Some of the techniques within this book are sexually and emotionally powerful. Although these techniques and activities can have dramatically positive effects on your (and your spouse’s) physical and emotional well-being, people that have high blood pressure, heart disease or a generally weak condition should proceed slowly. If necessary, consult a physician before implementing any included techniques. Nothing within this publication should be considered medical advice. How To Put Your Wife In The Mood™ is a publication of SPI Publications. Additional copies of this publication can be obtained at: www.christiansexhelp.com
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.........................................................................................................................47 Erectile Dysfunctions ................................................ 26 Foreplay Is The Way............................................................................ 57
................................................................................................................................................................................38 An Intercourse On Intercourse ..............................TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction ..................................................40 But What About The Butt? ..................................... 19 Sexual Communication . 30 When Two Become “One” ............................................................................................................................................................................................45 Maintaining a Good Erection................... 16 Changes You CAN Make............................... 49 Romance (What She Wants So You Get What You Want) .........................................................8 Building A Flame Of Passion In Your Marriage............... 13 Surprise…Men And Women Are Different ..............................................55 Bonus: 101 Creative Lovemaking Ideas .......................................................................................
Why? Because the first thing you have to know is that most wives. Over the past decade. can be experiencing everything you always hoped married sex could be! 8
. But. This is ironic considering I’ve received an almost equal number of letters from wives struggling with their husband’s lack of sexual desire. I’ve dealt with hundreds of them. you’ll significantly increase your odds of (relatively) quickly and easily increasing your married sexual frequency. you may be married to one. given the correct circumstances and a skilled lover as a husband are capable of being very sexually interested and involved and passionate. But…Chances are you are not. your wife’s current disinterest in sex is (at least partially) the result of your past actions (or non actions) then you too. And. You won’t. excitement and fulfillment. If you start with the assumption that much is within your control and that. possibly. Don’t get me wrong. I’ve received thousands of letters from husbands that are dealing with the emotional pain of feeling that their wives are “never” interested in sex. in a very short time. I don’t mention it because I think you’ll find this irony (even slightly) amusing.Introduction
This book is for those husbands that are struggling to find a greater level of satisfaction and fulfillment in their married sex lives. And. The first mistake many men make when they tell me their wife is “never” in the mood for sex is that their wife is “different” or “unusual” or has some “unique” physical or spiritual or childhood issues that are the unconquerable obstacle to them ever knowing what it would be like to have a frequent. I do think it’s relevant. There are wives that are truly (and aggressively) non-sexual. if you’ll trust me on this fact (for now). frankly. variety-filled and mutually satisfying married sex life. You are too frustrated and upset about your current level of sexual frequency and your wife’s apparent total lack of sexual interest to find just about anything amusing.
I hate not being able to help. He had been married for fifteen years and claimed that sex had been bad or practically non-existent for thirteen of those years. I didn’t actually sit down to put pen to paper though until late last year when I was blessed to be a part of one of the most radical and (almost) immediate transformations I’ve seen in a married sex life in over ten years. she would simply lay motionless and mute. Her family was overly protective and strictly religious and neither her mother nor any of her sisters were still having sex with their husbands. I charge money for personal coaching and I don’t usually market it as “you give me money and I’ll convince you divorce is your only option. And their marriage got started off on the wrong foot.” so I was a little worried about his investment. Jeff. and it meant that she never had the time or energy to “get around” to sex. when he was finished giving me all of the reasons he was doomed to a sexless future. But. Wow. a husband who (literally) spent a month complaining about his wife relative to their sex life before he would even attempt to follow any of my advice. His wife was only physically capable of being interested in sex one day per month and she gave no clues when that day was. Just re-stating that list brings back the frustrations and negative emotions of that first month of counseling (his and mine). They had four young children. they married sooner than they planned because she was pregnant and then after they were married she had a miscarriage. he came to the conclusion that he was going to pursue a divorce because it was his only option.I’ve been planning on writing this book for years because. And then. She was slightly overweight and had body image issues. almost every day. I get an irate letter from a husband asking why we offer a book for women called “When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood” and we didn’t offer a similar book for men. When they did have sex. I was working with a new personal coaching client. But then a miracle happened…
. one of them disabled.
Clearly. It's not just in bed. And.
. she asked for something specific. I said. We had been somewhat flirty throughout the day. again. for the past couple of days. A switch flipped.. She said.. The fact that Amanda and I have already had a remarkable sexual experience was powerful and impactful. she is in the moment much more. Effortlessly. And. ‘uh. you can see our situation has changed dramatically. but I've been waiting all day to get in bed with you. Not dissociating. But.. ‘what are you waiting for?’ I laughed out loud and said. But. But...not a worry. my approach changed. I guess you're ready?’ She said.He decided that before he started the divorce process he would take my advice to “do something (anything)” instead of spending any more of his (paid) time telling me it was useless. And he did… And here is an excerpt from one of his emails just one week into him applying some of the concepts in this book: “As for moving into sex master mode.” And after two weeks. more surprisingly.. it was great and simple to do. Not seeking to avoid connecting to me. as I have always said. we replicated the simultaneous orgasm experience. She is present. she is remarkably different throughout the day. “Last night. working with you was about sex..’ We got partially undressed and I just stopped to hug her and was lying very still. though certainly also in bed. and the most describable difference.. hello. if that is all it was.. THAT is what makes this good. Amanda got in bed and asked if I wanted to watch a movie.. no.. She asked me to do the same thing I did the night before. The sex is the icing on the cake.. Amanda changed on a dime. ‘I've been waiting all day too!’ Clearly. ‘okay. When we got the kids into bed and went into our room. and she is connectable now. I wouldn't be so impressed. maybe later. as you know. but it was not the whole point. which was fine by me.
WOW…” And after only three weeks… “I eventually encouraged her to get into bed. it took her no time to get off. She actually asked me to do her with my hand. This time it was easy..
. not ovulating. I stimulated her manually as well. When I kissed her. I'm not sure how it happened exactly. we both reached orgasms. but it's rare. so that was rare. and then typically tells me to stop if she's not in the mood.And. I told her to wait a minute and I would. she touched me more. the one I met 15 years ago. And. she responded enthusiastically. Amanda had given every cue that she was interested. When I touched her. I couldn't really believe it. but she was different. WHERE had she been all this time? She was smiling. It was powerful. she kissed back. But. while were having sex. it was clear. which enabled us to come together. The cold hard outer shell that had encased her for years had cracked and it crumbled away. She was participating. normally she just waits for me to do it.. I was laughing at the unusualness of it. she is not near ovulation. She was relaxed. again. I could tell a bit when the movie started. and the greatness of it. This time. When I hugged her. I locked the door and we began. I stimulated her some first. once she got into bed. Before long.e. Anyway. In the past. as you know. she has always stopped me. This was not the Amanda I have encountered for so many years. That's not unheard of. but chose to initiate intercourse with an idea. she didn't.. i. I must have told her 10 different ways how amazing she was being and how I was so glad to have Amanda back. With very little effort. She was extremely responsive. when I have tried to manually stimulate her during sex.
I am sure. there was no challenge to it. like Jeff. one week ago. I am telling you a story to make a point that has great significance. It was great. It is not only possible. This is nothing I would have expected two months ago. I don't know what to say. Start with yourself. Trust me (a little). more importantly. This is nothing you don’t hear all the time. For the first time in our history of 15 years. that you can start the ball rolling by being a better partner and lover and that. Trust God (he actually prefers that your sex life and marriage is fulfilling). And. It was time to end the pain and suffering of all of those good husbands and men that are suffering needlessly from an unnaturally low sex marriage. Amanda and I orgasmed simultaneously. Robert Irwin
BecomeOneFlesh. And. I don't mean to be crass. And. Trust yourself (you are wiser than you think about this sex and relationship stuff). The advice in this book has helped hundreds of personal coaching clients to transform their sexual relationships. I hope and pray that this book will be the first step in your journey to transforming your married sex life. you can be amazed at possibilities you didn’t believe existed. or yesterday…” I was so thrilled and grateful for the changes in this man’s marriage and life that I knew that I had to get off my butt and get this book written. in no time.I am writing with some graphic detail.com
. quite frankly. but likely.
But in today’s fast-paced life. and the other aspects of your marriage and life in general. and the subtle looks your wife passed your way. energy. aging brings on a host of physical conditions that can affect life in the bedroom. the sheer force of your orgasm. From a practical standpoint. as well as withheld negative feelings and secrets choke off spontaneity. and you felt that pleasant warm tingle between your legs. But for many. In those moments when you weren’t ripping each other’s clothes off. However. heart problems and other health maladies. the good news is that many such problems are easily treated. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that a sex life becomes routine and boredom sets in. cardiovascular conditions. and can serve as a warning sign for still bigger troubles ahead.Building A Flame Of Passion In Your Marriage
You’ve probably wondered what better sex in your marriage would be like or how it could be improved. Your heart pumped faster. taboos. Whatever the reasons for brewing trouble in the bedroom. children or financial responsibilities — challenge couples to keep alive that flame that initially brought them together. You daydreamed about your wife’s naked body and the sex that you will have that evening. sex took over your body and your mind. In the beginning. you replayed in your mind the sex of that morning. your breathing became shallow. Sexual fears. The daily routines of life — whether careers. whether emotional or physical in nature. couples who take time to cultivate and maintain healthy and satisfying sexual relations tend to be more connected with each other and do not suffer from depression. and attitudes. there’s less time for sex and intimacy as relationships develop and individual partners take on more responsibilities. the words she spoke over lunch or in bed. sex was outrageous and passionate. In the beginning of your marriage. troubles in a couple’s sexual relationship are often signs of other problems. responsibility. Moreover. arthritis and rheumatism. filled with dueling responsibilities. Your sex-intoxicated mind gradually sobers up and returns to work. Furthermore. over time…married sex changes. a sub-par or absent sex life is a common problem. These include sexual dysfunction. Keeping the sexual spark alive in a marriage or in a long-term relationship is easier said than done. and pleasure in married sex.
. and a host of other problems.
wives are full of passion and excitement and often experiment with lots of different positions and approaches and explore their likes and dislikes. 6) It seems that you are the only one who wants to have sex because your spouse doesn’t show any interest in sexual intimacy at all. Sex may not be the bricks in a marriage. everything freezes in time and we live in the very moment. While making love. Of course. they tend to settle into a routine. Individual and mutual misunderstanding of the really important role which physical relations play in keeping marriage and families together is a principal causing factor in the rising divorce rate throughout the world. It is unlikely that a sex life in trouble will improve greatly if work is not put in on the whole relationship. 7) There is no sense of adventure or spontaneity in your love making with your mate and/or neither of you are very frisky in the bedroom any more. but if it isn’t. The key to solving issues is good communication and knowing when to seek help. couples often complain that they don’t make love as much as they did. there are times when both partners may be steamed up and the sex works wonderfully. Signs of a low sex marriage could include: 1) You only have sex one or two times per month. In the early stages of a romantic relationship. As they get to know each other better. 5) Sexual fantasies about your spouse are non-existent. we forget about our past and feel absolutely no worries of our future. Lovemaking is the most magnificent celestial experience.Sharing sexual fears and sex secrets as well as sexual peak experiences and sexual fantasies is a powerful way to deepen the intimacy in your relationship and boost the passion meter in your marriage.
. 2) Sex has become a chore. But apart from these spontaneous and happy times. This is a crucial point in a sexual relationship. 4) You don’t feel intimate after making love. Increasingly we are seeing couples who have little interest in sex. few would deny that it is the cement which holds the bricks together. Most sex relationships go through patches where everything is not as it should be. It is boring to go through the same routine week after week if it doesn’t culminate in good mutual orgasms. or that one or both partners have lost the urge. 3) You only have sex when it has been previously scheduled.
or if she keeps complaining that he doesn’t do his share of the housework. Men may lose interest in sex if their wife is very aggressive in bed or out.
.Ninety percent of women reported that they wished their partner kissed them more or with more passion. In this book you’ll find tips for a fulfilling sex life plus advice on common sex problems. nags him to do better sexually. and your wife may feel a lack of interest sexually for similar reasons. Sixty-five percent of women felt their partner did not have a good kissing technique. including a perception that her man never says he loves her unless he wants sex.
daily commuting. if they have trouble with sex. be unfaithful. such as celebrations. carry her photo. An orgasm might not be the point. surprising your wife. back rubbing. kindness and understanding. They run to the doctor and say ‘I need something for this. they settle for less. Sex gets shoved to the bottom of the “to do” list for women and when they do have sex it becomes just another task. The average male is more interested in sex than the average female and is much more likely to feel very strong urges to have intercourse. Women don’t ask for what they want in bed. Women have high expectations for nearly every area of their lives. romantic weekend at home. Whereas men. Many women strive for unrealistic physical perfection seen in the media and are unhappy with some aspect of their physical bodies. fearing their partner will be hurt or leave them. and try paid for sex. or keep special places unique. but when it comes to sex. a well-shaped bottom. stress. The slightest thing can set a man off could be the sight of your wife’s cleavage. a good pair of legs or even a whiff of perfume. They just sort of stuff it down and push it further down on the list. There are many reasons for this unhappy state of affairs include long working hours for one or both partners. Because of the busy world. Romance is something that adults seem to crave. fill the bedroom with flowers. take sexual risks regardless of the consequences. watch a romantic film together. resentment in the relationship and fatigue. men often deny simple miraculous measures to get rid of boredom that shallows their sexual relation with their female partners. a kiss. feeling that life is completely out of balance.Surprise…Men And Women Are Different
The primary sexual objective of a human male is to get his penis inside your wife and to discharge his sperm into her.
. Women are not getting their emotional needs met during sex. Most women keep their dissatisfaction with sex a secret. Women tend to want to be romanced to get into a sexy mood and men are often deeply romantic regretting the fact that romance is disappearing from a long-term relationship which could seriously affect the dual act. leaving their partners in the dark.’ Women don’t do that. flowers. it’s a crisis.
have sex with their spouse 58 times a year. who has studied sexless marriage. but frequently they just felt an overall letdown regarding sex. or at the worst. Being able to accept this gracefully is one mark of an emotionally mature man. ask her to masturbate you or give you oral sex.Some women did complain about difficulty reaching orgasm or lack of sexual desire. according to data collected from the General Social Survey. and decreased risk of prostate cancer. Your sex drive fluctuates little from day to day. feelings of guilt and shame learned in early childhood may interfere with adult sexual function and may affect one or more phases of the sexual response cycle. which can make having sex even less appealing. Married men and women. Donnelly. Another factor to consider is that for some women. Not knowing why they feel so deflated after sex. a little more than once a week.
. But there are wide variations in that number. Married people under 30 have sex about 111 times a year and it’s estimated that about 15 percent of married couples have not had sex with their spouse in the last six months to one year. a little more than once a week. have sex with their spouse 58 times a year. Outside pressures impact your wife’s view of her body. associate professor of sociology at Georgia State University. on average. which has tracked the social behaviors of Americans since 1972. However. according to data collected from the General Social Survey. according to Denise A. stress reduction. Married men and women. women assume it’s their fault or they just don’t bring up the topic to their partner. up one minute and down the next. Sex has been claimed to produce health benefits as varied as improved sense of smell. increased immunity. on average. your female partner’s sex drive is likely to be much more variable. cultural or religious beliefs that label such female wants as shameful. Women don’t have a clear awareness of their sexual desires because of social. weight loss. Her most sexy days are generally before and after her menstrual period. which has tracked the social behaviors of Americans since 1972. When she doesn’t want sex. Understand that her sex drive is less constant than yours. adapt your sex life to suit. Frequent sexual intercourse was held to reduce the risk of common cold and other infection. do it yourself. in accordance with the variation in her sexual cycle.
making love. The physical changes are the first to occur.
. having sex or sleeping with your partner. It is also known as coitus.Sexual intercourse is the act of penetration of the male penis within the vagina and causing rhythmic movements until both the male and the female achieve their orgasms. These are the erection of the male organ and the lubrication of the vagina in the female.
Whether your low or no sex marriage is due to mismatched sexual libidos. and do it later. Instead of making love only at night after the kids are in bed. Actually. tiredness. Showing her that she is desirable will feed the flames and send you two running for the bedroom. Role playing Erotic talk Discussion of fantasy Striptease Sexy games 19
. ranging from slightly unusual to downright bizarre. depression. Sexual pleasure comes in an amazing range of flavors and everyone has a favorite. boredom. marital disaster could be around the corner. anger. erectile dysfunction. infidelity. Call your wife at work during a lunch break (or send her an e-mail) and tell her exactly what you want to do to her after work. childbirth. Just varying your marriage sex routine in simple ways is enough to excite you and your partner into passionate lovemaking. medications. power issues. simple variations on a familiar theme seem to be the simplest and most effective way to spice your marriage sex life. Try a little spontaneity. or some other issue. But your marriage sex suffers when you insist on always going back for more of the same. The urgency of the sex and the forbidden secret will keep you hot for a week. is also one way to get your brain and genitals all fired up. Put a sexy note (a description of your favorite fantasy) in your partner’s purse or car. But your marriage sex suffers when you insist on always going back for more of the same. Make love just before you are expecting company. Kinkiness. Sexual pleasure comes in an amazing range of flavors and everyone has a favorite. Flirt with your partner in public.Changes You CAN Make
Sexuality in marriage is a great gift and a gift to be enjoyed and nurtured. seduce your wife when the urge strikes.
Caress her. Do enjoy the film and remember that the object of this exercise is to enjoy each other more. smell her. So. run your hands over all those soft curves. It is time to grow up and become like kids again. you should be able to feel relaxed and at ease enough so that you can laugh with each other and continue to arouse each other and be aroused sexually. When you are undressing for bed and she is naked before you. Most of us are very performance oriented. Laughter. So the best way to increase your hunger for sex is to have sex. Decide to see a film right after work. She may think you are being silly but if you are consistent about how much you love her body. humor. increase the frequency of your sexual encounters. After a meal and a bit of television viewing the tiredness and strains of the day tend to catch up. Make time for sex. Don’t always leave your lovemaking till bedtime. It is time to play and discover the joy and fulfillment while aligning your body. leaving you with one desire only to sleep. Don’t just say she is beautiful. fall on your knees before her. passionate love affair. show her. lighthearted playfulness.All of the above will transform any routine marriage sex into a hot. role-playing and childlike exploration are basic techniques of lovemaking. heart and mind in sex. Make lovemaking a top priority in your marriage. We all take sex very seriously. a few snacks and a mind to devote yourself to your partner for the next 90 minutes. Try having sex before supper. Practically all women are insecure about their bodies. There are many times in a loving and sexual relationship with your partner that situations develop that might make you feel embarrassed with someone you are not close to. Studies show that lovemaking elevates the levels of brain chemicals associated with desire. hold hands and kiss and snuggle up together and have fun. a glass of wine. However. Go straight to bed with a cup of tea. spontaneity. Preferably. she will love you for it. By the end of the movie you should be in a really romantic and sexy mood. 20
. with your loving sexual partner.
