Make Her Orgasm Hard from Sex in 8 Minutes or Less

by Chase Amante
Friday, 17 May 2013

I've had men ask me to write about my methods on how to make a girl orgasm since 2007, when I first mentioned the results I get with sex online... and I've always declined to write them. I didn't mind sharing what I did to pick up a girl. That's just a process. But sex... that's an experience. And I've somewhat jealously guarded how to create the kind of experience I like creating for women through sex.

And I didn't want to talk about it. I was stacking powerful multiple orgasms from penetrative vaginal sex. Easy to do Once I started working on getting sex down as a skill. she can go get that from anybody.. using nothing but your member . All those other guys out there were talking about giving girls orgasms with their hands or mouths. I'm going to share with you how you can make girls orgasm hard. and multiple times. fast.. if it requires even a little bit of work.. If you use these techniques with the women you sleep with. all those rip-roaring orgasms I just gave her aren't really anything all that special.. no matter how clear you make something for someone. well.. So. most men are unlikely to ever use it. and 3. no matter how simply you present it to him.and a little bit of work. I was able to give girls relatively hard orgasms within 10 or 15 minutes.. If everybody else knows how to do what I know how to do in the sack.My goals with sex were the same as my goals with seduction: sex to me should be 1. fears of getting out-competed by men using my own techniques against me set aside. But most men are never going to bother.. 2.the holy grail of sex performance for most men. on average. women. But what I've realized over the years is. Powerfully effective. it will change sex. one after another . . I laughed at that. I was giving them orgasms with ME.. because sex is the great differentiator. Efficient to execute. And right away. I gradually cut this down to about 5 to 10 minutes or so. and relationships for you forever.

I usually like to start off articles like this with some theory. At the time. sex seemed to be all-important. I knew. then I REALLY wanted to make sure she didn't ever want to leave. and I figured if I ever got a girl I really liked.make these things a breeze. was sex. I never put much credence in the things people say though. giving a girl orgasms. With a good grasp of the theory. So here's what you need to understand about sex that virtually nobody tells you (because virtually nobody is aware) and that makes all the difference between being okay at sex and being rock star good in bed. you wind up not needing a whole lot else. and from what I could tell from looking at people's actual relationships. I heard a lot of things growing up. so too does sex. and not another way. Lots of orgasms. and how to change courses and improvise on the fly when you find yourself in novel situations I haven't discussed in an article. Most of the sex fundamentals I learned as a teenager without ever having sex. and it's important. so that you understand a) WHY we're doing things a certain way. One of the keys to this. but the bond between too people is more important. Sex Fundamentals Just like attractiveness and seduction have certain underlying fundamentals that . I was trapped by my own social phobia without friends and without girlfriends or lovers.if you're hitting these notes right . about how sex is something you're supposed to work through or talk about with your partner or whatnot. and b) how to improve on them yourself. . More specifically.

fulfilling experiences with passionate men. these were the fundamentals of sex: 1. she told me no one gets that good from watching a video.. I studied. she might think a guy was the most wonderful fellow in the world. that the first time I ever gave a girl oral sex. I needed to be not just good at sex. I studied how to give women orgasms vaginally.. because . she'd keep coming back for more. Ricardus talks about it fairly in-depth in his article on how to be a good lover. and angrily called me a liar for telling her I was inexperienced. and never really trusted me after that "lie. So." I told her I'd just watched a video on giving oral sex.. I couldn't really figure out where it was or what to do with it (in fact. The stuff I was reading about the "G-spot" was a bit too complicated for me. but if he couldn't perform.. What I was reading again and again and again was that women wished more men would stimulate their clitoris during sex. and increases the release of pleasure and bonding hormones that occurs with skin contact between a man and a woman. and eventually learn it for real. 2. I knew I needed to simulate passion. I learned these so well.. in fact. and anally.. though. I learned how to give women orgasms manually. Another thing I suspected was extremely important was maximizing physical contact . off in the arms of another man who could.. 3. This makes the sex much more personal. but incredible at it. But most of all..In fact. I am one of the most dispassionate individuals you will meet. as soon as I got going. and much less clinical. orally. I wanted to land on my feet as quickly as possible. she'd soon be gone.. the clitoris was outside and above the vagina. Sex is every bit as much a mental and emotional experience as it is a physical one. and so many men were ignorant of this. and by nature. I eventually decided that. but if he gave her incredible sex. You need both clitoral and vaginal stimulation.. Or. I've never really sat down to figure this out. A woman could HATE a guy. it seemed to be THE most important thing there was. based on everything I'd studied and read... Passion is key. and I didn't want to be just using my hand or my mouth. Yet. and it does seem to be pretty useful).getting your skin contacting as much of her skin as possible. Physical contact is best maximized. Women had the most exciting. she orgasmed quickly. She never believed me that I'd never done it before.

