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Authentic Hadith pertaining to

MARRIAGE, FAMILY, ORPHANS & NEIGHBOR ISSUES
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ANGELS, JINN AND HUMANS |H 1898 “Angels were created from light, jinn from blazing fire, and Adam was created from that which you have already been informed !
"uslim with a chain u# to $ady Ayesha, wife of the %ro#het, "other of &elievers, may Allah be #leased with her, who related that the "essenger of Allah, #raise and #eace be u#on him, said this

PROPOSAL

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MARRIAGE

QUALITIES TO SEEK IN A WIFE |H '() “A woman is sought in marriage on account of four things* her wealth, her influence, her beauty or her religion %ros#er with the one of religion, otherwise you will own nothing but dust !
&u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het, #raise and #eace be u#on him, said this

PENDING PROPOSAL |H 18,8 “-one of you should ma+e an offer to #urchase when the offer of another is #ending, nor should you ma+e a #ro#osal of marriage when a #ro#osal of a brother is #ending, e.ce#t with the #ermission of the latter !
&u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to ibn /mar who related that the "essenger of Allah, #raise and #eace be u#on him, said this

PRIOR PROPOSAL

|H 18,9 “A believer is the brother of a believer and it is not #ermissible for a believer to ma+e an offer of #urchase while an offer of a brother is #ending -or is it #ermissible that one should ma+e a #ro#osal of marriage while a #ro#osal of his brother is #ending unless the latter gives u# !
"uslim with a chain u# to 0+bah son of 1Amir who related that the "essenger of Allah, #raise and #eace be u#on him, said this

AN UNACCEPTABLE CONDITION |H 18,2 “3he %ro#het, #raise and #eace be u#on him, forbade a city dweller from being a commission agent for an unaware stranger from out of town and artificial bids He also forbade a #erson from ma+ing an offer while the offer of his brother is #ending or that he should ma+e a #ro#osal of marriage while the #ro#osal of his brother is #ending He also forbade a woman to attem#t to let her sister 4in 5slam6 become divorced in order that she might ta+e her #lace 3he "essenger of Allah, #raise and #eace be u#on him, forbade meeting 4trade6 caravans in advance or that a city dweller should act as a commission agent for &edouin Arab He also forbade that a woman should ma+e it a condition of marriage that her sister 4in 5slam6 should be divorced or that a #erson should ma+e an artificial bid without intending to #urchase in order to raise the #rice He also forbade the accumulation of mil+ in the udder of an animal to attem#t misre#resentation !
&u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the "essenger of Allah, #raise and #eace be u#on him, said this

RIGH$S

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Allah, the Exalted says: “Believers, it is unlawful for you to inherit women forcefully, neither bar them in order that you go off with part of what you have given them, except when they commit a clear indecency. Live with them honorably.... !:"# $oran “%ou will not be able to be &ust between your women, even though you are eager. 'o not be altogether partial so that you leave her as if she were suspended. (f you reform and are cautious, Allah is the )orgiver, the *erciful. !:"+# $oran TREATMENT OF WOMEN |H ,27 “3reat women +indly 8oman was created from a rib and the most

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bent #art of the rib is the u##ermost 5f you try to straighten it you will brea+ it, but if you leave it alone it will remain bent 9o treat women +indly A woman is li+e a rib: if you try to straighten it you will brea+ it 5f you wish to benefit from her you can do so regardless of its bending 8oman has been created from a rib and you cannot straighten her 5f you wish to benefit from her do so regardless of the bend 5f you try to straighten her you will brea+ her, and brea+ing her means divorce !
&u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het, #raise and #eace be u#on him, said this

WIFE ABUSE |H ,2) “5 4Abdullah son of ;am1a6 heard the %ro#het, #raise and #eace be u#on him, deliver a sermon in which he mentioned the she<camel of %ro#het 9alih and the one who hamstrung her He recited* ,-hen the most wic.ed of them bro.e forth, /#":"+ $oran0 and e.#lained that this referred to a distinguished, wic+ed and most #owerful chief of the #eo#le who jum#ed u# After this he mentioned women and said* =9ome of you beat your wives as if they were slaves, and then slee# with them at the end of the day>? 3hen someone #assed wind and he admonished the #eo#le for laughing saying* =8hy do you laugh at someone when you do the same@?
&u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abdullah son of ;am1a who related this

LOOK FOR THE BEST IN YOUR SPOUSE |H ,2( “-o believing husband should bear hatred to his believing wife 5f he disli+es one Auality in her, he should loo+ for another Auality which is #leasing !
"uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het, #raise and #eace be u#on him, said this

HUSBAND AND WIFE RELATIONSHIP |H ,22 “3reat women +indly, they are li+e ca#tives in your hands Bou are not owed anything by them e.ce#t that 4she #rotects her husband1s rights in herself and in his wealth6 5f they are guilty of clear indecency you may leave them alone in their beds and sla# them gently 3hen if they obey you, you do not have recourse to anything else against them Bou have your rights concerning your wives and they have their rights concerning you Bour right is that they shall

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#raise and #eace be u#on him. had #raised Allah and e.29 “5n belief. said this SPOUSAL COMPLAINTS |H . #raise and #eace be u#on him. "other of &elievers. and com#lained against their husbands 3he %ro#het. may Allah be #leased with them.8F “Eo not beat the female worshi#ers of Allah 9ome time later /mar came to him saying* =/ur women have become very audacious towards their husbands ? 9o he #ermitted them to be smac+ed 3hereafter a large number of women came to the wives of the %ro#het. do not stri+e her on the face.82 “8henever a woman angers her husband.alted Him during his Darewell %ilgrimage sermon he heard him say this STRIKING ONE’S WIFE ON THE FACE |H . announced* ="any women have come to my wives com#laining against their husbands 9uch men are not the best among of you>?! Abu Eaud with a chain u# to 5yas son of Abdullah who related that the %ro#het. who related that the "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him. and the best among you are those who behave best towards their wives ! 3irmidhi with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het.ce#t inside the house ?! Abu Eaud with a chain u# to "u1awiah son of Haidah who related this PERFECT BELIEVER |H . do not abuse her and do not abandon her e. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. his Gom#anion from 7 . said this AROUSING THE ANGER OF ONE’S HUSBAND |H .8( “5f a woman dies and her husband is #leased with her she will enter %aradise ! 3irmidhi with a chain u# to $ady 0mm 9alamah. =8hat are the rights of a wife from her husband@? He re#lied* =Deed her when you feed yourself: clothe her when you clothe yourself.not #ermit anyone you disli+e to enter your home nor sit on your soft furnishings 3heir right is that you should be generous to them in their clothing and food ! 3irmidhi with a chain u# to Amr son of Ahwas Cashmi who related that after the %ro#het.28 “"u1awiah as+ed the %ro#het. warned this REWARD FOR PLEASING ONE'S HUSBAND |H . wife of the %ro#het. may Allah be #leased with her. the most #erfect believer is the one who behaves best.

