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Conversations

with Rod
2 teachers from different generations
forming views on life
Dr Perry Barnes
and
Rodivaldo Marcelo Raimundo
How to suddenly enjoy life,
learn lots and find yourself with
new ideas for a better day
the inventor of barnes method english
4.6 million results at google.com, tranlated to 5 languages
130,000 readers at scribd.com
and
the writer of Programação Korn Shell
a book published in paperback and hardback for 7 years

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Copyright Rodivaldo Marcelo Raimundo 2009

I remember my first time . . . being absorbed into a story about something that intrigued me enormously,
even though the actual topic is irrelevant at the moment because it started quite innocently as I first read
with deep curiosity and anticipation, even during the opening paragraphs of what I was reading, while I was
more and more consumed into what it was I hadn't yet known, and wanted to because the story wasn't just
about the story as much as it was about desire: wanting to draw me into an experience in my mind that was
as real as could be inside in such a way that whatever was on the outside didn't matter as much anymore and
perhaps even at all because my attention focused inside on the experience that was unfolding
Owen Fitzpatrick

Experiencing stories so vividly, like the ones told by great story tellers, the ones that spark every sensory
receptor triggering connections in each cortex, from clean bright images to crystal clear sounds, tingling
sensations from the surface of your skin to the deepest fiber of your bones, is what creates ideas so profound
that they blur the differences between what is reality and what is hallucination, and since it can be very
difficult to distinguish these difference means you can build realities around how well you can
conversationally and naturally weave the fabric that will be present inside your mind with any subject you
want and propagate that to others
John La Valle

what was your religion?

a girl complained ontem i said meu deus too much a


she said cos brasil is catholic its not polite
i explained
english is 90% atheist
e so we say jesus and god to not swear
its the polite way
fuck and words Like this are rude
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Even for Atheist, the phrase "Meu Deus" is only an expression, a kind of interjection
like "wow", "ohhhh"..... something like that.....
do Not be Worried about that.... There are persons in the word that have beliefs and try
to force the others to believe in the same creed they have......
luis joia says:
i see si
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
On the other hand there are persons that are atheist and try to force the ones that have
beliefs to forget that beliefs and be atheist also.....
luis joia says:
good point

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published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Ying, Yang, Light and Dark, Cause and effect.....
luis joia says:
i hadn't considered that
i object that, all my life people have tried to force me
to christian
and i need a defense
nowadays i humour them and they don't notice
better than being angry about it Like i used to be
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
I learned to considered that ... According my life is going on I've learned that there are a
lot of persons having different persolaties and behaviors....

Money and how to


make it with your job

dr barnes: how can a person make more money with less work?
Rod:
Optimizing the time I spend doing my tasks: I do my tasks as fast as possible. So
I have more free time to make more money
In my area, I check professional tendences related to hardware and software technologies.
Then I invest some money in certifications and upgrade courses.... This increases my
value as a person and as a professional......
Even though, I respond for all my certifications (they are not simply a piece of paper
having ink being showed in the wall).... Most of certified professionals I know just
have certificates only to decorate the wall. The knowledge they might know when
finished the course and received the certificate simply means NOTHING. The paper
does not represent their knowledge. It's just a piece of paper....
Companies hire them, but for a value less than a good professional that can respond for
his certification....
It's necessary sells yourself, but you must have what you are selling...
This increase my value and reflect in my financial life. Summarizing in a simple word:
INTEGRITY
How I've sawn before INTEGRITY is what must happen between words and acts: they
must make sense... Say a thing and do other do not represent INTEGRITY...
represents HIPOCRISY.

For example: Hitler was not really an angel and his actions are condemnable , but in a
objective view he has integrity: what he said he did or make.

Barnes says:
my feelings about money
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i went to an interview and the guy had ser manager of the
company by creating their computer system
his idea was "be useful"
it got stuck in my head
and i considered qualifications as the same thing
they didn't help me much
nowadays i find the popular tests students are taking
and train myself to teach them
this makes me lots of money
and is how i apply the principle of being useful
although
the main things which make me money are:
negotiation skills
advertising skills
good places to advertise
if the student likes me
if i can meet them quickly after they call (phone call:
1st impression must be good)
systematically putting many students in 1 day, to maximise
profit

which i guess is totally different from working for a


company
I'm used to take 30% of my salary and apply it in some investments.... commodities
funds.......
luis joia
do u see a time in the future when u can retire and live from your investments?
Rodivaldo
Yes.... probably after 55 years old.....