If you don’t want to create more problems in your sex life. Be careful with drinking. so before any date. We all know drinking increases a man’s desire but decreases his ability. but not everyone realizes it also affects a woman’s sexual response. people make the mistake of believing that sex should always be spontaneous. We all know drinking increases a man’s desire but decreases his ability. Avoid a heavy meal before sex. Set up a time to have the talk. Remember that sex isn’t going to be perfect each time. Don’t forget to brush them after your bath. Talk with one another about your expectations. your desires. Recognize that abstinence now and then can be beneficial to your relationship if you start to lust after one another more. your concerns. and arm stroking between mouthfuls. Everyone smells: some women like the smell of male sweat.
. ‘Please fit me into your crowded schedule tonight!’ It never fails. and be honest. Don’t blindside your spouse. Teeth are as important as the groin and armpits. she won’t want to smell your bad breath. don’t purchase any sex advice books without discussing the issue with your spouse first. When kissing your wife. Good lovemaking starts long before you reach the bedroom. Send a text or e-mail to your wife on your special days saying. or even sitting close to her. If you want to talk about sexual problems. but no one likes the smell of stale sweat. others don’t. You’ll want to tear each other’s clothes off right there. Don’t talk about sexual problems in your bedroom or at bedtime. Being grouchy all day or ignoring your spouse during the day hurts your chances of having a positive lovemaking experience that evening. let your spouse know (without placing blame) that you think the two of you need to have a talk about your sexual intimacy. but not everyone realizes it also affects your wife’s sexual response. your fears. Be careful with drinking. Don’t compare your sex life to the ones you see in movies or on television. Pick one night a week to be a regular sex fixture. Don’t be afraid to talk about what you like sexually and what you don’t like.Make sure that you do plenty of kissing. have a bath. On the other hand.
But you’ll want generally soothing. You can do this in many ways – Leave a card for her to find after you’ve left the house. Women love romance. Don’t worry about getting sounds of the forest or anything like that. and it makes them feel wanted. calming music or at least something she enjoys. There’s nothing as unpleasant as a shaving rash. unless she’s expressed a desire to feel this sign of your manliness. If you turn up in bed with your armpits smelling of stale sweat. respect her and want her to the exclusion of all other women. and romance her from time to time. Your partner wants to know that you cherish her. saying how much you love her and how much you appreciate her lovemaking. It makes them feel special. Set the mood with candles and light music. your foreskin harboring that special aroma. Another simple technique you can apply when having sex is the “Pelvic Push”. Another good massaging technique is to firmly massage the pelvic area with lube. This alone can give your wife an orgasm if you get her really hot. you’re not going to get much further until you’ve taken a quick trip to the bathroom.More than two or three drinks and some women may be loving but physiologically limited. Set up the candles so that the whole room illuminates to an orange glow. The pelvic area of your wife is located between her vagina and about two inches below her belly button. but you can’t underestimate its importance. Send her flowers unexpectedly. You may have noticed that men seem to regard dirt of any kind with less distaste than women. Give her a massage before having sex. Be a good lover. This is what turns her on and makes her desire rampant sex with you. Call her from your workplace and tell her you really fancy her and think she’s incredibly attractive. Start from the top like a regular massage and slowly work down to massaging her inner thighs and other parts close to her vagina. and your feet smelling like a slice of cheese.
. Massage calms your partner and gets her primed for sex. This may seem as a simple advice. Show her you care by shaving before sex.
Then go ahead and give her some bread. you should set the mood before dinner. serve her first and act like you care if she likes it. The result is complete relaxation. This will heighten her pleasure and lead her to orgasm quicker. This one gets her excited because it shows you can do something other than shoot hoops. Try easy recipes like spaghetti or ravioli. or at least beer to nosh before the main course is ready. Start with very slow. Cook her dinner. This puts more pressure on what is going on inside her. Then. Maybe let her lick a spoon to test the sauce. Some women go crazy when you massage their arms all the way to the hands.Another simple technique you can apply when having sex is the “Pelvic Push”. you have to keep the conversation going. As you end the massage. using your entire hand. Just like a massage. whisper something in her ear and buckle up! Even if you don’t have sex right then and there. it also warms her muscles. but it’ll do just fine. But don’t neglect her arms and legs. When having sex simply apply pressure or firmly rub this area. You’ll know if you did well within the first few bites as women have an amazing ability to eat in a sexy way. When the food is up. wine. you’re basically back where you started. Don’t focus completely on the food. As you work up momentum. But don’t try some fancy dish you probably can’t pull off. broad strokes that cover her entire back and legs (she should be naked with just a towel over her butt). You really want to focus on working the entire muscle. you can be assured shell be in a giving mood the next time you go at it. this shows her you can do two things at once. If the food sucks. throw in some spices to class it up. You’ll need this stuff because it not only lets your hands glide freely. Simply having this will make it appear like you know what you’re doing.
. you’re in. You may have to settle on your bed in place of a massage table. If she’s smiling and enjoying the food. Get some massage oil. increase the pressure you apply. tell her to sit down and relax. If and when she asks to help.
should guys force anything on their wives. Give her a gift. tempting. You should get away for sexy breaks in order to perk up your sex life. A survey of 3. so the gift will tell her you appreciate every part of her body and she has nothing to hide. A survey of 3. Under no circumstances. Nakedness increases that vulnerability.
. sexy foods you don’t usually allow yourselves.Start to feed her with your fork and rejoice in the fact that you’re much closer to sex than you were an hour ago. One good position is to sit on the side and have her sit in your lap with her back to you. Encourage her to hop in the shower with you before bed. Encourage her to leave her towel on as you both watch TV and relax. grab that thing and use it on her. Obvious sex-inducing gifts include handcuffs and KY. found that one woman in ten feels so embarrassed about her body that she turns the lights out before taking off her clothes. You do any essential laundry and housework midweek and reserve one night for shopping for all those light. by the bathroom equipment company SHUC. this will lead straight to shower sex. Don’t assume your partner is comfortable in her own skin. But for a classier approach. you still have a great chance when you get out. she appreciates your cleanliness and will be likely to explore parts she may otherwise shy away from. Plus.500 British women. by the bathroom equipment company SHUC. found that one woman in ten feels so embarrassed about her body that she turns the lights out before taking off her clothes. The average woman still spends a lot of time every day beating herself up about her weight and looks. Take a shower with her. She loves it and you look like an expert.500 British women. consider getting her some expensive lingerie. luxury. Ideally. Even if you don’t have sex in the shower. If the shower head reaches. There’s no need to rush into clothes. tell her. if you think that your partner looks great. so be sensitive to her insecurities and. the towels provide easy access for both of you. These things are incredibly skimpy.
This modern trend. Try to keep your romantic levels topped up by having a child-free meal in the evenings wherever possible and try at these meals to dress up for each other and also to discuss topics that don’t include your children. Get together with the parents of all your children’s friends and fix some sleepovers for your 10-year-olds and older. can really give your relationship a boost. So refuse to answer the doorbell during the weekend. there’s no traveling involved. Cultivate every relative you can muster. but who are parents too. When you create a romantic setting. then you keep your love alive and you create an atmosphere in which sex is not just possible but likely. Couples who not only work. The important thing for parents is to try to recreate the feelings you had as a couple before you had children. Of course. you can sleep as much as you want. So. days and whole weekends. Creeping into your house on this night.
. is all part of the fun. but this is a small price to pay for the freedom you’ll get on the other occasions when your kids are the guests. and you can have sex in your own bed right through the weekend. But this is a period in your life when you really need all the close and loving contact you can get. you can catch up on all those recorded videos that you’ve kept meaning to view. you’ll have to take your turn at being the host family and finding space for half a dozen kids and their sleeping bags. it’s important to arrange time to enjoy each other’s bodies as much as possible. set your answering-machine before work saying that you’re away and the scene is now set for your sexy break at home. Grandparents are the usual source of doting help.Then. making sure no one spots you. have double the problems when it comes to romance. and they’re often so brilliantly inventive at activities. which kids love. but childless aunts and uncles generally long to play part-time parent. There are several advantages to this break-away-at-home as it’s much cheaper than going away. and gratefully accept all offers of babysitting for nights. that your kids won’t want to come home.
There is no way your man can know what his wife feels. When life becomes busy. and what she needs to have an orgasm. 26
Communication is the key to a healthy and active sex life in a marital relationship. but you need to know what each other are thinking. Discussing intimate things can sometimes be embarrassing. Try to put the embarrassing feeling behind you. Let her know that it is okay if she takes control sometimes. Sex in a long lasting relationship can deepen and become a richer experience. and what she needs to have an orgasm. True intimacy through communication is what makes sex great. don’t be afraid to ask! It has always been said that the man should be the one to start the love making. don’t be afraid to ask! There is no way your man can know what his wife feels. unless she communicates and lets him know. and feeling. So. No two women are alike. so talk with one another more. Try to set the mood in advance. Let your spouse know you care and are thinking about her throughout the day by notes. The theory that men know everything about making love and pleasing your wife is not true. So. Talk with one another about your expectations concerning lovemaking as false or unmet expectations can hurt your marriage. etc. e-mails. what really turns her on. and schedules are hectic. Make sex one of your main priorities. start the foreplay in the morning. Throw that theory out of the window! Some men like when their wife takes control and starts the love making. hugs. the wonder and awe of mutual attraction can still be there. Share with one another your sexual desires. phone calls. wanting. unless she communicates and lets him know. No matter how many times you have made love to each other. Sexual intimacy is a continuing process of discovery. If you want to have good sex at night. what really turns her on. plan for sexual encounters with one another.
Even sexually experienced men and women can be shy about asking for what they want in a sexual encounter.You would be surprised how many wives are dying to switch it up and take control more often. feelings which are bound to leak out in some way in your relationship. While talking about the sexual problem with your wife. The solution could be as simple as increased communication. so that your wife doesn’t feel that she is offended. work together in order to reach a resolution. be sure not to play the blame game. There are some great resources out there to be explored. Be sincere and honest with your spouse. But women aren’t all the same. This alone might change everything in your love life! Try showing your wife what you would like for her to do. about the matter. about the need to rejuvenate the ‘spark. Being able to look at yourself and at the unit is essential in evaluation of the issue. But men often make assumptions about what your wife wants based upon what they’ve done with other women. This is not the time to beat around the bush. whether this means a particular position or activity (like oral sex).’ Ensure that you do not strike up a conversation about the same during the working hours. Discuss your concerns. Be open to assistance. Be sincere and honest with yourself. you’ll end up feeling resentful and disappointed. This is your wife which you have chosen to share your life with. Now if you do not truthfully face the cause. Discuss your concerns and issues pertaining to the subject in a polite way. Don’t sugarcoat the situation.
. Discuss the issues. In order to deal with the problem the cause and severity of the situation must be evaluated. for example). This way. you will ensure that your partner is aware of what you exactly need. Instead of pointing fingers at each other. you are wasting time. or a different approach to lovemaking (like taking it more slowly. Choose the right time to talk to your spouse. If you don’t ask for what you want.
there’s a legacy of resentment.
. You may not have to exit your comfort zone to arouse sexual thoughts in your wife. don’t make comparisons about other wives’ willingness to try new positions or new sexual adventures. simply and directly. If possible ask for her bare skin. but they often don’t leave things the way they were before…if you both aren’t prepared to try them. ask her to sit close to you so that you can feel the warmth of her body next to yours. just ask. you might be surprised. so take the time to apologize for anything you might have done wrong. Once you are in such close physical proximity. that despite all the differences that exist between the two of you. and your intimate time together will be more special. Women like to feel emotionally close to their partner when they are intimate. You need to work out how she feels about the idea before you start launching into the subject. Let your wife know how much you love her and how close you feel to her. so treat the subject carefully if this is really what you want to do. Women can enjoy physical closeness without sex. Both of you will feel better. You may find once the excitement has died down. you still love her and cannot love anyone else as long as you are with her. chances are that she starts stroking your body to show that she is being aroused gently. It could just be that you need to try out different ways or different places to have sex. Unresolved conflicts will interfere with your sex life. If that’s what you want with your wife. Try it. Sometimes she just might want to cuddle and feel close to you. Women are generally more emotional than men. Don’t ever talk about your last wife’s ability in bed in a way that might suggest a comparison.Take the time and trouble to understand what your partner really wants from sex. do not give up and go off to a slumber. Also. Many sexual activities can seem exciting. Instead. Even try different strokes of foreplay to check whether this turns her on. Tell her in as many words. Wives need reassurance all the time. If you are tired after a long day. Bask in the ‘warmth’ of her body for the next 15 to 30 minutes.
even after so many years.Let her know that you value her presence in your life and want her every night.
. You would be surprised at what such frank confessions can do to your wife.
otherwise. But you have to time it right. the average man takes 3 to 5. Just like your wife’s clitoris. her nipples are sensitive and need to be treated with respect at first. Women become aware of their desire to be touched sexually by being touched on their non-sexual areas first. might excite her. Each partner has their own variations to foreplay and may discover some mutual fetishes and then play accordingly. Your wife needs to be properly aroused before starting sex. hold hands and talk romantically to each other.
. So take it slow.Foreplay Is The Way
Sex is the art of lovemaking and should be done with passion. A lot of women will tell you that nipple play is very exciting. and often find touch to their genitals or breasts without adequate foreplay to be simply irritating. Teasing her nipples with your lips and tongue. clitoris. Foreplay is the language of love. Sit snugly together. deep-throat tongue kissing. maybe even your teeth. Your woman needs to be properly aroused before starting sex. Women take a lot of foreplay while men do not. Women take longer to get aroused than men. They can fondle each other’s bodies especially breasts and nipples. it’s more likely to make her shriek with pain rather than delight. it will not be an enjoyable experience for her. otherwise. your relationship will be turning for the worse. it sends a direct tingle of sexual excitement to their vagina and clitoris. so make more time for foreplay. you’re probably going to find that you aren’t welcome. If you are not bridging this gap. put feeling into what you’re doing. or oral stimulation of female genitals by the male partner. but if you do it too soon. and above all treat her clitoris with care. it will not be an enjoyable experience for her. because that’s what you’d like her to do with your penis. or breasts. If you dive straight onto her vulva. The average woman takes 15 to 20 minutes of stimulation to achieve an orgasm. Try to satisfy your partner first and then work on your own satisfaction. oral stimulation of the male organ by the female partner.
You will start enjoying your sexual encounters more once you make foreplay a mandatory part of it. Bear in mind the hands should not be used to prevent the woman from going anywhere or to clamp her head into one uncomfortable position. Don’t neglect the breasts and other erogenous zones. You can consider that sex is incomplete without kissing. There are many erogenous parts in the body that can arouse your partner. Women love to kiss very much and become aroused when they are kissed by their partner. you should make it a point to remember to kiss your partner more during sex. It increases sexual stimulation and prepares you for pleasurable sexual activity. Thus. and generally spoiling her. complimenting her. Keep in mind that using your tongue is not required for kissing. She needs to be able to feel your lips. Open your lips. Learn to massage. Make certain that your partner knows how attractive you find her by paying as much attention to kissing her. Don’t keep your lips stiff and rigid. Learn to concentrate on your partner’s body and what she wants you to do. 31
. if you are not experienced. save the French kissing (kissing using your tongue) for later. This can easily shade into great foreplay. Avoid concentrating only on your own body. Most women don’t like wet or sloppy kisses (although some women do enjoy them during sex). Remember most women like men to toy gently with their hair. Don’t drool all over her mouth while kissing. women don’t enjoy kissing just a slit on a guys face. You’ve got to keep your lips soft and sensuous. Take it slowly. Just don’t rush into sex and focus attention immediately on the genitalia. Lots of the greatest kisses are all about the lips. Just don’t rush into sex and focus attention immediately on the genitalia. Don’t keep your lips closed. Foreplay is just like the warm-up that you do before the exercise. Don’t neglect the breasts and other erogenous zones. Kissing is considered to be a very important part of the sexual activity. especially if your partner is tired or stressed.
A kiss should be two pairs of lips meeting each other. The sensitive spots that make her shiver with delight might be behind her knees. you can just stick your penis in and she’ll be happy. In research. lick the outside corners of her mouth. in the crook of her elbows. which means you’ll have a much better time in bed. That’s the kind of thing that will make her see you as a considerate lover. Close your eyes when you feel your lips touching hers. Notice how good her lips feel against yours. 32
. she’ll assume you’re not really interested in her pleasure and probably mark you down as a second rate lover. and try different things to make them feel even better. and try using different pressures and movements to gently explore your partner’s lips. You need to take the time to find out what turns her on. No woman likes kissing a man whose mouth smells like an ashtray. and that will make her want to please you. it’s such a romantic and intimate act as it can communicate to your wife exactly how you feel about her. and they value a man who knows how to do it well. It’s wrong to assume that as soon as her vagina is juicy. She may not be ready. then wait. If so. but if you don’t find them. and where those deliciously sensitive bits of her body are to be found. So learn how to kiss sensitively. Closing your eyes takes the feeling to an altogether different level. it’s been shown that even when women are very wet they may still not feel aroused mentally. your wife has to be ready both physically and mentally for sex. selfishly concerned only with getting your penis into her vagina as soon as possible. not one pair forcing itself on the other. Far from it. and don’t just resort to sticking your tongue in her mouth and wiggling it around. which means you’ll have a much better time in bed. You need to take the time to find out what turns her on. she will show you when she wants you in there. mint. Maintain good oral hygiene. You probably know that her vaginal lubrication is the equivalent of your erection. to keep your breath fresh. Smokers beware. If your wife turns away or pulls back. Looking into the other person’s eyes while kissing is not very comfortable for most. Most women think of kissing as one of the most romantic things there is. then respect her decision. etc. and where those deliciously sensitive bits of her body are to be found. That’s the kind of thing that will make her see you as a considerate lover. and. In short. Most women really appreciate a good kisser. and that will make her want to please you. But the fact that she’s wet doesn’t mean she’s ready for sex. Use mouthwash. put some feeling into your lips as you do it. across her belly or on her earlobes.Caress her lips by brushing your lips back and forth against them.
no matter how wet she is. touching and licking on and around her clitoris can be extremely exciting for her. it’s only after being kissed. back. This is so different to the way women like to be touched: women appreciate a gentle touch to the clitoris as it’s a very sensitive organ. and with a firm pressure. and most women dislike being touched there too early on in lovemaking. You can also say something like. “You are so beautiful. and that may be some time after she’s physically ready for sex. to tell her how much you appreciate the joy and pleasure that her body and mind can give you. you’re a long way down the road to being a considerate and desirable lover. Too much touch is not only irritating for her but can also be quite painful. We all know that men like their penises to be stimulated early on during sex.” The art of this kind of communication is not to make her think you want her only for sex. The words “I love you” have the power to melt your wife’s heart and open her body to you. Your wife has to feel ready to accept you into her body. you would do well to wait until there’s no doubt she wants to be penetrated. which will turn her on. As a general guide. and indeed touched enough to become so aroused that she is producing vaginal lubrication. and tell her so. Make it clear that you desire her. caressed and touched elsewhere. Once your wife is aroused. belly. When you understand that. but to convey how much you appreciate her and her feminine sexuality. Nothing turns your wife on more than the fact that she is loved and desired by her man. If you desire her. and you can’t handle it in the way you want your penis to be touched and expect her to respond by getting aroused. that your wife is ready for her wife to approach her clitoris. shoulders. all over her body. Yet “love” is such a powerful word that it’s wrong to use it unless you actually feel it. neck. So be careful how you use them. It’s best to work up to touching breasts and vagina by kissing and touching around them first. The clitoris is extremely sensitive. This is so different to the way women like to be touched: women appreciate a gentle touch to the clitoris as it’s a very sensitive organ. you make her feel appreciated and womanly. and you can’t handle it in the way you want your penis to be touched and expect her to respond by getting aroused.