guarding in secret that which Allah has guarded. said this VALUE OF A GOOD WOMAN |H . 1ighteous women are obedient. says: “*en are the maintainers of women for that Allah has preferred in bounty one of them over another. He who is in heaven is angry with her till her husband is #leased with her ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. when a husband calls his wife to his bed and she refuses him.87 ) . said this RIGH$S OF A HUSBAN. #raise and #eace be u#on him. unless he gives her #ermission -or should she #ermit anyone to enter his house without his #ermission ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. the angels curse her throughout the night ! 8e are informed* “8hen a wife s#ends the night away from her husband1s bed. Allah. !:2! $oran CURSE OF THE ANGELS |H . the angels curse her throughout the night ! “&y Him in whose Hands is my life. #raise and #eace be u#on him. the Exalted.among the houris of %aradise says to her* ="ay Allah ruin you..8' “5t is not #ermissible for a woman to fast voluntarily when her husband is at home. “8hen a husband calls his wife to his bed and she does not come and he s#ends the night angry with her. and for that they have spent of their wealth. do not anger him because he is only your guest and will soon leave you to come to us ?H 3irmidhi with a chain u# to "u1az son of Cabal who related that the %ro#het..81 “3he world is but an enjoyment and the best enjoyment of the world is a good woman ! "uslim with a chain u# to Abdullah son of Amr son of Al 1As who related that the "essenger of Allah. said this PERMISSION REQUIRED FOR A WIFE TO FAST VOLUNTARILY |H .8.. said this ACCOUNTABILITY |H . #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him.

either . #raise and #eace be u#on him.eep them.“Ivery one of you is a guardian and is held accountable for that which he is entrusted A ruler is a guardian and is held accountable for that which is in his care A man is a guardian in res#ect of his household. ( . #raise and #eace be u#on him. being harmful. -hoever does that wrongs himself. a woman is a guardian in res#ect of her husband1s house and children 3herefore each one of you is a guardian accountable for whatever is in your care ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to 5bn /mar who related* the "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him.88 “5 am not leaving a more harmful trial for men than women ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to /sama son of . said this . #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. the Exalted says: -hen you have divorced women and they have reached the end of their waiting period.IAOR>E Allah.aid who related that the %ro#het. said this and -isai with a chain u# to Abu Ali 3alA son of Ali who related the "essenger of Allah. But you shall not . she should go to him even if she is ma+ing bread 5f 5 were to order a #erson to #rostrate to another. said this DESCRIPTION OF A WOMAN TO ONE'S HUSBAND |H 1291 “Eo not let a woman feel another woman and then describe her to her husband in such detail as if he was loo+ing at her ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to ibn "as1ud who related that the "essenger of Allah. said this TRIAL |H .8) “8hen a man calls his wife to satisfy his desire.indness. in order to transgress. said this SPOUSAL ARGUMENTS |H (9 “A man is not to be as+ed 4by others6 why he fought with his wife ! Abu Eaud with a chain u# to /mar who related that the Holy %ro#het.indness or let them go with . #raise and #eace be u#on him. 5 would order the woman to #rostrate to her husband ! 3irmidhi with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the "essenger of Allah.eep them in . said this NEEDS OF ONE'S HUSBAND |H .

daughter of the %ro#het. and tal+ between a husband and wife ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to 0mm Julthum. )ear Allah and . #raise and #eace be u#on him. in "edina and #ut the matter before him 3he %ro#het. daughter of the %ro#het. say this HUSBAND AND WIFE SUCKLED BY THE SAME SUCKLING MOTHER |H )9( “0+bah married a daughter of Abu 5hab.78 “Goncerning &urairah and her husband the %ro#het. neither did you tell me ? 9o he rode to the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him.'o not ta. and -isdom to exhort you. 4ubhi Al 2 . and what 3e sent down to you from the Boo.now that 3e has . how can you continue@? 9o 0+bah divorced her and she married someone else ! &u+hari with a chain u# to 0+bah the son of Harith who related this hadith CHOICE |H .ery. son of Abdul Aziz $ater a woman came to him and said that she had suc+led both of them 0+bah told her. reforming between #eo#le. and he told him* HEivorce her H -e would li.ce#t in three situations* war. said. =5 had no +nowledge that you suc+led me.)F “8hosoever brings about the reconciliation between #eo#le and attains good or says that which is good is not a liar 5 40mm Julthum.e to draw your attention to the notes of 'r. do you order me@? He re#lied* =5 only intercede ? 9he said* =5 do not need him ?! &u+hari with a chain u# to ibn Abbas who related this WIFE OF OMAR |H ''' 3he son of /mar had a wife whom he loved but his father disli+ed His father as+ed him to divorce her but he refused /mar mentioned the matter to the %ro#het. may Allah be #leased with her. did not hear him a##rove of what most #eo#le say 4when they lie6 e. #raise and #eace be u#on him. 1emember the favor of Allah upon you. #raise and #eace be u#on him.nowledge of everything.e the verses of Allah in moc. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. related that she heard the %ro#het. said to her* =5t is #referable that you go bac+ to him ? 9he re#lied* =/ "essenger of Allah. =-ow that you +now this. may Allah be #leased with her6. +:+2" $oran RECONCILIATION |H .

the confirmed. 4hay. 6his 3adith is in no way to be ta.am#le of the hy#ocrite6 behaves li+e a dweller of %aradise until there is left between him and it the distance of only the length of an arm and then that which is recorded overta+es him and he begins to behave li+e the inhabitants of the Dire and eventually enters it 3hen there is the one amongst you 4who is not a hy#ocrite6 who behaves li+e the inhabitants of the Dire until there is only left between him and it the length of an arm: then what is recorded overta+es him and he begins to behave li+e the dwellers of %aradise and eventually enters it ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to ibn "as1ud who related that the "essenger of Allah. and whether he is unfortunate or ha##y 3hen by He who there is no god e. then it becomes a clot for the same 4forty days6 then it becomes a chewed 4#iece of flesh6 for the same 4forty days6. say* =A father is a median door of %aradise 5f you wish you may demolish it.ed. or if you wish you may #rotect it ?H 3irmidhi with a chain u# to Abu Earda1 who related this >HIL. praise and peace be upon him. forty days as a dro#. 7n the other hand 7mar would not have ordered his son to divorce his wife had he not feared that she would lead him to harm in his life and in his religion. his deeds. Abu Eaud and 3irmidhi with a chain u# to 5bn /mar who related this PROTECT OR DEMOLISH |H ''7 “A man came to Abu Earda1 and said* =5 have a wife and my mother tells me to divorce her ? Abu Earda1 told him that he had heard the %ro#het. his life s#an. ordered us to follow the guided 9aliphs and so forth.ce#t Him.5 3owever. group together to cause a divorce for no valid (slamic reason. in this case he wanted to guide the son of 7mar to be good to his father. praise and peace be upon him.REN CONCEPTION AND PREDESTINATION |H '92 “Iach one of you: his creation is determined when he is in his mother1s womb. one of you 4e. #raise and #eace be u#on him. told us this 8 . and that the 8rophet.4alih notes followed by those of 4hay. “(t is .en out of context as has been the practice in some Asian families where the mother or other relatives. hated divorce and he said that 56he most hated lawful deed before Allah is divorce. the truthful. then the angel is sent who breathes into it the soul then he is ordered with four words* His #rovision.nown that the *essenger.h Ahmad 'arwish said: 7ne must not forget the spiritual ran. in same road that 7mar wal. #raise and #eace be u#on him. and imamship of 7mar and how satan did not wal.h Ahmad 'arwish 'r 4ubhi said.

