crushing. Some Foxes will get you to pursue them just to prove that you like them and then slam the door. The underdog covering the pointspread without winning may be nice in Vegas. One tip I would give any man who is having difficulty with closing the deal is to take formal training in massage. giving you a window of opportunity to make a move.

they instead try to appear tough.their minds -." Then walk away. you are right. If they really are disappointed that you aren't pursuing them.situation separates Foxhunters from other men. I'm sure we all have seen a geek or two try to impersonate a jock or a smooth talker and fail miserably. Now that the information age is upon us. If you are a young geek. pause. Stereotypes aside. Not Playing To Your Strong Suit Geeks!! Geeks!!!!! Pay attention!! Here's why you mess up with girls. geeks can count on Foxes needing them to solve computer problems.is that he is losing because he is trying to be something he is not. when she will ask why she dated such an idiot). but not necessarily. but I'm peoplesmart. We assume that this is the geek's lot in life. Foxes delight in letting you think you are seducing them and stopping you cold the moment you attempt to cash in.instead. because you might find yourself tested by a Fox who tries . giving them utility to work with. We definitely shouldn't. say something like "You know. they can always pursue you or roll out the red carpet for you. we shouldn't. you have spared yourself a ton of grief. Rather than being yourself. look at her. it shows that you are using your brain. with the added dimension that they can become filthy rich overnight. My next book may very well be titled Seduction For Geeks. If they aren't disappointed. That a geek is not patient. A typical scenario involves a Fox who changes her mind after you have been making out and her clothes are off. If she says something like no. and using their brilliant minds to attract and seduce. One word: Gates. Ever hear a Fox tell you to be yourself? That advice is an oversimplification. avoiding Foxes who do not want them. fashionable. This is illogical. odds are once you pass her little test she'll want you back. even if you are a geek. and makes her seem a bit shallow and immature by not considering you until you are older and more financially successful. the quarterback knows not to try to win over a Fox with his brain. be a better version of yourself and you'll do fine. I'll leave the geeks with a few tips: Always go for friendship rather than romance with a Fox no matter how interested you are. Instead of presenting himself well. If you aren't winning. but Foxes do not think like Spock. Most Foxes need at least one geek in their lives. and wind up looking as much like a fish-out-of-water as a typical quarterback would look if he tried to impress a Fox with a lecture on world affairs. and often will say something simple like "I'm not book-smart. because Foxes want you to be yourself not because they will love you for it but because they want to be able to judge you properly. or further decline the offer and let her up the ante. because it takes away any Fox's ability to reject you. Don't wait for her to say anything. he lacks wisdom. waiting patiently to be approached (most Foxes will do this out of curiosity). that he is doomed to a life of failure. which I will not name) have gotten miles of laughter out of scenarios that have geeks flexing their nonexistent muscles to impress a Disinterested Fox. stop playing until you know how to win. A geek's logical mind sees athletes and artists getting the girls." knowing full well that the Fox will overlook this one deficiency and focus on his other traits (until the breakup. tell Foxes you do not plan to date until you are 25 years old because that is the age men like you begin to be appreciated. pursues under unfavorable circumstances. VI. and he assumes that if he mimics their behavior his results will be identical. but the advice is still sound. and in the explanation is a lesson for all men of all ages. sophisticated. With the advent of the computer era. Many sitcoms (one in particular. What the geek fails to realize -. If they don't like the real you they won't reward you for being yourself. Geeks suspend their marvelous intellect and make a fools of themselves by trying to be smooth when they should be playing to their strong suit -. No reason to be a masochist. but for now. geeks have status previously held by handymen. Refusing to allow yourself to be shot down will improve Foxes' opinion of you. just take a minute. Be convincing. and does not change his methods even in the face of repeated failure shows that while he may have raw intellect. This is a very subtle and very deadly tactic. At this point you can either tell her you aren't in the mood for games and make her do something ridiculous to prove herself.something his less intelligent but wiser rivals know instinctively -.

remembering birthdays. figuring that if other Foxes want him. By poking fun at yourself you display a trait Foxes love (humor).it will become second nature. If men without Foxes are seen as losers who cannot get laid.especially as the Foxes you talk about seducing become more real and less a product of your fantasy -. and that you are in touch with who you are. and unless they are Teaching Foxes. Use your gimmick to make friends. My favorite gimmick in the world is tarot card reading. and you are valued for what you have to offer instead of being taunted for what you lack. strut your strong points. dress sexier. What I never understood about the geeks is how they can be so intelligent yet miss these basic concepts. Foxes have an addiction to information which might help their love lives. in fact. Develop a gimmick. The feminist groups who decry erotica and adult movies for portraying Foxes unrealistically are conspicuously silent on female porn. It is important to convey to Foxes at all times. you are three-quarters of the way home. they are going to place you in the loser file the moment you complain about failure. express reluctance. Foxes want men who know how to seduce them! They want to be led. If she bails out on you. The logic is flawed. which portray men doing equally unrealistic things like desiring monogamy. nonverbally whenever possible. It is almost foolproof. even in the beginning. but it is the flip side of the problem men who are alone have. Should this happen. Self-acceptance and preemptive strikes (being too intelligent to ask out a Fox you know is going to reject you) are a geek's best bets. that you are knowledgeable and in control. Then go back to your solitude and the pursuit of tech fame and fortune. VII. and to have other Foxes respecting your high standards.to break down your wall (it's the wall she's interested in. captivated. and you gain their respect. but damage control is very difficult. but not to seduce. there must be a good reason. Some Foxes will even see that you have long-term potential and might even help you along the way to romantic success. not you). and be more aggressive? It more acceptable for men to accommodate female fantasies than the reverse. If you convey that you know how to seduce Foxes and act like they aren't worth seducing. A Fox who senses that you are just trying to score with your gimmick will reject it on principle. Foxes rarely forgive mistakes. because "the cards" are doing the reading and not you. Over time -. Asking Foxes For Seduction Advice The problem with asking a Fox for seduction advice is that in doing so you have conveyed to her a very fatal seduction flaw. Acknowledge your nature. VIII. and usually not worth it. and taking their shirts off for no apparent reason. What do you suppose would happen if a man advised a non-Elite who wanted a boyfriend to lose weight. Your looks don't matter as much. and suddenly you have perfect gender equality in pornography. men with Foxes are seen as winners who can. namely romance novels and soap operas. even as friends. Foxes advise men to do what they want them to do. but don't hide it either. Don't advertise being a geek. Combine this with a good gimmick and an unwillingness to allow Foxes to humiliate you. Just knowing you want a Fox is enough to send the non-Elites into a hissy fit because they lose their power over you. along with the most confusing love lives. recover as quickly as possible. show no emotion and act like you knew it was coming. If this happens. not what men truly want for themselves. Once you do this. and to gain favor. Short-Term Thinking . Substitute the female romantic drive for the male sex drive. Gimmicks are great because they can do your attracting for you. You do not have to lie. especially if you are 17 years old and "not dating until 25. It takes only one moment of weakness for the entire confidence posture to fail." Foxes are much quicker to be nice to those who do not ask for it or expect it. Foxes gravitate to men who have other Foxes around them. as long as you don't go overboard.

But the reality is the same: if money and rejection were not factors. you aren't circulating properly. but not that often). For me to pursue a Fox. Becoming desirable pays off big down the road. the central thesis is that if it weren't for sex. and because your attention feeds their ego and reinforces the image of popularity that they are always projecting. This actually puts you in an incredibly strong position. Under favorable circumstances. or she must be so incredible that the rewards justify the risk. The lone exception to this rule occurs when I have such a clear shot at a Fox that it is not likely I will ever have one again. Most Foxes are perfectly willing to become just friends with you so they can use you. The first thing to do is not pursue her at all. or all three. Another reality is that a man who states this desire. Darwin posited that a man's first instinct is to build a Fox Harem. Not surprisingly. A Foxhunter does not have to pursue because he appears desirable enough and unattainable enough for the Foxes to pursue him. if she is receptive. I discuss the importance of letting the clock tick when the odds are not in one's favor. is going to get flack for it from everyone. this is not possible for every man to achieve. and even be called bad. and let the clock tick. has a clear look at the basket. if not. this makes letting the clock tick even more powerful. written by authors I will refer to only as the Three Little Pigs. When you meet a Fox. If you do not find yourself being approached by Available Foxes. Obviously. most men wouldn't bother marrying. Is this what he really wants? Darwin's research says no. your last instinct should be to pursue her (unless the conditions for pursuit are entirely in your favor). she has to be available and she must have approached me first. Wanting What Foxes Tell You To Want Ever hear a man say he's looking for a monogamous relationship? Maybe he is. don't invest any emotional energy in her. The one-and-only approach gives Foxes way too much power. they hook up. For the most part. your odds of success skyrocket. most men would have obedient Fox Harems that serve their every whim. Foxes are more receptive to men who do not hit on them. either your CUPID rating is too low. Take what nature gives you þ a Friendly Fox you never allow to reject you. they are correct: men have relationships because they want sex and Foxes have sex because they want relationships. your technique sucks. My question is simple: why is a natural desire in any way bad? I would think it is worse for a man to be conditioned by rejection into wanting something he really does not want. A three-point shot in the NBA is more likely to connect if the shooter is open. just become her friend. unless his CUPID rating is Elite. your competition will often mess up. Nothing ensures fair treatment from a Fox more than competition of equal or greater value. or for any man to even come close to. it's no wonder (see mistake VII). Even when a man is not succeeding with this approach. and in the event this does not happen. they move on to the next one. In the book What Men Want. There will come a point at which her lover becomes her ex-lover (or her husband. and doesn't have a swarm of defenders in his face. you never create the benefits of competition. he still won't alter it most of the time. The man who has a correctable flaw and does not take the trouble to eliminate it pays a price. While you are doing nothing. By considering only one Fox at a time. With Foxes advising men to adopt this strategy. Multiple options are a major key to success. Most men are just so inept at fulfilling their natural desires that they find it easier to submit to the collective whims of society and go for a monogamous relationship that de- . and where her closer friends than you will make ill-timed advances and exit her life unceremoniously. In Chapter Fourteen. Another reason not to pursue one Fox at a time is that the odds that a Fox is already taken when you meet her are over 90 percent (my number is 93). Do this with multiple Foxes and you will one day wake up with hordes of Foxes in your life who become available at regular intervals. sexual and otherwise. I often laugh at Foxes who wonder why men cheat in one breath while judging a man on the basis of his appeal to other Foxes the next. IX.Most men approach seduction by finding a Fox they like and pursuing her. The odds that a Fox who is not engaged or married when you meet her will become available within a year are 70 percent. he waits for an ideal opportunity to pursue. Why not use this to your advantage and surround yourself with Friendly Foxes that you never pursue? Being seen with Foxy company will help your reputation immensely.

Regardless of how much Foxes dislike you for being a Foxhunter. Foxes will respect your control of your destiny. Why do you care about their opinions? The idea that you are getting what you want despite your attitude. It is annoying to want a Fox for her body and be punished for it. As Penn students make the transition from struggling academes to well-paid pillars of corporate America. You present the ultimate challenge for them to tame you into a relationship (the Concession Fox." (Of course he wants a friend and someone he can talk to. chapter ten). but there has to be more. but they marry nice guys. What do you think of men who use women for sex and then dump them? "I can't stand them. that you know what you want and how to get it. they can't really do anything about it beyond not dating you (and badmouthing you). Watching the man is even more annoying. Another way of handling this attack is pointing out that other men are no different than you." (After they are thirty. even if the Foxes protest. Even if it makes you unpopular. their looks are gone. Any indication of propaganda and it will backfire. Do nice guys finish last? "No. yadda-yadda-yadda. with more good years in front of her. you lose nothing. or why she would want to reproduce the jerk and let the nice guy raise his kids. Listen to men talk about relationships and you will see just how deep this conditioning runs: Do looks count? "Of course. A man can play a denial game where he either convinces a Fox that he is not into her body. or she knows full well that he is but wants him for shallow reasons of her own.emphasizes female looks. I do have a problem with a Deteriorating Fox who gave an all-you-can-eat buffet to some loser and tried to stick me with the dinner check. Women may date bad boys. If I complain. Not Knowing The Score A long time ago. When confronted with this situation I simply tell the Fox in question that she is dreaming if she thinks her man is any different than me. and then watch her parade her lover around as an example of a mature. Beneath their disapproving surface. but later admit that I am right and I will recover the points I lost and then some because I held my ground." (Of course they do because they get what most men cannot). something Foxes are spared. a best friend. and the man will say I am just a loser who doesn't get it. A great bargaining chip is the Foxhunter's tolerance for being alone. there's little they can do about it except call you a pig. even when it appeared to be getting me nowhere. This fails to explain why the bad-boy gets the Fox when she's undamaged. or that he is but there are other factors attracting him (usually a lie). A Fox's ability to get a man easily makes it look even worse when she picks the wrong ones repeatedly from such a large selection. but you are also being honest. or why a nice-guy should have to endure a decade or more of hell in the dating game to get the supposed rewards of being a decent man. and even though they will not like what you say. at deeply discounted prices. If he didn't he wouldn't get sex as often or even at all). even if they ostracize you. hold your ground! You may sound like a pig. and they have three kids and a stalking ex-husband). because I know that he is only being relaxed and calm because he knows it is going to get him what he wants. which will almost always exceed that of Foxes. It was at one such . and will resent that you do not consider them a Fox (because you aren't pursuing them). is going to bother them. This process works best when unforced. and over time I am usually proven right. better-looking. A Foxhunter will have none of this. his value system would push him away from Foxes who had something he didn't care about but other men did. It's like one of those movies where the protagonist is not believed until it is too late. on our tenth wedding anniversary. the Fox will say I am jealous I cannot have her. A man who truly did not care about looks would not be dating one Fox after another. What do you want from a relationship? "A lover. They give other men a bad name. an annual ritual where I live. someone I can talk to. She will get mad at first. X. A gentleman is nothing more than a patient wolf." (She also has to say yes). sophisticated man who looks beyond the physical. I met a sub-Elite at a spring furniture sale. they leave behind the trappings of college life. without giving them the chance to reject you themselves. I attribute this to the rejection men have to deal with early in life. and because you are not pursuing the Foxes you tell this to. Foxes are always telling men to be honest. I have often said that I have no problem with dating a thirty year-old Fox. and you are just being honest about it.

The result was a 10. but did not act upon it. These traps include: . but instead to the traps that Foxes set for you. a window which was open for only a split-second. Then I cashed out. turned to her. I normally don't hit on Neighborly Foxes. I didn't ask for her number. I surveyed the landscape. office workers. With Lila. must be won from start to finish. because they overstep naturally. The same applies to waitresses. I even commented on how impressed she must have been with my wardrobe and she kept laughing. A book of Foxtraps would not be difficult to write. how many would have overplayed their hand instead of cashing out after giving the compliment and letting her make the next move? Games. or just engaging you in conversation. but we had met before she moved in so I exempted her. costing men many jobs. Fox Traps I refer here not to how to trap a Fox. Another problem with responding to Foxes at their jobs is that their employers are more likely to not hire men because Foxes attract more customers. and said exactly what was on her mind: Boy that sucks! The tone of my voice was such that she got the impression I was not trying to hit on her (I wasn't). Today I would close the deal without thinking. but if I had the odds of my getting it would still have been better than if I had tried some lame pickup line. flight attendants. what you seek in a lover. I was guilty on both counts. I commented on this and she said "Yes. men should not hit on Working Foxes. One reason gimmicks are so powerful is that they create perpetual windows of opportunity. As the cars whizzed by. until I had gotten about ten steps past her and realized what was going on. With sexual harassment a nationwide problem. Lila and I were in the same elevator. Windows of opportunity can appear anywhere at any time.minute flirtation with a Fox. He who doesn't know the score is clueless. I had learned in the meantime that she was taken. it wouldn't surprise me if the Secret Society Of Foxes (SSOF) distributed copies to every Fox on earth. especially if you work to create them. How do I look?" In a flash of inspiration I said only this: Pretty. A Fox behind a retail counter does not qualify as a window of opportunity due to forced interaction. We were crossing the street and in the middle of the crosswalk we were both trapped. Lila wound up living in my building and we were civil to each other whenever we crossed paths. One evening. Other examples include a Fox asking you about your love life. and after that we were still civil whenever we saw each other. About two years later. Very pretty. but how many would have set the table with the remark in the elevator? Of those who would. I was entering the lobby one evening and Lila was standing there smiling and making direct eye contact with me. I am. but when she laughed I kept talking to her. and other Foxes that men seem to think that they can build their love lives around. Men who are inept at recognizing genuine windows fail to understand the difference between a Fox who wants to talk to you and a Fox who has to talk to you. Improvisation is essential to Foxhunting. most men would have known what to do instinctively in the lobby. unbeknownst to men. He who hesitates is lost. I remember thinking at the time that she was pretty. but at the time I was so clueless that I did not recognize that the window of opportunity I had created in the elevator was paying off because I chose to let the clock tick. neighbors. Know the score!! Foxhunting is going to create opportunity much more effectively than trying to force an advantage. despite my being dressed almost like a bum and her wearing incredibly stylish clothes.sale that I met Lila. and the way every Fox seems to know them and use them. did nothing further. especially mating games. Consequently. My mind had been so conditioned to her ignoring my interest that by the time she reciprocated I didn't even realize what she was doing!! At that point the spell was broken and she moved onto another guy before we even crossed paths again. I walked right past Lila without a second thought. The trick is not to overstep and to take the small advantages along with the big ones. I once exploited a window of opportunity I could not have foreseen. and she looked very worn down and exhausted.

Some Foxes will want you to actually fight for them. and as long as you get back from them something of equal value to what you give. Foxes may love being the focus of your desire. If this happens. No two Foxes or situations are identical. The antidote is to call her a tease and not take seriously her advances from that point forward. The entire process takes a half-second. or ending a conversation before she has to. Foxhunting cures this problem. To intellectualize this process or continually second-guess yourself is fatal. For lack of a better term. you won't have problems. For a man to part with his valuable time and labor in return for merely being able to talk to a Fox makes it difficult for men who don't put out. Another favorite trick: the Fox rejects a man when she is taken on the grounds that she is in a relationship. The Fox who truly wants to go out with you will not pass up the opportunity without immediately rescheduling. Foxhunting turns the tables by making them wish you weren't so distant. treat the date as if it were broken and you were rejected. or it can be minor. Foxes have problems rejecting men. but you can cut your losses by refusing to continue with a Fox after she pulls it on you. the better. The earlier you put a stop to any problem. If Foxes didn't want men who were distant. Heed it and give up at exactly this point. but when the desire is unwanted. you will find yourself having to deal with tactical errors like the one I made with Lila. and instead of being direct.The Clark Kent Trap. You want her to talk to you. and the "friendship" centers around her needing something from you. will actually agree to a date and then cancel it over the phone rather than face-to-face. you can find yourself playing either role. Teasing. Her options are to stop teasing or follow through. she cancels (usually at the last minute) and does not reschedule. The next section explains the method I designed to avoid Fox Traps and Foxhunting mistakes.and-done rule explained in the next chapter. Even though the Fox will insist that she is not pulling the Date Switch. I avoid this trap by ceasing pursuit the first time it is sprung and by communicating that I have no interest in being Popeye or Bluto. Teasing Foxes respect men who can see through them. The Utility Trap. Foxes love to let men think they are making progress and then slam the door without warning. Just as men lose respect for Foxes who are too easy sexually. The Expectations Trap. The trap shuts when she ends that relationship and moves to another relationship without giving him a chance in between. You cannot prevent this. My advice is to not let this happen. A Fox who pulls the Guy Switch has sent the clearest possible rejection signal. . Either you get sex or the satisfaction of calling a tease a tease. they want you not to act on it. Men fall into this trap because they lack other ideas on how to approach Foxes. One such signal should be sufficient for you to assume rejection and implement the one. rarely will she ever be telling the truth. Foxhunting may sound cold and impersonal. and where forgetting her is the only option. Foxes lose respect for men who are too easy emotionally. If you are not careful. realize you will wind up spending your life like the cartoon characters who do nothing but fight to win her love. while others will just test you repeatedly by pitting you against other men. The Bluto Trap. The Date Switch. however. The Utility Fox's bread-and-butter (see chapter ten). So many men let Foxes use them for one favor after another in the hope that it will result in sex. Olive just loves watching Popeye and Bluto duke it out. If this happens to you even once. and no matter what any system says. this trap occurs the first time a Fox treats you in a manner she would not treat a lover. Take the example of a major-league baseball player explaining how to hit a 90 mph fastball. even though it was they who required you to keep a distance in the first place. but you could spend hours explaining it. like extolling her boyfriend's good points. you have yourself a Teasing Fox. The name is derived from Lois Lane's two-faced treatment of Superman/Clark. While it is true that utility will ingratiate you into a Fox's life. The Guy Switch. it will rarely lead to sex. like refusing an opportunity to be alone with you or become more intimate. they would not rig the game so that men had to keep their cards close to the vest in order to succeed. For just about every situation I find myself in with a Fox. you are still going to have to judge each case individually. The signal can be major. Utility Foxes have a purpose. Once you eliminate these mistakes. but it is necessary to be a bit distant in a game where you can be short-circuited by a Fox. The hitter who has to think about what he is doing while at bat will strike out every time. If you sense that a Fox is using you as her goon. You make a date. I have a plan of action. The mistakes and traps in this chapter can be fixed with simple adjustments.

developing a gimmick. online or offline. There is always something you can be doing to improve yourself or your chances. finding one should become your full-time job. Even if you reject Golddigging Foxes. There is no need to let another man's bad reputation ruin yours. he became very successful at his endeavor. and Foxes accepting you as you are. or circulating so that I come into contact with more Foxes and the ones I come into contact with are more likely to want me. Would you rather spend 30 hours a week playing chess or giving thirty one-hour psychic readings to appreciative Foxes? Chessplayers have no sympathy for their defeated opponents who do not study. you can still point out to any . The trick is teaching yourself to think in the long-term and not the short term. You can occasionally lower your standards if you truly feel the need for female companionship. why should Foxhunters? Spend money unnecessarily. If you devote as much of your "unemployment" time as possible to finding a job. With the advent of the internet. One effective time-management tool is to establish your priorities. in any part of the country or even the world. which escapes me) was about a man who dedicated his life to the seduction of Foxes in New York and literally built his entire life around the goal. and your Foxhunting will benefit. but you shouldn't deceive the nonElites you are temporarily settling for. it is possible to Foxhunt at any time of the day or night. The more money you accumulate over time. Here are mine: Sex with a Fox. except for leap years. Most will say that when you do not have a job. Not surprisingly. Spend it on hobbies that are not gimmicks. and in each hour there are sixty minutes. You may like chess and star trek conventions.Chapter Nine: Time Management In each day there are twenty-four hours. Dating a Fox. Even if they whine and complain when you move on. What are you doing with that time? One book I read which left a lasting impression on me (but not through its title. Meeting and talking to Foxes. In each week there are seven days. you are more likely to find one. That's a lot of time for an accomplished Foxhunter to go about his business. Put Foxhunters in place of the losers. it won't get you laid so forget that little fantasy. the more appealing you are going to be to Foxes. To understand the role of time management in your Foxhunting.014285772 weeks. Anything other than the six activities listed above are counterproductive. Improving my CUPID rating. and in each year 52. and they are correct. but the same time spent Foxhunting will yield a much better return. think of the advice given to job hunters. What you should not do with your time is the following: Spend it with loser men. they cannot accuse you of misleading them. For all the talk about being yourself and doing what you want. Going out as friends with a Fox and building my overall reputation. How much of your time is spent doing each activity? Note that #5 is possible at any time. Sex with a sub-Elite. and the more money you will have to attract them with and to implement your dating ideas.

