Make Her Orgasm Hard from Sex in 8 Minutes or Less

by Chase Amante
Friday, 17 May 2013

I've had men ask me to write about my methods on how to make a girl orgasm since 2007, when I first mentioned the results I get with sex online... and I've always declined to write them. I didn't mind sharing what I did to pick up a girl. That's just a process. But sex... that's an experience. And I've somewhat jealously guarded how to create the kind of experience I like creating for women through sex.

Easy to do Once I started working on getting sex down as a skill. Efficient to execute. I gradually cut this down to about 5 to 10 minutes or so. most men are unlikely to ever use it.. I was giving them orgasms with ME. But what I've realized over the years is. and multiple times. one after another . women. I'm going to share with you how you can make girls orgasm hard. But most men are never going to bother. no matter how clear you make something for someone.. and relationships for you forever.. fears of getting out-competed by men using my own techniques against me set aside. I was stacking powerful multiple orgasms from penetrative vaginal sex. And right away. fast. All those other guys out there were talking about giving girls orgasms with their hands or mouths.My goals with sex were the same as my goals with seduction: sex to me should be 1.the holy grail of sex performance for most men. and 3. Powerfully effective.. And I didn't want to talk about it. if it requires even a little bit of work. I was able to give girls relatively hard orgasms within 10 or 15 minutes. . If you use these techniques with the women you sleep with. she can go get that from anybody... it will change sex. I laughed at that... no matter how simply you present it to him. well.and a little bit of work. on average. So. using nothing but your member . If everybody else knows how to do what I know how to do in the sack. all those rip-roaring orgasms I just gave her aren't really anything all that special. 2. because sex is the great differentiator.

make these things a breeze. so too does sex. and from what I could tell from looking at people's actual relationships. then I REALLY wanted to make sure she didn't ever want to leave. I never put much credence in the things people say though. Sex Fundamentals Just like attractiveness and seduction have certain underlying fundamentals that . about how sex is something you're supposed to work through or talk about with your partner or whatnot. and I figured if I ever got a girl I really liked. and it's important. So here's what you need to understand about sex that virtually nobody tells you (because virtually nobody is aware) and that makes all the difference between being okay at sex and being rock star good in bed. I knew. and b) how to improve on them yourself. At the time. Most of the sex fundamentals I learned as a teenager without ever having sex. I heard a lot of things growing up. .I usually like to start off articles like this with some theory. I was trapped by my own social phobia without friends and without girlfriends or lovers. but the bond between too people is more important. More specifically. Lots of orgasms. One of the keys to this. you wind up not needing a whole lot else. was sex. and how to change courses and improvise on the fly when you find yourself in novel situations I haven't discussed in an article. sex seemed to be all-important. With a good grasp of the theory. so that you understand a) WHY we're doing things a certain way. giving a girl orgasms.if you're hitting these notes right . and not another way.

because ." I told her I'd just watched a video on giving oral sex.. and anally. and so many men were ignorant of this.In fact. This makes the sex much more personal. Sex is every bit as much a mental and emotional experience as it is a physical one. I couldn't really figure out where it was or what to do with it (in fact. I studied how to give women orgasms vaginally. The stuff I was reading about the "G-spot" was a bit too complicated for me. She never believed me that I'd never done it before.. as soon as I got going. Passion is key. Ricardus talks about it fairly in-depth in his article on how to be a good lover. Or. though. she orgasmed quickly. but if he couldn't perform. and angrily called me a liar for telling her I was inexperienced. You need both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. I eventually decided that. But most of all. I needed to be not just good at sex. based on everything I'd studied and read. Women had the most exciting. 2. Physical contact is best maximized.. and eventually learn it for real. and never really trusted me after that "lie. What I was reading again and again and again was that women wished more men would stimulate their clitoris during sex. that the first time I ever gave a girl oral sex. but incredible at it. and much less clinical. and I didn't want to be just using my hand or my mouth.. I wanted to land on my feet as quickly as possible.getting your skin contacting as much of her skin as possible. I knew I needed to simulate passion. off in the arms of another man who could. and it does seem to be pretty useful). Another thing I suspected was extremely important was maximizing physical contact .. in fact.. I've never really sat down to figure this out. she'd keep coming back for more. I am one of the most dispassionate individuals you will meet. the clitoris was outside and above the vagina.. it seemed to be THE most important thing there was. orally. these were the fundamentals of sex: 1. A woman could HATE a guy. I studied. but if he gave her incredible sex. I learned these so well. So.. she might think a guy was the most wonderful fellow in the world. she told me no one gets that good from watching a video.. fulfilling experiences with passionate men. and by nature.. and increases the release of pleasure and bonding hormones that occurs with skin contact between a man and a woman. 3. she'd soon be gone. I learned how to give women orgasms manually.. Yet..