luis joia: maybe write a rod method for real

luis joia guide to life


luis joia sure uv learned lots in ur life
u saying it to me for hours and its not
luis joia recorded
luis joia in a pdf on scrib.com
luis joia scribd.com
luis joia 5,000 people can read your ideas
Yes.... you gave me an excellent idea..... write my experience and
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share them with everyone..... :D:D
And you are right... I really learned a lot in my life despite the
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troubles and hard situations I had experience in the past....
i realise ur blog ja accomplishes this, its
luis joia not as permanent as pdf
barnes method teacher certficate Eating once a week, for example, is a thing that I do not desire that
anyone have in the life..... :) ... Even if the other could be my worse

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enemy......
Of course this and another bad things that happen in my life never
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were excuses to me take the wrong way.....
Considering we have 3 types of persons in the world (stupids,
barnes method teacher certficate intelligents and wises), I try all the time to be the second... When
always is possible I try to be like the third one....

Intelligence, wiseness and everyone's


intelligent so stop being a snob

rodivaldo:
Considering we have 3 types of persons in the world (stupids, intelligents and wises), I try all the time to be
the second... When always is possible I try to be like the third one....

stupid ones make a mistake and never learn Intelligent Ones


make a mistake and learn from their own mistake Wise Ones
are able to learn from others' mistakes
interesting system
i'm reading warren buffet book (2nd richest man in the
world)
his words are:

luis joia says:


"learn from experience, but learn from others when u can"
i agree with this one
incorporates both elements
and i've heard another guru say, ask your customers what
they need, only they know
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Generally we tend to learn from others...
luis joia says:
generally i tend to learn from others
i wrote a list the other day of great advice others gave
me
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
You are really a wise one so...
luis joia says:
i want to notice when they give me gold advice in the
future
i feel like people show you how you should be, directly or
indirectly
if they are jealous people, and they became angry at your
behaviour then keep doing it
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if they are nice people and say you are good, then
continue doing it
people are teachers whether they know it or not
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Yes....
luis joia says:
like with your english students
luis joia says:
they taught you to charge money for classes
luis joia says:
the mind can change the physical beyond nature
perry barnes 2009 chapter 5 of a book he hasn't written
yet
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
I agree totally with him....

brasil food and english food


and food food

published e sold a book for 7 years says:


Hello man....
I'm here.... back from dinner...
luis joia says:
din dins mmmm
i had brasil dinner
i loveeee brasil rice
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Good....
What else did you have the chance to taste related to Brazilian food ???
luis joia says:
all the beans and stuff
had it several times
similar to portugal's food
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
If I'm right the main food in England are potatoes, right ???
luis joia says:
from my perspective
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Brazil the main food is rice and beans.....

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Some farofa and salad also....
luis joia says:
we don't have food really
fast food mainly
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Like sandwiches???
luis joia says:
we only drink instant coffee unless we in a coffee shop
yeah, we have sandwiches
well
i suppose we have specific meals
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Hum.... coffee shops.... there are a lot of ones here in São Paulo.....
luis joia says:
sunday roast is different
there are a lot of them here
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
How is prepared Sunday Roast??
Different from the other days in the week???
luis joia says:
yeah
potatos are boiled normally
roasted taste better in my opiniao
more crispy
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
I like boiled potatoes....
Sauté potatoes in fact.....
In Brazil we like barbecue..... we call it CHURRASCO
luis joia says:
yeah
i noticed
we have barbecue 1 or 2 times in the summer
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
We usually have barbecues once a week
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Meat, sausages, chicken wings, chicken heart, some cheese....
Yes....
luis joia says:
we don't eat chicken heart i'm sure
luis joia says:
u know like some things are ok to eat and some not
published e sold a book for 7 years says:

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It's just the habit....
luis joia says:
40 years ago english ate horse, now its considered evil rs
and rabbit
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
In China, Korea and Vietnam they are used to eat rats, cockraochs, scorpions and
worms....
cockroachs***
luis joia says:
omg

respect respeito

luis joia i never respected older people


luis joia i'm changing my mind nowadays
barnes method teacher certficate Me either... haha sometimes....
cos i teach people and they don't always
luis joia respect and i want to kill them
today a girl was asking for something
luis joia which i was already teaching her
Respect must be conqueered and not imposed..... So some
barnes method teacher certficate: rod
elders does not deserve it.... hihi
i showed her the paper with the thing,
luis joia i'd ja written
to feel better i decided to check her
luis joia job
luis joia she worked in a restaurant
luis joia i felt better
like when a non musician says music is
luis joia bad, i check if they play an instrument
sorry father, i am rambling my thoughts
luis joia about today

