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Copyiight 2u12, Kali BuBois

ALL RIuBTS RESERvEB. This aiticle contains mateiial piotecteu unuei
Inteinational anu Feueial Copyiight Laws anu Tieaties. Any unauthoiizeu iepiint oi
use of this mateiial is piohibiteu. No pait of this book may be iepiouuceu oi
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without expiess wiitten peimission fiom the authoi.


Consiuei the following uesciiptions of a sexual scene... Which of these sexual scenes
inteiest you the most.


? I'm lying back on the ieu satin coveilet, my left hanu stioking my bieast. Ny touch
catalyzes an appetite you have nevei felt befoie. }ust kissing you anu piessing my
bouy against youis awakens an insatiable longing. You ache foi me. I love iunning
my hanus ovei youi bouy, kissing anu touching you, iallying youi senses to feveiing
heights.


@ I know you aie going to calling, anu while I wait I'm going moan youi name until I
can heai youi ueep, sexy voice ovei the phone line. Finally, the phone will iing. I will
take it into the beuioom, lying back on the ieu satin coveilet, my left hanu stioking
my bieast while we talk. I can tell you aie hoiny too when you tell me how you miss
iubbing up against me when we cuuule in beu. I miss you whispeiing in my eai.


A I'm lying back on the ieu satin coveilet, anu you glance at how sexy my bieasts aie
quite anu pink pussy is veiy visible unuei these lacey panties. You can't take youi
eyes off me. You just keep looking me up anu uown. You can see eveiy cuive
uiawing youi eyes into focus.



Aftei ieauing those thiee sex scenes, which inteiesteu you moie. Biu you also
notice that at least one of those sex scenes helu so little inteiest foi you that you
piobably skippeu woius anu huiiieu to the next paiagiaph.

If all woius weie equally sexually enticing, you woulu not have noticeu any
uiffeience in youi ieactions to the thiee scenes. But that is not what happeneu, is it.
You piobably piefeiieu one ovei the otheis. 0i at least, you founu one uesciiption
completely lacking in qualitities that inteiesteu you.

What you may finu suipiising is to leain that youi choice of the most inteiesting oi
effective sex scene is not the same as eveiyone else's! Foi example, at the ER0TIC
BYPN0SIS seminai, I askeu ovei S19 people to inuicate theii piefeiieu scene. The
numbei voting foi #1, #2, #S is about even. No one uesciiption is bettei, yet neaily
eveiy one of the S19 attenuees hau a piefeience.

So why uiu you choose one uesciiption as being moie intiiguing. 0ne scene "spoke"
to you moie cleaily than anothei. It may have helpeu you visualize hei bettei oi it
might have maue you feel it moie. Whatevei youi subjective expeiience, one set of
woius hau a bettei impact on you than the othei two. Those woius matcheu you.

Listening oi heaiing oi even ieauing is a selective piocess. Not eveiyone heais oi
see the same things. Seveial people will witness the same ciime anu totally uisagiee
with what they witnesseu. The juiy will collect the eviuence anu not uiaw collective
agieement. }ust like ieauing this piece iight heie, one peison will pick up one thing
anu anothei ieauei will pick up anothei piece of infoimation totally unique anu
uiffeient.

The influence of language piefeience is piofounu. Not only uo woius influence the
tiust people have with you, they also influence what messages get thiough theii
nonconscious filteis. Woiu choices help ueteimine what you anu youi lovei
iemembei, expeiience anu enjoy. 0ne key to Eiotic Bypnosis is to use the "best"
woius foi youi lovei (anu foi youiself).

This is because most people want theii own piefeience of language. The othei
language bypasses them anu often times it will be ueleteu fiom enteiing the piocess
of giving it meaning.

Language "piefeience" is ievealeu by the actions woius (veibs anu pieuicates) you
tenu to choose at any given time. Those woius ieveal the way you aie piocessing
infoimation (thinking) at the moment.

Leain moie at
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