You cannot count on individual Foxes. More advanced time-management angles include taking jobs which give you access to Foxes. The man whose CUPID rating is 40 would do much better to raise it to the sub-Elite range or beyond than to circulate among Foxes who reject him. which do you think would yield better results? The same applies to New Year's Eve. you have every right to circulate fully. Once your CUPID rating is maximized. and while you may not spend a lot of money dating (a bad investment). and by doing so you will often unmask Foxes who wish you were not looking elsewhere. first by getting rejected. and practicing their Foxhunting on the internet because looks are irrelevant at first. The only exception is the Fox you use to help build your reputation. It also applies to hobbies that do not appeal to Foxes. I know how to meet Foxes. Spend it destroying your CUPID rating. plop yourself in a coffeehouse with the Wall Street Journal and/or the Financial Times and engross yourself in your work while ignoring the Foxes around you. complete control over the environment. Joining a club that has one or two Foxes and fifty men wanting them is not going to help you a lot. you can park in a chat room devoted to that topic while you are surfing the internet to check your investments. Regardless of your situation. or wants to be friends with you. creating the ideal conditions necessary for pursuit. this includes doing things which destroy your looks or your mind. you can improve it. CUPID And Time Management The higher your CUPID rating. Patrick's Day in a library or in an Irish tavern with 300 Drunk Foxes. devote your time first to meeting Foxes. and other times where Foxes come out in droves. then among those date the ones who are available and interested. unless rejection does not bother you. or activities which deplete your bank account. For the same impact offline. If you had a choice between spending St. and from there I know how to convince them to date me and want to go to bed with me. once you marry you will be very generous and provide well for your family. If a Fox is not interested in you. Men with low CUPID ratings should focus their time first on maximizing their rating. or living in Fox-heavy environments. In addition to wasting money. move on. how to get them to approach me. and from there you can move on to sex and finally a relationship. but even then limit your interaction with her to times when she will actually help you. If you spend a year becoming an expert on figure skating or gymnastics you are going to meet many more Foxes than you will playing chess. I recommend that you focus your efforts on one step of the process at a time and not try to score immediately. Even if you don't actively damage your CUPID rating you are harming yourself by not maximizing it.Fox that you want your family to be provided for. then to becoming friends with a few (so you can build your rep). but not to the extent that people think it is. For example. Even if you have a career. the less effort you will have to put into your Foxhunting. Until a Fox has claimed you. To put the odds in your favor. and instant status. but you can play the percentages. the day after Valentine's Day (rebound day!). Ignoring Foxes and not pursuing them except under ideal conditions is the correct strategy anyway. Take stock of what you are doing with your time and see how you can improve yourself and your chances. managing a coffeehouse will because it gives you access. Spend it pursuing low-percentage Foxes. I know this from personal experience. The standard advice to pursue your interests to meet members of the opposite sex is valid. like drinking and doing drugs or eating too much. taking a job one night a week in a social environment will improve your circulation. Systematically improving your chances is second nature to the skilled Foxhunter. It makes sense for a man who is getting rejected time and time again to stop playing the game until the odds are more in his favor. if you like the financial markets. Fall down at any step of the process and your work will . and you might wind up approached by a Fox interested in investment advice. Spend it in places that are not Fox-heavy. and again by letting your time get eaten alive by a Fox who is more than happy to use it to satisfy her need for friendship without satisfying your need for sex. you need something to offer them. but to get them to approach you. If you do not follow this advice you lose twice. Only an idiot bangs his head against a brick wall.

talking. Until you are actually having sex with actual Foxes. and almost without exception I wind up with Foxes who have brains. the advantage created by first contact for the person approached sustains itself throughout the relationship. If you approach a Fox. Her CUPID Rating. Foxes with high CUPID ratings tend to have high standards and the ability to have those standards met.m. the odds of success increase. phone number. If first contact were not poison. the lower your chances. a date. or even a response to your greeting. A co-worker you will see the next day at work is not the same as a Party Fox you met at 11:00 p. It is necessary to first examine universal concepts of pursuit. the more likely you will succeed. your work is not done. as practice makes perfect in most areas of life. Variables Affecting Pursuit They include: Your CUPID Rating. I'm lucky in this respect because my value system emphasizes brains more than that of other men. The more your value system mimics society's. Your assessment of her personality is going to be strongly influenced by her fundamental attraction to you. because most other men do not value a large part of who they are. Oddly enough. one who wants you will show you her best. This should not be surprising. work. dating. because seduction is anything but linear: the steps of meeting. If you have what she wants. Behavior is a function of attraction! We call Foxes nice or stuck-up because of how they treat us. on New Year's Eve and hit it off fabulously with. Be aggressive with a Fox in direct proportion to how closely you will have to interact with her in the future. and because these Foxes value my brains more than their less-intelligent Foxy rivals.be for nothing. and vice versa. It covers principles which apply to all aspects of seduction. The higher your CUPID rating. pursuit principles apply. Steps back and forth are taken in a very complex mating dance. or you are neighbors). First contact plays a role in this as much or more as Foxes' fickle behavior. Your Partner Ratings. In forced-interaction situations (i. . proceed with more caution than you would in an unforced environment. The Personality Myth illustrates our tendency to believe that people are inherently nice or not-nice. A Fox who is not attracted to you is not going to want you liking her. and having sex are often combined or skipped. and those who are the most successful at whatever they do tend to be the ones who work the hardest and the smartest Chapter Ten: Pursuing Foxes This section lays the groundwork for becoming a Foxhunter. Whether your goal is sex. The man who complains that Foxes won't talk to him would not be happy once he overcomes that hurdle. How You Met. These are your CUPID ratings in each other's eyes. and you will have to overcome one obstacle at a time.e. the odds of success for whatever you are pursuing her for are at least four times worse than if she approaches you. school. First Contact. The person making first contact is three times more likely to wind up dumped. from the first meeting to sex. nor would the man who claimed that all he wanted was dates. or the higher your partner rating to the Fox you are pursuing. a good-night-kiss. Everyone has to start somewhere. or the lower your partner rating to her. since Foxes avoid making first contact and are the ones who initiate 90 percent of breakups and 65 percent of divorces. no matter how deep you go into the relationship. the more likely you are to encounter crowds of other men surrounding the Foxes you want.. and will show you her worst side. The higher her CUPID rating. This should be no surprise. Foxes would not avoid making it like the plague. without analyzing their overall behavior.

Foxes are more likely to be lied to by players for the same reason rich men are more likely to be conned by scam artists. Perseverance paid off when I asked the players themselves about the Foxes they seduced and got my answer. remember that this is the quickest path to better results. More often than not. developing your mind. My research clearly indicates that most men are capable of raising their CUPID rating dramatically. You won't win every race. Looks are rewarded the most. Your CUPID Rating If you are an Elite (80+).4 That is sub-Elite. give them two years to devote exclusively to building their CUPID ratings. All the advice in the world will not help you as much as adding points to your CUPID rating. maybe even as a lover for them. An argument could also be made that you are no better than they are because you want Foxes for the same reasons they do. If you spend your idle time polishing your CUPID rating. it is wise to use CUPID to exploit your strengths while shoring up your weaknesses. If you are one of those men who has not had a date in a while. It is assumed you are available if you are considering a Fox for pursuit. Until you have made every effort to achieve this. and most of the time you would wind up with at least this: Category Score CUPID Pts Looks 18. will be taken when you meet them. you will become more appealing to Foxes. It is assumed that you are interested if you are concerned with whether or not a Fox wants you. Men need to learn to tell the difference between civility and desire. you will find yourself with CUPID Groupies (CUPIES?). you will avoid most of the players as romantic rivals. and make money. dressing well. most Foxes will find you acceptable as a friend. and if you have Foxhunted properly. and you will find people who are out of shape. The laws of supply-and-demand give Foxes amazing bargaining power. wise up. but rarely will you be left in the dust.0 39.0 05. Most players do not approach non-Elites. In the course of my research. For men.0 12. If you chase sub-Elites and Brainy Foxes. she doesn't. and who aren't exactly the sexiest group in the world. as a lover for a friend. not some novel opening line that will become cliche.8 Money 12. but they definitely are not treated alike. Eventually your rating will be so high that Foxes wind up approaching you. you have fewer distractions and more time to work out. appearing taken and uninterested will help you. being unavailable is a big plus.0 Total N/A 67.Availability. dress terribly. First Contact . The only exception occurs with your highest-scoring category because of the groupie factor. All seven factors will be examined in this chapter.0 Personality 25. The higher a Fox's overall CUPID rating. If your CUPID rating is higher than 60 (sub-elite). but this is especially true of her looks score. Foxes whose value system is tailored to someone with your distribution. the greater her leverage. followed by intelligence and money. and even if you aren't taken. a ranking that can be achieved relatively easily by working out.6 Brains 16. I could never quite put my finger on why until recently. on the other hand. an airport or train station. Visit a looksneutral environment like the Department of Motor Vehicles. someone who values most what you have to offer. you do not need this book to help you get laid.5 10. Disneyland. Take 100 of the men at random. When you factor partner ratings into the equation. Most Foxes. and improving your status or personality. Be conservative in your interpretation of signals. For the other 95 percent of the population. Interest. I noticed one very peculiar trend: Foxes are easy targets for players. Her CUPID Rating Foxes may think alike.

in neutral environments. A signal counts as half a first contact. If you are one of those men who values brains and status more than looks in a female. ask her out. and creating the possibility that she will become a Returning Fox (see below) in the future. treat her as nothing more than a friend. and men mistake this for opportunity. but all it takes to change your life is one. but not as much as if you wait for an actual approach. not try to exploit a sham opportunity. and you have no way of knowing how she might react. or spare you rejection if uninterested.A Fox who approaches you is four times more likely to go out with you than one you approach. and those you approach as potential friends. Under the partner rating system. This is a weakness in the man. Combine this with a solid reputation and the impression is given that you are someone a Fox would want approaching her. You will always do better with Foxes who want what you have. If a Fox smiles at you and makes eye contact. but that is true only if you do not pursue. Treat Foxes who approach you as potential lovers. If she has to deal with you. In a forced-interaction situation. If a Fox approaches you. If she rejects you. there are three looksdigging Foxes for every minddigging or golddigging Fox. Foxes you meet on even terms. and your seduction problems will solve themselves rather quickly. and by not doing so you reject them by omission and become even more desirable. If you find yourself always making first contact. and it pains me to think of how much time and energy they are wasting. CUPID Partner Ratings Over time. If your interaction with a Fox is forced. Signals. Developing . but even in the beginning they are helpful. she has no means of escape. leaving her without whatever it was she approached you for. but brains and status will attract minddiggers and golddiggers alike. Because they approached you. Most men will not wait for Foxes to approach them because weaknesses in their CUPID ratings and the lack of gimmicks leaves them with few approaches by Foxes. On the surface it appears that these Foxes offer the best opportunity. your CUPID rating and the distribution of your raw scores will determine which Foxes are most likely to want you. developing a gimmick. Men are conditioned to be the aggressors. to mention) the damage they are doing to their reputation. Men use forced interaction to compensate for deficiencies. this will increase your chances a bit. Ignoring a signal is seen as rejection by omission. you will do much better sacrificing looks points for Foxes who have these traits. The Foxes who would not give men the time of day in a social setting will be civil or friendly in forced interaction environments. Looks are the best category to excel in. pursue her politely. there is no damage to your reputation and you cannot even be called rude for asking them out. and who make first contact are the ideal candidates for seduction. telegraphing their interest before a conversation has even begun. Never make first contact with a Forced Interaction Fox!! If she makes contact with you. this is forced interaction. The result is that they will wind up approaching you. it is time to consider improving your CUPID rating. If you approach a Fox. As a rule. and will improve your chances of them approaching you even further. So often I see men writing about Foxes they work with and how they would like to ask them out. your interest was not solicited. or drafting other Foxhunters and building your life around their leftovers How You Met This is a cousin of the first contact rule. either overtly or under a pretext. not to mention (okay. while avoiding the Teasing Foxes who like to send signals as a setup for shooting you down. not a problem with the first contact rule. and you should proceed with even more caution. partner ratings mean more than CUPID ratings. and use the one-and-done rule at the first stop sign. Combine a high partner rating with Foxhunting. The man who has Foxes approaching him has turned the tables. implement the one-and-done rule mentioned later and forget her.

your strengths will pay off because those who are groupies of whichever category you are strongest in will place you well above your rivals. It is better to have a score of 25 in one category and 10 in the others than a score of 15 in each. Individual value systems account for partner rating differentials among Foxes, and the difference in how they treat you. The greatest differentials occur with men who have brains and status because they have niche appeal, as opposed to the mainstream appeal of looks. If you are one of those brainy types, or are well-off or have prestige, your appeal to Foxes will be limited, but among those you appeal to you should do quite well. Availability Do not waste your time pursuing Taken Foxes. Flirt if you must, but respect the boundary, comfortable in the knowledge that she can still be a Friendly Fox, and know that within a year she is very likely to become available if no ring is on her finger. The time to pursue an Available Fox is immediately, for no reason other than she is likely to be taken within days or weeks and remain that way for some time. A Taken Fox, or even a Distracted Fox who has her eye on another man, is a low percentage option. Restrict your pursuit only to Available Foxes and your results will improve sharply. Few Foxes are available when you meet them. It is worth learning indirect seduction and how to time your pursuit to coincide with a Fox's availability. If you do pursue a Taken Fox, expect to be rejected, and unless you want to set up for a Returning Fox scenario (see below) or the Guy Switch, you really have no reason to ask her out. One reason I prefer the internet for pursuit is that the status question is answered almost immediately. I will eventually find out what she looks like, but when I meet a Fox offline I find myself not knowing her status for a long time unless I ask, which is tantamount to an approach. It is much easier to get a picture online than to find out a Fox's status offline. If an Available Fox rejects you, remember the oneand-done rule (see below) and write her off immediately. Taken Foxes may want you when they become available, but the Available Fox who won't date you is simply not interested. Short of changing her opinion of you, nothing is going to change your results, and asking her out repeatedly won't help except in rare cases. By asking out an Available Fox, you have done nothing to harm your reputation, for you have behaved no differently than other men. More important than the rejection itself is how you handle it, and you can never go wrong with one-anddone. Being taken seems to be worth about 15-20 CUPID points for a Foxhunter. Fantasy and Homewrecking Foxes fixate on taken men because they know how to please a Fox. Through posturing, you will attract the most Foxes when you are unable to do anything about it, although many men will still cheat. I do not recommend cheating, but instead not committing to any one Fox unless you are certain that you will not want another Fox within a year. Even a Fox who dumps you because you refuse to make a commitment still wants you; your reputation will never suffer because you chose not to commit to a Fox. Foxes who cannot win you over will usually up the ante, not balk. Interest It should go without saying (but it won't) that a Fox should express a clear interest in you before you pursue her. A smile is a minor signal; a come-on or a sexual advance a major one. Many approaches by Foxes cloak romantic interest. Most Foxes know that if they approach a man he is likely to hit on her. This is one of the major reasons Foxes are unapproachable and rarely approach. If you approach a Fox, she might be civil with you even if she has no interest in you. Pursuit won't work very often when you make first contact. If a Fox ends conversations with you before they have a chance to begin, does not go out of her way to spend time with you, does not call you, and does not "light up" in your presence, odds are she is not interested or taken. Most studies have revealed that even though men think they are the aggressors in courtship, it is the Foxes who call the shots. Learning to tell a red carpet from a brick wall is very important. One way of making this determination is to compare how a Fox treats you with how she treats other men, or with how she would treat you if her sole mission in life were to seduce you. The ideal candidate for pursuit is a Fox who approaches you in an unforced environment, whose value system gives you a high partner rating, and who is available and interested. This will not happen very often; when it does you should pursue with vigor, but only once. All other instances of pursuit will be less successful, other factors being equal. The worst that will happen is the occasional dry

spell. Devoting the times when you are coming up empty to long-term solutions will go a much longer way towards changing your results than forcing pursuit on a Disinterested Fox.

Ray's Rules For Foxhunting As a 32-year-old bachelor, I have 17 solid years of experience with Foxes to draw upon. The first ten or so of those years were mostly mistake-filled, but the last five have definitely compensated for it. Even now, I find myself still learning, still developing, still making mistakes, and hoping that I will perfect this art sometime before I am too old to do anything about it. This leads to the first of the many rules I use to make my Foxhunting more simple: Never stop learning. A golden rule. I don't care if you have a Fox Harem; there is so much out there to learn that there is always room for improvement. Complacency is the scourge of those who seek to perfect themselves. Never Foxhunt without your maximum CUPID rating. Within reason. Don't be numerically obsessed, although this is the fastest way to succeed, but be mindful of what Foxes respond positively to: keeping your weight down and your fashion and grooming up to speed are givens. Appear intelligent and witty (or avoid appearing clueless if this is not a strong suit for you), and if you do not have money or status, develop a plan for improving your lot in life and appear to be implementing that plan. Foxes are rather liberal in their judging system; the man who wants to become successful has potential, which combined with ambition is a substitute for prestige. When a Fox sees a man on the way up, she pays attention. One-and-done. A simple rule: if a Fox shuts the door, immediately cease pursuit and forget she exists. The purpose is to avoid Teasing Foxes and to set the table for Returning Foxes (see below). One-and-done shifts the ball into the Fox's court, requiring her to not only approach you in the future, but to be prepared to give you what you want, up front, with no questions asked. It also frees up your time to spend with Foxes who have not rejected you yet. Violate this rule rarely. A good time to implement one-and-done is when you get your first Clark Kent signal, the Guy Switch, or any unmistakable sign that she is not interested in you. Do not even bother explaining this to her, although if she makes "first contact" and asks you why you suddenly stopped talking to her, you might want to share. I've yet to meet the Fox who likes one-and-done, but this is a good thing. Foxes aren't supposed to like effective seduction techniques any more than a cornerback likes being burned for a 60- yard touchdown pass. Out of sight, out of mind. A must! Do not even think about Foxes who are not physically present, or who give no indication that they wish to be in your company as least as much as you wish to be in theirs. The thought process is flawed: men think they must pursue a Fox for the right reasons, that she must be special, and that they must be devoted to her, all before she has given any indication that she shares their feelings. If she does not share his feelings, he is supposed to forget her immediately! The man must guess whether he is swinging at a fastball or a curve, and he will either hit a home run or strike out. The only way to counter this is to let the Fox's level of interest dictate yours, let her make first contact so you know she is interested, and assume no interest in the absence of a strong indicator to the contrary. It is better to spend one hour each with twenty Foxes a week than it is to spend twenty hours in one week with a Fox you cannot have. The less attention you pay a Fox, the more likely she is to value that attention and try to win you over. It is much more convincing to a Fox that you are worthy of her if you are not always available and not focused on her. Foxes know from experience that the men who ignore them are the ones who are worthy. Goodbye rarely means goodbye. Try this sometime: without warning, in a calm tone of voice, tell a Fox you never want to talk to her again. Let her think you mean it. After you say goodbye, forever, pick up the phone and call her the next day (or week or month). This confuses them, and they will rarely hold you to your goodbye. This is a twist on the Returning Fox scenario (see

below), where you emotionally sever ties, but then reconnect. She will treat the goodbye as if it were true. Sometimes she will change her attitude towards you without your having to carry out your ultimatum, and this will accelerate your progress. Without the ultimatum, you will never create this window of opportunity. This is a clear example of a bad-boy technique paying off. In the event the Fox does not let you back into her life after goodbye, you are still better off because your time is still free to Foxhunt. Let the game come to you. The best athletes in any sport are those who tap into the natural flow of the game rather than trying to force opportunity. They are more concerned with fitting into a team structure than their stats. They don't take bad shots, don't make bad decisions, and help their team win games. Call it the Foxhunter's Touch, the ability to separate reality from fantasy. Miles, the man from the Foreword, thanked me profusely once because he did just this, resisting the urge to curse out a Fox who had stood him up and getting his reward months later when she returned. Take nothing at face value. Foxes are amazingly covert and dishonest. If they are displeased with you, they will often be civil to your face and then go behind your back to express their dissatisfaction. This is why men will think they are doing well with a Fox and then hear from a third party that they are not. Conversely, a Fox who is interested in you and respects you deep down for saying something which is unpopular but true might show discontent on the surface. If you react to the initial discontent, you miss out on a later opportunity. No matter how ridiculous your standards, they will be met. A few years back, I got very tired of lowering my standards. I found that no matter who I pursued, Fox or not, it was still difficult. I vowed that my next date was going to be with a Fox. and refused to consider non-Elites. Within three weeks I got my date with one of the first three Foxes I talked to and the first I asked. Despite complaints about shallow men, having standards is going to help you because it conveys that you consider yourself worthy of the best. This attitude helps in other areas of your life, and Foxes love to tap into the luxury. The rule does not end here, however, as I would soon learn... The more ridiculous your standards, the sooner they will be met. Foxes cannot stand rejection, especially for something they cannot compete with or change. Tell her she is too young or old, too tall or short, her breasts are too small, or that her hair is the wrong color, and watch her try to prove how special she is to you by winning you over. Foxes who almost meet your standards make excellent Concession Foxes (see below), despite their being an inch too tall or short, a year too young or old, or committing the ultimate sin of being born with the wrong hair color. Higher CUPID ratings and Foxhunting make this process easier, but the principle holds regardless. Foxes like discriminating men who hold their ground until they get what they want. The more elaborate your sexual fantasy, the more likely it is to come true. As long as you are not the one to bring up the topic of sex, you can count on Fantasy Foxes (see below) to become aroused, and to come on to you if you appear strong and focused on other Foxes. Foxes are always more likely to have sex with a man they believe will make it an enjoyable experience. This is without regard to any other factor, including CUPID. Presentation of your fantasies is crucial: bait her into asking you about them or you risk being considered too forward. Ask for what you want up front. A Fox has nothing to complain about if she talks to you knowing what you are about and what you want from her. This works especially well on the internet, where a Fox might find you interesting, but you can extract a price for her curiosity. I usually put in my AOL profiles that I will not acknowledge anyone who does not send me a picture of themselves and a telephone number by E-mail. Very often I get Foxes who instant-message (IM) me and asked to talk anyway. After ignoring them, they often cave in. Suffice it to say that anything you ask for up front you will get, but if you wait until down the road to ask for it you will never get it. Being up-front will remove a ton of nonsense from your life. Pursue aggressively when approached and conservatively when you approach. The person who makes first contact is the seller, and the person contacted is the buyer. The buyer always has the advantage. I usually respond to first contact by a Fox with an immediate approach on the assumption that she must have found me interesting, and I don't like wasting time dwelling on whether or not she might like me. By contrast, if I approach a Fox, I assume she is not interested until she sends a clear signal that she is. Use this rule and you will avoid a lot of rejection without eliminating any rewards.