This will give you the perfect opportunity to kiss or lick her vulva. You need to understand that the “clit” is sensitive. and if you add to it. Your wife’s clitoris is many times more sensitive than any penis ever was. The clitoris is located at the very top of the vaginal opening. fingertips. which is much smaller than a man’s. hidden underneath the flaps of skin commonly known as the “vaginal lips. You may need to be reassuring about how she smells as a lot of women think their vulva is dirty. If you’re using your fingers to play on or around her clitoris. lips and face. about twice as sensitive as your penis head. which can be as delightful for you as for her. her belly. frequently replenished from your mouth. The best way to stimulate the clitoris is to use your tongue. Of course. you might not be getting good sex anytime soon. and her buttocks may be aching for your touch and caresses as you make love to her. or penis. then why not have a bath or shower before sex. Some women like it rough while others do not.” When it is stimulated it fills with blood and is more noticeable and easier to locate. Learning new skills. When you stimulate it. Be tactful! Don’t say anything about her body which will hurt her.
. Be gentle and have a semi-soft touch. You will need to figure that out on your own. It is sensitive and too much roughness is only going to feel unpleasant to her. techniques and information can help you satisfy your wife more than ever before. she’s got enough cultural baggage about female smells.Gaining more knowledge is the first step to improving your performance in bed. she will almost certainly want you to focus on other parts of her body as well from time to time: her nipples and breasts for they are two of the most erotic and erogenous zones on her body. no matter how much you tell them it’s delightful. if it is a bit ripe. using non-allergenic. Stimulate the surrounding areas first so it has time to get moist and swell up. pH balanced washing products which won’t irritate her sensitive parts in the same way as soap. or saliva. start out slow and work your way up to a faster harder motion. But even though your wife may find it incredibly erotic and powerful when you stimulate her clitoris. then you’ll certainly need some lubrication. either her natural vaginal juices if she produces enough. This is because it has ten times as many sensitive nerve endings in its glands. neck. fluids and bodily appearance to last her a lifetime.
her arousal has to build up once more. but as you go from one to the other. When you are kissing her thighs very close to (but not on) her genitalia. the warmth of your tongue on their labia and clitoris. When you ask women to name their favorite sexual activity. This will let her arousal drop a little.but very lightly and quickly. Don’t repeat the move more than 5 to 6 times because at a certain point. then do the same on her right thigh. the intimacy and the symbolic act of love that it entails. After teasing her vagina and getting it wet and not giving it any pleasure. she will become unsatisfied and withdraw from the relation and the same is true if you don’t masturbate her from time to time. When you feel her desire has built up enough. for instance. she will become moist with desire to feel your lips on her vagina. Tease her as you make love.ask her to give you some oral sex. Try this: when you are giving her oral sex. as if it is happening by accident.
. you will only frustrate her. You must use a water-based lube if you are going to wear a condom later on when you penetrate her. Women love the wetness. teasing becomes frustrating and will turn her off. If you aren’t going to go down. make sure to very gently brush your face against her vulva . passionate kisses. you can use some artificial lubricant instead. If you are going to give her oral sex. many of them will say it is oral sex. start giving her very light kisses around and on her vagina and gradually focus in on her clitoris with harder and harder kisses and eventually get some licks in there too. then don’t head down there. slowly start applying a little more pressure on it and you will probably feel her thrusting her vagina into you because it is now aching for satisfaction. So if you’re not making sure she receives adequate cunnilingus or masturbation. This move feels extremely exciting for the woman when she is still wearing undies as you are kissing and licking her vagina through them because it feels like even more of a tease that way and makes it that much better when you finally take them off. then planting kisses from her mouth and neck down to her breasts and stomach to her hips and thighs is a good way to get her excited. Give her left thigh a couple of soft.If you prefer. If you are kissing your partner and leading down to the belly button with no intention of going further. stop and do something else . Do this a couple of times and this is almost guaranteed to get her wet. so when you start giving her oral sex again.
but do not spank the same spot for too long or it will turn red and become painful. make sure she’s okay with it before using a new object in the bedroom. Of course. (provided she is able to have an orgasm that way. Most people start off with their hands. but if you visit a sex toy shop. The word should be something not related to sex (“baseball” or “rain”) and something that you will not be confused about when hearing and when your wife says the safe word immediately stop the spanking. meaning she has been able to have an orgasm through intercourse before you ejaculate. Use different things for spanking. Part of being a good lover. is being able to last long enough in bed that your partner is fully satisfied.If you repeat this a few times during your lovemaking. you’ll find many whips and paddles that are made for spanking your wife. women “come” first. 36
. so make sure her knees are padded with carpet or pillows. you might want to have her put it in a ponytail so it will not get in the way. if you find that you can’t last long enough in bed for her to cum as part of vaginal intercourse. is being able to last long enough in bed that your partner is fully satisfied. If she has long hair.) Part of being a good lover. Have your wife kneel in front of you on her knees and hands. she will have a much more powerful orgasm when she does eventually cum. In sex. Get her really worked up by tracing a feather down her spine or gently massaging her body before you begin the spanking. of course. Spank different parts of her butt to see which places she likes it and which places she doesn’t. You’ll want this to be a comfortable experience for her. of course. (provided she is able to have an orgasm that way. Tease your wife. make sure that you have a safe word set up that you both recognize to mean “stop” when you are spanking her (or doing anything else).) There are alternatives. Focus on the places that she likes it. Also. you can bring her to orgasm through oral sex or masturbation before you enter her and indulge in intercourse. Try spanking her lightly and work your way up with more force. For example. meaning she has been able to have an orgasm through intercourse before you ejaculate.
Do it by oral sex. if you’d like her to do something different. or asparagus. or whatever. Don’t try to force her head towards your erection as a hint that she should give you oral sex. and don’t just resort to those kinds of crass movements. tell her. But give her pleasure before you have an orgasm yourself because very few women ever orgasm through vaginal sex alone. then prepare yourself by eating pineapple (they say it makes semen taste nicer). If you want her to give you head. If she’s willing to try taking your semen. ask her for it. Don’t behave like a porn star and don’t treat your partner like one either. so she may not want it in her mouth. or because their partner gets pleasure from it. masturbation. Semen can taste unpleasant. Many women appreciate sex because it feels nice. and when she’s doing it. There are certain things you should absolutely never do when you want to get oral sex from her. Be courteous and don’t expect her to deep throat you. Do not ask her to swallow after you’ve had curry. because she’ll probably never go near your penis again. beer. using a sex toy. and in some ways it may not even be that important to your wife.
Penetrate her sensitively and mindfully every time you do it. That means before she’s mentally and emotionally ready. your penis thrusting out of your pants. and she is lubricating. So this act of love requires sensitivity on the part of the man and that can be demonstrated in many ways: By looking into her eyes as you push your penis into her vagina. she may well be wet enough long before she wants anything put inside her vagina. her vulva is swollen and full of blood. expressed in verbal or nonverbal form. and it can be very exciting to have intercourse with your clothes on. By taking her strongly with manly pride as her wife. By being sensitive to her needs at all times. The key thing is to penetrate her with respect and appreciate the honor she is paying you by taking your penis into her body. her underwear pulled to one side to expose her vagina as you push into her from behind. her vaginal muscles are relaxed. whether with a finger or two. when you know that’s what she’ll appreciate. and most of the time you’ll want to take it more slowly and romantically. You need to skillfully judge the moment to enter her. When she is fully ready. it can be exciting to rip your clothes off as you rush to the bed. or a kind of thrusting motion as she raises her vulva towards you. One helpful sign is a gentle wave-like motion of her hips. But sex is not always so frenetic and urgent. so that you don’t go in before she’s ready.
The key thing is to penetrate her with respect and appreciate the honor she is paying you by taking your penis into her body. Sure. If you are trying to get inside her before that point. 38
. your penis. you it is no fun for her. or indeed anything else. It is extremely important to make sure that your wife is sufficiently aroused before you try to enter her. and when your wife gives her body to a man she makes a great emotional investment and perhaps takes a significant risk. to be penetrated. You can judge this with experience by her desire. By asking if you may enter her. Trying to get into her before she’s ready or willing to be entered is a huge mistake.When Two Become “One”
Men don’t always appreciate how much penetration means to your wife: it’s the ultimate act of trust and love.
or just asking her to lend a helping hand. Nothing seems to be as much of a turn-off for your wife as a man who can’t enter her gracefully. so it is your responsibility to make sure she is ready. give her vagina a few nice smacks with your penis and this is sure to get her juices flowing.However. Indeed. if it’s a straight choice between you blindly pushing your penis at her for five minutes before you finally find her vagina. You can always stay on the safe side and when you think she might be ready. It’s not a problem if you occasionally have to ask her to guide you in. she probably wouldn’t let you know that.
Don’t worry about it. and come with a powerful and massive ejaculation. You should remember that sex is not a serious act. and how much natural lubrication your wife has can change from day to day. it is a playful act in which both the partners actively participate. there’s nothing worse than a guy who gets so carried away with his own pleasure that he just thrusts away until he comes. will appreciate some directions. It is very necessary to make the sexual encounter playful. but unless you speak up. who wants to please you. but most of the time she’s going to want to be in on the act in a more active way! 40
. This will add more passion to your sexual encounter. Avoid making sex mechanical. there’s nothing worse than a guy who gets so carried away with his own pleasure that he just thrusts away until he comes. If you’re respectful about it.An Intercourse On Intercourse
A lot of guys think they should be silent during sex. without so much as a thought for what she might want. Compliment her body during the sex. Some women tend to get wetter than others. without so much as a thought for what she might want. Guys sometimes get hung up if your wife doesn’t get slippery enough for easy penetration. Certainly. Make it more passionate by making sounds and screams when you enjoy certain acts of your partner. Some women tend to get wetter than others. your partner has to guess what’s doing it for you and what isn’t. It varies by the phase of her menstrual cycle. From your wife’s point of view. and how much natural lubrication a woman has can change from day to day. It varies by the phase of her menstrual cycle. Women usually like men who are playful in sexual activity rather than serious. your wife. Play different games to make your sex life spicier and to avoid the boredom. Thrusting hard until you come without thought for her pleasure is one of the great mistakes. there will be times when she is just happy to see you take your pleasure in her body. From a woman’s point of view.
even if that means fifteen minutes’ thrusting before you ejaculate (possibly with a few breaks for rest). she wants the emotional connections and feelings of being loved by her husband. at least some of the time. You may wish to keep your eyes open so that you can look at each other as you make love. sideways positions. etc to make your sex life more enjoyable. different positions give you different sensations. elbows. a gentleman always takes his weight on his arms. After all. She may experience a whole variety of feelings when your penis enters her and it is good to take time to savor the experience and feel it fully. Please remember to discuss with your wife the new positions. and if she obviously wants more of it. needs and desires. see how she reacts to your thrusts. that’s especially true for sensitive people who can be a bit overwhelmed by all the sensations and feelings that sex produces. Penetrating your wife does not mean that you can thrust away regardless of her wishes. a gentleman always takes his weight on his arms. elbows. then stop because obviously these signs say that something is not right. It is the way to find out what feels good and what doesn’t. standing up face to face or lying side by side (spooning. Consider sitting down.So start slowly.unless you’re going to come too quickly. Variety makes sex more interesting. Always using the same position makes your sex life more and more boring for both the partners. then speed up and thrust harder . knees. 41
. most men realize that your wife wants more than the physical side of sex. Try some new positions like woman on top. this will keep boredom out of the bedroom. There’s no reason why you shouldn’t try lots of positions. that adds to the intimacy. REMEMBER! When in the missionary position. knees. What she wants is a man in bed. Keep sex positions varied. as both of you should be ready to try the new sexual positions. These days. or something else. or something else.) If there is pain or discomfort while trying out different positions. Some wives prefer to close their eyes and focus on what they are feeling. REMEMBER! When in the missionary position. not a two pump chump! You should be able to thrust for long enough to please your wife. even if you rely on a few basic ones for 90% of your sex lives. in which case you should learn how to control yourself.
Women like the feel of being touched. you’ll miss out on one of the fastest ways to get her aroused. or see her enjoying the feeling of him being inside her. they get more aroused. Avoid concentrating on yourself during sex. Be relaxed during sex. Try the more loving sex positions like side by side to see how much you can both enjoy sensual touching during sex.this will help you as well as your partner to enjoy the sex. at least we are capable of showing love and affection during sex and gaining great pleasure from our partners’ sexual happiness.
. Don’t get wrapped up in worrying about getting it exactly right in every position you try. And even if female sexuality is a puzzling mystery to most men. they thrust harder. laugh if it goes wrong. you don’t get points if you can cover the same spot more than once. Women feel sensuous during sex and enjoy skin to skin contact. Your partner’s silence may be a sign of her sexual pleasure. and it can slip away without warning. Feeling her up isn’t a sport. Explore new areas of pleasure that she enjoys and pay more attention to those areas she likes. Just see how it goes. But it’s not like that for women: they can lose their arousal at any stage of sex. You can also try kissing her entire body to turn her on. in a variety of ways that please her. Learn to concentrate on your partner’s body . It’s true that most men do actually want to make their wife happy. they thrust. but please remember that there is a point at which you are overdoing it. and try something else. It’s that simple. so if you don’t spend time touching her all over. at least we are capable of showing love and affection during sex and gaining great pleasure from our partners’ sexual happiness.And even if female sexuality is a puzzling mystery to most men. so they forget to tell their partner what they want. but it’s not unreasonable to ask her to let you know how you’re doing. Men have a very clear route to orgasm in sex: they get aroused. This makes it harder for men to know just what to do to keep their partner firmly on the road to orgasm and what makes this worse is that women often get lost in their own sexual arousal. It’s very rewarding for a husband to give their wife an orgasm. and they ejaculate.
baby. “no”. Most men can orgasm very quickly. Another explosive way to make her have an orgasm is to make sure you keep talking to her in a commanding voice and let her know that you’re in control. she’ll love it and start to be really turned on. tell her how much you’re attracted to her and what you love about her. If she seems really into something continue with that act and see where it goes. it is difficult to stay focused so talking naughty helps keep their mind in the right place. “lighter”. you’ll discover it’s pretty easy to turn her on simply by using the power of your voice. Consistent pace and rhythm is necessary for her to reach orgasm. For some women. If you want to make her have an orgasm. Women generally take longer. you have to get into the habit of letting her know how much she means to you. What you need to do is keep going with your fingers. I want you to cum on me. When your next sexual session begins. Some women also need extra stimulation to orgasm.
. keep going at all costs until she tips over into her orgasm. This is not quite the same as it is for your wife: she will appreciate a much more consistent rhythm throughout sex. vibrator. Delay your orgasm as long as possible. Show her you are a good lover by letting her touch herself or helping her. By taking the time to set up your sexual encounter. You can say things like. “I love being inside you” or “You like that penis?” or “Yeah. and don’t stop especially if she’s near her orgasm. tongue. You probably like the speed of hand movements with which she masturbates you to get faster as you near orgasm. or penis. then she needs to do this. Make her feel like the most important person in the world.” for example. and only when she approaches orgasm will she want you to speed up the pace of your finger movements on her clitoris. All women are different with the ways they achieve orgasm. If you say these statements with a strong level of confidence. lips. Making your wife orgasm starts with training yourself to go for a long time before climaxing. listen to her breathing and reactions. So when you’re having sex. Delay yours until she is satisfied. “harder”. “faster”) no matter how aroused she is and if she wants you to give her the maximum pleasure.She can communicate with you with single words (“yes”.
you’re likely to have a very unfulfilled woman on your hands. If you’re a quick ejaculator. Let your mate do the things that she needs to do to make her happy. You should be able to choose when to ejaculate during intercourse. You should be able to choose when to ejaculate during intercourse. you’re likely to have a very unfulfilled woman on your hands. REMEMBER! It can be difficult to control your ejaculation. Just be a bit careful. Ejaculating on her like she wasn’t there could be another error. you may well find that you shout in her ear. particularly if you’re a young man. Sex naturally involves a longish period of thrusting before a woman is fully satisfied. If you’re a quick ejaculator. REMEMBER! It can be difficult to control your ejaculation. So spend a while cuddling her after making love. Just because you are married doesn’t mean that it has to turn into a prison.
. This is very important. You should help your mate accomplish their individual goals. For her. so try and respect that. She might just object if you deposit a bunch of semen unexpectedly on some corner of her body. Don’t forget: please your wife and she will please you. the post sex glow can be a special time when she feels very close and connected to you. If you feel like being a good guy. leaking your semen all night. Give your wife plenty of room to grow and experience life. She may want to lie in a puddle. for her it might just be another load of laundry. and if you like to let the world know when you come. and she will also want to know she’s loved and adored by the man to whom she has just given herself. each person is an individual. especially if you’re not sleeping together. Even within a marriage. If you’re a guy who shouts a lot when he ejaculates. While it can be exciting for you. She will also take much longer to come down from sex than you will. offer her a warm towel to clean herself when you’ve parted. particularly if you’re a young man.Give her what she wants and needs. Have tissues and towel handy if you aren’t using a condom. Create a portal in which your wife can explore her real life passion. Sex naturally involves a longish period of thrusting before your wife is fully satisfied.
