Make Her Orgasm Hard from Sex in 8 Minutes or Less

by Chase Amante
Friday, 17 May 2013

I've had men ask me to write about my methods on how to make a girl orgasm since 2007, when I first mentioned the results I get with sex online... and I've always declined to write them. I didn't mind sharing what I did to pick up a girl. That's just a process. But sex... that's an experience. And I've somewhat jealously guarded how to create the kind of experience I like creating for women through sex.

because sex is the great differentiator. And I didn't want to talk about it. all those rip-roaring orgasms I just gave her aren't really anything all that special. on average. using nothing but your member . fast.. Powerfully effective. most men are unlikely to ever use it..My goals with sex were the same as my goals with seduction: sex to me should be 1. All those other guys out there were talking about giving girls orgasms with their hands or mouths.. So..and a little bit of work.. and multiple times. no matter how clear you make something for someone.. I was able to give girls relatively hard orgasms within 10 or 15 minutes.. Easy to do Once I started working on getting sex down as a skill. one after another . fears of getting out-competed by men using my own techniques against me set aside. and 3. women. But most men are never going to bother. If everybody else knows how to do what I know how to do in the sack. she can go get that from anybody. And right away. if it requires even a little bit of work. I was stacking powerful multiple orgasms from penetrative vaginal sex. Efficient to execute. 2. well. I laughed at that. I gradually cut this down to about 5 to 10 minutes or so. it will change sex. .. If you use these techniques with the women you sleep with. and relationships for you forever. no matter how simply you present it to him. I'm going to share with you how you can make girls orgasm hard.the holy grail of sex performance for most men. I was giving them orgasms with ME. But what I've realized over the years is.

giving a girl orgasms. but the bond between too people is more important. so too does sex. With a good grasp of the theory. and how to change courses and improvise on the fly when you find yourself in novel situations I haven't discussed in an article. and b) how to improve on them yourself. sex seemed to be all-important. Lots of orgasms. and not another way. I knew. and it's important. More specifically. So here's what you need to understand about sex that virtually nobody tells you (because virtually nobody is aware) and that makes all the difference between being okay at sex and being rock star good in bed. so that you understand a) WHY we're doing things a certain way. about how sex is something you're supposed to work through or talk about with your partner or whatnot. At the time. was sex. and from what I could tell from looking at people's actual relationships. you wind up not needing a whole lot else. then I REALLY wanted to make sure she didn't ever want to leave.if you're hitting these notes right . . and I figured if I ever got a girl I really liked. I never put much credence in the things people say though.make these things a breeze. I was trapped by my own social phobia without friends and without girlfriends or lovers.I usually like to start off articles like this with some theory. Most of the sex fundamentals I learned as a teenager without ever having sex. One of the keys to this. Sex Fundamentals Just like attractiveness and seduction have certain underlying fundamentals that . I heard a lot of things growing up.

it seemed to be THE most important thing there was. but if he gave her incredible sex. Or. 2. and much less clinical. Another thing I suspected was extremely important was maximizing physical contact . she'd soon be gone. A woman could HATE a guy. Passion is key... though. that the first time I ever gave a girl oral sex. I learned how to give women orgasms manually. and so many men were ignorant of this. She never believed me that I'd never done it before. But most of all. in fact. the clitoris was outside and above the vagina. and increases the release of pleasure and bonding hormones that occurs with skin contact between a man and a woman." I told her I'd just watched a video on giving oral sex. but incredible at it. off in the arms of another man who could. I couldn't really figure out where it was or what to do with it (in fact. and never really trusted me after that "lie. 3. and angrily called me a liar for telling her I was inexperienced. I knew I needed to simulate passion..... The stuff I was reading about the "G-spot" was a bit too complicated for me. and anally. and by nature.. these were the fundamentals of sex: 1.. I learned these so well. she orgasmed quickly.getting your skin contacting as much of her skin as possible. fulfilling experiences with passionate men. You need both clitoral and vaginal stimulation.. and eventually learn it for real. Sex is every bit as much a mental and emotional experience as it is a physical one. So. Ricardus talks about it fairly in-depth in his article on how to be a good lover. as soon as I got going.In fact. Yet.. What I was reading again and again and again was that women wished more men would stimulate their clitoris during sex. I needed to be not just good at sex. Physical contact is best maximized. Women had the most exciting. and I didn't want to be just using my hand or my mouth. she'd keep coming back for more. This makes the sex much more personal. I studied. she might think a guy was the most wonderful fellow in the world. orally. I am one of the most dispassionate individuals you will meet. I've never really sat down to figure this out. but if he couldn't perform. I wanted to land on my feet as quickly as possible. and it does seem to be pretty useful).. she told me no one gets that good from watching a video.. based on everything I'd studied and read. because . I studied how to give women orgasms vaginally. I eventually decided that.