smacking her butt.tongues. rhythmic sex.4. enjoy the ride. If you know what you're doing in bed. I do use foreplay .on average . too. and let you do what you know how to do so well without having to worry or think about anything other than how good it feels and how good you are. . Rhythm was why women found men who danced well sexy and suspected they'd be good in bed .. 6. not asked. fingers. There were other things I found that were useful and important. Dominance is mandatory. I also read about how important foreplay was . Just like she's not really your girlfriend if you're not having sex with her..did not. that is necessary for and precedes orgasm. and know what's best for her better than she does. 5.but I didn't consider that a fundamental. A woman wants to feel like you know her body better than she does. it's not really sex if your penis isn't in her. you can go in with no foreplay and still have her cumming hard in minutes. Rhythm is non-negotiable. Women know this.and prevent them from ever climaxing. "Is this okay?" or. sex toys . Women want to be taken. hands.you need to be making her cum with your penis. You must know what you're doing. once you get there she'll be having so much pleasure she's not going to care if you didn't tease her for 15 minutes first. Hidden deep within the tomes I was reading on sex.these men aren't real men the way men who make women cum with their penises are.on average . and doing things like gripping and pulling her hair (when behind her). that's the #1 reason to bother giving her orgasms at all in the first place . If you want to maintain a woman's respect and attraction at the uppermost levels .and it was also why once a girl went black she didn't go back. But it's certainly not mandatory. "Was that good for you?" are big no-nos that make you seem inexperienced and like you don't know what you're doing. not your tongue / fingers. etc. I discovered an emphasis on rhythm that seemed largely devoid from much of the lighter and more mainstream sex advice stuff I perused. white men .and in my mind. and while they enjoy men who give them orgasms with other parts of their bodies . because my belief was that if you're incredible at penetrative sex. Black men .. like using your voice during sex. she wants to be able to just relax. and tell her what to do / move her around dominantly and confidently and self-assuredly. The men shifting around and thrusting arrhythmically prevent women from ever entering this trance .sometimes . I learned that asking her.had rhythm.if I want to build up a girl's anticipation and get her cumming faster and harder than she would without it. I further learned that women enter a trance-like state during good. Penetrative sex is REAL sex..

I asked. and I'd managed to sleep with her while on a tour overseas with a bunch of other people. And kept going.she breathlessly said. Then she came again. except rarely (and weakly) I was getting tired fairly easily (even though I worked out) The sex was boring enough that women would sometimes start talking to me during it . Then again. but then one day I needed to pull off a miracle. I'd managed to pull off a remarkable turnaround with a gorgeous girl I'd wanted to make my girlfriend.. "I think you are the best. I couldn't believe it. I tried it out on her.. But I knew I needed to give her a reason to keep seeing me after our return if I wanted her as a girlfriend . who'd earlier decided she wanted nothing to do with me. trying to seem nonchalant.and the only thing I could think that could possibly do it was sex.. But she still disliked me and thought I was no good (I was going a little too far with the bad boy image then and hadn't learned how to balance it right). I shrugged this off. After the fourth orgasm ..Delivering the Goods At first. with her turned on and lustily grasping at me as we rode around town in a taxicab. Except.hard. Then again. I was pretty ordinary at sex. she achieved climax . I started grinning. she just came hard again. and 10 minutes into sex. I finally got her back to the hotel. . So. and decided to try something new. and told me there was zero chance of us having a relationship or seeing each other after we got back from the trip. I ran into fairly normal guy problems like:    Girls weren't climaxing with me." Like a dork. I was pretty average at sex... because if I knew if I chased her I was done for sure. maintain better rhythm. and give her both clitoral and vaginal stimulation at the same time. "The best ever?" She didn't answer.all right in a row . on the last night of the trip. I'd come up with an idea that would hopefully let me last longer without getting tired.