Let her know that she always has the option to opt out even if it is in the middle. Assure her that it is awesome you just want to bring new experiences into the relationship as a way to add extra spice. you’ll already know how erotic anal stimulation can be. of course. Some couples find relating fantasies during intercourse to be stimulating. Make sure you listen to her concerns and reasoning for not wanting to try it.But What About The Butt?
Sharing fantasies can be a source of new sensual pleasures and possibilities. Other mental pictures may prove enticing enough to actually try out. it can also feel wonderful in time. Tell her in detail how you plan to make it more comfortable for her. and how much it can add to the force of your orgasm. Many women take the request of anal sex the wrong way. Most importantly let her know that if she does agree to this very special request that you will stop immediately if she changes her mind in the middle. Talk to her about your anal sex fantasy. You can also make sure that she is as clean as possible by taking a shower together before sex and gently washing her anus. Let her know that it is really important to you. Assure her that you are aware that it may be a bit painful to her at first but you will do everything you can to make it the least painful as possible. Tell her that it is something you really want to try with her and that you think she will enjoy the experience. If she knows it is something you really desire she will at least ponder the idea. The same applies to you. She may fear that you don’t enjoy vaginal sex with her for some reason. for if you have discovered the delights of masturbation with a finger in or on your anus. 45
. Also remind her that losing anal virginity is a lot like losing vaginal virginity. Let her know that you plan to use a lot of lubrication and play with her before entering her. Assure her that you will be slow and gentle with her. Most women want to please their husband in bed. and running a finger around inside her anal canal. Though it may be painful the first time. Fantasies of sexual activities which one would never think of really doing are often stimulating in themselves.
latex gloves can always be used. You’ve wanted to spice up the bedroom a little bit and spanking has been added to the list of things you want to try with your wife. a few toys and this guide. and this avoids any issues of cleanliness. Sharing a new experience can lead to better love making and satisfaction and a deeper level of intimacy. Once you get through the hard part (getting her to agree!). REMEMBER! Don’t play with her anus without first asking if she likes it. the even better news is that if she has her finger inside you when you come. With an imagination. the rest is relatively easy.
. REMEMBER! Don’t play with her anus without first asking if she likes it. you’ll be on your way to sharing an experience with your wife that you won’t forget. the pressure of her finger massaging your prostate gland from inside your rectum can be immense. Of course.Well.
another libido killer. To achieve this. You should consider circulation boosting foods and these are foods that are high in Omega-3 fatty acids such as mackerel.
. also contributes to good circulation. as signals from your brain need to send sufficient blood to the penis. salmon and sardines. There are relaxation and breathing techniques that are very effective in helping you relax (and by doing so improve blood flow and prolong your intercourse duration). Oily fish also contains plenty of selenium. Obesity is a risk factor for erectile dysfunction and low testosterone levels. all critical to our natural sex drive. and therefore an increase in overall sexual performance. go for food which contains L-Arginine such as: Oatmeal Peanuts Cashews Walnuts Dairy Green vegetables Soybeans Seeds Chickpeas
Smoking and alcohol have a detrimental effect on circulation .Maintaining a Good Erection
Having good circulation is critical to the erection process. Improved circulation results in better firmer erections. The more relaxed you are during intercourse or masturbation will also determine your erection strength. so stop or cut down. which are great for reducing stress. Get B Complex vitamins in particular. Reducing weight results in an increase in levels of testosterone. zinc and magnesium. Neurological function. The blood flows easier when you’re not all tensed up. so you can also add in multivitamins and mineral supplements.
Another method that men have been using for years is the use of weights. They have been proven to increase size but there have also been many cases of misuse and overuse that have resulted in injury of the penile shaft and the surrounding area. Your penis might increase in length but it will not gain in girth. When you know that this is the main objective. this can really be dangerous if many of your penile tissues are destroyed.Keep in mind that you should be having fun during sex and this is the main purpose. However. very controlled and targeted “pull” which causes the body to react by multiplying cells in order to fill tiny “microscopic” spaces that are created during the traction. you will feel like a winner every time you and your partner are in bed together. These pumps have been around for many years and are often promoted by the medical community. Penis extenders exert a gentle. This will probably cause you to lose some of the pressure involved in sexual interactions and help you perform better in bed. The end product of this method is a longer and thinner penis.
. Concerning another method. This is done by hanging weights to your penis so that it will become longer. One of the ways you can increase your penis size is to use penis enlargement pumps. exercises force blood into the membrane and therefore cause it to swell and get bigger. This multifaceted attack delivers impressive gains within a few short weeks. They work by using a suction method that draws blood into the penis shaft thereby increasing the size of your penis. no matter how strong your erection is.
which means millions of men are experiencing this problem right now. and having enough sexual stimulation and a firm erection. Their wives tend to feel deprived of sexual pleasure. Retarded ejaculation can make you think of yourself as a poor lover. rather than trying to make a sexual response occur. as a sexual failure. Most husbands who have this problem find it frustrating. A couple may only seek treatment when tension in the relationship has got to such a point that there is serious emotional distress or danger of breaking up. and frustrated if they wish to conceive. the effect on both partners can be damaging. It’s the third most common sexual problem for men . 49
.not to mention sore and tired after hours of fruitless sex. despite wanting to achieve both orgasm and ejaculation. If the man has never ejaculated through any form of stimulation (such as wet dreams. Your partner may also feel inadequate and frustrated . distressed. perhaps. When a man can’t ejaculate during sex with his wife (or finds it very difficult to reach orgasm with his wife). Treatment usually includes both spouses. and feel anxious and incompetent in bed. and even produce feelings of guilt and shame. which means millions of men are experiencing this problem right now. anxious. The therapist will usually educate the couple about the fundamentals of sexual response and how to communicate and guide the partner to provide ideal stimulation. he is able to ejaculate in a reasonable period of time by some form of stimulation. It’s the third most common sexual problem for men .just behind premature ejaculation and not being able to get an erection at all.just behind premature ejaculation and not being able to get an erection at all. If. and a sense of letting your wife down.Erectile Dysfunctions
Retarded Ejaculation: when a man can’t come during sex especially when he can’t reach orgasm during intercourse. husbands who have delayed ejaculation can ejaculate without difficulty when alone but find it difficult to ejaculate (“come”) with their wives during sex. he should seek sex therapy from a therapist specializing in ejaculatory problems. masturbation. In general. however. or intercourse). he’s said to have delayed ejaculation. a urologist should be consulted to determine if there is a congenital or physical cause.
the man’s early. therapy to enhance the relationship and emotional intimacy may be required as a preliminary step. surveys have found that many men with PE did not have rushed early sexual experiences . Finally. sexual intercourse will be prohibited for a limited period of time. If a medication is believed to be the cause of the problem. Self-treatment of this problem will probably be unsuccessful in most cases. sex experts have tended to say that premature ejaculation is caused by early conditioning. The Masters-Johnson method: This method cures the vast majority of men.) This may be difficult in certain instances.Therapy commonly involves a series of homework assignments wherein the couple. in the privacy of their home. Tendency to reach orgasm quickly may possibly be inherited rather than learned. The idea is that this conditions him to climax as quickly as possible. In cases where there is a problematic relationship or an inhibition of sexual desire between the couple. provided that both partners are keen to co-operate. But we wouldn’t recommend alcohol as a treatment. However. you’re likely to come too quickly. Some men seem to be highly triggered right from the start of their sex lives. engage in sexual activities that reduce performance pressure and focus on pleasure.
. rushed (and perhaps furtive) sexual experiences had to be quick so as to avoid detection. it’s probable that males who climaxed quickly were more likely to have children. It’s worth noting that from an evolutionary point of view. In other words. especially when the medication is working appropriately to solve a pre-existing medical or psychological problem. This is why many males have discovered for themselves that a small amount of alcohol eases their nerves and makes them less likely to climax prematurely. If you’re nervous. Sometimes hypnosis may be a useful adjunct to therapy. other medication options may be discussed.though others say they did. (Never stop taking any medicine without first talking to your doctor. particularly if a partner is not willing to participate in therapy. while the couple gradually enhances their ability to enjoy ejaculation through other types of stimulation. Typically. there’s no question that anxiety or ‘nerves’ play a part in many cases of PE. Premature ejaculation: For many years.
On the fourth time. he is permitted to ejaculate. Unfortunately it isn’t a complete cure on its own. under careful instruction. The finger-grip abolishes the desire to climax. After he has achieved this measure of control. Her index and middle fingers are on the other side. but it is very useful for increasing your sexual confidence and making you more relaxed which is an important part of the solution for rapid ejaculation. how they work. WARNING: Some professionals hold that prolonged use of the MastersJohnson method may lead to permanent tissue damage. 51
. The man is encouraged to masturbate almost to the point of ejaculation and then stop. The index finger is just above the ridge of the glans (the ‘head’). Your wife places her hand so that her thumb is on one side of your erect penis (the nearer side to her when she is facing you). and how you get your money back when there’s no improvement. so if. WARNING: Some professionals hold that prolonged use of the Masters-Johnson method may lead to permanent tissue damage. If you try this. Self-hypnosis can be helpful. however. She then squeezes your shaft firmly between her thumb and the other two fingers. tell your wife. he can try masturbating with a wet hand. which will feel more like the inside of a vagina. Please use with caution. the couple uses it over a period of weeks. You might be tempted to believe you can stop yourself ejaculating by clamping down hard with your PC muscle to stop semen shooting out. Please don’t fall for these. When you feel that your near to a climax. You just cannot stop your ejaculation using your PC muscle to hold it back. In principle this is not a bad idea. you will find one small drawback: it doesn’t work. while the middle finger is just below the ridge. Pills and potions for controlling rapid ejaculation are all over the internet. He should do this three times. He is asked to set time aside to be private and to masturbate with dry hands.It is based on a special ‘penis grip’ developed by the American therapists Masters and Johnson. Please use with caution. they can usually re-train the man so he can last much longer. The stop-start technique: The man is encouraged to masturbate alone. He is encouraged to do the stop-start technique as before. It’s been suggested that you can use a penis ring around the base of your penis so that you stay hard after you ejaculate. But they never quite say what’s in them.
and it can reduce your desire for sex.” It details my personal success with overcoming premature ejaculation and the step-by-step system that I utilized to do this.except that it is extremely uncomfortable when the ring bites into the base of your softening penis. It just gives you a numb penis. and if it gets near your partner. there are no instant or magical solutions. she gets a numb vagina. If work is affecting your love life. You can find it on www. at least by a minute or two. 52
. “Premature No More. and many men find their glans is so sensitive after ejaculation that they cannot bear to continue thrusting. I’ve dedicated an entire book to this topic.” It details my personal success with overcoming premature ejaculation and the step-by-step system that I utilized to do this. and letting things continue as they are could lead to the breakdown of your marriage. excessive work can cause the following sexual difficulties: Less time for sex You are too tired to drum up sexual interest You find it difficult to climax You find it difficult to relax in bed You are not able to get erections easily Your feelings of stress may make you less likely to give your wife sufficient romance and love play. possibly a burning sensation. you will probably opt for doing the same things during sex
Your wife may show disappointment or even anger towards you because of these work-induced symptoms. Doing nothing and just hoping things will sort themselves out is folly. If none of the “first level” solutions above work for you. Masturbating once or twice an hour or so before sex can help to extend the time for which you last.becomeoneflesh. If none of the “first level” solutions above work for you.com. Sexual difficulties caused by excessive work : No matter what your job. But it removes spontaneity. which you don’t achieve by thinking about your taxes while you have sex. I’ve dedicated an entire book to this topic. You can find it on www. Thinking of something distracting does not work.becomeoneflesh. It just doesn’t seem like a brilliant idea to try and delay ejaculation at the expense of good sexual feelings. Another old favorite is anesthetic cream containing lidocaine or some other anesthetic which you smear on your penis to dull the feeling and stop yourself getting so aroused. Short of giving up your job.com. Sex is meant to be about togetherness and intimacy. “Premature No More. you need to do something about it fast.
but at least if both parties know this. What she wants during the week is a loving companion who will snuggle up to her and listen to what has happened in her day. You could have no desire for sex on weekdays. but not demand sex.But everyone can make small changes in their lives – no matter how busy they are. Wives do not want to feel that they’re being used as a substitute for quick masturbation and all you care about is a swift climax. but it can be abrupt and terse. the other person tends to feel rejected. Try not to bring work home or to keep checking your emails and switch off your mobile phone. Try not to bark out instructions to your beloved. In other words. It’s easy to take workplace language into the home. your wife will want to feel that you put her first at weekends and holidays. These changes need to be ones that will bring some sort of balance into your lifestyle that does not exist currently. the marriage should become more relaxed. 53
. understandably. The first thing you can do is to be honest with your wife. It may not be ideal to only have sex on the weekends or during holidays. Wives do not want to feel that they’re being used as a substitute for quick masturbation and all you care about is a swift climax. Such changes should help your health as well as your love life. try to wind down first so that you are in a more relaxed frame of mind. It has to be said that honesty is not going to be enough to fix a rocky relationship. unless you pay your wife some real attention. You need to change gear from working mode to something a little more empathetic and human if you are to have a healthy romantic life at home. it can cause a lot of upset and rowing because. Wives want to feel cared for and loved. When you do make love. there will be fewer unrealized expectations and fewer quarrels. She needs to feel affirmed and important despite the paucity of sex. If you want to maintain your marriage. This means a complete change of pace. Use the journey home from the office to unwind and to get into a softer frame of mind. If the busy person has never discussed this with their spouse.
and then use it every time.Add variety in the bedroom.
. They find a routine that works and is fast. This is boring and unimaginative. Very busy people tend to get into a set sexual pattern. Try to vary your lovemaking. If you keep doing it. it’s likely you’ll both go off sex and this can spell doom for your relationship.
Romance (What She Wants So You Get What You Want)
Creative and romantic gestures do turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in your wife’s brain. 1. Resist the urge to nag your spouse. Listen instead. Listening can do wonders for a relationship. Listening can help you understand any situation, maintain open communication, and help you resolve conflicts with your spouse. 2. Think of a surprise once in a while. A surprise need not be something that needs a lot of preparation. If you are busy with work or with the housework, you can think of something that can put a smile on your partner's face. Even a note posted on the refrigerator or a love letter inserted on his planner can be a great way to rekindle those sparks in the relationship. Being married is not an excuse to be not sweet and mushy. You can also have a makeover and surprise your spouse. Break the same old you and make yourself look good for your spouse. 3. Don't forget to say thank you. Being grateful to your spouse is one great way to let your spouse know that you appreciate her and you see the good in her, so do not just receive favors, be appreciative. 4. Go to dates once in a while. Having time for yourselves is one of the important tips for a happy marriage. Find time to have fun, watch a funny show and have a good laugh together. 5. Find a gift for your spouse. There is no need to have an occasion to treat your spouse. Even a simple gift would do - a ticket to a Saturday night movie, a camping trip, or even cooking his favorite food and small things that will bring a smile to her face. 6. Learn to disagree without being aggressive and defensive. Being able to talk about your disagreements in a neutral tone would help a lot in ironing out conflicts in marriage. 7. Spend a few minutes each day to cuddle or just talk about the events of the day. Marriages and relationships dwindle down because couples do not anymore spend time to cuddle and talk like at the start of the marriage. No matter how busy you are with your career or housework, a few minutes for your spouse can help you stay connected. 8. Say sorry for your mistakes. Not because you are with your spouse every day, you would not just mind apologizing. Apologizing can be a
difficult thing to do but there are creative ways to do it. Send a card of apology, do something nice for your partner or just simply say it. 9. Give compliments each day. Compliment your spouse on the things she does right rather than picking on what she does not. This can also encourage your partner to do more of the positive things she does. 10. Show love. It is not enough that you said 'I do' in your marriage vows. A kiss, a kind deed, a good compliment, a kind thought - show your spouse everyday that you love her. 11. Touch her arm or knee when you talk with her. Your gentle touch communicates, “I’m here. You’re not alone. I enjoy you. I’ll take care of you.” 12. Make an effort to spend time alone together – go out for dinner, for a walk, or out for coffee. Show her that you enjoy the intimacy of being alone with her. 13. Grab her hand and hold it when you’re out in public. 14. Give her a kiss and a hug when you leave and return home. 15. Don’t see every complaint as an attack. Women think as long as they feel the marriage is working, they can talk about it. On the other hand, most men feel the relationship isn’t working if they have to talk about it. Allow her to express what’s on her mind. 16. Recognize her strong emotions as exclamation marks. When she is upset, angry, or frustrated, realize that these emotions are her way of letting you know how much the issue at hand matters to her.
Bonus: 101 Creative Lovemaking Ideas #1 The Menthol Marinade
This technique really packs a huge payoff for very little prep work. Some women claim that different cough drops provide varying degrees of stimulation. It seems to be purely a matter of personal preference, so don't be afraid to experiment with a variety of brands and flavors. Here's What You Need: One mentholated cough drop, any flavor. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Unwrap the cough drop and put it in your mouth. You need to give it a couple of minutes to partially dissolve; so use this time to pepper her belly, bikini line and inner thighs with little kisses. Swirl the cough drop around in your mouth, making sure to rub the tip of your tongue against it. Now, keeping the cough drop in your mouth, gently begin to lick around the vagina, paying special attention to the clitoris. In a few moments your wife will begin to feel both the hot and cool sensation of the menthol penetrating her body. For added stimulation, pause every minute or so and gently blow on the clitoris (the air reactivates the cooling properties of the menthol and provides a sensation most women find immensely pleasurable). Women all over the world have gone absolutely crazy for this little ditty. Done properly, it will have her yodeling, "Ree-colaaaaaaaaa!"
rotate your forearm back and forth. Sit "Indian-style" between your wife's legs. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and her legs open wide. Insert your fingers deep enough so that your thumb is now brushing her clitoris from side to side as your forearm rotates.
. Continue until you pop your wife's cork. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. the traditional "keep your fingers crossed" gesture). Slowly insert your crossed fingers into your wife's vagina.#2
The Sicilian Corkscrew
Here's a great hand technique that will drive your wife wild. Cross the index and middle fingers of one of your hands (you know. As you do this.
nylon just doesn't cut it for this one). Gather the crotch of your wife's panties together in one hand.
