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How Loving Being
Vulnerable Gets You
More Love
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/how-loving-
being-vulnerable-gets-you-more-love/
When youre sick, you feel Vulnerable.
Ive had a cold for a few days, and though its
slowed me down some, theres something about
being under the weather that can really work for
us, here.
This is what usually happens to us when we get a
cold or flu: We dont have the energy we need to get
through a day easily to be pleasant and upbeat,
creative and productive, sexy and at our best so
we work extra hard just to do what we normally do
sometimes just what we have to do.
Most of us start off dealing with it by taking
enough over-the-counter medication to stop our
noses from running and take the edge off the aches
and pains, and then we push ourselves to get out
there and accomplish as usual. We step-up even
more, slogging through the heaviness we feel in our
bodies and over-compensating for our low energy.
And if were dating, or in a serious relationship or
marriage, we dont want to be a drag, so we work
extra hard to be perky and upbeat.
Well, if the key to connecting with a man is
Vulnerability then even a cold can be useful if
we practice surrendering to it instead of fighting
against it.
If you can practice experiencing that under the
weather feeling, and all the feelings of frustration
and sadness that come with it, and practicing loving
the feeling of softness that comes over you when you
surrender to not feeling good instead of fighting it
it will help you tremendously with a man when
youre feeling well and good.
Being Vulnerable To Your
Feelings and In Your
Relationship
Start this way (this can work even when you have a
headache, or a bruise, or cramps or hot flashes):
1. Notice how you feel. For instance, I notice right
now that Im very, very aware of how every inch
of my body feels, how my breathing goes, how the
murkiness in my head and my lack of energy feels
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in my arms and legs. Im aware of wanting to just
sleep all day and how part of me is still fighting to
stay productive
The trick here is to use being under the weather to
experience being Vulnerable and to still function
pretty well at the same time. The secret to it is to:
2. Accept the way you feel. Notice if youre Resisting
the headache, the hot flash, the runny nose. Notice
if youre tensing up your body against it or making
a negative comment about it. Say to yourself: This
is what Im feeling right now, and its okay
When you feel like you have no energy part of
whats happening is that so much of your energy is
tied up in fighting the sickness. ( And I dont mean
here the forces your body is marshaling to fight the
sickness, but the tension, the mental energy we use
to RESIST the feeling of being sick.)
When we stop resisting, denying and acting as if
were not feeling bad we free up a whole bunch of
energy to get done what we have to do (sometimes
things even turn out to be more fun than you
thought like all of a sudden having an hour or
two to finish that terrific novel you started reading
weeks ago) and as a bonus, our bodies get more of
our energy to fight off the sickness, and we get better
faster!
3. Dont try to hide how you feel. Be willing to simply
say to everyone around you including children
Hey, Im not feeling so good. I have a cold, I feel
sleepy and tired.
Its Not About Getting Whiny In a
Relationship
This is completely different from complaining
about the way you feel (remember step 2. of
Accepting how you feel) This is simply being able
to share your Feeling State in a spirit of openness,
warmth, acceptance, and yes letting people
know you have a cold in case they want to stay away
from you! And then you get to experience how that
feels (and sometimes it feels disappointing all of
which is good practice for later on when things feel
good)
If you can share with a man, Ive got a cold. I feel
all soft and gooey and tired and dont feel much like
even getting dressed and going out, you might get
a surprise perk in your relationship.
He just might show up with food, make you some
tea, and sit and watch a movie with you on TV while
you blow your nose and curl up in a robe. It can
happen just like that so start with loving feeling
Vulnerable, even when you dont feel at youre best
and I look forward to hearing how it happens for
you.
Love, Rori
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Do You Have To Settle?
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/do-you-
have-to-settle/
Laura asks
What do you do if you feel like youre never going to
get exactly what you want in a relationship or even
close to it?
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Would you rather settle for less (maybe much less)
or just give up and have nothing?- Laura
Hey Laura
Ouch.
Feels like youre in a horrible situation.
Heres the Deal About a
Relationship
1. No relationship is perfect and nobody has
exactly what they want in a relationship.
Human beings are messy and flawed and the best
you can really hope for is close to perfect.
2. That said, you have the right to pursue happiness,
and you have the right to get something close to
perfect as opposed to something you dont want at
all.
(Its pretty interesting that the guys who wrote
the constitution guaranteed the right to pursue
happiness, but not a right to happiness itself. Smart
guys.)
I take a lot of time in my programs telling men
and women to focus on the positives in their
relationships and in their partners, but thats
assuming the person youre with is good for your in
the first place.
Its like ice cream.
Just because youd love Chocolate Caramel Mocha
Fudge Brownie Mint with a Hint Of Lemon ice
cream doesnt mean you shouldnt settle for plain
Chocolate.