advised. #raise and #eace be u#on him. =&ashir. and told him..( 3he %ro#het. who related this 9 . #raise and #eace be u#on him.2 “9ome Arab &edouins came to the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. then told me. said this AFFECTION |H . #raise and #eace be u#on him. as+ed.FAVORITISM H 18. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. as+ed. Bes ? 3he "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him. =3hen do not ma+e me a witness because 5 will not be a witness to a wrong ? 3hen he as+ed. +issed his grandson Hasan. do you have other children than this one@? 3o this 5 re#lied. as+ed. #raise and #eace be u#on him. =5 have given one of my slaves to this son ? 3he "essenger of Allah. wife of the %ro#het. said. =Eid you give a similar gift to each of your children@? 8hereu#on 5 re#lied. =Eid you give them all a gift li+e this@? 5 re#lied. said. =-o ? 3he "essenger of Allah. “5 4&ashir6 too+ my son 4-u1man6 to the %ro#het. =5ndeed ? 3he "essenger of Allah. =3hen ta+e this gift bac+ ?! 8e are also informed* “3he %ro#het. may Allah be #leased with her. =-o ? 3he "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him.. =Eid you do the same for all your children@? 5 answered. =&e mindful of your obligation to Allah and be just among your children ? 8hereu#on my father too+ bac+ his gift 8e are also informed* “3he "essenger of Allah. as+ed me. =8ouldn1t you li+e it if each one of them behaved well towards you@? 5 re#lied. the son of &ashir who related that the "essenger of Allah. =3hen why don1t you@?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to -u1man. "other of &elievers. #raise and #eace be u#on him. and as+ed =Eo you +iss your children@? He answered* =Bes ? 3hen they said* =8e never +iss ours ? He said* =Gan 5 hel# it if Allah has ta+en com#assion from your hearts@?! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to $ady Ayesha. #raise and #eace be u#on him. loo+ed at him and said* =He who has no com#assion will receive none ?! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related this KISS YOUR CHILDREN |H . the son of Ali AAr1a the son of Habis was with them at that time and said* =5 have ten sons and have never +issed any of them ? 3he %ro#het. =-o ? 8hereu#on the "essenger of Allah..

#raise and #eace be u#on him. wife of the %ro#het. wife of the %ro#het. said this REWARD FOR SPENDING ON YOUR CHILDREN |H . #raise and #eace be u#on him. may Allah be #leased with her. "other of &elievers. you will receive a reward for whatever you s#end on them ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to $ady 0mm 9alamah wife of the %ro#het.ce#t a single date which 5 gave to her 9he divided it between her daughters but did not eat any of it herself 3hen she got u# and left 8hen the %ro#het. came 5 told him about it He said* =/ne who is tried raising daughters and treats them well will find that they will become the shield from the Dire ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to $ady Ayesha. he said* =Allah has a##ointed %aradise for her because of this ? /r he said* =Allah has freed her from the Dire because of this ?! $ady Ayesha. may Allah be #leased with her6. who related this FREEDOM FROM THE FIRE |H . #raise and #eace be u#on him.(8 “8hosoever raises two girls from childhood to maturity will a##ear on the Eay of Cudgment joined to me li+e two fingers of a hand 3hen he joined his two fingers ! 1F . =8ill 5 receive a reward if 5 s#end on my children from my first husband@ 5 cannot leave them running about here and there in search of a living ?H He answered* =Bes.(9 “A woman came with her two daughters to me 4$ady Ayesha6 begging 5 had nothing to give e. who related this BLESSINGS OF RAISING DAUGHTERS |H .2F “A #oor woman came to me with her two daughters 5 4$ady Ayesha6 gave her three dates 9he gave one to each daughter and was about to eat the third when her daughters as+ed for it 9o she bro+e it into two and gave half to each of her daughters 5 was touched by her action and mentioned what she had done to the %ro#het. "other of &elievers. "other of &elievers. may Allah be #leased with her. as+ed the %ro#het. may Allah be #leased with her related this TREATMENT OF DAUGHTERS |H .COMPASSION |H ')( “8hosoever neither has com#assion on our children nor honors our elders is not of us ! Abu Eaud and 3irmidhi with a chain u# to Amr the son of 9huaib who related on the authority of his father and grandfather that the "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him.91 “9he 4$ady 0mm 9alamah.

#raise and 11 . he and 5 will be li+e this together in %aradise 3o demonstrate the closeness. may Allah be #leased with her. said this ORPHANS “'o not oppress the orphan.ainab. he raised his fore and middle finger joined together ! &u+hari with a chain u# to 9ahl the son of 9a1ad who related that the %ro#het.(7 “8hosoever ta+es care of an or#han. #raise and #eace be u#on him. order them to #ray. #2:#:". he and 5 will be li+e these two in %aradise 3o demonstrate. said this HOW TO BATHE A CHILD |H 2'F “8hen they were about to bathe little $ady . #raise and #eace be u#on him. directed them to begin with her right side followed by the #arts that are washed in the ablution ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to 0mm Atiyyah who related this CHILDREN AND PRAYER |H 'F1 “As soon as your children reach the age of seven. “8hen a boy reaches the age of seven teach him how to #ray.(' “8hosoever ta+es care of an or#han. nor drive away the one who as. the %ro#het. said this ORPHANS AND PARADISE |H . related or otherwise. directed this A TEN YEAR OLD CHILD WHO DOES NOT PRAY |H 'F. $oran THE MERIT OF CARING FOR ORPHANS |H . and #unish them if they do not 8hen they reach the age of ten #ut them in se#arate beds ! Abu Eaud with a chain u# to Amr son of 9huaib who related from his grandfather through his father that the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. he raised his fore and middle fingers joined together ! "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him."uslim with a chain u# to Anas who related that the %ro#het.s. and #unish him if he reaches the age of ten and does not #ray ! “/rder a boy to #ray when he reaches seven years of age ! Abu Eaud and 3irmidhi with a chain u# to 9abrah son of "a1abad Cuhni who related that the %ro#het.

-hatsoever you expend 3e will replace it. =/ "essenger of Allah. 1. said this SEVEN DANGEROUS THINGS |H 1()8 “3here are seven very dangerous things which you must avoid 3he %ro#het. Allah will bring ease after difficulty... the dinar s#ent on his horse in the Gause of Allah.. was as+ed.I$URE Allah. the Exalted says: “.... the highest in reward is for the one you s#end on your wife and children ! "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het.. #raise and #eace be u#on him. it is for the father to provide for them and clothe them with . ... #raise and #eace be u#on him..9. <=:> $oran “.indness. said this REWARD FOR SEEKING THE PLEASURE OF ALLAH |H . let him spend from what Allah has given him. +:+22 $oran “Let the rich spend according to his wealth and for he whose provision is little. #raise and #eace be u#on him. what are they@? He answered* Associating anything with Allah 9orcery 0njustly +illing a life declared sacred by Allah Gonsuming interest Gonsuming the #ro#erty of the or#han Gowardice in battle Galumniating chaste. and the dinar s#ent on his Gom#anions in the Gause of Allah ! "uslim with a chain u# to 3hauban son of &uhdud who related that the %ro#het. said this FAMILY EBPEN. 4urely. innocent believing women ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him. 2!:2# $oran HIGHEST REWARD FOR CHARITY |H ...9F “3he best dinars s#ent are those s#ent on one1s wife and children.89 “/f the dinar 4gold coin6 you s#end in the Gause of Allah: the dinar you s#end to #rocure the freedom of a slave: the dinar you give in charity to the #oor and the dinar you s#end on your wife and children. said this BEST FORMS OF CHARITY |H .#eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. Allah does not charge a soul except with that 3e has given him.

