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To be honest, what do you really know about your woman? What information do you
have about her background: her past experiences, her present interests and future plans?
Based on what you know, what makes you think you are the right woman for him? In the
first place, what attracted him to you?
Generally, in the world we live, there are three basic things that attract people money:
(property), sex, religion (spirituality). This is irrespective of gender. In this case,
however, our gaze is fixed on the female gender.
First, women arguably get attracted to the world-recognized money in the form of
material possession. One of the reasons many ladies get into relationships with men and
possibly marry them is material possession, properties owned or for money sake. The
question that arises is: When there is financial insolvency, would they hold on to their
relationship status”? The answer to this question, unknown to some men, who believe
their women truly loves them, has them not exercise a second-thought approach,
regarding their ties with their so-called female lovers. Personally, on what ground is your
woman involved in a relationship with or married to you-money or material possession?
Think about it!
Besides, a factor which attracts young ladies into engaging in relationships with men is
the issue of sex. If not truly chaste, it is a likelihood that a lady would have before the
time she met her ‘beau’, been engaged in several sex-linked relationships with different
men. To an extent, she had engaged in failed ‘i-love- you’ relationships and been ‘used
and dumped’ like a disposable syringe by her partners, all in the name of fruitless
relationships. To be candid, is your woman sexually worth being faithful to?
Moreover, spirituality is a force that attracts people. As a matter of fact, this factor
accounts for the reason a considerable number of women get into relationship and
marriage-compatibility, expressed in terms of spiritual dedication. However, though
arguable, some women ‘suspiciously’ devote themselves to certain commitments in
churches, mosques and other religious centers with an innate desire to ‘settle down’ with
their Mr. Rights. Once attained, they abscond! In all sincerity, what makes you think she
is really serious with the recognized spiritual dedication you are involved in? Is she using
this tool as bait to get herself ‘hooked’ to you?
In a nutshell, the questions asked can be answered by the mentioned forces of
attraction. Therefore, it’s up to you to act now!
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

What You Do Not Know About Your Man

To be realistic, what do you know about your man? How well are you grounded in
terms of information you have about him? Do you know his past experiences, his present
dealings and future plans? Based on what you know, what makes you think he is your
Mr. .Right? What attracted him to you? Remember, men are generally moved by what
they see.
Without a doubt, three basic things unquestionably attract people that is, money or
expressed property, sex and religion or spirituality. However, our attention is on the male
To begin with, more often than not, what attracts men to ladies is possession of financial
or material resources. In a sense, men get lured to women, willing to ‘spoil’ them by
extravagantly lavishing them with what they desire. The naturally logic-driven men
outsmart them, if it is observed that the money-spinning ladies they are in relationships
with are not exhibiting a financially ostentatious disposition as they used to. Sometimes,
owing to material possession the ladies have at their disposal, they arguably marry them
and subsequently wait for the slightest opportunity to file divorce suits in order to part
away with financial fortunes. To be frank, if you are rich, are sure your so-called Mr.
Right is in a relationship with or married to you because of what you physically possess?
Second, the issue of sexuality is undoubtedly a factor that attracts quite a number of men
to ladies. The inability of most men to properly manage their sexuality has inevitably
forced them into engaging in self-gratifying relationships with different women. In fact,
some men engage in relationships with women solely for sex, not knowing that such
ground is transient. Hence, demise in relationship or marriage ensues amongst them.
Personally, is your man keeping his fidelity for you alone?
Furthermore, spirituality is one of the major factors that attract men to different
women. Some men are unfortunately not serious about spiritual affairs. Some are but
others use the multi-faceted-in-nature issue as guise to ‘get’ their Mrs. Rights. After
executing this figured-out aim, they call it ‘quit’ to compulsory spiritual commitments. Is
your man truly spiritually conscious?
To crown it all, the potencies of answers given to the previously asked questions can
be demonstrated using the yardsticks, the three basic forces of physical attraction
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict