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The Anatomy of a D/s Relationship
by Sheri Dryke in the dictionary, you will see that it can be involve family or a union of some sort.
for us to explore new and varied relationships with people from around the world. One area that continues to grow here in SL is the thriving D/s community. While there are many people here in SL who have experienced some degree of D/s in their real lives, many more people are being given the opportunity to explore
That can be scary in anything but especially in relationships. While there is a degree of safety that differentiates SL from RL, there is also that fear of heading into the unknown. But even when we step into an unknown abyss, we always have some type of knowledge or expectation that we carry with us. in with my experience, my knowledge, along with my own
was just one of the pegs upon which we could hang our emotions. Granted, not everyone who has ever gone traipsing through the D/s Just like in real life. But everyone who seeks to expand their lives through this lifestyle is looking for some type of relationship whether they are aware of it or not. They all want some deep connection with another love but it does have to involve compatibility. Too often in D/s, two people will get together and scene. a collar type relationship. With few
exceptions, this type of relationship is doomed to fail from the beginning. Any type of relationship relies on people getting along. A relationship is a give and take, back and forth, living, breathing entity that is in constant
if it stagnates, it is doomed. Most relationships end because one or both of the people in it are no longer getting what they want or what they expect from it. That is why compatibility is so important. Each person needs to know what is expected of them and must be
a large part of the backbone of the relationship, the importance of compatibility is embellished. Take for example a Domme and a subbie who meet. They are both in the mood for a scene and decide to hook up. When they get together, they discover that while the Domme wants intimacy from Her sub such as body worship, the subbie wants strict bondage and harsh whippings. This pairing is not going to work. Even
if the Domme agrees to a good sound beating, this relationship. here in SL who have been in D/s relationships that ended poorly for this same reason. A person will say something like, “All she wanted to do was have anal sex.” Or something other than tie me up and whip me.” On the surface, a D/s relationship can look to be quite simple. On one hand you have the Domme who enjoys control and controlling. On the other is the subbie who enjoys were the end of it then all D/s relationships would work which control is needed that makes us not always compatible. D/s is so much more intense than most vanilla relationships. Yes, we can argue this but the physical and emotional issues involved in D/s ensure an added level of trust that order to ensure that trust both people have to be other’s needs and not push too hard in the wrong direction. The best, and really, the only way to ensure that this happens is quite
simple: communicate. All relationships require communication. Without it we just simply wouldn’t know if we could get along. Because D/s is built so strongly on our fetishes, it is imperative that we know if our
what turns your partner on, and to understand and admit whether you are willing to give that to them. Many people, when considering a D/s encounter or relationship, interests and willingness to explore any number of different fetishes. never, ever considered. Some you might not even think were is something related to how an individual is wired, something that arouses them and gives them satisfaction. getting that satisfaction out of a relationship or an encounter then there will be no it is basically a waste of time.
Fetishes are something we all have. There is something that turns us
really is no different than what attracts us to another person. Some people are attracted to blondes. How is that different from being While fetish often times has a negative connotation, it really is just something that drives us and gives us pleasure. We may not always enjoy the fetishes of others but we all need to accept them and not weirdest thing they’ve ever heard before. Once you have decided whether or not you and that other person are compatible, then — unless all you are after is a one-time scene — you order to be compatible with someone there has to be a degree of friendship. Friendship doesn’t have to be the cornerstone of any type With friendship, though, comes risk. Friendship is built on a certain emotional connection and any time emotions come into play there is a risk of being hurt. Here in SL people often offer up friendship requests within minutes of meeting each other. On one hand it is an effective and simple way of keeping in touch with another person. But it doesn’t always involve real friendship. Real friends know intimate details about each other. They share experiences, past and present and hopefully future as well. small circle. While we are always open to new people who want to explore this lifestyle, we are also wary of the stigma attached to it by those who don’t really understand it. But it is a major part of our lives, something we want and need to share with others and so we tend to gravitate to those who share it with us. That is one of the truly beautiful things about SL. There are many, many people across the world with whom we can share this lifestyle no matter what level we’re involved. There are sims here in SL that can
rather more of a vanilla type get together that lets people meet and mingle whom they connect on any type of relationship level. munches and literally attended if they were over an hour
fantasy relationship. While those munches as well as at other events, not everyone turned out to be worthy of being called a friend.
mistake most of us do into the darkness without emotions and not with my brain
after a good deal of pain. world go round. Love just makes it a safer place.” For me, and for many
thought was good. But it turned bad
ended up in the hospital. Sane, and Consensual” many caution us to establish and maintain of our actions need to be safe, that emotions, and that everything we do to one another must be consensual. these, we leave the realm of D/s and enter into abuse.
the things that were going on with
wasn’t with a person who was honestly my friend.
compatibility and friendship. As Ella Wheeler Wilcox said, “All love that am. two years, circumstances brought it to an end. But that hasn’t stopped more.
while it isn’t necessary for a quick hook up, friendship, true friendship
need to develop the right relationships. of two chemical substances, then SL offers up the perfect laboratory for us all. Because, if those two personalities meet like two blended chemicals, if there is a reaction then both are changed forever.
Second Pride (SP) is a virtual group following in the footsteps of Gay Pride in the real world. However, Second Pride works in-world on the Second Pride Festival to gather LGBT people on an international level.
donated the money raised to real life charities. This year they commission dollars and then delivered to the charity.
the difference being this one would be virtual and will include people from all over the world.
support the LGBT needs in the real world. Oh Boi sat down with
this year is off to a very good start.” Donations have been so good they have already been able to Earthquake Relief.
committee because he was involved in both groups. Every year, became a sponsor of the festival last year. This year he has decided to run for the Committee Chair position so he could become a more active participant in the creation of this year’s festival. He the in-world event as much prestige and following as the real world event. The committee hopes to raise funds by selling SL and RL related merchandise such as T-shirts and coffee mugs. He also wants to encourage all LGBT people in SL not only to participate in also told Oh Boi that the group will continue to raise funds for RL focus will always be towards GLOBAL LGBT causes. For those interested in doing more, they can join the in-world
Problem too large or small, RL counseling in the Virtual World.
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I stood there admiring how soft her skin looked. Her makeup was expertly applied, making her skin glow in all the right places. The gentle curve of her cheekbones begged to be caressed and kissed. I sighed as I continued to take in her loveliness.
Her eyes… it wouldn’t have mattered what color they were. They lured
talking and smiled instead. And then, with a voice barely above a For us lesbians, we have had these moments of looking at another female and admiring her. Some of us had no clue we were gay.
And though some of us knew, a greater percentage was fearful of openly acknowledging it and taking the next move. How do you embrace that when all you’ve known is living life as a straight For many of those who wanted to explore the fantasy, Second Life is a godsend. This place gives us an opportunity to explore our sexuality with complete anonymity. And with anonymity comes the courage to try out things you never would have otherwise.
Ricki Bruner is one of those women. She had lived a life of heterosexuality for more than 20 years. When she found Second Life, she found a path to more sensuality than she the lesbian lifestyle. Oh Boi!: What is it about SL and the lesbian lifestyle keeps you coming RB: that are like me. They come from all walks of life and from different parts of the globe. Oh Boi!: RB: found that women were so much more loving than men. They were more intimate… more than a man has ever been with
intimacy. Of course, different women elicit different feelings. Oh Boi!: Have you ever been with another woman in SL who has never reluctant to cross over and has she stayed in the lifestyle since RB: into their own sexuality. Oh Boi!: What advice can you give to a woman who is interested in exploring her lesbian nature but doesn’t know where to start RB: Never second judge a woman just because she looks like she bed. Some women can be reserved while others want to
control you. There has to be a happy medium for both and you need to know where that is. But always be open-minded. different. Oh Boi!: Anon: life, my sexuality, my family… and tap into that part of me that craves attention. Oh Boi!: Anon:
Oh Boi!: What advice can you give to a woman who is interested in exploring her Anon: Don’t be scared. Be open and honest with yourself and the person you want to be with. There are women out there that are just as uncaring as some man. They want nothing more than your body. But there are women out there that want to love you and be loved by you. Giving them a chance even when you are scared can be a wonderful experience. Being in SL has given me the chance to prepare myself for Two sides of the story illustrate how two women can have different experiences but end up in the same place. Ricki’s life long journey through her sexuality has been a road to self discovery both in the real world and in Second Life. Our anonymous interviewee has only begun her journey but has a goal in mind and uses Second Life to understand her wants and needs. Without this medium, both women would have kept their lesbian sides hidden from the world. Now they can explore and become the woman hidden within.
