Size Matters by MiMi Paris. Copyright © 2001 by MiMi Paris.

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women only: For women only: How kee eep How to keep your life happ ppy the man in your life happy

Size Matters

Why do you want to keep the man in your life happy? Selfishly, if you keep him happy, he will keep you happy. Most women want the man in their lives to be more active in the daily activities of running a functional, if not happy, home/partnership. Let’s take this concept a step further: Keep the man in your life happy in bed, and he’ll keep you happy out of bed. It’s that simple. If you don’t know how to do that, you’ve got to get to know what makes your partner happy in bed. You can find out. The good news is that men are easy to keep happy in bed. First, you can experiment. You know that men tend to be visual. Use that information to your advantage. Try on new clothes. Or wear different colors. Experiment with different styles. Watch his reactions carefully. He will tell you... Even without words. Wear sexy lingerie (if you wear any at all!). It’s not expensive or difficult. Wearing attractive coordinates of knit or silk is just as comfortable as an oversized frumpy sweat suit. You might even ask your man how he’d like to see you dressed. Many men love to dress their partners. Keep-

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And 21 other truths you should know to enjoy a lifetime of Effortless Success

ing your sweetheart happy in this way is your reward, not your price. In and out of the bedroom, understand that men want to please women. When you don’t allow the man in your life to please you, you deny him of something very important. You feed his spirit when you allow him to please you. What a wonderful, easy gift to give him! You give him this pleasure and he’ll do anything for you. Here’s the key to this truth: Don’t make him guess at what pleases you. Don’t hint. Be generous and willing to share your desires. Show him. Tell him. Coach him. You’ll get pleased... And so will he.

Important note to women! Complaints are requests in disguise. Stop complaining and start requesting. Make daily requests of the man who loves you. And then tell him how much you appreciate him and how he pleases you.

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Note to Self

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What are five ways the man in my life can please me? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

What are the issues I am complaining about? How can I turn my complaints into requests?

For the next five days, I will make the following requests (one per day). 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

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About the Author Par aris MiMi Paris
MiMi Paris, Ph.D., CSP, MCC, is an internationally recognized communications professional. Her unique perspective and style help others discover how effortless success can be. She has an amazing ability to get to core issues quickly and efficiently. Her clients often say, “Wow, that was easy!” Life was not always “effortless” for this author. Ms. Paris was born severely deformed in Springfield, IL, and spent much of her early years in foster homes. Then, when she was five years old, she was sent to live with her biological father. She has never met her mother. In her father’s home, Ms. Paris suffered emotional, physical, and sexual abuse, which included systematic torture. She left when she was 16 by reporting to the police. From then on, she lived in a halfway house, a group home, and a foster home. Ms. Paris came by these 22 truths authentically—the hard way. Surprisingly, she shows a spirit that few do. Unlike many who turn to bitterness and all that it brings, Ms. Paris demonstrates a positive excitement about life. Her educational experience includes a B.A. in English, an M.A. in Speech Communication, and a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. She earned several academic honors and international awards in communication education. She also holds several professional titles, including Certified Speaking Professional and Master Certified Coach. In business for herself since 1987, Ms. Paris enjoys partnering with high-achievers in progressive organizations that believe in developing people. MiMi Paris is available for speaking engagements from high school events to corporate retreats.

Contact Information Email paris.mimi@worldnet.att.net Internet www.mimiparis.com

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