Make Her Orgasm Hard from Sex in 8 Minutes or Less

by Chase Amante
Friday, 17 May 2013

I've had men ask me to write about my methods on how to make a girl orgasm since 2007, when I first mentioned the results I get with sex online... and I've always declined to write them. I didn't mind sharing what I did to pick up a girl. That's just a process. But sex... that's an experience. And I've somewhat jealously guarded how to create the kind of experience I like creating for women through sex.

If everybody else knows how to do what I know how to do in the sack. no matter how simply you present it to him. if it requires even a little bit of work. I gradually cut this down to about 5 to 10 minutes or so. it will change sex. no matter how clear you make something for someone. And right away.and a little bit of work. I was stacking powerful multiple orgasms from penetrative vaginal sex. on average.... I laughed at that. all those rip-roaring orgasms I just gave her aren't really anything all that special.. and multiple times. women. Efficient to execute. I'm going to share with you how you can make girls orgasm hard. well. All those other guys out there were talking about giving girls orgasms with their hands or mouths. I was able to give girls relatively hard orgasms within 10 or 15 minutes... 2. because sex is the great differentiator. I was giving them orgasms with ME. But most men are never going to bother. But what I've realized over the years is. . Powerfully effective.My goals with sex were the same as my goals with seduction: sex to me should be 1. And I didn't want to talk about it. and 3. using nothing but your member . Easy to do Once I started working on getting sex down as a skill. fears of getting out-competed by men using my own techniques against me set aside. one after another .. fast.. she can go get that from anybody. most men are unlikely to ever use it. and relationships for you forever. So.the holy grail of sex performance for most men. If you use these techniques with the women you sleep with.

So here's what you need to understand about sex that virtually nobody tells you (because virtually nobody is aware) and that makes all the difference between being okay at sex and being rock star good in bed. about how sex is something you're supposed to work through or talk about with your partner or whatnot. and from what I could tell from looking at people's actual relationships. I never put much credence in the things people say though. I knew. Most of the sex fundamentals I learned as a teenager without ever having sex.make these things a breeze. Sex Fundamentals Just like attractiveness and seduction have certain underlying fundamentals that . With a good grasp of the theory. then I REALLY wanted to make sure she didn't ever want to leave. so that you understand a) WHY we're doing things a certain way. but the bond between too people is more important. you wind up not needing a whole lot else. and how to change courses and improvise on the fly when you find yourself in novel situations I haven't discussed in an article. . so too does sex.I usually like to start off articles like this with some theory. More specifically. Lots of orgasms.if you're hitting these notes right . I heard a lot of things growing up. and it's important. One of the keys to this. was sex. and I figured if I ever got a girl I really liked. I was trapped by my own social phobia without friends and without girlfriends or lovers. sex seemed to be all-important. giving a girl orgasms. At the time. and not another way. and b) how to improve on them yourself.

The stuff I was reading about the "G-spot" was a bit too complicated for me. the clitoris was outside and above the vagina.. and much less clinical. in fact... I learned how to give women orgasms manually. it seemed to be THE most important thing there was. But most of all. You need both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. and anally. What I was reading again and again and again was that women wished more men would stimulate their clitoris during sex. I studied. Physical contact is best maximized.In fact. Or. she'd soon be gone. and angrily called me a liar for telling her I was inexperienced.. and never really trusted me after that "lie. I knew I needed to simulate passion.. Yet. and I didn't want to be just using my hand or my mouth. as soon as I got going.. Women had the most exciting. This makes the sex much more personal. I learned these so well. but if he couldn't perform. because . I eventually decided that. she orgasmed quickly. I am one of the most dispassionate individuals you will meet. and increases the release of pleasure and bonding hormones that occurs with skin contact between a man and a woman. she'd keep coming back for more. She never believed me that I'd never done it before. she told me no one gets that good from watching a video. orally. and so many men were ignorant of this. Passion is key. Sex is every bit as much a mental and emotional experience as it is a physical one.. Ricardus talks about it fairly in-depth in his article on how to be a good lover. and it does seem to be pretty useful). but if he gave her incredible sex. 2. I wanted to land on my feet as quickly as possible. but incredible at it. these were the fundamentals of sex: 1." I told her I'd just watched a video on giving oral sex. I studied how to give women orgasms vaginally... and eventually learn it for real. she might think a guy was the most wonderful fellow in the world. based on everything I'd studied and read. and by nature. though. So. A woman could HATE a guy. I couldn't really figure out where it was or what to do with it (in fact. I've never really sat down to figure this out. that the first time I ever gave a girl oral sex..getting your skin contacting as much of her skin as possible. 3... fulfilling experiences with passionate men. Another thing I suspected was extremely important was maximizing physical contact . off in the arms of another man who could. I needed to be not just good at sex.