By Arwen Mannonen myself. Looking back over the journey helps bring life into focus for me and maybe also for someone else. parents who were married to each other, friends who lived in my became a statistic. They separated and divorced just after my sophomore academic geek, ran track, helped out football team and on and on. Life movies, or a dance with, rather than someone to have in an emotional relationship. Looking back over this part of the journey begins to show me the seeds adult and adult life, my relationships have been, more than anything else,
be living. That’s the problem with not looking at the entire journey. You started a new job and looked to start a new life.
had someone to talk to about my fears and desires. She was just there. Here was someone who was already a companion, a friend. And yet, deep inside me, stirrings were starting. They were just soft whispers moving through my soul, seeking a voice. Slowly, in time spent just sitting, the voice became louder and more insistent. Yet it was speaking an unknown language, words and sounds that did not make sense… were hearing, sometimes not. Have you just been in the right place, at the right time, and it all makes call those light bulb moments, like when the switch are revealed and you see clearly. For me, that night was in the spring, watching a movie in the dark. of easy breathing. For me, the language became clear in language, one based on relationships and connections.
were just that – companions.
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squirming in his seat. He was dressed in a pink little girl dress with too short a skirt revealing more than a glimpse of white cotton panties. He appeared to be holding a pillow case stuffed to the brim with blood crowd, he would dip his hand into the sack and throw large clumps of petals into the open air to his left would alternately kick his dangling legs up and down with childlike excitement, and from time to time tug at his panties — teasing the crowd below that he was considering kicking them off as well. The seductive power of Bryce’s performance was palpable. Every male in the rooms had his eyes trained on Bryce — they could scarcely fathom what they were seeing. One could also feel the creamy electricity of every man’s stiff cock standing at attention — attempting to observe the spectacle unfolding high
to have a few words with Bryce and thank him for that truly impressive performance. As soon as his show ended and he mingled with the crowd it became clear to me just introduction. sexual trance ritual. We did not speak for very long that evening but he did tell that his inspiration was the late burlesque queen Lili St. Cyr. Bryce also invited me to a spectacular New Years Eve celebration that he was
planning at a seedy mob club down by the docks. He told me that what he had planned for the New Year’s event was the most outlandish display of sexuality that anyone living or dead ever conceived. One could only wonder what Bryce was cooking up in his evil little mind. reputation as a mob hangout. There had been several mob-style executions in the empty warehouse just across the street from the club. Anyway my curiosity about Bryce’s art got the
and the club DJ started blasting this hypnotic European trance music with a pounding bass line that punched you in the stomach with each beat.
atop what appeared to be a large wedding cake.
a ladder at the back of the “cake” riser. Bryce appeared to me made up like Minnie Mouse wearing a Ghostbusters Style Extermination apparatus strapped to his back. He appeared to be unclothed with the exception of skin tight black latex panties. An assistant yanked the pull cord to start a gasoline engine Bryce slowly ascended the stairs leading to the top of the platform where the husband and wife statues waited in silence. Once Bryce reached the top of the riser — it became evident what was about to unfold.
similar to the diameter of a vacuum cleaner hose ran from the jetpack to an inlet at the rear of Bryce’s latex panties. Another similar hose exited from the front of Bryce’s The gasoline motor was pumping whipped cream into the rear of Bryce’s panties causing them to balloon to a nearly spherical shape, actually resembling the shape of Minnie’s cartoon pants. To release the pressure in his ever tightening balloon panties Bryce operated a trigger mechanism on the huge cock and launched a high powered stream of whipped cream where ever the of the “wedding cake” riser. They took it in the back of their heads and tumbled forward and fell to the Bryce as Minnie as Terminator then stepped to the front of the riser where the husband and wife had been perched and proceeded to shower the entire room and everyone in it with a high powered blast of whipped cream. load of white sugary cream. When the shooting stopped, the house lights came up and the music went silent. Every man and woman in the room was covered head to toe with whipped cream. of the club was covered nearly a foot deep in
whipped cream. Bryce took off his jetpack and latex panties and started splashing like a child in the luxurious whipped cream carpet. He feigned giving himself a bath in full view of the stunned audience. He scrubbed his face, his cock, and ass with the sticky white cream that covered everything. The powerful sexual symbolism of this incredible performance was electrifying and very arousing to witness. “is a genius”. something exceptionally odd about the audience’s reaction to having their best evening wear trashed by Bryce’s brilliant performance. No one seemed angry at Bryce. You must understand that this was no ordinary club crowd. Many leading crime bosses were in attendance that evening along with their wives or girlfriends. They either knew what was
coming or they had some reason to give Bryce a pass on ruining their clothes.
learned much about the history and character of this remarkable sissy boi and how he knows things about us that we scarcely know ourselves.
will recount his unusual childhood and the experiences that shaped his character and vision.
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