Professional Documents
Culture Documents
I. A. No. Of 2017
In
G. Vasumathi,
D/o C.Chandran,
No.6A, Chetty Street,
Walajabad,
Kanchipuram 631605. Petitioner/ Respondent
Versus
V. Parthiban @ Deepan,
S/o V. Vasudevan,
New.No.15, Old.No.45,
3rd Street, Vishalakshi Nagar,
Ekkatuthangal,
Chennai 600 032. Respondent/ Petitioner
1. I am the Petitioner herein/ Respondent and as such I am well acquainted with the
2. I state that the Respondent herein had filed the above Petition in OP.No.3789 Of
2016, on the file of this Honble court seeking dissolution of marriage between the
contesting the above petitioner by filing my counter. I crave leave of this Honble court to
read the pleadings in the above Petition and counter as part and parcel of this affidavit.
incurring huge expenditure as demanded by the Respondent herein and his parents.
The Respondents parents demanded gifts of gold ornaments and also hefty dowry of
Rs.10,00,000/- for the marriage. But my parents promised to arrange for the gold
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ornaments before marriage and further promised to arrange for the dowry of
and his parents, I and the Respondent were gifted with 50 and 15 sovereigns of gold
marriage, the 50 sovereigns of gold ornaments gifted to me were handed over to the
Respondents parents and the same is in the custody of the Respondent herein and his
4. I state that the matrimonial home for the couple was setup at the Respondents
place. Ever since the date of marriage, the marital life of the parties herein was never
smooth, as the Respondent often complains about my dark complexion and further he
refused/ ignored to have any sexual relationship with me on various occasions. Even
when I made any advances, the Respondent herein had ignored the same. The
Respondent herein also often comments that I am unattractive and I can never be a
proper match for him. However, I chose to tolerate the same in the best interest of our
marital life. It is also pertinent to mention that even the Respondent and his parents had
suppressed his actual age and had misrepresented his year of birth as 1978 instead of
1973 in his horoscope given to my parents prior to marriage. The same was found by
me only from the official records of the Respondent herein subsequent to marriage.
However, I chose not to raise any issue over the same and had condoned the acts of
6. I state that after the completion of 2 months, the Respondent and his mother,
immediately after the marriage. The said demand of dowry has been made citing the
reason of purchase of new car in the name of the Respondent herein. However I
explained the financial constraints of my father, due to heavy expenditure incurred for
explanation tendered by me, the demand for dowry made by Respondent herein and his
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mother soon turned into dowry harassment harassing me. The harassment includes
both verbal abuse and physical abuse by the hands of Respondent herein and his
mother and the same continued for nearly three months. Unable to withstand the
harassment made by the Respondent and his mother, I conveyed the same to my
parents. My parents, on hearing the same, were put to rude shock and disappointment.
In order to resolve the issues, my father immediately obtained loan and tendered a sum
7. I state that my sister in law namely Thamizharasi often used to visit the
Respondents place and stay for nearly 20 days in a month. It is pertinent to mention
that since June, 2016, the Respondent, his mother and sister in law started to harass
me demanding for the balance dowry amount. The harassment includes threats to my
life by the Respondent. I was ignored, shunned by the Respondents family that
includes refusal to take food cooked by me. Instead the Respondent and his family
members consume food cooked by the tenants in the Respondents property. The said
tenants, taking advantage of the rift between myself and the Respondents family,
occupies the Respondents house and when the same was questioned, I was physically
8. I state that while things remain so, on 04.09.2016, the Respondent herein had
purchased a new car from the funds given by my father. On 11.09.2016, I was asked by
the Respondent and his mother to leave for my maternal home and to return before
Diwali, citing the reason that the Respondent and his mother would observe religious
fasting during the said interregnum period and the same may get offended in the event
of my menstruation. Believing the same, I left the matrimonial home on 12.09.2016 with
8. I state that as mentioned earlier, the Respondent herein and his mother by
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shock and disappointment, I received court notice in the above mentioned Divorce
proceedings in OP.No.3789 Of 2016. The perusal of the contents of the Petition in the
entire contents are utter falsehood, far from truth and made with a malafide intention for
the purpose of the above Petition alone. On 23.10.2016, I along with my family
members visited the Respondents residence for reconciliation and further we sought
explanation for the institution of the above Divorce proceedings, For the same, the
Respondent and his mother casually replied that the Divorce proceedings was instituted
as the balance dowry amount remains unpaid. Adding fuel to the fire, the Respondent
above mentioned OP.No.3789 Of 2016. When my father failed to yield to the above
mentioned exorbitant demand, both I and my family members suffered verbal abuse by
the hands of the Respondents and his family members. Unable to tolerate and
withstand the disgrace and humiliation faced by my family members, I made them to
leave the Respondents residence and she chose to stay back in my matrimonial home
along with my mother. However, the harassment for me continued by the Respondent
and his family members, forcing me to avail legal recourse by lodging criminal complaint
dated 24.10.2016 before All Women Police Station, Guindy. However, the concerned
authorities, in view of the pendency of the present Divorce proceedings, did not proceed
with the complaint. Even, I, hoping for reconciliation of disputes and reunion with the
Respondent, did not pursue the above criminal complaint. I am always willing and eager
after the above incidents, I was disregarded and shunned by the Respondent and his
matrimonial home. The Respondent neither exercises nor allows me to exercise any
conjugal rights, for no reasons. I, despite presence of Respondents and his family
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members, feel lonely, as none of them are even ready to exchange any word with me.