9( “3he u##er hand 4the donor6 is better than the lower 4the reci#ient6 and begin with your de#endents: and the best charity is from your sur#lus 8hosoever abstains from as+ing will be shielded by Allah: and he who does without will be made rich by Allah ! &u+hari with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. even that which you #ut in the mouth of your wife ?! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to 9a1ad son of Abi 8aAAas who related that the "essenger of Allah. said this 1' . #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. said this CHARITY TO ONE'S FAMILY |H . it is a charitable act ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu "as1ud &adri who related that the "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him. it will be evil for you Bou will not be blamed for +ee#ing that which you need &egin by s#ending u#on your de#endents ! 3irmidhi with a chain u# to Abu 0mamah who related that the %ro#het. said this CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME |H .97 “5t is a sin for a #erson to deny the right of a de#endent 5t is indeed a sin for a #erson to withhold what is due from one whose living de#ends u#on him ! Abu Eaud and "uslim with a chain u# to Abdullah the son of Amr. son of Al 1As who related that the "essenger of Allah. ruin the miser ?! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. said this SPEND ON YOUR DEPENDENTS |H )11 “/ son of Adam. said this SUPPLICATION OF THE ANGELS |H . told 9a1ad. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. increase those who s#end ? 3he other says* ="ay Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him.9) “Iveryday two angels descend /ne of them says* ="ay Allah. said this DENYING A DEPENDANT |H .“Euring a long conversation the %ro#het.9' “8hen a #erson s#ends on his wife and children ho#ing for a reward. if you were to s#end whatever is left over it will be better for you 5f you withhold it. =8hatever you s#end see+ing thereby the #leasure of Allah will have its reward.

5 4Bazeed. we have no other &oo+ e. and all humanity Allah will not acce#t any e. son of 9haree+6 heard 5mam Ali say. =&y Allah. or gives shelter to an innovator is subject to the curse of Allah. and some orders regarding regulations concerning injuries 5t also contained a saying of the "essenger of Allah. the son of 3ariA who related this FALSE CLAIMS |H 18)( “8hosoever deliberately lets himself be +nown as the son of other than his father is guilty of disbelief.#iation nor com#ensation from him on the Eay of Kesurrection ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Bazeed. #raise and #eace be u#on him. the son of 9haree+. #raise and #eace be u#on him. said this REJECTION OF YOUR FATHER |H 18)7 “Eo not reject your fathers 8hosoever turns away from his father is guilty of disbelief ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the "essenger of Allah.FALSE PA$ERNI$Y PENALTY FOR CLAIMING FALSE PATERNITY |H 18)' “8hosoever attributes his #aternity to someone other than his father +nowing that he is not his father will be e.ce#t the Holy Joran which we read and this record ? 3hen he s#read it o#en and in it there were camel teeth 4used as writing media6. that the Gity is forbidden between the mountain of Ayr u# to the mountain of 3hawr 3herefore anyone who introduces an innovation in this area. or a slave who runs away from his master to someone else. the curse of Allah. His angels and all humanity Allah will acce#t neither e.#iation or com#ensation from him on the Eay of Kesurrection All "uslims have one covenant and the least among them re#resents it Anyone who violates a "uslim1s covenant will be cursed by Allah. and whosoever claims something that does not belong to him is not one of us $et him #re#are his seat in Hell> 5f anyone calls another an unbeliever or an 17 . #raise and #eace be u#on him.cluded from %aradise ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to 9a1ad the son of Abi 8a++as who related that the "essenger of Allah.#iation nor com#ensation from him on the Eay of Kesurrection 8hosoever attributes false #aternity to himself. said this CURSE OF ALLAH |H 18)) “Euring a sermon delivered from a #ul#it. His angels. angels and all humanity will rest u#on him and Allah will acce#t neither e.

be merciful to them. added*6 “and li+e the one who stands #raying all night. the Exalted says: “-orship Allah and do not associate anything with 3im.indred.. one another.ness. And lower to them the wing of humbleness out of mercy and say: .oning. !:" $oran “. and his weaning was in two years. Be than. (f either or both of them attain old age with you. 1) .ind to parents and near . #raise and #eace be u#on him. and li+e the one who fasts and never brea+s it ! RESPE>$ AN. the charge will revert to the accuser ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Eharr who related that the "essenger of Allah.O@S LOOK AFTER WIDOWS AND THE NEEDY |H .ind to his parents. do not say. and to be good to your parents.ness upon wea.ful to *e and to your parents. !:2< $oran “)ear Allah. Be . 5)ie on you5. and to the destitute traveler. +#:@ $oran “%our Lord has ordered you to worship none except 3im. for his mother bore him in wea. and to the neighbor at your far side. who &oin together what 3e has bidden to be united? who fear their Lord and dread the evil rec. "2:+" $oran “-e have charged the human to be . #raise and #eace be u#on him. to them with words of respect.(( “He who wor+s to su##ort widows and the needy is li+e one who strives in the Gause of Allah ! 43he narrator also said that he thought that the %ro#het. nor rebu.e them. but spea.insmen.*y Lord. Allah does not love he who is proud and struts.. never sto##ing. said this @I. and /fear0 the wombs /lest you sever its relationship0.enemy of Allah and he is not. and to that which your right hand owns.. to the orphans and to the needy. ">:+2:+! $oran “And -e charged the human concerning his parents. and the companion at your side. by whom you as. HONORING PAREN$S Allah. as they raised me since ( was little. to your neighbor who is your .

. who part what 3e has commanded to be united and wor.ing them deaf and blinding their eyes. “He 4Abdullah the son of "as1ud6 as+ed* =8hich action does Allah li+e most@? 3he %ro#het. would you be satisfied if 5 bestow to whosoever associates with you. and they shall have an evil abode. said* =Kecite if you will the verse* 9ould it be. "2:+= $oran 1( . that if you turn away. and whosoever severs you 5 will sever him ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. the ties of . buys him and then frees him ! "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. the covenant of Allah after accepting it.t@? He re#lied* =9howing +indness to one1s #arents ? 5 as+ed again* =3hen which is ne. you might ma.e corruption in the land and brea. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him.ed corruption in the land. a curse shall be laid on them. #raise and #eace be u#on him. said this Allah. said this IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY TIES |H '1) “Allah originated the creation After.inshipA 4uch are those whom Allah has cursed ma. the High said 4to the wombs in a Eivine Luotation6* 8hosoever associates with you 5 will bestow u#on him.t@? He re#lied* =Dighting in the Gause of Allah ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abdullah the son of "as1ud who related that he as+ed the %ro#het. 2":"! $oran WHAT ALLAH LIKES MOST |H '1. and 5 sever whosoever severs you@? 5t said* =5 am satisfied ? Allah said* =3his then is your #lace ? 3he %ro#het. the Exalted says: “As for those who brea. the womb stood u# and said* =5s this the #lace the human as+s Bour #rotection from being severed@? Allah re#lied* =Bes. #raise and #eace be u#on him.5 !>:++:+2 $oran Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him HOW TO REPAY ONE'S FATHER |H '1' “-o son can re#ay his father unless he finds a slave.to *e is the arrival. answered* =3he establishing of the #rayer during its s#ecified time ? 5 as+ed* =8hich is ne.

