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What is the best age to marry? Give reasons and examples to support your response?

In our daily life, we get some experiences about social events and marriage is one of them .There are some factors which influence on this event and one of them is the suitable age. It is better either for men and women to choose the appropriate age to get married. Woman usually wants to marry a young and strong man; therefore a man wants to marry a young and beautiful woman. In these cases, they should be a certain period of age for both of them to have attraction to each other. It is better to know that early marriage is usually harmful to the women's health and looks.Therefor parents should forbid their children from early marriage. For example, last year our neighbor births a baby while she was 18 years old and after that she became more week. Nowadays most people want to get the highest peak at their career which is the reason for avoiding early marriage. They state that marriage may stop them both on career and education. However, it doesn't seem true because for instance my mother completed her education after marriage and now she has a job. In my idea it is better for girls to get married about 23 or 24 years old and for boys to get married around 27 or 28 years old. At these ages both are sexually strong and may enjoy marriage life. I came to the conclusion that both men and women should try to get married while they are on their youth to feel happier and enjoy more from their life. Could someone grade this essay please? (: TOEFL listening lectures: What happened at the Potsdam Conference?

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Woman usually wants to marry a young and strong man. At these ages both are sexually strong and may enjoy marriage life. it doesn't seem true because for instance my mother completed her education after marriage and now she has a job. last year our neighbor births a baby while she was 18 years old and after that she became more week. I came to the conclusion that both men and women should try to get married while they are on their youth to feel happier and enjoy more from their life. It is better to know that early marriage is usually harmful to the women's health and looks.There are some factors which influence on this event and one of them is the suitable age. Could someone grade this essay please? (: TOEFL listening lectures: What happened at the Potsdam Conference? Ahmadi2010 I'm new here and I like it .Therefor parents should forbid their children from early marriage. Nowadays most people want to get the highest peak at their career which is the reason for avoiding early marriage. It is better either for men and women to choose the appropriate age to get married. they should be a certain period of age for both of them to have attraction to each other. For example. However. They state that marriage may stop them both on career and education. therefore a man wants to marry a young and beautiful woman.-) Joined: 16 Jan 2011 Posts: 34 Location: Turkey .What is the best age to marry? Give reasons and examples to support your response? In our daily life. In these cases. In my idea it is better for girls to get married about 23 or 24 years old and for boys to get married around 27 or 28 years old. we get some experiences about social events and marriage is one of them .

What is the Best Age to Marry? Glenn T. each wanting to make sure that new marriages are established upon the strongest foundation of life experience." 3 He explains that marriages formed at ages later than this fared very well in survival. but there is a general window where most agree. maturity. little or nothing in the way of marital success is likely to be gained by deliberately delaying marriage beyond the mid-twenties. Age at marriage doesn't stand alone as a benefit or harm. Glenn explains that it would be "premature to conclude that the optimal time for first marriage for most persons is ages 22-25" because other critical factors impact risk of divorce and marital happiness as well. as well as educational and financial security. And good scholars disagree on the topic to small degrees. Stanton What is the best age to get married? Both parents and young adults ask this question quite often. Professor Glenn concludes his article by stating. Austin) and2 Professor Glenn in his recent published study. Two of the best sources are 1 (UT. explains. There is not a great wealth of research on this question. "The findings of this study do indicate that for most persons. but there is some good data that can be helpful to young men and women and their parents. "The greatest…likelihood of being in an intact marriage of the highest quality is among those who married at age 22-25. drawing from five different American data sets. but "rather poorly" in quality." 4 . The most significant additional factors are:         premarital cohabitation socio-economics having parents who are divorced educational attainment general maturity and personal commitment to the idea of marital longevity having healthy marriage attitudes and behaviors modeled by both sets of parents involvement in a healthy church/faith setting that takes marriage seriously completed meaningful premarital counseling Given this qualification. However and importantly.

