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Tuesday, March 26, 2013

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Husband’s ‘macho’ mentality comes out around family
Dear Annie: When I germs on their hands to married three years ago, the next person. (So can a my hubby and I were best frequently handled serving friends. Then his mother piece.) You can ask your moved to town, and every- guests to please use the thing went downhill. serving pieces because it’s My in-laws disrespected cold and flu season, etc., and trashed my rental home. but some folks will pay no I was hurt that they would do attention. Another option this, because I was extreme- is to serve snacks that do ly nice and financially gen- not require that your guests erous to them. Ever since, reach into the same recepshe has been working to turn tacle. everyone against Dear Annie: I me, including my started to cry when husband. If he I read the letter doesn’t do what from “Heartbroshe wants, she ken in New York,” makes him feel whose husband guilty. She has drank. I made the put so many naschoice to end my ty ideas into his marriage of 21 head that he has years because I turned into a difcould no longer ferent person. take the Jekyll It’s not only and Hyde man I her. His entire Annie’s Mailbox was married to. family is selfish, Nothing I did was uneducated and manipula- “right.” I was “boring and tive, and they have a very unspontaneous.” The truth “macho” mentality. I don’t was, I was being sensible. much care for this new ver- He would drink, decide I sion of the man I married. was dull and then leave to Do I give him time and hope go to a bar. Many of our he changes back? Or is this fights were because I hid the simply who he was all along car keys from him. Evenand I was wrong about him? tually, he stopped coming — Beth in Baltimore home and went directly to Dear Beth: We think this the bar. is the version of your husI finally asked him to band that is most familiar to leave and not return unless him. When he is around his he agreed to counseling. It family, he reverts to type. It was then that he admitted doesn’t mean he can’t be- he is gay. I was relieved. I have differently if he is mo- thought he would be haptivated enough, but he has pier now that he was being to recognize the family dy- honest. But he is the same namic and assert himself. It mean jerk to his partner, may require spending less and he is still drinking. I time around his relatives, now wish I had left him and he may be unwilling to years before. I did an indo that. The real question is justice to my kids by exwhether he likes being the posing them to his verbal guy he is now or wants to abuse for so long. It’s betbe the man you married. ter to be alone than to have Talk to him about it, and if someone who treats you necessary, get counseling. like this. — The Grass Is Dear Annie: When com- Greener pany comes and snacks are put out, I always include a small spoon so that treats like candy and nuts can be removed without a person touching the entire contents. But many guests don’t get the point. One person came in saying he had been suffering from the flu and was still feeling under the weather, so we should keep our distance. He then proceeded to pick through the nut bowl, even though there was a ladle in it. I threw the rest of the nuts in the trash and hoped other guests hadn’t been contaminated. Please remind people that their hands don’t belong in a shared bowl unless they’ve just scrubbed for surgery. Thanks. — Staying Healthy Dear Healthy: Many people, sick or well, don’t consider that sticking their fingers into a shared bowl of snacks can transmit the

Tomorrow’s Horoscope
WEDNESDAY, MARCH 27, 2013 By adopting the adage “Waste not, want not,” by this time next year you could find yourself in an exceptionally secure financial position, one that you never thought possible. Try it and see for yourself. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -You shouldn’t expect others to act in a reasonable manner when you behave otherwise. Try to handle things with logic, not emotions. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- The only sure way to achieve success is to roll up your sleeves and do everything yourself. Depending on others to get things done might produce mediocre results. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- It behooves you to be democratic and bow to the will of the majority. If you’re too demanding, you can expect some serious trouble to arise. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- Trying to bluff your way through a serious assignment isn’t likely to work. To be on the safe side, play it straight and get help if you need to. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Be extremely careful that you don’t get hot under the collar should a discussion get intense. There’s nothing to gain from losing your cool. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -What works for someone else won’t necessarily do so for you, especially when it comes to your financial affairs. Do what is best suited for your situation. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -Before getting angry, consider the source of unpleasant information being relayed to you. Use collected thinking to soothe your feelings and subdue your response. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- Be extra safety-conscious when performing any kind of distasteful task. If you lose your patience and get careless, you’ll create needless problems. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Do what you can to avoid a group that includes an individual whom you dislike. If you’re more impatient than usual, a confrontation could erupt. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Usually your sense of humor is in good taste, but today could be an exception. Chances are, if you’re not careful, you could say or act in a manner that others find unsavory. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Watch your temper and don’t blow things out of proportion. You could create problems for some innocent people. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -- Regardless how rosy a financial presentation appears, it would be best to check things out for yourself before investing in it. It could be all talk and no substance.
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