*y Lord. the latter turns to be abusive to his mother ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abdullah the son of Amr. son of Al 1As who related that the %ro#het. HAssociation of others with Allah Eisobeying your #arents: 4until that #oint he had been leaning on a #illow. said this ABUSING ONE'S PARENTS |H ''8 “Abusing one1s #arents is a major sin He was as+ed* =/ "essenger of Allah. to them with words of respect. H/ "essenger of Allah. how can someone curse his #arents@ He re#lied. can a #erson abuse his #arents@? He answered* =Bes? if he abuses someone else1s father. but spea.“%our Lord has ordered you to worship none except 3im. and giving false testimony He re#eated this last 4sin6 so many times that we wished he would sto# ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu &a+arah -ufai1the son of Harith who related that the "essenger of Allah. be merciful to them. he said. =Gertainly. the latter will then abuse his father 5f he abuses someone else1s mother. and to be good to your parents. (f either or both of them attain old age with you. said this FORBIDDING OF ALLAH |H '7F 12 . as they raised me since ( was little. =8hen he abuses someone else1s father. son of Al 1As who related that the "essenger of Allah. do not say: 5)ie on you5. the latter will then abuse his mother ? /ne of the most heinous sins is for someone to curse his #arents He was as+ed. ">:+2:+! $oran MAJOR SINS |H ''( “9hall 5 tell you what are the major sins@ 4He re#eated this three times6 8e said. said this MORE MAJOR SINS |H ''2 “"ajor sins are* Association of anything with Allah Eisobeying one1s #arents "urder &earing false witness ! &u+hari with a chain u# to Abdullah the son of Amr. telling a lie. nor rebu. #raise and #eace be u#on him. / "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him. the latter turns to be abusive to his father 5f he abuses someone else1s mother. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. then suddenly he sat u#6.e them. And lower to them the wing of humbleness out of mercy and say: .. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him.

=Bour mother ? =And after her@? He re#lied. may his nose be rubbed in the dust. the scribe of "ughirah. and #ersistent ta+ing ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to 8arrad. and then your mother. forbade idle tal+. #raise and #eace be u#on him. =Bour mother ? =3hen after her@? He as+ed. used to su##licate at the end of each obligatory #rayer. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. and your near relations ?! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that a man came to the %ro#het. none can #revent what Bou give and none can give what Bou withhold $ineage does not avail against Bou ? His letter continued to tell that the %ro#het.cessive Auestioning and wastefulness ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to "ughirah the son of 9hu1bah who related that the %ro#het. =3here is no god e.ce#t Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him. who related this LOOK AFTER YOUR AGING PARENTS |H '12 “"ay his nose be rubbed in the dust. #raise and #eace be u#on him. reaching old age 4and do not serve them6 and because of this do not enter %aradise ! "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. burying of live female babies. who is best entitled to good com#any from me@? He answered. who is /ne and has no associate His is the Jingdom and His is the #raise and He has #ower to do all that He wills / Allah.“Allah has forbidden you* Eisobedience to your #arents "iserliness Dalse witness &urying living baby girls And He disa##roves of idle tal+ I. #raise and #eace be u#on him. then your father. =Bour mother. said this IMPORTANCE OF YOUR MOTHER |H '1( “A man as+ed. waste of wealth and #ersistent as+ing He also forbade disobedience to mothers. of all #eo#le who is the most entitled to +indness and good com#any from me@? He re#lied. your near relations. =/ "essenger of Allah. and as+ed this DISOBEDIENCE TO ONE’S MOTHER |H 18'1 “"ughirah the son of 9hu1bah dictated a letter to me 48arrad6 addressed to "u1awiah in which it said that the %ro#het. the #revention of giving. =And after her@? He re#lied. said this 18 . and then your mother. may his nose be rubbed in the dust M those who find their #arents. =Bour mother ? 3he man as+ed again. #raise and #eace be u#on him. one or both. =Bour father ?! 8e are also informed: HA man as+ed* =/ "essenger of Allah.

son of Al =As who related this FRIEN.S OF ONE S PAREN$S FATHER'S FRIENDS |H '71 “/f the highest virtues is that you should be +ind to your father1s friends ! "uslim with a chain u# to ibn /mar who related that the %ro#het. 5 am +ind to them but they ill<treat me. ="ay Allah give to you good.KINDNESS TO ONE'S PARENTS EVEN IF THEY ARE HOSTILE |H '18 “A man said. say. #raise and #eace be u#on him. said. =5f it is as you have said. =3hat man1s father was my father1s friend and 5 heard the %ro#het. as+ed. =Bes ? 9o he told him. this PARENTAL CARE |H '. as+ed him. 1/f the highest virtues is that a #erson should be +ind towards his father1s friends and members of their families 1H 19 . these &edouin1s are #leased with only a little ? Abdullah the son of /mar said. =5 want to ta+e an oath with you. 5 am #atient but they are rude ? He re#lied. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. said this RESPECT FOR PARENT'S FRIENDS |H '7. #raise and #eace be u#on him. as+ed him. =Are either of your #arents alive@? 3he man re#lied* =Bes. =3hen your striving is in serving them. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. and said. you are feeding them hot ash as long as you continue and you will always have Allah to hel# you against them ?H "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that a man said to the %ro#het. =/ "essenger of Allah. “Abdullah the son of /mar met a &edouin Arab when he was on the way to "ecca Abdullah greeted him and as+ed if he would li+e to ride with him on his don+ey: he also gave him the turban he was wearing Abdullah the son of Einar said. =3hen return to your #arents and serve them well?! 8e are also informed* “A man came to as+ for #ermission to #artici#ate in the fighting 3he %ro#het. that service is eAual to fighting ?! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abdullah the son of Amr. =Are you see+ing a reward from Allah@? 3o this the man re#lied* =Bes ? 9o the %ro#het. both ? 3hen the %ro#het.1 “A man came to the %ro#het. =Are your #arents alive@? 3he man re#lied. to emigrate and fight in the Gause of Allah. see+ing my reward from Him ? 3he %ro#het. my relatives are such that 5 have associated with them but they sever.

did not feel as wishful to any of the %ro#het?s wives as 5 did to $ady Jhadijah 4in serving Allah and His %ro#het6. be +ind to their relatives and honor their friends ?H Abu Eaud with a chain u# to "ali+ the son of Kabi1a 9a1idi who related this FRIENDS OF LADY KHADIJAH |H '7) 5. #raise and #eace be u#on him. you have given this &edouin your easy riding don+ey and the turban you wound round your head ? He said. #raise and #eace be u#on him. mentioned her often 8hen a goat was slaughtered. say. =/f the highest virtue is that a #erson should be +ind to the members of a family who had been the friends of one1s father before his death ?! "uslim with a chain u# to the son of Einar narrates the story of Abdullah the son of /mar DESIRABLE ACTS FOR ONE'S DECEASED PARENTS |H '77 “"ali+ and some Gom#anions were sitting with the %ro#het. =Kide it? and he gave him his turban saying. #raise and #eace be u#on him. when a man of the &ani 9alamah came and as+ed. =Bes. is there any +indness 5 can do for my #arents after their death@? He answered. may Allah be #leased with them. =Bou s#ea+ of her as if there never was any other woman in the world beside Jhadijah ? He would re#ly."uslim with a chain u# to Abdullah the son of Einar said this KINDNESS TO ONE'S PARENT'S FRIENDS |H '7' “Abdullah the son of /mar was traveling to "ecca and became tired riding his camel: so he wound a turban around his head and rode his don+ey instead As he was riding he met a &edouin Arab and as+ed him. he would cut it into #ieces and send it to Jhadijah1s friends 9ometimes 5 would say to him. =Aren1t you so and so. =5 heard the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him. even though 5 had never seen her 3he %ro#het.F . =9he was such and such. 4$ady Ayesha6. =/ "essenger of Allah. indeed ? 3hereu#on Abdullah gave him the don+ey and said. the son of so and so@? 3he man re#lied. =8ind it around your head ? 9ome of his com#anions said to him. ="ay Allah forgive you. and 5 had children from her ?! 8e are also informed* “8hen he slaughtered a goat he would send as many #ieces of meat as gifts that he could for her friends ! 8e are also informed* . =Bes. #ray for them and as+ for their forgiveness Dulfill their #romises.