But just because youd settle for chocolate doesnt
mean you should keep eating chocolate chip
cookies.
Ok, thats a really strained metaphor, but the point
is:
It doesnt sound like the guy youre with is even in
the same universe as what you really want. Youre
hurting both you and him by sticking around and
if you dont make a change youre going to fill your
heart with bitterness and regret.
Move on.
Best,
Mike
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Asking Him That
Innocent Question
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/asking-him-
that-innocent-question/
by Dominique
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Ive been in correspondence with a sweet young
woman who I will call Sadie. She came to me
originally because of confusion and anxiety around
her man. She doesnt have much relationship
experience and felt unsure how to BE with her man,
her fianc who has since become her husband.
This is common with many women. Few of us were
taught how to do relationship, and we tend to get in
our way when it comes to maneuvering within in a
love union creating so much unnecessary stress for
ourselves.
Sadie also struggles with insecurity, especially
around other women in any sort of proximity of any
kind to her man, again a common thing for so many
of us.
Since Ive been working with her, shes been doing
SO much better with all of this. Shes come a long
way. And I applaud her for her amazing work.
Recently though Sadie made the mistake of
challenging herself in an area I dont think ANY
woman would do well to venture into no matter
how secure you think you feel in yourself and the
relationship.
As an aside, you may remember that I dont look at
anything as a mistake thus the quotes. Something
you did may seem like a mistake, yet if you can look
at this as an opportunity instead, a chance to learn
and grow even more, doesnt this feel a whole lot
better? And this is exactly what it can be if you make
this choice. Plus you will have less of a tendency to
beat yourself up which I dont ever want you to do.
I want only patience, kindness, and gentleness from
you for you.
Granted there are a very few women who would
be perfectly okay asking the innocent question
though I doubt this is you. You wouldnt likely be
reading this otherwise.
And Sadie is not one of these women. She walked
straight into territory upon which most women
would fall flat on their faces, somewhere I would
have advised NEVER go.
So What Was This
Relationship-Threatening
Question?
Sadie asked him is he had ever had a one night
stand. She thought she was being playful, sure that
she would be fine with whatever he said, part of
her sure that he would say no. And since they were
about to be wed, she decided this was a reasonable
question.
BUT he said yes and her reaction to this was not at
all what she had anticipated. Had she really thought
this through though, had she really been honest with
herself, she would have known she would feel as
she had. Which was HORRIBLE, like a shock wave
of pain to her heart, like the bottom fell out from
beneath her. As she put it it felt like one thousand
knives pierced my heart.
Sadies man was very young when this happened
though, and he was also very drunk. Regardless, I
think most men may have found themselves in a
similar situation. Likely many women as well. He
admitted that it had been a mistake, that he felt
embarrassed and badly after it was done, yet the
damage had already been done to her psyche.
Her brain started in, inundating her with images of
him with another woman.
And to add to her stress, much to her shock and
surprise, he seemed so casual around this, like it
was no big deal at all. And worse still, he kept
talking, continuing to give her way more detail
about this encounter than she had asked for or
certainly wanted.
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And then her insecurities flooded in, adding to her
already awful, terrible feelings. And the spiraling
into that abyss of bad feeling thoughts which we are
all familiar began to spin out of control. She began
to compare herself to an imaginary image she had
created around this woman. She felt sure she could
never measure up, not physically, not sexually, not
in any way. All the not good enough thoughts and
feelings swirled to the exclusion of most all else.
And of course nothing like this has happened again
to her man. Yet poor Sadie is left with these images
in her head and the accompanying icky feelings.
Her mind is filled with self-doubt, triggering herself,
bringing up more questions, inventing even worse
feeling scenarios, such as has he contacted this
woman again? If hes done this once, wouldnt be
want to do it again? Has he done this while they had
been together? And so on. I think most of you are
have experienced something like this.
He tried to make reparation to little avail, so she
turned to me.
So here are my thoughts -
First of all why would you ask him a question like
this when you already know how sensitive you are
around this, meaning him and other women? Why
would you deliberately hurt yourself in this way?
You say you were joking around, having fun, yet
under this you were you really looking for him to say
something just like he did?
There may be some self-punishment going on here,
some worthiness issues, and this lies deeply inside
without your knowledge until you become aware.
In other words you asked a question deep down
you knew would hurt if you didnt get the right
response. Whatever residue of low self image you
still carry got in your way, and you created this, a
beating yourself up in a sense since part of you may
feel undeserving of what you really want, a true love
bond.