not your tongue / fingers. and doing things like gripping and pulling her hair (when behind her). I learned that asking her..but I didn't consider that a fundamental.these men aren't real men the way men who make women cum with their penises are. "Was that good for you?" are big no-nos that make you seem inexperienced and like you don't know what you're doing.. You must know what you're doing.and in my mind. that is necessary for and precedes orgasm. she wants to be able to just relax. etc. Dominance is mandatory.had rhythm. If you want to maintain a woman's respect and attraction at the uppermost levels . and while they enjoy men who give them orgasms with other parts of their bodies . fingers. ..on average . Penetrative sex is REAL sex. Rhythm was why women found men who danced well sexy and suspected they'd be good in bed . I discovered an emphasis on rhythm that seemed largely devoid from much of the lighter and more mainstream sex advice stuff I perused. The men shifting around and thrusting arrhythmically prevent women from ever entering this trance . Black men . that's the #1 reason to bother giving her orgasms at all in the first place . A woman wants to feel like you know her body better than she does. If you know what you're doing in bed.tongues.you need to be making her cum with your penis. and tell her what to do / move her around dominantly and confidently and self-assuredly. Just like she's not really your girlfriend if you're not having sex with her. white men . rhythmic sex. once you get there she'll be having so much pleasure she's not going to care if you didn't tease her for 15 minutes first. I do use foreplay . I further learned that women enter a trance-like state during good. not asked.sometimes .4. Women know this. enjoy the ride.. it's not really sex if your penis isn't in her. and let you do what you know how to do so well without having to worry or think about anything other than how good it feels and how good you are. hands.on average . Hidden deep within the tomes I was reading on sex. Women want to be taken. smacking her butt. There were other things I found that were useful and important. "Is this okay?" or. 5. you can go in with no foreplay and still have her cumming hard in minutes.did not.and it was also why once a girl went black she didn't go back. sex toys . 6. I also read about how important foreplay was . like using your voice during sex. Rhythm is non-negotiable.and prevent them from ever climaxing. But it's certainly not mandatory.if I want to build up a girl's anticipation and get her cumming faster and harder than she would without it. because my belief was that if you're incredible at penetrative sex. and know what's best for her better than she does. too.

she just came hard again. who'd earlier decided she wanted nothing to do with me.. on the last night of the trip.she breathlessly said. And kept going. I ran into fairly normal guy problems like:    Girls weren't climaxing with me. maintain better rhythm. "I think you are the best. she achieved climax . I'd managed to pull off a remarkable turnaround with a gorgeous girl I'd wanted to make my girlfriend. But she still disliked me and thought I was no good (I was going a little too far with the bad boy image then and hadn't learned how to balance it right). and I'd managed to sleep with her while on a tour overseas with a bunch of other people. trying to seem nonchalant. I shrugged this off.and the only thing I could think that could possibly do it was sex. and 10 minutes into sex. I was pretty average at sex. I couldn't believe it. "The best ever?" She didn't answer." Like a dork. So. Then she came again. After the fourth orgasm . I finally got her back to the hotel. Then again. I was pretty ordinary at sex. I started grinning. and told me there was zero chance of us having a relationship or seeing each other after we got back from the trip. and give her both clitoral and vaginal stimulation at the same time. with her turned on and lustily grasping at me as we rode around town in a taxicab. but then one day I needed to pull off a miracle. I'd come up with an idea that would hopefully let me last longer without getting tired. Then again.Delivering the Goods At first. I tried it out on her... But I knew I needed to give her a reason to keep seeing me after our return if I wanted her as a girlfriend . . except rarely (and weakly) I was getting tired fairly easily (even though I worked out) The sex was boring enough that women would sometimes start talking to me during it . I asked. and decided to try something new.all right in a row ...hard. because if I knew if I chased her I was done for sure.. Except.