Dr barnes:
learn english well then i can get a testimonial saying barnes method was made by god,
crafted by jesus and perfected by rod
Rod: =)

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barnes method the economy is gonna colapse in
luis joia teacher american around 2016 (robert kiosaki
certficate allegedly suggested this recently)
barnes method teacher certficate luis joia The**
barnes method and when it does the currencies of
luis joia teacher many countries could become
certficate worthless
barnes method teacher certficate luis joia Like Roman empire.....
barnes method teacher certficate luis joia The destiny of all empires..... is to collapse....
Egiptians, Romans, Russians, Celtics, Druids.....
whatever...... like a star..... it will shine for a long
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time.... in a point of time it will blow up and be
destroyed.....
barnes method teacher certficate luis joia And a new empire will be born from scratch....
barnes method teacher certficate luis joia And the circle will continue..... :D
Based on what I said above, I agree with Simon
barnes method teacher certficate luis joia
Butler.....
All animals, except man, know that the principal
barnes method teacher certficate luis joia
business of life is to enjoy it......

Poetry poesia

Related to poetry there is no right or wrong about languages..... Even in Portuguese we


have a not so gramatical or usual Portuguese used in music, but it's exactly what turns the
music marvellous... :D:D

yeah, I agree: since i've written 300 poems and 50 songs


http://www.scribd.com/doc/4503368/Perrys-Poems-Poemas-de-Perry-perrybarnessongsblogspotcom-O-
Poeta-Ingles

free or expensive

I have an opinion about that....


Some people do not give value for anything is for free....... They need to spend money
because if there is no price to it they think, subconsciously, that is not good.... It does
not matter whether is a language class or another kind of product or service.....
I have some colleagues that are interested to have English classes......They know that
I'm a teacher and they say: "Rod, could you teach English for us?" .... I answer :"Yes.
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Could the classes be on the weekend?" ... They answer yes.... When I tell them the
classes are for free they their faces change to something like: "I will come here on the
weekend just to speak English?" ....
The answer in their deep fellings appears be "This guy does not earn money to teach
and I do not intend to be here have classes instead go to a barbecue eat and drink a
lot"....
But, if I put them in charge it seems that the fact of spending money let them to have
some responsability because if they don't come for free they lose nothing.. Paying for
the class they lose the money payed to me in advance....

i had only 1 student who paid £20 an hour


and i kept her for 1 year+ and we are still friends
thus your idea is proven again

Healthy or work... or both

luis joia says:


omg
i looking at old messages
u had a slight heart attacked
i was gonna offer some advice since my heart felt not good
sometimes
soya protein is amazing
luis joia says:
soya thins the blood and reduces cholesterol (double
whammy)
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Yes.... I usually drink some soy-milk.......
luis joia says:
aspirin thins the blood too, good with a coffee, races
your brain if u have with caffeine
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
It helps me to equalize the animal protein I usualy eat.....
luis joia says:
i'm doing tai chi nowadays, very nice for relaxation +
movement
hahhaha
again you know all the info i'm saying
It helps me to equalize the animal protein I usualy
eat.....

published e sold a book for 7 years says:


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Aspirin is good to thin the blood, and circulation isn't perfect because of it....
luis joia says:
u study everything dude
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
I like to know a little about almost everything..
luis joia says:
i buy a tub of soya and have before bed, helps me sleep
too
just mix with hot water (i'm lazy)
some deep breathing exercises could also help
yoga, hypnosis, indian things too
too too too
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
There are flavorized soy-milk in Brazil I like a lot... it's called Ades....
luis joia says:
my favorite word hoje
mmm ades
rod gonna live forever
+ sing "live forever" by oaiss
oasis
this has been scientifically proven
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
In one hand I would like to live forever.... in the other hand I think it would be a lot
boring,...
luis joia says:
a ha
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
In fact we live forever..... because of some conventions no one are aware of that...
It's what some mistics and religious people call reincarnation......
Just a natural fenomenum....
luis joia says:
yeah, even for an avid atheist like me, i still a bit
scared to die
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
By the perception we have today, everyone are mortal from the viewpoint of science.....
But even in a scientifically thought, we keep imortal by our children....
luis joia says:
thus i realise why people turned to god, its better than
the alternative
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
God is just a concept..... Some cover to close the hole that the science could not clarify
nowadays.....
luis joia says:
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hahaha
to cover the sewers
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Indeed...
In the past the concept was "Earth is flat like a paper-sheet".... Galilo almost was
burned because of that.... some centuries later it was proved and it's common accpted
as normal and no a heresy....
Galileo***
luis joia says:
increase happiness, eliminate bad people and ideas (for
healthier)
sleep longer
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
All that we are the results of we have thought....
Robert Collier....
luis joia says:
find a way to not need to work, i have missed many classes
because i needed to sleep
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
To work is a necessity... work too much and have no purpose that is the point...
luis joia says:
necessity?
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Need....
luis joia says:
i disagree
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Formal word....
luis joia says:
most countries people can live from government benefits if
they want
they choose to work
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Work should be pleasant... not a torture....
To like what someone do is pleasant..... when you are not liking what you do I bet you
feel like living in Tartarus (Hell for Greek mithology)....
luis joia says:
meu deus
i remembered some guys were rude to me from a building
site
i was thinking about a response for next time, so i feel
better
then i realised, that's probably the highlight of their
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days
they wake at 5am, work very hard, then go to sleep when
they get home
1 night of drinking for their souls
on saturdays
then back to it again
then its quite funny for me when i see all the picture
i'm looking forward to a day when i don't have to work
when i was 16 anos
my manager owned his own fruit and vegetables shop
he slept 2 hours a day and worked in all 3 of the shops,
bought the vegetables at 5am
he seems a smart guy
owning a business is surely about being more free
and he was enslaved more than i was with my £4 an hour
working for him
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
I usually wake up at 7 and arrive to work at 9....
luis joia says:
as most people do, i was using my 1st boss as an example
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Why enslaved???
luis joia says:
that people don't consider they could stop working
it is possible
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Not stop working at all, but stop working as a survival routine and do some work for
pleasure....
luis joia says:
if a person of 20 years put £100 a month in a high
interest bank account they could probably retire around
40 to 50 years
and live from the monthly interest
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
My work for example, I do it pleasantly... it is not a torture or an iffy situation just for
have some food on the table...
luis joia says:
u wrote a book about it
i'm sure you love it
(this is good for the book)
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Write my Shell Script book, for example, was a big challenge... in the end -- when I've
finally published it -- it gaves me a unexplainable sentation..... I think it was

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happiness....
sensation

british and american arrogance and I


think the chinese are developing it

and the other day i heard about an american


he traded a goldmine with the chinese government
then his company found 3,000,000 ounces of gold
then they took it back
so he doesn't trade in china no more
they are the new americans and british, behaving like they
own the world
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Yes....
But how any empire in the past, the final happening is to collapse....
The more you go up consequently the more will be the pain after the fall....
luis joia says:
u should see most british people
they live from benefits
expecting houses without work
and culturally british are quite reserved socially and
when asking for money
not useful in business
they must be using some financial tricks to stay as a
strong currency
although
england never has tornados, or earthquakes or floods
a good place to invest due to the stability
the weather is average
making a business in middle africa is probably harder than
in england
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
It is....

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who doesn't want to be a millionaire

rodivaldo: I intend to be, at least, a millionare....


I will be.. believe me... ... trust me....
luis joia says:
trusting!
i think to be a millionaire in indian money i need £16,000
i worked it out
so i'm gonna get £16,000 and go live there
always is various ways to achieve a goal
if i live in brasil
would be £330,333 to be millionaire
u can do it rod
we believe in u
go live in mexico or something
published e sold a book for 7 years says:
Sooner or later I will confirm you I'm a millionare...
luis joia says:
tommorow?
maybe u already are
i talk to a girl gina
she has 2 houses
if she rented them she could stop working
yet she's still asking me about investments and savings
i'm suggesting that ha a larger issue
that people are programmed to be workers at an early
age
and thus unconsciously they never consider stopping
working
i got some of this idea from "conspiracy of the rich" by
robert kiosaki

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Vc é pai ou mae/professor/aluno: 1969 vs 2009...