. Pull the waistline of her panties toward you. Now place your mouth against the crotch of her panties and suck the wine through the fabric and into your mouth. kneel down in front of her. Now pleasure your wife orally until she explodes in a delicious orgasm. Here's What You Need: One pair of cotton panties.#3
The Cotton Spritzer
This is a very romantic technique that not only pleases your wife -. Pour a small amount of wine into the panties and release. creating an opening about two inches wide. This should wring out a small trickle of wine from her panties onto your tongue.it gives you a little bit of a buzz. too. Do this three or four times. With your wife standing. Keep holding the crotch of her panties in your hand and pull them to one side. Position your open mouth underneath and squeeze hard. Let the wine soak the crotch of the panties as well as your wife's vagina. then set down the bottle of wine.this is extremely erotic. Don't be surprised as your wife presses her hips against your face -. Here's How You Do It: Have your wife strip down to nothing but her cotton panties (make sure the panties are cotton. One bottle of wine.
The Standing Wrap
If you can manage it. this is a position she'll never forget. In that case. Walk to the nearest wall and let your wife's back rest against it. Put your arms under her buttocks to help stabilize her. stand up. and sit on your lap as your enter her. have her place her arms around your neck and wrap her legs around your waist. Sit on the edge of the bed and have your wife stand in front of you. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. After she's done this. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Tell your wife to place one leg on the bed. Continue until she reaches an indescribable orgasm. or the neighbors start banging on the wall. Now that she's sitting on your lap with you inside of her. switch walls and keep going!
. then the other. You. Now you're ready to thrust in and out of your wife as you hold her pinned against the wall.
Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. thighs and legs. Have her lie on her back. Even if she's not shy. A small portion of the cube should be sticking out beyond your lips. Put the ice cube in your mouth. Here's What You Need: One ice cube. stomach. breasts. Pleasure your wife orally. her nipple will become fully erect. Hold your head about six inches above one of your wife's nipples.#5
Here's another classic technique that's become a standard today thanks to the movie "9 1/2 Weeks. Slowly glide the cube over your wife's neck. Take the ice cube back into your mouth completely. Do the same thing with the other nipple. pausing to rub the tip of your tongue back over the cube whenever necessary. If it's not already. Let a few drops of melted ice fall onto and trickle down her nipple.
. Open your mouth slightly and use your tongue to push the cube to the front of your mouth. Rub the tip of your tongue over the cube so that it becomes cold. it still feels terrific. it's a great way to introduce some new things in the bedroom." If your wife is somewhat shy.
It's up to your wife to determine exactly where she should be on "the wall" to achieve an indescribable orgasm. letting her feet rest on your stomach. Have her bend her knees.#6 Walking The Wall
This is a great way to find find just the right angle to stimulate her G-spot. tell your wife to "walk" up your chest. With you standing. you'll stimulate different areas of her vagina. As she does this. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. placing one foot in front of the other.
. enter your wife. As you continue thrusting. Have her sit on the edge of the bed with her legs apart. You. too. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked.
Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. dip your tongue into the pool of schnapps you've poured into her navel. Do the same thing to her other nipple. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Your wife will love it.#7 Mint Two-lip
The cooling sensation of peppermint has never been put to better use than in this technique. Blow on it to accentuate the cool feeling. Here's What You Need: One glass of peppermint schnapps. Pleasure your wife orally. Pour a small amount of schnapps into your wife's navel. Dip the tip of your tongue into the schnapps and trace small circles around one of your wife's nipples. pausing to reapply the schnapps to your tongue. Run your tongue along both sides of her vagina and gently blow.
. Slowly slide up and down the entire length of each lip. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. stomach and bikini line." Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. area of your wife's vagina. Apply a small amount of lubricant to your hands. one at a time.#8 The Sensual Summons
Here's a great way to stimulate a sensitive. Gently caress your wife's thighs. Repeat the move at a steady pace. With your palm facing up. gradually increasing the pressure. While continuing to do that with one hand. use the thumb or index finger of your other hand to trace small circles around your wife's clitoris. but often neglected. Delicately squeeze the outer lips of her vagina. letting your fingertip constantly stimulate the upper wall of her vagina. You may even run across the elusive and controversial "G-spot. draw your index finger up and toward you as if you are summoning a person (you know: the "come here" gesture). between your thumb and index finger. Carefully insert your index finger into your wife's vagina. Keep these two motions going until your wife explodes in a mind-numbing orgasm.
After a couple of minutes the washcloth will have cooled down. Line the slit up with her vagina and use your hands to press and hold the washcloth in place. Get your wife naked. lay it over the same area and continue until your wife achieves one of the "hottest" orgasms she's ever experienced. wring out the other washcloth. The top of the diamond should be touching her pubic hair. cut a three to four inch diagonal slit in the middle of each washcloth. One of them may have even come up with this technique. Lay the washcloth over your wife's pubic area.#9 The Steaming Diamond
Sports trainers and athletes have always known about the magical qualities of moist heat.
. Here's How You Do It: Before you're going to make love. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Here's What You Need: Two washcloths. Turn it forty-five degrees so that it looks like a diamond instead of a square. One pair of scissors. Nothing soothes and relaxes the muscles faster and more efficiently. The bottom will be at her anus and both sides will be against her inner thighs. One bowl of hot water. Fill a bowl with hot water and place both of the washcloths in it to soak. No problem. Just put it back in the bowl. Insert your tongue in between the slit and perform your finest oral pleasuring moves. Wring out one of the washcloths.
You're not going to be able to thrust yourself into her with the same force you can achieve from. straddling your lap. lower her down until you are inside of her. You. But the thrusts you do provide will be magnified in their intensity based on the angle at which you are entering her. Now have your wife lean all the way back until her head is resting on your legs or ankles. Her knees should be bent so that her feet are underneath her buttocks. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. say. Have your wife kneel above you. Then.#10 The Dutch Drawbridge
Here's a terrific position that heightens the stimulation of the top portion of your wife's vagina. Sit up in the bed with your legs extended in front of you. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. the missionary position.
That's the "Captain. Using suction. right? Here's What You Need: One wintergreen or peppermint breath mint with a hole." It's your job to rescue him. Flick your tongue as rapidly as you can over the clitoris and mint. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. draw the clitoris through the hole in the mint. bikini line and vagina. Only when your wife reaches orgasm have you successfully "rescued the Captain. get your wife naked. you should be able to spot the clitoris. In the meantime. Here's How You Do It: Put the mint in your mouth and give it a couple of minutes to partially dissolve. Move the mint to the tip of your tongue. place an ice cube in your wife's navel. Press the mint against your wife's clitoris and release it.#11 Rescuing The Captain
What are you going to do when the Captain goes overboard? You've got to rescue him." If you want to create an entire "Titanic" theme. With the mint still in your mouth. arouse your wife by gently kissing and licking her inner thighs. If your wife is sufficiently aroused.
Continue this position until she's "done-dee. too. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. You. Tell your wife to take whichever leg is on top and raise it towards her chest so that her foot is resting on her other leg's knee. this is the position to try. She will be astonished at how deep you can plunge yourself inside of her."
. Enter your wife from behind. Have her lie down on either her left or right side.#12 The Tasmanian Jack-knife
If you've ever wanted to stimulate those hard-to-reach spots inside your wife's vagina.
exposing the clitoris. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Gently push the skin up and out. gently stroke and caress the inner thighs and bikini line. making sure that the stream is not too hot or forceful. Adjust the water to a comfortable temperature and activate the shower massager. Here's What You Need: One hand-held shower massager. With your free hand. Now it's your turn. too. Do not hold the massager too close to your wife.
. Point the jets of water at the clitoris. thighs and stomach. Slowly run the water over your wife's legs.#13 Showergasm
Women have been pleasuring themselves this way for years. Place the first and second fingers of your free hand on each side of her vagina. slowly moving closer (your wife can tell you if any adjustments need to be made). You. Start from as far back as you can. Continue until you induce a powerful and satisfying orgasm.
Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. make certain there are no splinters (it's amazing how one. her skin will not want to remain rolled up around the chopsticks. It lets your wife feel your tongue in areas that you normally could not reach. Use your thumb and fingers to gently roll each fold of skin around the chopstick. You need to do this before her vagina gets too moist.#14 Chinese Field Goal
The next time you order Chinese take-out. When your wife has achieved a terrific orgasm. Your tongue is going to be the football. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. give yourself three points. Place each chopstick along the outer edge of your wife's vaginal lips. To kick a field goal. ask for the free pair of chopsticks and give this technique a try. otherwise. Whip out the chopsticks. Here's What You Need: One pair of chopsticks. The chopsticks will now resemble goal posts. you must place the football between the goal posts and indulge in some serious oral pleasuring. loan splinter can ruin your entire evening). If they're made of wood.
Immediately repeat using the other hand. including your fingers. except you're never stroking down -always up. Thanks to our dedicated research team.
. we're happy to provide you with both. palm down. up and over her vagina and clitoris. Using smooth strokes. Extend one of your hands. Here's How You Do It: Version One: Get your wife naked. Curl your fingers inward halfway to the palm. Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant.#15 Baby Elephant Trunks
This technique feels so good that there's actually two versions of it. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. It kind of looks like you're painting a fence. Place the wrist of that hand against the bottom portion of your wife's vagina. glide your entire hand. performing the exact same motion. Version Two: Have your wife get on all fours and perform the same technique from behind her (this reverses the motion). including your wrists and fingertips. Apply a little lubricant to the backs of both of your hands.
Place the rounded edge of one quarter tablet between the top-most portion of your wife's vaginal lips. Continue until your wife says. Break the tablet into four quarters.#16 Seltzer-gasm
This is a fun way to let your wife experience something she never has before: thousands of tiny bubbles swirling around her most sensitive area. This should activate the tablet and release bubbles around her vagina. When necessary. Get into some serious oral pleasuring. One effervescent bicarbonate tablet without aspirin. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. If needed. take another sip of water. replace the tablet with a fresh piece. Take a small sip of water and keep it in your mouth. Here's What You Need: One glass of water. Be sure to use the "Gold" variety of the world's most popular tablet. what a relief it is. "Oh. Press your lips against the portion of her vagina holding the tablet and open them so that a small stream of water trickles out. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Insert only enough of the tablet to hold it in place. It's had the medicinal ingredients removed."
Clasp your hands behind her back and rock your body back and forth. Have her put her arms around your neck. too. Now. Put both of your arms between her legs. positioning your elbows under her knees. You. Lift up and rest her calves or ankles on your shoulders. Enter your wife in the standard missionary position.
. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. let the rocking motion do all of the work.#17 The Indian Rocking Horse
Here's a great position that allows for extra-deep penetration. both of you sit up while you're still joined together. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. Don't worry about about thrusting in and out.
" They referred to it several times. as if you were saying a prayer. "How do you do The Venus Butterfly?" Now. Your index fingers should be placed on both sides of your wife's clitoris. instead. your extended pinkies would be inserted into your wife's anus. All of your other fingers should remain extended. Law. insert your middle fingers into her vagina. your hands will resemble a butterfly flapping its wings. In the classic Venus Butterfly. but never even hinted as to how it was actually done. Next. Keeping your fingers together. Have her lie on her back. When you do this.#18
The Venus Butterfly
Here's another classic technique that's become legendary. as if you were trying to warm them. That show generated more mail than any other episode. The tip of your left ring finger should be touching the knuckle of your right ring finger.A. you simply fold your pinkies over like your ring fingers (it's totally a matter of personal preference). Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. It all started with an episode of the 80's TV series "L. her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Many women prefer that. open your palms so that your thumbs are about three inches apart. Everybody was asking. you'll finally know.
. Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. the tip of your right ring finger should be touching the knuckle of your left ring finger. Put your hands together. Bend each of your ring fingers down. Apply a little lubricant to your hands. Begin to rub your fingers back and forth. Now comes the "ladies choice" part of this technique.
She has now formed a triangle. have her use the corresponding arm (right leg. Place one of your feet inside the triangle. too. Enter your wife. Have her lie on her side. Notice how much more control you have squatting as opposed to kneeling. The leg that was resting on your midsection should now be resting on your shoulder. lift your wife's top leg up. Next.#19
This position gives you maximum thrusting capability and lets your wife feel you in places she normally doesn't. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. The three sides of the triangle are: her body. Now have her extend her other leg out so that it is perpendicular to her body. right arm) to reach out and hold her knee. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. too. her leg and her arm. You. resting her foot on your midsection. Squat down. Don't be surprised if she notices.
. Standing over her.
Continue until the flame ignites fireworks in your wife. on top of the nightstand will do just fine. any type of fan that will move the air gently around the candle will do. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. But we'll bet your wife has never experienced it -. As the air swirls around the candle and causes to flame to flicker. Light the candle and place it near your wife's head (not too close). Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. turn it on low. If you've got a ceiling fan in your bedroom. Otherwise. It's as if the flame itself is pleasuring her. Position yourself so you can pleasure your wife orally and see the flame of the candle at the same time. It's been around for centuries.
. let your wife know what you're doing so she can anticipate the movements. Usually.#20
The Flickering Candle
Here's a great technique that will add variety to your oral pleasing talents. duplicate the movements of the flame with your tongue. Here's What You Need: One candle. If you like.until now.
. Now you stand at your wife's side. buttocks and legs. the better. breasts. Here's What You Need: One long silk scarf. Tell her to kneel and. lie down on your back with your head in between your wife's feet. One short silk scarf.#21
Oriental Shoe Shine
Here's an incredibly stimulating technique that gets its name from the back and forth motion you perform with a silk scarf. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Essentially. place the scarf in between your wife's legs. as she does. Next. Raise both ends of the scarf above your wife's midsection so that the middle barely touches her clitoris and vagina. the other behind. facing her. she should be straddling the scarf. The longer your strokes. Using your hands. Run the long silk scarf gently over your wife's body. guide your wife's hips so that her vagina is positioned directly above your mouth. silk scarf. Let her feel it on her arms. drape the scarf over your mouth. Use the short silk scarf to blindfold her and have her stand with her legs slightly apart. After a couple of minutes. Pleasure your wife orally through the smooth. Glide the scarf back and forth as if you were "buffing" this delicate area. Hold one end in front of her.
Deliberate. because now you'll know the secret. Apply whipped topping liberally over your wife's body. Pay special attention to the nipples.
. navel. Slowly and delicately lick the whipped topping from your wife's body.#22
Whipped Cream Dream
Here's a classic technique that seems simple enough. bikini line and any other personal erogenous zones you may have discovered. Always use non-dairy whipped topping. Reapply the whipped topping to the clitoris and vagina as needed. The diary products in real whipped cream begin to change as they heat up on a person's skin. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Not for you. Here's What You Need: One can of non-diary whipped topping. Leave the last bit of whipped topping on your tongue and begin to pleasure your wife orally. though. but often times goes horribly wrong. "sour milk" type of odor that can really kill an evening. Take it from those who know: non-dairy is the way to go. The whipped cream will emit a foul. Continue until your wife lets out a squeal of pleasure that'll make the cows come home. pointed flicks of the tongue are generally more stimulating than a flat-tongued motion.
too. match her with thrusts of your own from below. You. then enter her. Tell her to kneel. Have your wife stretch out completely and wrap her arms underneath your calves.#23
The Double "V"
Give your wife the opportunity to control the speed and depth she gets from you with this classic. facing your feet. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. position. Her hands should be resting on your ankles. Have your wife stand over you. As your wife's hips begin to move up and down. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. though -her nose is going to be pretty close to your feet. Make sure you're freshly showered.
. but often overlooked. Lie flat on your back.
#24 The Grapes Of Rapture
Here's a very erotic technique that sounds like it originated in Roman times. chilled. Press the chilled grape against your wife's clitoris. Begin to pleasure your wife orally. Using your tongue. Here's What You Need: One bunch of seedless grapes.
. Slowly kiss and lick her ankles. working your way up to the grapes. Move your head so that you trace circles around it with the grape. Let her feel the soft. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Kneel in front of your wife. your wife will definitely be hailing Caesar. Give her the grapes and tell her to hold them by the stem so that they dangle in front of her vagina. pluck one of the grapes from the bunch and hold it between your teeth. Have her stand with her legs slightly apart. Every so often. press the grape into your wife's vagina. cold skin of the grape between the moist folds of her own skin. After you treat her to this one. Continue until your wife erupts in a leg-quivering orgasm. knees and thighs. then gently suck the grape back into your mouth and swallow it. calves.
she may need to lick one side in order for it to stick. Hand her the candy.#25
This is a great little game that's not only fun. Depending on where she chooses to hide it. it's your job to find it using only your tongue.and where your tongue is when you get it (this information will be very valuable whenever the two of you make love in the future). Once the candy is hidden. but will also help you discover erogenous zones on your wife's body that you never knew existed. keep it on the tip of your tongue and press it against your wife's clitoris. Here's What You Need: One piece of candy-coated chocolate. When you finally locate the candy. Pay attention to any reaction that you get -. remaining in place. Glide your tongue over every inch of her body. Pleasure your wife orally until she melts in your mouth. Tell your wife to lie down and hide the candy somewhere on her body. not in your hands. Turn out the lights so that the room is completely dark. Take your sweet time. plain variety.
. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked.
#26 Back Seat Driver
Looking for a new position that your wife will go crazy for? Look no further. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. You, too. Stack a couple of pillows on top of each other and lie back against them with your legs slightly bent. Have your wife straddle your hips, facing your feet. Guide her downward until you are inside of her. Your feet should be outside of hers; they should pretty much line up. Now have her lean back a bit, resting her hands against your chest and holding herself upright. Begin thrusting. You're going to have to put some effort into it, because she's naturally going to want to come down on top of you.
Here's a classic technique that's probably been done for thousands of years. It definitely belongs in your "bag of tricks." Here's What You Need: One bottle of honey. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Have her lie on her left side. Place a single drop of honey on her right ear lobe and another along her hairline behind the ear. Apply a small stream of honey all the way down her right side, from her armpit to her ankle. Beginning at the ear lobe, slowly and methodically use your tongue and mouth to lick and apply gentle suction, removing the honey from her entire right side. When you're done, have your wife turn over. Do the exact same thing to her left side. Now have your wife lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Extend your tongue and squeeze a small amount of honey (about the size of a nickel) onto the tip. Pleasure your wife orally. When necessary, apply more honey to the tip of your tongue.
