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DECEPTION VERSUS TRUTH

The following is very Important Please take Note:


In this discussion I will use the Name
"Yahashua Jesus
YHVH = God./Elohim.
*This is about Counselling on a Prayer ministry Basis.

In order to live free in Yahashua, we must sort out the lies and choose the truth. We must
But people living in bondage believe lies, walk in darkness, and avoid intimate contact wit

* Hearing YHVH 's Word but not doing it (James 1:22, 4:17)

* Saying we have no sin (1 John 1:8)

* Thinking we are wise by this world's standards (2 Corinthians 3:18 -19)

* Thinking we will not reap what we sow (Galtians 6:7)

* Thinking we are something when we are not (Galations 6:3)

* Thinking the unrighteous will inherit the kingom of YHVH (1 Corinthians 6:9)

* Thinking we can associate with bad company and not be corrupted (1 Corinthians 15:33)
VERY IMPORTANT
The first step in RECOVERY is to admit we have a PROBLEM and find at least one person with
That person must be honest and trustworthy.
You as person with a problem are not able to instantly change long - established patterns o
But you can make a determined decision to change the flesh patterns and confess them as wro
You can also deal with primary defense mechanisms.
For as you are born into the Kingdom of YHVH through Yahashua, He is our defense.
In addition to lying and blaming others, the major defense mechanisms that must be addresse
I WILL MENTION SEVEN POINTS.
* DENIAL ( CONSCIOUS OR SUBCONSCIOUS REFUSAL TO FACE THE TRUTH)

* FANTASY (ESCAPING FROM THE REAL WORLD)

* EMOTIONAL INSULATION (WITHDRAWING TO AVOID REJECTION)


* REGRESSION (REVERTING BACK TO A LESS-THREATENING TIME)

* PROJECTION (ATTRIBUTING ONE'S OWN IMPULSES TO SOMEONE )

* DISPLACEMENT ( TAKING OUT FRUSTRATION ON OTHERS)

* RATIONALIZATION ( MAKING EXCUSES FOR POOR BEHAVIOR)

CASE STUDY:
Please note that the names used is not refering to any client and just for the study.

Cassey was in her 3rd marriage, this time to a sexually addicted husband. Her first husband
She chose her father, who was frequently absent because of a job that required considerable
She developed strong defenses of independence, a critical spirit, projection, emotional ins
Axis I diagnosis was : Dysthymic Disorder,
Axis II diagnosis was : Passive- Aggressive personality disorder with Paranoid personality
Cassey assumed no responsibility for any emotional or behavioral problems in none of the ma
Adamantly maintaining that her childhood and marriage experiences had not caused her any pa
She even tried to control the therapy process, confirming through it all her own self-suffi
I doubt that Cassey would have consented to seek aftercare counseling if she had not obtain
Continued work on Step 2 remains a goal for Cassey, with explicit boundary setting and firm
HEALING :
Cassey had to repent and forgive her Father and other persons even the husbands.
She had to come to the point to deal with denial - conflict - false believes
She had to repent of judging her Father, mother and other family members or husbands.
She had to See YHVH's love for her and accept Yahashua's grace.
She had to forgive herself and deal with emotions and wrong paterns formed in the past.
I HOPE THIS WILL BE HELPFULL.
SHALOM
MARIA