She came two more times. I've never seen it anywhere else.And then again. I forget what it was called there. We'd been having sex for only 15 or 20 minutes.he didn't know I was there . I've had one person show me something that described the same position. the first friend of mine who tried it out. How to Make a Girl Orgasm. and then I finished. I was hanging out in the other bedroom in his house when he did . "I don't think I can LEAVE you!" and I knew I'd done it. she was screaming so hard I literally thought she was going to start crying.by this point." and it looks very much like this: . And then again. in the years I've shared it with close friends. usually on the first try. Hard and Fast I don't know if there's a common name for this sex position.and I listened to him make a girl scream at the top of her lungs for five minutes. We ended up dating for 2½ years after that. Well nigh everyone I've asked to try it out has reported having his girls orgasm off of it. After the seventh orgasm . and I was afraid the hotel staff would break down the door thinking her limbs were being sawn off .I call it "adapted missionary. In fact.she yelled. Here's the position .

Altered thrust angle. with little in the way. and a bit less pleasure for you. Here's how this differs from an ordinary missionary position: 1. 3. The one "complaint" I've had from friends who've tried this position out is that they enjoyed the sex somewhat less. which means you more easily reach the back wall of her . This also allows you to maintain much more control over your bodily motions. increasing her enjoyment. On the other hand. and prompting the release of more pleasure and bonding chemicals in her brain.you're going right in. where you're holding yourself above the girl. you tire out much more slowly . supported by his hands and wrists. For obvious reasons. making it significantly easier to keep a steady thrusting rhythm.The only difference between the position itself and the picture above is that normally you'll have your hands not holding her hands but holding her shoulders from underneath. Full body contact. That's because this position gives you a very "clean" angle of entry into a woman's vagina . which means less pressure on your penis shaft. Ordinary missionary position entails a man raised up above the woman's body. creating a much more intimate experience.it takes a lot of work to hold yourself up that much! When you're supporting yourself with your forearms and elbows instead though. in adapted missionary your body is on top of hers. 2.and can last far longer. Forearm and elbow support. Unlike ordinary missionary. it allows for deeper penetration. this is a pretty tiring position .

to hit the back wall of her vagina harder and to rub her clitoris harder. Rhythm ends up being the only thing you need to concentrate on . maximum often faster. then grasping them and thrusting. 5. Rather than an up and down motion.stimulating her clitoris in the process. you'll know how to make a girl orgasm like no one else she's ever met. in adapted missionary this back and forth rubs her clitoris constantly.and vaginal back wall stimulation is how you trigger the most powerful vaginal orgasms. short of rhythm. but pull her downwardas well. Shoulder grip for added oomph. You'll struggle a bit at first. like you'd have with a standard missionary position. or ever will meet. and she likely won't climax every time. The neat thing about this position is that it takes care of everything for you.. This roughly doubles the strength you can thrust with. your pelvis slides back and forth against hers . when they're excited. you're able to not just thrust forward. You can feel the difference just by letting go of her shoulders and thrusting. NO rhythm) like I was when I first began using this position. and is pretty exciting for her too. Because your hands are wrapped around her shoulders from behind and underneath. As you get closer to orgasm. Big difference in power. 4.everything else is automatic. expect four to six months of sex several times a week while concentrating on rhythm to get your rhythm down tight. Because of the position your body is in.. where her clitoris gets virtually no stimulation. If you're starting off with standard white guy rhythm (that is to say.vagina with the end of your penis . Pelvic rubbing and clitoral stimulation. . you'll want to thrust into her harder while maintaining the same rhythm. but once you've got it down. Orgasms happen for me with this position with most girls within 8 to 10 minutes.

I want to show you a couple of other sex positions that you may or may not have seen before. This one gives you great. and now you want to find more ways to make your girl climax hard and fast. talk about how to make a girl orgasm with them. Legs Over Shoulders One of the better positions for deep penetration in a girl is this one: You can do this similar to missionary. Tips on this one: . especially if you have a longer penis.which you may find is too much at the start of sex. and review a few more tips that are generally going to make you better at sex and more adept at giving a fulfilling sexual experience to girls. deep penetration . What else is there out there? In this section. but with a girl's knees crooked over your shoulders.Let's say you've got adapted missionary down.