" Dr. which is an important factor in marital stability and happiness. he admits that not divorcing is not the same as having both quality and stability." However. "The Case for Early Marriage.Paul Amato explains that marrying at a "young age is one of the best predictors of divorce. "But I think couples can marry somewhat earlier than this IF they are embedded in a supportive church community that gives them direction. Austin). the risk of divorce is attenuated [reduced].26 for women and 28 for men – is the highest it's ever been since the Census has collected such numbers." 7 Wilcox adds though." Amato is referring to those marrying in their teens. "Once people enter their early to mid-twenties. "Couples who marry in their midtwenties tend to do best. Note: Median age of first marriage today . when you combine a consideration of quality and stability. 9 Conclusion: The 22 to 25 age-at-first-marriage range seems to be that which enhances both the quality and stability of marriage. In other words. marrying "too late" may increase the risk of having a troubled relationship. we must ask what he means by "young. Bradford Wilcox (U of Virginia) concurs with these two findings from his own analysis of the National Survey of Family growth data. And "earlier" marriage in the 22-age window increases the likelihood of couples marrying as virgins. nor does it doom them.10 . Indeed. but could serve to work against them for various reasons." 6 W. explaining. because the data suggests it's not a major risk of divorce over the next 10 years. Waiting longer than 25 years-of-age does not appear to boost either of these marital measures." 5 Of course. support and healthy role models." jokingly encourages that marrying after "you're 80 is probably the best way to guarantee that you'll stay married the rest of your life!" 8 Regnerus says he would push the number a bit lower than other sociologists "to 22'ish. He explains. people who postpone marriage until their thirties face a dwindling supply of potential partners – a situation that may increase the likelihood of forming unions with partners who are not good marriage material. Mark Regnerus (UT. who wrote the popular cover story for Christianity Today (August 2009).

jatuh tempo .. " 3 Dia menjelaskan bahwa pernikahan terbentuk pada usia lebih dari ini bernasib sangat baik dalam bertahan hidup. Faktor tambahan yang paling signifikan adalah : kohabitasi pranikah sosio .. Namun dan penting . gambar dari lima set data yang berbeda Amerika . sedikit atau tidak ada di jalan keberhasilan perkawinan kemungkinan yang bisa diperoleh dengan sengaja menunda pernikahan di luar pertengahan dua puluhan . Dua sumber terbaik adalah 1 ( UT Austin ) and2 Professor Glenn dalam studi yang dipublikasikan baru-baru ini . Usia saat menikah tidak berdiri sendiri sebagai manfaat atau bahaya . Glenn menjelaskan bahwa itu akan menjadi " terlalu dini untuk menyimpulkan bahwa waktu yang optimal untuk pernikahan pertama bagi sebagian besar orang adalah usia 22-25 " karena risiko dampak faktor penting lainnya perceraian dan kebahagiaan perkawinan juga. masing-masing ingin memastikan bahwa pernikahan baru dibentuk atas dasar terkuat dari pengalaman hidup . Professor Glenn menyimpulkan artikelnya dengan menyatakan . " Temuan studi ini tidak menunjukkan bahwa bagi kebanyakan orang . Tidak ada kekayaan besar penelitian tentang pertanyaan ini .ekonomi memiliki orang tua yang bercerai pencapaian pendidikan kematangan umum dan komitmen pribadi untuk ide perkawinan umur panjang memiliki sikap dan perilaku perkawinan yang sehat dimodelkan oleh kedua pasang orangtua keterlibatan dalam pengaturan gereja / iman yang sehat yang mengambil perkawinan serius konseling pra-nikah yang berarti selesai Mengingat kualifikasi ini . Stanton Apa adalah usia terbaik untuk menikah ? Kedua orang tua dan dewasa muda mengajukan pertanyaan ini cukup sering . tetapi " agak buruk " dalam kualitas . " 4 . Dan ulama yang baik tidak setuju pada topik ke derajat kecil . menjelaskan . " Yang terbesar . serta keamanan pendidikan dan keuangan . tapi ada jendela umum di mana sebagian besar setuju . tetapi ada beberapa data yang baik yang dapat membantu untuk laki-laki muda dan perempuan dan orang tua mereka .Apa Age Terbaik untuk Menikah ? Glenn T. kemungkinan berada di sebuah pernikahan utuh dari kualitas tertinggi adalah di antara mereka yang menikah pada usia 22-25 .