Returning Foxes will call you out of the blue. or under the pretext of seeing how you are doing. If she still tries to talk to me. After you have had a OneAnd-Done Fox become a Returning Fox. don't despair. make sure you find enough Foxes to approach. The general rule is to ask a Returning Fox. The Fantasy Fox This Fox has responded to your indirect seduction by injecting herself into your fantasy. Foxhunters will rarely find themselves in a more powerful position. In the following four chapters. success becomes a near-certainty. Clark Kent becomes more appealing to Lois. for whatever it was she rejected you for in the first place. won't respond to her greetings. either in an attempt to get you to pursue her again. If you encounter a Returning Fox who is just to placating you while entertaining herself. but a limited one. Foxes are used to men pursuing them repeatedly. even if she doesn't admit it. More often than not you will be proven right and score points for your correct prediction. Many times I have been rewarded for letting the clock tick and letting attrition work its magic as I waited for the ideal time to make a move. triggered one-and-done. and since she knows you want her. If she rejects you again. The more Foxes you approach. I will often go as far as not even acknowledging a Fox who has rejected me. I consider her a Returning Fox. but in reality we rarely do. Even if you are not in a relationship. I ask her politely to leave me alone. and if she tries to call me on my behavior. you'd be a fool not to do business. The ideal Fantasy Fox scenario is to already have a Fox in your life. When Superman lets her down. This step provides natural immunity against Social-Climbing or Golddigging Foxes. send her packing again.Play the numbers!! You cannot predict the behavior of individual Foxes. or to just say hi when you cross paths (why this is important is beyond me. or more likely. This doesn't mean that you have to let them take advantage of you. Oneand-done catches them off-guard. Her image of you improved. I will refer often to these rules. An Opportunistic Fox is still a Fox. This is most likely to happen if you let her take the lead and prod you into opening up to her. but you can play the percentages. A Fox who refused to have sex with you during a relationship is not the same as one who turned you down for a date. and who likes the way you are treating your Fox. Which Foxes will want you cannot be predicted. Maybe she thought another guy was interested in her but she couldn't win him over. Following are the most common Returning Fox scenarios: She did not see one-and-done coming. use one-and-done and she winds up in the same position she was in before she returned. Maybe your CUPID rating went up. a Returning Fox will contact you only because she wants something. or she found out something about him that took him out of the running. but it is). If you use high-percentage techniques often enough. Foxes who seek you out only for this reason are just trying to kill time. She's bored. and a Friendly Fox (see below) who becomes increasingly curious about your relationship. you will probably begin using the rule all the time. If you want to be bold. Attrition. you can confidently predict that the other man will let her down. merely wanting to make a Fox swoon is enough to trigger the fantasy response. This is especially true of Foxes who are in bad . Men do not like to risk rejection. and now she wants to correct her mistake and treat you like the royalty she now knows you are. Even if you are conservative in approaching. In most cases. We say we reject social climbers. but the overall percentage can. I won't greet her. and lose many rewards as a result. One of the secrets of success as a Foxhunter is to keep the upper hand even when you want a Fox more than anyone else in the world. and has contacted you. the more likely you are to succeed independent of your batting average. wanting to be friends. odds are that what she wants is you. or did. she saw you with someone Foxier than her. It presents a window of opportunity. and to the types of Foxes which I am about to describe below: The Returning Fox My Favorite Fox! She rejected you brutally in the past. and if you have what she wants. immediately or almost immediately. Why help her kill time when she won't even go out with you? What the Fox is returning from is another variable.

Men accept Friendly Foxes unconditionally and wind up in some very one-sided friendships as a result. The Homewrecking Fox A classic Seinfeld episode tested the theory that men are more attractive when they wear a wedding ring. A Friendly Fox is by no means the solution to your problems. she will want you. To this extent you are merely evening the score. but when she saw the outfit I was buying. Once I went to a lingerie shop to purchase a sexy outfit for a Friendly Fox. if she thinks you do. This gives you the benefits of cheating without having to actually cheat. She will talk to you. even stay over at your place if she really trusts you. One way you can beat the system with a Homewrecking Fox is to pretend to be taken and let her "steal" you. she will wish she were that Fox. I have found that this isn't necessary or even preferable. but she is a critical part of that solution. Instinctively. You can test the waters. If you push the envelope with a Friendly Fox. a classic example of the power of indirect seduction. Given a choice between being alone or spending three hours with a Friendly Fox. She just doesn't want to be your lover. The Utility Fox . This behavior is manipulative. This is separate from Utility Foxes and LJBF Foxes (see below) in that this Fox is really your friend.relationships. and if she thinks your lover is Foxier than her. This will give her the same sense of loss you felt when a relationship did not materialize. I would rather spend time with the Fox. go out with you. with her failure to nibble on the bait a signal that she is not receptive. This can be very frustrating. and as long as I don't overstep. or who share your fantasy. A true Friendly Fox is a Fox who should be dating you but is not. Speed Seduction takes the additional step of directing the Fox to the fantasy with words. she put two and two together very quickly and lit up like a Christmas Tree. This is similar to Speed Seduction's use of language patterns to trigger certain feelings. but most Friendly Foxes will have manipulated you first by using your sexual attraction to them to establish a friendship. call you. choosing instead to display the evidence a fantasy than the riskier direct approach. There are times when this will prod her into dating you. although usually she will reject you and occasionally become a Returning Fox. Suppose you lived in a rooming house that included a Fox or two. You could return on a Saturday night and spin a tale of incredible sex with a Fox. I will not become obsessed with her and have an enjoyable way of killing time and building my reputation. Even if you do not have a lover. This is what I mean about letting the game come to you. There is an ironic justice to lying to a liar to get them to treat you honestly. The Friendly Fox (Now Called The PIVOT) A Friendly Fox is essentially a lover you do not have sex with. Having others hear her sing your praises and see her with you is going to make the rest of your Foxhunting very easy. This is much more tactful than putting her in the awkward position of having to reject me. We wound up flirting for a good half-hour before I left with my purchase. as long as you don't overstep. Homewrecking Foxes are inherently dishonest and will respond favorably to dishonest methods. who haven't had a sexual experience that matches the fantasy. Your appeal to this type of Fox will depend solely on your lover. be prepared to end the friendship. Some Foxes love to take men away from other Foxes. The Fox behind the counter had rejected me long before that. who are currently unable to find a man they like. Foxhunters use behavior patterns to produce the same effect. The key to surviving having Friendly Foxes in your life is to detach from your lust and realize that they are an incredibly valuable resource. A good example of a Fantasy Fox scenario would be the Fox who finds herself alone a day before Valentine's Day and sees you picking out lingerie for your Fox. This is a safe way for her to explore you sexually without it being brought to the surface. but she refuses to get physical with you. while your Foxy roommate was sitting home alone with a pint of Ben & Jerry's and a cheesy romance novel.

They will be just friendly enough to keep you in their lives. If she does make first contact. Rely on personal strength. pursue her conservatively still and move to an unforced environment as quickly as possible. but for the men it is a raw deal. It is a catalyst for sexual harassment. but she probably won't mind helping your Foxhunting in return for your assistance. but let her make the major moves. Although it is very tempting to hit on these Foxes. The best way to get an LJBF Fox to want you is to raise your CUPID rating and/or attempt to trigger the fantasy/homewrecking response. The Let's-Just-Be-Friends (LJBF) Fox This is a Utility Fox who wants to make you her flunky: a man she can rely on to service her without her having to do anything in return. . she will have lost the utility and be frustrated. as long as you do not overstep. she is an LJBF Fox (see below). Being allowed to interact with them is supposed to be your reward. for you will find yourself doing a lot of favors for Foxes and getting very little in return. LJBF Foxes can become Friendly Foxes over time. she's going to let you know. but rarely will this happen. If the utility is being the guy she complains to about the jerks who mistreat her. The absence of a move on your part will often cause the LJBF Fox to overstep and give you the edge when you turn the tables and destroy her illusion of power. Forced interaction is a copout. especially if you work together. It will improve your image because you will appear picky or taken. it could be because she feels she has to be. If she balks. Utility can be a good adjunct to Foxhunting. this is defensive in nature and a reaction to her own games. The co-worker who resists your initial advances because she has a lover might wind up coming on to you down the road because she respected your behavior. and encourages a man to attempt to trap a Fox into a relationship instead of working on his CUPID rating and his technique until he no longer needs this crutch. The Forced Interaction Fox Forced Interaction Foxes are those you meet in situations where the interaction has nothing to do with you. not because she wants to be. Never making first contact with a Forced Interaction Fox will set you apart from other men. Your utility is going to give you tremendous leverage over the Foxes who need it. computer help. The more you detach from LJBF Foxes. If she wants you. In a forced environment she is a captive audience. but it is not recommended that you make this your primary technique. not situational strength. unless the utility is a survival need. and even if she is friendly with you. the less you allow them to take advantage of you. Attempts to cash in directly will not work very well because most Foxes will bolt if they have to do something for you in return for you doing something for them. your rep). I admire Foxes who have men do their bidding. and it will let Foxes check you out and/or pursue you at their own pace. The only way to deal with this effectively is to detach emotionally and make sure that she is of some utility to you. Foxes actually respond more positively to men who do not do favors for them because they respect them for having the good sense not to be conned. She might not have sex with you. It might be auto repair. medical or accounting advice. or a connection to an attractive or influential friend of yours. to seduce. because then you know she wants to be with you since she can bail out anytime.Utility Foxes use you to meet some need. a way of having the ice broken for you. Be friendly. and while game-playing is not generally recommended. the better off you will be. As long as you don't become obsessed with the challenge. you will do fine. LJBF Foxes are great Practice Foxes because they offer a high degree of difficulty. no one will be able to take advantage them. or if she works somewhere you patronize. legal. Dealing with Foxes who appear to be more interested than they are creates an illusion which will be painfully shattered down the line and which is best avoided. Enter this friendship for utility only (i. or if she is your neighbor. The best way to leverage utility is to withdraw it and leave it to her to up the ante. They are vulnerable to leverage and indirect pursuit. but not like a Friendly Fox. and the more utility you derive from them.. The number of Foxes your utility yields will be determined by the utility and how you present it. and nice to you only when they want something. The Fox figures correctly that if she can't take advantage of him.e. I strongly recommend letting her make first contact.

Championship teams know how to finish off beaten opponents late in the game. A Foxhunter who has trouble getting started can do what I used to advise my chess students: act as if you already know all of the answers you seek. You will never move far from Point A if you have no concept of Point B. they would never move matters toward the conclusion. The window will not last long. one must first build a mating net that removes the enemy king's flight squares. with no apologies. It does no good to spend all evening on a date with a Fox. As a chess coach. and then the mate is delivered. Each chapter will examine these stages in the context of Foxhunting principles. If she shuts up. Convince yourself that you are capable of achieving this. and put the burden of proof on her to put up or shut up. The only way to neutralize this creature is to call her what she is. Working backwards. and the four or five most common paths to those paths. and seduction. we begin by examining what to do once you have gotten physical with a Fox. as most experts espouse. or being able to block the lane against Shaq. The next four chapters outline the three stages of Foxhunting: meeting. The worlds are totally different. things change dramatically. Once the spark occurs. she becomes a potential Returning Fox. In seduction. despite her protests to the contrary. be sent packing with a kiss on the cheek. or if things are threatening to. go back to her place. Popularity with the lion's-share demographic will always ensure success. they will date many men. with one man having to walk a minefield while the other wins the lottery every day of his life. In the seduction phase. I found it impossible to teach players who did not understand how to deliver a checkmate. Working forward. checkmate is sex. but sex is something they do not . and if she puts up (some will just to prove you wrong). Think of this section as a movie script where the big ending is written first and the movie is built around it. some spark has already ignited. followed by a free-form Epilogue that bridges the method that was once my secret and the world that will one day assimilate the material. she will say that you are to blame for allowing her to get the better of you. and after an awkward pause at the door. Sexual windows of opportunity work differently than those involving dating or meeting. and so on. I will then conclude with a chapter on how to put the entire Foxhunting system into practice and improve your results. An aspiring brain surgeon must be able to envision himself performing brain surgery. Chapter Eleven: Seducing Foxes This section has been written backwards: if at any point you do not know how to move to the next level you will be stopped cold. To checkmate an opponent. Another argument in favor of backwards study is that it teaches the most important skills first.5 seconds or less. An aspiring chess champion must be able to picture himself defeating the world's best grandmasters. and a window of opportunity is created. Working backwards. The aspiring professional athlete must be comfortable with the idea of hitting 90-mph fastballs. you can identify the four or five most common paths to the bedroom. The Foxhunter has tapped into the thought processes specific to Foxes and maximized his market share. Compare this to what happens when a man is so accomplished that a Fox he has never made a move on makes a move on him. No matter how strong their position. effectively freezing it on its current square. you've won the game. dating.The Teasing Fox A Teasing Fox will take full advantage of your attraction to her. After she has successfully manipulated you. will very quickly mushroom dozens of approaches into thousands of possibilities. Foxes will talk to many men. It is the same principle that drove me to write a book on seduction before I would write one on an arcane topic such as gambling or chess. running the 40-yard dash in 4. resulting a much more digestible body of material.

and I proceed normally until I meet resistance. an 18 year-old virgin would consider this a major step. Many Foxes get off on teasing. not her words. this will help you a lot. Just avoid falling in love. Date the Fox. and the less seriously you treat a Fox's nonsexual moves. about all they can come up with is that Foxes are nice people who wouldn't do that. and books and other materials devoted to lovemaking are highly recommended. They see the process as linear. It shows the tease that you are not vulnerable to her games. A Fox's sexual behavior (or the lack of it) must be evaluated in light of her sexual ethics and treatment of other men. Either way. but why would a Fox want a man who cannot turn her on? Regardless of what should happen. This is why I am loathe to think I have made progress with a Fox I have not at least French-kissed. if you pull back and respect her. Observe her actions. If you are inexperienced. I find men complaining that the sexpots they pursue do not take an interest in them. The focus becomes satisfying her enough so that she will not stray. weeks. the less likely you are to wind up teased. Suffice it to say that knowing what you are doing is very important. you have to ask yourself a few questions: Is she teasing me? A Teasing Fox will let you think you are making progress and slam the door in your face once you think you are home-free. Is she using me for sex? God bless her if she is. or even months or years. though it is difficult to implement once your desires have been aroused. Remember that our instincts carry us pretty well. and other times days. . she will often switch course and return. Foxhunters must be prepared. One-and-done is the best damage control. A Fox getting physical presents an opportunity to prove yourself sexually. A Fox who is overloaded with opportunity will definitely screen for signs of bedroom talent. what does happen is that men who take the time to become good in bed have the edge. but if you really want to arouse a Fox. Get her number/ask her out. heed the warning and use one-and-done. reading romance novels. Once a Fox has gotten sexual with you. The more cynical you are. Most men think Foxes do not do this. which will cause her to stop playing them and to actually respect you for seeing through her. If she doesn't return. To avoid teasing problems. advanced methods will set you apart from your rivals. Which base you happen to be circling with a Fox is not as important as keeping your confidence level intact. remember that all men start out that way. or made it clear that she wants to. be prepared to use one-anddone at the drop of a hat. It is essential to be at least a competent lover. An indepth discussion of sexual technique is beyond the scope of this book. Watching love scenes.easily. but when asked for evidence to support their claim. Most men have too narrow a definition of seduction. Kiss her goodnight. Begging her to reconsider will make you appear the overeager male. you win. A porn star could make out with you for two hours and not bat an eye. and as long as you appear confident. Who else is in her life? Foxes have multiple suitors. with the following steps: Meet the Fox. Is she a prude? A kiss is just a kiss. Once you are a skilled lover this will come very naturally to you. sometimes within seconds or minutes. Talk to the Fox. and will usually be ending or starting other relationships while fitting you into her life. The one-and-done rule is there if I need it. she frees up your time. If she stops your moves. but it means more to some Foxes than others. Look for Superman and Clark Kent signals.

and having sex are blurred. I can't tell you what Foxes want because one of the things we want is a guy we don't have to tell! Once you figure that out you will own us! We tell you lies to see if you are smart enough to catch them. adjusts his methods according to his results. That's seven hurdles. In real life. use you. but instead should realize that sparks can fly anywhere at anytime. obtaining effortlessly what other men have to work hard for. even an impromptu date. make them do as much as possible to win her over. and. be nice to her after she realizes that you . and frustrates the other 9095 percent of the male population at every turn. It is also why Foxes sometimes return very quickly after you use one-anddone. and select the men who have the most of what she wants. and they want a man who knows how to seduce them without having to ask. They want their crap thrown back at them when they give it to you to test you. Men who do this are called selfish. The Fox who is surprised with one-and-done and who is serious about you will come clean very quickly. or be patient and the woman of your dreams will appear (after your CUPID rating shoots up). and to enjoy the upper hand rather than making up their minds immediately. The Fox who takes the Foxhunter's approach would logically allow as many men as possible to pursue her. and over time learns what works and what does not. Foxes make sexual decisions long before dating. Courtship is not how you win over a Fox.Make out with her. The nice-guy who complains is dismissed as bitter and negative. Courtship is a social tradition. Once you pass our tests we will respect you and treat you right. I'd enjoy it too. shallow. or in rare cases a sexual encounter. No wonder Foxes enjoy dating more than men! If I were a Fox. but what you do to show you care. He deals in reality. or occur simultaneously. Scrap traditional notions of what constitutes seduction and instead work on getting to Point B as quickly as you can with as few hurdles as possible. a carryover from an era when marriage was essential to a Fox's station in life. and insensitive. Communicating this is worth more than a thousand dozen roses and a million candlelight dinners. but instead he will analyze how they do act the way a student of nature would analyze plant and insect behavior. taken out of order. approaching. They complain to Foxes and get the run-around in the form of platitudes like you've just been meeting the wrong women (as in out of your league). It is difficult not to hear the chorus of nice guys who complain that they are outfoxed by Foxhunters. The Foxhunter is adept at creating and exploiting windows of opportunity. With gender equality a reality. This is what they do. and we give you crap to see if you are man enough to give it back. but until then we will continue to think of you as unworthy. pursuing. dating. it should be updated. The unspoken message is convoluted: Look. in fact. seduction occurs much differently than the way it is usually discussed. An introduction or chance meeting can lead to a quick flirtation. You will never hear a Foxhunter complain about how Foxes should act. You do not have to proposition every Fox you meet. It does not help that the Foxes who say this tend to run off and play porn-star for the bad-boys while telling the nice guys to wait patiently. with dating used to implement their timetable. and laugh at your stupidity behind your back to my girlfriends while we go find some REAL men! Foxes dream of being tamed. Court her when she thinks you are worthless and your energy will be wasted. Foxhunting combines all seduction steps. if everything goes right Have sex with the Fox. The only antidote for this is one-and-done. Do not limit yourself to thinking that the only time it is okay to be seductive with a Fox is on a date. The lines between meeting.

Each time she returns she will become more hooked. When you are in action you will do better if you execute your game plan without being self-conscious of whether or not you will succeed. again. She feels rejected because you aren't like the scores of other men who fall over themselves to impress her.morning quarterbacking for when you are alone. It is much easier to become confident than people realize. If she leaves. I will now examine several scenarios under which sex with a Fox is likely to occur. there is always the chance that she will return yet again and replay the drama. and in many cases she will return again. and Convince the Foxes of the same thing. If you want Foxes to become convinced that you can seduce them. at least you won't have the hassle. The Foxes don't realize that these tests weed out the truly decent men who can pass the test but refuse to take it. This is not something you are going to learn overnight. Rather than act grateful that she has given you another chance. Knowing how Foxes think will project confidence and convince them of your desirability. If you want to try being dominant with a Fox. Worrying about results will set you back. take the opposite approach and tell her not to waste your time. don't despair. he won't be able to figure out others' lies. but learn it you must. a Returning Fox is the best place to start. the monster becomes hungrier and increases its desire for the dish it cannot have. listing the highest. the more likely you are to succeed. The logic to the lies and crap Foxes toss at men (now known more commonly as shit tests) is simple: If he can't take my shit.are only this way when inspired. Paradoxically. but #2 is difficult. Remember the two golden rules of confidence: Convince yourself that given a fair chance. Hold your ground and send her packing each time she returns. if she doesn't. to get you to weaken. and you become a challenge to her. The Fox who knows you have other options loses her power over you. you need to start adopting the right behavior patterns. This applies equally to Foxes who have rejected you for dates or sex. Save your Monday. and if you don't feel confident. You need all of your energy focused on the task of seduction. Most men can handle #1. Certainly you have heard Foxes say they love confident men. and that you know how to react to their behavior in any situation. She is the best seduction option because she approached you. you have what you want. and realize that everyone has to start somewhere. it cannot drain you. and she will become very docile and compliant. The most common Returning Fox scenario has you rejected for a date by a Fox who still wants to be friends. send her packing. Run the race without worrying about your final time. after rejecting you. and If he can't figure out my lies. The basic elements of confidence add up to only one thing: A confident man is one who acts like he knows what he is doing. Each time . Let her know you will accept her back only on your terms. and who does not second-guess himself. that you won't hesitate to replace her if she steps out of line with you. The best way to explain this phenomenon is to think of a Fox's ego as if it were a monster. knowing you want to sleep with her. and if she agrees to take it to the next level. especially if you have never before seduced a Fox. Think of it as you would employment. to the point where she must either give up or give in. By not feeding the monster. the better. you can seduce any Fox at any time. and the sooner you get started. he can't protect me from others' shit. the less you do to win over a Returning Fox. This gives you every right to take her back only as a lover. Look and act the part!! To do this successfully requires that you not allow Foxes to trick or tease you. It is essential that you learn this lesson because otherwise you will never have the confidence necessary to Foxhunt. If she refuses to. Even if you say that friendship is not possible she will not be deterred in her drive to socially engineer.percentage situations first: The Returning Fox The Returning Fox is the payoff for your discipline in using the one-and-done rule. If she balks. you are home-free. or as a date with the idea of becoming lovers. until she ups the ante.

at least you aren't cheating on anyone for real. most Foxes love to discuss their love lives. At this point. a Fox knows that a man who is going home to another Fox every night is not going to consider her until she can top what he gets at home. You will be respected if you handle rejection like a gentleman. This works especially well with Foxes whose love lives have been struggling. the Fox has made a clear advance. If the fantasy is good enough. You would think that a Fox in search of an honest lover would shy away from the smooth-talking types or the ones who are taken. It is amusing that having a Fox will make you more attractive to other Foxes. and making him beg for sex. she will prefer it to being pestered by a man she has no interest in. Telling Foxes about designs you have on another will make you "hers" in their eyes and reject them by omission. they shouldn't be surprised if men play. Talking about her as a man in control of his emotions and the situation makes others want to be in her place. but the ones you keep will compensate. You don't have to lie if you don't want to. Unlike the unattached man who is courting her. To get to this one-step-away position. Reputation shouldn't matter. Instead of saying she has to know him. they have argued that having sex with a Fox who is too drunk constitutes date rape. you can invent a lover for the Homewrecking Fox to steal you from. No Fox is going to think poorly of you because you made one move. err on the side of caution. I get her number and call her when she is sober to see if she's still interested. unless they already want the man doing the asking. your position strengthens. It is not my style to take advantage of Inebriated Foxes. figuring that if he weren't worthy other Foxes wouldn't be around him. Foxes make passes at taken men because they have to. but not as likely to occur as the above. and in another case approached a man after she has rejected him. but they don't. Instead. This is the primary reason men cheat. and if they are going to reward game-playing with sex. we get into the lower-percentage situations. What they don't love is being asked to fulfill them. As long as you aren't hitting on them. There is no law saying that the man can't inject a fantasy or two of his own. As mentioned earlier. If a Drunk Fox makes a pass at me. They are used to being the center of attention. Using a Friendly Fox (pivot) to build your reputation exploits this thinking. and Men who are already in relationships. The following men tend to get passes made at them: Men with high CUPID ratings. the Homewrecking Fox makes a bold move at an opportune time. factor #2 less so. but failure to note their existence would make this work incomplete. In the preceding examples. Before I conclude this category. but the Foxes are the ones who set the game up this way. Rejection also becomes much easier to deal with.this happens. and while that is dishonest. I should add the third most common pass scenario. The high CUPID rating is obvious. This is a good way to get your First Fox. In some states. you have to apply indirect seduction. She Has Made A Pass At You More likely to lead to sex than any other situation. they see a man who is in demand with Foxes as worthy of their company. where proceeding with caution is wise. Things will rarely be this easy. and that occurs when the Fox is drunk. The last thing any Fox needs to hear is how well you are treating another Fox while you show absolutely no interest in her. though it will only be necessary in the very beginning. You will lose many Foxes this way. the Fox on the . and while she will not like being forgotten. especially since this increases their chances of winding up with a cheater. although there are still a few instances where you can find yourself one step away from the bedroom by surprise: The Fantasy Fox (And The Homewrecking Fox) Foxes love to talk about romance and fantasies.