sometimes . I do use foreplay .. You must know what you're doing.. 5. you can go in with no foreplay and still have her cumming hard in minutes. Hidden deep within the tomes I was reading on sex. and while they enjoy men who give them orgasms with other parts of their bodies . she wants to be able to just relax. Rhythm was why women found men who danced well sexy and suspected they'd be good in bed . A woman wants to feel like you know her body better than she does. once you get there she'll be having so much pleasure she's not going to care if you didn't tease her for 15 minutes first. I also read about how important foreplay was .4. I further learned that women enter a trance-like state during good. enjoy the ride. hands. Penetrative sex is REAL sex. and tell her what to do / move her around dominantly and confidently and self-assuredly. I discovered an emphasis on rhythm that seemed largely devoid from much of the lighter and more mainstream sex advice stuff I perused.but I didn't consider that a fundamental. not your tongue / fingers. . 6.and it was also why once a girl went black she didn't go back. "Is this okay?" or. Dominance is mandatory. because my belief was that if you're incredible at penetrative sex. If you want to maintain a woman's respect and attraction at the uppermost levels . and doing things like gripping and pulling her hair (when behind her).these men aren't real men the way men who make women cum with their penises are. sex toys . I learned that asking her.. like using your voice during sex.on average . not asked.on average .if I want to build up a girl's anticipation and get her cumming faster and harder than she would without it..and prevent them from ever climaxing. But it's certainly not mandatory. smacking her butt.and in my mind. Women want to be taken. "Was that good for you?" are big no-nos that make you seem inexperienced and like you don't know what you're doing. etc. The men shifting around and thrusting arrhythmically prevent women from ever entering this trance . that's the #1 reason to bother giving her orgasms at all in the first place . Women know this. If you know what you're doing in bed. and let you do what you know how to do so well without having to worry or think about anything other than how good it feels and how good you are. rhythmic sex. and know what's best for her better than she does. Just like she's not really your girlfriend if you're not having sex with her. too. white men .had rhythm.you need to be making her cum with your penis. Black men . Rhythm is non-negotiable. that is necessary for and precedes orgasm.tongues. fingers.did not. There were other things I found that were useful and important. it's not really sex if your penis isn't in her.

"The best ever?" She didn't answer. because if I knew if I chased her I was done for sure." Like a dork. except rarely (and weakly) I was getting tired fairly easily (even though I worked out) The sex was boring enough that women would sometimes start talking to me during it . on the last night of the trip. she just came hard again..hard. But she still disliked me and thought I was no good (I was going a little too far with the bad boy image then and hadn't learned how to balance it right). I started grinning. and give her both clitoral and vaginal stimulation at the same time. she achieved climax . . I asked. maintain better rhythm. I was pretty average at sex. who'd earlier decided she wanted nothing to do with me..all right in a row . "I think you are the best. I'd come up with an idea that would hopefully let me last longer without getting tired. Then she came again. I ran into fairly normal guy problems like:    Girls weren't climaxing with me. I shrugged this off. and told me there was zero chance of us having a relationship or seeing each other after we got back from the trip.Delivering the Goods At first. and I'd managed to sleep with her while on a tour overseas with a bunch of other people. with her turned on and lustily grasping at me as we rode around town in a taxicab. I couldn't believe it.. and decided to try something new. and 10 minutes into sex. So. I'd managed to pull off a remarkable turnaround with a gorgeous girl I'd wanted to make my girlfriend. I finally got her back to the hotel. Except. but then one day I needed to pull off a miracle.and the only thing I could think that could possibly do it was sex.she breathlessly said.. But I knew I needed to give her a reason to keep seeing me after our return if I wanted her as a girlfriend . And kept going. trying to seem nonchalant. I tried it out on her.. I was pretty ordinary at sex.. After the fourth orgasm . Then again. Then again.