The Sultry Sucker
This is a great technique that creates both a new and unusual bit of stimulation for her, and a delicious taste treat for you. Here's What You Need: One round sucker on a stick, any flavor. Here's How You Do It: Unwrap the sucker and put it in your mouth. Make sure that it is completely smooth, especially on the top. Sometimes you get an air bubble or other imperfection in the sucker that, as it dissolves, forms a sharp edge. If you discover such an edge, discard that sucker and get a fresh one. Get your wife naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Gently rub the sucker along the lips of her vagina. Use your mouth to remoisten the sucker as needed. Using your tongue, follow the path you've just traced with the sucker. Enjoy the flavor while you begin to arouse your wife. Put the sucker back in your mouth to remoisten. Hold the sucker in the middle of the stick with your thumb and index finger. Press it against your wife's clitoris and use your two fingers to spin the sucker clockwise, then counterclockwise. Repeat this a few times. Remember -- if it gets too dry, put it back in your mouth. Now combine the spinning of the sucker with some good, old-fashioned oral pleasuring. Your wife will be popping her tootsies in ecstasy.
too. Have her lie on her side and snuggle up behind her. You know: the classic "spooning" position. With your wife's legs slightly open. Now begin to thrust as if you were inside of her. but only between the lips.#29
The Spooning Turtle
Here's a technique some say was made famous by legendary blues musician Muddy Waters. Apply a small amount of lubricant to your penis. insert the length of your penis between the lips of her vagina. surrounding your penis. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Continue thrusting until your wife sings anything but the blues.
. Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. The head of your penis will move back and forth over her clitoris. DO NOT insert yourself into her vagina. You. Have your wife close her legs.
Hopefully. it'll be worth every penny.
. the smooth metal and glass against her bare skin and your unique vantage point. put on some appropriate music. Have her climb up on the roof and sit on the back edge of the sunroof. she'll still be talking about this one. If not. the danger. Since you've got a radio within arm's length. yours is one of them. facing the hood (her feet can rest comfortably against the windshield). Here's How You Do It: Park where nobody can see you and open up the sunroof. pleasure her like you never have before. Get your wife naked. find an excuse to rent one for a day. Using your mouth and tongue. Fifty years from now. Now raise your head up between her legs. Get into the passenger's seat and kneel.#30 Auto-erotica
There are a lot of cars out there with automatic sunroofs. Here's What You Need: One car with a sunroof. or at least bottomless. Let her enjoy all the unique sensations: the height. facing the trunk.
unforgettable climax. Finally. Now pull a single petal from the rose and place it on the tip of your forefinger. Move it down her legs and let the rose tickle her toes. as well as the intensity with which you press. Have her lie on her back. Hold the rose over her stomach. That's the pattern you want to trace with your finger on and around her aroused clitoris (the petal should follow your finger). Imagine the numeral "8" laid on its side. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. face and arms. romantic technique that will touch her heart as well as a more erotic location on her body. Gently press the soft. neck.#31 Flower-gasm
You can't go wrong giving your wife roses. until you find just the right combination to bring your wife to a romantic. Here's a unique.
. stroke your wife's vagina with the rose until she's ready for something a little more stimulating. Vary the patterns you trace. Brush the rose over her breasts. silky rose petal to your wife's clitoris. cleavage. Here's What You Need: One thornless rose. Glide the rose over your wife's skin while simultaneously twirling it back and forth between your fingers.
Enter your wife and thrust away. or at least bottomless. this would be the perfect time for her to try that one on you. Place the pillows lengthwise directly under the chair.#32 Patio-gasm
This is the female version of a technique for his pleasure called "The Lounge Lizard" (#83). Since you've already got the chair set up. Position your mouth directly under your wife's vagina. Here's How You Do It: Adjust the back of the lounge chair to the upright position. after a few minutes. Position yourself so that your penis now lines up with her vagina. move on to the next step. Pull the center-most straps apart and tape them to the next-closest straps. One roll of masking tape. Have her sit in the chair. Or. You can continue to do this until she has reached orgasm. Grip the outermost edges of the chair. pull yourself up and pleasure your wife orally. Her vagina needs to be directly over the opening that you've created. Get your wife naked.
. Place both of the pillows underneath your buttocks. creating an opening in the chair about four or five inches wide. Now get under the chair and lie on the pillows. Two pillows. Here's What You Need: One webbed patio lounge chair.
Repeat again and again as fast as you can. At the same time raise your head until her clitoris comes out from between your lips.000 Lays. Using your thumb and forefinger. done correctly. Your head should be positioned sideways above her vagina.#33 The Minnesota Mindbender
Here's a technique that originated around the Twin Cities area.
. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. it can easily produce one leg-quivering orgasm after another. perpendicular to your wife. "The Land Of 10. drawing it into your mouth. you'll probably hear a little popping sound when you open your mouth." Here's What You Need: A set of Vikings bed sheets are optional. there could be a movement to change the state slogan to. If you're applying the right amount of pressure to her clitoris. As it grows in popularity. pull back the skin that hides the clitoris. But. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. covering your teeth. Gently roll your lips inward. Lie down on your stomach. Moisten your lips and press them against both sides of her clitoris. This one may take some practice.
when it's your turn. Also. if your wife is shy about telling you exactly what she wants. This technique has the ability to teach you more about what your wife really wants than all the "chandelier-swinging" feats combined.#34
Three Minute Foreplay
One of the biggest complaints you hear from women is that they don't get enough foreplay. Here's a great way to level the playing field. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Here's What You Need: One egg timer (the hourglass is a little more romantic. Get in three or four rounds of this before you move on to intercourse --and don't be surprised if she chooses to do something as simple as holding you in her arms for the entire three minutes. is she doing it hard or soft? If she massages you. and that you're going to do the exact same thing to her for the next three minutes. If she pleasures you orally. Start the timer. Tell her that you would like her to do whatever she wants to you for three minutes. try to duplicate what she did as precisely as you can.
. and then he reciprocates with thirty seconds of the same for her. They feel particularly slighted when they spend ten minutes doing something for their man. Pay attention to what she's doing to you and exactly how she's doing it. this makes it easy for her to show you. Then. but the kitchen "dial" timer will do). You. like oral pleasuring. too. where and with how much intensity is she doing it? Make mental notes of all of these things for the next three minutes.
Strawberries and cream make for a very sensuous snack. Get your wife naked. One knife. One can of non-diary whipped cream. Apply the whipped topping liberally around the lips of your wife's vagina. Using your tongue. gently remove a slice of strawberry and "share" it with your wife. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Tease her by delicately licking around the vagina and clitoris. Here's What You Need: Four strawberries.
. This technique takes it one step further. cut the strawberries into quarter-inch slices from the top down. Keep going until she erupts in a delicious orgasm. Here's How You Do It: Before you begin. Now position your head directly in front of this sensuous feast. Carefully press the strawberry slices into the whipped topping. Have fun alternating between eating the strawberries and pleasuring your wife.
enter her again and continue. Have your wife sit on the second stair from the bottom (this may vary depending on your respective heights. but the second stair usually works best). Prepare to enter your wife. You remain standing at the bottom of the staircase. Before you do. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. You. you must tell her the following: "On each of these steps is one of the reasons that I love you.
. Lean forward and place your hands on either side of your wife.#36 Aphrodite's Ladder
If you've ever made love on a set of stairs. Whenever you like. but YOU must wait until she is perched at the top of the staircase before you can have yours. Your wife can have as many orgasms as she likes. you're already aware of some of the incredible positions you can come up with. Then you may take a step up. Now you may enter your wife. After about thirty seconds. you must give her your next reason.." and then give her your first reason. move up another step and I will give you another reason. like you're doing an inclined push-up.. When she does. too. Only then have you successfully climbed Aphrodite's Ladder. Here's What You Need: One flight of stairs. I love you because. she's going to push herself up to the next step. though. Here's a romantic technique that guarantees the two of you will never walk up that particular flight the same way again .
Repeat with the other nipple. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Brush it against her face and let her enjoy both the smell and feel of it. tangy nectar. Have lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. long. Let the combined moisture dissolve the cotton candy in a sugary. the cotton candy will dissolve. Give your wife a deep. Gently suck the melted candy from her nipple.#37
You've probably awakened many mornings and realized that "the circus was in town. press it to your wife's vagina. Break off another piece and place it on your tongue.
. adding extra cotton candy as needed. Here's What You Need: One cone of cotton candy. Put another piece of cotton candy on your tongue and. this time. then surround it with your mouth. Break off a small piece of cotton candy and place it on the tip of your extended tongue. Pleasure your wife orally. open-mouthed kiss. Take the cotton candy and run it along the length of your wife's body." Now's your chance to give your wife a special treat straight from under the big top. Press it to one of your wife's nipples. As you close your mouth.
Have her lie on her back. reverse the motion so that all four knuckles brush by the clitoris on the downstroke. And. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Apply a few drops of lubricant to the middle knuckles (your middle knuckles are the same ones you would use to knock on a door). Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. gently touch her clitoris with the knuckle of your forefinger." Congratulations.
. her knees bent and legs open wide. Sweep your wrist upward so that all four knuckles brush against and stimulate the clitoris. You'll never watch a rerun of "Laverne & Shirley" the same way again. When you do. as if you were hitchhiking. the clitoris has got to be involved.#38
Hitching To Milwaukee
Some guys seem to forget that vaginal stimulation alone will get you nowhere. Maintaining the hitchhiking gesture. judging by its name.a satisfying orgasm for your wife. Repeat this up-and-down motion until you achieve the desired result -. Tuck in the fingers and extend the thumb of your writing hand. you will have successfully "hitched to Milwaukee. Sit down in between your wife's legs. This is a great little hand technique that's been around for decades. For a really powerful orgasm. Turn your wrist so that your knuckles are parallel to your wife's vagina. Then. it's 100% Americanmade.
. then hum again. Here's What You Need: You. Hum for a minute or so. the better. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. The louder you hum. Continue alternating until your wife is humming a different tune. then go back to using your tongue. Do that for a minute. Now add a little vibration and you've got an unbeatable combination that's sure to induce wave after wave of incredible orgasms. with a song in your head. Pleasure her orally. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Let the vibration from your lips stimulate her clitoris. but you're going to add something even better: Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your wife's clitoris. Having your head sideways is different enough to produce some very satisfying results.#39
You're already proficient at using your tongue to pleasure your wife. Close your lips and begin to hum. so that your lips are parallel with the lips of your wife's vagina. Position your head sideways.
Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Keeping your lips curled. Focus entirely on that one until you've delivered a powerful orgasm. fleshy hood. Stubble above or below your lips becomes much more pronounced when you curl them inward and would be uncomfortable against your wife's sensitive skin. the clitoral hood in between your lips. Position your head between your wife's legs.
. Press your slightly open mouth to your wife's vagina. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. covering your teeth. This is why you need to be freshly shaven. freshly shaven. her clitoris will have no choice but to expose itself. form an airtight seal around the hood and gently suck inward. Roll your lips slightly inward. Here's What You Need: You. apply rapid flicks of your tongue to her clitoris. While maintaining the suction. This is a time-tested technique that uses suction to do just that.#40
The Crescent Flutter
In order to achieve maximum stimulation. sometimes your wife's clitoris needs a little help exposing itself from under its pink. Open your mouth about a half an inch wide. Vary your tongue movements until you find the combination that she likes best.
Most washers are at just the right height for you to easily part her thighs and insert yourself without having to make any real adjustments. Let the thrusts of your body combine with the intense vibration of the washer to take your wife over the top in a way she's never felt before. Make love. Here's What You Need: One washing machine. Everybody wins. But if you need to stand on something. do so.
. Here's How You Do It: After the washer is done agitating and doing official "washing" chores. engage in some passionate foreplay. it goes into the "rinse and spin" cycle. the position makes for maximum clitoral stimulation and you don't have to spend fifty bucks on a hotel room. undress your wife and yourself.#41
You know those "magic fingers" beds you find in motels that vibrate when you insert a quarter? This is even better. She's had a great orgasm and you've got clean underwear for tomorrow. The vibration is more intense. As the rinse water fills. During this time. lead your wife over to it. One load of wet laundry. As soon as you hear the washer kick into "spin" mode. put your hands on her hips and lift her up onto the top of the washing machine. By now. This is when you make your move. the washer should be ready to spin -and you should be ready to deliver an awesome orgasm your wife will never forget.
It enjoyed a resurgence in popularity in the late '80's. Here's What You Need: Just you and your tongue. Watch your wife's reactions to determine which letters she likes best. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. After awhile. you can just do those (t's great when her favorite letters actually spell a word). then switch to lower case. who described it as part of his live stage show. lick the alphabet on and around the clitoris. The Hawaiian alphabet only has twelve letters."
. Sam insisted that the best letter is capital "T. If you happen to be a native Hawaiian. thanks to comedian Sam Kinison." Now you be the judge.or trying to get on "Wheel Of Fortune. that puts you at a distinct disadvantage when performing this technique -. Position your mouth in front of her vagina and begin to pleasure her orally. As you're doing this.#42 Alpha-lingus
This technique has been around for years. Do all the capital letters first. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked.
more than women. take an occasional sip to wet your mouth. When you perform this technique. Your tongue should leave behind a trail of candy bits. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. You may want to have glass of water nearby. Reapply the candy as needed. right? So get over it.#43
It seems like guys. making sure your mouth is wet enough to reactivate the candy. It doesn't take much to get these things to explode. have a problem with laughter in the bedroom. the two of you can't help but laugh your way through it. If you do.
. Between the sound and the tingling sensation. Sex with someone you love is supposed to be fun. it feels both great and funny at the same time. Open the bag of "exploding" candy and sprinkle a generous amount on the tip your tongue. It won't be long before your wife is in the throes of one of the most enjoyable orgasms she's ever had. activated and ready to explode. Pleasure your wife orally. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Continue your oral pleasuring. Here's What You Need: One bag of "exploding" candy. Press your candy-filled tongue against the bottom of your wife's vagina and lick upwards to the clitoris.
Five bath towels. Have her spread her knees outward. Continue until all five towels are rolled into one. lowering herself towards the bundle. satin-covered version of a rolled-up sleeping bag. you'll probably need thirty. The added stimulation she receives from the smooth material will often result in one or more powerful orgasms. Her clitoris should just barely touch the satin. Imagine what it must feel like to your wife's most delicate. Each thrust from you will cause her to brush against the satin. Make love. Get your wife naked. sensitive bit of skin.#44 The Satin Cylinder
It's not the kind of thing one man would admit to another. Now take the second towel and roll it tightly around the first. The bundle should now resemble a small. Enter your wife from behind. but satin really does feel good against your skin. This technique assumes that your five bath towels are reasonably thick. Here's What You Need: One satin nightshirt. If you do it at a motel. tight bundle. Tie the shoelaces around the bundle.
. Wrap the satin nightshirt around the towel bundle. about a quarter of the way from each end. Two shoelaces. Now have her kneel down on all fours and straddle the satin bundle. Here's How You Do It: Lay the first towel on the floor and roll it up length-wise.
Continue for about thirty seconds.
. Now ease on over to your wife's special place. over the inner thighs. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. you'll soon know which side should be receiving most of your attention. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. Touch your tongue just above the clitoris (the 12 o'clock position). So what are you going to do about it? Here's a great technique that will let you easily determine which is your wife's "sensitive side" so you can pleasure her accordingly. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart.#45 Boxing The Compass
Did you know that almost every woman is more sensitive on one side of her clitoris than the other? You do now. but take your time. Once you know. around the bikini line and so on. The motion should resemble an open parenthesis. Now bring it down and to the left in a half-circle. don't neglect the other side. Repeat the half-circle motion. Now your motion should resemble a closed parenthesis. After you've stimulated the left side for about thirty seconds. Judging by your wife's reaction. Let your tongue glide up her legs. switch to the right. retracing the previous movement. You're eventually going to position your tongue above her clitoris. then add some circular tongue motions. You should now be touching the delicate skin beneath the clitoris (the 6 o'clock position). Run your tongue back up in a half-circle. though.
Place the ping pong ball in her navel. In reality. she can get up and end it whenever she wants. Keep going until either the ping pong ball rolls out or your wife erupts in an earth-shattering orgasm.#46 Ping Me A Love Pong
There are a lot of women who are intrigued by the idea of being tied up. But when it comes to actually trying it. If the ball rolls out momentarily and then comes to rest back in her navel. Tell your wife that she must not let the ball roll onto the bed. 2. though.
. Here's What You Need: One ping pong ball. No fair rocking the bed in an effort to get the ball to roll out just because your jaw is tired. Have her lie on her back in the middle of the bed with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. If she does: "game over. as well as some serious oral pleasuring)." Now it's up to you to do whatever it takes to make her writhe and squirm with pleasure (this would probably include some gentle flicks of the tongue around her nipples and breasts. This is a great little game that gives your wife a sense of being restrained. you have to keep going. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Two things to remember here: 1. they get cold feet.
.#47 The Pearl Escalator
The soft. each pearl should be brushing and stimulating your wife's clitoris. It's up to you to determine how fast or slow you should pull the pearls. too. The pearls will simply loop back around. running under your thumb and over your wife's clitoris again and again. Position the fingers and thumb of one of your hands as if giving the "thumbs up" sign. smooth texture of a pearl is a perfect complement to your wife's skin. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs open wide. Hang the pearls off the tip of your thumb. As you're doing this. Sit down in between your wife's legs. Once you find the right speed. Now press your thumb against her vagina. This technique brings the two together in a way she'll never forget. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Use your other hand to pull the strand around your thumb up towards her stomach. just below the clitoris. Here's What You Need: One pearl necklace. She undoubtedly knows exactly where you can buy some. Also. be forewarned that your wife will probably insist real pearls produce a more intense orgasm than imitation. Once you've pulled all the slack from the strand. you will bring your wife to orgasm fairly quickly. reach down and pull it again.
There's no more satisfying treat on a hot, summer day that a nice, cold popsicle. We've heard that some people actually eat them, too. Here's What You Need: One popsicle (your choice of flavor). Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Hold the popsicle by the stick and glide it along her breasts, down her stomach and across her bikini line. Go slowly, so that some of the popsicle melts against her warm, soft skin. Using your mouth and tongue, remove the popsicle juice from your wife's body. Now it's time to move to a more sensitive area. Touch the tip of the popsicle to your wife's vagina. Run it up and down the lips, letting the melted juice trickle down the warm folds of skin. At this point, you might be thinking about inserting the popsicle. This is a judgment call on your part, and matter of personal preference on hers. If you think she might find it pleasurable, slowly insert just the tip of the popsicle and gauge her reaction. If your wife enjoys this, turn your wrist back and forth, rotating the popsicle that's barely inside her vagina. Now use your tongue. Start by licking away the juice from the lips of your wife's vagina. Hold the popsicle just above the clitoris and let the juice run down. Again, lick away the juice. Continue until "I scream, you scream, we all scream for ice cream!"