Catatan : Usia rata-rata dari pernikahan pertama hari ini . Dia menjelaskan . karena data menunjukkan itu bukan risiko utama perceraian selama 10 tahun ke depan . ia mengakui bahwa tidak bercerai tidak sama dengan memiliki kualitas dan stabilitas . Situasi yang dapat meningkatkan kemungkinan membentuk serikat dengan mitra yang tidak material pernikahan yang baik . yang merupakan faktor penting dalam stabilitas dan kebahagiaan perkawinan . menjelaskan . tetapi bisa berfungsi untuk bekerja melawan mereka karena berbagai alasan . " Namun. " Tapi saya pikir pasangan bisa menikah agak lebih awal dari ini JIKA mereka tertanam dalam sebuah komunitas gereja yang mendukung yang memberi mereka arah.first.pernikahan rentang tampaknya bahwa yang meningkatkan kualitas dan stabilitas perkawinan . orang-orang yang menunda pernikahan sampai usia tiga puluhan menghadapi pasokan berkurang dari mitra potensial . " The Case for Pernikahan Dini .adalah yang tertinggi itu pernah sejak Sensus telah mengumpulkan numbers. Menunggu lebih dari 25 tahun . " 7 Wilcox menambahkan meskipun. " bercanda mendorong bahwa menikah setelah " Anda 80 mungkin adalah cara terbaik untuk menjamin bahwa Anda akan tetap menikah sisa hidup Anda! " 8 Regnerus mengatakan ia akan mendorong jumlah sedikit lebih rendah dari sosiolog lain "untuk 22'ish . Bradford Wilcox ( U of Virginia ) sepakat dengan dua temuan ini dari analisis sendiri dari Survei Nasional data pertumbuhan keluarga . " 5 Tentu saja. " 6 W. risiko perceraian dilemahkan [ dikurangi ] Memang . 9 Kesimpulan: 22 hingga 25 usia -at. yang menulis cerita sampul populer untuk Christianity Today ( Agustus 2009) .usia tidak muncul untuk meningkatkan salah satu dari langkah-langkah perkawinan . ketika Anda menggabungkan pertimbangan kualitas dan stabilitas .10 tersebut . Dan " awal " pernikahan di jendela 22 .dari ..usia meningkatkan kemungkinan pasangan menikah sebagai perawan . dengan kata lain . " Amato adalah mengacu pada mereka yang menikah di usia remaja . kita harus bertanya apa yang dimaksud dengan " muda . dukungan dan model peran yang sehat . " Begitu orang masuk mereka awal hingga pertengahan dua puluhan . " Dr Mark Regnerus ( UT Austin ) . menikah " terlambat " dapat meningkatkan risiko memiliki hubungan yang bermasalah .26 untuk perempuan dan 28 untuk lakilaki . " Pasangan yang menikah di pertengahan dua puluhan cenderung untuk melakukan yang terbaik .Paul Amato menjelaskan bahwa menikah pada " usia muda merupakan salah satu prediktor terbaik dari perceraian . juga tidak azab mereka.