How to Make a Girl Orgasm. she was screaming so hard I literally thought she was going to start crying. the first friend of mine who tried it out. usually on the first try. Hard and Fast I don't know if there's a common name for this sex position. And then again.she yelled.he didn't know I was there . In fact." and it looks very much like this: .I call it "adapted missionary. I forget what it was called there.by this point. I've had one person show me something that described the same position. Here's the position .And then again. Well nigh everyone I've asked to try it out has reported having his girls orgasm off of it. "I don't think I can LEAVE you!" and I knew I'd done it. After the seventh orgasm . in the years I've shared it with close friends. I was hanging out in the other bedroom in his house when he did . I've never seen it anywhere else.and I listened to him make a girl scream at the top of her lungs for five minutes. and I was afraid the hotel staff would break down the door thinking her limbs were being sawn off . She came two more times. We ended up dating for 2½ years after that. We'd been having sex for only 15 or 20 minutes. and then I finished.

this is a pretty tiring position .it takes a lot of work to hold yourself up that much! When you're supporting yourself with your forearms and elbows instead though. it allows for deeper penetration.you're going right in. This also allows you to maintain much more control over your bodily motions. in adapted missionary your body is on top of hers. Unlike ordinary missionary. That's because this position gives you a very "clean" angle of entry into a woman's vagina . creating a much more intimate experience. Forearm and elbow support. making it significantly easier to keep a steady thrusting rhythm. which means less pressure on your penis shaft.The only difference between the position itself and the picture above is that normally you'll have your hands not holding her hands but holding her shoulders from underneath. Here's how this differs from an ordinary missionary position: 1. and a bit less pleasure for you. Ordinary missionary position entails a man raised up above the woman's body. you tire out much more slowly . The one "complaint" I've had from friends who've tried this position out is that they enjoyed the sex somewhat less. Altered thrust angle. which means you more easily reach the back wall of her . On the other hand. 2. For obvious reasons. and prompting the release of more pleasure and bonding chemicals in her brain.and can last far longer. supported by his hands and wrists. increasing her enjoyment. where you're holding yourself above the girl. 3. Full body contact. with little in the way.

Because of the position your body is in. where her clitoris gets virtually no stimulation. you'll know how to make a girl orgasm like no one else she's ever met. and is pretty exciting for her too. . when they're excited. but pull her downwardas well. Rather than an up and down motion. 4. in adapted missionary this back and forth rubs her clitoris constantly.stimulating her clitoris in the process. You can feel the difference just by letting go of her shoulders and thrusting.everything else is automatic. like you'd have with a standard missionary position. Orgasms happen for me with this position with most girls within 8 to 10 minutes. or ever will meet. but once you've got it down. you'll want to thrust into her harder while maintaining the same rhythm. to hit the back wall of her vagina harder and to rub her clitoris harder. 5. Rhythm ends up being the only thing you need to concentrate on . This roughly doubles the strength you can thrust with. your pelvis slides back and forth against hers . Pelvic rubbing and clitoral stimulation. you're able to not just thrust forward. Big difference in power. Because your hands are wrapped around her shoulders from behind and underneath.and vaginal back wall stimulation is how you trigger the most powerful vaginal orgasms. Shoulder grip for added oomph.. As you get closer to orgasm. expect four to six months of sex several times a week while concentrating on rhythm to get your rhythm down tight. short of rhythm. maximum often faster. and she likely won't climax every time.vagina with the end of your penis . then grasping them and thrusting. The neat thing about this position is that it takes care of everything for you. If you're starting off with standard white guy rhythm (that is to say. NO rhythm) like I was when I first began using this position. You'll struggle a bit at first..

Let's say you've got adapted missionary down. talk about how to make a girl orgasm with them. I want to show you a couple of other sex positions that you may or may not have seen before. but with a girl's knees crooked over your shoulders. and review a few more tips that are generally going to make you better at sex and more adept at giving a fulfilling sexual experience to girls. Tips on this one: . and now you want to find more ways to make your girl climax hard and fast. This one gives you great. especially if you have a longer penis. Legs Over Shoulders One of the better positions for deep penetration in a girl is this one: You can do this similar to missionary.which you may find is too much at the start of sex. deep penetration . What else is there out there? In this section.