I learned that asking her. "Was that good for you?" are big no-nos that make you seem inexperienced and like you don't know what you're doing. There were other things I found that were useful and important. she wants to be able to just relax.if I want to build up a girl's anticipation and get her cumming faster and harder than she would without it. A woman wants to feel like you know her body better than she does.did not.4.you need to be making her cum with your penis. not asked. etc. rhythmic sex. Women know this. hands. I discovered an emphasis on rhythm that seemed largely devoid from much of the lighter and more mainstream sex advice stuff I perused. because my belief was that if you're incredible at penetrative sex.these men aren't real men the way men who make women cum with their penises are. that's the #1 reason to bother giving her orgasms at all in the first place . I do use foreplay . 6. once you get there she'll be having so much pleasure she's not going to care if you didn't tease her for 15 minutes first. enjoy the ride.and in my mind. I also read about how important foreplay was . You must know what you're doing.on average . and while they enjoy men who give them orgasms with other parts of their bodies .had rhythm. Black men . not your tongue / fingers. If you know what you're doing in bed. Just like she's not really your girlfriend if you're not having sex with her. Women want to be taken. Rhythm is non-negotiable.on average . and tell her what to do / move her around dominantly and confidently and self-assuredly. I further learned that women enter a trance-like state during good.and prevent them from ever climaxing. The men shifting around and thrusting arrhythmically prevent women from ever entering this trance . "Is this okay?" or.tongues.sometimes . and know what's best for her better than she does.but I didn't consider that a fundamental. you can go in with no foreplay and still have her cumming hard in minutes. Penetrative sex is REAL sex. like using your voice during sex. fingers..and it was also why once a girl went black she didn't go back. that is necessary for and precedes orgasm. 5. it's not really sex if your penis isn't in her. Hidden deep within the tomes I was reading on sex. Dominance is mandatory. and let you do what you know how to do so well without having to worry or think about anything other than how good it feels and how good you are. . white men . too.. Rhythm was why women found men who danced well sexy and suspected they'd be good in bed . But it's certainly not mandatory. smacking her butt. sex toys . If you want to maintain a woman's respect and attraction at the uppermost levels ... and doing things like gripping and pulling her hair (when behind her).

all right in a row . After the fourth orgasm .. Except. I couldn't believe it. I was pretty average at sex. Then again. maintain better rhythm. I started grinning.. who'd earlier decided she wanted nothing to do with me. on the last night of the trip.Delivering the Goods At first. "I think you are the best.and the only thing I could think that could possibly do it was sex. . but then one day I needed to pull off a miracle. and decided to try something new. I ran into fairly normal guy problems like:    Girls weren't climaxing with me. But she still disliked me and thought I was no good (I was going a little too far with the bad boy image then and hadn't learned how to balance it right). Then again.hard. I asked. I tried it out on her. So. But I knew I needed to give her a reason to keep seeing me after our return if I wanted her as a girlfriend . I was pretty ordinary at sex.. and give her both clitoral and vaginal stimulation at the same time... "The best ever?" She didn't answer. and I'd managed to sleep with her while on a tour overseas with a bunch of other people. because if I knew if I chased her I was done for sure. I shrugged this off.. she just came hard again. I finally got her back to the hotel. and told me there was zero chance of us having a relationship or seeing each other after we got back from the trip. and 10 minutes into sex. she achieved climax . I'd managed to pull off a remarkable turnaround with a gorgeous girl I'd wanted to make my girlfriend. I'd come up with an idea that would hopefully let me last longer without getting tired. except rarely (and weakly) I was getting tired fairly easily (even though I worked out) The sex was boring enough that women would sometimes start talking to me during it . Then she came again. with her turned on and lustily grasping at me as we rode around town in a taxicab. And kept going.she breathlessly said." Like a dork. trying to seem nonchalant.