neither early nor late. without any problem. That’s why it is said that Man proposes God disposes. in each and every country there should be ban for an early marriage. So marriage and career. As the age increase. Therefore. Therefore. That’s why everybody does not want to get married early. An early marriage can be harmful for the girl’s health and for their feature also. there should be a definite age to get married. Nowadays every body wants to touch the highest peak in their career. I have seen a good example of this in my family. At that age both are sexually strong. In my view the write age to get marriage for a girl should be 23 or 24 and for a boy it should be 26 or 27. Most of the people think after marriage you cannot do any thing. TOEFL listening discussions: A conversation between a student and a university service representative . both are different paths of life and both are important in life. attraction of each and every person towards others gets degraded. have attraction for the other and would enjoy marriage life. If any body does not marry at the write age for some reasons than he or she should not get depressed. My mother completed her education after marriage and now she is doing a job. I would like to say in context of the best age of marriage that. This is because every man wants to get married with a young and beautiful woman and every woman wants to get married with a young and a strong man. Hence. But it is not true. It should be a rule that parents cannot marry their girls until a certain age. for a good generation it is necessary for both men and women to get marriage at the write age. At this age a woman has more chance to conceive and give birth to a healthy child. if you are an enthusiastic person you can do each and every thing after marriage. At this age the fertility period for a woman at the highest point and at that age a woman can adopt their partner. they all are career oriented. for a happy life it is necessary for a person either a man or a woman to get married in the write age.Toefl Essay What is the best age to marry? Give reasons and examples to support yours response.

untuk generasi yang baik itu perlu bagi pria dan wanita untuk mendapatkan pernikahan pada usia menulis . Oleh karena itu . untuk hidup bahagia itu perlu bagi seseorang baik pria atau wanita untuk menikah di usia menulis . dalam setiap negara harus ada larangan untuk pernikahan dini . Itulah mengapa dikatakan bahwa Man mengusulkan Allah membuang . Pada usia ini seorang wanita memiliki lebih banyak kesempatan untuk hamil dan melahirkan anak yang sehat . Sebuah pernikahan dini dapat berbahaya bagi kesehatan gadis itu dan untuk fitur mereka juga . Sebagian besar orang berpikir setelah menikah Anda tidak dapat melakukan hal apapun. Jadi pernikahan dan karir . mereka semua karir berorientasi . Tapi itu tidak benar . TOEFL diskusi mendengarkan : Sebuah percakapan antara mahasiswa dan perwakilan layanan universitas . jika Anda adalah orang yang antusias Anda dapat melakukan setiap hal setelah menikah . Ini harus menjadi aturan bahwa orang tua tidak bisa menikah gadis mereka sampai usia tertentu . Ibuku menyelesaikan pendidikannya setelah menikah dan sekarang dia melakukan pekerjaan . Oleh karena itu . Saya telah melihat contoh yang baik dari ini dalam keluarga saya . Saya ingin mengatakan dalam konteks usia terbaik dari pernikahan itu . Sebagai peningkatan usia . Pada usia ini periode kesuburan bagi wanita pada titik tertinggi dan pada usia tersebut seorang wanita dapat mengadopsi pasangannya .Essay toefl Apa adalah usia terbaik untuk menikah ? Beri alasan dan contoh untuk mendukung respon Anda . keduanya jalan yang berbeda dari kehidupan dan keduanya penting dalam hidup . Jika seseorang tidak menikah pada usia menulis untuk beberapa alasan daripada dia seharusnya tidak mengalami depresi . Hal ini karena setiap orang ingin menikah dengan seorang wanita muda dan cantik dan setiap wanita ingin menikah dengan seorang pria muda dan kuat . memiliki daya tarik bagi yang lain dan akan menikmati hidup pernikahan . Oleh karena itu . daya tarik masing-masing dan setiap orang terhadap orang lain akan rusak . Saat ini setiap tubuh ingin menyentuh puncak tertinggi dalam karir mereka . baik awal maupun akhir . tanpa masalah apapun . Dalam pandangan saya usia menulis untuk mendapatkan pernikahan untuk seorang gadis harus 23 atau 24 dan untuk anak laki-laki itu harus 26 atau 27 . harus ada usia yang pasti untuk menikah . Pada usia itu keduanya kuat seksual . Itulah mengapa semua orang tidak ingin menikah dini .