The Homewrecking Fox demonstrates the power of indirect seduction. at least for a few weeks. What about you. not worth getting into. This will pique her curiosity. you ignore other Foxes. but the best thing to do is wait until you get the upper hand that comes from having her make contact. come on! Who is she!? Me: Just someone I met. A week later my phone rings: Me: Hello. and yourself? Me: Not bad. Since there is no way to verify what is said. money. To further impress upon the Friendly Fox that your love life is better than hers. At this point I use indirect seduction and be specific about what I am doing with other Foxes. and when the friends hear about how wonderful a man you are they can't help but think that maybe they should have you for themselves. . cars. I don't really know what will happen. Be creative enough with your fantasies and she might surprise you by flirting with you or injecting herself into the picture. Fox: Do tell! Me: Nah. Sooner or later she'll catch up to you. The Fox you are with talks you up to her friends and acquaintances. Me: Hot date? Fox: Nah. so that's only a stopgap measure and an unnecessary one at that. If more than 3-4 weeks go by you can contact her. this one is minor. Fox: Aw. Fox: Keep me posted! The Fox Trap has been set. A general discussion about relationships will often lead a Fox to ask me about my own love life. how are you? Fox: Pretty good. focusing all of your attention on one Fox.receiving end just might inject herself into it. houses. stop calling her at this point. you aren't pursuing but just moving the conversation along. What are you doing this fine Saturday afternoon? Fox: Getting ready to go out later. or what I would like to do with them. Once you are skilled you'll have many such dates to fill your schedule. Do you have a hot date? Me: Don't know how hot you'd call it. She will check with me in a few days to see how the date went. When you are in a relationship. but they don't ignore you. When describing your fantasies and/or experiences. the less it will appear like propaganda. Compared to the lies Foxes tell. just as you might get a tad envious about the men Foxes worship when you hear about their looks. Subtlety is a key to indirect seduction. just a few girlfriends. Following is a sample dialog that shows how you can move from a general sexual conversation to a sexual experience with a Fox in one bold leap: Fox: Hi!! Me: Hi. Catch a Friendly Fox in the right mood and she can easily become aroused by such conversations. The more you let her lead the conversation. and lifestyles that the Fox wants so badly instead of you. usually within a few weeks. but yes. calling you perfect even. Dishonest Foxhunters don't even have to go on the date.

. Instinctively. This is not something Foxes are used to hearing and they will snap into battle mode in response: Fox: Aw. let's just say it was a good date. I'm your friend! Me: Well. Popularity now! Speaking of that. Don't know how well you'd handle something really hot. how was your evening last weekend? Fox: Lousy!! So you really think I couldn't turn you on? Me: Never thought of you that way.Fox: Hi!!!! (There's that damn greeting again). a worldly man. giving her the impression she has none and is beneath you. The details would probably be too graphic for you (this is a classic negative selling technique. come on!! . This is another upside of not approaching a Fox: she might think you want her. Fox: Aw. Hey. Call this the kid-sister approach. like she really is nothing more than a kid sister to you. if you must know. Say it with a straight face. but not me. I feel like such a slut now. she is going to respond to this attack on her Foxhood. Me: How are you? Fox: Great!! What about you? Me: Not bad. would it? (Foxes love men who do not kiss and tell). Fox: Aw. Despite the incredible transparency of this approach. it works like a charm: Fox: You've got a girlfriend! Who's the lucky girl? And tell me about the fantasy! Me: You really want to know about my sex life? God. how was your date last week? Me: Better than expected... Fox: Do tell! Me: Now that wouldn't be very nice. but if you deliver this line convincingly enough you have gone on record as saying she is incapable of turning you on. You ignore her sexuality completely. The Foxier she is.. the more you will catch her off-guard. Most of the time the Fox will ignore the warning and dive right into your fantasy). Fox: Where have you been all week? Me: Just keeping busy. come on! I could seduce you if I wanted and you know it! Me: Maybe some desperate guy. honest. I wound up living out one of my long-held fantasies. Fox: So you're Mr. Fox: Aw. come on! I'm a big girl!! Me: You always struck me as the kid-sister type. come on.

and often she will not leave you alone until that curiosity has been satisfied. because they see men who do not respect them as more worthy than those who do. or even to string him along for several hours in conversation or extract utility with the false hope of a date. and some won't. Your behavior and the image you . twice if I like it!! Me: Get real! Like you'd really do this. She wound up fulfilling the fantasy. when they are already getting what they want. If this is the case. and cast you off as unworthy while the spectators cheer her on. Fox: I don't have a burning desire to but I would like to hear it! Me: Ah. not some desire to be patient. but Foxes know from experience that few men will ever use it. or ask her out. You have the same power to cast her aside. Advanced Foxhunters learn this and also learn how to work curiosity into their seduction very smoothly. the truth comes out! You don't even find me attractive! Fox: I never said that! Stop twisting my words! Me: Fine. you are giving her the power to audition you. Hang out as much as you like with a Fox. ask yourself if she'd give the same line to Kevin Costner. Seduction works best when it is indirect. Timetables are a function of the upper hand. but once you agree to date her. make you jump through hoops. some other dreamboat. and in response to a Fox's piqued curiosity.. The Fifth Date (Or Thereabouts) The next time a Fox tells you she needs to get to know you better before sleeping with you. The more natural the conversation. Men use timetables late in a relationship.. so she focuses more on meeting your standards than on whether or not you meet hers. Some of your dates will want you to try to have sex with them. use one-and-done and await her return. A Curious Fox is like a horny male. but you just said you wouldn't be living out the fantasy. unsolicited. Those who do are the ones Foxes spend their time trying to win over. or even a taken man. The less he does to win over any specific Fox. I also had her act out the first parts before she knew the entire fantasy. consider using a better fantasy.Me: Why should I tell you? Fox: Ya never know. One line I have used many times after driving a Fox crazy with curiosity is the price of your curiosity is my desire. and Foxes complain that it is unfair for a man to string them along for several years with the false hope of marriage. Why should I tell you then? What am I gaining? You might laugh at me. If she stops nibbling at the bait. I am against traditional dating until after a couple has had sex. I'll try anything once. A basic principle of seduction is this: never satisfy a Fox's curiosity without getting something in return. Knowing which ones will say yes and which will say no is often very difficult to determine early on. the more convincing his attitude and the more successful his Foxhunting. but to make sure she followed through I conveyed at each step along the way that I was assuming that she was teasing. If you decide to go the courtship route. make sure you audition her as much as she is auditioning you. the more effective an indirect seduction will be. Mel Gibson. it is equally unfair for a Fox to string a man along for several dates with the false hope of sex. A successful Foxhunter does not have to beg or sell himself. If your return ratio is low.

but as a path to sex it is nothing but an added hurdle. be strong. Even if the date doesn't go well. or even the best way. but not directly. and requires different handling. you can't blame a man for wanting a beautiful creature like yourself (Editor's Note: gag!!). Bring a condom too.. I'm old. By seeing you doing something you like. something you would do by yourself. You recognize the window and pounce. following her lead. and to make sure your timetable is slower than hers. Dating is a great way to interact with Foxes. The correct maneuver in this situation is to use her own tactic. Restraint and even disinterest can pay huge dividends. If that happens.passes-at-mespeech. The bottom line is this: if a Fox truly desires you sexually. To wit: Me: I know what you mean. Fox: Tell me about it!!! My last boyfriend did that. I hate that! Stop! She is sending you a signal to slow down. She might even begin to doubt herself and try to win you over sexually. Do not feed her ego. she will see you in a more positive light than in a neutral environment. This is the Timetable Speech... is simply wrong. The Counter-Timetable Another trick to use when a relationship has not progressed as far as you would like. you will not have to date her to close the deal. Some basic rules: Put the date first.project on your dates will also influence this decision. so who is to argue? 4. but it doesn't mean she doesn't want to have sex with you. It's like they are using sex to replace some emotional void in their lives. but even if I don't wait that long I like to wait a year or . Schedule an interesting activity for your date. This is never a great thing. and to have a good time if it's done right. The three main advantages of this type of date are as follows: a. a man who plays with his food like that could never give me good head" or something equally irrational. letting you know that an advance would still be unwelcome. but I agree that men are way too forward about sex.sex! This is not logical. She begins taking preemptive strikes. Everything you say and do will be monitored by the Fox for hidden meanings and indications about everything from what her friends will think of you to what her family will think of you to whether or not you will be good in bed.. She might think "Oh my God.fashioned and would rather wait for marriage to have sex. The best way to separate yourself from the crowd is to treat her as if she were merely average. where the presence of a Fox is just icing on the cake. You will be seen with a Fox. I prefer to just enjoy the date and keep my cards close to the vest. she will reward you with. The best way to deal with the audition is to not try to win her over. but to think that it is the only way to get a Fox into bed. you are supposed to take it off your mind completely! Once you show her that sex (with her) is the furthest thing from your mind. Remember that you are being auditioned. thus improving your reputation. which will occasionally net you a wife but more often than not will fail. this is hardly insignificant. Personally. and then springing it shut: Fox: I get so tired of guys who just want to get me into bed on the first date. and c. Me: Well. to build your reputation. but it will get you laid. b. Do not expect sex Haven't you heard? Wanting sex is bad! If you want sex you are a pervert! Never mind that Foxes dress and act in a manner designed to get you to want sex. The only exception is if you want to go all the way and poetically declare your undying love for her. at least you did something you enjoy. If she didn't want sex at all she'd be giving you the I-hate-it-when-friends-make. letting her fall into the trap. On the date you can ask her about her interests and hobbies and then plan an evening to her liking for your second date. Considering the time and expense involved in courtship. Courtship is a ritual that has worked for thousands of years and which will probably be around for thousands more. I've had the same thing done to me.

she will make a move. that very often her instinctive reaction will be to have sex with you! At Work Be careful with this one. A few rules: Never pursue. Legal and ethical considerations aside. A possibility. This is so appealing to her. If you really want to push the envelope. You haven't given her a reason to cheat. if a relationship develops. Take it outside. would you like a quick bite to eat? Make the hit. you can take the sexual high ground and call her promiscuous. score the points. act as if you no longer have your job or any loyalty to the company. She now knows that you will not be making a move on her until the cows come home. a solid connection is established.I mean a former co-worker!" If you don't tell them who you are dating. In some conversations I will suddenly start talking like a stuck-up Fox. you become a challenge. For what? A guy who wants her in bed on the first date? Even if she dumps you. Keep your working relationships as friendly as possible and do not gossip. If she wants you. This way. The Counter-Timetable is believable because there are many men out there who are sexually cautious.. Nothing relaxes a Fox more than a man who doesn't want sex. If she wants you. sending out just enough signals to let her know I might be kidding. As long as you can remember that it's the challenge and not you they want. and without even realizing it you have passed all of her tests. She's been scoping you out. but what choice does she have? If she likes the relationship. Between their laughing at the novelty of the approach. The . you'll do fine. Seduce You. What can she do? All roads lead to checkmate: Dump you. won't leave me alone. Be brave! Role reversal works wonders with Foxes. She will be surprised by a man who is more prudent than herself. and since she really doesn't want to wait for sex in the first place. she can't punish you for having the attitude she claims to want men to have. but this goes against her grain. you have given her reason to think you might be husband material. especially with all the emotional and medical risks associated with sex. and want me primarily for my body. All these advantages have sprung from your communicating to her that you are not sexually aggressive. Well. and trying to figure out if I'm being serious. I like to make sure I love her before hopping in bed.. throw your workplace into a quandary by walking into the human resources department and saying "Sorry. she will have no objection to meeting away from work. Pursuit is a lowpercentage play no matter what. not the other way around. to get fired. deriding non-Elites who can't take a hint. and this is going to bother her because she cannot torture you sexually. she's not likely to tolerate your ridiculously extended timetable. it works even better! With all the concerns about sexual harassment. It's just not worth it. and your stock will rise. the correct thing to do when a relationship begins at work is for one person to leave their job.eighteen months. This sets the table for the Returning Fox. The moment you get involved with someone at work. If anything. Cheat. but with a labor shortage the company is not going to be pleased to lose a valuable worker. I act indignant. Wait. change the subject. and/or have your work history tarnished by being a pig. You don't need a lawsuit. assuming you can handle being used by a Fox for cheap sex. it will be on personal time. Once you make this viewpoint known. People are so sexually irresponsible these days. If someone from work truly is interested in you. as she does. As quickly as possible. something Foxes usually have to prevent men from being. With your extended timetable. she knows that she is going to have to be the one to initiate things if she doesn't want to wait forever. a Fox who makes a move on you at work is usually pretty serious. I have to resign because I'm dating a co-worker -. that leaves the only logical option. Since you have proven yourself.

To truly understand how to behave around Foxes at work. Sometimes she will come back and sometimes she will not. but mixing business with pleasure can backfire. You are very capable of bringing a Fox to sexual ecstasy. Foxes who don't make explicit moves on you at work are not worth bothering with. This is the point where a Fox will decide you are worthy of sex. coffeehouses. you might not want to admit to being one to a Fox. just remember the Golden Rule of Foxhunting on the job or at her job: Assume she is not interested in you in the slightest. she usually won't. In Chapter 13 I will discuss the role of jobs in Foxhunting in greater depth. preferably in a scenario where you take the lead. because this is the behavior that Foxes reward. One advantage of a restrained approach at work gives you is that you can see firsthand how much posturing pays off. but sexual technique is a large part of seduction. Sadly. and often they have friends and relatives. Except for men with high CUPID ratings. practice indirect seduction on them if you want. if you have viable alternatives you will . If you are inexperienced. stores. The Necessary Attitude For Seduction Every man starts out a virgin. Tap into these powerful networks. when this happens it is essential to respond like a mature Foxhunter would and pull back. be respectful and occasionally the centerfold will wind up making a move on you. The same can be said for men who work in bars and clubs. The common thread in this chapter is closing the deal from one step away. Of the times Foxes have wanted to have sex with me. Even though you may wind up pursuing on occasion. In the television show Just Shoot Me. You have a wonderful network of Friendly Foxes at your disposal. and regroup. Keep them as friends. one of the lead characters is the magazine's photographer. use them to build your reputation on your lunch hour or after work. unless she gives you a very clear reason to believe otherwise. Make an unwanted move on a centerfold and your career is burnt toast. who can do just about anything and get laid.best posturing technique for accomplishing this is to hang out at a place near work after your day is finished and to let people know where you can be found. she will test or tease you to see if you lose your cool. that she is being nice to you only because she has to. It helps to repeatedly envision yourself having sex with a Fox. Unless you are young. courtship is biased in favor of Foxes. The less you worry about your inexperience. If you aren't confident of your ability to please a Fox. on the other hand. imagine for a moment that you are a centerfold photographer. she won't be either. Work your way up slowly if you have to. this is going to hinder you because you won't be fully aware of what you are trying to accomplish. men have to be indirect and covert to succeed. and The Fox you are talking to (her) simply does not interest you or is not your only option. the less it will be an issue. The notion that a man can turn the tables and get the upper hand with Foxhunting is unsettling to them. but work your way up. Sometimes. or any job that puts them in close proximity to Foxes. The best attitude to take with every Fox you meet is as follows: You are a man with many sexual options. As long as you do not give her reason to halt your progress. although this can be appealing if she is sexually restrained. a successful Foxhunter. point out that she is a tease. however. A man can make himself as unapproachable as a Fox just by being civil and putting up a brick wall. I urge you strongly to develop your sexual technique if you find yourself running into brick walls late in the game. For now. more often than not it was a Returning Fox or Fantasy Fox.

it was a very positive experience to be able to take a Young Fox out on a regular basis without the sexual pressure that often results. I suggest you begin devoting as much time as possible to its study. and only advantageously. Thank you. I found myself a freshman in college. and usually the sexual issues with the Fox I am dating are resolved long before we go out. June 4. If all a Fox wants from me is a date. or that you fear rejection and want to keep hope alive. and by being an interesting date. I then tallied up the number of dates we went on and found that it was close to thirty or forty. she sees this act of omission as an attack on her femininity. it is not. In retrospect. not during it. and this alone will make you appear to be more discriminating. The time to talk about the "more" is before a date. and distracts from your enjoyment of the date. and it never really occurred to me that by kissing her goodbye I was probably over the boundaries of their relationship. and especially not at the end of it." since she had an older man for that. I have come full-circle. I didn't even realize until recently that throughout high-school I had regularly dated the same Fox. when I tabulated my life experience and noticed that from the middle of tenth grade. At the time it didn't seem impressive. If you are lacking in this area. You don't kiss your friends goodbye on the lips every time you go out with them. and the combination of a fine meal. but he never hunted me down and she was having sex with him. and an even Finer Fox made the afternoon of Friday. Once you have agreed to date a Fox. Forget what you have read about dating being the most common path to the bedroom. and nothing happened beyond a goodbye kiss. dating her is no guarantee whatsoever that you have accomplished this. I assume that the relationship is not going any further. and with a solid amount of dating experience under my belt. but that doesn't mean that it is not essential. 1982 a memorable one. When that relationship fizzled. Your ability to remain calm in a sexual situation with a Fox. I was just enjoying the moment of having picked a surprisingly good movie. Chapter Twelve: Dating Foxes My first real date occurred when I was fifteen years old. but even Don Juan had to start somewhere. that she was the only Fox I had dated more than once. Christine. Dating is not about sexual pressure. that is a sign that you don't know how to seduce her. I kissed her goodbye on the lips. perhaps practicing on a few non-Elites until you are completely comfortable sexually and relatively skilled. Of all the time I have spent with Foxes. Why you are dating is not an issue for the date. I do this because making this distinction puts the ball squarely in her court. Even if she has not made a move. my results were much better than I had realized. and then to see the premier of the movie Poltergeist. but did not stop it completely. a fine film. I know how to conduct a date from start to finish. If you are scared to discuss sex with a Fox. Foxhunting totally separates dating and sex. I was unaware it was a date until. are going to influence your success rate. free of romantic entanglements. forget them. in higher-percentage situations. Sexual technique is beyond the scope of this book. in a fit of attraction. price range $15-20 at the time). I know men who are so preoccupied with getting Foxes to talk to them or date them that they don't even dare think ahead to the bedroom. she becomes the rejected one. but when I hear about what other young men go through.pursue less often. I never had sex with my "girlfriend. I knew of my First Fox's boyfriend while we were going out. By not pursuing her. making sure I enjoy my dates now as much as I did when I took my First Fox to lunch at a nice NYC restaurant (a sit-down one with waiter service. . through the moment I graduated. always with a purpose. There is no substitute for experience. which will help your reputation and your Foxhunting. and knowing what to do with an opportunity. The quickest path to seduction is to make a Fox want to have sex with you. Fast-forward to today: I date rarely. not giving her a chance to reject me. but the date itself: where to go and what to do. that movie still is in the top five. His presence put restrictions on our physical activity. so I doubt he cared much or even knew. but by no means were we just friends. accept the date for what it is: a date! If you have any expectations that the date will lead to sex.

" Sauce for the goose. she approached you knowing that you wanted her. Remember how Foxes who tell you never to contact them again treat you if you call them "just to say hi. In fact. direct approach for a Returning Fox. you'd be filing for a restraining order. If you want a simple. What do you do when a Returning Fox calls you out of the blue "just to say hi?" You know there's more to it than this. but getting her to date you is child's play. Even if the Returning Fox rejects your offer. I have lost nothing. she can return yet again to replay the scenario with your position even stronger next time around. Fox: Arrrrghhh!! Men!! Slam!! Don't worry. Me: Sure. my fear of rejection disappeared totally. She will likely call me back for whatever she was going to contact me for (probably to give me another opportunity to beg for a date). more than you ever might have at any other point if you play your cards properly. that still doesn't change the fact that she returned." Dating factors include the level and nature of the interaction you have had with a Fox prior to The Date. Also important is the type of Fox you will be dating: The Returning Fox It is admittedly bold to get a Returning Fox to agree to sex. and if I had contacted you when you didn't want me to. I think of the day she will return and the wonderful position that will put me in.Ever hear the phrases women love a challenge or women want what they can't have? They are spoken for a reason. try the following: Fox: Hi!!!! Me: Who's this? Fox: Aw come on! Me: Why are you bothering me now? Fox: I wasn't bothering you! I was just saying hi!! Warning: A Fox never contacts someone "just to say hi. I'll go. You rejected me! Remember that? Fox: That was then and this is now. The man who is reserved on a date and is obviously a man who can get laid whenever he wants is in a very powerful position with the woman he is "ignoring. treat it like a green light to ask her out. The phone rings again: Me: Hello? Fox: Why are you so mean to me? [She would like to thank. and this will dictate your actions both in planning the date and on the date.. Once I noticed the trend that is the Returning Fox. Please get lost.. and this knowledge gives you bargaining power.. and now because I represent a challenge to her. If she doesn't. When a Fox rejects me for a date now. Me: Don't let the phone hit you on the way out. Fox: Aw come on!! I wouldn't do that! If I'm bothering you. Aren't you happy to hear from me? ..] Me: I'm not. and as long as you don't chase her if she leaves. If she has rejected you in the past. and is now approaching you for any reason. But remember the oneand-done rule. she'll call back. Think of an ex-boss who asks you back to work after firing you." Not when there are unresolved sexual issues from the past. The only reason you suspended it in this situation is that she cleaned the slate by returning.

by the way. but know internally that your words are having their desired effect.. I've moved on. The Fox who very coolly asks you for the details of your date may run home and gush to her friends about what a great date you'd be after you have conveyed this impression with your smooth words.Me: Sure!! Nothing like being rejected and having her return to twist the knife! Fox: Aw come on!! I'm not rejecting you! Me: Are you saying you'd like to go out on a date? Fox: I didn't say that. Silly me!!(giggles) Me: Exactly. No matter how you slice it. there is still the sexual hurdle to clear. Even if your posturing is successful and makes the Fantasy Fox want to date you.. you have the upper hand with a Returning Fox. Foxes are mistresses of keeping a poker face even when their emotions run deep. securing the date is easy: Me: Hello? Fox: Will you please be nice to me? [. Milk the upper hand! You don't have to be hard-nosed. or at any one time. Scram! Fox: Are you saying you wouldn't go out with me again? Me: What do you mean again? We never went out! Fox: Oh yeah. or you can tell her that you won't talk to her because you have a policy of not talking to Foxes who have rejected you. You'll have to ask me out and pay for the date. but with that reduced reward also comes a reduced risk. We're done. Using indirect methods to get the Fantasy Fox to want to go out with you requires that you: Don't be obvious. Indirect seduction only works well if you keep it indirect. Me: Exactly. Click! Next time she calls... The downside is that a date is less of a reward than sex.] Me: You had your chance and blew it. you can't expect results from any one Fox. her co-stars. The Fantasy Fox In the last chapter I talked about indirect seduction as a way of getting a Fox to imagine herself having sex with you. and can just ask her out normally. . You sound like a mindless bimbo. For this to happen. How you choose to play it is entirely up to you. that's right. Fox: Thanks!!! (giggles) Even if you knew I'd say yes you wouldn't ask me out? Me: No. It works even better if all you are trying for is a date. or whatever you feel comfortable with.her producer. I'll be holding my breath until you say yes (I say this with sarcasm).