and see which one you get more miles out of Legs-over-shoulders is typically best as a "finishing move" .once she starts getting close to orgasm. The more you bend down over the girl (and the closer you bend her knees back towards her chest). Or. or else she finds this position too uncomfortable she'll complain or pain or discomfort in her lower abdomen (that's you pushing too hard on her vaginal back wall). switch her into this one to keep the orgasms flowing by stimulating her in a newer and more powerful way. try this one out. You may also sometimes find that while she'll have really powerful. exciting orgasms. if you've already given her a few orgasms in another position. too Some women enjoy this position more than adapted missionary. she'll also be pretty sore after cumming this way. but you'll often find you can't use it until your girl starts getting reasonably close to climax. and the more exciting the position becomes because of the strain you're putting on her legs If you have a large/long penis.it depends on the girl. Try both with her.   Pelvis Hoist I first got really interested in this position after watching the scene in the immortal classic Showgirls where Elizabeth Berkley straddles Kyle MacLachlan in the pool: . the deeper the penetration you'll get with her. shift her into this position to make her cum harder. others less so .

both very enjoyable for her  . I improvised.. you can use your other hand to slap her clitoris or rub it. Tips for maximizing the experience:  If you need to up your own excitement. this one is HARD and WILL tire you out. holding her pelvis up with one of my hands beneath each of her glutes. watch yourself thrusting into and out of her. it's certainly good exercise). with a can of Red Bull to boot. "Let ME try that". I raised up on my knees out of adapted missionary. It's a lot more visually stimulating when you see your penis in her vagina If you don't mind the strain of holding her lower body up with one hand for a moment.. Then. The next time I was having sex. and she was cumming in minutes...I saw that and said. but then I realized I didn't have a pool handy. So. unlike adapted missionary. grasped my girls buttocks. This has since become one of my favorite positions for blowing girls minds but. I couldn't make a girl float without water. and hoisted her pelvis up into the air. You'll see guys talking about shagging girls with pillows under their butts. this position is that. on steroids. I started thrusting hard. but I could do my best to hold her up. Don't expect to do it for long unless you're in fantastic shape (on the plus side.

and she'll love it. you can run your hand along her inner buttocks. The anus is a very sensitive part of the body. more general sex tips that will make generating quick. it tends to get the most physically pleasurable reaction out of your partner. use your thumb to start dipping into and out of her anus. and if you really want to drive her hard.. "Your pussy feels so good. The combination of your thumb in her anus and your penis thrusting into and out of her vagina will drive her wild. I'm not much of a talker during sex usually (although I did mention one use for this when a girl's been giving you trouble in the " Am I still.  Dirty talk on the high points.. you can ping her with a. but you need the right angle for this .?" thread on the discussion boards). but it's so much work for you that you shouldn't expect to get a great deal of personal satisfaction out of it yourself. Focus on maximizing your own sensation. but one time I do enjoy using it is in amplifying a girl's pleasure and helping her achieve orgasm more quickly on the high points. if you really want to show a girl you know what you're doing in bed and can give it to her in very novel and pleasurable ways. this one does the trick.  Teasing around her anus. If you start getting winded but want to continue in this position.. More Sex Tips to Make a Girl Orgasm Loads Here. that's perfect. thrust another way that feels better for you. of course) and watch/listen to her peak higher. One of the secrets of sex I realized sometime back was that when you do what feels physically best for your penis during sex. ask her to support her lower body with her toes. "You love my hard cock inside of you.  Sex from behind / doggy style. When you're having sex with a girl from behind (doggy style). Sex from behind can be a very solid option for getting orgasms. if she's much shorter than you. Just as she seems to be peaking." or.." as you thrust into her (said in a very sexy voice.if she's around your height. just near her anus. However. Thrust one way. enjoyment-wise. or have her prop her butt up with her hands beneath it and elbows on the bed This position's a lot of fun. too. and you maximize hers. Use beds / sofas to try and . and women tend to find it pretty exciting. and stick it in and play around a bit. and she'll like it. powerful multiple orgasms in women much more of a snap than it was before you started using them:  Syncing up sensation. you'll have a harder time with this one. and you can increase a girl's excitement levels (and proximity to orgasm) by playing around near and in it.

