Tuesday, September 24, 2013

The Herald

Fiance need to be polite to future mother-in-law

Tomorrow’s Horoscope
By Bernice Bede Osol


Dear Annie: My fiance’s that they attend the wedding, mother has a rocky relation- but he cannot control their ship with both of her sons. response. We hope they will We see her infrequently, but make the effort to be there, still, my fiance loses his pa- and we hope you will be suptience with her quickly. portive without commiseratAt first I was OK with her, ing too much. but now she annoys me, as Dear Annie: Lately, it well. She brags about things, seems as if my siblings have pleads to get her way, plans been ignoring me, except for visits without checking with the eldest. I’m a teenager, and us, is sensitive to being told my siblings are older. The no or to anything she per- eldest tries to involve me in ceives as criticism, and is very everything she can, but she’s demanding. She also recently moved out of the house. The pulled a childish trick. When other two go off and have my fiance told her no repeat- fun, and when I try to join in, edly, she simply they give me nasty called me to plead looks and tell me her case, knowing to go away. What I am uncomfortable should I do about saying no. them? — Indiana She is in her late Teen 60s and continues to Dear Teen: blame her actions on You should recaa rocky childhood. librate your exMy mother says to pectations. Your just be polite to her, siblings are not which I try hard to responsible for do. But now that she your social life. is in my home for a Annie’s Mailbox We know it hurts week, conversawhen they go off tions with her are impossible, without you, but such rudeand I feel I need to walk away. ness is not uncommon. Learn She has a psychiatric disorder, to ignore them. When they although I am not sure of the leave, casually wave goodbye diagnosis. My fiance’s grand- and be occupied with somemother indicates it is schizo- thing else. As you grow up, phrenia, so I don’t want to this situation will improve, push her too far. but it will take time. We are getting married Meanwhile, phone or text soon at a courthouse. During your friends and schedule this unplanned and uninvited some activities so you are less trip, she said it is too expen- focused on what your siblings sive for her and my fiance’s are doing. It also will make father to travel to see us get you much more interesting married. I am fine with this, to them if you seem indepenbut my fiance is upset that his dently busy and happy. If you parents do not care enough to need help doing this, talk to make it work. They can af- your parents, your school ford the airline tickets. counselor, a favorite teacher I think it is my fiance’s or other trusted adult. place to explain his hurt feelDear Annie: I’m respondings to them. Do I continue to ing to the comment from be polite about it? I am cur- “Germantown, Tenn.,” about rently working long hours store employees being forced to avoid being in my home to stand all day. That’s part of while she is visiting. Is there their job description and how a better way to handle this? products get to the shelves. In — Z. the store that I manage, the Dear Z.: Yes, please con- older employees never have tinue to be polite. We recog- complained about standing nize that his mother’s behav- all day. — The Manager ior is difficult, but you see her Dear Manager: The fact infrequently, so try to tolerate that your employees don’t her as best you can for your complain doesn’t mean they fiance’s sake. He obviously aren’t suffering. Standing is cares a great deal about his OK if you get to walk around, parents. He should tell them but otherwise, it is hard on how important it is to him the feet and back.

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