How to Make a Girl Orgasm." and it looks very much like this: .by this point. I've never seen it anywhere else. She came two more times. the first friend of mine who tried it out. Hard and Fast I don't know if there's a common name for this sex position. Here's the position . she was screaming so hard I literally thought she was going to start crying. We ended up dating for 2½ years after that. I was hanging out in the other bedroom in his house when he did . Well nigh everyone I've asked to try it out has reported having his girls orgasm off of it.and I listened to him make a girl scream at the top of her lungs for five minutes. After the seventh orgasm . and I was afraid the hotel staff would break down the door thinking her limbs were being sawn off . In fact. And then again. "I don't think I can LEAVE you!" and I knew I'd done it.he didn't know I was there .I call it "adapted missionary. in the years I've shared it with close friends.And then again.she yelled. usually on the first try. I forget what it was called there. and then I finished. I've had one person show me something that described the same position. We'd been having sex for only 15 or 20 minutes.

it takes a lot of work to hold yourself up that much! When you're supporting yourself with your forearms and elbows instead though. Full body contact. making it significantly easier to keep a steady thrusting rhythm. increasing her enjoyment.The only difference between the position itself and the picture above is that normally you'll have your hands not holding her hands but holding her shoulders from underneath.and can last far longer. Unlike ordinary missionary. creating a much more intimate experience. Here's how this differs from an ordinary missionary position: 1. For obvious reasons. in adapted missionary your body is on top of hers. Altered thrust angle. supported by his hands and wrists. which means less pressure on your penis shaft. This also allows you to maintain much more control over your bodily motions. and a bit less pleasure for you. where you're holding yourself above the girl. 3. with little in the way. which means you more easily reach the back wall of her . That's because this position gives you a very "clean" angle of entry into a woman's vagina . this is a pretty tiring position . The one "complaint" I've had from friends who've tried this position out is that they enjoyed the sex somewhat less. Ordinary missionary position entails a man raised up above the woman's body. On the other hand. it allows for deeper penetration. 2.you're going right in. you tire out much more slowly . Forearm and elbow support. and prompting the release of more pleasure and bonding chemicals in her brain.

to hit the back wall of her vagina harder and to rub her clitoris harder. and is pretty exciting for her too. expect four to six months of sex several times a week while concentrating on rhythm to get your rhythm down tight. NO rhythm) like I was when I first began using this position. where her clitoris gets virtually no stimulation. Rhythm ends up being the only thing you need to concentrate on . you'll want to thrust into her harder while maintaining the same rhythm. like you'd have with a standard missionary position. Shoulder grip for added oomph. Because of the position your body is in. . You can feel the difference just by letting go of her shoulders and thrusting. Rather than an up and down motion. Big difference in power..and vaginal back wall stimulation is how you trigger the most powerful vaginal orgasms. in adapted missionary this back and forth rubs her clitoris constantly.stimulating her clitoris in the process. or ever will meet. maximum often faster. Because your hands are wrapped around her shoulders from behind and underneath. then grasping them and thrusting. 4. If you're starting off with standard white guy rhythm (that is to say. As you get closer to orgasm.. 5. and she likely won't climax every time. but pull her downwardas well.everything else is automatic. The neat thing about this position is that it takes care of everything for you. you're able to not just thrust forward. but once you've got it down. This roughly doubles the strength you can thrust with. when they're excited. short of rhythm. you'll know how to make a girl orgasm like no one else she's ever met. Orgasms happen for me with this position with most girls within 8 to 10 minutes. your pelvis slides back and forth against hers . You'll struggle a bit at first.vagina with the end of your penis . Pelvic rubbing and clitoral stimulation.

which you may find is too much at the start of sex. What else is there out there? In this section. Legs Over Shoulders One of the better positions for deep penetration in a girl is this one: You can do this similar to missionary. and review a few more tips that are generally going to make you better at sex and more adept at giving a fulfilling sexual experience to girls. Tips on this one: .Let's say you've got adapted missionary down. deep penetration . and now you want to find more ways to make your girl climax hard and fast. but with a girl's knees crooked over your shoulders. I want to show you a couple of other sex positions that you may or may not have seen before. This one gives you great. especially if you have a longer penis. talk about how to make a girl orgasm with them.