Furthermore, I was neither allowed to cook nor offered food by the Respondent and his
family members in my matrimonial home. The said harassment had caused serious
emotional and mental distress to me making me to leave my marital home and stay
back in my maternal home for the few days in a week. Thus, I am kept running/
wandering between my maternal and marital home only with a fond hope of resumption
of my marital life with Respondent. I and my family would be put to serious prejudice
and untold hardships, unless this Honble court dismisses the above petition for Divorce.
mentioned earlier, I was neither allowed to cook nor offered food by the Respondent
and his family members in my matrimonial home. The Respondent herein and his family
earlier, I am kept running/ wandering between my maternal and marital home with a
fond hope of resumption of my marital life with Respondent due to emotional and mental
distress caused by the harassment by the hands of the Respondent and his family.
Emerson Process Management Chennai Private Limited, having office at No.147, Rajiv
Gandhi Salai (OMR), Karapakkam, Chennai -97 and out of the said employment, the
Respondent draws a handsome salary of Rs.1,00,000/- Rupees one Lakh per month.
Despite the same, the Respondent herein chose neither to financially support nor to
any financial support. In the said circumstances, unless this Honble court directs the
Rs.50,000/- (Rupees Fifty Thousand only) towards litigation expenses and a sum of
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It is therefore prayed that this Honble court may be pleased to directs the
Rs.50,000/- (Rupees Fifty Thousand only) towards litigation expenses and a sum of
ADVOCATE : CHENNAI
I. A. No. Of 2017
In
G. Vasumathi,
D/o C.Chandran,
No.6A, Chetty Street,
Walajabad,
Kanchipuram 631605. Petitioner/ Respondent
Versus
V. Parthiban @ Deepan,
S/o V. Vasudevan,
New.No.15, Old.No.45,
3rd Street, Vishalakshi Nagar,
Ekkatuthangal,
Chennai 600 032. Respondent/ Petitioner
For the reasons stated in the accompanying affidavit, it is therefore prayed that
this Honble court may be pleased to direct the Respondent herein/ Petitioner to pay the
towards litigation expenses and a sum of Rs.25,000/- (Rupees Twnety Five Thousand)
every month towards monthly maintenance, pending disposal of the above Divorce
RESPONDENT
IN THE COURT OF PRINCIPAL
FAMILY JUDGE, CHENNAI
I. A. No. Of 2017
In
G. Vasumathi,
D/o C.Chandran,
No.6A, Chetty Street,
Walajabad,
Kanchipuram 631605.
Petitioner/ Respondent
Versus
V. Parthiban @ Deepan,
S/o V. Vasudevan,
New.No.15, Old.No.45,
3rd Street, Vishalakshi Nagar,
Ekkatuthangal,
Chennai 600 032.
Respondent/ Petitioner
AFFIDAVIT OF THE
PETITIONER
G. VASUMATHI
Party-in-person
PETITIONER/ RESPONDENT
IN THE COURT OF PRINCIPAL
FAMILY JUDGE, CHENNAI
I. A. No. Of 2017
In
G. Vasumathi,
D/o C.Chandran,
No.6A, Chetty Street,
Walajabad,
Kanchipuram 631605.
Petitioner/ Respondent
Versus
V. Parthiban @ Deepan,
S/o V. Vasudevan,
New.No.15, Old.No.45,
3rd Street, Vishalakshi Nagar,
Ekkatuthangal,
Chennai 600 032.
Respondent/ Petitioner
G. VASUMATHI
Party-in-person
PETITIONER/ RESPONDENT