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TXB Module 1: Introduction

by Michael Fiore

www.textyourexback.com

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INTRODUCTION

Introduction
(a.k.a. why this guide exists and how its going to help you)
OK, deep breath. If youre reading this guide, youre probably hurting right now. Heck, you probably feel like your heart got ripped out and stomped on, and that the pain youre feeling will never go away. The good news is that Im here to help, just like Ive helped hundreds of people before you. Here are some real-life testimonials from people just like youpeople who were hurting, lonely, their egos bruised and battered. People who were able to turn that experience around using the power of texting: John S. from Maryland says: Big fan of the system!! Ive been using the TXB system for about a week now. I have gotten positive responses on both texts I have sent! :) Miles C. from Delaware says: I got my ex to start talking to me again after two years. Shan W. from Oregon says: I bought the Text Your Ex Back system about a month ago and have started implementing the system. I sent my rst Across the Bow text last week. I got a very good positive reaction from my ex. Shawna P. from Texas says: I just purchased your program Text Your Ex Back about three days ago. I have listened to the entire program, and I have to say you have put a lot of time and thought into the program. There is a lot of extremely valuable advice and information in the book. Andi J. from Philadelphia says: I have just become the proud owner of the Text Your Ex Back program and cannot wait to start creating a new and magical relationship with my ex. And my personal favorite, Phil F. from Colorado: I love your program ! Its so much worth it!! My ex came to me yesterday and was almost begging me to take him back!!! Just as you said it!! :D Thank you Michael !!! In this program Im going to lay out a step-by-step process that will show you how to use simple text messages from your cell phone to rekindle the romance with your ex, open him or her up to the idea of being with

INTRODUCTION

you again, and get things o on the right foot as you start dating each other. Am I GUARANTEEING that youll be able to get your ex back using this guide? Nope. Its totally possible that after reading through this material and starting to put it into action youll decide you dont WANT to be with your ex anymore, and that the sneaky tricks and relationship hacks I teach you here will be better used with someone else in the future. But what I WILL guarantee is that after you go through this training youll have a deeper understanding of why your relationship ended, how the romantic and sexual mind of your ex actually works, and how you can consciously create the relationship youve always dreamt of by tuning the way you think about love, sex, and romance, all while tapping out a few simple messages with your thumbs. Sounds whacky, I know. But youre going to be blown away when you see how well it works.

Who The Heck Am I And Why Should You Listen To Me?


My name is Michael Fiore (you can call me Mike). My specialty is helping average people just like you to use text messages and other modern technology to improve their relationships. (I also teach stu that has nothing to do with texting, but the push button nature of texting is so cool that I cant stop talking about it.)

Who This Course Is For (And Who Its Not For)


Just to spell this out . . . This course is for you if you legitimately miss and appreciate your ex, feel like youve got a real connection, and feel like the reasons you broke up are things you can resolve, accept, or move past. This course is not for you if . . . well, lets just be blunt about this . . . This course isnt for you if the only reason you want your ex back is for your own vanity and ego. As you go through this material youll gure out that some of what I teach you is pretty manipulative. I use a lot of human psychology to

INTRODUCTION

re-awaken your exs attraction and help him or her decide they want to give you another shot. Its powerful stu, and I want you to use it for good. If you want to use it for evil, Id really prefer you delete this guide from your hard drive and we not have anything to do with each other again. If youre abusive (emotionally or physically), a serial cheater who cant be honest (if you want to sleep with multiple people, own up to it), or, well, an asshole . . . Id rather you go the hell away and leave your ex in peace. If your ex was abusive, either emotionally or physically, thats also a dierent story. In that case you should NOT be trying to get back together with them in any way, and you should nd a qualied counselor or therapist to help you put the pieces of your self esteem back together properly. Im totally serious here. Got it? OK, lets move on . . . Sit back and read through this WHOLE thing before you start to work the program. This will take some time. Im sorry to say it, but theres no magic bullet here. Theres no one text that I can give you that will change your exs mind in ten minutes and have you back in romantic la-la land. But if you go through this program and do what it says, youll learn a ton. You will come to terms with your own emotions around your ex, and you will have a REALLY good shot at getting the romance and connection you miss back in your life. Id love to hear from you about your experiences with this material. If you have a testimonial, a question, or suggestions for something else youd like to see in the Text Your Ex Back program, shoot an email to feedback@textyourexback.com. Congratulations on making the decision to invest in this program and in your relationship. I cant wait to hear about your results. Yours,

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THE 30 DAY NO-CONTACT RULE

The 30 Day No-Contact Rule


Yes, its written in stone. Before you read another word, I need you to stop right there and answer a simple question: has it been thirty days since you contacted your ex? If not, STOP. You must have gone thirty days with NO contact with your ex before sending a single text. No phone, no texting, no hanging out, no email, no little notes left on his car overnight, no accidentally bumping into each other at a favorite hangout. This may scare the Jiminy-Cricket out of you. Good. You might feel like you NEED to see your ex NOW, or that if you dont strike while the iron is hot youre going to miss your chance to reignite that spark. And I totally understand that. Believe me, Ive been there. Ive felt that horrible anxiety rushing through my body and that overwhelming craving to see the woman I love, even though she doesnt seem to love me anymore.