too Some women enjoy this position more than adapted missionary. shift her into this position to make her cum harder.once she starts getting close to orgasm. Or. or else she finds this position too uncomfortable she'll complain or pain or discomfort in her lower abdomen (that's you pushing too hard on her vaginal back wall). and the more exciting the position becomes because of the strain you're putting on her legs If you have a large/long penis. but you'll often find you can't use it until your girl starts getting reasonably close to climax.it depends on the girl. the deeper the penetration you'll get with her. switch her into this one to keep the orgasms flowing by stimulating her in a newer and more powerful way. Try both with her. if you've already given her a few orgasms in another position.   Pelvis Hoist I first got really interested in this position after watching the scene in the immortal classic Showgirls where Elizabeth Berkley straddles Kyle MacLachlan in the pool: . try this one out. The more you bend down over the girl (and the closer you bend her knees back towards her chest). she'll also be pretty sore after cumming this way. You may also sometimes find that while she'll have really powerful. others less so . exciting orgasms. and see which one you get more miles out of Legs-over-shoulders is typically best as a "finishing move" .

I raised up on my knees out of adapted missionary. I couldn't make a girl float without water.. unlike adapted missionary. The next time I was having sex. This has since become one of my favorite positions for blowing girls minds but. Then. you can use your other hand to slap her clitoris or rub it. this one is HARD and WILL tire you out. on steroids. holding her pelvis up with one of my hands beneath each of her glutes. but then I realized I didn't have a pool handy. and she was cumming in minutes. with a can of Red Bull to boot. it's certainly good exercise). So. this position is that. but I could do my best to hold her up. both very enjoyable for her  . Don't expect to do it for long unless you're in fantastic shape (on the plus side. I improvised. You'll see guys talking about shagging girls with pillows under their butts. and hoisted her pelvis up into the air.. Tips for maximizing the experience:  If you need to up your own excitement. watch yourself thrusting into and out of her. I started thrusting hard.I saw that and said... It's a lot more visually stimulating when you see your penis in her vagina If you don't mind the strain of holding her lower body up with one hand for a moment. grasped my girls buttocks. "Let ME try that".

and you maximize hers. and women tend to find it pretty exciting. When you're having sex with a girl from behind (doggy style). and if you really want to drive her hard. More Sex Tips to Make a Girl Orgasm Loads Here. "Your pussy feels so good. powerful multiple orgasms in women much more of a snap than it was before you started using them:  Syncing up sensation. you can run your hand along her inner buttocks. and she'll love it..?" thread on the discussion boards). If you start getting winded but want to continue in this position. ask her to support her lower body with her toes. "You love my hard cock inside of you. Just as she seems to be peaking." or.. The anus is a very sensitive part of the body. you'll have a harder time with this one. use your thumb to start dipping into and out of her anus. more general sex tips that will make generating quick. One of the secrets of sex I realized sometime back was that when you do what feels physically best for your penis during sex.  Dirty talk on the high points. The combination of your thumb in her anus and your penis thrusting into and out of her vagina will drive her wild." as you thrust into her (said in a very sexy voice. or have her prop her butt up with her hands beneath it and elbows on the bed This position's a lot of fun. you can ping her with a. thrust another way that feels better for you..  Sex from behind / doggy style. if you really want to show a girl you know what you're doing in bed and can give it to her in very novel and pleasurable ways. I'm not much of a talker during sex usually (although I did mention one use for this when a girl's been giving you trouble in the " Am I still. this one does the trick. Focus on maximizing your own sensation. but you need the right angle for this . but one time I do enjoy using it is in amplifying a girl's pleasure and helping her achieve orgasm more quickly on the high points. if she's much shorter than you.. too.  Teasing around her anus. but it's so much work for you that you shouldn't expect to get a great deal of personal satisfaction out of it yourself. and she'll like it. Sex from behind can be a very solid option for getting orgasms. just near her anus. However. that's perfect. it tends to get the most physically pleasurable reaction out of your partner. and stick it in and play around a bit. Use beds / sofas to try and . Thrust one way. enjoyment-wise. of course) and watch/listen to her peak higher. and you can increase a girl's excitement levels (and proximity to orgasm) by playing around near and in it.if she's around your height.