In fact." and it looks very much like this: . usually on the first try.she yelled. in the years I've shared it with close friends. We'd been having sex for only 15 or 20 minutes. After the seventh orgasm . the first friend of mine who tried it out. And then again.he didn't know I was there . She came two more times. I've never seen it anywhere else. I've had one person show me something that described the same position. I was hanging out in the other bedroom in his house when he did .and I listened to him make a girl scream at the top of her lungs for five minutes. I forget what it was called there.I call it "adapted missionary. and then I finished. Hard and Fast I don't know if there's a common name for this sex position. How to Make a Girl Orgasm. We ended up dating for 2½ years after that. Here's the position . she was screaming so hard I literally thought she was going to start crying. "I don't think I can LEAVE you!" and I knew I'd done it. Well nigh everyone I've asked to try it out has reported having his girls orgasm off of it. and I was afraid the hotel staff would break down the door thinking her limbs were being sawn off .And then again.by this point.

which means less pressure on your penis shaft. The one "complaint" I've had from friends who've tried this position out is that they enjoyed the sex somewhat less.and can last far longer. supported by his hands and wrists. creating a much more intimate experience. and a bit less pleasure for you. in adapted missionary your body is on top of hers. where you're holding yourself above the girl. with little in the way. Unlike ordinary missionary. Forearm and elbow support. Ordinary missionary position entails a man raised up above the woman's body. this is a pretty tiring position . making it significantly easier to keep a steady thrusting rhythm. Here's how this differs from an ordinary missionary position: 1. 2. Full body contact. On the other hand. That's because this position gives you a very "clean" angle of entry into a woman's vagina . which means you more easily reach the back wall of her . you tire out much more slowly . For obvious reasons.you're going right in. This also allows you to maintain much more control over your bodily motions. and prompting the release of more pleasure and bonding chemicals in her brain. it allows for deeper penetration. increasing her enjoyment.it takes a lot of work to hold yourself up that much! When you're supporting yourself with your forearms and elbows instead though. Altered thrust angle. 3.The only difference between the position itself and the picture above is that normally you'll have your hands not holding her hands but holding her shoulders from underneath.

you'll know how to make a girl orgasm like no one else she's ever met. 5. and she likely won't climax every time.and vaginal back wall stimulation is how you trigger the most powerful vaginal orgasms. Rhythm ends up being the only thing you need to concentrate on . This roughly doubles the strength you can thrust with. you're able to not just thrust forward.everything else is automatic. The neat thing about this position is that it takes care of everything for you. then grasping them and thrusting. short of rhythm. Shoulder grip for added oomph. where her clitoris gets virtually no stimulation. and is pretty exciting for her too. Because your hands are wrapped around her shoulders from behind and underneath. .stimulating her clitoris in the process. to hit the back wall of her vagina harder and to rub her clitoris harder. but once you've got it down. 4. NO rhythm) like I was when I first began using this position. expect four to six months of sex several times a week while concentrating on rhythm to get your rhythm down tight. but pull her downwardas well. Rather than an up and down motion. Because of the position your body is in. You can feel the difference just by letting go of her shoulders and thrusting. like you'd have with a standard missionary position. when they're excited. Pelvic rubbing and clitoral stimulation. Orgasms happen for me with this position with most girls within 8 to 10 minutes.. you'll want to thrust into her harder while maintaining the same rhythm. or ever will meet. If you're starting off with standard white guy rhythm (that is to say. As you get closer to orgasm. maximum often faster.vagina with the end of your penis . your pelvis slides back and forth against hers . Big difference in power. in adapted missionary this back and forth rubs her clitoris constantly. You'll struggle a bit at first..

and review a few more tips that are generally going to make you better at sex and more adept at giving a fulfilling sexual experience to girls. but with a girl's knees crooked over your shoulders. especially if you have a longer penis. Tips on this one: . What else is there out there? In this section. Legs Over Shoulders One of the better positions for deep penetration in a girl is this one: You can do this similar to missionary. I want to show you a couple of other sex positions that you may or may not have seen before. talk about how to make a girl orgasm with them.which you may find is too much at the start of sex.Let's say you've got adapted missionary down. deep penetration . This one gives you great. and now you want to find more ways to make your girl climax hard and fast.