C 2:#+ Abu 3alha went to the %ro#het.. =5 saw the Ansar serve the %ro#het.. #raise and #eace be u#on him. +:+<> $oran THE GARDEN OF ABU TALHA |H . =/ "essenger of Allah. 2:#+ $oran “Believers. wife of the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him. spend of the good you have earned and of that which -e have brought out of the earth for you. B%ou shall not attain righteousness until you spend of what you love... "other of &elievers who related this IMITATING GOOD MANNERS |H '7( “Anas went on a journey with Carir the son of Abdullah &ujali Carir served Anas even though he was older than himself Anas said to him. except you closed an eye on it..e it yourselves..%ou shall not attain righteousness until you spend of what you love. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. in the way Allah would direct you ? 3he %ro#het.. =/ Allah... sister of $ady Jhadijah as+ed the %ro#het1s #ermission to enter 3his 4#olite6 mannerism reminded him of $ady Jhadijah and he was dee#ly moved He e. =Eon1t do this ? He re#lied. . with such devotion that 5 made a vow that whenever 5 am in the com#any of any of them 5 would serve them ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Anas the son of "ali+ who related this RELA$IAES Allah. . re#lied. #raise and #eace be u#on him. the Exalted says: “%ou shall not attain righteousness until you spend of what you love..92 “Abu 3alha was the wealthiest #erson from the tribe of Ansar in "edina He owned groves of date #alms but the #ro#erty he loved best was a garden called “&airaha! which was o##osite the "osAue 5t was there that the %ro#het. =9end some of it to Jhadijah1s friends ? /n one occasion... would go to drin+ its #ure water 8hen this verse was sent down.. Halah the daughter of Jhuwailad. and the #ro#erty 5 love most is “&airaha! 3herefore 5 offer it in charity for the sa+e of Allah. ho#ing for its reward from Allah 4%lease6 dis#ose of it / "essenger of Allah. And do not intend the bad of it for your spending? while you would never ta. and said. H5ndeed.claimed. let it be Halah the daughter of Jhuwailad ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to $ady Ayesha.. Allah has sent down to you.“8hen a goat was slaughtered he would say..1 .

=Had you given her to your maternal uncles it would have been better still ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to $ady "aimunah wife of the %ro#het. do you +now that 5 have freed my bonded servant@H He as+ed. a very good #ro#erty 5 have heard what you said. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him.. it is the one who reconciles them when the other #arty brea+s away ! &u+hari with a chain u# to Abdullah son of Amr who related that the "essenger of Allah. may Allah be #leased with her. may . said this IMPORTANCE OF MATERNAL RELATIVES |H '19 “8hosoever desires an increase in his #rovision and for his days to be lengthened let him connect with his maternal relatives ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Anas who related that the %ro#het.this is a very good #ro#erty. =5ndeed@? 9he re#lied. #raise and #eace be u#on him.' “3he womb 4the ties of blood relationshi#6 is sus#ended from the 3hrone of Allah and #roclaims.7 “$ady "aimunah. 8hen if was time for him to visit her she said. / "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him. =Bes ? 3hen he told her. =5 will do that. may Allah be #leased with her. said this IMPORTANCE OF KINSHIP |H '. #raise and #eace be u#on him. =Allah will connect with whosoever connects with me. and 5 thin+ you should divide it among your relatives ? Abu 3alha said. said this STATUS OF YOUR MATERNAL AUNT |H '') “Bour mother1s sister warrants the same status of your mother ! 3irmidhi with a chain u# to &ra1a the son of 1Azib who related this TIES OF KINSHIP |H '. and Allah will sever 4Himself6 from whosoever severs themselves from me ?! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to $ady Ayesha. =/ "essenger of Allah. freed a bonded servant without as+ing the %ro#het. .. said this MATERNAL UNCLES |H '. #raise and #eace be u#on him ? 9o he divided it among his cousins and relatives ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Anas who related that the "essenger of Allah. "other of &elievers. #raise and #eace be u#on him. “/ne who reci#rocates by doing good is not the one who u#holds the ties of +inshi# Kather. who related that the %ro#het. wife of the %ro#het.

shall 5 #lease her@? He re#lied. #raise and #eace be u#on him. in some #arts a Aairat is used Gharge each other to treat its #eo#le +indly. rescue yourself from the Dire. the mother of 5shmael. “9oon you will conAuer Igy#t.2 4Heraclius.9 “8hen this verse was revealed. who related this QUESTION OF HERACLIUS.6 teach you@? Abu 9ufyan re#lied* =He teaches us to worshi# Allah alone and not to associate anything with Him 3o abandon what our ancestors said and he commands us to establish the #rayer. invited the tribe of Joraysh and they all came He said to them. rescue yourselves from the Dire Ghildren of Abdul "uttalib. may Allah be #leased with them. because 5 do not own a thing with Allah for you 5 am related to you. +<:+"! the %ro#het. rescue yourselves from the Dire Ghildren of Abd "anat.. Im#eror of Kome as+ed6. EMPEROR OF ROME |H '.-arn your tribe and your near . be +ind to your mother ?! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to $ady Asma1a the daughter of Abu &a+r. #raise and #eace be u#on him 6! "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Eharr who related that the %ro#het. rescue yourselves from the Dire / Datima. to tell the truth. =8hat does he 4the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him. said this RESPONSIBILITY TO ONE’S SELF |H '. . =Ghildren of Abd 9hams.' .8 “9oon you will conAuer a land 4Igy#t6 in which there is a Airat 4a coin of little value6 ! 8e are informed. #raise and #eace be u#on him. the daughter of Harith related this KINDNESS TOWARDS ONE'S UNBELIEVING MOTHER |H '.insmen. rescue yourselves from the Dire Ghildren of Hashim. and as+ed the %ro#het. may Allah be #leased with her. the son of %ro#het "uhammad. =Bes. to be chaste and to strengthen the ties of +inshi# ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu 9ufyan who related that during the course of his meeting with Heraclius the latter as+ed him this NEGLECT OF DISTANT RELATIVES |H '. also "ary. "other of &elievers.Allah be #leased with her. and 5 will continue to fulfill my obligations ?! . the mother of Abraham. wife of %ro#het Abraham. children of Ja1ab son of $u1ayy rescue yourselves from the Dire Ghildren of "urrah son of Ja1ab. ="y mother has come to see me and wants me to give her something.) “48hen6 $ady Ayesha1s mother was an unbeliever she went to visit her so $ady Ayesha. because they have rights and a blood relationshi# 4$ady Haggar.