etc. Some of the roughest enjoyable sex can be choking.. The more you build her anticipation of the act. biting. because a few people die from this every year in freak accidents . to stop myself from cumming too quickly or to take a break if I started feeling a little tired. and then taking your hands off her completely so that the only part of your body she's touching at all is your penis in her vagina (and your hips against her buttocks when you thrust forward into her). riding around in the back of a taxi making out and teasing her sexually.  Rough sex .so have a bottle of lubricant or petroleum jelly handy just in case. too. was that if I routinely got a girl just to the point of climaxing. then finally brought her to orgasm after . When I discussed the sex fundamentals above. which is good.is going from a very high contact position to a minimal contact position. hard. but you can really get a girl lusting for you with good foreplay. Some women orgasm easily from this position. for instance. and again the shock of suddenly maximal skin-to-skin contact sends waves of delight through her body.. Doggy style causes the vagina to tighten.. penis still inside her.. or grabbing a fistful of their hair (easiest when having sex from behind) and yanking it backwards. as are slapping her buttocks or breasts during sex.  Taking her to the point of orgasm . so I use this only sporadically. Just stop thrusting and relax. the higher the enjoyment. and once she's acclimated to that position. because cutting off the oxygen flow to the brain heightens the sensation of climaxing. then had to stop because I was about to finish before she was..but not taking her over.get the proper angle. even though I've had a few girls request it. but I personally won't touch this one myself. The difference in sensation is huge. I'm a "let's get to it" kind of guy who doesn't enjoy foreplay a whole lot.. switching from adapted missionary over to sex from behind. however.  Using foreplay to heighten anticipation / enjoyment.e. the more explosive it is for her when you finally slip inside and go to work on her.the more of your body touching hers. then had to stop again.  Switching up sensations. but can also lead to chafing if you stay in the position for more than 5 to 10 minutes and are having hard.. before we finally were able to get alone and get to it. Some of the most powerful orgasms I've generated in women have come after extended period of foreplay . I was a "break taker" by necessity while getting good at sex. I mentioned that one of these sex fundamentals is that you maximize skin-to-skin contact . while others do not.there are enough other ways to heighten her enjoyment that you probably don't need to risk giving her an aneurism. you can turn her on her back again and go back to adapted missionary.things like biting them (lightly). One thing you can do for variety during the act that heightens pleasure by way of contrast .g. then started up again once I'd calmed down a bit. rough sex without lubrication . just shy of her orgasming. A surprising number of women really enjoy rough sex . What I noticed.. and spikes her pleasure.hair pulling. Hair pulling and biting are great though.

. Great sex turns lionesses into kittens. the key to a woman's is through her vagina. excitement. then not letting her orgasm. falling crazy in love. Check out the article on sex logistics for more on where and how to make this happen. it can get to the point where you start NOT wanting to be too good in bed. When I was still drunk off the amazing power of adapted missionary and telling my guy friends to try it out on girls. However.. then bringing her to the point of orgasming again. He didn't want them getting addicted. it can be very exciting and pleasurable for many women. if you're feeling frisky and ambitious) in concert together. just like what we talked about when we talked about horny girls.. just good enough to keep women coming back. because he didn't want the sex to be TOO good. but if you have it in public.. How Important is Good Sex? Great sex is the key to your romantic relationships. amazing. will see.a girl seems like a total independent hard case. That's up to your discretion.akin to what you'd get with some pretty good foreplay.all of this build up. unemotional people. but a few rounds of screaming orgasms later and she's looking at you with doe eyes and little hearts swimming around above her head. You can have even mediocre sex. because of the uncertainty. and who.. one of my more experienced friends at the time told me he didn't need it.. the orgasms she'd experience were tremendously powerful . This bringing her to the point of orgasming. each of these tactics will up her enjoyment . then not letting her orgasm. You can use some of these. or a bunch of these (or maybe ALL of these. if they'll get in trouble. In fact. and anticipation of not knowing if they'll be caught. so women don't get too addicted (and then hurt). Every girl I've given strong. hard multiple orgasms to in any kind of relationship capacity has fallen very quickly in love with me. It's almost to the point where it's become ridiculous . or you can use them one at a time. and becomingdrama-causers. even women who'd never been in love with anyone before and were otherwise very rational..  Sex in public.and her perceptions of you as a talented. then finally bringing her there really makes the effect much more potent. if anyone. top-caliber lover. If the key to a man's heart is through his stomach.

Use it well.give them the night of their lives. unless you want to turn a cool-headed sometimes-lover into a jealously possessive head-overheels in love kind of gal. use the ability to make a girl orgasm with caution. But. and use it responsibly ...So. One-night stands are fine . Chase Amante .. I'd suggest you refrain from blowing the minds of your casual relationship partners. And long-term relationships are good they'll never be with anyone as amazing as you.. Great power? Great responsibility. Yours.

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