Session 1: The Value and

Danger of Knowing Yourself
In this training you'll get an overview of the "pattern nature" of human beings, how
to distinguish which pattern system is most useful for you, the danger of
identifying too much with any "label" or "type"... and much more.

Key points:

1. The nature of human beings is to have patterns in their behavior. Understanding these
patterns will help you evolve, relate, predict, and persuade.
2. Knowing your own “unique” personality is the #1 factor that determines how much money
you make, how much success you enjoy, and how much happiness you experience over your
entire life.
3. Don’t assume that other people would do what you would do – they operate out of different
models.
4. People do things for their reasons, not for our reasons. Present arguments in terms of their
model, not in terms of our model. Understand their model, and speak in those terms, to
have impact. Otherwise it's like speaking to a rock.
5. There are literally HUNDREDS of "personality type" systems. The problem is you don’t know
which ones are actually USEFUL. Through dozens of years of personal experience and
research, Wyatt and Eben have identified 3 of the most useful systems.
6. Our behavior is state dependent. We normally behave in one way, under stress we behave a
different way, and when we're totally relaxed and intimate we behave another way.
7. Your energy flows through your "internal system." If you're conflicted, like a constricted
pipe, energy stops flowing. If you're relaxed, energy flows through the system freely.
8. Identifying with any one model is dangerous, because it can then control you. Saying "this is
what I am" is dangerous - it becomes a way you see yourself that limits your behavior. So be
careful not to identify yourself with any one personality type or model. Just use it as an idea
or tool to help you remove obstacles so you can be free. "Break the type" so you’re free to
respond however is appropriate in a particular situation.
• “That’s me” is one of the most dangerous things to say. Better to say “that’s me some of
the time.”
9. It’s also dangerous to “peg” other people – patterns are not 100% - it's how we are most of
the time, and under most circumstances… not all.
10.Not all people like typologies. But we may limit ourselves if we don't acknowledge the fact
that people are creatures of habit and we behave according to patterns much of the time.
11. Patterns are probabilistic, not absolute. We can have absolute knowledge of a pattern, but
that pattern is just probabilistic, not true 100% of the time. Most people treat it like it's an
absolute.

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