The Vineyard's Mist
Any guy can dribble a little wine on your wife and lap it off like a Schnauzer. You're going to put a new twist on things. This technique is best when it's done outside. Find a spot where the two of you can have a (very) secluded picnic. Here's What You Need: One bottle of wine (the sweeter, the better). One new spray bottle (DO NOT use a bottle that's ever had cleaning products or insecticide in it). Here's How You Do It: Take your brand new spray bottle and rinse it thoroughly. Fill the bottle with wine and adjust the nozzle until it produces the finest mist possible. Show your wife the spray bottle. Demonstrate by spraying a little wine into her open mouth. Now give her a quick spurt on the side of her neck. Don't lick it off with a flat tongue; instead, open your mouth wide and draw the wine in with your lips. After that, you can use your tongue to collect any of the excess. Get your wife topless. Use the same technique on each of her breasts. Then, move down to her stomach and belly button. If she's still got her pants on, get them off of her. Now spray her calves and follow up with your mouth. Now do her inner thighs. Finally, give your wife's vagina a few pumps of the bottle and lovingly take in every delectable drop. Remember: "goodness echoes from the canyon."
#50 Snow & Joe
Going from one temperature extreme to another in a matter of seconds produces a definite sensory overload in the brain. Add that to the fact that you'll be stimulating the most sensitive area of your wife's body and you've got the makings of a real winner. Here's What You Need: One cup of crushed ice. One cup of hot (not scalding) coffee. If you don't like coffee, use tea or water. Here's How You Do It: Get your wife naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart. Take a full sip of coffee and swirl it around your mouth for about fifteen seconds. Swallow the coffee and begin to pleasure your wife orally for thirty seconds or so. Now take a mouthful of crushed ice and hold it in your mouth for fifteen seconds. Resume your oral pleasuring technique for another thirty seconds. Keep alternating between the hot and cold stimulants until your wife erupts in a mind-blowing orgasm. Although they say coffee will keep you up all night, pouring it on your penis is not advised.
Get your man naked. squeezing and rotating the peach.For Him
#51 The Passion Peach
The peach is definitely the most sensuous of all fruits. Here's How You Do It: Before you make love.
. including the pit. Turn it clockwise. onto the head and into your mouth. then counterclockwise. Slide the peach over his penis until it is all the way to the back of the shaft and continue holding it with your hand. Continue pleasuring him orally and rotating the peach until you've extracted the delectable nectar. just wait until after you try this technique. One knife. Remove the core. If you didn't think so before. cut a circle about an inch and a half in diameter all the way through the peach from the top down. Here's What You Need: One medium to large peach. kneel down in front him. The juice from the peach will trickle down the shaft. and move it up and down the shaft. at the same time. Pleasure your man orally while. With him standing.
Your hands should be on the bed. facing him. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. put your arms behind you. Once he's all the way inside you. about where his knees are. This is probably the best position for just that. Straddle his lap. Bracing yourself with your hands. you need a position where your man can just sit back and enjoy the ride -and the view. supporting you. and lower yourself onto his erect penis. Place a couple of pillows against the headboard and have your man sit with his back propped up against them. move up and down on your man's penis.#52 The Reclining Swan
Every so often. You.
. legs extended (he should be comfortable and look as if he were reading in bed). too. Now lift your legs up one at a time and place your feet on the headboard just over his shoulders. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. This is a position he will never forget.
Wait about thirty seconds for the topping to harden. Pleasure him orally. cut a hole in the balloon at the stem and let the water drain into the sink. squeeze the "hard shell" chocolate topping over the balloon. Here's How You Do It: About an hour before the two of you are going to make love. completely coating it. Here's What You Need: One bottle of "hard shell" chocolate ice cream topping. throw the balloon away. One oblong-shaped balloon or unlubricated condom. One knife. Using the knife.
. The stem should be hanging over the sink. Insert your man's penis into the chilled shell. Take the balloon out of the freezer and rub a little butter or margarine on it. Get your man naked. fill the balloon with cold water and tie off the stem. you'll be able to peel it away from the chocolate shell. Have him lie on his back. Place it in the freezer and leave it there for the entire hour. Holding it by the stem over a sink. One teaspoon of butter or margarine.#53 Magic Shell-atio
This is a great technique using the dessert topping that hardens when poured over ice cream. As the balloon shrinks. then lay the balloon on its side on the edge of the sink. When it's completely drained. It won't be the only thing hard tonight.
#54 The Dueling "O's"
Here's an incredibly stimulating hand technique that your man will be thinking about for weeks. Insert your man's penis through the ring. both of your thumbs are touching (in other words. Sit in between his legs. Simultaneously slide the bottom ring toward the base of his shaft and the top ring toward the head of his penis. pretend that you were put in handcuffs. Form a ring with the thumb and index finger of one your hands. bring both rings back to the middle. then rotate your arms ninety degrees to one side). The rings you've created with your thumbs and forefingers should meet in the center of your man's penis. Form the same ring with your other hand. your man will be in the throes of a powerful orgasm. Have him lie on his back with his legs spread apart. Your other fingers should be splayed out (your hand should look like you're giving the traditional "okay" sign). Here's What You Need: Just the two of you.
. In a matter of just a few minutes. then gradually speed up. Once they reach their respective ends. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Rotate your forearm so that when you put this second ring around his penis. Do this slowly at first.
Here's How You Do It: Pour the chocolate syrup into the plastic cup. lick and apply gentle suction to his penis. One towel. pull the cup away and have your man flip over onto his back. Get your man naked. testicles and thighs until he becomes erect. each time dipping his penis into the chocolate syrup. Steady the cup with your hand and tell your man to start doing push-ups. Reward your man by pleasuring him orally. Kiss. Now place the cup of chocolate syrup in the middle of the towel. Tell your man to assume the "push-up" position. One plastic cup.#55 The Cocoa Push-up
Here's a fun variation on the classic "chocolate syrup" technique. Spread the towel on the floor. When he can't do anymore push-ups.
. Here's What You Need: One can of chocolate syrup. with his penis dangling directly over the cup. chocolate-covered penis and all.
One tube of toothpaste.
.#56 Squeeze & Please
That cool. It'll feel even better on him. Have him lie on his back. Here's What You Need: One toothbrush. Apply the toothpaste to the brush and give your teeth a thorough brushing. but do not rinse. minty feeling you get after you've brushed your teeth feels great in your mouth. Spit out the excess toothpaste. Pleasure your man orally until he provides you with his own brand of pearl drops. Here's How You Do It: Get you man naked.
Extend one of your hands. Continue until your man erupts in a five-alarm orgasm. varying the speed and intensity.
. and grasp your man's penis from the underside at the base of the shaft. until you find the combination your man likes best. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. giving the lubricant a chance to warm up. It's been done for centuries. Pull your hand towards you until it clears the head of his penis. Rub your hands together. grasp it with the other hand and perform the exact same motion (it should look as if you are pulling in a long rope). As soon as that hand leaves the base of his shaft. Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. Keep repeating this motion. Apply the lubricant to both of your hands. and for good reason.#57 The Fireman's Hose
This is one of the most satisfying hand techniques you'll ever learn. Have him lie on his back with his knees bent and legs wide apart. palm up.
Afterwards. Have him lie on his back with his legs apart. Do not let the ice cubes touch his body -. He will experience a truly earth-shattering orgasm.yet.#58 The Frozen Jewels
This technique causes an additional involuntary muscle contraction as your man reaches orgasm."
. quickly and firmly press the ice cubes against his testicles while continuing to pleasure him orally. you can sing a few bars of "Ice Ice. Tell your man to let you know when he is about to reach orgasm. Baby. Hold the two ice cubes in either hand and pleasure him orally. Here's What You Need: Two ice cubes. When your man lets you know that he is past the point of no return. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. sending an even more intense wave of pleasure rushing through his body.
Tell your man to sit on the edge of the bed. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. Now have him move down until only his upper back and shoulders are resting on the bed. Take turns thrusting. you can choose the depth. It'll give him a great view. With you on top. plus worlds of freedom to thrust as wildly as he can. He can use his hips to power himself up and inside of you like he never has before.#59
The Drugstore Rocking Horse
This is a must-try position that will give you a lot of control. too. speed and intensity with which you come down on his penis. "Yee-haw!"
. You. Have him lie down on his back with his feet still touching the floor. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. mount your man and begin to make love. Continue until you hear your man holler. if you like. Straddling his legs.
Here's How You Do It: Tell your man to remove the doorknob and latch from the door. Have him stand on the side of the door that swings toward him (he's going to need to be on that side since he's probably going to be pressing against it pretty hard in a couple of minutes). Your man won't know if he's coming or going. Continue until you ring his bell. leaving only the exposed hole. Using your hands. Get your man naked.#60 The Door-gasm
Here's the home version of a classic technique. he may need to stand on something in order to do this comfortably). One Phillips screwdriver. Make sure the hole is free of splinters. Tell your man to insert his penis through the hole in the door (depending on his height and the design of your door. Here's What You Need: One closet or bedroom door. stimulate your man until he is erect. Kneel down and pleasure him orally.
. You get on the other side of the door and close it.
Move the candy cane back and forth along the shaft of your man's penis while stimulating the head with your mouth. and pleasure him orally. Turn it upside-down so it resembles the letter "J" and hook your man's penis with it. Kneel down in front of him and unwrap the candy cane. Here's how to use one of them in a way "yule" both enjoy. moisten the curved portion of the cane. Have him stand. Using your mouth. there are always a few peppermint candy canes left over. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Remoisten the candy cane as needed. Here's What You Need: One peppermint candy cane. Pull up on the cane. Vary the speed and intensity with which you do both.#61 The Inverted Cane
After the holidays. raising his penis to your mouth.
. Keep doing this until your man's bells are totally jingled.
Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. Put your man's penis through the hole between your fingers and thumbs. "Indian-style. just below the head. Have him lie on his back with his legs spread.
. Go in one direction for a minute. Bring your hands down so that your thumbs are continually stroking the underside of the penis. in effect. Resume twiddling your thumbs." Apply a very small amount of lubricant to your thumbs. Sit in between your man's legs. then the other.#62 Twiddling The Hickory
Are you ready for another awesome hand technique that will have him screaming your name in ecstasy? This one's a classic. Keep reversing every so often until your man builds to an amazing orgasm. chasing each other in circles). your thumbs are. Interlock your fingers and start "twiddling your thumbs" (you know the motion we're talking about.
Pleasure that portion of your man orally. Be careful not to break the twirl. After a night full of erotic dreams. you're selling your man short. roll the pastry around the shaft all the way up to the head. Now unroll the moist inner circles of the twirl until you have one long strip of pastry. Keep going until you have nibbled away all of the twirl. Take the pecan twirl and break off only the outer-most circle (this part is usually somewhat dry and brittle and wouldn't lend itself to this technique). Here's a great way to start his day. Here's What You Need: One pecan twirl pastry.
. you better believe he would love to wake up to an even sexier reality. Here's How You Do It: If your man isn't already naked. Once you're done. Starting at the base of your man's penis. nibble away at the top portion of the twirl until you have uncovered the head of your man's penis.#63
The Pecan Mummy
If you're not into making love in the morning. Pleasure your man fully until he explodes in a day-breaking orgasm. Nibble away another section of the twirl and pleasure the newly uncovered section. get him that way.
Keep sliding until your head and shoulders go over the edge and down onto the pillows (only the lower half of your body should still be on the bed). Place the two pillows on the floor underneath your head. Sliding on your back. Your man should remain on the bed completely. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. maneuver your head to the edge of the bed. Both of you get on the bed and begin making love. Here's What You Need: One bed Two pillows. This position will stretch you in a way he'll find incredibly pleasurable. too. Continue until you've got your man over a barrel. on top of you.#64 Niagara In A Barrel
This is a great position that lets him know you are ready and willing to fulfill his every sexual desire.
Lie down between his legs. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. The trick is not letting him in on what you're doing ahead of time. just in front of his mouth. he'll catch on to the fact that whatever he does to your finger. Extend one of your arms and lay it on his chest. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Your man is going to go crazy with this new-found power.but the first time is always the best. Once he realizes this. Now wait for him to do something to your index finger. Don't do anything to him until he does it to your finger. Point your index finger at your man. Just wag your finger at him to refocus his attention. you'll do to his penis. don't say a word. but once he does he'll have the time of his life.
. And you'll probably learn a lot about what he likes. If he kisses the tip of your finger. you kiss his penis in the corresponding spot. If he asks you what's going on. Have him lie on his back with his legs apart. Eventually. and keep it there. as well. It may take a couple of minutes to make the connection. As soon as he does.#65 The One-Fingered Parrot
This is a great technique every time you do it for your man -. watch out. he'll kiss it. you kiss the tip of his penis. Keep doing whatever he does to your finger until he erupts in one of the most satisfying orgasms you could ever give him. Usually.
long. passionate kiss pushing the cherry into his mouth. turn the chocolate cup over and place it on the head of his penis. Using your mouth and tongue. Bite the wafer into halves and set one half on each of his nipples. Finally. Do not let the cherry fall out. He will find this incredibly arousing. Now place the cherry in your mouth.
. Hold the cup above your man's legs and tilt it so that the juice drizzles onto his inner thighs. too. Using your mouth and tongue. Continue until he discovers that life really is a bowl of cherries. and be holding a chocolate cup filled with juice and a cherry. the chocolate on his nipples should be soft. Give your man a deep. Turn the chocolate-covered cherry upside-down and bite off the flat portion. Here's What You Need: One chocolate-covered cherry.#66 Chocolate Cherries Jubilee
It's amazing how much pleasure you can derive from a single chocolate-covered cherry. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. suck and lick it away from each nipple. By now. You should now have a chocolate "wafer" in your mouth.and all the rest of them. slowly lick the juice off your man's thighs. Pleasure him orally. Here's a fantastic technique guaranteed to satisfy his sweet tooth -. Have him lie on his back.
. Continue until he reaches a "cat-aclysmic" orgasm. It also provides for a deep and satisfying amount of penetration. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. This positions your vagina in the air nicely and gives your man a wonderful view of the festivities.#67 The Alley Cat
Once you treat your man to this position. Place both pillows under your hips. Have him enter you from behind and begin thrusting. Here's What You Need: Two pillows. it will immediately become one his mostrequested favorites. Lie down on the bed on your stomach. stacked one on top of the other. too.
but you can spring this classic technique on your man anytime and really heat things up in the bedroom. tea time is usually at four o'clock in the afternoon. Have him stand. Press your closed lips against the head of his penis and quickly take it into your mouth (try not to allow any of the tea to escape). Kneel down in front of your man and take a sip of tea. take additional sips of tea as needed. Keep your head still for about fifteen seconds. Continue until he yells. "The British are coming! The British are coming!"
. Pleasure your man orally. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Here's What You Need: One cup of hot tea (not scalding). Do not swallow it. allowing your man to fully experience the heating sensation.#68 Brew-topia
flex your right wrist down and viceversa). facing him. Flex your wrist up and down as if you were "revving" the throttle on a motorcycle. The bottom half of his penis will feel clockwise stimulation at the same time the top half feels it counterclockwise. Rub them together to allow the lubricant to warm up. Apply a small amount of lubricant to you hands. that would be your left hand). add your other hand. Flex your wrists in opposite directions (when you flex your left wrist up. grasp his penis. Sit down beside your man. Using the hand nearest your man's body (if you're sitting on his right side.
. When his penis is fully erect. Hold it like you would hold a handle bar. Continue until he "pops a wheelie" good orgasm.#69 Griffin's Throttle
Here's a great hand technique that your man won't be able to get enough of. Have him stand. Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked.
Do the same with his left.#70 The Licorice Lasso
Here's a fun and playful way to tie your man up. Pull on the licorice whip to guide your man's penis into your mouth. Take one length of licorice and tie his right wrist to the bedpost. stroke and generally tease your man. Have him lie on the bed with his arms above his head. tie another strand of licorice around it. When his penis is erect. Kiss. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Pleasure him orally. lick. Here's What You Need: One bag of long licorice whips.
pleasure your man orally. Here's What You Need: One washcloth. Here's How You Do It: Run hot water over the washcloth until it is completely saturated. Have him lie on his back with his legs wide apart. Press the washcloth firmly against this area and let the moist heat relax your man.the area between his testicles and anus. over to his testicles and. finally. Get your man naked. You should now have a steaming rectangle."
. Continue until he "sends one out of the park. It's the area between his testicles and anus. then in thirds the other way. Position yourself between your man's legs and run the washcloth down his penis. Fold the washcloth in half one way. to his perineum -. Wring it out. Many people refer to this area as the "male G-spot. As you continue to hold the washcloth in place.#71 The Batter's Box
There's an often neglected erogenous zone on your man." Give it some attention tonight.
Have your man enter you.#72
The Porch Of Passion
This technique is definitely one of the most enjoyable ever. Have your man grasp the edge of the swing with his hands and rock you back and forth on his penis. You. adjust the height of the porch swing so that the seat is even with the height of your man's penis. Here's How You Do It: If you are able to. Get your man naked. This is incredibly relaxing and makes for a most satisfying orgasm. Here's What You Need: One porch swing. too. Raise your legs up and let them rest on his shoulders.
. Sit in the porch swing and move forward so that your vagina is even with the edge of the seat.
Need we say more? Here's What You Need: One mint. Pleasure your man orally. Have him lie on his back.#73 Maximum Altoid-tude
This is the infamous Altoid technique. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked.
. Place the mint in your mouth and let it partially dissolve. pausing frequently to blow a small stream of air over the head and shaft of your man's penis (this will create an amazing cooling sensation). Continue until he achieves a curiously strong orgasm.
and so on. Have him lie on his back. men go absolutely crazy for it. Once he is erect. caress his penis. When they're lucky enough to find your wife that knows how to do it. facing him. Do the same thing again. When your man feels that he is on the brink of orgasm. Sit beside your man. grip the shaft of his penis with one of your hands and give him one quick up-and-down stroke (you should be gripping his penis firmly enough so that his skin moves along with your hand)." At that point give him as many strokes as it takes to put him over the top. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. testicles and inner thighs. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you.#74 Cleopatra's Cuckoo Clock
This is a terrific technique you can do using just your hands. Go back to the gentle caresses for another fifteen seconds. then give his penis two up-and-down strokes.
. The clock has struck one. The clock has struck two. Using your hands. he has to say the word "Cuckoo. except this time give him three strokes.