too Some women enjoy this position more than adapted missionary. the deeper the penetration you'll get with her. if you've already given her a few orgasms in another position.   Pelvis Hoist I first got really interested in this position after watching the scene in the immortal classic Showgirls where Elizabeth Berkley straddles Kyle MacLachlan in the pool: .once she starts getting close to orgasm. exciting orgasms. switch her into this one to keep the orgasms flowing by stimulating her in a newer and more powerful way. Try both with her. shift her into this position to make her cum harder. and see which one you get more miles out of Legs-over-shoulders is typically best as a "finishing move" . try this one out. Or. The more you bend down over the girl (and the closer you bend her knees back towards her chest). You may also sometimes find that while she'll have really powerful. others less so .it depends on the girl. or else she finds this position too uncomfortable she'll complain or pain or discomfort in her lower abdomen (that's you pushing too hard on her vaginal back wall). she'll also be pretty sore after cumming this way. and the more exciting the position becomes because of the strain you're putting on her legs If you have a large/long penis. but you'll often find you can't use it until your girl starts getting reasonably close to climax.

but I could do my best to hold her up.. unlike adapted missionary. I started thrusting hard. this position is that. I improvised. holding her pelvis up with one of my hands beneath each of her glutes. and she was cumming in minutes. It's a lot more visually stimulating when you see your penis in her vagina If you don't mind the strain of holding her lower body up with one hand for a moment. So. I couldn't make a girl float without water. I raised up on my knees out of adapted missionary. on steroids. grasped my girls buttocks.. Then. "Let ME try that". You'll see guys talking about shagging girls with pillows under their butts. but then I realized I didn't have a pool handy. both very enjoyable for her  . with a can of Red Bull to boot. it's certainly good exercise). you can use your other hand to slap her clitoris or rub it. Don't expect to do it for long unless you're in fantastic shape (on the plus side.. Tips for maximizing the experience:  If you need to up your own excitement. watch yourself thrusting into and out of her.. and hoisted her pelvis up into the air. this one is HARD and WILL tire you out.I saw that and said. The next time I was having sex. This has since become one of my favorite positions for blowing girls minds but.

and you maximize hers. and stick it in and play around a bit. More Sex Tips to Make a Girl Orgasm Loads Here.  Dirty talk on the high points. and if you really want to drive her hard. but one time I do enjoy using it is in amplifying a girl's pleasure and helping her achieve orgasm more quickly on the high points. if she's much shorter than you. and women tend to find it pretty exciting. The combination of your thumb in her anus and your penis thrusting into and out of her vagina will drive her wild. "Your pussy feels so good.. The anus is a very sensitive part of the body.  Teasing around her anus. If you start getting winded but want to continue in this position. Use beds / sofas to try and . Thrust one way. or have her prop her butt up with her hands beneath it and elbows on the bed This position's a lot of fun. you can run your hand along her inner buttocks. but you need the right angle for this ." as you thrust into her (said in a very sexy voice.." or. I'm not much of a talker during sex usually (although I did mention one use for this when a girl's been giving you trouble in the " Am I still.?" thread on the discussion boards). more general sex tips that will make generating quick. of course) and watch/listen to her peak higher. it tends to get the most physically pleasurable reaction out of your partner. you'll have a harder time with this one. ask her to support her lower body with her toes. When you're having sex with a girl from behind (doggy style).if she's around your height. Just as she seems to be peaking. you can ping her with a.. if you really want to show a girl you know what you're doing in bed and can give it to her in very novel and pleasurable ways.  Sex from behind / doggy style. just near her anus. and she'll like it. However. "You love my hard cock inside of you. use your thumb to start dipping into and out of her anus. One of the secrets of sex I realized sometime back was that when you do what feels physically best for your penis during sex.. powerful multiple orgasms in women much more of a snap than it was before you started using them:  Syncing up sensation. this one does the trick. Sex from behind can be a very solid option for getting orgasms. but it's so much work for you that you shouldn't expect to get a great deal of personal satisfaction out of it yourself. Focus on maximizing your own sensation. enjoyment-wise. too. thrust another way that feels better for you. that's perfect. and you can increase a girl's excitement levels (and proximity to orgasm) by playing around near and in it. and she'll love it.

