This morning we held a chapel with our high school students. We shared many
things with them, including life lessons to be learned from this experience. We also
shared a number of biblical responses that should guide our conversations and
actions. We also had a good season of prayer for those directly involved, for each
other, and for our school. At the end of this email I have included few of the things
we shared with our students. Please note that this is not a verbatim script of what
was shared, but an outline of my speaking notes. I thought you may appreciate
knowing what was communicated to your children.
You may also be encouraged to know that even prior to these recent events, we
were actively reviewing new policies and practices to address just such issues as
we have faced over the last week or so. Although it is premature to share the nature
of these possible policies and practices, you may rest assured that our desire is to
continue to be proactive in educating our students, warning them about dangerous
behavior, and discouraging and preventing sinful behavior - not just in addressing
it after the fact.
My main message to you is that we love your children and we want the best for
them. Our core mission is to be used by the Lord to leverage every part of the
schools programs from the Academics to Arts to Athletics to see our students
transformed into the image of Christ, and to increasingly become partakers of
the divine nature. Our goal is to partner with you in seeing our children grow into
vibrant, loving, and godly disciples of Christ.
What Can We As Parents Do?
As we reflect upon this situation, I invite each of us to:
Pray for the students and parents directly involved. Specifically pray that the
Lord will use this situation redemptively in their lives. Pray that that which
was meant for evil, the Lord will use for good. Gen. 50:20
Pray for all of our students. They are growing up in a profane, ungodly culture.
They, like each of us, are pursued and harassed by their own sinful natures, a
world set on bending them to its agenda, and the devil seeking to devour
them. 1 Peter 5:8
Pray that our students will use this situation as a warning and opportunity
in their lives. Pray that if they are currently engaged in inappropriate
behavior that they will stop and if they are tempted, that they will flee the
temptation.
Use this situation as another opportunity to talk to your children. Ask them tough
questions. Explain to them the dire spiritual, physical, social, academic, and
legal consequences of sinful behavior.
God, there go I.
Choose your friends wisely.
Do not be deceived: Bad company ruins good morals.. 1 Cor. 15:33
Flee temptation.
So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along
with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 2 Tim. 2:22
To flee means to avoid putting yourself in a place of temptation or getting out of
such a place quickly.
Be on your guard.
Be sober- minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a
roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. 1 Pet. 5:8
The devil is real. He hates you. He wants to harm and destroy you. Think about
how he may try to trap you by what is on your phone, the type of people you spend
time with, the places you go, etc.
Dont play with sin, dont experiment.
But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then
desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown
brings forth death. Jam. 1:415
Remember that your sins will find you outeventually.
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also
reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap
corruption,~~~~ but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal
life. Gal. 6:78
The students who are not with us today thought they would get way with sin. They
did for a while but eventually it caught up with them.
You may think that you are getting away with sins of your own. You probably arefor now. But eventually, sin will catch you.
Hold yourself accountablegive your parents access to your mobile devices
and computers.
I know, you think I am crazy but I am serious. Accountability is protection and
prevention.
Seek wise, godly counsel from teachers, counselors, administrators, parents,
pastors, or youth leaders.