Have him lie on his back.#75 Baskin Throbbins
Here's a classic technique that feels surprisingly good. As the ice cream begins to melt.along with your man. Serve your favorite flavor up tonight -. Touch the head of your man's penis with the ice cream. slowly tracing circles around it. use your tongue to push the ice cream to the front of your mouth. Here's What You Need: One scoop of smooth ice cream (don't use flavors with bits of cookies or candy bars in it). Place a generous amount if ice cream in your mouth. Use your tongue to lick any drops of melted ice cream that have run down his penis and onto his testicles. take more of your man's penis into your mouth. Pursing your lips.
. Pleasure him orally. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked.
Here's What You Need: One pressed fruit roll. Lick the exposed edge and press it against the wrapped portion to help it stay on. Take the fruit roll into your mouth.
. Kiss and lick his penis. Pleasure your man orally. testicles and thighs until your man's penis is erect. Continue until you "roll" him over. You can speed up this process by nibbling bits of the fruit roll away. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Wrap the fruit roll firmly around your man's penis. exposing your man's penis.#76 Fruit Roll Frenzy
This is an amazingly fun technique that will have your man writhing in pleasure. It will begin to dissolve. any flavor. Have him lie on his back.
The larger the space you have to move around in. Bracing yourself against a wall or chair. Have your man stand behind you. the better."
. too. Continue until you give new meaning to the words "couple skate. Have your man thrust himself in and out of you. bend over and have your man enter you from behind. Now point yourself in a direction where there is ample open space. his hands on your hips. He'll be walking behind you as he propels you forward. Here's How You Do It: Get naked and put on the skates in a non-carpeted area of your house. each thrust rolling your skates forward (your man must keep his hands on your hips to help you balance). Here's What You Need: One pair of in-line or classic roller skates. Invite your man in and get him naked.#77 In-line Enchantment
Your man has never had an experience like this before.
testicles and thighs until your man's penis is fully erect.#78 The Concord Catapult
Here's a great game with a terrific payoff for your man. hold it against the underside of his penis. Your man should now press with his finger. Have him remove his finger. keep them there and pleasure your man orally. causing his penis to spring forward. It will undoubtedly take a few tries until you both get an idea of where the grape is actually going to go. This is part of the fun. Here's What You Need: One bunch of seedless grapes. When you successfully catch a grape. Have him pick a grape from the bunch and. Caress and gently stroke his penis. You'll both have a night full of laughs doing this one. Move your head so that you catch the grape in your mouth. don't swallow it. using his index finger. Position your mouth in between your man's knees.
. Once you have three grapes in your mouth. Have him lie on his back with his knees bent and legs slightly apart. launching the grape toward you. pulling his erect penis back against his stomach. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked.
Sit in between your man's legs. Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. turn your wrist slightly. Continue making circles. reversing every so often. Have him lie on his back with his legs apart. grasp the shaft of your man's penis. stimulating the sides of the head as well as the tip. circular motion. and rub the head of your man's penis in a clockwise. Using your other hand. "Indian-style. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked.#79 Palming The Gopher
Here's another classic technique that will send your man over the edge in no time. reverse your direction to counterclockwise. Extend the lubricated hand out flat.
." Place a small amount of lubricant in the center of one of your palms. After about a minute. As you form a circle around the head. Only the head should be sticking out above your hand. palm down. until your man explodes in a leg-quivering orgasm.
guys can easily get addicted to this one. though -. This position helps to relax your throat muscles.
. but it also makes you more vulnerable to unwanted or "too-deep" thrusts. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. This technique provides an unbelievable amount of eroticism and unique stimulation for your man and always results in a profoundly pleasurable orgasm. It's only natural for your man to want to thrust himself in and out of your mouth. Lie on the bed on your back and let your head hang over the edge. You can amend this by forming a circle with your thumb and index finger and placing it around your mouth (your hand will then limit his ability to thrust deeper than you wish). Use it with caution. Have him stand next to the bed.#80 The Singapore Slammer
This is a wonderful technique that will set you apart from every other woman out there. Have your man position himself in front of your mouth and pleasure him orally. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you.
but his shaft should be completely covered). As it hardens. Kneel down in front of your man and pull his flaccid penis through the remaining portion of the core (the head of his penis can stick out of the core. the core will tighten around it. Only after at least five minutes have passed.#81 The Cardboard Collar
It's probably hard for you to believe that this actually works. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Now caress his testicles. Pleasure him orally until he erupts in a spectacular orgasm. Try it out on your man and let him be the judge. Pleasure the head of his penis orally. though. Now his shaft will be super-sensitive to any stimulation you give it.
. making sure he is maintaining a constant erection. Continue teasing him for at least five minutes. use your fingers to tear the paper core off his penis. Kiss and lick his inner thighs. Have him sit. Tear off one third to one half of the bathroom tissue core and throw it away. but it does. Do whatever it takes to make his penis erect. Here's What You Need: One empty bathroom tissue roll. Don't take our word for it.
It will be almost impossible hold one position for very long. caress and fondle each other for a prolonged period of time. don't let a single night pass before you give this technique a try. Both of you get in the middle of the waterbed.
. You'll both be slipping and sliding off each other and around on the bed. Get your man naked. Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. Here's How You Do It: Strip the sheets completely off the waterbed. One waterbed. You. Change positions often. too. Touch.#82 Waterbedlum
If you own a waterbed or ever have the opportunity to sleep on one. This will be one of the most enjoyable and playful nights the two of you have ever spent together. Gradually commence intercourse. Take turns rubbing the lubricant all over each other's bodies.
Two pillows. Get under the chair and lie on your back on top of the pillows. using the masking tape. he can lie with his head in either direction. Position your mouth directly under your man's penis.#83
The Lounge Lizard
This is truly a favorite of men everywhere. have him lie with his head at the other end (his knees can easily bend where the back of the chair starts to rise and his feet will rest where one's head would normally go). Your man's penis should now be dangling through the opening. Get your man naked. Perhaps it's the increased blood flow caused by gravity. Here's What You Need: One webbed patio lounge chair. Here's How You Do It: Adjust the back of the lounge chair so that it lays flat (if it won't go down all the way. If the back of the chair is still at a bit of an angle. Just the thought of it is enough to bring most guys to full attention. Have him lie in the chair on his stomach. we'll fix that in a second). This creates an opening in the chair about four or five inches wide. One roll of masking tape. Place the pillows directly under the chair. Grip the outermost edges of the chair and pull yourself up and pleasure your man orally. don't worry about it. lengthwise. If the chair is flat. affix them to the next-closest straps. Pull the center-most straps apart and. There's something about being on his stomach that makes everything your man feels much more intense.
Kneading The Cruller
Here's a classic technique that not many people know about anymore. As you put that toe back down. This will cause your right knee to bend. Have him lie on the floor. You. Swing your legs over your man and place both feet on the floor on the opposite side (with your legs together and slightly bent. point your right toe upwards. Keep alternating back and forth. You can bet your man has never been stimulated like this. too.
. Here's What You Need: One bottle of water-based lubricant. on his back. rubbing either the top or underside of your man's penis (depending on which side you're sitting). With both of your heels planted on the floor. Apply a small amount of lubricant to the insides of your knees. Now straighten out your legs until you capture his penis in between your knees. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. your knees should be directly over his penis). point the other one up at the same time. Sit down at your man's side. your man's penis in the middle. Continue until your man erupts in a satisfying orgasm. Gently press them together. Now the other side of his penis is getting stimulated.
A lot of women get their tongue pierced because it makes oral sex for their men that much more stimulating. Here's a way you can get the same effect without the selfmutilation. Open the bag of candy and place one of the balls in your mouth. Continue until your man has a ball of his own. As you move your head up and down. Have him lie on his back. With the candy in the middle of your tongue. Here's What You Need: One bag of small. the ball will roll along his penis as it follows your tongue. Press the candy ball between your tongue and the underside of your man's penis. Do not bite down on it.
. pleasure your man orally. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. ball-shaped candy.
because tonight you're going to type your man the best letter he's ever received. Continue until your man achieves an orgasm worth writing home about. Lie on your stomach beside your man. though. Once you reach the head. Have him lie on his back. press the head of your man's penis against his stomach. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. long stroke. Slowly move upward until you reach the head of his penis (your tongue should feel like the small keys of a typewriter typing away at paper). Starting at the base of his shaft. That's the carriage return. facing him. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Gently fondle his testicles with your other hand.
. it's hard to even remember what it was like to work on a typewriter. flick your tongue back and forth along the exposed underside of your man's penis. quickly run your flattened tongue back down the shaft in a single. You need the think back.#86 The Tingling Typewriter
Since computers have come along. Using your index finger.
You know how soft and sensual Angora feels against your skin? Imagine how good if feels against your man's most sensitive flesh. Here's What You Need: One Angora sweater. Here's How You Do It: Get you man naked. Have him lie on his back with his legs slightly apart. Put on the sweater. Pull one sleeve down so that it covers your hand completely. Brush your sweater-covered hand lightly against your man's testicles. Do this for at least a minute, then wrap your hand around his penis and pleasure him manually. Continue until your man approaches orgasm. Then, since you probably want to keep your sweater clean, place your mouth over his penis as he climaxes.
#88 Aunt Good Time-a
A sweet, mouth-watering trickle of maple syrup -- it's not just for breakfast anymore. Here's What You Need: One bottle of maple syrup. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Have him lie on his back. Hold the bottle about twelve inches above your man's body and apply a small amount of syrup to his penis and inner thighs. Using your tongue, lick the syrup from his inner thighs. This will give the syrup you poured on his penis time to spread down over his testicles. Use your tongue there next. Pleasure your man orally, taking time to slowly and methodically lick and suck the remaining syrup into your mouth. Continue until your man pops up like a toaster waffle.
#89 The Windsor Boa
This is a great way to prolong your lovemaking. Done properly, your man will remain erect for as long as you both like. Here's What You Need: One silk necktie. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. You, too. Have him lie on his back. Wrap the middle of the necktie once around the base of his penis (the ends of the tie should now be facing in opposite directions). Wrap the ends around your hands and hold them. Now its time for a little test: Tell your man that you are going to pull the ends. His job is to tell you when it becomes too tight or uncomfortable. Make a mental note of the amount of force you are using when he says, "That's enough." Pleasure your man orally. Keep both ends of the necktie wrapped around your hands. When either you sense he is about to reach orgasm or he tells you, pause in your pleasuring and pull the ends of the necktie so that the loop around his penis tightens and constricts. Hold it for five to ten seconds, then release it and begin pleasuring him again (once you've done this a few times, you'll get a sense of exactly how tight and how long you have to pull and hold the necktie). Now climb on top of your man and ride up and down on his penis until it's time to tighten the tie again. Every time you delay your man's orgasm, it builds the intensity. When it finally is time for him to release himself, it will be one the greatest orgasms of his life.
the better. As you do. The vibration from your lips will make him crazy.#90 The Jamaican Hummingbird
Here's a classic technique that will have your man whistling a happy tune all week long. start to hum. Begin to pleasure him orally.
. Continue until he has one "humdinger" of an orgasm. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. The lower the notes you're humming. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you.
. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Your man will not be able to get enough of it. Here's What You Need: One bag of frozen blueberries. fifteen or twenty seconds in your mouth should take care it). so you might want to buy the blueberries in bulk.#91 The Blueberry Swirl
This one feels indescribably good. otherwise. Open the bag of frozen blueberries and take out about a tablespoon's worth of fruit. Using your tongue. pleasure your man orally. As the blueberries thaw. With the blueberries in your mouth. move the blueberries around the head of your man's penis. they may lose their pleasuring effect. Add more blueberries to your mouth if you like. Put them into your mouth (if there are any ice particles on the blueberries. Have him lie on his back. just keep going until your man explodes in an awesome orgasm. or if any are frozen together.
It should go something like this: "Welcome to Name That Nipple. One damp washcloth. If you get five correct guesses first. you get -. Have him sit in a chair. Ask him him to suck on it. Now rub it on one of your nipples. Are you ready to play our game?" Using the scarf. Here's What You Need: One bag of hard candy in assorted flavors.
. In your best game show announcer voice. "I've got a bag of candy here in all different flavors. then guess the flavor. One scarf. Use the washcloth to remove excess flavoring from your nipples.and the grand prize. Put a piece of candy in your mouth and give it time to partially dissolve. remove his blindfold and let him do whatever he wants with you as a grand prize.me. One very pathetic "lovely parting gift. You're the host -. Here's how we play our game. If your man gets five right before he gets five wrong. You should still be clothed. Repeat. blindfold your man. I'm going to rub a piece of candy onto one of my nipples.#92 Name That Nipple
Here's a great game the two of you should play." Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. If you reach five incorrect guesses first. but not wearing a bra. revealing your bare breasts. using a new candy and the other nipple. welcome him to the show and explain how the game is played. Present your nipple to him." Now take your shirt off. Pretend your man is a contestant on a game show. and you have to guess the flavor. you get this bag of instant soup mix as our lovely parting gift to you.
One spoon. Turn the shooter upside-down and place it on the head of your man's erect penis.#93 Jell-atio
Not only is this technique fun to do. Once it's balanced on the head. being careful not to disturb the shooter. it gives your man a series of interesting sensations he's probably never experienced before.
. pleasure your man orally. Using your tongue. Open your mouth wide and take in the entire shooter. Here's What You Need: One gelatin shooter in a paper cup. tear away the paper cup. Keep it in your mouth and give your man one of the wildest treats of his life. Remove it and feed it to your man. about an inch in diameter and a half an inch deep. Use the spoon to carve out a small portion in the center of the shooter. carefully lick around the shaft of his penis. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Have him lie on his back. As the gelatin breaks up.
This will make it easier for you to follow his body upward. Pleasure your man orally. Keep stimulating him until he reaches orgasm.
. You will induce one of the most powerful orgasms he has ever experienced. Here's What You Need: One chin-up bar. stimulate your man's penis only with your hands. Variations of this technique have been around for centuries. when he feels himself approaching orgasm. Have him stand underneath the chin-up bar. Kneel down in front of him and tell your man that. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked.#94 The Grecian Wonder Bar
There's something about having the muscles in the upper-body contracted at the moment of orgasm that immensely heightens the experience for a man. Here's the modern-day version. he should lift his legs off the ground and try to raise his head above the bar. As soon as his legs come off the ground.
Get down on the floor. You will now be in the classic "wheelbarrow" position. too. on all fours. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked.#95 The Wheelbarrow
Here's a great position your man will absolutely love.
. Straighten your legs and push yourself up. You. It allows for extra-deep penetration and puts him in total control of speed and intensity. Let him enjoy the truly erotic nature of this position until orgasm. Tell your man to squat down and enter you from behind. Now have your man begin thrusting. Have your man wrap his forearms around your thighs and stand up while remaining inside you.
he gets his wish. Have him lie on his back. Bite off the bottom of the cone.
. Here's What You Need: One cake cone. I wish I was that cone. licking the whipped topping and pleasuring your man orally until the cone is completely gone and your man erupts in a triple-scoop orgasm. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Nibble away at the cone. Keep nibbling the cone. Making sure there are no sharp bits of cone in your mouth. then fill the remaining open space inside of the cone with whipped topping." Tonight. They're usually thinking. Carefully insert his penis through the bottom of the cone. creating a hole wide enough for his penis to fit through. "Man. revealing more and more of his penis. pleasure him orally. Lick the whipped topping from around his penis.#96 The Pleasure Cone
Guys are instantly turned on at the sight of your wife eating an ice cream cone. One can of non-dairy whipped topping.
Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Lie down behind him on your back. push up on his hips to get him to rise. his testicles should find their way into your mouth. Position your head between his legs and place your hands on his hips. As he does. Pleasure him orally until he explodes in a mind-numbing orgasm. Gentle flicks of the tongue will drive your man wild. Have your man lower his hips toward you. his penis will be in front of your mouth. Have him get down on the floor.#97 The Ginseng Drop
This is an incredibly erotic technique that stimulates an often overlooked area of your man's body -. Now move your body forward so that the next time he dips.
. After about fifteen seconds. Do this a few times and he will be in ecstasy. on all fours.his testicles. Here's What You Need: Just the two of you.
Have him lie on his back with his legs apart.#98 The Beaded Mill
Have you ever seen those back-massaging seat covers all the New York taxi drivers use? Well. Move the pearls up and down along the shaft. it would look as if you were trying to warm them). After a minute or so.
. Rub your hands back and forth (if they were together. the pearls should glide over his penis." Wrap the pearl necklace loosely around his penis. following your hands. Now with your palms and fingers out straight. Sit in between his legs. "Indian-style. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Start from the bottom and loop a single strand all the way to the top. put his pearl-covered penis between your hands. As you move your hands back and forth. Alternate between the back-and-forth and up-and-down motion until you see more pearls than just what's on the necklace. here's a smaller version for your man's penis that will drive him absolutely crazy. wrap only one hand around his penis. Here's What You Need: One pearl necklace.
Instruct him to moisten one end of the postage stamps and wrap them snugly around his flaccid penis. Send him into another room and tell him to get naked.#99 The Priority Male
Here's another great game that will teach you more about what turns your man on than you can imagine.
. Make love to your man. use your tongue and mouth on any other part of his body -. One stopwatch. Get yourself naked and walk into the room. he should start the stop watch.do whatever it takes. WITHOUT touching his penis. securing the ring. Now it's up to you to do whatever you think will turn him on the most. As his penis becomes erect. At that point. just to the other end of the stamps). stimulate yourself in front of him. it will break the ring of stamps. Have him stick the moist end to the top of the other end. try it again and see if you can better your time. click off the stop watch and see how long it took you to break the ring of stamps. Wait about thirty seconds to make sure the glue holds (the glue should not be sticking to his skin. Next week. Whisper dirty suggestions in his ear. all connected. Here's What You Need: Four postage stamps. Here's How You Do It: Give your man the postage stamps and the stopwatch. Tell your man that when you come into the room.
kneel in front of your man. Continue until you pop his cork.
. Do not swallow it.#100 Asti Spermanti
Celebrate your man's love for you with a nice glass of champagne. taking fresh sips of champagne as needed. Take a big sip of champagne and hold it in your mouth. Swish the champagne around in your mouth. This will cause thousands of tiny bubbles to swirl around your man's sensitive and now incredibly aroused penis. Pleasure your man orally. Here's What You Need: One glass of champagne. Press your lips against the head of your man's penis. He'll be glad you did. With a glass of champagne in hand. Here's How You Do It: Get your man naked. Take his penis into your mouth without letting any of the champagne escape. Have him stand.
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