Make Her Orgasm Hard from Sex in 8 Minutes or Less

by Chase Amante
Friday, 17 May 2013

I've had men ask me to write about my methods on how to make a girl orgasm since 2007, when I first mentioned the results I get with sex online... and I've always declined to write them. I didn't mind sharing what I did to pick up a girl. That's just a process. But sex... that's an experience. And I've somewhat jealously guarded how to create the kind of experience I like creating for women through sex.

and a little bit of work. So. she can go get that from anybody. All those other guys out there were talking about giving girls orgasms with their hands or mouths. if it requires even a little bit of work.. fast. I was able to give girls relatively hard orgasms within 10 or 15 minutes. If everybody else knows how to do what I know how to do in the sack. most men are unlikely to ever use it. And I didn't want to talk about it. I was giving them orgasms with ME... . using nothing but your member . one after another . well.My goals with sex were the same as my goals with seduction: sex to me should be 1. and relationships for you forever.. on average.. I was stacking powerful multiple orgasms from penetrative vaginal sex. no matter how clear you make something for someone. women..the holy grail of sex performance for most men. all those rip-roaring orgasms I just gave her aren't really anything all that special. because sex is the great differentiator. I laughed at that. I'm going to share with you how you can make girls orgasm hard. Powerfully effective. fears of getting out-competed by men using my own techniques against me set aside. it will change sex. But what I've realized over the years is. and 3. and multiple times. I gradually cut this down to about 5 to 10 minutes or so. no matter how simply you present it to him. But most men are never going to bother. 2.. And right away. Easy to do Once I started working on getting sex down as a skill. Efficient to execute. If you use these techniques with the women you sleep with..

With a good grasp of the theory. Most of the sex fundamentals I learned as a teenager without ever having sex. One of the keys to this.make these things a breeze. but the bond between too people is more important. about how sex is something you're supposed to work through or talk about with your partner or whatnot. sex seemed to be all-important. giving a girl orgasms. and how to change courses and improvise on the fly when you find yourself in novel situations I haven't discussed in an article. I heard a lot of things growing up. and from what I could tell from looking at people's actual relationships. More specifically. and not another way. then I REALLY wanted to make sure she didn't ever want to leave. so that you understand a) WHY we're doing things a certain way.if you're hitting these notes right . and b) how to improve on them yourself. you wind up not needing a whole lot else. . At the time. Lots of orgasms. and I figured if I ever got a girl I really liked.I usually like to start off articles like this with some theory. So here's what you need to understand about sex that virtually nobody tells you (because virtually nobody is aware) and that makes all the difference between being okay at sex and being rock star good in bed. I never put much credence in the things people say though. so too does sex. I was trapped by my own social phobia without friends and without girlfriends or lovers. Sex Fundamentals Just like attractiveness and seduction have certain underlying fundamentals that . was sex. I knew. and it's important.

and much less clinical. I learned how to give women orgasms manually. and by nature.. I couldn't really figure out where it was or what to do with it (in fact. I've never really sat down to figure this out. these were the fundamentals of sex: 1.. Physical contact is best maximized. Ricardus talks about it fairly in-depth in his article on how to be a good lover. Women had the most exciting. Or.. she'd keep coming back for more. orally. in fact. 2.. I needed to be not just good at sex. Yet. she'd soon be gone. This makes the sex much more personal. 3. but if he gave her incredible sex. but if he couldn't perform. But most of all.getting your skin contacting as much of her skin as possible. she might think a guy was the most wonderful fellow in the world. You need both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. but incredible at it. I studied...In fact. A woman could HATE a guy. the clitoris was outside and above the vagina. she orgasmed quickly. she told me no one gets that good from watching a video. The stuff I was reading about the "G-spot" was a bit too complicated for me. I am one of the most dispassionate individuals you will meet.. I learned these so well. and eventually learn it for real. and angrily called me a liar for telling her I was inexperienced.. I wanted to land on my feet as quickly as possible. because . and I didn't want to be just using my hand or my mouth. Another thing I suspected was extremely important was maximizing physical contact . Sex is every bit as much a mental and emotional experience as it is a physical one. and increases the release of pleasure and bonding hormones that occurs with skin contact between a man and a woman. What I was reading again and again and again was that women wished more men would stimulate their clitoris during sex.. off in the arms of another man who could. and it does seem to be pretty useful). I knew I needed to simulate passion. fulfilling experiences with passionate men. as soon as I got going. Passion is key. I studied how to give women orgasms vaginally." I told her I'd just watched a video on giving oral sex. and never really trusted me after that "lie. that the first time I ever gave a girl oral sex. it seemed to be THE most important thing there was.... based on everything I'd studied and read. and so many men were ignorant of this. though. and anally. So. She never believed me that I'd never done it before. I eventually decided that.

