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Emotion
Mouth
Eyes and
eyebrows
HAPPINESS
Smile:
Corners turned
up, possibly
exposing teeth
Crinkled skin at
outside corners
of eyes(crows
feet)
SADNESS
Pouting or
frowning;lips
and jaw lowered
Crying;droo
ping eyelids;
Raised inner
ends of eyebrows
ANGER
Frown;tense jaw
and mouth
Staring:
contracted brows
FEAR
Tense
mouth;trembling
lips;chattering
teeth
Eyes wide
open;fast
blinking;crying
Emotion
Mouth
SURPRIS
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Eyes wide
open;eyebrows
raised and apart
DISGUST
Lowered inner
corners of the
eyebrows
Understanding emotions
Self appraisal
Perspective taking
Self appraisal
Why am I feeling this way? What information or experiences have influenced how I feel?
How do I typically react when faced with an emotional situation, and why?
Given the variety of ways in which I might react in a particular emotional situation, why do I react as I
do?
What have been the personal and professional consequences of not understanding emotions(mine and
those of others)?
Perspective taking(pretend that you are not you by selecting another person who has a different view and answer
the following question in the manner that selected person would answer about himself)
What information or experiences have influenced my perspective and emotions?
How does my thinking and feeling affect my behavior?
How do I typically react when faced with an emotional situation, and why?
How do I want others to respond when I am in an emotional situation?
Regulating and controlling emotion
Regulating your own emotion
Regulating emotions in others
Regulating your own emotion
Delay responding
Use cognitive reappraisal
Shift attention
Express anger appropriately
Delay responding
Changing the subject
Requesting a time out
Just saying nothing
Cognitive reappraisal
Redefining a situation to produce a more desirable emotional state
Could the situation have been perceived in a different way?
Are there alternative explanations for why the individuals involved behaved as they did?
Would you have become angry if youd interpreted the situation differently?
Most importantly, were your original perceptions accurate?
>Shift attention
Changing the focus of your attention so that instead of concentrating on the distressing problems, you focus
your attention on something less arousing
>Express anger appropriately
Controlling your anger in the heat of the moment takes place on two fronts:
1. Internal
2. External
Internal
Remind yourself that angry is not the image you want to present
Repeat to yourself: I am in control and the anger I feel will pass
Reframe You make me angry to I will deal with my anger constructively.
Externally
You want to present the image that you are composed and in control of yourself, your thoughts and
your actions
I am angry because