CAUSES OF BABY DUMPING

Im proud to be a Malaysian but what happened recently make me

thinking.?? Our country, Malaysia has become the most favorite spot for
dumping babies. The year 2010 is also known as Baby Dumping cases for
Malaysia which brings a lot of questions and issues. Baby dumping is a
social crisis and has a chronic increase as many cases are occurring in
Malaysia country. We have heard about fruit season, fever season but this
is the first baby dumping season in Malaysia. New Year celebration and
Valentines Day known as mating season nowadays leads to unwanted
pregnancies among youths. Child is a priceless gift from God but the
youths still carry on their activity for their enjoyment. The news are so
horrifying such as Body of baby found in dustbin, Dead baby found in
casino trash bin and Dogs found baby in bag. This scenarioad been more
serious from day to day although there are a lot about this in the mass
media. The baby is not guilty. Why are they punished in such a way
because of their own unknown parents mistakes? How the teenagers can
throw their own baby in such a horrified situation? Dont they think at least
once before they did their action? Is sex is very important for them until
they can forget the world? Or they are lack of sex education? What is the
use of condoms? Where did they learn to cover their mistakes? Is this their
religious teach them? What are the best opinions and ways that should be
taken to prevent this scenario from spreading? Is this scenario will
continue without ending? Who should we blame - the parents of teenagers,
media, teenagers, school, government or friends? Questions by questions
coming over but no solution until now.
We can point our finger to anyone we want but this time we have to
examine this social problem obviously. In my opinion, I think the lives of
teenagers are too free without parentscontrol.You can look what among of
student did in campus or college. Some of them make a date try to do
something as couple. Sometimes they make something further. Perhaps
that something I shall call it as sumbang mahram. Every boy and girl has
to know their limitation of relationship. Of course you can be friend with

anyone but do not go too far when you be friend with the different gender.
Islam teaches us about the relationship in Islam. Now, the girl must not
wear the sexy clothes not because of order of people but this order of
Allah. We must follow Allahs command and what had been written in
Koran. Sexy girl dressing is one of cause why the banned relation could
happen. It cans rise up the boys desire and passions. That is why social
problem could happen.

The problems usually follow the flow, first is illegal racing, commonly
it being held at night, and of course it gives troubles to other road users.
Apart from that, it also can be deadly for that person. After having a race,
usually they will headed to children activities including their children social
life but nowadays parents are different, they trust their children can
manage their life wisely. Parents should care about their children activities
and friends. Parents must know what their children doing and with whom
their children are friend withthe night club. This is the place where they
start to take drugs and become addicted to alcohol. When they are under
the influence of drugs and alcohol, it will lead them to have an
unprotected sex, which means having sex without taking any prevention
for pregnancy The problems usually follow the flow, first is illegal racing,
commonly it being held at night, and of course it gives troubles to other
road users. Apart from that, it also can be deadly for that person. After
having a race, usually they will headed to the night club. This is the place
where they start to take drugs and become addicted to alcohol. When they
are under the influence of drugs and alcohol, it will lead them to have an
unprotected sex, which means having sex without taking any prevention
for pregnancy.
High school students are too immature to fully understand the effects
of free sex could have on their lives. So there is no doubt that another
problem will be created because of that. For sure the problem is abortion
and baby dumping. Panic of being pregnant unexpectedly, they take a risk
to abort the baby before their family aware of the physical changes later

on. Abortion is a risky action which can be fatal to the mother. But being in
desperate situation like this, they cannot think rationally anymore. But not
all of them are having enough gut to take the risk for abortion. Some of
them decided to give birth to the baby, but then at the end of it, because
of some reasons, they dump the baby without hesitate. Dump the baby
means that they throw away the babies at any places without taking care
of it later. Usually the babies were dump just after they were born. In most
of the cases, the babies were already dead when they were found by
someone else.

Sometimes, parents dont give full attention to their children as

today many parents are expect their children are good enough. Parents
are also too busy with their jobs until they forget to give attention to their
children. This is a serious problem among parents as they dont know what
their children are doing. According to Dr. Khaidzir Ismail, Psychologists of
children and adolescents from University of Kebangsaan Malaysia, 2007,
Conflict in the family kicked out of youth to find a place and friends can
help overcome life and at the same time meet the needs of finance,
entertainment and emotional development. If someone has poor parental
modeling but still goes on to make fantastic life choices, in the same time,
they not get attention from family; so very easy to son and daughter
involved with social problem like baby dumping.
The first reason is teenagers are lacking of sex education.
Parents and schools do not inject sex education onto teenagers' mind
since they were small. Parents always think that their children will
understand everything about sex when they grow up. This is the natural
ability that everybody has and they no need to talk to their children about

sex. Most of the parents feel ashamed and uncomfortable everytime their
children ask them questions about sex.They refuse to give a positive
explanation and a clear view to their children and always claim that they
are too small to know about sex. The same thing also happens in schools
at where schools do not have sex education as one of their compulsory
courses. Most of the schools also never hold any activity about sex
education such as talks.They remain quiet and proclaim that these small
children will get to know what is sex when they grow up.But, children still
gain nothing when they grow up. They do not understand their bodies and
some of them may not know what is the differences between boys and
girls.Due to the lack of these basic knowledge, surely they do not know
how and where a baby comes. So they start to involve with a sexual
problem that brought to baby dumping.