on average . 6. enjoy the ride..and prevent them from ever climaxing. fingers. not your tongue / fingers. A woman wants to feel like you know her body better than she does. "Was that good for you?" are big no-nos that make you seem inexperienced and like you don't know what you're doing. I also read about how important foreplay was . Rhythm was why women found men who danced well sexy and suspected they'd be good in bed . 5. But it's certainly not mandatory. that's the #1 reason to bother giving her orgasms at all in the first place . you can go in with no foreplay and still have her cumming hard in minutes. once you get there she'll be having so much pleasure she's not going to care if you didn't tease her for 15 minutes first. The men shifting around and thrusting arrhythmically prevent women from ever entering this trance . rhythmic sex. Dominance is mandatory.had rhythm.tongues.on average .did not. .sometimes . Black men .. it's not really sex if your penis isn't in her.these men aren't real men the way men who make women cum with their penises are. I learned that asking her. I further learned that women enter a trance-like state during good. Hidden deep within the tomes I was reading on sex. hands.if I want to build up a girl's anticipation and get her cumming faster and harder than she would without it. white men .but I didn't consider that a fundamental. that is necessary for and precedes orgasm. she wants to be able to just relax. and let you do what you know how to do so well without having to worry or think about anything other than how good it feels and how good you are. "Is this okay?" or.. smacking her butt.you need to be making her cum with your penis.and it was also why once a girl went black she didn't go back. sex toys . and while they enjoy men who give them orgasms with other parts of their bodies . like using your voice during sex.4. You must know what you're doing. not asked. etc. Women want to be taken. Just like she's not really your girlfriend if you're not having sex with her. and know what's best for her better than she does. because my belief was that if you're incredible at penetrative sex.. Rhythm is non-negotiable. and doing things like gripping and pulling her hair (when behind her).and in my mind. and tell her what to do / move her around dominantly and confidently and self-assuredly. There were other things I found that were useful and important. I discovered an emphasis on rhythm that seemed largely devoid from much of the lighter and more mainstream sex advice stuff I perused. too. Penetrative sex is REAL sex. I do use foreplay . Women know this. If you want to maintain a woman's respect and attraction at the uppermost levels . If you know what you're doing in bed.

I ran into fairly normal guy problems like:    Girls weren't climaxing with me.Delivering the Goods At first.. except rarely (and weakly) I was getting tired fairly easily (even though I worked out) The sex was boring enough that women would sometimes start talking to me during it .. "I think you are the best.hard.. who'd earlier decided she wanted nothing to do with me. I asked. because if I knew if I chased her I was done for sure. Then again. But I knew I needed to give her a reason to keep seeing me after our return if I wanted her as a girlfriend .she breathlessly said. and decided to try something new. Except.. maintain better rhythm. Then again. I couldn't believe it. I finally got her back to the hotel. And kept going. I tried it out on her. and I'd managed to sleep with her while on a tour overseas with a bunch of other people. "The best ever?" She didn't answer.all right in a row .. After the fourth orgasm . but then one day I needed to pull off a miracle. I was pretty ordinary at sex. I was pretty average at sex. . Then she came again. and give her both clitoral and vaginal stimulation at the same time. I shrugged this off. with her turned on and lustily grasping at me as we rode around town in a taxicab. on the last night of the trip." Like a dork. So. I'd managed to pull off a remarkable turnaround with a gorgeous girl I'd wanted to make my girlfriend.and the only thing I could think that could possibly do it was sex. I'd come up with an idea that would hopefully let me last longer without getting tired. and told me there was zero chance of us having a relationship or seeing each other after we got back from the trip.. I started grinning. But she still disliked me and thought I was no good (I was going a little too far with the bad boy image then and hadn't learned how to balance it right). trying to seem nonchalant. and 10 minutes into sex. she achieved climax . she just came hard again.