Maybe youre a little addicted to the drama too. Yet
there may also be some sabotage going on here for
you, i.e. things may be going so well, so you have a
deep down urge to mess it up. For maybe you fear
going deeper with him. If something should ever
happen, your deep down self doesnt think she could
handle that kind of pain. And this is usually about
fear. For example fear of rejection and/or fear of
abandonment.
For Your Relationship
I dont want you to get into this aspect any more
deeply, seeking the whys around this. I do ask that
you to get to know yourself better or rather take
the time to ponder things like this with unabashed
honesty from now on. If you think that if there is any
possibility that you will not like what he might have
to say, that you will not be able to handle the answer,
then PLEASE, please, please, in the future, DO NOT
ask questions like this.
Even after over eleven years together, I would
NEVER ask K a question such as this. Why would
I? I dont even think he would answer. Not that
he has anything to hide, he just knows better than
to go somewhere where unnecessary pain might be
caused. I do know some about his past relationships
and nothing of his sexual past. I dont want to know.
I know he has a past as do I, but I dont want to know
about more than I already do which is more than
I wish I did and only because I used to snoop way
back when. I didnt uncover anything unusual, yet
just having a more tangible sense of who he was with
before was enough to make me feel really awful.
I recognized that I was doing this to interfere
with us growing closer in our relationship.
Apparently intimacy scared me so much, but it was
unconscious. When I created this kind of hurt in
me, walls would go up keeping me safe, yet the false
sense of safety was just that false. And it made
me feel worse not being able to feel him close in my
heart because of these walls.
I also realized that whatever happened before has
absolutely NO bearing on the now.
Fortunately over time the pain I caused myself
has faded. Yet even now the mention of a past
girlfriends name in passing can cause a twinge,
EVEN as secure as I feel with him and within me.
Maybe its my ultra-sensitivity. I dont know. What
I do know is that I dont go there. It would hurt
too much as it did Sadie. And come to discover
recently, K feels the same way. He doesnt want to
know either. That was then, and this is now, two very
different times.
So for Sadie and for me and anyone who has
experienced this, the past is passed and no longer
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matters. Your man had a life before you. You already
know this, yet you now need to fully accept it, own it.
It would be lovely in theory to have been each others
only one ever, but this is unrealistic. And really,
wouldnt you prefer a man who has experienced
a little so that he knows what he wants and has
learned how to treat women well?
Hes with YOU, so theres only YOU. He has YOU
and wants only YOU. He just married you after all,
didnt he?
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How A Man Is Like A Car
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/how-a-man-
is-like-a-car/
by Mark at How To Read A Man
Do men drive you crazy? Is your man crazy? Is he
driving you nuts? Learn how to make him GET IT
How many times have you felt a certain way or
wanted him to understand something only to realize
that he doesnt have tiniest of an idea regarding
what youre trying to say?
Sadly, this makes most men seem like the thickest,
most out of touch beings on the planet, but its
because they think differently.
I am going to share something which was a
major AHA moment for every woman Ive shared
it with
Guys do things all the time that they dont realize
theyre doing. He can be saying or doing things that
hurt you, frustrate you or even make you angry but
in his world he isnt really aware of the damage its
causing you.
In other words What is obvious to you as a woman
isnt necessarily going to be obvious to him as a man.
And this brings me to the second major AHA
moment
Both men and women constantly expect each other
to see the situation the way they personally see
it. In other words A man expects a woman to
understand his point of view, while a woman expects
a man to understand hers. Both believe that their
way is the right way.
Do you know that you might be expecting him
to understand something which he is incapable of
understanding because of his genetic makeup as a
man?
Id like to show you exactly how you can speak the
secret language of men. Knowing it will grant you
the power to inspire him to give you whatever you
wish, every single time. You will connect with him
on a level, youve never imagined before. Watch this
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by Mark at How To Read A Man
Your relationship is doomed. Is your relationship a
nightmare? Is your relationship driving you nuts?
Today, I want to get something off my chest. Ive
been keeping it in way too longI am tired of
watching women mess themselves up over guys.
Majority of women spend months & years living in
a nightmarish relationship praying & hoping that
some day things will change.
The reality is that it wont. If you keep on doing
what youve always done, you will keep on getting
what you always got.
And here is the sad part Most women refuse to get
help, they sort of stick to their own personal theories
and ideas. They take the old hit & trial route and
struggle year after year to eventually end up heavily
frustrated and hopeless.
Why would you follow the hit and trial route when
there are proven, step-by-step secrets out there
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Its possible to create near instant change in your
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by Mark at How To Read A Man
I have something important to share about men &
relationships with you today. Pay close attention
Imagine sitting in a car for the first time ever and
trying to figure out how to make it go forward, Do
you have a picture in mind? Can you see yourself
struggling with that steering wheel?
Okay, now lets say after enough trial & error you
finally figure out how to make it move but wait!