avoid propaganda and mention only that you are dating someone. Convey the attitude that the Fox you are talking to means nothing to you. Following is a sample dialog of how this might work out in practice: Fox: Tell me about your date!! Me: Not sure if I should. If you harp on your message. temporarily cashing out to avoid overstepping and do not describe the date further. Developed properly. Concerned the Fox didn't get the message first time? She did. Reputation is everything. To reinforce this opinion. it is all you will need to Foxhunt. and if she likes what she hears she will begin to want to be the one you treat this way. I let the information sink into her mind.. made dinner. The more creative. Don't be afraid to be a little more provocative than usual when describing the date. I brought groceries. If she admits her interest. the conversation moves on. A Fox who already believes you are successful will pay very close attention to what you do with other Foxes. Me: What if you don't like it? I wouldn't want you to think I was a lousy date. Fox: Aw come on!!! I'm sure I'll like it. when in fact nothing could be further from the truth. Don't repeat yourself. Leave it to the Foxes to prod the details out of you. listened to some jazz. Most Foxes deny it. I might pursue her. Want to know what happened after that? Fox: Yes!! Me: I bet you do! Then I smile and end the conversation. while the Fox you are describing means the world. but I take no responsibility for your reaction. A sexual reputation is not the same as a general reputation. and by then it will be too late. Since you are so curious I'll tell you.. and then I gave her a massage. If she shows an interest in me. . I call her on it and ask her why she's so curious. They think as long as no one dislikes them that this is going to mean that Foxes will want them. A more conservative conversation along these lines might go like this: Fox: Tell me about your date!! Me: What's there to tell? It was just a date. we drank a bottle of wine. she will see it as propaganda. If she presses for more info. Your goal in describing your date to a potential Fantasy Fox is to get her to inject herself into the date as the female lead. but your perceived popularity will frame their initial opinion of you. you'll know the feeling. Fox: Okay. but they sure sound it sometimes). Men are terrible when it comes to maintaining their reputations.Make the date you describe interesting. Me: I made her greet me at the door with a French kiss while wearing the sexiest outfit she owns. A man who is having sex with a Fox isn't going to be too concerned with what other Foxes think of him. I rebuff her. If you have ever heard a Fox you wanted describe the perfect man to you. Me: You can't say that until I tell you. Remember the one-and-done rule and don't worry about her reaction. You cannot tell immediately what her cards are if she chooses not to show them. but her opinion of me will have changed. Fox: Aw come on!!! (Foxes may not all be alike. Sauce for the goose. if she says nothing. the better.

and use indirect methods in the meantime. Fox: Where'd you take her? Me: We went to a coffeehouse. If she does. By doing this I maximize the rewards while minimizing risk. Fox: So what happened? Are you going to see her again? Me: Not sure. I find out she is available (easy on the internet). but I wasn't dating you. The less intense you are about discussing the Foxes in your life. On the other hand. and then forget her instantly! Foxes may complain about persistent men but they can't stand being . By adopting what is essentially their attitude to dating. or in response to a gimmick (like if I am sitting in a coffeehouse with a tarot-card deck and she wants a reading). It's one thing to pursue a Fox out of the blue. If she accepts. and do not care if she says yes or no. but even then it is still acceptable to ask if she is available.) Me: Yes. This is similar to the difference between trying to get your first job in an industry as opposed to having been successful in that industry for several years. If she says she didn't realize she was coming across as a tease. they tend to find this offensive if they are taken. This is the main reason I am loathe to put expectations into my dates -. At this point I ask for the date. If she is a tease. the more believable you will be.Fox: Not too good." A positive response to an approach by you is not like a green light. was I? Fox: Not this time!! In most cases she won't inject herself immediately. Ask a Fox out without knowing if she is taken. The Available And Interested Fox About the only time it is wise to pursue a Fox for a date is when she is available and interested. this is an "open three. The most common sequence of events that leads me to ask out an Available and Interested Fox is as follows: She has approached me for conversation. as do Foxes. I forget she exists and move on. She's nice and all but kinda boring. This is especially true of Utility Foxes. A successful Foxhunter takes the ability to get dates for granted.too many added hurdles. After that we went for a walk in the park and talked. and is more likely to become a Returning Fox.. because she could just be civil rather than interested. let the clock tick until she becomes available and pursue her then. like your time was wasted. and then to dinner. I plan the date cautiously because I made first contact. and most of the time you will be shot down with the excuse. huh? Me: Oh. call her a tease and forget her. Foxes will see you as worthy. Otherwise.. Some Foxes like to flirt and back down only when the guy calls them on it. With indirect seduction. No Fox will punish you for pursuing her once. and if she declines. I like sharp minds. Fox: I have a sharp mind!! (A mind with an SAT score of 720 combined. act indignant. There's no point in putting yourself at risk like this unnecessarily. call her a liar or tell her to be more careful in the future. But it was just a date. knowing there is a chance that she will become a Returning Fox. although some will resort to dating and even consider dating a utility for getting free evenings out. if an available Fox makes first contact. it went well. make her a Friendly Fox and use her to build your reputation. she will respect you for seeing through her. you can't count on anything except your reputation improving if you do it right.

Technically.. If she presses further. I piqued her curiosity. Romantic Conversations With Foxes If you have a general discussion about relationships with a Fox. you said we weren't going out. like I want a liar raising my children.. tell me! . letting her know I had an evening planned.. If she's having a good conversation with you. don't be surprised if things take a sudden turn for the personal. She will be flattered by the invitation. because you have taken things to the next level without reaching the bedroom. By not telling her my plans. Maybe she will.forgotten. The only solution to the complications is to reach the point where you can conduct an entire seduction flawlessly. But I still know where I'd take you. I've had many conversations where I've secured dates this way. Fox: Maybe I was lying! Me: Oh. Closing the deal can be surprisingly easy from this point: Fox: Oh. and where's that? Me: Why should I tell you? You just told me you don't want to go out with me! Fox: Aw come on!! Me: Come on what? Fox: Tell me!! Me: Please.. I never asked her out. try this: Fox: Aw come on. Once you get the hang of it you have a useful tactic: Me: I know where I would take you on a first date. This will not happen overnight and requires skilled effort. and if you handle any rejection properly you have nothing to worry about. Fox: Aw come on!!! Me: Why should I? You called off our wedding! Why date? Fox: I might change my mind! Me: Let me know when you do. It gets complicated when she accepts the date. maybe she won't. she will see it as a sign of confidence if you ask her out without appearing desperate or eager. I put the thought in her mind. Fox: But I don't want to go out with you! Me: I know that. At the same time. Put yourself in the Fox's position for a moment. A good roundabout way to test the dating waters with a Fox is to talk about dating her without actually asking her out. Fox: Children!? I don't want to marry you! Me: Guess there's no need to date then..

sharp and don't be late. Me: Would you like to go out on a date sometime? (Find out first if they are available). That flow from a general conversation to a personal one in this fashion is common. On the other hand. Another clever way of dealing with a Flirting Fox is to act like she's a tease. I'll show you. if you change your mind. but one that she prodded from you. because it is not his primary goal (sex is). and tapdance around a direct overture for months. The most effective response to flirting is to ignore it. The better your planning. and continue Foxhunting. the flirtation ends. await her return. she will respect you for seeing through her. Even if I am totally in lust with a Fox. . she'll have to up the ante. to who made first contact. If she accepts the dare. if only to shoot you down. Once you have enough Foxes. My time is not wasted. and thinks that you should seek a deeper relationship. who should make the plans. It behooves the Foxhunter to take steps to move the flirtation along to the point where it stops or converts into something real. if she presses the issue I make one aggressive move to test her: Fox: That's just another of your many fine qualities. The Concession Fox Some Foxes feel threatened or are offended by Foxhunters. and she is not able to string me along.m. her flirting with you puts you one step away from dating her. when they could have gotten their answer in seconds or minutes. Many Foxes like to leave everything up to the man as a test. If I lose her because I didn't do what she wanted. and their lack of power over a Foxhunter makes them uneasy. the better your results. odds are you never had a chance of getting it. and so forth. A roundabout method similar to this one is to ask the Fox about what she likes to do on dates. The Flirting Fox A gray area which occurs when a Fox is flirting with you but leaves it to you to make the next move. Sometimes she wants you to make the first move. If you have to beg for what you want. use one-and-done. She takes that as an offer to go out with you. This rejection-by-omission will cause the Fox to move on or up the ante to win you over. meet me at Winston's on Friday at 8:00 p. so be it. New Foxes become expendable and flirting becomes easy. but it is not okay to lose your dignity. They are used to having the upper hand with men. The window of opportunity is created by the first remark ("I know where I would take you on a first date"). I refuse to let her take advantage of me. A Concession Fox has taken direct issue with your Foxhunting. I have seen men hem. to my whim. and she is forgotten until she returns. saying only that you'd know where to take her on a date. Fox: Sure!! If she doesn't say yes. You never actually ask her out. and if she's not. you become a player in need of taming. A status quo of flirting is not good for a Foxhunter. to how I met her. if you are that curious. and by ignoring her you have avoided risk. How I deal with a Flirting Fox depends on everything from who she is. After I have ignored a Flirting Fox. not tell you.Me: I told you. Better yet. It's okay to lose a Fox. This is a derivative of the Fantasy Fox technique. No longer a desperate loser who has to beg for a date. haw. she will feel as if she were sexually inferior to you because she couldn't make you respond to her. If she's a tease. and even the request for a date is presented as a rhetorical statement which dares the Fox to reject you. and a good one. In either case. where she likes to go.

. but they wind up begging you if they think you can do better. Me: So you are saying if I acted like a gentleman with you.Concession Foxes usually have designs on you. Foxhunters became so difficult only after being rejected for what the Foxes later try to get them to concede! Foxes will make you beg if they think you have no alternatives. and that I can be a gentleman. Sex without love just seems to work for me. but I'm not going to jerk off in a closet until it happens. you'd date me? Fox: Yes. The Foxhunter who wants to get married or be monogamous can enter from this point on favorable terms. for it is the Fox who is trying to win him over. Fox: Ummm. except they don't want to meet your standards. more often than not she is going to want me. Having convinced her that I can handle myself in bed.. If I respect her timetable. What's the matter? Mad I'm not begging you for a date? Fox: Okay. but I don't see them beating a path to my door. would have been fun.. From that point . and just show her a good time. truth be told. Fox: Aw come on!!! There are many nice women out there! Me: I know there are. Dress elegantly. if I found someone I wanted to marry. Why fix what isn't broke? Fox: Think of what you are missing out on!! Me: You mean paying for dates and constantly having to prove myself? No thanks. All I have to do on the date is act like a gentleman and not turn her on too much. But you're a player! (Much better than being called "too nice"). Me: Here's your chance: I'll pick you up Friday at 7. she is likely to shorten it. I'd consider it. Ironically. Fox: Okay okay!! Checkmate! I have conceded what I used to beg for. Fox: Silly! You have to ask them! Me: I do not have to ask them. They like the challenge of proving how special they are by taming you. If she tries to weasel out. just say this: Me: Thanks anyway. Fox: Can't you just date without having sex for a change? Me: I'm sure there are a few I'd consider it with. Bye. I just know how to exploit them. Those are the rules. I can't stand dating unless it's with someone I'm already having sex with. not make a move. One sample dialog is all it takes to illustrate how to court a Concession Fox: Fox: Doesn't it bother you to use women the way you do? Me: I make them very happy!! Fox: Wouldn't you rather just make one happy instead of using many for sex? Me: Since when is sex meaningless? Look. and I didn't write them. I would go out with you if I didn't think you would use me and dump me. But either they don't want to marry me. or I don't want to marry them.

Not even the hint of sexual interest. though that crowd will figure out more quickly that your Fox is just a friend. Take her instead somewhere you go only with her. which puts the burden on her to offer a better alternative or stop complaining. the burden is on her to produce someone for you or date you herself. and you have it made. The rules for interacting with a Friendly Fox are relatively simple: No sex. You want people to see you with your Friendly Foxes so that your reputation is enhanced. it is a natural part of your life. Remind her that you are content with Foxhunting. The preceding examples represent ways you can wind up dating a Fox. to hold your ground. Foxes spend a disturbing amount of time humiliating men they deem unworthy. either by refuting her argument or by taking her on a date and showing her your more civilized side. This was not my intent. Down the road. If a Concession Fox suggests you try normal dating. Notice in the examples I give that the Foxes often function very poorly when you move beyond their scripting. Many men I have taught Foxhunting to wind up cashing out favorable terms such as these. but others will assume you are a couple. you fall behind Chapter Thirteen: Meeting Foxes Seduction begins with a meeting. Your first impression sets the tone for the entire game. and you come Fox-approved. Even if they choose to take their time. it is the ability to capitalize on the window of opportunity created by a meeting that defines a Foxhunter. the more likely she will have sex with you. My only exception to this rule is when the Friendly Fox knows I am dating her to build my reputation. and to continue Foxhunting even after you think you no longer have to. Compare this with professing your love for a Friendly Fox and her seeing you as a desperate loser who cannot take a hint. Avoid overstepping and you have a vital resource. the greater the boon to your reputation. What will separate you from the other men in your Friendly Fox's life is that she feels comfortable with you. Friendly Foxes are easy to accumulate. and she may know it. and how dates can materialize from what appears to be an innocent conversation. Be visible.it becomes a matter of closing the deal. My goal is to explain Foxhunting and give the reader something he can use to improve his love life. The Friendly Fox (Now The PIVOT) You may know it's not a date. The Foxier your friend. mess . By no means have I covered every possible situation. Get off to a good start. The more interesting she finds you. see you as desirable. You will score points. Foxes are not very good at improvising. and work wonders for your reputation. Regular hangouts are good. so that the people who see you there assume you are a couple. knowing that you would not make an advance at her. Instead of a date with a Fox being something you obsess over. Successful Foxhunters go from meeting a Fox to having sex with her quickly and with minimal effort. in which case I offer her my company and a free evening out in return for her help. your reputation will precede you. One thing you should keep in mind is that partial application of those principles will almost always fail. A man who can get a Fox to converse can often persuade her to do something she swore she wouldn't. when you visit the place again. Go Dutch. and treat you as a winner who can get laid anytime he wants instead of a loser who cannot. Progress can set you up for a bigger disaster down the road if you don't follow through properly. This is why it is crucial to never let up. Foxes will assume that you have dates whenever you want them. It reveals a side of their behavior that is psychologically abusive and something which men should keep in mind when they think of Foxes as nice creatures. Friendly Foxes provide quality access to other Foxes. The moment you stop doing what got you ahead.

It's also nice to have more space than your rivals. a place for Foxes to stay with you rent-free (if you are going to be giving them material goods in return for their company you might as well work it to your advantage). considering the impact on your Foxhunting. I know many waiters who are not wealthy but have little trouble Foxhunting because their work gives them premium access. especially if these buildings are near universities or other areas with large concentrations of young singles. and its access to Foxes. I happen to have lived in such a building for over a decade. the game begins long before meeting.00. The problem of meeting Foxes is a sham one. You cannot walk outside where I live without encountering scores of Foxes.000 depending on the school. anywhere I reside will put me in Fox-heavy territory. Example: a two-bedroom apartment in New York City costs about $500-1. Their decision to respond or not is influenced by the meeting and how you present and conduct yourself. A course in massage will cost you anywhere from $5005. and then go for the best apartment buildings or houses in those neighborhoods. and you can get a good massage table for less than $500. but getting the Foxes to respond. This is a good way for a wealthy Foxhunter to convert his wealth into opportunity without having to spend money on individual Foxes. for we do this all the time. the better. An example of creative Foxhunting would be to use the extra bedroom mentioned in the previous paragraph as a massage room. If you are in a big-city and take a two-bedroom apartment. Find an Honest Fox to give you feedback.up early and your chances suffer. perhaps even taking a job exclusively for this purpose. they will come. Some apartment buildings have up to 1. How you furnish a home is more important than where it is or what it is made of. Living near Fox-heavy hangouts is recommended. Other men have work schedules which allow them to hook up more easily due to flexible or off-hours. especially if you patronize them regularly and get to know the Regular Foxes. but not because of Foxhunting. in other words. Some jobs. Where You Work All jobs are not created equal. Choose where you live very carefully. put you in . The real problem is not meeting Foxes. we focus on prestige and income. and appealing). The more Foxes who live in close proximity. Upper-class neighborhoods make poor Foxhunting grounds. The mere presence of the massage room would lend itself to indirect pursuit. as most of the Foxes are either Golddigging or Taken Foxes. If you build it. Look for slightly expensive. A strong argument can be made that income and prestige are secondary to the access to Foxes your job provides. who you are and how you behave. the kind Foxes seek out when they live in big cities. you have a guest room that can be used at any time. like those in retail. Stick to the hip areas and areas popular with young people. especially if she believes another Fox already visits there. clean. and a Fox who sees the room and is not asked to visit it may just propose the idea on her own. secure apartment buildings. Status is important. and if you can make your apartment FoxFriendly (i. You can count on being judged on the basis of it. This is another example of how you can often skip the dating and pursuit hurdles with the right preparation.000 a month more than a one-bedroom. Your home is your lair. I'm not going to tell you not to. your domain. well. Spend that money and you have the ability to throw parties.e. For Foxhunters. Here are some factors which will influence the number of Foxes you cross paths with: Where You Live The ideal place for a Foxhunter to live is in a big-city apartment building where Foxes outnumber men. I would rather have an average home in a great location than a great home in an average location. and after you have completed it you can put your skills into practice. but the man who already has status should work on giving himself greater access. If you want to use free housing to lure Foxes. and this will improve your chances over a rural area where your next-door neighbor is a mile away.000 residents.furnished.. but I have to say it is a very good utility angle if you can afford it. When we think of how a man's job affects his love life. Since I live near three universities. you will be way ahead of your competition. Meet enough of them and you will have no problems stacking a party in your favor. More important than the quality of your home is its location. how well you prepare yourself for the Foxhunt greatly influences your results.

it doesn't even take that much money to throw a decent party.e. usually off chasing more Foxes. The Wall Street Journal once did a piece on how Foxes across America have the hots for UPS couriers. citing their reliability and uniforms as major turn-ons. Long-term. and your reputation will develop and spread like wildfire. get one or miss out on short-term opportunity. A Foxhunter is not usually going to brush . One Athletic Fox had it written into her contract with a sneaker company that she was to receive a new pair every two weeks. Fox-heavy environments are essential to success. It was like the beer commercials. and it was the same almost everywhere. it helps to be seen with a Fox the first few times you frequent a long-term hangout. Also. there are a number of female-dominated professions where men are beginning to make inroads. delivered via UPS. the owner. I found myself outnumbered by Foxes. If you don't have a gimmick. Because of this friendship. I noticed that wherever I worked. Though not for everyone. especially party or club-oriented ones like bartender or DJ. I even wound up having to keep them occupied while he was busy. where looks are often the primary hiring consideration. This man kept several Foxes off the market simultaneously. or sit with a tarot deck and you can become the center of attention anywhere. Now imagine that you are at a Star Trek convention where the population is ninety percent male and there is nary a Fox in sight. I found this coattail effect to be surprising and amusing. and the executive level) and others who wear pink collars will find themselves surrounded by Foxes at work. to improve your overall chances without wasting it on any one Fox. Who You Hang Out With (Now Called WINGMEN) So obvious. well-groomed pet to a park. Take a well-bred. Any place that you will not be frequenting regularly can be considered a short-term hangout. accounting. It helps to take an aggressive approach. I realized this when in 1991 I began spending time with a Foxhunter. not tactically. Long-term hangouts include anywhere you park yourself on a regular basis for an extended period of time. Since first impressions are important. and you will find yourself surrounded by Foxes. Imagine for a moment that you are at a party with five other men and fifty Drunk Foxes. It takes a high CUPID rating and good technique to succeed in a short-term environment. Hanging out with Foxhunters is easy to do. A Successful Foxhunter makes note of Fox-Heavy and Fox-Friendly hangouts. Take a job in one of them. i. In fact. Others. and the Foxes had subservient relationships to their male superiors. secretaries (especially in law. Bank tellers. You will get to know most of the other regulars. Conscious of the importance of hangouts. like centerfold photographer. but also very real. and later married the driver. Having been a secretary myself. finance. who you associate with will impact your results. he gravitates over time to the most lucrative Foxhunting grounds. If your sole mission in life is to Foxhunt. with loser guys surrounded by Foxes. who wants a woman whose primary purpose in life is to be an ornament for the men she works with? Where You Hang Out Foxhunting time is precious: do not waste it. intimate contact with super-Elites. a few hundred or thousand dollars to blow. I lost my taste for what I now call office whores because dating one usually means having to deal with too much rival attention from her workplace. Gimmicks and utility also go a long way towards getting the ball rolling. I literally did not spend a day without running into one or more of his groupies. his popularity begins to feed on itself. build the wrong one and you can easily wind up doomed. play a guitar in a coffeehouse. where I would rely on posturing instead. Men of means can create these environments at will. Hangouts fall into two primary categories: Short-term. Still other jobs.. put you in one-on-one. yet so overlooked. Build the right reputation and you have it made.constant contact with Foxes. my stock rose and my access increased tremendously. Your own Fox Nest. I am much more likely to approach a Fox in a short-term hangout than a long-term hangout. and some Friendly Foxes will go a long way. will put you in Foxland with a degree of power and status. Foxhunters need to take their business seriously. Once he has crossed the barrier to where he is always in the company of Foxes. Use your money strategically.