When does the clock start ticking?


The thirty days starts from when you got the program and started working it, not from when you last talked to your ex. If you talk to your ex during the thirty days you have to start COMPLETELY over. Even if thirty days goes by, you MAY NOT proceed unless youve done the homework, gone on at least two dates with other people, gotten a sexy new haircut, and done all the other things I tell you to do. Trust me.

Why 30 days?
Because youre a crazy person right now. You need to stop chasing your ex (even in your imagination) and spend time working on YOU to project the sexy condence you need to get your ex back. Plus it will take you at least that long to get through the rst half of this program if youre doing it right.

THE 30 DAY NO-CONTACT RULE

Its imperative to the success of this program that you take your time and do it right. Remember, were not just trying to get you a hookup with your ex.1 Were trying to create a powerful, positive relationship that you both get a lot out of for a long time to come. This is a tough balance, but I have faith in you. More importantly (since I dont actually know you), YOU have faith in you. Thats what weve been working on this whole chapter. Remember, 30 FULL DAYS of silence (more if you can handle it). Itll hurt now, but its worth it in the long term. Here are a few tips for playing it cool. Dont dig into your exs life. Let him or her have some privacy and space. This includes Google- or Facebook-stalking. It will just work you up into a froth, so dont go there. Distract yourself by working hard on getting yourself in great mental and physical shape, whatever that means to you. Spend time doing the Text Your Ex Back homework, dating other people (as weird as it might feel), and biding your time until you can put your plan into action. Dont take non-contact so far that you become an aloof jerk. If you have kids and have to interact, thats ne, but keep the interactions as SIMPLE and POSITIVE as possible. If your ex needs to talk to you about scheduling stu, or needs you to drop o your extra key to his apartment, by all means, dont be a wankerhelp them out. But dont go into anything resembling relationship mode. Dont act needy. Chill. Bide your time. Be the tortoise, not the hare; the grasshopper, not the ant. And if at all possible, wait two hours after receiving a text before sending one back. Stay in control. If the economy has left you broken up but still having to live together, do your best to act like a respectful roommate, while establishing a separate life from your ex. Follow the same rules as above.
1 Unless that is your goal, in which case hop back into bed with them at the rst possible opportunity. However, be prepared for guilt, weirdness, and NOT sustaining the relationship past one or two quick ings. Also, use protectionbreakup sex has an annoying habit of producing progeny.

THE 30 DAY NO-CONTACT RULE

What if your ex contacts you rst?


This is tricky, but its common. If you are feeling like you want your ex back, they are more likely than not to be having similar feelings (which is one reason that the Text Your Ex Back system works so well in the rst place, but more on Text Judo in a later chapter). Thats all very nice, but if they text you rst, I recommend that you blow them o. Seriouslydont respond. No matter how many times they text you. Will this piss them o? Yes. . . but in a good way. Ill get into this a lot more in the chapter on Text Judo, but stoking emotion in your exeven seemingly negative emotioncan fuel the connection between you. If you cave and respond to them, you just let all the condence air out of the love balloon, and you have to go back to square one. You need to take the POWER in this relationship and show that you are in CONTROL. That makes you irresistible.

Michael, I admit itIve been a Text Terrorist.


I get this all the time: Michael, I just started your program, but I think I messed up. I have been sending my ex a ton of messages since we broke up and getting no response. Can I still use your system? First of all, theres a reason youre not getting a response: YOURE DOING IT WRONG. Thats OK. You didnt have this program before. Now you do. So you need to clear the decks. How? STOP. Now. Dont send any more texts. Dont call, write, or even try to telepathically contact your ex for thirty days. People have short attention spans. By the time you have gone through the rst half of this program, and learned how to use texts from the second half, your ex will have had some time to recover from your onslaught and you will return to the battleeld a smoother and more intentional player.

Michael, I just cant do it!


Another common situation. To which I say, COWBOY UP. Its going to take a lot of hard work to get your ex back (what, you thought this was a cakewalk?)

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OK, so we all have willpower issues. Fine. So lose all of their contact info for a month. Have a friend you trust take their info for you and have them solemnly promise not to give it back to you for one full month. Actually, do this no matter what. You need a break. So take one. After youve done all this its time for you to do the REAL work of text your ex back (and no, youre not sending any texts yet. Deal with it.)