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Um amigo meu me mandou esta charge nesse final de semana. Achei interessante porquê, embora com 2
anos de idade em 1969, durante bons anos, o tipo de educação que tive foi de escola pública e, se minhas
notas não fossem boas eu seria punido por não cuidar de minha responsabilidade que era, é claro, estudar e
ter boas notas. Mais interessante ainda é o fato de que eu estudei em escola pública que, pelo menos até
metade da década de 1980, eram as melhores escolas em termos de qualidade de ensino. Professores
exigentes e que dominavam suas respectivas áreas de ensino. Também pregavam a humildade, afinal eram
humildes em assumir que não sabiam tudo e, uma coisa que hoje é uma agulha no palheiro (e como tem
palha nesse palheiro hoje em dia), não vejo mais seja em escola particular ou seja em escola pública.

Nasci em uma família de origem simples mesmo: minha mãe só terminou apenas o primeiro grau em 1982
se não me engano, supletivo concluído por ela com muito orgulho pelo estudo das apostilas do Instituto
Universal Brasileiro. No caso do meu pai a coisa é outra. Depois dos 60 aquele elemento nem se esforçou
para terminar o segundo grau. Só sabia mesmo era olhar o que os outros tinham e ficar (sem exageros)
doente de inveja das conquistas dos outros, em vez de usar suas habilidades e conhecimentos (mesmo sem
todo o estudo que ele não conseguiu) para conseguir tudo de bom e próspero que ele poderia ter e, por
consequência, todos ao seu redor que nunca o deixariam na mão, mas tivemos que deixá-lo afinal, ele era
uma pessoa muito esclarecida e sabia que colocar a mão no fogo queima e dói, mas ainda assim vivia
cometendo esse erro e culpando os outros por seus erros, sendo que ele mesmo era o responsável por tais
erros e não os outros, mas ele fazia questão de projetar isso nos outros como se o mundo tivesse sido feito
para os outros e não para ele. Só faltou os dois se tocarem que o mundo foi feito igualmente para todos e
que os que conseguiam o que conseguiam era porque iam atrás do que queria ao invés de ficarem esperando
que o mundo fizesse algo por eles. Meu pai morreu em 1998 (não fui capaz de derramar e jurei que nunca
derramaria uma lágrima quando soubesse de sua morte - cumpro esse juramento até hoje. Chorarei rios de
lágrimas quando meus "pets" se forem pois esses sim amo de paixão, e chorei e muito quando meu ex-
comandante do exército - que foi um dos pais que eu não tive - morreu em serviço, mas sou incapaz de
chorar por um membro de minha família biológica). Quando choro - algo muito raro - é quando estou com
minha psicoterapeuta e, ainda assim, quando eu me permito chorar e a situação assim a merece. Citei neste
"pequeno texto" um resumo de uma parte de minha infância e adolescência. Após os 15 anos idade resolvi
me emancipar e cuidar de minha vida por mim mesmo e abandonar totalmente minha família. Irmãos e
irmãs ainda vão pelos mesmos caminhos espinhentos, passam pelos mesmos sofrimentos repetem erros que
não deveriam. Parecem que, não tiveram uma herança com valor financeiro para terem dinheiro para
esbanjar por aqui e ali, acho que se sentem na obrigação de aceitar uma herança ruim, sofrida, maldita e
desnecessária; é como se seu único propósito fosse ter que continuar (mesmo que não prestando) a rotina de
seus antepassados. Pessoal, me poupem e poupem, principalmente,vocês mesmos da falta de bom senso e
de amor
Patrocine esta palavra.
Em breve...
próprio.

Embora vários problemas tenham acontecido na minha vida, a base moral e ética, o senso de
responsabilidade, de deveres a cumprir, o de respeitar as pessoas e o de conquistar o respeito foi muito bem
absorvido por mim. Apesar de eles não serem os pais perfeitos com os quais muitos sonham ou pensam ter,
de ter que ouvir que só prestava até os 7 anos de idade e depois disso não valia nada, de dizer que eu teria
escola era até a quarta série e que eu me virasse se quisesse conseguir mais, eu conseguí tirar o que pude de