What You Drive A very important factor. and the next. None of these attitudes are tolerable. and so on. Foxhunters are desirable men with superior options to any Fox they are talking to. Project confidence. enjoyable. money. I could hire a limousine once a week. The rules of utility and gimmicks apply. be patient and disciplined. If she senses you are expecting too much she will reject you on principle. used car like a Buick. Foxes love to test men for resolve. My primary transportation -. I have no sympathy for men who leave gaping holes in their CUPID rating and then complain about poor results. Avoid desperation. because they can just move on to the next. the easier it will be to break the ice or have it broken for you by Foxes. Few big-ticket items depreciate faster than a car. Your CUPID Rating The higher your CUPID rating. No one is going to believe you are . The research will be insightful.you off or be stuck up if you don't interfere. If you find yourself with an automobile. and do not panic.for attracting Golddigging Foxes. If your approaches are not successful. giving Foxes the upper hand. and walk away whenever your instincts tell you to. If I had to choose a car for myself. with a clean and comfortable interior and a nice exterior. but any obstacle you can remove with effort is worth the time and energy. To not make this effort is to say that you are happy with your results.00 pair of Rocer inline skates -. or take a thousand taxi rides. Keep your car in good condition. It's one thing to be born with something you cannot change. but try not to assume that any Fox is a sure thing. For groupie appeal. who correctly assume that any man who would piss away $50.a $350. Men who drive expensive cars have a wonderful gimmick at their disposal. When all seems lost. Golddigging Foxes are merciless when it comes to money. especially in the summer. Do not feed their massive egos!! Lose your cool when things aren't going your way and you lose everything. but it is possible to minimize risk. brains. Your prospects will improve the most if you improve in the following categories: looks. He reaped enormous benefits from that experience. have no further room for improvement. pile as many points as possible onto your strongest category. One thing I can say is that if you live anywhere that requires a car. Although in later years I was able to replace these men with Friendly Foxes and reputation-building platonic dates (I have few male friends and always Foxhunt alone now). Ultra-serious Foxhunters can take this concept to the extreme and do things like become a roadie for successful bands. you are in an area that is not Fox. like one of my friends once did. It is impossible to eliminate failure. Your Attitude Foxhunting uses maximum effort at maximum efficiency to obtain maximum results with minimal risk. A car is not worth it for a big-city dweller. and personality. this leaves plenty of time to improve your CUPID rating. and few are more expensive to maintain. and the tide will turn in your favor. The long-term benefits of are worth the effort. or that you just don't want to succeed badly enough. Foxes will be judging you on it.heavy. and having lived in large cities for all but one of my three-plus decades.000 or more on a car is a spender.. not caring if they bankrupt one man. but having grown up in the heart of Manhattan. I have never needed a car.000 a year). I would opt for a well-preserved. I can say that any man who is stuck should consider becoming close friends with a successful Foxhunter and observe. and you will meet many Foxes along the way.. especially those with limited funds. keep your cool and hold your ground. For what it costs to keep a car standing still in Philadelphia (close to $5.serves me very well. Deviate from this principle and your batting average will decline. where on a typical weekend skate I might cross paths with several hundred Foxes. but I'm not that fond of cars beyond their ability to get me from Point A to Point B. Do not display anything inconsistent with you being a Foxhunter: wait out the dry spells.

and then ignore everyone except the Foxes you want to pick up. Mention that you are a professional who charges for the service and they will have to up the ante to get you to work for free. Foxes scan the AOL member directory day and night in search of free psychic readings. Tarot and astrology are excellent gimmicks because you are not responsible for the reading and serve only as a conduit. If you are proven right. Better yet. Without knowing you. and choreography. I do not make a habit of pursuing every Fox who responds to my gimmick. Another term for a gimmick is chick magnet. tell her instead that she will break up with him within 3-6 months. and you can be reasonably certain that a gimmick which works with ten Foxes will work with ten thousand. you'll make out like a bandit if you are any good. I would recommend choreography only to men who know what they are doing. you can always let the stars or the cards do your work for you and take the credit for the good results while shifting the blame for the bad. Foxes tend to think and act alike. This variation of the gimmick works very simply: Give a psychic reading to a Fox who has a very messed-up love life (make sure she approaches you for the reading and warn her that she can't handle the truth). Tell her she will have to develop herself spiritually before she finds the right man. give a few free readings to make it look like you aren't Foxhunting. My two current favorite gimmicks are giving psychic readings over the internet. The psychic gimmick is especially strong on the internet because you can use it anytime. Even if she rejects . If you set up a psychic screen name. Be nice to her for a little bit and then flirt very aggressively. please send it to me. A gimmick is anything that causes Foxes to approach you. A successful gimmick yields a bottomless pit of Foxes. Gimmicks The singlemost powerful Foxhunting tool is the gimmick. If you know of a better way to break the ice with a Fox. she will respect your insight and become a Returning Fox. the latter yields a small number of high. A Fox who reaches this juncture with you will trust you in matters of the heart. You create instant Utility Foxes. however.quality options. keep it to yourself and don't kill the goose. the times I am correct I leave the impression I have special powers. and the psychic gimmick is a more practical solution. I cannot tell you which gimmick to use. I will end this mini-lovefest with my pet gimmick with a walk on the bolder side. and a free psychic reading room. as many women who seek out psychic guidance are sexy young dancers. When I am approached by a Fox interested in my gimmick.well-fed if you act like you are starving. I have already mentioned a few gimmicks. want immediate results. I hold the upper hand. They also work beautifully in concert. Tell her that she chooses the wrong men for the wrong reasons and needs to look for more meaningful qualities in her mates if she is to be happy. psychic readings can be very powerful. even though I explain to any Fox I read for that there is no magic to giving a spiritual reading. I will always take the open three-point shot and make a move. Men. which you can tease by saying they are too beautiful to read objectively. delivering a compliment while denying their utility. but it is absolutely essential to have one. an endless supply that can be replenished at will. If you don't want to risk being wrong. The former is easy to master and yields more windows of opportunity. A gimmick is a resource to draw upon whenever your Fox supply is dwindling. but those are suited to my personality and style. You can also say that they have complex love lives because everyone wants to have sex with them. you are way ahead of the game. Despite claims to the contrary. but when a Special Fox comes along. Once you are taken seriously by dancers and given the power to control their movement. Even if I am wrong some of the time. and she is available. You'll be very popular at parties and sought-after by Foxes who will usually want to know what the future holds for their love lives. Usually she will get angry with you call you a fake. the side where the Returning Fox walks. If you are good intuitively. or If she has a new man in her life and wants you to tell her that he's her soulmate.

Let a Fox know she has caught your eye and she will consider you conquered. posture correctly. ignore her and getting you to notice her becomes a challenge. ignoring her will reinforce it. The higher your CUPID rating. and which will cause her to remove the brick wall she normally has up and roll out the red carpet. and the better your reputation. on the other hand. The Fox who does not roll out the red carpet for you. say she hasn't learned her lesson. the activities. you can "read" her actions as wrong. they are more likely to have a favorable impression of you. consider it rejection by omission. If her impression of you is positive. In most cases. Advanced long-term approaches like building a Fox Nest are so efficient that they serve as a bottomless pit for the Foxhunter. you will be swarmed by the defense and judged. If you build your reputation properly. Men need to let rejection-by-omission trigger one-and-done. which she probably won't. If the preceding did not make sense. will let a Fox even get to bed with them before he puts up a wall. The Microscope is most important when you are dealing with Forced Interaction Foxes. You can be sure that these Foxes have thoroughly checked you out. Presentation affects a Fox's perception of your status rating the most. has rejected you. Men who waste their time with geek pursuits are going to find themselves Foxless. it will be because the Fox is taken. the most compelling would have to be The Microscope. There are chick magnets and chick repellents. and the guest list. Most of a Fox's resistance is initial: from the moment you inbound the ball. the more powerful it will become. or he might open a coffeehouse as his gimmick. Until she finds her dream relationship. and wait for her to return again. The burden falls on the man to present himself in a manner she finds appealing. If you ignore them and let them observe you without realizing that you are aware of the Microscope. It is not enough to make a good impression on a Fox when you meet her if seduction is your goal.000 or more in a short period of time on one Fox and wonder why they wind up fleeced. sooner or later she will approach you. The man who opens the coffeehouse or throws the party is Michael Jordan. Men. but other factors come into play as well. I have seen wealthy men spend $25. Remember The Microscope Of all the reasons not to pursue. while Foxes fail to realize that having sex with a man will not . Peruse any Fox magazine and you will find many quotes like I knew I had to have him the moment I saw him! A statement like this has implications: any man she does not react to this way she rejects by omission. including timing. The more you learn how to work your gimmick. but even then keep in mind that if your CUPID rating is high enough. Which would you rather be? Think of Foxhunting as a basketball game. Friendly Foxes provide a double boost to the Foxhunter because they improve his reputation and access. Be the owner of the bar and ask her if she's enjoying her visit and you have smashed the ice. A creative Foxhunter would take the same money and throw parties where he controlled the setting. your position will become stronger and stronger. and the man who sits around hoping a Fox will drop into his lap is a playground hacker. Men who make this effort will have no sympathy for their defeated rivals. and if one has not approached you. This is where relative treatment comes into play. After wasting years in these awful places (take it from someone who played tournament chess for four years). Buy her a drink and she might be responsive. the men act genuinely surprised that the opposite sex ignores them. they are not doing anything wrong. and reputation. Foxes have an amazing ability to summarily judge every man they cross paths with. Foxes you are introduced to through a Friendly Fox feel more comfortable with someone a friend of theirs has already given her seal of approval to. but does so for even one other man.you. Gimmicks are excellent tools for accomplishing this. that you see another mistake in her future. fear not. how you meet. she might make herself available. with men playing half-court and the Foxes playing full-court. Even more appalling is how these men insist that despite dismal results. This difference in playing style results in men not realizing that once they break the pressure they have a clear path to the basket. the more likely it will be sooner. and she hears good things about you. The Importance Of Presentation At least half the Foxhunting battle can be won with proper presentation. What is logical is not as important as what works.

and devote most of your time to it until you have what you want. Chapter Fourteen: Welcome To The Chessboard Seduction is a game of chess. A simpler way of explaining this would be to examine each gender's most common complaints in dating: Men: "She won't go out with me. For this to happen. with similar compensation. tricks. . In a chess book. Bobby Fischer can usually take one glance at a chessboard and find the correct move. your pawn structure intact. keep your king safe. Fox value systems are so similar that a man who can attract one Fox usually attracts dozens. This book. and if they are lucky. but once you sit down at the board you are still going to be a long way from duplicating the brilliance of a Bobby Fischer due to the enormous complexity of the task at hand. At first. As you play and study over time. but not the men they want. you will have to start at the bottom and work your way up. to post pieces and control squares in enemy territory. Foxes confuse their ability to attract a man any time they want with the ability to attract any man they want. eliminate mistakes one at a time. especially when it comes to negative outcomes. If you persevere. but only if you do the work. there will come the time when you are able to integrate the material and your game will flourish. and general principles. which are naturally avoided by the Foxhunter. Situations where dozens of factors overlap and even contradict will be analyzed correctly. and use posturing and indirect seduction the rest of the time. The goal is even the same: to mate your opponent! This book was written much like many chess books in that it won't tell you which moves to make during your games. and add strong techniques to your repertoire. but those who have the most choices often make the worst ones. and you will find yourself with a deep understanding of Foxhunting. but it lays the foundation for becoming a better player. you find them replaced by advanced mistakes. and about a thousand other tips. The best way to minimize the inevitable problem of information overlap that confuses beginning Foxhunters is to keep it simple at first with minor improvements. even against a player like Spassky. put your rooks on open files. and it will be frustrating because just as you eliminate simple mistakes.make him fall in love with her. With Elite men in short supply. they win major tournaments and play in the world championship cycle. for all its complexity. you will implement some of the principles. the puzzle can be solved. Chess champions spend years slaving away at the board. I could advise you to develop your pieces in the opening. they consider a cheating man a lesser evil to being alone or settling for someone they are not attracted to. The situation is similar to job hunting in that the applicant who can land a job with one company can usually land the same job with many other companies. what they achieve is the ability to always have a lover. After a while you will move without thinking. and in most cases your results will improve substantially. or even for the title itself." Foxes: "He won't commit. traps. Foxes attract liars and con artists because they have what these charlatans want. represents that starting point. playing game after game. you will continue to improve. One day the skies will part. pursue only under ideal conditions. If you stick to the oneand-done rule." or "he cheated!" Foxes have an abundance of men to choose from. and that when they cross the half-court line. they are not homefree. Your results should begin improving immediately. Do not let this intimidate you. You will not be able to integrate Foxhunting principles until you understand each principle. the worst that will happen to you is that you get rejected by Foxes that any sane man would pursue. within 3-4 months you should find most of your problems solved. If you make Foxhunting your top priority. poring through book after book. No one can seduce everyone. not chance. Practice and study are the keys to improvement at chess or seduction.

but the root of the problem is the way Foxes assume that men who beg for them are unworthy. getting you to jump through hoop after hoop to keep her in your life. Foxes are rarely special inside. until checkmate arrives. culminating in a position so strong checkmate was easy to force.boils down to her acceptance of him. The transformation rarely occurs overnight. as a Foxhunter you will be treating your love life as a singular entity and not worry about individual skirmishes. Had he begged.. and realize that they are as ruthless in love as men are in business. This bait-and-switch is typical. This is why What does he do? and What does she look like? are the two most common questions asked about blind dates. building small advantages. and that the friend was almost immediately able to snag a date with a Fox through a chance meeting. she probably wouldn't have. only to have her slam the door in his face. It is Foxes who crave the attention of men and panic when they are alone. you can to take your time. but winning the war. Come along if you'd like. your time frees up to replace her. and said "I'm going to the coffeeshop to grab a bite to eat.unless she changes her mind again. Like a man whose career has stalled. This is not an accident: throughout time. employment has been the primary social-climbing tool for men.but success will rarely come immediately. a Fox who is not with her soulmate (more often than not an Elite male who is supposed to love her exclusively and unconditionally) will work to climb social ladders the way men climb corporate ladders. and uses this lie to control you. Once I realized that the word yes was what I desired more than the Fox. Another is a Drunk Fox at a New Year's Eve party. Each Fox wants you to believe she is your best hope. the first official world chess champion. when I lamented over a Fox after a breakup rejection. Without the pressure to go all the way with any one Fox. Wilhelm Steinitz. with the classic example being the Teasing Fox who dresses provocatively. and then acts like she is harassed by the men she deliberately attracted. This is enough to drive any sane man completely crazy. What a man will find special about a Fox -. Recently. To counter Ruthless and Difficult Foxes. as is the quality and quantity of the Foxes you attempt to checkmate. it was not her I missed as much as the comfort of not having to Foxhunt. This is childish. A simple example of this is using a lie to impress a Fox knowing that she cannot or will not bother to verify it. she accepted. He must cater to reality and not his wishes. Men who tolerate this treatment are making a huge mistake. Foxes feed off of the double-edged sword of male obsession. They were talking. Men have to break free from their programming that Foxes are inherently nice. Foxes complain about distant men who don't open up and are incommunicative. It was at this point I began implementing one-and-done without a second thought. A Fox who treats you this way does not truly like you. or at times large ones. and without warning he began walking away (a sign of control). while marriage has served this purpose for Foxes.the rapid accumulation of large advantages . and appeared as if he didn't care if she took him up on it. and only after several comparisons between a man's results with his old methods and Foxhunting does one realize that deviating from Foxhunting principles constitutes an open invitation to difficulty he can easily avoid. your only hope. I detached from the pain and focused instead on replacing her. Eliminating this fear is as simple as realizing that when a Fox leaves. In my youth. Which edge of the sword a man feels will be determined by the Fox's fundamental level of attraction to him. acting as if they are doing all the favors. When this will happen is a variable. When a man is encouraged to focus his attention on a Fox and then convinces himself he cannot live without her." The Fox followed him instinctively. .is sometimes possible.beyond her looks -. The rejection men usually receive from Foxes instills a crippling fear of losing opportunity with a Fox. said that the key to winning a chessgame was through the gradual accumulation of small advantages. The only thing a man can do to prevent problems of this nature is to withdraw from the process. a man has to take control of the situation. he is supposed to turn his emotions around 180 degrees and forget her.. flirts. Regardless of your approach. A more aggressive strategy -.. the man quoted in the Foreword ("Miles") told me that he had explained Foxhunting to a friend of his. Because he didn't put any energy into the request. This is the treatment bad bosses give their employees. The obsession will be encouraged or deemed wrong on the sole basis of her whim. but rest assured that longterm positional improvement pays off.

The good news is that if you are truly dedicated. Once your baseline is established you are ready to Foxhunt with confidence. establishing a baseline of neutrality eliminates the downside. harms his reputation. Study after study has confirmed this phenomenon. Doing nothing is always preferable to failure. not just romantic. and this will lead to a stronger commitment to Foxhunting. The higher your rating. A man with a CUPID rating that is below his potential is going to find pursuit highly unproductive. I will now outline the sequence of steps I consider correct for any man who wishes to become a Foxhunter: Step One: Raise Your CUPID Rating A must! An absolute must. and I have been able to put my love life almost on auto-pilot. who focus their attention on other goals. The chessplayer who does not know how to resign a lost position is thought a fool for playing on when all hope of victory is dashed. Each situation you are confronted with is compared to the baseline. which raises a very simple question: if we know the benefits of a high CUPID rating. My goal with this chapter and this book is to point men along the same path I have traveled during that time. because people are not always honest when they know they are being studied. You'll get better jobs. In addition to raising your CUPID rating. Most will severely understate their more shallow preferences. with a single date with an 18 year-old Fox back in 1995.As for the absolutely hopeless men who fail regardless of what they do. better treatment in all walks of life. Unless you are an Elite. Nothing turns a Fox off quicker than a man who will take her psychological abuse without complaint. Make sure not to be complacent. . Men who let their time slip away. the better. the better. paying the most attention to Foxes who assign you higher partner ratings is also a must. As you gain practice in combining Foxhunting principles the way chessmasters combine chess principles. Foxhunting has become second nature to me. from the first to the last step. I know how to get Foxes to make first contact. Anything which fails to meet your baseline is abandoned immediately in favor of greener pastures. there is room for improvement. the smart thing to do is capitalize. within a year you should have little difficulty raising your rating substantially. Seduction should be treated as an olympic event. The less direct you are about this process. or how powerful the effect. even anonymously. along with your confidence in the system. a catalyst for the future which has culminated in the publication of this book. Even if you aren't an "olympic" Foxhunter. We gravitate naturally towards those who appreciate us the most. My evolution as a Foxhunter began slowly. and attain celebrity status. few men are aware of just how much improvement is possible. Foxes who realize he is not an easy mark will treat him favorably. I made my first conscious effort to date that Fox. how to pursue them when favorable or ignore them when required. your results will improve. Three-and-ahalf years later. The popularity of shows like Politically Incorrect stem from their unapologetic cynicism. For the Foxhunter. The man who refuses to tolerate failure and is willing to walk away will find what he seeks or be no worse for the wear. partial use of the system will help. creates severe emotional strain. and it pays to keep the partner rating concept in mind when dealing with Foxes. Musicians are always going to make better impressions on audiences which prefer their type of music. and wastes precious Foxhunting time. and what to do at every step of the mating dance. its principles integrated. higher salaries. the more significant you become on every level. this flaw is even more damaging because it destroys his confidence. and who do not make every effort to succeed are going to wind up with lackluster results. Most of us severely overestimate our appeal to the opposite sex. The CUPID rating reflects the romantic caste system in America. The baseline concept is important because a man who has no minimum standards will have them met. The more natural your interrogation. The man who obsesses over a Fox he cannot have could have used that time to Foxhunt.

It is not uncommon for a Fox who previously rejected you to suddenly show an interest when she realizes you are no longer into her. As the proverb says. house or apartment.term gimmicks. or a psychic reading room on the internet. including their wardrobe. If it is an exotic breed of dog. job. opening your own. and persistent enough to continue developing new gimmicks or tinker with your existing ones until you learn how to work them properly. Any time I want to get the ball rolling. Listen to the song Under My Thumb by the Rolling Stones for an example of this. just as Fischer combined multiple chess principles to create his most memorable moves. or any proven gimmick. The quickest way to rebuild your social life is from scratch. add a part-time job in a social environment. Changes like this are typical of the small advantages Steinitz spoke of. Long. With either a tarot deck at a coffeehouse or party. making money. If a Fox you have known for years suddenly sees you acting like a ladies' man. Solitary activities include the gym. The vacuum created by those who are no longer in your life can be filled by Foxes who meet your new high standards. Be creative in designing your gimmick. but the access it provides would be worth it. she might find it amusing. taking a job at a trendy hangout. and how you spend your leisure time. your furniture. Over time you might win her over.until the ideal base of operations has been established. but a New Fox will not have seen you before you got stronger. like . A dedicated Foxhunter is going to have his bases covered. One minor alteration in your routine can make a huge difference. and the frequency and intensity of the responses. listen to Positively Fourth Street by Bob Dylan. and will assume you were always strong. but for the rest of the population they are essential for provoking first contact from a Fox. car. Say you have your morning coffee in the same coffeehouse. for a brutal example. Measuring the value of your gimmick is as easy as counting the number of Foxes who respond to it. It will free up your time for work on your CUPID rating and Foxhunting. This commitment excellence will pay off enormous dividends. If you know how to play the guitar. Psychologically. The key here is to combine as many positive steps as you can. This will flush out people who enjoy your company the most. transcending the ice-breaking obstacle. A coffeehouse may not be very profitable. Few men do this. all you have to do is pick up the leash and take it to a Fox-heavy park. and redesigning every aspect of your life. Learning to spend your time alone productively is essential. because you internalize the option not to play. especially if her new impression of you is more favorable. or consider a switch into Fox-Friendly career if you think that is called for.Step Two: Housecleaning Familiarity breeds contempt. Ignoring the Old Foxes will let them return after you have cleaned them out of your life. and you can be sure that they will take notice. and anything else relevant to Foxhunting -. Depending on who you are. For Elite men gimmicks are overkill. or if your finances are plentiful. a place where Foxes are almost never found. Examples of positional improvement include a move to an apartment complex populated by a large number of Foxes. but two blocks away is another Fox-heavy coffeehouse. Hard-core Foxhunters alter every detail of their life. all I have to do is whip out a gimmick and progress will begin almost immediately. Step Four: Develop A Gimmick A gimmick is a romantic calling card. I would venture that fewer than ten percent of men devote more than ten hours per week to seduction. Step Three: Positional Improvement Reevaluate the permanent factors in your life: where you live and work. there are many fish in the sea. some of which struck his opponents like lightning from a clear sky. certain gimmicks will work better than others. Examine your car. developing your mind. just like few athletes train for the olympics. Gimmicks give you the first-contact advantage. a gig in a coffeehouse or bar will make you the center of attention for several hours and yield several Foxes. results-oriented in its implementation. joining a gym where lots of Foxes work out. Those who do are rewarded. I know that the Foxes will come calling. A gimmick can be anything. and anything else which you think is important to your Foxhunting. It helps a lot to start fresh with new people if you have improved because they will not be tied to their previous impressions of you and will treat you like a Foxhunter more quickly. friends. expending maximum effort to reach his goal. hangouts. Develop some short-term and long-term hangouts. your clothes. this is very important because the people who remain in your life will be those who enjoy your company the most.

and continue to Foxhunt. Whatever you do. do not hit on her under any circumstances! This is your safety zone. and you'll wind up with instant access to his Fox pool. accumulating more should be easy.owning a bar or coffeehouse. who break a dozen hearts for every one they satisfy. Don't worry about your results as much as your presentation. popular bars. and a lot more than one Friendly Fox. If you have difficulty finding one. Parties. Initial attempts to improve your circulation should be low-risk. surfing the internet. It should not be difficult to find a Friendly Fox since you won't be pressuring her for sex like everyone else. focus your attention instead on other Foxhunters. going to the gym. or during times when social activity is minimal (like 3:00 a. and the longer you get to know one. and to take your Friendly Foxes. this will give her even more reason to assist you. If you do not force matters. for when you have an open three. Be confident that if you have a high CUPID rating or a gimmick. Step Six: Circulate! Stake your territory in a long-term hangout. As long as you are playful about your request for help. to confide in. Just make sure you are actually funny. Do not resort to forced-interaction environments because your CUPID rating or technique are too weak to carry you. Utility Foxes are acceptable substitutes if they are committed to helping your Foxhunting. The best times to circulate are on the weekends. someone to keep your reputation intact. even deep into the friendship. because you will be able to replace her much more easily than she can replace you. the Foxes who observe you under The Microscope will come to you over time. and turn to.yFox-heavy environments during prime time. My father used to say that if you could make a Fox laugh you could make her do anything. The more you detach emotionally from a Utility Fox. you have created the ideal impression and the ideal environment for indirect seduction and pursuit. especially in the evening. A Fox will have to go through many men with ulterior motives and hidden agendas who wind up hitting on her out of the blue. Hard-core Foxhunters will want more than one. As I became more proficient in my Foxhunting. Just make sure not to trust the Utility Fox the way you would a Friendly Fox. because they can be worked constantly and inject status into your life. trendy coffeehouses. try the internet. to test your pursuit skills (if you fail it won't matter because you aren't returning). Because you aren't pursuing her. The drawback is that the bond which exists with a Friendly Fox will not be there. Another popular gimmick which will keep the Foxes coming back is comedy. Following is an example of how a Foxhunter might circulate for a year: . You. I lost my need for this. and she enjoys your company. and the spillover effect was tremendous.m. Find a few short-term hangouts to visit for variety. If you retain total sexual detachment. Friendly Foxes are replaceable. and the occasional direct approach. to be your friend. you make a good presentation. If you cannot accomplish this on your own. starting perhaps with drafting another Foxhunter. but Utility Foxes are better at manipulation. Other times of the week are better spent working. on a Wednesday). I have hung out with several Foxhunters during my life. If all else fails. can find a new Friendly Fox much more easily. are even better. don't expect anything to materialize. the more you will have the upper hand with her. After your first Friendly Fox. and appear to be a man worth getting to know. on the other hand. do not appear desperate. A Fox in a bar is worth ten in the office. you avoid the pining trap. the better she will treat you. The Utility Fox can function as a Friendly Fox. Step Five: Accumulate Friendly Foxes (Pivots) The Friendly Fox is the best building block for the beginning Foxhunter. but it is definitely the best shortcut. Don't be afraid to move on if you don't find any opportunities which suit you. or preparing for the weekends. and beginning Foxhunters would be wise to get their feet wet by focusing on platonic relationships at first. you can always go the drafting route and feed off the leftovers of other Foxhunters. but Friendly Foxes are better. and other highly social environments are best for this purpose. she'll make a great ally. This can be good and bad: Friendly Foxes do not fake their interest in you. and you don't make any serious mistakes.

