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DEEP HEALING

DEEP FORGIVENESS
Irank Meadovs, LCSW
Meadovs HeaIing Irayer Cenler
MeadovsHeaIingIrayerCenler.com
1. We all struggle with
anger bitterness,
hatred, resentment,
vengeance and
unforgiveness.
2. When a hurtful situation in
the present taps into a deeper,
similar type of past hurt, we are
triggered or have an
overreaction.
3.What does scripture say
about forgiving others?


Iorgiveness is nol an
olion bul a
command lhal has
dire consequences
for refusing lo
genuineIy forgive.

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1. When deeper hurt is involved
e.g. church sIil, divorce, geuing hred,
someone hurls our famiIy

2. When a present hurt taps


into a deeper, similar
past hurt and we
are triggered
or we have an
overreaction.
A Innthn!d Ieads evenluaIIy lo a strnnghn!d.
3. Consequences of Suppressed
Anger and Unforgiveness
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a. Depression
b. Oppression
loss or diminishing of
spiritual direction, anointing
and Divine Purpose.
c. Sickness
d. Spiritual Deadness
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4. Spiritual Realignment, Tune Up
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5. Unresolved anger, resentment
and unforgiveness rooted in past
(childhood) wounds, hurts,
offenses and abuses cause us
difculty in dealing with anger
and breakthrough with forgiveness
in our present circumstances.
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6. Deep Wounds Require
Deep Healing
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7. So how do we begin our healing
journey and begin to release anger,
bitterness, resentment and move
towards deep, genuine forgiveness?
a. When ve are hurl, oended or
abused, ve hrsl resond vilh
primarycmntinnsand may Icc!
hurt,s!ightcd,inva!idatcd,
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sccnndarycmntinnsnIangcrvhich may
simmer inlo resenlmenl, halred, rage, biuerness
and even vengefuI emolions and inlenlions.
1. This is where we get stuck in dealing with forgiveness.

2. This is where the liar and deceiver enters in with many lies.
God wasnt there for you
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becomes an oorlunily lo aIIov, as lhe Word
says "a!!thingswnrktngcthcrInrInrgnnd."
1. How do you know if you need it? You will be stuck and unable to
breakthrough as your present hurt us rooted in past unresolved hurt.
2. See articles at MeadowsHealingPrayerCenter.com
d. When ve are hurl, ve
are given lhe choice and
shouId choose forgiveness
and Iife, HeaIing (HeaIing
Irayer) Anger ReIease,
Iorgiveness CycIe
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Romans 8:26-29 (NKJV)
FORGIVENESS PRAYER
Lord I have been hurl by and oended by _________ (lheir name) and vhal lhey did lo me
or lo olhers cIose lo me _________ (lhe oense) . I feeI hurl, re|ecled and oended by
_________ (vhal lhey did lo me). I am aIso very angry, enraged, I feeI halred, biuerness and
resenlmenl and even lhe need for revenge and ayback for vhal lhey have done.

Lord, I choose as an acl of my viII lo give you my anger, biuerness, halred, resenlmenl and
need for revenge lo you }esus and I ask you lo lake il fuIIy and comIeleIy in }esus name.
(When lhe anger is reIeased and you feeI lhe Lord has Iifled il lhen move on lo forgiveness.
If you feeI resislance lo Ieuing go Iislen invardIy and ask yourseIf vhal vouId il feeI Iike
for il lo be gone vhal's nol okay aboul reIeasing il` Then asked }esus lo seak lo you al lhis
momenl aboul vhal he vanl you lo knov aboul lhose beIiefs or reasons for for hoIding on
lo lhe anger. Then choose lo reIease il lo Him and Iel him lake il).

I choose lo forgive __________ (lheir name) for lhe oenses and lhings lhey have done lo
me or vay lhey have hurl, vounded or oended lhose cIose lo me. _____________ (lheir
name) , I choose lo forgive you and reIease you and I ray God vouId bIess you and heaI
your Iife and bring reconciIialion if ossibIe in our reIalionshi in }esus name!
Prayer to Forgive and Release Others