It is for You

Marriage is an ordained institution meant to unite man and woman together as one. Oneness in marriage for me implies the unification of two different minds, souls, views as a globe. Each one gives up all his excesses to accommodate the other. The essence of this is to be bathed in the thumb of happiness. The book of proverb captures this: he who finds a wife has found a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord . You see, it is a thine of ubilation, a thine of o! to find a soul mate. "t is meant to increase !our happiness, increase !our o! and warm !ou in ic! wools. "t is natural to be mood!, angr!, disappointed and re ected, however without consolation can lead to a depression that is wh! !ou need someone around !ou that understands !our simple winks, somebod! who understands !ou bod! language, one who sees happiness or sadness on !our cheeks. #hen an! of these feelings visits !ou, !our wife should be there for !ou. Ever! man that hooks up with a good woman is liable to live long. #ho is !our wife$ %ause a while. "n m! own opinion, a wife should be !our immediate second, a reserved heart for !ou, a second e!e. &o bird can fl! with onl! one wing, !our wife remains !our second bird wing. 'he must see !our belongings as hers. 'he must protect !our belongings and not destro! them. 'he must respect !ou and !our famil!. 'he should be part of !our famil! and not an outsider. "n fact, !our people can count on !our wife. Even when !ou (uarrel, she must not raise her hands on !ou. )ro, " want !ou to take enough time and review !our marriage, define things with !our wife, re*define issues and see marriage as a medium of o! and not sadness. Your home must be !our safest corner. "t is normal for humans to crave for home, when it is otherwise, then is time to ask wh!$ +uietness lamentation would not solve the problem, a stitch in time saves nine. -hange is permanent, whoever refuses to change for good is toxic. &obod! will make decisions for !ou, !ou are the onl! one who can save the situation. " do not mean at this point, that !ou should cut off with !our spouse. " mean that ever! famil! has its own rift. )ut rift should strengthen and re*state the relationship. #hen the effect is otherwise then something is wrong somewhere. #e should not fold our arms and watch one person threaten the whole famil!. .emember that an!bod! who can destro! !our propert! is capable of plotting against !ou. #atch for her attitude towards mone!. "s she with !ou for who !ou are or for what !ou have$ Ourof context, however, ver! important for the growth of !our %harmac! shop. "n the course of m! visits to !our shop " discovered that something ver! essential is dwindling. " acknowledge that it is uneas! to feed four to six people dail!. You are doing well on the part of feeding !our people and !our bo!s. " ust wanna point out that feeding and time should be carefull! managed. 'ometimes !our bo!s fall into sill! errors because of late eating, eating breakfast at //*/0 seems to be late, hunger can do man! things: "t can influence the wa! the! attend to !our lovel! customers, it can influence the wa! the! calculate mone!, the wa! the! administer drugs to people. " beg that !ou should pa! more

attention to the T"ME and what the! eat. The! can have their own pots and prepare what the! eat upstairs. " did it with &namdi and it worked ver! well. %lease do not wave off this suggestion, it is for our good. &ote that !our bo!s would not be able to complain about food to !ou, since the! are serving. "t is ust a suggestion. " sa! this out of love for our famil! and !ou. Odelu nwa udele , odelu nwa mkpa, we are the same. " write out of urgenc! about the anxiet! that " am seeing in !our home, on !our face and those around !ou. " pra! and make supplications for !ou dail!. #hen it comes to !ou , it comes to me for we are one. " feel the pains !ou feel, " tell !ou most solemnl!. %lease act on time. This is the time to call 1 an 1, ) as ). "f !ou rub an egg too much it might hatch in !our palms. 2ere " rest m! pen and paper. 3et peace rain in !our home444