by this point. she was screaming so hard I literally thought she was going to start crying. "I don't think I can LEAVE you!" and I knew I'd done it. I was hanging out in the other bedroom in his house when he did . and I was afraid the hotel staff would break down the door thinking her limbs were being sawn off . in the years I've shared it with close friends. I forget what it was called there. I've had one person show me something that described the same position. Here's the position . After the seventh orgasm . I've never seen it anywhere else.she yelled. Well nigh everyone I've asked to try it out has reported having his girls orgasm off of it.he didn't know I was there ." and it looks very much like this: .And then again. Hard and Fast I don't know if there's a common name for this sex position.and I listened to him make a girl scream at the top of her lungs for five minutes. We ended up dating for 2½ years after that. We'd been having sex for only 15 or 20 minutes. In fact.I call it "adapted missionary. the first friend of mine who tried it out. and then I finished. How to Make a Girl Orgasm. usually on the first try. And then again. She came two more times.

in adapted missionary your body is on top of hers. Ordinary missionary position entails a man raised up above the woman's body. it allows for deeper penetration. The one "complaint" I've had from friends who've tried this position out is that they enjoyed the sex somewhat less.and can last far longer. Unlike ordinary missionary. Altered thrust angle. On the other hand. with little in the way.you're going right in. Full body contact. 2. For obvious reasons. which means you more easily reach the back wall of her . supported by his hands and wrists. increasing her enjoyment. Here's how this differs from an ordinary missionary position: 1.The only difference between the position itself and the picture above is that normally you'll have your hands not holding her hands but holding her shoulders from underneath. and a bit less pleasure for you. this is a pretty tiring position .it takes a lot of work to hold yourself up that much! When you're supporting yourself with your forearms and elbows instead though. That's because this position gives you a very "clean" angle of entry into a woman's vagina . This also allows you to maintain much more control over your bodily motions. creating a much more intimate experience. 3. and prompting the release of more pleasure and bonding chemicals in her brain. you tire out much more slowly . which means less pressure on your penis shaft. making it significantly easier to keep a steady thrusting rhythm. Forearm and elbow support. where you're holding yourself above the girl.

then grasping them and thrusting. Orgasms happen for me with this position with most girls within 8 to 10 minutes. maximum often faster. Because of the position your body is in. Shoulder grip for added oomph. you'll know how to make a girl orgasm like no one else she's ever met. and is pretty exciting for her too. Because your hands are wrapped around her shoulders from behind and underneath. .stimulating her clitoris in the process. Big difference in power.and vaginal back wall stimulation is how you trigger the most powerful vaginal orgasms. where her clitoris gets virtually no stimulation. short of rhythm. You can feel the difference just by letting go of her shoulders and thrusting. If you're starting off with standard white guy rhythm (that is to say.. You'll struggle a bit at first. 5. Rather than an up and down motion. This roughly doubles the strength you can thrust with.vagina with the end of your penis . in adapted missionary this back and forth rubs her clitoris constantly. when they're excited. The neat thing about this position is that it takes care of everything for you. you'll want to thrust into her harder while maintaining the same rhythm. but pull her downwardas well. and she likely won't climax every time. 4. you're able to not just thrust forward. As you get closer to orgasm. like you'd have with a standard missionary position. or ever will meet. but once you've got it down. your pelvis slides back and forth against hers . Pelvic rubbing and clitoral stimulation. expect four to six months of sex several times a week while concentrating on rhythm to get your rhythm down tight. NO rhythm) like I was when I first began using this position. Rhythm ends up being the only thing you need to concentrate on ..everything else is automatic. to hit the back wall of her vagina harder and to rub her clitoris harder.

especially if you have a longer penis. deep penetration . and review a few more tips that are generally going to make you better at sex and more adept at giving a fulfilling sexual experience to girls. I want to show you a couple of other sex positions that you may or may not have seen before. What else is there out there? In this section. This one gives you great.which you may find is too much at the start of sex. Tips on this one: . Legs Over Shoulders One of the better positions for deep penetration in a girl is this one: You can do this similar to missionary. but with a girl's knees crooked over your shoulders.Let's say you've got adapted missionary down. talk about how to make a girl orgasm with them. and now you want to find more ways to make your girl climax hard and fast.