but you'll often find you can't use it until your girl starts getting reasonably close to climax. The more you bend down over the girl (and the closer you bend her knees back towards her chest). too Some women enjoy this position more than adapted missionary. the deeper the penetration you'll get with her. and the more exciting the position becomes because of the strain you're putting on her legs If you have a large/long penis.it depends on the girl. if you've already given her a few orgasms in another position. You may also sometimes find that while she'll have really powerful. or else she finds this position too uncomfortable she'll complain or pain or discomfort in her lower abdomen (that's you pushing too hard on her vaginal back wall). others less so .   Pelvis Hoist I first got really interested in this position after watching the scene in the immortal classic Showgirls where Elizabeth Berkley straddles Kyle MacLachlan in the pool: . Or. she'll also be pretty sore after cumming this way. and see which one you get more miles out of Legs-over-shoulders is typically best as a "finishing move" . shift her into this position to make her cum harder.once she starts getting close to orgasm. try this one out. exciting orgasms. switch her into this one to keep the orgasms flowing by stimulating her in a newer and more powerful way. Try both with her.

unlike adapted missionary. it's certainly good exercise). grasped my girls buttocks. I raised up on my knees out of adapted missionary... I started thrusting hard. with a can of Red Bull to boot. and she was cumming in minutes. Tips for maximizing the experience:  If you need to up your own excitement. The next time I was having sex. Don't expect to do it for long unless you're in fantastic shape (on the plus side. this position is that. I improvised. So. "Let ME try that".. and hoisted her pelvis up into the air. Then. This has since become one of my favorite positions for blowing girls minds but. holding her pelvis up with one of my hands beneath each of her glutes. you can use your other hand to slap her clitoris or rub it.I saw that and said. You'll see guys talking about shagging girls with pillows under their butts. watch yourself thrusting into and out of her. but I could do my best to hold her up.. It's a lot more visually stimulating when you see your penis in her vagina If you don't mind the strain of holding her lower body up with one hand for a moment. on steroids. this one is HARD and WILL tire you out. but then I realized I didn't have a pool handy. both very enjoyable for her  . I couldn't make a girl float without water.

 Teasing around her anus. enjoyment-wise. and women tend to find it pretty exciting. but you need the right angle for this . and you can increase a girl's excitement levels (and proximity to orgasm) by playing around near and in it. "Your pussy feels so good. Sex from behind can be a very solid option for getting orgasms. The combination of your thumb in her anus and your penis thrusting into and out of her vagina will drive her wild.. you can ping her with a. ask her to support her lower body with her toes. that's perfect. if she's much shorter than you. too.?" thread on the discussion boards)." as you thrust into her (said in a very sexy voice. Just as she seems to be peaking. When you're having sex with a girl from behind (doggy style).. powerful multiple orgasms in women much more of a snap than it was before you started using them:  Syncing up sensation.if she's around your height. and she'll like it. and she'll love it. more general sex tips that will make generating quick. but it's so much work for you that you shouldn't expect to get a great deal of personal satisfaction out of it yourself. The anus is a very sensitive part of the body. you can run your hand along her inner buttocks. More Sex Tips to Make a Girl Orgasm Loads Here.  Dirty talk on the high points. Focus on maximizing your own sensation.." or. use your thumb to start dipping into and out of her anus. I'm not much of a talker during sex usually (although I did mention one use for this when a girl's been giving you trouble in the " Am I still. of course) and watch/listen to her peak higher. this one does the trick.  Sex from behind / doggy style. and you maximize hers. it tends to get the most physically pleasurable reaction out of your partner. However. Thrust one way. but one time I do enjoy using it is in amplifying a girl's pleasure and helping her achieve orgasm more quickly on the high points. or have her prop her butt up with her hands beneath it and elbows on the bed This position's a lot of fun. One of the secrets of sex I realized sometime back was that when you do what feels physically best for your penis during sex. Use beds / sofas to try and . thrust another way that feels better for you. if you really want to show a girl you know what you're doing in bed and can give it to her in very novel and pleasurable ways. you'll have a harder time with this one. "You love my hard cock inside of you. If you start getting winded but want to continue in this position. just near her anus. and if you really want to drive her hard. and stick it in and play around a bit..