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melhor do esterco que foi usado na terra onde tive que crescer (mas não precisei ser uma erva daninha e sim
algo muito melhor a cada dia - e nos ambientes que vivi por anos eu poderia simplesmente me acomodar e
dizer que a vida é assim mesmo, que eu não tenho perspectiva e resolver viver na pobreza ou abaixo da
linha da miséria e continuar cometendo os mesmos erros de meus maus pais: continuar sendo esterco em
vez de usar isso como matéria-prima e fazer algo melhor do que aquilo em que eu estava, e com uma
aparência muito melhor aos olhos e à mente. Há quase 1 ano fui "julgado" e considerado "culpado" por
pessoas que eu considerava dignas de meu respeito. E estava sendo julgado pelas costas, pela maldita
cultura presunçosa da maioria das pessoas com quem vivemos. Decisões sendo tomadas e que me
envolviam, mas das quais nunca pude participar e, quando soube a decisão final já havia sido posta em
prática e, para um país e um povo que se diz democrático e justo, nem tive a chance de ser ouvido
completamente e nem tive a chance de me defender meus pontos de vista (mesmo que estes não fossem
aceitos. Pelo que sei, cada um pensa com a sua cabeça e personalidade de forma a cada dia, eu acho, e não
enfiando um pen-drive na cabeça das pessoas e baixando o programa que se quer para que elas ajam
exatamente como queremos - isso ainda deve ser ficção como em Matrix). Parece que pensar por si
incomoda quem não é capaz de pensar por si e, ainda por cima, incomoda aqueles que tem suas
responsabilidades, mas resolve inverter passando a idéia de que a obrigação é dos outros e não deles.
Colocam filhos no mundo e culpam seus professores por irem mal na escola, quando a educação vem de
casa e a culpa do mal comportamento de seus filhos é única e totalmente dos pais; e dos próprios filhos
também que, depois de adultos, sabem o que é certo e errado mas acatam o errado por preguiça,
comodismo e para agradar a maioria imprestável da qual ela não quer deixar de fazer parte - Em vez de o
bom cavalo trabalhador melhorar o burro preguiçoso, é o burro preguiçoso que estraga o bom cavalo
trabalhador - na marra e conscientemente, o que é ainda pior).

E com toda a base moral e ética, de respeito de limites de liberdade e de achar, querer e conquistar o
merecido respeito de todos com quem convivo, de ouvir opiniões e não necessariamente querer concordar
com elas, uma vez ouvi de uma pessoa que eu estimava muito, quando eu disse que gosto de ser o mais
correto possível e de praticar a cartilha da ética, respeito, necessária formalidade no tratamento com as
pessoas e de me defender quando me sentir injustiçado e agredido, a resposta foram todas as palavras a
seguir, sem qualquer alteração (a voz da pessoa ao falar isso foi em tom de deboche e com um olhar e
sorriso irônicos:

"Se você vive sua vida, profissional e social, e você usa como base toda essa educação exemplar que você
teve e pratica, sinceramente isso não vale nada para mim e para os outros que são do nosso círculo."

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Creio que a figura abaixo resume exatamente o que ele queria dizer, afinal acho que se eu não prestasse
como pessoa eu seria mais aceito por ela. Ainda bem que é só uma pessoa, pois conheço muitas outras no
meio pessoal e profissional que ainda valorizam o que temos de bom e não o que não presta: "o lado negro
da força". E não deixem de ler o comentário ao final da charge. É totalmente verdadeiro pois reflete
exatamente o que acontece nos dias de hoje: o porquê das pessoas serem o que são, pois os pais as formam
assim e querem culpar as escolas por isso. A cara de deboche e confiança, sentida pela segurança da
pressão de seus pais sobre o professor em 2009 reflete exatamente o comportamento dos filhos e da maioria
dos pais que conheço. O que me conforta nisso, de certo modo, é que esses filhos vão se tornar adultos, não
terão seus pais ao lado para quebrar seus galhos pela vida toda e, ainda por cima, terão filhos para sentirem
na pele o que aqui foi escrito e abaixo é mostrado.

Todo mundo
"pensando"
em deixar um
planeta melhor para nossos filhos. Quando é que "pensarão" em deixar filhos melhores para o nosso
planeta?

Aureo_Lima

Essa sua autobiografia, pelo modo que escreveu, foi escrita com o coração.

E a charge mostra mesmo muito bem a inversão de valores de hoje. Os pais cercam os filhos com uma
redoma protetora e eles, por sua vez, pensam que são o dono do mundo.

Belo desabafo!

Aderne
Rod.,

Adorei seu texto, se todos os jovens tivessem a mesma força de vontade e determinação que vc teve, com

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certeza teríamos um mundo muito ++ inteligente e capaz.

Parabéns!! Cá

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