Try both with her.   Pelvis Hoist I first got really interested in this position after watching the scene in the immortal classic Showgirls where Elizabeth Berkley straddles Kyle MacLachlan in the pool: . and the more exciting the position becomes because of the strain you're putting on her legs If you have a large/long penis. if you've already given her a few orgasms in another position. exciting orgasms. but you'll often find you can't use it until your girl starts getting reasonably close to climax. others less so . shift her into this position to make her cum harder.once she starts getting close to orgasm.it depends on the girl. The more you bend down over the girl (and the closer you bend her knees back towards her chest). Or. You may also sometimes find that while she'll have really powerful. or else she finds this position too uncomfortable she'll complain or pain or discomfort in her lower abdomen (that's you pushing too hard on her vaginal back wall). switch her into this one to keep the orgasms flowing by stimulating her in a newer and more powerful way. she'll also be pretty sore after cumming this way. the deeper the penetration you'll get with her. and see which one you get more miles out of Legs-over-shoulders is typically best as a "finishing move" . try this one out. too Some women enjoy this position more than adapted missionary.

and she was cumming in minutes. "Let ME try that". It's a lot more visually stimulating when you see your penis in her vagina If you don't mind the strain of holding her lower body up with one hand for a moment. This has since become one of my favorite positions for blowing girls minds but. unlike adapted missionary. and hoisted her pelvis up into the air..I saw that and said. this position is that. both very enjoyable for her  .. So. I couldn't make a girl float without water. Then. but I could do my best to hold her up. grasped my girls buttocks. I started thrusting hard. this one is HARD and WILL tire you out.. it's certainly good exercise). on steroids. Tips for maximizing the experience:  If you need to up your own excitement. I raised up on my knees out of adapted missionary. You'll see guys talking about shagging girls with pillows under their butts. The next time I was having sex. you can use your other hand to slap her clitoris or rub it. with a can of Red Bull to boot. I improvised.. watch yourself thrusting into and out of her. but then I realized I didn't have a pool handy. holding her pelvis up with one of my hands beneath each of her glutes. Don't expect to do it for long unless you're in fantastic shape (on the plus side.

. that's perfect. Thrust one way. enjoyment-wise. If you start getting winded but want to continue in this position. More Sex Tips to Make a Girl Orgasm Loads Here.. and she'll love it." as you thrust into her (said in a very sexy voice. it tends to get the most physically pleasurable reaction out of your partner. One of the secrets of sex I realized sometime back was that when you do what feels physically best for your penis during sex." or. and you can increase a girl's excitement levels (and proximity to orgasm) by playing around near and in it. more general sex tips that will make generating quick. but you need the right angle for this . or have her prop her butt up with her hands beneath it and elbows on the bed This position's a lot of fun. Just as she seems to be peaking. and if you really want to drive her hard. this one does the trick. The anus is a very sensitive part of the body.  Sex from behind / doggy style.  Teasing around her anus. you can ping her with a. you can run your hand along her inner buttocks. thrust another way that feels better for you.. However.if she's around your height. Sex from behind can be a very solid option for getting orgasms.. if she's much shorter than you. if you really want to show a girl you know what you're doing in bed and can give it to her in very novel and pleasurable ways. and she'll like it. When you're having sex with a girl from behind (doggy style). "Your pussy feels so good. powerful multiple orgasms in women much more of a snap than it was before you started using them:  Syncing up sensation.?" thread on the discussion boards). and stick it in and play around a bit. Use beds / sofas to try and . use your thumb to start dipping into and out of her anus. The combination of your thumb in her anus and your penis thrusting into and out of her vagina will drive her wild. but it's so much work for you that you shouldn't expect to get a great deal of personal satisfaction out of it yourself. I'm not much of a talker during sex usually (although I did mention one use for this when a girl's been giving you trouble in the " Am I still. and women tend to find it pretty exciting. too. ask her to support her lower body with her toes.  Dirty talk on the high points. just near her anus. Focus on maximizing your own sensation. and you maximize hers. you'll have a harder time with this one. "You love my hard cock inside of you. but one time I do enjoy using it is in amplifying a girl's pleasure and helping her achieve orgasm more quickly on the high points. of course) and watch/listen to her peak higher.

