Tuesday, January 14, 2014

The Herald

Woman wants girlfriend to be someone she’s not

Tomorrow’s Horoscope
By Bernice Bede Osol


Dear Annie: I have been her ex, her next relationship in a committed relationship might not be with you. If you for a year. Admittedly, my can accept this outcome, you girlfriend and I (we are les- can move forward. bians) rushed into things. We Dear Annie: Growing up, moved in together I thought if I had quickly when she siblings, I would broke up with her have learned how girlfriend of five to get along with years. After the others my own first month, “Denage. But now that nie” cheated on I have reached the me with her ex. I ripe old age of 70, I wrote it off, but a am grateful to have few months later, been an only child. she cheated again. Here’s why: I have generalized There was anxiety disorder enough money to and started to as- Annie’s Mailbox send me to colsociate going to lege. I have read work with Dennie’s cheat- countless letters in your coling, which made my work life umn complaining about sibmiserable. lings and have listened to Shortly after all of this the complaints of my friends happened, I emotionally about theirs. I knew it was tocheated with an ex of my tally on me to make decisions own. I admitted this to Den- about my parents’ health as nie. She was angry and sad, they became unable to do so, but I said she should give me with no arguments from siba second chance because I’d lings. already given her two. I deSo for your readers out leted my ex’s phone number there who are thinking of and blocked her in all forms stopping after one child, I say of communication. good idea. — Only Child in I recently found out that Massachusetts Dennie visited her ex when Dear Child: We are glad she was briefly in the hospi- you have embraced your tal. It wasn’t cheating, but status. But for every person we had agreed that one of who is happy to be an only the conditions of continuing child, you will find others our relationship is that all who could not imagine their contact with the exes must lives without their loving sibbe stopped. One month later, lings. Granted, people comDennie cheated on me again plain about their relatives, with this same girl — in our and when it comes to advice home. It’s hard for me to columns, you are more likely look at Dennie the same way. to read about problems. We My head keeps telling me to know that siblings can drive let her go, but my heart isn’t you crazy — so can spouses ready. and parents. But a good relaI’ve asked Dennie to go tionship with a brother or siswith me for counseling, but ter can be a source of comfort she says she wants us to work throughout life. it out on our own. She says Dear Annie: “A Loving she isn’t the only one at fault. and Lonely Grandma” said We’ve both made mistakes, her teenage granddaughter but the difference is that I’ve avoids her because of her learned from mine. I can’t raspy voice. At least one of continue unless we both can the parents is complicit in be faithful. What should I do? the girl’s behavior. I can un— Cheated On Again derstand her being embarDear Cheated On: Den- rassed. Teenagers can be emnie is not yet over her ex, and barrassed by your breathing. you seem well aware of it. But sometime in the distant You were her rebound. You past, her parents should have desperately want Dennie to stopped the behavior, saybe someone she is not, and it ing, “How would you feel if isn’t working out. Unless you someone treated you like that want your heart broken over because you had a different and over, please let her go. voice?” It’s a teaching moEven if she doesn’t return to ment. — S.B.

WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 15, 2014 Progressive motion will get you where you want to go in the coming months. Expect emotional issues to be brought out into the open. Clear up any matter that is keeping you from getting what you want. Use emotional tactics to win personal battles. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Keep everything out in the open so you can deal with issues as they arise. You must clear up any misunderstandings with alacrity. Turn a negative into an opportunity. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Don’t waste the day. There is too much to do, and too little time. Secrets are apparent, and they must be considered before you make a decision based on limited information. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -- Take a chance and try something unique. Offer help and look for ways to utilize what you have to offer in more diverse ways. Romance will lead to happiness. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- Avoid altercations. Partnership problems will escalate if you aren’t willing to compromise. A commonsense approach to work and money will pay off. Keep your life simple. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -Take a chance, and present what you have to offer. Showing your skills and expertise will be far more effective than talking about them. Actions speak louder than words. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -You’ll be tempted by an offer that may not be legitimate or that is based on hearsay rather than facts. Step back before you suffer a loss. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- Relationships, partnerships and mingling with people who share your interests and concerns will bring about unusual and exciting opportunities. Love is on the line, and romance will seal the deal. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -Watch your back today, especially when dealing with financial, legal or medical issues. Take some time to confabulate with trusted allies before taking a chance on someone or something you know too little about. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- Your suggestions will be wellreceived. Do your best to help out, but don’t let anyone take you for granted. Friendships will grow, and people from your past will reappear. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Stay calm and rely on your knowledge and ability to deliver information with intelligence and passion. Don’t allow anger or emotional tension to come between you and your goals. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- Enjoy the moment, take part in unique activities and develop relationships that will be of use to you in the future. Alterations to your living arrangements will be comforting. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Keep an eye on your personal papers and concerns. Be prepared to make a sudden and unexpected move should anyone stand between you and your goals. Protect your assets. DISTRIBUTED BY UNIVERSAL UCLICK FOR UFS






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