Vico, Marianne R.

BSA-321

SOCOR 2

Prof. Ocampo

WHO AM I
Who am I? When that question strikes me, eventually I dont know what to say or to answer. Honestly, I prefer not telling what I think about myself because I believe that expressing ones self is not an indication of you whole personality. There are times that what I think of myself turns out to be something that is not the real me that it is the total opposite of the personality that I wish I can be. When it comes to things that involve my personality, I tend to become objective as much as possible and not pamper myself with lies. I rather choose the idea of knowing my personality through other people or through other sources like personality tests. Through these, I will be able to find out the personalities that I thought I dont possess and to assess the aspects of my personality that may either strengthen or weaken me. Since I was young, I was always this reserved kind of person. I prefer solitary activities, I think before speaking and I get exhausted by social interaction. However, this doesnt mean that Im a total loner. I also like to be with people especially those who truly welcome me in their lives and appreciate me for who I am. I am a person who prefers small, intimate groups. I don't like to show my feelings. Normally, I am gentle and friendly, but I don't like socializing. It can be difficult to get to know me well, and I probably only have a few close friends. I enjoy being alone. I like to live the simple but good life, and I cherish my freedom. I am thoughtful, confident and uninterested in glamour. Im a person who loves simplicity and is sincere and open. Im pleasant to be with, easygoing and always in a good mood. I neither want to control nor be under someone else's control. I don't care much about how I look, and know that it's what's inside someone's heart that's important. I am artistic, confident and don't like to be controlled. I enjoy traveling, and dressing smartly helps me move around more efficiently. I am a free spirit at heart with artistic talent. I am absolutely unique and am always coming up with lots of great ideas. Being happy is my most important goal. I love freedom and want to follow my heart's desires. I might not be at my best when dealing with other people. Once I am given the opportunity to work my chosen way, my gift will shine. A tip for me is not to concentrate too much on my own work, but widen my focus and consider the opinions of other people.

Vico, Marianne R. BSA-321

SOCOR 2

Prof. Ocampo

I have a great deal of warmth, but may not show it until I know a person well. I keep my warm side inside, like a fur-lined coat. When I care, I care deeply, but am more likely to show my feeling by deeds rather than words. I am very faithful to duties and obligations related to things or people I care about. I take a very personal approach to life, judging everything by my inner ideals and personal values. I stick to my values with passionate conviction, but can be influenced by someone I care deeply about. Although my inner loyalties and ideals govern my lives, I find these hard to talk about. My deepest feelings are seldom expressed; my inner tenderness is masked by quiet reserve. In everyday activities Im tolerant, open-mind, flexible, and adaptable. If one of my inner loyalties is threatened, though, I will not give and inch. I have little wish to impress or dominate. The people I prize the most are those who take the time to understand my values and the goals I am working toward. Education is very important in my life. I want to study hard and learn as much as I can. I am very determined when I feel that what Im doing is worthwhile and I want to make sure that my life has purpose. Im a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what I like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and I'll be set for life. I am interested mainly in the realities brought to me by my senses, both inner and outer. I am apt to enjoy fields where taste, discrimination, and a sense of beauty and proportion are important. I have a special love of nature and sympathy with animals. I often excel in craftsmanship and the work of my hands is usually more eloquent than words. Im twice as good when working at a job that I believe in, since my feeling adds energy to my efforts. I see the needs of the moment and try to meet them. I want my work to contribute to something that matters to me-- human understanding, happiness, or health. I want to have a purpose beyond my paycheck, no matter how big the check. I am perfectionists whenever I deeply care about something, and am particularly suited for work that requires both devotion and a large measure of adaptability. The problem for me is that I may feel such a contrast between my inner ideals and my actual accomplishments that I may burden myself with a sense of inadequacy. This can be true even when I am being as effective as others. I take for granted anything I do well and are the most modest of all the types, tending to underrate and understate myself. It is important for me to find practical ways to express my ideals; otherwise I will keep dreaming of the impossible and accomplish very little. If I find no actions to express my

Vico, Marianne R. BSA-321

SOCOR 2

Prof. Ocampo

ideal, I can become too sensitive and vulnerable, with dwindling confidence in life and in myself. Actually, I have much to give and need only to find the spot where I am needed. I am afraid of things that I cannot control. I am afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career I would like to have in case I don't succeed. When I am angry, I dont resort to violence. I think first before I act and think if the enemy is worthy to fight against with. When Im hurt and sad, I would make it a point to look strong and calm. I just pray to God that all the hatred and sadness that Im feeling be taken away and replace it with the positive things in life. I like serious, smart and determined people. I don't judge a book by its cover, so goodlooking people aren't necessarily my style. My hopes for the future are to become a successful Certified Public Accountant someday, support my parents and siblings, get married and raise my own family. I realize that plans can change, but Im willing to take whatever life throws at me. I believe that God has a beautiful plan for me and I will do my best to keep my faith in Him. As I go through life, I realize many things, I learn to value things that matters to me the most, and that help me a lot in building the person who I am now.