“A man said. then water because it is #ure ! He continued. and to associate with your blood relatives ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Ayub Jhalid.aid Ansari who related this CHARITY AND KINDNESS |H ''.7 . “8hen you brea+ the fast. #raise and #eace be u#on him. brea+ it with a date because there is blessing in it. 5 am #atient but they are rude ? He re#lied. =/ "essenger of Allah. but to a relative it is both charity and +indness ! 3irmidhi with a chain u# to 9alman the son of 1Amir who related that the %ro#het. =5f it is as you have said. my relatives are such that 5 associate with them but they sever 5 am +ind to them but they ill< treat me. said this . the son of . say o#enly without any attem#t to conceal CONDITIONS OF PARADISE |H ''1 “A man said. but if you cannot find a date. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. =3he worshi# of Allah and do not associate anything with Him: establishment of the #rayer: #ayment of the obligatory charity. this BREA0ING $HE $IES OF 0INSHIP SEVERING THE TIES OF KINSHIP |H ''9 “He who severs the ties of +inshi# will not enter %aradise ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Cubair son of "uti1m who related that the %ro#het. tell me something which will cause me to be admitted to %aradise and rescue me from the Dire ? He answered. “Niving alms to someone who is #oor is charity. =/ "essenger of Allah."uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related this YOUR OBLIGATIONS |H ''F “3he children of so and so are not my friends "y friends are Allah and #ious "uslims &ut 5 am related to them so 5 will continue to fulfill my obligations ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Amr the son of Al 1As who related that he heard the "essenger of Allah. #raise and #eace be u#on him. said this RELATIVES WHO ILL-TREAT ONE ANOTHER |H (). #raise and #eace be u#on him. you are feeding them hot ash as long as you continue and you will always have Allah to hel# you against them ?H "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that a man as+ed the %ro#het.

his maternal aunt.#iation of her vow she freed forty slaves 8henever the incident was mentioned to her thereafter. began to wee# as he #leaded with her His two com#anions also #leaded that she should tal+ to him and acce#t his a#ology 3hey as+ed her. <<:< $oran .ubair ? 3he #eriod became long. wife of the %ro#het. =All of us@? 9he re#lied. +. the son of Abd Baghuth and said to them..ubair had said regarding the sale or a gift she had given him.) . #raise and #eace be u#on him. guard yourselves and guard your families against the )ire the fuel of which is people and stones. has forbidden the severing of relationshi#s and has said that it is unlawful for a "uslim to stay away from a fellow "uslim for more than three days@? 3hey were #ersistent in their #lea and she also reminded them of the rights of +inshi# and started to wee# 3hen she said. =5 shall acce#t no intercession on his behalf. "other of &elievers. the Exalted says: “7rder your family to pray and be patient in it. so ibn .ubair As an e. may Allah be #leased with her. son of 3ufail who related this FAMILY OBLIGA$IONS & MANNERS Allah..:"2+ $oran “Believers.ubair a##roached "iswar the son of "a+hramah and Abdur Kahman the son of Aswad. all of you? not +nowing that ibn . =5f $ady Ayesha. and called out. =Eid he really say that@? And was told that he had 3hereu#on she declared. =5 have made a vow which is very severe ? &ut still they continued to #lead until she relented and at last s#o+e to ibn . was told that Abdullah the son of .. =Are you aware that the "essenger of Allah.ubair as+ed someone to go to her and intercede on his behalf &ut she declined saying..ubair went behind the screen and then holding on to $ady Ayesha. =Bes.ubair was with them 8hen they entered. because it is not lawful that she has vowed to sever our relationshi# ? 9o they too+ him with them covered in a sheet and went to $ady Ayesha.SEVERING KINSHIP |H 1911 “$ady Ayesha. ibn . does not refrain 4from all this generosity6 5 will #lace her wealth under guardianshi# ? 9he as+ed. =%eace be on you and the "ercy of Allah and His &lessings "ay we have your #ermission to enter@? 9he said. =5 reAuest you in the -ame of Allah to ta+e me to $ady Ayesha. =5 swear in the -ame of Allah 5 shall never s#ea+ to ibn . she would wee# so much that her scarf became soa+ed with tears ! &u+hari with a chain u# to Auf the son of "ali+. neither will 5 rescind my vow ? A long time #assed and ibn . =Bou may enter ? 3hey as+ed.

#raise and #eace be u#on him. =Bou are not well off and the %ro#het. and tell him two women at the door want to +now whether it would be charity if they s#ent on their husbands and on the or#hans in their care.insmen. to the orphans and to the needy. the son of 0mm 9alamah was in the care of the %ro#het. son of "as1ud. and to the destitute traveler. s#end in charity. and the companion at your side. =No to the %ro#het. 5 would #ut my hand inside the bowl. if not 5 will give it to someone else ? Abdullah re#lied.( “$adies. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. the Exalted says: “-orship Allah and do not associate anything with 3im. told me to mention the -ame of Allah and eat whatever was in front of me with my right hand ? Drom that time onward this became his habit ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to /mar son of Abi 9alamah who related this DOUBLE REWARD FOR KINDNESS AND CHARITY |H '. Be . =3hey will receive a double reward.ainab went to her husband and said to him. then the Holy %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him %resently &ilal came out and they as+ed him. Allah does not love he who is proud and struts. who related this NEIGHBORS Allah.ainab the wife of Abdullah. even from your jewelry ! . has recommended us to s#end in charity 9o go to him and as+ him if 5 give you something will it count as charity.ainab@? &ilal told him* =3he wife of Abdullah ? 3he %ro#het.ind to parents and near . =Bou should go yourself ? 9o she went and found a woman from the tribe of Ansar also waiting at the door who had come for the same reason as herself 3hey were nervous to go in on account of greatness of the %ro#het. =8hen 5 ate.indred. said. to your neighbor who is your .EAT IN THE NAME OF ALLAH WITH YOUR RIGHT HAND |H .99 H/mar. #raise and #eace be u#on him. but do not tell him our names ? &ilal went to the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him He mentioned. !:2< $oran . because it is +indness to relatives and charity ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to . and to that which your right hand owns. =A woman from the Ansar and . and to the neighbor at your far side.ainab ? He as+ed* =8hich . and as+ed him He inAuired who they were so &ilal said.( .

tra water to it. related that the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him@? He re#lied. #raise and #eace be u#on him. $ady Ayesha. =3he one whose neighbor is not safe from his mischief> 3he one who ma+es mischief against their neighbor will not enter %aradise ?! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het.2 . said this LOOK AFTER YOUR NEIGHBOR |H 'F7 “Abu Eharr. said this MISCHIEF AGAINST ONE’S NEIGHBOR |H 'F) “&y Allah he does not believe> &y Allah he does not believe> &y Allah he does not believe> He was as+ed* =8ho doesn1t believe. #raise and #eace be u#on him. do not be thin+ it des#icable to send even a lamb1s shan+ to your neighbor ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. who related that the %ro#het. 5 will continue to remind you>! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. wife of the %ro#het. said this KINDNESS TO YOUR NEIGHBOR |H 'F2 “A neighbor should not #revent his neighbor to #lace a rafter on his wall ! Abu Hurairah added* “How is it that 5 see you turning away concerning it 4the %ro#hetic instruction6 &y Allah. / "essenger of Allah. when you #re#are sou# add e. may Allah be #leased with her. then as+ your neighbors if they would li+e some and share it accordingly ! "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Eharr. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. "other of &elievers. said this GIVE TO YOUR NEIGHBOR EVEN THOUGH IT IS A LITTLE |H 'F( “/ "uslim ladies. #raise and #eace be u#on him.tra water to it and ta+e care of your neighbor ! Abu Eharr said “"y friend advised me* 8hen you #re#are sou# add e. said this INCOVENIENCING NEIGHBORS .NEIGHBORLY OBLIGATIONS |H 'F' “Nabriel told me 4the %ro#het6 so many times about the 4obligations towards one1s6 neighbor that 5 thought he might also include them with one1s heirs ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to 5bn /mar and .