The odds you will be dealing with an Available Fox increase dramatically if you meet them during prime time. It is up to each Foxhunter to decide which moves are appropriate and when. and so forth.. Weekends are prime time for Foxhunting. Yearly considerations include vacation time. Remember also the essential role played by Friendly Foxes in circulation.). and even if you have a black book that would make Fonzie jealous. you can usually find an hour to kill that can be put to productive use. The Excluded Foxes will take issue with being blown off and up the ante. do nothing and let them stew. building your reputation. don't let up. or ask them out with slightly better odds than normal. Patrick's Day (tons of Drunk Foxes). Every Foxhunter is going to have his own moves and his own style. a park or mall. If you really want to tap into prime time. Step Eight: Play The Numbers Even if you are having sex with the Fox Of Your Dreams. and this energy converts itself to baggage that poisons their . especially in summer or winter. if she is offended. and on Sunday you will find an uptick of rebound and disappointment potential. you'll also have some that you talk to about this often. On Saturday afternoon you catch Foxes who haven't gone out yet. Foxhunting. Weekend circulation. Clubs and activity groups tend to meet on a weekly basis. they are worth paying attention to. Weekly circulation. and other holidays. but in the interest of not missing a trick. try the business district. Yearly circulation. If you stockpile Friendly Foxes. but only if she is giving you everything you would seek elsewhere. An example of a minor move: Fox: Hi!!! Me: Hey Sexy! If she accepts the greeting. Having several Friendly Foxes in your life to choose from is vital. For lunch. When auditing your Foxhunting (if you are truly serious you will analyze it).all you'll find is that you are back at square one unexpectedly from time to time -. The out-of-sight/out-of-mind rule is the key to playing the numbers. because it saves a lot of money (dating economics are Fox-friendly) and you can talk to dozens of Foxes at a time who happen to be alone on Friday or Saturday night. Once-a-month circulation can include getaways to the same destination.heavy environments and if you don't like the results you are getting. etc. and after work maybe a happy hour or another hangout. Have coffee every morning at the same Fox-heavy coffeehouse. If this happens. Yearly pilgrimages to various resorts are also common. or a campus center. The consequences of complacency are reversible -. especially if you restrict your pursuit to weekends. If the moves you make aren't working for you.e. See the other chapters in this section for more examples of how to make a move.Daily circulation. try another. for a few hours at a time. Valentine's Day (and February 15. It is fine to commit to a Fox. keep changing them until you find something you are comfortable with. Monthly circulation. Prior to work or school.anddone. Bookstores are also excellent places. and complain about men who do not commit. because you wind up spending less energy on each one. Overload your life with Friendly Foxes and then downsize. Step Seven: Begin Making Your Moves Moves can be anything from approaching to asking for a number or a date. or anything else that will improve your results. to even being more bold or more blatant. but also some very lucrative Foxhunting times like New Year's Eve. she has given a green light for future moves. If one coffeehouse isn't performing. spend more time with them. posturing. the internet is also great. Foxes go out of their way to reduce your replacement options by requiring commitments. unless I am in a relationship. and over the long term you will get to know the Regular Foxes. parttime hangouts. Most yearly circulation issues occur naturally. Friendly Foxes also are good to hang out with once a week. Do not stop doing what made you successful. and you see a Fox on several weekends in a row without a man in tow. it's time for one. Or hang out somewhere else that Foxes frequent. Evenings should be spent either raising your CUPID rating. The same rules apply: stick to Fox. you can see which events recur on a monthly basis. Men get themselves into trouble by pining. St. I prefer to free-form on weekends. change your hunting grounds. and you will maximize the benefits of circulation like any good grandmaster. gimmicks. indirect seduction. which I call Dennis Rodman Day because of the rebound potential).but they are also avoidable. The reason is that Taken Foxes tend to spend this time with their lovers. as well as integrating as many Foxhunting principles as possible (i.

and think about her day and night for two weeks. the next time you see her you will hope and dream that she wants you. An example is the GQ-type millionaire who says he's just a regular guy deep down and nothing special. and her only seconds on you. convey that things are going well for you and can only get better. I would hear endless catcalls if I advocated lying as a seduction technique. Foxes want honesty only so they can judge you accurately. but they want to make sure the Royal Couple is seen as gracious by the subjects of its kingdom. They require men with high CUPID ratings who also have good seduction technique. This should not be a surprise. I call this the Attraction Gap. it becomes yours to solve. become smitten with her. The same Fox who will worship a man with money will be repelled by a man who thinks he can buy her with it. except to ridicule those who have them as weak. she will become agitated. This control serves as a trough for their massive egos and an endless source of utility. Foxes want to sit beside the King. If they did that. Foxes are more responsive to men who are not impressed with them. Few men. Tell a Fox what she wants to hear. The first-contact rule takes care of this issue very nicely. you help them to deny the role played by their sexuality. even those who claim to be nice. Foxes do not respect pushovers and use them.interaction. The Fox who knows she must win you over with a real effort. Foxes love it when a man cannot get them out of his mind. and even then use understatement. Honest men would admit that looks are 80 percent of their value system. If you point out to her that the reason things work out for her is her sexuality. Suppressing adversity will help your seduction immensely. not just by entering a room once. hi" when you cross paths. and who does so because he knows it is going to score points with the Fox he feeds this garbage to. Few things make me want to vomit more than mock humility. with you spending two weeks on her. it is best for a man to put the best possible spin on any description of his life. you become someone to avoid. not yours. to the lies they tell in relationships. If they have a problem. while she has forgotten you in the meantime and if you are lucky she will say "Oh. to the lies men tell to get laid. When a Fox asks you if you have been thinking of her. Be self-deprecating. Do not brag. It is best to have the same attitude they do. I find this dance of denial fascinating. for Foxes to expect men to be any different than they are is unrealistic. are truly honest with Foxes. men who pine project an air of desperation. because when this happens they know they have achieved control. The reason so many men lie is simple: Foxes reward lies with sex. but it is clear that no other method is more effective. Despite Foxes who claim to value honesty. they would lose their chance of getting laid. because Foxes have a cavalry of men waiting to help at the slightest sign of distress. It is frustrating for a man to be punished for his honesty while a liar swoops down and wins the Fox over effortlessly with manipulation and dishonesty. if you tell her about the out-of-sight/out-of-mind rule and this will perturb her while instilling respect. at the right time and in the right place. Foxes see honesty as a good thing because it saves them time getting key information. and she's yours. From the lies they tell to the men they reject. Blow your horn only when you have been prodded. Foxes justify their dishonesty on the grounds that it is a test of a man's ability to detect it. that judgment will be harsh more often than not. Step Nine: Put Your Best Face Forward At All Times Foxes avoid problems like the plague. This plays right into her hands. Some basic guidelines: Assume that everything will work out in life. . is more likely to put forth that effort. Foxes are extremely picky. Foxes have this view of the world primarily because things almost always do work out for them. If you have a problem. Paradoxically. Quantifying the positive attitude that Foxes respond to is difficult. Presentation is never more crucial than with self-praise. I have another name for it: mock humility. they also require these men to be humble. A Fox who thinks her lover does not want her primarily for her body is deluding herself. To make the right impression. If you meet a Neighborly Fox in the elevator. One of those lies they reward is that everything is fine with a man's life when it isn't. A Fox's attraction to you is based on her desires. In doing so.

with an open and focused mind. If I did I wouldn't have found the time to write this book! I have put what I can of the system into practice. Fox: Aw come on! I just wanted to see how you were!! Don't be like that!! We have a Returning Fox! Me: Excuse me. and at the most unexpected times. Let the clock tick when circumstances don't favor you. while the nice guy who pursues her is a patsy. but learn from them. There will always be a shortage of Foxes relative to the number of men who want them. I cannot imagine you not improving your results on some level. It will take a year or more to realize the benefits of this part of your Foxhunting. they will come baaaaaack. Foxes smell desperation or eagerness a mile away. What I can do -. a determination to succeed. Failure to pursue is rejectionby-omission and you should proceed with caution. Along the way you will make many mistakes. and will not reach their full potential. don't repeat them. Sometimes she will relent. you are more likely to become one. Few Foxhunters are willing to take the Bobby Fischer approach and implement the entire system. if nothing more than avoiding negative outcomes. and that is where you come in. Improving your results is not always all it is cracked up to be. Make sure you combine this trait with indirect seduction and pursuit techniques. You don't have to be a brownnoser.Be amiable. they will pursue low-percentage Foxes in low-percentage situations. This is a lot like saying that if you sacrifice your youth to spend 6-8 hours a day preparing to become an olympic athlete. and -. Goodbye.if you give the system a full year to work (necessary to get your act together and to let the Returning Fox scenarios begin to play out). Those results take time and effort. but I meant it when I said that I wouldn't talk to you again unless we went on a date. Doing what has to be done for you to succeed is the other half. As just about every relationship guru on the planet has pointed out. I completely avoid one-sided pursuit. Take the following example: Me: Hello? Fox: Long time no see!! Me: I thought I told you not to contact me anymore. Epilogue: Beyond Foxhunting In the last chapter. or that you spend less money and time for the same results. and still others nothing will happen. Knowing what you have to do to succeed is only half the battle. Step Ten: Know When To Let The Clock Tick Remember the Foxes I Told you to write off after they rejected you or were taken? Like that movie monster. use trial and error (there will be many errors). Either I get my date with no obstacles or I refuse to let her make me a prisoner of my desires. they will surrender large chunks of prime Foxhunting time to loser friends and geeky hobbies. Letting the clock tick gives a Fox the chance to make the first move. while others she will walk away only to return again. Who you are and how hard you are willing to work will determine your ultimate level of success. I know that not all or even most of the steps will in fact be taken. Even I don't come close to this. this is the half that I can help you win. If Foxhunting is indeed superior. its use will result in improvement. the Foxhunter who ignores a Fox is discriminating and has standards. and persevere. but blending into a social setting will make it much easier for you to gain acceptance among the Foxes in that circle. Again I ignore her completely. The trick to making this happen is to ignore them completely once you have written them off. It could mean that instead of being rejected all the time. You can also use the clock to your advantage as Foxes who were taken when you met them become available. When she returns. plus you can use long-term reputation-building and indirect seduction much better when you are not operating under timepressure. In her eyes. you no longer have to take risks. Fox: Get real! Me: Fine. I outlined the steps every Foxhunter needs to take to get the best results. Being willing to walk away shows backbone and puts me in control of the situation. Men who could be Elites will let their CUPID ratings languish in sub-Elite territory and below. and consider it a turnoff. because you must first write off a Fox for her to return. because if you are amiable and pursuing a Fox she will reject you as a nice guy who isn't worthy of her. and had excellent results. make sure you pick up wherever you left off. There is nothing I can do to change this. Good luck in finding what you seek.finally -.what I believe I have done through my writing and advice to men -- .

CUPID forces me to undergo rigorous self-examination. Precise CUPID ratings are not practical to compile for every Fox. with a clear objective. we have the liberty to select anyone we want for any reason we want. This would mean that the previous information was incomplete. but rather because new information was uncovered. merits four chapters in this book. that doesn't mean that it is. I am reminded of the chess theory of the 1800's. What took Charles Darwin decades of research to uncover. his life's work. In this freest of nations. To use the chess analogy yet again. players all over the world at all levels study the games of each world championship intensely because they can see the best in action against each other. The method just might be in need of a little polish. but I do not have to. This rarely (if ever) happens. and with winners and losers. In fact. I find myself faced with a lifelong study. I've been tempted to use it myself at times. Today's junior-high-school science students learn more in a year than Newton learned in his entire life. The winners are the men who most quickly seduce the Foxiest women. One generation's brilliant discoveries are axiomatic to the next. others who want to continue my work will have an equally full in-box. so I have done most of the work for you. but by then many men will have gotten laid and Foxhunting will have evolved. and to change our minds without notice. keep in mind that it took me fifteen years to design the method. The person with the higher CUPID rating is more likely to exercise this freedom. Foxhunting goes beyond individual seduction attempts. I have also seen modern theory pay homage to and update classical approaches. When I contemplate what is beyond Foxhunting. These standards are applied not because they are necessarily ideal. Further study revealed a dark side of human nature that tells me that the proper reaction to rejection or dumping is use of the one-and-done rule and moving on. Darwin's theories will be universally accepted. The stalker almost . I couldn't imagine life without it. My first year as a Foxhunter was very mild compared to now. something is not going to be true in 1900 and false in 2000 because it went out of fashion.00015 per hour. and the knowledge that once I am done. while few of us ever train to become world champion. a method for seducing Foxes that any man can put to use in just about any situation. your payment for my work (assuming you are the purchaser of this book) comes out to about $0. It is a lifestyle. Seduction theory is in its infancy. I do not make complex calculations with CUPID. If true emotions were involved. let me add a few more reflections: Beyond CUPID CUPID is second-nature to me at this point. When I began trying to figure out how to get laid I found myself agreeing much more with Darwin than modern-day behavioralists like John Gray. and to properly evaluate Foxes and my rivals. but because they represent the greatest degree of difficulty in seduction. or circumstances changed. The old line What's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this? still gets more mileage than one would expect. less likely to have to. If you think a year is a long time. but no one would call them better scientists. the CUPID 90 who rejects or dumps the CUPID 60 would feel an amount of pain equal to their partner. I am sure that by the year 2100 many flaws will be found in this book. I suspect that in the year 5. It always takes time to master a new technique. and among those men the biggest winners are those who gain the most control over their relationships. As one of my former chess teachers said about Karpov and Kasparov during their heyday of the late 1980's. as concisely and inexpensively as possible. Emotional expressions of righteous indignation from the jilted are merely sour grapes. While we are in the Great Beyond. and in fact the 60's would reject the 90's just as often. I think of the entire concept of treating seduction as a game.is present. and the people they exercise these freedoms with are more likely to react negatively. Even after several years. the only time they look weak is when they play each other. No man on the planet can say he fully understands chess or Foxes. It pays to study those who are successful.000. but you can assist your progress a great deal by filtering your experiences through its prism. which overlooked entire aspects of chess that are now considered basic. Stalking behavior illustrates this concept brutally. Because something is considered obsolete or outdated. Having used the system for close to eight years now. an overall approach that needs to be followed in its entirety for a full year before anyone can properly judge it. Fashion and science do not mix.

a chance they refuse to give non-Elites themselves. Foxes are anything but irreplaceable. you are supposed to take your loss like a man. If indeed this book is received that way. I have found that square one is a perfect place to begin a housecleaning and a CUPID upgrade. My opinion of The Rules is that it is one of the smartest books ever written.always has the lower CUPID rating. and thus very selfish. I know a wealthy man who has several female stalkers. By contrast. Rather than obsession or true love playing a role. you are left with what amounts to a child throwing a tantrum after not getting what s/he wanted. the dating game will automatically end in a draw. but I gave up on three-card-monte a long time ago. Obsessive romantic behavior is not gender-specific. The old saying nothing replaces an old love like a new one should be taken to heart. but returning to square one. The Rules is one of the most effective books of this generation. Victory is possible only if one side caves in and violates its system. Stalkers remind me of the Unabomber. and asked him about his relationship. It is interesting to watch when a man's CUPID rating rises. Breaking The Rules Someone on USENET called Foxhunting the male answer to The Rules. however. keeping your dignity intact is more important than a futile attempt to reverse a rejection. I have no sympathy for anyone who reacts this way to rejection. I probably would have called it Mantrapping For Dummies.such as be honest and be mysterious -. Theodore Kaczynski was a brilliant man with some very complex positions on the issue of technology who made those positions moot with his means of expressing them. Two sub-Elites set out to capture Mr. Your options for protest when rejected are quite limited. What the Rules Girls did should be the goal of every writer: they saw a demand for their information. A wonderful game they have going. Any time you find yourself becoming obsessed with a Fox. he would be completely confident starting over. this pattern would not exist. men listen to non-Elites who tell them to be nice and not shallow. and to do so in a society biased heavily towards Foxes. you are supposed to return the prize. Once we have replaced a Rejecting Fox with a Fox of equal or greater value. when you analyze the ratings of people involved in stalking incidents. Some of the Rules are contradictory or even oxymoronic -. Right the way a Foxhunter sets out to build a Fox Harem. and in doing so changed American society while making millions of dollars for themselves and becoming famous in the process. isn't it? If Foxes win. . The Rules are still a very effective way for Foxes to make sure that a man does not take advantage of you. borders on insanity. I would argue that for practical results. Foxes see arrogance and stuck-up behavior as their privilege. Recently I had another conversation with "Miles" (the guy from the Foreword). everyone does that. your wins never count while Foxes' do. they engage in destructive pursuits. she is forgotten. Don't know about you. and instead of raising their CUPID rating and learning better seduction techniques. and this is why Foxhunting is based on circulating and accumulating Foxes. but CUPID-specific. Even if no Fox on the planet will have you (this will not happen in the current global economic climate). Under this system. and that most of your anger has to do not with losing the Fox. It is much easier to have a reserve of Foxes to call upon at your whim than to have to Foxhunt. Stalkers are very much the same: they take legitimate anger at romantic injustice. Were CUPID not a factor. The final compliment that I can pay to The Rules is that if a Rules Girl encounters a Foxhunter. To carry on any kind of obsession for someone for an extended period of time. It is one thing to curse out a partner who has wronged you. Even men who improve their seduction technique and aren't given to extreme behavior often wind up wasting time wishing a CUPID superior would give them a chance. let me call it an unqualified success. if you win.but let's not get technical. but making that happen is only likely if you raise your CUPID rating or her CUPID rating goes down (this is why Former Foxes seek out men they had previously ignored). Had I been the author of such a book. and answered another important question by saying that if his relationship were to end tomorrow. He said he was still happy with his Fox. published it. remember that most of your obsession is with having a Fox in the first place. especially in the beginning. Though diminished by publication. Reversing the rejection is always the ideal countermeasure.

developing a gimmick. success is a lot more difficult to deal with than failure. change will be a good thing. I usually do. but it is only when I make this decision that I pull out all the stops and do everything possible. . think of what you do instead. she will become agitated at you and punish you beyond what the mistake justifies. but you just aren't a good guitar player. If your Foxhunting is lagging. The system is flexible. If you are not succeeding.Bending The Rules One-and-done could easily be changed to two-and-done or three strikes and you're out. The man who asks 100 Foxes out and gets two to say yes has more dates than the man who asks out five and gets one. and making other improvements. Make sure that you are following the system as best you can. odds are you will not be able to undo it without making major concessions. this is preferable. but knowing you could should give you a bit more confidence whatever your rules. and it reduces my percentage of successes while increasing the number of attempts. but once you have the ball rolling this becomes commonplace. Audit your schedule periodically to see how you are spending your weeks. Or maybe your CUPID rating isn't as high as you think it is. You can be nice to a sub-Elite and call her a Fox even if she isn't. For any risk. and flirtations until you are overbooked. you may have chosen guitar-playing as your gimmick. and each Fox you deal with will respect you because she will know that you aren't obsessing over her and have replacement options. there is an equal and opposite reward. Are you getting the most out of them? I know that on nights where I decide that I am going to pick up a Fox. This may not be the case with you. You can use one-and-done long enough to let a situation cool off and then reestablish contact a few months down the road. In that case you should find a new gimmick. and so forth. if you use one-and-done and don't engage in futile damage control. For example. because she will take oneand-done as an acknowledgement from you that you made a mistake. You don't have to ignore your co-workers or neighbors (lord knows few other men do). You'll wind up having to ignore some Foxes. I do this myself. evaluate what you are doing and see if there is not room for improvement. the sooner this will happen. and compare your results with both methods. but pays a price of 95 rejections for that extra date. my results worsen. If you have a good reason for bending or breaking a rule. acquaintances. you will systematically accumulate Foxes as friends. You don't have to require a sexual rendezvous from a Returning Fox. Few men have ever had to choose between multiple Foxes. with the only change being that you now use one-and-done or another rule. If you make a mistake. That is why one-and-done is so crucial. The game is not sympathetic to those who refuse to play it as best they can. If you can stomach rejection. With every recommendation. Furthermore. try to see if it's your body. by all means do it. and integrate it slowly into your life. and so forth. there is no such thing as damage control with a Fox. Dealing With Success Strange as it sounds. and a critical component is to analyze your results and make adjustments accordingly. The only way to avoid this problem is with one-and-done. Once you have offended or otherwise lost favor with a Fox. Another way you can bend the rules without bending them is to take the reverse approach to Foxhunting. he was right. Unfortunately. You could do everything now as you have been doing. As most successful seducers who post to USENET seem to agree. Dealing With Failure Foxhunting is inflexible in its recommendation for dealing with failure. it makes you appear weak. If you are a truly dedicated Foxhunter. the Fox is more likely to forgive you. John Wayne once said never apologize. I have found personally that when I do not Foxhunt. for whatever reason. if only on the internet. or your status that is suffering. Once you are comfortable you can move on to finding Friendly Foxes. although you would be better off if you did. your mind. The sooner you act like a man who is already overbooked. In that case.

mostly from females. If I were a Fox. Even though more men than Foxes surf the internet. Three factors come into play: Men who lie to get sex. and worth including. The chart is simplistic: moon signs and other planetary alignments also come into play. A Smart Fox can use the internet to her advantage. Beyond friendship. I would be very suspicious of any man I met online. especially when you compare what happens online to what happens offline. Higher ratings indicate a greater level of compatibility: With Pis Ari Tau Gem Can Leo Vir Lib Sco Sag Cap Aqu Pis 10 30 30 70 50 70 50 10 90 70 70 50 Ari 30 10 50 70 50 30 90 50 90 50 10 70 Tau 30 50 50 10 30 50 90 70 70 10 90 50 Gem 70 70 10 50 70 90 50 70 10 30 30 50 Can 50 50 30 70 50 70 10 90 50 70 30 30 Leo 70 30 50 90 70 30 70 50 30 70 10 30 Vir 50 90 90 50 10 70 10 30 50 30 70 50 Lib 10 50 70 70 90 50 30 50 30 70 50 30 Sco 90 90 70 10 50 30 50 30 10 70 50 50 Sag 70 50 10 30 70 70 30 70 70 30 30 70 Cap 70 10 90 30 30 10 70 50 50 30 70 90 Aqu 50 70 50 50 30 30 50 30 50 70 90 30 Foxes who are into astrology will be fascinated by this chart. many Foxes fall in love online because they are less concerned with looks and more likely to become attached to a man's personality. Considering the Foxhunting potential of the astrology gimmick. meeting a Friendly Fox offline for a drink. They can use the internet as a springboard for dating or reputation. the online dating game favors men. but many wind up being taken. It is a natural ice-breaker and way to start a long conversation about a romance-related topic. but they are neutralized by the above. falling in love with a man they have never even seen.Astrological Compatibility Chart A fun exercise for those inclined. Put in your profile that you are a professional psychic and you will be constantly bombarded with IMs. the last thing I would do is advertise it.building. and if I were searching for my soulmate. and have their own opinions of each pairing. The much-touted advantages for Foxes looking for love online exist. Seducing Foxes On The Internet The internet is useful for everyone in finding their ideal partners. I would also scout their views on Foxes. . I have never done any research into astrology and compatibility but I have seen enough evidence to keep the jury out. and which puts the most positive spin possible on your life. What I would be trying to avoid is the method I recommend for men who are willing to be dishonest to get sex: Design an AOL profile that doesn't lie about your body (raise your CUPID rating if you have to). you can use the following chart to dictate your Foxhunting. Men don't have to dress up and spend a lot of money and time going out Foxhunting. Foxes who believe the lies and reward them with sex. and the chart itself is a conversation piece. and even if nothing happens with her. The ease with which a man can lie online. it is something which is definitely worth learning. your reputation will be solid. Many Foxes are into astrology. I would probably go online as a man and see how other men treated me before I ever contacted them as a Fox.