Do you think you will drive it perfectly without any
training or help? Absolutely not. You will probably
crash into something causing severe damage to both
the car and yourself.
Now lets replace this car with a man (Sounds funny
I know), and imagine trying to deal with a man
without proper instructions on how he operates.
Just like the car you are very likely to cause an
accident & hurt both yourself and the man.
And sadly this is the approach most women take
with the man and relationship in their lifeSo no
wonder they find themselves in difficult situations
so often.
When women go into dealing with men without
knowing how they operate, it causes accidents,
misunderstandings & painful situations.
What you are about to hear can make you feel a
sudden rush of excitement or can even make you
down right angry. So I hope youre able to handle it
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mind>>
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Celebrate Yourself And
Your Body
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/celebrate-
yourself-and-your-body/
Body image, how you view and feel about your body
is an important aspect of your life whether you are
single or in a committed relationship. Society has
put forth its own versions of what is acceptable or
not and what is attractive or not.
Remember this: be sure to take care of yourself,
eat well, exercise and practice good self care and
hygiene. This is for you not just your partner or
prospective partner.
You have control over those things and your
motivation should be health and well being.
Where lines become crossed is where our own
internal inner critic can judge us because we are not
perfect.
The Impact of Having a
Critical Bad Body Image
I have had many clients in my office say they can
only have sex in the dark or take their clothes off
under the sheets. That is no way to live and no way
to have intimacy.
It is important to embrace your body; its shape, your
face. It is yours. Expose yourself and do not hide. If
you hide your body, you add fuel to your own inner
judge. If you have a partner that is a perfectionist,
then strongly suggest that he gets some therapeutic
help to see what is underlying HIS inner critic which
is then taken out on you.
You need to celebrate yourself and celebrating your
body that life gave to you is part of that celebration.
In summary- do everything you can to take care of
yourself and to feel good. Build a body image based
in celebration.
After that, your job is to embrace your body. Take
your clothes off in front of your partner; make love
with the lights on (at least some of the time).
Make sure that you dont let your inner critic get in
the way of enjoying your life and your intimacy!
Heres to getting the love you want!
Todd Creager is an accomplished Speaker,
Therapist, Consultant and Author. At his
website: The Todd Creager Center for Successful
Relationships, you can find out more about how to
have a successful relationship>
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Dream Sharing
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/dream-
sharing/
Heres a great article about dreaming and dream
sharing from Sharon whos a visual artist and
has a gorgeous website at
(This is just a quote from the article):
From time to time, virtually everyone has
a dream that seems especially real. In such
dreams, one feels that he or she has really
traveled somewhere, seen and touched things, and/
or actually talked with people that have appeared
in the dream. While the reality of these dreams
is sometimes a little disconcerting, they always
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make me wonder if reality is like a cosmic, multi-
layered cake, from which we usually just sample the
frosting.
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When I Die, I Want to
Come Back as a Woman!
Source: http://www.loveromancerelationship.com/when-i-die-
i-want-to-come-back-as-a-woman/
I was hanging out with a bunch of friends the other
night and we started talking about very deep topics:
women and the afterlife. I told the group that if I
ever come back in another form, Id want to come
back as a woman.
Thats right. I want to come back as a woman. Why?
Besides the obvious reason, multiple orgasms, as
a woman I can control the world because I know
exactly how weak men really are for women. I know
how to manipulate men so well that if I was a woman
oh my GodId be able to get inside every single
guys mind. I would know exactly what every guy
was thinking, what he was doing, what he wanted.
Id be able to play any man I ever wanted and meet
any man I wanted.
Id play the men in business. Id be successful.
And Id use my sexuality and my power of being a
woman. I would just go put on a great outfit that
I felt sexy in and walk the boardwalk with power,
knowing that any man I looked at I could have.
I would have no issues with dating. I mean, dating
would be completely problem-free because I would
know that as a woman, I have all the power. I have
the power to flirt. Ive got the power to turn on my
sexual energy. Ive got the power to move men. Ive
got the power to encourage a man to move towards
me with just a look in my eyes.
Its amazing. And all these years of coaching women,
I always ask women over and over again, Do you
realize how powerful you really are? Do you realize
how easy it is for you to meet men?
Youve got to get rid of the old way of thinking!
You cant be thinking that men are just going
to walk over to you. Let me tell you something:
90% of men wish they had the power to just walk
over to you. Thats the reason why they buy my
products and they come to my boot camps. And
there arent enough of the other 10% who, like me,
love approaching women.
Heres the deal: its up to you to learn your power.
Its up to you to embrace your femininity. Its up to
you to realize how amazing and incredibly sexy you
are as a woman. And you need to start doing that
every single day.
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