this BEST NEIGHBOR |H '11 “3he best com#anion in the sight of Allah is the one who behaves best towards his com#anions. #raise and #eace be u#on him. 5 #urchased the land from you and not the . said this NEAR NEIGHBORS |H '1F “$ady Ayesha. "other of &elievers. said this KINDNESS TO ONE’S NEIGHBOR |H 'F9 “8hosoever believes in Allah and the $ast Eay should be +ind to his neighbor 8hosoever believes in Allah and the $ast Eay should honor his guest: and whosoever believes in Allah and the $ast Eay should s#ea+ well or remain silent ! "uslim with a chain u# to Abu 9huraih Jhuza1i who related that the %ro#het. who related that she as+ed the %ro#het. said this EXAMPLE OF THE WINNERS |H 1822 “A man #urchased a #iece of land from another and found in it a vessel filled with gold 9o went to the one who had sold him the land and said. #raise and #eace be u#on him. #raise and #eace be u#on him. as+ed. and the best neighbor is the one who behaves best towards his neighbors ! 3irmidhi with a chain u# to Abdullah son of /mar who related that the %ro#het. wife of the %ro#het. may Allah be #leased with her. said this SPEAK WELL OR REMAIN SILENT |H '17 “8hosoever believes in Allah and the $ast Eay should be +ind to his neighbor 8hosoever believes in Allah and the $ast Eay should honor his guest: and whosoever believes in Allah and the $ast Eay should s#ea+ well or remain silent ! "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het.8 . may Allah be #leased with her. =3a+e your gold.|H 'F8 “8hosoever believes in Allah and the $ast Eay must not inconvenience his neighbor 8hosoever believes in Allah and the $ast Eay must honor his guest: and whosoever believes in Allah and the $ast Eay should s#ea+ well or else remain silent ! &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the %ro#het. #raise and #eace be u#on him. =5 have two neighbors: to which one of them should 5 send a gift@? He re#lied* =3o the one whose door is nearer to yours ?H &u+hari with a chain u# to $ady Ayesha. #raise and #eace be u#on him.

? and the other said. FAMILY. ="arry the boy to the girl and s#end the money on them ?H &u+hari and "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who related that the "essenger of Allah. =5 have a daughter ? 9o the man decided. said this O IN. JINN AND HUMANS & PROPOSAL OF MARRIAGE QUALITIES TO SEEK IN A WIFE PENDING PROPOSAL PRIOR PROPOSAL AN UNACCEPTABLE CONDITION . =5 have a son. said this . #raise and #eace be u#on him. the Exalted says: “6hose who hurt believing men and believing women undeservedly.gold ? 3he seller said to him.9 .ING A PERSONCS LINEAGE Allah. 22:=@ $oran SIGNS OF DISBELIEF |H 1(19 “3here are two matters through which #eo#le become unbelievers* 3aunting a #erson because of his lineage and wee#ing loudly over the dead ! "uslim with a chain u# to Abu Hurairah who narrated that the "essenger of Allah. HUMANS ANGELS. #raise and #eace be u#on him.ERI. =Eo you have any children@? /ne of them said. shall bear the guilt of slander and a ma&or sin.EB MARRIAGE. ORPHANS NEIGHBOR ISSUES >REA$ION OF ANGELS ?INN AN. =5 sold you the land and all that it contained ? 9o they too+ their dilemma to a third #arty who as+ed.

RIGH$S OF A @IFE KORAN TREATMENT OF WOMEN WIFE ABUSE LOOK FOR THE BEST IN YOUR SPOUSE HUSBAND AND WIFE RELATIONSHIP STRIKING ONE’S WIFE ON THE FACE PERFECT BELIEVER SPOUSAL COMPLAINTS REWARD FOR PLEASING ONE'S HUSBAND AROUSING THE ANGER OF ONE’S HUSBAND VALUE OF A GOOD WOMAN RIGH$S OF A HUSBAN.IAOR>E KORAN RECONCILIATION HUSBAND AND WIFE SUCKLED BY SAME SUCKLING MOTHER CHOICE WIFE OF OMAR PROTECT OR DEMOLISH >HIL. KORAN CURSE OF THE ANGELS PERMISSION REQUIRED FOR A WIFE TO FAST VOLUNTARILY ACCOUNTABILITY NEEDS OF ONE'S HUSBAND SPOUSAL ARGUMENTS TRIAL DESCRIPTION OF A WOMAN TO ONE'S HUSBAND .REN CONCEPTION AND PREDESTINATION FAVORITISM AFFECTION KISS YOUR CHILDREN COMPASSION REWARD FOR SPENDING ON YOUR CHILDREN TREATMENT OF DAUGHTERS FREEDOM FROM THE FIRE BLESSINGS OF RAISING DAUGHTERS HOW TO BATHE A CHILD CHILDREN AND PRAYER THE TEN YEAR OLD CHILD WHO DOES NOT PRAY ORPHANS KORAN THE MERIT OF CARING FOR ORPHANS ORPHANS AND PARADISE 'F .

I$URE KORAN HIGHEST REWARD FOR CHARITY BEST FORMS OF CHARITY REWARD FOR SEEKING THE PLEASURE OF ALLAH CHARITY TO ONE'S FAMILY DENYING A DEPENDANT SPEND ON YOUR DEPENDENTS SUPPLICATION OF THE ANGELS CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME FALSE PA$ERNI$Y PENALTY FOR CLAIMING FALSE PATERNITY REJECTION OF YOUR FATHER CURSE OF ALLAH FALSE CLAIMS @I.O@S LOOK AFTER WIDOWS AND THE NEEDY RESPE>$ & HONORING PAREN$S KORAN WHAT ALLAH LIKES MOST HOW TO REPAY ONE'S FATHER IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY TIES MAJOR SINS MORE MAJOR SINS FORBIDING OF ALLAH ABUSING ONE'S PARENTS IMPORTANCE OF YOUR MOTHER DISOBEDIENCE TO ONE’S MOTHER LOOK AFTER YOUR AGING PARENTS KINDNESS TO ONE'S PARENTS EVEN IF THEY ARE HOSTILE PARENTAL CARE FRIEN.S OF ONE S PAREN$S FATHER'S FRIENDS RESPECT FOR PARENT'S FRIENDS KINDNESS TO ONE'S PARENT'S FRIENDS DESIRABLE ACTS FOR ONE'S DECEASED PARENTS FRIENDS OF LADY KHADIJAH IMITATING GOOD MANNERS RELA$IAES KORAN '1 .SEVEN DANGEROUS THINGS FAMILY EBPEN.

THE GARDEN OF ABU TALHA IMPORTANCE OF MATERNAL RELATIVES STATUS OF YOUR MATERNAL AUNT TIES OF KINSHIP IMPORTANCE OF KINSHIP MATERNAL UNCLES KINDNESS TOWARDS ONE'S UNBELIEVING MOTHER QUESTION OF HERACLIUS.ERI.ING A PERSON S KORAN SIGNS OF DISBELIEF LINEAGE '. EMPEROR OF ROME NEGLECT OF DISTANT RELATIVES RESPONSIBILITY TO ONE’S SELF YOUR OBLIGATIONS CONDITIONS OF PARADISE CHARITY AND KINDNESS RELATIVES WHO ILL-TREAT ONE ANOTHER BREA0ING $HE $IES OF 0INSHIP SEVERING THE TIES OF KINSHIP SEVERING KINSHIP FAMILY OBLIGA$IONS & MANNERS KORAN EAT IN THE NAME OF ALLAH WITH YOUR RIGHT HAND DOUBLE REWARD FOR KINDNESS AND CHARITY NEIGHBORS KORAN NEIGHBORLY OBLIGATIONS LOOK AFTER YOUR NEIGHBOR MISCHIEF AGAINST ONE’S NEIGHBOR GIVE TO YOUR NEIGHBOR EVEN THOUGH IT IS A LITTLE KINDNESS TO YOUR NEIGHBOR INCOVENIENCING NEIGHBORS KINDNESS TO ONE’S NEIGHBOR NEAR NEIGHBORS BEST NEIGHBOR SPEAK WELL OR REMAIN SILENT EXAMPLE OF THE WINNERS . .