He is wealthy and well-known. but leave yourself an out in case she doesn't measure up in person. not a compulsory. Over time. especially if a Fox becomes attracted to you. bail out. Pickup Lines Breaking the ice is very important. and will report to you here his secrets: The key to making a Fox fall in love with you online is to let her talk about herself as much as possible while you say as little as possible. I have come down heavily in favor of gimmicks and other means of getting Foxes to approach you. Obvious keywords include: dancer (plus type of dancer) secretary. If the picture measures up to your standards. make sure you tell them that you adore their personality. See how men treat them. executive assistant. bail out and go back to Step #1. you should find your internet results improving a great deal. Express disdain for men who are primarily into looks. If it doesn't. but in their absence you might occasionally want to take a chance and approach a Fox. that many Foxhunters are impatient types who may want to . This man truly did not want the Foxes he was getting. but try to set it up so you can extend the date if it goes well. ballerina. tell her you would like to meet sometime. what type of job they have. I am aware. Online. and let them volunteer information about themselves. and an example of what a high CUPID rating can do. Once you are convinced you want the Fox. figure skater. however. If it does not measure up.Scan the AOL member directory (keyword: profile) for Foxes or Potential Foxes. or just about anything that indicates looks and fitness. Between his method and the method I outlined above. Odds are if you talk long enough they'll send a picture. People use the internet as a CUPID screening tool online more than offline. it is possible to string many Foxes along at the same time with no one being the wiser. if her body doesn't measure up). Act like you are seeking your soulmate and are not into looks or sex." Men who do this successfully usually get sex in their first offline date. I do this myself many times. or bail out if it doesn't (i. and after the date. When Foxes tell me about meeting their soulmates online..e. flight attendant. You want to convince them that you aren't into looks. Beyond this advice. although usually very conservatively. Arrange to meet for 1-2 hours in a public place. Interject every so often with comments like "I understand" and her mind will do the rest. look for signs that they are Foxes but do not ask outright. but men are generally more prone to this. When you meet. be civil. I laugh. Prior to getting their picture. proceed as if her looks didn't matter. aerobics instructor. In conversation. Treat the looks as if they were a bonus. Both genders can use it as a tool of duplicity. obviously. an afterthought. she won't hesitate to use her sexuality to attract you. general Foxhunting rules apply. The person who talks the most to the other is always the one more likely to fall in love. Let her create the fantasy. I know of one writer who had over 100 Foxes lusting after him simultaneously. if the body measures up. Also tell her you think you might be "soulmates. proceed as if her looks didn't matter. gymnast.

this gives her one. This rule states that you have three seconds from your first eye contact with a Fox to approach her. failure to give you her phone number. there is much talk about the three-second rule. saying hi seems natural. In a bar. and for the Foxes to see this with their own eyes. immediately upon arriving if she is waiting there I might ask "Have you been waiting long?" If she is seeking an opening talk to me. and by diverting your attention from them you leave them room to up the ante. if you are a smooth talker. Troubleshooting Men are simple creatures. . Now I'm not sure if my late father actually said that. like you did it without thinking. to strike up a conversation with a Fox at a bus stop. by all means run for a touchdown if you can. or whatever it is that is your baseline for tolerance. who will become aroused by the idea of you controlling her. Almost a must. Think of this as if you were a bike racer drafting during a race by riding directly behind another racer. Foxes in social environments are there to have a good time. Do not ask for permission to approach. distractions on her part. Many of the solutions and problems overlap and are interchangeable.try the old-fashioned pickup. even if doing so will get them laid. If she ignores you. she will make the most of every opportunity to talk to you. On the other hand. Regardless. Be a good conversationalist. then I know I have a brick wall or a difficult sell. if I have succeeded in making a Fox laugh. If a Fox truly wants you. while responding only to those Foxes who have first displayed interest. and a man who can make them laugh can make them do almost anything. One-and-done can be triggered by anything you decide is unacceptable: failure to flirt enough. but since he was married five times I'm sure he would have backed me up to assist me in my Foxhunting. If you cannot pique or keep a Fox's interest with your words and wit. but I've found that just saying hi works pretty well. It's best not to look like a predator. Having studied this myself in practice recently. Bond with a man who has six Foxes wanting him and you have five leftovers at your disposal. It helps to have multiple options. On USENET. She rejected your attempt to kiss her goodnight on your first date. or you can use a clever comeback if you have one. I will often use the following line on her: My father said if you can make a woman laugh you can make her do anything. one. For example. This way. The Problem(s) The Cause(s) The Solution(s) She just wants to be friends (LJBF). Most don't like digesting large amounts of material. I concluded that three seconds is actually too long. In fact. For these men. and that any approach should be made within one second. A line like this is also great bait for a Submissive Fox. and do what she has to in order to make you happy. odds are your pickups aren't going to work very well and you should be conservative.and-done is always there. it sounds great and that's all that matters to most Foxes. A lot will depend on the Foxhunter here. Asking a question that demands an answer is a good way to engage a Fox in conversation. failure to kiss you (if you are some brazen men I know of). You cannot count on any individual Fox. I have a few pieces of advice for executing a proper pickup: Be immediate. Focus your attention elsewhere. The following chart attempts to answer them in the simplest possible format. Remember one-and-done. you can make a comment. If she doesn't take advantage. Be funny. Know which MEN to approach.

1. Counter timetable. the more likely she is to reverse her mental rejection of you. 3. She really doesn't have time to talk but would not mind it if you approached her once. She is not attracted to you and is putting up a brick wall under the pretext of not dating anyone from work. She wants to wait to have sex and rejects your attempt to. But use one-and-done immediately. Stop by and say hi once. Counter timetable. The more you ignore her. 2. Do not pursue. 2. If she likes you enough. She works with you and you want to date her. 3. She is attracted to you and has a policy not to date anyone from work. She's waiting to see how things go wit h another guy. 2. 3. 2. but you can't get the opportunity to talk to her. 1. 1. One-and-done.done. She does not wish to appear a slut. Sexual resistance is rarely a good sign. 1. She's using you for dates. 3. . She's using you for free evenings out. She's a prude. Counter timetable. 3. Forced Interaction is a low-percentage option. Ignore her completely and posture. 2. she will violate her rule eventually and pursue you. 1. 3.. 3. and the more desirable you appear to her. 1. She's being prudish. One-and-done. Your gimmick isn't working or you do not have one. 2. Your CUPID rating is too low. Foxes are not approaching you. 1. Correct action is therefore a countertimetable followed by one-and. and see how that goes. You are not circulating properly. Offer to cook for her at her place and buy the groceries (good rendezvous potential). 2.

2. 1. 2. 2. She's lying and doesn't want to reject you or hurt your feelings 2. more often than not. 3. She will also find ways to overcome the obstacle whenever possible. You don't create or recognize windows of opportunity and are working in low-percentage environments. She uses external obstacles to block your progress. . She has a legitimate excuse. he will. She's not lying and the obstacles really exist. Confirm that these obstacles really exist. Your CUPID rating is too low. 3. She likes bad boys. Get a (better) gimmick. She is willing to overlook the negative aspects of the bad-boy so that she can enjoy his positive aspects. Develop a gimmick. 2. 2. Refer to the chapters on time management and meeting Foxes. She was standing you up. She is trying to tame him. 3. Contact her during prime dating hours to see if she really can't go out. 2. she will go out of her way to compensate you for the difficulty she is putting you through. 3. If she is not lying. Raise your CUPID rating and develop a gimmick. 3. 3. Develop a gimmick. 1. She stands you up for a date. shy. You have difficulty approaching Foxes or wind up rejected when you approach them. 1. or cancels at the last minute. Raise your CUPID rating. She's playing the field and keeping the jury out. 2. Watch how she treats others relative to you. She is turning you down for bad-boy types and you are a nice guy. Develop enough positive nice-guy aspects for her to find you equally attractive to him. 1. 1. Let the clock tick and wait for the other guy to falter. Become a bad-boy or forget her. Pretend you are a bad-boy and let her tame you. Also become more conservative in your approaching. 1. 1. You are 3.1.

Sooner or later she will have time to talk with you. Then pick the right moment to bring up the slight. 2. If she rejects this idea. The best way to catch a fast-moving insect in a closed environment is to stand still and wait for it to come to a complete stop. Use indirect seduction liberally. She is giving you a creative excuse Offer to hook her up with a Fox. . Let the clock tick. 2. 2. 1. She ends every conversation with you at the beginning. 1. If she does not do this. 3. She is taken. Be firm. 2. Tell her you would rather be her lover than her friend. isn't it?" Foxes almost always laugh at that one and some bonding often occurs. she is lying to you and didn't really want to go out with you. If she's telling you the truth. for rejecting you. If she returns. You might wind up with a threesome as a result. She is taking pity on you and is guilty over hurting you. be very aggressive. All living creatures have time to kill sooner or later. Then use one-and-done.1. You are of strong utility to her and she doesn't want to lose that. use one-and-done. 1. 1. She is not interested in you. Come back with a sound bite. 2. Let the clock tick and do nothing. One-and-done is thus called for. She is rich and/or famous. Ask her to reschedule. and/or 3. 1. You have rejected her for friendship but she is begging you to reconsider. She likes having her ego fed and wants to keep you as her flunky. although at first be civil and silent and let her think you have forgotten. Develop a gimmick. she'll jump at the chance. Being angry over a stand-up is more effective if you express your anger with actions and not words. If you are on the internet. while still rejecting the idea of dating you. One-and-done. 2. 1. you can take matters into your own hands by creating a female identity and hitting on her yourself. She doesn't want to interact with you. My favorite is "Popularity is a bitch. She prefers to approach men herself. Then let the clock tick. repeat the process until she agrees to go out with you or have sex with you (if you're bold). Let the clock tick and do nothing. She tells you she is bisexual with a boyfriend or lesbian. 3. She is telling the truth. and truly busy. She is unapproachable. If she returns. 2.

The Guy Switch is the critical rejection point to watch for. try a simple kiss on the lips or hand-holding at an opportune moment. 1. 1. 2. Call her a tease and ask her politely to stop teasing you. it means she is always looking. Foxes respect me for having standards and not taking crap. Make a move. High CUPID ratings are especially effective. 2. use one-and. and use her to build your reputation. 2. By holding my ground. Use your head. She is man-dependent and always taken. if she accepts. She hasn't made up her mind yet. once they remove you from consideration they dispose of you like a week-old fish. Be prepared to fight for a rebound like Rodman when she dumps who she is with. and use oneand-done if she pulls The Guy Switch. I tell her to come back when she has more time. Conversations seem to be going fine and then suddenly they end at the same point over and over again for no reason. As more people use the system and report their results back to me. 1. and if not.done. She is taken when you meet her. Sounds difficult. Call her a tease and use one-and-done. If she is always taken. If I don't like the answer. 3. Indirect seduction is also useful here. You do not know how to close the deal 1. fine. 2. 2. and block her attempts to take advantage of you. I can better analyze the data and draw firmer conclusions. If you don't know what to do to make a pass. 1. You have a fatal flaw. The rest of the male population wants what you want. As nice as Foxes are when they are scouting you. I am a bit reluctant to write about troubleshooting extensively because the number of Foxhunters is still very small. figure out what the Fox stands to gain from her behavior. Just learn to absorb the shock and use one-and-done. Let the clock tick. . Her actions say she wants you but her words say she doesn't (or vice versa). Also locate and fix the flaw or work around revealing it 2. She is teasing you. Then use one-and-done. . Learn how to close the deal. You reveal something personal about yourself that causes the Fox to reject you.One thing I also do in this situation is ask the Fox at the beginning of the conversation how much time she has (preemption). but sooner or later you are going to have to make a pass at a Fox or learn how to get her to make a pass at you. She is shy. 3. 1.

I first noticed this pattern when in one of my AOL profiles I required Foxes to be 18-22 years old and got hit on . or ask for anything else you want. thus piquing her curiosity. Since she wants your friendship. Nothing beats a recommendation from a Fox to convince another Fox to give you a chance. A hookup. Many Foxes actually find this a turn-on. and you tell her that if she hears it she has to wear it. you can specify something sexy and elegant and set the tone for a fine evening. A Taken Fox has an interest in diverting your attention so she is ideal. Rebound Fox potential exists should her relationship sour. A Fox who would otherwise never think of going out with you will sometimes try to win you over if she learns that she does not meet some silly requirement of yours. of course. She'll also be wearing exactly what you want. Never be friends with more than two Foxes at a time. Utility Foxes will be even more annoyed. and how they will up the ante only when they have to. The purpose here is to demonstrate control and creativity. which would mean she is special. not when you are asking her out. indirect rejection. You can tell them that you are willing to overlook the rule -maybe -. or wish I had implemented when things wound up going awry instead. If she bails out after you tell her. call her a coward or a liar. especially if utility is involved. Require any Fox you date to be born under a certain astrological sign.Rules You Can Use To Get Laid Never underestimate the value of rules. but she can often serve as a catalyst. Creating a rejection scenario for the Foxes you exclude. and if she agrees. Also expect her to balk at the rule at first. Put a bunch of s illy rules together into a book and you can strike it rich yourself! I have higher standards for my writing than to make a book out of a bunch of rules. I will now list some of the many rules I have either implemented. she will be highly motivated to work with you. which is why it is better to state it in a general conversation about dating. Some examples of how this works out in practice: The Rule The Reason The Desired Result End a first date with a Fox after exactly 90 minutes if she has not kissed you on the lips. She asks you what you would have her wear. and is she willing to take that chance? She will love that flirtation. Be prepared to hold your ground and let the clock tick after the initial negative reaction. Why throw good money and time after bad? Knowing the rule will make her angry. and the Fox caves in. To get a hassle-free date. to see if she can get you to break the rule for her. Refuse to be "just friends" with a Fox unless she hooks you up with a Fox of equal or greater quality. Arbitrary. Avoiding the nice-guy trap. Refuse to ask a Fox on a date unless you have kissed her on the lips at least once. Require any Fox you date to dress to your exact specifications. but if you hold your ground. but a mention in the Epilogue is by all means appropriate. which will cause her to challenge you. Expect drama if the date happens. plan to implement. you have very smooth sailing physically. Foxes who want you will. This is strictly a posturing move. and be prepared to think on your feet. and a highly effective one if executed properly. Foxes who use you for dates will not agree to this. In that spirit. Very good user repellent as well. The Taken Fox or Utility Fox can become a reputation-building Friendly Fox who may not be the one for you. because you don't want to talk to them! Another example of how Foxes reward negative behavior. Expect a bit of resistance.if they hooked you up with someone. Excluded Foxes will be very frustrated and not have anything with which to attack you.

For example. you have a great posturing angle. even if they are Foxes. and she is a begging Returning Fox. The inevitable moment where she is caught in a lie. she wants to make things right. because the Fox will remember it. Foxes who love a challenge will want to be the exception. To communicate a definitive sexual timetable. due to a previous bad experience. plus if she asks you to not wait once she has made up her mind. If you try a pickup line you read in a book. Any tactics mentioned in the book will become known and thus lose value. I would not recommending using a rule which is published here (unless you want her knowing you are doing so). she will know what you are expecting. Keeps the Fox honest. you can mention that you wait up to five dates to have sex. In the course of doing this. An impressive display of ethics and principle that ensures respect and presents a challenge to a Lying Fox to outfox you into bed. Contrarian approach: by removing sex from the table entirely. this will help her along in showing it to you. the better. you can talk about the dangers of confusing sex with love and appear to be more sexually responsible. since this is what she wants to begin with. If you want to be really sneaky. and neither will your cute . Mention this rule before you date her. you break up. Make a Fox wait one day for every day she makes you wait. or when you ask her out and she says she needs more time. I would add to the effect by singing the praises of the sign. but the idea that if she did she would have to wait an increasing amount of time will fascinate her. if on July 1 I ask out a Fox and she says she has to take her time to get to know me first. Every time their relationships fall apart. you don't let her. and so forth. you can ask for something in return. Most of the time she won't want to date me (the reason for the excuse). If you start dating. she won't want to discuss it with you. but it is much more difficult for a Fox to attack a man for not hitting on her. you just stop dating her. Invasion Of The Foxhunters As occurred with The Rules. she can relate to you without sexual tension.incessantly by those who were 23-24. she has to wait until July 29. Foxes are not going to gang up on you at a party and expose you as a Foxhunter. If you can convince Foxes you are truly celibate by choice. Good curiosity angle. Usually she will become unnerved by this. but you can come up with just about anything. One lie and she is history. If she likes you. and if you are appealing to her in other ways. that will cause a few changes. Timetable antidote. Indirect seduction will often have you speaking generally about dating and sex. and she might want to be the one who gets you to break your vow. the Fox might have heard it before. once this book is published and Foxes become aware of its methods. Don't mention the rule again. It's amazing how much progress you can make from this position!! No sex until marriage. Most common applications are online. and avoiding the question is not possible. In this example. and that is the main reason I have focused more on strategy. find out her sign first and then say you don't date women born under that sign. she will want you to make a move on her. like having her dress to your liking. you stop speaking to her. The Fox who does not love you might love the challenge you present with the rule. when you ask to talk offline. Seduction through celibacy. Beats looking desperate by a mile. and if the Fox has not made a pass at you by then. The pickier the requirement. and she decides on July 15 that she wants to go out with me. If you don't have sex with a Fox by the fifth date.

recognize. most Foxhunters I have personally taught have cashed out by using their new skills to enter into long-term relationships. and exploit. and expect that a lot of what I write here will hold just as true hundreds or even thousands of years into the future as it does now. if for no reason other than it has held true for tens of thousands of years already. Some books change the dating game. others influence it somewhat. If he is a truly skilled hunter. without realizing you are fully aware of what they are doing and even posturing for them. growing and incorporating each person's individuality into its collective. I consider Foxhunting a timeless endeavor. instead of settling for whatever he can get. My limited sample of Foxhunters have done exceptionally well. and still many others do not impact it at all.co-worker or neighbor whom you ignore while you live the life that they will want to become a part of as they observe you silently under The Microscope. I have tried to avoid this publish-and-perish problem through a focus on strategy and away from tactics. Some of the material will wind up obsolete. It had the power to assimilate people into its consciousness. where a successful system that is published loses its profitability as the market digests the system. People of either gender who use systems or methods are the opposite of those who choose to rely on fate. No writer can predict the effect his work will have on society. What makes it better for a Foxhunter to enter into a long-term relationship is that he is doing so from a position of strength rather than desperation. the Fox gives them a great deal back and is a lot Foxier than their previous partners.a lot sooner than most would think -. the more likely you are to reach the point of overbooking and cash out. and the more windows of opportunity you create. The Borg is a collective consciousness controlled by a single being that was part life-form and part machine. Cashing Out Surprising as it sounds. and when they give the Fox the privilege of a commitment. Foxhunting works very similarly: the more you apply yourself. In a perfect world. An analogy exists in the financial markets. Those who criticize The Rules now should imagine the time when men did not have access to the book. The man who can successfully hunt for his food is never hungry. and how to make himself more appealing to them. because so few of us ever do this. With Foxhunting. but sooner or later -. and they did not even come close to using the entire system. Each man has a different cashing-out point. This is unavoidable. and will usually have accumulated a store of food that allows him to hunt at his leisure. but strong general advice such as finding companies in emerging industries would prove timeless. It is a much finer experience than the hand most men allow themselves to be dealt. To examine the phenomenon surrounding The Rules. within weeks I would have them replaced with Foxes of equal quality and number. The idea that we are an active player in determining our fate drives people to read books like this and rely on technique rather than fate to find their lovers. from a time that predates modern society and which caused the societal jungle we call these modern times to exist in the first place. that's for sure. Some Foxes might even thank me if a man they fancy has read this book and learns how to tell if they are interested or not. Parting Shot The Star Trek: Next Generation series presented an enemy to the Federation tougher than any before it: The Borg. as the book sold several million copies. men . The only difference is that they are the one in control of the process now. If the method proves equally successful for the masses. choosing one Special Fox over many others. there is an odd appeal about someone who is willing to take control over their love life. I'm sure a few hardcore Foxhunters might spend their lives Foxhunting. its influence will be profound and unpredictable. and no reason to suspect that the system was being used on them. Mine came when I realized that even if every Fox in my life suddenly disappeared.the successful Foxhunter will scale back his love life to a level that satisfies him. he will never let his food supply deplete to the point where he becomes desperate. One rule that the two authors of wrote The Rules forgot is not to publish them! Maybe they didn't forget this rule and instead focused on the value created for them as authors.

No longer would they be able to fix their problems overnight. one they cannot have. They give jobs to Foxes because of how they look.would have their own Borg for Foxhunting. and both Popeye and Bluto would learn to ignore Olive. or if they did they'd have to have sex up-front to do so. They confront other men as Bluto does Popeye. They offer conversation without seeking anything in return. here's mine: go online as a tall. handsome. but beyond that. Foxes will think you are the perfect man. Men who have used this masquerading posture relay tales of incredibly successful results. If all men were to suddenly withdraw the utility they provide Foxes in the hope of getting laid. My last piece of advice here to men is this: do not betray your brothers in pursuit of a Fox. we would stop cannibalizing each other. As each man learns new Foxhunting techniques. the Foxes would be in dire straits and have to seriously up the ante. All of Mankind would benefit as the result and we would all have an easier time getting laid. that information would be relayed back to the Borg and assimilated. Who am I to argue? . The result would be all men behaving as perfect Foxhunters. They bow down. wealthy gay man. If men treated their careers the way they do their love lives they would never get past the mail room. Men cannibalize themselves when they attempt to seduce a Fox with utility or by doing favors. strengthening them economically. they would not be able to tease. You can then let them "convert" you without having to look or act gay in your daily life. and hope that they will be rewarded for this. and will become obsessed with winning you over. If every man on the planet were a Foxhunter I would become rich. The Last Word Is there an ultimate Foxhunting strategy? After reviewing this book prior to publication. with every man refusing to weaken the collective and keeping the upper hand at all times. surrender. and utility in return for nothing more than interaction. and Foxes finding that they can no longer win the gender war they started. not realizing that both should go out for a drink and forget Olive.