but you can really get a girl lusting for you with good foreplay. before we finally were able to get alone and get to it. and once she's acclimated to that position.things like biting them (lightly). I was a "break taker" by necessity while getting good at sex. to stop myself from cumming too quickly or to take a break if I started feeling a little tired.there are enough other ways to heighten her enjoyment that you probably don't need to risk giving her an aneurism. you can turn her on her back again and go back to adapted missionary. switching from adapted missionary over to sex from behind. while others do not. A surprising number of women really enjoy rough sex .. rough sex without lubrication . then had to stop because I was about to finish before she was.  Using foreplay to heighten anticipation / enjoyment. because a few people die from this every year in freak accidents .  Switching up sensations. for instance.. Hair pulling and biting are great though. even though I've had a few girls request it.. biting. or grabbing a fistful of their hair (easiest when having sex from behind) and yanking it backwards.so have a bottle of lubricant or petroleum jelly handy just in case. and spikes her pleasure. and then taking your hands off her completely so that the only part of your body she's touching at all is your penis in her vagina (and your hips against her buttocks when you thrust forward into her).get the proper angle.  Rough sex . Some of the roughest enjoyable sex can be choking.the more of your body touching hers. just shy of her orgasming. The more you build her anticipation of the act. I mentioned that one of these sex fundamentals is that you maximize skin-to-skin contact . which is good. Doggy style causes the vagina to tighten.. What I noticed. the higher the enjoyment.hair pulling. so I use this only sporadically.. When I discussed the sex fundamentals above. was that if I routinely got a girl just to the point of climaxing. The difference in sensation is huge. but I personally won't touch this one myself.but not taking her over. then finally brought her to orgasm after . because cutting off the oxygen flow to the brain heightens the sensation of climaxing. One thing you can do for variety during the act that heightens pleasure by way of contrast .. riding around in the back of a taxi making out and teasing her sexually.g.  Taking her to the point of orgasm . and again the shock of suddenly maximal skin-to-skin contact sends waves of delight through her body. Some women orgasm easily from this position.. I'm a "let's get to it" kind of guy who doesn't enjoy foreplay a whole lot. penis still inside her. then started up again once I'd calmed down a bit. Some of the most powerful orgasms I've generated in women have come after extended period of foreplay . etc.e. the more explosive it is for her when you finally slip inside and go to work on her..is going from a very high contact position to a minimal contact position. too. hard. then had to stop again. but can also lead to chafing if you stay in the position for more than 5 to 10 minutes and are having hard. Just stop thrusting and relax. as are slapping her buttocks or breasts during sex. however.

However.. then finally bringing her there really makes the effect much more potent. top-caliber lover. then bringing her to the point of orgasming again. How Important is Good Sex? Great sex is the key to your romantic relationships. so women don't get too addicted (and then hurt).a girl seems like a total independent hard case. then not letting her orgasm. or a bunch of these (or maybe ALL of these. You can have even mediocre sex. it can get to the point where you start NOT wanting to be too good in bed.all of this build up. and who. but a few rounds of screaming orgasms later and she's looking at you with doe eyes and little hearts swimming around above her head. or you can use them one at a time.. Check out the article on sex logistics for more on where and how to make this happen. and becomingdrama-causers. You can use some of these. if anyone. because of the uncertainty.and her perceptions of you as a talented. if they'll get in trouble. In fact. amazing. each of these tactics will up her enjoyment . will see. and anticipation of not knowing if they'll be caught. unemotional people.. hard multiple orgasms to in any kind of relationship capacity has fallen very quickly in love with me. falling crazy in love. even women who'd never been in love with anyone before and were otherwise very rational. . He didn't want them getting addicted. it can be very exciting and pleasurable for many women. because he didn't want the sex to be TOO good. one of my more experienced friends at the time told me he didn't need it. Every girl I've given strong. then not letting her orgasm.. if you're feeling frisky and ambitious) in concert together. That's up to your discretion. This bringing her to the point of orgasming. just good enough to keep women coming back. If the key to a man's heart is through his stomach. excitement.. but if you have it in public.. It's almost to the point where it's become ridiculous . the key to a woman's is through her vagina.  Sex in public. When I was still drunk off the amazing power of adapted missionary and telling my guy friends to try it out on girls.akin to what you'd get with some pretty good foreplay. the orgasms she'd experience were tremendously powerful . Great sex turns lionesses into kittens. just like what we talked about when we talked about horny girls.

. But. One-night stands are fine . use the ability to make a girl orgasm with caution. I'd suggest you refrain from blowing the minds of your casual relationship partners. Yours. and use it responsibly . Great power? Great responsibility.. Use it well. unless you want to turn a cool-headed sometimes-lover into a jealously possessive head-overheels in love kind of gal.give them the night of their lives.. Chase Amante .So. And long-term relationships are good they'll never be with anyone as amazing as you..