just shy of her orgasming. The difference in sensation is huge. hard. What I noticed. while others do not. Just stop thrusting and relax. biting. before we finally were able to get alone and get to it.. When I discussed the sex fundamentals above..  Using foreplay to heighten anticipation / enjoyment. the higher the enjoyment. to stop myself from cumming too quickly or to take a break if I started feeling a little tired. because cutting off the oxygen flow to the brain heightens the sensation of climaxing. and again the shock of suddenly maximal skin-to-skin contact sends waves of delight through her body. Some of the most powerful orgasms I've generated in women have come after extended period of foreplay . switching from adapted missionary over to sex from behind. you can turn her on her back again and go back to adapted missionary.is going from a very high contact position to a minimal contact position. so I use this only sporadically. I was a "break taker" by necessity while getting good at sex. One thing you can do for variety during the act that heightens pleasure by way of contrast . and then taking your hands off her completely so that the only part of your body she's touching at all is your penis in her vagina (and your hips against her buttocks when you thrust forward into her). riding around in the back of a taxi making out and teasing her sexually.  Rough sex .. which is good..  Taking her to the point of orgasm . but can also lead to chafing if you stay in the position for more than 5 to 10 minutes and are having hard. Some of the roughest enjoyable sex can be choking. for instance. however. too. then had to stop because I was about to finish before she was. because a few people die from this every year in freak accidents . and spikes her pleasure..the more of your body touching hers. rough sex without lubrication . as are slapping her buttocks or breasts during sex.hair pulling. but you can really get a girl lusting for you with good foreplay. the more explosive it is for her when you finally slip inside and go to work on her.things like biting them (lightly). or grabbing a fistful of their hair (easiest when having sex from behind) and yanking it backwards.. and once she's acclimated to that position. Hair pulling and biting are great though.but not taking her over.there are enough other ways to heighten her enjoyment that you probably don't need to risk giving her an aneurism. was that if I routinely got a girl just to the point of climaxing. then had to stop again.so have a bottle of lubricant or petroleum jelly handy just in case.e. I'm a "let's get to it" kind of guy who doesn't enjoy foreplay a whole lot. but I personally won't touch this one myself. A surprising number of women really enjoy rough sex . I mentioned that one of these sex fundamentals is that you maximize skin-to-skin contact .  Switching up sensations. then finally brought her to orgasm after . etc. penis still inside her.get the proper angle. even though I've had a few girls request it. The more you build her anticipation of the act.. then started up again once I'd calmed down a bit.. Some women orgasm easily from this position. Doggy style causes the vagina to tighten.g.

it can be very exciting and pleasurable for many women.  Sex in public. hard multiple orgasms to in any kind of relationship capacity has fallen very quickly in love with me.. because of the uncertainty.. because he didn't want the sex to be TOO good. You can use some of these. then bringing her to the point of orgasming again. However.all of this build up. Great sex turns lionesses into kittens. It's almost to the point where it's become ridiculous .a girl seems like a total independent hard case. excitement. each of these tactics will up her enjoyment . This bringing her to the point of orgasming. and anticipation of not knowing if they'll be caught. just like what we talked about when we talked about horny girls. but if you have it in public. He didn't want them getting addicted. Every girl I've given strong. That's up to your discretion. if they'll get in trouble.and her perceptions of you as a talented. and who. the key to a woman's is through her vagina. You can have even mediocre sex. it can get to the point where you start NOT wanting to be too good in bed. just good enough to keep women coming back. . amazing.. falling crazy in love. If the key to a man's heart is through his stomach. the orgasms she'd experience were tremendously powerful . but a few rounds of screaming orgasms later and she's looking at you with doe eyes and little hearts swimming around above her head. and becomingdrama-causers.. In fact.. or you can use them one at a time. so women don't get too addicted (and then hurt). will see. When I was still drunk off the amazing power of adapted missionary and telling my guy friends to try it out on girls. then not letting her orgasm. How Important is Good Sex? Great sex is the key to your romantic relationships. or a bunch of these (or maybe ALL of these.. then not letting her orgasm. then finally bringing her there really makes the effect much more potent. top-caliber lover. even women who'd never been in love with anyone before and were otherwise very rational. if anyone. unemotional people.akin to what you'd get with some pretty good foreplay. if you're feeling frisky and ambitious) in concert together. one of my more experienced friends at the time told me he didn't need it. Check out the article on sex logistics for more on where and how to make this happen.

Use it well. One-night stands are fine . But. Yours.. unless you want to turn a cool-headed sometimes-lover into a jealously possessive head-overheels in love kind of gal. Chase Amante .So. I'd suggest you refrain from blowing the minds of your casual relationship partners... Great power? Great responsibility. and use it responsibly . use the ability to make a girl orgasm with caution.give them the night of their lives.. And long-term relationships are good they'll never be with anyone as amazing as you.

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