so I use this only sporadically.. The more you build her anticipation of the act. What I noticed.  Switching up sensations. Doggy style causes the vagina to tighten.the more of your body touching hers. Just stop thrusting and relax. When I discussed the sex fundamentals above.. then started up again once I'd calmed down a bit. for instance. the more explosive it is for her when you finally slip inside and go to work on her. riding around in the back of a taxi making out and teasing her sexually. however. Some of the roughest enjoyable sex can be choking. I mentioned that one of these sex fundamentals is that you maximize skin-to-skin contact .. but you can really get a girl lusting for you with good foreplay. and then taking your hands off her completely so that the only part of your body she's touching at all is your penis in her vagina (and your hips against her buttocks when you thrust forward into her). which is good. I'm a "let's get to it" kind of guy who doesn't enjoy foreplay a whole lot. the higher the enjoyment. and spikes her pleasure.. because a few people die from this every year in freak accidents . you can turn her on her back again and go back to adapted missionary. then had to stop again. before we finally were able to get alone and get to it.is going from a very high contact position to a minimal contact position. to stop myself from cumming too quickly or to take a break if I started feeling a little tired. was that if I routinely got a girl just to the point of climaxing. just shy of her orgasming. I was a "break taker" by necessity while getting good at sex. penis still inside her. then had to stop because I was about to finish before she was. too. One thing you can do for variety during the act that heightens pleasure by way of contrast . because cutting off the oxygen flow to the brain heightens the sensation of climaxing. and once she's acclimated to that position. etc. then finally brought her to orgasm after ..there are enough other ways to heighten her enjoyment that you probably don't need to risk giving her an aneurism. but I personally won't touch this one myself.g.things like biting them (lightly).but not taking her over. or grabbing a fistful of their hair (easiest when having sex from behind) and yanking it backwards. Some women orgasm easily from this position.hair pulling.  Taking her to the point of orgasm . while others do not.so have a bottle of lubricant or petroleum jelly handy just in case.get the proper angle. switching from adapted missionary over to sex from behind.. but can also lead to chafing if you stay in the position for more than 5 to 10 minutes and are having hard. and again the shock of suddenly maximal skin-to-skin contact sends waves of delight through her body. biting. Some of the most powerful orgasms I've generated in women have come after extended period of foreplay . hard..  Using foreplay to heighten anticipation / enjoyment. The difference in sensation is huge. as are slapping her buttocks or breasts during sex. A surprising number of women really enjoy rough sex ..e. rough sex without lubrication .  Rough sex . even though I've had a few girls request it. Hair pulling and biting are great though.

and anticipation of not knowing if they'll be caught. However. and who. unemotional people. Every girl I've given strong.and her perceptions of you as a talented. You can use some of these. because of the uncertainty.  Sex in public. . then not letting her orgasm. You can have even mediocre sex.. because he didn't want the sex to be TOO good. even women who'd never been in love with anyone before and were otherwise very rational.a girl seems like a total independent hard case. the key to a woman's is through her vagina. but a few rounds of screaming orgasms later and she's looking at you with doe eyes and little hearts swimming around above her head. so women don't get too addicted (and then hurt). the orgasms she'd experience were tremendously powerful . just like what we talked about when we talked about horny girls... if anyone.all of this build up. then bringing her to the point of orgasming again. each of these tactics will up her enjoyment . In fact. then not letting her orgasm. then finally bringing her there really makes the effect much more potent. and becomingdrama-causers. If the key to a man's heart is through his stomach. will see. Check out the article on sex logistics for more on where and how to make this happen. top-caliber lover. just good enough to keep women coming back. When I was still drunk off the amazing power of adapted missionary and telling my guy friends to try it out on girls. it can get to the point where you start NOT wanting to be too good in bed.akin to what you'd get with some pretty good foreplay. It's almost to the point where it's become ridiculous . if they'll get in trouble. hard multiple orgasms to in any kind of relationship capacity has fallen very quickly in love with me. How Important is Good Sex? Great sex is the key to your romantic relationships. He didn't want them getting addicted. That's up to your discretion.. amazing.. if you're feeling frisky and ambitious) in concert together. falling crazy in love. it can be very exciting and pleasurable for many women. one of my more experienced friends at the time told me he didn't need it. Great sex turns lionesses into kittens. or a bunch of these (or maybe ALL of these. This bringing her to the point of orgasming.. or you can use them one at a time. excitement. but if you have it in public.

One-night stands are fine .So. use the ability to make a girl orgasm with caution. I'd suggest you refrain from blowing the minds of your casual relationship partners.. But. and use it responsibly . Chase Amante . And long-term relationships are good they'll never be with anyone as amazing as you. Great power? Great responsibility. Use it well.. Yours..give them the night of their lives.. unless you want to turn a cool-headed sometimes-lover into a jealously possessive head-overheels in love kind of gal.

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