Doggy style causes the vagina to tighten.is going from a very high contact position to a minimal contact position.  Using foreplay to heighten anticipation / enjoyment. even though I've had a few girls request it.  Switching up sensations. What I noticed. switching from adapted missionary over to sex from behind.hair pulling..g. then started up again once I'd calmed down a bit. I mentioned that one of these sex fundamentals is that you maximize skin-to-skin contact .e.. just shy of her orgasming. The more you build her anticipation of the act. Some of the roughest enjoyable sex can be choking. and once she's acclimated to that position. but I personally won't touch this one myself. before we finally were able to get alone and get to it. penis still inside her. When I discussed the sex fundamentals above..there are enough other ways to heighten her enjoyment that you probably don't need to risk giving her an aneurism.. Just stop thrusting and relax. but can also lead to chafing if you stay in the position for more than 5 to 10 minutes and are having hard. Hair pulling and biting are great though. I was a "break taker" by necessity while getting good at sex. because a few people die from this every year in freak accidents .so have a bottle of lubricant or petroleum jelly handy just in case. The difference in sensation is huge. too. I'm a "let's get to it" kind of guy who doesn't enjoy foreplay a whole lot. Some of the most powerful orgasms I've generated in women have come after extended period of foreplay .. the more explosive it is for her when you finally slip inside and go to work on her. A surprising number of women really enjoy rough sex .get the proper angle. so I use this only sporadically. Some women orgasm easily from this position. but you can really get a girl lusting for you with good foreplay. to stop myself from cumming too quickly or to take a break if I started feeling a little tired. hard. then had to stop because I was about to finish before she was. riding around in the back of a taxi making out and teasing her sexually. etc. you can turn her on her back again and go back to adapted missionary. then finally brought her to orgasm after . was that if I routinely got a girl just to the point of climaxing.. then had to stop again. or grabbing a fistful of their hair (easiest when having sex from behind) and yanking it backwards.  Taking her to the point of orgasm . while others do not. One thing you can do for variety during the act that heightens pleasure by way of contrast . as are slapping her buttocks or breasts during sex. because cutting off the oxygen flow to the brain heightens the sensation of climaxing.things like biting them (lightly).. which is good.but not taking her over.the more of your body touching hers. biting. and spikes her pleasure. the higher the enjoyment. and again the shock of suddenly maximal skin-to-skin contact sends waves of delight through her body.  Rough sex . rough sex without lubrication . however.. and then taking your hands off her completely so that the only part of your body she's touching at all is your penis in her vagina (and your hips against her buttocks when you thrust forward into her). for instance.

In fact. it can get to the point where you start NOT wanting to be too good in bed. excitement..a girl seems like a total independent hard case. You can have even mediocre sex. but if you have it in public. How Important is Good Sex? Great sex is the key to your romantic relationships. Every girl I've given strong. or a bunch of these (or maybe ALL of these.. Great sex turns lionesses into kittens. then bringing her to the point of orgasming again.. He didn't want them getting addicted. just like what we talked about when we talked about horny girls. amazing. That's up to your discretion.. if you're feeling frisky and ambitious) in concert together. it can be very exciting and pleasurable for many women. and who.. because he didn't want the sex to be TOO good. then finally bringing her there really makes the effect much more potent. because of the uncertainty. will see. and becomingdrama-causers. the key to a woman's is through her vagina. If the key to a man's heart is through his stomach. Check out the article on sex logistics for more on where and how to make this happen. the orgasms she'd experience were tremendously powerful . just good enough to keep women coming back. one of my more experienced friends at the time told me he didn't need it.akin to what you'd get with some pretty good foreplay.. This bringing her to the point of orgasming. then not letting her orgasm. so women don't get too addicted (and then hurt). then not letting her orgasm.  Sex in public. However. unemotional people. It's almost to the point where it's become ridiculous . and anticipation of not knowing if they'll be caught.all of this build up. or you can use them one at a time.and her perceptions of you as a talented. When I was still drunk off the amazing power of adapted missionary and telling my guy friends to try it out on girls. falling crazy in love. . even women who'd never been in love with anyone before and were otherwise very rational. hard multiple orgasms to in any kind of relationship capacity has fallen very quickly in love with me. each of these tactics will up her enjoyment . if they'll get in trouble. if anyone. but a few rounds of screaming orgasms later and she's looking at you with doe eyes and little hearts swimming around above her head. You can use some of these. top-caliber lover.

Chase Amante . use the ability to make a girl orgasm with caution.So.give them the night of their lives. I'd suggest you refrain from blowing the minds of your casual relationship partners.. Yours. and use it responsibly . unless you want to turn a cool-headed sometimes-lover into a jealously possessive head-overheels in love kind of gal. Use it well. And long-term relationships are good they'll never be with anyone as amazing as you. One-night stands are fine .. Great power? Great responsibility.. But..

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